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00:00No, Biden does crystal math.
00:02This might not be the right one for us.
00:05When I leave the house, I have to click the lights three times before me
00:09because if I only do it once and something bad's going to happen on the way to the airport.
00:13Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:16I can only say certain things.
00:18She has done a very good job at hiding it, but it has become more difficult.
00:26We have been talking about our marriage, and it started with some premarital counseling.
00:35If someone gets involved in our relationship or marriage too much, where does it end?
00:42Colin, did anything come up for you?
00:45I've been holding on to something for a while now,
00:48and it's not easy to say out loud because I know it's going to affect Baylen.
00:56So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought would be important to bring up together?
01:16Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.
01:20Yeah, so, obviously, you know that here soon I have to make a career decision.
01:29That is like a super heavy burden that I guess I could say that I have.
01:37I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military or go into some kind of government job.
01:47That way we have health insurance.
01:49Being able to have that kind of benefits, especially with someone with her condition, I know is, like, huge.
01:57But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.
02:02Right.
02:03I've been in the military for about five years now, and my contract will be expiring in about a year.
02:12I joined at 19, and I was just a kid, immature.
02:17The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.
02:21But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life,
02:25and lately I've been wondering if there's a different career path for me outside of the military.
02:30But if I do decide to change careers, I need a job that I'm going to be successful in, be happy in,
02:38and also still be able to provide for me and my family.
02:41I feel like I'm being pulled, almost.
02:45And so it's just like...
02:46Between what?
02:48Like, family members and friends, especially your dad,
02:51want me to, like, choose a career path that's secured financially,
02:56and it scares me that I, like, may not go in that direction that everyone else wants me to go in.
03:03Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.
03:06Yeah.
03:07Colin discussed feeling really concerned about the expectations from family and friends,
03:13stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.
03:15And while a lot of couples struggle financially,
03:19they're already dealing with more of a challenge as a result of Phelan's conditions.
03:24Do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both of you and your future family financially?
03:31Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job,
03:33so it kind of has to be, like, on me to be able to make the main source of income.
03:40That's a lot of pressure on you.
03:42Yeah.
03:42There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Phelan on a day-to-day basis.
03:48Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents,
03:53making sure that she's okay, she's taking her medicine,
03:57taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.
04:02It's a lot, and I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Phelan.
04:06I don't let Phelan see that I have all of this going on up here.
04:10But it is weighing on me a lot.
04:12And everyone has a breaking point somewhere.
04:16I just don't want to hit mine.
04:17So, what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress.
04:24You don't want to share that with her.
04:26But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself.
04:29Like, you wouldn't want me to do that to myself.
04:32Yeah, but it's different.
04:33When I hear that, it's different with you, though.
04:34It's just, like...
04:35It's different, though.
04:36It's like you already have a lot of moving parts in your life.
04:40So then for me to, like, add on, like, my stress to that,
04:44I don't want to do that to you.
04:46Like, I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out.
04:49Like, it's just, like, that way, like, it almost makes me feel like, okay, I have to do this on my own, in a way.
05:00Oh, I don't want you to feel like that.
05:01Yeah.
05:01I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions and separating that from yours and mine.
05:13Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody, kind of like how I am.
05:21I knew that Colin was stressed about his career, but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
05:27This is something I've always worried about, because with my Tourette and other conditions, it can be a lot.
05:35Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.
05:39So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me from these type of difficult subjects.
05:43It's not healthy for him or our relationship.
05:47It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
05:51You don't want to put anything on to me, and I understand that.
05:56However, you doing that is hurting yourself, and I don't want to feel disconnected from you.
06:05Regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends' opinions, I know it sucks, because I feel it, too.
06:10I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of Colin and them.
06:13And that's going to be a harder issue for me to address, because I usually see both sides.
06:17Everything that everyone else says almost shouldn't be a burden.
06:23And I know that it's still going to be.
06:26And I'm telling you, like, suck a fat .
06:31I'm telling you that, like, that's between us.
06:34That's not between my dad, your parents, and no one.
06:38And if we believe that it can work, then it'll happen.
06:44Mm-hmm.
06:45That's the thing.
06:46It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide, she just wants me to be happy.
06:54You have a few things to focus on until I see you next.
06:57Thank you so much.
06:58Thank you so much.
07:00But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future, and I have a feeling Alan isn't really going to let it go until I make some real decisions.
07:08Oh, oh, oh, oh.
07:15What you say to me?
07:17You're telling me what to do.
07:18Don't let the rules down.
07:20Give me a clue.
07:22We're independent.
07:23We've got the hot wheels.
07:25We've got a little cash.
07:27You love to keep it real.
07:30Can I just do something?
07:32Huh?
07:33What are we doing?
07:34I'm starting something for a project.
07:37Don't try to block it.
07:40You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.
07:46I'm making something for someone.
07:47It's a surprise.
07:48Okay.
07:49Right?
07:50You're acting weird.
07:53I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve, and there's always something crazy going on in this head of his where he's conjuring up some silly ideas.
08:01The sooner I find out, the better, because this is just awkward.
08:04Yeah, so I've been working on a surprise for Valen, just in case she can or can't have certain things at her wedding.
08:13But we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet.
08:16Like, we only know she needs the dogs there.
08:19That's really all we know.
08:20So I don't know how you are coming up with this and thinking that it's just going to fit into whatever.
08:27It's going to fit in.
08:28Yeah.
08:28It's going to fit in.
08:31So here's the deal.
08:32I've been thinking a lot about Valen's wedding and how sensitive she is to her surroundings.
08:36And I want to pitch an idea to her.
08:39But before I pitch it, I want her to envision it.
08:43And that's what my secret little project is all about.
08:46Do you want it to be a surprise for me, too?
08:47Am I not allowed to see this again?
08:49Yes, of course.
08:49I'm just going to do this.
08:50Okay.
08:50And I'm just going to show you this.
08:51And then you can say, wow.
08:53Or you can say, that's never going anywhere.
08:56Will you let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend with their mom and dad?
09:01Yeah.
09:02So you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend?
09:05Yeah.
09:06And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this.
09:10You know what I mean?
09:11Like, I've got to get some things done.
09:15I'm a little nervous.
09:17I mean, with the wedding coming up and with Valen's condition, we know that she needs help.
09:23But I also don't want us to overstep our boundaries.
09:29Okay.
09:29But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see what's up Alan's sleeve in this carving situation.
09:37Nope, hurry up and wait.
09:41I can still see you.
09:43And I have so many questions for you.
09:46So many questions.
09:49Hi, baby.
09:51Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
09:54They live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
09:56Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
09:59I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out of the military.
10:03Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
10:06Mm-hmm.
10:06Yeah.
10:07Naila, I want to show you something that we got outside.
10:11What?
10:12Yeah, what are we doing?
10:13Julie doesn't have a clue.
10:15I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,
10:20is to invite her into my mind space on these.
10:23You're being creepy and weird right now.
10:25It means brush your teeth for the day.
10:40Flop gets a whole one.
10:46We have no food.
10:48Are you not hungry?
10:49No.
10:50We can go grocery shopping and get food, and then we can cook something.
10:53Okay.
10:54So what are you up to today?
10:55Any plans?
10:57I am going to go hang out with Sammy and Burke.
11:00She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals, so...
11:05Yeah, that's good.
11:06I'm glad.
11:07How are you feeling after therapy?
11:10Fine.
11:12I'm, like, feel closer.
11:15Mm-hmm.
11:16I don't know how I feel.
11:18What?
11:19I feel fine.
11:22Okay.
11:22After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is getting down in Dallas.
11:30It's getting real.
11:33Stop.
11:33I knew you were going to laugh.
11:34I look over, there's just a...
11:36I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders with finances and wedding planning and saving money and the stress of work and the unknown of that.
11:52I had no idea.
11:53Yeah.
11:54I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself.
12:00I can handle some stress.
12:02I honestly really appreciate Balin saying that she wants to help out with all of the burdens that I've been carrying.
12:10But there's a reason why I haven't, you know, brought this up to her.
12:15And it's because I know that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety.
12:20But a part of this whole counseling thing is learning to trust.
12:25If she says that I need to be open about something, then I need to be.
12:28Okay, let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have coming up.
12:34Do I need to get out my calculator for this?
12:36Wedding.
12:38House, eventually.
12:40Bachelor, bachelorette trip.
12:42Honeymoon.
12:43Let's stop adding all of this stuff.
12:46A lot of money right there.
12:47Gosh.
12:50It's okay, it's fine.
12:51So, I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save money so that we can be able to not have to worry about all of those in the next year.
13:02What do we cut?
13:04Well, we spend a lot of money.
13:06Dick.
13:06On.
13:07Sorry.
13:07Good?
13:08Yeah.
13:08Sure?
13:09Yep.
13:10Dick.
13:10Yep.
13:11Okay, here we go.
13:13I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
13:20Mm.
13:21It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries and shopping.
13:29It's kind of hard.
13:31Every day, she's looking on some website.
13:36The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction is because I don't go out and regularly go shopping because of my tics.
13:46No, you're just addicted all around.
13:49Is that true?
13:49Well, you name it, I got it.
13:55Just about.
13:56Also, if we can start cooking more meals here.
13:59The both of us not ordering food deliveries.
14:02Yep.
14:02We do that a lot.
14:03A lot.
14:04Wow.
14:05I really want to cook more, but as you know, as we get later into the day and, like, making meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot harder.
14:13So I know that I go to almost, like, ordering food as, like, because I'm just too scared, but I feel like I can, like, come out of my comfort zone a little bit because I need, we need to save some money.
14:26Mm-hmm.
14:27I would appreciate that.
14:28The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy, you little bitch.
14:34Yep.
14:35But we're going to try.
14:36Yep.
14:37You little bitch.
14:40What is setting that dick off?
14:42I don't know.
14:43We're going to have a good time, we're going to have a good time, yeah, give it up, we're going to have a good time, we're going to have a good time, get your paper up, we're going to have a good time, we're going to have a good time, yeah, give it up, give it up, give it up.
15:02Bitch.
15:04Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
15:07They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
15:10So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
15:13Where are Burke and Sammy?
15:19I don't like them.
15:22I die on them.
15:24I die on them.
15:27Of course they're late.
15:29I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
15:35It's kind of like torture because I'm just worried about the other people's reactions that are in the building.
15:41Woo-hoo, woo-hoo, woo-hoo.
15:49Oh, thank God they're here.
15:51Oh, thank God.
15:53Hi, baby.
15:54Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
15:58Hi, baby.
15:59I love you.
16:00I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
16:04You look so good with your hair like this.
16:07Oh, thanks.
16:08She has severe OCD and anxiety, so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
16:15Hi, Burke.
16:16What's up, babe?
16:17What's up?
16:19My oldest brother, Burke, is living in Tampa.
16:22He is currently, honestly, thriving down there and loves it.
16:26How was your flight today?
16:27I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
16:29Dude, I was at f***ing mass this flight.
16:31I can't get up and walk around, but I, like, can't sit still.
16:33I, like, can't watch a movie.
16:35I just, it's just a lot.
16:39Traveling with my OCD and flying is...
16:41Obsessive-compulsive dick.
16:43...disorder is very challenging for me, and some days are harder than others.
16:47Objection!
16:51Where the f*** is the function?
16:52Your mom has one life, and she's 30% off this week.
16:57It's very common for Baylin to have new tics after you haven't seen her in a while,
17:00because she can pick up anything from a TV show, a movie, music.
17:05Yeah.
17:06Take a dick.
17:07Self-serve that dick.
17:09They don't really surprise me that much anymore, because there's been some crazy ones.
17:12Yeah.
17:12I mean, you really can't get much more crazy, especially with that airport one with the gun.
17:15Yeah.
17:16You know what I mean?
17:16I have a gun.
17:17Oh, my God, it's right there.
17:21I have a gun.
17:22Maybe try to whisper it.
17:25Is it going to play shuffleboard?
17:27Yeah.
17:27Yeah, sure.
17:29So, do you want to be red or blue?
17:32I'll be blue.
17:33So, we're going to try to knock each other's arms.
17:34It's going to take a little bit, because you just got to barely let go of the thing.
17:39Oh, that one broke.
17:41Not bad, though.
17:43Bro.
17:44So, now you want to try to knock his off, because...
17:46Oh.
17:46The three of us being the oldest and hanging out is a lot different than, like, the three
17:52younger ones hanging out, because we're not fighting over boogers or, like, baseball bats.
17:59Too hard.
18:00That's what she said.
18:01Your mom's too hard.
18:04That's money, too.
18:07Bitch.
18:10I'm exhausted.
18:12We should have stretched out beforehand.
18:14Dude.
18:15Did I tell you guys that me and Connor are in premarital therapy?
18:18So, who brought that up?
18:19Mom and Dad.
18:20I think it's a great idea.
18:21I'm all for it.
18:22It's great to be on the same page about children.
18:25Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
18:27Do you want to do this stuff?
18:28How...
18:28Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations you have with each other.
18:31Yes.
18:31It's like, there's multiple things.
18:33Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out
18:36of the military.
18:37Saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses and all these things and...
18:41Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
18:43Mm-hmm.
18:44It's hard for me to work a nine-to-five as much as I would love to.
18:47Yeah.
18:47It's hard with my tics.
18:50Yeah.
18:51But I do want to help contribute in, like, some way.
18:56Yeah.
18:58So, what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military?
19:01He doesn't honestly know.
19:03He officially gets out next year.
19:05Kind of, like, that's when he'll, like, be transitioning out to his next job if he has
19:09one.
19:10What do you...
19:10If he has one?
19:12Yeah.
19:12I mean, it's important when you have a job, you don't want to leave it until something
19:16else is lined up there.
19:17I know.
19:17That's the thing.
19:19I can definitely sympathize with Colin because the responsibility and due diligence of taking
19:28care of not only yourself but two people and providing for dogs and doing all that,
19:33I definitely, I definitely empathize with him.
19:35But I think it's also, like, a you know what you signed up for.
19:39You knew she couldn't work a normal job.
19:40He needs to find, like, steady income, a job.
19:43Yeah.
19:43Not even a stable job.
19:44Just a providing job for the both of them.
19:47But it's not our job to tell him which job.
19:49Yes.
19:49You know what I mean?
19:50Yes.
19:50He's got to come up with that himself.
19:52I'm not going to go to Colin and be like, hey, you need to...
19:55You need a 40-hour work week with health insurance and this.
19:59That's my dad's.
20:00My dad can do that.
20:02I just think it's hard for you.
20:03Like, let's say he gets out of the military and then waits, like, six months, like, Burke did
20:07after college for a job.
20:08Who knows on the time frame?
20:09Yes.
20:10That's why he's stressed.
20:12I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy.
20:17However, they both do have very strong opinions.
20:20They're very, very protective of me.
20:23Wait.
20:23Hey.
20:24All right.
20:24That's okay.
20:25Do you want a nap?
20:26No, Kyle.
20:27No, let's just go.
20:30Colin and I just talked about, in therapy, the pressure he feels when my family weighs in
20:35in our business.
20:36If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning, I can't even imagine what my parents are going
20:40to think this is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
20:48Pump that dick, bitch.
20:49Oh, my God.
20:51It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about mining Colin's
20:54future.
20:55I love mine.
20:56Oh, my God.
20:57It's great.
20:59It's great.
20:59It's great.
21:10Between therapy and wedding planning lately, things have been very stressful.
21:18So, since Colin is working late, tonight, I'm having a girls' night where we are just
21:24going to let loose and have tons of fun.
21:26Take a dick, bitch.
21:29Hello.
21:30Hi, Bailey.
21:31What's up, girls?
21:33Since I moved to D.C., I actually met a lot of new people through my best friend, Leela,
21:38as well as through Colin's friends.
21:40Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?
21:42Wait, aren't you a bartender?
21:43Oh, yeah.
21:44There we go.
21:46This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
21:52It's great.
21:54So, how's your wedding planning going?
21:56We've looked at one venue.
21:58When we went there, it was beautiful.
21:59It had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers.
22:02However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be a very big trigger.
22:07I'm just hearing myself echo as I tick.
22:10Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.
22:13You want to be somewhere where you're comfortable.
22:15The first time that I met Balin, she was ticking.
22:18But at the same time, for me, personally, I grew up having a friend that had Tourette's.
22:22So, I kind of already knew what it was and that it's an uncontrollable thing.
22:25And it's worse to hold him in than it is to just let it all out.
22:29And so, she would tick and then we just kind of move on with our conversation.
22:32There were some other things that I didn't realize that I didn't like.
22:34Like, I didn't like circle tables because, like, it only got you secluded to the people that were at your table.
22:40So, I kind of want, like, long tables and then I would want to be separated.
22:44Like, him and I.
22:46Like a sweetheart table?
22:47Mm-hmm.
22:47Oh, that's, I love that.
22:48Honestly, having a sweetheart table was so nice.
22:50Like, at, like, my wedding.
22:52Because it was like, we got to sit there and enjoy each other.
22:54Mm-hmm.
22:55And not be surrounded by a bunch of people.
22:57The fact that my tics are not being brought up, like, no one's just dying laughing out of anywhere.
23:03I feel accepted and I feel like I belong in this group because we're all just being ourselves.
23:10Two girls, nine boys.
23:13Salut.
23:15This is so strong.
23:17Oh, yeah.
23:17Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before and I'm going to make us all some cotton candy.
23:22Oh, my gosh.
23:23It's a cotton candy.
23:24Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?
23:26A long time ago.
23:27Absolutely.
23:27I have never.
23:29Little set of pouches.
23:30It's coming out.
23:31Look at it.
23:32Pump that dick, bitch.
23:33Oh, my gosh.
23:34That looks good.
23:36Mm.
23:36Oh, thank you.
23:37That's literally perfect.
23:39A little sugar hangover.
23:40By the way, with wedding planning, me and Colin decided that we were going to start premarital therapy.
23:46One thing that was brought up was finances and saving money and it's kind of, like, this huge stress that he has with this, like, him getting out of the military.
23:56So, when you heard Colin say that in,
24:00that bitch, was that something that, like, you, that you knew that he was feeling?
24:04No.
24:05And I know it was hard for him to say it.
24:07And he's, like, holding it onto himself, thinking that, like, I can't help him.
24:12Hearing that Balin and Colin are doing premarital counseling, I thought was really inspiring.
24:15And I think that's something that a lot of newlyweds or fiancés aren't really talking about as much anymore when it used to be a lot more common to do.
24:23Especially with what she's dealing with, her Tourette syndrome, they can set themselves up for a healthy marriage and hopefully for the rest of their life.
24:31So, I was like, you know what, we'll save money with, like, not ordering out so much.
24:35And it's like, okay, well, now I have to start making food.
24:38So, fun times.
24:40So, what kind of foods are you going to be making?
24:42I haven't figured that out yet.
24:43That's a good question.
24:43We should figure that out.
24:45We'll make a recipe book.
24:46Yeah.
24:47Ooh, that's a good idea.
24:48We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.
24:50That's great.
24:51Make sure to do half of it so I can put in the air fryer.
24:53Make sure to do the air fryer.
24:54We should get you a crock pot.
24:56Crock pot is so easy.
24:57You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on, and then you don't have to deal with it all day.
25:00And it's so nice.
25:01Crock pot.
25:02I have a gift for everybody.
25:04Right, punky boy?
25:05I have a gift.
25:07Tonight, I have a special, fun surprise for my girls.
25:12Girls' night with a twist.
25:15Twist that dick around.
25:16Wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.
25:21Everybody, pick a bag.
25:23Here you go.
25:24Just hand it to us.
25:25Oh, gosh.
25:26I'm scared.
25:26All right, can we open it?
25:28Mine's multicolored.
25:29Mine is literally multicolored.
25:31I don't remember it.
25:32I got purple.
25:33So, the theme for the night is wigs.
25:37This is so fun.
25:38Oh, I don't think I have my underwear.
25:41Oh, my God.
25:44This is what Girls' Night is all about.
25:46We've had candy.
26:02We've had the jungle juice, like, the crazy wigs.
26:05Sophie time!
26:05This is a very Balan night.
26:08This was exactly what I needed.
26:10Me and the girls laughing, having fun.
26:13It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about my Tourette's
26:16or mine and Colin's future.
26:18I would say that tonight was a super successful Girls' Night.
26:23Holy ****, I look like Beckner.
26:26I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
26:30I truly thought he was insane.
26:32Like, this is, this is no Girls' Dream.
26:34How many blankets do we need?
27:02Do you think I sound good?
27:04I think you sound like you got a tracheotomy, actually.
27:06Is this a good look for me?
27:07Is this a good sound?
27:08Sounds great.
27:10It means I can't yell at kids.
27:12One of you jokers gave this to me.
27:14This is not my fault.
27:16Yeah, well, did you come here with this?
27:19I did not.
27:20Okay, well then, you're not culpable.
27:25Since my siblings, Sammy and Burke, are in town, my dad wants to have a barbecue this weekend.
27:30But also, my dad's been bugging me to come by the house to see something, and I have no idea what it is.
27:38So, I decided to get a two-hour ride share from D.C. to be able to see everybody.
27:44**** them kids.
27:45Oh, baby, finally made it.
27:50Hi.
27:50Hey.
27:51How was it?
27:52Yeah, the ride was good.
27:53Okay.
27:54It wasn't like the other time where I got motion sickness, because ride shares in D.C. are...
27:57I know.
27:58How long is it?
27:59Like, two hours?
28:00The whole **** way.
28:02Whoa.
28:03Are we going to eat?
28:05Yeah, we're just waiting for Burke to finish grilling.
28:07He's out there grilling.
28:08Come on.
28:08Are you hungry?
28:09Yeah.
28:10Are you?
28:10Yeah, a little bit.
28:11Where's the wieners?
28:12Are you all done?
28:13We're almost done.
28:13Yep, almost.
28:14We're just talking about how you knew your way around a wiener, and these wieners are
28:16very big.
28:18Um, you were telling me how you had a girls' night.
28:20How did that go?
28:20Yes, so, it went great.
28:22Um, me and my friends have, like, these regular, like, girls' nights where they'll all come
28:26over, but they're all themed nights.
28:29So, we did wig nights.
28:31You don't have to wear it, Beckner, because...
28:33Wait, what?
28:33I'm actually you.
28:37That's you, Beckner.
28:38Let's do a side-by-side, see the accuracy.
28:39Looks like you guys both just fried ramen noodles and just plop them out there.
28:43That's good.
28:44It's okay, we'll just get...
28:45Look at Beckner.
28:46The wig looks for them Beckers right now.
28:48Honestly, put it on.
28:49Put it on, Yoder.
28:50So, you have other wigs?
28:52Oh, yeah.
28:53Yes, but I only have one other wig for one person in the room who needs it.
28:57Yeah.
28:57It looks like somebody shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig.
29:01Look at this.
29:01Look at this.
29:02What do you think?
29:10Damn.
29:11I think it looks good.
29:12Wait, no.
29:13I'm going to take a picture.
29:15I don't think you want it.
29:16You look like Sven with his hair.
29:17No, no.
29:18Now I look like Sven.
29:19Dad.
29:26With a baseball bat.
29:27No, it's this.
29:28It's this.
29:29Oh, God.
29:30I think you look like you should be on some sort of list.
29:37Maybe 200 feet away from schools or something.
29:42Well, before we eat, Balin, I want to show you something that we got on the side.
29:45Okay.
29:46Do you want us to come all?
29:46You guys should come all.
29:48I've been working on a surprise I want to share with the family, but especially Balin.
29:54Good.
29:55Come on.
29:56What are you doing?
29:58Yeah, what are we doing?
29:59Julie doesn't have a clue.
30:01I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined
30:06is to invite her into my mind space on these.
30:10Where are we going?
30:11We're here.
30:12What the f*** are we doing?
30:13I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
30:16I have no idea why my dad is taking us out back.
30:20I am so confused on so many different levels.
30:24You're being creepy and weird right now.
30:26He's like, let me show you my knife collection.
30:28Now listen, I don't know where you are with the whole wedding location search, so I know that
30:36you want animals at your wedding, right?
30:38Goats and alpacas and Ringling Brothers or whatever you want.
30:45And a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have animals.
30:48Okay?
30:49Mm-hmm.
30:50You got one chance to make this amazing?
30:53This is it.
30:55You can put all those things right here.
30:58Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
30:59How was that funny?
31:03No, I'm being serious.
31:04Serious?
31:06I've been working on a plan to have the entire yard wide open for Balin's wedding.
31:13Rip the fence down, cut trees, build a platform, whatever she wants.
31:20Let's start doing something.
31:23Come on, Dad.
31:25Seriously?
31:26Who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard?
31:29I don't even know what to say.
31:33So much for trying to take some pressure off of Colin.
31:35This whole idea is only going to add to it.
31:38This is crazy.
31:47This is it.
31:48Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
31:51Tell us that funny.
31:53No, I'm being serious.
31:56I'm envisioning it.
31:57There's not a lot to envision.
32:01You can have whatever you want here.
32:02I'll get those tents put up.
32:07This is where she comes up the aisle.
32:09And then we pass the lump.
32:11We pass the lump.
32:12I trip.
32:13All right.
32:14I truly thought he was insane.
32:15Like this is, this is no girl's dream.
32:19How many people do you think inviting?
32:21We are probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking between 125 and 150 will show up.
32:26With two toilets here.
32:28With two toilets?
32:29Two toilets.
32:30One grill.
32:31Like imagine 150 people in this house.
32:36Oh no.
32:36They'd have to get Ubered to like the Holiday Inn or something.
32:38No.
32:39Obviously 150 people are going to lay up cots here.
32:42I mean, come on.
32:43I'm talking about people wandering around getting food.
32:45I mean, just imagine 150 people just hammer.
32:48Brutal.
32:49Brutal.
32:49All right.
32:50So we'll think of different venues, but appreciate your offer.
32:52Let's move on.
32:53But if you go to another venue and then they don't allow half of the stuff that you want
32:57in your wedding, this is, this is the wedding.
32:59This is an option.
33:00This is something that, I mean, let's hope it only happens once in your life.
33:03It is an option.
33:03The last option, but it is an option.
33:05It could be the last option.
33:07The last one.
33:09It's fine.
33:10All right.
33:11It's, I am enjoying this.
33:13But to me, I'm not worried about the food.
33:17I'm not worried about desserts.
33:18I'm not worried about tents.
33:19I'm not worried about outdoors cat.
33:21I'm not worried about this.
33:22I'm worried about, is Balin going to be comfortable at this location?
33:26Because we all know that when she gets overstimulated, she could have a bad tick attack and end up
33:31on the floor.
33:33Having her wedding here at the house, she has a safe place that she's familiar with,
33:37comfortable with.
33:38And if we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle away from her to make her
33:44day amazing, then that's what it's truly about.
33:49It's not everyone else's wedding.
33:51It's her wedding.
33:51Okay.
33:52It's what you want.
33:53So either way, whether you choose here or you choose somewhere else, I want you to come
33:58over here and look at something.
34:00It's one more thing for you to think about and visualize.
34:03All right.
34:03Let's go over here.
34:04Come on.
34:06You'll like this.
34:07Here, Balin.
34:08Come over here and stand in front of this.
34:09Look this way.
34:09So I can take this off and then you can be surprised.
34:11It looks like he ordered a bed frame.
34:13I know.
34:14Wait, so he's been out back making this and you guys haven't eaten?
34:16He told me he was doing something special.
34:22What?
34:24What?
34:25Why are you guys laughing?
34:27Only your dad.
34:28Oh, my God.
34:30What are we doing?
34:32So this, so listen.
34:33So no matter what you pick, you can use this for a venue.
34:37All right?
34:37Okay, well, it's not going to be...
34:40Oh, my goodness!
34:43Oh.
34:44Oh, my goodness!
34:47This is going in the apartment.
34:49No, okay.
34:50We just need to add some sprinkles.
34:51Do you know what they are?
34:52That's a horse.
34:55That's Fluffy and Toots.
34:57Toots me!
34:58Oh!
34:59Thank you so much.
35:00This probably took you so long.
35:03I am freaking so excited.
35:05I love alpacas.
35:07Mr. and Mrs. Dooley, there we go.
35:09That's Chuck and that's Marlene.
35:11Marlene's a dirty, filthy whore!
35:13Okay.
35:14All right, as our maid of honor, we accept this.
35:16We're not super sure about the venue portion.
35:19I think the venue's good.
35:20I could see, like, two big circus tents, your animals running around.
35:24A place to, like, take photos and there can be, like, flowers in the background.
35:26Yeah, whatever you want to do.
35:27It's your wedding.
35:28It ended up being a great surprise.
35:31I'm totally impressed.
35:33The backyard venue idea I'm not so sure of, but the bench is beautiful.
35:40There's probably took you so long to make.
35:41How long did it take you to make this?
35:4216 hours.
35:45No, time, I don't know.
35:45Time to stand still when you carve.
35:47So I'm not given a time frame.
35:49It, it, it, it's worth it.
35:52When Baylin was at her worst four years ago in her medical journey, I really questioned
35:58that a day like this would come.
36:00Baylin deserves to have the perfect wedding day like anybody else.
36:03It's, it's been a long journey and her day needs to be as amazing as her expectations
36:10wanted.
36:11I want her to be able to say, Dad, this is the best day ever.
36:21You can put, like, a, like, a bow tie and, uh, it's kind of like Mr. and Mrs. Dooley.
36:27That'd be so cute.
36:28Okay, that is really cute.
36:30That's a really cute idea.
36:31How heavy are these?
36:32What if she, what if they're heavy?
36:34Oh, yeah, they gotta be heavy.
36:35I mean, what if the venue's, like, four hours down the road?
36:39Like, I'll just drive it down the road, or what if it's here?
36:42This sweet gift from my dad has definitely made it harder to choose a wedding venue.
36:50I mean, I totally get what my dad thinks.
36:52It would be better for me to have it here.
36:54And even though it's not exactly what I thought I wanted for my wedding, he's been taking care
36:59of me a long time, so I definitely trust his judgment.
37:02So what do you think?
37:06It's an option.
37:08It is an option.
37:09Me and Colin are trying to save money for this specific reason, so I can bring it up to him.
37:14However, I don't think my parents' backyard is Colin's first wedding venue choice.
37:21And I know Colin feels a lot of pressure when my dad gives suggestions, even when they're
37:26meant to be helpful.
37:27And honestly, I'm a little afraid to ask.
37:31I can't look at the chickens.
37:38Have you told Colin?
37:42No.
37:43Yep.
37:44Tell me what?
37:45The last time I saw my dad, he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue.
37:49I haven't even told Colin yet, and I'm not even sure I want to.
37:52Hey, Mom.
37:55Hi, baby.
37:56Bexar.
37:56I would like to have, like, a sleepover with you for the weekend.
38:00I'm a little, like, nervous.
38:01I've never hosted a kid before.
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38:04Muy bien.
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38:08Bedazzle.
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38:10Take this, and it goes in the wax.
38:12Is something burning?
38:13I'm going to show you how to bedazzle.
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