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00:01Sparking memories and creating magic.
00:04Olivia and Alex, Parenthood, brought to you by Glade Fragrances.
00:12It's the worst feeling ever.
00:15I swear to God, it feels like this baby's coming out sometimes.
00:19Lightning crotch.
00:21I saw my midwife the other day and she said she's down, head engaged, she's low.
00:26So, to me, I'm thinking, is this going to happen in the next couple of days?
00:29Like, when is she coming?
00:31I'm getting lightning crotch.
00:33Lightning crotch?
00:34It's like a shooting pain into my vagina.
00:37Have you never had it in your bonfire?
00:38Where the baby must be laying and it's like...
00:41Is that what it does?
00:42Can you hear it again?
00:44It literally... Oh, it's so horrible!
00:47But it's like here, in the hole.
00:50I don't know, you were meant to be, man.
00:52If you were any mum, any sister, any job, any broke-ass car
00:58and that's your car light.
01:00If you weren't your friends, that I'll never see again.
01:03Everybody but your dog, you can...
01:06What is going on?
01:12It's just not going well today.
01:14It's just one of them days...
01:16Just don't ask me how I am.
01:18I'm tired.
01:19And any future questions, I'm tired.
01:21So, I'm tired is the answer to absolutely everything.
01:25So, if you're wondering how I am, just don't ask me.
01:30Tired, tired, tired.
01:32I feel really pregnant today.
01:37The thing is, we always talk about, like, birth as being a marathon
01:42and being something that you should prepare for,
01:45but if you're preparing mentally, you should also look at your body too.
01:49I just feel like, where I've done the research,
01:51I then need to follow up with the actual thing that's going to help.
01:56My doulas recommended that I see a chiropractor for my pelvic health.
02:00So, basically, it's about, like, your pelvis alignment
02:03and your uterus has ligaments that are attached to your pelvis.
02:09So, if your pelvis is skew, your uterus is skew,
02:13which means your baby can't descend properly through your birth canal,
02:16that is the science bit.
02:18That's about as much as I know.
02:20But when I first went to see her, she said to me,
02:24you are so wonky.
02:27My spine was all twisted and curved,
02:30but she thinks it's because of horse riding
02:33and how many times I've fallen off,
02:34and obviously she said mine was quite bad.
02:36I'm trying everything.
02:37Like, I will try anything.
02:39I'm going to...
02:40I want to try acupuncture, I want to do reflexology.
02:43Like, we're doing hypnobirthing, we've got doulas.
02:45Like, I am so in on having a birth
02:51that is going to be healing to me.
02:54I'd be lying if I said I haven't thought about, you know,
02:57what if, what if something goes wrong.
02:59But I believe the safest place for me, personally, is at home.
03:03It's just slightly tight on the sacrum there again.
03:10If you bend forward one more time.
03:12And up, yeah.
03:13I'm glad you're here today.
03:14It's just a little bit tight.
03:15Let's have a look at it lying down.
03:17I feel like it moves when I lay down.
03:18So, what have you been up to?
03:21Just working, decorating, nesting.
03:24I do stop some of my work at the end of this week.
03:28Brilliant.
03:29It's quite important, I think, just to have that changing mindset.
03:34Otherwise...
03:34I think it's just, like, mentally,
03:37I get so stressed over the smallest thing,
03:40so just trying to not have loads of stuff to think about will help.
03:45Yeah, definitely.
03:47But, yeah, I'm just trying to, like, get my head around
03:49having two and how Abel's going to be
03:53and just that kind of transition.
03:55Did you find the transition from, like, zero to one
03:59or one to two harder?
04:01Do you want to know the truth?
04:02Yeah.
04:03Don't sugarcoat it.
04:05I definitely found one to two harder.
04:07Did you?
04:08Yeah.
04:08Needs are so different.
04:10Like, Abel's needs are going to be so different
04:12from your baby girl.
04:13Yeah.
04:14Yeah, and the sleepless nights a second time.
04:17God, yeah, because you have that, like,
04:19you've got to entertain your other child.
04:21Yeah, so I feel like with my first,
04:23say she had a feed at, like, five in the morning,
04:26then we might snooze back till eight or something.
04:29Yeah.
04:30But if your baby has a feed at five,
04:32then what time does Abel get up?
04:34Like, six.
04:35Exactly.
04:35So you're up.
04:36So your day has started at five,
04:38even if the baby goes back to sleep.
04:39So things like that make a real difference.
04:41Mm-hmm.
04:43Where I'm having another baby,
04:44I know that my time is going to be halved
04:46between the two of them.
04:47So right now, I'm like,
04:49oh, I just need to give Abel everything that I've got.
04:51Were you on time with Abel or...?
04:53I was two days late with Abel,
04:54but I don't know,
04:56something's telling me that
04:57she's going to come a bit earlier.
04:59I work from home.
05:10I just work from my laptop all the time.
05:12I've got my Pure 45,
05:13my fitness business,
05:14and I do all my check-ins with clients,
05:16do some other work.
05:17We're very lucky in that sense,
05:18so I'm grateful for that.
05:21Winnie!
05:24I'm really in pain today.
05:26Am I in labour?
05:26I'm starting to feel, like,
05:28a lot of, like, pressure and pain underneath,
05:31like, under my bum.
05:32It's just, yeah, getting heavy.
05:36Heavy everything.
05:37Life is heavy.
05:38So basically, I'm just having a Zoom call
05:41with my manager, Freddie,
05:43to try and put in place
05:45some kind of maternity leave.
05:47Obviously, my job isn't normal,
05:50so maternity leave isn't normal either.
05:53Freddie doesn't completely understand
05:56the idea of me being pregnant
05:58and being off work.
05:59Especially after the baby,
06:00I don't want to go back to work too quickly.
06:02I want to, like, be in that baby bubble
06:04and enjoy it
06:05and not feel pressured to work,
06:08but at the same time,
06:09that's just the nature of my job.
06:12Balance is not the word.
06:15I think it's just, like,
06:16it is just a juggle.
06:18There's no balance.
06:19I don't know why any of us
06:21use the word balance.
06:21There's no sense of that word
06:24in what we're doing.
06:25Especially not me.
06:28Hello.
06:29Oh, there you are.
06:30You're pretty.
06:32Oh, thanks.
06:33I just thought, best catching up,
06:36just to go through the glaze stuff.
06:39I've just got some stuff
06:40to get checked by you.
06:42I've got the final, like,
06:43mock-ups from the supermarket bits
06:44and the Christmas displays and stuff
06:46to email you just to check.
06:48Oh, my God, stop.
06:49I mean, they're really nice, aren't they?
06:52The bar looks so good in the background.
06:54Yeah.
06:55I am Olivia and Alex's agent
06:58and have been for nearly 10 years now.
07:01Yeah, they're perfect.
07:02They look really nice.
07:03An agent, therapist, childminder, DIY man,
07:07you name it, I'm there.
07:09I just thought it was worth
07:10you getting some stories
07:11that are, like, on the fly,
07:13just that then we can post,
07:16if you're in labour or something
07:17when it goes live,
07:18that at least I've got something
07:19in my back pocket.
07:20The expectation of me from them
07:22is to, you know, facilitate their work
07:24and make sure that they've got money in the bank.
07:27In situations where you've got to go
07:28and do a podcast in London,
07:29podcast is going to be an hour,
07:30you've obviously got to get there and back,
07:32so it's four and a half hours,
07:33minimum, out of the house.
07:35How does that work?
07:36Because it's going to need to happen.
07:38Would you take the baby to the podcast
07:42or with someone or not?
07:45What we did with Abel was
07:46he had breast milk in a bottle,
07:48so ideally that's what we'd do
07:49because that enables me to, like,
07:51go work for a few hours
07:53or, you know, go out for a few hours.
07:56But some babies just won't do it,
07:57so I physically don't know.
08:01I honestly don't know
08:03how I'm going to have two kids and work.
08:05I just don't understand
08:05how the logistics are going to work.
08:06Well, this is my question,
08:07and again, it's not a worry,
08:08like, because it will be work.
08:10It is a worry.
08:13It will be between me and Alex,
08:15so I don't know whether we want to do, like,
08:18I don't know,
08:19Monday and Wednesday are my work days
08:22and then Alex's are Tuesday.
08:24This is the thing,
08:25I just don't know if it's going to work
08:26to have these work days anymore.
08:29It's really hard
08:30because, like, the part of the me
08:32that is not the mum of a newborn
08:34would say,
08:35no, I need one day
08:36to just get everything done
08:37and then I can have clear headspace
08:38the rest of the week,
08:39but, like, it's just all
08:41going to have to be played by ear.
08:41Yeah, that's fine.
08:43That is not what I like.
08:45Like, that literally gives me anxiety,
08:47like, let's just play
08:47my whole life by ear.
08:50Just on the book meeting
08:51on Monday,
08:52the book deadline
08:53is something like the,
08:54I think it's in the contracts
08:57that's, like,
08:57perhaps the 15th of December.
09:00For us to get in a position
09:02where your first session
09:03with the ghostwriter
09:04is in October,
09:06September slash October
09:07means we have to pick
09:08the ghostwriter better than
09:09which takes time
09:10you have to meet them
09:11by that point.
09:12I just don't want to be
09:13organising stuff
09:14and not having thought
09:15about the childcare thing.
09:16Basically, just crack on today
09:18with getting all the work done.
09:19I'm seeing you on the one day
09:20for this book meeting.
09:21Right.
09:23Fine, thank you.
09:24Have a good day.
09:25See you later.
09:26Bye.
09:29Okay, you've just got to write
09:30a full book
09:31about your whole life
09:32by December.
09:33Okay, well,
09:34it's currently
09:34end of July, like.
09:37I've got to have a baby
09:38in that time.
09:39You know,
09:39try and bond with this baby.
09:41Have maternity,
09:42but no,
09:42you've got,
09:43you've actually...
09:44Sigh.
09:54What way are you going?
09:58I've got to go that way.
09:59Oh, I've got to go that way.
10:01They'll be giving birth now.
10:03Oh!
10:04How long did it take you
10:06to get back?
10:07Three hours.
10:07Three hours.
10:08We'll just hold her in.
10:09Today,
10:10Alex is all the way
10:11in Birmingham working
10:12and I am in London working,
10:15signing the deal
10:15for my new book.
10:16So,
10:16they're both
10:17really important things,
10:18but we're separate
10:19this close to the birth.
10:21I can't cross my legs.
10:22That's not really how it works.
10:23This is Freddie's doing.
10:24If anyone would want to blame,
10:25blame Freddie.
10:26No,
10:27I think it'll be fine.
10:28It's just,
10:28it's weird that you're going,
10:29like,
10:29quite far.
10:30You're not full term
10:30till tomorrow.
10:32Oh, yeah,
10:32I'm sure she'll wave.
10:34I love it.
10:35See you later.
10:36Say hi to Ty for me.
10:37Hold on, man.
10:40Oh!
10:42Me and Alex
10:43can be quite far
10:43from each other
10:44for work reasons,
10:45but I'm very pregnant now.
10:47Like,
10:47I'm full term.
10:48You do feel more like,
10:49oh,
10:49it could happen
10:50at any moment.
10:51You know,
10:52would you make it back
10:53if anything was to happen?
10:54It's like work guilt.
10:55Like,
10:56if I don't work,
10:56I feel guilty.
10:57If I say no,
10:58I feel guilty.
10:58If I say yes,
10:59I feel guilty
11:00towards the family.
11:00So,
11:01I literally
11:02can't get it right.
11:03Yeah,
11:03I do feel a little bit
11:04nervous about agreeing to it,
11:05but it's an amazing
11:07opportunity
11:08and like to say
11:08that you've wrote a book
11:09and you're an author
11:10and yeah,
11:12it's just got to be done,
11:13isn't it?
11:14Amazing.
11:14Thank you so much.
11:15You're welcome.
11:27Look at me,
11:28man.
11:28I look like a right nerd.
11:31Look at me
11:32with my little backpack on and that.
11:35Got a job in Birmingham
11:36for Jim King.
11:38I'm a Jim King ambassador.
11:39I've been with them
11:40for like 10 years.
11:41So,
11:41to turn down jobs
11:43as good as that,
11:44like,
11:44it's hard to do.
11:45So,
11:45you've just got to try
11:45and work around it
11:46as best as you can.
11:47Well,
11:48because obviously
11:48I've come by train,
11:49anything can happen
11:50and I'm going to struggle
11:51to get back.
11:51So,
11:51I'm a little bit,
11:52I'm a little bit scared
11:53about it.
11:54But then again,
11:55like,
11:55it's like,
11:55what's the chances
11:56of the baby coming now?
11:58Do you know what I mean?
11:59What's the chances?
12:01Like,
12:01a due date is,
12:03which is full term tomorrow.
12:05I'd do anything
12:05it took to get on.
12:07You know what?
12:07I'd run back
12:08if I had to.
12:09I don't think
12:10I'd be able to make it,
12:11but I think I'd get it.
12:12I'd try to have a good go.
12:20Sparking memories
12:21and creating magic.
12:24Olivia and Alex,
12:25Parenthood,
12:26brought to you
12:27by Glade Fragrances.
12:30Sparking memories
12:31and creating magic.
12:34Olivia and Alex,
12:36Parenthood,
12:36brought to you
12:37by Glade Fragrances.
12:49Hi, hi, hi.
12:51You OK?
12:51Nice to meet you.
12:56I'm in a hot moment.
12:57It's too exciting.
12:59It's too much going on.
13:03I know we've got a lot
13:04to talk about.
13:05Yeah.
13:05So, I mean,
13:07from like campaign
13:08to ghostwriters
13:09to dates
13:10to schedules.
13:11But in terms of like
13:12from now until publication,
13:14now we sign a contract
13:16and we choose
13:18the ghostwriter
13:19and then it's those initial,
13:20you have a bit of a,
13:21you have,
13:22go and have a baby.
13:24And then it's that,
13:25it's those sessions
13:26of getting the ghostwriter
13:27and having what we'll say
13:28like a kind of draft manuscript.
13:29So, if you want me to see it,
13:31like it's quite nice.
13:31Yeah, I feel like I need your expertise.
13:33I'd rather you be on hand as well.
13:35Also, what I will do
13:37is ask for areas
13:38that I think I want a bit more of.
13:39But that's also your opportunity
13:41to say,
13:42I don't want to go there.
13:42Yeah.
13:43And that's good to know.
13:44Like, that's helpful
13:45and I won't push it.
13:46I'm pretty open, aren't I?
13:46I can tell.
13:47I'm quiet.
13:48I'm a sharer in general.
13:50I'm sure he's good,
13:51but we'll, yeah.
13:52So, I just want you
13:53to be comfortable.
13:54I guess it's more just
13:54about how in-depth you do,
13:56but you said that,
13:57like, how far do you go?
13:58But also like,
13:59I would go as far as you need
14:00and then you just redact it.
14:02Okay, so I don't have
14:03to censor myself,
14:04but you will.
14:05That's fine.
14:05That's what you do anyway.
14:06Like normal.
14:08Fine.
14:09Daily license.
14:10The aim of the book
14:11is to share
14:12my experiences
14:13and how I've overcome things
14:15and what's happened
14:17to me in my life
14:17and from my childhood
14:18and those tough teenage years.
14:20There will be some
14:21mention of exes.
14:23That's one thing
14:24like me and Alex
14:24don't ever really speak about.
14:27Like, we pretend
14:27that we've never been
14:28with anyone else.
14:30So, I don't know
14:31how he's going to feel.
14:32I don't know
14:32if he's going to want
14:32to read that part.
14:33What a good ghostwriter does
14:34is like pick up from you.
14:35Your energy.
14:36Yeah, so like
14:37what you want to get out of it.
14:38How you sound.
14:39If you've got a bit
14:39of a sense of humour,
14:40they're going to put it in
14:41or if, you know,
14:41you're going to get out of it.
14:43Can they pick up
14:44with the sarcasm
14:45and the stubbornness
14:46because that's what
14:46they'll probably get.
14:48But I think also
14:49it's like when you gel
14:50with someone
14:50you understand
14:51that they're going to
14:51like do that
14:52for you as well.
14:53So, yeah.
14:54We do have
14:55a really good structure
14:56but if that needs
14:57to have an flow
14:58that's fine too.
15:00Like, I don't want you
15:00to feel restricted
15:01by that.
15:02Obviously there's
15:02this like extra chapter now
15:04because if the whole
15:06birth thing
15:06is such a big thing
15:07for me.
15:08If I do manage
15:08to have a home birth
15:09like God knows
15:10I'm going to be
15:10talking about that
15:11in there.
15:11Yeah, definitely.
15:12Because it's such a huge
15:13it's been a huge thing.
15:15So we'll have to see
15:16what happens.
15:17Next thing for me also
15:18is like giving
15:18is showing my cover brief
15:20to you so you're
15:20happy with it
15:21because this is about
15:22you being real
15:23and honest, right?
15:23So I want you to...
15:24It's so weird
15:24that this is all happening.
15:25This thing is
15:26over just clocked.
15:27Now you've said it
15:30I'm like, oh God, yeah.
15:31I'm going to be on that.
15:32You are going to be
15:33on the cover.
15:35Have you got...
15:35You've got a month off
15:36though for the baby.
15:37Were you carrying on?
15:38Oh my God.
15:39Every other bit
15:40of work apart from this.
15:41Right, let's...
15:42It's like, no,
15:42no time off.
15:43It's not, not a month.
15:46Mum has been very vocal
15:48in the fact that
15:48I need to stop working
15:49whilst I'm so heavily pregnant.
15:51I don't want to overdo it
15:52and then have like
15:53a really busy mind
15:54and then think that
15:55that puts off my birth
15:56because I'm stressed.
15:57So I'm trying to look
15:58after my body
15:59before I give birth
16:00because I should owe it
16:02to myself to do that.
16:03Okay, so now on
16:04to the exciting bit.
16:05It's not in the contract.
16:06Oh my goodness.
16:07Oh, it's so exciting.
16:08Okay.
16:10Am I allowed to cry?
16:11Yeah.
16:12Aw.
16:12You're going to have
16:13a champagne.
16:13I actually haven't
16:14really tried to
16:15have any champagne.
16:17It's not allowed.
16:17Sorry.
16:18We will have
16:18a champagne moment.
16:19Sorry, I don't know
16:20why I'm crying now
16:21because I just said
16:21I was going to cry
16:22and now I'm crying
16:22because I said
16:23I was going to cry.
16:24It's so weird.
16:25It is a bit.
16:26It's so weird.
16:28Do I do it there?
16:29I'm going to do it
16:29in the wrong place now
16:30because I can't see.
16:33Yay!
16:37Yay!
16:37Okay, I'm going to
16:38give you a hug.
16:39This is so cool.
16:41Oh, it's so lovely.
16:41You know what?
16:42We've done so much
16:43in my career
16:45over 10 years
16:45but we've never done this
16:47and it just feels
16:47really big.
16:49Do you want me
16:50to take a picture of it?
16:51I know you can't
16:51post it now.
16:51But it's nice
16:53for your carousel.
16:56Freddie's like
16:56can you just get
16:57on social media
16:58and I'm like...
16:59Hello?
17:06Hello.
17:07You all right?
17:08Yeah, I'm just
17:09letting you know
17:09how it went.
17:10I've signed
17:10the contract
17:11and everything.
17:12Okay.
17:13Yeah.
17:13It's so weird.
17:14I actually cried.
17:15I got well emotion.
17:16Yeah, that's so good.
17:17I'm so proud of you.
17:18Okay then.
17:19Well, I won't see you
17:20now until midnight.
17:24Long day.
17:25Hopefully no
17:26labour pains
17:27will erupt
17:28whilst you're
17:29three hours away.
17:30Don't stress me.
17:31No, I'll leave you
17:32to it then.
17:34It's all right.
17:34Don't stress.
17:35Have a nice day.
17:35All right, love you.
17:36All right, love you too.
17:37Bye.
17:37Bye.
17:37Bye.
17:43You are my best friend
17:45So me and Ty
17:49are doing
17:50some social media
17:50work for a club
17:51for a man today.
17:52You literally
17:53can't beat
17:53working remakes.
17:58It's like,
17:59it's so close.
17:59Like, I could
18:00literally have
18:00a phone call
18:01any second.
18:02That's why
18:03I'm a little bit like,
18:04even though this job
18:05was here today
18:05in Brom,
18:06like, I wish
18:06it was kind of
18:07like last week
18:08because she's
18:08full term tomorrow
18:09which means
18:10it could be like
18:11go time.
18:12So I met Ty
18:13in university
18:14so we turned up
18:15we don't really
18:16know each other
18:16and we're more
18:17just walking around
18:18like absolute loners
18:19and then we just
18:21got chatting
18:21and I was like
18:22where'd you live
18:22and he told me
18:22where he lived
18:23and he's just
18:24moved back
18:24with his nan
18:24that lived
18:25two streets
18:25behind me
18:26so I dropped
18:26him off home
18:27and then we've
18:27just become
18:28best friends
18:28ever since.
18:29You've been busy
18:29you've got a new
18:30missus now.
18:31I know.
18:32Have you spoke
18:32about kids?
18:33Yeah.
18:34No.
18:34But like
18:35Emily's like
18:36she's like 28
18:38and apparently
18:38women have got
18:39like a body clock
18:40which I had
18:40no idea about.
18:41I don't know
18:43what that means
18:43but when it
18:44expires
18:44basically
18:45I don't think
18:46it expires
18:46I think it's
18:47like as they
18:48get older
18:48they start
18:48to lose
18:49like
18:50libido
18:50no
18:51no
18:51just don't
18:53have sex
18:53I think
18:54obviously
18:55I don't know
18:55we're not
18:55old yet
18:56so I don't know
18:57I don't know
18:57how it works
18:58myself
18:58I can imagine
18:59you as a dad
19:00yeah obviously
19:01that's what I'm
19:01saying
19:01I think
19:02you'd be really
19:02good
19:02because you're
19:03just silly
19:03and stupid
19:04how's Liv
19:06she's good man
19:07I feel like
19:08because we're having
19:08a home birth
19:09aren't we
19:09you don't know
19:10what that is
19:10do you
19:10so I was like
19:13try and do it
19:15then
19:15try and explain
19:16because to me
19:17I'm thinking
19:17what about the
19:18carpet
19:18what about
19:18the stuff
19:19so there's going
19:20to be a
19:20birth in Paul
19:21so there's going
19:22to be a
19:22pool in my house
19:23I'll be in there
19:25with the gas
19:25and air
19:26just like
19:26yeah I did
19:28last time
19:28my wife
19:29told me
19:29off
19:30but then
19:30because Liv
19:31will be at
19:31home
19:32it's your
19:33feel relaxed
19:34you'll feel
19:34chilled
19:34one question
19:35do you get in
19:36the bath
19:36with her
19:37I don't think
19:38it's big enough
19:39oh it's just
19:39a little thing
19:40yeah it's more
19:40like an ice bath
19:41but a little bit
19:42bigger
19:42oh yeah
19:42it's still
19:43it's not
19:43like I'm cold
19:44sounds fun
19:46I know
19:47I'll keep it
19:48I'll keep it
19:50for after
19:50like bedroom
19:51jacuzzi
19:52when you're
19:54stressed
19:54your body
19:55like seizes up
19:56your adrenaline
19:57kicks in
19:57instead of
19:58your oxytocin
19:59hold on
20:00come here
20:00are you feeling
20:02wrong
20:02wait I've
20:04learnt stuff
20:05man
20:06mad
20:06I am still
20:07a little bit
20:07scared about it
20:08I'd never say
20:09this to her
20:09I'm still
20:10worried
20:10because anything
20:11could happen
20:11at the end
20:12of the day
20:12but it's like
20:12say if she
20:14did need to
20:14go to hospital
20:15it's like
20:1520 minutes
20:16away
20:16speaking to
20:18Ty
20:18about
20:18kind of
20:19having my
20:19concerns
20:20with the
20:20home birth
20:21and stuff
20:21like
20:21obviously
20:22I want
20:23Liv
20:23to be
20:24in that
20:24kind of
20:25headspace
20:25where she
20:26feels
20:26very
20:27positive
20:27about it
20:28but there's
20:28always going
20:29to be
20:29doubts
20:29I mean
20:30I'm sure
20:30Liv has doubts
20:31in that as
20:31well
20:31we've just
20:32got to
20:32try
20:32and
20:32because
20:33we can't
20:33bring them
20:34up to
20:34each other
20:34it's hard
20:35to like
20:35vocalise
20:36and get
20:36it off
20:36your chest
20:37so
20:37to be
20:37able to
20:38say it
20:38to Ty
20:38and just
20:39kind of
20:40voice my
20:41concerns
20:41about it
20:41just really
20:42really
20:42helps
20:42so
20:43last time
20:53last time
20:53when I
20:53was
20:53pregnant
20:54with
20:54Abel
20:54I
20:54didn't
20:55I
20:56think
20:56I
20:56packed
20:56the
20:56hospital
20:57bag
20:57when I
20:57was
20:57like
20:5730
20:58weeks
20:58pregnant
20:58so
20:58we're
20:59a little
21:00bit
21:00late
21:00on
21:00this
21:00one
21:01but
21:02I
21:03also
21:04took
21:04so
21:04much
21:04stuff
21:05with
21:05me
21:05don't
21:06feel
21:06like
21:06I'm
21:06going
21:07to
21:07need
21:07it
21:07this
21:07time
21:08round
21:08we're
21:08not
21:08even
21:08planning
21:09to
21:09go
21:09to
21:09hospital
21:10so
21:10I
21:12want
21:12to
21:12take
21:12like
21:13the
21:13bare
21:13minimum
21:13but
21:16I
21:16think
21:16it's
21:16because
21:16I'm
21:17like
21:17in
21:17my
21:17head
21:17I'm
21:18so
21:18certain
21:18that
21:18we'll
21:19be
21:19at
21:20home
21:20but
21:23wipes
21:23nappies
21:24look
21:27how
21:27cute
21:27these
21:27are
21:28they're
21:29so
21:29small
21:30how
21:31does
21:32anyone
21:32fit
21:32in
21:32that
21:33second
21:35time
21:35mum
21:35is
21:35not
21:36the
21:36same
21:36we
21:36just
21:36shove
21:37it
21:37all
21:37in
21:37hope
21:37for
21:37the
21:37best
21:38it's
21:41a big
21:42decision
21:42it's
21:42her
21:42first
21:43ever
21:43outfit
21:43I
21:45don't
21:45like
21:45have
21:45one
21:45that
21:46I
21:46love
21:46the
21:46most
21:46like
21:46I
21:47want
21:47her
21:47to
21:47wear
21:47one
21:47that
21:48I
21:48love
21:48the
21:48most
21:48for
21:49when
21:49she
21:49comes
21:49out
21:49I
21:49think
21:50it
21:50might
21:50be
21:50this
21:50one
21:50but
21:52I
21:53don't
21:53know
21:53it's
21:53a
21:53really
21:54big
21:54decision
21:55I
21:57take
21:57a
21:57couple
21:57check
21:59these
21:59two
22:00oh
22:01my
22:01god
22:01that
22:01one
22:02so
22:02cute
22:03I'm
22:04very
22:05hyper
22:06aware
22:06that
22:07anything
22:08in
22:09the
22:09birth
22:09I
22:09could
22:09have
22:10this
22:10dream
22:10home
22:10birth
22:11like
22:11or
22:12anything
22:12in
22:12between
22:13whether
22:14I'll
22:14be
22:14acceptant
22:15of
22:15it
22:15after
22:15I
22:16don't
22:16know
22:16I
22:16guess
22:17the
22:17worry
22:17is
22:18like
22:19with
22:20the
22:20conversation
22:20with
22:20the
22:21doula
22:21I
22:21said
22:21I
22:22don't
22:22want
22:22to
22:22be
22:22too
22:22positive
22:23about
22:23this
22:23home
22:23birth
22:24because
22:24if
22:24I
22:24get
22:24it
22:24in
22:24my
22:25head
22:25that
22:25that
22:25that's
22:25what's
22:25happening
22:26I
22:26am
22:27worried
22:27that
22:27if I
22:28end up
22:28in
22:28hospital
22:38part
22:38of
22:38me
22:39doesn't
22:39mind
22:40if
22:41I
22:41end
22:41up
22:41in
22:41hospital
22:41because
22:42this
22:43home
22:43birth
22:44infatuation
22:44that I
22:45have
22:45has
22:45kept
22:46me
22:46going
22:46and
22:46like
22:47focus
22:47my
22:47mind
22:48and
22:48in
22:49any
22:49situation
22:50I'll
22:50have
22:50about
22:5020
22:51outcomes
22:51and
22:52they'll
22:52all
22:52be
22:52in
22:52my
22:52mind
22:53at
22:53the
22:53same
22:53time
22:53so
22:54my
22:54brain
22:55is
22:55just
22:55very
22:56like
22:56full on
22:57sparking
23:04memories
23:05and
23:05creating
23:06magic
23:07Olivia
23:08and
23:08Alex
23:09Parenthood
23:09brought
23:10to you
23:10by
23:11Glade
23:11fragrances
23:12sparking
23:14memories
23:14and
23:15creating
23:16magic
23:16Olivia
23:17and
23:18Alex
23:18Parenthood
23:19brought
23:20to you
23:20by
23:21Glade
23:21fragrances
23:22who's
23:27that
23:28it's
23:29granddad
23:30do you
23:30want to
23:30get it
23:31my dad
23:31and his
23:32partner
23:32Kelly
23:32and my
23:33stepsister
23:33are coming
23:34over for
23:34lunch
23:34they are
23:35here
23:35most
23:35weekends
23:36say
23:38hi
23:38you
23:40alright
23:43you
23:44look
23:45very
23:45beautiful
23:45today
23:46didn't
23:46you
23:46we're
23:48going to
23:50do
23:50pizzas
23:51not
23:51barbecue
23:52my dad
23:53is
23:54one of
23:54my best
23:55friends
23:55have you
23:56not had
23:56Nutella
23:57pizza
23:57so good
23:59we don't
24:00go a day
24:00without
24:01speaking
24:01he'll
24:01ring me
24:02every
24:02day
24:02I'll
24:03text
24:03him
24:03every
24:03day
24:04he's
24:04here
24:04almost
24:05every
24:05week
24:05we got
24:06the
24:06birthing
24:06pool
24:07though
24:07oh did
24:08yeah
24:09it came
24:09the other
24:11day
24:11we've got
24:12to set
24:12it up
24:12and that
24:12have you
24:13got any
24:13worries
24:13about
24:14it
24:14I've
24:15read
24:15like a
24:16story
24:16like a
24:17bad
24:17story
24:17about
24:18home
24:18birth
24:18and
24:18it
24:18was at
24:19night
24:20and it
24:20really
24:20scared
24:21me
24:21but
24:22then I
24:22know
24:22like
24:23deep
24:23down
24:23if I
24:24want
24:24to
24:24go
24:24to
24:24hospital
24:25at
24:26the
24:26last
24:26minute
24:26I
24:27can
24:27choose
24:27to
24:27go
24:27when I
24:28mentioned
24:28home
24:29birth
24:29my dad
24:30was
24:30very
24:30concerned
24:31when you
24:32go
24:32against
24:32the
24:32norm
24:33you're
24:33going
24:33to
24:33get
24:33opinions
24:34that
24:35don't
24:35match
24:35yours
24:36and
24:36that's
24:36fine
24:36but
24:37you
24:37have
24:37to
24:37have
24:37the
24:38conviction
24:38in
24:38yourself
24:38to
24:39be
24:39like
24:39no
24:39this
24:39is
24:39what
24:40I'm
24:40doing
24:40this
24:40is
24:40what's
24:40right
24:41for
24:41me
24:41need
24:44to
24:44do
24:44the
24:44pizzas
24:45on
24:45time
24:45you
24:45can't
24:46put
24:46it
24:46in
24:46yet
24:46why
24:47that
24:47needs
24:47to
24:47get
24:48to
24:48350
24:48oh
24:49okay
24:49I'm a bit
24:50nervous
24:51I've got to be honest
24:52the home birth
24:53the thing is
24:54I can't say it to live though
24:55yeah I can't say it to live
24:56the thing is though
24:57yeah
24:57most births start at home anyway
24:59it's just people that choose to go
25:00that's just become the norm to do
25:02if something was to go wrong
25:04what would then happen
25:05how quickly could she be got to ask
25:06but what difference would that
25:07little bit of time making
25:08having to get there
25:09and how many people are here with us
25:11is it just that there's one midwife
25:12no this is the thing
25:14there'll be two midwives
25:15and then you've got the two doulas yeah
25:16there's who are
25:17they're called doulas aren't they
25:18you know I've never heard of it before myself
25:20but like they're
25:21there's four people
25:23just solely for live
25:24oh okay
25:24yeah I suppose
25:25I'm still gonna be a bit nervous
25:27yeah but that's fine
25:28actually that's not true
25:29I'm gonna be a lot nervous
25:30I'm not allowed to tell anyone
25:32what
25:32when it's happening
25:33are you not
25:34no
25:35not even me
25:36has she not told you that
25:37no
25:37oh god I shouldn't have said that
25:38oh my god
25:40I shouldn't have said that
25:41Liv
25:43I just snitched on you
25:44do you see dad that we are telling anyone
25:48when the birth's happening
25:49I'm not doing it
25:51because like I'm trying to be all
25:52like private
25:53I'm only doing it because of the pressure
25:55I felt last time
25:56with Alex updating everyone
25:57I'm cool with that
25:58but this is what's amazing about my family
26:00they will just back me
26:01whatever I do
26:02they might not agree with it
26:03but they'll back me
26:04excuse me
26:08did you just ask to get down from the table
26:10you should ask me if you can get down from the table
26:14good boy
26:16you might go down
26:20yes you may
26:20that's where it comes from
26:21yeah it comes from you
26:22oh my god
26:24if I ever tried to get down from the table
26:26he'd trip me up for a bit
26:27elbows on the table
26:29no thank you
26:30knives and forks put properly and straight when you finish
26:33didn't we did all that stuff
26:35no I'll do it on purpose
26:36no you don't
26:37just to wind me up I know
26:38Olivia is a little controlling
26:40and I would probably have to hold my hand up
26:44and say it probably comes from dad
26:46actually I think controlling is probably
26:48maybe a little bit unfair
26:49it's more about wanting things
26:52the way you'd like to see them done
26:54or it's almost like project managing
26:56you want things done in a certain way
26:58do you have opinions on that
27:00yeah
27:00you do
27:01yeah
27:01I'm good be honest then
27:02which I said I wasn't going to mention to you
27:04why
27:04because I never
27:06there's no point to me ever mention anything to you
27:07because you have your own
27:08yeah but you know
27:09you still have a voice
27:11I mean I know you're a bit of a control freak
27:12like I can be
27:13but you also can get
27:16you do get very nervous
27:17and when you start to get nervous
27:19you do still panic
27:21I think that's why
27:22when I tell you I've been like
27:24researching and
27:26practicing
27:27like breathing techniques
27:28and learning for the past four or five months
27:30like I'm not taking this lightly
27:32no no
27:32because when we lost one of the twins
27:34I wanted something to focus on
27:36and I felt like that gave me control
27:38all right
27:39because I learnt so much about it
27:41you are a control freak
27:41no no yeah
27:42yeah I was just hidden it
27:44in like learning
27:45but the thing is
27:46I'm still worried
27:47I'm still worried
27:48like there's still things that could happen
27:50but another thing that they told me is
27:52obviously you've got two midwives here
27:54that are just for you
27:55in the hospital
27:56you have people come and go
27:57yeah you do that's right
27:57whereas I've got four people on hand here
28:00that's what I thought yeah
28:00well that's good then
28:01I'm just pleased then
28:02you're not telling me when you go
28:03so now I've got nothing to worry about
28:04well I did think that
28:05I said to Alex
28:08I was like if we end up in hospital
28:09then maybe we'll text people
28:10saying I'm in hospital
28:11and like it's not gone the way
28:13that I wanted it to
28:14but if I can do it here
28:15and then be like
28:16I had a baby in my hand
28:17like I would love to do that
28:20this is why sometimes
28:21I do think I'm crazy
28:22because I had an epidural
28:23with Abel quite early on
28:25I think I was like
28:26five centimetres dilated
28:27so the fact that I now
28:28want to go unmedicated
28:29at home
28:30with no pain relief
28:31other than a bit of water
28:32does that make sense?
28:34probably not
28:35but I feel like
28:36because I've learnt
28:37all this stuff
28:38like I would just want
28:39to see if I can do it
28:40like I'm competitive as well
28:41with myself
28:42you know it's not a competition
28:43do you?
28:44it is in my head
28:45against myself
28:45I want to like
28:47not prove to myself
28:48but I think I had
28:48such a bad birth
28:50with Abel
28:50I just want to see
28:51if I can
28:52manage it another way
28:54yeah do it differently
28:55good
28:55well done you
28:57are you in here now?
28:59yeah
29:00yeah
29:01yeah
29:01yeah
29:05you're going to push
29:17the carriage away
29:18to the back of the room
29:19on your exhale
29:20and then bring the carriage
29:22back in on your inhale
29:24it's so nice
29:25to actually like move
29:26yeah
29:27I've not been putting myself
29:28first at all
29:29I wish I'd just been coming
29:30like
29:30yeah
29:31it's just hard to find it
29:32you've got to like
29:33yeah you've got to appreciate
29:34that little bit of time
29:35before baby comes
29:36as well
29:36haven't you?
29:37yeah
29:37Grace, Amanda and Morgan
29:39are some of my oldest friends
29:41and Grace is actually
29:42one of my bridesmaids
29:43and they have been
29:44through the highs and lows
29:45with me
29:45that actually burns
29:46already for God's sake
29:48last night
29:51I said I wasn't going to
29:52tell anyone
29:52I was like don't tell anyone
29:53but last night
29:54at like 1 o'clock
29:56I started having contractions
29:57I spoke to the dealer
29:59and she was like
29:59it's quite normal
30:00like to have like
30:01yeah
30:02like practice ones
30:03it feels like a period pain
30:05and it just goes
30:06but last night
30:07it was like waves
30:08so it was like
30:09going up
30:10and then like
30:10because you're like
30:11timing it
30:12and everything
30:12like this
30:13it lasted like
30:14about an hour and a half
30:15two hours
30:16I know
30:17what and then just stopped
30:18they just went
30:19that's mental
30:20I didn't even know
30:20that was a thing
30:21I didn't know
30:21cheers
30:23cheers
30:24it's all being
30:25espresso martini soon
30:26I don't know
30:27what my body's even
30:28going to look like
30:28after
30:29do you feel like
30:30a lot of pressure
30:31to kind of like
30:32bounce back
30:33I was pushing myself
30:34so hard
30:35to try and get back
30:36into exercise
30:36and running
30:37because I was so like
30:38down about how I look
30:39so I went for a run
30:40and obviously like
30:40we had like given birth
30:42like I don't know
30:42it was like six weeks ago
30:43but I hadn't healed
30:44and I was going to a bench
30:46and I was running home
30:48I was like Alex
30:48I'm pooping
30:49there was no
30:52there was no control there
30:54everything was loose
30:56the muscles weren't working
30:57did you feel like
30:58any different
30:59because obviously
30:59you had c-sections
31:00didn't you
31:01was it like
31:02the recovery's longer
31:03the recovery's longer
31:03yeah
31:03obviously you don't know
31:04what your birth's
31:05like to be like
31:06but having the section
31:08like the recovery
31:08is a lot longer
31:10that's got to be
31:10difficult
31:11because it's more
31:11yeah
31:12you know how
31:14obviously I had a
31:14traumatic birth of Abel
31:15and I was like
31:16right I'm gonna
31:17I want an elective c-section
31:18I started looking into it
31:20and I was like
31:20that's not
31:21everyone says
31:21oh easy way out
31:22it's not
31:23it's harder
31:24it's hard
31:25there's more
31:26you're not even
31:26you're not even
31:26meant to like
31:27pick up a kettle
31:28are you
31:28and then having a toddler
31:30and not driving
31:30and like
31:31not carrying anything
31:33heavy with the baby
31:33like yeah
31:34the recovery is a lot
31:35longer
31:36this is why I'm trying to
31:37go down a different route
31:38because like
31:39my hand's up to
31:40women who have c-section
31:41but I still am scared
31:44I'm not gonna lie
31:44no of course
31:45we're on speed dial
31:46yeah
31:47you can give us a call
31:48if you need us to come
31:49pick up Abel or anything
31:50that's the baby
31:53we've got to pack
31:59I'll pack my stuff
32:00you please
32:01it's Alex's birthday
32:02tomorrow
32:03so we're celebrating
32:04by heading up
32:06to a safari lodge
32:06in Kent
32:07and once I get back
32:08I'll pack some bits of mine
32:09check your packing
32:10and then we'll go get Abel
32:12it's like I'm a child
32:14you are a child
32:15let's check your packing
32:16love you
32:17I'm joking
32:21I love you too
32:22I'm never saying that again
32:24I love you
32:25I say it to you
32:26more than you say it to me
32:27whatever
32:27love you
32:28alright bye
32:29Liv always underestimates me
32:34do you know what though
32:35I do kind of play up to it
32:36because I am a little bit lazy
32:38sometimes
32:38I'm just like
32:39I can't do it
32:40but really I can
32:41right before I get confused
32:44let's just do this
32:45I don't know what
32:46I've just got some pressure
32:47you know
32:48I'm just some build up pressure
32:50right so
32:52night time
32:53these will be a trouser
32:54mate I am going to
32:57absolutely smash this
32:58I have two options
33:01of what will happen
33:01he'll either do
33:02really really well
33:03because he's too scared
33:04to not do it perfectly
33:05because I'll just come home
33:07on pregnancy rage
33:08or he'll purposely mess up
33:11so that he doesn't
33:11have to do it again
33:12I don't know which side
33:13I'm going to get
33:14toothbrush
33:17swim shorts
33:19nappies for night time
33:20shorts
33:21how many are in there
33:22there's quite a few
33:23no there's shorts
33:23and trousers
33:24spares just in case
33:25joggers
33:25yeah
33:25nice ones
33:27and day to days
33:28so what
33:30I don't know why
33:31you think
33:32I'm out to get you
33:33what
33:33just tell me
33:34I've done great then
33:35you've done good
33:36well done
33:38just good
33:38your son is three
33:39and you've packed
33:40his suitcase
33:40for the first time
33:42it's not the first time
33:43don't lie
33:44how do you feel
33:45don't be lies
33:46it is the first time
33:48that's absolute lies
33:49right
33:50boom
33:50come on
33:52I've done what
33:52let's go
33:53let's go
33:54I've done what
33:56you can get up
33:58Jesus Christ
33:58right come on
34:00let's do this
34:01I've smashed it though
34:03I killed it
34:04like this year
34:05did you not charge the iPad
34:08you have to say something
34:10didn't you
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34:35I'm another year older
34:37happy birthday
34:42to daddy
34:45happy birthday
34:49to you
34:52yay
34:54happy birthday
34:56well done baby
35:00I'm going to take my
35:07presents with me
35:08that's perfect
35:12whoa whoa whoa
35:15get in the seat please
35:17no you can't sit there
35:18well then we won't go
35:19will we
35:20we're not going then
35:21I love bribery
35:22it's amazing
35:23how does it feel
35:25to be 34
35:26it does feel like
35:27my birthday yeah
35:28because he's opened
35:29all my cards
35:30and my presents for me
35:31I know
35:31I can't believe
35:33you've got to go to work
35:34on your birthday
35:35and leave me in April
35:36it's Freddie that is
35:37it's so funny though
35:40like when you have
35:41a kid
35:42like we're going
35:43on a safari
35:44for April
35:45I ain't gonna lie
35:46this is for me as well
35:47because this is like
35:48this is really really nice
35:49it's cute
35:50it's just
35:51are you joking
35:55are we boring you
35:56hey boy look
36:06you can see the rhino
36:07at the back
36:08look he's showing
36:09his bum
36:09wow
36:11oh my goodness
36:13hello
36:14two drops
36:15big three
36:16hey boy look
36:20what's over there
36:21hey boy look
36:22what
36:23oh my goodness
36:27look how tall they are
36:29yeah they've got long necks
36:31they have got long necks
36:33and what's inside their humps
36:38do you know
36:38babies
36:40babies
36:41look how lovely they are
36:45say hello
36:47oh
36:47my family is the most important thing to me
36:53when you have a family and stuff like
36:55before you kind of just work for yourself anyway
36:57oh yeah it's a hippo
36:59now it's not only providing for myself
37:02and like we live and live and vice versa
37:04now we've got a family to provide for
37:06this is what my grandma used to drink
37:08thank you very much
37:11it says happy birthday
37:12thank you
37:13oh is that your one i think it is it's got a cupcake on it
37:19you're supposed to eat all these
37:20yeah i'm just checking so i will
37:22yeah that's yours this is mine
37:25okay
37:25how would you put this on
37:28i don't think the cream can spread onto the jam properly i feel like the jam spreads onto the cream better
37:34do you want the strawberries
37:35yeah i don't want that to leave
37:38this is serious
37:39it's the only green thing and he's like don't want that bit
37:42mmm
37:43it felt like i've never eaten before
37:46this will definitely be our last trip away
37:48as a three
37:50that's it now
37:51no it's done now
37:52but we physically don't have any time after this
37:54we will not be coming for
37:56afternoon tea
37:58afternoon tea that's for sure
37:59oh my god
38:00i find it stressful going out and eating with a toddler at the best of times
38:03i don't think we'll ever go out as a family of four and eating
38:06unless it's in like mcdonald's or something
38:09i ain't gonna lie i can't be asked to get to london
38:14i'm done
38:16i don't want you to go
38:17i might just fall in sick
38:19what was that?
38:25thunder
38:25what was that?
38:27that's thunder
38:28thunder
38:28thunder
38:28oh my god
38:38look at this
38:39oh my god stop this is so cute
38:41you like sweet tea
38:43oh my god
38:44the first thing you notice
38:46oh wow
38:47how cute is this
38:49the bunk beds are thin
38:51look at that
38:53that's my bed up there
38:55is it?
38:56yeah
38:56look it's literally like a
38:57it's like you're camping
38:58so cool
39:05how about abel goes to get the pyjamas
39:08daddy stays here and has a cup of coffee and relaxes
39:11yeah
39:12oh good stuff is it yeah
39:15okay
39:16thank you
39:20i'm gonna go get the bags
39:21alex is such a family man
39:24he loves spending time with abel
39:26and this is just perfect
39:27it's such a shame he's got to go to work
39:30this is harsh
39:31it's not like
39:33it's not like oh it's my birthday i deserve a day off work
39:35it's more like oh i'm away with a family
39:37with my pregnant wife like isn't it
39:39like and it's like our last little trip and i don't really it's annoying to cut it short really
39:43say our car broke down
39:46oh you're not using the car
39:47i mean i'd rather just be honest and say look i'm not coming
39:50like it's my birthday today i'm with a family
39:53like
39:54thing is i messaged freddy about him about alex working tonight and i said is there any way that like we can just say that
40:01you know he can't do tonight out of five nights
40:03and he just said he said no it looks bad
40:07it was like it was like everyone um
40:09everyone in the industry works on their birthday
40:11i feel like it's two hours from here
40:13two hours there's no way
40:15i don't really want to be here on my own with abel
40:19really
40:20i'm there till 11 i'm not going to get back to one in the morning i don't want to leave her on her own
40:24so that's the time where you're going to call it and just be like family's more important than work so
40:28maybe we're not making the right one by our career but we're making the right one by abel and that's all i care about right now so
40:33alex will kind of struggle saying no and agree to things perhaps and
40:38and then kind of realize after he's agreed to it that perhaps he doesn't want to do that if you don't do this job you're going to lose x amount of money and you just need to know that it's my job to tell you it it's just life and one day there won't be instagram and one day there won't be love island and one day the interest might not be there
40:55look freddie what do you say i can't believe you wait till 3pm to do this
41:01where's my phone all to be there for like to film for 30 minutes and come back where is my phone
41:09i'm just going to say we tried to say to you how important it was and sometimes i don't think you
41:16understand the family work balance i'm sure they'll understand that i'll be back in tomorrow
41:22i tried to tell him a week like what four days ago that it wasn't what we wanted
41:27and he didn't listen this is his job is to be harsh on stuff like this and like to get us work and to
41:36keep us in work and that's fine but sometimes we're going to disagree but at the end of the day
41:40our word is the last word sometimes you have got to make the hard decision and
41:43then the day money will come money will go and if that company doesn't want to work with you so be it so
41:48stop it abel don't because you're going to fall over stop pulling it now
41:54stop it you're going to fall over and you're going to hurt yourself look what you're doing
41:59just talking you want to get this quilt down here no why don't we get another quilt
42:04and put it on the floor and this is why i'm not going to leave you on your own
42:08so yeah last night i woke up at like 1am i had like contraction
42:26i literally just got to sleep as well so i was like what i know and i wasn't going to wake i wasn't
42:32going to wake you up to be fair but then i just thought you have to tell you well you would you
42:35not want to know of course is this imminent is it going to happen for like in a minute or i don't
42:41know i'm kind of ready for her to come like we all are we're waiting for her to turn up to start
42:45the next part of our life the birthing pool we need to get this sorted and you need to know what
42:51you're doing so it's a poop scoop yes i don't want to scoop your poop no no okay fair enough would
42:59just give my poop no exactly yeah but i feel like my poos are probably better than yours oh my god
43:04what does women's what child birth pain compare with you giving birth is the second most painful
43:15thing while the first remains being burned alive no it's not
43:19do you know where to put it yeah it's just the gel oh it's cold oh it's doing something can you feel it
43:36light bulb oh oh i don't like that oh oh oh oh okay that's enough for checking off
43:41oh i don't know how to stop it
43:44Oh!
43:45I don't like that.
43:46Ah!
43:47Oh!
43:48Oh!
43:49Oh!
43:50Is it new?
43:51Yeah, it's doing me.
43:52Oh!
43:53Okay, that's enough for checking off.
43:55I don't know how to stop it.
43:57Check the finger!
43:58I don't know how to!
43:59Ah!
44:00You're turning it off!
44:01Ah!
44:02Ah!
44:03Ah!
44:04Ah!
44:05Jesus!
44:06Ah!
44:07You're turning it off.
44:08Stop messing about now, it hurts.
44:11Stop it.
44:12Ah!
44:13Liam, I don't like it.
44:14Is it still going?
44:15It's making me need a poo.
44:17Stop pressing it.
44:18Take it off now.
44:19I don't want it on.
44:20Liam, turn it off.
44:21Just breathe.
44:22You can do this.
44:26Inflating the pool.
44:27If you were doing this properly, you would lay the large floor sheet on the space.
44:31Inflate the bottom ring of the pool.
44:33Yep.
44:34I've got that.
44:35Is that the bottom bit?
44:36Yeah, baby.
44:37Oh, so you're going to do all of those.
44:38Open the valve as shown in the picture.
44:41Yeah, you just do it all through.
44:42I think you need to be a bit quicker.
44:44Don't be nagging me on the day.
44:47Because you'll already be stressed.
44:49I will not.
44:50See, this is...
44:51I'm not going to be stressed.
44:52No, you're not going to be stressed.
44:53I know you're going to be relaxed.
44:54But I don't need to be like, come on now.
44:55I'll do it.
44:56Look, watch.
44:57Don't turn that on.
45:00On the day I give birth to our child, whilst it's ripping me a new one, I can say,
45:06whatever the hell I want.
45:07Yeah, you can.
45:08Can we just get that straight, please?
45:09Yeah, you can say whatever you want.
45:10Fabulous.
45:11Carry on.
45:12I mean, you say whatever you want anyway, so it doesn't really make a difference if you're
45:13pushing one out.
45:14If I want to nag you, mate, I'll be nagging you all day.
45:16Yeah, I know.
45:17That's where I live.
45:18On that day, okay?
45:19I live in that kind of realm of being in trouble.
45:21Let's just get that one straight.
45:23What?
45:24Niamh?
45:25Hi, I want to just see.
45:26Jesus Christ.
45:27Where's that gone?
45:28Oh, for God's sake, no, it's gone.
45:29This is what I'm saying.
45:30Just don't get involved.
45:31I wanted to look at it.
45:32Honestly.
45:33This is well quick.
45:34Oh, my God, we're getting really close to the time now.
45:36I can't wait now.
45:37I'm just at the point where, like, come on, Luke.
45:40I can't wait.
45:41I can't wait.
45:42I can't wait.
45:43I can't wait.
45:44I can't wait.
45:45I can't wait.
45:46I can't wait.
45:47I can't wait.
45:48I can't wait.
45:49I can't wait.
45:50I can't wait.
45:51I can't wait.
45:52I can't wait.
45:53I can't wait.
45:54I can't wait.
45:55I can't wait.
45:56I can't wait.
45:57I can't wait.
45:58I can't wait.
45:59I can't wait.
46:00I can't wait.
46:01But, like, come on, Liv.
46:02Let's go on now, you know?
46:03Do we keep it?
46:04No.
46:05She's good at it.
46:06Yeah, I'll get in there.
46:07Yeah, you probably could.
46:09I'm not going to chuck you in.
46:10Don't mess around.
46:11I'm going to wet myself.
46:12Don't do that.
46:13I'm going to wet myself.
46:14Don't do that.
46:15myself don't do that come on Liv you can do it come on baby I've never seen her
46:36like that and you feel helpless you can't you can't do anything to like help
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