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04:19So it's a good thing pala
04:21Pag sinabihan ka nagbago ka na
04:23Alright, let's move to myth number 2
04:25May exactong timeline o edad
04:27Kung kailan ma-outgrow ang isang tao
04:30O relationship
04:31RSP Barkada, wow o aw
04:33Wow
04:35Wow, aw, aw
04:37Okay
04:39Hindi pa pa sila may nakamove on
04:41Doon sa isang tanong
04:41Hindi pa lang na outgrow
04:44Nagisip sila parang most of them are aw
04:47Okay, coach Mike
04:48Tingnan naman natin ang sagot
04:50Ng ating kawaw na si Red Contreras
04:53Aw po
04:55Para po kasi sa akin
05:00Hindi po ibig sabihin
05:01Dahil po na outgrow mo na po yung isang tao
05:03Wala na po kayong baligan
05:04Since para po sa akin
05:06Sa isang relasyon po
05:07Dapat parehas po kayong mag-grow
05:08Na bilang isang tao
05:09Individually kahit hindi po kayong magkasama
05:11And much better po is
05:13Magkakabaligan po kayo na
05:15Nag-grow po kayo sa sarili nyong paraan po
05:17Alright, coach Mike
05:18May exactong timeline ba yung edad kung kailangan?
05:20Oo, ako ano?
05:21Au
05:22Actually, wala naman talagang exactong timeline
05:24Halimbawa pag 25 ka na
05:26Ma-outgrow mo na yung mga dati mong kinasanayan
05:29Walang ganon
05:30It's really when you get that awareness
05:32Diba?
05:32Ano ba yung mga set of experiences mo
05:35That have led you
05:36To realize na
05:37These things are not working for you anymore
05:39Or this person is no longer in alignment
05:42Hindi yan sa edad
05:44Or sa status ng buhay
05:46Nakadepende na pag yung mama kayo
05:47Outgrow mo na ito isa
05:48But rather it's your personal choices
05:51Ano nga ba yung mahalaga sa space ko?
05:52Ano ba yung priority ko?
05:54And what can work best for me at this point in time?
05:57Okay, sa atin namang RSP Barkada
05:59Anong thoughts nyo dito?
06:00Maraming sa ibang out
06:01Mag-wow ulit ako
06:02Oo, na ulit si
06:03Aw ako
06:04Aw ka
06:05Aw ka
06:05Oo, kasi nga parang hindi mo naman sure like
06:08Ako nga
06:09Akala ko
06:10Akala ko
06:10Wow
06:11Hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi na grow
06:12Wow
06:13Hindi, hindi, hindi na grow
06:14Wow, wow, wow
06:15Wow, wow, wow
06:16Siya, grow ka ninyo
06:17Napawaw siya ninyo
06:18Wow
06:18Laling ha
06:19Laling ha
06:20Alos
06:22Sige, tuloy mo yan
06:24Sige, kasi akala ko parang
06:26Talagang yung simula high school
06:28Makakasama ko pa rin sila hanggang ngayon
06:29Pero hindi pala
06:30Para nga realize na
06:32Hindi na pala talaga lahat
06:34Nung friends mo
06:35Makakasama mo
06:36Kaya ko nag-wow
06:37Kasi feeling ko
06:38Kung nung bag-its ako
06:40Kaya ko mag-outgrow
06:41Ngayon parang
06:41Hindi ko kaya wala sila
06:43Wala namang for me
06:45Unlimited sa friendship
06:47Ayan
06:48Ito naman
06:49Punta tayo sa myth number 3
06:51O mga ko RSP
06:52Kapag na-outgrow na
06:53Ang isang tao
06:54O relationship
06:54Ay wala nang balikan
06:57RSP Barkada
06:58Wow o Au
06:59Au
06:59How
07:00Wala nang balikan
07:03Wala nang balikan
07:03Wala nang balikan
07:04Hindi
07:05Au
07:05Actually ako nalilito rin
07:06Waw
07:07Depende
07:08Alright coach Mike
07:10Sige tingnan natin
07:11Narito naman ang sagot
07:12Ng ating kawaw
07:13Na si Marco
07:14Orense
07:15Um for me po
07:18It's
07:18Au po
07:18Because um
07:22I think
07:22It depends on the
07:24Circumstances po
07:25And um
07:27Yung mga pinagsamahan nyo po
07:28Is
07:29Dun po kayo
07:30Magkakaroon ng
07:31Indifferences po
07:33Between each other po
07:34Alright
07:35Coach Mike
07:36Conditional
07:38Conditional
07:40Conditional wow
07:40Tayo dito
07:41Diane
07:42Kasi
07:42Unless
07:43Diba
07:44Yung isang partido
07:45O yung karelationship mo
07:46Willing to adjust
07:48Or grow with you
07:49Diba
07:50Pwede yun
07:51Pwede magkaroon ng balikan
07:52Pero mag-iba na yung space
07:53Hindi naman kailangan
07:54Na pag romantically
07:55Involve kayo with each other
07:57Pag nagbalikan in the future
07:58Ganun pa rin
07:59Pwede naman mag-transition
08:00Ang isang relationship
08:02However
08:03There are some bridges
08:04Na niniwala din ako
08:05Na once burned
08:06Let it be
08:08Diba
08:08Because if it's no longer
08:10Working for you
08:11Or it's holding you back
08:12Or it's not doing you any good
08:13Then
08:14Accept it for what it is
08:16Na-fulfill na nyo yung purpose
08:17Dun sa buhay mo eh
08:18Then it's more than enough
08:20Okay
08:21Hanggang do na lang
08:22Alright
08:22RSP Barkada
08:23Okay
08:23Sinayin natin si Ron
08:24Ron
08:25Kasi nag-wow si Ron
08:26Bakit?
08:27Ako rin mag-wow rin ako
08:28So potang kita Ron
08:29Wala nang balikan
08:31Bakit wala nang balikan
08:32I think
08:33Everyone
08:34Deserves
08:35A second chance
08:37Okay
08:38Eh do
08:39Aw dapat
08:39Aw dapat
08:40So
08:41So
08:42How's this
08:43Para sa'yo?
08:44Um
08:45Aw and wow
08:46Aw
08:47Aw
08:48Kaya sabi ko
08:52I don't wanna leave my friends
08:53Kasi once na-leave ko sila
08:55Wala nang balikan
08:57Wala nang balikan
08:57Sakado ng pinto
08:59Ay
08:59Agong mo rin ako
09:01Nabagsak
09:02Wala nang balik
09:02Oh my gosh
09:03Oh
09:04Na-relate ko talaga sa book
09:05If we ever meet again
09:07Diba
09:08Kapag
09:08Siguro paano ba yun
09:10Kung may mga ex
09:11Na bigla nagparamdam sa'yo
09:13Kaso na outgrow mo na yung taong yun
09:14Pero may mga
09:15Bits of memories
09:16Na parang shock sa replyan ko
09:18Bababalikan ko ba ito
09:19May mga ganyan
09:20But then it's time for you to reassess your emotions
09:23Na close nga ba yung chapter
09:25Okay
09:25Or meron ka pa nga ba dapat i-resolve
09:27But then again
09:29Don't come back just because it's familiar
09:31Oh
09:31Diba?
09:32Come back because you really feel
09:34That there's some things really there pa
09:36Ayan
09:37Ito na lang siguro last advice
09:39Paano mo ba madaling ma-outgrow ang isang tao
09:42Na alam mo naman hindi nakakabuti sa'yo
09:44Ah
09:44Give yourself time to actually think and reflect
09:47Diba?
09:48Ano nga ba yung value ng present relationship that you have right now?
09:52Long term
09:53Ano ba yung mangyayari or mag-evolve pa?
09:56And lastly
09:57Are you genuinely happy, complete, and fulfilled
10:00When you're sharing spaces with the person?
10:02Oh
10:03Very good points to reflect on
10:04Ay maraming salamat sa ating multi-awarded life coach
10:07Ng buying coach Mike Celis
10:08At sa ating mga ka-RSP barkada
10:11Na sumagot ng au
10:12Wow
10:13Lagi po nating tandaan
10:15Gawing wow ang ating buhay
10:16Pag may au
10:17Huwag baliwalayin
10:18Dalar wellness and well-being
10:19Especially our mental health matter
