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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance, Happily Ever After.
00:00:09We're pregnant!
00:00:11Yay!
00:00:12My brain explode.
00:00:14I'm excited.
00:00:16After we reconnecting, I decided trying to have a baby.
00:00:20I honestly cannot wait to tell my mom and my dad.
00:00:24I doesn't want...
00:00:26Betty, she will be overstepping.
00:00:28She already over-controls us.
00:00:34I'm pissed at Elizabeth again.
00:00:37I wanted to apologize to you if I hurt you.
00:00:40I just want to give you a hug.
00:00:42I just can't be mad at her because she's opening up for me.
00:00:45And I'm actually starting to question Elizabeth.
00:00:48Okay.
00:00:50One last look at that view.
00:00:52I want to have all of this behind me.
00:00:55This was the final straw.
00:00:56Like, there is no friendship between me and Elizabeth.
00:01:00I don't even like saying her name.
00:01:03Now, where's Lori and Alex?
00:01:04Oh, they left.
00:01:05What?
00:01:07They're mad about last night, of course.
00:01:10I told Jovi what you told me, and Jovi went and told her what you told me.
00:01:13I don't think that Jovi understands the depths of this.
00:01:18Like, Jovi just trying to be a starter is not a good look.
00:01:25Are we even together right now?
00:01:27Like, you walked out.
00:01:28I don't know.
00:01:29I want to feel empowered for myself.
00:01:31I need to feel comfortable.
00:01:32Comfortable with what?
00:01:33When my sister asked me if I wanted kids, I'm thinking about this.
00:01:39It stinks too much.
00:01:46Hurry up!
00:01:47Hurry up!
00:01:48Hurry up!
00:01:49When you are married and a child is born, under Michigan law, you're presumed to be the father.
00:01:55It's not my child.
00:01:56I am technically the father of this child.
00:02:04Child support alone is going to be hundreds of thousands of dollars that you're going to be paying for a baby that you set is not yours.
00:02:17I wouldn't take a hundred thousands of dollars risk, and that's not a game I would play.
00:02:22I've got a lot of stuff to think about here.
00:02:26I'm going to spend the rest of my life taking care of you.
00:02:28I'm going to spend the rest of my life taking care of you.
00:02:56Oh, yeah.
00:02:57I love fresh cheese.
00:02:59Don't want no mold on my cheese, that's for sure.
00:03:02I like fresh cheddar cheese.
00:03:05My favorite.
00:03:09Sausage.
00:03:10Yummy.
00:03:11This looks pretty good.
00:03:14I love cheese and crackers.
00:03:16I'll have to say, since I've been single, I haven't been eating as good as I normally do, and that's why I'm back to eating frozen dinners.
00:03:39I mean, at some point, I'm going to meet someone, and I'll eat better.
00:03:43I believe that.
00:03:48I'm not going to sit home and cry every day that Jasmine broke my heart.
00:03:54I am going to, you know, get out there again, because I know there's true love for every person in the world.
00:04:02You just have to go out and find it, you know?
00:04:05Where are you at with your divorce?
00:04:09Where am I at in my divorce?
00:04:13It's a tricky topic.
00:04:16Everyone's thinking, oh, Gina will get a divorce right away.
00:04:18She cheated on you.
00:04:20She got pregnant, and she's still married to you.
00:04:23Unfortunately, I cannot just go out and get a divorce right away.
00:04:28Now, would I like to?
00:04:30Yes.
00:04:30But I can't, because I want to make sure that the immigration fraud that I filed against Jasmine takes effect.
00:04:39Jasmine committed adultery, cheated on me with the dude down the street at the gym, got pregnant, and I'm considered the father of this baby?
00:04:51That's really f***ed up.
00:04:53She absolutely f***ed up my life.
00:04:55I mean, like, I think I need to go to Congress and get that rule change.
00:05:01I have investments, and I don't want to give free money away to someone that doesn't deserve it.
00:05:07That's a cheater and a liar and a hoe.
00:05:15Mmm.
00:05:17Damn, that's good.
00:05:20Wow.
00:05:27Mmm.
00:05:27Okay.
00:05:31Okay.
00:05:33Top rated dating sites.
00:05:38So my plan is create a dating profile, get myself out there, and I want to use the power of the internet, you know?
00:05:47Because it's so difficult to meet people, you know, down the street, or at church, or the grocery store.
00:05:56We will call it Gino's dating profile.
00:06:00So, all right, um, I should probably look for a few tips for best dating profile.
00:06:09Here we go.
00:06:11Do write your dating profile when you're in a good mood.
00:06:15Don't use sexual innuendo.
00:06:20Be weird.
00:06:22That's natural for me.
00:06:23Be funny if at all possible.
00:06:25That's a good one, because I think everybody likes humor.
00:06:30Yeah, good tips.
00:06:31So I think my headline's going to be love to travel the world and no sugar babies.
00:06:43What is going to be my profile picture?
00:06:46Oh, my gosh, so many pictures.
00:06:47Uh, oh, my gosh, back in the day when I was working out, looking good, but I was also early 30s in this picture.
00:06:56Full head of hair, I got a necklace on, suntan, I look toned and fit.
00:07:02Now that's not going to work.
00:07:03Okay, I think I like this one best.
00:07:07I could just send this picture.
00:07:11Something's coming there.
00:07:13My uncle.
00:07:16Hey, what's up?
00:07:18Hey, something going on.
00:07:20I had a text from somebody, Gino, and Jasmine, I guess, posted something on social media right now.
00:07:28And you might want to check it out.
00:07:37Oh, my God.
00:07:38It looks like she had her baby.
00:07:46Is it a boy or a girl, did it say?
00:07:49It looks like it's a baby girl.
00:07:52Matilda.
00:07:54Wow.
00:07:59You all right, brother?
00:08:02Yeah, it's, you know.
00:08:04I wanted a baby, but you don't want no baby with that lady.
00:08:07You'll get one.
00:08:08Karma's a bitch.
00:08:12She's going to get hers.
00:08:13I got to go.
00:08:15Yeah, okay.
00:08:16Okay.
00:08:17All right, love you.
00:08:18Love you, bye.
00:08:23Well.
00:08:28Interesting.
00:08:32You know, Jasmine wasted four years of my life.
00:08:35That was time that I could have spent with someone who truly loved me and was able to have a child with them.
00:08:42And, you know, now I am ready, you know, to move forward in my life, I could care less about Jasmine's life because it has no impact on me and never will.
00:08:54So, um, yeah, so, um, I'm just going to look forward to my life and finding someone that truly loves me.
00:09:06But let's just say she's going to have some surprises in the future.
00:09:11Jasmine is going to have to do an interview to renew her green card and prove that our marriage was true and there was no fraud.
00:09:18Good luck with that.
00:09:19Let's see how happy and jolly their relationship's going to be.
00:09:23I need you to help me decide what outfits Matilda's going to wear to meet your mom.
00:09:52Just pick something cute.
00:09:53Okay, no glasses?
00:09:56No glasses?
00:09:58For what?
00:09:59I don't know.
00:10:00Inside?
00:10:02She can't see probably as it is.
00:10:16I kind of like this one.
00:10:18Okay.
00:10:18She said, uh-huh.
00:10:23This girl is speaking.
00:10:24So this one?
00:10:26This one it is?
00:10:27Yes.
00:10:27Okay.
00:10:31Okay, Matilda.
00:10:32I think that outfit's cute.
00:10:33Your daddy pick up the outfit.
00:10:36I'm stressed.
00:10:38I have never had a mother-in-law.
00:10:40They are all dead.
00:10:42Gino's?
00:10:42Dead.
00:10:44Matt agreed to introduce me to his family.
00:10:49But I'm very nervous because I have never had a mother-in-law or a sister-in-law.
00:10:54All my mothers-in-law have been dead by the time I'm dating their sons, which is kind of nice.
00:11:00I mean, I'm not happy that they're dead, but I'm happy that I don't have to deal with them.
00:11:06But now I have to deal with an actual mother-in-law, and it's my first time, and I'm nervous.
00:11:13You feel here.
00:11:15Okay.
00:11:18Lord.
00:11:18Oh, my God.
00:11:32Matilda is two months old, and I love Matilda more than anything.
00:11:39But it is 24-hour surveillance.
00:11:45She keeps you on your toes.
00:11:48I've never been more tired in my life than the last two months.
00:11:53The first month, especially, was horrible.
00:11:56And if I was feeling horrible and I'm tired, Jasmine is times four.
00:12:02She's a trooper.
00:12:05You know your mom.
00:12:07I want to cause a very good impression, you know, like the first impression.
00:12:10Don't curse.
00:12:11Remember how I say stop cursing?
00:12:13I'm going to tell your mom.
00:12:14You are the main person that curse all the time.
00:12:17Why are you saying that I curse?
00:12:18Does she hear you how much you curse?
00:12:21I told my mom about Jasmine and being pregnant right after the baby was born.
00:12:27My mom was sad.
00:12:29My mom was heartbroken.
00:12:31She doesn't understand the choices leading up to this.
00:12:35And I don't blame her.
00:12:37You know?
00:12:37It's going to be very interesting for me to see you in front of your mom.
00:12:44I think that you never show her who you really are.
00:12:49Does she know this about you?
00:12:51Like, you're very promiscuous.
00:12:53I am?
00:12:55Matt, you are.
00:12:56Does she know you're a boy?
00:12:58A who?
00:12:58A boy.
00:12:59I am not.
00:13:00You are.
00:13:01No, I am not.
00:13:01Matilda, close your ears.
00:13:11My mom and my sister are actually on their way right now to come visit us.
00:13:15And this will be the first time that my mom and my sister are meeting Jasmine and Matilda.
00:13:21So there's a little bit of anxiety.
00:13:23Uh...
00:13:25Remind me.
00:13:27What does she know about me?
00:13:29Um...
00:13:30Nothing.
00:13:31I believe in God.
00:13:32That's green.
00:13:33Good.
00:13:34Does she know?
00:13:35I think she knows you've been married once.
00:13:37I said back in Panama.
00:13:39Does she know I'm still married?
00:13:42No.
00:13:43That one, that's a no bueno.
00:13:45So I know.
00:13:45No teller.
00:13:47So what are we then?
00:13:50Besides having a daughter, what are we?
00:13:52She kept asking me about, like, are we staying together?
00:13:56Or what are you guys doing?
00:13:57Like, how is there a baby when there hasn't been a marriage?
00:14:03I did tell her, um, that we're engaged.
00:14:11You're joking.
00:14:14Why did you tell your mom that we're engaged?
00:14:19Matt, I'm being serious.
00:14:20Why did you tell your mom we're engaged?
00:14:22If we are not.
00:14:22We haven't even had this conversation as a couple.
00:14:26All you have to do is tell my mom.
00:14:27So she leaves me alone.
00:14:28So then you're...
00:14:29So that's the reason why you're doing it?
00:14:32To make my mom happy, yeah.
00:14:34And what if then she put pressure on us, like, to get married?
00:14:37Oh, just tell her whatever you want, then.
00:14:38We're not engaged.
00:14:39You're married.
00:14:40Just tell her whatever, then.
00:14:43Why?
00:14:44It has to be me.
00:14:45Okay, I'll tell her.
00:14:46The bad person?
00:14:48Why are you telling her now that she's coming and I'm going to be here?
00:14:51Why didn't you give her time to process?
00:14:53It's going to be fine.
00:14:54This is even even better.
00:14:55When she sees the baby, she'll leave me alone.
00:14:56You suck.
00:15:04Are you kidding?
00:15:05In real life, we have never talked about marriage.
00:15:08Why would I be talking about marriage when I'm still married to someone else?
00:15:12We cannot lie.
00:15:13We cannot hide the truth.
00:15:14We cannot just tell her a version that we believe is going to make me look good.
00:15:19It could hurt her.
00:15:20And she doesn't deserve it.
00:15:22Now I'm worried about his sister.
00:15:26She wouldn't find out from social media.
00:15:29I'm still married to Gino.
00:15:31Matt's stupid idea of lying to her about us being engaged, Matt went too far with that
00:15:38lie.
00:15:40Everything's going to be fine.
00:15:46You know how my mom is.
00:15:47She wants to be involved in everything.
00:15:49No.
00:15:50I don't want to tell Betty news because we have high-risk pregnancy and I don't need
00:15:56more stress from Betty.
00:15:59You know, that's why we need to tell her now.
00:16:06You came in my room bashing her yesterday.
00:16:08Bashing her?
00:16:11I can't help but see that every time there's some type of issue, you guys are always in
00:16:14the middle of it.
00:16:15You're playing a game over here.
00:16:18Yara deserves to have a good person around her.
00:16:22What the are you doing?
00:16:23Good morning.
00:16:49Good morning.
00:16:50What are you doing?
00:16:50That's the owner of this $19,000 in 1999.
00:16:56What?
00:16:57Bike is selling.
00:16:59Sell my kidneys, but do not sell this bike.
00:17:03Let's have a deal.
00:17:03You sell this bike and you're going to have sex.
00:17:08What?
00:17:09That's not fair.
00:17:11Let's go riding out with the touchdown.
00:17:16Come on now, live it up and make it a new sound.
00:17:22I'm not selling this bike.
00:17:24Brandon, I think that it's time to let this go.
00:17:27No, I don't think it's time to let this go.
00:17:29Hear me out.
00:17:30We need the cash.
00:17:31Let's start selling some stuff.
00:17:34We can use this money for payment for house.
00:17:42Reason why I want to sell Brandon's bike.
00:17:48Baby on the way, and we are going to have big changes.
00:17:53We are discussing potentially bigger house.
00:17:56We are looking now, options, places.
00:18:00And then next, we're going to a bigger bike.
00:18:04This will hold its value, at least.
00:18:06This, as long as, especially if I'm not putting miles on it.
00:18:10We have a bit of a limited financial situation at the moment.
00:18:14Due to our Europe trip, I was able to jump back into work,
00:18:18and I've been working again.
00:18:20But I'm making less money, and house is a big purchase,
00:18:25and your apartment didn't sell.
00:18:27So we're kind of out a bit of money that we needed.
00:18:32Let's table this.
00:18:34We will figure out how to make money other ways,
00:18:37and we'll forget this conversation ever happened.
00:18:50Come on, guys.
00:18:52Let's go.
00:18:53Brandon, please, be careful with toys.
00:19:01It's so tropical.
00:19:03Somebody want a fruit?
00:19:04Somebody want a fruit?
00:19:06I want a fruity.
00:19:06So, I've been thinking about house.
00:19:15I'm looking another area.
00:19:18What are you thinking about Chesapeake?
00:19:20It's got a lot of farm-looking area out there.
00:19:21It's nice.
00:19:23What do you mean by farm?
00:19:24Like, it's got land.
00:19:26House is separate from each other.
00:19:28Yeah, okay.
00:19:28But when you say farm, it doesn't mean, like,
00:19:31you're going to have chickens and goats and sheep
00:19:33like your parents, right?
00:19:36What would be wrong with that?
00:19:38No, absolutely.
00:19:39Because your mom, she will be over the place.
00:19:43She will be, like, everywhere.
00:19:44Just, like, take her around us.
00:19:47It's, like, kilometers running,
00:19:49and just make sure everything in her way.
00:19:52Just, like, when your mom will be found out
00:19:55about pregnancy, she will be helicopter.
00:19:58You know how my mom is.
00:19:59She wants to be involved in everything.
00:20:01And, you know, that's why we need to tell her now.
00:20:05No.
00:20:06We already are talking about this.
00:20:07We're not going to tell us too early to tell anybody.
00:20:11Julia, it's been the second trimester.
00:20:13And, you know, maybe if we tell my parents
00:20:16about the fact that you're pregnant,
00:20:18maybe they would help give the down payment
00:20:20for this dream home of yours.
00:20:23I'm sure there will be half for that payment
00:20:25house next to the farm.
00:20:28Only one option.
00:20:32So, let's do what we're doing.
00:20:35Let's do it step by step.
00:20:36Mm-hmm.
00:20:37But we're not going to tell us too early.
00:20:39I don't think...
00:20:41Brian, you're thinking when she know about
00:20:42we have a child and she's going to be grandmother,
00:20:45she are not freaking out,
00:20:46and she doesn't want to move close to us?
00:20:48I don't want to tell Betty news
00:20:52because I don't want she will be overstaping,
00:20:54like, annoying stuff, helicopter stuff.
00:20:58And we have high-risk pregnancy.
00:21:00I have a wall,
00:21:01and it's a hole on my wall in the uterus.
00:21:04But technically, baby could die.
00:21:06So I feel scared.
00:21:07I don't know.
00:21:08To me, it's...
00:21:09It's weird feeling.
00:21:11It's not something where I need to go
00:21:13and to tell everybody on the left and the right.
00:21:15It's, to me, something like...
00:21:16I never feel this before.
00:21:20I mean, I don't want Julia to stress out
00:21:23because I worry about the baby.
00:21:26And I stress enough,
00:21:31say, from all my heart.
00:21:34And I don't need more stress from Betty.
00:21:36My goodness!
00:22:01This is so pretty!
00:22:03Mm-hmm.
00:22:04Yeah.
00:22:05I know, right?
00:22:06Elizabeth, I look at it.
00:22:07There's no smurfs,
00:22:08whatever you call it,
00:22:09they're ready for us to be.
00:22:11And you say I'm not romantic.
00:22:12How much more romantic could you get than this?
00:22:27That's a gluten-free?
00:22:28Oh, my gosh.
00:22:29Just give me a break
00:22:30and say, thank you, Jovi, for organizing.
00:22:32I hope you get the hell out of this job
00:22:34because I'm so worth it.
00:22:35You're not going to take credit for all of this.
00:22:38Did you make this fire?
00:22:42Did you guys know what s'mores was
00:22:44before you came here?
00:22:45Yeah, I tried it one time
00:22:46in Jovi's family house.
00:22:48I've seen it one time in a movie.
00:22:51Jovi, Jovi,
00:22:52what are you doing?
00:22:54I'm making a s'mores.
00:22:55Do you need help?
00:22:56This is good.
00:22:57Do I need to help you?
00:22:58You don't toast a graham cracker.
00:23:00No!
00:23:01This is sacrilegious.
00:23:03Jovi, what is that?
00:23:04That's called, like, some shashlik.
00:23:06Like, that's, like, not from America.
00:23:07What is that?
00:23:08Jovi, you're really embarrassing
00:23:10as an American right now.
00:23:12I have no idea what I'm doing,
00:23:13to be honest.
00:23:15Okay, Jovi, I understand,
00:23:16I never have a s'morf,
00:23:17but do you ever have a s'morf?
00:23:19What?
00:23:20Smurfs.
00:23:22Smurfs?
00:23:22We used to have a cartoon
00:23:24when I was a kid.
00:23:24They call it smurfs.
00:23:25Smurfs.
00:23:26Smurfs.
00:23:27Smurfs is a different word,
00:23:29completely different,
00:23:30a lot of different letters in it.
00:23:30Do you know that cartoon?
00:23:31Yeah.
00:23:32Smurfs?
00:23:32Yeah.
00:23:33That's not the same thing?
00:23:34No.
00:23:35Okay.
00:23:39Babe.
00:23:39You know, like,
00:23:40we're going to all be here.
00:23:41We're going to all be
00:23:42friends from the beginning,
00:23:44but you see, like,
00:23:44there's stuff going on
00:23:45all the time.
00:23:46Well, it's stuff going on
00:23:47because you guys
00:23:48making drama all the time.
00:23:49Yeah, I actually kind of
00:23:50feel like they're not so bad.
00:23:51You just make them be, like,
00:23:52they're the bad guys all the time.
00:23:53I agree.
00:23:54And then you're influencing us
00:23:55if they're bad.
00:23:56You're making me think
00:23:56that they're bad.
00:23:59I don't know why you guys
00:24:00always did this
00:24:01drama around you.
00:24:03You're always feisty
00:24:04and always something happening.
00:24:06It's not have to be like that.
00:24:08You're just, like,
00:24:09you're trying to instigate
00:24:10some
00:24:10That would be instigating
00:24:12some
00:24:12Like, we just don't
00:24:14want to fight with nobody.
00:24:15We like you guys.
00:24:16We like them.
00:24:17But last night
00:24:18when all of the
00:24:19was right, right?
00:24:20You're, like,
00:24:21supposedly everybody was,
00:24:22you're, like, fine.
00:24:24You came in my room
00:24:25bashing her yesterday.
00:24:26Bashing her?
00:24:28I mean, saying...
00:24:29I did not bash her.
00:24:30I was informing Yara
00:24:31about things that was
00:24:33said about her,
00:24:33so Yara is cautious
00:24:35because Yara deserves
00:24:36to have a good person
00:24:38around her.
00:24:40And then you go
00:24:41and tell Lauren,
00:24:42so it's like,
00:24:43how can I know
00:24:43that, like,
00:24:44us as being friends
00:24:45I can tell you something
00:24:46and you're not going to go
00:24:47tell her the next day
00:24:48because you're in Miami.
00:24:49We got to a good place.
00:24:51It's almost as if you guys
00:24:52were trying to stir
00:24:53the pot a little bit.
00:24:54Listen, listen, hang on.
00:24:55I could be wrong.
00:24:55I hope I am.
00:24:55Before you want to accuse me
00:24:56of starting seems that way.
00:24:58I don't know.
00:25:00Maybe Jovi and Yara
00:25:02are the common denominators here.
00:25:04Initially, Yara was the one
00:25:05that came to me
00:25:06and told me
00:25:07what Lauren said
00:25:08about my husband,
00:25:09that he was a horrible man
00:25:10and a dick,
00:25:11and then told Lauren
00:25:14what I said to her
00:25:15in confidence.
00:25:16It seems like
00:25:17they're really good
00:25:18at being neutral,
00:25:19but the moment
00:25:20hits the fan,
00:25:21they're really good
00:25:21at just taking a step back
00:25:23and wiping their hands clean
00:25:24as if they have
00:25:25nothing to do with it.
00:25:29I can't help but see
00:25:30that every time
00:25:31there's some type of issue,
00:25:32you guys are always
00:25:32in the middle of it.
00:25:34You're playing
00:25:35the double game over here.
00:25:37I'm just saying
00:25:38if you want to pick sides,
00:25:40pick the sides.
00:25:41You're investigating
00:25:42on one side
00:25:43and you're playing
00:25:43on the other side.
00:25:44You have to choose
00:25:45what the are you doing?
00:25:47That's not why
00:25:48we are fighting right now.
00:25:49Because you guys
00:25:50misunderstand.
00:25:50He can't be around
00:25:52anybody and I fight
00:25:53with him.
00:25:53He's a cancer
00:25:54and everybody's around.
00:26:00I used to be against
00:26:02my son to have girlfriend
00:26:04and have sexual morality
00:26:06when he said,
00:26:09you know,
00:26:10I don't like that.
00:26:12It's a surprise
00:26:13for me, Matthew,
00:26:14to be a father
00:26:14because he was
00:26:18like a child.
00:26:20I don't want to tell her.
00:26:29They're expecting me
00:26:30to have kids.
00:26:32You deserve happiness,
00:26:34but I can no longer
00:26:35have children.
00:26:37It's just hard for me
00:26:38because after that,
00:26:39it's being around my family.
00:26:40Can you listen?
00:26:41I'm nervous
00:27:00and my stomach
00:27:01is gurgling.
00:27:02I should have poop
00:27:12before they came
00:27:13if they come.
00:27:15Too late.
00:27:16Yeah, I tried,
00:27:17but I couldn't.
00:27:18It's too late.
00:27:19I hear someone coming.
00:27:32Can you see that?
00:27:35No, I'm fine.
00:27:36Are you sure?
00:27:37No.
00:27:37Okay.
00:27:39Hello.
00:27:40Hello.
00:27:41We're here.
00:27:41Hi.
00:27:42Oh, my goodness.
00:27:43Hi.
00:27:44Hi, ladies.
00:27:46Hi.
00:27:46Hi, daddy.
00:27:48Oh, I love you.
00:27:50Hi, mom.
00:27:50Hi.
00:27:51Nice to meet you.
00:27:53Finally.
00:27:55You look just like...
00:27:56You look beautiful.
00:27:58Oh, you're so cute.
00:28:00Hi.
00:28:02How are you?
00:28:03Hi.
00:28:03So great to see you.
00:28:05You can see you too.
00:28:07And to meet your little baby.
00:28:08Hi, mama.
00:28:09Hi.
00:28:09I don't know you.
00:28:10I please no, pooper.
00:28:12I don't want that baby
00:28:13to get sick.
00:28:14I know.
00:28:14I'm kissing you.
00:28:15I know.
00:28:16I'm kissing you.
00:28:16Yes, Lizzie.
00:28:18You look so cute.
00:28:21I don't know too much
00:28:22about Jasmine.
00:28:24But Matthew told me
00:28:26that he met a girl
00:28:27when he lived
00:28:28in Dearborn, Michigan.
00:28:31And I believe
00:28:32they're getting along.
00:28:33But the way I was brought
00:28:34that I should be married
00:28:35and I felt the same way
00:28:37for my son.
00:28:39Hi.
00:28:39I'm so happy.
00:28:41I'm happy.
00:28:42Matthew and Jasmine
00:28:43are engaged.
00:28:44But I told Matt
00:28:46that they should get married
00:28:47and they should be done
00:28:48before they even
00:28:49had the baby.
00:28:50Come and sit down.
00:28:51Come sit down.
00:28:52Come sit, sit.
00:28:53I think Matt waited
00:28:54a long time to tell us
00:28:56that Jasmine was pregnant
00:28:57because he was worried
00:28:58about what my mom's
00:28:59response would be.
00:29:00I got a little bit upset.
00:29:02But I tried
00:29:04to hold myself.
00:29:06So I don't know
00:29:07what to say
00:29:08about whatever
00:29:10they did now.
00:29:11Well, we are here.
00:29:17Just a big, happy family.
00:29:19Right, Matt?
00:29:20Yep.
00:29:21Looks like Matt, right?
00:29:22Oh, my gosh.
00:29:24Sorry.
00:29:24I'm so, like, awestruck.
00:29:26I was so nervous
00:29:28and happy
00:29:29to finally meet you in person.
00:29:31Aw.
00:29:32Me, too.
00:29:33Yeah, but we're so excited.
00:29:35Yeah, I'm very happy.
00:29:37The way that Matt
00:29:38talked about jazz,
00:29:40realizing she's intelligent,
00:29:42she's beautiful,
00:29:43she's funny, you know,
00:29:44like, it made sense
00:29:45why he really liked her.
00:29:47God accept me
00:29:48as a sinner
00:29:49and all of us.
00:29:51Jasmine, too.
00:29:52Mm-hmm.
00:29:53You know,
00:29:54Matilda's name is
00:29:55Matilda Olympia.
00:29:56Yeah.
00:29:57Yeah.
00:29:57We wanted to honor you.
00:29:59I love her.
00:30:01No.
00:30:01And she looks like you,
00:30:02a lot.
00:30:03Yeah.
00:30:03I can't believe
00:30:04he's a father.
00:30:05It's a surprise
00:30:09for me,
00:30:10Matthew,
00:30:10to be a father
00:30:11because
00:30:12he was like a child
00:30:15before they met each other.
00:30:18I didn't see it happening
00:30:19anytime soon
00:30:20that my brother
00:30:21would settle down
00:30:21and have a family.
00:30:23Yeah,
00:30:23it surprised me.
00:30:24It really did.
00:30:25I'm kind of happy.
00:30:27She's not sure
00:30:28how to feel.
00:30:29Oh.
00:30:30Can we hold her, too?
00:30:34Yeah,
00:30:35you can hold her.
00:30:36That's a perfect opportunity.
00:30:38Go with Grandma.
00:30:39Okay, Mom.
00:30:40Oh.
00:30:41Oh, baby.
00:30:44Oh, baby.
00:30:44She's like,
00:30:45Dad, where are you going?
00:30:46Hi.
00:30:47Hi, Matilda.
00:30:48She's so cute.
00:30:50You look so cute, Matty.
00:30:51She does look like Matt.
00:30:54Right?
00:30:55Yes, she does.
00:30:57Ooh.
00:30:58No.
00:30:58Matt's mom,
00:31:00she's so tiny and cute
00:31:02and so adorable.
00:31:05Yeah, mi amor.
00:31:06It's your grandma.
00:31:08And Matt's sister
00:31:09is also very sweet.
00:31:11They look like
00:31:11very nice people.
00:31:13So,
00:31:14I feel so bad.
00:31:15She came so happy
00:31:16to meet her granddaughter.
00:31:19And Matt,
00:31:21he lied to her.
00:31:23I have him living in sin
00:31:24and I've been so scared
00:31:26to tell them the truth.
00:31:27and breaking her heart
00:31:30and I have to tell her
00:31:31how things are really.
00:31:33I feel like...
00:31:35Welcome to our family.
00:31:39Oh.
00:31:40So cute.
00:31:42Me too, right?
00:31:43Welcome.
00:31:43Oh, okay.
00:31:45Yes, me too.
00:31:47I'm not sure.
00:31:47I'm going to go check her diaper.
00:31:50Yeah, I think he's a diaper.
00:31:51Can I help?
00:31:52Are you guys hungry?
00:31:54Sure.
00:31:55Yeah.
00:31:55Want to help me cook?
00:31:57Yes, yes.
00:31:58Let's go check your diaper.
00:32:00I'm worried
00:32:01because Jasmine
00:32:02wants to tell my mom
00:32:04every nook and cranny
00:32:06of the craziest things.
00:32:08I'm like,
00:32:09just leave it alone.
00:32:13So were you surprised
00:32:15when Matt told you
00:32:16that I was pregnant?
00:32:18Yes, I was.
00:32:19I was very surprised.
00:32:20But happy?
00:32:23When he said
00:32:24that Jasmine got pregnant,
00:32:27I was happy about the baby
00:32:29and I was happy
00:32:30about engaged.
00:32:31I used to be against
00:32:33my son to have a girlfriend
00:32:36and have sexual morality.
00:32:40You know,
00:32:41I don't like that.
00:32:44Yeah.
00:32:45Yes, I don't like Jess.
00:32:47I, uh,
00:32:48you're right,
00:32:49you know.
00:32:51If people are going to be
00:32:53doing things,
00:32:55they have to be serious.
00:33:00Matt!
00:33:01Dinner is served!
00:33:04It's polenta
00:33:05Latina style.
00:33:08Yeah, it is.
00:33:09It looks lovely.
00:33:10Please take a seat,
00:33:12Rebecca.
00:33:13Mom, there.
00:33:15Try it!
00:33:17Is this feta too?
00:33:18Yeah.
00:33:18The basil smells lovely.
00:33:27But she put too much
00:33:28water in it, so.
00:33:29But otherwise,
00:33:30it's good.
00:33:31Yummy.
00:33:33It's so good.
00:33:35It's good.
00:33:36It's nice.
00:33:37This is porridge.
00:33:38This is nice.
00:33:39I mean,
00:33:40it is more or less porridge.
00:33:43I am.
00:33:44It's just so delicious.
00:33:45I gotta hold this baby
00:33:46at the same time.
00:33:47Well, I don't know
00:33:47if this is the most
00:33:48opportune time,
00:33:49but thank you for making
00:33:50his dinner,
00:33:51and Mom and I
00:33:51got you a small,
00:33:52little gift.
00:33:54This is so fucking crazy.
00:33:56Are you kidding?
00:33:57I'll cross a heart
00:33:59and it says Matilda.
00:34:02I love it.
00:34:06Matt?
00:34:07Mom, your mom told me
00:34:09that you told her
00:34:10about our engagement.
00:34:12She told me
00:34:13that for her
00:34:14it's very important
00:34:15marriage
00:34:16when there are kids,
00:34:19you know,
00:34:19and she doesn't believe
00:34:20in
00:34:21having relationships
00:34:23without being married.
00:34:25Matt told her.
00:34:27Mom,
00:34:36I lied
00:34:37about us being engaged.
00:34:48You don't care
00:34:49about how I feel.
00:34:50That's what is bothering me.
00:34:52I'm hurting too.
00:34:54I'm tired of this.
00:34:56I've done enough.
00:34:58Let me move on.
00:34:59Let me have a kiss.
00:35:00Stop.
00:35:01Just stop.
00:35:23Since this date,
00:35:25when my sister asked me
00:35:26about if I want kids,
00:35:27you don't give me peace.
00:35:33And I don't know.
00:35:37I don't know.
00:35:41I get it.
00:35:42But I can't give you any kids.
00:36:04You did say some things
00:36:18when we have talked about
00:36:33the kids' situation
00:36:34that you didn't want that.
00:36:35You said kids are too expensive
00:36:37and too much of a responsibility.
00:36:40But we can no longer have children.
00:36:44I never say I want a kid right now.
00:36:47I'm saying this keep bothering me.
00:36:49You waited until now to say it.
00:36:51Yeah, because it keeps bothering me.
00:36:52And I wanted to share with you
00:36:54because you're my best friend.
00:36:55You're my wife.
00:36:56I will support you as a husband,
00:37:00friend, whatever.
00:37:01You deserve happiness.
00:37:03But so do I.
00:37:05I can't give you what you really, really want.
00:37:06I don't know why you're reacting to this, man.
00:37:07Because you know deep down inside
00:37:09what you really want.
00:37:10You don't want to admit it.
00:37:11When your sister said these things to you,
00:37:15it hit a chord.
00:37:16It hit your heartstring.
00:37:18It just, it just, it just is hard for me
00:37:20because after that,
00:37:21being around my family,
00:37:22can you listen?
00:37:23I am.
00:37:24I'm trying to open.
00:37:25You want me to open.
00:37:26And it just, it's hard for me to open.
00:37:29And when I try to open,
00:37:30you don't let me open.
00:37:32I'm tired of this.
00:37:33I just want to try to open,
00:37:39have a conversation with you,
00:37:40to, to, to be vulnerable and open.
00:37:42You don't care about how I feel.
00:37:44That's, that's what is bothering me.
00:37:46I'm hurting too.
00:37:48And I'm trying to explain to you.
00:37:53That's why I don't want to open to nobody
00:37:55because nobody cares about my feelings.
00:38:01Yeah, do your thing.
00:38:03But I don't think it's going to work, Georgie.
00:38:10But I know you.
00:38:11No, no, no.
00:38:12Let me have my life
00:38:14and you will not take that away from me.
00:38:17I'll find something else
00:38:19and you will not be a part of that.
00:38:20You're having your life.
00:38:22No.
00:38:23Stop this.
00:38:26Stop wasting my time.
00:38:27Stop wasting my time.
00:38:30I've done enough.
00:38:31Let me move on.
00:38:32Let me have my peace.
00:38:34Stop.
00:38:35Just stop.
00:38:36I want you to have that.
00:38:38Do it.
00:38:39Get the f*** over it.
00:38:41God damn it.
00:38:42It's happened before.
00:38:43It's going to happen again.
00:38:44I'm so f***ing used to s***.
00:38:46I'm fine on my own.
00:38:50Do what you got to do.
00:38:52I love you.
00:38:54I love you.
00:38:55I can't do this anymore.
00:38:58I have to go.
00:38:59Just breathe.
00:39:02I'm strong.
00:39:02I can be by myself.
00:39:04Don't need to.
00:39:06You're always going to figure it out.
00:39:09You're always the one giving up.
00:39:10You know, we went home to see your family.
00:39:20It made me feel like, you know, I'm the first girl that he brought to the family at 30-something years old.
00:39:28I don't know.
00:39:30It's just, it's crazy.
00:39:34No.
00:39:35I just want to figure out what I actually want for myself.
00:39:42It's a breaking point.
00:39:44But how it's going to affect our marriage, we don't know yet.
00:39:52Why prolong it?
00:39:53Like, just, I'm there to help you emotionally, but why can't you f***ing tell me the truth?
00:39:59I want to be happy.
00:40:01You have kids.
00:40:02Wonderful.
00:40:02Like, don't be in this marriage if that's not something that you see for us.
00:40:07Asked him these same f***ing things for years, and he gave me different answers.
00:40:14I can't make him to be the man that I need, because maybe he's not.
00:40:21Maybe he's not.
00:40:22Maybe it's easier for just us to both move on, sign the divorce papers, and call it a death.
00:40:29I don't know.
00:40:30I don't know.
00:40:32Julia, I think you really should tell Betty right now.
00:40:40I mean, it's about how...
00:40:42Let her know, because eventually it's going to come out, and she's going to know this timeline.
00:40:45And, like, who knew what and when.
00:40:48Is this your plan all along?
00:40:49It's what you wanted?
00:40:51Put distance between me and my parents?
00:41:00My heart is crying for my son.
00:41:04This is the nightmare we are currently dealing with.
00:41:09I am very disappointed.
00:41:10I think I'm supposed to, like, pull this thing in the back, and it's supposed to, like, go up, but nothing happens.
00:41:36Wait, how do you pull this thing?
00:41:37I don't know.
00:41:37It just says, pull this tab.
00:41:39Brandon, I never touch a baby's tab in my life.
00:41:43What are you doing?
00:41:44It's working, whatever.
00:41:45It's working?
00:41:46Yeah.
00:41:47Oh, that feels right.
00:41:48It feels right?
00:41:49Yeah.
00:41:52Yes, this is my baby.
00:41:54Can you touch your feet?
00:41:55All right, let's pretend I'm walking down the street.
00:41:57I don't need to scratch my feet.
00:41:59Oh, yeah.
00:42:02You're going to walk in the list in the street?
00:42:03You got to, because if I go like this, the baby could die, Julia.
00:42:08It's a good thing I think of these things.
00:42:09I'm crying in the feet.
00:42:18I don't like gray.
00:42:21I want to see, like, black and blue.
00:42:23It doesn't matter.
00:42:24It's, I'm excited, and I want to buy something.
00:42:26I want to buy something.
00:42:29I'm five months pregnant right now, and still nobody knows I'm pregnant.
00:42:34I just don't feel like it's the kind of thing you hide from your family.
00:42:40You're going to start showing even more soon.
00:42:43It's still, like, little.
00:42:45Like, like, like, like this.
00:42:47Uh-huh.
00:42:47It's definitely a belly there.
00:42:48If it's our clothes, I mean, then obviously it will be no.
00:42:51Mm-hmm.
00:42:51But with clothes, I mean, like this, look.
00:42:53I mean, they're asking about you.
00:42:56So I've seen my parents, but, I mean, Julia hasn't.
00:43:01And my parents are really starting to ask questions and wonder why they haven't seen you.
00:43:05Because me and Betty have a rough conversation before we go into Europe.
00:43:10Julia, you're putting a wedge in between our son and us.
00:43:16You both need, like, step back from our family.
00:43:19If you don't feel like we're all a family, maybe you do need to go back to Russia.
00:43:23I think Betty have a professional skills to our manipulate people.
00:43:31If I see Betty, and if she going to tell your mom about pregnancy, I know this is going to be two helicopters on my head.
00:43:39I want to support you.
00:43:40I don't want to stress you out.
00:43:41I don't think you need it.
00:43:42But I just don't know how to get you to not stress about this, to see this is a good thing.
00:43:47I feel like, ladies, my heart will be feeling it's time.
00:43:50It will be time.
00:43:52I mean, I feel like I'm really missing on a core experience here.
00:43:56This is why I feel like we're not...
00:43:57Not only you.
00:43:58We're missing.
00:43:59If you want to start telling to people, I will be suggest we're going to be telling Niki and Ju first.
00:44:04And I want to ask them to be our godparents.
00:44:07Okay.
00:44:07This table right here looks good.
00:44:22Yeah, you want some message?
00:44:27Anybody want to sit?
00:44:28Hey, y'all.
00:44:30I'm Trey.
00:44:30I'll be your server today.
00:44:31Okay.
00:44:33Thank you, sir.
00:44:34Yeah.
00:44:35Can I get you guys something to drink and eat?
00:44:38Pretzel sticks and nachos.
00:44:39Got you.
00:44:40And can I ask you something very weird?
00:44:42What?
00:44:42Can I ask you to give me our sauce of chocolate?
00:44:46Okay.
00:44:46Like puddle sauce.
00:44:47I got you.
00:44:48All righty.
00:44:51We doesn't see Niki and Ju in a while.
00:44:54And we're going to reveal to them the big news.
00:44:58Niki and Ju will be first people who will be known about our pregnancy.
00:45:02And we choose them because they're more trustable.
00:45:04They're more good friends.
00:45:05I'd rather be telling mom and dad.
00:45:08But for now, I'll accept this as a compromise.
00:45:14All righty.
00:45:16Pretzel sticks.
00:45:18Nacho, man.
00:45:19So I put everything in the middle.
00:45:21In the chocolate syrup.
00:45:23I put it here.
00:45:24Oh.
00:45:26Okay.
00:45:27We're going to play some game.
00:45:29Okay.
00:45:29I want you are guessing.
00:45:30This is going to be interesting.
00:45:37One second.
00:45:41Don't make me hungry.
00:45:42Okay.
00:45:43Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:45:48Can you be God?
00:45:53What I draw here?
00:45:54I draw something.
00:45:57A person with a heart?
00:45:59That's fat.
00:46:00Fat person.
00:46:01Fat?
00:46:01Fat?
00:46:04Oh, my God.
00:46:05Are you what?
00:46:07Are you fighting?
00:46:08Are you fighting?
00:46:08Are you fighting?
00:46:08Are you fighting?
00:46:10Huh?
00:46:10Are you serious?
00:46:11No.
00:46:11No.
00:46:15Do you not answer me the question?
00:46:17Do you guys, uh, I'm just trying to talk right now.
00:46:22I'm, like, speechless right now.
00:46:23I'm speechless too right now.
00:46:25It's actually, it's already, we are halfway.
00:46:29No.
00:46:29What?
00:46:30Yep.
00:46:30Halfway?
00:46:31Halfway?
00:46:31You've had this secret for us this whole time?
00:46:34Yep.
00:46:35Yep.
00:46:36Holy .
00:46:39I thought she wasn't able to conceive, so I'm really happy that she's able to have her
00:46:45own baby.
00:46:46I'm, like, super, like, still in shock how quickly it was that they were able to conceive.
00:46:51It's great news.
00:46:52It's just taking me a minute to, you know, absorb it all.
00:46:55Yeah, process it all.
00:46:56So, you know, another thing...
00:46:59You guys first...
00:47:00Oh, no.
00:47:01Nobody knows.
00:47:02From your friends, or...
00:47:04You've told your family, right?
00:47:08No.
00:47:09Why not?
00:47:11I mean, I am lucky that she even let me tell you guys, to be honest.
00:47:17We have a high-ideous pregnancy, and I'm like, I have a lot of stress.
00:47:21And she will be involved too much.
00:47:25Julia, I think you really should tell him daddy right now.
00:47:28I mean, it's about time.
00:47:30I mean, you're halfway through your pregnancy.
00:47:32Thank you, all right?
00:47:35Like, just let her know, because eventually it's going to come out,
00:47:38and she's going to know this timeline, and, like, who knew what and when.
00:47:41I'm sure she'll be receptive if you just do it in a certain way.
00:47:46Betty might be a little overbearing, but I think she deserves to know the news.
00:47:50Like, I think that, you know, Julia tells them sooner rather than later,
00:47:54because I don't think it's going to get better with time.
00:47:56Like, her bracing or just being too nervous and paranoid about telling her,
00:48:00I think it's going to...
00:48:01Backfire.
00:48:01Yeah, like...
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:04Now, lately, I'm telling Betty I doesn't want to go into the farm.
00:48:10And after this, she gets offended.
00:48:12Oh.
00:48:14When?
00:48:15When did you talk to my mom?
00:48:17Like, three weeks ago.
00:48:18On the phone.
00:48:19And you told her that you never wanted to go back to the farm?
00:48:24I don't...
00:48:25I don't think she's saying that.
00:48:26Sorry.
00:48:26It is, like...
00:48:27I don't think you're saying that.
00:48:29I'm serious.
00:48:29It's a little ridiculous.
00:48:39She are over-controlling.
00:48:41She even getting more controlling than before.
00:48:44I mean, is this your plan all along?
00:48:47It's what you wanted?
00:48:48What distance between me and my parents?
00:48:50It's what she wants.
00:49:14Math?
00:49:16What?
00:49:18Tell her.
00:49:20Music
00:49:42Mom, I lied about us being engaged.
00:49:46Jasmine is still married to somebody.
00:49:52And she's going through a divorce.
00:49:58I came to this country because I married that person.
00:50:04I dated that person for five years.
00:50:07And that relationship didn't work.
00:50:10You know, it didn't.
00:50:12And I'm separating from this person.
00:50:15Now I'm with Matt.
00:50:21I am very disappointed.
00:50:27I'm just going to have to give it to God, you know,
00:50:29and to pay for all of you.
00:50:30That's all I can do.
00:50:31That's all you can do.
00:50:32Yeah.
00:50:33Yeah.
00:50:40So is the divorce actually happening?
00:50:43Yes.
00:50:44I recently hired a lawyer.
00:50:47But the difficult, like, complex part of the divorce is the fact that I had Matilda while I was, I'm still married to this person.
00:50:57So legally, the father of Matilda is not Matt, but Gino, my ex-husband.
00:51:03I'm a little bit confused.
00:51:07What's the worst case scenario?
00:51:09Like, right at this moment as we are, my husband has rights over Matilda.
00:51:19Yikes.
00:51:21Like, if he wanted, he would take her.
00:51:23That's kind of scary.
00:51:24It is.
00:51:25Like, now, our priority is, like, we can prove legally that Matt is the biological father, and then I can get divorced.
00:51:37And this is the nightmare we are currently dealing with.
00:51:44This is scary.
00:51:45I'm not saying this would happen, but, like, Matt sounds like he has no rights as a father right now.
00:51:54Uh, so, no, he doesn't.
00:51:55That's also scary to me.
00:51:57Yeah.
00:51:58I don't know.
00:51:59You just are like, I don't want to be part of this anymore.
00:52:02And I'm not saying that's what you're going to do.
00:52:04But this all started as y'all slipping and falling into love accidentally.
00:52:11And people slip and fall out of love, you know, so.
00:52:36We will.
00:52:37We promise.
00:52:38We regret.
00:52:39We will.
00:52:40We will.
00:52:41I want my kids and my friends to be saved in God's eyes.
00:52:45And not to go to hell, but to hell.
00:52:48That's all I want.
00:52:49Me and my kids, all of my friends.
00:52:51That's all I want.
00:52:52I know, Mom.
00:52:53I know.
00:52:54It's okay.
00:52:55It's okay.
00:52:56Relax, Mama.
00:52:57Relax.
00:52:58They didn't have to lie to me without being engaged in order to present the pregnancy.
00:53:04I feel like I'm deceit.
00:53:06I feel like crying.
00:53:09We don't know the story that God has written for them, right?
00:53:12Yeah.
00:53:13Like, God knows.
00:53:14No.
00:53:15And that's where you put your faith.
00:53:16So, I think you, yeah, you pray for them.
00:53:18You pray out from your heart.
00:53:19Yeah, and I have to trust them.
00:53:20Yeah.
00:53:21This is between him and God and Jasmine.
00:53:25But I care about their soul.
00:53:26I do care about them.
00:53:28I do want to support them.
00:53:30And I still think about them, no matter how they are.
00:53:34I don't think I could say that he's a good person.
00:53:35I'm a bad guy.
00:53:36I'm a good guy.
00:53:37Yeah, I know.
00:53:38I can't say that you can play.
00:53:39I'm a good man.
00:53:40Bye.
00:53:41I'll do it.
00:53:42Bye.
00:53:43Bye.
00:53:44Bye.
00:53:45Bye.
00:53:46Bye.
00:53:47Bye.
00:53:48Bye.
00:53:49Bye.
00:53:50Bye.
00:53:50Bye, bye.
00:53:51Bye.
00:53:52Bye, bye, bye.
00:53:53Bye.
00:53:54Bye, bye, bye.
00:53:55Bye, bye.
00:53:56Bye, bye, bye.
00:53:57Bye.
00:53:58Bye, bye.
00:53:59more money could look like george clooney or richard gear from my dates in the future
00:54:15hello big shot i'll get you hello big shot coming to your door hello big shot make me wait no more
00:54:37hey how you doing how are you how can i help you well i have a couple of shirts and i'm missing
00:54:44one button from each of them on the very bottom all right also i'm probably these pants are a little
00:54:49big on me and i i don't know if they can be adjusted or anything yeah you're walking in a
00:54:54couple sales there so yeah we'll get them fixed up for you okay i need to look at some clothes too
00:55:10okay i'm recently single i just want to look good you know and feel more confident i i want to look
00:55:18at something fancy sure yeah we'd be happy to help come on in i'll run these in the back okay
00:55:24i decided i'm going to go to a fancy men's clothing store because i'd want to see if i can find some
00:55:33clothes that maybe gives me more confidence from my dates in the future all right so let me get these
00:55:40pants marked up for you okay yeah they're a little big uh so where are you from geez probably 20 minutes
00:55:48from here in canton nice just down the road um so recently single so you're just looking for some
00:55:57things to kind of wear on date nights yeah i mean yeah because i'm gonna get out there and start dating
00:56:04again for the first time it's been a while you know and normally when i go shopping i usually go to
00:56:12salvation army but if you're gonna improve your style and clothes it's also gonna probably cost you
00:56:18money too i'm willing to spend more money could look like george clooney or richard gear
00:56:31do you need this in a rush well i don't think i need him today you know it's not that much of a rush
00:56:35but i created a dating profile right and i haven't really landed a date yet but i'm just kind of
00:56:42preparing for that time where someone you know i start talking to someone i want to have my pants ready
00:56:47you know all right well let me put you in a couple things and see what you think and we'll go from
00:56:51there yeah let's do that so i'll start you in something pretty bold okay no worries if you don't
00:56:58like it going for the home run probably the best match with the pants that we're gonna fix for you
00:57:06yeah this i don't know like it's not something i normally would wear all right you got it
00:57:11i've been measured once like this before and it was for my first wedding with my first wife
00:57:19but that was like 20 years ago my first wife i met through a dating site brazil section
00:57:31this is nice too it's a little brighter it's a little bright a little fun
00:57:35that's what i like but as far as appearance goes i don't know maybe i seem to favor the looks a little
00:57:48too much pretty safe and conservative okay cool the clothing really wow should change how you feel
00:57:59it should change the way you think the way you behave it should make you feel really really good
00:58:03i went through a terrible relationship recently she was always trying to control me and she's a
00:58:09very controlling person and manipulative that's what this jacket feels like okay well he definitely
00:58:16i don't know and i want to feel free right like she got pregnant with someone else and she like
00:58:22just had their baby just recently and we're still married
00:58:25she really up my life and it's like a total mess now you know but i don't know i don't know i told
00:58:35you but that's just some of my background of what i'm going through yeah well the one thing is i
00:58:41appreciate you telling me all that because it gives me more context into how i can best help you um
00:58:48i'm really sorry you're experiencing a lot of those things but
00:58:51i just want you to know i'm here to make you feel really good but we can keep trying a couple
00:58:57other things on and and um see if we can get you feeling more confident because that's what it
00:59:01sounds like you need you just need like a little boost of confidence right now yeah
00:59:10that one's pretty cool feel this gino it's like nothing in there wow let's see how it fits
00:59:16all right now we're talking they're getting a little better now we're talking yeah i definitely
00:59:25like this that's sharp that's sharp
00:59:34i think this might be it yeah this coat does it for me man it makes me feel like
00:59:40i can be myself again wonderful hearing out i think you need just see that you need to simplify
00:59:45your life because i think these pants kind of represent my pants well we can we can do some
00:59:50amazing things but we got to keep mc hammer in the 90s how does it do you do the hammer show me the
00:59:56hammer i mean dude i'm not gonna show you no no you just gotta all right is that like
01:00:07i feel amazing i i probably should have done this a long time ago and say all the k-1 visa stuff
01:00:14five years of toxicity is a lot for a relationship but i will not let jasmine ruin my future
01:00:27i believe that everyone's going to meet the true love of their life at some point
01:00:32unfortunately for me i haven't yet but to be honest i want a family and i want to get married again
01:00:40especially because my marriage with jasmine was a fraud jasmine used me a hundred percent to get a
01:00:46green card and i'm not going to give up on the immigration fraud and do everything i can to get
01:00:55her out of this country because i think she deserves it and if i put all my effort in to try to revoke her
01:01:03green card that's all that matters to me oh this is a thousand bucks basically it is oh wow dang luxury
01:01:13beautiful jacket but it's a little bit out of my budget and unfortunately for me i've got a divorce
01:01:21coming up that i got to go through and pay for too so and that's my highest priority right now because
01:01:27i want to get that off of my shoulders that's all right yeah yeah
01:01:40okay i'm gonna go outside you're coming out right yeah let me just take care of matilda
01:01:59i'm gonna put her down okay okay let's set her down
01:02:10i'm gonna die
01:02:21i'm gonna die
01:02:35I'm gonna die.
01:02:43Well, finally.
01:02:45You have to stop yawning.
01:02:47Sorry, I'm getting tired too.
01:02:50I know, I'm the only one that gets any sleep,
01:02:51but I'm still tired, I don't know.
01:02:56I feel so bad about your mom.
01:02:58Why?
01:03:00Do you think it's easy for me to see
01:03:03that poor lady crying?
01:03:05I don't mean it to be this way, you know?
01:03:09I don't mean it to be this way.
01:03:11I don't wanna make my mom cry.
01:03:12I don't like this stuff.
01:03:14I hate just the fact that, you know, like,
01:03:20I wanna do things right.
01:03:23This is not how I, you think this is how I expected
01:03:27at my age to have a kid.
01:03:29It's like I waited until now and then I, you know,
01:03:32I turned it into this instead of, who knows?
01:03:37I'm sorry.
01:03:38You don't have to be because I'm a grown man.
01:03:40I, I have my own choices.
01:03:43I don't regret anything.
01:03:45You don't?
01:03:46No, mm-mm.
01:03:47I love Matilda.
01:03:48I can't believe how perfect she is.
01:03:49So, sometimes that's how life is, Italian.
01:03:53It takes you down a certain path and it is what it is.
01:03:56People are gonna talk, unfortunately, no matter what.
01:03:59I don't care about people in general,
01:04:00but I do care about our people, like your mom, like your sister.
01:04:11Our whole relationship, I felt like you were hiding me
01:04:17because I understand that the truth was not something to be proud of.
01:04:21But life is always gonna be so messy and problematic sometimes, especially mine.
01:04:27But you know what is the good part of it?
01:04:30It's like, it doesn't matter what it is.
01:04:32I don't have to go through this alone.
01:04:34The only people we can live for is ourselves.
01:04:38It's for having each other.
01:04:40So, I don't know if, you know, if you're gonna leave me in three years
01:04:45or if you're gonna leave me in ten years,
01:04:47or if we just stay together and annoy the at each other for another 20.
01:04:51And I think if we always care for each other rather than ourselves,
01:04:55I think we're gonna be fine.
01:04:57I'm not saying everything is gonna be perfect.
01:04:59And I don't want you to take me for a joke
01:05:01because I don't want you to think that I'm just wasting time.
01:05:06And, Mama, I know and I know and I know that you're still married.
01:05:10And I know that I don't have a ring, right?
01:05:13But I just wanna get down.
01:05:17And I want to put this, it's just a stupid string, on your finger, okay?
01:05:28So, I can tell you.
01:05:33Te amo.
01:05:39Te amo, I don't, I don't want to tell you lies.
01:05:42Te amo.
01:05:45I know we've had, like, the last two months, like, some really long days.
01:05:52You're strong and you're doing a great job as a mom.
01:05:54Te amo.
01:05:55I promise it's going to get better and I'm going to help you, you know?
01:06:01And I'll try to take care of you and love you right.
01:06:05So, mama, even with this string, would you marry me?
01:06:25You can try to run.
01:06:55That's kind of brutal.
01:07:09Like, I get it. Maybe you need a break, but, like, ever is a very long time.
01:07:18I doesn't trust Betty at all.
01:07:21And I doesn't feel comfortable to leave the hurdles anymore.
01:07:25And after we have a baby, she will be even more controlled.
01:07:31And that has become a disaster.
01:07:34That is my baby, and I need to just stand up away and don't tell me how to raise my baby.
01:07:41I mean, I see why he's kind of a little hurt by it, just because it's like, you know, Brandon, like, that's his mother.
01:07:47And, like, you know, he's close to his mother and his father.
01:07:49You can always go.
01:07:51I don't want, because his mom's thinking, I'm not letting him go.
01:07:54I'm like, no.
01:07:56He's free to go if he really wants to go.
01:07:58I don't want she thinking, like, I'm stopping him.
01:08:00No, it's not true.
01:08:02But in this moment, I don't want to talk with Betty.
01:08:04Knowing Betty, particularly, like, I can see why that might be a problem.
01:08:16Thank you, all right?
01:08:18I'm afraid that Betty is going to get really upset.
01:08:20We're going to have our kids.
01:08:27Now is in the first place.
01:08:29It's our family.
01:08:30Them now in the second place.
01:08:32Your mom wants to be in the first spot.
01:08:35It's a monumental event in our family tree, and I feel like my parents have every right to be involved.
01:08:42I mean, you guys are going to have to come up with some sort of compromise.
01:08:45You're going to have to give up a little bit.
01:08:46You're going to have to give up a little bit.
01:08:47But, like, it's the compromise that, like, keeps you guys together.
01:08:50And, like, especially since the news you just told us, like, you guys need to be cohesive and on the same page, for sure.
01:09:00I want to tell my parents about the baby, and I'm not going to wait any longer.
01:09:08But, you know, without my permission, we can't.
01:09:13We can, actually.
01:09:17I explained you.
01:09:28Hold on.
01:09:29I put you some sides.
01:09:30Why would we take a side?
01:09:31That is just so stupid.
01:09:33Like, why we cannot be friends with everybody?
01:09:36Andre R, the drama queen.
01:09:38He's so dramatic all the time.
01:09:40He just can't keep his mouth shut.
01:09:42Doing it again.
01:09:44Let's give her a out, babe.
01:09:45Like, this is...
01:09:45She didn't tell...
01:09:46You're fucking whining.
01:09:47You sniffing glue or something.
01:09:48You're saying you're saying you're going to want one side and then you're putting on the other side.
01:10:01That is just so stupid, like why we cannot be friends with everybody?
01:10:20Like if we want to be friends with you, we cannot be friends with them.
01:10:24But Yara, I told you that information to confide in you, and then you go and tell Lauren, so
01:10:29it's like, how can I know that like us as being friends, I can tell you something and
01:10:33you're not going to go tell her the next day because you're in Miami.
01:10:35I didn't go and tell her that.
01:10:50I was talking to Jovi in the bar, and Jovi called her, she's like, can you have a minute?
01:10:54I didn't know what you're going to tell her.
01:10:56You know Jovi's a blabbermouth, you know he's going to tell her.
01:10:58Also, hold on a second, also like you just remember something, you're not a dick to your
01:11:03wife?
01:11:04You call her ugly.
01:11:05No, that's, I agree with you that everybody has their own , but you could ask something
01:11:10weird.
01:11:11No, but you're a dick to your wife, Alex, he's a dick to his wife, we all know that.
01:11:15What am I dick for?
01:11:16I mean, dude, you went into the housewarming party, talking .
01:11:19That's up.
01:11:21Andre R, the drama queen.
01:11:24He's so dramatic all the time.
01:11:26He just can't keep his mouth shut.
01:11:29Just so aggressive always.
01:11:31He's like an animal, seriously.
01:11:34I don't think we're the problem.
01:11:35I think that Elizabeth instigated the conflict that you brought up with Lauren, and now she's
01:11:40going to blame you, that you're the person getting in the middle.
01:11:42Right?
01:11:43Like, what the ?
01:11:44Don't .
01:11:45I don't like this good lighting.
01:11:47Her friend attacked him at their house, at a housewarming party.
01:11:50Yeah.
01:11:51Yeah, but how she had a control over her friends?
01:11:53What kind of behavior is that?
01:11:54What the ?
01:11:55Don't invite her.
01:11:56Don't shame her.
01:11:57She needs better friends.
01:11:58Make her leave.
01:11:59I don't know.
01:12:00I see everywhere you go, there's problems that follow you.
01:12:03With her family, with them, with us now, like.
01:12:05Jovi, you have surface level information.
01:12:07Yeah.
01:12:08He did not cause problems in my family.
01:12:09My family got issues from the moment he got here.
01:12:12He was merely.
01:12:13Hold on.
01:12:14He was merely defending himself through the entire way.
01:12:18And then we made, ultimately, the decision to distance ourselves from them because they
01:12:22were causing a lot of issues within our marriage.
01:12:24Well, what the ?
01:12:25He didn't come here with a chip on his shoulder.
01:12:27He was ready to be a part of my family, and they didn't give him the benefit of the doubt.
01:12:31They thought he was using me.
01:12:32You .
01:12:33You think .
01:12:34I'm just saying, problems follow you around.
01:12:35What the ?
01:12:36That Yara was using you for a green card.
01:12:38It's the same that Americans have this idea that automatically a foreigner wants to use
01:12:43you.
01:12:44Like, no, maybe we just love each other.
01:12:46You're the one.
01:12:48Jovi bringing up my family and Andrade's relationship with them and just saying all these
01:12:55things like he knows is such a low blow because he doesn't have all the information.
01:12:58He doesn't know anything.
01:12:59He doesn't know what happened and what went down with my family.
01:13:03And I feel like at this point, he is just trying to find somehow to, like, point the finger.
01:13:08And I just can't help but think that they're the problem here now.
01:13:12I see you running from side to side, so you have to choose.
01:13:17What the are you doing?
01:13:18I mean, I'm trying to be friendly with everyone.
01:13:20What do you even invite from over here?
01:13:23What do you even invite people over here?
01:13:25Because we like you guys.
01:13:26I mean, I don't know now.
01:13:27So you're fighting with me.
01:13:28No, but hold on a second.
01:13:29You invited them here, like, and again, you're like, you're still, you're running, like,
01:13:34after Elizabeth is telling you not to say it.
01:13:37You're doing it again.
01:13:38Let's get the out, babe.
01:13:39She didn't tell me.
01:13:40You're running.
01:13:41No, you're running.
01:13:42She didn't finish the conversation.
01:13:44You're running two games over here.
01:13:46Sit down.
01:13:47I didn't finish the conversation.
01:13:48She's running two games, babe.
01:13:49Like, you know what you're doing here?
01:13:50Are you sniffing glue or something?
01:13:52I didn't finish because I'm talking to you.
01:13:54Why are you running away?
01:13:55I want you to understand.
01:13:56You're playing yourself like a man.
01:13:57Why are you running two games over here?
01:13:59My horn.
01:14:00I think they're good people, and I think you guys just don't get it.
01:14:03You don't like playing games.
01:14:04Hold on.
01:14:05I don't play games.
01:14:06This is not a game.
01:14:07I don't just like you guys be friends with you.
01:14:09You don't like to be friends with them, too.
01:14:11I don't want to pick up my friends.
01:14:17I definitely feel like Elizabeth and Andre are a little toxic.
01:14:22I think Elizabeth and Andre do have a hard time taking accountability
01:14:25for anything that they do, and while we've had our good moments,
01:14:28now I see how fast they can turn on us.
01:14:31We come here on a trip with everybody.
01:14:33Everybody should be friends.
01:14:34You're the one who's got to cause problems with everybody.
01:14:36You're instigating .
01:14:37I understand it.
01:14:38You're saying I'm the instigator here.
01:14:40I know what you're doing.
01:14:41You do that?
01:14:42You think other people do that?
01:14:43Let's go.
01:14:44I don't .
01:14:45All right, y'all leave then.
01:14:46Black eye .
01:14:48Bye.
01:14:49Sorry.
01:14:50Oh, wow.
01:14:51Okay.
01:14:52What does that even mean?
01:14:53Like, bye, bitch.
01:14:54But in a very mean way, bitch.
01:14:55Not in a nice way, bitch.
01:14:56Get out of the way.
01:15:02Like, I don't give a .
01:15:04That's just over the top.
01:15:05There's no either.
01:15:06Who talks like that?
01:15:09Mama, even with this string, would you consider marrying me?
01:15:19I'm not rushing you.
01:15:24Mama, even with this string, would you marry me?
01:15:48Would you marry me?
01:15:53I'm trying to support you, and I want us to be happy, you know?
01:16:00I love you.
01:16:01And I love you, too.
01:16:02And I'll try to take care of you and love you right.
01:16:10Even with this string, would you consider marrying me?
01:16:14I'm not rushing you.
01:16:19This isn't going to be no rush into a marriage.
01:16:22You understand that?
01:16:23We're not rushing into a marriage.
01:16:25I'm asking you if you'll marry me just to take me into consideration
01:16:30and accept this as we're halfway there.
01:16:39I love you so much.
01:16:41And if I ever heal that part of me, if that ever happened,
01:16:52and if I ever get married, I want it to be you.
01:17:04But right now, I don't have an answer or no.
01:17:09I just don't know.
01:17:22I don't trust people.
01:17:25And I'm sorry, baby.
01:17:26I love you.
01:17:27But I don't know.
01:17:30I'm scared.
01:17:32It gets pretty tiring trying to show, like, I support you, and I want to make you happy, and consistently being pushed away.
01:17:53And if she was to become that vulnerable with me, I would never push her on the side like that and make her feel that type of way.
01:18:00But she's easy always to push me to the side and make me feel like a dummy.
01:18:04Damn.
01:18:05How are you able to accept a ring from Gino?
01:18:10And I have to work this hard to put a string on your finger.
01:18:14It's crazy.
01:18:15Next time on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After, Tell All No Limits.
01:18:28Why are you so pissed if it's not true?
01:18:29I am not pissed.
01:18:30Lauren and I aren't friends anymore because we can't trust each other because she and me.
01:18:31Because you open your f***ing house.
01:18:32Get the f***ing out of here.
01:18:33Let's look above the text messages.
01:18:34Shut up!
01:18:35This is the Tell All.
01:18:36We're gonna f***ing Tell All.
01:18:37I've seen it.
01:18:38He does certain dirt when he goes out.
01:18:42I've seen it.
01:18:43He does it point blank.
01:18:44It's not like he's hiding it so I have suspicious.
01:18:46I talk with beautiful woman.
01:18:47Oh she's jealous obviously.
01:18:49I'm not a jealous guy.
01:18:50She's jealous.
01:18:51I'm not a jealous guy.
01:18:52And I'm not a jealous guy.
01:18:54But at that time, I'll just be on the internet.
01:18:57And if your family is ever after, Tell All No Limits.
01:19:00Why are you so pissed if it's not true?
01:19:02I am not pissed.
01:19:03Lauren and I aren't friends anymore, because we can't trust each other.
01:19:04I'm not jealous.
01:19:05I'm just, like, showing some respect.
01:19:06I'm flirting.
01:19:07No, it's just networking.
01:19:08I just talk with people.
01:19:09You are lying.
01:19:10That is so disgusting that you're doing this right now.
01:19:12Did you tell everybody what he said the day
01:19:14after you got married?
01:19:19Me and Veity relationship has become a lot.
01:19:22We have reason why we disconnect.
01:19:24You got to share it with us, Julia.
01:19:27We are lying.
01:19:30We doesn't tell.
01:19:32What?
01:19:34What?
01:19:36And for this tell-all,
01:19:38the couples will be living under the same roof.
01:19:42Cheers!
01:19:44True or dare?
01:19:46Okay, dare.
01:19:48I want you are dancing for your wife.
01:19:52Yeah!
01:19:54Put the bag inside your body!
01:19:57Yay!
01:19:59I think me and Julia just, like, you know,
01:20:02like every relationship have a hard time.
01:20:04What happened?
01:20:06I cry and cry and fight and fight.
01:20:10It's so hard for me to, like, imagine.
01:20:12I can lose it in my life.
01:20:16You blocked us on social media.
01:20:18You're going to apologize for the way you acted?
01:20:20No, I'm not going to apologize.
01:20:21You never apologize.
01:20:22This is a two-way game.
01:20:23So you're going to be a little bitch and just tell me.
01:20:25I'll be a little bitch.
01:20:26Seriously.
01:20:28you, dude.
01:20:30yourself.
01:20:32What's going on?
01:20:33What's going on?
01:20:34What's going on?
01:20:35Is there anything you want to say
01:20:37and you were having sex with her?
01:20:39Yes or no?
01:20:40Ugh.
01:20:41I just do some stupid-ass in life.
01:20:43What if she just decide to go back to Gino?
01:20:47Do you think I would have married you if I didn't want to?
01:20:50I don't think that I will ever love someone like I love you.
01:20:54I have never wanted to be with Matt.
01:20:56Ever.
01:21:02What if she lived in her house?
01:21:04She's wasn't there, she's just gonna go back.
01:21:05She was stepping back.
01:21:06Was it a buy-in?
01:21:07I'm thinking a little bitch?
01:21:08No, don't you.
01:21:09Yeah.
01:21:10I would have gone back.
01:21:11I don't know.
01:21:11Maybe you could do the hook now.
01:21:12I have happened.
01:21:13I could be a lot.
01:21:15Maybe this, something that allows you to be with.
01:21:17She's pooping down.
01:21:19Just a thing that converse that give me
01:21:22her view of youräž­-
01:21:25Your ë°€ is sunk at nothing.
01:21:28She's almost perfect with me.
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