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Olivia & Alex: Parenthood - Season 1 Episode 3
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04:33Năm 6.
04:35Exactly.
04:36So your day has started at 5 even if the baby goes back to sleep,
04:39so things like that make a real difference.
04:41Mm.
04:42Where I'm having another baby,
04:44I know that my time is going to be halved between the 2 of them.
04:47So right now I'm like,
04:48I just need to give Abel everything that I've got.
04:51Were you on time with Abel or...?
04:53I was 2 days late with Abel,
04:54but I don't know,
04:56something's telling me that she's going to come a bit earlier.
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07:55Nhưng mà bạn nó không sẽ làm điều gì.
07:58Physically tôi không biết điều gì.
08:01Tôi không biết điều gì.
08:03Tôi không biết điều gì để có 2 đứa kinh doanh.
08:06Tôi không biết điều gì gì, để làm việc gì.
08:08Nên không biết điều gì, vì điều gì, vì điều gì, tìm một lúc tôi sẽ làm điều gì.
08:13ئ.
08:14Tôi không biết điều gì này,
08:19làm điều gì,
08:20có thể điều gì,
08:21học hôm nay thì điều gì thìông không cần.
08:25I just don't know if it's going to work to have these work days anymore.
08:28It's really hard because the part of the me that is not the mum of a newborn
08:35would say, no, I need one day to just get everything done
08:37and then I can have clear head space the rest of the week.
08:39But it's just all going to have to be played by ear.
08:42Yeah, that's fine.
08:43That is not what I like.
08:45That literally gives me anxiety.
08:47Like, let's just play my whole life by ear.
08:50Just on the book meeting on Monday,
08:52the book deadline is something like the...
08:56I think it's in the contract, it's like perhaps the 15th of December.
09:01For us to get in a position where your first session with the ghostwriter
09:04is in September slash October means we have to pick the ghostwriter better than,
09:09which takes time, you have to meet them by that point.
09:12I just don't want to be organising stuff
09:14and not having thought about the childcare thing.
09:16Basically, just crack on today with getting all the work done.
09:19I'm seeing you on Monday for this book meeting.
09:21Right.
09:22Fine, thank you. Have a good day. See you later.
09:26Bye.
09:27Bye.
09:28OK, you've just got to write a full book about your whole life by December.
09:33OK, well, it's currently end of July.
09:36Like, I've got to have a baby in that time.
09:39You know, try and bond with this baby.
09:41Have maternity, but no, you've got...
09:43You've actually...
09:44What way are you going?
09:58I've got to go that way.
09:59Oh, I've got to go that way.
10:00What time?
10:01I've got to be giving birth now.
10:03Oh!
10:04What?
10:05How long did it take you to get back?
10:06Three hours.
10:07Three hours.
10:08We'll just hold her in.
10:09Today, Alex is all the way in Birmingham working,
10:12and I am in London working, signing the deal for my new book.
10:16So they're both really important things, but we're separate this close to the birth.
10:20I can't cross my legs.
10:22That's not really how it works.
10:23This is Freddie's doing.
10:24If anyone would want to blame, blame Freddie.
10:26No, I think it will be fine.
10:28It's just it's weird that you're going, like, quite far.
10:30You're not full-term till tomorrow.
10:31Oh, yeah, I'm sure she'll wait.
10:33Look, I love it.
10:35See you later.
10:36Say hi to Ty for me.
10:37Hold on, man.
10:42Me and Alex can be quite far from each other for work reasons,
10:45but I'm very pregnant now.
10:47Like, I'm full-term.
10:48You do feel more like, oh, it could happen at any moment.
10:51You know, would he make it back if anything was to happen?
10:54It's like work guilt.
10:55Like, if I don't work, I feel guilty.
10:57If I say no, I feel guilty.
10:58If I say yes, I feel guilty towards the family.
11:00So I literally can't get it right.
11:03Yeah, I do feel a little bit nervous about agreeing to it,
11:05but it's an amazing opportunity.
11:08And, like, to say that you wrote a book and you're an author and, yeah,
11:11it's just got to be done, isn't it?
11:14Amazing. Thank you so much.
11:15You're welcome.
11:18Look at me, man. I look like a right nerd.
11:31Look at me with my little backpack on in there.
11:35Got a job in Birmingham for Jim King.
11:38I'm a Jim King ambassador. I've been with them for, like, ten years.
11:41So to turn down jobs as good as that, like, it's hard to do,
11:44so you've just got to try and work around it as best as you can.
11:47But because, obviously, I've come by train, anything can happen,
11:50and I'm going to struggle to get back, so I'm a little bit...
11:52I'm a little bit scared about it.
11:54But then again, like, it's like, what's the chances of the baby coming now?
11:57Do you know what I mean? What's the chances?
12:00Like, a due date is, which is full term tomorrow.
12:05I'd do anything it took to get on.
12:07You know what? I'd run back if I had to.
12:09I don't think I'd be able to make it, but I think I'd get it.
12:12I'd try to have a good go.
12:13Sparking memories and creating magic.
12:23Olivia and Alex, Parenthood, brought to you by Glade Fragrances.
12:30Sparking memories and creating magic.
12:34Olivia and Alex, Parenthood, brought to you by Glade Fragrances.
12:43Hi, hi, hi. Are you OK? Nice to meet you.
12:56I'm a hot moment.
12:57It's too exciting. It's too much going on.
13:03I know we've got a lot to talk about.
13:05Yeah.
13:06So, I mean, from, like, campaign to ghostwriters to dates to schedules.
13:11But in terms of, like, from now until publication,
13:14now we sign a contract.
13:16And we choose the ghostwriter.
13:19And then it's those initial...
13:20You have a bit of a... Go and have a baby.
13:24And then it's that.
13:25It's those sessions of getting the ghostwriter
13:27and having what we say, like, a kind of draft manuscript.
13:29So, if you want me to see it...
13:31Yeah, I feel like I need your expertise.
13:33I'd rather you be on hand as well.
13:35Also, what I will do is ask for areas that I think I want a bit more of.
13:39But that's also your opportunity to say,
13:41I don't want to go there.
13:42Yeah.
13:43And that's good to know.
13:44Like, that's helpful.
13:45And I won't push...
13:46I'm pretty open, aren't I?
13:47I can tell.
13:48I'm quite an over-sharer in general.
13:50Over-sharing is good, but we'll...
13:52Yeah, so I just want you to be comfortable.
13:53I guess it's more just about how in-depth you do.
13:55But you said that, like, how far do you go?
13:58But I would go as far as you need and then you just redact it.
14:02OK, so I don't have to censor myself, but you will.
14:04That's fine.
14:05That's what you do anyway.
14:06Like normal.
14:07Fine.
14:08Daily life, then.
14:09The aim of the book is to share my experiences
14:13and how I've overcome things
14:15and what's happened to me in my life
14:17and from my childhood and those tough teenage years.
14:20There will be some mention of exes.
14:23That's one thing, like, me and I don't ever really speak about.
14:26Like, we pretend that we've never been with anyone else.
14:29So I don't know how he's going to feel.
14:31I don't know if he's going to want to read that part.
14:33What a good ghostwriter does is, like, pick up from you.
14:35Your energy.
14:36Yeah.
14:37So, like, what you want to get out of it.
14:38How you sound.
14:39If you've got a bit of a sense of humour, they're going to put it in.
14:41Or if, you know...
14:42Can they pick up with the sarcasm and the stubbornness?
14:45Yeah, definitely.
14:46Because that's what they'll probably get.
14:47But I think also it's like, when you gel with someone,
14:50you understand that they're going to, like, do that for you as well.
14:53So, yeah.
14:54OK, cool.
14:55We do have a really good structure.
14:56But if that needs to ebb and flow, that's fine too.
14:59Like, I don't want you to feel restricted by that.
15:02Yeah.
15:03Obviously, there's this, like, extra chapter now.
15:04Yeah.
15:05Because the whole birth thing is such a big thing for me.
15:07Yeah.
15:08If I do manage to have a home birth, like, God knows I'm going to be
15:10talking about that in there.
15:11Yeah, definitely.
15:12Because it's such a huge...
15:13It's been a huge thing.
15:14Yeah.
15:15So, we'll have to see what happens.
15:16Next thing for me also is, like, giving...
15:18..is showing my cover brief to you so you're happy with it.
15:21Yeah.
15:22Because this is about you being real and honest, right?
15:23So, I want you to...
15:24But it's so weird that this is all happening.
15:25Is it great?
15:26Is it exciting?
15:27Like, this thing is only just clocked.
15:28I love that.
15:29And now you've said it, I'm like, oh, God, yeah.
15:31I'm going to be on that eventually.
15:32You are going to be on the cover.
15:34Have you got...
15:35You've got a month off, though, for the baby.
15:37Were you coming on?
15:38No.
15:39Oh, my God.
15:40Every other bit of work apart from this.
15:41Right, let's...
15:42Freddie's like, no, no time off.
15:43There is not.
15:44Wow.
15:45Not a month.
15:46Mum has been very vocal in the fact that I need to stop working
15:49whilst I'm so heavily pregnant.
15:51I don't want to overdo it and then have, like, a really busy mind
15:54and then think that that puts off my birth because I'm stressed.
15:57So, like, I'm trying to look after my body before I give birth
16:00because I should owe it to myself to do that.
16:03OK, so now on to the exciting bits.
16:05I mean, the contract.
16:06Oh, my goodness.
16:07Oh, it's so exciting.
16:08OK.
16:09So...
16:10Am I allowed to cry?
16:11Yes.
16:12Aw.
16:13I don't even have a champagne.
16:14Oh, we don't.
16:15I don't have any champagne.
16:16It's not allowed.
16:17Sorry.
16:18We will have a champagne moment.
16:19Sorry, I don't know why I'm crying now,
16:21because I just said I was going to cry
16:22and now I'm crying because I said I was going to cry.
16:25It is a good moment.
16:27Do I do it there?
16:28Yes.
16:29I'm going to do it in the wrong place now
16:30because I can't see.
16:33Yay!
16:34Yay!
16:35Thank you.
16:36Yay!
16:37OK, I'm going to give you a hug.
16:39This is so cool.
16:40Oh, it's so lovely.
16:41You know what?
16:42I've done, like, we've done so much in, like, my career over ten years,
16:45but we've never done this.
16:46And it just feels, like, really, like, big.
16:49Do you want me to take a picture of it?
16:50I know you can't post it now, but...
16:51I'm crying!
16:52I'm sweating!
16:53It's nice for your...
16:54I'm sweaty!
16:55...for your parasol.
16:56Freddie's like, can you just get on social media?
16:58And I'm like...
17:05Hello?
17:06Hello.
17:07Hello?
17:08Yeah, just to let you know how it went.
17:10I've signed the contract and everything.
17:12OK.
17:13Yeah.
17:14That's weird.
17:15I actually cried.
17:16I got well-emotion.
17:17Yeah, that's pretty good.
17:18I'm so proud of you.
17:19OK, then.
17:20Well, I won't see you now until midnight.
17:22Long day.
17:24Hopefully, no labour pains will erupt whilst you're three hours away.
17:29Don't stress for you.
17:30No.
17:31I'll leave you to it, then.
17:32It's all right.
17:33No stress.
17:34Have a nice day.
17:35All right.
17:36Love you.
17:37Bye.
17:48So, me and Ty are doing some social media work for a club woman today.
17:51You literally can't beat working with your mates.
17:53It's so close.
17:54Like, I could literally have a phone call any second.
17:55That's why I'm a little bit like...
17:56Even though this job was here today in Brom, like, I wish it was kind of, like, last week.
17:57Because she's full-term tomorrow.
17:58Which means it could be, like, go time.
17:59So, I met Ty in university.
18:00So, we turned up.
18:01We don't really know each other.
18:02And we're more just walking around like absolute loners.
18:03And then we just got chatting.
18:04And I was like, where do you live?
18:05And he told me where he lives.
18:06And I was like, where do you live?
18:07And I was like, where do you live?
18:08And he told me where he lives.
18:09And I was like, where do you live?
18:10And I was like, where do you live?
18:11And he just moved back with his nan that lived two streets behind me.
18:12So, I dropped him off home.
18:13And then we've just become best friends ever since.
18:14You've been busy.
18:15You've got a new missus now.
18:16I know.
18:17Have you spoke about kids?
18:18Yeah.
18:19No.
18:20But, like, Emily's like, she's like 28.
18:21And apparently women have got like a body clock, which I had no idea about.
18:23I don't know what that means.
18:24But when it expires, basically...
18:25I don't think it expires.
18:26I think it's like, as they get older, they start to lose.
18:28Like, well, they've got a body clock.
18:29And then we just got chatting.
18:30And then we just got chatting.
18:31And I was like, where do you live?
18:32And he told me where he lived.
18:33And he just moved back with his nan that lived two streets behind me.
18:34So, I dropped him off home.
18:35And then we've just become best friends ever since.
18:36You've been busy.
18:37You've got a new missus now.
18:38Have you spoke about kids?
18:39Yeah.
18:40No.
18:41I don't know what that means.
18:43I don't know.
18:44When it expires, basically...
18:45I don't think it expires.
18:46I think it's like, as they get older, they start to lose, like...
18:49What, libido?
18:50No.
18:51No.
18:52But to be...
18:53Just don't have sex.
18:54I think.
18:55Obviously.
18:56I don't know.
18:57We're not old yet.
18:58So, I don't know.
18:59I don't know how it works myself.
19:00I could imagine you as a dad.
19:01Yeah, obviously.
19:02That's what I'm saying.
19:03I think you'd be really good.
19:04Because you're just silly and stupid.
19:05How is Liv?
19:06She's good, man.
19:07I feel like...
19:08Because we're having a home birth, aren't we?
19:10I don't know what that is, dear.
19:11So...
19:12So, I was like...
19:14Try and do it, then.
19:15Try and explain it.
19:16Because, to me, I'm thinking more about the carpet.
19:18What about the stuff...
19:19So, it's gonna...
19:20There's gonna be a birth in Paul.
19:21So, there's gonna be a pool in Wales.
19:22Oh, in the pool?
19:23Oh, with the water birth?
19:24Okay, that's good.
19:25I'll be in there with the gas and air.
19:26Just like, woo-hoo!
19:27Yeah, I had it last time.
19:29My midwife told me off.
19:30But then, because, like, Liv will be at home,
19:32you'll feel relaxed, you'll feel chilled.
19:34One question.
19:35Do you get in the bath with her?
19:37I don't think it's big enough.
19:38Oh, it's just a little thing?
19:40Yeah, it's more like an ice bath,
19:41but a little bit bigger.
19:42Oh, yeah.
19:43It's still...
19:44It's not like I'm cold.
19:45Sounds fun.
19:46I know.
19:47I'll keep it.
19:48I'll keep it for after.
19:50Like, bedroom jacuzzi.
19:53When you're stressed,
19:54your body, like, seizes up,
19:56your adrenaline kicks in
19:57instead of your oxytocin.
19:58Hold on, come here.
20:00You feeling all right?
20:02What was that?
20:04I've learnt stuff, man.
20:05Mad.
20:06I am still a little bit scared about it.
20:08I'd never say this to her.
20:09I'm still worried,
20:10because anything could happen at the end of the day.
20:12But it's like, say if she did need to go to hospital,
20:14it's like 20 minutes away.
20:16Speaking to Ty about kind of having my concerns
20:19with the home birth and stuff,
20:21like, obviously, I want Liv to be in that kind of headspace
20:25where she feels very positive about it.
20:28But there's always going to be doubts.
20:29I mean, I'm sure Liv has doubts in that as well.
20:31We've just got to try not...
20:32Because we can't bring them up to each other.
20:34It's hard to, like, vocalize and get it off your chest.
20:36So to be able to say it to Ty
20:38and just kind of, like, voice my concerns about it
20:41just really, really helps, so...
20:51Last time, when I was pregnant with Abel, I didn't...
20:55I think I packed the hospital bag when I was, like, 30 weeks pregnant.
20:58So we're a little bit late on this one.
21:01But I also took so much stuff with me.
21:05Don't feel like I'm going to need it this time round.
21:08Well, we're not even planning to go to hospital,
21:10so I want to take, like, the bare minimum.
21:14But I think it's because, like, in my head,
21:17I'm so certain that we'll be at home.
21:20But wipes, nappies...
21:25Look how cute these are.
21:28They're so small.
21:31How does anyone fit in that?
21:34Second time mum is not the same.
21:36We just shove it all in, hope for the best.
21:41It's a big decision.
21:42It's her first ever outfit.
21:44I don't, like, have one that I love the most.
21:46Like, I want her to wear one that I love the most
21:48for when she comes out.
21:49I think it might be this one.
21:52But I don't know.
21:53It's a really big decision.
21:56I'll take a couple.
21:58Take these two.
22:00Oh, my God, that one's so cute.
22:04I'm very hyper-aware that anything could happen in the birth.
22:09I could have this dream home birth, like, or anything in between.
22:13Whether I'll be acceptant of it after, I don't know.
22:16I guess the worry is, like, with the conversation with the doula,
22:21I said I don't want to be too positive about this home birth,
22:23because if I get it in my head that that's what's happening,
22:26I am worried that if I end up in hospital,
22:29it's going to, you know, send me under and I've lost control
22:32and it's going to be all crazy again.
22:36But I just need her to be here safely.
22:38Part of me doesn't mind if I end up in hospital
22:41because this home birth infatuation that I have
22:45has kept me going and, like, focused my mind.
22:48And in any situation, I'll have about 20 outcomes
22:51and they'll all be in my mind at the same time.
22:53So, my brain is just very, like, full on.
23:03Sparking memories and creating magic.
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23:24Oh!
23:27Who's that?
23:28It's Grandad!
23:29Do you want to get it?
23:31My dad and his partner, Kelly, and my stepsister
23:33are coming over for lunch.
23:34They are here most weekends.
23:37Say hi!
23:42You all right?
23:44Alex, you looked very beautiful today, didn't you?
23:48We're magic, mate.
23:50We're going to do pizzas, not barbecue.
23:52Thank you.
23:53My dad is, like, one of my best friends.
23:56Have you not had Nutella pizza before?
23:57Oh, yeah.
23:58That's so good.
23:59So good.
24:00We don't go a day without speaking.
24:01He'll ring me every day.
24:02I'll text him every day.
24:03He's here almost every week.
24:05We got the birthing pool, though.
24:07Oh, did you?
24:08Yeah, it came the other day.
24:11We've got to set it up and that.
24:12Have you got any worries about it?
24:14I've read, like, a story, like, a bad story about home birth, and it was at night and it really scared me.
24:21But then I know, like, deep down that if I want to go to hospital, at the last minute I can choose to go.
24:28When I mentioned home birth, my dad was very concerned.
24:31When you go against the norm, you're going to get, you know, opinions that don't match yours.
24:35And that's fine.
24:36But you have to have the conviction in yourself to be like, no, this is what I'm doing.
24:40This is what's right for me.
24:43Need to do the pizzas on time.
24:45You can't put it in yet.
24:46Why?
24:47That needs to get to 350.
24:48Oh, OK.
24:49I'm a bit nervous.
24:51I've got to be honest.
24:52The home birth.
24:53The thing is...
24:54I can't set it to live, though.
24:55Yeah, I wouldn't set it to live.
24:56No, I'm not.
24:57The thing is, though, yeah, most births start at home anyway.
24:59It's just people that choose to go.
25:00That's just become the norm to do.
25:02If something was to go wrong, what would then happen?
25:05How quickly could she be got to hospital?
25:06What difference would that little bit of time make in having to get there?
25:09And how many people are here with us?
25:11Is it just the one midwife?
25:12No, this is the thing.
25:13There'll be two midwives and then you've got the two doulas, yeah?
25:16The two are?
25:17They're called doulas, aren't they?
25:18You know, I've never heard of it before myself.
25:20But, like, there's four people just solely for Liv.
25:23Oh, OK.
25:24Yeah, I suppose.
25:25I'm still going to be a bit nervous.
25:27Yeah, but that's fine.
25:28Actually, that's not true.
25:29I'm going to be a lot nervous.
25:30I'm not allowed to tell anyone.
25:31What?
25:32When it's happening.
25:33Are you not?
25:34No.
25:35Not even me.
25:36Has she not told you that?
25:37No.
25:38Oh, God, I shouldn't have said that.
25:39Oh, my God, I shouldn't have said that.
25:41Liv, I just snitched on you.
25:44Do you see Dad that we are telling anyone when the birth's happening?
25:49I'm not doing it cos, like, I'm trying to be all, like, private.
25:53I'm only doing it because of the pressure I felt last time
25:55with Alex updating everyone.
25:56No, I'm cool with that.
25:57But this is what's amazing about my family.
25:59They will just back me.
26:00Whatever I do, they might not agree with it, but they'll back me.
26:03Excuse me.
26:04Did you just ask to get down from the table?
26:09You should ask me if you can get down from the table.
26:14Good boy.
26:15You might go down.
26:16Yes, you might.
26:17That's where it comes from.
26:18Yeah, it comes from you.
26:19Oh, my God.
26:20If I ever tried to get down from the table, you'd trick me up for a bit.
26:23Elbows on the table.
26:24No, thank you.
26:25Knives and forks put properly and straight when you're feeling it.
26:28Didn't we do all that stuff?
26:29No, I'll do it on purpose.
26:30Yeah, no, you don't.
26:31Just to wind me up, I know.
26:32Olivia is a little controlling, and I would probably have to hold my hand up and say it
26:44probably comes from Dad.
26:46Actually, I think controlling is probably maybe a little bit unfair.
26:50It's more about wanting things the way you'd like to see them done, or it's almost like
26:56managing, and you want things done in a certain way.
26:59Do you have opinions on that?
27:00Yeah.
27:01You do?
27:02Yeah.
27:03I'm good.
27:04Be honest then.
27:05Because I said I wasn't going to mention to you.
27:06Why?
27:07I don't care.
27:08Because you have your own...
27:09Yeah, but you know, you still have a voice.
27:11I mean, I know you're a bit of a control freak like I can be, but you also can get,
27:16you do get very nervous, and when you start to get nervous, you do still panic.
27:21I think that's why, like, when I tell you I've been, like, researching and practising,
27:27like, breathing techniques and learning for the past four or five months, like, I'm not
27:31taking this lightly.
27:32No, no.
27:33Because when we lost one of the twins, I wanted something to focus on, and I felt like
27:37that gave me control.
27:38Oh, right.
27:39Because I learnt so much about it.
27:40You are a control freak.
27:41No, no, yeah.
27:42Yeah.
27:43Yeah.
27:44I was just hidden it in, like, learning.
27:45Yeah.
27:46But the thing is, I'm still worried.
27:47I'm still worried.
27:48Like, there's still things that could happen, but another thing that they told me is, obviously,
27:53you've got two midwives here that are just for you in the hospital.
27:56You have people come and go.
27:57Yeah, you do.
27:58That's right.
27:59Whereas I've got four people on hand here.
28:00That's what I thought, yeah.
28:01Well, that's good then.
28:02I'm just pleased that you're not telling me when you go, so I've got nothing to worry about.
28:05Well, I did think that.
28:06I'm better off not knowing.
28:07I said to Alex, I was like, if we end up in hospital, then maybe we'll text people saying,
28:11I'm in hospital.
28:12Right.
28:13And, like, it's not gone the way that I wanted it to.
28:14But if I can do it here and then be like, I had a baby in my hand, like, I would love
28:19to do that.
28:20This is why sometimes I do think I'm crazy, because I had an epidural with Abel quite
28:24early on.
28:25I think I was, like, five centimetres dilated.
28:27So the fact that I now want to go unmedicated at home with no pain relief other than a bit
28:32of water, does that make sense?
28:34Probably not.
28:35But I feel like because I've learnt all this stuff, like, I would just want to see if
28:39I can do it.
28:40Like, I'm competitive as well, like, with myself.
28:42You know it's not a competition, do you?
28:44It is in my head against myself.
28:46I want to, like, not prove to myself, but I think I had such a bad birth with Abel,
28:50I just want to see if I can...
28:53Manage it another way.
28:54Yeah, do it differently.
28:55Good.
28:56Well done, you.
28:57Are you in here now?
28:59Yeah.
29:00Yeah.
29:01Yeah.
29:02You're gonna push the carriage away to the back of the room on your exhale, and then bring
29:21the carriage back in on your inhale.
29:24Yeah.
29:25It's so nice to actually, like, move.
29:26Yeah.
29:27I've not been putting myself first at all.
29:28I wish that I'd just been coming, like...
29:30Yeah.
29:31It's just hard to find it.
29:32You've got to, like, yeah, you've got to appreciate that little bit of time before
29:35baby comes as well, haven't you?
29:37Yeah.
29:38Grace, Amanda, and Morgan are some of my oldest friends, and Grace is actually one
29:42of my bridesmaids, and they have been through the highs and lows with me.
29:45That actually burns already, for God's sake!
29:48Last night, I said I wasn't gonna tell anyone, I was like, don't tell anyone, but last night,
29:54at, like, one o'clock, I started having contractions.
29:57I spoke to the dealer, and she was like, it's quite normal, like, to have, like...
30:01Yeah, it's just when you're getting ready.
30:02Yeah, like, practice ones.
30:03It feels like a period pain, and it just goes, but last night, it was, like, waves,
30:08so it was, like, going up, and then, like...
30:10You were, like, timing it and everything, like...
30:13It lasted, like, about an hour and a half, two hours.
30:16I know.
30:17What, and then just stopped?
30:18They just went...
30:19That's mental.
30:20I didn't even know that was a thing.
30:21I didn't know.
30:22Cheers.
30:23Cheers.
30:24There's still be an espresso martini soon.
30:26I don't know what my body's even gonna look like after this baby.
30:29Do you feel, like, a lot of pressure to kind of, like, bounce back?
30:33I was pushing myself so hard to try and get back into exercise and running,
30:37cos I was so, like, down about how I looked, so I went for a run.
30:40And obviously, like, we had, like, given birth, like, I don't know,
30:42it was, like, six weeks ago, but I hadn't healed.
30:44And I was going to a bush, and I was running home,
30:47and I was like, Alex, I've pooped my...
30:49There was no, like...
30:52There was no control there.
30:54Everything was loose.
30:56The muscles weren't working.
30:57Did you feel, like, any different, cos, obviously, you had C-sections,
31:00didn't you?
31:01Was it, like...
31:02The recovery's longer.
31:03The recovery's longer.
31:04Yeah, obviously, you don't know what your birth's going to be like,
31:06but having the section, like, the recovery is a lot longer.
31:09That's got to be difficult, hasn't it?
31:10Because it's more in...
31:11Yeah, it's...
31:12You know how, obviously, I had a traumatic birth of Abel,
31:15and I was like, right, I'm gonna...
31:17I want an elective C-section.
31:18I started looking into it, and I was like, that's not...
31:20It's not easy.
31:21Everyone says, oh, easy way out.
31:22It's not.
31:23It's very easy.
31:24It's harder.
31:25It's hard.
31:26It's more hard.
31:27You're not even meant to, like, pick up a kettle, are you?
31:28No.
31:29And then, like, you're not driving and, like, not carrying anything.
31:32Yeah.
31:33Maybe, like, it's...
31:34Yeah, the recovery is a lot longer.
31:36This is why I'm trying to go down a different route,
31:38because, like, my hand's up to women who have C-sections.
31:41Mm.
31:42But I still am scared, I'm not gonna lie.
31:44No, of course.
31:45We're on speed, darl.
31:46Yeah.
31:47Can, er, give us a call if you need us to come pick up Abel or anything.
31:50Guys!
31:51I need you to catch the head! It's coming!
31:52That's the baby!
31:58We've got to pack.
31:59I'll pack my stuff for you, please.
32:01It's Alex's birthday tomorrow,
32:03so we're celebrating by heading up to a safari lodge in Kent.
32:07Once I get back, I'll pack some bits of mine,
32:09check your packing, and then we'll go get Abel.
32:12It's like I'm a child.
32:14You are a child.
32:15Let's check your packing.
32:16Love you!
32:20I'm joking, I love you too.
32:22I'm never saying that again.
32:24I love you.
32:25I say it to you more than you say it to me.
32:26Whatever.
32:27Bye.
32:28Love you.
32:29All right, bye.
32:30Liv always underestimates me.
32:34Do you know what though?
32:35I do kind of play up to it.
32:36Because I am a little bit lazy sometimes.
32:38I'm just like...
32:39I can't do it, but really I can.
32:41Er...
32:42Right, before I get confused, let's just do this.
32:45I don't know what, I've just got some pressure, you know?
32:48I've got some built-up pressure.
32:50Right, so, night time.
32:52These will be atroza.
32:54Mate, I am gonna absolutely smash this.
32:58I have two options of what will happen.
33:01He'll either do really, really well,
33:03because he's too scared to not do it perfectly,
33:05because I'll just come home on pregnancy rage,
33:08or he'll purposely mess up
33:10so that he doesn't have to do it again.
33:12I don't know which side I'm gonna get.
33:16Toothbrush.
33:17Swim shorts.
33:18Yeah.
33:19Nappies for night time.
33:20Shorts.
33:21How many are in there?
33:22There's quite a few.
33:23No, there's shorts and trousers.
33:24Spares, just in case.
33:25Oh, joggers.
33:26Yeah.
33:27Nice ones and day-to-days.
33:29So what?
33:30I don't know why you think I'm out to get you.
33:33What?
33:34Just tell me I've done great, then.
33:35You've done good.
33:36Well done.
33:37Just good.
33:38Your son is three
33:39and you've packed his suitcase for the first time.
33:42It's not the first time.
33:43How do you feel?
33:44Don't lie.
33:45How do you feel?
33:46Don't be lice.
33:47It is the first time.
33:48That's absolute lice.
33:49Right.
33:50Boom.
33:51Come on.
33:52I've done what.
33:53Let's go.
33:54Let's go.
33:55Let's go.
33:56I've done what.
33:57You can get up.
33:58Jesus Christ.
33:59All right.
34:00Come on.
34:01Let's do this.
34:02I've smashed it though, haven't I?
34:04I killed it.
34:05I like the show.
34:06Did you not charge the iPad?
34:08You have to say something, don't you?
34:11F hungry.
34:12Maybe you could eat.
34:13I knew it.
34:14Well done.
34:15I'm there.
34:16Yeah.
34:17It's good.
34:18I'm
34:30I'm making fun now.
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40:17I don't really want to be here on my own with Abel, really.
40:20I'm there till 11, I'm not going to get back till 1 in the morning.
40:23I don't want to leave her on her own.
40:24So that's the time where you've got to call it and just be like,
40:26family's more important than work, so...
40:28Maybe we're not making the right one by our career,
40:31but we're making the right one by Abel and that's all I care about right now, so...
40:34Alex will kind of struggle saying no and agree to things perhaps
40:37and then kind of realise after he's agreed to it
40:41that perhaps he doesn't want to do that.
40:43If you don't do this job, you're going to lose X amount of money
40:46and you just need to know that.
40:48It's my job to tell you it, it's just life
40:51and one day there won't be Instagram and one day there won't be Love Island
40:54and one day the interest might not be there.
40:57Look, Freddie.
40:58What do you say?
40:59I can't believe you've waited till 3pm to do this.
41:03Where's my phone?
41:04All to be there for, like, to film for 30 minutes and come back.
41:08Where is my phone?
41:11I'm just going to say, we tried to say to you how important it was
41:15and sometimes I don't think you understand the family work balance.
41:18I'm sure they'll understand that.
41:19I got this.
41:20I'll be back in tomorrow.
41:22I tried to tell him a week, like, what, four days ago
41:25that it wasn't what we wanted.
41:27I don't know how we go down there.
41:30And he didn't listen.
41:31This is, his job is to be harsh on stuff like this
41:35and, like, to get us work and to keep us in work
41:37and that's fine, but sometimes we're going to disagree.
41:39But at the end of the day, our word is the last word.
41:42Sometimes you have got to make the hard decision
41:43and at the end of the day, money will come, money will go
41:45and if that company doesn't want to work with you, so be it, so.
41:50Stop it.
41:52Abel, don't, because you're going to fall over.
41:53Stop pulling it now.
41:55Stop it.
41:56You're going to fall over and you're going to hurt yourself.
41:58Look what you're doing.
42:00Just talking.
42:01You want to get this quilt down here?
42:02No.
42:03Why don't we get another quilt and put it on the floor?
42:05And this is why I'm not going to leave you on your own.
42:21So, yeah, last night, I woke up at, like, 1am.
42:24I had, like, contraction.
42:26I literally just got to sleep as well, so I was like, what?
42:30I know, and I wasn't going to wake you up, to be fair,
42:33but then I just thought, no, I have to tell you.
42:35Well, would you not want to know?
42:36No, of course.
42:37Is this imminent?
42:38Is it going to happen, like, in a minute?
42:40Or I don't know.
42:41I'm kind of ready for her to come.
42:43Like, we all are.
42:43We're waiting for her to turn up to start the next part of our life.
42:48The birthing pool.
42:49We need to get this sorted and you need to know what you're doing.
42:52So it's a poop scoop?
42:53Yes.
42:54I don't want to scoop your poo.
42:56No?
42:57No.
42:57Okay.
42:58Well.
42:58Would you scoop my poo?
43:00No.
43:00Exactly.
43:01Yeah, but I feel like my poos are probably better than yours.
43:03Oh, my God.
43:06What does women's...
43:09What?
43:10Childbirth pain compare with you?
43:13Giving birth is the second most painful thing
43:15while the first remains being burned alive.
43:18No, it's not.
43:24Do you know where to put it?
43:25Yeah.
43:25Ah!
43:26It's just the gel.
43:28It's cola.
43:28It's cola.
43:28Ah!
43:32Oh!
43:34It's doing something.
43:35Can you feel it?
43:39Oh!
43:39Oh!
43:42Oh!
43:43Oh!
43:45Oh, I don't like that.
43:47Ah!
43:48Oh!
43:49Oh!
43:49Is it you?
43:51Yeah, it's doing me.
43:52Oh!
43:53Oh, that's enough.
43:54I'm checking it off.
43:55Ah!
43:55I don't know how to stop it.
43:57Check the finger off.
43:58I don't know how to stop it.
43:58Ah!
43:59You're turning it off.
44:01Ah!
44:03Oh!
44:04Jesus.
44:07Ah!
44:07You need to turn it off.
44:08Stop messing about now, it hurts.
44:11Stop it.
44:11Liv!
44:12Ah!
44:13Liv, I don't like it.
44:15Is it still going?
44:15Yes, making me need a poo.
44:16Oh, stop pressing it.
44:18Take it off now, I don't want it on.
44:20Liv, turn it off.
44:21Just breathe, you can do this.
44:26Inflating the pool.
44:27If you were doing this properly,
44:28you would lay the large floor sheet on the space.
44:31Inflate the bottom ring of the pool.
44:34Yeah, I got it.
44:35Is that the bottom bit?
44:36Yeah, baby.
44:36Oh, so you're going to do all of those.
44:38Open the valve as shown in the picture.
44:41Yeah, you just do it.
44:42I think you need to be a bit quicker.
44:44Don't be nagging me on the day.
44:46Because you'll already be stressed.
44:49I will not.
44:49See, this is...
44:50No, you're not going to be stressed.
44:51No, you're not going to be stressed.
44:52I know you're going to be relaxed.
44:53But I don't need to be like, come on now.
44:55I'll do it.
44:56Look, watch.
44:58Don't turn that on.
45:00On the day I give birth to our child,
45:03whilst it's ripping me a new one,
45:04I can say, whatever the hell I want.
45:07Yeah, you can.
45:07Can we just get that straight face?
45:08Yeah, you can say whatever you want.
45:09Fabulous, carry on.
45:09I mean, you say whatever you want anyway,
45:11so it doesn't really make a difference if you're pushing one out.
45:14If I want to nag you, mate, I'll be nagging you all day.
45:17Yeah, I know.
45:17That's where I live.
45:18On that day, okay?
45:19I live in that kind of realm of being in trouble.
45:22Get that one straight.
45:27Niamh?
45:28Jesus Christ, where's that gone?
45:31For God's sake, no, it's gone.
45:33This is what I'm saying, just don't get involved.
45:35I wanted to look at it.
45:36Honestly.
45:42This is well quick.
45:46Oh, my God, we're getting really close to the time now.
45:49I can't wait now.
45:50I'm just at the point where, like, come on, Liv,
45:53let's go now, you know?
45:54Do we keep it?
45:56No.
45:57This is good, eh?
46:01Yeah, I'll get in there.
46:03Yeah, you probably could.
46:04I'm not going to chuck you in.
46:11Don't mess around.
46:14I'm going to wet myself.
46:15Don't do that.
46:20Come on, Liv, you can do it.
46:23Come on, baby.
46:23Oh!
46:24Oh!
46:26Oh!
46:27I've never seen her like that, and you feel helpless.
46:37You can't do anything to, like, help her.
46:40Sparking memories and creating magic.
47:10Olivia and Alex, Parenthood, brought to you by Glade Fragrances.
47:16Let's go.
47:17So, like, do I see or you healthcare do you actually can do nothing?
47:21Because I touch you the same.
47:24So, be sure.
47:24I know.
47:25She makes me feel British.
47:25So, like, do you feel like, hey, should be who you are?
47:27Do I say?
47:28Oh.
47:29You came to see.
47:29I do.
47:30It's good.
47:31Okay, so be sure.
47:32You imagine.
47:33Two world bold wears.
47:34Have you seen the same, uh, so be careful.
47:37I guarantee you.
47:39Here I know.
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