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00:00I just got home from work not too long ago baby girl I found out she put a
00:10places my place is controlled in the freezer she called me out by Holly
00:13said I drank too much but I mean I haven't had a drink in three weeks anyway
00:17after that I said okay I might need a drink tonight I went to the gas station
00:21got a drink can pick in the house she's been fighting me teeth and ill trying to
00:25reach the can some sort of behind a breeze or whatever she's been trying to reach it
00:29in my hand and she pretty much gave me ultimate she's like choose the can on
00:33your family at the same time she just pushes me like this she did it too many
00:37times I didn't lay hands on her but I did grab her wrist oh excuse me I'm sorry
00:41well I did grab her wrist like that and I said please stop at this point she jacked
00:46me up like this she called my aunt and pretty much just gave her this crazy
00:50story that I trashed the house because I couldn't find X and X which is my
00:54PlayStation 5 controller but the house has been trashed for weeks
00:58and if you have kids actually you can take a look at yourself but um yeah it's
01:03just a lot of toys everywhere she said I trashed the whole house she called my aunt
01:07said I laid hands on it you won't be able to find bruises you might find an
01:11ash mark right here because I did grab her I literally had two three sips of this
01:16can it was full but as she was lying to my aunt I pretty much squeezed the can and went straight to her face
01:22now I did get on my father my baby as well and she was holding the baby but this whole time she was
01:27holding the baby she was just trying to get little things on I did call her name I
01:30called her and apparently I called her a name under the sun how are y'all related she's my wife
01:35how about we go down straight all right what's your first time so you got home and she didn't put your
01:42PlayStation tools in the freezer oh my baby girl did your wife or oh no I got three kids
01:47yeah three kids yeah yeah yeah where are the other kids at oh they're sleeping yeah a two-year-old did it I mean I mean I was upset
01:53how do we get from but yeah little kid put control of the freezer to work right now yeah I just got home so I wanted to sit down before I go to sleep
02:02okay I wasn't going crazy I said okay I need to drink about the walk out the house she told me if you leave don't come back throw my car to the store around the corner got me a drink
02:17opened it when I well I didn't get a chance to open it too much when I got here she pretty much was like she got up and she tried to take the can from me man I mean this is a whole lot of pushing
02:28she was shoving me hiding the can behind my back just one can you brought yeah just one thing what was it I want to say it was clips of she was practically trying to get the can from me I'm hiding now like she's
02:38she thinks you're an alcoholic yeah yeah but um I told her I haven't had anything to drink in like three and a half minutes and you know she even hid my bottle of liquor
02:48Crown Royal Green Apple I don't know where it is but I didn't try to find her so who's pushing who at this point really the whole thing started because she was pushing me and it got to the point where it got very
02:56what was she pushing before she was trying to protect me from going out now because she was like you have to choose between your drink or your family and I said this isn't the first time he gave me an ultimatum whereas I had to choose between you or something else so I said you know what I'm going to take this something else this time please just leave me as I tried to walk around her she's been pushing the whole time with the baby in hand I'm like can you please put my baby down please stop and she just pushing me pushing me I got pushed into the wall multiple times I tripped up with toys multiple times it didn't get too bad until she kept doing it and I said stop at this point
03:26she grabbed me tried to choke me then she grabbed me by the collar and that's when I grabbed her wrist and I said stop leave me the f*** alone at that point she wanted to call my aunt but she was just lying to my aunt saying or making it seem as if I'm just drinking too much and just aggressively hitting her around you and laying hands on her you will not find a mark on her see you will find maybe like a little ash mark right here from when I grabbed her yes you will not find a mark that I did to her she lied and said I trashed the house and I do everything in the house and then start talking
03:56everything around the house has been messed up for weeks actually at that point I said you were lying why are you lying like this are you kidding me I said I'll report his drink in your house and she said oh you ain't going to do it I just squeezed the can and it went on her and I got to talk about it and at this point she's like you see what you're doing it's all because of alcohol but yeah I was only doing this because of how she approached the situation but she never want to talk about that unless she's on the phone with any of my family members
04:24she got you about naps she wasn't really squeezing you didn't have trouble breathing or anything
04:27she was squeezing but I didn't you know you worked up
04:31were you talking afterwards at all you feel like that at all
04:36your face didn't go blurry at all okay what happened
04:39so he came on tonight I think about 10 I was baiting him when he came in after I took a shower he said he was looking for a space station controller and I was like you just look around the house we have a two-year-old in the house
04:50he started um throwing the cushions on the chair the chair pillows and everything all over and I was like you know we just picked up
04:55because she just went to bed you don't have to mess up what we just came up and he goes no I'm looking for
05:01he started getting in that manner and I was like okay just look around once I finish feeding him I would
05:05come help you look for it it's not something that without it you can leave
05:10and then he goes picks up a bottle of alcohol a friend gave to me to try and I'm like I already seized your previous bottles you drink a little too much and I'm no longer comfortable
05:19with you finishing a bottle of alcohol or you know half a bottle within a day of two weeks
05:24I'll show you just understand you're drinking in the house but consider even for anything consider your health
05:28and he said I need to drink tonight and I was like you could take a soda you could take a drink
05:32you could do something else about alcohol tonight just because you're upset about her
05:35putting your controllers in the fridge and he stepped out and went to the gas station and came
05:42back with a can of drink and I said you don't have to drink tonight you don't need it if you're pissed
05:46you know take water take a drink you know and he said I have to drink tonight and I was like you don't
05:51really need to drink just because of that and he said I'm going out to drink in the car
05:55he's like that's wrong you don't have to drink in the car and I said if you step out means that you're
05:59picking alcohol over your family and we're trying to push you out of the way I stood in the line I was like okay you
06:03don't have to leave the house and then he started grabbing my hand and then I had to call the auntie
06:08on phone at least let me call somebody who can actually speak to me maybe I'm not okay and said
06:13if he was going to hit me it would hit me he has sprang my hand if you look at my hand you can see
06:16he has turned my hand upside down pushed me towards the world severing I'm dark so you obviously would
06:21not see if I was the color you probably would see better so he was trying to leave he stepped
06:24and I stepped in front of him like this and said you don't have to leave the house if you leave the house
06:28that means you're choosing alcohol all over your family and he said yes I'll choose alcohol all over my family
06:31he opened the can of drink and I was talking to the auntie of her I said yeah open the drink
06:35already and he was still screaming I said if I'm going to hit you I'll hit you if I'm going to do
06:37anything I'll do anything to you there's nothing you do whether you know all of that stuff and he
06:41opened the drink and he spilled it all over our faces and that was what I called like you know
06:45it's just an out of hand you've done things you've pushed me to the wall you've done this you've done
06:48that but at this point you probably need to be cushioned when he pushed you did he actually push you
06:53out of the way he pushed me out of the way severely he squeezed my hand like turned my hand off and pushed me out
06:57the way you're pushing me and doing that with the child in your hand you know I think I see something
07:01on your glasses you might if I try my light yeah sure that's what if I'm doing and I probably smell
07:05like alcohol do you know what the drink was it's inside the house it's a can of beer didn't need
07:09any medical attention no I'm fine I'm not pressing charges but I just want to see the question
07:13he said if I'm going to push you I'm going to put Rob sorry if I if I'm going to hit you I'll hit you
07:19at any point he said if it's going to hit me you'll hit me hard that's the word
07:22okay I tried to be quite a push my foot off my hands did he make any other threats just the old
07:28off the bridge no sense which is you know also the nasty words I can't wait there are discussions
07:33at any point did you threaten him or put hands on him or anything not even in self-defense you didn't
07:38touch him at all the PlayStation controller was in the fridge he's still in there he brought it out
07:44and he tried to use it and that was when he realized that it wasn't working and it's just like
07:48that would be 60 bucks or 100 bucks why you did you or him change clothes since no I haven't
07:55no okay do you mind if I look like his clothes real quick see if they're wet or anything
07:59it's not wet it's probably just making a bead in there not wet or anything
08:03actually no because they're wet or whatever time to be in the waistline for nothing since
08:07okay yeah I see you sure it's all wet did it do you get any of the moisture on you from bathing him
08:16so I haven't given it out you were going to but you didn't actually he already had his
08:21nighttime body was just eating dinner just to make him sleep a little bit longer than three hours
08:24okay when he stepped in front of him or after he stepped in front of him you never put your
08:28hands on him I pushed him back at one point like you know you don't have to use the house
08:32and I have to and then he moved and tried to push me out and I pushed him a little bit like you know
08:38just can I show you something sure you don't have to leave that it's just not like I don't have
08:43enough power to push him back so why were you trying to stop him from leaving he said he was
08:47going to go drink and I was like that's not what he should do to drink or drink too much so when he
08:52tried to walk around you just step in front of him again why did you step in front of him again
08:56the first time I stepped in front of him I said you don't have to leave the house do you understand
09:00it it's not a big deal for you not to drink so can I just put this thing down you don't have to
09:04drink it tonight and he said I'm going to go drink it in the half
09:06you try to go around you a second time correct and after the second time you try to go around
09:12you a second time did he push you first or did you push him first I was standing in line like
09:15I was standing in front of him and he pushed me up for there and I was like pushing me just because
09:19of the kind of drink so he pushed you couldn't get around you correct towards you again you pushed
09:25and then I held my hand in front like you know just sit like because he held my hand I didn't
09:29touch him like you know don't do that was that the only time that you touched him yeah you know
09:33you can't stop somebody from leaving they want to leave absolutely I understand okay so if you
09:38step in front it was the concern of him drinking in the car they say he was going to drop away I
09:43don't know you might but you know the concern of you drinking in the car was what you know like
09:47you don't have to drink in the car you can actually just drop the drink out you're just a
09:50kid so you can't prevent somebody from leaving their own house so do you think his reaction was
09:57reasonable trying to get around you not that I think so I felt it was a little too much
10:01and you're from Nigeria different cultures different customs so don't take any of these
10:07questions wrong way and Nigeria do the women normally run kind of like the household more
10:12than the men or vice versa the men are the girls we all listen to each other and you know how old
10:20are you when you moved here to America in my 20s how long are you now in my 30s how long have you guys
10:26been married um three years five years been dating we're together almost four four years together
10:32three years married and then five months ago for a baby second where the other child where was the
10:39second child that you see or hear anything and it's either father of both children now what was your
10:46second child or the first child at no point you didn't grab his shirt then put your hands on him just to
10:53try to get him to stop the reason why you try to stop him was you see the way the video I did I
10:57wasn't laughing like really is that what you're doing that's me I would laugh it off I would try
11:02to like you don't do this sometimes if you don't joke about it like you know if your liver goes down
11:06I'm not donating my it's everybody enjoys a glass of drink sometimes everybody enjoys you know but I
11:12would believe that if I was in his shoes and he tells me don't drink tonight I would respect the fact
11:17that my partner is you know don't drink tonight and just fuck down everybody gets angry and you'll
11:23get upset but you telling me that they're gonna hit me break my head off you know you know it hits me
11:27hard and you know why are you doing all that just because of the kind of thing and you're making so
11:33much noise about it it's she didn't ever get to this right so when he said if he was gonna hit you
11:39hard was that before or after you just started pushing I didn't push him off he pushed me out of
11:44the way you said that you yeah I pushed me out of the way okay so was it before or after he pushed you
11:49it was what was the question again when he said if I'm gonna hit you it was after it was after I said
11:55you know you screamed my hand like you know you tried to hurt me and he goes if I'm gonna hit you
11:58I was gonna hit you ahead I'm like you don't have to do this actually she's been pushing me the whole
12:02time I lost count man honestly okay but you grabbed her shirt and grabbed her hand while she was holding on
12:05your shirt uh yes because she got in my face and did you grab the hand that was holding on to your
12:11shirt of the other hand uh the hand that was holding on to the shirt on because she was holding my baby in the other hand
12:15you pushed her aside did you push her down at all or what were you doing no why did you feel
12:19that you grabbed her hand and pushed her um because she was very aggressive towards me and I had to get
12:23I had to grow was there anything else physical happened after she called 911 no really wasn't much physical
12:28anything it's just a whole lot of her pushing so besides the shove and her grabbing her throat did she hit you
12:33no do you hit her yeah is it my friend each other uh no not directly anything you mean
12:40you mean I'm just a liar in fact and I was like I dare you that tough you know she didn't threaten you
12:46no I didn't threaten you did you you threat her all yeah I just followed her all three of the kids
12:51your kids uh no just two this ever happened before no not this bad have you ever physically
12:57done altercation have we ever been called out here before no I asked you a clarifying question real quick
13:02so when he was initially trying to get out the door the first time and you put your arm out were
13:05you trying to like push him away from the door or I was like get out of my way and moving and I was
13:13like you don't have to and then he tried to show me off and you know like you know get out of my way
13:18and I was like you know you just okay so it wasn't it wasn't just you trying to body block I mean it was
13:23you trying to push him after he pushed you the first time why were you trying to stop him from
13:27leaving the apartment why would he get in trouble he's not drunk at this point right he's not drunk
13:35but you never can tell you might say I'm upset because of my controller you get out of the car
13:42and you say maybe you take a few sips and you say let me just drive around to cut my head
13:45it was fear would it be okay with you if I took a picture of your hands so that's what we like to see
14:15whether there's marks or no marks because we're talking about grabbing each other
14:19oh okay and that becomes a question later like why if there is a lack of something or if there is
14:24something why did not document that so it's just yeah we're going to have to document it anyway from
14:27coming out here just to kind of cover our bases so I can verify that yeah there's no marks on you
14:31I know you said that your wrist might be sprained um but you can't really document that in the photo
14:35but of course you know especially something that comes up in a day or two if you do end up having a bruise
14:39they're going to want a reference photo as well okay flip them over for me all right then put your hands behind your
14:44background involvement
14:44I don't know that you're doing nothing man
14:47動 работ
14:49stop
14:50answer answer answer
14:50answer answer
14:52Let me let me let me tell me let me tell to her
14:55let meusa
14:56stop
14:56stop
14:56st
15:00Never wanna let her
15:01some closer
15:02listen to me
15:03listen to me
15:03соб
15:04three
15:04but where'd he
15:05up going
15:05you can not stand in front of somebody
15:09and prevent them from leaving
15:10so
15:11Relax.
15:13Okay?
15:14Relax.
15:14You can't say.
15:17Stop it.
15:18I didn't want you to get in trouble.
15:20I didn't want you to get in trouble.
15:22Ma'am, you're going to end up getting yourself out of trouble.
15:24But you do that.
15:26So the state of Georgia is the one pursuing these targets.
15:29Because you guys live together, you guys are married and have kids.
15:32Listen, listen, you're talking and you're not listening.
15:35Alright?
15:35Because you guys live together.
15:36Stop.
15:37We'll let you talk.
15:38Give me one second.
15:39Alright?
15:40Because you guys live.
15:41Stop.
15:42Because you guys live together.
15:44You're married and have kids together.
15:46That relationship falls under the Family Violence Act.
15:48False imprisonment.
15:49Simple fact.
15:50Stop.
15:50Listen.
15:51Because you tried to prevent him from leaving for no lawful reason.
15:55You made contact with him.
15:57The most charges fall under the Family Violence Act.
16:00The possibility of him maybe drinking and maybe driving is not a legal reason for you to stop him from leaving.
16:04You can't deprive him of his liberty.
16:07I swear to God.
16:08I was dead.
16:08He didn't do anything illegal.
16:10It's not illegal to have a drink or to sit in a car.
16:13To this point, she's under arrest for domestic violence charges.
16:16Right?
16:16She cannot legally stop you from leaving your apartment.
16:20Come on, please.
16:21I understand that you don't want this.
16:22No, no.
16:23She breastfeeds my child.
16:25Okay, I understand that.
16:26But the way state law is written, have you ever heard of the Family Violence Act?
16:29He was just displaying it to me.
16:31Did you?
16:31Okay.
16:32Can you arrest me?
16:33No.
16:34You didn't do anything wrong.
16:35Please.
16:36So, well, we'll talk about that.
16:38So, right now, because it's a Family Violence Act, I understand you don't want her arrested.
16:43It's going to be the state that's the one taking the charges.
16:46Oh, my God.
16:47Come on.
16:47As far as what you did, you can't intentionally spill a drink on somebody.
16:51But what we look for is what's called the predominant physical aggression.
16:54And we determined that in this incident, she's the predominant physical aggressor.
16:57Please overlook this, man.
16:58Please.
16:59We can't, man.
17:00It's past that.
17:01Once we're out here, we can't just overlook it.
17:02Well, but my kids.
17:04Where's my babies?
17:05They're inside.
17:06My baby boy, too?
17:08We let her go inside and lay him down in the bed.
17:10He's asleep.
17:11Oh, no.
17:14You'll be able to go up there as soon as they get done with her.
17:16Oh, come on, man.
17:17Come on.
17:18Please, breastfeed instead.
17:20Come on.
17:21Take me instead.
17:23She's the predominant aggressor.
17:24I get it, man.
17:24Jesus Christ, man.
17:26Come on.
17:27She breastfees my child.
17:28I understand that.
17:29But at this point, there's nothing we can do.
17:33But just hang tight until they bring her down.
17:35I'm sorry.
17:36Come on.
17:37Can't you guys take me instead?
17:38Come on.
17:38You can't.
17:39We're not here just to take somebody to jail.
17:41I know.
17:41What we've done is we've talked to you, we've talked to her, and we've determined that she's
17:45the predominant aggressor.
17:46But what about my baby?
17:48What's more important here?
17:50Come on.
17:51I get that, but we can't overlook this, but...
17:54Jesus Christ, no.
17:56It was big to him.
17:58You're not listening to it.
17:58This man is having a conversation.
17:59He's trying to walk around, and you try to block him again.
18:01You can't keep stopping him.
18:02Can I talk to him?
18:04No.
18:05Charlie, what did you do?
18:06I'm 10, 15 minutes, P.M.L.
18:07I didn't want to see.
18:08I want to do that so that he doesn't get in trouble.
18:10You said I thought I was going to talk to him faster.
18:12Like, you cannot.
18:13It's not unlawful for him to have a turn.
18:15No, I didn't stay.
18:17I think I was head driving.
18:18But you didn't even ask him.
18:19Why are you driving?
18:20You never even gave him a chance.
18:21You tried to stop him.
18:22I just said, please don't go outside.
18:23I was begging him.
18:25Come on, stand up, please.
18:25Come on, get up.
18:27Ma'am, either get up, or I'm going to have to help you up, and I might hurt you.
18:30I'm trying not to do that, okay?
18:31Let's go.
18:32No.
18:32No.
18:33I didn't.
18:34I wasn't doing anything.
18:36Back up.
18:36Back up.
18:37Back up.
18:37Please.
18:38Ma'am, if you don't stop pushing against me, I'm going to take you to the car myself.
18:42I didn't want to do that.
18:43Please walk.
18:44I didn't want to do that.
18:45Please walk.
18:46Please walk.
18:47Just relax.
18:47Just relax.
18:48Just relax.
18:49Arrest me instead.
18:50We don't want to arrest you, guys.
18:51Arrest me instead.
18:53We can't, dude.
18:54Please walk.
18:54I don't.
18:55Please walk.
18:56No.
18:57Guys, I can't.
19:04I'm sorry.
19:04Guys, she breastfeeds my baby.
19:07Sit in the car.
19:08You can answer questions and sit at the same time.
19:10Sit.
19:12Which phone is it?
19:15The one auntie's phone in the room.
19:17This one?
19:18Yeah.
19:18This one's yours.
19:19Give it to him.
19:20Both of them.
19:21I'm going to give you this one.
19:22That way, when you get out of jail, you can make phone calls.
19:25Sit down.
19:27Now you are about to make this a lot worse.
19:30Please sit down.
19:32I'm trying to help you.
19:33Put your name in.
19:34Please help me.
19:34Sir, please help me.
19:36See, see, sir.
19:36I'm breastfeeding.
19:38What am I going to do?
19:39Maybe take formula at all?
19:41No.
19:42You don't have any breastfeeding?
19:43No.
19:44No, nothing.
19:46Come on.
19:47My baby has to starve?
19:49Come on.
19:49There have to be something we can do.
19:51This is not.
19:53Are you kidding me?
19:54What am I going to do about my child?
19:56Oh, don't.
19:56So I'll try to get some formula for me.
19:59Oh, it's closed.
20:01So the CVS up there on Townley Parkway is open 24 hours a day.
20:06Where is she going?
20:07Where will she be out?
20:08She's going to Cherokee County Jail.
20:09Because it's a domestic violence charge, she's got to go before a judge before she can bond
20:14out that happens within 72 hours.
20:16Put your foot in.
20:17Sir, sir.
20:18No, please.
20:19Sir, sir.
20:20Let your foot in, please.
20:21Sir, sir, sir.
20:21I wish I could just won't stop.
20:22I'm not making it work.
20:23Oh, no.
20:24Just that.
20:24Sir, please, sir.
20:25Sir, we'll suck it out.
20:26Please, sir.
20:26Please, sir.
20:26Please, sir.
20:26Please, sir.
20:28If you do not move your knee, I'm going to slam this door and it's going to hurt.
20:30Baby, please, please, sir.
20:31Move your knee.
20:33Do y'all need anything else from me?
20:34Well, hang tight.
20:34Well, if you want to go up check on your kids, that's fine.
20:37But we'll check, see if the baby's eating tonight, and we'll come back up.
20:40We'll talk to you in a minute.
20:41We get how this disrupts your whole entire nucleus to your family.
20:45You got a five-month-old.
20:46I can empathize with you 100%.
20:47So I'm here to help you father to father to make sure that we can take care of your baby now.
20:50We can ask the judge to allow that nonviolent contact between you guys and get you guys the
20:55help that you need to keep your family together.
20:56So I know that your whole world is turned upside down, but I understand why we did it and
21:00why we had to do it.
21:01I get it.
21:02I'm just mad at it.
21:03I understand.
21:04But at least nobody got hurt today, right?
21:06Seriously hurt.
21:08The baby didn't get hurt.
21:09I think what would have happened if in all this she had dropped the baby.
21:12I think of what could have happened.
21:13I get it.
21:14I get it.
21:14This hurts worse, man.
21:15I get it.
21:16Trust me.
21:16I get it.
21:17Take my ass to jail, please.
21:18Get her out of here.
21:19Like I said, we're not here just to take somebody to jail.
21:20I know.
21:21I get it.
21:21But mix some shit up.
21:23Come on.
21:23Take me.
21:24You can't do that.
21:25All right.
21:25Next step.
21:26What can I do?
21:26I think he's talking right now to the commissioner from the fire department to see if they can help
21:29you out at all.
21:30Like I said, if push comes to shove and you have to go out and buy formula at night,
21:34I didn't have any money for that.
21:37None of us did.
21:37She's been breastfeeding since my second born.
21:41I ain't nobody.
21:42Could you guys at least work me to allow her to pump breast milk or something?
21:47Something.
21:48It's not even about the wife at this point.
21:50It's my child.
21:51I understand.
21:51The firefighters don't normally stock formula, but they're going to talk to see if maybe
21:56somebody can come down here and like sit down with you and show you how to follow
21:59with the baby.
22:00I mean, I know how to do that.
22:02I just don't have the means of getting formula.
22:05That's my problem.
22:06Financial.
22:06I didn't worry about it because she was breastfeeding.
22:09Does the baby have any sensitivities?
22:10Fine sensitivities.
22:12I don't know.
22:13Soy.
22:14I don't know.
22:15We never did formula.
22:16There's no breast milk in the fridge or anything?
22:19I don't know.
22:20I don't know.
22:21I have to.
22:22Does she normally pump?
22:23Yes, she does.
22:24But these days, she pump just for the moment so she doesn't stock up.
22:28All right.
22:29Here's what we're going to do.
22:29I'm going to bring her breast pump and stuff up to the jail.
22:32They're going to let her pump milk up there.
22:34Okay.
22:34And then you'll be able to go up there and pick it up.
22:36Okay.
22:36Does that work?
22:38That is amazing.
22:39You want to pack that stuff up for me?
22:40Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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