- 2 weeks ago
- #showmoviestv
Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 5
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S03 E05
#OpenHouseTheGreatSexExperiment
#ShowMoviesTV
🎞 Please join
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S03 E05
#OpenHouseTheGreatSexExperiment
#ShowMoviesTV
🎞 Please join
Category
🎥
Short filmTranscript
00:00Okay, now I'm getting bugs.
00:02En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:10It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:16Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:20We've known each other for 16 years.
00:22Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:28Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:34Look at that rock on your finger.
00:36She just makes me basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:40The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:45I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:50Tom fully understands what I'm like and to be honest, joins me.
00:55Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
00:59The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:06I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:12We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:17Hmm. Yeah.
01:19I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:26Here they go!
01:36With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:44How you guys doing, alright?
01:46Hey!
01:47A good-looking couple.
01:48Yeah.
01:49You look lovely.
01:50Very lovely.
01:51Hi, guys.
01:52You alright?
01:53Hey!
01:54Come on, I love your shirt.
01:55It almost matches.
01:56Yeah, these guys look fit.
01:57One girl, bit of you.
01:59I'm excited, but nervous.
02:00Oh, I'm nervous now.
02:01Yeah.
02:02Definitely nervous now.
02:03I'm so excited to be here.
02:04I really am.
02:05I am like, come on.
02:06Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need, it's just a real big push.
02:23Guiding couples on their journey.
02:26Hello, come in.
02:28Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:33Take a seat.
02:34I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:37So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:40I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:44Mm-hmm.
02:45I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:51We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:01Okay.
03:02Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:04I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:07Mm-hmm.
03:09I've basically got hard midway having sex and then it has just gone soft.
03:16When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:19If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong and it's not that, it's not that at all.
03:27And then that's, for me, game over.
03:29I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up.
03:34Mm-hmm.
03:35I can't perform.
03:36And it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:43I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:46Yeah, it's been a couple of times, there's been in the past even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:51I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:55When you've attempted to open up for other women, what is the story in your head?
04:00I can't take the top off.
04:02I absolutely hate looking, looking at myself in the head.
04:05Mm-hmm.
04:06I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:09When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
04:14Then Tom got his heart diagnosis and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom.
04:20It was terrifying.
04:21The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:28It was so, so scary.
04:31He got really down.
04:32He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:35Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself,
04:40and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:46You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:49Yeah, definitely.
04:50Definitely.
04:51Yeah.
04:52It's like you're not going to get a hard on, because you're not, you might be mentally aroused,
04:56but you're not physically aroused.
04:59Hey, you're okay?
05:00Yeah, I'm good.
05:01I wasn't expecting that.
05:02Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:14The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:20So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right?
05:27Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up,
05:33which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:35And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:40It's what I want as well.
05:42Lauren, what do you want to achieve?
05:45What would be your ideal situation?
05:47I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap.
05:51And also, I've never had more than two men at once.
05:54And it's always been a fantasy of mine.
05:57And the same for women as well.
05:59But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:04Sure, yeah, no, exactly.
06:05Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things.
06:09Starting with a good old party.
06:11Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:13Once you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right, I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people
06:20and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:26This is about sensuality.
06:28That's about cuddles and touches.
06:31I want you to focus on one person.
06:35And I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:42Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:50And then, be open to things escalating.
06:56That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
06:59When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight sex.
07:03Yeah.
07:04Right.
07:05Right, okay.
07:06It sounds really exciting.
07:07Beautiful.
07:08Yeah.
07:09And so, the side difference is a smiley little kissing, this one womanác will be too boundary,
07:16although I'm saying the eHEA Hills is already very Coburn-K and my wife.
07:18Well, I decided to see the world that you got so far and this person från C, it wasn't okay to answer if you're even going to dieнейait돼.
07:23So, the exercise is to get him into the present feeling what pleasure looks like and be more embodied.
07:29If you can think about yourself that he wallet doesn't need a hard penis, um, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:34one will appear I do worry for me and Lauren because if I can't if I can't do
07:44the whole open relationship I feel like we go a separate ways I'm hoping it
07:51won't get to that stage previously on open house ultimately why we're here is
08:05to bring in another couple but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another
08:11woman what's at stake is Alana's like feelings and emotions I've been cheated
08:18on quite a lot I've seen women is more of a threat so we kind of want you to face
08:24that threat would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome that
08:32scenario wasn't in my head don't want to do it like I want to leave if this is
08:38gonna work it has to be the right person who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie
08:45she's gorgeous would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us if
08:51it does go wrong is it something I'd be able to get over I did not think this is
09:05where we're gonna be on like our first night and you are this would have
09:09literally been my worst nightmare really if someone was like how would you feel
09:12I'm not doing this I'll be like no you we didn't think that would it be in a hot tub
09:16with me how would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss
09:24how do you feel I'm okay yeah in that moment watching Alex and Georgie kiss I thought oh no
09:45how did that make you feel like fine I was like yeah look always bit turned on by it
10:13I really want you on me can I like can I like you on me I can't believe this are you proud of me
10:22yeah like what the hell yeah I've never seen Alana kiss another woman I knew it's part of her life
10:38like long long ago but to see that like reopen that door was such a huge turn on for me to see that
10:45it was like really hot
10:46oh my god
10:48I'm obsessed
10:50stop it
10:51can we just take you home with us
10:54well it all flowed very naturally
10:58yeah
10:59yeah
11:00yeah
11:01yeah
11:02yeah
11:03yeah
11:04yeah
11:05yeah
11:06yeah
11:07yeah
11:08yeah
11:09I honestly don't know what's happening right now feel like this is normal
11:14I think like things are feeling good do you know when I come back to our room
11:24I would love that yeah explore things a little bit more
11:29yeah let's take the next step we'll do baby steps
11:31let's do it
11:32I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in like a single female I thought that would be way too intimidating
11:40I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up
11:45yeah
11:48yeah like this has been insane
11:50honestly I can't believe what like it's such a change
11:53you wouldn't can do anything and now we're inviting
11:57I still have to come back to our room
11:58back to our room
11:59oh my god they're sure sure
12:15I know I did say my ass like eats them
12:18new arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night
12:22oh
12:27they'll be attending a sexy barn dance
12:30where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block
12:35when it comes to opening up
12:40whenever we've dipped our toes into being open
12:43Tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really uncomfortable
12:47they've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience
12:54where the focus is only on foreplay
12:57thank you
12:58what
12:59I look fucking ridiculous
13:00with no pressure to perform the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion
13:06I do foresee hurdles the residents are all very beautiful
13:10the problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious
13:14if I went in there on my own I think I'd probably walk straight back out
13:28how are you guys feeling?
13:29yeah great
13:31shit's good
13:33this is out of my comfort zone
13:49the heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room
13:56so what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them
14:00I feel sick inside I don't think I can
14:02okay so listen there's no pressure that's what we're saying
14:06like let's just give it a really good go this is what we're here for
14:10first to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz
14:13what are you looking for then?
14:15that's the question so for me you need I need that conversation
14:19yeah
14:20and for you it's obviously just about feeling body confident around
14:23yeah I'm a bit yeah
14:24yeah
14:25just lacking in confidence a little bit
14:26yeah
14:27that's understandable you know it's really nerve-cracking
14:31if there's any environment where personality matters more than looks it's this environment
14:35we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey
14:39hello you alright? I'm Tom
14:41how you doing me alright?
14:42how you doing?
14:43I'm Gaze this is my wife Olivia
14:44what's your dynamic?
14:45so we...
14:46that's a big word that is
14:48dynamic
14:49that's my favourite word is that
14:50dynamic
14:51I love it
14:52why did I say we've dabbled in it before
14:53we're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling
14:58you know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared
15:01but when you have that you know responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression of the lifestyle
15:06you want to make it the best
15:08I used to be like really like outgoing going gym seven days
15:12I used to have like the abs and I basically comfort eat and drink and of course I put on the weight now
15:17so
15:18you can just like kiss and you can like you can go down on them and you can touch
15:23and you don't necessarily just have the build up but I think it is the part of mentality
15:27you think you've got to go through that natural process
15:29Olivia and Gaze they made me feel so like it just felt it just felt natural just talking to her
15:36after her confidence boost from Gaze Tom moves on to single resident Aaron
15:41who is no stranger to open conversation
15:45do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience
15:48basically have fun relax and try not my hair down
15:52to a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up
15:56I think the best thing they can do is talk to talk to us you know you've come here for the sex
16:02but don't forget that the sex comes from a person
16:05I'm a single guy I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women
16:09Oh wow! At the same time for two years
16:11Oh wow! That's crazy!
16:12Split 50-50
16:14There'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence
16:18and I'll go and play and I won't even get half
16:21but that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around
16:25Wow! That's, that's how I'm
16:27That's it, this is what we're trying to get through to talk
16:30Speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me to basically say I don't need my penis basically
16:36I've got my hands and I've got my tongue
16:38and I think Lauren really likes them as well
16:40Aaron has given me fanny photos
16:44So I've never had more than two men at once
16:49so my ideal situation would obviously be more men
16:56Fresh from meeting Aaron, Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree
17:04Aaron, because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard
17:08because I feel like he would understand you as well
17:12Yeah, Aaron made me feel really at ease
17:15He, yeah, he was absolutely brilliant
17:20I'm so scared of the rejection, mainly for Tom rather than for me
17:24because is he then going to be really nervous going forward?
17:28That little bit inside that if they say no
17:30It'll feel like shit, yeah, but you know
17:33You just have to wait and see and see what happens
17:36We just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just
17:40Maybe some games, some teasing, some cuddling
17:43If it escalates, escalates
17:44Yeah, sure
17:45If it doesn't, it doesn't
17:46And that doesn't matter
17:47Yeah
17:51Okay guys, I'm not going to say that I'm going to play
17:56It's for me at the moment, I take a lot more to get to that point
18:00I was surprised by Aaron because he said he didn't want to play
18:06Aaron, without being rude, obviously we have to move along
18:09No
18:10Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea
18:12But for me, I don't obviously want to put Tom off even more with this process
18:17It's like rejection
18:19It's like rejection
18:20I'm just, yeah, I'm shocked
18:29Right, move all the things off the bed
18:30Put them all on the, here
18:32In their bedroom, Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie
18:38Are we going to be weird and go, are you okay if we get protection just in case?
18:43Or just have it on the side
18:45They're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap
18:53By having a threesome
18:56I don't know how this is going to go
18:58Seeing Alex being with another woman
19:02With where we are now, look, I'm definitely open to
19:08Just seeing how it goes
19:11But as much as this is a really big step for me
19:14It's also a really big step for him
19:16Because he's going to potentially be with another woman
19:19This is all new and it's starting to feel very real
19:24So my worries going into this
19:26Is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel
19:30I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have
19:32But equally it could not be it
19:39Hello, come here, come here, come in, you all right?
19:42Oh, it's so nice
19:44It would be, it would be devastating if anything went wrong here
19:49For sure
19:52So much better, okay, cool
19:54This is a bit more chill
19:55Yeah, yeah, yeah
19:56Don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum
19:58No, I like that
19:59Let's just pick up when we're left off
20:05The sexual chemistry was insane
20:07The fact that I could, like, just let go of everything and just really enjoy it, like
20:23I never thought that would have happened in this experience
20:27Oh my goodness, yeah, yeah
20:28What's this?
20:29Oh my goodness, yeah, yes
20:30Oh my goodness, yeah, yes
20:31But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.
20:59I think like I was overwhelmed, it was like from zero to a hundred and it caught me off guard
21:15in. Although I was like turned on an idea, I wasn't like turned on. I can't quite match
21:39that right now.
21:49I've had like the best evening.
21:55I love you so much. I loved it. I genuinely loved every minute of that. There wasn't any part
22:19where I thought I feel uncomfortable or like, oh I don't know how I feel about this. Like
22:25I literally loved every single second of that. Did you enjoy it?
22:31I loved seeing you like, enjoy it. Yeah. I loved it.
22:41Oh, do I always seem to get the wet patch?
22:51Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit like overwhelmed by how quickly
22:58it all went. At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:06It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident, Georgie.
23:28You're so quiet. Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened, but I could feel
23:40there was something a little bit off.
23:50What are you thinking about?
23:52I'm just thinking. Processing.
24:00Are you sure you're okay? Yeah.
24:06When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:12I knew Alex was in his head a little bit. Even at home, like he can go a bit quite sometimes.
24:22But today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:30Hello. Come in. Hello.
24:32Take a seat. Take a seat. Get comfy.
24:34Hey, yeah, you all right?
24:36How was last night?
24:38Like, I'm really happy.
24:40Yeah. It just, it felt right.
24:43Beautiful breakthrough.
24:45Absolutely.
24:46I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:53Mm.
24:54She kind of like led it a little bit, which was nice.
24:57Like, I actually enjoyed watching it, which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:04What are you thinking, Alex?
25:06I don't, I don't know.
25:08I don't want to take away because I loved last night.
25:11Sure.
25:12It was just incredible.
25:13But I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:18Yeah, tell me about that.
25:20I don't know, like, I don't think I was, I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like.
25:25Okay.
25:26So that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:27Okay, okay, okay.
25:30The couple thing I definitely want to do, but again, I don't know if I go all the way.
25:33Okay.
25:34So, that's where, I think I was, that's why I've been quiet this morning because I wasn't sure.
25:38For me, there was, like, like, something missing and I don't know what it was.
25:41I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection based, like, when it comes to sex.
25:45Mm, mm, mm.
25:46Like, deep, deeper connections.
25:47Sure.
25:48Intimacy?
25:50Is that what you're seeking?
25:51Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:54I do find it better if there's a connection.
25:58And that's where I am right now.
25:59Like, I'm trying to figure that out.
26:01The thing that I want to understand is, how do you feel about that?
26:10Um, I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:15Sure.
26:16Um, now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:19Like, what if you build, like, this really great connection with someone else that you then feel is, like, better?
26:30That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:33You're okay?
26:34Yeah.
26:35It's okay.
26:36You're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of.
26:39Yeah.
26:40And stuff is coming up.
26:41Like, that's all about that.
26:44So, that's scary to you right now.
26:45So, let's just look at it in the face.
26:46Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:47Let's just, like...
26:48I think it's definitely not, like, deep connection with what I have with you.
26:59It's a lot less than that.
27:01Okay.
27:02It's more familiarization.
27:03Like, you almost want to be friends with that person before it...
27:06Yeah.
27:07Okay.
27:08I've never been, like, a one-night guy, if you know what I mean.
27:11To be fair, like, yeah, even we didn't sleep together, like, straight away.
27:15So, I get that.
27:16I know that's not necessarily, like, how you work.
27:20Mm-hmm.
27:21So, what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:25Like, do you want to have, like, one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:32Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:35Like, what does that look like for you?
27:37We did say, like, it would be nice to have, like, one couple that we're, like, best friends with
27:42and we get on really well with them and, like, play together as well.
27:46So, what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want.
27:54But I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece.
27:58For you to actually go there and start making a connection
28:01and for you to feel like, to figure out what it feels like when it's happening
28:05and spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.
28:07And then, once you feel like you have a connection in place,
28:11then you can escalate things in your own time and take it from there
28:15and you see how it goes for you. How does that sound?
28:17No, that sounds good. You happy? Good.
28:20I'm fine with that. Are you definitely fine?
28:22Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:23Okay.
28:24I think that the biggest thing off my chest was what we've spoken about now.
28:28That was, like, just something I needed to understand.
28:33Thank you. Thank you.
28:34You're welcome. You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:36I'm excited to meet some couples today.
28:46But, um, this moment, I don't know if I can go all the way.
28:51We'll have to see.
28:57We love each other, right? Yeah, we do.
28:59At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident Aaron.
29:16Let your hair down. Let my hair down.
29:22I'm going to make you line dancing.
29:24I am not line dancing. That is not happening.
29:27Oh, my God.
29:39I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.
29:45It's what I used to really enjoy, so I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
29:49When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.
29:58Yeah.
29:59And, like, the fact that he was just busting out the robot and, like, just having so much fun with it.
30:02And I was like, let's do this, let's do that.
30:04And he was just like, yeah, let's do it. It's the last.
30:12I'm buzzing. I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.
30:15He's so relaxed now.
30:24Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective, finding residence for a sensual after-party.
30:31I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:33So I think it's a lot more easier to invite people and to see if they say yes or no.
30:37Can you lead the way?
30:45Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are. I'll be at the bar.
30:46I wasn't expecting that.
30:47I wasn't expecting that.
30:48I wasn't expecting that.
30:49I wasn't expecting that.
30:50I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a no.
30:51As Tom's confidence grows.
30:53And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
30:54Yeah.
30:55Do you guys have enjoyed yourself?
30:56Yeah.
30:57But it was basically, we were just wondering if you would like to be, like, come back
31:03with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:07Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are. I'll be at the bar.
31:11I wasn't expecting that. I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a note.
31:17As Tom's confidence grows.
31:19And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
31:22Yeah.
31:22Yeah.
31:23Yeah.
31:24Oh, wow.
31:24Yeah, I've really done.
31:25So does the after-party.
31:28Wondering if you want to come.
31:31I love that. That's quick. That's so easy. Thank you.
31:34And the guest list swells to five.
31:38We were pleasantly surprised.
31:40And it actually feels kind of, like, nice, like, feeling...
31:43I know it sounds weird, but wanted.
31:46I would say I'm definitely attracted to him, for sure.
31:50They're a vibe, 100%.
31:51I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.
31:56Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet,
32:00as the five residents will be joining them
32:02to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety
32:06and successfully open up.
32:10We're basically...
32:12We'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.
32:16I'm not promising anything.
32:18I've still got them hurdles.
32:19I've still got them body confidence and all that.
32:22The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.
32:26Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up,
32:42Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples.
32:45Oh, this looks so cute.
32:51We're just looking for, like, good vibes.
32:54Obviously, going into the couple scenario,
32:56it's slightly different because it's...
32:58Both of us have got to have an attraction
33:00to two different people then.
33:04We'll see, you know, if it's the right people,
33:06then it'll be there.
33:07We'll see, you know, if it's the right people who want to get to know them.
33:10We'll see, you know, if it's the right people who want to get to know them.
33:12Hello.
33:13How's the home fire? I'm Joe.
33:14Joe, love to meet you.
33:15How are you doing? How are you doing?
33:16How's it going?
33:17How's it going?
33:17Just on the walk in?
33:18Literally on the walk in.
33:19Both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them, don't we?
33:23Yeah, they're definitely good looking.
33:24They're super hot.
33:25Who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then?
33:29I think coming here might have been more me.
33:31So did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady?
33:36What were you initially looking for?
33:39Connections with couples.
33:40Yeah.
33:40Is where we were looking at.
33:41The hardest part was obviously for me to kind of get over, like,
33:45insecurities with having another female, like, being physical
33:49and, like, smash that on the first note.
33:52So we're like, yay!
33:53Yeah.
33:56One thing I'd say is, oh, I'll do three steps as easiest.
33:59You guys have actually done probably one of the harder things.
34:01Like, corsems are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do.
34:07Hi, I'm Alana.
34:08Hi, Alana.
34:09Lovely to meet you.
34:12So tonight?
34:13Today?
34:14Tonight?
34:14You're looking for a couple swap?
34:16Yeah.
34:17Just trying to, like, find our way into it now.
34:19It's definitely been a space that's just finding our, like, place.
34:22Big thing letting someone else into your relationship.
34:25But it's nice because, like you say, everyone's, like, scenarios are different.
34:31Well, it's about you guys.
34:32That's the thing.
34:32It's like, you're not here to please someone else.
34:35Yeah.
34:35It's what's best for you.
34:37I didn't know how I was going to feel about it.
34:39Yeah.
34:40But actually, like, I shocked everyone and ended up being absolutely fine with it.
34:46Alex and Alana were quite attractive, actually.
34:49There was definitely a vibe there.
34:51I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us.
35:00Can I go with you a chat?
35:01Yes.
35:02How do you find it?
35:16Um, like, it's been nice to speak to couples today.
35:21Like, obviously, that was what we wanted to do.
35:24For me, I feel like, um, Jem and Daz, I feel like they would be, like, a really great couple to get to know.
35:31I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us.
35:35How are you feeling?
35:36Is there anyone that you felt like might have had a connection with?
35:44I've, like, um, honestly, at the moment, I just don't know right now if I can go any further.
36:01Okay.
36:01Like, how do you, how are you feeling about that?
36:06Um, yeah, like, I'm a little bit surprised.
36:11Um, what is it that's making you feel that way?
36:15Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:20Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon?
36:25Like, it's just got a bit overwhelming.
36:30Mate, I don't know, like, it's more of a me thing this now.
36:38Like, for now, that's as far as I can go.
36:42You've hit, like, a bit of a wall with it.
36:44Yeah.
36:45Okay.
36:46I do want to revisit this.
36:50Okay.
36:52Okay.
36:54That makes me happy.
37:05With Alex unable to continue, the couple's stay at the retreat has come to an end.
37:12Going forward, I do think opening up the relationship is for me and Alana, but it's going to take time.
37:24It will take more time for me.
37:25Um, I don't know, I feel, like, emotional now.
37:49I could...
37:50What's that?
37:52I don't know.
37:53I don't, it's just the whole thing's, like, just very overwhelming, isn't it?
37:58Like, I don't know, because I don't, like, I don't know what to say.
38:09It's just, like, a very emotional few days, isn't it?
38:12The future will, at some point, be a full open relationship, but at the moment, it's baby steps still.
38:25My house.
38:26It's just been a very overwhelming process, but, um, I don't want to keep crying, but, like, I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:38Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought.
38:42Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it.
38:47It's not easy, but, like, we've absolutely got the ability to do it.
38:55I absolutely love you to pieces, and I'm happy and glad, and I love you so much.
39:00I love you so much.
39:12Just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it, however, if you hadn't, then why is everyone saying yes?
39:19Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom.
39:25Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff, it doesn't mean, like, you know, they see me and go, actually, no, what the fuck is that?
39:34It's what goes to my head.
39:35I know.
39:37So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time.
39:41Okay?
39:42Yeah.
39:43No pressure.
39:45They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay, Tom will manage to get an erection.
39:51A stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up.
39:55I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about, um, for, for my dick not to hug.
40:13Oh, hi!
40:14Oh, hello!
40:15Look at me!
40:16Look at me!
40:17Look at me!
40:18Look at me!
40:19Look at me!
40:20Look at me!
40:21Look at me!
40:22Isn't it?
40:23Yeah!
40:24Yeah!
40:25Fuck it!
40:28Yeah, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:30Uh, I'm feeling shocked, to be fair.
40:32My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable, because I will get naked and
40:38run around.
40:39Like, I am the complete opposite of Tom.
40:41I know I want to be open and I'm not planning on changing that.
40:49I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle and it's Tom that is.
40:54Should we, should we, should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy, guys?
40:56Oh, yeah!
40:57Let's do it!
40:58Let's do it!
40:59Let's do it!
41:00Let's do it!
41:01Let's do it!
41:02Let's do it!
41:03Put a blindfold on, man.
41:04Nice, nice, nice.
41:05Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid?
41:08Yeah.
41:09It's basically just taking a top of her.
41:10Yeah.
41:11It feels weird that I can't see you.
41:15I definitely want to make Lauren happy.
41:19We'll try anything.
41:20Like, jump this hurdle, basically.
41:23But, once it's in my head, I can't afford.
41:26I freeze.
41:27Once I'm in that rut, I can't get out of the rut.
41:30How are you feeling, mate?
41:32It's weird, but...
41:34You're getting worshipped.
41:35You're getting all the attention.
41:37This is my favourite thing.
41:41Despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay, Tom lets the ladies lead.
41:48I'm just at a step, but it gets a bit too overwhelming.
41:53It was putting shivers down my spine.
42:06I could feel everything.
42:16I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
42:24Next time on Open House...
42:26Are you ready for the next level?
42:31I feel absolutely petrified.
42:34Yeah.
42:36Is it okay to kiss?
42:39It's two guys.
42:40Back in the dirt.
42:42I have identified as gay.
42:45Today, I don't know.
42:47I've been feeling very naughty.
42:50Never had any experience with gay men before.
42:55The worst case now would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting.
43:00This is out of my comfort area for sure.
43:02This is out of my comfort area for sure.
43:04Alright, buddy.
43:05See you, I'm close for the next level.
43:06First time, it is a big deal.
43:07I'm not expecting a good deal.
43:08Thanks!
43:09I'm feeling...
43:10Give me a good deal.
43:11I'm sorry.
43:12I'm sure I am sorry.
43:13I'm feeling good, right?
43:14I'm feeling good.
43:15I'm feeling good.
43:16I'm feeling good.
43:17I'm feeling good.
43:18I'm feeling good.
43:19I'm feeling good.
Be the first to comment