O'ahu Shores Season 1 Episode 4

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O'ahu Shores Season 1 Episode 4  #RealityRealmUS Reality Realm US

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00:00lands and the ocean my island is so different because my people are very

00:06proud to be Hawaiian and very in tune with the culture a lot of the people

00:12there still speak olelo the Hawaiian language we're very territorial we don't

00:18like outsiders there's no development we don't have traffic lights we don't have

00:24a movie theater we don't have a mall and the only reason why is because they

00:29want to keep Molokai Molokai

00:38family is a huge part of my life and all I want to do is to make my family proud

00:46I'm very close to my parents they're both my best friends here you go I just poured

00:56this one for you you excited for your friends to come yeah I'm excited for

01:02Kari to come she like needs a good trip here also yeah I'll bring from the city and

01:09just like get back to the roots and come to the country yeah last time she came she

01:15shot a buck huh yeah I took her to shoot her first buck here yeah Raven was gonna come I know like

01:23everyone kind of had like feelings you know against her it was hard hearing that stuff you know that

01:30she said is pretty hurtful you know true friends don't don't do that yeah my family thought it

01:39wasn't a great idea of bringing Raven because of the rumor that she had started about me and how it

01:45jeopardized my relationship my family did not like that at all I'm surprised you didn't give her a couple

01:54cracks because because I feel like that's how it is over here and I like stuff then you better be

02:00better be about it then I get hit here yeah that's just how it is my family is very overprotective you

02:08think I'm crazy my family they're on another level yeah I did have a heart-to-heart talk and I

02:16forgave her we are like on better terms now give it some time to just kind of settle yeah and if

02:24you're happy we're happy you guys are the greatest parents I could ever ask for all of you all the

02:30stuff you're doing and accomplishing this I'm gonna go clean off this mud yeah we'll go inside

02:36it's gonna start to rain hi oh did you get me started thanks of course

03:06matcha no matcha for you how are you I'm feeling like kind of like lost after the podcast I felt

03:18like this sadness in my chest that I really haven't felt in a really long time honestly and like that

03:23night I really cried myself to sleep I didn't expect Kawi to pull away from me as much as she has me and

03:30Kawi have been the longest of friends out of all of the girls and honestly Kawi's friendship means the

03:34most to me I'm blocking out the haters and the fake friends yeah I feel like I'm always Kawi's biggest

03:40cheerleader and I feel like sometimes when it comes to me I'm not as high as a priority as the other

03:44girls are and that honestly really hurts me she used to be really open with me yeah and things are still

03:51off but I think that's something that is gonna kind of take time to see if we can yeah get there

03:57again and I don't want to lose her as a friend yeah and like ever you know so I'm gonna do my part

04:04and honestly like I kind of realized that like this whole Kawi situation had more to do with me than it

04:12did with her just so much has happened to me this year and in my life in general that like just who I am

04:19I'm not sure who I am right now Raven can be sensitive but also stubborn so when she is sad or upset she puts up a good

04:31front that she's strong but I think she is fragile especially with everything going on with the drama

04:39with Kama and Kawi and it's definitely a lot for her what was up with you and Alex at the beach um we

04:48had like a short conversation I don't have like anything against Alex like I just genuinely wanted

04:55to like talk to him and like maybe try to be friends so you guys missed your lives a lot oh my god you

05:01guys are always together yeah it is definitely a turning point for me and Alex the whole relationship

05:13got tainted from all the drama and I'm just happy that we're finally getting along I'm glad you guys

05:21can be cordial yeah and I'll be nice to him hopefully the tide drops soon that's pretty high

05:33tide we'll be fine where are you gonna sit uh four I usually sit one but let's see what they say and

05:40we'll figure it out I've been canoeing since before I could walk and I had Marcus up to see if he wants to

05:46go paddle today in Waikiki I know he knows how to surf so I wanted to take him on the canoe where I

05:52kind of thrive and see if he can do it my uncle and his team they go out every day so I just thought

05:57I asked if me and Marcus could tag along yeah where we wanted today let's do it I'm excited canoeing is

06:05a big deal in Hawaii and our Hawaiian culture that's how we migrated from island to island

06:16our ancestors used canoeing as a form of transportation and nowadays we use it as a form of sport and I love

06:34good yeah fun today yeah I was sick I wish the waves and I've been I haven't done that in forever

07:01really it's been a while did you paddle when you're younger just a little bit but nothing nothing

07:06too crazy I was more of a surfer but um definitely I love I love canoeing now paddling it just makes

07:12you feel Hawaiian yeah it's nice it's nice have you been talking to Kawi at all here and there it's not

07:19as often as we used to talk just been getting mixed signals from her because at our date she tells me oh

07:24you're going back to college oh you're too young yeah she just has the image that I'm just some

07:28douchebag frat dude like I know Kawi really well and like the thing about Kawi is like she loves

07:33really hard yeah and I think like Raven and everyone else like they just want to protect

07:38Kawi because like once she like does commit and she does say that she likes you she's not like she

07:44goes all in well that's well like that's my whole point like stay out of our business honestly especially

07:48with Raven like she keeps going in our business she's like you're way too young for her you know you she

07:52needs a man she needs I'm like what though I was like ouch okay one don't tell me what I should

07:57and shouldn't do like you don't control my life yeah it's just you know just just cut the act already

08:02it has nothing to do with him you know it's all about like what Kawi wants with all that being said

08:06like yeah let's say how he just falls into your lap and admits to her true emotions tomorrow yeah what

08:13would you do I don't know I'm just really confused at this point because like feel like I've been

08:20being treated as an option it's like I'm just convenient you know I don't really think how he's

08:24playing hard to get I think she's playing games right now and I'm not gonna waste my time playing

08:30these games and you have a whole roster waiting for you and you know I'm just a puppet in your little

08:35show my time is very limited here and like you're not you know serious about anything you're wasting

08:40you're genuinely wasting my time and I'm gonna have my fun while I'm here yeah

08:43I'm so excited to be going back to Molokai to be Akama and her family I just feel like I really need

09:05this like just to get away from the market stuff get away from the Raven stuff just be able to breathe

09:10where's the seatbelt I had no idea though that her boyfriend Walter was on the same flight as me

09:16that he was coming to love that for my girl

09:18what I'm mostly excited for going to Molokai is just grounding out and going back to my roof

09:30living on Oahu is so busy and like suffocating it's just so nice to be somewhere where it's really just

09:36the country

09:36oh

09:42Oh, do I get a greeting like that, too?

09:50Hi.

09:51Oh, I'm so happy to be back.

09:58Oh, what's up?

10:00Hello.

10:01Thanks for having us.

10:02Nice to see you again.

10:04How you doing?

10:04Hi.

10:05What's up, daughter?

10:06I come from an island that is very sustainable, especially my family.

10:11We do have to prep stuff for dinner, take care of the farm.

10:15Okay, yeah.

10:16Do you guys need help?

10:16Do you guys have to clean the fish, too?

10:17Yeah.

10:17We'll feed the animals and then get ready for dinner.

10:19Okay, sounds good.

10:20We are.

10:21Okay.

10:21Yay!

10:25Let's do one big scoop.

10:29There we go.

10:31We're coming.

10:33Oh, hi, turtle.

10:34This is my Twarden, Rosie.

10:37Hi, Rosie.

10:39Let's let Rosie out.

10:41Oh, yeah.

10:42She's heavy.

10:43Oh, Rosie.

10:44I can do some squats at Rosie.

10:49Yeah, there you go.

10:50That's how we work out on the farm.

10:52I did.

10:53Yeah.

10:55So Kama's family's backyard is literally their farm.

10:58Oh, Rosie.

10:59Here we go, Rosie.

11:01So they have a tortoise named Rosie, who's supposedly the fastest tortoise to be around Molucati.

11:06They have chicken, coops, and they got two pigs.

11:11I'll feed this one so, like, they don't fight.

11:12Where do we put it?

11:13Um, you got to grab the buckets?

11:16Yeah.

11:19Look how hungry they are.

11:20They're going to eat my arm.

11:22What?

11:23God damn.

11:24Hey, ew.

11:25We'll do it at the same time.

11:27We'll dump the feed.

11:28All right.

11:28Don't get attacked by the chicken.

11:32I can grab one, too.

11:36Oh.

11:38Oh.

11:42Ooh.

11:43Ooh.

11:45Mr. Miyagi, that bitch.

11:47There, there, little chicken.

11:49I'm so happy that you're here.

11:58I know.

11:58I'm so happy I'm here, too.

11:59I'm, like, excited to, like, just chill.

12:02And I feel like I really, like, needed a break from Oahu and, like, everything going on.

12:06And just kind of get away from the city life and, like, the work life.

12:09Yeah.

12:10I think I'm just really happy that I get to get away and just reground myself and get my hands a little dirty.

12:16I'm ready for the country life.

12:18And I'm happy to be here, like, with you, you know, because I know that, like, we kind of, like, understand each other on a deeper level.

12:24I don't have any drama with Humma, her.

12:26I really look at her as my sister.

12:28I know who my high-maintenance and low-maintenance friends are.

12:31I just don't really need that in my life right now or really at all.

12:34I would hug you, but you've got other things to hold.

12:38Your ass are quite busy.

12:39Oh.

12:48Look how cute this place is.

12:55I've never been here.

12:56Stephen is in town this week, and I'm still feeling a little nervous about it just because we have a lot to talk about.

13:02And he's probably going to ask me if I'm moving back to Guam.

13:05And honestly, I don't really have an answer yet.

13:08Here we are.

13:10A little savvy on lock.

13:12New Zealand.

13:13There's your Moscow.

13:15A little rock on the sides, a little too smoky.

13:17Enjoy you.

13:17It's good to be here.

13:19Yeah, isn't it nice being back?

13:21Nice.

13:21Don't you, like, feel like this is your home, too, though?

13:24I do.

13:25I guess home is wherever the heart is, right?

13:27I used to fly to Guam every single weekend when I was in college to go see him when we first started dating.

13:35If that is not commitment, then I do not know what is.

13:39I would go on those seven-hour flights back and forth, okay?

13:43So 14 hours of flying for literally two days.

13:46Looks so yummy.

13:48That is so good.

13:50Like, I'm not even kidding.

13:51Pickles, too?

13:53This might sound stupid, but I didn't know that.

13:57Pickles were cucumbers.

14:01What did you think they were?

14:03Pickles!

14:04That's all I thought they were.

14:06I didn't think anything else of it besides it's just a pickle.

14:12So, have you thought about moving home, possibly, or staying out here?

14:19Have you given thought to it?

14:19That's all I've been thinking about.

14:22The more and more that I start to think about it, I'm still very stuck.

14:27We should get to a certain point where we know.

14:32I always told myself that I wanted to be married by at least 28 and have my first baby before I turn 30.

14:41I'm 26 now.

14:43It's difficult.

14:45We're going into seven years.

14:47We've been apart for a lot of those years.

14:49That's why this decision is honestly a lot, because it determines what the rest of my life is going to look like.

14:56Am I going to have my timeline happen, or am I going to be rerouted in a completely different direction?

15:02I have no idea.

15:04How long do you think you can continue this, though?

15:07The distance, I mean.

15:10Not for very long.

15:12How about you?

15:14Same.

15:18It's hard.

15:18I'm not going to cry, because my makeup is so damn good right now, but I want you to understand that this is hard on the both of us.

15:35I know.

15:35Because I don't want to disappoint anybody, especially you.

15:39Before we know it, another seven years fly by, and we're still in the same predicament.

15:43Right.

15:43You know, I just, I'm struggling, because I want to make you happy.

15:48You do.

15:50I also don't want to give up on me.

15:55If I don't move back, then it basically means the end of our relationship is near.

16:02And that's a really scary thought, and I don't want to even think about that, but I'm not going to act like that's not a possibility, because we both know it is.

16:10It's just a lot.

16:13I love you.

16:18I love you, sister.

16:33So we're going to clean the fish.

16:34We're going to fish a bit.

16:34Yeah, we got some peels.

16:36Ooh!

16:37We'll just scale them.

16:38Okay.

16:38And then my dad's going to give him the barbecue.

16:41I grew up fishing, which means I scale them, I clean them, I gut them, and I cook them.

16:50This is the first time I've ever cut a fish.

16:52There you go.

16:53So if you come home with me, you're going to have to do the same thing.

16:57You're just going to make, like, a small incision.

16:59Yes, one incision.

17:01Yeah.

17:03Yeah.

17:03Ew!

17:04I'll have fish guts under my nails for a good week, but that's fine.

17:09Kawe is such a trooper.

17:10She knew what she was getting herself into.

17:13We can cut off the head like this.

17:14You see how, like, the head is like this?

17:18Bruh, how come?

17:19This isn't going out.

17:20There we go.

17:23Yep.

17:27So, what really, like, what happened with Raven?

17:31Because, like, I just seen you crying, and I was like, aw, like, I wonder if you're okay.

17:36Yeah, well, Raven just kind of, like, felt some type of way about, like, me starting the

17:40badness club, because, you know, she kind of felt like I'm doing BBB all over again, but

17:45without her this time, and like that, and I'm just like, it's nothing like BBB, though.

17:49Yeah.

17:50You know, like, I know that one of the things that, like, she also brought up was that she

17:53wants, like, more quality time from me.

17:55Yeah.

17:55But then it's like, when we go out and stuff, like, she'd rather stay home.

17:59And, like, I respect that, like, whatever.

18:01And, like, maybe it's the one-on-one quality time that she wants, but it's like, I've never

18:06been this busy in my life, you know what I mean?

18:08And, like, I'm trying to figure out how to balance everything still.

18:11Like, everybody wants quality time and all these things from me, and it's like, dude,

18:15I don't even give that to myself.

18:16Like, I don't even have quality self-time, you know what I mean?

18:19You're always working.

18:20I'm always busy.

18:20Always working.

18:21Because I want to hang out with you, but I know you're so busy.

18:23Yeah.

18:23You're like a busy woman.

18:26Kaui's a bad bitch.

18:27Her being so out there, everyone wants a piece of Kaui.

18:32They don't know, like, deep down how soft Kaui is.

18:35So we got some deer meat that we caught.

18:38There's a problem here on the island where, like, it's overpopulated.

18:42They, like, been running into cars because the lights yell in the cars, especially at night.

18:46Yeah.

18:47And you guys only have one road, too, so it's, like, dangerous.

18:49It's so scary.

18:50Yeah.

18:50Yeah, it can be really scary.

18:52I'm like you said, but it's definitely, like, been a problem on the island.

18:54But then also, like, it's not really because we live off the land, and when we hunt, it's providing for our families, and that's how we live.

19:04That's how we get food.

19:06That's how we get our dinners.

19:07And sometimes we have it for, like, breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

19:11In Hawaii, there's different islands with different vibes, and Molokai is such a different vibe from Oahu.

19:18The life on Molokai is so simple and so chill and so lax.

19:23It really puts into perspective why Kama comes home so often, because, honestly, I would, too.

19:28How much do you put on the shish kawab?

19:30This one's fat.

19:42We don't have any food.

19:44What the hell?

19:46Yeah, I need to go grocery shopping.

19:47There's nothing.

19:50I really haven't shopped in so long.

19:53No.

19:57Kama texted me.

20:01What'd she say?

20:03Hi, Raven.

20:04There's a reason why I wasn't able to invite you to Molokai, but I'll talk to you about it this weekend.

20:10That's so vague.

20:12It is, yeah.

20:13What do you think is the reason?

20:15I don't know, but I don't like it.

20:17Did she, like, uninvite you?

20:18Like, she invited me, or she told me about it, but nothing was really, like, confirmed.

20:23Yeah.

20:23It was just kind of a talk, but I didn't know I was, like, not invited.

20:26First, Kaui excludes me from the podcast, and now Kama excludes me from the trip?

20:34What the hell is going on?

20:37I have anxiety.

20:38I don't like it when people are, like, I'll talk to you about it later, because I don't have anxiety until we talk.

20:42Yeah, or, like, we need to talk.

20:43Yeah, I hate that.

20:44I wonder what it is.

20:48I think I'm more so just, like, nervous.

20:50Yeah.

20:51Because I just...

20:51I mean, I would be, too.

20:52I just went through, like, drama with her, and I don't want to go through more, you know?

20:58So I hope there's nothing that, like, she's, like, really upset about.

21:01I can't think of what it would be.

21:03We were completely fine at the beach.

21:06I know.

21:06Like, what more?

21:10Yeah.

21:11It'll be fine.

21:11What should I say?

21:13Just be like, okay, have a great trip.

21:16Talk to you soon.

21:18I mean, I know we're having that weekend getaway.

21:20Mm-hmm.

21:21And I don't want anything to blow up in your face.

21:24Yeah.

21:26Next week is our beach house getaway.

21:29I'm really looking forward to it.

21:31And, yes, Alex will be there, but I think we'll be okay.

21:35It's always something.

21:36Yeah.

21:37I hope she's not mad, honestly.

21:39Okay.

21:50What's up, baby?

21:57I'm all right.

21:58I'm all right.

21:59Alex is, like, a big brother and, like, the fun uncle.

22:03Alex always catches my back ever since I got into this friend group because he knows better

22:07than anyone that you date one of them, you date them all.

22:09Can I get you guys something to drink?

22:10Yeah.

22:11Uh, what?

22:11He has a strawberry mojito?

22:13Uh, yeah.

22:13I'll do that for you.

22:14I'll just do that, too.

22:15Okay.

22:15It seems like he's a supporter, you know, of me and Cowie together, and that's the kind

22:19of guy you want to hang out with, and that's Alex for you.

22:23So, what's going on with that?

22:25I noticed it.

22:26Dude, I have no clue.

22:27No clue.

22:28You guys weren't really talking, like...

22:30She's making it weird when we're at the beach day, so I was like, all right, you know,

22:35I'm not going to sit around here and just twiddle my thumbs and, you know, wait until you

22:40like me.

22:40Like, what happened?

22:41I swear you guys just went on a date, and now you guys are not talking, like...

22:45I planned such a fun, you know, date.

22:48Yeah.

22:48And then we go to this lookout, you know, how it goes, like, just talking, and then, like,

22:52then she started just bringing up all these dashes, like, look, you're in college, like,

22:55you're with all these other girls, and I don't know, you know, where we can go from here,

22:59and then she's like, you're leaving soon, and all this...

23:02It sounds like excuses.

23:03She's really trying to protect herself.

23:05I don't know.

23:05I feel like Cowie's always really guarded.

23:08Very.

23:08So...

23:08Extremely.

23:09Yeah.

23:10And you know who guards more than her?

23:11Her friends.

23:12Trust me, I know.

23:13Oh, yeah, you do.

23:14Yeah.

23:14Got you a strawberry mojito.

23:15Oh, I appreciate it very much.

23:16No problem.

23:18Cheers, brother.

23:19Cheers, man.

23:22It kind of sounds like she's playing games, you're playing games.

23:25I'm just doing the same thing.

23:27It's kind of like...

23:28I kind of, like, get over it playing games, you know?

23:32Oh, my goodness, man.

23:33I hate when you're right, because it makes sense, because I was playing...

23:37I was kind of playing games, too.

23:38Yeah.

23:38I was trying to give her a taste of romance.

23:40That's...

23:40I'm trying to take the high road, like, this whole time.

23:43You know, like, how would you feel if, like, you know, you've liked this girl for, you

23:46know, a long-ass time, and you finally get the opportunity, you know, to take her on

23:49all these fun dates?

23:50You're young.

23:51You're literally in college.

23:53That's true.

23:53The best time of your life, like...

23:54That is true.

23:55Don't worry about it.

23:56I appreciate that, man.

23:57I appreciate it.

23:57No, but...

23:59Enough about me.

23:59I saw you and Rachel at the beach.

24:01It looked good.

24:02I saw a smile on both of you guys' faces.

24:05I mean...

24:05Playful flirting here and there.

24:07I'm not gonna lie.

24:07It was kind of weird, you know?

24:08Was it?

24:09It was weird because it just felt normal again, you know?

24:11Like, it was like...

24:12That would be pretty weird.

24:13I don't really know how I'm feeling right now.

24:15You know, like, I always thought, like...

24:16Are you a little confused?

24:16I'm never...

24:17I would never get back with Rachel again.

24:19And, like, you know, I thought...

24:20I mean, I don't know if she heard me, but, you know, it kind of felt like...

24:23You had that all...

24:24Yeah.

24:24All those thoughts going on.

24:25Yeah.

24:25So I was like...

24:26I just felt, you know, disrespected.

24:27I don't know.

24:28I don't know where her head's at.

24:29I don't know what she's thinking.

24:30And...

24:30Yeah.

24:30I don't know.

24:31I'm confused.

24:32Maybe just, like, initiate, like, oh, let's go out.

24:35Let's go grab some drinks.

24:35Let's go hang out, you know, for a little bit.

24:37Well, actually, um...

24:38Oh, no.

24:39She actually asked me to dinner.

24:40Shh.

24:41So...

24:42Oh, God.

24:42That was very strange.

24:44You know, I didn't...

24:44I was not expecting that.

24:45This is getting even more strange.

24:47Yeah, I mean, I haven't actually, like, talked to her since we broke up.

24:51It's, like, one-on-one, yeah.

24:52So, you know, hopefully it's good.

24:55When are you going out with Rachel?

24:56Tomorrow.

24:56Tomorrow?

24:57Yeah.

24:57Oh, that's, like, right before the beach house.

24:59Yeah.

24:59Oh, my goodness.

25:17So happy we're doing this.

25:18I'm so excited.

25:19We're here at Kama's Family's Farm, and we're gonna brush the horses,

25:24spend some time with the horsies, and I'm so happy and excited for it.

25:28You're so pretty.

25:30Yeah.

25:30You'll be taking care of Lena, girl, and I'll be taking care of Whiskey.

25:34Okay, okay.

25:35I really didn't grow up on this farm country life, so it's nice to tap into it, and especially

25:41with Kama, I think we're gonna have a really good time.

25:43I'm gonna grab some feed.

25:45They are actually eating really fast.

25:47So, did you grow up doing this kind of stuff?

25:50Yes, I did.

25:52Sorry, wait.

25:53What?

25:54Did I just...

25:54This is a brush?

25:55Yeah, it's a brush.

25:56Okay, okay, sorry.

25:56It's a brush.

25:57It looks like it's to, like, fix a car or something.

25:59Yeah, it's a brush.

26:00Ah, it's kind of hard, huh?

26:02Wait, is this a clean, like, a cleaning dirt kind of brush?

26:05Yeah.

26:05Wow, your horse is very fluffy.

26:08So fluffy.

26:09It's so fun that you, like, grew up around horses.

26:12Yeah.

26:12My sister and I, we did a lot of rodeos.

26:15So, we do barrels.

26:16My Kamakana side here, they're really well known for Paniolos.

26:21Paniolos are cowboys.

26:22Right, right.

26:23And wine.

26:24Dang, mine is hungry.

26:25Come here.

26:27Well, how have you been?

26:28How's things with Marcus?

26:31We went on our second little outing, not our date.

26:35And he got, like, a convertible.

26:37Oh, okay.

26:39Yeah, he got a convertible, and then we went to the lookout and just, like, talking story.

26:42And basically, I kind of just told him that, like, I want to keep it friendly, you know?

26:48Oh, you said that?

26:49Yeah, because, I don't know, he's still in college.

26:51I think he's cute.

26:52I like hanging out with him.

26:53Yeah.

26:54I mean, we have good laughs.

26:55We have good conversations.

26:58But, yeah, just I don't want to deal with that.

27:02I just don't see that really working out.

27:03And he's going back to school soon.

27:05I don't want to, like, keep, like, going on more dates and then, like, grow a weird attachment

27:10because I have, like, attachment issues.

27:12Anyway, so, yeah.

27:13Don't we all?

27:18Do you think it would make a difference if he wasn't going back to school?

27:21Maybe a slight difference as in, like, we could hang out more and get to know each other more and, like, just take it, like, very, very, very slow.

27:31I know I can be obnoxious and he's obnoxious and then it's, like, okay, we can't have two obnoxious people.

27:36You know what I'm saying?

27:37But also he ignored me totally at the beach and I'm just like, bruh, so you want to be petty now?

27:44Like, come on.

27:44Well, I know Raven was yelling at him at the beach.

27:49Any time, like, I start, like, talking to a guy or interested in a guy, she makes me feel like that she feels like they're not good enough for me.

27:56I didn't know she was like that with every guy with you.

27:59I mean, she doesn't yell at every, I take that back, she does yell at pretty much every single guy that I talk to.

28:04I mean, I look at it as, like, she cares about me a lot and older sister vibe, you know, but sometimes it's just so intense.

28:13I'm like, bruh, rave, like, sometimes it's, like, I want to think for myself.

28:17I feel like it's hard to find genuine people, too, especially in dating and if you find someone who really cares about you, who really wants to be with you, like, definitely don't brush that off.

28:29Yeah, totally.

28:29Listen to your heart.

28:32Come on.

28:33I appreciate that advice.

28:34But, wait, are you going to go to the beach house?

28:36Yes, I'm so excited.

28:38It'll be really fun to just be with everybody, you know?

28:40It's going to be fun.

28:41Get the whole family together.

28:42I miss everyone.

28:43You know Marcus is going to be there.

28:45Yeah, I know.

28:46I don't care.

28:47You think you're going to ignore him back?

28:48If he gives me weird vibes, then definitely I will return that back, you know?

28:53Yeah.

28:54But it's pretty windy.

28:55Should we go inside?

28:56Yes, I'm down and I'm really thirsty.

28:59Bye, Lena.

29:01Bye, whiskey.

29:02I wish somebody brushed my hair like that.

29:04Right.

29:16Hey.

29:17All right.

29:18First of all, should we do easy, hard, or medium?

29:20Um, you know, let's start with the easy.

29:23Kawi and Kama are molokai, and, you know, things are a little quiet right now.

29:27Kawi is definitely the glue of the group, and she's always the one that wants to hang

29:31out and wants to plan things and basically get all the girls together.

29:34Oh, I'm scared.

29:35I'm nervous.

29:36Why?

29:37I haven't putt in forever.

29:39Let's keep the score.

29:40I might beat you.

29:41Mm-hmm.

29:44Oh, my God.

29:45It's fast.

29:46Oh, my God.

29:47Okay, I'm not going to beat that.

29:50This guy.

29:52Oh, here we go again.

29:52It's going to be PTSD.

29:54The last time I went golfing was with Kawi, and, you know, it didn't actually go as I planned

30:00it to.

30:01I don't really need to get it, and I don't think you really want to be making me mad

30:04with a golf club in my hand right now.

30:06If I make this in, I'm the baddest of them all.

30:10You're still the baddest.

30:12I'm still the baddest.

30:13I just want to make it in.

30:15Oh, my God.

30:16Oh, my God.

30:17This is hard.

30:18Out of bounds.

30:19Is it fair?

30:20Is it fair to move it?

30:23Bitch.

30:23Oh, no.

30:25Oh.

30:26Oh.

30:27Oh, my God.

30:28I took the L.

30:29It's whatever.

30:30It's done.

30:31I'm never touching a golf club again.

30:34Yeah, I think Kawi going to Molokai is a good getaway for her.

30:38Maybe after this Molokai trip, she'll come back, like, renewed and feeling better.

30:43And maybe she did need that alone time to kind of...

30:45Yeah.

30:46Kawi's with Kama right now, and I was talking to Raven, and Kama had texted Raven.

30:53And there's a reason I didn't invite you to Molokai, and I'll tell you why in person.

30:59What?

31:00It was very big.

31:01Wait, that's so cryptic.

31:03I know.

31:04Did she put a heart?

31:04Did she put any emojis?

31:05Anything?

31:06No, I don't think so.

31:07No emojis?

31:08I don't think so.

31:10Now that's how you know.

31:11That is when you know.

31:13Emojis are how you soften the blow.

31:15If you get a text from one of your friends saying, hey, we need to talk, there's no emojis in place.

31:19Or just a period.

31:20Oof.

31:20But I guess, you know what?

31:22We'll find out this weekend.

31:29Oh yeah, barbecuing.

31:31We got beer, and this is the chicken, you know.

31:35Tonight we're eating venison that I caught, and we also have chicken, beef, and vegetables straight from our farm.

31:44So we're gonna grab this.

31:47Close it.

31:48Hi.

31:48Okay.

31:50What's the difference with this kind of grill from a regular grill?

31:55Like, with the thing going over?

31:57So we're out of the more guy.

31:58Okay.

31:59Period.

32:01Pick it up.

32:03There you go.

32:04Okay.

32:17All right.

32:18Let's eat.

32:20Aw, we're so happy to have Kali home.

32:24Yeah, we're so happy to have him here.

32:26Here you go, Guma.

32:27Here you go, Papa.

32:28Here you go, Papa.

32:29Yeah, you guys first.

32:30Yeah, you guys first.

32:31Um, and our culture.

32:33Um, and our culture.

32:34Elderly go first.

32:35When I'm not a Molokai, I miss my family tremendously.

32:40We got some barbecue going.

32:42Oh, my favorite is rock crab.

32:45You remember when the deer hit the fence and you guys go tackle it?

32:51Yeah.

32:52We tackle the deer.

32:53We tackle the deer and cut his throat.

32:55And we're kids.

32:56We're only, like, seven.

32:58And we could tackle the deer and my friend that we went with.

33:01I told him, don't grab the legs.

33:02Yeah.

33:03Don't grab the legs.

33:04And kick them in the face.

33:05Wait.

33:06Wait.

33:07But they got him.

33:09They got him.

33:10I was like, oh, my God, he's got him.

33:13I love that.

33:14Yeah.

33:15As keikis, we are taught from our elders to carry on the traditions and the stories in our culture.

33:24I was taught where it's, like, we don't like outsiders.

33:27Like, don't let people, like, come in because we don't want anything being changed.

33:31But then the older Kapunan thing, we should educate others on, like, and sharing our culture

33:38of, like, that's our key to making our culture survive and live.

33:42100%.

33:43I think this is why it's so amazing that, like, we're here in Wollongong is, like, coming

33:47back to the roots.

33:48But especially on my island, like, we don't have the grocery stores.

33:52We don't have commercial foods or businesses here.

33:56Our responsibility, like, even us Hawaiians from back then, like, our job was to provide.

34:01Oh, my God.

34:02Are you going to start?

34:03Yeah.

34:04Yeah.

34:05Now that I am, you know, a bit older, it's my turn to share those stories with my nieces,

34:10my nephews, and pass down the same traditions.

34:13So our culture lives long and it never dies.

34:17This is what it means to be a Hawaiian.

34:19Like, this is such an amazing experience.

34:21I just want to thank you guys for allowing me to be here again.

34:24And, like, I love you guys.

34:27I love you guys.

34:28I think from here we should probably move inside, yeah?

34:30Yeah.

34:31Yeah.

34:32It's a valkine storm.

34:33Yeah.

34:34Storm.

34:35Hello.

34:36Hi.

34:37Thanks for coming.

34:38Thanks for inviting me.

34:40I asked Alex to lunch because I know the beach house is coming up and we're going to be under the same roof for the first time since we've broken up.

34:47And I think talking to him now will relieve some of the awkwardness just to make sure that we're good and nothing's weird and there's no bad blood between us.

35:00Well, I'm glad we're catching up.

35:01I wanted to talk to you about the beach house that's obviously coming up.

35:07All our friends are going to be there.

35:09Um, so I just want to make sure we're good.

35:11The beach house is going to be fun.

35:12We got it.

35:13A long time ago.

35:14So it should be good.

35:15And I'm happy that we can at least, like, be in the same place with our friends and it's not weird.

35:20Yeah.

35:21Should be a good time.

35:22Well, we're going to be sleeping over.

35:23Overnight.

35:24First time in the same house.

35:25Yeah.

35:26Yeah.

35:27Yeah.

35:28Yeah.

35:29Yeah.

35:30Yeah.

35:31Yeah.

35:32Yeah.

35:33Yeah.

35:34Yeah.

35:35Yeah.

35:36Yeah.

35:37Yeah.

35:38Yeah.

35:39Yeah.

35:40Yeah.

35:41Yeah.

35:42Yeah.

35:43Yeah.

35:44Oh, wow.

35:45I had drinks with Marcus the other day.

35:48He was, like, talking about, like, oh, how are you feeling?

35:50Like, what's going on?

35:51And I was, like, you know, like, talking with you at the beach, like, it felt normal again.

35:54You know?

35:55Like, now we're hanging out again.

35:56Like, it's normal wine.

35:57Yeah.

35:58I don't want to hate you.

35:59I don't want you to hate me.

36:00Yeah.

36:01No.

36:02No.

36:03I mean, you know, like, I never, I don't, I can't say that I ever hated you.

36:07You know, like, from my end, you know, like, I felt really stupid.

36:14At the end of it.

36:15You know, like, I didn't feel like I was being crazy.

36:18I didn't feel like I was asking a lot.

36:20I never said that you cheated.

36:22I just said it looked like that.

36:24Yeah.

36:25I mean, we spent, we were together for three years.

36:29And I don't want that to get, like, tainted.

36:31Like, I really cherish all the memories we made.

36:34And we're both very outgoing.

36:36And there are, like, instances where you, like, flirt.

36:43And then I get told from my best girlfriends that that was, like, an issue that I had.

36:48I don't think you meant to do that.

36:50But it happened.

36:51And it comes off, like...

36:53It's not a good look.

36:54Yeah.

36:55I mean, at the end of our relationship, like, I was hearing that too.

36:59Yeah.

37:00So, like, I completely, I completely get where you're coming from.

37:02And, you know, like, obviously it doesn't feel good.

37:05If we just talked about it, like, I feel like that would have been so much easier.

37:11Yeah.

37:12But my hindsight's 20-20, so...

37:14Well, I'm sorry.

37:16I should have been more vocal about my feelings.

37:23I hope that now you're happy.

37:26Yeah.

37:27Working on it.

37:28Yeah.

37:29Working on it?

37:30Okay.

37:31Figuring it out.

37:32It is weird being alone now.

37:34Yeah, I mean, I feel like it's good, you know, kind of to figure that out.

37:38Yeah, I hear you on Hinge.

37:40Yeah.

37:42How'd you hear that?

37:44So, my mom called me.

37:47Apparently, my cousin saw you on Hinge.

37:51And then told my mom.

37:53It's an experience.

37:54You know, I never, I never had a dating profile before.

37:57I made an account too, but I...

37:58Saw that.

37:59...deleted it right away.

38:00Saw that.

38:01I actually saw that, though.

38:02You saw it?

38:03Yeah, I did.

38:04It was up for, like, a day.

38:05Cause I'm not, I'm not onto that lot.

38:07Mmm, sure.

38:08Yeah.

38:09Yeah.

38:11Uh, okay.

38:14Cheers.

38:16Cheers.

38:17To, uh, being friends.

38:18And, uh, to a good weekend.

38:20Mm-hmm.

38:21Mm-hmm.

38:22All I wanted was to change.

38:36Howie is a very good friend, and she's one that I know I can always turn to.

38:47It's been amazing having Howie home with my family.

38:49It definitely had made us a lot closer.

38:51This Moloka'i trip, I don't know if it gives me a lot more clarity with Marcus specifically,

38:58but I think that the trip has definitely given me more clarity with how I should go about all my relationships

39:04because of things that I have to work on.

39:07I'm glad that I had that realization.

39:21Hello. Guys. Guys, I'm back.

39:42Hi. Hi.

39:45Washing dishes. Thanks.

39:49How was Moloka'i?

39:51It was good.

39:56Hey, Rave, do you think we can, like, talk for a little bit, please?

39:59Yeah.

40:00Okay. Whenever you're ready.

40:05I just wanted to talk because I feel like I don't really like where we are with our friendship,

40:09and I do want to work on it, and I just feel kind of weird after everything that happened at, like, the podcast.

40:14That whole night just kind of made me sad because it just kind of made me feel like you just weren't happy for me.

40:20For sure, I want to apologize for going off the way that I did because that was a little uncalled for.

40:25Mm-hmm.

40:26And I shouldn't have done that during, like, your special night. Like, I could have waited.

40:31It being Skye as the guest and me just still kind of, like, being in the sideline, I think I just felt a little left out.

40:37Mm-hmm.

40:38And it kind of, like, just triggered me, you know?

40:40It wasn't my intention to ever make you feel, like, left out or, like, you know, just, or as if Skye is, like, a better friend or anything like that.

40:48Yeah.

40:49Because that's never my intention or my heart, you know?

40:51Like, I do want to have you, like, a part of the Badness Club when the time is right, you know what I mean?

40:56Yeah.

40:57Yeah, but thank you for apologizing.

40:59Yeah, and I think seeing you kind of do, like, a talk show podcasting again, it kind of made me miss doing that with you a lot.

41:07When I wake up one day and, like, all the episodes are gone, it kind of broke a little bit of trust, too, for me, you know?

41:13Like, I felt like I couldn't fully trust you anymore.

41:16I hope you know, like, that had nothing to do with you.

41:18I went to school to be a news reporter.

41:20If I was going to be a news reporter, I couldn't have episodes that were talking about very outspoken things, you know?

41:28Yeah, which I get.

41:29So I, I, but I want you to know I really do apologize for not going through to you first and asking you.

41:34Yeah.

41:35If that was okay, because I would have been pissed if you did that to me.

41:38Exactly, yeah.

41:39I'm glad that you see that.

41:40So, yeah.

41:41Why are we, like, a married couple?

41:42I know.

41:43Bro.

41:44But, yeah.

41:46So, how was Molokai?

41:47It was good.

41:48It was really fun, honestly, and just refreshing.

41:51Yeah, I feel like you needed that.

41:53I need that, like, every week.

41:54Yeah, honestly.

41:55Honestly.

41:56Yeah, it was kind of weird, actually, because, I don't know if you know this, but I was actually supposed to go on that trip.

42:01She invited me when we had our lunch, and then I kind of just got ghosted and never heard from her again about the trip.

42:07And then while you guys were there, I got a text from her saying that there's a reason why I wasn't invited.

42:14And that she'll tell me when she sees me, but I'm just kind of, like, caught off guard because I thought we were good now.

42:20Mm-hmm.

42:21You know?

42:22And then to get that text, I'm like, bro, what did I do now?

42:25Bro.

42:26Hopefully, at the beach house, we can all, like, just bond and, like, reconnect with each other.

42:30Can't see your prayers every night until the beach comes.

42:34Cheers!

42:35Cheers!

42:36Ah!

42:37Marcus, um, how many partners have you had?

42:40Can we dog?

42:41Probably better not get pushed again.

42:42If I don't move, we're done.

42:43We're done.

42:44It's good.

42:45Do one more pound.

42:46Can you pound my point?

42:47I got you.

42:49Marcus is so cute, and I'm an Aries, I like to flirt.

42:51Marcus, I want a fan.

42:52Go get my ass.

42:53Whoa!

42:54I'm just going to see where this weekend takes me.

42:56I'm just going to see where this weekend takes me.

43:26I'm just going to see where this weekend is.

43:56I'm just going to see where this weekend is.

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