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00:00People who lack social skills usually grew up with parents who did these nine things.
00:06They discouraged open communication. When parents dismiss children's communication,
00:12kids learn silence, lose confidence, and struggle expressing thoughts,
00:16leading to distant social interactions. They modeled poor social behavior.
00:22Children mimic parents' harsh, interrupting, or avoidant behavior, depriving them of empathy
00:28and listening skills, undermining future relationships. They overprotected their
00:34children. Overprotection denies children real-world challenges, leaving them inexperienced, anxious,
00:41and hesitant in group settings and new social risks. They ignored emotional needs. Dismissing
00:47children's feelings teaches them to hide emotions, hindering empathy and openness, resulting in
00:54shallow, strained adult relationships. They placed too much pressure on achievement. Emphasizing
01:00grades and trophies makes children competitive, not cooperative, causing adults to view peers as
01:06rivals and struggle connecting. They failed to set healthy boundaries. Lacking clear boundaries
01:12confuses children about personal limits, causing adults to either overstep or be exploited, undermining
01:19trust. They did not encourage play and peer interaction. Restricting play dates robs children
01:25of sharing, negotiation, and cooperation lessons, causing adults to avoid group activities due to
01:31discomfort. They used harsh criticism regularly. Regular harsh criticism undermines self-esteem,
01:38fostering insecurity and fear of judgment that hinders speaking up and forming bonds.
01:44They withheld affection. Withholding hugs, praise, and comfort teaches children that closeness is
01:50unsafe, leading adults to struggle with trust and affection.
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