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Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 1 Episode 5
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00:00It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:03These curious couples are about to find out.
00:06Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:08They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:10Hello, you all right?
00:12Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:16Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:21And a group of single, available, and sexually liberated residents...
00:26It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:31They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:35Oh, jeez!
00:37...can become a reality.
00:39We like the idea of group sex.
00:42We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
00:44And whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos...
00:49I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.
00:54...and have sex with other people.
00:58Oh, my God!
01:00Wow, I was not expecting that.
01:03This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:14Already staying at the retreat, a married couple, Jasmine and Al, from Surrey...
01:19Wow. Get me my Hugh Hefner red robe and a cognac.
01:22They were looking to open up their relationship to spice up their sex lives.
01:27What's the temperature like?
01:28Hot.
01:29Be hotter when I get in there.
01:30But on their date so far, Jasmine's been a little less comfortable with the idea of dating other men...
01:36I guess you're going. What makes you horny?
01:38...while Al's decided to get closer to three other women.
01:42That's dessert right there.
01:44Good stuff, kids. Love it.
01:46You like massages, so I can imagine you like being kissed all over.
01:50Jasmine and Al have been on separate dates for the past hour.
01:54I feel like I'm looking in from outside, my whole situation.
01:59What does that look like?
02:01This is the first time they've been intimate with anyone else since they met eight years ago.
02:06All I know is that...
02:07He needs more Jasmine.
02:08...grace is here and Precious is here.
02:10Yeah.
02:10And there's something else coming out.
02:12Self-confessed prude, Jasmine, is finding it difficult to open up.
02:18Do you like kissing down the neck?
02:21Do you like the earlobe, the butt bitten?
02:24Yes.
02:24Yeah.
02:25All of those things.
02:26I very much enjoy them, yes?
02:28What if I carry on going down your stomach?
02:30Well...
02:30And I run my fingers down there.
02:33Yeah?
02:34Okay.
02:35So that's what turns you on.
02:36I think we've discovered that.
02:38It's a nice thought because I fucking enjoyed it.
02:40Jesus Christ.
02:41Painting that picture, thinking about that.
02:43It was hard for me to be able to detail that and not actually throw this table across the room
02:48and just take action with that.
02:51This is wonderful.
02:52When you look as gorgeous as you, how is that not possible?
02:56Goodness.
02:57It's all so new and weird, this whole thing, that I've really pushed my personal boundaries.
03:07I'm obviously quite prude and British in my whole hour.
03:13So, my nan originally lived in Buxton, as she moved down to Maidstone.
03:18Over in Al's yurt.
03:20My nan used to always come round, bless her heart, every Friday and give her sweets.
03:25That was just her thing.
03:26No matter how old we were, she used to come round.
03:28Things have taken an unexpected turn.
03:32So, on my mum's side, she's not exactly exciting, but my...
03:37Do you know what?
03:38Sorry, I need to laugh.
03:39This is a really nice chat and I love stories like this, learning about your family.
03:42We're all sat here in sexy lingerie, learning about your family.
03:46Sorry.
03:47No, I find it interesting, though.
03:49Al has Jasmine on his mind.
03:52Being away, being apart from her isn't good.
03:55Even now, I'm having a great time with you girls.
03:59100%.
04:00But I miss my wife.
04:01Cheers.
04:01She's your ride or die.
04:03Yeah, she's your baby.
04:04She's your ride or die.
04:05She's your baby.
04:05She's your main, main girl.
04:07Yeah.
04:09Both Al and Jasmine decide to call it a night.
04:12Oh, thank you.
04:16You had the best time, literally.
04:17You're just...
04:18You're lovely.
04:18You're such a gentleman.
04:22Thank you so much for the greatest night.
04:25As lovely as Josh is and everything, just no-one compares to Al.
04:29I just absolutely love him so much.
04:31He's the best.
04:32I've had a great night.
04:33I hope the girls have had a great night, but it's been a long day and it's time to go back to my wife.
04:42The next morning, Jasmine and Al are due a session with Dr. Laurie.
05:02Did you get any compliments about how you looked?
05:04Cool, I look at you.
05:06You're all fit.
05:07Some of them?
05:08Well, I would love to be my mum, but I'd definitely do you a favour.
05:17Last night was brilliant fun.
05:18Nothing last night was seedy.
05:20It didn't feel wrong because it was done in good, light-hearted fun.
05:25It was good.
05:25We had a good time.
05:26No, I don't want my wife.
05:28I just wanted to go on the stag.
05:29We had a really fun time.
05:31I definitely felt like I was really having to force myself to cover a lot of the topics that he wanted to cover because I'd never naturally talk to people about certain things.
05:41So, yes, I was certainly pushing my boundaries.
05:43But I think that's part of the experience and the journey.
05:47It is just so wild for me.
05:50My desire is driven solely by just purely being a Neanderthal.
05:58Right.
05:59Let's go.
06:04After an eventful 24 hours at the retreat, Dr. Laurie is keen to have a debrief with the couple.
06:11Hi.
06:12Hiya.
06:12Hi, all right?
06:13Yeah, make yourselves comfy.
06:16Did you have fun last night?
06:18Yeah, just that laugh.
06:19What did you do, Al?
06:21Ended up going back to a yurt with three of the ladies.
06:25With three of them?
06:26Not from a sexual point of view, but from an easier point of view.
06:30It was nice.
06:31It was more light-hearted, more fun.
06:33So, you had the three of them, and you were the center of attention?
06:37Yes.
06:38Well, I think that there was goodbyes between all of them, to be honest.
06:42Jazz, what did you get up to?
06:43So, I chose Josh.
06:45So, we went in the teepee, and we had some drinks and a little bit of something to eat, and really just chatted.
06:52What was it like having that kind of time with somebody else?
06:55Absolutely bizarre.
06:56I felt like I was breaking the law.
06:58I felt like a criminal.
06:59You felt like a criminal.
07:01So, what came up?
07:02Obviously, the whole setup is around kind of romance and lust and all of that kind of thing.
07:07And it's all just very, very alien for me.
07:10And the fact I was sitting down in this situation with someone that wasn't Al was just completely terrifying.
07:16Well, that's one thing I really learned about yesterday, that if anything going forward with this, that it would be as a unit.
07:23I want to hang out all together.
07:25So, you would love to have a situation where there was a threesome, where it was you and Jazz doing something together.
07:33That would be the only goal at this current time that I would seek.
07:39How would you feel about fulfilling his fantasy?
07:42I'm sure it's a very prompt fantasy.
07:44So, you have the opportunity to fulfill it in a controlled environment where you have more of a choice, where it's safe versus out in the wild.
07:55Well, it's still very extreme.
07:59Going from being very traditional to actually being offered the opportunity to road test that kind of thing.
08:05It's like, oh my goodness.
08:07So, do you talk about your desires with each other?
08:10I mean, I'll always say things in passing and joking about.
08:15In terms of really, really improving your relationship, you can do an awful lot just talking about the fantasies, let alone acting on them.
08:26Which means you've got to be able to talk about sex without laughing.
08:31She's laughing because it's uncomfortable.
08:33A defence mechanism.
08:34No, it's a release of anxiety.
08:37It's a very strange topic to be talking about for me.
08:41Sex.
08:42Yes.
08:43Right.
08:44I think this whole thing's just highlighted to me how very prudent and British I am.
08:49Okay, that would be a topic I would expect married couples to talk about.
08:53You need to learn how to talk about sex with each other.
08:56Or you will have problems later.
09:00All right, cheers.
09:01Bye.
09:01See you later.
09:02Bye.
09:02Bye.
09:04Bye.
09:06The session was quite interesting.
09:09The dangers of not talking about sex, especially when there's a difference in libido, is that somebody goes and acts on their desires at some point.
09:17You know, that is the recipe for affairs.
09:21So, what would you like from me to enhance our love life?
09:27I suppose it's like any couple, isn't it?
09:30Go back to what it was like at the beginning.
09:31We did used to go out and come back and want to be sexy, but now you've probably just come back and put on something with a care bear on it or something.
09:40That's a buzzkill.
09:41Yes, I need to up my fashion game.
09:43Do I need to get more bulky for you?
09:46No.
09:46Do you want me to six pack it up?
09:47No.
09:48I love you the way you are, darling.
09:50Tonight, Jasmine and Al will have the opportunity to invite a potential sexual partner for some private time as a couple.
09:58Even if we were to explore your fantasy.
10:01Explore my fantasy.
10:03Bring in another female for an evening of your choice.
10:06You actually have exquisite choice in women.
10:09You really do.
10:10For me, going on dates with other men, I just completely ruled it out.
10:14I mean, it's just no way.
10:17Obviously, Al's red-blooded male, so other women are of great interest.
10:22But I still don't want to do anything you wouldn't be up for, so.
10:26Well, I think that we have the opportunity to take part in activities.
10:31Just hang out with just one other girl.
10:33Just see how it feels.
10:34Just to see how it feels.
10:35It would be good to see how you react on a very, on a very, on a very, on a very, on a fun, light-hearted level.
10:42We won't know until we dip our toe in the water, so here we go.
10:55How are you feeling?
10:57Um, I'm curious.
11:00I'm just, just in eagerly anticipated, um, wait, to be honest.
11:04The next couple due to check in to this unique retreat are L'Oreal and Khalid from London.
11:09I tell my friends, everyone needs a Khalid in there.
11:13He keeps me chill.
11:15And she keeps me looking fly.
11:17They have been in a loving, monogamous relationship for two years.
11:21Favorite thing about Khalid is his face.
11:23Like, I love grabbing his face.
11:25I love looking at him.
11:26Like, it's got good.
11:28And their sights are firmly set on the long term.
11:33I see me and Khalid together forever, yeah.
11:35Like, this is endgame.
11:37Our relationship for 50 years' time, well, she's going to be a granny.
11:41I'm going to be a granddad.
11:43This could potentially strengthen our relationship.
11:45This is mad.
11:47L'Oreal and Khalid work hard to keep things fresh in the bedroom.
11:51When it comes to being the kinkiest and, like, bringing that freak side out of me, Khalid has done that, yeah.
11:57Sometimes, you know, when they doubt the plus-size guys, but we can come through, you know?
12:02We can actually come through.
12:03But they want to find out if opening their relationship and having sex with other people will improve their chances of staying together for life.
12:15Nice to meet you.
12:16I'm going to give you a hug.
12:17Hello.
12:17It's only been two years with us, so we're still in the early stages.
12:21Are you excited?
12:22Yeah.
12:23Can't wait.
12:24Curious.
12:25I feel like it will spice it up 100%.
12:27Here to welcome them are host couple Tom and Jess, both veterans of open relationships.
12:34I think the first time that you imagine your partner, like, with somebody else, like, that's tough, right?
12:39Yeah.
12:40Hey, what's up, man?
12:41What are you saying?
12:42You all right?
12:43Oh, you guys are beautiful.
12:44Hey, nice to meet you, man.
12:44I'm sorry.
12:45There's so much work to get there, but once you're there, it is so much fun.
12:50I would never go back to monogamy.
12:52None.
12:52I'm glad that we agree on that.
12:55Hi.
12:55Oh, God, you look so good.
12:57Nice to meet you.
12:58Nice to meet you.
12:59As we've come in, like, I felt like a bit of a nurse, and then as soon as I started speaking
13:03to everyone, just, I was like, yeah, I'm actually looking forward to this.
13:06I can't wait.
13:07Excited.
13:09Oh, I'm loving this.
13:10Yeah.
13:11Yeah.
13:11Married couple Jasmine and Al are getting ready for a special date.
13:30I'm getting really hot again.
13:32I think it's the anxiety.
13:34They're going to explore Al's fantasy of a threesome.
13:37We are going on a date with another lady.
13:41A first for us.
13:43It's to explore, get better, grow.
13:46We're looking forward to it.
13:47It's going to be a new adventure, and let's see how it rolls.
13:51Jasmine has been more reserved at the retreat so far, but is starting to warm to the idea
13:57of experimenting with another woman.
14:00I'm very intrigued to try something completely new.
14:04I think fundamentally variety is the spice of life, and introducing new factors like this
14:09can be really helpful and beneficial to both parties.
14:13So, it's embracing it.
14:15The couple have invited one of the women Al dated last night, Resident Grace, to spend
14:21some time alone with them.
14:23I'm very excited they picked me.
14:24I can definitely bring a lot to the party.
14:26I'm a natural helper.
14:28People probably do look at me and think she's really experienced.
14:31I just want to have a party.
14:32I want to have fun.
14:34Hey.
14:35Hi, guys.
14:36How are you?
14:36I'm good.
14:37How are you?
14:38Come here.
14:38Come here.
14:38Come in.
14:40Night number two.
14:41Bring it.
14:42No.
14:44I'm good.
14:45Boom.
14:46There we go.
14:47First pop of the night.
14:47Hey.
14:50Your body looks insane.
14:54Have you ever been with another woman?
14:56No, never.
14:57No.
14:58No.
14:58Well.
14:59Thanks for inviting me in.
15:01Al wastes no time in pulling out the erotic games.
15:05Come on, ladies.
15:06Come and join me for some naughty dice.
15:08This is your crash course, darling.
15:10Okay, darling.
15:10Lick lips.
15:17So, are we all going to end up with your red lips to cut out?
15:20No, you're sorry.
15:21It sounds a bit like that.
15:22Inviting another woman in sexually is a first for Jasmine and Al.
15:26So, who's licking whose lips first?
15:28Grace, you sound very experienced like you've done this before.
15:31You do this to me first and then I'll know what to do.
15:33Okay, cool.
15:35Grace seems really cool and fun and she's very beautiful.
15:38So, nervous excitement and apprehension.
15:41Married couple Jasmine and Al are sexually experimenting with a woman for the very first time.
16:01Lick the bottom lip.
16:02You can choose upper lip or bottom lip.
16:04And now you've got to do it to me.
16:13It's quite nice, actually.
16:16Al's fantasy of a threesome seems to be turning into reality.
16:21Lick nipple.
16:22Lick nipple.
16:22Lick nipple.
16:23Lick nipple?
16:24Lick whipped cream off each of his nipples.
16:27Done.
16:28I'm the chef, ladies.
16:31Don't be shy.
16:33Oh, yes.
16:34Lick nipple.
16:34Yay!
16:40It's a lot of green.
16:43Was that fun?
16:45Being a judge?
16:45You're turned up.
16:52Definitely action.
16:55Very nice nipples.
16:57Oh, thank you.
16:58Literally, honestly, I kid you not.
16:59You have perfect tips.
17:00The most amazing you have ever seen.
17:04Jasmine seems to be letting go of her inhibitions.
17:08See if that happens.
17:10Boob massage.
17:11Oh, Christ.
17:12Do you want to do it both at the same time?
17:14I think so.
17:14Do you want to do one boob each?
17:15I think so.
17:16Right.
17:17Off you go.
17:18It's like a kitten in a sweet shop.
17:20And Al soon has his hands full.
17:29How's your boob massage?
17:30Lovely boob massage.
17:31Yeah.
17:32I really enjoy it.
17:32I'm very relaxed.
17:33Great tits.
17:34Both of you.
17:35Thanks.
17:35Thank you, darling.
17:36Thank you for the boob massage.
17:38It was lovely.
17:40That was good.
17:41This is all so wild.
17:45Getting a flavour of non-monogamy.
17:50Butt massage.
17:51I do enjoy a butt massage.
17:53Really?
17:53I've never had one.
17:59It's lovely.
18:00Very, very, very nice.
18:01Very close to other things.
18:05What's great about you both is you both are fantastic in different ways.
18:09It's nice.
18:09Really nice.
18:11I'm very glad to see that.
18:14Variety is the spice of life.
18:16Exactly.
18:19It was amazing.
18:20I feel re-energised.
18:21Lovely.
18:22Lovely.
18:23It's a first for me.
18:25Having a taster of it with Grace actually made me think maybe it is something we could have fun with.
18:29You're a dark horse.
18:30That's what I think.
18:31Slow burner.
18:31I can see it in you.
18:33Like, she's so fun.
18:35And I can tell you.
18:36I feel like you're a wild card.
18:39You're just waiting for her cherry to pop.
18:41It's already popped.
18:42For the second time.
18:47Also hoping to make their first foray into opening up their relationship are L'Oreal and Khalid.
18:54Hey, come on in.
18:55And Dr. Laurie is keen to make sure their experience here is a positive one.
19:00How have you settled in?
19:02Good.
19:02Everyone's been so lovely, so nice and welcoming.
19:06So what is it you would like to get out of this experience?
19:09Being in a non-monogamous relationship.
19:11I think that's something that me and Khalid both haven't done before.
19:14So we're going into this, like, you know, being very, like, open-minded about this.
19:19It'll be good to try out new things with new people.
19:22And kinky activities.
19:24Putting, like, blindfolds.
19:25Just the equipments and the props and stuff.
19:27So kink and BDSM, that's an area of interest for you?
19:30Yeah.
19:31And so would you be looking for a partner who had more experience to show you the ropes or explain things or possibly do things with you?
19:41Yeah, I feel like, because we're both, in that sense, unexperienced, I feel like if there was someone that had a bit more experience with that, I think that would, like, help lead the way for us a bit.
19:50Yeah.
19:50Okay.
19:51100%.
19:51How jealous are you guys?
19:54In the first six months, I think that was a real big challenge for me.
19:58But I feel like as time went on, trust is a lot more solid.
20:01I get pretty jealous.
20:02Yeah, no, 100%.
20:04But I think that's just, like, a previous, like, history of, like, my trust with other people.
20:11Do you have specific past traumas?
20:15Before Khalid, I just felt like I was given and not, like, receiving the same.
20:20It did make me think, like, is it something to do with me kind of thing.
20:24So that's where you went.
20:26Is this something to do with me?
20:27Am I not good enough?
20:28That's really hard.
20:30But that's where we usually go with these things.
20:35It's emotional, isn't it?
20:38Yeah.
20:42Okay.
20:43It's a scary feeling and a scary thought when you're not feeling completely confident in yourself.
20:48Oh, you're special, man.
20:50She's amazing.
20:51It's just you for the world.
20:53Love you.
20:54When you were growing up, did you get told that you were pretty, that you were intelligent,
21:00that you were good enough, that you were loved?
21:02It probably did start off, like, in school.
21:04People did the names and stuff, and it's like, you know, by, like, my lips and appearances
21:10and stuff like that, that definitely held with me.
21:15Yeah.
21:16For so many years, I've been holding that in, and I just let it all out.
21:21Like, me going back into school and how I felt then and so much things that I didn't know
21:26that was there on the surface that I just wanted to let out.
21:29You need to be able to look in the mirror and to love your features the way they are.
21:35Yeah.
21:37I often see couples wanting to open up their relationship and have sex with lots of people
21:41as a means of validating themselves or feeling good enough where they haven't felt good enough before.
21:48This isn't necessarily the best starting off point for consensual non-monogamy,
21:54and in these cases, you have to tread very carefully.
21:57So the work that you have to do now is in building yourself up.
22:01You are beautiful, and if you're going to do this, you really have to start believing that.
22:06Dr. Laurie has come up with a bespoke plan to ease the couple into their sexual adventure.
22:12So you're going to actually go on a social together so that you have each other's support,
22:16because I think that will make it a bit easier.
22:18Then you'll go on dates separately.
22:20Do as much or as little as you want to do.
22:23Consent is the key to consensual non-monogamy.
22:26How are you guys feeling now?
22:28Yeah, I feel good.
22:29It was nice that she opened up.
22:30I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulder.
22:32Brilliant.
22:34This is your room.
22:36Hello, right?
22:37This is amazing.
22:39Wow.
22:39Anything that you need from us.
22:41So if you have any questions or any emotions that pop up, just give us a call.
22:45I'm looking forward to going in, speaking to people, seeing how it's going to make me feel
22:50like actually getting into it.
22:51Make yourselves at home.
22:52Oh, thank you.
22:53I'm so excited for you both.
22:55I've eaten your mug before.
22:57As long as we know that we trust each other, we have a belief in what we actually want to
23:01do with each other, I think things like this would be a good experiment.
23:04So you know what this feels like?
23:05Romeo and Juliet.
23:16This is nice, right?
23:17That's a very good vibe.
23:18Very, very, very good vibe.
23:21L'Oreal and Khalid are getting ready for a social where they'll meet the retreat's
23:25sexually open residence.
23:27Yeah, your bum's just jiggling.
23:28It's going to jiggle, jiggle, jiggle, jiggle, jiggle.
23:30Dr. Lorry wants them to agree a set of ground rules.
23:34Okay, so let's go over the boundaries again.
23:36To sidestep any potential problems further down the line.
23:40When we go out there, you've got to get to know someone and have a good bond first before
23:45even thinking of trying to have sex.
23:48Exactly.
23:48Touching and stuff of guys from your side, I wouldn't mind too much.
23:54Yeah, with the kissing as well, I know it was a bit crazy, but then again, I wouldn't mind.
23:59As much as we both say, like, we could go in and things would be completely different.
24:06Yeah.
24:06One thing I do feel is sexy.
24:09The couple will arrive together, but we'll both be aiming to make enough of a connection
24:13to invite a resident on a separate romantic date.
24:17Hey, you're looking dapper.
24:19Yeah, I'm excited for tonight.
24:21We're going into a party full of hot singles.
24:23I don't know if there is people out there that would appreciate your looks, your personality.
24:28Come in, let's go.
24:30I'm going to just bring the vibe if the vibe's not already there.
24:32Yeah.
24:33Where the vibes?
24:34Yeah, where the vibes.
24:35This is a gathering unlike any other.
24:40Hey.
24:42Come on.
24:43Good evening.
24:43Come on.
24:44Smooth, the vibe.
24:46Each one of tonight's sexually liberated guests is keen to find out what the newcomers can
24:52bring to the party.
24:54You look really good.
24:56You're in an environment where you can speak about anything.
24:59Yeah.
25:00You guys look lovely, though.
25:01You look really nice.
25:02Like your shoes, you look cute.
25:03Oh, thank you.
25:04Outfits.
25:04No, I'm trying.
25:05We're trying.
25:07Eyes broken, L'Oreal and Khalid split.
25:11Hey, gorgeous.
25:11I'm going to take you somewhere else.
25:13Yeah, this way.
25:14See you later.
25:15Bye.
25:15They'll socialize with the residents separately to see if they can establish any connections.
25:21Please take care of her very well, okay?
25:24Will do.
25:24Nice to meet you.
25:25I'm looking for all of you.
25:27L'Oreal, what's the way I say?
25:28Is it L'Oreal?
25:28L'Oreal, yeah.
25:29I like the brand new.
25:30Yeah, I love it.
25:30For L'Oreal, that means having the confidence to open up.
25:35Is there things that you haven't done before that you really want to do?
25:38I haven't used toys before.
25:40You've never used toys.
25:41You've never used toys.
25:43Oh, my goodness.
25:44Speaking about sex and things that I like and what's my turn-ons and fantasies, that I wouldn't do back home.
25:51So it's learning that, you know, it's okay, like, to speak about sex and things you like.
25:56I don't know if people find this, but like the chat during sex, like, mm, it's about me that,
26:00like, all of that, like...
26:01Spock me daddy.
26:01Yeah, like, all of that.
26:02Spock me daddy.
26:02Is that what you say?
26:03Say it for us, give us a quick line, go on.
26:04Mm, spock me daddy.
26:05Whisper that in my ear, quickly.
26:06Just come out, just come out on its own.
26:09Spock me daddy.
26:10I can get on by the way.
26:11Yeah?
26:12I think L'Oreal seems very confident.
26:14She seems like a cool girl.
26:15I'd like to get to know a bit more.
26:16No, I've started giving the girls, like...
26:18L'Oreal isn't the only one enjoying the sexual chat with the residents.
26:22What's your favourite position?
26:23I think you and Lorena should demonstrate.
26:27Reverse cowgirl, 100%.
26:29Yeah.
26:30Leg pon shoulder.
26:31Yeah.
26:32Leg pon shoulder is a great one, doesn't it?
26:33Yeah.
26:34Are you that flexible?
26:35Yeah.
26:36No, you just put it back, you know?
26:38You'll find out then, innit?
26:40You'll just know then.
26:42While Khaled has never been in an open relationship, he has had sex with more than one person.
26:47This is separate to L'Oreal.
26:49This is way before.
26:50So you've had threesomes before?
26:51We had vibes on that, yeah.
26:52What, like two guys and one girl?
26:54No, two girls.
26:55Yes, ma'am.
26:56That's his pussy.
26:57Yes, ma'am.
26:58It's a vibe, man.
26:59It's a vibe.
27:00Cheers to that.
27:02Wow, it's amazing.
27:03This party is phenomenal.
27:05I met new people, good vibes.
27:07I found out the type of kinkiness people actually have, which is kind of amazing.
27:12I would like to feel that I can have sex with someone that I can literally, like, breakfast
27:16in the morning.
27:17Yeah, yeah.
27:18Khaled and L'Oreal are amazing.
27:20As soon as they walked in, everyone had a smile on their face.
27:23They look so cute together, so, yeah.
27:26They're gonna have a great time, for sure.
27:29So you like someone who's a bit dominant?
27:30Yeah.
27:31And I like to switch it up, though.
27:32I get terrified when I meet a dominant girl.
27:34Really?
27:35They scare the shit out of me.
27:37L'Oreal and Louis seem to be making a connection.
27:41I love tying girls up, like, teasing them with toys, like, just...
27:45Mind me up.
27:46More than T's, more than T's, more than T's.
27:47Okay.
27:48Now I've started giving girls, like, hours and hours of, like, attention.
27:51Versus when I was a kid, it was kind of like, stick it out, stick it in, done.
27:54Yeah.
27:55Done.
27:56Go to sleep.
27:57Do you want a takeaway?
27:58So I was like, ooh, okay.
27:59I can work with that.
28:00I like that.
28:01I like someone that, you know, kind of knows exactly what they want.
28:03So, yeah.
28:04Yeah.
28:05You're gonna watch.
28:07The couple want to ease themselves into being touched by other people.
28:11You just relax and breathe.
28:14And just enjoy the sensations.
28:17And Grace has come up with a game to help them do just that.
28:21Cool.
28:22Ooh.
28:23Now Khalid, is there anything that I need to know?
28:28Oh.
28:29Is there a certain position or certain way that you like to be touched?
28:33Definitely around the neck sides and the inner thighs.
28:37Neck and the inner thighs.
28:38Okay.
28:39Cool.
28:40How does this feel for you?
28:41Do you enjoy this?
28:42Yeah, no, this is smooth, man.
28:43I'm just here bouncing, man.
28:44Yeah.
28:45So far.
28:46Just gently touching.
28:49Ever so much.
28:51Watching L'Oreal being touched was quite surreal.
28:55Like, it was, like, I wasn't expecting it.
28:58Now it's L'Oreal's turn to get her first taste of sharing her partner.
29:03How do you feel?
29:05Is the presence okay?
29:06You know, I feel it in the belly because I'm wearing jeans.
29:09How does this feel for you?
29:12There was loads of times where I was thinking, should I be jealous?
29:16Perfect.
29:17So how does this feel for you?
29:19Yeah.
29:20I'm in the back.
29:21Yeah, yeah, yeah.
29:22I'm just, I'm in my element right now, you know?
29:23Perfect.
29:24That's what we like to hear.
29:25But I'm that person that I would just create a story in my head and I was thinking, trust
29:34him.
29:35You know he loves you.
29:36It's going to be okay.
29:37He likes a bit of choking, would you say?
29:38Yeah, yeah.
29:39I just kind of just cracked on with it.
29:41The way she was touching me, it was actually amazing.
29:44Let me try to get up now.
29:46Game over and without incident, they can each invite someone to spend some one-on-one time
29:52with them.
29:53You can go to your separate and I'll go and I'll link you later, innit?
29:56Come here, bitch.
29:57Mmm.
29:58You know?
29:59Okay.
30:00Love you.
30:01Bye.
30:02Love you.
30:03L'Oreal has invited Louis to come on a date with her.
30:06Louis is lovely.
30:07We had nice conversations.
30:09He was funny.
30:10Love that.
30:11I'm excited to see what one-on-one chat he has.
30:15Yeah.
30:16L'Oreal is a really nice girl.
30:17She's really cool.
30:18Nice to talk to.
30:19She's got a bit of bantam.
30:20She's nice as well.
30:21She's petite, small, mean.
30:22If you're small, my heart melts.
30:23It's just that simple.
30:24It's very easy for me.
30:26It's like, aw.
30:27And Khalid has chosen to spend more time with Grace.
30:31One thing I like about Grace is her vibe and the way she is.
30:34She's an amazing character.
30:35She's open.
30:36She makes you feel comfortable in the situation.
30:38So, see where it goes.
30:40Khalid seems like such a great guy.
30:42If I'm going to speak with someone's partner,
30:44they need to make sure that they have that communication
30:46on their side for me to come in and be happy to do so.
30:57Last night, married couple Jasmine and Al experimented in the bedroom
31:05with another woman for the very first time.
31:07Hi, Dr Laurie.
31:08How are you today?
31:09I'm good, thanks.
31:10How are you?
31:11Grab a chair.
31:12Good, thank you.
31:13Dr Laurie is keen to know how they got on.
31:16So, you had a date last night.
31:18We did.
31:19We went on a date and it was really fun.
31:22And yeah, I think we all had a really good time.
31:24Yeah, we did have a great time.
31:25She's the easiest.
31:26And to move Jasmine in that direction, you need someone like her.
31:30So, what was your favourite bit of the evening?
31:32Massaging boobs, basically.
31:34So, you had both of them?
31:36Both of them.
31:37That was a first.
31:39So, how was that for you?
31:41Yeah, it was fun.
31:42Yeah.
31:43She's awesome and we played some really silly games and...
31:46It's always going to be a fun side for us.
31:48Yeah.
31:49Are you surprised?
31:50Yes, I'm surprised I did this.
31:52I'm surprised.
31:53I'm surprised you did it.
31:54I know we're very U rated or PG compared to a lot of the other activities which we've been going on.
32:00You know what?
32:01Don't downplay the amount of movement it took to get to this place.
32:06Because you didn't think you were going to do anything.
32:08So, that's huge movement.
32:10You enjoyed yourself.
32:11You had a good time.
32:12You were able to relax and it surprised you.
32:15That's a huge movement.
32:16You should be proud.
32:17I'm proud of both of you for doing this, for being willing to actually throw yourselves into it.
32:23I'm amazed that I went on a date with my husband and another girl and we did all these sexy things.
32:32And yeah, it's definitely opened my mind to that lifestyle.
32:38I can understand more why people choose that lifestyle.
32:41Whether it's the lifestyle I'm going to lead, I don't know.
32:44In terms of really improving your relationship over longevity, you can do an awful lot just talking about fantasies.
32:51And one would hope that you're going to have a good sex life for the long haul.
32:55I think that's very important.
32:57Yeah.
32:58Well, thank you for all of your help, Dr. Laura.
33:00It's been fascinating and enlightening.
33:02Absolutely my pleasure.
33:03Thank you very much.
33:04I wish you luck and have a grand time.
33:07We will.
33:08Thanks a lot.
33:09Take care.
33:10See you later.
33:11Bye.
33:14Jasmine came here saying she was willing to try an open relationship.
33:19But at the start, I'm not sure that she really was.
33:22Having gone through the process, I think she realizes that she's less of a prude than she thought she was.
33:28And if they go along the same trajectory, getting more comfortable with talking about sex,
33:34who knows where their relationship will go?
33:37What we've taken from this is that a lot more people,
33:39people certainly that have thought about this,
33:41should take this opportunity, go on this journey.
33:44Don't think of it as the stigma that I think society gives it.
33:47Open yourself up to it.
33:49Try it out.
33:50Maybe we should get on some swinging websites.
33:53But for someone like me who's super traditional, super conservative,
33:57typical prude British,
33:59I think I've really opened that door more than I ever thought I would.
34:03Man and woman seeking bisexual lady.
34:09It's given us an opportunity to learn and actually, hopefully,
34:12give longevity to our relationship rather than letting it stagnate.
34:16So I take massive positives from it.
34:23Committed couple L'Oreal and Khaled are about to take the next step in opening up their relationship.
34:29OK.
34:31Buon abodit.
34:35Oh, never put us good time.
34:38Keen for more kink, Khaled has chosen to go on a date with Grace.
34:42What are we cheers into? New experiences.
34:44New experiences, new vibes.
34:46New experiences, new vibes.
34:47Chin, chin.
34:48Go on.
34:49While L'Oreal is taking the next step with self-confessed charmer, Louis.
34:57Do you like girls?
34:58I've never been with a girl before.
34:59What did you get with a girl?
35:00Do you know what?
35:01Before I came here, I was like, I've never gone there with one.
35:04So, I don't know.
35:06I'm not saying no.
35:07Are you guys happy?
35:09Yeah.
35:10Yeah.
35:12What if something didn't happen?
35:14Just out of curiosity.
35:17Like, I go off vibes.
35:18So if I get a good vibe straight away with you, then we can just, like, click.
35:23Louis really did, like, reassure me, like, yes, I'm hot, I've got this.
35:28I'm a stripper, and I'm a dominatrix.
35:32What's a domin...
35:33Dominatrix.
35:34Dominatrix.
35:35Dominatrix.
35:36What's that?
35:37My clientele will approach me with, like, their kinks, spanking, humiliation, foot worship,
35:44things like footsification.
35:46So, like, you'll pinch their nose and, like, shove your foot in the mouth.
35:50Grace is offering Khalid a no-holds-barred journey into kink and BDSM.
35:55You want to spice it up?
35:56Yeah.
35:57I'm here at your disposal.
36:00Meanwhile, L'Oreal and Louis...
36:02Oh!
36:03Fuck me!
36:04...are getting to know each other more intimately.
36:07You better keep going.
36:08No!
36:10I'm joking.
36:12No!
36:17This is a naked one.
36:18You hold these.
36:19You hold these, mate.
36:20This is what happens when you lose.
36:27Yeah!
36:28It was weird being on a date with someone that wasn't Khalid.
36:32It definitely took, for me, a lot of easing to getting into.
36:35But, Louis made me feel so comfortable.
36:38After a couple of Proseccos and a couple of games...
36:42Well done.
36:43You know what?
36:44You can take a bet.
36:45Well done.
36:46Well done.
36:48All the walls just broke loose.
36:50Over in the other yurt...
36:52We have handcuffs.
36:53We have restraints.
36:54And then we also have a vlogger and your friend from earlier.
36:58Oh!
36:59Okay, okay.
37:00Grace has taken control of the situation.
37:03It's up to you, really, what you want to do.
37:05Oh, I'm very happy to guide.
37:06But, yeah, is there anything you've ever wanted to explore?
37:10Something that you would want to try out?
37:14Good question.
37:15Trust me that you're going to have a good time and I'll look after you.
37:18The couple came to the retreat to explore kink and sex with other people,
37:23but now Khalid is having second thoughts.
37:26The only thing is, like, obviously going through all of this
37:28and L'Oreal not knowing the steps I'm making...
37:32Right.
37:33It might be, it might be a problem, if that makes sense.
37:36Me dressing it afterwards.
37:37No, I respect that.
37:38So instead of it being, like, a blindfold and me doing anything to you
37:40and you getting it to me, we can just talk through the steps
37:43of how you might execute things instead of actually doing it?
37:46Is that something that you'd be more comfortable with?
37:47You know what? We can go off doing that.
37:49I think that's more smooth.
37:50But then the fact that she's not here and the whole situation's happening,
37:53like, you know how it is, like...
37:55It started off, it was quite light, it was good vibes,
37:58but it started getting through to, like, the kinkiness level.
38:02It was quite surreal.
38:03I was thinking, L'Oreal, L'Oreal.
38:05Come here.
38:06Bring it in.
38:07You're amazing, you're amazing.
38:08You're amazing, honestly.
38:10While Khalid's evening is drawing to a close...
38:14How do you feel?
38:15Morning.
38:16L'Oreal's is just getting started.
38:19Oh, my God.
38:20Does that feel so nice?
38:21It's all big as your hands.
38:22How are you feeling?
38:24Relax.
38:25Good.
38:26You guys, you know, can just explore your own sort of relationship.
38:35In any way you want, whether that's going in and fucking someone,
38:38or going in and meeting someone new, or going in and kissing someone,
38:40whatever it is.
38:41Yeah.
38:42Try it and see how it goes.
38:43L'Oreal and Khalid came to the retreat to get a taste of opening up their relationship.
39:05But despite the boundaries they agreed, after their separate dates, Khalid's mind is racing.
39:12Hey, baby.
39:15How's it going?
39:17You okay?
39:21What are you doing there?
39:23We did a massage.
39:24So it was like this.
39:26See, the pink top was going on.
39:28And I was like, I slay him back.
39:30And then we played Jenga and he lost.
39:32That was it.
39:33Was he naked?
39:34He had, you know, he started off in his boxes.
39:37And then he started running.
39:38He's like a go for girls that are like petite and stuff.
39:41But we didn't kiss.
39:43We didn't.
39:44We hugged.
39:46What do you mean hugged?
39:47What was a hug?
39:48Okay, come.
39:49No, just do it.
39:50Just do it there.
39:53No, I didn't touch her.
39:55You touched her.
39:56What did you do?
39:57Nothing.
39:58You just sat there doing it?
39:59Absolutely nothing.
40:00You can easily say, oh yeah, we trust each other.
40:02And we won't be jealous.
40:03Or we might be.
40:04But everyone can have their insecurities.
40:06Want to cuddle?
40:07No.
40:08You want to cuddle me?
40:10Baby.
40:11You want me?
40:13Please.
40:15I love you.
40:17I love you.
40:18I don't even know how to touch you.
40:25Baby, are you mad at me?
40:28If Khaled did form a bond with someone else, I would feel jealous.
40:32But we've had this conversation and we've set our boundaries already.
40:35So, I think I should trust that it's going to be okay.
40:44Last night, Khaled gave L'Oreal the cold shoulder following her date.
40:49Hey.
40:50Hey.
40:51Hey.
40:52What's up?
40:53Hey.
40:54What's up?
40:55Now reassured she didn't overstep the mark, he's ready to kiss and make up.
41:00Ah, you're doing what you've done in there.
41:03Yeah, let me see.
41:04My headache's slowly going away.
41:06Yeah.
41:07She's moving like a strip.
41:09Pull my phone.
41:10Pull my phone.
41:11Mm-hmm.
41:18Hmm.
41:26It must have been something I've done right.
41:33Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple understand the emotions uncovered last night.
41:38Hey.
41:39Come on in.
41:40Hey.
41:41So, how was the social for you?
41:43And what was your date like?
41:44Well, it was nice to let myself go and just have fun and enjoy the evening.
41:49And even when Lewis was giving me the massage, he was saying that I would be someone that he would date.
41:57Did it feel nice to have somebody really giving you that positive attention and knowing that they were attracted to you,
42:04even though you weren't acting on that?
42:06Yeah, it did make me feel nice.
42:08And then it was funny to see him lose.
42:11How is it for you knowing he was running naked?
42:13It was just weird, to be honest.
42:14For that to happen, I was like, rah, they had some serious connection.
42:18You assumed connection just because he got naked?
42:21You know what it is?
42:22It's because he's naked and running out.
42:24So, there must have been banter, like, fun vibes.
42:27It's more so like the chemistry.
42:29It is possible that they built chemistry.
42:31Yeah.
42:32It's also possible that they didn't.
42:33But for you, the place you go is, there must be a connection.
42:38Yeah, yeah, exactly.
42:39What happened when you got back?
42:40I tried to sleep.
42:42It just didn't work.
42:43All it is is just me and my thoughts.
42:45That's right.
42:46And I feel like that's what was kicking in.
42:47You found it difficult to be back on your own knowing that she was on a date.
42:53You were jealous, right?
42:55Okay, yeah.
42:56Yeah.
42:57That's okay.
42:58I mean, you know, that's something that takes work, right?
43:01Yeah.
43:02But, you know, when you're fully comfortable in that sort of situation, you're not thinking,
43:06where are they?
43:07Yeah.
43:08You know, your thought is, I hope they had a good time.
43:10I'm tired.
43:11I'm going to bed.
43:12Maybe trying to overthink might be a problem.
43:14Yes, that is exactly the problem.
43:16Yeah.
43:17We've explored some of it with you, L'Oreal.
43:20Dr. Laurie thinks the couple may have underestimated how hard it can be to move away from monogamy.
43:26You know, bringing other partners isn't the be-all and end-all, right?
43:29Mm-hmm.
43:30Works for some people, isn't great for others.
43:32Maybe now is not the right time for you to open up your relationship.
43:35You can work on your jealousy on a day-to-day level without challenging it in the way that you have.
43:41And then revisit this if you choose to later on.
43:43It's been an amazing experience.
43:45Absolutely brilliant.
43:46Thank you so much.
43:48My pleasure.
43:49Take good care of each other.
43:50Oh, no.
43:51100%, my God.
43:52This couple are solid and very much in love.
43:57And I'm glad that this experience has helped them to confront their insecurities head-on and grow.
44:03I don't think opening up is right for them right now, but maybe in the future this is something that they'll want to explore.
44:10I want to do life with you, baby.
44:13Mmm.
44:14We're shaking your bum more after this whole experiment.
44:17What's this?
44:18I feel more confident.
44:19I feel more confident.
44:20I feel more confident.
44:21Confident.
44:22Confident.
44:23We came in here with an open mind, but I think at this point in our mine and Khalid's relationship, we're not looking to open it up further.
44:30But we have learned stuff that we can take and apply for our relationship together.
44:36Using handcuffs, using the whip, and that feathery amazing item.
44:42Yeah, that was cool, yeah.
44:44That was awesome.
44:45This experience has just made me love Khalid more, and we're just happier than ever and just stronger than ever.
44:51Yeah, and to actually appreciate you as well, which is so important.
44:54Yeah.
44:55Come on, man.
44:56Oh, man.
44:58Okay.
44:59Let's go.
45:01See ya next week.
45:02Come on, man.
45:04What we want to do today is through a very best friend of the concept.
45:07She walks in all kinds of lady bathher.
45:11You can walk me with a baby dish with a baby and do her as well as all ye.
45:14When is he and I've taken her doll.
45:16See you next week someيا mas.
45:18next time new arrivals caius and ellie very excited see what's to come try and kiss monogamy
45:40goodbye and dorset couple steve and helen look besides that lake don't have too many drinks
45:47baby skinny dipping in there damn right i will a thrust into the experience
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