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4 YEARS and ZERO DATES?! 😳💞 Steve & Shemar tell her WHY! 🔥
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00:00I am a single mom. I have a full-time career. I work very hard, very responsible, but I get the
00:07typical blonde, big boobs, tattoos. That's how guys kind of see me. And, you know, I have a really huge
00:15personality, like really big. Sometimes it's like, my mom's like, you need a filter, but that's just
00:22how I am. But I guess my main thing is, you know, like I'm seriously almost done with dating. It's
00:28like four years I have not had a date. I have never had a guy pick me up from my house and
00:36take me on a date in my entire life. Ever. What's your address? I mean, it's just simple, but
00:45keep going, keep going. So I guess like my main thing is, is so like, like why is it man can't
00:51get past the exterior? Because I mean, I have a lot to offer. I am funny as hell. I mean,
00:57really, I'm funny.
01:01Shamar, help me out, man.
01:08I will say this. Something's, you know this, Steve, something about this generation, this
01:15time, it ain't like the old days. It ain't like the old days. And it's tricky. It's tricky
01:19because men and women, if we're going to just be honest, men and women are visual. But now
01:24you got social media, you got Instagram, you got Facebook. And there's a, there's a lot
01:28of women that are putting the physical out there first. Now, I don't think you should
01:32be mad that a man likes what he sees, but I think you should also sit back and see if
01:36he'll open up that car door for you. If he'll pull out that chair for you. Chivalry is not
01:40dead. It's just hard to come by.
01:42It's very hard to come by today because there's so much, there's so much instant gratification.
01:49And men, we can be simple. We can, a man will get away with whatever a woman allows him to
01:55get away with.
01:57First of all, listen, listen to me. The, you, no one has ever come to your house and picked
02:09you up. No.
02:10That's your fault. Because you, listen to me, you gotta have some type of requirements and standards.
02:19If you can't come get me and pick me up, you can't have me. You, you can't be convenient.
02:28You cannot be convenient and special at the same time. The reason you're not getting invited
02:36out on dates is because you won't create the persona that you're special. You just won't
02:43appear special enough because you're so busy being funny as hell. So busy being this light
02:50to the world. You ain't gotta be no light. Become mysterious. What is it, man? Let me
02:55get to know her. Come and pick me up. This is all. And the statement you made that that's
02:59just how I am. Now you got to change. You got to change. When I met Marjorie, I was committed
03:08to getting out there wiling out. Marjorie told me I ain't looking for that. Guess what
03:14I did? Adjustment. Cause what I wanted wasn't going to put up with that. Give him the breaks.
03:23Now I'm not, I don't want to be, you know, I'm not, I don't want you to take this the
03:27wrong way, but I got to help you.
03:28Can I, can I say something? I think, I think everything you're saying is correct. So I'm
03:34just going to balance it out for you. I think Steve's saying we're not, we're not signing
03:37up for the funny as hell girl. Okay. What if you happen to be that in doses? That's beautiful.
03:44But then also allow us to show you who we are. Boast about ourselves a little bit. Cause
03:49we want to show you that we're dope. We're the best thing you ever met. Forget him. Forget
03:54him. I'm the one, whatever. By validating us, then he's going to go, Oh, she gets me.
03:59And then all of a sudden you're going to get that dude who's paying attention to other things
04:03other than what you got on the outside. Keyword doses.
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