00:00i've never heard of this neither has my wife my wife's friend got a letter in the mail that
00:09looked like a wedding invitation and she knew that her i think it's her college friend was
00:14getting married okay so she opened it up and she's like ah you know the main thing is when
00:19people get married it's either a save the date or a wedding invitation you're like i hope it
00:22works with my uh schedule as well it wasn't loren what was it i took a picture of it uh although
00:29manda said she didn't want me to post it but let me read it it is a letter in looks just like a
00:35wedding invitation but it said um hi you may have heard that we are getting married on the date we
00:42apologize but we are at capacity oh so although your presence will not be felt at the wedding the
00:51link below is for our registry and you can click on it if you wish to send a gift all the best
00:59and we appreciate your friendship and it's the bride and groom's name can i be honest yeah
01:05so tacky you're not mad at it no it's tacky totally yeah i totally agree oh no no no i don't think
01:13anybody's gonna be like this is the right thing i've never heard of this before you're just fishing
01:17for presents at this point and contributions okay okay let me let me just say this because my wife
01:23and i did talk about it otherwise that's an easy phone call and when and by the way if anyone else
01:27has ever gotten a you're not invited invitation 704-570-9595 i'd sure like to hear your story as
01:35well a devotion yeah a invitation yeah uh no so i i had a friend of mine who i knew all through high
01:43school and then once college came we kind of split apart he he went to rhode island i did my thing and
01:50i didn't really talk too much and then i was the best man at his wedding but because i lived on the west
01:55coast and had met so many people that i was closer with when it came time to make our wedding roster
02:00he was left off and he was definitely hurt because i was his best man and he didn't even
02:06never mind my wedding party he didn't even make the cut for the invitation yeah so i told amanda last
02:12night ago i wonder if maybe we could have sent that and leave off the link for our wedding registry but
02:18at least send something that says like hey you may have heard we're getting married we're at capacity
02:23i appreciate your friendship like no hard feelings like that's not a terrible idea i think that if
02:29there's somebody on the cusp like that that you feel will be hurt by it that's a phone call
02:35really yes why are you nuts no no i would never i've never called somebody they're gonna be that
02:43hurt by it that's a phone call that's not an impersonal d in divitation or whatever we're
02:52calling it but the whole idea the reason why they're not coming is because i haven't spoken to
02:56them so the one time i'm going to talk to them in three years is going to be like hey you're not
03:00invited to the wedding don't send anything at all that's what we did we we did the same thing we had a
03:05really small wedding we had 65 people at our wedding yeah not us we had 200 something well okay but a lot
03:11of people got left off of mine is the point so instead i mean we just didn't send anything but
03:18the people that we knew that would be like affected by it we called them and told them which was a lot
03:24of our friends because really our wedding was mostly family the only friends we had at our wedding were
03:28in our wedding party somebody texted in said they're a wedding planner they've never heard of this but it's
03:32a terrible idea it's tacky especially to put the the link yeah for your registry like hey sorry that
03:41you're not able to not forget that you're not able to come sorry that we're unable to invite you we're
03:47at capacity how about the opening you may have heard we're getting married on this date sorry we're
03:54at capacity your presence will be missed but if you would still like to send a gift here's the link to
03:59my registry in a beautiful envelope and a beautiful you know i mean they must have sent out a bunch of
04:05these i would think for the money you spent sending that out you probably could have gotten three more
04:10people into your wedding i like the way you think i don't know i don't know i wasn't invited to my
04:18best friend's wedding a wedding of 30 years someone texted in all because i didn't like her boyfriend
04:22she said we will always be friends though i haven't talked to her since then and she's mad at you for
04:27that somebody else texted in and said there's three or four weddings i wish i got the invitation
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