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01:47Ok, todos, creo que estamos listos para comenzar.
01:50Juliana, ¿puedes abrir la show para nosotros?
01:58Bienvenidos a la Asamblea,
02:00una colección de entrevistas autistas y neurodivergentes.
02:04Estamos muy felices de que nos acompañe hoy.
02:08Nuestro regreso es que no hay sujetos fuera,
02:11no preguntas fuera de la mesa,
02:14y todo puede suceder.
02:17¿Puedes decirnos quiénes son?
02:20Embrace por algo divertido.
02:22Ok, gracias, Juliana.
02:24Soy Arlene Dickinson, y voy a divertir.
02:28He venido a divertirme,
02:30así que vamos a tener un buen tiempo.
02:33La primera pregunta es Lucas.
02:36Gracias por ver el video.
02:38Gracias por ver el video.
02:40Gracias por ver el video.
02:42Gracias por ver el video.
02:44Gracias por ver el video.
02:45I know you've won el Queen Elizabeth III
02:48Platinum Jubilee Medal, ¿no?
02:50Correcto?
02:51I'm also a King Charles III Coronación Medal.
02:53Oh, wow.
02:55That's amazing.
02:57I'd love to know why you got the King's Coronation Medal.
03:01My work in autism advocacy among others.
03:03Wow.
03:04Okay.
03:05Anyway, my question to you Arlene is,
03:07for anyone in the autistic community
03:09or any community member down on their luck,
03:11is there any advice or anything you would give to them?
03:13Because you've gone for so much in your life.
03:17So, I came from like,
03:21when we came from South Africa,
03:23my family had like $50.
03:25We had no money at all.
03:27And so we lived very, very poor.
03:29We had no money for groceries.
03:31So food was a very big thing in our home.
03:33We couldn't go to the grocery store to get food
03:35whenever we wanted it,
03:36because we didn't have any money.
03:37So we couldn't just go to the store to get food.
03:39You know, we had food, but it was very,
03:41wasn't like a regular thing.
03:43We never had new clothes,
03:45but I never had a new dress until I was 13 years old.
03:49And that was because I actually saved my money
03:51from babysitting to be able to buy that dress.
03:55And it cost me like $12.
03:57I can remember this like yesterday.
03:59And that was like a lot of money back then.
04:02And I think when you come from nothing,
04:06it can be easy to become a victim
04:08and say that you're always going to have nothing.
04:11But, but it's advocating for yourself
04:15and doing the things that are going to tell you
04:17that you can get out of the situation you're in.
04:20Absolutely.
04:21And that takes courage.
04:23And I think when you're feeling down,
04:26remember that you actually are shining for somebody else
04:29and you're making their life better.
04:31Well, I really do appreciate that.
04:33And everyone here thanks you for that.
04:35Thanks, Lucas.
04:36And next is Damon.
04:37Hello, Arlene. I'm Damon.
04:50It is lovely to have you here with us today.
04:53I am non-spanking, so will need a little time to type out my question.
04:58As a non-speaking individual, it often happens that people assume I don't understand the world around me.
05:16They address me as though I am an adorable little kid.
05:31Consequently, I am anxious in new situations.
05:35So, I am wondering, are there aspects of your life in which you feel insecure?
05:46Oh, Damon, such a good question.
05:48Um, I'm really insecure in places where I feel judged by my appearance.
06:00So, I almost didn't go on the TV show, Damon, because I thought people were going to judge me by the way I looked.
06:09And it was a new situation for me.
06:11And I thought they were going to think that I was either too old or too overweight or had too many wrinkles
06:17or I wasn't smart enough or didn't know what I was doing.
06:21And that made me really anxious.
06:23So, I suffer from anxiety attacks and panic attacks often.
06:30And they're scary, right?
06:32They're horrible because you wake up in the middle of the night and you can be really upset.
06:36But I think we need to just remember that you shouldn't care what they think about you.
06:41You should only care about how you feel about yourself.
06:43When I have anxiety attacks, I tend to, I try really hard to do breathing exercises and all the things that they tell you to do when you have anxiety attacks.
06:54So, I do all that stuff.
06:55I hope maybe that'll help you too because it helps me.
06:58Thanks.
07:18Sorry about your panic attacks.
07:21You are exceptionally lovely and thanks for the advice.
07:25Yeah, anxiety, it's not fun.
07:28It sucks.
07:29But don't let it get to you.
07:31You're, you're great.
07:32Thank you.
07:33Thank you.
07:34Thank you.
07:35Okay, darling.
07:36Okay.
07:37Are you going to give me a hug?
07:39Oh, thank you.
07:40Oh, that's all.
07:41Thank you.
07:42Thank you.
07:43Thank you.
07:50Alex is next.
07:52Sam, we aren't tangled.
07:54There you go.
07:56Hey.
07:57Alex, is that a snail?
07:59Yes, it is.
08:00It is a slug.
08:01I love it.
08:02Yes.
08:03Would you like to, would you like to try it out?
08:05Yeah, let me try it out.
08:06Thank you for sharing it with me.
08:08It's a slug.
08:09There you go.
08:10This is a mini slug.
08:11They do come in larger sizes as well.
08:13I like it.
08:14I like it.
08:15Fantastic.
08:16I'm glad you like it.
08:17Here's my question for you today.
08:19What is your biggest weakness in your career?
08:24My biggest weakness in my career has been probably not believing in myself enough early on.
08:32Yeah.
08:33I think when we're trying to build our lives, it's really easy to defeat yourself before anyone else defeats you, right?
08:41Definitely.
08:42And so to tell yourself you can't do things and to tell yourself you're not good enough.
08:47And so I think my biggest weakness has been not believing in myself early enough to be able to realize I could do more than I thought I could.
08:57That's fantastic.
08:58I started my career out like a slug, I would say.
09:00I was a little slow and I was sliding along.
09:04I needed to grow into something that was a little bit bigger and stronger.
09:07Yeah.
09:08I don't want to take this from you, so thank you for sharing it with me.
09:11That would actually help to have it.
09:14Next is Luke.
09:16Hey, Luke.
09:21Hi, Arlene.
09:24Thank you for being a guest on the assembly.
09:29My question for you is, have you always had a love for people?
09:34As an introvert myself, I find extroverts interesting.
09:39That's such a good question, Luke.
09:49Hello, you make me cry.
09:52Aw.
09:53Aw.
09:54Aw.
09:55Okay.
09:56Go ahead.
09:57Thank you.
09:58So I'm an introvert too, Luke.
10:00And people think I'm an extrovert because I'm on TV and I'm like, I'm out there as a public
10:05personality, but I think, I think introverts are just people who feel things inside, but
10:17they still, it doesn't mean that they don't like people, right?
10:20Just because you're an introvert doesn't mean you don't like people.
10:23And I love people, but I like having just a few people around me at a time.
10:28The reason I'm crying is my parents taught me to love people.
10:32But I am very much an introvert, very insecure introvert.
10:37So it's interesting how we can see people on the outside and we can judge them for what
10:44we see and we think they're a certain way, but we never know what people are feeling on
10:48the inside.
10:49Right?
10:50Right.
10:51It's a really great question, Luke, and thank you for recording it.
10:55All that, all that work on my makeup, gone.
11:02It's okay.
11:03It's natural to, natural to feeling.
11:05Thank you.
11:06Yeah, it's natural.
11:07Natural to show emotion.
11:08Thank you.
11:09Yeah.
11:10It's natural to show emotion.
11:11The kindness that makes you beautiful, actually.
11:12Not, uh, not really the makeup.
11:13Aww.
11:14Yeah, it's okay to be emotional.
11:15It's all right.
11:16Everyone has those moments.
11:17It's okay.
11:18Yeah.
11:19Next is Conrad.
11:25Hello, Arlene.
11:26Hey, Conrad.
11:27Thanks for coming here.
11:30Since nothing is off the table, what led you to have an affair?
11:36Oh!
11:37Oh!
11:38Oh!
11:39Oh!
11:40Oh!
11:41Oh!
11:42Oh!
11:43Oh!
11:44Oh!
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11:55Oh!
11:56Oh!
11:57Oh!
11:59Oh!
12:00Oh!
12:01Oh!
12:02Oh!
12:03Oh?
12:04timing.
12:05Woooh!
12:06Oh!
12:07I mean, okay, well.
12:08Oh!
12:09Oh!
12:10Well, what led you in having an affair?
12:11Oh!
12:12Oh!
12:13Oh!
12:14Oh!
12:14Oh!
12:16Oh, I mean...
12:16Oh...
12:17Oh!
12:18Oh!
12:19Oh!
12:20Oh!
12:20Oh!
12:21Oh!
12:22We got married when I was 19 years old, and I didn't, I don't know, like I just wasn't thinking very well.
12:29I was young, and I was in a hurry to get married, and I was in a hurry to fall in love, and I was really unhappy in my marriage.
12:39And I wasn't very mature, and I was looking for love in all the wrong places.
12:46That's what led me to Haman, right?
12:49Uh-oh.
12:50Yeah, yeah, yeah.
12:51I was very young, and I was just the first person that showed me some love, I thought loved me, and it was exactly the wrong thing to do.
12:59So, I'm not very proud of that moment, but that's why I did it.
13:04We appreciate it. Thank you for sharing.
13:06Yeah, yeah, you're welcome.
13:08Next is Dylan.
13:13Hello, Arlene.
13:14My question for you is, you wake up, and everyone thinks you are Kevin O'Leary.
13:22What would you do?
13:28What would you do?
13:29Would you freak out?
13:30Or lean in?
13:31What would you do?
13:32He is so different than I am.
13:35We couldn't be more opposite of each other.
13:38Like, well, first of all, I have hair.
13:41Is that a little burn?
13:50And second of all, I like to make people happy, not tell them that they can't do something.
13:57I would be doing everything I could to tell them that I was a nice version of Kevin O'Leary.
14:02Kevin O'Leary 2.0.
14:07I like that.
14:08Yeah, yeah.
14:10Thanks, Dylan.
14:12Bobby, you're up.
14:13Oh, okay.
14:20Hey, Bobby.
14:22Is there a childhood experience that still haunts you today, and how does it affect your life now?
14:30I don't know.
14:32Yes, when my parents got divorced when I was 13 years old, because I came from a very poor upbringing,
14:43and that was a really difficult time for me.
14:47I had to learn to take care of myself, and that I couldn't rely on anyone else to take care of me.
14:53And so that was very hard.
14:55Sorry to hear that.
14:56Yeah, thank you.
14:57That still drives me today, where I feel like everything I have could be taken away from me tomorrow,
15:04and so I'm still very driven to do as best as I can and take care of myself and my family.
15:12And it still drives me every day.
15:15Yeah.
15:17Thanks, Bobby.
15:18Nicole, you're next.
15:29I've had some seizures before, so I'm using a walker like that.
15:33Okay.
15:33So due to my autism, I was ostracized as a student.
15:42My question for you is, what was your social life like in school?
15:48Well, I'm sad to hear you were ostracized because of your autism.
15:56That's just wrong.
15:59I was younger in school, so I was a smart kid.
16:05So I was two years younger than everybody else in my class.
16:09And so when I graduated high school, I was 16 years old,
16:12and everybody else would have been almost 18 years old.
16:15And I didn't fit in.
16:17I didn't fit in with the older kids, and I didn't fit in with the younger kids,
16:21because the younger kids were behind me in school,
16:23and the older kids thought I was just a kid.
16:25You know, they didn't want to hang with me.
16:27And I wasn't one of the cool kids.
16:29Like, I was not a cool kid at all.
16:31I was, like, really nerdy, and I just didn't.
16:33I wasn't cool.
16:34I still am not a cool kid.
16:36Like, you know what?
16:37I think it's okay.
16:38All the kids in school that were, like, the cool kids,
16:42if you meet them today, they're not as cool today.
16:44So you just realize that that's their moment in time.
16:47They peak early.
16:48That's what I say.
16:49They peak early.
16:51But I think kids can be super mean.
16:56And I...
16:57Yeah, I've seen that.
16:58Yeah.
16:58I'm experienced.
16:59That's been my experience, yes.
17:01Yeah.
17:01We were all surrounded by assholes when we were kids.
17:04Exactly, yeah.
17:05Yeah.
17:06Yeah.
17:08That was a great question.
17:10Thank you.
17:11Thank you.
17:13Sophie, you're next.
17:17Okay, so my question is, bring up your podcast with the title,
17:26Arlene is Alone.
17:28What's it like being alone at your age?
17:30Oh.
17:31Wow.
17:33Well.
17:34What's going on today?
17:35Nice to meet you.
17:36Hello.
17:37I actually really like being alone because I get to do whatever I want
17:41whenever I want to do it.
17:44And I actually, I'm never really alone.
17:47If you've watched the podcast, I always have people on the show.
17:51But being alone is nothing to be afraid of.
17:54Being alone can be scary when it first happens to you,
17:58but you can, again, you can be strong.
18:01And just because I'm not with somebody, like, romantically
18:04doesn't mean I don't have friends.
18:06I have lots of friends.
18:07Yeah.
18:08Yeah.
18:08Yeah.
18:09Thanks, Sophie.
18:11Luca, you are next.
18:13Hello, Arlene Dickinson.
18:15I am here to ask you a question.
18:17This one's going to kind of cut a little deep.
18:19And so I heard you got divorced.
18:25And I wonder, like, how did you feel when that divorce happened
18:31when you lost custody of children?
18:33Wow.
18:36Like, you guys go right to the heart.
18:38How I felt at the time, it was devastating.
18:45It was awful.
18:46It was really, really hard.
18:48And so going through a divorce when you have little kids was not easy.
18:53And I felt like a failure.
18:56What kind of failure?
18:57Did you feel like you were on, did you feel like you were falling off a waterfall?
19:02I think I felt like I was hitting a wall, like I was driving into a wall,
19:10because I felt like it stopped me.
19:12And so I'd say it was more like that.
19:15You know, my ex-husband is no longer alive.
19:18So what I would say is you have to forgive.
19:22I had to forgive him, and I hope he forgave me,
19:26because if you carry hate in your heart, it just makes you unhappy.
19:31And what do they say?
19:33You don't want somebody living rent-free in your head.
19:35Understood.
19:38Wow.
19:38Thank you.
19:47Hey.
19:49Yeah, gentlemen.
19:51Yeah.
19:51You're good.
19:52Oh, man.
19:57Whoa.
19:58Whoa.
19:58That was fun.
20:07Okay.
20:09That was good.
20:10Thank you.
20:12That was fun.
20:13Great.
20:14Okay.
20:14Everybody is back.
20:16Kevin, you are next.
20:19Hello, Arlene.
20:20Welcome and congrats on 20 seasons of Dragon's Den.
20:23Thank you.
20:23I'd like to congratulate.
20:24Thank you.
20:25So my question is, when you got your first divorce, you were kicked out of the Mormon church.
20:29How did that feel?
20:30How do you feel about the church now?
20:34Whoa.
20:34Yeah.
20:37I did get kicked out of the church, and at the time, it felt like it was devastating.
20:43But, you know, to me, religion is only good if it teaches you how to be a better human, not if it teaches you to divide and to think that other people aren't good enough.
20:56And the church actually gave me a lot of good foundational teachings that I take with me still today.
21:03So I don't hold it against the church that they excommunicated me.
21:08In some ways, they set me free to be who I am.
21:14Yeah.
21:15Like, when another door closes, another door opens.
21:17That's the case, right?
21:18Yes.
21:18Exactly.
21:18Similar to that.
21:19Yeah.
21:19Just because they didn't want me doesn't mean somebody else didn't.
21:21Yeah.
21:23Yeah.
21:23As long as you feel happy now, it doesn't, yeah.
21:25Exactly.
21:26It's great.
21:26Yeah.
21:27And I do feel happy now.
21:28Yeah.
21:29Excellent.
21:30Thank you, Kevin.
21:31Thanks, Kevin.
21:31Okay.
21:32Next is Juliana.
21:33Juliana.
21:33When writing your book, Persuasion, what was the biggest thing that it forced you to admit
21:45to yourself that you hadn't said out loud before?
21:50Oh, yeah.
21:50That first book was really hard because when you write a book, you have to really be prepared
21:57to say things that you haven't said to everybody before so that you can be really honest and
22:02transparent.
22:03And so for me, it was admitting all of the things that I doubted about myself.
22:10It was very difficult to admit out loud, you know, things that I wasn't sure about and
22:16hadn't done right.
22:18In particular, you know, like the divorce I'd gone through and having to raise my four children
22:24and all of these very personal things that I now was sharing with complete strangers because
22:29they were going to read a book about it.
22:31But when you share things that are really personal and hard for you to share, it actually makes
22:38you stronger, not weaker, right?
22:40Being vulnerable actually makes you a stronger human.
22:44Thank you.
22:45Thank you, Juliana.
22:48Devin is next.
22:50Hey, Devin.
22:51My question for you is, I worry about Professor, what's starting?
23:09Can I help you a little bit?
23:11How do I feel about the future?
23:17How do I feel about the future?
23:23Yeah, I'm worried about the future because I think people are kind of gone a little bit
23:30out there right now and the world can be feeling a little bit like it's spinning too fast,
23:37if that makes sense.
23:38You know, do you ever get the sense that things are going too fast?
23:40Yeah.
23:41Things aren't in control, right?
23:43Yeah.
23:43I feel that way about the world right now, but I think the future is going to be better.
23:48I think people are going to hopefully figure out how to hold hands and get along, and I
23:53really want to believe that people are going to sort it out.
23:58I hope that technology doesn't replace this.
24:01What I love about this is it's people talking to people.
24:04What I hate about technology is that we're looking at our phones, we're looking at our computers,
24:09and we're not talking to each other anymore, so I really like, I hope the future is more
24:14human interaction.
24:17Great.
24:18Thank you, Devin.
24:21Thanks, Devin.
24:22Thank you.
24:23Julia is next.
24:25Hey, Arlene.
24:26Hey, Julia.
24:27First of all, I know that when someone else tells you this, it doesn't mean anything all
24:31the time, but I think you're gorgeous.
24:34Aw, thank you.
24:35Aw, thank you.
24:37I'm sorry that you feel that way about yourself, but I get that way, too.
24:40Yeah, yeah.
24:42Who in your life do you think sees you as you see yourself?
24:46Oh.
24:47Oh.
24:49Wow.
24:52I don't think anybody sees us as we see ourselves.
24:55I actually think we, how we think we are is generally not how other people see us.
25:01How we think we're showing up might not be how other people are receiving us because of where
25:06they're at in their lives.
25:09I don't even think my kids see me for as I am.
25:12I don't think anybody does.
25:13I think I see myself for who I think I am, but I'm not sure how I show up always.
25:18So it's interesting, but thank you for saying what you said at the beginning.
25:22That means a lot.
25:24It's true.
25:25You're beautiful, too.
25:26Thank you.
25:27Yeah.
25:30Thank you for coming here.
25:31All right, everybody.
25:34Nicole is going to close the show for us.
25:47So how was this experience for you?
25:52It was probably the best TV experience I've ever had.
25:56And I've had lots of TV experience.
26:00So it was amazing.
26:01Was it hard or easy?
26:04It was harder than I thought because you asked really good, personal, tough questions.
26:11And it was easier than I thought because you're all so kind and easy to get along with.
26:16Did you learn anything?
26:19Yeah.
26:19I learned that we can be really quick to judge.
26:22We can be too fast to assume that people can't do things because of either their physical appearance
26:30or their challenges like we all have.
26:33And I've learned to, again, remember to be understanding and patient and to help other people succeed is really what I care about.
26:42So I've learned a lot.
26:44Yeah.
26:45Thank you for joining us.
26:48Thank you so much.
26:49Thank you, everybody.
26:49Nice to meet you, nice to meet you, nice to meet you, nice to meet you, nice to meet you.
27:05Something I don't know, what did I say?
27:08Okay, everyone, everyone, come on in.
27:10Okay, I'll go.
27:11Okay, I'll go.
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