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90 Day Fiance UK S04E12 (2025)
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00:00I
00:09I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country
00:16Everyone thinks is our holiday romance what he's so hot I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love
00:23In the Gambia it feels romantic when I'm in England then reality hits me
00:31What the?
00:34This girl
00:34I don't know how to show affection the way that you want
00:39You need to grab the girl
00:42I'm an evil genius
00:46Will you marry me?
00:49I will
00:50I have to be a hundred percent sure that he's not just wanting to marry me to get out of the Gambia
00:57It's not a no and it's not a yes
01:00There's been a lot of ups and downs on this trip
01:03And I need to get home and think about it and make a decision on what the future holds
01:08I will ask Sarah's dad for permission to marry her
01:13I would love to marry her
01:16If my dad turns Marco down I don't know what we're gonna do
01:21What do I say?
01:22That's a big surprise
01:23We're gonna start a family at some point when we get back
01:26Give me my grandchild
01:28You need to separate yourself from your family to build your own
01:32I'm just gonna go for it
01:35Will you marry me?
01:38Are you sick?
01:39What's your answer?
01:41I think today was another good day to ask for that
01:44This is all good
01:45What's your answer?
02:02Yes
02:12But I can see here
02:16You give me
02:17Two
02:19So one
02:21It's gonna be with you
02:23Why is one with me?
02:25So
02:25Because you're gonna give me
02:26In Brazil
02:27Why in Brazil?
02:29Because I want you to move there
02:30You know that
02:31It's a yes but
02:32Wowza
02:34Keep that one
02:35There we are finishing the show with that
02:42It's not been a show of laughs
02:44Kind of feels right that we just have it out now
02:52Because you're clearly upset
02:53Yes I'm a little bit upset
02:55I've got to get to Brazil now
02:56And ask you that
02:58Yes
02:59Are you okay?
03:08I don't know
03:09I think you don't want to do this
03:11Yeah if I could rewind
03:12You want your ring back?
03:14Too late
03:15It's on the finger
03:16This ain't coming off
03:17There is nothing here
03:19That is good
03:20Surely when you're proposing
03:21You want a yes or a no
03:23I've got a yes but
03:24I thought he's a change man
03:28But nothing changed at all
03:31Finn only think about what he wants
03:35And he didn't think about me at all
03:38I think if you'd said yes
03:39That would have been a different thing for me
03:41I'm gonna say yes
03:41Oh and jump on you
03:43You're supposed to come here
03:44You ask
03:45That's not how radio works
03:47You've got to be near a microphone
03:49Okay so come here then
03:51I'm not gonna do it again
03:57After you've said yes but
03:59I'm not doing that
04:00Oh come on
04:01Just
04:02Finn
04:04Well I don't
04:05What you want me to come around
04:06And give you a hug
04:07For saying yes but
04:07No I'm not gonna do that
04:10Jeez Louise Finn
04:11You propose me right now
04:13You're not gonna give me a hug
04:16Why?
04:17He can even give me a hug
04:19Or show me any affection
04:22Are you saying yes
04:24Or are you saying yes but
04:25Oh jeez Louise
04:26Well you've said
04:27You've given the answer
04:28You know what I said
04:30I said yes
04:31But I wanted to move to Brazil
04:34So that's not a yes
04:36So yes you have
04:38The answer then
04:39It's simple for you to just say it
04:41But it's not simple
04:42To just do all of that
04:43I'll give you a hug
04:45No no I don't want a hug
04:47All a bit strange
04:49All a bit weird
04:50I just want to go and lie down
04:51Please
04:53Let's go
04:54Home
04:55This couldn't have gone
04:56Any worse
04:57I feel embarrassed
04:58And humiliated
04:59This should be
05:02The best day of my life
05:04But I think
05:05This is
05:06One of the worst
05:08To be honest
05:10I feel a little bit
05:12Heartbroken
05:14My thoughts
05:34My feelings
05:36Oh what do I say
05:40I'll say congratulations
05:44Well done
05:44That's good
05:46Wow
05:48He is okay with this
05:50I'm still alive
05:56Well done
05:58Thank you
05:59He shakes my hands
06:01And he told me congratulations
06:03So I am officially part of the family
06:06Shall we talk to Sarah as well
06:08So you know
06:08That I'm not lying
06:10No
06:11No
06:13But no I'd be nice
06:15Sarah
06:15Hello
06:16Hello I heard my name
06:22What were you talking about then
06:24What were you talking about then
06:24What did you say
06:31I said congratulations
06:33Well done you
06:35That's nice
06:35Thank you
06:37And I also said that
06:38I already asked you
06:40Oh yeah
06:40So when did all this happen then
06:44Uh three months ago
06:46Now
06:46Yeah probably three months ago
06:48When did you tell your parents
06:51Oh this is Oakworth
06:56It's not a long time ago
07:01A month probably
07:03A month ago
07:03Yeah
07:04I was not a lot of time before
07:11That's true
07:13Yes
07:17Why didn't you tell us earlier
07:25It's a long secret
07:26For you to keep
07:28I don't know
07:29I was just a bit worried
07:30About what you would say
07:31Us being in different countries
07:32Just that you would think
07:34That it wasn't
07:35The right thing
07:35To do
07:36Before
07:37We decided
07:38Where to live
07:39You know that
07:41We'll support you
07:42Whatever
07:42You decide
07:46In whatever you want to do
07:47Hope
07:49You would live
07:50Lifelong
07:51Happy together
07:53Wherever you are
07:54I'm very pleased
07:56Thank you
07:58Congratulations
07:59So
08:00Is it a heavy
08:01Congratulations
08:01Congratulations
08:02Congratulations
08:03So English
08:07I feel like
08:09A massive relief
08:10That you finally know
08:11We need to book a date now
08:13Yeah
08:14So we can move forward
08:15What do you think
08:29Of this place
08:30It's really nice
08:32It's lovely
08:32And we are quite lucky
08:33That we have some sun
08:35And look
08:35We're walking up a mountain
08:37Yeah
08:38Three metres of elevation gain
08:40As part of Sarah's plan
08:44To show me UK
08:45She's taking me on a nice walk
08:48In the woods
08:49But we really have to decide
08:51Where to live
08:53So how are you feeling now
08:59I'm more comfortable
09:01I always
09:02Need some time
09:04To like
09:05Adjust
09:06Yeah adjust
09:07But with time
09:08We will get that
09:10I will get that
09:11It will be easier for me
09:12Of course
09:13To stay in Italy
09:13It's easier to find a job
09:15But I think for you
09:18It would be easier to stay here
09:20No
09:20You have your job
09:21Your friends
09:21Your staff
09:22We can't keep talking
09:25Like
09:26Without
09:27Getting to the point
09:29This is really a big decision
09:31But it's your decision
09:33You really have to think about it
09:39And you have to decide
09:40What do you want
09:42Okay
09:44I'll do my best
09:46Also a big point
09:48Is to decide
09:49When to get married
09:51Because we have to choose
09:53Where to live
09:54Before our wedding
09:56I think
09:56I don't think that should stop us
09:58Choosing a date though
09:59Because we know that
10:00Either way
10:00I'm telling you
10:01That we have to
10:02Because
10:03We have to
10:04To pick a date
10:05This isn't something
10:07That we should rush into
10:08I am a bit worried
10:10That things could be
10:11A little bit tense
10:31I'm going to bump into you man
10:35I've just landed in the UK
10:37For the first time with Ara
10:38And we're both exhausted
10:40From the flight
10:41But I'm feeling kind of excited
10:43To show her
10:44My world and my country
10:45Dad
10:47I'm walking through arrivals
10:56And I see my mum and dad
10:58With this big welcome sign
11:00Get in the UK
11:01Get in the UK
11:02Got it
11:05I'm really happy
11:08Like they've only met Ara
11:09Once before at the wedding
11:10And they've just made such an effort
11:13To make her feel welcome
11:14And part of the family
11:15But now they're going home
11:22And they're going to leave us alone
11:24So that we can get some rest
11:25Thank you for coming
11:27Bye dad
11:28See you later
11:28Thank you so much
11:29For welcoming me
11:30I am so nervous
11:33To be moving here in the UK
11:34But seeing Andy's mum and dad
11:37In the airport
11:38I feel like I do have
11:40My second family here
11:42The sky is grey
11:45It's freezing cold
11:48And I know
11:49I'm not in the Philippines anymore
11:51Where am I here?
11:55Where?
11:56Home
11:56Watford
11:57Wow
11:58Really?
11:59Yep
11:59I can see it now
12:02Before it's just on a video call
12:04You're walking down there
12:05Of course you recognize
12:05I recognize it there
12:07Wow
12:13This is the house
12:14This is your house
12:14Yep
12:15We're here
12:16I'm a little bit nervous
12:21To show Ara where I live
12:22It's just been me and the cat here
12:24For six years
12:25It's a bit of a bachelor's pad
12:27Oh it's so cold
12:28It's so cold
12:28And I just hope she likes it
12:30Hello Harry
12:35Hello Harry
12:35Oh wow
12:42Wow
12:43Wow
12:44It's cute
12:46The car is nice
12:48I've decorated the whole place
12:49Yeah
12:50Happy
12:51Happy?
13:03I am so happy
13:04And I can feel that your friends and family welcomes me
13:08I can't believe Ara's finally here in the flat
13:11It's happened way sooner than I expected
13:15But it's amazing and I'm really happy
13:17I love you
13:18I love you too
13:19Oh look
13:36Aloe vera
13:37That's good that is
13:38That's good for your skin
13:38I've come to the garden centre with my granddaughter Tilly
13:42And I know I've got to tell her everything about the Gambia
13:44I'm a bit nervous to how she will react
13:47They're low maintenance
13:49That'd be nice to look for my room
13:51It mint don't die
13:52You can neglect it the whole time and it just flourishes
13:54I'd be really pleased if I got one of these bought for me as a gift
13:58Oh look I'm only £1.49
14:00Oh Teal if you was a plant what would you want to be?
14:06I think I'd prefer to be a tree because they last a bit longer
14:09Yeah
14:09They stay around
14:10That's true
14:11I think I'd be a hydrangea because they're always in bloom
14:15I'm always in bloom
14:17And there's like all pinks and lilacs and they're just really beautiful
14:20Yeah hydrangea for me
14:22Yeah I like hydrangea
14:23Yeah
14:23Nice
14:29So how was the Gambia then Nan?
14:31It's nice to see you now you're back
14:32You look nice and brown
14:34Yeah well it was really hot
14:36We went on the beach a lot
14:39We had a lot of meals out of an evening
14:42Did you spend some nice quality time with Ibrahim?
14:52Yeah we got engaged
14:53Oh my god
14:56It's probably not the news I thought I'd be getting on a trip to the garden centre with my Nan but
15:01That's just the way she is I suppose
15:03It's never anything expected with her
15:05I've said yes
15:08And we are engaged
15:10Oh you look really shocked babe
15:13I am really shocked I can't believe it
15:15I don't think Nan I don't think you should have taken the ring
15:18Now that there's a ring on her finger it's all sort of come into perspective for me a little bit and it's starting to feel a little bit more
15:26More scary
15:29You know he went down on one knee and I was really overwhelmed
15:36I don't really think I thought about the actual future
15:40I don't think you have thought about it either
15:42Why do you think he wants to marry you?
15:48Because he loves me he said
15:51He feels like I'm his soul mate
15:54We'll see
15:56We'll see
15:57A lot of people think that I'm just a sex tourist
16:02I've been called it
16:04I've been called a visa vagina
16:06I've been called a lot of names
16:08I don't really care because when I'm in the Gambia it feels all romantic
16:15And it's hot and it's lovely and I'm sipping cocktails
16:18But when I'm in England and I'm thinking should I send him some money
16:23Then reality hits me
16:26What am I doing?
16:27Why don't you join a charity or something?
16:29You don't have to marry a man that is mugging you off just because you feel sorry for him
16:35I haven't definitely said that I'm going to marry him
16:38So you think he loves you and the fact that you're English is just a bonus?
16:43Yes
16:44Well you don't seem very happy babe
16:46No I'm not too pleased but I am worried and you can say that you might be in it for the right reasons
16:54But I think there's a lot of wrong reasons as well and that's not the type of relationship I'd want you to be in
17:01We'll just see how things go
17:07And we'll see what the future holds
17:09And if I think that he's just using me and he's asking me for money asking me for money
17:16Then I might just contact him and say it's over
17:20I feel really worried to talk to him about it because I hate letting people down
17:25And least of all a genuine man like him
17:29You know you're saying it's not definite but I think
17:32He still deserves some sort of respect and if you don't think that you're going to go through the marriage
17:38I do think you should tell him sooner rather than later
17:41The next couple of months are that I'm going to be thinking about it all the time
17:44Well you haven't got a few months so I think you need to make a decision now
17:59Today I've come out to get the ingredients to make a full English breakfast
18:09I've never been to a UK supermarket before
18:12So here we go
18:18Walking into the supermarket I feel like I'm lost
18:25Where's the sausage? Where's the beans?
18:28Wow, this is so overwhelming
18:32There are different kinds of cheese
18:34What are these?
18:36I love cheese so much
18:38I'm going to pack medium cheddar
18:40Mature cheese
18:42Mild cheddar
18:44Wow, mozzarella
18:46I need to go
18:50These are the sausages
18:52I want a big tasty sausage
18:55I am feeling so overwhelmed right now
18:58Where's the beans?
19:01I am so exhausted and I hope that Andy will going to be happy
19:11Hello
19:12You alright?
19:13Got everything that I need for English breakfast
19:15Excellent
19:17Also, I bought some cheese
19:19Look
19:20I have mature cheese
19:22Okay
19:23And I have mild cheddar
19:25Yeah
19:26And I have
19:28Medium cheddar
19:31You bought three bags of cheddar?
19:33Yeah
19:34You told me there's a lot of cheese here in UK
19:36I didn't mean for you to buy it all
19:38I didn't buy it all
19:39I only bought three
19:40Are you sure?
19:41I'm going to check
19:42There's none
19:43There's one more
19:44See there's one more
19:45Which one is this?
19:47Mozzarella
19:48Mozzarella
19:49Very good
19:50There's one more
19:52You let me shop alone
19:54Apparently I shouldn't do that
19:56Don't complain
19:57This is your payment for me for making a breakfast
20:00Okay
20:03It's really nice that Ara's going to all this effort
20:05Ara has never eaten a full English breakfast before
20:08Let alone cooked one
20:09So we'll see how this goes
20:11I'm cooking English breakfast but I don't know how to cook
20:24Mama!
20:26I want my mom
20:27I haven't seen any sausages like this
20:30It's all connected
20:32I don't understand
20:33I need to cut
20:34This!
20:35I cut
20:37Am I doing this right?
20:42I know even if this is not that delicious
20:45I know Andy will gonna eat everything
20:52That looks great
20:53I hope that you're gonna like it
20:56It's really nice that Ara's putting in a little bit of effort
20:58And trying to learn about British culture and traditions
21:01After I've spent so long learning all the weird and wonderful Filipino traditions
21:11I know we need to decide where to live
21:21It's a really huge decision and it can feel quite overwhelming
21:26Cheers!
21:28I'm meeting my friend Nikki tonight
21:30And I'm hoping that she can help me with some of the big decisions that I have to make
21:35So, how are things with you and Marco?
21:38Yeah, so I have something to tell you
21:39Okay
21:41We got engaged!
21:43Hey!
21:45Congratulations!
21:46I know!
21:47And here is the ring
21:48I've been hiding this
21:49Oh my gosh!
21:50Oh my gosh, it's beautiful
21:51It is, really cute
21:52Tiny, slim fingers
21:53Aww
21:54So, when's it gonna be?
21:55What are you planning?
21:56We want to do it in maybe a couple of months' time
22:01Okay
22:03Have you planned any of it?
22:05No, not really
22:06No
22:07We've found a venue that we love
22:09Oh, okay
22:10But once we get married, it's easier to fix where we're gonna actually be
22:16He has said that he would be happy in either place
22:19And it is up to me
22:22Ooh
22:23How do you feel about that?
22:24Well, I wanted to make a decision with him
22:26But
22:28He is saying he's happy in either
22:30So, I'm like
22:31What can I do?
22:32Okay
22:33So, it's a lot
22:34To me, decisions like that need to be between both of you
22:37You're both in this relationship
22:39I'm really feeling pressure with this
22:41What happens if I make the wrong decision and one of us is miserable?
22:44I think there is a possibility that he could resent me if he stayed in England
22:48You need to tell him that
22:50You need to have a conversation
22:51You need to say that this is how you feel
22:53This is what you want
22:54It's such a tricky thing
22:56Like, would you resent him if you went to Italy?
22:59I think you really need to talk to him
23:01What do your lives look like here?
23:03What do your lives look like there?
23:04These are conversations you need to be having
23:05And you can't float on this
23:08Big life decision
23:09Yeah, I know, you're right
23:10Sorry
23:11I don't want you to just do things because you're trying to please someone else
23:15He's left this decision with you
23:17He's also left the burden on you to make that choice
23:21And that's really tough
23:22Yeah, I need to have that chat with him
23:24So, where he's gone, I'm fine, you make it
23:26You go, no, I'm not making this on my own
23:28This is too big a decision
23:29We are a couple
23:30We are a team
23:31We are a family
23:32We make this together
23:33We make this together
23:34We have43
23:55You can be fired
23:56We are a family
23:58We're trees
23:59Let's talk about
24:00and he decided to sleep in his friend's house.
24:06I'm really sad about it.
24:11And I'm not feeling that I'm engaged yet.
24:14I'm sorry to say that.
24:18I went to spend the night at a friend's house.
24:20I can't deal with conflict. I just shut down.
24:23I needed to mull over a lot of things.
24:25There's a lot going on in my head, a lot of frustration,
24:33a lot of pent-up, sadness.
24:35You know, I made some silly decisions.
24:39I think this does not feel like an engagement
24:41in any way, shape or form.
24:43I think this could go either way.
24:47So I'm going to the park now
24:49and then I'll meet Finda and see how it's going to be.
24:55Hi.
24:59Hi.
25:01How are you?
25:03Fine, how are you?
25:09Are you okay?
25:11Not great.
25:13You're not happy.
25:14Yeah, I'm not happy.
25:17I'm sorry.
25:18This isn't an excuse.
25:20The intent was always that I love you
25:22and I want to move this relationship further.
25:27But how I implemented it was poor.
25:30I get that.
25:32I love radio, you don't.
25:34And in my head, it just played out differently.
25:38I'm not okay right now.
25:41And neither am I.
25:42It seems like, from Sandra,
25:48the fire or the fight has gone from this relationship.
25:53How are we going to fix this?
25:55I really don't know.
25:57I really don't know.
25:59I guess we just need to think through what we want.
26:02Because I think we are similar in so many things.
26:04I think we are.
26:05But different in many other things.
26:07Yes, yes.
26:08Different.
26:10You know what I expect from you?
26:12To come to Brazil.
26:14I know.
26:15It's not just that.
26:16I know.
26:17I want you to show more affection.
26:21Because at the moment,
26:22I don't feel that you love me.
26:27I struggle to show affection.
26:28I know that.
26:29You know how my family are.
26:31We're not close.
26:32There's been a lot of torment.
26:34A lot of coldness in our family.
26:36In my family, I'm talking about.
26:38Whereas you, it's the opposite.
26:40You got through adversity by being close with your family.
26:44And holding on to them.
26:46Whereas I got through adversity by pushing them away.
26:52I think it's taken me a good amount of time,
26:55right up into my adult life,
26:57to really understand what love is.
26:59I think I could fundamentally say that Sandra does bring joy,
27:03happiness and love to my life.
27:05I really hope Sandra hasn't given up on us.
27:09One of the things I do to show affection, though,
27:11is I think in my head creatively.
27:13Like, for me, proposing in the radio studio
27:15was the most creative thing I could have thought of.
27:18I don't know, and I know you don't like that.
27:19I don't like that.
27:20I know.
27:21I don't know how to show affection
27:23in the way that you want the whole time.
27:25I can do it, and I'm learning.
27:27I am learning.
27:28And I am trying.
27:30And I think it's not working.
27:34I feel lonely here.
27:37What do you think?
27:40It's not been perfect, I know that.
27:42All I can say is it didn't feel like an engagement
27:45on that day, did it?
27:46No, I'm not wearing the thing.
27:51You're not wearing the ring?
27:52No.
27:53So then that's clear, then, isn't it?
27:56Yes, I don't feel that I'm engaged.
27:58I'm sorry.
28:00We can't continue this relationship
28:03unless you move to Brazil.
28:08So I'll give you time to think,
28:11and then we can talk it again.
28:18I just wish we can be the same man
28:22I fall in love with.
28:25I think this relationship is over,
28:28and he's the only one who can fix it.
28:35I'm so sorry.
28:36Can we have a break?
28:39I'm so sorry.
29:04Hey.
29:04Aha, this is your drink.
29:07Thank you very much.
29:08Tonight's a big night, finally introducing Ara to my two closest friends, Louise and Sarah.
29:14I'm excited, but also a little bit nervous.
29:17I know they had some reservations about everything that's happened between us, so...
29:23I'm so excited meeting Sarah and Louise.
29:26They're quite loud.
29:27Yeah, just like me.
29:28And they make fun of me a lot, so I think I'm gonna get along with them pretty well.
29:34Hey!
29:35Hello!
29:36Hi!
29:37How are you guys?
29:38Hi!
29:39How are you?
29:40Good!
29:41How are you?
29:42I'm totally fine, finally I met you.
29:44I thought I'm the loudest one, but they are really louder than me.
29:49It's so great, you're finally here!
29:51I'm so excited!
29:52I am so excited to meet you.
29:54So, tell us everything.
29:55Your first few weeks in the UK, how are you getting on?
29:59Um, I'm not used to cold weather.
30:02Sometimes I'm regretting it.
30:04So, you guys have met, you have gotten engaged, you have gotten married, you have moved to the UK in, like, the span of a few months.
30:20What's next?
30:21What do you think is next?
30:25We are, yeah, we're gonna try for a baby.
30:27Aww!
30:28We're thinking of having an IVF.
30:30Okay.
30:31I'm entitled to that treatment, because I've got genetic disorder.
30:33Okay.
30:34But in the meantime, we're obviously trying to do it naturally as often as possible.
30:37And expect nothing less.
30:40I've had a lot of x-rays down there, so it's like a surprise that it doesn't glow in the dark at this point.
30:46I do not need to know about your lightsaber.
30:48It's just like, when you turn off the light in our bedroom, there's light.
30:51It gives her a target to wait for.
30:53It's just like a dead fish.
30:55What?
30:56A dead fish?
30:59That's the word you do before describing.
31:04Copping up the breeze, like, oh!
31:08Oh, this is my own ending.
31:09We're gonna be best friends.
31:10I can't deal with this.
31:11I bet you.
31:12Little Andrew described as a dead fish.
31:16He's very much alive and flapping last time I checked.
31:19Well, here's to Ara and Andy.
31:24Ara and Andy.
31:26Bye, guys.
31:27Bye.
31:49I've been thinking long and hard about the engagement, and my decision's made.
31:56As hard as it is, I am gonna call it off.
32:05Ibrahim wants something serious, but I don't.
32:11Hello, Ibrahim.
32:13You okay?
32:14Yeah, I'm good.
32:15I'm good, I'm good.
32:16And you?
32:17Well, the thing is, Ibrahim, the reason why I've called you is because I've been doing a lot of thinking.
32:28In view that we have, like, mixed cultures, and I live miles away, and you're miles away.
32:36Okay.
32:37I know this might upset you, but I've decided to break off our engagement, and I won't be able to marry you or be engaged to you.
32:48And I think that you should find someone your own age.
32:52Um, I think it's gonna be better all round.
32:54How do you feel?
32:57I love you so.
32:59I know you do, babe.
33:00I know you do, babe.
33:01And I love you.
33:02The thing is, I don't think it's a good thing, and I want you to be happy with somebody else.
33:10Oh, baby, you're crying.
33:19Oh, don't cry.
33:20I don't like it.
33:21I don't like it that way, babe.
33:28I know, but I've made a decision, and I'm having to stick with the decision.
33:34I know it's hard, and it...
33:39I know, babe.
33:40Don't be upset, because you'll meet someone else.
33:43I know, but I don't like it that way, babe.
33:46Well, I'm really sorry, Abraham, but that's the way it has to be.
33:50And I couldn't live in the Gambia, and for you to come to England would be virtually impossible.
33:58I don't think I can miss somebody like you, man.
34:02I'm really sorry, babe, because I do love you, but it's just something that has to be done.
34:08I don't want you to be upset.
34:10Oh, babe.
34:11Oh, I feel very upset, man.
34:14So upset, man.
34:17Of course, I was expecting...
34:20..till the end of our life, man, babe, as I told you, man.
34:24Oh, I am sorry.
34:27I am sorry for you, Abraham, because you are a very nice man, and you're a nice person.
34:33You deserve somebody nice in your life.
34:38OK, well, I'm going to let you go now, Abraham, but I'm really sorry to...
34:43..to end like this.
34:45But try not to be upset.
34:48OK?
34:51Well, I'm going to go now, because I don't like...
34:53..I don't want to look at you when you're so upset, because it will upset me.
34:57Speak soon, then, babe.
34:58Speak soon.
34:59Bye, bye, bye, bye.
35:02Aw, poor Abraham.
35:05Such a nice man.
35:07He deserves someone really nice.
35:09I'm a bit of a bitch, really, but...
35:11..just the way I am.
35:12He did have a bit of a wobble, but he took it better than what I thought he would.
35:21Cheers, Abraham.
35:23Nice to have known you.
35:25Nice, nice man.
35:27Probably too nice for me, if the truth's known.
35:30Now, it might be time to get on the dating apps.
35:34I might try Lanzarote.
35:37Hmm, something to think about.
35:39I love Lanzarote, and it's a shorter flight.
35:42So, this is another surprise about English food.
35:59Yeah, a little bit better this time, though.
36:02Yeah, I'm excited.
36:04Marco is leaving for Italy soon,
36:06so I thought it would be nice to go for a meal,
36:09but there is still a big conversation to be had.
36:13So, did you make a decision to where you would prefer to live, or...?
36:21I had this conversation with my friend, Nicky.
36:25OK.
36:27She did say to me,
36:29it's a little bit unfair
36:32for me to just be the only one that makes a decision
36:36and that we should be making it together.
36:38OK.
36:39If you ended up staying in England and didn't like it,
36:43there is a possibility that you could resent me
36:46if it's not a joint decision and I was the one that decided.
36:51I thought it was easier for you to just say what you prefer,
36:56because you never told me what you prefer, and you still didn't.
37:01My work base is here.
37:04Yeah.
37:05My family are here.
37:07Yeah.
37:08And they're not getting any younger,
37:10and I worry about them so much, and family is everything to me.
37:14And there is always the opportunity to move to Italy in the future
37:20when I know the language.
37:22I don't think we should rule it out.
37:25I just feel like we should try in England first
37:29while I learn the language.
37:30See if you love it.
37:32I will be happy.
37:37I'm happy. It's nice.
37:39I'm happy.
37:42That's it then.
37:43We've figured out where we want to live,
37:45and now we just need to focus on our wedding and getting married.
37:49Yeah, and our life together.
37:51Yeah, I can't wait to spend my life with you,
37:55and to build something important.
37:58To us, our future, our wedding.
38:01Life together.
38:02Cheers.
38:03Love you.
38:04I really love you too.
38:06Hmm.
38:22I haven't seen Sandra since our last conversation in the park.
38:26Right, here we go.
38:27You got this. Come on.
38:30I've done loads of thinking since the ultimatum.
38:33Do I change my life completely and move to Brazil?
38:36Or do I accept that this was fun while it lasted?
38:42I know I need to fight for this relationship.
38:44I just hope and pray that Sandra thinks that too.
38:47This is make or break.
38:55Hello.
38:56Hi.
38:57How about you wine?
38:58Well, thank you.
39:00How are you?
39:01Fine.
39:03How's work?
39:04Yeah, fine.
39:06Do you have a good day?
39:08Yeah.
39:09It's getting colder, isn't it?
39:12Like this relationship, you could say.
39:14Yeah.
39:15This trip to England didn't go as planned for you or for me.
39:22That's the reality.
39:25I know that I've got to move to Brazil if I want this to go any further.
39:30When you live to Brazil, I will trust you.
39:33Wow.
39:35Are you going to move?
39:37Yes.
39:38I just want you to be the thing that I met in Brazil two years ago.
39:49Because in this trip, you're not that thing.
39:52And I know you can do that.
39:54Maybe I should do what I should have done when I tried to propose to you back in the radio studio.
40:06Maybe that's it.
40:07I just need to come and give you a hug.
40:09Yes.
40:10I love you.
40:11I love you too.
40:12You know that.
40:14That's what I should have done all along then.
40:15Yeah.
40:16See?
40:17There we are.
40:18I can learn.
40:20How about butch geese?
40:21Are you learning?
40:22You'd be surprised.
40:24You'd be very, very surprised.
40:26I've got a song prepared.
40:27I'm not learning anything.
40:29I've translated green sleeves into Portuguese.
40:32They say romance is dead.
40:33Not with me.
40:34Obrigado.
40:35No.
40:36No.
40:37No.
40:41No.
40:42No.
40:43No.
40:44No.
40:45No.
40:46No.
40:47No.
40:48No.
40:49No.
40:50No.
40:51No.
40:52No.
40:53Oh, meu amor, você me faz mal
40:59Quando você me rejetou
41:04Mangas verdes, esta mina vida
41:10Mangas verdes, esta mina vida
41:17Thanks!
41:20You didn't expect that, did you?
41:22The song is Greensleeves, which is like an English ballad
41:25About a person who loves someone
41:28That person's rejected them
41:31But they will do anything to be with them
41:34And the words that I sang were
41:36I'm going to go across the world
41:37If it means I can be with you
41:40And then I sang Greensleeves
41:42Mangas verdes
41:43This is not Portuguese
41:46What was I saying?
41:48Green Mangas
41:49Mangas verdes
41:52It's green mangoes
41:54It's not green mangoes
41:56I wasn't calling you a green mango
41:58Goodness me
41:59Did any of it make sense?
42:02Should I sing it again?
42:03No, please
42:04Don't do that
42:05Horrible
42:07I would go across the world
42:09If it means we can continue this relationship
42:12What I'm saying around the Portuguese learning
42:14Is maybe that's a mirror to unlock this
42:16If I can learn Portuguese
42:18Then maybe I can learn to show
42:20The affection that you're looking for
42:22Because the will is there
42:23Inside of me
42:25There is an affection for you
42:27And who I am now
42:29Is
42:30Someone who is
42:31Willing
42:32To move to Brazil
42:33I want to be with him
42:37I want to be a little bit positive about this
42:40I think just the time can tell
42:42This could have been make or break
42:45And breaks can go many ways, can't they?
42:47You can have the break down
42:49You can have the break up
42:50We've had the break through
42:51I love you
42:54Thank you
42:55Tonight, I've brought Ara to a really fancy hotel
43:20Because we've got something to celebrate
43:21It's nice, man
43:25You like it?
43:27I really love it
43:28Why are we here?
43:30To celebrate you getting your new job
43:31That's so sweet
43:32You don't need to do that
43:34But I do appreciate it, Mahal
43:36Thank you
43:36I'm proud of you
43:37Thank you so much
43:39I've got a job
43:42I'm a customer service advisor
43:43In a medical field
43:44And I'm so happy
43:46But it's nice, Mahal
43:49The thing is just lovely
43:50Thank you so much
43:52I'm so proud of Ara
43:53She's only been here for a few weeks
43:55And she's managed to get a job
43:56So I wanted to treat her
43:58To something nice to celebrate
43:59You want to get more comfortable?
44:06Okay
44:06You're cute
44:12Ooh, fancy
44:14Yeah
44:15To your new job
44:16And your new life
44:17In freezing bloody cold UK
44:20Yeah
44:20To the new country
44:23Bye, guys
44:25Bye, guys
44:25I've never expected any of this to happen
44:31But I'm so glad it has
44:33Saying yes to you
44:35Is the best decision I ever had in my life
44:38Mine too
44:39I love you
44:41I love you
44:41I love you too
44:41I gave up all the things that I have in the Philippines
44:47Just to have this kind of life with you
44:49It's all worth it
44:51I'm loving my life here now
44:53So here's to our future thriller
44:56You are fake
45:16Will you marry me?
45:17Are you sick?
45:18How are we supposed to live together if you can lie?
45:21Don't even bother
45:22I'm 65
45:23If I want to fall flat on my fucking back
45:25I should be allowed to do it
45:27Right now
45:39I don't know where I stand
45:40You deserve it
45:41You don't do that
45:42I know what I'm doing
45:44We're not wasting any time
45:45He's got a lot of explaining to do
45:47My heart broken
45:49I have a surprise
45:59I have a surprise
45:59We're not wasting any time
46:01We're not wasting any time
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46:08We're not wasting any time
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46:10We're not wasting any time
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46:29Portuguese, then maybe I can learn to show the
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