90 Day Fiancé UK Season 4 Episode 12

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00:00Reality hits me.

00:02What the?

00:04Discord.

00:06I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.

00:10You need to grow up to go.

00:14I'm an evil genius.

00:18Will you marry me?

00:20I will.

00:22I have to be 100% sure that he's not just wanting to marry me to get out of the Gambia.

00:28It's not a no and it's not a yes.

00:31There's been a lot of ups and downs on this trip and I need to get home and think about it and make a decision on what the future holds.

00:39I will ask Sarah's dad for permission to marry her.

00:44I would love to marry her.

00:47If my dad turns Marco down, I don't know what we're going to do.

00:51What do I say? That's a big surprise.

00:54We're going to start a family at some point when we get back.

00:56Give me my grandchild.

00:58You need to separate yourself from your family to build your own.

01:03I'm just going to go for it.

01:06Will you marry me?

01:08Are you sick?

01:09What's your answer?

01:11I think today was not a good day to ask for that.

01:14This is awkward.

01:15What's your answer?

01:32Yes.

01:33But I can see here, you gave me two.

01:49So one is going to be with you.

01:53Why is one with me?

01:55So?

01:56Because you're going to give me in Brazil.

01:58Why in Brazil?

01:59Because I want you to move there.

02:01You know that.

02:02So yes, but.

02:04Wowza.

02:05Keep that one.

02:06There we are, finishing the show with that.

02:13It's not been a show of laughs.

02:20Kind of feels right that we just have it out now because you're clearly upset.

02:23Yes, I'm a little bit upset.

02:24Yes, I'm a little bit upset.

02:25I've got to get to Brazil now and ask you that.

02:29Yes.

02:36Are you okay?

02:38I don't know.

02:39I think you don't want to do this.

02:41Yeah, if I could rewind 30 minutes.

02:42You want your ring back?

02:44Too late.

02:45It's on the finger.

02:46This ain't coming off.

02:47There is nothing here that is good.

02:50Surely when you're proposing, you want a yes or a no.

02:53I've got a yes, but.

02:55I thought he's a change man, but nothing changed at all.

03:01Finn only think about what he wants.

03:05And he didn't think about me at all.

03:08I think if you'd said yes, that would have been a different thing for me.

03:11Are you going to say yes, I will jump on you?

03:13You're supposed to come here, you ask.

03:16That's not how radio works.

03:17You've got to be near a microphone.

03:19Okay, so come here then.

03:26I'm not going to do it again after you've said yes, but.

03:29I'm not doing that.

03:30Oh, come on.

03:31Just...

03:34Well, I don't...

03:35What, you want me to come around and give you a hug for saying yes, but?

03:38No, I'm not going to do that.

03:40Jeez Louise, Finn, you propose me right now.

03:44You're not going to give me a hug?

03:46Why?

03:47He can even give me a hug.

03:50Or show me any affection.

03:53Are you saying yes, or are you saying yes, but?

03:55Oh, jeez Louise.

03:56Well, you said...

03:57You've given the answer.

03:58No, I...

03:59You know what I said.

04:00I said yes, but I wanted to move to Brazil.

04:05So that's not a yes.

04:06So, yes, you have the answer then.

04:10The symbol for you to just say it is not simple to just do all of that.

04:13I'll give you a hug.

04:15No, no, I don't want a hug.

04:18All a bit strange, all a bit weird.

04:20I just want to go and lie down.

04:22Please, let's go home.

04:25This couldn't have gone any worse.

04:27I feel embarrassed and humiliated.

04:29This should be the best day of my life, but I think this is one of the worst.

04:38To be honest, I feel a little bit heartbroken.

05:04My thoughts?

05:05Yeah.

05:06My feelings?

05:07Oh, what do I say?

05:13I'll say congratulations.

05:14Well done.

05:15That's good.

05:18Wow, he is okay with this.

05:25I'm still alive.

05:27Well done.

05:29He shakes my hands and he told me congratulations.

05:33So I'm officially part of the family.

05:36Shall we talk to Sarah as well?

05:38So, you know.

05:39That I'm not lying.

05:42No, not that.

05:43But, no, it would be nice.

05:45Sarah.

05:50Hello.

05:51Hello.

05:52I heard my name.

05:53What were you talking about then?

05:56I asked his permission to marry you.

06:00And what did you say?

06:02I say congratulations.

06:04Well done, you.

06:05That's nice.

06:08And I also said that I already asked you.

06:10Oh, yeah.

06:12So when did all this happen then?

06:14Uh, three months ago now?

06:16Yeah, probably three months ago.

06:19When did you tell your parents?

06:24Oh, this is Oakworth.

06:29It's not a long time ago.

06:31A month, probably a month ago.

06:34Yeah.

06:39I was not a lot of time before.

06:42That's true.

06:46Yeah.

06:51Can I go to the toilet?

06:54Why didn't you tell us earlier?

06:55It's a long secret for you to keep.

06:58I don't know.

06:59I was just a bit worried about what you would say.

07:01Us being in different countries.

07:03Just that you would think that it wasn't the right thing to do

07:07before we decided where to live.

07:10You know that.

07:12We'll support you whatever.

07:13You decide in whatever you want to do.

07:18Hope you would live lifelong happy together wherever you are.

07:25I'm very pleased for you.

07:28Congratulations.

07:30Is it a heavy spell?

07:31Congratulations.

07:32Congratulations.

07:34Congratulations.

07:36So English.

07:37I feel like a massive relief that you finally know.

07:42We need to book a date now.

07:43Yeah.

07:44So we can move forward.

07:45Hmm.

07:46Hmm.

07:58So what do you think of this place?

08:01It's really nice.

08:02It's lovely.

08:03And we are quite lucky that we have some sun.

08:05And look, we're walking up a mountain.

08:07Yeah.

08:08Three metres of elevation gain.

08:11As part of Sarah's plan to show me UK,

08:15she's taking me on a nice walk in the woods.

08:20But we really have to decide where to live.

08:23So how are you feeling now?

08:28I'm more comfortable.

08:31I always need some time to, like...

08:35Adjust.

08:36Yeah, adjust.

08:37But with time, we will get that.

08:40I will get that.

08:41It will be easier for me, of course, to stay in Italy.

08:44It's easier to find a job.

08:46OK.

08:47But I think for you it would be easier to stay here, no?

08:50You have your job, your friends, your staff.

08:53We can't keep talking, like...

08:57Without getting to the point.

08:59This is really a big decision, but it's your decision.

09:07You really have to think about it

09:09and you have to decide what do you want.

09:14OK.

09:15I'll do my best.

09:16Also, a big point is to decide when to get married

09:21because we have to choose where to live

09:24before our wedding, I think.

09:26I don't think that should stop us choosing a date, though,

09:29because we know that either way...

09:30No, I'm telling you that we have to.

09:32Because...

09:33We have to.

09:34To pick a date.

09:36This isn't something that we should rush into.

09:39I am a bit worried that things could be a little bit tense.

09:45I'm going to bump into you, man.

09:46Just landed in the UK for the first time with Aura,

09:49and we're both exhausted from the flight,

09:52but I'm feeling kind of excited to show her my world and my country.

09:55Dad!

09:56Dad!

09:57Thank you, that was awesome.

10:01I'm walking through arrivals, and I see my mum and dad with this big welcome sign.

10:02I'm getting down.

10:03I'm getting down.

10:04I'm getting down.

10:05I'm going to bump into you, man.

10:06I've just landed in the UK for the first time with Aura,

10:09and we're both exhausted from the flight,

10:11but I'm feeling kind of excited to show her my world and my country.

10:16Dad!

10:21Thank you, that was awesome.

10:24I'm getting down.

10:25I'm walking through arrivals, and I see my mum and dad with this big welcome sign.

10:31Get in the UK.

10:34Got it?

10:37I'm really happy.

10:38Like, they've only met Aura once before at the wedding,

10:41and they've just made such an effort to make her feel welcome and part of the family.

10:45Yeah, thank you, Dad.

10:46Just in case you might.

10:47Thank you, Mom.

10:48Thank you, Mom.

10:50But now they're going home, and they're going to leave us alone so that we can get some rest.

10:55See you soon.

10:56Yeah, thank you for coming.

10:57Bye, Dad.

10:58See you later.

10:59Thank you so much for welcoming me.

11:02I am so nervous to be moving here in the UK,

11:05but seeing Andy's mum and dad in the airport,

11:08I feel like I do have my second family here.

11:12The sky is grey.

11:16It's freezing cold.

11:18And I know I'm not in the Philippines anymore.

11:24Almost there.

11:25Where?

11:26Home.

11:27Oxford.

11:28Wow.

11:29Really?

11:30Yep.

11:31I can see it now before it's just on a video call.

11:34You're walking down there.

11:35Of course you recognize.

11:36I recognize it there.

11:42Wow.

11:43This is the house.

11:44This is your house.

11:45Yep.

11:46Right here.

11:47Oh.

11:49Oh.

11:50I'm a little bit nervous to show Ara where I live.

11:53It's just been me and the cat here for six years.

11:56It's a bit of a bachelor's pad.

11:57Oh, it's so cold.

11:59And I just hope she likes it.

12:03Aw.

12:04Hello, Harry.

12:05Oh, Harry.

12:06Aww.

12:07Mal.

12:08Wow.

12:09Aw, it's cute.

12:10The gallery's nice.

12:11I've decorated the whole place.

12:12Yeah.

12:13Happy?

12:14I am so happy, Mal.

12:15Oh, Harry.

12:16Oh, Harry.

12:17Oh, Harry.

12:18Oh.

12:19Oh.

12:20Oh.

12:21Oh.

12:22Oh.

12:23Oh.

12:24Oh.

12:25Oh.

12:26Oh.

12:27Oh.

12:28Oh.

12:29Oh.

12:30Oh.

12:31Oh.

12:32Oh.

12:33That Sam Johnson wins.

12:34Happy?

12:35I am so happy.

12:36And I can feel that your friends and family welcomes me.

12:38I can't believe Ara is finally here in the flat.

12:41It's happened way sooner than I expected.

12:45But it's amazing.

12:46I'm really happy.

12:47I love you as well.

12:48You love you too.

12:49And the future.

12:50Oh, look, aloe vera.

13:07That's good, that is. That's good for your skin.

13:09I've come to the garden centre with my granddaughter, Tilly,

13:12and I know I've got to tell her everything about the Gambia.

13:15I'm a bit nervous to how she will react.

13:18They're low-maintenance.

13:19Yeah, that'd be nice for my room.

13:21Mint don't die.

13:22You can neglect it the whole time and it just flourishes.

13:25I'd be really pleased if I got one of these bought for me as a gift.

13:29Oh, look, only £1.49.

13:32Oh, Teal, if you was a plant, what would you want to be?

13:36I think I'd prefer to be a tree because they last a bit longer.

13:39Yeah. They stay around.

13:40That's true.

13:41I think I'd be a hydrangea because they're always in bloom.

13:45I'm always in bloom.

13:46And there's, like, all pinks and lilacs and they're just really beautiful.

13:51Yeah, hydrangea for me.

13:52Yeah, I like hydrangea.

13:53Yeah.

13:57Mmm.

13:59Nice.

14:00So how was the Gambia then, Nan?

14:01It's nice to see you.

14:02Now you're back.

14:02You look nice and brown.

14:04Yeah, well, it was really hot.

14:06We went on the beach a lot.

14:09We had a lot of meals out of an evening.

14:13Did you spend some nice quality time with Ibrahim?

14:22Yeah, we got engaged.

14:23Oh, my God.

14:26It's probably not the news I thought I'd be getting on a trip to the garden centre with my nan,

14:31but that's just the way she is, I suppose.

14:33It's never anything expected with her.

14:36Look, I've said yes, and we are engaged.

14:41Oh, you look really shocked, babe.

14:43I am really shocked.

14:44I can't believe it.

14:46I don't think...

14:47Nan, I don't think you should have taken the ring.

14:50Now that there's a ring on her finger,

14:52it's all sort of come into perspective for me a little bit

14:54and it's starting to feel a little bit more...

14:56..more scary.

15:02You know, he went down on one knee and I was really overwhelmed.

15:07I don't really think I thought about the actual future.

15:10I don't think you have thought about it either.

15:13Why do you think he wants to marry you?

15:19Cos he loves me, he said.

15:22He feels like I'm his soulmate.

15:26We'll see.

15:28A lot of people think that I'm just a sex tourist.

15:33I've been called it.

15:34I've been called a visa vagina.

15:37I've been called a lot of names.

15:39I don't really care because when I'm in the Gambia,

15:43it feels all romantic and it's hot and it's lovely

15:47and I'm sipping cocktails, but when I'm in England

15:49and I'm thinking, should I send him some money,

15:54then reality hits me.

15:56What am I doing?

15:57Do you know what I mean?

15:58You don't have to marry a man that is mugging you off

16:03just because you feel sorry for him.

16:05I haven't definitely said that I'm going to marry him.

16:08So you think he loves you and the fact that you're English

16:12is just a bonus?

16:13Yes.

16:14Well, you don't seem very happy, babe.

16:16No, I'm not too pleased, but I am worried

16:20and you can say that you might be in it for the right reasons,

16:24but I think there's a lot of wrong reasons as well

16:27and that's not the type of relationship I'd want you to be in.

16:31We'll just see how things go

16:36and we'll see what the future holds

16:39and if I think that he's just using me

16:44and he's asking me for money, asking me for money,

16:46then I might just contact him and say, it's over.

16:50I feel really worried to talk to him about it

16:53because I hate letting people down

16:55and least of all, a genuine man like him.

16:59You know, you're saying it's not definite,

17:02but I think he still deserves some sort of respect

17:05and if you don't think that you're going to go through the marriage,

17:08I do think you should tell him sooner rather than later.

17:11The next couple of months,

17:12I'm going to be thinking about it all the time.

17:15Well, you haven't got a few months.

17:16I think you need to make a decision now.

17:25Today, I've come out to get the ingredients

17:35to make a full English breakfast.

17:39I've never been to a UK supermarket before,

17:42so here we go.

17:48Walking into the supermarket,

17:50I feel like I'm lost.

17:54Where's the sausage?

17:56Where's the beans?

17:58Wow, this is so overwhelming.

18:02There are different kinds of cheese.

18:04What are these?

18:06I love cheese so much.

18:08I'm going to pack medium cheddar,

18:10mature cheese,

18:12mild cheddar.

18:14Wow, mozzarella.

18:16I need to go.

18:20These are the sausages.

18:21I want a big, tasty sausage.

18:25I am feeling so overwhelmed right now.

18:28Where's the beans?

18:31I am so exhausted

18:33and I hope that Andy will be happy.

18:36You all right?

18:43Got everything that I need

18:45for English breakfast.

18:46Excellent.

18:47Also, I bought some cheese.

18:49Look, I have mature cheese.

18:52Okay.

18:53And I have mild cheddar.

18:55Yeah.

18:55And I have medium cheddar.

18:59You bought three bags of cheddar.

19:03Yeah.

19:03You told me there's a lot of cheese here in UK.

19:06I didn't mean for you to buy it all.

19:08I didn't buy it all.

19:09I only bought three.

19:10Are you sure?

19:11I'm going to check.

19:12There's none.

19:13There's one more.

19:14See, there's one more.

19:17Which one is this?

19:18Mozzarella.

19:19Very good.

19:19Okay, there's one more.

19:22You let me shop alone.

19:24Apparently, I shouldn't do that.

19:26Don't complain.

19:27This is your payment for me

19:29for making a breakfast.

19:30Okay.

19:33It's really nice that Ara's

19:34going to all this effort.

19:36Ara has never eaten

19:37a full English breakfast before,

19:38let alone cooked one.

19:39So we'll see how this goes.

19:49I'm cooking English breakfast,

19:52but I don't know how to cook.

19:54Mama!

19:55I want my mom.

19:57I haven't seen any sausages like this.

20:00It's all connected.

20:01I don't understand.

20:03I need to cut this.

20:05I can't.

20:07Am I doing this right?

20:12I know even if this is not that delicious,

20:15I know Andy will gonna eat everything.

20:19It looks great.

20:23I hope that you're gonna like it.

20:26It's really nice that Ara's

20:27putting in a little bit of effort

20:28and trying to learn about

20:30British culture and traditions

20:31after I've spent so long

20:32learning all the weird

20:34and wonderful Filipino traditions.

20:49I know we need to decide where to live.

20:51It's a really huge decision

20:53and it can feel quite overwhelming.

20:56Cheers.

20:58I'm meeting my friend Nikki tonight

21:00and I'm hoping that she can help me

21:02with some of the big decisions

21:03that I have to make.

21:05So, how are things with you and Marco?

21:07Yeah, so I have something to tell you.

21:10Okay.

21:11We got engaged.

21:15Congratulations.

21:16I know.

21:17And here is the ring.

21:18I've been hiding this.

21:19Oh my gosh, it's beautiful.

21:21It is.

21:21You've got tiny slim fingers.

21:24Oh.

21:24So, when's it gonna be?

21:25What are you planning?

21:27We want to do it in

21:28maybe a couple of months' time.

21:31Okay.

21:32Have you planned any of it?

21:35No, not really.

21:36No.

21:37We've found a venue that we love.

21:39Oh, okay.

21:40But once we get married

21:42it's easier to fix

21:43where we're gonna actually be.

21:45He has said that he would be happy

21:47in either place

21:48and it is up to me.

21:52Oh.

21:53How do you feel about that?

21:54Well, I wanted to make a decision with him

21:56but he's saying he's happy in either

22:00so I'm like,

22:01what can I do?

22:03Okay.

22:03So it's a lot.

22:05To me, decisions like that

22:06need to be between both of you.

22:07You're both in this relationship.

22:09I'm really feeling pressure with this.

22:11What happens if I make the wrong decision

22:13and one of us is miserable?

22:15I think there is a possibility

22:16that he could resent me

22:17if he stayed in England.

22:18You need to tell him that.

22:20You need to have a conversation.

22:21You need to say that

22:22this is how you feel,

22:23this is what you want.

22:24It's such a tricky thing.

22:27Like, would you resent him

22:28if you went to Italy?

22:30I think you really need to talk to him.

22:32What do your lives look like here?

22:33What do your lives look like there?

22:34These are conversations you need to be having

22:35and you can't float on this

22:37big life decision.

22:39Yeah, I know.

22:40You're right.

22:40I'm sorry.

22:41I don't want you to just do things

22:43because you're trying to please someone else.

22:45He's left this decision with you.

22:47He's also left the burden on you

22:50to make that choice

22:52and that's really tough.

22:53Yeah, I need to have that chat with him.

22:55So where he's gone,

22:56I'm fine, you make it.

22:57You go, no, I'm not making this on my own.

22:58This is too big a decision.

22:59We are a couple.

23:00We are a team.

23:01We are a family.

23:02We make this together.

23:02We have an argument.

23:27It isn't the worst argument

23:29and he decides to sleep in his friend's house.

23:36I'm really sad about it

23:39and I'm not feeling that I'm engaged yet.

23:43I'm sorry to say that.

23:47I went to spend the night at a friend's house.

23:50I can't deal with conflict.

23:51I just shut down.

23:53I needed to mull over a lot of things.

23:57There's a lot going on in my head,

24:02a lot of frustration,

24:03a lot of pent-up, sadness.

24:05You know, I made some silly decisions.

24:09I think this does not feel like an engagement

24:11in any way, shape or form.

24:13I think this could go either way.

24:17So I'm going to the park now

24:19and then I'll meet Finda

24:23and see how it's going to be.

24:27Hi.

24:29Hi.

24:31How are you?

24:32Fine.

24:33How are you?

24:39Are you OK?

24:41Not great.

24:42You're not happy.

24:44Yeah, I'm not happy.

24:47I'm sorry.

24:48This isn't an excuse.

24:50The intent was always that I love you

24:52and I want to move this relationship further.

24:57But how I implemented it was poor.

25:00I get that.

25:02I love radio.

25:03You don't.

25:04And in my head,

25:06it just played out differently.

25:08I'm not OK right now.

25:11And neither am I.

25:17It seems like, from Sandra,

25:18the fire or the fight has gone from this relationship.

25:23How are we going to fix this?

25:24I really don't know.

25:27I really don't know.

25:29I guess we just need to think through what we want.

25:32Because I think we are similar in so many things.

25:34I think we are.

25:36But different in many other things.

25:37Yeah, yes.

25:38Different.

25:40You know what I expect from you?

25:42To come to Brazil.

25:44I know.

25:45It's not just that.

25:46I know.

25:46I want you to show more affection.

25:51Because at the moment,

25:52I don't feel that you love me.

25:57I struggle to show affection.

25:58I know that.

25:59You know how my family are.

26:01We're not close.

26:02There's been a lot of torment,

26:04a lot of coldness in our family.

26:06In my family, I'm talking about.

26:08Whereas you, it's the opposite.

26:09You got through adversity

26:11by being close with your family

26:14and holding on to them.

26:16Whereas I got through adversity

26:17by pushing them away.

26:21I think it's taken me a good amount of time

26:24right up into my adult life

26:27to really understand what love is.

26:29I think I could fundamentally say

26:31that Sandra does bring joy,

26:33happiness and love to my life.

26:35I really hope Sandra hasn't given up on us.

26:38One of the things I do to show affection, though,

26:41is I think in my head creatively.

26:43Like for me, proposing in the radio studio

26:45was the most creative thing

26:46I could have thought of.

26:48I don't know, and I know you don't like that.

26:49I don't like that.

26:50I know.

26:51I don't know how to show affection

26:53in the way that you want the whole time.

26:55I can do it, and I'm learning.

26:57I am learning.

26:58And I am trying.

27:00And I think it's not working.

27:02I feel lonely here.

27:06What do you think?

27:10It's not been perfect.

27:11I know that.

27:12All I can say is it didn't feel like an engagement

27:15on that day, did it?

27:17No.

27:17I'm not wearing the thing.

27:21You're not wearing the ring?

27:22No.

27:23So then that's clear, then, isn't it?

27:25Yes, I don't feel that I'm engaged.

27:28I'm sorry.

27:30We can continue this relationship.

27:33And I see you move to Brazil.

27:38So I'll give you time to think,

27:42and then we can talk it again.

27:46I just wish we can be the same man

27:52I fall in love with.

27:55I think this relationship is over,

27:58and he's the only one who can fix it.

28:05I'm so sorry.

28:06Can we have a break?

28:09I'm so sorry.

28:34Hey.

28:34Ha-ha.

28:35This is your drink.

28:37Thank you very much.

28:38Tonight's big night.

28:39Finally introducing Ara to my two closest friends,

28:43Louise and Sarah.

28:44I'm excited, but also a little bit nervous

28:46because I know they had some reservations

28:48about everything that's happened between us, so.

28:53I'm so excited meeting Sarah and Louise.

28:56They're quite loud.

28:57Yeah, just like me.

28:59And they make fun of me a lot,

29:00so I think I'm going to get along with them pretty well.

29:04Hey.

29:05Hello.

29:07Hi.

29:07How are you, guys?

29:08Hi.

29:09How are you?

29:10Good.

29:10How are you?

29:11I'm totally fine.

29:12Finally, I met you.

29:14I thought I'm the loudest one,

29:16but they are really louder than me.

29:19It's so great.

29:20You'll find me here.

29:21I'm so excited.

29:22I am so excited to meet you.

29:24So, tell us everything.

29:25Your first few weeks in the UK,

29:28how are you getting on?

29:30Um, I'm not used to cold weather.

29:32Sometimes I'm regretting it.

29:34So, you guys have met, you have gotten engaged,

29:43you have gotten married,

29:45you have moved to the UK

29:46in, like, the span of a few months.

29:50What's next?

29:52What do you think is next?

29:53We are...

29:56Yeah, we're going to try for a baby.

29:57Aw.

29:58We're thinking of having an IVF.

30:00Okay.

30:01I'm entitled to that treatment

30:02because I've got genetic disorder.

30:03Okay.

30:04But in the meantime,

30:05we're obviously trying to do it naturally

30:06as often as possible.

30:09I didn't expect nothing less.

30:11I've had a lot of x-rays down there,

30:13so it's, like, a surprise

30:14that it doesn't glow in the dark at this point.

30:16I do not need to know about your lightsaber.

30:19It's just like,

30:19when you turn off the light in our bedroom,

30:21there's light.

30:21It gives her a target to wait for.

30:24It's just like a dead fish.

30:26What?

30:29A dead fish?

30:32That's the word you keep in describing.

30:36Coping up the breeze, like...

30:38Oh, this is why I didn't even get to be your friend.

30:41I can't deal with this.

30:43Little Andrew

30:44described as a dead fish.

30:47He's very much alive and flapping last time.

30:49I checked.

30:52Well, here's Sarah and Andy.

30:55All right.

30:56Bye, guys.

30:57Bye.

30:59LAUGHTER

31:00LAUGHTER

31:00MUSIC PLAYS

31:03MUSIC PLAYS

31:05MUSIC PLAYS

31:07MUSIC PLAYS

31:09MUSIC PLAYS

31:11MUSIC PLAYS

31:13MUSIC PLAYS

31:15MUSIC PLAYS

31:17MUSIC PLAYS

31:19I've been thinking long and hard about the engagement

31:23and my decision's made.

31:26As hard as it is, I am going to call it off.

31:29MUSIC PLAYS

31:31MUSIC PLAYS

31:32MUSIC PLAYS

31:33MUSIC PLAYS

31:34Ibrahim wants something serious, but I don't.

31:39MUSIC PLAYS

31:40MUSIC PLAYS

31:41Hello, Ibrahim.

31:42You OK?

31:43MUSIC PLAYS

31:44Well, the thing is, Ibrahim, the reason why I've called you

31:51is because I've been doing a lot of thinking.

31:55MUSIC PLAYS

31:57MUSIC PLAYS

31:58In view that we have, like, mixed cultures

32:02and I live miles away and you're miles away...

32:06OK.

32:07MUSIC PLAYS

32:07This might upset you, but I've decided to break off our engagement

32:12and I won't be able to marry you or be engaged to you.

32:18And I think that you should find someone your own age.

32:22I think it's going to be better all round.

32:25How do you feel?

32:27MUSIC PLAYS

32:27I love you, so...

32:29MUSIC PLAYS

32:29I know you do, babe.

32:31And I love you.

32:32The thing is, I don't think it's a good thing.

32:36And I want you to be happy with somebody else.

32:43Oh, baby, you're crying.

32:49Oh, don't cry.

32:50MUSIC PLAYS

32:51I don't like it.

32:52I don't like it, definitely.

32:58I know, but I've made a decision

33:00and I'm having to stick with the decision.

33:04I know it's hard.

33:07I know what you're upsetting me, man.

33:09I know, babe.

33:10Don't be upset, because you'll meet someone else.

33:13I know, but I don't like it, definitely.

33:16Well, I'm really sorry, Ibrahim,

33:17but that's the way it has to be.

33:20And I couldn't live in the Gambia

33:22and for you to come to England would be virtually impossible.

33:28I don't think I can meet somebody like you, man.

33:30I'm really sorry, babe, because I do love you,

33:35but it's just something that has to be done.

33:38I don't want you to be upset.

33:39Oh, babe.

33:41Oh, I feel very upset, man.

33:44So upset, man.

33:47Of course, I was expecting...

33:49..to the end of our life, man, babe,

33:52as I told you, man.

33:54Oh, I am sorry.

33:57I am sorry for you, Ibrahim,

33:59because you are a very nice man and you're a nice person.

34:03You deserve somebody nice in your life.

34:08OK, well, I'm going to let you go now, Ibrahim,

34:11but I'm really sorry to...to end like this.

34:15Like, try not to be upset.

34:18OK?

34:21Well, I'm going to go now,

34:23cos I don't like...I don't want to look at you

34:24when you're so upset cos it will upset me.

34:27Speak soon, then, babe.

34:28Speak soon. Bye, bye, bye, bye.

34:32Aw, poor Ibrahim.

34:35Such a nice man.

34:36He deserves someone really nice.

34:38I'm a bit of a bitch, really, but...

34:41..just the way I am.

34:47He did have a bit of a wobble,

34:49but he took it better than what I thought he would.

34:52Cheers, Ibrahim.

34:54Nice to have known you.

34:55Nice, nice man.

34:57Probably too nice for me, if the truth's known.

35:01Now it might be time to get on the dating apps.

35:04I might try Lanzarote.

35:06Hmm, something to think about.

35:09I love Lanzarote, and it's a shorter flight.

35:25So, this is another surprise about English food.

35:29Yeah, a little bit better this time, though.

35:31Yeah, I'm excited.

35:34Marco is leaving for Italy soon,

35:36so I thought it would be nice to go for a meal,

35:39but there is still a big conversation to be had.

35:43So, did you make a decision

35:46to where you would prefer to live, or...?

35:49I had this conversation with my friend, Nicky.

35:54Mm, OK.

35:56She did say to me,

35:59it's a little bit unfair

36:01for me to just be the only one that makes a decision

36:05and that we should be making it together.

36:07OK.

36:08Because if you ended up staying in England and didn't like it,

36:12there is a possibility that you could resent me

36:16if it's not a joint decision

36:18and I was the one that decided.

36:21I thought it was easier for you

36:24to just say what you prefer,

36:26because you never told me what you prefer,

36:28and you still didn't.

36:30My work base is here.

36:34Yeah.

36:35My family are here.

36:37Yeah.

36:37And they're not getting any younger,

36:40and I worry about them so much,

36:42and family is everything to me.

36:44And there is always the opportunity

36:47to move to Italy in the future

36:50when I know the language.

36:53I don't think we should rule it out.

36:55I just feel like we should try in England first

36:59while I learn the language.

37:01See if you love it.

37:06I will be happy.

37:07I'm happy.

37:08It's nice.

37:11I'm happy.

37:12That's it then.

37:13We've figured out where we want to live,

37:15and now we just need to focus on our wedding

37:17and we're getting married.

37:19Our life.

37:19Yeah, and our life together.

37:22Yeah, I can't wait to spend my life with you.

37:25and to build something important.

37:28To us, our future, our wedding.

37:31Life together.

37:32Cheers.

37:33Love you.

37:34I really love you too.

37:36Hmm.

37:52I haven't seen Sandra

37:53since our last conversation in the park.

37:56Right, here we go.

37:57You got this.

37:58Come on.

38:00I've done loads of thinking

38:01since the ultimatum.

38:02Do I change my life completely

38:04and move to Brazil?

38:06Or do I accept that...

38:08Cold outside.

38:09...this was fun while it lasted?

38:12I know I need to fight for this relationship.

38:14I just hope and pray

38:16that Sandra thinks that too.

38:19This is make or break.

38:25Hello.

38:26Hi.

38:27How are you lying?

38:28Well, thank you.

38:30How are you?

38:31Fine.

38:32How's work?

38:34Yeah, fine.

38:36Do you have a good day?

38:37Yeah.

38:38It's getting colder, isn't it?

38:41Like this relationship, you could say.

38:44Yeah.

38:45This trip to England

38:47didn't go as planned

38:48for you

38:49or for me.

38:52That's the reality.

38:53I know that I've got to move to Brazil

38:57if I want this to go any further.

39:00My name is Loja Brazil.

39:01I will trust you.

39:03Wow.

39:04Are you going to move?

39:07Yes.

39:12I just want you to be the thing

39:15that I met in Brazil

39:16two years ago

39:19because in this trip,

39:20you're not that thing.

39:21and I know you can do that.

39:27Maybe I should do

39:29what I should have done

39:31when I tried to propose to you

39:33back in the radio studio.

39:36Maybe that's it.

39:37I just need to come and give you a hug.

39:42Yes.

39:47I love you.

39:48I love you, too.

39:50You know that.

39:51That's what I should have done

39:56all along, then.

39:57Yeah.

40:00See?

40:00There we are.

40:01I can learn.

40:03How about Portuguese?

40:04Are you learning?

40:05You'd be surprised.

40:08You'd be very, very surprised.

40:10I've got a song prepared.

40:12I'm not learning anything.

40:13I've translated green sleeves into Portuguese.

40:17They say romance is dead.

40:20Not with me.

40:21Obrigado.

40:22You didn't expect that, did you?

40:43You didn't expect that, did you?

40:52The song is Green Sleeves,

40:53which is like an English ballad

40:55about a person who loves someone.

40:59That person's rejected them,

41:01but they will do anything to be with them.

41:04And the words that I sang,

41:06well, I'm going to go across the world

41:07if it means I can be with you.

41:10And then I sang Green Sleeves,

41:12Mangos Verges.

41:13This is not Portuguese.

41:16What was I saying?

41:18Green mangoes.

41:21Mangos Verges.

41:23It's green mangoes.

41:24It's not green mangoes.

41:26I wasn't calling you a green mango.

41:28Goodness me.

41:29Did any of it make sense?

41:32Should I sing it again?

41:33No, please.

41:35Don't do that.

41:36Horrible.

41:38I would go across the world

41:39if it means we can continue this relationship.

41:42What I'm saying around the Portuguese learning

41:44is maybe that's a mirror to unlock this.

41:47If I can learn Portuguese,

41:48then maybe I can learn to show

41:50the affection that you're looking for

41:52because the will is there.

41:53Inside of me,

41:55there is an affection for you.

41:58And who I am now is

42:00someone who is willing to move to Brazil.

42:05I want to be with him.

42:07I want to be a little bit positive about this.

42:10I think just the time can tell.

42:13This could have been make or break.

42:15And breaks can go many ways, can't they?

42:17You can have the break down.

42:19You can have the break up.

42:20We've had the break through.

42:23I love you.

42:25Ta-da!

42:47Tonight, I've brought Ara to a really fancy hotel

42:49because we've got something to celebrate.

42:52It's a nice one!

42:52You like it?

42:57I really love it!

42:59Why are we here?

43:00To celebrate you getting your new job.

43:02Oh, that's so sweet.

43:02You don't need to do that.

43:04But I do appreciate it, Mahal.

43:06I'm proud of you.

43:08Thank you so much.

43:11I've got a job.

43:12I'm a customer service advisor

43:13in a medical field.

43:14And I'm so happy!

43:18But it's nice, Mahal.

43:19Putting aside is lovely.

43:20Thank you so much.

43:22I'm so proud of Ara.

43:23She's only been here for a few weeks

43:25and she's managed to get a job.

43:27So I wanted to treat her

43:28to something nice to celebrate.

43:32Aha!

43:33You want to get more comfortable?

43:36Okay.

43:37Whee!

43:37You're cute!

43:43Ooh, fancy.

43:44Yeah.

43:45To your new job

43:46and your new life

43:47in freezing bloody cold UK.

43:50Yeah.

43:50To the new country.

43:54Bye, guys.

43:55Bye, guys.

43:55I've never expected

44:00any of this to happen

44:01but I'm so glad it has.

44:03Saying yes to you

44:05is the best decision

44:07I ever had in my life.

44:09Mine too.

44:10I love you.

44:11I love you too.

44:13I gave up

44:14all the things

44:16that I have in the Philippines

44:17just to have this kind of life

44:19with you.

44:20It's all worth it.

44:21I'm loving my life here now.

44:24So, here's to our future thriller.

44:29I love you.

44:31I'm not getting back.

44:32I don't know how to engage with that.

44:36Oh!

44:44You are fake.

44:46Will you marry me?

44:47Are you sick?

44:48How are we supposed to live together

44:49if you can lie?

44:50Oh, don't even bother.

44:52I'm 65.

44:53If I want to fall through

44:54on my fucking back,

44:55I should be allowed to do it.

45:04Go, Justin, VT's.

45:08Right now,

45:09I don't know where I stand.

45:10You deserve it.

45:11You don't do that.

45:12I know what I'm doing.

45:14We're not wasting any time.

45:15He's got a lot of explaining to do.

45:17My heart's broken.

45:20I have a surprise.

45:29I have a surprise.

45:40I have a surprise.

45:43I have a surprise forie.

45:47Let's get right.

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