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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
00:00:07Oh, no!
00:00:09Yes, baby!
00:00:11Hopefully, we can, you know, enjoy being in the snow.
00:00:19Sex in the snow?
00:00:20Yeah.
00:00:21Your balls are gonna get frozen.
00:00:27I'm going to Europe by myself,
00:00:28and that is my final decision.
00:00:30I go without or with you.
00:00:33I'm already going.
00:00:35I've already quit my job.
00:00:39What are your parents thinking about all of that?
00:00:44How was Bulgaria?
00:00:45It was good, but it didn't really end well, though.
00:00:47Yeah.
00:00:48What happened?
00:00:49When we were packing to go to the airport,
00:00:51it was like all hell broke loose.
00:00:53I still heard how Darcy left with her sister in Bulgaria.
00:00:58It's never gonna change.
00:00:59No, I'm always wrong.
00:01:00No matter what...
00:01:01Don't be married.
00:01:02Out for divorce.
00:01:07I was just a kid who grew up in a small town
00:01:09and get bullied so much.
00:01:10I'm so sorry.
00:01:11And bullied by my own family.
00:01:13And you did that, and it hurts me.
00:01:15Sorry.
00:01:16Like, let's not beat the dead horse, right?
00:01:19I didn't mean it.
00:01:20Like, let's get over it.
00:01:21Let's move past it.
00:01:22Do you want a horse?
00:01:23I don't want a horse.
00:01:25Okay.
00:01:26I want to get that over because it's 40 years.
00:01:28I just found out you're pregnant with some other guy's kid,
00:01:35and we were supposed to have a baby together.
00:01:37You never wanted a baby.
00:01:39It was a scam as marriage fraud to the team.
00:01:42I've already gone immigration.
00:01:44Don't hear from him soon.
00:01:45Do whatever you want.
00:01:47I don't care.
00:01:48You already destroyed my life.
00:02:10Oh, God.
00:02:18It's burning.
00:02:19Sting.
00:02:20Sting.
00:02:21I hope my contacts go behind my eyeball again.
00:02:23Okay.
00:02:24It's back.
00:02:49Hey.
00:02:50Hey.
00:02:51Why are you crying?
00:02:52My eyes are burning from the onion.
00:02:54Oh, gosh.
00:02:55Most of the time, you cry for no reason, so I don't know.
00:02:59I don't.
00:03:00No, that's not true.
00:03:01I don't cry for no reason.
00:03:02There's a reason why I cry when I cry.
00:03:05But I'm not crying to cry right now.
00:03:07It's the onion, Georgie.
00:03:08It's burning my eye.
00:03:12You know, my eyes are sensitive.
00:03:13I don't know.
00:03:14Sometimes I feel like crying with no reason.
00:03:16Well, they don't make me cry.
00:03:17Lately, it's been crying because of us when I do cry.
00:03:29We've been back for a week now from Bulgaria.
00:03:31You know, it's been really difficult.
00:03:32A couple nights ago, we had dinner with our friends
00:03:35and Stacy and Florian, and I mentioned the divorce word.
00:03:39I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him.
00:03:42Um, I don't know.
00:03:45It just doesn't feel good.
00:03:47It doesn't feel like a marriage.
00:03:48You feel like we're just living to live.
00:03:53What are you making?
00:03:54Your favorite pasta, the bucatini.
00:03:57I got the stuff for the Schapska salad.
00:03:59If you want to help prepare that, that'll be great.
00:04:02I just feel the tension right now, especially from Georgie.
00:04:05But I don't really want Georgie to file for a divorce.
00:04:08It's just something that came out and I felt triggered.
00:04:11And, you know, I want to break the ice so we can move past this.
00:04:16I still love him and I still want to fight for this marriage.
00:04:20Oh, I'm tired.
00:04:22My body hurts.
00:04:23At least you got home kind of early tonight.
00:04:25Sometimes you come home real late.
00:04:27But how was your day?
00:04:32I do.
00:04:33I do ask.
00:04:34If that's how you feel, I apologize.
00:04:36I don't feel that's true.
00:04:37But you know what?
00:04:38We've been walking on eggshells with each other.
00:04:40Just living through it all, I guess.
00:04:43Silently in a way.
00:04:45Yeah.
00:04:52It's obvious that you don't want to talk.
00:04:54Do you?
00:04:55Do you?
00:04:56Do you?
00:04:57Because I'm tired to be your punching bag.
00:05:00Okay.
00:05:01I will take my own accountability because, you know.
00:05:04I'm sorry that I left Bulgaria with Stacy Anzorian.
00:05:07But I was upset and sad and hurt.
00:05:11We obviously trigger each other.
00:05:13I'll blame myself for my own things.
00:05:15Take accountability.
00:05:16And I apologize for saying the D word.
00:05:19Talking about divorce.
00:05:20I just want you to take accountability too.
00:05:22I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm numb.
00:05:25I'm numb.
00:05:26Yeah.
00:05:27Yeah.
00:05:30I'm still upset about her behavior in Bulgaria.
00:05:33And instead of trying to fix this,
00:05:36she bring the divorce in the front of my friends.
00:05:39I don't know if she's just saying it to trigger me,
00:05:41but make me even more uncomfortable.
00:05:43And more hurt.
00:05:46And I hear her apology, but she do this all the time.
00:05:50And this is not going to fix our problems.
00:05:52We need to see more action than words.
00:05:55I'm going to try to do things to be better for you.
00:05:57Listen to you more the way that you want me to.
00:05:59To make you feel loved and respected.
00:06:02You know, in Bulgaria, I really feel like we made a lot of headway.
00:06:06But at the same time, I want it to feel consistent and right.
00:06:11You know, I just, do you want to plan a life together?
00:06:14Sure, I want to plan a future for us.
00:06:17Mm-hmm.
00:06:18But, you know, I don't want to hear these promises.
00:06:21I want to see them.
00:06:24Me too.
00:06:26So, I feel like you are getting somewhere.
00:06:29And we talk calmly and rationally and lovingly.
00:06:32You know?
00:06:35That's how you plan a future too.
00:06:37It's what I really wish for.
00:06:38I hope so.
00:06:41Okay, good.
00:06:43Well, that's a start.
00:06:44But, I think we both have to try harder for each other.
00:06:47And for ourselves.
00:06:49So it doesn't keep snowballing like it is.
00:06:53I've always been there for you and always want to be there for you.
00:06:57I'll try my best to make you feel better.
00:07:03I don't like seeing you like that.
00:07:06Hurts my heart too.
00:07:09You're welcome.
00:07:11Yeah, definitely still love between us.
00:07:13But just, it's kind of hard to find the right way, the rhythm, the, you know, the connection to even to talk about it.
00:07:22I want us to be, you know, in a better place.
00:07:26But, you know, it takes two to figure out and understand, you know, how we're going to get there.
00:07:31We really need to dig deep and find ways to grow out of this space.
00:07:34Because, if things don't change, you know, this marriage might not last.
00:07:51I don't want to talk to him ever again.
00:08:04Honey, breathe.
00:08:06Getting this riled up is not good for you.
00:08:10Ay, ay, ay.
00:08:12Go, go.
00:08:21Reggie.
00:08:31What's going on?
00:08:32And you know has just gotten me to tell me that he already went through immigration to accuse me of immigration prior, so I get deported.
00:08:42I mean, I told him, like, why, why you, like, if you hate me, I get it, but, you know, like,
00:08:56do it for this baby, please, it is not the baby's fault, and then he was mad, and he said, like,
00:09:02it was the baby that you were supposed to have with me.
00:09:06He's mad for everything, and I don't know what to do, but I, I know, I know it feels horrible
00:09:19right now, I know you feel overwhelmed, and you didn't scam him, as he said.
00:09:25No, I didn't, Michelle, I didn't, he's making it sound like I came here just for a great girl,
00:09:31I told him, like, you know, that is not true, you know.
00:09:33I know Gino has a lot of responsibility in this, Gino rejected you every single way,
00:09:42he is very angry, and I understand why he's angry, it's hard for me, he is, you know, my family,
00:09:50I understand why he's angry, but he will not admit to his part of the demise of this relationship.
00:09:56Let's be honest, like, I'm an immigrant, Gino is American, like, I'm always gonna be
00:10:03in, in a certain disadvantage, like, it doesn't gonna look good for me, because it's my war
00:10:09against his word.
00:10:11I know, it looks bad, Jasmine, 100%, everything looks bad, it does.
00:10:16He was, like, like, accusing me, like, I never loved him, like, even when I was in Panama,
00:10:22like, and now he did, like, a crazy math, adding, like, a bunch of, like, wedding and immigration,
00:10:29and, like, I own him $75,000.
00:10:34I just, I don't know, I feel so bad for you.
00:10:40I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm not worried about going back to Panama and Joseph, I don't
00:10:45want to go to this pregnancy without math.
00:10:50We need to do what's best for the baby, we need to do what's best for you, but I do believe
00:10:56that we really need to talk with somebody, a lawyer, and just, like, so we can understand
00:11:02what we can do, and I think that will make you feel better.
00:11:07Yeah.
00:11:07Just know, I will always be in the favor.
00:11:10But thank you, Misha, love you.
00:11:12I love you.
00:11:14Talk soon.
00:11:15Okay, bye.
00:11:16Bye.
00:11:24Oh my gosh, I miss my mother so much.
00:11:29I never thought that an open marriage would cut myself into this.
00:11:33I'm super afraid of being deported.
00:11:41I'm afraid that I'll, I'll go to prison.
00:11:50And on top of that, it's not just me, but I'm pregnant.
00:11:56It doesn't look good for me.
00:11:58I don't wish this to anyone.
00:12:05I haven't done anything.
00:12:07I was brought to this country with empty promises.
00:12:13I just tried to save my marriage.
00:12:16I did everything that was in my power.
00:12:18And I trusted people that I should have never trust.
00:12:36What I said last night, I did not mean to upset her, and I think y'all have that wrong.
00:12:39So maybe you should go get her, make her feel better.
00:12:43I don't want to get grilled for something that I didn't even mean to say.
00:12:47Are you good?
00:12:50The grandpuppies.
00:12:53So what are you guys doing?
00:12:55We're getting ready.
00:12:57Ready.
00:12:58The last time we didn't see my parents, things got heated.
00:13:02I'm nervous because I don't think it's going to go well.
00:13:05This scares me.
00:13:06I'm really disappointed, Brandon, in listening to you talk right now.
00:13:25What I said last night, I did not mean to upset her.
00:13:28And I think y'all have that wrong.
00:13:29You're thinking I'm saying something that means she looks ugly?
00:13:31I did not say that.
00:13:32I did not mean that.
00:13:33To a woman's ears, that's upsetting.
00:13:35That's fine.
00:13:36It's getting to me because I don't know.
00:13:38I don't know why he could not understand that.
00:13:40Talk about my appearance.
00:13:43And that's what's hurt me.
00:13:44And that's what's bothering me.
00:13:47I am how I am.
00:13:48And that's what it is.
00:13:50It feels like you're her husband.
00:14:09You have a very good point.
00:14:12And I agree with you 100%.
00:14:14But I'm just trying to express the fact that I did not mean or be harmed by what I said.
00:14:17So maybe you should go get her.
00:14:19Make her feel better.
00:14:26This is supposed to be a fun trip.
00:14:27This is not supposed to be a fight.
00:14:28She's not supposed to be mad at me.
00:14:30I don't want to get grilled for something that I didn't even mean to say.
00:14:39Are you good?
00:14:41You coming back?
00:14:42I don't want to.
00:14:43I'm sorry, okay?
00:14:43No, I understand you're not.
00:14:46But I want you to understand what I said last night.
00:14:48I told you already this morning.
00:14:49Like, I didn't mean anything negative to you, okay?
00:14:51I understand.
00:14:52I, I, listen.
00:14:54Okay, I understand.
00:14:54It just hurt me because, Joey, I didn't choose the way I was born.
00:14:58I understand.
00:14:59Listen, listen.
00:15:00Come see.
00:15:01I love you, okay?
00:15:01Look, I want you to understand, like, what I said.
00:15:03I mean it in a positive way.
00:15:05Like, you look better now than you did before.
00:15:06And I'm sorry.
00:15:07There's no reason.
00:15:09I don't want you to think that I was saying you're ugly or something.
00:15:12Joey, if you understand, I think I'm beautiful now too.
00:15:14I think now I am beautiful.
00:15:15I think before maybe I wasn't.
00:15:17And when you bring that up, it just bothers me.
00:15:23I'm sorry.
00:15:23I was just saying you look better.
00:15:24I wasn't meaning, like, you looked ugly in the past, which maybe you think.
00:15:27There's no, there's no, no reason.
00:15:28There's no reason to talk any kind of way about that.
00:15:32I love you and I'm so sorry if I offended you in any kind of way yesterday, okay?
00:15:37Let's go back.
00:15:39I love Lisa.
00:15:40Lisa beautiful.
00:15:47I'm not going to lie.
00:15:48I was a little cut.
00:15:50But to say something like that, I think she feels like he's always maybe jabbing at her.
00:15:55Is that an attention thing?
00:15:57I don't know.
00:15:58I truly think maybe it is an insecurity thing with him.
00:16:02And he's projecting.
00:16:04And I think she feels like maybe he is jabbing at her.
00:16:08I don't know.
00:16:09I don't know.
00:16:10I don't know.
00:16:11I don't know.
00:16:12I don't know.
00:16:13Yeah.
00:16:14What's up?
00:16:15Can you talk about it?
00:16:16You want to tell them?
00:16:17I don't want to talk about it.
00:16:18Let's talk about something else.
00:16:20Let's let it go.
00:16:21Yeah, I was talking about the weather.
00:16:22Look at this weather out here.
00:16:25You do say some stupid .
00:16:26I do.
00:16:27I'm not going to argue with you.
00:16:28I didn't think I was being mean to her.
00:16:29I didn't think I was being negative.
00:16:30I was just like...
00:16:31Jody.
00:16:32What?
00:16:33All right.
00:16:34I know.
00:16:35I know.
00:16:36I need to talk about this all day.
00:16:37I know.
00:16:38You're hungry.
00:16:39You're hungry.
00:16:40Continue to bring it up no matter how much I want to let it go.
00:16:43What do we do tomorrow?
00:16:44What do we all want to do?
00:16:45Who's planning tomorrow?
00:16:46I think we should go on a girl's day tomorrow and leave these guys out.
00:16:51Okay.
00:16:52Let's do that.
00:16:53Bye.
00:16:54Okay.
00:16:55All right.
00:16:56I think we're going to call it a night.
00:16:57That was a lot of fresh air.
00:16:58Yeah.
00:16:59It's been a fun day.
00:17:00It was a really fun day.
00:17:01I'm sick.
00:17:02Have a great night, everybody.
00:17:04Bye.
00:17:05Bye, guys.
00:17:06Bye.
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00:17:08Bye.
00:17:09Bye.
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00:17:18Bye.
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00:17:20Bye.
00:17:21Oh, okay.
00:17:22All right.
00:17:23Well, y'all have fun relaxing.
00:17:24It's gonna be a hard night for me.
00:17:33Oh, what the was that there?
00:17:35I have no clue.
00:17:38At least it wasn't about us this time.
00:17:40I think Jovi feels insecure, and he always
00:17:44makes these snarky jokes, because he wants to put her
00:17:48self-esteem a little bit down.
00:17:50And they call you the dick and the horrible man.
00:17:52Yeah.
00:17:53Who's a dick now?
00:17:59What just happened over there, though?
00:18:02These people are weird, and they're saying we are weird.
00:18:04They're talking about us.
00:18:06You know, Jovi, can I say my opinion?
00:18:09This woman is like, you know, like a different league
00:18:12than this guy.
00:18:13Look at his face.
00:18:15Babe, he won that woman, you know, like, by his money.
00:18:19Otherwise, if you don't have money,
00:18:21like, you would not be together.
00:18:22They are a cute couple.
00:18:24Don't say that.
00:18:25I think he's just insecure.
00:18:26I think he literally speaks out just
00:18:28to get out of her, like, of her shadow.
00:18:35You going to get over this or no?
00:18:36I am over it.
00:18:37I know that you keep getting mad about everything I say.
00:18:39But, Jovi, like, listen to me.
00:18:42You can imagine I've found you're the deepest pain,
00:18:45something that is so deep in your heart.
00:18:46And I will bring it up.
00:18:48How would you feel?
00:18:50I don't know how to say this, but, like,
00:18:51figure out these problems with yourself.
00:18:53And I figured it out to have been in therapy for 10 years.
00:18:57He apologized to me, and I was ready to move on.
00:19:04But it means we'll leave it again.
00:19:06And this situation is obviously traumatic for me.
00:19:11I come to this trip worried about Lauren Elizabeth's drama.
00:19:15And now the biggest issue may be even between me and Jovi.
00:19:22I don't know what I can even do with you.
00:19:23Are you going to argue with me no matter what?
00:19:24Are you going to tell me I'm wrong?
00:19:26I'm tired of arguing.
00:19:27Yeah.
00:19:27It's enough.
00:19:28I'm going to go to the bar.
00:19:29You can go to the room if you want to.
00:19:30I'm going to go to this one.
00:19:31Wow.
00:19:31OK.
00:19:31We'll go to the bar.
00:19:32That's fine.
00:19:33Whatever.
00:19:34Yeah.
00:19:35And you think you want to say, like,
00:19:36why I don't want to move to Louisiana this way?
00:19:38Because who I have for there?
00:19:39You?
00:19:40What a good excuse.
00:19:41You can use this against me, right?
00:19:43That's what you do.
00:19:44Nothing against you.
00:19:45It is.
00:19:46You just don't get it.
00:20:00No.
00:20:04Be careful.
00:20:05There's going to be hair everywhere.
00:20:07You have to clean your bathroom.
00:20:09It's almost done, actually.
00:20:11You like it?
00:20:12I mean, I like the price.
00:20:14It's free.
00:20:25OK.
00:20:26I think it is good.
00:20:29I am ready.
00:20:30I'm ready for Europe.
00:20:31You ready?
00:20:34Yeah.
00:20:35What is that about?
00:20:36Hello.
00:20:37Hello.
00:20:38Oh.
00:20:38I come there and get us.
00:20:39It's time to have conversation.
00:20:43We finally on same page.
00:20:46And we're going to Europe.
00:20:48And we're going to tell friend and parents about our sheep.
00:20:51Hey, guys.
00:20:52Hi, Mom.
00:20:53Hi.
00:20:55I'm nervous because I don't think it's going to go well.
00:20:58The last time we did see my parents,
00:21:00things got heated.
00:21:01That's because Betty keep not mind her business.
00:21:06Hi.
00:21:07Hi, Julia.
00:21:08I come bearing gifts.
00:21:09Good to see you.
00:21:10Oh.
00:21:11That's good.
00:21:11We didn't end the last meeting on such a good note,
00:21:13so I thought I'd bring a little treat for you.
00:21:17Good to see you.
00:21:18Hi, dear.
00:21:18Oh.
00:21:19Hi, kids.
00:21:21How's the kids doing?
00:21:22The grandpuppies.
00:21:26So what are you guys doing?
00:21:28I mean, we are...
00:21:29Just getting a few things together.
00:21:31We're getting ready.
00:21:32Ready.
00:21:33We're packing up because we're going to Europe.
00:21:42You're going to do it, huh?
00:21:43You didn't mention it.
00:21:44You didn't say for sure you were going to go.
00:21:45Yes, but I've quit my job, so...
00:21:48Oh, my Lord.
00:21:49God.
00:21:50But we do have...
00:21:51Do you realize how ridiculous this sounds?
00:21:53I know it sounds risky,
00:21:54and that's why we are going to sell, you know,
00:21:56Julia's apartment.
00:21:57But you haven't sold it yet, but you're going to go anyway.
00:22:00So how long are you guys going to be there?
00:22:04I mean, I'm not really sure right now at the moment.
00:22:08I...
00:22:09No plan on going and coming?
00:22:11No.
00:22:12We haven't.
00:22:13We haven't.
00:22:14We haven't.
00:22:15No plan on going and coming?
00:22:18No, we have kind of a plan,
00:22:20but no, we don't know how long we're going to be there at the moment.
00:22:25Oh, my God.
00:22:26The boy just quit his job,
00:22:28and they're hoping to get this money from her apartment or whatever.
00:22:31What if something falls through, and the money never shows up?
00:22:34And it's not like they're wealthy people.
00:22:35This money is going to help them with the future.
00:22:38I can't believe we spent our life teaching Brandon to plan...
00:22:43Do the right things.
00:22:44Do the right things.
00:22:45Do the right things, and this is not my son.
00:22:48This scares me.
00:22:50I'm really disappointed, Brandon, in listening to you talk right now.
00:22:54I am so disappointed.
00:22:56You should be working on your career right now.
00:22:58I know.
00:22:59Your career is so important, especially at your age.
00:23:01Exactly, exactly.
00:23:02You know me.
00:23:03You know I would...
00:23:04Well, I thought I did.
00:23:05That's right.
00:23:06I thought I did.
00:23:07You know me.
00:23:08But you know I wouldn't take this kind of risk
00:23:09unless I thought it was absolutely necessary.
00:23:11When are you leaving?
00:23:17In a couple of days?
00:23:18A couple of days?
00:23:20Have you got your tickets yet?
00:23:21Yeah.
00:23:22Oh.
00:23:23Yeah, of course.
00:23:24Oh.
00:23:25I can't believe you hadn't talked to us.
00:23:29I mean, that's just almost kind of crazy.
00:23:30This isn't like you, Brandon.
00:23:31This isn't like you, Brandon.
00:23:32That's what we're doing now.
00:23:34I mean, I feel like this is enough.
00:23:40You both need, like, step back from our family.
00:23:44No, we're all family.
00:23:45No, we are now in different sides.
00:23:47Yes, we are all family.
00:23:48If you don't feel like we're all a family,
00:23:50maybe you do need to go back to Russia.
00:23:55That's a typical baby.
00:23:56She didn't gonna take her son.
00:23:58Respectfully?
00:23:59you.
00:24:00Seriously, like, why isn't the first thing on your list
00:24:09asking the attorney about divorcing Gino?
00:24:13If the attorney gives her the green light
00:24:16to file and get divorced,
00:24:18then we should start the process of her getting divorced.
00:24:21Like, shouldn't this relationship have certain characteristics?
00:24:24Like, not being married still to this guy?
00:24:27I don't know.
00:24:53How do I eat this?
00:24:54With the toothpick.
00:24:55Toothpick?
00:24:56Toothpaste?
00:24:57I don't know.
00:24:58With the toothpick, poke it.
00:24:58Poke it and try it.
00:25:11That one is good.
00:25:15Why are you giving me this?
00:25:21The baby approves.
00:25:23She must be inside my belly like a dragon too.
00:25:26Do you think so?
00:25:28She must be doing that.
00:25:44Okay, leave this alone.
00:25:46I don't know what I'm gonna need.
00:25:49So I have all the documentation,
00:25:52all the evidence of the things
00:25:54that I'm gonna be explaining to the lawyer.
00:25:58Yeah.
00:26:01Well, hopefully this lawyer clears a lot of things up for us then.
00:26:06It has been a few days since I spoke to Gino,
00:26:09and I'm still traumatized by the conversation.
00:26:13Gino is a master manipulator.
00:26:16He doesn't care about anybody except for himself.
00:26:19I'm an immigrant and he's an American citizen.
00:26:22Makes me feel in danger.
00:26:24Makes me feel very vulnerable.
00:26:27So, Matt booked an appointment with a local lawyer here in Florida and I'm very excited to give some clarity to a lot of questions that I have to ask.
00:26:38I'm super pregnant, my brain is shrinking because of pregnancy.
00:26:47My mind is very foggy.
00:26:48Yeah.
00:26:49That's why I created this timeline.
00:26:51I'm gonna put, like, key points of the things I wanna ask.
00:26:56Okay.
00:26:57Can I get deported?
00:26:59Uh, do I have to pay Gino the money?
00:27:04When is a good time to file for a divorce?
00:27:08I would probably write that down.
00:27:09We should need to ask that.
00:27:10Okay.
00:27:11Remember that we haven't gotten past the part where you're divorced.
00:27:19Sorry, I have bigger things in my head, and when your daughter is born, you will understand.
00:27:26Jasmine isn't prioritizing getting divorced.
00:27:33I don't know why I'm not liking it because she expects me to be completely, like, a clear, you know, slate for her to have a relationship with me, but then she won't give me anything in return.
00:27:46And I want Jasmine to get divorced before I introduce Jasmine to my mom.
00:27:51Seriously, can I just ask, though, like, why isn't the first thing on your list asking the attorney about divorcing Gino?
00:28:03If the attorney says you're fine and you can file anytime you want, you might want to consider it.
00:28:22I know I signed up for this open relationship thing knowing that she's married, but it's completely different than where we started.
00:28:32Now I've taken over every single responsibility while Gino takes off.
00:28:39So if I'm in a relationship, like, shouldn't this relationship have certain characteristics, like not being married still to this guy?
00:28:47If the attorney gives her the green light to file and get divorced, then we should start the process of her getting divorced.
00:28:54I don't want to be having a child and being with somebody in a relationship that is still married to somebody.
00:29:02I know you think I'm stressing you out with the whole situation with Gino, but once we sit down with that lawyer, you're gonna see. The lawyer's gonna tell you how it is.
00:29:10Gino told me that he went to immigration and he accused me of committing immigration fraud, which is a crime.
00:29:25It's not just jeopardizing my immigration status in this country, but it makes me a criminal, basically, if I am found guilty.
00:29:34Making my situation with Matt and having the baby even more complicated now.
00:29:41I hate to accept it, but everything is on Gino's hands.
00:29:47Let's just see what my faith is. This is the only way we can get an answer.
00:29:54I was gonna say, Gino, Matt. I'm sorry. It's Jesus Christ.
00:29:58So, happy that we're here for the fashion show and stuff, but, I don't know, I'm a little nervous about something because, you know, we need to talk about it more, actually.
00:30:12Where the this is coming from? She's being very hypocritical.
00:30:17It's not gonna work.
00:30:18Oh, no. She's snagged. Don't rip, don't rip, don't rip. Georgie?
00:30:34Yeah?
00:30:35Do you have any, like, uh...
00:30:36Glue?
00:30:37My cats, you just snagged. It's thin fabric.
00:30:39Where?
00:30:40Right here. All right, whatever. I think it's fine. I'll do it later.
00:30:43I'll do it later.
00:30:44It's something.
00:30:45It's cute, right?
00:30:46Our new little headbands.
00:30:48What is that?
00:30:49For the fashion show.
00:30:50So, we're gonna be the models?
00:30:51We're gonna model as well. Why not?
00:30:53We walked for our show before in Miami.
00:30:56You did that Georgie walk like that.
00:30:58You did that.
00:30:59Mm, mm, mm.
00:31:01You came out fierce.
00:31:02It's not easy to walk when you have big things between the legs.
00:31:05Well, yeah. You were swaying. It was swaying all over the place.
00:31:09Jump off with us.
00:31:11Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh.
00:31:14Woop-woop hallelujah.
00:31:17Fill that running through.
00:31:19Don't have to lose.
00:31:21Obviously, you know, it's a huge opportunity.
00:31:24Super huge.
00:31:25I mean, we opened in New York Fashion Week when we first launched House of Eleven many years ago.
00:31:29And it's our time again.
00:31:31Well, that's great.
00:31:32New York's gonna be on fire.
00:31:36Georgie and I, we're slowly, we're slowly making progress.
00:31:41And that makes me so happy because House of Eleven just got invited to be part of a fashion show with multiple designers in New York Fashion Week in three days.
00:31:50Stacey and I will be walking in the runway show.
00:31:53And Georgie and I are headed out tomorrow.
00:31:56We're halfway there.
00:32:06It sucks.
00:32:07It's gonna be a fun day.
00:32:09But before we go to New York, Georgie and I are headed to Connecticut to see my family.
00:32:14My dad, my kids, Ico and Aspen.
00:32:17They're both in college.
00:32:19And I just can't wait to give them the biggest hugs in the world.
00:32:26All right.
00:32:27We're here.
00:32:28Yeah.
00:32:29Yay.
00:32:30It's been so long.
00:32:31Oh, man.
00:32:32I only have my Miami house key.
00:32:33Sorry, it's okay.
00:32:34He's coming.
00:32:35Hey.
00:32:36Hey.
00:32:37Hey, Dad.
00:32:38We're back.
00:32:39Aw.
00:32:40You look like an Aspen.
00:32:41I know.
00:32:42I feel like it's cool out here.
00:32:43How are you, Mike?
00:32:44Good, good.
00:32:45How are you doing?
00:32:46Good to see you.
00:32:47Yeah.
00:32:48Finally back, huh?
00:32:49It's been a while.
00:32:50This cold in Florida?
00:32:51Nope.
00:32:52Not like here.
00:32:53Yeah.
00:32:54I got it.
00:32:55I got it.
00:32:56It's okay, Dad.
00:32:57I have a question.
00:32:58Oh, man.
00:32:59Oh, man.
00:33:00Oh, man.
00:33:01Oh, man.
00:33:02Oh, man.
00:33:03Oh, man.
00:33:04Oh, man.
00:33:05I only have my Miami house key.
00:33:06Oh, man.
00:33:07I only have my Miami house key.
00:33:08I got it.
00:33:09I got it.
00:33:10It's okay, Dad.
00:33:11I have a question.
00:33:12How come you have so many luggages?
00:33:13Because that's how I travel.
00:33:14I travel heavy.
00:33:15Aniko!
00:33:16Aspen!
00:33:17Mommy's home!
00:33:18Wow!
00:33:19My girl!
00:33:21Aspen and Ani!
00:33:23My beautiful girl.
00:33:25Wow, you guys look so gorgeous every time I see you.
00:33:28You look like a bowling ball.
00:33:29That's fuzzy.
00:33:30I know.
00:33:31Mommy's a ball.
00:33:32I feel like I'm shrinking.
00:33:33Oh, my God.
00:33:34Every time I see you guys, you guys get taller and taller,
00:33:35more beautiful.
00:33:36Last time we saw our mom was a couple months ago.
00:33:39Guys, I missed you.
00:33:41I missed you.
00:33:42Georgie!
00:33:43Yay!
00:33:44Step Daddy!
00:33:45Don't.
00:33:46Ew.
00:33:47Oh, my God.
00:33:48Our mom, like, came home for the holidays.
00:33:51Georgie, like, wasn't with her.
00:33:53She said that he was working and he couldn't get off work,
00:33:56which I find kind of weird, because who doesn't have, like,
00:33:59work off?
00:34:00Time off, yeah.
00:34:01Time off for, like, certain holidays.
00:34:04But, yeah.
00:34:07You guys went to Bulgaria.
00:34:08How was it?
00:34:09Fun?
00:34:10It was actually emotional.
00:34:13It was good.
00:34:14We got to meet his family, his mom and his dad, his sister,
00:34:17and he has a niece and nephew.
00:34:18They're so cute.
00:34:19And it was, like, great to introduce you to my family.
00:34:22Yeah.
00:34:23They love her.
00:34:24Yeah, you know?
00:34:25He wanted me to make a really good first impression.
00:34:27I think I did that.
00:34:28Good.
00:34:29Good.
00:34:30Yeah.
00:34:31Okay, Mom.
00:34:32It's your turn.
00:34:33I need some space.
00:34:38It's enough out there.
00:34:39Oh, my God, Mom.
00:34:40No, no, no.
00:34:41It's not great.
00:34:42You broke the thing.
00:34:43Oh.
00:34:44Georgie, you're in my way.
00:34:45I'm helping you.
00:34:46I'm trying to...
00:34:48Let's mix the mix.
00:34:52Okay, that's good.
00:34:55There you go.
00:34:56See?
00:34:57I hope you're the one that's eating that one.
00:34:59Georgie's gonna eat it.
00:35:00Because he likes pork.
00:35:01Do you want to kill me?
00:35:03It's a pork, a banana, chocolate chip pancake.
00:35:06Just the way you like it.
00:35:07Yeah.
00:35:08So, I'm happy that we're here for the fashion show and stuff.
00:35:13But, I don't know, I'm a little nervous about something,
00:35:15because, you know, we need to talk about it more, actually.
00:35:18But, to be honest with you, when we get back, our lease is up in Miami.
00:35:22Okay.
00:35:23Okay.
00:35:24So, what if we just put everything in storage and come back here for a little bit?
00:35:28Where's the hair?
00:35:33My hair!
00:35:34You know, because Miami's getting really expensive.
00:35:39You need to consider, like, me too, you know?
00:35:41What?
00:35:42I know.
00:35:43I mean, we're together, so you need to consider my...
00:35:45Well, let's talk about it.
00:35:46I try to talk about these things, but he works seven days a week,
00:35:49and when he comes home, he goes straight to bed.
00:35:51Darcy want to go back and move back to Connecticut.
00:35:54Where the this is coming from?
00:35:56And she's being very hypocritical, because she always saying that I'm the one.
00:36:01Never talk about what I think, about the future, about my plans.
00:36:05And she's bringing this in the front of her dad and her family and her kids.
00:36:10I mean, I don't know how to feel about it.
00:36:12And I don't really want to pick up argument in the front of the family.
00:36:15So I need to act that I'm okay with that.
00:36:18When I'm not.
00:36:20Well, what do you want to do?
00:36:25Did you also say you want to be financially independent?
00:36:27Darcy, let me say this.
00:36:29I've never put you aside.
00:36:30You know that.
00:36:31But at this point in your life, in my life, we need to be separate.
00:36:36Because it's not going to just be you.
00:36:38Mm-hmm.
00:36:39It's going to be Stacy and Florian, right behind you.
00:36:42Whatever you do, she does.
00:36:44Whatever she does, you do.
00:36:46So it ain't going to happen straight up.
00:36:52No .
00:36:53Your husband needs to take care of you.
00:36:54You need to take care of your husband for a marriage.
00:36:58You've got to create, and he's got to create for you,
00:37:01an environment that says, this is for both of us.
00:37:05If you don't, it's not going to work.
00:37:11I mean, most of the time when she decides something
00:37:13and she really wanted, she's in a way, her way or a highway.
00:37:18If you're disrespected, then my opinion doesn't matter to her.
00:37:24So I feel sometimes lonely in this marriage, most of the times.
00:37:28It's nice. It smells so good in here.
00:37:40Alex told me, don't make shopping a competition.
00:37:43You don't need to outspend everybody.
00:37:46I'm so happy when I spend.
00:37:48I think it's better than sex.
00:37:51My daughter, if I get the porter, like, how does it work for her?
00:37:55It's very serious, to be very honest.
00:37:58There's a lot of lives at stake,
00:38:00especially the life of an unborn child.
00:38:03I didn't think them still being married
00:38:05was going to affect the baby.
00:38:07It is starting to get more real and scary.
00:38:10Why don't you get on top of me?
00:38:25I already did that last night.
00:38:27Oh.
00:38:29Should I put my legs over here?
00:38:31No, you can do that.
00:38:32Like this?
00:38:33Yeah.
00:38:34Oh, that's hot, babe.
00:38:44Hello?
00:38:45Hi, honey.
00:38:47I'm, uh, I need assistance on the toilet over here.
00:38:51You're in the bathroom calling me?
00:38:53Oh, my God.
00:38:54There's a phone right next to the toilet,
00:38:55so if you're, you know, in trouble,
00:38:56and you have no more toilet paper.
00:38:58Let me go find it and bring it to you, sir.
00:39:01Don't need to trip.
00:39:13You ready for this?
00:39:14Yeah, let's do it.
00:39:15Let's do it.
00:39:16Let's go.
00:39:17Well, it's nice today, too.
00:39:18Yeah, a little bit warmer.
00:39:20I hope the ice didn't melt too much.
00:39:22The snow will fall through.
00:39:27You don't want to go ever snowmobile before?
00:39:29I did one time, yeah.
00:39:30I have never been on this .
00:39:32Me either.
00:39:33I like jet skis.
00:39:34It's like a jet ski.
00:39:35Yeah, it's one of the only activities, like,
00:39:36I never really did before, so it should be fun.
00:39:40So I'm really excited for today.
00:39:42Me and the guys, we're actually going to go snowmobiling.
00:39:45Just going to be going, like, very slow, very careful,
00:39:47because I don't really know how to operate this thing.
00:39:55Um, I was a little bit,
00:39:57but she woke up in a good mood this morning,
00:39:59so...
00:40:00Good.
00:40:01Really?
00:40:02Yeah.
00:40:03I have no idea.
00:40:05I don't know what the girls are doing.
00:40:06Probably shopping.
00:40:07Yara's probably spending my money.
00:40:08But I think everybody sometimes, to be honest,
00:40:11it's so bad to say it, but we need a break from our wives.
00:40:14And I don't think that's wrong.
00:40:19Should we go to that store?
00:40:20That's cute.
00:40:21Yeah, that looks cute.
00:40:22I see candles.
00:40:23Ooh.
00:40:25Ladies.
00:40:26Oh, welcome.
00:40:27Why, thank you.
00:40:28Oh, you're welcome.
00:40:33It's nice.
00:40:34It smells so good in here.
00:40:35Alex told me today, because they're going snowmobiling,
00:40:38and I was like, don't make it a competition.
00:40:40He goes, don't make shopping a competition.
00:40:43You don't need to outspend everybody the most.
00:40:46Okay.
00:40:48No, I do.
00:40:49I am very bad with money.
00:40:50I know that.
00:40:51But that's my happiness.
00:40:53Yeah.
00:40:54I'm so happy when I spend.
00:40:55There were, like, studies shown that shopping sprees,
00:40:58like, endorphins, it brings up endorphins.
00:41:00Oh, yeah.
00:41:01100%.
00:41:02Retail therapy.
00:41:03Yes, it's a very real thing.
00:41:04Yeah.
00:41:05I think it's better than sex.
00:41:08Sometimes.
00:41:09Yeah.
00:41:10Sometimes.
00:41:11I agree.
00:41:12Like, what you...
00:41:13So you said, if you buy Rolex or have sex,
00:41:15what would be a better feeling?
00:41:17Mm.
00:41:18A Rolex, probably.
00:41:19Yeah.
00:41:20That's what I say.
00:41:21Because it lasts longer.
00:41:22That's what I say.
00:41:24Yeah.
00:41:25Because it lasts longer.
00:41:26And, you know, the way this trip's going for me and Jovi,
00:41:28it looks like I'm going to buy a lot,
00:41:29because I'm not satisfied with anything.
00:41:34I'm still mad at Jovi for what he did last night.
00:41:36And even though Lauren and Elizabeth are probably nervous
00:41:41and, I don't know, uncomfortable to spend time with each other,
00:41:43I am happy to have some good girls' time.
00:41:46Shopping is definitely better than sex,
00:41:48especially when you're buying some good stuff.
00:41:50I love to, like, go shopping,
00:41:52and then just go for lunch or brunch.
00:41:54I love to have a girls' therapy.
00:41:56And to be honest, I am, like,
00:41:58led the guys around this, no mobile in the cold.
00:42:01I just want to be inside in the warm,
00:42:02because it's just too cold outside.
00:42:04I just want to shop.
00:42:06I forgot my balm again.
00:42:09Yeah, what?
00:42:11Lip balm .
00:42:12Lips are bloody from this .
00:42:14You want some?
00:42:15I have the one from the room.
00:42:19All right.
00:42:20My lips are killing me, too.
00:42:22And the regular one that Lauren has didn't work.
00:42:24This one from the room is good.
00:42:26Yeah.
00:42:27Kind of hard to sleep with all the noise going on next door.
00:42:30Oh.
00:42:31The walls ain't nothing.
00:42:33What are you talking about?
00:42:34Who's making noise?
00:42:35They didn't do anything basal.
00:42:37It wasn't you.
00:42:38It was your wife, I heard.
00:42:40Hey, we're on a vacation, okay?
00:42:42Yeah, exactly.
00:42:44How are you guys doing?
00:42:46You know, we're good.
00:42:47And I think this trip came at a good time,
00:42:49because it's helping us kind of just put it aside, you know?
00:42:53It's great.
00:42:54We a lot.
00:42:55Yeah.
00:42:56If you don't , then you .
00:42:58It's fun .
00:42:59And when you have, you know, kids, you have to .
00:43:02You can't have sex.
00:43:03You just have to .
00:43:04Yeah.
00:43:05Hey, get a quickie.
00:43:06Quick.
00:43:07Do you ?
00:43:08Do you have fun ?
00:43:09I don't .
00:43:12You just say no and just go shopping?
00:43:14Yeah.
00:43:15I don't want to.
00:43:16I can't have sex if I'm mentally dead.
00:43:19Like, you're gonna be like, you're stupid.
00:43:21I'll be like, oh, this makes me some warning.
00:43:23No.
00:43:24I don't want to have sex.
00:43:25Well, stress can mess with that, too,
00:43:27because it's mental.
00:43:28For women, it's mental.
00:43:29For men, it's physical.
00:43:30Yeah.
00:43:31Exactly.
00:43:32Like, when are they gonna understand that?
00:43:33Right.
00:43:34Everybody, like, having so much fun.
00:43:37And me and Julie are going through this dry spell.
00:43:41Like, so much good.
00:43:43Everybody has such a good relationship.
00:43:45And I have no role that's no even.
00:43:48Everybody goes through phases, though.
00:43:50Yes.
00:43:51So don't worry about it.
00:43:52It happens to everybody.
00:43:53And if they say it doesn't, they're lying.
00:43:55Because everybody goes through ups and downs in a relationship.
00:43:59But if you work through it, then it's all worth it.
00:44:02It's so true.
00:44:03No marriage is perfect.
00:44:04Everybody goes through .
00:44:06It's just hard sometimes.
00:44:08Well, I'm here for you.
00:44:10We're here for you.
00:44:12Anytime you want to talk.
00:44:13Me and Jovi got show rough patches before.
00:44:16But to be honest, it's been very difficult
00:44:18to communicate with Jovi.
00:44:19I feel like he just don't understand me no more.
00:44:22And maybe I don't understand him neither.
00:44:27And for now, I don't know.
00:44:29I just need to figure out my own stuff.
00:44:31And I need to figure out if I can accept who Jovi is
00:44:35and what to do with that.
00:44:37Well, should we buy something?
00:44:39Yeah, I want that candle.
00:44:40Listen, my therapist, Yara, told me
00:44:42that I needed this candle, so.
00:44:48Drowning in skin to skin
00:44:51The way you put your hands on my body
00:44:54Hold my breath, you do the rest
00:44:57Already know you got
00:45:00I'm very nervous, ma'am.
00:45:03Why?
00:45:04I'm scared of getting to know, like,
00:45:07the answer of my questions.
00:45:09Talk to the lady
00:45:11and get those answers first
00:45:13before you stress yourself out.
00:45:20Ah.
00:45:30Everything is gonna be okay.
00:45:35Everything is gonna be okay.
00:45:36Everything is gonna be okay.
00:45:37Everything is gonna be okay.
00:45:43I need to ask a lot of important questions
00:45:46to a lawyer because
00:45:48Gino is demanding me to pay him money
00:45:52that, according to him, I own him.
00:45:54And on top of that, he made some threats
00:45:57about reporting me to immigration.
00:46:07Hi, Jasmine.
00:46:08Hi.
00:46:09I'm Oxalis.
00:46:10If you want to come with me,
00:46:11we'll get you started.
00:46:12Ah, thank you.
00:46:13Can he join us?
00:46:15Yes.
00:46:16He's welcome to join you.
00:46:18It is so hard for me to understand
00:46:19that someone
00:46:20that once said he loved me
00:46:22will ever do this to me.
00:46:24It is just a nightmare.
00:46:26It smells good.
00:46:30Well, we try to create a relaxing environment
00:46:33for our clients.
00:46:34Yes.
00:46:35That's exactly what I need right now.
00:46:39Tell me a little bit about
00:46:40how I can help you.
00:46:42Yes.
00:46:43It's like different situations going on.
00:46:45Everything started five years ago
00:46:48when I met my now husband
00:46:53that we are separated at this moment
00:46:55but still legally married.
00:46:57So what's your husband's name?
00:46:59Oh, Gino.
00:47:02OK.
00:47:03We met online.
00:47:04I was in my country in Panama.
00:47:06I married him.
00:47:07And then we were not even
00:47:09being intimate.
00:47:10So we agreed on having an open marriage.
00:47:15An ethical non-monogamous relationship.
00:47:17He agreed.
00:47:20And we agreed on Matt.
00:47:23You agreed on Matt?
00:47:25Yeah.
00:47:26So he was part of choosing?
00:47:27Yeah.
00:47:28He was part of choosing.
00:47:29Yeah.
00:47:30He was part of choosing.
00:47:31It was all theoretically perfect.
00:47:36But my husband threw my clothes outside
00:47:39and I was like, Matt, I don't know where to go.
00:47:42And Matt accepted me in his house.
00:47:44After all this, um...
00:47:46We have a bun in the oven.
00:47:49Exactly.
00:47:50Which...
00:47:51Matt.
00:47:52OK.
00:47:53That makes your case interesting.
00:47:56When Jasmine booked her appointment with me, I had absolutely no idea what it would entail.
00:48:05It turned out to be a lot more interesting case and fact than I expected.
00:48:11I think this is a matter that has a lot of moving parts.
00:48:15My husband called me recently and he said that he talked to me, Rayshon, because I committed marriage fraud and that he wants me deported.
00:48:28With that being said, my daughter, if I get deported, like, how does it work for her?
00:48:34If, for any reason, Gino can show that the marriage was a fraud, you would be deported, essentially.
00:48:46So, if that happens before the child is born, your daughter will not be a United States citizen.
00:48:55I see.
00:48:57Because there is that complaint that Gino has made against your immigration case,
00:49:03essentially, if the child is born and you still are legally married, under the laws of the state of Florida,
00:49:08Gino is presumed to be the father of the child.
00:49:12He could do that?
00:49:15Disgusting.
00:49:19So, you're telling me that when this baby pops out, he's going to be the father of the baby,
00:49:25and then I'm going to end up having to take him to court, or she is?
00:49:28The laws of the state of Florida presumes, there's a presumption that Gino is the father of the child,
00:49:33because the child technically is born within the marriage she has to Gino.
00:49:39That's great.
00:49:41Fantastic.
00:49:42When Gino filed the paperwork for deportation for Jasmine, I wasn't taking it that seriously, because he's mostly all bark and no bite.
00:49:55And also, I didn't think them still being married was going to affect the baby.
00:50:00I figured, with a lawyer, all I have to do is, you know, take a DNA test, prove some, you know, that the child is mine, and then it'll rule him out.
00:50:09It is starting to get more real and scary.
00:50:13This is ridiculous. Like, what if I declare my daughter, like, fatherless?
00:50:17The problem is not who is or not is in the birth certificate. The problem is that you're still legally married.
00:50:24Under the eyes of the law, he can claim rights as a father because the child was born during the marriage.
00:50:31I'm just wondering, what would be the benefits if she was to divorce and then marry me all before the baby is here?
00:50:39In a perfect world, that would help in front of immigration. But in reality, you guys don't have that amount of time.
00:50:49You're not going to be able to achieve that before the baby is born.
00:50:55It's very serious, to be very honest. There's a lot of lives at stake, especially the life of an unborn child.
00:51:02And I understand your fear, and I understand your anxiety. Right now, you don't have a plan.
00:51:09So, your very first step, you really need to end your marriage to Dino.
00:51:14You know, my mom doesn't know about anything. She doesn't even know that my marriage with Dino hasn't worked.
00:51:23And now, if I tell them all the lies that, you know, expose myself and tell the truth,
00:51:28now I will have to tell them, like, yes, I have a green card, but get what?
00:51:33We have some tissues if you want to grab one.
00:51:39So, Jasmine, do you have any other questions for me?
00:51:41No, but I appreciate. It's just like, you know, a lot of due process.
00:51:47And I have to be realistic so I can prepare in life for the worst-case scenario.
00:51:53Dino thinks he owns me because he brought me here and decides if I stay or not.
00:52:02And I'm sick and tired of he believing that and making me feel that way.
00:52:07But I, at this moment, I just, I don't know how to fix this.
00:52:12I'm scared of getting deported, kicked out of the country like, like a bad rotten apple.
00:52:22And now I'm taking it from this baby as well.
00:52:29I'm trying to be strong for everyone, but I am.
00:52:33I'm just collapsing, you know.
00:52:35I feel like he's planning all these things without making me part of the process.
00:52:45We had problems like this in the beginning, remember?
00:52:47The money in the sock and all that.
00:52:50You were a sugar mama.
00:52:52And I told you this was going to happen, right?
00:52:55Mm-hmm.
00:53:05Where's the jewelry?
00:53:07Jewelry bag.
00:53:09Oh!
00:53:11Oh, shoot.
00:53:13Did I split the pants?
00:53:15It feels like I did. Check.
00:53:19Down here.
00:53:21No, it's fine. Not yet.
00:53:23But if you try harder, maybe we will.
00:53:25We're so thinking, huh?
00:53:27Uh-huh.
00:53:38Oh, they made it.
00:53:39We're back!
00:53:41Hey.
00:53:42You guys made it safe, huh?
00:53:43Yeah.
00:53:44You ready for today?
00:53:45I'm ready. Fashion show ready.
00:53:47Yeah, that's right.
00:53:48You ready, Darce?
00:53:49Back in the bag.
00:53:50What's up, Georgie?
00:53:51Hey, how are you?
00:53:52What's up, D?
00:53:53Wow.
00:53:54What's up, G?
00:53:55What's up, G?
00:53:56We're twinning.
00:53:57Twinning is winning.
00:53:58Hey.
00:53:59Rubbing off on you guys.
00:54:02Dad, hey.
00:54:03How's it going?
00:54:04I'm good. How are you?
00:54:06You're looking good.
00:54:07Oh, my God.
00:54:08You ready for the show?
00:54:09I think so.
00:54:10I just, I lost a nail on the way here.
00:54:12You got some glue?
00:54:13You got some glue, Dad?
00:54:15Today's the big day for our fashion show in New York City.
00:54:18And Stacey and Florian stopped by our dad's house in Connecticut to see him before we
00:54:22all head to New York City later today.
00:54:24I'm good in your red.
00:54:25We're like, just the same.
00:54:27Is that by accident or is that on purpose?
00:54:30Oh, this is like we're all in the same wavelength.
00:54:32Yeah.
00:54:33Or in a band.
00:54:34Yeah.
00:54:35We and Darcy are the lead singers.
00:54:36Yeah, yeah.
00:54:37They're our backup dancers.
00:54:39Eh.
00:54:41Or not.
00:54:43Whatever.
00:54:44You gonna get unpacked or what?
00:54:46No, we're bringing some extra stuff.
00:54:48We gotta get some stuff back to New York for the show.
00:54:50Yeah, the jackets.
00:54:51I'm gonna change because I'm not gonna go into the stuff.
00:54:53Yeah.
00:54:54Do your thing.
00:54:55Make some time for me.
00:54:56Because I really want to talk about some stuff.
00:54:57Mm-hmm.
00:54:58Meet you in the office.
00:54:59When you're ready, just meet me in there, okay?
00:55:00All right.
00:55:01Love you.
00:55:02We know.
00:55:03We know the drill.
00:55:04It's very important to spend quality time with my dad right now.
00:55:07He hasn't been feeling well.
00:55:09He just got diagnosed with cancer and had some surgeries.
00:55:13I know he doesn't like to talk about it so much.
00:55:16But it's important that we keep a brave face.
00:55:18He doesn't want to see the tears and, you know, us worrying about him.
00:55:23But now I'm thinking, what's he gonna say?
00:55:28Well, I'm glad we're home.
00:55:29I'm glad I had a chance.
00:55:30You look good and healthy.
00:55:31Mm-hmm.
00:55:32Been praying for you.
00:55:34Yeah.
00:55:35The outside is different than the inside.
00:55:36But it's good.
00:55:37Stay strong.
00:55:38You're still the strong.
00:55:39Like you taught us.
00:55:40Yeah.
00:55:44This is the life.
00:55:46Yeah.
00:55:51What's going on with your wife?
00:55:53You know how it's...
00:55:55It's always something with her.
00:55:57Always something to complain about.
00:55:59Lucky you.
00:56:00Yeah.
00:56:02You're leaving soon, so I want to make this as quick as we can.
00:56:07But I don't want to be in the middle of your business.
00:56:10But I think it's important as a father.
00:56:12You also need to know that I have your back.
00:56:15Okay.
00:56:16How is your relationship with Georgia?
00:56:19Yeah.
00:56:20Honestly, I feel like I went to Bulgaria.
00:56:24I thought this was going to be the best trip yet, because he's going to start opening up more.
00:56:28I thought things would change, but it kind of got worse.
00:56:30And, you know, the way I left Bulgaria wasn't the way that I wanted to.
00:56:34You know, we had a blowout.
00:56:36I decided to walk away, Stacy flooring.
00:56:39Don't really sugarcoat it, Darce.
00:56:40I mean...
00:56:41I'm not sugarcoating it.
00:56:42I feel like he was throwing some jabs.
00:56:43Yes, it's not the first time.
00:56:44It's probably never...
00:56:45And not just that hurt at me, too.
00:56:46I feel like he's planning all these things without making me feel like I'm included, a part of his life.
00:56:54Part of the process.
00:56:55Part of the process.
00:56:56I feel like I can't get through to him.
00:56:58And I don't know what else to do.
00:57:00You know, from my limited exposure to both you and he, one of the things that I see, which is a red flag,
00:57:09it's, I mean, you copy me on your communication texts, be it email or be it text, to kind of drive him to do the things that you want him to do that he's not doing.
00:57:19You're adults.
00:57:20You're old enough to manage your relationships.
00:57:22You have to learn not to take me into your conversations.
00:57:28Why can't he just be accountable?
00:57:30He listens to you.
00:57:31He's very stubborn.
00:57:32Just keep your voices.
00:57:33You should not pay me two to three weeks after the first of the month when the rent is due.
00:57:38It's like pulling teeth.
00:57:39Yes.
00:57:40We had problems like this in the beginning.
00:57:43Remember the money in the sock and all that?
00:57:45One night, basically, like, there's like, I'm cold.
00:57:48I need to wear some socks.
00:57:49We just open the socks and find the money inside.
00:57:52Bunch of cash.
00:57:53Yeah, like a lottery, basically.
00:57:55She won the lottery.
00:57:56Yeah.
00:57:57The old lady just puts it in there.
00:57:59In the bra?
00:58:00In the bra.
00:58:01I thought they put it under the mattress.
00:58:03No.
00:58:04No, in general, the old lady just put it in a bra.
00:58:05Oh, really?
00:58:06Mm-hmm.
00:58:07How do you know?
00:58:08You caught the field?
00:58:10What's this?
00:58:15You were a sugar mama.
00:58:16And you knew this was going to happen.
00:58:18You said he changed.
00:58:20I told you this was going to happen, right?
00:58:26When you got married.
00:58:27And you said, don't worry, I can handle it.
00:58:29I know what I'm doing.
00:58:30I know what I'm doing.
00:58:31I know what I'm doing.
00:58:32Your whole relationship is a argument.
00:58:38I was married to your mother for 15 years.
00:58:40And every day, all we did was argue.
00:58:43Mm-hmm.
00:58:44All right?
00:58:45So you're now at that point.
00:58:47Mm-hmm.
00:58:48And if you want your relationship to get better, you got to work at it.
00:58:52Both sides.
00:58:55You know, we know that they had arguments when we were younger.
00:58:58Their marriage obviously didn't last.
00:59:00They divorced when we were, like, 12.
00:59:02So my mom was just hurt.
00:59:05You know?
00:59:07He wasn't around a lot.
00:59:08He was working, trying to support the family.
00:59:10But she was missing that affection and that attention and stuff.
00:59:14So he didn't appreciate that about her.
00:59:16You know?
00:59:17And sadly, I see the same patterns in my own marriage.
00:59:20Marriage is my first one, too.
00:59:22But at the same time, I want this marriage to work.
00:59:25Because I love him.
00:59:26But I want to know that, too, he loves me.
00:59:28You need a talk.
00:59:33I'm just, I don't know.
00:59:35I don't see him being in it for the long haul.
00:59:37What do you think?
00:59:38Do you think he's in it for?
00:59:39I hope so.
00:59:40For life?
00:59:42Tell the truth.
00:59:43No.
00:59:45Maybe his agenda is different than your agenda.
00:59:50Maybe he's got something in the future that he's playing for.
00:59:56That's what I feel sometimes.
00:59:59You gotta find out what he wants.
01:00:01But it's first and foremost, really understand what you want.
01:00:05Amen.
01:00:07Find out what you want.
01:00:08Mm-hmm.
01:00:15Seeing you again, it genuinely hurts my heart.
01:00:19Because I considered you one of my best friends, and we were so close.
01:00:23Oh, my God.
01:00:24What should they do?
01:00:25Should they still sit on this scene, or should they move?
01:00:27Are they gonna fight, or, like, what's gonna happen?
01:00:30A best friend doesn't do that.
01:00:31You don't bail that quickly if you're a best friend, honestly.
01:00:38This bum could possibly take me to court and probably take my kid.
01:00:43I feel extremely overwhelmed, and I wish I was not going through this while being pregnant.
01:00:51I'm sorry.
01:00:52I'm sorry.
01:00:53I'm sorry.
01:00:54I'm sorry.
01:00:55Woo-hoo!
01:00:56Woo-hoo!
01:00:57Let's get these things a faster than I thought they were I'm glad that they took this trip
01:01:26the women would complain today they'd be complaining right they would complain all day
01:01:31they'd be like I'm wet I like it massage I hope they're having fun by themselves too
01:01:56okay where we're gonna sit can I sit anywhere it's at the end of the bar yeah
01:02:02let's go to the bar and some drink you get hungry yeah hungry and thirsty huh
01:02:09yes so what's yummy here everything everything not a steal thing on the menu
01:02:15I wouldn't recommend oh I like that oh how is this a halibu
01:02:19is a white flaky fish fish which time it's a light white flaky fish
01:02:27halibut's good I'm gonna get that okay I'll do the tuna can we start with that
01:02:33charcuterie just a half please did you guys hear from your husbands I actually
01:02:39saw that Joey just sent us a picture I did not check my phone it looks fine it does
01:02:45look fine yeah so fine it looks fine I wouldn't be there so it sounds fine but I to be honest
01:02:50rather to be here in this rain yeah thank you cheers cheers for this amazing day thank you for
01:02:56you guys for you coming you see you've been so nervous both of you I was gonna go you're going
01:03:01very well we're doing good we're happy yes awkward but happy Lauren and I are not speaking
01:03:10so I definitely appreciate Yara's efforts and her motives behind everything because it is nice to
01:03:18get away but I'm not interested in bringing up the past I don't dwell on the past I like to move
01:03:24forward so hopefully everyone else is on the same page with that because I'm only interested in a good
01:03:31time and I don't want to fight unless I really need to it is good to see you you know and I'm happy
01:03:39that you're doing well and you're driving and you know obviously I don't I don't wish harm on you I
01:03:46have to be completely honest with you like seeing you again I don't want to cry it hurts me it genuinely hurts
01:03:57my heart oh my god what should I do should they still sit on this seat or should they move what
01:04:09should I do the change or do they gonna fight or like what's gonna happen I considered you one of
01:04:15my best friends and we were so close for so long I just I like I can't trust anymore
01:04:25so I'm curious what did you not trust me about exactly oh my god what airing that Alex body shames me
01:04:39in public to breach that that's unacceptable not to mention it's not true I was talking to my friend
01:04:48at the time when I was uncomfortable in my skin Andre wouldn't know about that unless she told him
01:04:55you talk about weight yes body shape her I read my text messages I really confide in Elizabeth about a
01:05:06lot of things and you're reading them I truthfully I don't think Andre went through text messages from
01:05:15two and a half years ago so I don't know why he would say that okay I guess that doesn't really
01:05:22answer my question what what don't you trust me about it's up she is in such denial that she did
01:05:31anything wrong there's no way Andre could have read these text messages from two and a half years ago
01:05:37like he had to have learned about this body shaming nonsense through Elizabeth again she'll never admit it
01:05:44have you talked to him about it at all to Andre no do you care to I guess if I ask him why he felt
01:05:55the need to go through text messages from two and a half years ago what is he gonna say and I don't
01:06:02know if he would be honest with me I don't know why he would go back that long maybe he went down a
01:06:10bunny you know hill of information or whatever I have no clue it seems like Lauren is dwelling on
01:06:19the past right now and I've already made it clear that I've moved forward she's bringing up old topics
01:06:24that I feel like was already squashed but for some reason she feels like she can't trust me and I just
01:06:29think it's a good idea for her to just talk to my husband about it address it to him I mean at the end
01:06:38of the day Elizabeth I care about you I care about you too Lauren more than you think and the fact
01:06:46that you think that I'm malicious or would do anything really hurts me honestly you say you
01:06:52were my best friend but that's not a best friend doesn't do that you don't bail that quickly if you're
01:06:57a best friend honestly you guys this is going to the wrong wheel I think you just need more time
01:07:02for Haley you know you all not have to be friends let's just enjoy ourselves this is so stupid like I
01:07:10rather have a fight with Joey than have this lunch drama again with Lauren and Elizabeth I'm just so
01:07:17tired to follow this stuff I think you just need more time you know yeah I don't know it's too early
01:07:24I don't know maybe so I know this was a very heavy conversation I'm sorry so moving along please because
01:07:30I was not planning on talking about it I'm glad Yara interjected but we're all gonna go to a bar
01:07:39tonight and Elizabeth wants me to confront her husband and talk to him about it like just doesn't
01:07:45make sense like the more I think about it the more I'm like what the
01:07:49yeah bring me a towel paper and a coco wipe wipes
01:08:10you're gonna get the parted
01:08:40coco stop saying that it's how it looks like Matt I know I'm scared too I don't want anything
01:08:48to happen to our family but we're probably gonna have some headaches you're probably gonna end up in
01:08:53a long stretch of arguments with Gino it's going to probably happen but we're gonna work at it
01:08:57Matt and I had a really bad day at the lawyer who give us a lot of information and not very good news
01:09:07I feel extremely overwhelmed and I wish I was not going through this while being pregnant I mean I
01:09:17know that Matt is really concerned because this is very serious you hear the lawyer she's a local
01:09:25different from us we have no freaking idea about the regulations in this state since this is where I
01:09:32believe Gino could claim that the baby is his baby possibly putting his last name on the kid and stuff
01:09:39like that that's a lot imagine that I get deported with our daughter still in my belly you know are you
01:09:50gonna do something to bring us back because I like you a lot and I really wanted this to work out and I
01:09:59don't know no mama I love you and you're closer to me than any woman has ever been you're carrying my child so
01:10:14you're my family you understand then you have to take care of the people in your family I agree
01:10:22I'm sorry this bum could possibly take me to court and probably take my kid
01:10:37I'm sorry I'm sorry Jez you know when you first told me that you were pregnant and I was like scared
01:10:51and I was like oh hell no but I thought about it and I thought about where I am in my life and I
01:10:57realized like it's time for me not always grandma run but to be a man you know and I've accepted it I love
01:11:10the kid I know nothing to happen to her and I'm scared just like you are I'm gonna try my best to do
01:11:26whatever it is honey to fix it whether he tries to deport you or file something I swear to you I will
01:11:36waste more energy time and money than he will ever be able to in court but we're gonna work at it
01:11:43we're gonna whatever it takes if I have to pull my hair out I'll make it work for us somehow the baby
01:11:49baby just kicked me so hard oh my god so cute oh look look she responded how are you
01:12:00I feel very weak very vulnerable and tired I'm exhausted I haven't seen my family in a year
01:12:14I miss them so badly I don't know I have no idea I don't know how to fix this but I know that
01:12:23what could make me feel better is hug my mother because there is nothing left but even though I feel
01:12:33weak I I want to be strong for my daughter I don't have any other option but I don't know where
01:12:44I'm gonna get this trend from I don't have an answer for that to be honest
01:12:50she love you
01:12:57you know dad did have some concerns he was you know kind of like do you think Georgie's in it
01:13:06for the long haul are you in this marriage for the long haul Georgie
01:13:10all right we'll stay in New York a couple days then we'll come back to Connecticut after the show
01:13:32thank you for the pep talk spend more time with you and the kids daddy diaries love you love you
01:13:38thank you uh-oh Florian can you help me
01:13:41take it back
01:13:44whoa whoa slippery really slippery thank you New York City here we come
01:13:50that's stupid let's get this party started
01:13:53it was nice to be home and see dad it's excited for us for the show
01:14:12oh this is a big deal guys this is really gonna bring house of 11 to a higher level
01:14:19you know we've done fashion week before a few times I hope I don't trip and fall on the catwalk
01:14:26I'm so excited that we're on our way to New York City for our fashion show tonight
01:14:33the conversation that we're facing I had with our father you know things are still weighing on me
01:14:39what time is supposed to be there show starts at 8 25 the weather's out of our control
01:14:46we should have left a few hours early but we had to talk to dad
01:14:52daddy talk to your girls dad really said a lot of things that hit home
01:14:58but you know dad did have some concerns
01:15:02the dynamic between Darcy and Georgie mostly
01:15:06mm-hmm because then you know he knows we went through therapy mm-hmm so I feel like he was more
01:15:11focused on you know trying to help Darcy and Georgie at the end of the day he just wants us happy
01:15:16and know I know what you want be very specific personally as individuals yes but dad was also a
01:15:26little concerned about you know how you guys argue over money and Darcy has to hound you about it and
01:15:31being cc'd on all the messages like for instance like the rent like if I pay down the first obviously
01:15:36you could pay Darcy when the I like you I lie with the money if I give you a little bit yeah if
01:15:42you wait you wait I give you anyway like sometimes like I forget what the okay let's bring it up another
01:15:47issue dad I'm not gonna text my dad I will I will I will voice it he was you know kind of like do you
01:15:53think Georgie's in it for the long haul are you in this marriage for the long haul Georgie
01:15:58yeah so like if if I'm not for the long term relationship I'm never gonna bring Darcy to
01:16:13Bulgaria to introduce her to my parents and my family well my family they don't think our relationship is
01:16:19for the short term and the thing is like always I never say bad things about Darcy in the front of
01:16:26my parents but the difference with Darcy and your father is I think she always shared the bad moments
01:16:33now relationship and she never shared the good and the happy moments now relationship so that I'd say
01:16:38concerning issues Darcy always sharing you know the problem with her father but it's hard because
01:16:47always two sides of the story and I know Darcy's side of the story it's always gonna be like she's
01:16:52innocent and I am the problem so does not really help our relationship it's like more kind of turning
01:17:00your family against me because I mean how this is gonna help you so this is so disappointing because
01:17:05since was conversation with Darcy I think we're better but we're still not there yet
01:17:11I think he's he's he's waiting for the right moment that's why he's stashing his money away for
01:17:20that moment oh it's a little red flaggy don't waste our good years don't waste our good years
01:17:27actually I'm wasting my good years oh wow I'm wasting my good years you should 50 and fabulous
01:17:3950 and fabulous started a company you know yeah very powerful on my own yeah very strange to be honest
01:17:49one day is good one day is bad like one night before like I said I'm going to divorce with you
01:17:53and next day like running hands to hands like I thought what the is going on here I just feel
01:18:00like she needs more than just a half-assed version of a husband just don't waste our good years it's
01:18:07my ears don't you want to do that secret plan then tell us now get it over with
01:18:13Julia you're putting a wedge in between our son and us and I don't even know who he is right now
01:18:25she has his ear which she's his wife I understand that but this is still family have a great life good luck
01:18:33Julia you're making a mistake for this family this family loves you and you're putting a wedge in
01:18:52between our son and us and I don't even know who he is right now you're letting it happen you're letting
01:19:10this happen people this is your family did you forget you forget your family of course not I taught
01:19:16you better than that this is the first time that I feel like Brandon has not communicated that she
01:19:26has his ear which she's his wife I understand that but this is still family she's got him convinced that
01:19:32that's the only thing he's going to say for their marriage I want to say Brandon Brandon you know what
01:19:38think about what you're talking about here you think just by going on a trip is going to change things
01:19:44it's not your problems are deeper than Europe right now let me tell you that especially with Julia
01:19:49you guys have got some issues running away is not going to help
01:19:53good luck good luck
01:20:00oh have a great life I'm sorry I I can't do this anymore have a good good trip I don't have to
01:20:13believe y'all really leaving yes what else you want us to do you're leaving
01:20:19I can't believe it everything that's happened recently I feel like it's been fight after fight
01:20:43after fight it's just I feel like pushed everyone away from each other and I feel like I've just lost my parents Julia
01:20:50this is my relationship my parents is broken what if this doesn't work and my relationship is broken with you
01:21:05what if this doesn't work and my relationship is broken with you
01:21:12this is my relationship my parents is broken what if this doesn't work and my relationship is broken with you
01:21:17I don't know what to do I just want things to go back to the way they were before
01:21:32next time on 90 day fiance happy leave it after
01:21:39I want to celebrate but this feelings and frustration is just kind of bothering me inside so want me to be open and honest
01:21:47we say we want to change we never do I don't know you don't know if you want this relationship to work
01:21:54I don't know anymore
01:21:56if you want this relationship to work I don't know anymore
01:22:03at this point my family have no idea what's really going on in my life
01:22:11about me about the baby about all this whole mess
01:22:18I am excited but I've never been on bad terms like this and we're just leaving the country
01:22:35it's not about my parents it's not about your parents it's about us
01:22:38it's about us I'm excited nervous and ready to seek world
01:22:43hello
01:22:44hello
01:22:45I'm hoping that once Julia and I have this extended time together we'll be ready to start a family
01:22:54can I go to the airport?
01:22:55yes please
01:22:56whee
01:22:58I wasn't going to say anything but she was just saying
01:23:03it's nasty comments about you and like things that you wear
01:23:07I got burned by Lauren talking crap behind my back and I don't want Yara to go through the same thing
01:23:13I just talked today with Elizabeth and she told me that you're making fun of me
01:23:18what?
01:23:20I am so ready to just hop on a plane and go home
01:23:24we're leaving? wait hold on babe
01:23:26we can't get a break man
01:23:28hey what happened?
01:23:30what happened?
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