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Open House- The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 4
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00:00Previously on open house. I'm really excited. I'm nervous and scared.
00:08How's it going? Scared! I can feel him shaking. I have fantasized many times about seeing Johnny
00:17with a female. We've gone along to these swingers parties. When it actually comes to the crunch,
00:22we just sort of... You can't close the deal. Yes! We can help.
00:30It just wasn't what we talked about. No, it's not. But nothing goes to plan,
00:33ever, is it? Let's be honest. Your relationship's at stake, to lose it,
00:37would be to lose everything. I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
00:40so I am a bit curious as well.
00:44I really want him to relax. I want him to enjoy it.
00:48I was literally ready to go, like, oh, look, I'll fucking see you later.
00:52What do you think about the idea of a morsome?
00:55Okay. We come in for a girl. We never came here for this.
01:00I know of a lovely year to cross. So, imagine multiple people in the
01:04same room having sex. It's pretty scary. A bit of a daunting.
01:08Get on the clitoris couch. Clitoris couch.
01:13Right now, I'm feeling anxious. Far too many people in that room for me.
01:17Come on. We're going to have a lot to go.
01:20Just like, what? And it's just hit me. It's just hit me.
01:23I am struggling with it.
01:33Tell me how you feel. I've got, like, 10 people in there, and I'm like,
01:3710 horny people in there. They're like, it's scaring me.
01:41Oh, yeah. There you go.
01:43Sarah and Johnny are attempting to open up by experiencing their first ever orgy.
01:48But Johnny is on the brink. It's all been amazing. Yeah.
01:51But it's overwhelming. I can't really enjoy myself.
01:55You don't want to pursue. Is that what you're saying?
01:56Right. It's not that I don't want to pursue a thing.
01:58If we don't do it now, then I don't think we're ever going to.
02:01He's naturally going to be a bit nervous, but we just need to crack on and get it done.
02:08It's a big, big thing for me. Maybe. Listen, don't, like, don't worry.
02:12I'm so happy that you've sped your mind to me. Yeah.
02:14You've been kept on either of this to yourself.
02:16I think the apology thing might be too much for them.
02:18I don't think I'm not getting bored.
02:21There's definitely too many people in that room for me.
02:24It's a scary scenario for a mum.
02:26So what are we going to do about that?
02:29It is intense. It is scary because there's loads of us and, like, you know, two of them.
02:38How are you guys doing? We're good. We just have to do a little tart.
02:44A little debrief. Yeah, debrief.
02:49You're all amazing.
02:54We had a talk and we'd rather, like, have a little bit more intimacy with a few less people, so...
03:00That's fair enough.
03:01We'd like to ask a couple of people to stay if that's okay with you.
03:07Hopefully they might want to take that step further.
03:11Yeah, we've definitely got a little bit of a keen eye on them, so hopefully it does go further.
03:16Don't want to offend any of you.
03:19We'd like to spend a bit of time with Jen and Mark and Gracie, if she would stay with us, you know.
03:24I think I'm available.
03:26No offence to any of you, it's just that I'm so overwhelmed with it all.
03:31It's like, wow, it's massive for me.
03:33The main thing is that you have fun.
03:35Cheers, guys.
03:37Cheers.
03:38Cheers.
03:39Have the best time.
03:44Have a great time.
03:45Weird, isn't it?
03:47Fuckers.
03:48There you go.
03:52Okay, then, well, do you guys want to start us off with advice?
03:54Yes.
04:01Breasts, my choice.
04:04This is lovely.
04:05Yeah?
04:05We both are coming out.
04:06Oh, yeah.
04:07Lovely.
04:07Beautiful.
04:08Oh, great.
04:14Nice.
04:15Oh, my God, you smell so good.
04:16Do you are?
04:16Yeah.
04:17Yeah.
04:18Oh, that's hard.
04:19They really have.
04:20They're hard.
04:22They're very hot.
04:24Are you nervous?
04:27No, I am.
04:28It's just a little, it's just straight.
04:29Different for me, you know what I mean?
04:34It's my first time.
04:35You know, I'm trying to get myself into this and it's hard.
04:39Yeah, I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
04:42Are you going to perform?
04:44Is he going to show up?
04:48I was just thinking maybe we could just like take everything from the game that we just played
04:53and maybe just like implement it to each other on the pen.
04:58It's just completely natural to be nervous and, you know, I feel very privileged to be able to
05:05go up to them and just like hold their hand and be like, it's okay.
05:07So we were maybe just thinking like, um, maybe the girls.
05:14Yeah.
05:14Yeah.
05:15So if I have a little kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
05:17Yeah.
05:17Um, and yeah, and we'll just obviously like explore a little bit and then whenever you
05:20feel comfortable, maybe join us.
05:22Yeah.
05:31With Sarah jumping straight in, it's riding on Johnny to make their long-standing dream
05:37of opening up a reality.
05:38Seeing Sarah with a woman just got me going.
05:52That, that, that was the main thing that got me going.
05:54I sat, I watched, I sat there and then, and yeah, we started working.
06:02Do you have another kiss?
06:05This is what I needed.
06:06I needed this kick.
06:07I needed this push.
06:22I just relaxed into it.
06:23I just got really excited.
06:35I just didn't have any insecurities that I had just weren't there.
06:39I was just lost in the moment.
06:49Oh, my God.
06:50Wow, that was crazy.
07:04Um, I don't know what to say.
07:05Um, it's not like guns, are you going to be honest?
07:08Like.
07:08Was that good for you?
07:09Oh, well.
07:10It's good for me, was it good for you?
07:13Uh, it was, uh, it was all right, you know.
07:15We want more!
07:15We want more!
07:16We want more!
07:17But this is, this is just the first step.
07:19This is the first step, and what we needed to do, because this is what we want to do.
07:23We want to do, we want to enjoy each other, we want to share it.
07:26That's, that's just an amazing experience.
07:28What a rollercoaster it's been.
07:48We came here looking for a threesome with a girl.
07:50We've ended up coming out with an orgy, with a fine bit of an orgy, what can I say?
07:54Some amazing memories we've made today.
07:59You're going to miss it.
08:01I'm going to miss it too.
08:03I've learned so much about myself, um, I'm absolutely going to carry on exploring my bisexual side.
08:10I was so worried about what other people think about my actions, you know, all that's gone now.
08:15This is my life and I'm owning it.
08:16There it is.
08:18Yay.
08:19That's where the magic happened.
08:20It certainly did.
08:24For us, we want to open up our relationship.
08:28It's only going to improve what we've got already, which is amazing anyway.
08:33Yeah, I agree.
08:37I love you so much, babe.
08:39I love you.
08:39Also staying at the retreat, our married parents of six, Claude and Amy.
08:53What brings you here today?
08:54I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:58You're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you?
09:00The thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in like, in practical terms, it ain't as good as it sounds.
09:07Do you really want this?
09:08That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
09:12For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know, okay, the connection is so real that they don't mind that I'm not willing to go all over.
09:18Jump into it.
09:19Yeah.
09:19She's definitely on my wavelength.
09:21Are you going to go back with Amy?
09:22No.
09:25Did you struggle?
09:26Yeah.
09:27Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
09:35Oh, this is kind of annoying.
09:39It's definitely weird for me.
09:41For me, the ultimate goal would be to have a relationship with other people, actually inside of our relationship.
09:48If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something that put a spanner in our relationship.
10:05Claude and Amy are in the hot tub with residents Georgie and Emily.
10:18While Amy gets stuck in, Claude stays very much on the sidelines.
10:27That was so, like, soft and gentle.
10:36Doing something with another woman, even with consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
10:48I think I would do pretty much anything for Amy.
10:57So, I just need to go with feeling guilty about doing it.
11:00Do you want to get here?
11:18Seeing Claude with another woman turns me on.
11:21I only want him to be happy, and if someone else can bring a bit of happiness that I don't even have anything to do with,
11:27that's something I love.
11:35Where do you visualise the night progressing?
11:38We're happy to, like, go somewhere else.
11:41No internet.
11:43Sorry, I'm going to drop a bombshell now.
11:44No, no, no.
11:45I would rather take this slow, for me.
11:50Just because when I'm looking for, like, emotional, romantic connection, I take it a lot slower.
11:55OK, yeah.
11:55Is that OK?
11:56Yeah, yeah.
11:57Yeah, yeah.
12:00OK, should we exit?
12:02Even though we're a bunch of sexually liberated people, like, we also still sometimes, like,
12:08to take it really slow.
12:10I think when it comes to polyamory especially, there is that sort of need to get to know each
12:16other to make it more of a special connection.
12:19We shall see you tomorrow, I'd like to see you.
12:21Yeah, it was so lovely to meet you.
12:22I think my advice to them would be, like, if you do want to build, like, a really emotional connection,
12:29like, maybe take things a little bit slower.
12:32Oh, have an amazing night, guys.
12:33Yeah, you too. Have a good sleep.
12:35Then you only have the best time. Bye.
12:43It's actually a red ring.
12:44Yeah.
12:45I love that.
12:46So going into this, I feel like it's an adventure that I should have had a million times.
12:55Water?
12:56Yeah, 100%.
12:57Yeah.
12:58I'm just going to set the lighting a little bit.
13:02Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do.
13:04Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the air.
13:07I don't know if I can do it or not.
13:12No, there we go.
13:13The worst-case scenario for us is that that guilt doesn't go away for Claude,
13:19and he's just like, this isn't going to be for me.
13:40These are nice.
13:42Amy is desperate to invite multiple partners into their relationship.
13:46Are you going to come train us?
13:47Yeah, I know.
13:47I'm just, I'm ready.
13:49Just process it.
13:51But as things ramp up, Claude faces the ultimate decision.
13:56Are you okay?
14:02I'm going to kiss you now.
14:03Okay.
14:03Oh, no.
14:11Amy definitely wants another girl in a relationship,
14:20and I'm going to have to spend time alone with these people,
14:24so I have to get rid of that feeling of guilt.
14:26I think the only thing that is holding him back is how much he loves me,
14:32and that society tells us that this is just not the normal.
14:36health care process.
14:46Is this possible to be a no longer personivist?
14:47It's a part of a flat thing.
14:49уБДуБд makan rumour...
14:52If you don't know the person, my tongue can be something similar,
14:56it'snt bad.
14:56Wow.
14:57Right.
14:58See?
14:59Wow.
15:00I was still in this room.
15:01Oh, okay.
15:02Ooh.
15:03I don't want to make it back.
15:04Mm-mm-mm-mm-mm-mm.
15:07I'm good.
15:08Mm-mm-mm-mm.
15:09Mm-mm-mm-mm.
15:10I'm good.
15:11Mm.
15:12I'm good.
15:13I'm good.
15:14I'm good.
15:15I'm good.
15:16I'm good.
15:17I'm good.
15:18I'm good.
15:19I'm good.
15:20I'm good.
15:21I'm good.
15:22I'm good.
15:23No.
15:24No.
15:25Oh my God!
15:27I'm coming, I'm coming!
15:41I don't know how you expected it.
15:43It's definitely different to what I expected.
15:49Do you want to go back to my room?
15:55I don't know.
16:05You alright little lady?
16:09I don't really know.
16:21Do you feel we're going to get what we need from this experience?
16:24I don't really know how I think I'll feel right now.
16:30Do you feel like you didn't know anything different?
16:32Yeah.
16:34I can wear them any time you want.
16:44I can wear them any time you want.
16:56I feel like this maybe wasn't for me.
16:58I feel like this maybe wasn't for me.
17:00Yeah, it's the same for you.
17:04Yeah, no, but you should carry on like you're...
17:08No, I'm not like I'm here with us. Not for me.
17:20Hi guys, come in.
17:22Hi guys!
17:23With last night's events troubling Amy.
17:25Get comfy on my couch.
17:29They're meeting up with non-monogamy coach Effie.
17:31How are you feeling?
17:33I feel like...
17:39I don't know.
17:41I feel like I made a mistake last night going too far.
17:45Tell me. Tell me about last night.
17:47I feel like I would be...
17:49Me, you and Georgie, we went to the Red Room together.
17:51How was that?
17:53I think it's the reason that I feel not good today.
17:57And at the time it was everything I wanted to do.
17:59This is a lifestyle that I crave, but...
18:09It's okay.
18:11There's some tissues right in front of you.
18:13For me, it's not about sex and stuff.
18:15It is about building relationships.
18:17Yeah, yeah, yeah. I understand.
18:19God, how are you feeling?
18:21Like last night, I was feeling fine.
18:23But obviously...
18:25I ruined it.
18:27No, I see an enemy like this.
18:29I never want to see her upset or...
18:31Yeah.
18:32...sad about anything.
18:34What do you think would help you on your journey
18:39to get the polyamorous relationship
18:42that you want for yourselves?
18:46Is there anybody else you're connected with?
18:48Yeah, we've...
18:49Naomi was...
18:50Yeah.
18:51Everything about her was, to me,
18:53like everything I was looking for.
18:55I feel like I definitely want to speak to Naomi.
19:01Okay.
19:02How about getting back together with Naomi
19:05and have like a nice date?
19:08Yeah.
19:09Um...
19:10Chloe, would you want to go on a date with Georgie?
19:12Yeah, yeah.
19:13I'll go and have it.
19:14Like if Amy's going to go and talk to Naomi,
19:16I'll go and have a chat with Georgie, yeah.
19:18Because it is about making those connections
19:21and see if we can hold them in a meaningful way.
19:24Yeah.
19:25Because that will make the polyamorous family
19:28that you guys want.
19:29Does that feel good?
19:30Yeah, perfect.
19:32Thank you very much.
19:33I really appreciate it.
19:35Yeah, thank you.
19:36Take care.
19:42Polyamorous journey is a long one.
19:43Claude and Amy's time here is short.
19:45The best that we can do here is give them the tools
19:47and the skills and help them overcome some of the hurdles
19:50and build the relationship they want.
19:52I am really looking forward to seeing Naomi again,
19:57to see if there's a much bigger connection there.
20:00And I feel like the best outcome for Claude
20:02is that he comes back and he's like,
20:04I really just enjoyed talking to another girl without me.
20:07I feel like getting more scared.
20:24On their way to join the others at the retreat
20:27are Alex and Alana from Plymouth.
20:30Our first date, Alana said she did the best mash in Devon
20:34and it turns out she doesn't.
20:36She couldn't even...
20:37I do.
20:38No, I do.
20:39You can't even cook a sausage in a microwave.
20:43Luckily, the couple are to one another's taste
20:46and they've now settled down as a blended family
20:48with a child each from previous relationships.
20:52We're constantly, like,
20:54re-falling in love with each other all the time.
20:58I don't know why I'm getting emotional.
21:01I've just never had such a safe space with somebody.
21:05And the committed couple are just as passionate
21:09about one another in the bedroom.
21:11Sex is definitely, like, our number one hobby.
21:15We've got our normal sex and beautiful sex,
21:18but then we've got the one where we're like,
21:20should we try something new today?
21:22Yeah, we're very experimental.
21:24What's the weirdest thing that you've ever done?
21:26Well, I don't know if I want to say.
21:28Peggyn, you wear a strap-on and...
21:31We get to reverse roles.
21:33I know what I'm doing, surprisingly.
21:35Yeah, you can fuck.
21:38Now they want to spice things up further
21:40by exploring non-monogamy.
21:42Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple.
21:46I think because we're boundary pushers,
21:48there's something we both want is to be in, like, open relationships.
21:50I think it's actually, like, sex is...
21:52can be shared.
21:54It doesn't have to be for just two people.
21:56We don't want this to just be a one-off experience.
21:58We really want to see ourselves, like, diving into the lifestyle.
22:06Although they're heading to the perfect place to open up,
22:09Alana will need to overcome her biggest barrier.
22:13My previous relationships with men haven't been great.
22:17A lot of cheating on their part.
22:20It definitely made me more, like, cautious of women.
22:23I've got VAK with Alex being with another woman.
22:28That makes me feel physically sick.
22:34Oh, my God!
22:38I'm so scared.
22:42Oh, he's so fit.
22:43Hiya, you all right?
22:44Hello, everyone!
22:45Hello!
22:46Hiya!
22:47Hi!
22:48Hello!
22:50I love that dress, it's so nice.
22:52Thank you so much.
22:53Nice to meet you, Sam.
22:54Bonjour!
22:55How are you doing?
22:56I like him, he's my tie.
22:57But, yeah, we have plenty of time to discover each other.
23:00Hi, guys, welcome, I'm Rochelle.
23:02Nice to meet you, how are you doing?
23:03You all right?
23:04What's your name, Tommy?
23:05It's Alex.
23:06Alex.
23:07Alex.
23:08Strong handshake, Alex.
23:09I like the look of Alex.
23:10He was tall and gorgeous.
23:11Very good looking.
23:14That was insane.
23:16Like...
23:17That was so insane.
23:18Walking in.
23:19My heart's pounding.
23:20I didn't expect there to be so many people when we first came.
23:22No.
23:23Certainly, other women being around my partner, it's like a massive thing for me.
23:28I don't want to, like, bring up Alana's hurt again.
23:30Like, it might reignite that, like, fear in her.
23:34I'd like to think I'll surprise myself and be, like, really okay.
23:42That's how I want it to go.
23:45We've got a lot to lose.
23:47Everything is at stake, really, here.
23:50This is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with.
24:00I love you.
24:11I love you so much.
24:13Newcomers Alex and Alana are visiting the retreat in search of couples to open up with,
24:21despite Alana's fear of seeing Alex with another woman.
24:25I need a nervous week.
24:26Yeah, I need to go as well.
24:27Hey, guys.
24:30Hi, welcome.
24:31Come in, I'm Effie.
24:32Come in, come in.
24:33Hello, how are you doing?
24:34You all right?
24:35Yeah, good.
24:36This is going to be so far.
24:38Nice enough.
24:39I want to know what brings you here.
24:41What brings you to the retreat?
24:42Tell me.
24:43We're, like, boundary pushers.
24:45I think, like, from, like, when we very first met, like, we were very, like, into, like,
24:51sex and, like, pushing boundaries and bringing new things and ideas in.
24:55And we're at the stage now where we want to be part of, like, couple sorts, but we don't know how that looks.
25:01But equally, it's probably me that's been, like, holding us back.
25:05Okay.
25:06I would class myself as bisexual.
25:08Okay.
25:09So I've been with women in the past.
25:10I've had relationships with women.
25:11Mm-hmm.
25:12Um, but yeah, just through, like, past experiences with men, I've been cheated on quite a lot.
25:20So it's, I guess, like, damaged.
25:24I feel emotional.
25:25Well, that's okay.
25:26From the moment we met, like, we would go around town and if there was, like, a girl in small shorts or anything like that, she would have, like, panic and freeze and she would want me to, like, get on another street.
25:37So what's at stake is Alana's, like, feelings and emotions.
25:42Where are you with that stuff now?
25:44Obviously, with talking about things being more intimate and stuff, that's obviously quite a big step up from where I was, like, say, a year ago.
25:54If you just said to me, you're going to be here, I would have been, like, absolutely not.
25:58Okay.
25:59So, so, given that it's so potent for you, why do you want to open up your relationship to put yourself, like, really test those, those parts of you that, that are tender?
26:08Obviously, we're doing this, like, for us as a couple, but there's also, like, a little bit of selfishness in it for me where I'm, like, just want to be able to get past that.
26:18And that would benefit us so much more as a couple if I could really let go of those feelings and be, like, I'm good.
26:26What are you thinking, Alex?
26:28No, I absolutely agree. Like, I think if you can, like, overcome that, like, that's a beautiful place to be.
26:33But it's a delicate situation now because I wouldn't want to, like, take steps back.
26:37And I know that you desperately want to get over this.
26:40And hopefully this is the safe space that you get to find out if you can do it or not, right?
26:46Yeah.
26:47And for you, attractive woman is the threat, right? Understandable reasons.
26:52So we kind of want you to face that threat in this controlling environment where we're going to take care of you.
26:58Would you be open to maybe find a single woman that you're both attracted to and then invite them for your little sexy threesome?
27:09I feel like I'd be more comfortable if it was with, like, to invite a couple to spend time with us.
27:16I just feel like that's going to be too intense.
27:20I know that you ultimately want the couple swap. And that is something that I'm not taking that away from you.
27:27We just need to work on those insecurities. What has happened to you sucks. It's terrible.
27:33You've put all the charge onto women. So if we can just take that charge away, you're going to have much smoother experiences.
27:41I just, like, there's obviously that little bit of worry there. Like, say if we go to, like, do something and things happen and then I'm like, I'm not okay with it.
27:52I can't unsee those things.
27:56Yeah. What are your thoughts?
27:58With what you're saying, I absolutely agree with what you're saying. I guess the root cause is the female.
28:03And we can go absolutely slow. I'm not good anywhere. Like, I'm with you. Like, we can go as little steps and see where we go.
28:11We can do it. Yeah. Okay.
28:14I understand, like, why you're doing that and where my head needs to be. I still feel really nervous, but I feel less sick now.
28:25Good. Good. I love that. Okay. I'm excited for you. I'm going to be here to meet you tomorrow.
28:31Okay. So I can't wait to hear how it goes.
28:34Excited? Yeah.
28:36Thank you very much. Thank you so much.
28:39Thank you so much.
28:43For Alana and Alex, jumping straight into a couple swap would be a difficult thing to navigate.
28:48Doing something like this is definitely going to challenge her.
28:51Alana needs to find a connection with other women and feel safe in their presence so that she can actually have group sessions or threesome sessions.
29:01Oh, my God. Look.
29:03That birth. Check the birth out.
29:05Yeah.
29:06Come here.
29:07I don't want to cry again.
29:08Don't cry. It's okay.
29:09If we could come out of this situation and say we're in an open relationship, I think that would be an amazing thing.
29:20I literally don't know what to do with myself. Like...
29:24Have you seen your face?
29:26I... Oh, God.
29:27It's like, let's just go in with like...
29:29Don't know until we do it.
29:31And we are branch pushers.
29:32Like, open mind.
29:33Yeah.
29:34I'm not even joking.
29:35When she first said it, I thought, that scenario wasn't in my head.
29:40I'm not doing it.
29:41I don't want to do it.
29:42Like, I want to leave.
29:43Me and Alex absolutely love each other more than anything. It would be devastating if anything went wrong here. For sure.
29:51I hope you have an amazing time. I'm excited for you to get to know someone more.
30:03On Effie's advice, this afternoon, both Claude and Amy will have separate dates.
30:09I should brush my teeth. I'm going to be talking to her.
30:13Yeah, I'll brush my teeth.
30:15If they're truly to embrace polyamory, they need to be confident that they can explore meaningful, loving connections with other people.
30:24I said, like, the end goal is to feel the way you feel about me with multiple people.
30:29And you can't get to it unless you do push yourself to try and make friends with other people.
30:35Bye, I love you.
30:36I miss you.
30:39Good mess.
30:40You've been crazy.
30:42Amy is meeting up with resident Naomi, who she met at last night's social.
30:49So the best outcome for me is that me and Naomi really, like, hit off.
30:54I want something that's long-term, eventually.
30:58Hiya.
30:59Hi.
31:00How are you?
31:01Good, how are you?
31:02Oh, you're lovely.
31:03It's so nice to see you again.
31:04Good.
31:05There's a million and one ways to navigate a polyamorous relationship.
31:09But the importance of developing a bond independently, as well as together, is essential.
31:17Get comfy.
31:18Yeah.
31:19It's so nice.
31:20It's so nice.
31:21Cheers.
31:22Yeah, cheers.
31:24It's not a bad first date setting, is it?
31:25No, it's beautiful.
31:27After having sex together last night, Claude and Georgie are meeting for a date, to establish
31:33whether the attraction is more than just physical.
31:40Hello.
31:41I think I'd like to get to know her personality a bit more.
31:44I should explore it to see if there would be more of a connection there, because there
31:48could be.
31:49How are you?
31:50Um, I don't know.
31:51I don't really know.
31:52Like, yeah, I've not been in a situation like this before.
31:56I'm not sure what we're going to talk about on the date, me and Georgie, but I guess being
32:02away from Amy makes me feel a bit uneasy.
32:07Do you feel you got what you wanted coming in?
32:11For me, I think maybe I should have, like, cut the night when I'd finished the social.
32:17OK.
32:18I woke up thinking, I wish I had just said something to Naomi, like, let's go and do
32:24something different than let's go sit round the corner where it's quiet, Aaron.
32:32I'm very touchy.
32:33Amy's not so much.
32:34Like, even if we sleep, like, we won't cuddle.
32:36For me, I will cuddle her every single night if she wanted to.
32:39Like, I would love to cuddle and snuggle, yeah.
32:41Yeah, I'm a snuggler.
32:42I can't express to you how much I yearn for it every day.
32:46Like, when I'm with someone, like, I just want that.
32:48Like, I'm a physical touch person.
32:49I want to be touched.
32:53When we started cuddling and that, I was a bit more apprehensive.
32:57It's quite an intimate thing.
32:59Like, even though we've had sex with her, but after cuddling for a while, I was around.
33:03I think we'll become really good friends and maybe more.
33:16Can I kiss you?
33:18Yeah.
33:19Like, I feel like you whispered that like, you're like, oh.
33:22Yeah.
33:38It confirmed everything for me.
33:39Like, it is a deeper connection I'm looking for.
33:45It was a lovely kiss.
33:46I think it's exactly what both her and I want.
33:51I would say that we're more than friends and I hope that, that Claude has made that connection as well.
34:02I think Georgie is an amazing girl.
34:09And I feel like there's definitely more of a connection now after spending more time with her.
34:18By coming out of this, that connection will definitely build with me, her and Amy.
34:22She's definitely our type of person.
34:30This has been a good one today.
34:31Yeah, it has.
34:32It's been amazing.
34:34The fact that I've met somebody, it's kind of like they are out there.
34:40The next step for me would be to see her again in like a more organic setting and then get her to meet Claude.
34:52essions of a ni├▒o
34:57Oh.
35:08For our, like, first step into non-monogamy and it's like, polyamory side.
35:12I think it's been fantastic.
35:14We've got what we come here for and more, I think.
35:17Yeah.
35:18Yeah.
35:19Sadder.
35:20Yeah, I don't feel any of the guilt that I've felt before and I've got the best women so I'm lucky.
35:27Polyamory is rare because you have to find like-minded people who are interested in being a part of a bigger structure.
35:34Hey beautiful people. Hi.
35:36I think now that they have clarity that there are other people out there that want the same thing,
35:40they will go ahead and put that polyamorous construct together.
35:44Meeting people with the same mind as us was definitely a highlight.
35:48Safe journey.
35:50Thank you for such a great time.
35:52It's not just a dream anymore, like a vision. Now it's becoming more reality now, it's real.
35:58Hello you two.
35:59Hello.
36:04Have you all a good time?
36:05Yeah, I did.
36:06I wish we could stay for longer and get to know you even more.
36:08You were, you were.
36:09Yeah, once you get home.
36:11Take care.
36:12Take care, see you later.
36:14This has definitely been a breakthrough for us, now knowing that it is achievable to bring other people in.
36:20I hope the future for us looks like what we dream of, which is a community household.
36:25Yeah.
36:26And hopefully with the people that we've met.
36:28We'll see them when they get home.
36:31Yeah.
36:40In the bar, a girls only night is in full flow.
36:43In preparation for new arrivals, Alex and Alana.
36:47Who knows, babe?
36:49We might come out of this like absolute animals.
36:53But first, let's see if we can talk to a girl.
36:56Let's see.
36:59Could you imagine if like you, you're the one that's like, can't, can't do it.
37:04I don't think you will.
37:06But that would be funny.
37:08The pair want to open up their relationship with couple swaps.
37:11But Effie has tasked them with first having a threesome with just a woman.
37:17So as to tackle Alana's major insecurities around other females.
37:23Right, let's breathe, breathe, breathe.
37:25I'm holding my breath again.
37:27Hold your breath.
37:28Alana at the moment's feeling really overwhelmed with like the curve ball that we had with Effie saying that we need to, it'd be best to introduce a female to start off with.
37:40I definitely have those little feelings in my belly of like, oh God, am I going to be okay?
37:46Am I going to feel threatened in this scenario?
37:49Are you ready?
37:50Yeah.
37:51We're fine.
37:52Okay.
37:53All right.
37:54Love you.
37:55Let's go.
37:56Oh my God.
37:57I'm just imagining walking into a room and it just all being absolutely stunning women.
38:11And I'm like, ah.
38:16You could say it was my biggest nightmare about to come true.
38:27It's going to be hard. It's going to be triggering.
38:28It's going to be hard. It's going to be triggering.
38:29Oh, my God.
38:30It's going to be hard. It's going to be triggering.
38:31No, my God.
38:32What is your plan?
38:33No.
38:34Don't give her not to be doing trauma.
38:35At a girls only social, Alex and Alana have been instructed by Effie to find a girl to open up with.
38:39Alex will take the lead whilst Alana watches on.
38:42Oh my God.
38:43oh my god so as to help her confront her feelings of insecurity around women
38:51it's gonna be hard it's gonna be triggering
39:00potentially me being with a woman is massive for elana but it's a big deal for me as well
39:05if this is gonna work it has to be the right person
39:08so like how have you been like what you're up to like what do you do for work and i am a lingerie
39:17model amazing so basically i love my job so much because it's sexy i will describe my sexuality
39:26actually high i'm wake up and i want sex she's stunning isn't she i'm just trying to like brave
39:33what things do you into like are you into like what's like your your thing they love to be
39:39pleasure in any way i'm just trying to just trying to breathe for it i have like that feeling in my
39:49belly how are you doing great handshake oh yeah sure
40:00i think right now she's really nervous i can see it in her face like i hope that i'm not being too
40:19like pushy at the moment she's maybe feeling a little bit overwhelmed but i'm gonna have a chat
40:24with her in a minute and see how she feels obviously i'm feeling like those feelings in
40:35there like i feel nervous about it it's obviously like weird territory for me but like i want i want
40:42you to feel comfortable i'm i'm aware that you're probably being very conscious of how you're being
40:47because you don't want to upset me if there was any like physical contact or anything like that or like
40:52hand on a leg i feel like that's kind of something that i need to see to be like okay i'm okay with
40:59it that's a real surprise for me this is a absolutely huge step for us this is what we're
41:04here for right yeah 100% like this is why we're here so
41:13it makes me feel like i can push those boundaries more
41:15like i've definitely like seen another girl i'm interested in
41:28i love your look by the way i love your tattoos thank you thank you monogamy is outdated you know
41:33you're not gonna have the same ice cream for the rest of your life or drive the same car there's so
41:38many different flavors of models out there i get to play with them all like as you can say another
41:44tattoo i'm a mermaid oh that's amazing yeah that's amazing that's a real picture is it that's a photo
41:51of me really really good i love that you've got photos of like tattoos of you
41:57georgie's an incredible person like she's got an amazing vibe she's really attractive so at the
42:02moment everything is looking really good i'm really excited to push the boundary more
42:06um are you okay like i want to like push them boundaries with elana at the moment
42:11are you okay if i like put my hand on you like
42:23if elana's not okay with it she was like no no i can't do this it'd be the worst thing
42:35you know
42:40hello beautiful hello um can we go and sit and have a chat like all three of us 100 is that okay 100
42:48cool let's go thank you
42:55obviously seen like a little bit of physical contact which i didn't know how i was gonna feel
43:00with that but i'm actually like yeah no like i think you're absolutely stunning that you would
43:07absolutely be my type so yeah appreciate that like i i said to your man my type
43:14i kind of want to keep the momentum going while i feel like things are okay yeah yeah so if you
43:22would like to come and spend some time in what's up with us yeah would that be okay 100 okay yeah
43:28yeah okay let's do it
43:34i'm so surprised at myself i can't believe like this is such a turn three hours ago you were crying
43:41i was crying going i don't know if i can do this so i might want to leave
43:45i'm so shocked to myself though like i genuinely don't i don't know where this has come from
43:52i'm scared don't be scared you're not too excited i know
43:57that's why i'm scared
44:02i did not think this is where we were going to be on like our first night
44:06this would have literally been my worst nightmare really if someone was like how would you feel about
44:10doing this i'd be like no you we didn't think that we would be in a hot tub with
44:17i never thought i would be in this situation ever to say like oh potentially i'm gonna watch
44:23my boyfriend kiss someone else
44:32if this all goes right i really think it would be an incredible thing for us but if it does go wrong
44:40is it something i'd be able to get over
44:48next time on open house i loved last night it was incredible i do see that as threatening
45:00we've had issues in the past opening up the relationship and tom really struggled my dick
45:05doesn't grow basically my dick literally does not grow i don't want to pressure him
45:09however i don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life
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