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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03What do you think, like...
00:05Working here is not possible at all, no?
00:08The cafe has to be successful,
00:11because if we're not, we'll be living with the parents forever.
00:18So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:20Probably this week.
00:21You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
00:23She's already like, right, about my finances.
00:26I'm like, the f***?
00:28This is exactly what I was worried about.
00:31Obviously, you talked to your mom about the spending habits.
00:34Yes, I had opened up to my mom, and I had told her.
00:37But Tia does have a spending problem.
00:39If she wants to come here and have the champagne lifestyle,
00:42unfortunately, that's not going to work.
00:47Let's show you the other bedroom.
00:49I think it'll make an excellent kids' bedroom.
00:50Two little twin beds here.
00:52Twins is on the agenda, then.
00:54I've become really unsure if I want kids,
00:56but I haven't told him yet.
00:59I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
01:05I have f***ed up.
01:07I want to be with you.
01:09It's hard for me to believe you, really.
01:12I can't stop thinking about he touching a f***.
01:15Stripper.
01:16I can't give you a chance,
01:18but there's no chance to come back together.
01:21It's just one time.
01:23This is broken.
01:25I don't think he's going to change my mind.
01:27I don't think he's going to change my mind.
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04:28¡Familie cafe!
04:30Cuando me first showed el lugar a mi familia,
04:33todos se sientes tan contento.
04:35Pero quiero mostrarles que el lugar es tan bueno
04:37que vamos a tener un buen cliente aquí.
04:39Ahora, creo que debemos empezar a limpiar el lugar.
04:42Tenemos mucho que hacer.
04:44Muchos de gente estarán llegando aquí.
04:46¡I'm tan nervioso!
04:48¡Ah, estoy nervioso, too!
04:50Los que vienen mañana para la ceremonia de la ceremonia,
04:54son los primeros que van a probar el comida.
04:56So we really need to make sure that everything is perfect.
04:59Is this preparation for the bread rolls?
05:02Yes.
05:12Don't drink anything, Jenny.
05:14We need to make a very good impression,
05:16otherwise they're not going to come back.
05:26¡Yay!
05:34Looks so good.
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08:06estamos ángel
08:08ah
08:15ah
08:18webdes is super comfortable
08:21TI es
08:22foto
08:25es tan bajito
08:26no es demasiado
08:27esta
08:27esta
08:29se
08:31sois
08:33no
08:34no
08:36Do you like that one versus that one?
08:38This one's a bit more comfortable, yeah.
08:40Thank you.
08:42Oh, here it is.
08:43That's what I like.
08:44You really like that one.
08:45It looks like a movie theater thing.
08:46It does.
08:48When I'm shopping for furniture, I look for quality,
08:51I look for comfort, and I look for durability.
08:54And if it fits that category, it's perfect.
08:57You do need to look at the price tag also.
08:59That does come into it, my love.
09:03You can't just ignore it.
09:04You have to at least just graze your eyes across it.
09:07It can't help it if I have expensive taste.
09:10So this is like $2,699, and this one is $2,099.
09:18What do you think?
09:20I'd say $1,000 is cheap for a couch.
09:23Wouldn't it be better to get something more cost-effective,
09:25and then we can put the rest of the money towards your debt?
09:29We did have the conversation about budgeting
09:31and slowing down the spending.
09:33Oh, my gosh.
09:35We're furniture shopping.
09:36You have to really talk about this now.
09:38I know, love, but it's important.
09:40You still have this debt looming over you
09:43and this credit card interest that's accumulating every month.
09:46Patia's relationship with money is reckless.
09:52She would have these big spending sprees in Vegas
09:55where she'd drop $5,000 to $10,000.
09:58She'd walk into these clothing stores
10:00and the shop assistants would just absolutely love her,
10:03throwing clothes at her.
10:05She'd buy one of every colour.
10:06If she's got money, she's going to spend it.
10:08All of it.
10:10And once we get married,
10:11our finances are going to be intertwined,
10:14so it's a big issue.
10:17I want you to be 100% honest with me.
10:20How much debt?
10:25What's the actual number?
10:2720.
10:2920.
10:31So, like, how many credit cards in total have you maxed out?
10:35Five.
10:37All of them.
10:38Why is there five credit cards maxed out?
10:42How does that happen?
10:44I had no debt when we went to Thailand,
10:47and then when I came back,
10:48I accumulated the debt again
10:50because I had to start all over.
10:53Okay.
10:54This is your fault.
10:55I had no debt when I moved to Thailand with you.
10:59When I met Dylan, I was in a lot of debt,
11:02but I worked really hard myself
11:04and was able to pay it off.
11:06But then we moved to Thailand,
11:08and we broke up 11 months later.
11:10I had to move back to the United States
11:12and start from scratch.
11:15I hadn't been working in Thailand.
11:16I had zero savings.
11:18I felt like I was at the lowest of my lowest.
11:21So I have a lot of resentment
11:24regarding my financial situation
11:26because I sacrificed a lot for Dylan.
11:30I understand that some of it was possibly my fault,
11:33but that was four years ago,
11:36and you've been dancing
11:37for the last four years,
11:38making pretty good money.
11:40It just seems like the same problem just keeps occurring.
11:47Are your spending habits going to change?
11:49Yes, I'm not the same.
11:51I've learned from my mistakes.
11:53That's why I'm asking you to sell that house
11:57to help me with this debt.
12:02I'm scared that if I do sell one of my properties
12:05that there's going to be something else
12:08and something else and something else.
12:09I own a couple of properties in Launceston
12:14and they generate some income.
12:16But I don't think selling one of those properties
12:18to pay off her debt is the right financial choice
12:21because it just feels like she's not taking
12:23any accountability for her spending habits.
12:27And it's rubbish that she's in debt
12:28just because she moved to Thailand.
12:30She's been spending this way her whole life.
12:33When I first met Patia,
12:35I thought she was rich or something.
12:37I thought, you know, she's a stripper.
12:39She's got heaps of money.
12:41But then I found out she was 60K in debt.
12:44So this is a pattern.
12:46And I mean, I love Patia
12:48and I want to be with her.
12:50But I don't want to have to be always
12:52cleaning up her mess.
12:55You keep asking me for a ring.
12:58The main reason you haven't got that ring
13:00and I haven't proposed yet
13:01is because of the spending issues that you've had.
13:05My fear is that this spending thing
13:06is never going to stop.
13:11I'm hoping there's going to be lots and lots
13:14of little babies and children.
13:16I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family,
13:19but it all just kind of came out.
13:22I've been having, like, a lot of anxiety
13:24about having children lately.
13:30Me and Madeleine got into it a couple times.
13:33She called off the wedding.
13:36You're completely just manipulated
13:38and controlled all the time.
13:41Wake the up.
13:42You don't have to go through with this.
13:49I think we're going now.
14:16Since I've arrived in England,
14:24things have been up and down.
14:27It feels like Matthew and I
14:29are on different pages about everything.
14:32Like money and where we're going to live
14:34and the future, it's been a bumpy start.
14:39What type of tea is this?
14:40English breakfast.
14:41Okay.
14:42I mean, I don't know why I asked that.
14:43That was like...
14:44The only tea that we have.
14:45Right.
14:47Matthew is working today.
14:50So Matthew's mother has invited me to tea
14:53with her, Matthew's grandma
14:55and also Matthew's brother's fiancé.
15:01All right, so these are the normal...
15:03I don't think we're meant to say normal, aren't we?
15:04Oh, it's okay.
15:06I'm used to it.
15:07So these are the vegan ones?
15:08These are the vegan ones.
15:08We're not saying you're abnormal.
15:11It's okay.
15:12I realise I probably am.
15:13So this is the vegan plate here?
15:14That's the vegan.
15:15Oh, my goodness.
15:16Wow.
15:16Matthew and I did English afternoon tea once before.
15:20I just loved it.
15:22I felt very posh, as English would say it.
15:26You drink tea together
15:28and you normally have a tray
15:29of little sandwiches and pastries
15:32set in the middle of the table,
15:34which is why in those old English TV shows
15:37when people are trying to speak to each other
15:39and they have to, like, look over
15:40the little rack of food.
15:43This is vegan cheese.
15:45Yeah, vegan cheese.
15:46I think I'm going to have a fat.
15:49Sorry, Greta.
15:50Are you all right with me eating this?
15:52Yeah.
15:52I figured no worries.
15:54Greta, I just want you to know
15:56how welcome you are in our family
15:57and how much it means to have you with us.
15:59If you stay in our house
16:01for three weeks or three months
16:02or even perhaps not quite three weeks,
16:04like that.
16:05Three years would be far too long.
16:07Especially in such a small house.
16:09Yeah, but you know you are most welcome
16:12and I just want you to know that.
16:14Thank you so much.
16:14Thank you.
16:16I've said to Matthew,
16:17I think you're his soulmate.
16:19Aww.
16:20You were pulled together from across the world.
16:22It was meant to happen, wasn't it?
16:24It was fate.
16:25Sorry.
16:26That's, like, so sweet.
16:27That's so sweet.
16:28Yeah, I mean, it really means the world
16:32to be so accepted in this family.
16:34Yeah.
16:35I, like, don't know what that's like, really.
16:37We have, last two years,
16:39we've had some wonderful Christmases,
16:41haven't we, together?
16:42Yeah, yeah, they really have.
16:43And I know you said that that's not what you have done
16:46in the past with your family.
16:47Yeah, and, like, holidays are especially really challenging
16:51because I, my mother and my sister and I,
16:55we made homemade ornaments for the tree.
16:59And the first time we were decorating the tree
17:03after she had passed,
17:04my father was in a new relationship
17:06and I was, like, so excited to hang up
17:08the ornaments on the tree.
17:09And this, this person that my father was in a relationship
17:16basically said, like, the ornaments were really ugly
17:19and that she didn't want them to come on the tree.
17:22Yeah, and so, like, one of my first memories
17:26was, like, me, like, trying to hide
17:28some of the ornaments in the tree.
17:31And so, like, we can still hang up.
17:32Oh, you shouldn't have to hide.
17:33Have you still got them?
17:35No, because she, she, she threw them out.
17:38Oh, my God.
17:39That's awful.
17:40That's dreadful.
17:43Oh, Greta, I want to hug you.
17:45I'm sorry, I've got to hug you.
17:46Let me forgive you.
17:47I can't bear that.
17:49I tell you what, we've got lots of family traditions
17:52and we will have some Christmas family traditions
17:55and you can be part of those traditions.
17:58And your babies.
18:00We'll hang ornaments.
18:02We'll make them.
18:03In fact, we've got lots of Christmas ornaments
18:05and we will buy some new ones.
18:07You buy new ones, don't you?
18:07And you can make some ornaments.
18:09We will start.
18:10You'll be able to do that with your children.
18:12Yes, you will.
18:14I'm hoping there's going to be lots and lots
18:17of little babies and children.
18:19I've been manifesting twins since I was, like, 16 years old.
18:21Oh, my God.
18:22Excellent.
18:23Yeah, I mean, I think, like, when we first met,
18:27we both wanted children, like, a lot.
18:30But I've been having, like, a lot of anxiety
18:34about having children lately.
18:38And I can't tell if it's, like, a phase or not.
18:41Like, if I'll want them more later, like, if we have a house together
18:47and I can, like, feel it more.
18:54I mean, I know he wants children and I think he should have children.
18:57Like, I, like, I think he's the type of person who would be a really amazing dad.
19:05And I don't want to take that from him.
19:08It's hard as well because your upbringing in your childhood
19:13and not having your mother to see as a role model...
19:17Such a young age.
19:18..that means being a mother yourself must be quite a big thing.
19:22Yeah.
19:23I loved having babies myself.
19:26And I've always looked forward to the day
19:28when perhaps they would go on and have children of their own.
19:31So I would be disappointed if I didn't have any grandchildren.
19:34But it's quite a big decision whether you're going to have children or not.
19:40It is the sort of thing that could break up a relationship
19:43if one desperately wants children and one doesn't.
19:47Relationships, if they last the long haul, they don't go easy.
19:51There's tricky times and you have to get through them together.
19:56I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family,
19:59but it all just kind of came out.
20:02And I didn't want to ruin this perfect image they had of the future.
20:07But they're so excited for me to be here
20:09and they love me so much and they've been so accepting.
20:12I don't want to get their hopes up
20:15about something that may never happen.
20:22Matthew, he loves you dearly and he wants the best for you.
20:26So you'll have to navigate that decision together
20:28and hopefully, you know, reach a compromise.
20:34The last time Matthew and I talked about kids
20:37was almost six months ago.
20:39And Matthew and I talked about it
20:42and agreed that we would want kids together.
20:44But when I've really started to picture it recently,
20:47like house, marriage, kids,
20:50I feel really conflicted.
20:55I feel nervous that I'm going to now have to
20:58bring this news to Matthew
20:59because it could really determine
21:01the course of our relationship.
21:02I accumulated this debt because of you.
21:13Every time there's a problem,
21:14it's like it's my fault.
21:17It's almost like he wants to see me suffer
21:18through the debt.
21:20Like, let's watch you squirm.
21:22He needs to move past this
21:23because if he doesn't propose, I'm done.
21:26What's up, man?
21:51How you doing?
21:52Good.
21:52Starting without me?
21:53Let me grab a beer.
21:57I'll be right back.
21:59Brian is one of my closest friends.
22:01We met in Colombia.
22:03He was married to one of Madeline's friends.
22:05But Madeline and Brian
22:08hate each other.
22:11Madeline started a rumor
22:13that I was unfaithful to my ex-wife
22:16just to get back.
22:19Me telling Luke what happens
22:21when he's not there.
22:22It's Madeline's world
22:23and we're just living in it.
22:24Like, she says jump
22:25and Luke says how high.
22:27She says bark
22:28and Luke barks.
22:31Here you go, man.
22:33Thank you.
22:33Cheers.
22:34Salud.
22:35Madeline does not want me to see Brian.
22:37But to be honest,
22:39I think that we should be able to talk
22:41and I could use it just about now.
22:44How you been, man?
22:45Good.
22:47How's it going?
22:48So you've been here
22:49for a couple days now, right?
22:49Yeah, it's been dramatic, man.
22:51Me and Madeline got into it
22:53a couple times.
22:54She called off the wedding.
22:57I mean, it's been stressful, man.
22:59You know, but trying to work through it.
23:02Yeah.
23:03It sounds real healthy, Luke.
23:04It sounds like you're really making progress.
23:05Yeah, I mean, I...
23:07You have a point, dude.
23:09I feel like you have, like,
23:10Stockholm Syndrome.
23:12You know?
23:13What's that?
23:14When someone, like,
23:15kidnaps somebody
23:16and takes them hostage,
23:17then the hostage
23:18starts to fall in love
23:19with the captive.
23:23We've been through a lot, you know?
23:24I mean, maybe there's a little bit
23:26of a trauma bond there.
23:27Like, I've kind of been
23:28at, like, my lowest low in life,
23:32you know?
23:32Like, financially unstable.
23:34Yeah, but you've been saying this
23:35since the moment you met her.
23:37So you're...
23:38Everything you're telling me,
23:39nothing's changed.
23:40It's bad, bro.
23:42And you're completely just
23:43manipulated and controlled
23:45all the time.
23:48What is it about her?
23:50Like, why do you want
23:51to be with her?
23:52Sell her to me, please.
23:55Really, like, me seeing you
23:56and your life,
23:58I wanted to move here.
24:00I wanted to be
24:00in a different country
24:01as an entrepreneur
24:03living the life.
24:05I just wanted to live the dream
24:06and not have to work
24:07how I did in the United States.
24:08Sell me her.
24:09Not the dream.
24:09Sell me her.
24:14I think, ultimately,
24:15I'm a little bit scared
24:16of being alone.
24:18And she has been there.
24:20Is she there for you?
24:21Because last time I talked,
24:22you're like, oh,
24:23sometimes she ignores me for days.
24:25That's someone that's there for you?
24:27I'm telling you to sell me her.
24:29You haven't said
24:30one nice thing about her.
24:32And you're getting married.
24:33Like, what about this
24:35sounds like a good idea?
24:38You don't have to go through with this.
24:42Did I want to be going
24:43through this stuff,
24:44like, weeks before my marriage?
24:46No.
24:47You know, am I happy right now?
24:50No, I feel like I'm walking
24:52on eggshells.
24:54But the way she makes me feel
24:56when I'm with her
24:57makes me forget
24:59a lot of the stress,
25:01a lot of the things
25:02that I'm going through.
25:04I see my future,
25:06and I want to be happy.
25:07I want to be happy with her.
25:09I just, I want it so bad.
25:12It's just, I felt like
25:13I haven't been myself
25:14in a really long time.
25:15because really, like,
25:17I can't hit home
25:19on the financial stress
25:20that I'm going through.
25:22So where is the root
25:25of your financial problems?
25:29How much money
25:30did you spend on matters
25:31in a year?
25:33A lot.
25:34Any woman will love you
25:39if you send
25:40your whole paycheck to them.
25:42That doesn't mean
25:43it's true love.
25:44A real woman,
25:46knowing that you're
25:46in financial ruin,
25:48won't push the limits
25:49of what you can
25:50or cannot give her.
25:51It's hard to be your friend
25:53when you keep making
25:55the same mistakes
25:56with the same girl.
25:59Wake the f*** up.
26:00Brian is saying
26:04some pretty nasty s***,
26:06but there's
26:07some truth in that.
26:09I've boughten her cars,
26:10I've boughten her
26:11beauty studio,
26:13I pay her rent,
26:14I pay her food,
26:15I pay everything.
26:17It's been horrible
26:19since I've moved here.
26:21And it's not how
26:22I want my future to be.
26:24It's not the relationship
26:25that I had envisioned.
26:27I don't know.
26:28I don't know what to do.
26:30You keep asking me
26:37for a ring,
26:38but my fear is
26:39that this spending thing
26:40is never going to stop.
26:49I haven't seen the changes.
26:51I need to see those changes
26:52before we commit
26:53and get married.
26:58It's an addiction
26:59that you have.
27:01It's a chronic addiction.
27:03You know,
27:04it's detrimental, love.
27:05It's got to stop.
27:06And it's serious.
27:09You brought me
27:09to tears with it
27:10because it's like,
27:11when is this woman
27:12going to stop spending?
27:15You know,
27:15there's been many months
27:16where you have not
27:17had the money for rent
27:18and I've had to pay it
27:19for you.
27:19What are you talking about?
27:21That's because you put me
27:22in that place.
27:24You've got a very
27:25deluded view
27:28of what
27:29has and hasn't happened.
27:33I didn't know,
27:34like, deep down
27:35how you really felt
27:36about my spending issue.
27:37In the past,
27:38every time I expressed it,
27:40you'd get really upset
27:41and mad
27:41and just told me
27:42to stay out of your business
27:43and it would just
27:44start a fight
27:45and so I just kind of
27:46gave up.
27:47You're right.
27:50But I accumulated
27:51this debt
27:52because of you.
27:54The debt that you had
27:56when you met me,
27:57whose fault was that?
28:00When I met Dylan,
28:02I just moved to Vegas
28:03and I was in a lot of debt.
28:05As performers,
28:06strippers,
28:07we had to look the part
28:08and it's expensive.
28:10We had to tan,
28:11we had to do the nails,
28:12the hair.
28:13You have to spend
28:14to make it,
28:15but I did not spend
28:16like I used to.
28:18Babe,
28:19I've learned
28:20from my mistakes
28:21but this debt,
28:22I swear,
28:23honestly,
28:23I feel like it's your fault.
28:26You know it's your fault.
28:27Every time there's a problem,
28:28it's like it's my fault.
28:31It just seems
28:31it's just easy
28:32just to blame stuff on me
28:33and then just keep spending.
28:37It makes me mad.
28:39This last debt
28:40was because of him.
28:42If it bothers you,
28:44help me,
28:44help me pay it.
28:46It's almost like
28:46he wants to see me
28:47suffer through the debt.
28:49Like,
28:49let's watch you squirm
28:50and see what you can do,
28:52you know?
28:54I'm not that same girl anymore.
28:56I've gotten better.
28:58Now that we're together,
28:59it's going to be your money
29:01and I'm not going
29:01to be doing that.
29:02I don't know
29:04what more I can do
29:05or say
29:06to say,
29:06look,
29:07I'm not that high-maintenance girl
29:08like I was
29:09back in the day.
29:10He needs to move past this
29:12because if he doesn't propose,
29:13I'm done.
29:15I'm moving on.
29:15He spread some holy water
29:28which was mixed
29:28with a cow urine.
29:30I don't know.
30:00That was so bad.
30:24Last night,
30:26that really set us back.
30:27We were up late
30:28preparing once again
30:30and now we all
30:31are tired, cranky
30:32and, you know,
30:33it's not a great way
30:34to start our first day.
30:36This blessing ceremony
30:37is a big thing
30:38for all the businesses
30:39in the market.
30:40A lot of people
30:41are coming
30:42and we're going
30:42to hand out
30:43a sample of our food
30:44in order to advertise
30:45our cafe.
30:46But, like,
30:47it's not going to be easy
30:48because we all are tired.
30:51Okay,
30:52here we are.
30:54We have the water jar
30:57if you guys need water.
30:59Yeah.
30:59We have water over here.
31:01Yeah, big jar.
31:03Sunda Khan ceremony
31:04is an important time
31:06when we ask
31:07for the blessings
31:07from all the gods
31:08and goddesses.
31:09This particular ceremony
31:11become extra special
31:13because it's
31:13on an auspicious day
31:15where the planets
31:16and stars are aligned,
31:17which helps us
31:18to get more blessings
31:19from the god.
31:20I feel like
31:30I need to take
31:30a coffee-making class.
31:32I'm here.
31:33I'll teach you.
31:34That's not an issue.
31:35Okay, so to make
31:36Americano single cup...
31:38Single sauce.
31:39Shots.
31:39This is for double shots.
31:41Double shot.
31:42Press it.
31:42Your espresso is ready.
31:44Then put the water here
31:45and your Americano is ready.
31:47I was really excited
31:50to get this coffee machine
31:52and now I'm looking at it
31:54like, what the hell?
31:57Temper this and steam that.
31:59I'm in way over my head here.
32:02I'm lost.
32:03Shall I help you?
32:04Yeah.
32:05Yeah.
32:05You have to be really very fast.
32:08Simple.
32:09Okay.
32:09I mean, what the hell
32:10did I get into?
32:12My fingers are crossed.
32:13Everything works out.
32:15We'll see.
32:16I already forget
32:19what to do.
32:34Before the main ceremony begins,
32:36the priests come into
32:37every individual cafe
32:40and bless every shop.
32:41He spread some holy water
32:51which was mixed with
32:52a cow urine.
32:55Cow urine is considered
32:56very religious and pure
32:58in my culture.
32:59Did you say cow urine?
33:01Yeah, you heard it right.
33:03Cow is a horny animal
33:05above anyone,
33:05even like gods,
33:07because cow gives us milk.
33:09She's like a mother to us.
33:11Throwing cow urine around
33:12while you're cooking?
33:14We would never do something
33:15like that in America.
33:17You use holy water,
33:18we use cow urine.
33:19Now our cafe's bliss.
33:35We're just making a buzz
33:58that, yes,
33:59we are here in the market.
34:01So from tomorrow onwards,
34:03please do come in
34:04and enjoy more and more
34:06different varieties
34:07of foods and coffees.
34:14At the end of the day,
34:15I'm very proud
34:16of the work we did.
34:17It's really good.
34:19We served a lot of people,
34:21hundreds of plates
34:22that are out of the kitchen.
34:23It really makes it feel good
34:25that we can do it.
34:26You guys, you know,
34:28all I saw was food
34:30going out the door
34:32and no money coming in.
34:34I know how important this was,
34:35but we made no money.
34:39When they said
34:40we were going to be
34:41handing out samples,
34:42I thought it was going
34:43to be small,
34:45but they're handing out
34:46whole plates of food,
34:48and there's got to be
34:49at least 100 people here.
34:51So at this point,
34:53we might as well
34:54just be throwing money out.
34:56So there's a lot of people,
34:58so I thought
34:58this is our chance.
35:00We are letting people know
35:01that look what we are
35:03having over here,
35:04which you won't find
35:05in the neighborhood.
35:06See, we are new today,
35:07and they are running
35:09business for months now.
35:11So how will people
35:12recognize Family Cafe?
35:13Take it as investment.
35:15Yes, don't worry.
35:16It will be all fine tomorrow.
35:18Are these people delusional?
35:20Am I the only one realizing
35:23we didn't make any money today
35:25on top of all the food
35:28we had to throw away yesterday?
35:30Like, what the hell?
35:32Now I'm worried
35:33it's going to take us longer
35:34to start making any money,
35:36and we might be stuck living
35:38with the family forever.
35:45I've been having
35:47a lot of anxiety lately
35:48because I've been thinking
35:50about something.
36:13I'm sold you.
36:14I don't think I've ever
36:15picked apples before.
36:16Really?
36:17No.
36:19It's great as a third day here,
36:20and things still feel unsettled.
36:25I hear some snorts.
36:26Oh, my God.
36:27Piggy.
36:29Oh.
36:30Oh.
36:31Look at those sweet little angels.
36:34Oh, hi, honey.
36:36I get through years
36:36of just like...
36:37Oh, my God.
36:40Hi.
36:41How are you?
36:42Do you have a name?
36:44It's okay.
36:44If you don't want to come to us,
36:45you don't have to.
36:47We just want to say hello.
36:49I think we should go pick
36:51some apples for them, honey,
36:52so they trust us more.
36:53Yep.
36:53Let's go get some apples.
36:57Do apples grow in Oklahoma?
36:59Um, I'm sure they do,
37:01but it's not really
37:02a thing in Oklahoma.
37:03I'm going to get some
37:06of the apples down here
37:07on this low branch.
37:09Yeah, they look good.
37:10Oh, God.
37:11You know, who'd have thought
37:12that three years after we met
37:14on a vegan dating app,
37:16we would go on this journey together
37:18and share these experiences?
37:21Yeah.
37:21I'm really grateful
37:22that you love animals as well
37:25because I've felt like
37:27I've always struggled
37:28finding a partner
37:29who feels the same way
37:31that I do about animals.
37:32so thank you
37:33for allowing me
37:35to have that space.
37:36I feel exactly the same.
37:38I thought I'd have to go
37:40my whole life
37:40being in relationships
37:42with people
37:42or probably getting married
37:44to someone
37:44that I just accepted
37:46wasn't a vegan
37:47or doesn't love animals
37:49to the same extent as me.
37:51And it surprised me
37:54when I was able to find you.
37:56And maybe what I'm trying to say
37:59is thank you
38:00for being in my life.
38:02No.
38:04Gretel moved to a new country.
38:06She's left her cat behind,
38:08her friends behind
38:09to be with me.
38:11And although it hasn't been perfect,
38:13I just want to reassure her
38:14that she's my person
38:16and I'm looking forward
38:18to a life with her.
38:20That's very sweet.
38:21And I mean,
38:22you helped me be
38:24unapologetically myself,
38:26but
38:26I've been having
38:29a lot of anxiety lately
38:30because
38:31I've been thinking
38:36about something
38:36like really struggling
38:39with it.
38:39and I didn't talk
38:43to you about it
38:44because I wanted
38:44to know
38:45if I was going
38:46through a phase or not.
38:50But
38:51where my head's at now,
38:53I feel so unsure
39:00if I do want kids anymore.
39:02That's a bombshell.
39:13Yeah.
39:15I am like really struggling
39:17because I think
39:18you were meant to be a dad
39:19and I think like
39:21you would be an amazing dad.
39:24I absolutely want kids
39:26and
39:27I want those kids with you
39:29because you are the one
39:32for me.
39:35Do you think
39:36maybe the reason
39:38why
39:39you feel like
39:40you don't want kids
39:41is because
39:42you had a difficult childhood?
39:47No,
39:47I think
39:48my childhood
39:50would actually be
39:51one of the reasons
39:52why I would want kids
39:53because I would be able
39:54to build a family life
39:55that I've always
39:56dreamed of
39:57but never got to experience.
39:59This is a complete shock
40:03to me.
40:05Me and Greta
40:05have spoken together
40:07about kids
40:08dozens
40:09if not hundreds
40:10of times.
40:11We've even named
40:12what all of our kids
40:14would be called.
40:15The hobbies
40:16they would have,
40:17the way we would raise them,
40:18all the way down
40:19to the kinds of schools
40:20we want them to go to.
40:22I don't know
40:23where this has come from.
40:24I was really sure
40:30about having kids
40:31and then
40:31I started to really think
40:33about what having a child
40:34would mean
40:34and what my life
40:35would look like
40:36if I had a kid
40:37and I think having a kid
40:40and a family life
40:42would be a major deterrence
40:43to being the type
40:45of advocate
40:46that I've always
40:47wanted to be.
40:48I don't think
40:53you should see it
40:54purely from your impact.
40:56I think
40:57you should see
40:58how much of an impact
40:59they could have
41:00as well.
41:02Your ability
41:03to raise people
41:05in the image
41:06that you always wanted
41:07to be raised in
41:08as a child
41:08I think it's such
41:11an opportunity for you
41:12and if you don't have
41:14the time
41:15to be a mother
41:15I will be 200%
41:18of the father.
41:31Still to come
41:33on 90 Day Fiancé
41:34The Other Way.
41:37This is the happiest
41:38since we got here.
41:41I have a surprise
41:42for you.
41:48I love you.
41:50I feel like
41:51our life
41:52is really starting here.
41:53It's giving me anxiety.
41:55There's no food
41:56deliveries,
41:57no taxi,
41:58nothing.
42:00We are finally
42:01moving to our
42:02home sweet home.
42:03It's in the
42:03ass of France.
42:05What the f***?
42:06There's nothing here, Ben.
42:10I'm not made for this.
42:13I've got one,
42:14Patia.
42:16Ah!
42:16Dylan's mom
42:17is the reason
42:18why we are not
42:19married today.
42:20I feel like you're
42:21a needy mother,
42:22Jo.
42:22I'm not going to be
42:23classed as needy.
42:25Every f*** day
42:26you have to talk
42:27to your mom.
42:28It's f*** ridiculous.
42:29You better start
42:30picking your battles
42:31because you're just
42:31going to be nagging me
42:32until we're both dead.
42:33At the beginning,
42:40I felt like
42:41he was Mr. Darcy
42:42and I was Elizabeth.
42:43Honey, I'm home.
42:45And that's not
42:46how I'm feeling right now.
42:49The honest truth
42:50is that
42:51I don't think
42:52I'm being very fair
42:53to you all.
42:55What do we do now?
42:56I already told
43:01your parents
43:01we're moving out.
43:02We are depending
43:03on them right now.
43:04We cannot move
43:05out of there.
43:06If you don't want
43:06to go with me,
43:07I guess I'll have
43:08to move out
43:08by myself.
43:11You're going to be
43:11marrying my son,
43:13but it's f*** her.
43:15Is this really
43:17what you want?
43:19La confianza
43:19se había perdido.
43:22I still have
43:23so many doubts.
43:24I even know
43:25if you're going
43:25to marry
43:25with this guy.
43:31These aren't
43:31my f***ing areas.
43:34Oh, God.
43:36I feel like
43:37I was in
43:37a relationship
43:38with a total
43:39different person.
43:41Chloe!
43:42Those are not
43:43f***ing mine!
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