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Open House- The Great Sex Experiment - Season 3 ep 6 -love island season 7
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00:00Ooh, very nice.
00:06Oh, she's really pretty.
00:08I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
00:12We have tried swinging in the past and had issues.
00:18When it comes to having sex with a different lass,
00:22my dick doesn't grow, basically.
00:24My dick literally does not grow.
00:26When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
00:31Then Tom got his heart diagnosis.
00:33The doctors told me I can die at any point.
00:36To sit by and watch someone you love spiral, it is really scary.
00:40I've let myself go. Don't love myself.
00:43For you, tonight is about taking the lead.
00:46OK.
00:49Hello, everyone.
00:51The residents are all very beautiful.
00:53This is out of my comfort zone.
00:55I don't even know what to say.
00:56Just wondering if you'd like to, like, come back with us.
00:59Do you know what? I'm down for that. I'd love to.
01:01If you want some...
01:03The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the roof.
01:07Whoa!
01:08I love him, but monogamy is not for me.
01:11So if Tom can't do this, I'm not sure, to be honest, what's going to happen.
01:16If I can't do the open relationship, we go our separate ways.
01:21The penis was not working.
01:24I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
01:28How are you feeling, Mark?
01:29It's real.
01:30Lauren and Tom are in the playroom with a group of residents, hoping for the breakthrough
01:41their relationship needs.
01:42But Tom's struggling.
01:43I feel, like, out of place.
01:44And then I'm thinking of my body again.
01:48It's a hard one, that is.
01:54Having disregarded Effie's advice to take control, now blindfolded, his fate is in the hands of
02:13the residents.
02:16We call this the princess treatment.
02:19Just lose yourself.
02:22I'm praying that today is the start of being open.
02:26How are you feeling?
02:28Yeah, it's still weird.
02:30I want to do this.
02:32I got to the point where they were sort of, like, stroking my stomach and then sort of
02:36going up my stomach.
02:37And then it got to the point where I was like, I can't, I can't do it.
02:41The penis was not working.
02:44But the women aren't ready to call it a night.
02:48For me, I really loved that before you've even taken your clothes off, that tension, that
02:56eagerness and, like, you just start kissing and you can feel it all in your body.
03:02Oh, it's happening.
03:06This is so hard.
03:10It was, like, really hard but I think it's on soft again.
03:16It's okay, it's okay.
03:18Let's go with the flow.
03:20It's, like, really weird.
03:22It's, like, going up and down a wave.
03:28I didn't think the penis was going to work.
03:30And then it started making me feel horny.
03:34Oh, my God.
03:36Oh, my God.
03:37Oh, okay.
03:38You've got a pretty fucking turd up.
03:40Oh, yeah.
03:41Oh, your cock's so fucking hard.
03:43Yeah.
03:44He was just fully enjoying himself and we were enjoying ourselves.
03:49Mom, how do you feel? Let me see if you want to fuck.
03:51That's fine.
03:52Yeah?
03:53Oh, my God.
03:56Oh, my God.
03:59Yes.
04:00I've finished this now, so I've got an excuse.
04:02You're so good.
04:04Oh, my God.
04:05Oh, my God.
04:06You're cold.
04:07So good.
04:08Oh, oh, oh, oh.
04:16It was amazing seeing Tom so turned on.
04:19And I get turned on watching him be turned on.
04:21And I absolutely loved it.
04:23Oh, sick.
04:26Oh, shit.
04:27Come together, baby.
04:28Come together.
04:29Let's do it.
04:30Come, come, come, come.
04:31Oh my god.
04:33Oh my god.
04:35Did you just come together?
04:37Yeah. You both came at the same time.
04:39Really? Yeah.
04:41That was so fucking hard.
04:43Wow. That was so hard.
04:45That was amazing.
04:47Because obviously our difficulties that we've had
04:49to go this far is incredible.
04:51The energy was there.
04:53That's so hard.
04:55He surrendered. Yeah, he allowed us
04:57to be able to touch him and
04:59make him, you know, in a
05:01kind of vulnerable position.
05:03And he allowed us to do that and trusted us
05:05enough, which was really lovely.
05:07Success. Dream team.
05:13Peen up on aisle three, please.
05:19Move.
05:23Look up.
05:25I love you.
05:29Hopefully it shows you that, you know,
05:31you have still got it.
05:35It's just, it's overwhelming.
05:37I'm so shocked.
05:51Next morning, and despite the highs
05:53of last night, for Lauren,
05:55it only scratched the surface.
05:59We were really buzzing from last night.
06:01But on the flip side, I want to push ourselves,
06:03break out of our comfort zone.
06:05I would like to know
06:07if it would change things
06:09if I had another guy that
06:11had to be kind of more involved properly.
06:13I know I'm probably sounding greedy here,
06:15but this is why we, um,
06:17this is why we're here.
06:19My head's, like, all over the place.
06:21I just feel
06:23last night was baby-stepped, really.
06:25I still got hurdles to cry in that.
06:31To help Lauren and Tom
06:33figure out where they go from here,
06:35they're checking in with non-monogamy
06:37coach Effie.
06:39You take a seat, get comfy.
06:43Nice.
06:45Welcome, welcome back.
06:46How was last night?
06:47It's nerve-wracking.
06:49I didn't know what to do.
06:51Basically, I got blindfolded.
06:53Straight away?
06:54Yeah.
06:55And then things just advanced.
06:56They were kissing my stomach
06:57and I was like, what the fuck's happening?
06:59I felt, I think I felt a bit dumb.
07:01So there were a lot of women
07:02that were dominating you
07:03and telling you what to do.
07:04Yeah.
07:05What I'm hearing is it feels like
07:07kind of everybody took charge
07:09of the situation.
07:10I didn't, I didn't take charge.
07:12That you were, yeah.
07:13Yeah, I didn't take charge.
07:14But my penis did get hard
07:16and I did have sex as well.
07:18Nice, okay.
07:19Yeah.
07:20Well, I was with one of the single girls
07:22and Tom was with the others.
07:23The only thing I did say to Tom is
07:25I know he's more relaxed around women
07:27and I love women.
07:28Oh, definitely.
07:29So suddenly it's all the women.
07:31Maybe that is something we can look at.
07:33Yeah.
07:34Involving more men.
07:35Okay.
07:36Okay.
07:37So, in this experience so far
07:38you've been dominated by the women
07:41that were playing with you
07:43and Lauren who always takes care of you
07:45and I think the dynamics here
07:47also needs to change it a little bit.
07:49Mm-hmm.
07:50Lauren is your wonderful support crutch.
07:53I always go back to her.
07:54But I want to remove that from you as well.
07:57So, I want you to have an experience
08:00independent of Lauren.
08:02Take charge and embrace your body.
08:05And Lauren.
08:06I would like Lauren to have her own experience
08:08this time with a man.
08:10So, the invitation is to do a couple swap
08:14but separate.
08:15Oh, shit.
08:16Okay.
08:17Okay.
08:18Just thinking a bit making me feel sick.
08:21The discomfort will hit you
08:23and at some point you will go through the discomfort.
08:26It's normal.
08:27If you weren't nervous, I'd be more worried.
08:29The more you rely on Lauren,
08:31the more you're getting away from your own gut instinct.
08:34Mm-hmm.
08:35And the scarier it is.
08:36Right?
08:37It's normal.
08:38If you weren't nervous, I'd be more worried.
08:40The more you rely on Lauren,
08:42the more you're getting away from your own gut instinct.
08:43Mm-hmm.
08:44It's not about a crutch or a help.
08:47It's going to be collaboration.
08:49Exciting but nerve-wracking, isn't it?
08:53We've got this.
08:55Today is about challenging Tom to be independent.
08:58I'm curious to see how that will affect
09:00the dynamics they have between them.
09:02Lauren needs to be a partner to Tom,
09:04not a caretaker.
09:05Oh, my goodness.
09:07Oh.
09:08Don't be nervous, honestly.
09:10You've absolutely got this.
09:12It was my idea.
09:14It has been from the start.
09:15Yes, it's throwing me and Tom in at the deep end,
09:17but I want to be able to have him have the confidence
09:19that we can just go off, have our fun,
09:21come back to each other at the end of the night,
09:23and it's been absolutely insane.
09:25But the thought of flying solo entirely naked isn't sitting well with Tom.
09:34Do you want some water?
09:41This is going to be horrible.
09:43I just want to cuddle you.
09:45I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
09:49All anyone can ask is that you just try, okay?
09:53Oh, the nerves, babe.
09:55I'm not even joking.
09:57You got this?
10:03I'm shitting myself.
10:05Oh!
10:06Oh!
10:07Oh!
10:08Well, here we are.
10:10Here we are.
10:11It's fine.
10:12Everything's going to be fine.
10:13Next to arrive at the retreat are Simon and his partner Chris.
10:32When I first met Simon, I realised I was going to have to come out
10:35because he was so handsome,
10:37and I was determined to make him my boyfriend.
10:41I thought he was very goofy.
10:46He was very funny.
10:47He didn't take himself too seriously.
10:50Jumbo, you said to me.
10:51You said I had meaty thighs.
10:52Meaty thighs.
10:53I did, yeah.
10:54You nervous?
10:55I am nervous.
10:56Me too.
10:59The pair met seven years ago,
11:01and recently got engaged.
11:04I wanted to propose to Chris,
11:06and he wanted to propose to me.
11:08I took us to an ancient oak forest,
11:10which I thought was very romantic.
11:12And then we proposed to each other on the same day.
11:15It was beautiful.
11:17And now for Simon,
11:19there's another big question that needs answering.
11:22I have question marks over my sexuality.
11:26I have identified as gay since I came out when I was 18.
11:33Today, I don't know.
11:38Just two normal gay men doing a very normal thing.
11:43Yeah.
11:44What the hell are we doing?
11:45Luckily, Chris has agreed to join Simon on this voyage of self-discovery.
11:51Simon brought up the idea of exploring a sexual relationship with a woman,
11:55and I was, like, open to exploring that side of my sexuality.
12:00But equally, I wouldn't be exploring this if Simon hadn't, like, brought up initially.
12:04I will be, I will try and be as open as possible,
12:06and hopefully that goes well.
12:11How different could it be?
12:12My job is just a clean bum.
12:14Yeah, exactly.
12:21Oh, wow.
12:25Is it two gay guys?
12:26Yes.
12:30It's two guys.
12:31Get in.
12:32Back in the net.
12:33Wasn't expecting two bucks.
12:39So lovely and refreshing
12:41to see, like, a gay couple come into open house,
12:44because we haven't had that before, which is amazing.
12:46This is amazing.
12:47Hello.
12:48Fucking lovely.
12:52Oh, my God, this is sick.
12:53Hello.
12:54Hiya.
12:55Welcome.
12:56Hello.
12:57How are we doing?
12:58Good.
12:59How are you?
13:00Hello.
13:01Chris, nice to meet you.
13:02How are you?
13:03Welcome, guys.
13:04We haven't had a guy-guy kind before.
13:05Have you not?
13:06No.
13:07This is very exciting.
13:08It's why you've got a big cheer.
13:09I know.
13:10Well, I mean, did you hear the cheers?
13:13I think everyone's super excited to have the first ever male-male couple coming in.
13:18Hi, Simon.
13:19Hello.
13:20I'm Grey.
13:21Hello, guys. I'm Simon. How are you?
13:22Welcome to meet you.
13:24My first impressions, I think they're a bit easy on the eye.
13:27Yeah, we're really excited to have you guys here as well.
13:29I wasn't expecting a round of applause, but I appreciated it nonetheless.
13:32Simon.
13:33Hi, Simon.
13:34Nice to meet you.
13:35How are you?
13:36I'm Joe.
13:37Joe, nice to meet you.
13:38A few surprised faces maybe to see a couple of guys walking in.
13:41It was a bit overwhelming.
13:42I wasn't really too sure like where to look or what to do.
13:44Nice to meet you.
13:45Marie.
13:46Do you want two kisses?
13:47Yes, I'm right.
13:48Simon, nice to meet you.
13:49Hello.
13:50Hi.
13:51Marie, nice to meet you.
13:52Never had any experience with gaming before, and I think it's one of my fantasy actually.
13:59I'm feeling very nutty actually.
14:03That's a very good turn on.
14:05Another round of applause guys.
14:07Woo!
14:08Oh, there's nice oranges.
14:15I thought, I didn't think we were going to be meeting people straight away.
14:18No, neither did I.
14:20It's important to know exactly who I am as a person.
14:24So that's why I'm here.
14:26First gay couple.
14:28Yeah.
14:29Two guys.
14:31The shock.
14:33Chris and Simon.
14:34Hello.
14:35Welcome, Effie.
14:36Hello.
14:37Nice to meet you.
14:38Come in.
14:40Jump on the couch, get comfy.
14:41Cozy?
14:42Yeah.
14:43Be cozy.
14:44Oh, this is a lovely sofa.
14:45So, tell me what brings you here today.
14:47I guess, ultimately we're here because we both want to explore parts of our sexuality
14:55that we haven't really had the opportunity to explore before.
14:58Like, I don't want to ruin my, like, end my relationship with Chris to explore with women.
15:03It's just that it feels like now is a time in my life where, like, I want to explore.
15:11Since I came out as gay, I've put myself in a box and only really allowed myself to find
15:17men attractive.
15:18It's hard to explain, but it's just so much pressure that you're dealing with internally
15:25and you get externally as well every day of your life.
15:29And it sucks.
15:34What's happened is I've just not entertained those feelings towards women.
15:51So, I think it's there.
15:52I just haven't acted on it.
15:54Sure.
15:55Okay.
15:56Do you find women attractive?
15:57I do find women attractive, but I think I don't know what I find in the bedroom sexy about a woman.
16:04Okay.
16:05I understand that.
16:07I just feel like I need to be in a situation where, like, I'm allowing myself to feel aroused
16:14by being with a woman.
16:15Mm-hmm.
16:16Going to dig into that for sure.
16:18Sure.
16:19Um, but I want to hear from Chris first.
16:22Do you find women attractive?
16:24Yeah, I think so.
16:26But it's just not something which I actively seek out.
16:28You're not seeking.
16:29Okay, I get it completely.
16:30Okay.
16:31Any concerns about the experience?
16:33Yeah, I'm just sort of coming here thinking, well, I'm not very sexually experienced.
16:43I consider myself particularly, like, social and outgoing.
16:47Okay.
16:48So, I'm really battling against my own demons in that sense.
16:50Any other concerns?
16:52Concerns about the relationship?
16:54It, you know, if you ask me what the worst case scenario would be, it would be reacting
16:59in a way which I'm not expecting.
17:01And, like, feeling jealous about silent opening up with women, which I guess is always the
17:06thing.
17:07You've not explored a female body.
17:10Mm-hmm.
17:11Do you know what you're doing?
17:14I do not know what I'm doing.
17:15Okay.
17:16We don't know what we're doing.
17:17I didn't want to assume.
17:18No, no, no.
17:19We don't know what we're doing.
17:20Okay.
17:21How do you feel about that?
17:22It's very nerve-wracking.
17:23I'm huge on communication and I just think, like, having it all out there in the open
17:26and just, like, this is what I said about, like…
17:28Learning on the job.
17:29Oh, yeah, basically.
17:30It's just like learning a new skill, isn't it?
17:31You know, if I took up painting, I'm not going to be painting masterpieces straight
17:35away.
17:36Sure.
17:37So, tonight, there's a social.
17:39It's a black tie soiree.
17:42And I think, Chris, my challenge for you is to kind of socialize solo for a little bit.
17:47Great.
17:48Yeah, yeah.
17:49All right.
17:50And then see where both your connections take you.
17:52Ultimately, you want it to get physical.
17:55But this will only happen if you are both relaxed and open.
18:00How does that feel?
18:01I'm excited.
18:02I'm excited for you.
18:03I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
18:04Yeah.
18:05Good.
18:06Good.
18:07Excellent.
18:08You can often get a couple where one party is super clear about what they want and the
18:12other party is going on for the ride.
18:14But if Simon and Chris react differently to opening up, this could cause a rift.
18:21This is a situation where we have said that we wanted to come into this together, hand
18:27in hand, and walk out of this hand in hand.
18:29Did you see anyone that you liked that would come in?
18:32So, yeah, there were a couple of girls, for sure.
18:34But I could come out of this entire experience and realize that I actually really prefer to
18:40have sex with women.
18:42If anything were to ever jeopardize our relationship, that terrifies me.
18:54Lauren?
18:55Yeah.
18:56Very smart.
18:57Yeah?
18:58I like it.
18:59Yesterday, Lauren and Tom took their first step towards non-monogamy.
19:08This evening, they'll attempt to push things further by way of a couple swap.
19:13Oh, my God, that bruise is massive.
19:16It's because I've got a really bony knee and it was like a wooden floor.
19:19With husband and wife, Gage and Olivia, who they met at last night's social.
19:24So, we're excited to spend some more time with them.
19:26Hopefully, have that little bit more of a flirt and see where things go.
19:30But are we having drinks with friends or drinks with friend friends?
19:35If tonight goes to plan, Lauren and Tom will experience having sex with other people separately
19:41for the first time.
19:43So, the idea of...
19:45It seems like more of a tease for me because I can't see you with this other woman.
19:50But I know that you're going to be with her.
19:52I don't know how to explain it. It just really makes me so horny.
19:55Are you nervous?
19:56Yeah.
19:57Going in there together first?
19:58Yeah, but then literally only having a couple of drinks and then going to the bedroom with her first.
20:02I've got loads of shit going through my head.
20:04If they do say yes, I'm not going to be in the room with Lauren and she's not going to be in the room with me.
20:13That's a big thing.
20:14That's a big thing.
20:15If I can do this, I can do anything else.
20:17So, just again, I have to wait and see.
20:21I can't, yeah.
20:22At the minute I'm shitting it, yeah.
20:24I'm nervous.
20:25Really?
20:26Yeah.
20:27Because it's one on one, isn't it?
20:31I really want it to be a success today, but I'm really nervous, yeah.
20:35The idea of being completely separate.
20:38There is a real worry, you know, if it doesn't go to plan.
20:43Going forward, looking at our future.
20:45I honestly don't know what we'll do.
20:48Oh, boy!
20:51Thanks for inviting us.
20:54No, no, thank you.
20:55It was really nice that you actually are here now.
20:57Cheers!
20:58Yeah, definitely.
20:59Cheers.
21:00Thanks for joining us.
21:02You missed your wife.
21:05Tom was really nervous.
21:06I think the initial nerves and feeling like that,
21:09it's always going to be there because it is outside the box.
21:13It is unusual.
21:1412 years, I remember 12 years, right?
21:18I think I remember that.
21:20Yeah, we've been married 12 years.
21:22Wow.
21:23Yeah.
21:24And still strong?
21:25Yeah.
21:26If you would have met me eight years ago and you said,
21:29swinging or non-monogamy, I'd have to Google it.
21:32But it's like, it's a bug that gets you.
21:35And once you kind of like taste that rainbow and get a feeling for it,
21:38you go, I get why people are non-monogamous.
21:42Down to the swinging side of it, obviously, like,
21:46every situation is completely different.
21:49Separate rooms stuff and you're always thinking,
21:52what's Gage doing?
21:53It's like...
21:54Yeah.
21:55Yeah.
21:56And that's, yeah, well, like, we've never actually been apart.
22:01I'm really fucking nervous because I find it really intimidating.
22:08So I'm always, like, thinking, just, I overthink a lot of things
22:11and then it's in my head.
22:14This is literally out of my comfort zone.
22:17We'd love to know how different it feels to be separate.
22:23We play together and separately, but there's also a dynamic to it
22:26where you know they're only down the corridor and sometimes
22:28you can hear what they're saying and it, you know,
22:30fuels a bit more of that adrenaline and nervous energy.
22:34Just talk one, just see what happens, basically.
22:37Yeah.
22:38All that's in the back of my mind is the next step
22:41and I'm going.
22:43I'm a bit intimidated, but in a good way.
22:49I was actually going to ask you
22:52if it's okay if we can take this somewhere else.
22:56I'm happy.
23:03That's only if you're okay with it.
23:07Yeah.
23:08Let's do it.
23:09Here we go.
23:10What's most important for me tonight would be
23:12that we ended up in separate rooms with separate people
23:16and we're comfortable and we're happy.
23:19We're literally kind of a few doors down from each other.
23:22So this is our room.
23:25I'm happy.
23:30Stop thinking about everything else and go from there.
23:33You've got to take charge this time.
23:35And no blindfolds.
23:37Yeah, I didn't really think of that, but yeah.
23:41Of course, of course.
23:43I can tell by just the way he looks at me
23:45if he's feeling uncomfortable.
23:47I'm really scared that tonight
23:49he is not going to be able to perform
23:52and he's going to really beat himself up about it
23:54and therefore be put off completely from opening up properly.
23:59You're nervous now, aren't you?
24:01I'm frickin' it.
24:11Last one.
24:13Are you nervous now?
24:14I'm absolutely shitting it.
24:15Are you alright?
24:16Why are you shitting it?
24:17I don't know.
24:18It's because you're attractive and I'm like, wow.
24:21Lauren and Tom are one step closer to their dream
24:24of a fully open relationship.
24:27Tom and me have not been apart.
24:30But having now parted ways for a separate couple swap,
24:33Tom is wavering.
24:35In my head it's like, I know what I want to do.
24:37Yeah.
24:38And it's just, it's like the start of what to do.
24:42Like, if you have a negative first experience,
24:45it could then change their whole opinion about it.
24:48This is, this is our first.
24:50This, you are our first.
24:51Oh shit!
24:52Not bad.
24:55I'm just sort of like tiptoeing around.
24:57I'm trying to find conversation and trying to,
25:00because it's going in my head now.
25:02Like, you know, we're in the room together
25:04and it's just me and Olivia and Lauren's not here.
25:08What do you prefer then?
25:09Do you prefer like this or do you prefer it in the dark?
25:18This is very bright.
25:22What about now?
25:25Mmm.
25:26Is that better?
25:27Mmm.
25:29I know it sounds strong, but I feel petrified.
25:34Yeah, I'm happy with that.
25:35Are you sure?
25:39Are you a good kisser?
25:40I don't know.
25:41I've been told I am.
25:42I'll tell you the truth right now.
25:43Okay.
25:46I like to say I'm here for a good time, not a long time.
25:49When it comes to sex life,
25:50anything that kind of really gets my heart rate going,
25:53I love.
25:56Definitely happy?
25:57Yeah, not quite.
25:58And kissing-wise, is it okay to kiss?
26:00Okay to kiss.
26:03My head's a bit scrambled.
26:05My head, it goes,
26:07am I doing it the right way?
26:08Is she enjoying it?
26:09Is she not enjoying it?
26:11It's like, timidated.
26:12I feel shit.
26:13I'm gonna be shit in bed.
26:29Gage was amazing.
26:30It was mad.
26:32It was really, really good.
26:33I'm not getting naked until you're naked.
26:34Oh, fuck.
26:35You're gonna make me do that, aren't you?
26:36Yeah.
26:38Really?
26:39Yeah.
26:40We're getting there.
26:41Don't usually do that.
26:42Mm-hmm.
26:43Okay.
26:44I wanna do it for Lauren and for me.
26:45Really, I should do it for me.
26:46But, yeah, doing it takes a lot of balls.
26:47It's not going in your head.
26:48Oh, fuck.
26:49I'm not getting naked until you're naked.
26:50Oh, fuck.
26:51You're gonna make me do that, aren't you?
26:52Yeah.
26:53Really?
26:54Yeah.
26:55We're getting there.
26:56Don't usually do that.
26:57Mm-hmm.
26:58Okay.
27:03I wanna do it for Lauren and for me.
27:05Really, I should do it for me.
27:07But, yeah, doing it takes a lot of balls.
27:10It's not going in your head.
27:15The only way, I feel like, to get over that hurdle is to jump in the deep end.
27:20Oh, my God.
27:25I think you're in my head right now.
27:30Yeah.
27:31Yeah.
27:32Yeah.
27:33You're making me hard already.
27:36Yeah.
27:37Oh, my God.
27:41Oh, my God.
27:45Oh!
27:46Oh, my God.
27:49Yeah.
27:50Yes.
27:51Oh.
27:52Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
27:58Clothes came off, they went flying.
28:00Pillows went flying.
28:02I was making a move with her.
28:03I was being the one in control.
28:05It's got even stronger and it was amazing.
28:19You okay? Feel comfortable?
28:21I feel amazing.
28:22Good!
28:23That's actually great.
28:29Hello?
28:30Hello gorgeous!
28:34Oh my god!
28:36Do you hear us?
28:37Yes.
28:38And that's when I was like, I've had an amazing time.
28:40It sounds like you just missed it too.
28:42I've got my top off!
28:51As you can tell, the smile on my face, yeah, it was a happy ending.
28:57Don't know what happened.
28:58It just, it felt right.
29:00Now we are definitely going to be open to a couple swaps.
29:04It has always been my dream.
29:07Yeah, I think I've nailed it to be fair, yeah.
29:09You did?
29:10Yeah, that was great.
29:11Cheers!
29:12Cheers!
29:17Hey guys!
29:21I really enjoyed myself.
29:23Really good.
29:24I stood on the balcony, naked, and it was just a moment and you're kind of like, this is it. This is what the lifestyle is about.
29:34Guys, I love you all to bits, but I am fucking freezing.
29:37It's cold. It's cold.
29:38I'm built for Kong, I'm not Sweden.
29:40I'm not a new person.
29:41I was sleeping naked tonight.
29:42Do it!
29:43Honestly, like, the changes in you in like the last 12 hours have been nuts.
29:57I just, I love sex.
30:12Are you horny, Dad?
30:14I'm so horny.
30:15I'm so horny.
30:16Woo!
30:18Buzzing.
30:19Buzzing.
30:20Giddy.
30:23When you couple swap, it's the after effect, it's the love that it brings you closer, and that's what I love.
30:34It gets me horny.
30:35Yeah, we literally, we haven't been able to keep our hands off each other since last night.
30:42Happy that we're here.
30:43Happy that we're here.
30:44Don't want to go home.
30:45Don't want to go home.
30:47Best experience ever.
30:50And to be fair, for me, it's helped massively.
30:53I'm on the right track to be in what I want in life.
30:57Bye room.
30:59I'm going to miss this place.
31:04Good morning.
31:05Good morning.
31:06Hi.
31:07Coordinating in your face.
31:09How are you?
31:10How are you doing?
31:11You all right?
31:12How are you doing?
31:13I had such a blast.
31:14We were buzzing last night, wasn't we?
31:15Yeah.
31:16We literally had sex straight after.
31:17It's like, wow.
31:19It was basically magical.
31:21To the point where I'm hoping, on the outside of this, we can have that connection with them too.
31:27So you're on the outside all right?
31:28Definitely.
31:29Yeah, yeah.
31:30Make sure you look safe.
31:31Thank you very much.
31:32Another cuddle.
31:33We met our people.
31:36You all right?
31:37Again, everyone, it's been amazing.
31:40We're now excited about leaving here and continuing with the non-monogamy.
31:44Yeah, definitely.
31:45Thank you very much, everyone.
31:46Take care.
31:47Thanks, guys.
31:48Lovely to meet you all.
31:49Thank you again.
31:50Take care.
31:51It's been amazing, isn't it?
31:52Yes.
31:54We're now excited more than ever about the wedding.
31:56And of course, knowing both of us, it's going to be a huge party.
31:59Yeah.
32:00And the after-after party might be quite naughty.
32:02It'll be different, yeah.
32:06One of the best experiences I've ever had in my life, and it's because of you.
32:09What a handsome man.
32:10What a handsome man.
32:11What a handsome man.
32:12Newcomers Simon and Chris are about to make their debut at a black-tie social on the terrace.
32:22Where they hope to find a female resident to explore their sexuality with.
32:23I don't know how to flirt with a girl.
32:24Flirting is with men.
32:25Always has been with men.
32:26I don't know how to flirt with women.
32:27I don't know how to flirt with women.
32:28I don't think I know how to flirt with men, though.
32:29So hopefully that goes well.
32:30Oh.
32:31Oh.
32:32Let's do it.
32:33Let's do it.
32:35Let's do it.
32:36Let's do it.
32:37Come on in, Martin, where?
32:38And the Mexican can't do it.
32:40We have the most beautiful, beautiful beautiful woman.
32:41There's a white house on the street.
32:42We also have a white house on our street.
32:44And the剛剛, a white house, a white house on the terrace.
32:48I don't know how to flirt with women.
32:53I don't know how to flirt with men.
32:56I don't think I know how to flirt with a girl.
32:58Flirting is with men.
32:59Always has been with men.
33:00Let's do it.
33:09I've definitely come here looking for answers.
33:12I'm hoping that tonight helps me find those answers.
33:17But I think Chris might struggle.
33:20But sometimes I end up panicking in social situations.
33:23I feel nervous.
33:24I'm suddenly getting a big rush of butterflies in my stomach.
33:28I've questioned the decision to do this.
33:31This could open doors for us.
33:33Or close them.
33:46Have fun.
33:47You too.
33:48See you later.
33:53Hello.
33:55Evening.
33:56Good evening.
33:57Wasting no time.
33:59Simon makes a beeline for seasoned resident Jen.
34:03Simon, I'm Mark.
34:04Hello, Mark.
34:05How are you?
34:06Who's at the retreat with her partner, Mark.
34:09It's one of her big fantasies is having sex with...
34:12Bye guys.
34:13Bye guys.
34:14Be bi.
34:15Yeah.
34:16Every morning I wake up and she's looking at me like,
34:19I wish you were bi.
34:21Give us a bit of this.
34:22A bit of this.
34:23A bit of that.
34:24James Bond.
34:25Yeah.
34:26Get one of those out.
34:28Tell us your story.
34:30We've heard that you may be looking at exploring bi with a girl.
34:35Correct.
34:36Okay.
34:37Yeah.
34:38Hot.
34:39Yeah.
34:40The thing is like, I'm a very confident person.
34:42I'm not the kind of person to really give a fuck about what people think about me.
34:45I'm like, very like, this is me.
34:46Well, I think you're great.
34:48I care about that opinion.
34:49Jen instantly made me laugh.
34:52She put me at ease.
34:54Jen's gorgeous.
34:55Simon seemed forwardly flirty.
34:56Yes.
34:57I also noticed Simon's eyes.
34:58Very, very intense.
34:59Very amazing.
35:00Lovely chatting with you.
35:01Cool.
35:02We'll see you later on.
35:03As Simon works the room.
35:04How are you?
35:05Very good.
35:06And you?
35:07Fantastic.
35:08Yeah.
35:09Good.
35:11It's lovely to meet you.
35:12Chris homes in on residents Georgie and Emily.
35:14How are you guys?
35:15Yeah.
35:16Good.
35:17Full moon.
35:18Have you seen the movie?
35:19Mm.
35:20It is beautiful.
35:21So what's your, what's your goals for this evening?
35:22Erm, er, I don't know.
35:23Try and like talk to people.
35:24Yeah.
35:25Try and talk to people and er.
35:26I'm nervous about being on my own.
35:27Yeah.
35:28It's new.
35:29It's not like my strength.
35:30I don't know.
35:31We're erm, like the reason we're here is erm, we're interested in experimenting with
35:49women.
35:50So what, what brings you guys here?
35:52We love to play.
35:53Yeah.
35:54Basically.
35:55Yeah.
35:56So how do you think the night will turn out?
35:58Just one girl or are you gonna, are you playing together with one girl, two girls?
36:01I'm a really picky person.
36:02Oh, okay.
36:03When it comes to like, like guys and girls, I'm like, I just, I don't know.
36:07I, I, I, I have to like get to know people.
36:09Of course.
36:10Like before I'm able to be attracted to them.
36:11Yeah.
36:12I was thinking if it was like one girl or maybe two or three.
36:18Oh yeah.
36:19That's the question.
36:20Yeah, yeah, yeah.
36:21I think like, it depends who we're attracted to.
36:22Okay.
36:23We'd happily do something just like the two of us like with one girl or two or three and
36:27we just keep chucking them on the pile.
36:28Yeah.
36:29My biggest fear is just like, not having enough to say, running out of conversation topics,
36:38repeating myself.
36:39I feel very awkward.
36:40I feel awkward right now.
36:41I'm struggling for conversation.
36:42The worst thing is like, if I don't vibe with anyone.
36:47I think when people are nervous, I'm not super like pushy and like, you know, I'm not going
36:53to take someone into a situation they don't want to be in.
36:57I mean, we feel like we shouldn't take too much of your time.
37:00Yeah, we don't.
37:01I'm going to go and grab him the drink.
37:02Yes.
37:03We'll have a little bit.
37:04A red flag that I see when couples are trying to open up is when one is really into it.
37:09I've got the connection and I can see naughty eyes.
37:14One's just going along with it.
37:16One's just going along with it.
37:21This is mortifying.
37:24I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for Simon.
37:26So this is out of my comfort area for sure.
37:29Simon and his fiance Chris are one hour into their first social where they hope to find
37:57a woman to open up with.
37:58Before anything, you look absolutely stunning.
38:01Your hair is gorgeous and your eyes are absolutely beautiful.
38:04Hands down.
38:05I'm actually blushing.
38:07While Simon has quickly found chemistry with the female residents, flirting with the
38:12opposite sex hasn't come as naturally to Chris.
38:16I take a while to come out of my shell.
38:17So I'm someone who like, holds myself back.
38:19Fantastic.
38:20So I quite, yeah.
38:22Okay, we're the same with this shit then.
38:23I'm going to hide around in this table.
38:24Yeah.
38:25We'll just look at each other sort of indirectly.
38:27Yeah.
38:28Come back and stand here.
38:29We can get close.
38:30I'll help you.
38:32With Chris, I could definitely sense nerves.
38:34He's a little bit goofy, but I love that because I can get a bit like that as well.
38:38A bit more of a reactive conversation.
38:40I'm not like, I'm terrible.
38:41That's why I sort of hang out with Simon.
38:42Conversation starter's terrible.
38:43Me as well.
38:44Yes.
38:45I would say I'm attracted to Grace.
38:48She seems like me in the sense that like, she's a bit more reserved.
38:51Yeah, you're me.
38:52You're me.
38:53That's good though.
38:54Good luck.
38:56Chris has found a kindred spirit in Grace.
38:59And Simon's connection with resident Naomi is growing ever stronger.
39:03I'm going to put that there actually.
39:04Just keep playing with it.
39:06Hands, Simon.
39:07Hands.
39:08It's okay.
39:09You can play with my coat.
39:10I mean, yeah, I'm just going to like, I'll just, yeah.
39:11Leave my hand here.
39:12Could you pick that one as well so you could get stroked?
39:15If I did, is that a problem?
39:17No, never.
39:18Never.
39:19Do you want to stroke my arm?
39:20I'm like a textured person.
39:21Go on.
39:22That's fine.
39:23I'm such a textured person and I can't keep my hands still.
39:25You can absolutely keep your hands on my arm if you would like, so that's completely
39:28okay with me.
39:30Please tell me about anything about you.
39:33I know that I can love more than one.
39:35And I want to fill my life with love.
39:37But society tells me I have to choose, right?
39:40So then it was...
39:41You are, yep.
39:42Keep going.
39:43I am with you.
39:44You're on it.
39:45I'm on it, yeah.
39:46I'd say I'm attracted to Naomi.
39:47Her hair, her eyes.
39:48She's just a beautiful girl.
39:49Honestly, like, I would love to chat with you more.
39:51Yeah, that would be nice.
39:52Naomi, well.
40:02With the night drawing on...
40:03You were over here.
40:05It's time for Simon and Chris to decide if they're ready to take things further,
40:09with any of the women.
40:12How's it going?
40:15So, what are your thoughts?
40:19I don't know.
40:20If you are not open to, like, doing, like, larger group stuff...
40:24Mm-hmm.
40:25As in, like, an orgy, for example...
40:27Yeah.
40:28So, if we went to two girls, how do we feel about that?
40:32Isn't it?
40:33I don't know.
40:34I guess it depends, like...
40:38Doing it is what I need to do to get more clarity on the question marks that I have in my head.
40:45Yeah.
40:52Well, we do need to make a choice.
40:54Make a decision.
40:55Um...
40:56Ultimately, I'm here to, like, explore.
41:11I think there's nothing wrong with extending an invitation to a hot tub.
41:15A hot tub.
41:16Cool.
41:18Okay.
41:19So, who's your fancy?
41:20I had such an amazing connection with Naomi.
41:23She is, like, a front-runner for me.
41:28I was talking to Grace.
41:30She's quite a shy person.
41:31Yes.
41:32And I was like, well, I'm also quite a shy person.
41:33Yeah, that's it.
41:34But, yeah, she was very nice.
41:35What about Jen?
41:36She was really funny.
41:37Super helps.
41:39How about we maybe go and have a chat with Naomi, Grace, and Jen?
41:46Yeah.
41:47Let's fucking do it.
41:48Cool.
41:52We've got something to say.
41:53Ladies.
41:55First to get an invite is Grace.
41:58Oh, this is terrifying, isn't it?
42:00Hello.
42:02Uh, Grace.
42:03Yes, darling.
42:04Simon, I wonder if you'd like to draw us in the hot tub.
42:08Do you know what?
42:09I would absolutely love to, because you two are, like, my type of guys.
42:13I think you would be absolutely great, like, for what you're looking for.
42:16I don't think I'm the right person.
42:17That's okay.
42:20I don't even talk to me about this.
42:21It makes me so sad that I said no.
42:24I turned them down because they, like, are not people that I would see sexually.
42:28So, I knew I wouldn't be the right person.
42:32I don't know what to do now.
42:35What do you say?
42:36She doesn't think that what we're looking for is what she can provide.
42:40Cool, that's absolutely fine.
42:44Hey, darling.
42:45Hello, ladies. How are we?
42:46Hello.
42:47I was just going to ask, um, Jen, if you would like to spend some more time with us this evening?
42:50We were planning on going to the hot tub and then see how things go.
42:54I'm a yes.
42:55Check in. Cool. All right.
42:56We'll catch up with you in a bit.
42:57See you in a bit.
42:58Yeah, Chris and I were both wondering if you would like to spend some more time with us this evening?
43:02We were going to go and hang out in the hot tub for a bit and then just see how the evening goes.
43:05Oh my gosh, I love the hot tub.
43:06Yeah?
43:07Yeah.
43:08That sound good?
43:09That would be lovely.
43:10Cool. Fantastic.
43:11I'm looking forward to developing more of a connection.
43:13But yeah, if I feel it, I'll definitely lean into it and see where it goes.
43:17Are you happy with that?
43:18Yeah.
43:19We take the two wins.
43:20Yes.
43:23Right, what else do we need?
43:26It's a big deal in the fact that it's definitely a step further towards figuring out exactly what I came here to figure out.
43:36Are you with me?
43:37I am with you.
43:39But I'm nervous because I have never had sex with a woman.
43:44I don't know what I'm doing.
43:46I have no idea what to do with one woman, let alone what to do with two women.
43:53Oh, hell yeah.
43:54Is it good?
43:55Oh, it's just so much warmer than anything else.
43:58I guess it's new.
43:59This is a new experience for us.
44:01I hadn't put any thought into the seduction side of it.
44:05What?
44:08What are you feeling?
44:12I'm definitely interested in taking things a little bit further.
44:18But we'll see.
44:21The worst thing that I can think of is just one of us, like, reacting badly to something that happens.
44:26But, you know, here we are.
44:30Yeah.
44:32Well.
44:34Here comes some of the girls.
44:39This is definitely a very big moment in our relationship because this is a doorway towards something which could be, like, a huge change for us.
44:48Next time on Open House.
44:56Would you be willing to have two separate experiences?
45:01I just like having Simon around.
45:04Hi.
45:05Hello.
45:06Got butterflies.
45:07I'm feeling a bit, like, giddy.
45:09Oh.
45:10Yeah.
45:13He's not here.
45:18I feel like we're walking into a lion's den, to be honest.
45:21Oh, my God. They're so cute.
45:23Neither of us have had, like, many sexual partners in the past.
45:26How are you feeling?
45:28This whole experience is obviously completely alien to us.
45:32It's just a bit much for me.
45:34Like, I just don't want to go back in.
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