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00:00Okay, now I'm getting bugs.
00:08Thanks.
00:10En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:15It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:21Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:25We've known each other for 16 years.
00:27Lauren's brother is one of my best mates, and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:34Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:39Look at that rock on your finger.
00:41She just makes me, basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:45The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:50I'm a huge adrenaline junkie, and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:55Tom fully understands what I'm like, and to be honest, joins me.
01:00Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
01:04The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:11I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:17We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:22Yeah.
01:24I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open, because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:31Here they go!
01:41With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:50How are you guys doing? All right?
01:52We're a good-looking couple.
01:54Yeah.
01:55You look lovely.
01:56Very lovely.
01:57Hi, guys. You all right?
01:58Hey!
01:59Come on, lock your shirt. We're almost matching.
02:04Yeah, these guys look fit.
02:05Blonde girl, bit of you.
02:07I'm excited, but nervous.
02:14Oh, I'm nervous now. Yeah. Definitely nervous now.
02:17I'm so excited to be here. I really am. I am like, come on.
02:22Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need. It's just a real big push.
02:29Guiding couples on their journey.
02:32Hello, come in.
02:33Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:37Take a seat.
02:39I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:41So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:44I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:49Mm-hmm.
02:50I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt, if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:56We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:06OK.
03:07Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:09I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:12Mm-hmm.
03:13I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:21When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:23If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:35I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:48I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:50Yeah, it's been a couple of times, there's been in the past, even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:55I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:59When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
04:05I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself.
04:10I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:14When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
04:17Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom. It was terrifying.
04:26The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:32It was so, so scary. He got really down. He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:40Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that, it's basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:50You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:54Yeah, definitely. Definitely.
04:56It's like you're not going to get a hard on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
05:03Hey, you're okay? Yeah, I'm good. I wasn't expecting that.
05:16Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:19The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:28So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:40And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:42It's what I want as well.
05:47Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:51I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap. And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
06:01And the same for women as well. But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:08Sure, yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place where we can help you get over those things.
06:14Starting with a good old party.
06:16Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:18Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:22I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:31This is about sensuality. That's about cuddles and touches.
06:37I want you to focus on one person, and I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:47Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:56And then, be open to things escalating.
07:02That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
07:04When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.
07:08Yeah.
07:09Right.
07:10It sounds really exciting.
07:11Yeah, okay.
07:12Beautiful.
07:13Yeah.
07:14Yeah.
07:15Yeah.
07:20Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:26So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:34If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:41Oh.
07:42Wow.
07:43Wow.
07:44I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't, if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go our separate ways.
07:55I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
07:57Previously on Open House.
07:58Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:16I'm so scared.
08:19What's at stake is Alana's feelings and emotions.
08:23I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:25Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
08:27So, we kind of want you to face that threat.
08:30Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome?
08:37That scenario wasn't in my head.
08:38I don't want to do it like I want to live.
08:40I don't want to be.
08:42If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
08:48Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie.
08:50She's gorgeous.
08:52Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us?
08:55Yeah.
08:57If it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
09:10I did not think this is where we were going to be on like our first night.
09:12I knew you were.
09:13This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
09:15Really?
09:16If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
09:18I'd be like, no.
09:19We didn't think that we would be in a hot tub if we were.
09:22And here you are.
09:25How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:34How do you feel?
09:36I'm okay.
09:37Yeah?
09:44In that moment, watching Alex and Georgie kiss,
09:47I thought, oh, no.
09:48How did that make you feel?
09:49Like, fine.
09:50I was like, yeah, look.
09:51I was like, yeah, look, almost a bit turned on by it.
09:52How did that make you feel?
09:53Like, fine.
09:54I was like, yeah, look.
09:55Almost a bit turned on by it.
09:56I really want you on me.
09:57Can I like, can I like, can I like, can you on me?
09:58Can I like, can I like, can you on me?
10:01I can't believe this.
10:02how did that make you feel like fine i was like yeah look almost a bit turned on by it
10:18i really want you on me can i like can i like you on me i can't believe this are you proud of me
10:27yeah i've never seen a lot of kiss another woman i knew it was part of her life like long long ago
10:45but to see that like reopen that door was such a huge turn on for me to see that it was like
10:50really hot oh my god i'm obsessed stop it can we just take you home with us
11:01well it all flowed very naturally
11:13who the fuck would have thought we'd have been here i honestly don't know what's happening right now
11:18i feel like this is normal
11:24i think like things are feeling good do you maybe when i come back to our room
11:30i would love that yeah let's just explore things a little bit more yeah let's take the next step
11:35we'll do baby steps let's do it i didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in
11:42like a single female i thought that would be way too intimidating i was really glad i was below
11:48water because i was really turned up yeah yeah like this has been insane honestly i can't believe
11:56what like it's such a change you wouldn't can do anything and now we're inviting
12:02faster to come back to our room oh my god that's social i know i did say my ass like eats them
12:23new arrivals lauren and tom are preparing for a big night oh
12:33they'll be attending a sexy barn dance where they hope to meet residents who could help tom
12:38overcome his physical stumbling block when it comes to opening up
12:42whenever we've dipped our toes into being open tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really
12:52uncomfortable they've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group
12:58experience where the focus is only on foreplay okay what i look ridiculous with no pressure to perform
13:08the hope is tom will relax and rise to the occasion i do foresee hurdles the residents are all very
13:15beautiful the problem with that is obviously tom being body conscious
13:25if i went there on my own i think i'd probably walk straight back out
13:28how are you guys feeling yeah great it's good
13:42this is out of my comfort zone the heart palpitations i've got right now are through the room
14:02so what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them i feel sick
14:06inside i don't think okay so listen there's no pressure that's what we're saying
14:10like let's just give it a really good go this is what we're here for
14:15first to meet them are married couple jem and daz what are you looking for then that's the question
14:22so for me you need i need that conversation yeah um and for you it's obviously just about feeling
14:27body confident yeah i'm a bit yeah yeah just lacking in confidence a little bit yeah oh you know it's
14:33really nerve-cracking if there's any environment where personality matters more than looks it's this
14:40environment we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey hello you all right
14:45i'm tom how are you doing me all right how you doing i'm gage this is my wife olivia what's your
14:49dynamic so we when we find out that is that's my favorite word is that we're really good at reading
15:00people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling you know when someone's nervous and you know
15:05when someone's a little bit scared but when you have that you know responsibility to kind of give
15:09them that first good impression of the lifestyle you want to make it the best i used to be like we're
15:14like really like outgoing going gym seven days i used to have like the abs and i basically come for
15:19eat and drink and of course i put on the weight now so you can just like kiss and you can like you can
15:26go down on them and you can touch and you don't necessarily just have the build up but i think it is the
15:31power mentality you think you've got to go through that natural process olivia and gage they made me
15:36feel so like it just felt it just felt natural just talking to her after a confidence boost from gage
15:44tom moves on to single resident aaron who's no stranger to open conversation do you have an idea of
15:51kind of what you want from the experience basically have fun relax and try and let my hair down to a couple
15:58that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up i think the best thing they can do is
16:05talk to talk to us you know you've come here for the sex but don't forget that the sex comes from
16:10a person i'm a single guy i've literally just come out of a relationship with two women
16:15at the same time for two years 50 50 yeah there'll be days and weeks and months where i don't feel like
16:23i have the confidence and i'll go and play and i won't even get hard but that's okay because
16:29if you're around people you're comfortable around that's that's what i'm that's so this is what we're
16:33trying to get through to talk speaking to aaron he made it easy for me to basically say i don't need
16:41my penis basically i've got my hands and i got my tongue and i think lauren really likes them as well
16:45aaron has given me fanny flutters so i've never had more than two men at once so my ideal situation
16:56would obviously be more men fresh from meeting aaron lauren feels it's time for tom to start
17:05deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree aaron because he was on the same page as you and even he
17:12doesn't get hard because i feel like he would understand you as well yeah and made me feel
17:20really at ease he yeah he was absolutely brilliant i'm so scared of the rejection mainly for tom
17:28rather than for me because is he then going to be really nervous going forward that little bit inside
17:34that if they say no it'll feel like yeah but you know um you just have to wait and see and see what
17:41happened we just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just maybe some games some
17:47teasing some cuddling if it escalates escalates if it doesn't it doesn't and that doesn't
17:56okay guys i'm i'm not gonna say that i'm gonna play
18:01it's for me at the moment i take a lot more to get to that point
18:06i was surprised by aaron because he said he didn't want to play aaron without being rude obviously
18:14we have to move along with being honest not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but for me
18:19i don't obviously want to put tom off even more with this process it's like rejection i'm just yeah i'm
18:27shot right move all the things of the bed put them all on the here in their bedroom alana and alex
18:41are preparing to be joined by resident georgie are we going to be weird and going are you okay if we
18:47get protection just in case we'll just have it on the side they're hoping that tonight they can take
18:54their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap by having a threesome i don't know
19:02how this is gonna go seeing alex being with another woman with where we are now look i'm definitely open
19:14just seeing how it goes but as much as this is a really big step for me it's also a really big step
19:20for him because he's gonna potentially be with another woman this is all new and it's starting
19:27to feel very real so my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might
19:34make alana feel i hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have but equally it could
19:38not be it hello come here come here come in you all right oh it's so nice it would be it would be
19:51devastating if anything went wrong here for sure so much better okay cool this is a bit more chill
20:00yeah don't mind i'm just gonna pick up the momentum no i like that let's just pick up when we're left
20:10the sexual chemistry was insane
20:18the fact that i could like just let go of everything and just really enjoy it like
20:25it's like i never thought that would have happened in this experience
20:41but as play between alana and georgie intensifies alex retreats to the sideline
21:03I think like I was overwhelmed
21:12it was like from zero to a hundred and it caught me off guard really
21:20although I was like turned on an idea I wasn't like turned on
21:33yeah I can't quite match that right now
21:56I've had like the best evening like
22:00yeah I love you so much I loved it I genuinely loved every minute of that
22:23there wasn't any part where I thought I feel uncomfortable or like oh I don't
22:28know how I feel about this like I literally loved every single second of
22:31that did you enjoy it
22:34I loved seeing you like enjoy it
22:38yeah I loved it
22:41I might always seem to get the wet patch
22:47maybe I could have done more but I think I was a little bit like
23:00overwhelmed by how quickly it all went
23:03at this moment I don't know if I can open up the relationship
23:09it's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident Georgie
23:31you're so quiet
23:38got up this morning feeling really good about what happened but I could feel
23:44there was something a little bit off
23:55what are you thinking about?
23:59I'm just thinking
24:00processing
24:05you sure you're okay?
24:06yeah
24:07when we first came in here obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap
24:22I knew Alex was in his head a little bit
24:24even at home like he can go a bit quite sometimes but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying
24:30how was last night?
24:42like I'm really happy
24:44yeah
24:45it just it felt right
24:47beautiful breakthrough
24:49absolutely
24:50I think what I liked is
24:52it was actually Georgie that said like would you be okay if I kissed Alex
24:58she kind of like led it a little bit which was nice
25:01and like I actually enjoyed watching it
25:04which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth
25:09what are you thinking Alex?
25:11I don't
25:12I don't know
25:13I don't want to take away because I loved last night
25:16it was incredible
25:17but I was a little bit like
25:20overwhelmed by the whole situation
25:23yeah tell me about that
25:24I don't know like
25:25I don't know like
25:26I don't think I was
25:27I wasn't like turned on physically like
25:29okay
25:30so that's what I'm confused at the moment about
25:32okay okay okay
25:35the couple thing I definitely want to do
25:36but again I don't know if I go all the way
25:38so
25:39okay
25:40that's where
25:41I think that's why I've been quiet this morning because I wasn't sure
25:43for me there was like something missing and I don't know what it was
25:45I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection based like when it comes to sex
25:49mm-hmm
25:50like deep deeper connections
25:52sure
25:53intimacy
25:54is that what you're seeking like intimacy to go with your sexual experience
25:58I do find it better if there's a connection and that's where I am right now
26:04like I'm trying to figure that out
26:07the thing that I want to understand is how do you feel about that
26:10erm
26:16I don't feel comfortable with that
26:19sure
26:20now like I do see that as threatening like what if you build like this really great connection with someone else that you then feel is
26:30like
26:31that's never ever gonna be the thing
26:36you okay
26:40yeah
26:41it's okay
26:43you're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of
26:48and stuff is coming up like that's all about that
26:50so that's scary to you right now so let's just look at it in the face
26:55tell me
26:56what does what do you mean by connection let's just like
26:58I think it's definitely not like
27:00deep connection with what I have with you
27:03it's it's a lot less than that it's more familiarization
27:07like you almost want to be friends with that person before it okay
27:10I've never been like a one night guy
27:14to be fair like yeah even we didn't sleep together like straight away
27:18so I get that I know that's not necessarily like how you work
27:24so what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples like do you want to have like one couple friend that you
27:32date and play with or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples like what does that look like for you
27:41we did say like it would be nice to have like one couple that we're like best friends with and we get on really well with them and like play together as well
27:50so what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want
27:57but I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece
28:02for you to actually go there and start making a connection
28:05and for you to feel like to figure out what it feels like when it's happening
28:09and spend a bit of time connecting with the couple
28:11and then once you feel like you have a connection in place
28:15then you can escalate things in your own time
28:18and take it from there and you see how it goes for you
28:20how does that sound?
28:21No, that sounds good. You happy? Good.
28:24I'm fine with that. Are you definitely fine?
28:26Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:28Okay.
28:29I think that the biggest thing off my chest was what we've spoken about now
28:32that was like just something I need to understand
28:35Thank you. Thank you. You're welcome. You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:46I'm excited to meet some couples today
28:50but this moment I don't know if I can go all the way.
28:55We'll have to see.
29:01We love each other, right? Yeah, we do.
29:04At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms
29:18with being rejected by resident Aaron.
29:25Let your hair down. Let my hair down.
29:27I'm going to make you line dancing.
29:29I am not line dancing. That is not happening.
29:34Oh, ah.
29:35Oh my God.
29:39I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.
29:49This is what I used to really enjoy.
29:51So I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
29:53When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.
30:02Yeah.
30:03And like the fact that he was just busting out the robot
30:05and like just having so much fun with it
30:07and I was like, let's do this, let's do that.
30:08And he was just like, yeah, let's do it.
30:09It's a laugh.
30:10I'm buzzing. I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.
30:24He's so relaxed now.
30:28Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective,
30:32finding residents for a sensual after-party.
30:35I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:37So I think it's a lot more easier to invite people
30:40and to see if they say yes or no.
30:42You lead the way.
30:43Hello, hello, welcome to my friend.
30:57Hello.
30:58I'm your shirt for tonight.
30:59Have you guys been enjoying yourselves?
31:00Yeah.
31:02But it was basically, we're just wondering if you'd like to be,
31:06to like come back with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:10Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are.
31:14I'll be at the bar.
31:15I wasn't expecting that.
31:17I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a no.
31:21As Tom's confidence grows.
31:23And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
31:26Yeah.
31:27Yeah.
31:28Yeah.
31:29Oh, wow.
31:30Yeah, we're just, yeah.
31:31So does the after-party.
31:32Wondering if you want to come.
31:34Yes.
31:35I love that.
31:36That's quick.
31:37That's so easy.
31:40And the guest list swells to five.
31:42We were pleasantly surprised.
31:44And it actually feels kind of like nice, like feeling.
31:48I know it sounds weird, but wanted.
31:51I would say I'm definitely attracted to him, for sure.
31:54They're a vibe, 100%.
31:56I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.
31:58Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet, as the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety and successfully open up.
32:13We're basically, we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.
32:21I'm not promising anything.
32:22I've still got them hurdles.
32:23I've still got them body confidence and all that.
32:26The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.
32:43Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up, Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples.
32:50Oh, this looks so cute.
32:55We're just looking for like good vibes.
32:58Obviously going into the couple scenario is slightly different because it's both of us have got to have an attraction to two different people then.
33:06We'll see, you know, if it's the right people then it will be there.
33:16Hello.
33:17Hello.
33:18I'm Joe.
33:19Joe, lovely to meet you.
33:20How are you doing?
33:21How's it going?
33:22Just on the walk in.
33:23Literally on the walk in.
33:24Both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them, don't we?
33:27Yeah, they're definitely good looking.
33:29They're super hot.
33:30Who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then?
33:33I think coming here might have been more me.
33:35Did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady?
33:40What were you initially looking for?
33:42Connections with couples.
33:44Yeah.
33:45Is where we were looking at.
33:46The hardest part was obviously for me to kind of go over like insecurities with having another female.
33:52Like being physical and like smash that on the first note.
33:56So we're like, yay!
33:58One thing I'd say is, oh, I'll do three things as easiest.
34:03You guys have actually done probably one of the harder things.
34:05Like foursomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do.
34:11Hi, I'm Alana.
34:12Hi, Alana.
34:13Lovely to meet you.
34:14So tonight?
34:16Today?
34:17Tonight?
34:18You're looking for a couple swap?
34:20Yeah.
34:21Just trying to like find our way into it now.
34:23We're definitely looking at the space.
34:24It's just finding our like place.
34:26Big thing letting someone else into your relationship.
34:29But it's nice because like you say, everyone's like scenarios are different.
34:35Well, it's about you guys.
34:36That's the thing.
34:37It's like you're not here to please someone else.
34:39Yeah.
34:40It's what's best for you.
34:41I didn't know how I was going to feel about it.
34:44Yeah.
34:45But actually like I shocked everyone.
34:47Ended up being absolutely fine with it.
34:51Alex and Alana were quite attractive actually.
34:53There was definitely a vibe there.
34:55I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us.
35:01Can I go for a chat?
35:05Yes.
35:10All right.
35:12Tea.
35:19How have you found it?
35:20Um, like it's been nice to speak to couples today.
35:25Like obviously that was what we wanted to do.
35:29For me, I feel like, um, Jem and Daz.
35:32I just feel like they would be like a really great couple to get to know.
35:35I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us.
35:40How are you feeling?
35:41Is there anyone that you felt like might have had a connection with?
35:49I've like, um, honestly at the moment,
35:52I just don't know right now if I can go any further.
36:05Okay.
36:07How do you, how are you feeling about that?
36:09Um, yeah, like I'm a little bit surprised.
36:14Um, what is it that's making you feel that way?
36:19Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:24Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon?
36:28Like it's just got a bit overwhelming.
36:34Mate, I don't know, like,
36:37It's more of a me thing this now.
36:42Like for now.
36:44That's as far as I can go.
36:46You've hit like a bit of a wall with it.
36:48Yeah.
36:49Yeah.
36:50Okay.
36:53I do want to redo this.
36:54Okay.
36:57Okay.
36:58That makes me happy.
37:10With Alex unable to continue,
37:13the couple stay at the retreat has come to an end.
37:20Going forward, I do think opening up the relationship is for me and Alana,
37:26but it's going to take time.
37:28It will take more time for me.
37:29Um, I don't know, I feel like emotional now.
37:38I could do that.
37:39What just happened there?
37:40I don't know.
37:41What just happened there?
37:42I don't know.
37:43I don't know.
37:44It's just the whole thing's like just very overwhelming, isn't it? Like,
37:49I don't know.
37:50What just happened there?
37:51I don't know.
37:52I don't know.
37:53It's just the whole thing's like just very overwhelming, isn't it?
37:54Like,
37:55I don't know.
37:56I don't know.
37:57I don't know.
37:58I don't know.
37:59I don't know.
38:00It's just like a very emotional few days, isn't it?
38:02The future will at some point be a full open relationship, but at the moment it's baby steps still.
38:23My house.
38:24It's just been a very overwhelming process, but, um, I don't want to keep crying, but like, I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:43Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought. Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it.
38:52It's just not easy, but like, we've absolutely got the ability to do it.
39:00I absolutely love you to pieces and I'm happy and glad and I love you so much.
39:04I love you so much.
39:16Just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it. However, if you hadn't, then why don't you?
39:21Why is everyone saying yes?
39:23Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom.
39:29Ooh!
39:31Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff, it doesn't mean like, you know, they see me and go, actually, no, what the fuck is that?
39:38It's what goes to my head.
39:39I know. So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time. Okay?
39:46Yeah.
39:48No pressure.
39:50They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay, Tom will manage to get an erection.
39:55A stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up.
40:02I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about for my dick not to hurt.
40:09I'm hoping to have a little hug.
40:17Ooh!
40:18Hi!
40:19Wow!
40:20Look at me.
40:21Hey!
40:22Hey!
40:23Hey!
40:24Hey!
40:25Hey!
40:26Hey!
40:27Hey!
40:28Hey!
40:29Hey!
40:30Hey!
40:31Hey!
40:32You know, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:34I'm feeling in shock, to be fair.
40:37My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable, because I will get naked and run around.
40:43Like, I am the opposite of Tom.
40:50I know I want to be open, and I'm not planning on changing that.
40:54I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle, and it's Tom that is.
40:58Can we make the lighting a little bit more sexy, guys?
41:01Yeah.
41:02Let's do it!
41:04Do you want to go over it?
41:06Just put a blindfold on and...
41:08Nice, nice, nice.
41:10Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid?
41:12It's basically just taking the top off.
41:14Mm-hmm.
41:16It feels weird that I can't see you, uh...
41:20I definitely want to make Lauren happy.
41:23We'll try anything.
41:25Like, jump this hurdle, basically.
41:27But once it's in my head, I can't afford...
41:30I freeze.
41:32Once I'm in that rut, I can't get out of the rut.
41:34How are you feeling, mate?
41:36It's weird, but...
41:38You're getting worshipped. You're getting all the attention.
41:41This is my favourite thing.
41:45Despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay,
41:49Tom lets the ladies lead.
41:52Just let us know if it gets a bit too overwhelming.
41:55It was putting shivers down my spine.
42:11I could feel everything.
42:13I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
42:28Next time on Open House...
42:30Are you ready for the next level?
42:36I feel absolutely petrified.
42:39Yeah.
42:41Is it okay to kiss?
42:43It's two guys!
42:45Back of the rut!
42:47I have identified as gay.
42:50Today, I don't know.
42:52I've been feeling very nutty.
42:55Never had any experience with gay men before.
42:58It would be fucked.
43:00The worst case no would be it.
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