Love & Marriage: Huntsville follows the lives of three power couples navigating their relationships, businesses, and friendships in Huntsville, Alabama. This episode continues to explore the intricate dynamics and challenges faced by the cast as they strive for success and happiness. Viewers can expect drama, heartfelt moments, and the ongoing saga of love and marriage in the vibrant community.
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00:00Previously on Love & Huntsville...
00:30Okay, that's what I'm saying. I need you to be transparent.
00:32I am transparent. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:34Flex has been going around saying
00:36Maurice and Marceau told Martell to get chicks to sign NDA.
00:40No, hold on, hold on. I'm not sure he said this.
00:42Martell said, you know, some guy said,
00:45to get a girl to sign the NDA, you don't have to worry about that type stuff.
00:48And I said, you talking lawyer talk, maybe you need to talk to Maurice or Marceau.
00:52Chris, you're welcome.
00:54We're welcome, brother.
00:56Put your leaf with courage hands over there.
00:59Hey, hey, teach, teach, teach.
01:01We're supposed to be going somewhere with this French suit.
01:03This one, this one, this one.
01:29We're deci in the Tilly word.
01:30Yeah, all day, all night.
01:32Yeah, a real f*** stop and do that.
02:09Hey, hey. Hey. What's up, mama? How you doing?
02:12Hey, what are you doing in here?
02:14Waiting on you.
02:15Boy, you need to clean up out there.
02:17Your flowers and stuff.
02:19I know you probably ain't got me no snacks.
02:21You probably ain't got no wine.
02:23You probably ain't got nothing up in here, do you?
02:25Nah, you know, I don't really have time these days.
02:27The last time I came to see you, you ain't had nothing.
02:29What is this you got out here?
02:31My excedrin.
02:32What you going through?
02:33I ain't going through nothing.
02:34Look here.
02:35Headache every now and again.
02:36I can't be over here.
02:37Look at you. Won't buy a number.
02:39I always grab it.
02:41I ain't always grab it.
02:42I just want to see them helping you out.
02:45So I'm visiting Lance today just to check in on him
02:49to see how he's doing mentally and physically,
02:53being that he's this single dad
02:55and he's juggling a lot right now.
02:58So how are you doing?
03:00It's been an adjustment period, right?
03:04Although I have three kids, I'm not used to being,
03:08it's like everything is on me.
03:11My mom has been a big help and of course my dad has too.
03:13Early on, when the baby was born, I was staying with them.
03:17So I decided to go back home and things have been good.
03:20But of course, mom being mom,
03:22she's a little concerned about my well-being.
03:24When she's up at 2 in the morning and she wakes up,
03:27I'm making the balls.
03:28If her stomach's upset, if I got to go to the ER,
03:31whatever the case, that's all on me.
03:32And still knowing that I own a construction company,
03:376 a.m., 7 a.m., Lance, you better be up
03:39and on your feet because your employee's calling you.
03:43So I think I'm doing good,
03:44but mentally and physically, emotionally, I'm drained.
03:48I'm tired.
03:48But as a father, as a parent, you know,
03:52you have to make those sacrifices.
03:54And that's what I tell myself each and every night.
03:57Okay, so would it help, like,
04:00if we go back to maybe I get her two days on
04:04to give you two days off?
04:07I think it'll help me, but I don't know if it'll help her, mom.
04:09I think she has gotten so used to being up under me
04:13to where it's going to be an adjustment period for her.
04:15And I don't think I, I don't want to do that to her.
04:18How do you think it'd work if I just stay here
04:21maybe two nights out the week?
04:25That way she's, she's still in the house here.
04:28I would definitely love the help,
04:30but I feel like you need to probably
04:32mention this to dad first.
04:36You know, just so that he is included in it.
04:39If I cannot, as your mother at my grown-ass age
04:44and your dad at his grown-ass age
04:47be separated for two days but been married for 30 years,
04:52that's a problem to begin with.
04:54We've overcome bigger than this.
04:57Infidelity, finances.
05:00This here is small.
05:02Two days, it's not the end of the world.
05:05He'd be fine.
05:06I feel like my mom doesn't feel like she needs
05:08to have that conversation with my dad
05:09simply because I've heard her say with my own ears,
05:12I've been married to this man for 30 some odd years,
05:14he better get with the program.
05:15And I believe the program in her eyes is her.
05:18Well, Destiny reached out to me.
05:22She called and it was like,
05:24you could have told me.
05:24And I'm like, what?
05:28Your new grandbaby?
05:31I mean, but that's a bit, like, excessive.
05:34I mean, this is how the conversation went.
05:36And I was like, well, Destiny,
05:38I don't feel like I owe you
05:40and I didn't have to tell you.
05:44Hell, y'all was flirting with?
05:45My God, son, torn.
05:48But you're supposed to be dating Lance?
05:49I was confused.
05:50I didn't know, hell, if y'all was together,
05:51not together, I didn't know.
05:53What has Lance told you about Destiny?
05:56Um, he just said, you know,
05:59that, you know, she's a nice lady.
06:01Um, we don't talk about his relationship.
06:04He's like, no, she's a nice lady.
06:05I like hanging out with her.
06:06He calls her lady?
06:07She's fun.
06:09She is, because I am one.
06:10She has a lot of energy.
06:11She likes to do fun things.
06:13That's what I know.
06:14Do you feel like you owe her an explanation?
06:17Uh, explanation, no.
06:19Do I feel like I owe her a conversation?
06:21A conversation?
06:22Yes.
06:22I think maybe just a sit-down.
06:26Give her the, uh, opportunity to ask me some things.
06:30I guess if the shoe was on the other foot,
06:33I'd probably have a few questions.
06:35Being, I don't think I'd be upset, but I think...
06:37You wouldn't be upset?
06:38No.
06:38I wouldn't be upset because, again,
06:40Destiny made it very clear that
06:42she was not looking for anything serious,
06:46and everything was casual.
06:47What is it about Lance that made you want to pursue dating?
06:52Um, Lance had, and I have had this crazy type of chemistry for years.
06:57But do you, do you see yourself being in a relationship with Lance?
07:00Right now, I'm dating, and I'm happy with dating.
07:03And the fact that she, I mean, let's just call it what it is.
07:06Uh, Destiny kind of played in my face a little bit.
07:10So I wouldn't be upset because it's like,
07:12I know what it is.
07:14We're two individuals.
07:16She thinks I'm attractive.
07:17I think she's very attractive, right?
07:19But at the end of the day,
07:20I mean, what is that, really?
07:23We spent some time together.
07:24We went on a couple dates, right?
07:27Casual dating.
07:27Hey!
07:48Hey!
07:49How are you?
07:51This is cute, isn't it?
07:52Yeah.
07:53How'd you find this spot?
07:54Oh, we're at this coffee shop down here.
07:56Just walking one day, I'm like, oh.
07:57Well, I like it.
07:58Yeah.
07:58I like it.
07:59What you got cooking?
08:00Nothing.
08:01Just a little retail therapy time.
08:03Well, we need more retail therapy for you.
08:05To clear our mind, because we're working on so many different things.
08:08Sometimes you just need a little girlfriend time.
08:10Okay.
08:12Musa.
08:13Okay.
08:13Yeah.
08:14So today, I invited Kimmy and Destiny to check out this new boutique here in Hotsfield,
08:19because at the end of the day, yeah, I love to shop.
08:21And I love these girls.
08:23So this is a win-win for me, shopping with my favorite girls.
08:27You can get lost in work, because Marceau, I've always said to him, I feel like black
08:31is your house.
08:32Like, you're always there.
08:34You eat there, you work there.
08:35Like, this is his schedule.
08:36He's working at black, and he's going to check on the different job sites, and he'll come
08:40home, take a shower.
08:41Go back to black.
08:41Go back to black.
08:42Hello.
08:43Oh, hey, girl.
08:45Hey, Jill.
08:47That's cute.
08:47Thank you.
08:48You look cute.
08:49Hey, love it's in the air.
08:50Look at Jill.
08:51Love it's in the air.
08:52Boy, it's been a minute.
08:55It's a little bit.
08:56Well, what you been up to?
08:58You been M.I.A.
08:59Well, you know, sorry I missed your dinner.
09:03That part.
09:04I had my TikTok live.
09:06I saw that part.
09:07Oh, congratulations.
09:08Thank you.
09:08I saw that part.
09:10Thank you, thank you.
09:10So I was busy.
09:12Real busy.
09:13A live sales is a television infomercial, but on the interweb.
09:17Being introduced to this live sales world has been just a beautiful opportunity for
09:22e-commerce with Madani to grow.
09:24So it worked out like you wanted?
09:26And more?
09:27Well, that's dope.
09:28It's either going to eat at Kimmy's or making some money.
09:30So, hey, social events are important because you want to continue to build and keep your
09:35relationships going.
09:36But making money as a single mom is number one on my priority list.
09:40Here's the thing.
09:41Oh, yeah.
09:41I think that we need to start hanging out more with everybody.
09:45Yes.
09:45And that was what the dinner was about.
09:47Oh.
09:48My dinner was literally...
09:48But I know them have it, so I don't need to see them.
09:51Oh, well, you know Nell better than me.
09:53That was damn near your mom-in-law, so I guess...
09:56Oh, yeah, it was.
09:58At Trisha's party, Nell said that when we were at dinner, she asked Tisha about the video,
10:05the podcast thing, and Tisha didn't want to answer the question.
10:08What podcast thing?
10:09Her and Marceau.
10:11Kimmy and Letitia.
10:13Mm-hmm.
10:14So how do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husband?
10:19Me and my husband did a live, so if you want to know how I feel about it, I'm going to
10:21watch the live.
10:22She was saying that when she asked the question, she wanted Tisha to talk about it right then.
10:28Oh, yeah.
10:29And so Tisha's reply was, I said it all on the podcast.
10:33Like, what more do I need to say?
10:35I do, I think being transparent is being forthright with information that you're not asked.
10:42I have no idea what Nell is referring to when she said we're not being transparent.
10:46Maybe Nell should lead by example.
10:48Maybe she should tell us all the tea on her and Chris.
10:52and be transparent about that.
10:56Chris said something about maybe Marceau and Maurice get people to sign NDAs.
11:01At Trish's birthday party, we was like, what was that about?
11:05And so Nell was like, well, y'all can go talk to Chris about it.
11:08And so she said I was in his face.
11:10Oh.
11:10She said I got in his face.
11:11Oh, she in his face.
11:12She was headed that direction.
11:18She went.
11:21She was headed that direction.
11:23OK, since Chris is out here trying to throw rocks at our house,
11:27let me just toss something over there at their glass house.
11:30Like, why are you saying stuff about us when you know your house is easily breakable?
11:36Let's just stop playing around with people, Marceau, because that is something that,
11:39it's not a joke.
11:40It's not something to play around with.
11:41If you want to go for somebody and go below the belt,
11:45like, let's not do the kids and marriages.
11:47Let's just stop that.
11:48Never been my thing.
11:49That's a good point.
11:50As adults, you got to say that.
11:53Why do we have to have conversations?
11:54You seem like that's not something you have to say.
11:56Like, I have to say to you, like, mm, let's not talk about that.
11:59It's crazy that we have to do this.
12:01Let's not do that.
12:01This is the thing that you can't with adults is expect them to be you.
12:07At the end of the day, if you've conveyed what you wanted to convey
12:09and they don't move forward, that's something that we can't control.
12:13You got to do your part.
12:14And change behavior.
12:15Like, people can apologize for stuff and then continue to do the same thing.
12:17Man, I had that conversation with Martel.
12:20It's my cue to go look for a dress.
12:22This is going to be your energy every time we talk about people in a group that you don't like.
12:26Probably.
12:28Oops.
12:30Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
12:32It was quite interesting seeing you and Tisha go back and forth after the conversation we just had with you ladies.
12:39Don't judge me.
12:40She's the one all up in my husband's face.
12:43If we're there every single time something happens, when will we ever be able to take or handle the real responsibilities of an adult?
12:57And change behavior.
12:59Like, people can apologize for stuff and then continue to do the same thing.
13:01Man, I hate that conversation with Martel.
13:04It's my cue to go look for a dress.
13:06Is this going to be your energy every time we talk about people in a group that you don't like?
13:09Like, probably.
13:11Well, um, how do we move forward?
13:15Like, I don't know.
13:16Like, say the tables would turn.
13:19And say Tisha said, well, I just don't want you hanging out with him because he's really disrespected me at this point.
13:25Like, how would that look?
13:26Because being the middle person, in the middle of that, how does that look at the end of the day?
13:33Well, I'm not in the middle.
13:35I'm an individual.
13:36Hardest part is that I wouldn't know either of y'all if it wasn't for Martel.
13:40That's true.
13:40I don't disagree with that.
13:41That's the hardest part.
13:42I've always had a stance on his behavior with whomever it may be.
13:48So it is a hard place that I've always seemed to be stuck in.
13:51And honestly, I don't speak on what he got going on with them or what they have going on with him.
13:58And that's the best thing that I can do at this point.
14:00And me holding him accountable if he comes to me with something dumb, which is all the time.
14:05Like, he was telling me about now he's moving forward with Arion.
14:10And he was saying all this stuff about Lance.
14:14Have y'all talked?
14:15You and Lance.
14:16We have not.
14:17No?
14:17Mm-mm.
14:18Still?
14:19No.
14:20What is the deal with that?
14:21I don't know.
14:22I ran into him and he would not even make eye contact.
14:25I ran into Lance and he couldn't even make eye contact with me.
14:29And I'm thinking, put your big boy pants on and say what it is.
14:35Like, he was, like, scared.
14:37Well, maybe he feels so bad that he's like, damn, I don't know what to say.
14:40It seems like the least that he could have done is have a conversation.
14:46Because, honestly, Lance and I have been friends for years.
14:50Tell me that's what's going on.
14:51Or at least that you think that you're about to have a kid.
14:54I don't know.
14:55I'm not for sure.
14:56But, honestly, he started moving weird.
14:58Now I understand why he was moving weird.
15:01I talked to Chris and they were, like, they were equally as surprised.
15:05Nailed.
15:06Well, she said they found out when we was in L.A., right?
15:08That's when they found out about...
15:10Right, they did leave early when we were in L.A.
15:12Yep.
15:13Were y'all still actively dating at that time?
15:16Because, in all fairness, by the time we got to the vow renewal,
15:20y'all kind of didn't seem like the same...
15:23Oh, it was a little issue with the vow renewal.
15:24I mean, I'm just saying, well, the issue came from Kimmy.
15:28No, it wasn't Darling.
15:29Yes, it was Darling.
15:31Darling!
15:32No.
15:32Just met your son.
15:34He's so handsome.
15:35Yeah, he's tall.
15:36He didn't get that from Dad.
15:37He's cute.
15:37He got that from Dad.
15:39Oh, yeah?
15:39You think so?
15:41I think you think a lot of people here are cute.
15:43Uh-oh.
15:44Do I?
15:45Yeah.
15:47You think Nell told him about what Kimmy said, the googly eyes at your face?
15:51Nell was sitting there.
15:52Kimmy always starts...
15:53That's Nell telling her son, that ain't got nothing to do with me.
15:57But you made it a moment, Missy.
15:59The googly eyes statement had him in his feelings.
16:03The googly eyes had him in his feelings.
16:05Well, no, but googly eyes was called out by who?
16:08Were you there?
16:09Well, who did the googly eyes?
16:11My eyes are always googly.
16:12No, no, ma'am.
16:13No, no.
16:14No, ma'am.
16:15No, no, no.
16:15We saw the googly eyes.
16:16Listen.
16:17We saw the googly eyes.
16:18Can I ask you a question?
16:18Mm-hmm.
16:19You have eyes.
16:20You saw that man.
16:22And?
16:23And he's fine.
16:24I didn't bat my eyes at him.
16:25I didn't bat my eyes at him either.
16:27You perceived that to be the case.
16:29And I promise you, that wasn't the energy that I was given.
16:32When we're talking and we're sitting in the moment,
16:35and someone says,
16:36Girl, why are you batting your eyes at that man?
16:38And you say,
16:40She don't feel no kind of way because I wasn't batting my eyes at him, Kimmy.
16:43Shut her down. Shut her down is what she said.
16:44That's what you say when you didn't do it.
16:45What did I say?
16:46You said,
16:47What you talking about, Kimmy?
16:49I'm just dating.
16:50I'm dating.
16:50I can do what I want.
16:51I can do what I want.
16:52So she told her, Kimmy.
16:54That's not what I said.
16:56She told her, Kimmy.
16:57100%.
16:57Whatever.
16:58If you wouldn't know,
17:00six months later,
17:01if you would like to say,
17:03Kimmy.
17:03I didn't bat my eyes at the guy.
17:05Then I hear you.
17:06But in the moment,
17:08Destiny, Tisha,
17:09and I have come a long way
17:11in this wonderful friendship that we have.
17:14We've gotten to know each other very well.
17:16It takes a good group of girls
17:18to be able to get past
17:19some of the hiccups we've had in the past.
17:22In that moment,
17:22I was not making googly eyes.
17:24And if I was,
17:25I'm a single woman
17:26and was single then.
17:27And that's what you said.
17:29And that was my stance.
17:30And that's what you said.
17:30That's still my stance.
17:31And me being single,
17:32if that tall tree
17:34wanted to take me out,
17:34I'll go.
17:35Coming up on
17:40Love and Marriage Huntsville.
17:41I had no idea
17:42she was going to get her ass up
17:44and go over there
17:45and do the most.
17:47But you still got to try
17:48because I got some really great news.
17:54I ended up getting
17:55a very lucrative job offer.
17:59I had so much fun
18:23at your birthday party.
18:25I wanted to ride that bull.
18:26Me too,
18:27but I could never find the attendant.
18:29Trish, you didn't want
18:30to ride that bull.
18:31I've done it before.
18:33Can't.
18:34No, I'm just kidding.
18:34No, I'm saying.
18:36That's a lot of goddamn bull.
18:40So today,
18:41I'm going to catch up
18:42with Trish.
18:43I'm so glad
18:44she invited me out
18:45with everything
18:45I have going on
18:47between work
18:48and the grandbabies
18:49and the hubby.
18:51So I can't wait
18:51to catch up with Trish.
18:52And that was my first time
18:54in Entice.
18:55Oh, no.
18:55I love Entice.
18:57That was my first time
18:58and the booth,
19:00like, everything
19:00you could, like,
19:01see throughout
19:02the whole club.
19:02Yeah.
19:03Oh, I love Entice.
19:04It's a vibe.
19:05I definitely want
19:05to go back.
19:06Let me, you, Fletch,
19:07and Ken go back.
19:08Yes, we should.
19:09Yes.
19:10But I'm glad you enjoyed it,
19:11even though I know
19:12you had some moments.
19:13Yeah.
19:13It was quite interesting
19:15seeing you and Tisha
19:16go back and forth
19:16after the conversation
19:17we just had
19:19with you ladies
19:20at the dinner.
19:21I'm trying.
19:21I don't know
19:22where she got
19:22all that big D in Trish.
19:27No!
19:28I love it!
19:31Not the big D energy!
19:34I guess she longed it
19:35for destiny.
19:37Boy,
19:38she did.
19:38She did.
19:39Yes, she did.
19:40She did the most.
19:42She did the most,
19:43but I ain't having it.
19:44I'm not having it.
19:45As you should not.
19:46This ain't what she want.
19:48I'm telling you,
19:48as you should not.
19:49She keeps repetitively
19:51doing to me.
19:53She ought to comment
19:54on everything.
19:55But when you say
19:55something about her,
19:58it's, oh no,
20:00I don't know
20:00what you're talking about.
20:02I mean,
20:02your whole description
20:04is just perfect.
20:05It started last year
20:06with my birthday party.
20:07I'm feisty.
20:08Nell likes to get up
20:09in people's face.
20:10These girls are feisty,
20:12especially Nell,
20:13because they give you
20:14a hard ass time.
20:16But you know what?
20:17At the end of the day,
20:17you know,
20:18y'all make us better.
20:19Why would you say
20:20I'm feisty?
20:21Because you're feisty.
20:22Well, you don't think
20:23you're feisty?
20:24No, I do not.
20:26Don't judge me.
20:27She's the one
20:28all up in my husband's face.
20:30And I feel
20:31some type of way
20:32about that.
20:32Oh my gosh, yes.
20:34She was like,
20:35why did you say
20:36those things
20:36about my husband
20:38and Marzo
20:39and Maurice?
20:40And I'm like,
20:41she's doing too much.
20:43And she just started
20:44doing this right here
20:45in his face.
20:47Don't do that.
20:48She crossed the line.
20:49She went too far.
20:50For the most part,
20:51I don't get that
20:52from Tisha.
20:52Her delivery can be like,
20:54wait a minute now.
20:55Pipe down
20:56before both of our
20:57delivery go crazy.
20:58But,
21:00I don't know.
21:02I guess it's the relationship
21:02she has with Nell
21:03because I really
21:04don't get that.
21:06I had no idea
21:07she was going to get
21:07her ass up
21:08and go over there
21:09and do the most.
21:11If she had jumped up
21:12in Ken's face like that,
21:13what would you have done?
21:15Would you say
21:16y'all fine?
21:18No.
21:19But are you still
21:20going to try to work
21:21on building the BGM,
21:22the Black Girls Magic,
21:23to group together?
21:24I don't know.
21:25I have to see.
21:26You don't know?
21:27No, Nell,
21:27you can't say that.
21:28I said I will
21:29with Ken and you.
21:30But you still
21:32got to try
21:32because
21:33I ain't got to do
21:34Black.
21:35Leticia's not like that.
21:37This to you.
21:38She's not like that outside.
21:41It's the only one
21:42we get in a group
21:42setting that she's like that.
21:43She's not like that.
21:44Yeah, we do need
21:45to set some boundaries
21:45because right now
21:47I feel like I'm talking
21:47to my adult children
21:49and these are
21:50grown-ass women.
21:52I do understand
21:53where Nell is coming from
21:54when she says
21:55dealing with an adult child.
21:56Although,
21:57I do think
21:58they misunderstand
21:59each other at times.
22:00too.
22:00So,
22:01one of them,
22:02one of them,
22:03one of these days
22:03has to be the bigger person.
22:05I would love
22:06to see all of us
22:07get along.
22:08I really would.
22:11But I have to
22:11take a step back
22:12off of the way
22:14she reacted.
22:15That's where I feel
22:15we need to have
22:16a heart-to-heart.
22:20Coming up
22:20on Love and Marriage
22:21Huntsville.
22:22I'm tired of here.
22:23You know,
22:23I need,
22:24I,
22:24I,
22:24family for a reason.
22:26You call your family
22:27when you need your family.
22:28Right?
22:28You know,
22:29you gotta take
22:29some responsibility.
22:30You gotta be held
22:31accountable for
22:32yourself.
22:34That's the second time
22:35he says something
22:36about Marcel
22:36that I felt like
22:37was not okay.
22:39When was the first day?
22:40Um,
22:40when Marcel met him
22:41into Georgia,
22:42in Atlanta,
22:42to go look at
22:43some commercial spots.
22:44So,
22:45here we go again
22:45about the Atlanta
22:46like,
22:47God,
22:48.
22:48We got so much
23:01to catch up on
23:01for real,
23:02for real.
23:02Oh,
23:02and I also want you,
23:03um,
23:04to look at the space
23:05that you had,
23:06too,
23:06because I still need
23:07an office.
23:08Bitch,
23:08bi,
23:08get off my phone.
23:10You know,
23:11that was supposed
23:11to be your space
23:12a long time ago
23:13and you drug your feet
23:14until I put
23:15somebody in it.
23:19It's uncommon
23:20for Jalen
23:20to stop by my office,
23:22so something
23:22must be brewing.
23:23I'll talk to you soon.
23:25Bye, Destiny.
23:27Jalen said,
23:28bye, Destiny.
23:29Bye.
23:31What's up?
23:33Y'all often
23:33come through here
23:34to visit me.
23:35Nothing at all.
23:37I actually,
23:38uh,
23:38got some really
23:39great news.
23:40I ended up
23:42getting a,
23:44uh,
23:44a very lucrative
23:45job offer
23:46here in Huntsville.
23:48So one of the
23:49interviews here
23:50in town.
23:52I went in,
23:53uh,
23:53yesterday
23:53for the actual
23:55sit-down interview.
23:57The main thing
23:57they wanted to talk
23:58about that was
23:59on my resume
24:00that stuck out
24:01to them
24:01was Black
24:02and me
24:03putting on there
24:04that I helped,
24:05uh,
24:05start a business
24:06from,
24:06from ground up.
24:08So Black
24:08is paying off?
24:09Hey,
24:09helping me out
24:11a little bit.
24:11All them struggles,
24:12all them long nights
24:13and lonely days.
24:15Literally like
24:16three,
24:17four hours later
24:18they called me back
24:19and they said,
24:21uh,
24:21we would like
24:22to offer you a job.
24:23They said,
24:24is this number
24:24okay with you?
24:26I was like,
24:27yeah,
24:28that's okay.
24:29But then I ended up,
24:30uh,
24:31sending a little
24:32counteroffer.
24:33Well, look at you,
24:34negotiating.
24:35Wow,
24:35all right.
24:36What's that mean
24:37for Colorado
24:38because you had already
24:39said you were doing that?
24:42Yeah,
24:42I can't do that one.
24:45Even though
24:46that's still in IT,
24:49what I,
24:49what I want to do,
24:50it wasn't what I want
24:51to actually get into.
24:53And so this job
24:54is, uh,
24:55back in logistics.
24:56So it's a,
24:57uh,
24:57business job.
24:58I am tickled
25:01to death.
25:03Like,
25:03I want to holler.
25:05He's taking the one here
25:06and on smell.
25:07That, of course,
25:09is just like,
25:11it's selfish.
25:12I know.
25:13This is news
25:14that I am welcome
25:15to hear
25:15in the middle of the day.
25:16If you stay here,
25:18I'm actually with us
25:20doing some projects together.
25:21At bare minimum,
25:23you and I
25:24can do a project together.
25:25Maurice and Monster
25:26can do a project together.
25:27Well,
25:29speaking of Maurice,
25:30I ended up talking
25:32with Maurice
25:33and, uh,
25:34Marceau.
25:35And we were talking
25:36about, you know,
25:36the family business
25:37and, uh,
25:39how Monster
25:40was treated
25:41compared to me.
25:42Mm-hmm.
25:42And, uh,
25:44the conversation
25:45was very interesting.
25:46Why?
25:47It was almost like
25:49he didn't get it.
25:51So the hierarchy
25:52in the family,
25:53Maurice,
25:53Kimmy,
25:54Monster,
25:55Jayler.
25:56Why would it be
25:57Monster above you
25:58when I literally said
25:59Monster's last
25:59on the totem pole?
26:00Well,
26:01he's last with knowledge.
26:02He's not last with
26:03favor and love.
26:06You feel like that?
26:08Yeah.
26:09You're exactly
26:10just like Monster to me.
26:11That's how I feel
26:12inside my heart.
26:13Okay?
26:14I was just like,
26:16it sounds a little deflecting.
26:17I think he has a hard time
26:19accepting
26:20that, um,
26:23like his part in it.
26:24Because I feel like
26:25when we have a conversation,
26:26he's the same way.
26:28And I talk to Marceau,
26:29Marceau feels the same way.
26:30But the thing is,
26:32I think
26:32maybe there's
26:33a little area
26:34of payoff
26:35in Maurice's approach.
26:38It paid off.
26:39He was mentoring me.
26:41He just,
26:42it didn't feel like,
26:43uh,
26:44fatherhood,
26:47I guess.
26:47I don't really know
26:48what fatherhood feels like.
26:50So maybe it was fatherhood.
26:51You know,
26:52it felt more like
26:53a mentorship.
26:54And he was,
26:55uh,
26:55grooming me
26:56into being a man.
26:57And I said that to him.
26:59I said I felt like
27:01it, uh,
27:01it worked.
27:03Having me figure it out
27:04on my own,
27:05the harsher treatment,
27:07I felt like it,
27:08it worked.
27:09It really does appear
27:11that,
27:11you know,
27:12some of that
27:13Marie's tough love
27:14has paid off
27:16in the relationship
27:17and the building
27:18of Jalen.
27:20That doesn't mean
27:21that, you know,
27:22some things could have
27:23been a little different
27:24then,
27:25a little different now,
27:26and a little different
27:28going forward.
27:29Well,
27:30I'm proud of you
27:31and I'm very happy
27:32for you.
27:33Thank you.
27:33And I like that
27:34you're happy.
27:34I think that,
27:35like,
27:35all that time you spent
27:37putting in those
27:37applications,
27:38being frustrated,
27:40um,
27:41I like the payoff.
27:43Oh,
27:43I'd love to pay off.
27:47Coming up
27:48on Love & Marriage
27:48Huntsville.
27:49I don't remember
27:50being on 100,
27:50but I felt like
27:51he was on 100.
27:52Okay,
27:52that's fine.
27:53You're entitled
27:53to your feelings.
27:54It doesn't matter
27:55who started it down.
27:56It doesn't matter
27:56who long is to you.
27:57You don't have to get
27:58out of it.
27:58You don't tell me
27:58what I gotta do.
28:00That's that
28:00I'm talking about
28:02right there.
28:03Do you want to have
28:03a concession or not?
28:04Do you want to have one?
28:05Oh, Jesus.
28:05Ain't no cap
28:08Ain't no cap
28:10Got a couple bars
28:12I don't even rap
28:13In a party
28:14Pull up at a party
28:16Up and up the crowd
28:17Like I'm Rick and Morty
28:19Yes, with the 40s
28:21I came with the barbies
28:22I got money on me
28:24Tipping my Jamaica stormy
28:26I got them plans
28:27Feel like I'm flat
28:28Lenny man
28:29Lance Lance
28:33Yo
28:34Yes sir
28:35I'm in here
28:36Looking nice
28:37Looking nice
28:38Man, trying to get
28:39some stuff going, man
28:40What's going on, man?
28:42I'm good, son
28:43It's been a hell of a
28:44couple of months
28:44New babies
28:47Grown-ass kids
28:48in and out of the house
28:48And
28:49It's been very interesting
28:51In the Fletcher's household
28:53So I thought today
28:54I might just go by
28:55Green Spaces
28:56And holler at my son, Lance
28:58I have a few things
28:59on my mind
28:59I think I want to
29:00Run by him
29:01And talk to him about
29:01And see how he's doing
29:03What's going on, man?
29:05How you been?
29:05Not much, son
29:06What you got going on?
29:07Working hard?
29:08Yeah, Friday
29:09Made those payrolls
29:10So I'm trying to get
29:10these guys payroll
29:11She ain't got to tell me
29:12about that
29:12Oh, yeah
29:13Definitely got to
29:13make that payroll
29:14How's, uh, how the baby
29:15doing?
29:16She good?
29:16She's great
29:17Uh, she's
29:18I think she's moving
29:19into the teething stage, right?
29:20So it's a lot of drooling
29:22A lot of slobbering
29:23I give her a bath at night
29:24I'm switching pajamas
29:26two and three times
29:27She's, ah, two or three hours
29:29of, you know, little catnaps
29:30Yeah
29:31Right?
29:31So I'm just adjusting to that
29:32Um, I was going to ask you
29:34I was going to try
29:35and talk to you about that
29:36So my mom came over
29:37to the house the other day
29:39We were kind of recapping
29:40on the fact that
29:41when she was first born
29:42you know, you know
29:43I spent a lot of time
29:45at the house, right?
29:46Right
29:46And, um
29:47You spent a lot of time
29:48at our house
29:49At your house
29:50Yes, at y'all's house
29:50It was an adjustment period
29:52for everybody, right?
29:53Me adjusting to being
29:54away from home
29:54You and mom adjusting
29:56to me being there
29:57I tried to say that
29:58I tried to say that
29:59to her too
30:00and she just got
30:01like all bent out of shape
30:02because I'm like
30:03you know, it's a change
30:04We haven't had an infant
30:06in the house
30:06in damn 28 years
30:08She was like
30:09well, you know
30:10you look tired
30:11and you look exhausted
30:12I can tell
30:12and you know
30:13your voice
30:14and your appearance
30:14and this, that, and another
30:15And I was like
30:16well, of course
30:17I mean
30:17I got a newborn
30:18I'm tired
30:18I'm tired as hell
30:19and she offered
30:20to come stay at the house
30:22two or three nights
30:24throughout the week
30:25I will be honest
30:26I could use
30:27a day or two
30:28or even three
30:28just to get some good sleep
30:30to where I can
30:31perform at my best capacity
30:33at my job
30:34or what I'm doing, right?
30:35I expressed to her
30:36I want to know
30:37from you
30:38from dad
30:39knowing that
30:40is it
30:40are you good with that?
30:42Are you good with her?
30:43To answer
30:43to just straight up
30:44answer your question
30:45hell no
30:46I ain't good with it
30:46Who the hell
30:47would be good with
30:48their wife being gone
30:49two or three nights
30:50out of the week
30:51How would you feel
30:53if your woman
30:53was out of the house
30:54two or three days
30:55out of the week?
30:57Right
30:58Neil and I
30:59we will always
31:00you know
31:01make sure
31:02that our grandchildren
31:02are taken care of
31:04the responsibilities
31:05that our grown
31:07adult children
31:07have
31:08is
31:09it's a big deal
31:10and
31:11as parents
31:11we want to make sure
31:12that
31:13you know
31:14we're doing all
31:14that we can
31:15to help them
31:16where we can
31:17but at the same time
31:18we have to adhere
31:19to our boundaries
31:20Neil and I
31:21we got to get a hold
31:22of this thing
31:22you know
31:23you got to take
31:23some responsibility
31:24you got to be held
31:25accountable for
31:26yourself
31:27here's the thing
31:29when it first
31:30initially hit
31:31you know
31:32that was like
31:34that
31:35I mean
31:35that was major
31:36you know
31:37to come in
31:39and say
31:39hey mom
31:39dad
31:40I got another baby
31:40you know what I mean
31:41then it was almost like
31:43okay the newborn moved in
31:44but Lance moved in too
31:46that was a
31:46more like an earthquake move
31:48you know
31:49shook
31:49and when the wrong shakes
31:52all out of place
31:55your mom and I
31:57kind of got
31:58got shook
31:59you know what I mean
32:01yes sir
32:01we kind of get
32:03stuck in the middle
32:04of a situation
32:05of you know
32:06grandparenting
32:06and parenting
32:07at the same time
32:08but at the same time
32:09the boundaries get
32:10really thrown out
32:14of the window
32:14we had a conversation
32:16in the kitchen
32:17us as a family
32:18um
32:19I don't know
32:21some time ago
32:21we set some boundaries
32:23for you guys
32:23and girls
32:24we need to set
32:25some boundaries
32:26we got things
32:28we want to do
32:29do not
32:30freaking call me
32:33if it's not
32:34an emergency
32:35it's just always
32:36something
32:37if we constantly
32:38doing all those
32:39things
32:40then
32:41y'all setting
32:42us back
32:42how y'all think
32:44how you think
32:44y'all doing
32:45on the boundaries
32:46the boundaries
32:47out the window man
32:48I mean it's almost
32:49like
32:49what boundaries
32:50it made some
32:52major adjustments
32:54in our
32:54in our household
32:55in our relationship
32:56so my parents
32:57have done a lot
32:58for us as kids
32:59and it is time
33:00for us to really
33:00stand on those
33:01boundaries
33:02and make sure
33:03that we have
33:04our parents back
33:05as I've been
33:06trying to tell
33:06your mom
33:07over the years
33:07establishing
33:08these boundaries
33:09like that
33:10you gotta let them
33:12tough it out
33:12sometimes
33:13if we're there
33:14every single time
33:16something happens
33:17when will you ever
33:18be able to take
33:20or handle
33:20the real responsibilities
33:22of an adult
33:23you all have
33:25blown those boundaries
33:27out of the water
33:27it doesn't matter
33:28I mean
33:29if I had to be honest
33:30probably
33:31we always say this
33:32probably Kayla
33:33is the only one
33:34that hasn't
33:35crossed any of
33:36these boundaries
33:36but she can get
33:38it too
33:39you know
33:39that's just
33:43your mom and I
33:45that's just
33:45something we have
33:46to figure out
33:46but it is life
33:48as well
33:49so we understand
33:51that
33:51we set boundaries
33:53with all the children
33:56but the way we raise
33:58them
33:58the things that we've
33:59been blessed to give
34:01them
34:01it's really
34:03reminds us
34:04and we just have
34:05to figure out
34:06we being me
34:07Nell
34:07and them
34:08the children
34:08have to figure out
34:10how to make this
34:12work
34:12how to make
34:13these boundaries
34:14stay
34:15not that I don't care
34:17but
34:18we all need help
34:19you know
34:20even myself
34:21we all need help
34:22so
34:22it's always good
34:24to reach out
34:25to the people
34:26that you know
34:26that can
34:27you know
34:28that can help you
34:29I don't know
34:30maybe
34:30hear from someone else
34:33right
34:34maybe
34:35Martell
34:36as a father
34:38because that
34:40time management
34:40I mean him
34:41being in construction
34:43as well
34:43and having his kids
34:45he has them
34:45every other week
34:46I'm sure there's a
34:47he got something working
34:48right
34:49as far as time
34:49he's got a
34:50it seems like
34:51his system
34:52he's got a nice
34:53system in play
34:53from you know
34:54from what I can tell
34:55now
34:55and you know
34:57I don't mind
34:57he might
34:58he might be able
34:59to tell you something
34:59that I can't
35:00right
35:00you don't want to
35:02put your business
35:02out there into
35:03you know
35:03too many people
35:04you know
35:05but at the same time
35:06yeah I think
35:07I think that's a good idea
35:08actually I think
35:09I'll reach out to him
35:10soon
35:11sooner rather than later
35:12yeah
35:12come and get it
35:20I'm out of my head
35:21causing problems
35:23all over again
35:24I don't think
35:26before I do
35:27I just
35:29do
35:30what I want
35:32when I want to
35:33when I want
35:34to
35:35so I feel like
35:45after talking to
35:46Trish about
35:47Letitia Scott
35:48I'm kind of like
35:50seeing things
35:51a little different
35:51I'm really not sure
35:53but I do know
35:54I'm willing
35:54you know
35:55to give her a chance
35:56I think I'm gonna get
35:58a caramel macchiata
35:59anything else
36:01and I think that's it
36:02for now
36:03yep
36:03we'll have that right out
36:04thank you
36:04how you been
36:05I've been okay
36:07I'm just like
36:09I decided to invite you
36:10out here
36:11to speak about
36:13uh oh
36:15this girls thing
36:18getting to know
36:18each other
36:19okay
36:19and I kind of like
36:21trying to get comfortable
36:22at the party
36:24you got in my husband's face
36:26Chris
36:27Chris
36:29Chris you're the center stage
36:30right here Chris
36:31I don't report to Letitia
36:33what do you mean
36:34about the NBA
36:35you said it
36:36and me and your husband
36:37have already talked about it
36:38I'm like whoa
36:40she's really
36:42on 100 right now
36:44I don't remember
36:45being on 100
36:45well I felt like
36:46he was on 100
36:47okay that's fine
36:48you're tied to your feelings
36:49I don't remember
36:51getting into Chris's face
36:52like that
36:53but
36:53I don't like the way
36:55she's talking to me right now
36:57I mean
36:58oh wow
36:59I didn't expect for Nell
37:01to just get into it right here
37:02but
37:03okay let's go
37:04I don't remember
37:05being on 100
37:06but I do remember
37:07the conversation
37:07because I remember
37:08Marcel was like
37:09oh well we cleared it up
37:10he said it was
37:10something missed
37:11something whatever
37:12and I was like
37:14that makes sense to me
37:15I don't feel like
37:16it's okay
37:17what he said
37:18how he said things
37:19and that's the second time
37:19he said something by Marcel
37:20that I felt like
37:21was not okay
37:22when Marcel made him
37:25into Georgia
37:26in Atlanta
37:26to go look at
37:27some commercial spots
37:28so here we go again
37:29about the Atlanta
37:30like god
37:32well Marcel brought
37:34my husband's name up
37:35first
37:35so maybe if he hadn't
37:36brought my husband's name up
37:38then nothing would have
37:39been said about him
37:40it's not about
37:40bringing a name up
37:41yes it is
37:42well I think
37:43Marcel said
37:43Chris actually took a selfie
37:45with him to prove to you
37:46that he was where
37:47he said he was
37:48that's not true
37:48I was with
37:49I was with Fletcher
37:50you was with him
37:50with him
37:51when Marcel had their meeting
37:51no
37:52you was in Atlanta
37:53and he said
37:54Chris said
37:54let's take a selfie
37:56because he had to prove to you
37:57that he was with Marcel
37:58this all started
38:01on the count
38:02of Marcel
38:03they went to
38:04Atlanta fish market
38:05got food
38:07he brought me food back
38:08I'm not with
38:09the making up
38:09now what he did
38:12after that
38:12I don't know
38:13that's between
38:15him and her
38:16I know what
38:17I was doing
38:18and what my husband
38:19was doing
38:19period
38:20you guys have to
38:21take ownership
38:22you have to take ownership
38:23I'm taking ownership
38:24no you're not
38:25you're not taking ownership
38:26Marcel brought up
38:27his name first
38:28I said
38:28I don't know
38:29who brought who name
38:29on first
38:30Marcel said
38:30you asked your husband
38:31where he was
38:32and he said
38:32I was with Chris Fletcher
38:34okay
38:36yes I went to Atlanta
38:37and yes I went there
38:39with a friend
38:40well I met a friend
38:41there
38:42me and this friend
38:44went out to dinner
38:45who was we
38:46me and Chris Fletcher
38:50so for him
38:52what does it have to do
38:53with what Chris said
38:54and he paused first
38:55but you said
38:56this is not the first time
38:57my husband brought up
38:58your husband's name
38:59and I said
39:00I said I didn't like
39:01what he said
39:02about Marcel
39:02but you said
39:03this is not the first time
39:04and then you brought up
39:05the Atlanta situation
39:06Marcel started that
39:08that came from Marcel
39:10okay it doesn't matter
39:11who started it
39:11it doesn't matter
39:12who long
39:12you don't have to
39:13you don't tell me
39:14what I gotta do
39:15that's that
39:16I'm talking about
39:18right there
39:19that she like to do
39:20she like to make you
39:22question yourself
39:23like am I raising
39:24my voice
39:25when I know
39:26I'm really not
39:26I'm not doing
39:29no more than what she is
39:30okay so if you're not
39:31going to be respectful
39:31then this conversation
39:32is going to end
39:33I'm not your children
39:35okay
39:35and I'm not your child
39:36either
39:36you're absolutely
39:37so I'm just
39:38do you want to have
39:38a conversation
39:39or not
39:39do you want to have
39:40one
39:40oh Jesus
39:41that's how
39:43I gave a tequila
39:43for this company
39:44I don't do it
39:45that's how I felt
39:46the other night
39:46if you want to have
39:47a conversation
39:48if you want to have
39:49a conversation
39:50we get the talk
39:50but if you're going to
39:51get loud with me
39:52and be disrespectful
39:53I'm not going to have
39:54this conversation with you
39:55you've been
39:55you're disrespecting
39:56you was disrespectful
39:57okay okay
39:58so I'm not having
39:59this conversation
40:00when you're ready
40:00to talk to me
40:01hit me back up girl
40:02oh girl
40:02we ain't got to talk
40:03okay
40:03yeah I'm definitely
40:05not about to have
40:06a yelling match
40:07in here with you
40:07like this is a place
40:09that I have meetings
40:09at with parents
40:10of my kids school
40:12so this is not
40:13the place for us
40:14to be yelling
40:14back and forth
40:15at each other
40:16so I'm done
40:17with this
40:18hey
40:21that was going to be
40:22a good coffee date
40:23next
40:27on Love and Marriage
40:29Huntsville
40:29I feel like Martell
40:30has just like
40:31lost itself
40:31Martell acting out
40:33because he's upset
40:34is not new
40:35he is the one
40:37putting the fuel
40:38on the fire
40:39while I was with Lance
40:42destiny came up
40:43oh lord here we go
40:45she claimed
40:45she ain't never
40:46gave him none
40:47he is a damn man
40:49and y'all have needs
40:50right
40:51so somebody else
40:52met him
40:52I met up with Nell
40:55and she was like
40:56I'm not your child
40:57is this how mentor
40:58is supposed to act
40:59she said she is
41:00like certified
41:01certified crazy
41:02I don't like
41:04the negativity
41:04though
41:05but I felt that
41:06damn
41:07they keep coming
41:08at me
41:08I think that you've
41:09played the villain
41:10so long
41:10until you've become
41:11the villain
41:11so I had a conversation
41:14with Martell
41:14I'm genuinely concerned
41:17about his mental health
41:18yeah
41:18his mental health
41:19when he's the nice guy
41:21he's the nice guy
41:22and when he's not
41:24he's not
41:26he's the nice guy
41:29I have a conversation
41:30with him
41:31I think that you've got
41:32the villain
41:32he's the13IN
41:33that he's the nice guy
41:33he's the nice guy
41:34and he's the nice guy
41:35thank you
41:35for the nice guy
41:36I know
41:36it's good
41:36man
41:37he's the kinda
41:37but he's not
41:37you
41:37but he told me
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