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90 Day Fiancé Happily Ever After Season 9 Episode 20
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00:00:00Previously on part one of 90 Day Fiancé
00:00:04Happily Ever After, Tell All No Limits.
00:00:07Javi's in the pool throwing balls like a dog.
00:00:09He's probably drunk already.
00:00:11What's going on with Lauren and Elizabeth?
00:00:14I'm good with Lauren, but with Elizabeth and Andrew, no,
00:00:17because they blame us for everything.
00:00:19What Gino still doesn't get is that I am not the same person.
00:00:24I'm not the broken Jasmine who couldn't regulate her emotions.
00:00:29My man's worth, asshole.
00:00:33You're a fraud.
00:00:34No sir.
00:00:36Oh my god, who has a tanx?
00:00:37Dear god.
00:00:42Look at my boobs.
00:00:43People are saying I did plastic surgery.
00:00:47But I am a pregnant.
00:00:48I'm six months right now.
00:00:50In the house, nobody knows me.
00:00:52I'm afraid to say.
00:00:55How you doing?
00:00:56Stop.
00:00:57You touched my arm like that.
00:00:58Why not?
00:00:59We are not fighting enough for the relationship.
00:01:03You speak for yourself.
00:01:05Let's talk about the text messages.
00:01:07Andre?
00:01:08What exactly did you find out from reading these logs?
00:01:12Plenty of material, Sean.
00:01:14She says, Alex compares me to other women.
00:01:17He goes around the bar.
00:01:18He doesn't want to come home.
00:01:19What the is wrong with you?
00:01:21Why you diss everybody around you?
00:01:22You're putting your panties in a bunch or shove it up your ass.
00:01:25Hey, let's go outside.
00:01:26Let's fight.
00:01:27I don't give a .
00:01:28What?
00:01:29Andre!
00:01:30Let's go.
00:01:32Come on.
00:01:42Let's fight.
00:01:43I don't give a .
00:01:44Andre, calm down.
00:01:46Why are you running your mouth?
00:01:49You crazy?
00:01:50Yara, do you want to weigh in on this?
00:01:55Everything is like a big mess.
00:01:57You don't react.
00:01:58What can we tell about that?
00:01:59How can we just get a word in between now?
00:02:01Well, you sit there and stir the pot and then you sit back quiet.
00:02:03Why didn't they stir their pot?
00:02:04Like, say something about it.
00:02:06You were there.
00:02:11So, Yara and Jovi, who do you think takes the blame for the conflict between these two?
00:02:18So, listen, I think it's a lot of wrong on everyone's part, right?
00:02:21I mean, y'all went behind her back and exposed information, which is a little unfair.
00:02:26Y'all?
00:02:27No, y'all.
00:02:28You sure about the y'all part?
00:02:30Andre, let's say that.
00:02:32Andre, that was not right what you did to her.
00:02:34What you tell about Alex, about body shame when you did him dirty, that was not right.
00:02:40Elizabeth, why do you think that Yara and Jovi are stirring the pot in this situation?
00:02:48When I saw them at Lake Placid, how they're like playing a double game here, then I'm like,
00:02:52hold on a minute, what's going on here?
00:02:53Which double game?
00:02:54Are you putting me in the middle when you say that I say that?
00:02:57She said he is a horrible person.
00:02:59I never said that.
00:03:00You lie about that.
00:03:02I never said that.
00:03:02I did not lie about that.
00:03:04Maybe it was Jovi that said it.
00:03:06That was said.
00:03:06Do you think I made that out of these ?
00:03:08But you tell her that I had.
00:03:09Who called me a horrible person?
00:03:10I don't know if that was said or when it was said.
00:03:12I never said that.
00:03:13Nobody.
00:03:14Nobody.
00:03:15But why did you apologize to it?
00:03:16That's what I don't understand.
00:03:17Exactly, I apologize.
00:03:18I'm a victim.
00:03:18I apologize.
00:03:19You can't recall if you called your best friend a horrible man.
00:03:23All I'm doing is apologizing, apologizing, apologizing.
00:03:26I'm sorry I called you a dick.
00:03:27I'm sorry your butt hurt over it.
00:03:28OK, your butt hurt .
00:03:29Like, you apologize to lack of plastic.
00:03:31But that's not a real one more time.
00:03:32I kept apologizing for 20 times.
00:03:36Like, how many more times can I apologize?
00:03:40Oh, my gosh.
00:03:41God, benzona.
00:03:45Wow.
00:03:46You and I are connected on, like, oh, we're not fake.
00:03:50We don't like plastic surgery.
00:03:51We don't like Botox.
00:03:52We don't like fillers.
00:03:54We don't agree with that stuff, right?
00:03:56We're like, most Florida women like that stuff.
00:03:58We're not like those girls, right?
00:04:00It's true.
00:04:01And then you're like, I'm getting a tummy tuck.
00:04:03And I'm gonna get this liposuction, this, that, that.
00:04:06I was confused.
00:04:07I've never wanted that stuff.
00:04:09But after I had my three kids,
00:04:11I did need the tummy tuck because I had the abdominal diastasis,
00:04:14which I openly shared with the world.
00:04:18My stomach was not reattaching.
00:04:20So you connected on the wrong thing, right?
00:04:21No, we connected on the fact
00:04:23that we bitched about our husbands to each other.
00:04:26Fact.
00:04:26We bitched about getting hate on social media to each other.
00:04:29Fact.
00:04:30Also that our husbands can be similar
00:04:34with their Eastern European descent and just.
00:04:36No, me neither.
00:04:37I think just the alpha male.
00:04:38We would send each other, for instance, funny pictures of being,
00:04:42what are you doing today?
00:04:43Nothing.
00:04:44They think a housewife is sitting around doing nothing.
00:04:46So we would always laugh and be like, oh, we're doing nothing.
00:04:48What are you doing?
00:04:49Nothing.
00:04:49On my way to get the kids.
00:04:50On my way to do the laundry.
00:04:52It's so therapeutic to have a friend to bitch about your husband.
00:04:56It is therapeutic.
00:04:58I do it with Julia all the time.
00:05:01And you better never log in into our text, Brandon.
00:05:06You don't want to see it.
00:05:09What about squashing it out?
00:05:10What?
00:05:12What's going on?
00:05:12Like, when we went into Lake Placid,
00:05:14supposedly you're sorry for your behavior of your, like,
00:05:17how it went down.
00:05:18What happened to this, like, sorry?
00:05:20Like, what happened to it?
00:05:21You just, like, said sorry, just throw it around.
00:05:24We made amends.
00:05:25We talked it out, whatever.
00:05:26And then Jovi comes up to me at the very end of the night,
00:05:29because apparently you, before we went out, told them
00:05:33that I was making fun of Yara and talking about her clothes
00:05:36and this and that.
00:05:37So I literally just found out right then and there,
00:05:40which is why I stormed off, because I was so done.
00:05:45Elizabeth, you told Yara that Lauren made fun of her clothes.
00:05:51Is that right?
00:05:52Made fun of her clothes?
00:05:53Yes.
00:05:53No, I don't think I use those words.
00:05:54You never said that.
00:05:55No.
00:05:57I said that she discusses her clothes.
00:05:59I never said she made fun of her.
00:06:03I said, just beware.
00:06:04You're getting close to her.
00:06:07We actually have that clip.
00:06:09Let's watch.
00:06:12Yeah.
00:06:12I don't know.
00:06:13Like, I wasn't going to say anything.
00:06:15But she was just saying, you're just, Miami got to your head.
00:06:20And just nasty comments about you and, like, things that you wear.
00:06:23Oh, nice.
00:06:24Oh, that's lovely.
00:06:25Just tread lightly.
00:06:26Be cautious.
00:06:27That's all I'm saying.
00:06:28I just don't want you to get hurt in the long run.
00:06:33Oh, she did.
00:06:34Straightforward.
00:06:34Bitches are fake.
00:06:41So, Elizabeth, you stand by those comments.
00:06:43Absolutely.
00:06:45Because she did say those things.
00:06:47Though, again, sharing personal conversations.
00:06:50But you don't talk about me.
00:06:51Is that not girl code?
00:06:53Should I not warn another girl that another girl's talking about her?
00:06:56Should I not warn her about that?
00:06:58I forget about it.
00:06:59As a new person in Miami looking to make genuine friends.
00:07:04Well, you don't live in Miami.
00:07:05Thank God so.
00:07:09Lauren, I think this in the wrong way.
00:07:10But you tell this to many people that Miami is get to my head.
00:07:15You tell this to many people.
00:07:15I don't think I say it like that.
00:07:17But I think you fit very well in Miami.
00:07:20Like, I cannot see you in Louisiana.
00:07:23I have said this before to her.
00:07:25She probably, she said whatever she said.
00:07:28And it is what it is.
00:07:33Elizabeth, you stand by telling Yara to watch out for Lauren.
00:07:39Of course.
00:07:42Especially now.
00:07:43How she treated this whole situation.
00:07:45I don't trust you.
00:07:46What did I do?
00:07:47She couldn't explain.
00:07:48I told her I had nothing to do with it.
00:07:50Time and time again.
00:07:51She says it's not true, but still mad at me.
00:07:53Still doesn't trust me.
00:07:55So what did I do here?
00:07:55I don't understand.
00:07:56So that is a person that you cannot trust.
00:07:58And so I removed myself.
00:08:00But you think that Yara should not trust Lauren.
00:08:03Of course not.
00:08:03I didn't say trust.
00:08:04I didn't use that word.
00:08:05You just said it.
00:08:06You just said it.
00:08:09Makes sense.
00:08:10You are so twisted on all your lies and all your conspiracies and thoughts.
00:08:14You hurt us.
00:08:16We came here as your friends.
00:08:18We were fine.
00:08:19And we had conversations thinking we had an understanding of what was going on.
00:08:23So there's no feelings hurt.
00:08:25Yeah, so there's no feelings hurt.
00:08:26But there's feelings hurt because nobody's on the same page besides them.
00:08:31Wait, one more thing.
00:08:32I was told that apparently Elizabeth and Andre told Yara and Jovi that they had to choose between us or Yara and Jovi.
00:08:39I think I said it or I don't know.
00:08:43You said it.
00:08:43Yeah.
00:08:44When I said, hey, listen, you have to choose because you're playing a double game.
00:08:47Put your money where your mouth is.
00:08:49Yeah, yeah.
00:08:49So what is your friend?
00:08:50Your friend or your friend?
00:08:52Because you're like, it seems like there's a lot of fakeness going on.
00:08:54So I was like, okay, let's figure it out.
00:08:56I don't think that it's fair to put you in a position.
00:08:58Choose.
00:08:59Like, are we in high school?
00:09:02Okay, well, let me just ask very quickly.
00:09:04Yara.
00:09:05Yeah.
00:09:06Are you friends with Lauren?
00:09:09Yeah.
00:09:10Are you friends with Elizabeth?
00:09:13I mean, I don't know.
00:09:15I'm not sure.
00:09:18Okay, it's clear that feelings are hurt and emotions are high.
00:09:22So we're going to pause this conversation for right now and let everybody cool down.
00:09:26We will touch base later and we will be joined by Lauren's friend, Noga.
00:09:32Oh, my God.
00:09:33Bring her on.
00:09:34We are going to call it a day for right now.
00:09:37Have a great night, everybody.
00:09:39Oh.
00:09:49I'm so embarrassed.
00:09:50I'm so upset that I yelled.
00:09:52Yeah, we should keep our composure.
00:09:54But they really think they did nothing wrong and that's really up.
00:10:00Is the bartender going to be there tonight?
00:10:02Yeah, have me a drink ready.
00:10:03Take him to make 10 margaritas.
00:10:05It seems like, you know, like between me and Jovi, even though, you know, like with frozen
00:10:10battles, I think we pretty much are squared up.
00:10:13You had a conversation with Jovi.
00:10:14We didn't have a conversation.
00:10:15You guys should do the same thing, I think.
00:10:17I think with who?
00:10:19You and Yara.
00:10:20Yeah, yeah.
00:10:20We stopped acting like teenagers.
00:10:22I mean, come on.
00:10:22All right, everybody.
00:10:24Please get changed and then you can head to the house.
00:10:27I don't like drama.
00:10:29Yeah, this is like a lot more to do with Lauren and Alex and Elizabeth and Andre.
00:10:33We're in the middle.
00:10:33I'm just trying to be friends with both of them.
00:10:35That's it.
00:10:36We'll see you at the house.
00:10:38We'll see you at the house.
00:10:39This house is going to get crazy.
00:10:41I'm going to the house.
00:10:44I think it's going to be okay because today all the bad stuff happened.
00:10:48So now I feel pretty confident that it's going to be less Gino and Jasmine drama.
00:10:52I'm hoping.
00:10:55Today was the longest day.
00:10:56I have a lot of relief that I'm done.
00:10:59Jasmine is good to get in everybody's heads.
00:11:00Exactly, hello.
00:11:02She's so good at that.
00:11:03Now I feel bad for Matt.
00:11:04Well, listen, he proposed whatever would have straightened or whatever that was,
00:11:08but she should have said yes or just move on.
00:11:10You know, co-parent and that's it.
00:11:13Gina, how do you feel about Natalie?
00:11:15She's pretty.
00:11:16Oh, thank you.
00:11:17She has a good heart.
00:11:18You hate me with her.
00:11:20You're giggling, farting.
00:11:22Well, let me tell you something.
00:11:23She treats me very good and she doesn't fight with me.
00:11:28You fresh start.
00:11:30Yes.
00:11:38Oh, .
00:11:39Oh, God.
00:11:40Honey, I'm home.
00:11:43All righty.
00:11:45Come on, let's go in here, yeah?
00:11:49Are you saying prayer before you?
00:11:50Oh, okay.
00:11:51Let's do a little prayer.
00:11:51You want to say prayer?
00:11:53You want to start?
00:11:56Let's do it.
00:11:57Let's do it.
00:11:57Thank you, God, for the day today.
00:12:02And Gino's, what are you grateful for today?
00:12:05Say, what are you grateful?
00:12:06Well, I'm grateful that I got through today and I feel like I can move forward again in
00:12:15my life.
00:12:16Praise God.
00:12:17Thank you, Lord, for protecting us and giving us grace to continue on these journeys that we live.
00:12:23Amen.
00:12:23Amen.
00:12:24Amen.
00:12:24Amen.
00:12:25We just had a good prayer.
00:12:27That's a good prayer.
00:12:28I like that.
00:12:29I like that.
00:12:30I like that.
00:12:30And what we're grateful for.
00:12:34You want a knife?
00:12:34So what are you guys feeling?
00:12:38How was this today?
00:12:39I was shocked, you know, all the commotion.
00:12:42And I didn't expect that between Lauren, Alexa, and you two after a five-year friendship.
00:12:47I didn't expect it either, honestly.
00:12:49Oh, you didn't?
00:12:50Yeah, you didn't?
00:12:50Nope.
00:12:51Andre, were you being a dick?
00:12:53Probably.
00:12:58I know.
00:13:02Be careful.
00:13:04Where's the kitchen, honey?
00:13:05He's starving.
00:13:06What in the hell is going on here?
00:13:09Let me guess.
00:13:10Georgie's losing.
00:13:11Wow, now we are talking.
00:13:14Hey, I'm here.
00:13:18Okay, let's go, let's go.
00:13:20Oh!
00:13:20Hey, yeah, Gino!
00:13:22Almost.
00:13:23Let's go get some shots, dude.
00:13:24These people don't know how to play.
00:13:25Yeah, I don't know.
00:13:28We spent enough time with people today, so we need to, like, decompress.
00:13:32Look, we got through today.
00:13:34It was very heated.
00:13:36I'm very tired.
00:13:36I don't think we got through.
00:13:38I don't want to spend more energy on them.
00:13:40Like, enough.
00:13:42Too much back and forth and screaming.
00:13:43This is Vitello, so here.
00:13:46Let's order a couple drinks.
00:13:47I'm going to make Andre and Alex friends.
00:13:49Elizabeth, do you want to come?
00:13:50What do you want to say?
00:13:51I'm good.
00:13:52All right.
00:13:56All right, so I brought you guys a drink and a friend.
00:13:58What friend?
00:14:00No friends.
00:14:02Oh, wow.
00:14:03So I guess that's our cue to leave.
00:14:05All right, I want to ask a favor from all of y'all, because we're going to get into this some more.
00:14:11Let's try to talk normal, because, like, I had a lot of stuff I wanted to say today, and because of you in particular, mostly you, also you, I couldn't get a word in.
00:14:19I couldn't say my opinion.
00:14:20I couldn't really speak for myself, and let's keep it a little more civilized.
00:14:25I think it got way too aggressive, way too quick.
00:14:26I yelled, and I hate that I yelled.
00:14:29I'm not going to apologize for yelling, but I hate that I yelled.
00:14:33No more apologizing.
00:14:34I think we should, we should reconcile the things before we hear from that lady, from your friend.
00:14:40Because we said that.
00:14:41Her name is Noda.
00:14:42Okay, lady, whatever.
00:14:43You can call her by her team.
00:14:44No, that's not nice, okay?
00:14:45It's nice.
00:14:45Lady is nice, because she's a lady, I think.
00:14:48But, you know, like, I'm just saying, you know, like .
00:14:51There are some things I want to ask her.
00:14:52If she does come, you have to let her get a word in.
00:14:55I will.
00:14:56Okay, I will.
00:14:57Andre, I have to tell you wholeheartedly, I never said you were a horrible person.
00:15:06I think that was enough, that was a lot of he said, she said.
00:15:08There's a big difference between horrible person and calling somebody a dick.
00:15:12Okay.
00:15:12Your, your characteristic is a dick.
00:15:16Yeah, okay.
00:15:17I have a question.
00:15:19Who mentioned body shaming, because on that clip.
00:15:21Who mentioned it first, Andre?
00:15:23It comes from the text messages that I read.
00:15:27But who said it?
00:15:28But who said it?
00:15:28Who revealed this?
00:15:29Who said it?
00:15:29It comes from the context of what was conversation.
00:15:33Who said it?
00:15:35You're dodging the question.
00:15:36Did you say it, or did Elizabeth say it first?
00:15:38I'm more mad at Elizabeth at this point, because she did it, and she won't own it.
00:15:44In the clip that we saw today, Elizabeth said, you body shame your wife.
00:15:50Are we talking about this again?
00:15:57I dare you, Darcy, to let Cara lick one of your naples.
00:16:10Oh, I need to see that.
00:16:14Here, just like, here, yeah.
00:16:20When she was going to sing, then she keeps going into a party, drinking, and then to another
00:16:26party, and then to someone else's house until like 4am.
00:16:30She's just having fun.
00:16:31She did not cheat, you know?
00:16:33She just had fun.
00:16:34Um...
00:16:36Are we talking about this again?
00:16:47What is wrong with you?
00:16:49I'm trying to figure out who said something.
00:16:51But, like, isn't everybody tired, Scoot?
00:16:54Oh, my God.
00:16:55I can't.
00:16:55I can't do this again.
00:16:56But my question...
00:16:57My question...
00:16:58You're asking the question too many times.
00:17:00Now you want to clarify it, but I didn't clarify it at the moment.
00:17:04Why did you leave?
00:17:04We should clarify this.
00:17:05Babe, just don't try.
00:17:06It's annoying.
00:17:07You know, like, every time when it was getting deep, you leave.
00:17:10I don't have energy for this.
00:17:11We was thinking that you controlling all of her because you're always taking her away from
00:17:14the situation.
00:17:15This was the situation that I got dragged into that just escalated and escalated and escalated.
00:17:20So, yes, we did remove ourselves before it got so much worse.
00:17:24So, what are we going to do?
00:17:26You guys kind of work with each other forever.
00:17:28I don't give a flying .
00:17:30Like, I don't give a flying .
00:17:32Let's go get a drink because I'm done.
00:17:34It's just...
00:17:35Oh, no.
00:17:35Are you taking her away from the situation?
00:17:38The irony.
00:17:44Yara?
00:17:44I'm sitting here and look who left.
00:17:47Yeah.
00:17:47And that's okay?
00:17:49He literally said, you got up and left.
00:17:52Yeah, so I was thinking...
00:17:52And they just left.
00:17:55Like, what a hypocrite.
00:17:57Yeah.
00:17:58Damn it.
00:17:58I don't know.
00:18:00It was her, like, last real friend.
00:18:04They push everybody away.
00:18:05Every friend, every family they have.
00:18:07Everybody.
00:18:08They just push everybody away.
00:18:14Baby!
00:18:15Oh, you know, another point for you.
00:18:17All right.
00:18:18Catching her up.
00:18:18Oh.
00:18:26Welcome to my humble, giant room.
00:18:29Wow.
00:18:30Make yourself at home.
00:18:32Very nice.
00:18:33All right, all right.
00:18:34That's a good game.
00:18:35What do you want to play?
00:18:36Truth or dare?
00:18:39True or dare?
00:18:40You're asking me?
00:18:41Mm-hmm.
00:18:42Let's do a dare.
00:18:44I dare you to do a backflip in the floor.
00:18:47Do you know how to do a backflip?
00:18:49Backflip?
00:18:50You know, you do it in the floor.
00:18:51Those are cheerleaders.
00:18:53You mean roll backwards?
00:18:54Oh, a roll.
00:18:55A roll.
00:18:56Oh, a roll.
00:18:57I was thinking you wanted, like, a back handspring.
00:18:59I was like, what the ?
00:19:00You're right.
00:19:01Okay.
00:19:02Um.
00:19:11Wait, I don't like that it didn't happen.
00:19:12How do I get over?
00:19:13I don't know.
00:19:14Wait, how does one do that?
00:19:15I don't know.
00:19:17Okay.
00:19:18Yeah, that works.
00:19:21All right, Cara, your turn.
00:19:22All right.
00:19:22What are you calling out?
00:19:23Brandon.
00:19:25Truth or dare?
00:19:25What up?
00:19:26Yes, you.
00:19:28Truth.
00:19:29Boring.
00:19:30Boring.
00:19:30I dare.
00:19:31Oh, yeah.
00:19:32All right.
00:19:32I dare you to lick that door handle.
00:19:35I have to lick a door handle?
00:19:36Oh.
00:19:37Seriously?
00:19:38You're nasty.
00:19:40Lick it.
00:19:41Lick it like a lollipop.
00:19:42You know what I'm saying?
00:19:43Ugh.
00:19:45Have you opened this door?
00:19:46I do.
00:19:47I want, I want like a...
00:19:48Lick it, lick it, lick it, lick it, lick it, lick it.
00:19:53All right, Matt.
00:20:04No.
00:20:05Son of a bitch.
00:20:06Son of a bitch.
00:20:07You got it.
00:20:08You got it.
00:20:09All right, dare.
00:20:10Dare?
00:20:11I dare you, suck a toe.
00:20:14A toe?
00:20:15Suck a toe.
00:20:16Because I have a foot fetish, and he...
00:20:19We've seen it, yeah.
00:20:20Exactly.
00:20:20He finds...
00:20:21Can he at least wash the foot?
00:20:22He finds that disgusting.
00:20:24No, I'm not watching.
00:20:25If you're like...
00:20:26Do you find a...
00:20:26What the hell are you talking about?
00:20:28No, girl.
00:20:28You'd be walking on the floor and stuff.
00:20:30Suck a toe.
00:20:31Suck it.
00:20:32Suck it.
00:20:32And the big one.
00:20:34No.
00:20:34Yeah.
00:20:35No, he didn't say the big one.
00:20:37I just said a toe.
00:20:38Okay, whatever.
00:20:39Did you walk on the barefoot?
00:20:40I didn't.
00:20:41You're such a liar.
00:20:44Papi, suck it.
00:20:45Bruh.
00:20:46You got it.
00:20:48Oh, oh, wow.
00:20:49Pointer toe?
00:20:50Suck it.
00:20:51Oh, my...
00:20:58I gotta wash my mouth.
00:21:02If he only knew where this toe had to be.
00:21:11That was a sweaty-ass toe.
00:21:14It was salty, you son of a bitch.
00:21:17I went to the bathroom, barefoot, and all that .
00:21:22Good.
00:21:22To the bathroom.
00:21:23Now I have to kiss my toe with this.
00:21:25Yeah, I hope you're happy.
00:21:26Oh, my God.
00:21:27Listen, I just, like, imagine you sucking.
00:21:32Respectfully saying, Gino's his feet?
00:21:35It was the only thing he would let me suck.
00:21:38Really?
00:21:39I swear to God.
00:21:40He...
00:21:40Typical Gino trying to save money on a pedicure.
00:21:43You got a game?
00:21:51I have a funny idea.
00:21:53You got that paper with you?
00:21:54Paper?
00:21:54Your phone records.
00:21:56Let's call that number.
00:21:56See if Matt answers the phone.
00:21:58She's lying to us.
00:22:00I'll call it.
00:22:04Let me see your number.
00:22:07Hold on a second.
00:22:09Here, look.
00:22:09That's his number.
00:22:19Why, it's ringing.
00:22:21Is it?
00:22:21Yep.
00:22:25He might not have changed his number.
00:22:32Oh, what are you guys doing in here?
00:22:34Guys, come, come, come.
00:22:36You having a little sleepover?
00:22:37We're playing truth or dare.
00:22:38Truth or dare?
00:22:39Yes.
00:22:39Yeah.
00:22:40Okay, all right.
00:22:41I'll let truth or dare never hurt anybody.
00:22:43But we've done some scandalous things before your arrival.
00:22:46Yeah.
00:22:47Okay, baby.
00:22:48This is your turn.
00:22:49Oh, me?
00:22:50I'll do truth.
00:22:51Do you still have feelings for Guillermo?
00:22:53Oh, my God.
00:22:54Truth.
00:22:55The whole truth.
00:23:03I will always love Guillermo.
00:23:05I will always love Guillermo.
00:23:06We share a child.
00:23:09Wow.
00:23:10Hm.
00:23:12She created a song.
00:23:14In the main course of the song, it's like, try.
00:23:18And we need to just try.
00:23:19Yeah.
00:23:19Yeah, sure.
00:23:19Yeah.
00:23:20And continue to try.
00:23:20Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:23:21Yeah.
00:23:22Yeah.
00:23:22I don't feel like we really tried.
00:23:25I tried.
00:23:27That's what I'm saying.
00:23:28It's what you don't get here.
00:23:29No, no, no, no.
00:23:29You just shut down.
00:23:30You didn't communicate.
00:23:31Well, I was trying.
00:23:34Because our marriage was getting up.
00:23:38Mm-hmm.
00:23:41I think that you should have chosen there.
00:23:46I'm sorry.
00:23:54Oh, he replied.
00:23:55I asked him if it's Matt.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:59This is Matt, too?
00:24:00Like this?
00:24:01Yes.
00:24:01He's not going to say yes.
00:24:03No, he's going to be like, what the you want?
00:24:05Yeah.
00:24:06You started for me.
00:24:09OK.
00:24:10Jasmine.
00:24:11Uh-huh.
00:24:12Truth or dare?
00:24:13OK.
00:24:15Truth.
00:24:17Do you love Matt the same as you love Gino?
00:24:25Hmm.
00:24:28I think that, I don't know.
00:24:32I think that with Gino, I didn't love him in a healthy way,
00:24:38but I was so obsessed with him.
00:24:40Like, I love him, you know, in a very passionate way.
00:24:44No, she doesn't love me as much as him.
00:24:46Right?
00:24:46I was like, I think it was a yes or no.
00:24:48I don't want to be that person again, but I do love him.
00:24:53I like his companion.
00:24:54Sex is the freaking best.
00:24:59Well, you definitely have chemistry.
00:25:02Hello.
00:25:02Oh, hi.
00:25:03Welcome.
00:25:04My baby.
00:25:04Yeah.
00:25:05My new people.
00:25:06Yeah.
00:25:07It's my turn.
00:25:11The queen.
00:25:12The newcomer to the circle.
00:25:14Dare.
00:25:14Oh, she has this.
00:25:16Double D, baby.
00:25:17Double D.
00:25:19I dare you, Darcy, to let Cara lick one of your nipples.
00:25:29Ah!
00:25:30Bitch!
00:25:32Oh!
00:25:32Whoa!
00:25:34I need to see that!
00:25:38Here, I'll lick your boob, but not your nipple.
00:25:40OK.
00:25:41And let me see that come closer.
00:25:42Here, just one.
00:25:43Yeah.
00:25:44I'm such a pervert.
00:25:45No, she has to lick twice for each season.
00:25:48She did it.
00:25:49No, she's on his hair.
00:25:49No, I didn't see it.
00:25:50Ah!
00:25:53Yeah, double D's, baby.
00:25:54Yeah!
00:25:55Y'all are ratchet and hell with that.
00:25:57Zero .
00:25:59True or dare?
00:26:01I can't dare.
00:26:02Woo!
00:26:03OK.
00:26:03I want you are dancing for your wife.
00:26:07She's still your wife.
00:26:08Take off your shirt and make sexy feeding her this sandwich
00:26:13without your hand.
00:26:15Get your ass over here.
00:26:16Show the Latino movements.
00:26:19Da, da, da, da, da, do, do, do, do.
00:26:22Yeah.
00:26:23Lo, lo, lo, lo, lo, lo, lo, lo, lo.
00:26:25Ah!
00:26:26Ah!
00:26:26Ah!
00:26:27Ah!
00:26:27Ah!
00:26:29Ah!
00:26:30Put the sandwich inside your.
00:26:31Ah!
00:26:33Ah!
00:26:34Ah!
00:26:35Ah!
00:26:35Ah!
00:26:36She's in a vodka!
00:26:38Punish her!
00:26:41I'll make her smell it.
00:26:42There you go.
00:26:49With the hands, with the hands.
00:26:50Miles, Miles!
00:26:53Sock it, I mean, .
00:27:01Wow, that was cute.
00:27:04Look, let's see.
00:27:06Bring it on.
00:27:07Says, I don't know who you are.
00:27:08If it wasn't him, he'd say wrong number.
00:27:11Where's Matt?
00:27:12Upstairs.
00:27:13Somebody see if he's on his phone.
00:27:14Where is he?
00:27:14Let's go sneak and see.
00:27:16I'll peek around the corner.
00:27:17Go, go.
00:27:17Somebody put my camera on him.
00:27:19Where?
00:27:20Oh, here, yeah.
00:27:21Upstairs, we'll see if he's texting.
00:27:23If he's on his phone right now, that's him.
00:27:36Kara, you're still living in the house
00:27:37that you and Guillermo bought together.
00:27:39Yes.
00:27:39Are you trying to get his name off the date?
00:27:42I mean, I think it's fair.
00:27:44He didn't contribute money.
00:27:45And that's the reality of what happened.
00:27:46Mm-mm, that is not.
00:27:48That's a dumb way to think about it.
00:27:54We'll see if he's texting.
00:27:55If he's on his phone right now, that's Matt.
00:27:57It's too loud.
00:27:58We can't sleep.
00:27:59You guys missed some crazy .
00:28:02Missed it.
00:28:03Licked doorknob, licked toes.
00:28:04Big .
00:28:06Yeah, that's right.
00:28:07More action here than I get with you.
00:28:09By me.
00:28:10By me.
00:28:16All right, let me do it one more time.
00:28:28Is somebody texting you?
00:28:29No, I'm not playing.
00:28:30It's fine.
00:28:31Why?
00:28:31Is somebody texting you earlier?
00:28:34I have no idea why.
00:28:36Were you texting somebody earlier?
00:28:38No.
00:28:39I'm going to go back and get a drink.
00:28:42Yeah, let's go back.
00:28:42Yeah, I'm over here.
00:28:44It's kind of boring here.
00:28:45Yeah, it's boring here.
00:28:47Our spy mission was a total bust.
00:28:50I mean, either Matt changed his phone number,
00:28:52or Gino's lying.
00:28:54I don't know.
00:28:55All right.
00:28:56Please leave your message.
00:28:58No.
00:28:59Did they figure it out upstairs or no?
00:29:01I don't know.
00:29:01Children, come back.
00:29:03What did you discover?
00:29:04Nothing.
00:29:06Nothing.
00:29:07He wasn't on his phone.
00:29:08Jasmine's looking at me.
00:29:09Like, I'm crazy.
00:29:10I'm like, Matt, are you texting anybody right now?
00:29:12And he was like, no.
00:29:15I called, like, three times.
00:29:16Nothing happens.
00:29:17Answer?
00:29:17Nothing happens.
00:29:18Nothing happens.
00:29:19Nothing happens.
00:29:20Matt's phone number was definitely a match at the time
00:29:24that I pulled the phone records, because I verified it myself.
00:29:27So the fact that Matt changed his number, I mean, that just shows he's guilty.
00:29:33So you can't even question it.
00:29:36I just hear somebody upstairs leak Darcy's boobs tonight.
00:29:40Oh, yeah?
00:29:41Yeah.
00:29:42What did you say?
00:29:43Somebody touched her boobs?
00:29:44Lick it.
00:29:44Who?
00:29:46Guillermo?
00:29:46Kara?
00:29:47Oh, OK.
00:29:48Oh.
00:29:50They're playing a game.
00:29:51In the front of other people there.
00:29:54They're having fun.
00:29:55Are you doing other squats?
00:29:56Oh, they're having fun.
00:29:56That's an excuse.
00:29:57They're having fun.
00:29:58Let's go straight up.
00:29:59I'm just going to have fun.
00:30:01Yeah.
00:30:02OK, well, I have a dare for all of you.
00:30:04Yay!
00:30:06I dare you all to get the out of my room.
00:30:08Oh, my gosh.
00:30:08My pleasure.
00:30:09Yay!
00:30:10That was fun.
00:30:12All of us?
00:30:12I love you.
00:30:13Don't get me wrong.
00:30:14You sure all of us?
00:30:16You maybe somebody want to stay?
00:30:17Thank you for having us.
00:30:18That was a fun game.
00:30:19I think all of you is just fine.
00:30:22All right, when's the last time you guys had sex?
00:30:25How many months?
00:30:26Y'all told me three in Miami when we hung out.
00:30:28Jovi, when was that?
00:30:29That was like three months ago.
00:30:31So that would be six months.
00:30:32We're just too busy.
00:30:33She said, J.
00:30:34Too busy to have sex?
00:30:35Yeah.
00:30:36Oh, come on.
00:30:37You can do a quickie.
00:30:39You just went on a nice vacation.
00:30:40I feel like that's the first thing you want to do when you get there.
00:30:42I don't know.
00:30:46Hey, guys.
00:30:47How's the party?
00:30:48What's up with a lick in the upstairs?
00:30:50That was the fun room.
00:30:52Played a little truth and dare.
00:30:53What did you do there?
00:30:54No.
00:30:55Got my tit licked.
00:30:56How'd she lick your nipples?
00:30:57Like this.
00:31:00In the front?
00:31:01Yeah.
00:31:02In front of everybody.
00:31:03That's right, baby.
00:31:04In front of everybody, see your boobs upstairs?
00:31:06Yeah.
00:31:07It was fun, innocent fun.
00:31:08What's up with a sex situation, seriously?
00:31:10I don't know.
00:31:11Ask him.
00:31:12Ask me.
00:31:13You're tired all the time.
00:31:14You're not in the mood for us.
00:31:15Dad, stop blaming me for everything, first and foremost.
00:31:19We both have to want it, but you know what I'm saying?
00:31:22Like, it's like, are you getting it off somewhere else?
00:31:24That's what we were asking.
00:31:25Like, in the shower, at the steam room with a hottie?
00:31:27Definitely somewhere, because you're not going to, like,
00:31:29if you last for two weeks, you're going to
00:31:32and you're asleep.
00:31:35I have with you, too.
00:31:37You do?
00:31:38Why not woman?
00:31:39You have a woman.
00:31:40Ask her.
00:31:41Yeah.
00:31:42I mean, obviously, I'm, you know, hormonal at this moment,
00:31:46but I also want some romance.
00:31:47I want to, like...
00:31:48It only takes, what, five, ten minutes?
00:31:50No, he's quick.
00:31:51He's quick.
00:31:52It's like a wham-bam, thank you, ma'am.
00:31:53It ain't hours, not on that shirt.
00:31:55One pump choke?
00:31:56If I really wanted it, it's like, all right.
00:31:58I don't mind that.
00:31:59You know, you're actually, like, you know, slow
00:32:01and a little gentle.
00:32:02You're never, like, freaky or nothing like that.
00:32:04I've had freaky.
00:32:05You're saying Georgie's boring.
00:32:08I don't know.
00:32:09It's because we both probably are now.
00:32:11We just got so used to each other, you know?
00:32:13We need to spice it up,
00:32:14so maybe we need to do something.
00:32:16Y'all take a shot of tequila,
00:32:17make your way upstairs,
00:32:18and renew your six-month membership.
00:32:20Renew your membership.
00:32:23Do you want to go in the room and have a six?
00:32:25Let's do it.
00:32:26Take a shot and go.
00:32:28Oh.
00:32:29Let's take it to the bedroom, baby.
00:32:31Do you have a problem, Georgie?
00:32:32Like, what's the problem?
00:32:33Like, do you have a problem?
00:32:34Roll, roll, roll.
00:32:35Why are you not your wife?
00:32:36I'll give you some liquid courage.
00:32:38She better be smiling ear to ear.
00:32:41Yeah!
00:32:42Tomorrow is in the studio.
00:32:43I'm vulgarian.
00:32:44Yes!
00:32:45All of you are going to hear us scream tonight.
00:32:48Yes!
00:32:49Woo!
00:32:50Woo!
00:32:51Woo!
00:32:52Let's go.
00:32:53Oh.
00:32:58Come to bed.
00:32:59Yeah, baby.
00:33:04Don't fall asleep.
00:33:07Wake up!
00:33:10Georgie, you feel like a dead body.
00:33:13I can't breathe.
00:33:15Help, help, help.
00:33:20Oh, my God.
00:33:21That was so much fun.
00:33:22Two to third day.
00:33:23Kara, I'll never forget you.
00:33:25I tasted your perfume for, like, an hour after that.
00:33:29Oh, you did.
00:33:30Oh, no.
00:33:31Oh, no.
00:33:32Oh, I'm so ready.
00:33:33Yeah.
00:33:34Let's do this.
00:33:35So excited.
00:33:36You know, you got it.
00:33:37Thank you, sir.
00:33:38Oh, I'm so ready.
00:33:39Yeah.
00:33:40Let's do this.
00:33:41So excited.
00:33:42You know, you got it.
00:33:43Oh, thank you, sir.
00:33:45Ready?
00:33:46Ready?
00:33:47Ready?
00:33:48Yeah.
00:33:49Let's do this.
00:33:50So excited.
00:33:51You know, you got it.
00:33:52Oh, thank you, sir.
00:33:53Ready?
00:33:54Ready?
00:33:55Ready?
00:33:56Ready?
00:33:57Yeah.
00:33:58It's like the last team ready.
00:33:59I didn't expect that long.
00:34:01We're going first today?
00:34:02Good for me.
00:34:03It's OK.
00:34:04We can just get it out of bed.
00:34:05It's OK.
00:34:06It's OK.
00:34:07It's OK.
00:34:08It's OK.
00:34:09It's OK.
00:34:10It's OK.
00:34:11We can just get it out of bed.
00:34:12It's OK.
00:34:13We can just get it out of bed.
00:34:14Yeah.
00:34:15All my cries out.
00:34:19I feel very gross today.
00:34:21I'm not in a good mood.
00:34:27Good morning, guys.
00:34:30What's up?
00:34:31Good morning.
00:34:32Good to see you.
00:34:33How was your night?
00:34:35Never better.
00:34:36I didn't see you guys last night.
00:34:37So what was happening upstairs?
00:34:38Anything crazy?
00:34:39Man, weird, weird stuff happened.
00:34:41OK.
00:34:42Now I want to know.
00:34:43Brandon licked a door.
00:34:46How do you say it?
00:34:47A doorknob?
00:34:48Uh-huh.
00:34:49OK.
00:34:50I'm glad I was downstairs.
00:34:51Hey.
00:34:52What's up?
00:34:53I heard you licking doorknobs.
00:34:54What happened last night?
00:34:55Sucked the gold off that thing, right?
00:34:58Was it a bed?
00:34:59Like, what was happening?
00:35:00We were just sitting around playing truth or dare.
00:35:01Y'all were quiet.
00:35:02I figured everybody went to sleep.
00:35:03Really?
00:35:04Yeah.
00:35:05Oh, no.
00:35:06I thought we were loud as .
00:35:07Does have, uh, how do you say?
00:35:09Good walls?
00:35:10Yeah.
00:35:11Soundproofing, yeah.
00:35:12I mean, I haven't heard anybody having sex, so.
00:35:15How about you?
00:35:16How about me?
00:35:17Wait, what?
00:35:18Did you have sex?
00:35:19Ha!
00:35:21Wasn't Carl hot and bothered after your little private dance?
00:35:24No dance.
00:35:25No dance.
00:35:26Ha!
00:35:27Ha!
00:35:28Ha!
00:35:29Ha!
00:35:30Ha!
00:35:31Ha!
00:35:32Ha!
00:35:33Ha!
00:35:34Ha!
00:35:35My love!
00:35:36I didn't, I saw you, but you were getting makeup, and I didn't, I wanted to.
00:35:40I, I hear it.
00:35:41You're good?
00:35:42I have your back.
00:35:43Relax.
00:35:44You...
00:35:46Are...
00:35:47Who matters.
00:35:48I'm not crying.
00:35:49No, just shh.
00:35:50Breathing exercises.
00:35:51I need, I need to.
00:35:52Yeah, squish it.
00:35:53Squish it, squish it.
00:35:54Squish it, squish it.
00:35:55I came here thinking, like, everybody was gonna probably be a dick to me.
00:35:59Mm-hmm.
00:36:00But overall, everybody has been, like, pretty, like, pretty cool to me and pretty nice, so.
00:36:05I wanted to not like you.
00:36:06Oh, okay.
00:36:07Just given, just given everything.
00:36:08Nobody wants to like him.
00:36:09I know.
00:36:10And then you meet him, and you're like, oh, that plan.
00:36:11He's so likable, it's crazy.
00:36:13Yeah, unfortunately, unfortunately.
00:36:16He's socializing more today.
00:36:18He feels more confident.
00:36:19Oh, yeah.
00:36:20Look at our kids, them on the couch, talking with people.
00:36:22Look.
00:36:23I just have to keep, like, an eye on Matt.
00:36:25He's too charming.
00:36:26Sometimes.
00:36:27I don't like that.
00:36:28Too charming?
00:36:29Yeah, because with Gino, I didn't care because he's so bitchy to everyone.
00:36:35Like, you know?
00:36:36No.
00:36:37Isn't he nice?
00:36:38No.
00:36:39No.
00:36:40I guess I, too, like, I've seen Jasmine blow up and, like, cry so much.
00:36:45So much.
00:36:46That I was like, oh, here we go.
00:36:48Is it just going to be, like, one big drama show all the time?
00:36:50No.
00:36:51See?
00:36:52Just like that.
00:36:53I'm literally trying to say, I thought you were going to be so much drama, but you actually
00:36:56turned out to be so nice.
00:36:57But you're just proving the first part.
00:37:00I don't want to interrupt the peace and quiet.
00:37:03Are you sure?
00:37:04So I'm going to be in this corner because apparently I'm too loud.
00:37:07Huh.
00:37:08Hi, Darcy.
00:37:09Good morning.
00:37:10Hi, Mama.
00:37:11Oh, it's so nice to see Georgie by Darcy's side.
00:37:13Yeah.
00:37:14Amen.
00:37:15Because sometimes I forget that you're even a couple because it's always Darcy by herself.
00:37:20I know.
00:37:21He likes to walk off.
00:37:22And Georgie with any female except from his wife.
00:37:24Yes.
00:37:25True.
00:37:26Shots fired.
00:37:27Shots fired.
00:37:28Jesus.
00:37:29All right, guys.
00:37:30We're ready for you back on set.
00:37:31All right.
00:37:32Go.
00:37:34All right.
00:37:35Kara, you guys first?
00:37:36Hi.
00:37:37Yeah.
00:37:38Good boy.
00:37:39It's our time, G.
00:37:45Good morning.
00:37:46Good morning.
00:37:47Good morning.
00:37:55And I hope I don't pop out of my dress.
00:37:57You might have to have my back.
00:37:58You're feeling good about that.
00:37:59Let me know if you see anything.
00:38:02Right, please.
00:38:05Five.
00:38:06Four.
00:38:07Three.
00:38:08Two.
00:38:10Welcome back to 90 Day Fiancé.
00:38:12Happily Ever After, The Couples Tell All.
00:38:14All right, everybody.
00:38:15Are you guys ready?
00:38:16Yep.
00:38:17We are ready.
00:38:18I want to start off with Kara and Guillermo.
00:38:21Now, I understand there was a little bit of flirting going on last night between the two
00:38:28of you.
00:38:29Is that right?
00:38:30I think, in my opinion, I think we, there's a lot of stuff happening that's really heavy.
00:38:35Yeah.
00:38:36And I think our way to deal with it has seemed to be to just joke and keep it very, like,
00:38:41light.
00:38:42Yeah.
00:38:43Because once we start to really get into it.
00:38:46Mm-hmm.
00:38:47So, what is the status of your relationship?
00:38:54Separated.
00:38:55Separated.
00:38:56Living separate.
00:38:57Co-parenting.
00:38:58Living separate lives.
00:38:59Co-parenting.
00:39:00Kara, you're still living in the house that you and Guillermo bought together.
00:39:04Yes.
00:39:05Okay.
00:39:06All right.
00:39:07And Guillermo, oh, you just threw me a look right there.
00:39:10How do you feel about that?
00:39:12Never better.
00:39:14Never better?
00:39:15Yeah.
00:39:16Okay.
00:39:17So, you both bought that house together with both your funds.
00:39:21Mm-hmm.
00:39:22Right.
00:39:25Mm-hmm.
00:39:26The looks between you two.
00:39:27Kara, is that right?
00:39:28You bought that house together with both your funds?
00:39:30Uh, sure, in the sense that we're married and so our funds are won.
00:39:34Yeah.
00:39:36Kara, is Guillermo's name on the house?
00:39:40Yeah, on, not on the loan, but on the deed.
00:39:43When we bought the house, obviously I was okay with him being on the deed.
00:39:47I wanted to create a future with him.
00:39:49Yes.
00:39:50But now that we're separate, now I think about it and like, oh, I really did everything to really get us into that house.
00:39:57Mm-hmm.
00:39:58And he just gets to have 50% ownership.
00:40:00Are you trying to get his name off the deed?
00:40:03I mean, I think it's fair.
00:40:07He doesn't live there.
00:40:08He didn't contribute money.
00:40:10And that's the reality of what happened.
00:40:11Mm-mm.
00:40:12That is not.
00:40:13I'm just waiting for my moment.
00:40:15Well, go ahead.
00:40:16Have your moment.
00:40:17I remember actually clear conversations and actually you were the one putting every single thing that I will spend in the house or in the family.
00:40:28And actually it was more than what you were putting into the house.
00:40:32And then the payment that I was doing, it was like food and this and the other and the kid and the da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
00:40:37Specifically about the house, it was more so me.
00:40:40As our budget as a whole, it was sometimes more him depending on what the bills were that month.
00:40:46But you can't separate the two.
00:40:48You were living together and spending money on everything.
00:40:51You can't separate the house from everything else.
00:40:53You can't give him back his food.
00:40:55Yeah, but the food he paid for is not accruing equity over the next 25 years either.
00:41:01Wait a minute.
00:41:02Wait a minute.
00:41:03Wait a minute.
00:41:04But that's a dumb way to think about it.
00:41:06Even if you're saying that you're paying these and I'm paying that, at the end of the day, it's one.
00:41:12I wanted it to be one thing.
00:41:14I wanted it to be together.
00:41:15I wanted it to be one thing.
00:41:17You wanted it and it was.
00:41:20How much is it worth?
00:41:22Do you want to fight that battle and you want to claim 50%?
00:41:26How much did you put in?
00:41:27It's, listen, I come from nothing and I don't care if I go back there.
00:41:35I just want to have a good life.
00:41:37That's it.
00:41:38And if fighting with you, it's not going to give me that, so then just keep it.
00:41:44You have decided that you are going to give up your 50%.
00:41:49Yeah.
00:41:50Yeah.
00:41:51Yeah.
00:41:52I did.
00:41:53So you're letting it go?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55Okay.
00:41:56Yeah.
00:41:57And if the other issue was to be turned the other way, and you were paying the mortgage and she was paying more on the rest of the bills, she would be claiming I'm paying more now.
00:42:04more now. There's so many things that there's no equality in this. You don't think there's
00:42:10equality in your relationship with Kara? No.
00:42:21When she drinks, it's a completely different person. I don't feel comfortable with this.
00:42:28She's basically saying she's not wife material. Stop, Andrew. That's what it is.
00:42:35Yes. Um.
00:42:43You don't think there's equality in your relationship with Kara?
00:42:48No.
00:42:52If I will do the same things that she do, I will definitely be looking really bad.
00:43:00Like, for example?
00:43:00I keep my kid. I don't care about you. It's not your country, but I still, I don't care
00:43:06about you.
00:43:07I've never said that to you.
00:43:08No, but it's, it's, it's, it's the truth. It's, it's there. Like, you can see it.
00:43:15Guillermo, do you think that you would be treated differently by Kara if you did not have a son
00:43:19together?
00:43:26Yes.
00:43:28In what way?
00:43:30Um, would you like to answer that?
00:43:34No, you can answer.
00:43:34Um, there is a small line of respect that I feel from her just because I'm the father
00:43:51of her kid.
00:43:52And if Nico wouldn't be there, that respect, it will be none.
00:44:01Wow.
00:44:02Sounds bad.
00:44:04Think you would already be divorced?
00:44:05I will, yeah, I will, I will, I will, I will think so.
00:44:09What respect means for you?
00:44:11What does respect?
00:44:12You said she has small respect for you.
00:44:13What does it mean for you?
00:44:14I will start with the way she will speak to me.
00:44:18She speaks down to you.
00:44:20Yeah.
00:44:20Down means rude and, and names and all of that kind of stuff.
00:44:26Like, that's how she is.
00:44:29That's how Kara is.
00:44:30In fact, Rowena said, Guillermo, the way Kara speaks to you, that's really bad.
00:44:37That's what Kara's mother told you.
00:44:40Yeah.
00:44:41What am I saying to you that you find so disrespectful?
00:44:45Do you call him names?
00:44:47No?
00:44:48No.
00:44:49What did I call you?
00:44:52I think my general tone sometimes can be sharp, particularly if I'm upset or angry or whatever.
00:44:57And I think he finds that tone disrespectful.
00:45:02No, no, no.
00:45:03We're talking about words like mother
00:45:04like all of those words that they can come out.
00:45:09That in my opinion, you shouldn't be saying those things to your husband.
00:45:12And the way you spoke to me, it's not the right way to speak to me.
00:45:19Okay.
00:45:20I want to pivot to another point of contention in your relationship.
00:45:25Kara, what is the status of your music career?
00:45:28It's just growing.
00:45:29Mm-hmm.
00:45:30And evolving.
00:45:31Bringing in money?
00:45:32You know, music is a really hard industry.
00:45:34And I don't know that you see profit for a while.
00:45:38Okay.
00:45:39I want to look back at how Kara's dream of a music career resulted in a nightmare for her marriage.
00:45:46Let's watch.
00:45:46People started arriving like an hour ago, and Guillermo still isn't here.
00:45:55There was a time when Guillermo was different.
00:45:58He was really supportive of my performances and of my career.
00:46:03I never had the feeling that one day, maybe he wouldn't be there as my biggest supporter, my biggest fan.
00:46:09I'm not going to be part of the possible bullshit that could be going on in Kara's life.
00:46:21Like, going out, drinking, partying, even the way she probably could dress in me is going to probably make me feel so weird.
00:46:45Normally, she will wear something like no clothes or almost not clothes.
00:46:51And I've said, like, yo, that makes me a little bit, a little bit weird.
00:46:56And every time I said that, she's like, who the do you think you are to tell me what to do, what to wear and stuff?
00:47:02And I'm, it's not that I'm telling you what to do, what to wear, not at all.
00:47:06It's just that it makes me feel a little bit weird.
00:47:11You know what?
00:47:12Enjoy your life.
00:47:14Go do your thing.
00:47:16But I'm not going to be part of it.
00:47:17Kara, when you were watching that, what were you feeling?
00:47:25I guess it's just the realization that somehow I've ended up married to someone that just, like, doesn't support me.
00:47:36I just never thought it was going to be that way, you know?
00:47:43If anybody should be there, it should be him, even if it was in the middle of a desert, you know?
00:47:48Like, if anyone should be there, it should be my husband.
00:47:50Yeah, I think you should have been there for her and supported her.
00:47:56When she was going out to sing, then she keeps going into a potty, drinking, and then to another potty, and then to someone else's house until, like, 4 a.m.
00:48:10And I'm like, yo, were you not going to sing and then come back home to your family?
00:48:16No, no, no.
00:48:17It's to continue from this place to another place to continue drinking.
00:48:21And we know, we know.
00:48:23She's just having fun.
00:48:24But she did not cheat, you know?
00:48:27She just had fun.
00:48:29Um, no, that's okay.
00:48:32I actually went to New York two weeks ago to Manhattan with Joey for my birthday, and Joey didn't have no problem with that.
00:48:38I go out, we go to the bar with my friends.
00:48:41Think from his perspective, if he goes out until 4 o'clock in the morning, three parties, would you believe him?
00:48:48He's singing only?
00:48:49If his goal was to be a singer, and he had a show, I would never miss his show.
00:48:55So he has a jealousy problem, okay.
00:48:58Yeah, I think she's using the music as an excuse for her to continue to go out because she knows that Guillermo doesn't like it.
00:49:03I mean, she's not happy in her marriage.
00:49:04So if she's already there, it's an excuse to keep going.
00:49:07If I would have done the same thing, I'll be in trouble.
00:49:10No, if you would have done the same thing, I would have been by your side with you the whole time.
00:49:14I think she would be with you.
00:49:15Yeah, if you will be there for her, she will go home with you.
00:49:19Look, I have a problem with Cara when she drinks.
00:49:28When she drinks, it's a completely different person.
00:49:31And she knows it.
00:49:43Tell us about this DJ friend of yours.
00:49:47He was writing her.
00:49:49And the way he was writing, it was to invite her out.
00:49:53And then she would be acting in very different ways.
00:49:56I'll be very honest.
00:49:57If I went to him tomorrow and was like, hey, let's hook up, I have no doubts he would.
00:50:01Oh, my God.
00:50:03Oh.
00:50:04When she drinks, it's a completely different person.
00:50:17So then I was like, hey, listen, I don't feel comfortable with this.
00:50:20So then I will get scared of going to those places because then she'll be drinking and then she will be acting in very different ways.
00:50:28She will be, like, very cute and cozy with some other guys.
00:50:32She will be, like, dancing very cute with other guys.
00:50:35They think they have a chance.
00:50:36Exactly.
00:50:37She's not being like, oh, okay, sorry.
00:50:39Like, I'm not going to speak to these people.
00:50:41I'm married.
00:50:42Like, I feel like that never comes up.
00:50:43She's a singer.
00:50:44Aren't those her fans?
00:50:46I mean, imagine.
00:50:48But I think you still have to be respectful to your marriage.
00:50:51I get a terrible point.
00:50:52So it's disrespectful.
00:50:53I've been there, right?
00:50:54She's going somewhere.
00:50:55Like, what, she's just going to hang out there and she's going to talk around everybody around.
00:50:59And he's just staying there watching, having a drink.
00:51:02It don't feel okay.
00:51:03He could also enjoy himself.
00:51:05Kira, do you think you become a different person when you drink?
00:51:11I think I become more fun when I drink.
00:51:14For you, not for your mom.
00:51:18He doesn't look like he has fun when you drink.
00:51:22He's basically saying she's not wife material.
00:51:24That's what it is.
00:51:25What?
00:51:26Yes, that's what it is.
00:51:27She can do all of it.
00:51:29Wife is not the only wife who sit at home and cook and clean.
00:51:32Stop, Andrew.
00:51:32He doesn't want to see his woman going out and speaking and taking shots.
00:51:36To some other woman, why'd he choose her than to be his wife?
00:51:39From day one when I met Guillermo, I've never not been who I am.
00:51:43Like, I never changed.
00:51:45He changed.
00:51:46He was fine with who I was.
00:51:48What if she stopped drinking and just did networking after the show for one hour and then comes home?
00:51:54Would it change the situation?
00:51:55What a beautiful life.
00:51:56In fact, in fact, my man.
00:51:59She's just having fun.
00:52:00In fact, my man.
00:52:01No, no, no, no, no.
00:52:03We agreed that she had a problem drinking.
00:52:07I was going to ask that.
00:52:08Does she have a drinking problem?
00:52:11In my opinion, she does.
00:52:12In his opinion, I...
00:52:14And then she said to my face, hey, you know what?
00:52:17I'm going to stop drinking.
00:52:19Did you say that, Kim?
00:52:20I did.
00:52:21I did.
00:52:21In an effort to save our marriage, which time over time, he says, I never tried.
00:52:29I didn't try hard enough.
00:52:30I didn't take accountability.
00:52:31I looked at him and said, okay, maybe you're right.
00:52:33I can stop drinking.
00:52:34I will try to stop drinking because I want our marriage to work.
00:52:38And how did that go?
00:52:39Two weeks.
00:52:40I mean, I definitely started drinking.
00:52:42But like...
00:52:43Two weeks.
00:52:44Two weeks, no drink.
00:52:46Yeah, but he was still being ridiculous also.
00:52:49So you said, forget it.
00:52:49I'm going to start drinking again.
00:52:51Ridiculous?
00:52:51What?
00:52:51I'm trying to build trust.
00:52:53I'm trying to go back.
00:52:54No, I was trying to communicate with you.
00:52:56You were shutting me down.
00:52:57I couldn't.
00:52:57You were giving non-answers.
00:52:59I was...
00:52:59You were making uncomfortable.
00:53:01I'm uncomfortable.
00:53:01And I was like, okay, so now I stopped drinking to try to save our marriage.
00:53:04And he's not doing any work.
00:53:05I'm giving up stuff.
00:53:06I'm making sacrifices.
00:53:07I'm trying to fix it.
00:53:08How are you doing?
00:53:08Yeah, I'm wondering, did you think you had a drinking problem, Cara?
00:53:12I mean, there's definitely been times where I've gone too hard.
00:53:15Okay.
00:53:17So were you doing it, giving up drinking just for Guillermo?
00:53:21Or did you feel like it was something that you should do for yourself?
00:53:23It made me a little column A and a little column B.
00:53:26I mean, I think alcohol is not good for you long term.
00:53:28It obviously doesn't make you feel good.
00:53:29But then you only gave it two weeks, right?
00:53:31Yeah.
00:53:33Okay.
00:53:33Do you think you should have gone a little bit longer?
00:53:38Would that have made a difference, do you think?
00:53:39No, I don't.
00:53:40That's why I just started drinking again.
00:53:41Because I was like, clearly me doing...
00:53:42I just didn't feel like it was going to make any difference.
00:53:44Because he was still being, like, standoffish and mean.
00:53:47No, look, look, look.
00:53:48She doesn't like when people tell her what to do.
00:53:51And this is not just coming from me, because I just want to say it.
00:53:55When I start...
00:53:56I can own that.
00:53:57Yeah, she can agree.
00:53:58Her mother told me when I got here, Cara is the type that she would do whatever she wants.
00:54:04Be careful, be careful.
00:54:06Her mom said this to you?
00:54:07Yes.
00:54:08Rana said that to me.
00:54:09Well, I want to pivot to a related topic.
00:54:14At one point in their marriage, something happened that fractured the relationship.
00:54:18Guillermo became suspicious of Cara and a relationship she had with a local DJ.
00:54:24Take a look.
00:54:25Cara will go to the Latin night with her friends, which is this guy, DJ, until what, like 3, 4 a.m.?
00:54:37That does make me feel very weird, more when they have a pass.
00:54:42I hooked up with this human literally in 2011, one summer, one time.
00:54:50We've been very good friends ever since.
00:54:52He's now started the Latin event in Charlottesville and hosts every Bachata night.
00:54:56Of course, I'm going to him saying, hey, can I perform at your events?
00:54:59Hey, can you help me promote my music?
00:55:01Like, true friends.
00:55:03And because after Latin night, we go back to the after party that's at his house, it's a problem.
00:55:10It's the same guy that when we got married, he was writing her and trying to take her out.
00:55:17There's no proof to what he's accusing me of.
00:55:20And that is hurtful to me.
00:55:24Okay, Cara, tell us about this DJ friend of yours.
00:55:28Javier and I became friends early, early, like 2008, 2009, dancing Bachata.
00:55:35It was an underground scene at that point.
00:55:37Had sex one time.
00:55:39One time.
00:55:40I immediately was like, we're friends.
00:55:42I have no interest in you.
00:55:43Sorry it went too far.
00:55:44I'd really like to keep it friends because we've been friends already for so long.
00:55:47I was gone for a decade.
00:55:48He got married, had kids.
00:55:50We always kept in touch.
00:55:51Why would I not call upon my friend to help promote my music?
00:55:55Is this guy still married with kids?
00:55:57Yeah.
00:55:57No.
00:55:57Yes, they are still legally married.
00:56:02It's fine to work with him, but like, is it necessary to go to the after party at four
00:56:06o'clock in the morning?
00:56:08I mean, yeah, that's debatable.
00:56:10I would be uncomfortable too.
00:56:13But there was a time when we just got married that he was writing her.
00:56:19And the way he was writing, it was to invite her out.
00:56:24Kara, I get the impression that there's something you are holding back.
00:56:29What's going on?
00:56:33I'll be very honest.
00:56:34In my heart of hearts, if I went to him tomorrow and was like, hey, let's hook up, I have no doubt he would.
00:56:41When we come back, we're going to talk to Brandon and Julia.
00:56:49When we come back, we're going to talk to Brandon and Julia.
00:56:52I'm not sure what they're going to do.
00:56:55Okay.
00:56:56Okay.
00:56:57Stop in your skater.
00:56:58I understand.
00:56:59Is everybody ready?
00:57:15I'll be very honest.
00:57:17If I went to him tomorrow and was like, hey, let's hook up, I have no doubt he would.
00:57:24Then I'm on your side, Guillermo.
00:57:26I'm not going to Javier.
00:57:30I don't want to touch him with a 20-foot pole.
00:57:32So, like, I know where I stand with him and it takes two to tango.
00:57:36Like, I don't give a what advances he's trying to make of me.
00:57:38But then I will come with my insecurities and I will be like, hey, yo, that makes me feel uncomfortable.
00:57:44Can you please talk?
00:57:45And you're wrong.
00:57:46Now you're wrong, right?
00:57:47I'm being too nice.
00:57:49As a Latino, too nice.
00:57:51No, but for a long time.
00:57:52As anyone.
00:57:52I did have a conversation with Javier and I said, look, I'm married now.
00:57:56You can't just come up and be like, oh, mommy, you know, my husband's uncomfortable.
00:58:01It's inappropriate.
00:58:01I had several conversations with Javier about this.
00:58:03Okay, so, Kara, do you think the combination of, you know, the late nights after the performance, the drinking, the fact that it may be at this guy's club and he's separated from his wife and he still likes you and would hook up with you, that's kind of a perfect storm for something to happen, don't you think?
00:58:25Like, like, all the signs are there, I get it.
00:58:29I understand why he's upset, but at the end of the day, I have not done anything wrong and I have not betrayed his trust in that way.
00:58:36I know who I am and I know what my intentions are.
00:58:38If I wanted to, Javier would have done it a million times ten years ago.
00:58:43Like, it was never something I've wanted and I still don't want it.
00:58:46In this scenario, it's not specifically about him.
00:58:56He's not the problem.
00:58:58My problem is with her.
00:59:00My problem is with my sitting in a table talking about the things that makes me feel uncomfortable and then she will be doing something else.
00:59:08Those are my problems.
00:59:10I've always wanted to sing.
00:59:12I've always been a partier.
00:59:13I've always been coqueta.
00:59:14I've always been outgoing.
00:59:15I've always been maybe a harsh-toned speaker, whatever you want to call it.
00:59:20Guillermo's shaking his head.
00:59:23I wanted, I wanted you to say it.
00:59:26And, and him, and I feel like he was fine with that.
00:59:29He was fine with all of that until we came to America and I was with my friends and my people and then all of a sudden it became a problem.
00:59:38But, Cara, have you ever cheated on Guillermo?
00:59:45Never, never.
00:59:46I've cheated on people in my life, never with Guillermo.
00:59:50Guillermo, do you believe her?
00:59:51Sure.
00:59:52Sure.
00:59:53Sure.
00:59:54Sure.
00:59:55Sure.
00:59:56Listen, I feel like inside of me I do have problems, but my way to come out of those problems, it's being, just let it go.
01:00:10You were the love of my life, like I fell in love with you, but I, there was a point that I felt like the person that I fell in love with, it wasn't there anymore, and I need to accept that.
01:00:25No, it's so, it's so.
01:00:32Cara, that really hit you hard.
01:00:35Yeah.
01:00:41I mean she love you.
01:00:46I just, I just saw it going so differently than what actually happened.
01:00:50I was really committed and down.
01:00:52I was like ride or die for him, you know?
01:00:55OK.
01:01:02I want to shift right now to an incident
01:01:06when Kara's mom came to the house last fall.
01:01:10Take a look.
01:01:12Have you somebody else since we were married?
01:01:15No.
01:01:17A few days ago, my mom said she thinks
01:01:20that Guillermo cheated on me.
01:01:24Your stepdad and I were watching Nico.
01:01:26And you know, we went to your house
01:01:28to wait for him to get off work by like 5 o'clock.
01:01:32So we're sitting there.
01:01:33You know, we go in and get comfortable.
01:01:35And like, quarter after 6 rolls around.
01:01:37So Guillermo shows up.
01:01:39And when he shows up, he was like disshuffled, hair crazy.
01:01:43He darted for the bathroom.
01:01:45He definitely looked guilty.
01:01:49And his actions showed me something ain't right.
01:01:54So who thinks there may have been some behavior there
01:01:59that was inappropriate?
01:02:06Doesn't point to anything that he did wrong, in my opinion.
01:02:09Well, Ronald might put some gas in the fire.
01:02:12You don't know.
01:02:12Yeah, she stirred the puds.
01:02:13Yeah.
01:02:15There's a river that I go a lot.
01:02:18And when I normally paddle that river, I come smelling.
01:02:22No, I can tell you what my mom said happened.
01:02:24Right, but you were supposed to be on work.
01:02:25He came home from work, not the river.
01:02:26Yeah, exactly.
01:02:27I went to Mexico.
01:02:28But like, when is the day?
01:02:29Like, that's the thing.
01:02:30We can look it up.
01:02:30But like, I went to Mexico to visit my pregnant friend.
01:02:33She came back to Mexico to give birth.
01:02:34My mom watched Nico while he was at work.
01:02:36He was supposed to be back at 5.
01:02:37He came home closer to like 6, 6.30, whatever.
01:02:39He was late.
01:02:40Then he comes in late, disheveled,
01:02:42runs straight to the bathroom, takes a shower immediately.
01:02:45Comes back out.
01:02:46My mom was like, he's late.
01:02:48He's disheveled.
01:02:48Supposed to be at work.
01:02:50Runs to the bathroom.
01:02:51Like, suspicious.
01:02:52And Guillermo, you don't remember this at all?
01:02:55I'm trying to find the day that I came back,
01:02:58like, trying to get in the shower.
01:02:59I will definitely, normally, every single time
01:03:02after I come from the river, to clean myself.
01:03:04Because smell like.
01:03:05What the river?
01:03:06What are you saying, the river?
01:03:07It smells like .
01:03:07No, but you went at the river and you have to work.
01:03:10You don't work at the river.
01:03:12And he came back in his work clothes disheveled.
01:03:14Not his river wetsuit disheveled.
01:03:17I've never cheated.
01:03:20It's not about the cheating.
01:03:21There's so many other problems here.
01:03:22I don't know, it sounds to me like you're the problem.
01:03:24I don't see anything really saying that Guillermo's doing.
01:03:26Stop it.
01:03:27She's such a fire, he's such a ground.
01:03:29They cannot go together, seriously.
01:03:31I don't think he's wrong.
01:03:34Is the next step divorce?
01:03:44Everybody has their turn in the hot seat
01:03:46to give us the update on their lives.
01:03:48So, Brandon and Julia.
01:03:51Sure, we've been on our fertility journey.
01:03:55It's been, like, a lot.
01:03:57I don't know, we're just separate right now.
01:03:59I would rather just keep it as it is, I don't know.
01:04:02I don't know.
01:04:03I don't know.
01:04:04I don't know.
01:04:05I don't know.
01:04:06We're just separate right now.
01:04:07I don't know.
01:04:08Is the next step divorce?
01:04:18I don't know.
01:04:20We're just separate right now.
01:04:24I would rather just keep it as it is.
01:04:27I know he can be here.
01:04:28He can see our son every day.
01:04:31Is there a part of you that wants the marriage to work?
01:04:34Yeah, of course.
01:04:35I did not want my marriage to fail.
01:04:36I didn't get married to get divorced.
01:04:37It was never my intention.
01:04:38It was never my goal.
01:04:40Now that I'm on this side of it, I don't know
01:04:42that that's the best solution for us.
01:04:47Guillermo, you said during couples therapy
01:04:50that you weren't sure if you loved Kara.
01:04:54Do you love Kara?
01:05:00Yeah, I mean, she's the mother of my kid.
01:05:02So you just love her as the mother of your kid,
01:05:04or you love her as a woman?
01:05:07He doesn't love all of me.
01:05:08You know, at least I will speak for my country,
01:05:11or, like, for where I come from.
01:05:14But we consider that the mother of your kid, that's your woman.
01:05:18And in Spanish, we say, like, esa es mi mujer.
01:05:21And I guess I don't see it like that right now, because, so I, I, look, I don't know.
01:05:28I don't know.
01:05:28I don't know.
01:05:29I'm lost.
01:05:29And yeah, me too.
01:05:33Sometimes I don't understand 100% what's going on inside of me, because I guess I still going
01:05:39through just pain.
01:05:43OK, let me ask our other couples.
01:05:46Who here thinks that there is a future for Kara and Guillermo?
01:05:51I do.
01:05:53Yeah, I think so, too.
01:05:53I saw, I saw energy between them.
01:05:57And that energy is real.
01:05:58You can't lie about this energy and them have a feeling for each other.
01:06:03You can't throw away this.
01:06:05I think that he needs more digging into his feelings and open up a little bit more.
01:06:10And I know that in our culture, it's, it's very difficult for men.
01:06:15I mean, they, they look nice together.
01:06:17Look at them.
01:06:18Yeah, well, thank you so much, Kara and Guillermo.
01:06:26I'm really sorry that you are having so many problems in your relationship now.
01:06:30But we do hope that there is a path forward for you both.
01:06:35Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.
01:06:39OK, everybody can take a five minute break.
01:06:42And when we return, Brandon and Julia, we're talking to you.
01:06:47Yeah.
01:06:48Great.
01:06:49We have a couple of minutes?
01:06:50Yeah.
01:06:54It's fine.
01:06:55Yeah.
01:06:56I'm happy.
01:06:57Hey, don't do that.
01:06:59I have something again.
01:07:02No.
01:07:03And me?
01:07:04No.
01:07:05No.
01:07:06No.
01:07:07No.
01:07:08I think it's crazy.
01:07:09OK.
01:07:10OK.
01:07:11I'm not sure what it goes.
01:07:12OK.
01:07:13OK.
01:07:14OK.
01:07:15Stop in your skateboard.
01:07:16I understand.
01:07:17But don't be fine.
01:07:18You'll do a quick time.
01:07:19I know.
01:07:20OK.
01:07:21I'm fine.
01:07:22OK.
01:07:23I'm fine.
01:07:24OK.
01:07:25OK, everybody, please sit down.
01:07:26We're going to get started here.
01:07:29Five, four, three, two.
01:07:32OK.
01:07:33And now let's turn our attention to Brandon and Julia.
01:07:36There is a lot we need to unpack.
01:07:38So are you ready to get started, guys?
01:07:41Yeah.
01:07:42No.
01:07:43Yeah.
01:07:44OK.
01:07:45Everybody has their turn in the hot seat to give us the update on their lives.
01:07:48So how are you two doing?
01:07:56Uh-huh.
01:08:01Can you start?
01:08:02Sure.
01:08:03We've, um, so yeah.
01:08:05We've been on our fertility journey.
01:08:13It's been tough.
01:08:14It's been hard.
01:08:15Aw.
01:08:36Hi, Mom.
01:08:37Hi, Dad.
01:08:38So when is the last time you guys saw each other?
01:08:41It's been a while.
01:08:42For some reason, we're feeling this distance.
01:08:45We are lying.
01:08:48We have reason why we disconnect.
01:08:51It's hard to explain.
01:08:53Try.
01:09:04We are being...
01:09:05It's been tough.
01:09:06It's been tough.
01:09:07It's been hard emotionally.
01:09:08It's been tough.
01:09:09It's been tough.
01:09:10It's been hard emotionally.
01:09:12I will be safe.
01:09:13We have miscarriages.
01:09:16Oh, Julia.
01:09:17That is why we're waiting so long.
01:09:19Aw.
01:09:20But...
01:09:24I am six months pregnant right now.
01:09:26Ah!
01:09:27Oh, watch.
01:09:28Oh, my God.
01:09:29Wow.
01:09:30But...
01:09:31I have a very high-risk pregnancy, and...
01:09:36I never have panic attack.
01:09:38I never have paranoia, what I have right now.
01:09:40And every day, I wake up, and I'm trying to, like, feel kicking.
01:09:44If I feel kicking, I feel this alive.
01:09:48Brennan's so excited to share this with people.
01:09:51He wants to say this.
01:09:52I'm like, I'm not.
01:09:53Because if you're gonna share, if you're gonna be again lost.
01:09:59No.
01:10:01It's scary.
01:10:02It's been challenging to get here, you know?
01:10:03It's...
01:10:04It's...
01:10:05You've achieved something, and it's scary to possibly lose something.
01:10:08But I've been dying to actually tell somebody to get it out, you know?
01:10:14Congratulations, you and Brandon.
01:10:16Congratulations, Julia.
01:10:17Yeah.
01:10:18Congratulations.
01:10:19Congratulations.
01:10:20I think Julia needs a hug.
01:10:21Oh, yeah.
01:10:22She made me cry.
01:10:24Oh, yeah.
01:10:25Oh, yeah.
01:10:26Oh, yeah.
01:10:27Oh, yeah.
01:10:28Oh, yeah.
01:10:29Oh, yeah.
01:10:30Oh, yeah.
01:10:31Oh, yeah.
01:10:32Wow.
01:10:33And, Daddy, our joyous shit.
01:10:34You love you.
01:10:35Thank you, Julia.
01:10:36What's that?
01:10:37It's gonna be great.
01:10:38It's gonna be great.
01:10:39No worries.
01:10:40It's a beautiful thing.
01:10:41Thanks, bud.
01:10:47Thank you, all of you.
01:10:48We love you.
01:10:49We appreciate you sharing the news.
01:10:51Do I look like I'm sick in my life?
01:10:53No.
01:10:54Wait, did you get a boob job or is this just her pregnancy?
01:10:58Just her pregnancy.
01:10:59Oh, my God.
01:11:00That's real.
01:11:01Oh, oh, oh.
01:11:02Oh, my God.
01:11:03That is real.
01:11:04This grew, too.
01:11:05Not like that.
01:11:06Not like that, but they grew for a minute.
01:11:10So, Julia, we know that you have wavered a bit between having kids and not having kids.
01:11:17How are you feeling about your pregnancy tonight?
01:11:20That's a very good question because I'm questioning myself.
01:11:24What if I'm not gonna accept it?
01:11:27What if I'm not gonna like it?
01:11:28What if this kid's gonna not like it?
01:11:29What if I have a too much what if?
01:11:32Have you thought about what if everything works out perfectly?
01:11:35Yeah.
01:11:36Oof.
01:11:37Kidding, Sean.
01:11:38No.
01:11:39That's never a factor.
01:11:40No.
01:11:41Think about that.
01:11:42Yes.
01:11:43That's never part of the what is.
01:11:44No.
01:11:45Oh.
01:11:46You're stressing out too much, but I think you're gonna be a good mother.
01:11:48You are a good person, and you're gonna be a good mom.
01:11:51Take a deep breath.
01:11:53Just relax.
01:11:54Enjoy it.
01:11:56In my opinion, what you're feeling and what you're going through is so valid.
01:12:01Yeah.
01:12:02Let me tell you.
01:12:03I don't know.
01:12:04It touches me really .
01:12:06Oh.
01:12:07I thought you can't cry, my friend.
01:12:12We can cry about Nico all day.
01:12:14Aww.
01:12:15I haven't been able to cry in a long time.
01:12:19It feels great.
01:12:23And you have not told your parents.
01:12:25Not told my parents.
01:12:26You have not told Brandon's parents.
01:12:27No, no.
01:12:28We have arguments with his mom.
01:12:30And now I doesn't know what I feel.
01:12:33Me and Betty's relationship has become a lot.
01:12:37And we doesn't spoke with her.
01:12:39Even we doesn't see his mom on her birthday.
01:12:42I think she will forget about all of that.
01:12:45Oh, hell yeah.
01:12:46When she knows.
01:12:47Mina just said it.
01:12:48That's gone.
01:12:49Like, I want to tell them to the first people I think we should have told.
01:12:53But I want to do what I can to support her.
01:12:56Mm-hmm.
01:12:57And not cause her any additional stress.
01:12:59Um, have you thought about any boundaries that you want to set with him?
01:13:05Let me tell you something.
01:13:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:13:08Last time in the house, we have a sex and parents just come to the front door.
01:13:15Brandon have to rush to the door and smack the door.
01:13:19Oh, my God.
01:13:20Oh, my God.
01:13:21Your mom does that, too.
01:13:22So that is boundary what we are going to.
01:13:28Brandon?
01:13:29I really don't know what to expect.
01:13:31One second.
01:13:32Can I ask everybody who thinking Betty will be trying to move on to our house when she knows this?
01:13:43You are going back from the hotel and she's already going to be there.
01:13:48I think you will want that because you will want some sleep.
01:13:51Take the help.
01:13:52Trust me.
01:13:54Julia, you know that Brandon's parents will be joining us in a few minutes.
01:13:59Them doesn't know anything.
01:14:02We have to lie to them.
01:14:04We have to tell them a lot of lies.
01:14:07You need the support, honestly, to calm you down.
01:14:13So that's why I think you should tell them.
01:14:16It could be amazing for you to just have that support around you.
01:14:19I'm also in Virginia, by the way.
01:14:21I will happily do whatever you need.
01:14:23I can be to your house in like two and a half hours if you need it.
01:14:25Yeah, rely on sisterhood in here, Julia.
01:14:27You're not alone.
01:14:28It's going to be stressful.
01:14:29We're not going to lie.
01:14:30You know, when the baby is born, it's going to be some nice.
01:14:33But you have a lot of help around you.
01:14:35I'm not saying, am I going to tell his parents?
01:14:38No, I still doesn't tell my parents either.
01:14:40How often do you talk to your parents?
01:14:42How do you talk to them?
01:14:43My parents?
01:14:44Yeah, to your mother.
01:14:45All the time.
01:14:46Every day?
01:14:47Yes.
01:14:48Call them now.
01:14:49Yeah, let's call them.
01:14:54I mean, I would say we go for it.
01:14:56Now?
01:14:57Now?
01:14:58Mm-hmm.
01:14:59You want to call your parents?
01:15:02Do you want to tell them?
01:15:19You want to call your parents?
01:15:21Julia?
01:15:22I mean, I would say we go for it.
01:15:27Now?
01:15:28Mm-hmm.
01:15:32Can I have my phone?
01:15:33Oh, my God.
01:15:36You're getting everybody excited, Julia.
01:15:38Yeah.
01:15:39It's like Christmas.
01:15:40Oh, my God.
01:15:41I'm going to cry.
01:15:43Are we really going to do it?
01:15:45It's 11.30 there.
01:15:47Are they asleep?
01:15:48Wake them up.
01:15:49Wake them up.
01:15:50Wake them up.
01:15:53Don't do it the same time.
01:15:55Yay!
01:15:56Can I not?
01:15:57Oh, I can breathe now.
01:16:01Good, good, yeah.
01:16:02Yeah, she's going to have a weight lifted off of her shoulder.
01:16:04She already had it, because we know we're ready.
01:16:06This is exciting.
01:16:10Can you dab me up?
01:16:11I don't know.
01:16:12I'm getting excited.
01:16:13I'm kind of shaking here.
01:16:14We need more tissues.
01:16:15I mean, they probably are sleeping, and then probably
01:16:18doesn't really understand what freaking is going on.
01:16:22OK, here we go, Julia.
01:16:23OK, quiet.
01:16:24All right.
01:16:25Let's go.
01:16:26Be quiet, you guys.
01:16:28I don't know how to say congratulations in Rocha.
01:16:38I got one.
01:16:40Oh, we got two.
01:16:41Uh-oh.
01:16:42Hi.
01:16:47Hi!
01:16:49Hi!
01:16:51How are you?
01:16:53Can you hold the phone?
01:16:54Yeah, yeah.
01:16:55One, two, three.
01:16:56Can you just say congratulations?
01:16:57All right.
01:16:58Let's go.
01:16:59OK.
01:17:00One, two, three.
01:17:01Congratulations!
01:17:02What's that?
01:17:04What's that?
01:17:07You will be a grandmother and a dad.
01:17:11Are you serious?
01:17:14Are you serious?
01:17:19I don't believe.
01:17:21I don't believe.
01:17:22They don't believe me.
01:17:23One second.
01:17:24Let me...
01:17:25Oh, wow.
01:17:26Let me just, like, show like this.
01:17:29Like this.
01:17:30Beautiful.
01:17:32Dad's future.
01:17:34No, no.
01:17:35It's she just ate good and ate good.
01:17:39My dad said just eat a lot.
01:17:43I've been waiting for this so long,
01:17:45that I don't even believe.
01:17:47I'm very happy.
01:17:49I just...
01:17:50I'm very happy.
01:17:51You're happy.
01:17:52You're happy.
01:17:53So, I'm very happy.
01:17:54What year?
01:17:55How many months?
01:17:56Oh, about 5 months.
01:17:57Oh...
01:18:00Start thinking at 5 months.
01:18:01I understood that and I don't speak Russian.
01:18:13This is beautiful. We're so happy for you.
01:18:28Where's the second pair of parents?
01:18:32Mom, Dad, Mom, Mom, don't know Betty or Ron.
01:18:38Yes, what? Well, of course, I won't say anything to anyone.
01:18:43All right, I love you. Bye-bye.
01:18:46I love you. Bye-bye.
01:18:48Bye-bye.
01:18:50Bye-bye.
01:18:52Okay.
01:18:54Okay.
01:18:56Whoo!
01:18:58That was fun for all of us to be a part of.
01:19:00So two down and just two to go.
01:19:04Yeah.
01:19:05Are you ready for us to bring Ron and Betty into the conversation?
01:19:10Let's show. I will see. I will see.
01:19:12Let's follow the emotional. I follow emotional with my parents.
01:19:16Let's follow emotional how I feel, how it's...
01:19:18Yeah, let your heart be your guide.
01:19:20We're doing great.
01:19:22All right.
01:19:24Here we go.
01:19:26Let's bring on Ron and Betty.
01:19:30Ron and Betty, this is Sean. How are you guys?
01:19:34Hi, Sean. Hi, Brandon and Julia. Hi, rest of the gang.
01:19:38Hi, Mom. Hi, Dad.
01:19:40So when is the last time you guys saw each other?
01:19:44It's been a while.
01:19:45Been a while.
01:19:47I didn't get to see her for my birthday.
01:19:49I didn't get to see her for Father's Day.
01:19:51I do feel like there's been a distance, like, between us as of late, you know?
01:19:56And I really...
01:19:58It's something I would like to fix.
01:20:01Well, knowing the relationship that Ron and I've had with Brandon growing up and over the years,
01:20:06we actually felt we had that with Julia.
01:20:09We love her, and she's family.
01:20:12But for some reason, we're feeling this distance, and I don't want to make things worse.
01:20:20I feel we have...we start having, like, a lot of disconnection with each other.
01:20:25But I want to fix this. I want to fix our situation.
01:20:30I want to...are connecting back.
01:20:32Did I want biologists?
01:20:34Yes.
01:20:35Did I want to back to connecting with parents?
01:20:37Yes.
01:20:38That's all we've ever wanted.
01:20:40And heaven forbid, there's grandkids one day that come into a situation.
01:20:46It's like, they're our grandkids.
01:20:49It's like, it's part of our blood.
01:20:51It's like, it's us.
01:20:53We want to be part of that.
01:20:54And to push us away or to alienate us, that would just totally break our hearts.
01:20:59And even, even in the fact that there aren't any grandkids.
01:21:05Brandon is my son.
01:21:07Julia, as far as I'm concerned, my daughter.
01:21:09But you have to make this first gesture to reach out because we've tried.
01:21:15And we feel like every time we've tried, you've shut a door on us.
01:21:22I just want to say it's, we have reason why we disconnect.
01:21:29It's what, what we are being through.
01:21:32It's hard to explain, but I always, most close in person.
01:21:37Like I most of hide everything inside me.
01:21:41Brian Morris, like he can share something, but I feel like I can't.
01:21:46I can't.
01:21:48Try.
01:21:51You got to share it with us, Julia.
01:21:53We are lying.
01:21:59We doesn't tell.
01:22:01What?
01:22:03What?
01:22:16Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, happily ever after, tell all no limits.
01:22:21I can't wait for Georgie and Darcy.
01:22:24I think he's outside in the streets of Miami acting up.
01:22:26He's in the streets.
01:22:27I think he's hitting the streets and not telling Darcy is what I think.
01:22:31Does anybody think that Georgie might have one foot.
01:22:35One foot.
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