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SHARIKA, 33, and Jalen, 21, met at work just over a year ago. Jalen had been working at the establishment for a few years before Sharika arrived and was blown away by her beauty. He would be the one to initiate conversations and often flirt with her, but she wouldn't reciprocate, for the simple fact that he looked young and wasn’t sure of his age. He was 20 at the time, and when he revealed his age, she said that he was too young for her. However, with some consideration, the pair eventually got together. They are now in love and expecting a baby. This will be Jalen's first child, but Sharika's fifth; she already has four children, fathered by four men. The new addition to the family has brought into focus the judgment the pair already received. Sharika explained that at the start of the relationship, "He faced more judgment than I did. They'd be like, 'Oh, she got four baby daddies. You shouldn't be with her. She's old, she has kids, she's going to ruin your life.'" Adding that, "My dad told Jalen, 'You're a fool. I would not date my daughter because she has a lot of kids.'" Jalen spoke about the feedback from his loved ones, "My people were like, 'What the hell? Watch out.'" Sharika has never revealed Jalen's real age to her family, and in this episode of Love Don't Judge, she finally drops the bombshell to her cousin Stephanie, telling her that her 21-year-old boyfriend will be her fifth baby daddy.

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00:00I'm 33, and I'm pregnant by a 21-year-old.
00:03I lied to my family about my boyfriend's age.
00:06He faced more at judgment than I did.
00:09My people was like, what the hell?
00:10Oh, you shouldn't be with her.
00:11She's older.
00:12She has kids.
00:13She's going to ruin your life.
00:14I have four baby daddies.
00:16Damn!
00:17Five baby daddies.
00:19I'm going to tell my cousin Stephanie Jalen's age
00:21and that we're expecting a baby.
00:23I want to tell you something.
00:26I'm nervous.
00:27I'm like sweating.
00:28That's wild.
00:29I'm Sharika.
00:30I'm 33.
00:31I have four children, and I'm expecting one
00:34with my boyfriend who's 21.
00:36We met at work.
00:37He just knew he wanted me.
00:38I was like, damn, who's that?
00:40I wanted to crack him, too.
00:41But after we talked and we realized
00:45it was more than a crack, you know what I'm saying,
00:47when he was flirting with me, I was like, how old are you?
00:51And then he immediately did one of these, like .
00:54And he's like, yeah, I'm such and such.
00:57And I was like, wow.
01:00It's a little young.
01:01But when I seen the way he was treating me, I was like, oh,
01:05he treats me very well.
01:07So I just let the age thing fly.
01:09How did you get to the point where you're like, OK, cool.
01:12I'm doing this.
01:13He sent me an explicit photo.
01:20It's the truth.
01:21You guys want to know the truth.
01:22It's true.
01:23He was talking nasty.
01:24So I was like, well, let me see if you can back it up.
01:27He backed it up.
01:28I'm that guy.
01:41That was fire.
01:42You like it?
01:42That's hot.
01:43That's hot.
01:44You really mean it?
01:45Yeah, duh.
01:46OK.
01:47Jalen, like, supports me, you know?
01:53You give me good energy.
01:54That's why my song is called Energy.
01:56Financially, he takes care of us.
01:58He's the breadwinner.
02:00He lets me be creative.
02:02And I, like, cook, clean.
02:04But he don't eat anything but chicken strips, so it's kind of easy.
02:07What judgment did you face from others when you started
02:10your relationship?
02:11He faced more judgment than I did.
02:14Yeah, because she was, like, more older than me.
02:16They'll be like, oh, you got all these kids running around.
02:18Don't talk to that lady.
02:19I've had a lot of kids.
02:21Trust.
02:22I have four children and one on the way.
02:24I have four baby daddies.
02:25Dang!
02:27Yeah.
02:28Damn.
02:28Five baby daddies.
02:30I have a 16-year-old, a 13-year-old, an 11-year-old,
02:33and a 2-year-old.
02:35All kids, they fun.
02:36Fun to be around.
02:37Especially an 11-year-old.
02:38That my dog.
02:40For real.
02:40I had my kids when I was his age.
02:42You know, so they're, like, older.
02:44They don't really bother us.
02:46That was like, you think you can put up with that?
02:48And I was like, yeah.
02:50You ain't putting up with it.
02:51I am.
02:52We run the narrative in our relationship.
02:55We're not letting other people dictate
02:57what we can and cannot do.
02:58This is my first child.
03:01My boy, an old girl.
03:02Yeah.
03:03Were you surprised when you found out you were pregnant?
03:06Yes.
03:07Because I was taking day after pills.
03:11Like Skittles.
03:12Hey, man.
03:13For ones out there, just pull out.
03:17What?
03:17That doesn't work.
03:19Pull out?
03:19Yes, it do.
03:20That's where we're at.
03:21You leave a hot dog in the microwave for too long,
03:23what happened?
03:26That's disgusting.
03:27I'm sorry.
03:28I'm sorry.
03:28I didn't say I'm sorry.
03:30I'm happy.
03:31I'm happy to be a father for the first time.
03:33I'm happy to have a little one.
03:34Do you think your age gap will impact how you parent?
03:38Definitely.
03:38Yes.
03:39It do.
03:40Because, all right, I'm the fun one.
03:41Yep, and I'm hot on play.
03:43She's the one that is to do old people stuff.
03:45My people was like, what the hell?
03:48Like, like, she's older than you?
03:51I was like, yeah.
03:53Okay, you know what I'm saying?
03:54Just watch out.
03:55He does get like, she's older, she has kids,
03:58she's going to ruin your life.
03:59But it's his life and it's my life.
04:02It's nobody else's life.
04:03It's our life.
04:04I haven't told my family Jaylen's real age
04:07because they're judgmental.
04:08You should not throw stones in glass houses.
04:12That was deep.
04:13That was nasty.
04:13Okay.
04:14That was nasty.
04:15That was nasty.
04:15My dad's a pastor, like, you know,
04:18it's more like conservative over there.
04:20So they do love him.
04:22They just don't know how old he is.
04:23And my dad told Jaylen, he's like, you're a fool.
04:25He's like, if I were you, I would not date my daughter
04:28because she has a lot of kids.
04:30And here you are coming in.
04:31We're about to go meet my cousin Stephanie.
04:33And I'm about to tell her Jaylen's age
04:36and that we're expecting a baby.
04:38I think she's going to be more shocked
04:40that I'm pregnant again.
04:42So, you know why I brought you here.
04:43Okay.
04:46This is my new boo.
04:47Okay.
04:48My man.
04:52It's lit over there, ain't it?
04:53Yeah.
04:55Stay a while.
04:55Stay a while.
04:56We trying to get this one to stay forever.
04:59Okay.
04:59Forever, ever.
05:00You locked in?
05:01Oh, yes, ma'am.
05:02I love that.
05:03Yes, ma'am.
05:05Is it giving auntie?
05:08He's giving younger.
05:10Okay.
05:11How young?
05:1221.
05:13Oh, that's wild.
05:17That's real young.
05:18That's real young.
05:19But,
05:22he has great qualities.
05:24It's the ma'am for me.
05:26We're not that far apart in the age.
05:29How you feel about, like,
05:30Sharika already having kids?
05:31Oh, ain't nothing wrong with it.
05:33Ain't nothing wrong with it?
05:34I love that.
05:35You feel like you can handle the responsibilities
05:37and stuff like that?
05:38Oh, yeah, yeah, ma'am.
05:39Okay.
05:40Hmm.
05:41I got an uncle or something?
05:46I'm just kidding.
05:47What do you feel about our age gap?
05:49Oh, it's crazy.
05:50I would never.
05:52It's freaking crazy.
05:54I can eat these chicken tenders.
05:55You know he's 21.
05:57It's crazy.
05:58We got to, we got to,
06:00we got to advance your palate to grow a man.
06:02Some steaks or something?
06:04You got to feel like a man.
06:05You at the restaurant.
06:06Some chicken strips.
06:07That's for the kids.
06:08I want to tell you something.
06:11Take a drink.
06:12Take a sip of your drink.
06:14It might choke you a little bit.
06:16I'm nervous.
06:17I'm like sweating.
06:22I'm pregnant.
06:28Y'all move fast.
06:30But you know we've been together for a year.
06:32That's crazy.
06:33We already got, we need a Sprinter van.
06:35We need a Mercedes Sprinter van at this point.
06:37We'll get one.
06:38With an eight passenger.
06:39Ten passenger.
06:40He just bought a big car.
06:41My only fear would be that you know with her already having kids.
06:45I wouldn't want to see it where you have the baby and then there's a separation.
06:49Like there's no family structure.
06:51If y'all like it, I love it.
06:53I don't pay y'all bills.
06:54And you see Sharika, she's fun size.
06:57She don't even seem like she's our age.
06:59That's why you don't tell her, yes ma'am.
07:00She seem like y'all age for real.
07:02That age gap is crazy though.
07:05Age gap is crazy.
07:07It is.
07:07I'd have been like, um, young man, please.
07:11I was like that at first.
07:12No, I was.
07:12I was like, I was like, I don't know.
07:17I got a text, ding, boop.
07:19I was like, oh, let me take it for a whirl.
07:23I love his face.
07:24I love his chocolate skin.
07:26I love that he loves me and he's all about me.
07:29And he'll hurt a girl feelings for me.
07:32As will I.
07:33I'm ready to go to Vietnam right now.
07:36Any minute.
07:37Okay, calm down, bro.
07:38Any minute about her.
07:39Okay, calm down, bro.
07:40I like them thighs.
07:41I like how thick she is.
07:42That's what everything about her, you know.
07:44That is not everything.
07:46That's me being thick.
07:47Funny.
07:48She's my baby.
07:49I'm crashing out about her.
07:51Are you going to Vietnam about me?
07:52Then I'm crashing out.
07:53Okay, yeah.
07:54We're going to Vietnam.
07:55What would you say to people who judge your relationship?
07:58Mind your own business.
07:59Don't worry about this.
08:00All right.
08:00Don't worry about my old lady.
08:01What does the future hold for the two of you?
08:05Millionaires.
08:06I'm SpongeBob, chefing it up.
08:08Oh, Mr. Carl.
08:10My baby.
08:12Oh, yeah.
08:12She's that too.
08:13Yeah.
08:14Yeah.
08:15Kids are good.
08:16You know what I'm saying?
08:17What we're focused on is building a legacy, generational wealth.
08:20We're focused on having something bigger than ourselves.
08:24This is real black love right here.
08:31I'm not alone.
08:34I'm not alone.
08:37I'med in a worldруг when I'm fully lucky with you.
08:39You
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