Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 10

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Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 10  #MarriedatFirstSightUK #RealityRealmUS Reality Realm US

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00:00People don't need to know my shit.

00:02Set Stephen on a collision course.

00:05Just stay out of my business.

00:06I'm not trying to come to a new relationship.

00:07I'm not. Couldn't give a flying

00:08if I'm completely honest. I'm here for my relationship.

00:11That's just a ****.

00:15Tonight.

00:16On a scale of one to ten, how strong are your feelings?

00:20The second dinner party serves up romantic confessions from Sam.

00:249.5.

00:25Do you have any regrets so far?

00:30While others face harsher truths.

00:33Yes.

00:35I feel like I'm constantly calling you out for things.

00:38Trying to be nice and then they're backfiring on me.

00:41I'm at a point of my life now.

00:42I need to know you want the same thing.

00:44I haven't got time to waste.

00:46But it's gossip in the group.

00:48He ****ed well, like, two weeks before he came here.

00:50Whoa.

00:52Fire.

00:52That sparks the biggest conflict of the night.

00:55Who has decided to say I was talking about my sexual activity?

00:58You did.

00:59We were all there.

00:59People are starting to **** me off.

01:01That, that, that, that, that.

01:05****.

01:06Wow.

01:07Did he just say that?

01:08Do you want a tea, babe?

01:17Yeah, I'm spitting feathers.

01:19That means you're angry.

01:20No, it means, like, you're thirsty.

01:22I thought it meant you're...

01:22Like, feathers are coming out of your mouth.

01:24You're so dry.

01:25I always thought that meant you're annoyed.

01:28Cookie?

01:28Stop force feeding me.

01:30No, no.

01:30Yeah, you're great.

01:31I don't want the cookie now you've licked it.

01:34It's Maeve's 30th birthday today,

01:44so I just want to make it as special as possible

01:46and celebrate her birthday together.

01:50There you go.

01:51That's not too bad.

01:52Maeve!

01:53She sometimes needs reassuring how special she is.

01:56What the ****?

01:59Happy birthday.

02:01Good writing, isn't it?

02:03And then...

02:04Oh, it's stuff like...

02:05Oh, my God!

02:07All I wanted was a three and a zero balloon, wasn't it?

02:10Happy birthday.

02:11Oh, thank you.

02:13I've never been treated this well of a lad on my birthday, ever.

02:17Me and Jo are in a really good spot right now.

02:19I just feel like we're on cloud nine.

02:21I feel very good about myself today.

02:24What?

02:25No.

02:26Is it?

02:28Oh, sweetheart.

02:30It's a bit salty, mate.

02:31Oh, ****.

02:32It's salty.

02:41After the expats, we can help with Charlene,

02:43myself and Sarah were growing romantically.

02:46Now we're holding hands, you know, now we'll cuddle,

02:47you know, it's slowly, slowly getting there.

02:50Then we were doing really good,

02:51but we had a blip.

02:53Last night, we had a massive argument.

02:54We had had a few drinks and I really wish the argument hadn't happened

03:01because we have had a really good week.

03:03I put my foot in it again.

03:05A member of the crew came down where we were drinking

03:09and Sarah said, oh, if you were straight, I'd be all over you.

03:14Made me feel like, I don't know if she'll ever feel that way about me.

03:17So last night we had a massive argument because I was like, do you think you'll ever fall for me?

03:23She said, I don't know.

03:24And it did hurt.

03:25I now have learnt from that and I have been apologising to Dean today.

03:32She's saying she's not used to thinking for somebody else's feelings.

03:35I'm genuinely sorry, it'll never happen again.

03:37I'm here to find love and I'm putting everything into this.

03:39So we're going to be strong and we're going to get through this.

03:41Do you want a coffee, Grace?

03:49Yes, please.

03:51Things with me and Ash are good.

03:53Experts, we help the relationship.

03:55We're getting more trusting and I'm relaxing more.

03:57The workshop was helpful for taking the pressure off a little bit.

04:00Do you find it awkward at all?

04:01I'm just private, aren't I?

04:03Did it make it more awkward that I wasn't awkward?

04:05No, I think that probably helped, to be fair.

04:08Grace and I are really good, but there's that constant communication issue

04:11where my terminology isn't always correct.

04:14It's normally silly things.

04:15I woke up the other morning and her nails were overgrown

04:17and I was like, should we go and get your nails done?

04:19And her reply was, I don't need to get my nails done for a man.

04:22And I was like, okay, it's not what I was saying, but I get it.

04:26How do I say this?

04:29When I met Ash, I was so disappointed that I had this traditional person

04:33that wants a lady and a tomboy Barbie and all this bollocks.

04:36It made me feel uncomfortable and not really me.

04:39I've asked him not to comment on what I wear and how I look and how I am.

04:43He continues to do it anyway.

04:51Lynette and I are in separate apartments.

04:54I have gave her plenty of space.

04:56I thought Expert Week was good for us.

05:00We did the questions task and I asked her some direct questions,

05:03which was what she wanted.

05:05And I think that went quite positive.

05:11Hello.

05:12Oh, hello, lovely.

05:13I'd like to walk into the dinner party together,

05:15a show of strength, a show of becoming closer.

05:19I have my fingers crossed.

05:20It's a nice frock, isn't it?

05:21Thanks.

05:22I joined this experiment and said that I would give it 100%,

05:25but I don't know how I feel about my marriage.

05:30I've hardly asked any questions about me.

05:31I don't want to ask.

05:32Since their honeymoon...

05:34I don't know if that's all for the marriage.

05:36Issues with communication...

05:37I know your three children's names.

05:39Do you know my two?

05:40I mean, no.

05:42No emotional connection.

05:44No communication.

05:45Just miles apart.

05:47And a differing approach to the pace of their marriage.

05:50Surely you should know what you want by now.

05:52Are you expecting me to be fully committed after two weeks?

05:54Created problems for Anita and Paul.

05:57You said it takes you time.

05:59I just haven't got that time.

06:00Love is something you build.

06:03My time frame may be different from her time frame,

06:07and that's going to be the sticking point.

06:10Have you had a good week?

06:11Yeah, it's been better, yeah.

06:13What about you?

06:14Don't know how I'm feeling.

06:17I've took the expert advice on board.

06:21Done the questions.

06:23Been more open.

06:24I don't want to give any wrong signals.

06:28Well, let me reassure you you're not.

06:31How would you like to arrive?

06:35Personally, I'd like to go together.

06:37I think we've had a better week.

06:40We've been more communicative.

06:42Spend time together.

06:44Your choice, madam.

06:49I don't know.

06:54I'm not sure whether to go into the dinner party with Paul.

06:58Obviously, he came here looking for love,

06:59and Paul and I are on totally different pages,

07:03different books, to be honest.

07:06He feels that if he does ask questions,

07:08he feels like he's being intrusive, he's being nosy.

07:11As always, I don't know how he feels deep down.

07:14I'm not sure what Paul wants, to be honest.

07:24How do you think the week's gone?

07:26It's been up and down-ish.

07:27The workshop with Charlene was interesting.

07:30Yeah.

07:30I wouldn't say that the intimacy workshop brought me and Leah closer,

07:35because intimacy is still not massively progressed.

07:39We went through that whole situation where Leah was being flirty with Rebecca,

07:42and it annoyed me.

07:44I felt disrespected.

07:45I just feel like they're going to ask us,

07:47have you done your homework?

07:48Yeah, but we're not in any rush to be doing anything that we don't want to do.

07:54I'm frustrated.

07:55I'm putting me all on the table.

07:57Do I feel like I'm getting that back?

07:58Absolutely not.

07:59We did take a load of different bits and pieces from the intimacy workshop,

08:03but she's dug it under the bed somewhere,

08:06and we haven't done anything or practised anything at home.

08:10I just hope it doesn't just stay in this friend zone,

08:13because we're here for a reason, aren't we?

08:24It's been a really tough week.

08:26I have communicated to Stephen how I'm feeling,

08:29but the effort's not there, and I'm exhausted.

08:33How's the rib?

08:37You know me.

08:37I'm quite good with pain, so...

08:39They're putting up on me, so, yeah, you must be good with pain.

08:43Yesterday, I fell over in the bathtub and broke my rib.

08:47When I told Stephen, I just felt like he didn't really care,

08:50because he ignored how I'm feeling,

08:52and he didn't come home till gone 11 at night.

08:56Do you want to talk or not about when I broke my rib?

09:00Sure.

09:00I felt deflated, not seeing you until very late at night.

09:05That's just knocked me back a little bit.

09:09I don't know why this was a little dick.

09:12She's not been my priority this week.

09:13My stepdad's in the hospital.

09:15It's hard to think of anything other than that.

09:16We went out for drinks last night,

09:21and you had Stephen with us.

09:22Yeah.

09:23There's things I don't agree with that were said.

09:25Yeah, it is quite concerning.

09:27Stephen should have been at home with Nelly,

09:29but instead he was at the bar bragging about his sex life

09:32before the experiment.

09:33That is just insane.

09:35Nelly has no idea.

09:37And I'm not 100% sure if I should bring it up at the dinner party.

09:40I'm struggling with that.

09:41I think tonight will be very telling,

09:43once there's a bit of heat on him,

09:44how strong that bond really is now.

09:51I don't know what is going on in that boy's mind.

09:54Nelly fell, fractured her rib.

09:56She was hurt,

09:57and then he just decided to stay up with the boys all night.

09:59I just don't wear his head's out.

10:00Both Bailey and I are really close with Nelly and Stephen,

10:04but it feels really muggy.

10:06I think he's treating her the wrong way.

10:09My husband wouldn't disrespect me in that way,

10:11and if he did, then that would be it for me.

10:16People are going to have an opinion

10:18on how they would have done things.

10:21Jeremy couldn't care.

10:23I am apprehensive about going into the dinner party.

10:26People are going to have an opinion,

10:28and he's going to get his back up

10:29because people are piping in again.

10:31They can say their own thing,

10:33but I'll just dismiss it,

10:36and then see how they like that.

10:38Stephen doesn't take into account my well-being,

10:41and I deserve better than that.

10:43Do you care?

10:45Because every single person came and checked on me,

10:47apart from you.

10:50I'm in agony.

10:51I'm in pain.

10:53Where were you?

10:59Here we are, guys.

11:07Dinner party number two.

11:08I cannot wait to check in

11:10and see how all the couples are doing.

11:12And of course, right off the back of Experts Week,

11:14let's see if the couples put into practice

11:16everything that they learned.

11:18Take a look.

11:19No one in here.

11:25First one.

11:27Julia Reef and Devani.

11:28Last time we saw these two,

11:30they were not in a great place.

11:31For Experts Week,

11:32this couple had the values ranking task,

11:35so it's going to be really interesting

11:36to see what that's done for them

11:37in terms of finding alignment or otherwise.

11:40Do you think anyone's going to come in alone?

11:42I don't think so.

11:43I have Anita and Paul.

11:44They're doing well.

11:45Yeah.

11:45Rooting for them.

11:46How are you?

11:54Here's Lee and Leah.

11:55Good!

11:56No!

11:57The first day.

11:58Oh, my God.

11:59Lee and Leah really struggled with intimacy,

12:02so it'd be really interesting to find out

12:04whether there has been some progress.

12:07What have you guys been up to?

12:08We had intimacy week,

12:10and there was literally just sex toys all over a table.

12:13I've got to take my math time.

12:15Have you used it since you've been back?

12:16Put it all under the bed.

12:17Stop it.

12:18Yeah, it's first.

12:18All of it.

12:19All of it under the bed.

12:21Doesn't sound like they've been accessed.

12:23Leah sounds quite disappointed.

12:25The thing for me is that,

12:26I mean, we've touched first base,

12:28we haven't gone to second base,

12:29so pulling out a dildo at this point.

12:31I've got it aggressive.

12:33You're actually going to go, like, balls to the walls.

12:34What about the candle, the massage candle?

12:36Should we try that later?

12:37Yeah!

12:38Let's make a pack now.

12:39Yeah!

12:39Don't just say it.

12:40We're the witnesses.

12:41Yeah!

12:42We'll do that.

12:43Oh!

12:43I'm knocking your door tomorrow,

12:45and I'm like, how did it go?

12:45If I'm not burnt tomorrow with candle wax,

12:47then she's a liar.

12:50Well, it sounds like they might have shared a kiss,

12:52which is progress.

12:53The question is,

12:54will Lee make good on that pinky promise?

12:57Let's see.

12:59And Lily and Steve?

13:02Are we talking about the fact that he went out all day

13:04when she had a broken rib and didn't come back

13:06and see if she was all right?

13:07And everyone else was in the apartment looking after her?

13:09Yeah.

13:09Oh, Nellie must be really suffering.

13:11Yes.

13:12I mean, it's not what you expect from your partner,

13:14is it?

13:14To have a broken rib and for them not to show up for you.

13:18Something's going wrong there.

13:19I think everyone came in and checked on her,

13:21but Stephen.

13:28Hey!

13:30Hi, gorgeous.

13:32Rebecca and Bailey,

13:34they look like a really strong couple,

13:36and it's because they've managed to build

13:38both a strong physical and emotional connection

13:41with each other.

13:42They seem to be doing really well.

13:44Hello, Gellies.

13:44How are you?

13:45Good Lord.

13:47Did our old, um, experts week.

13:49We had values.

13:50Okay.

13:51Our values was, like,

13:52complete opposite.

13:53Were they?

13:54So we didn't align on the...

13:56the sex and the looks.

13:57When did you put sex and looks?

13:58Okay.

13:59No, no, I put sex as number eight.

14:02Hey!

14:03Well, I can imagine that Julia Ruth

14:05wasn't happy to hear that,

14:07because one thing we do know about Julia Ruth

14:09is that sex is right up there.

14:11It's very important for her.

14:13He put sex, eight, and then looks as nine.

14:16Oh, my God.

14:17Sex as eight for you is a no.

14:19The thing that got me was that

14:20he had occupation and money

14:22above sex and looks,

14:23and I just was like,

14:24so you're more worried about someone's job

14:26than you are.

14:28The sexual connection with them.

14:30Really?

14:31I would appreciate it

14:32if it was, like, five, six,

14:33maybe something like that.

14:34As a man, I was like, eight?

14:40Hey!

14:42Hi, everyone!

14:44Maeve and Jo.

14:45So I saw these two for Experts Week,

14:47and we had a really good session.

14:48Maeve had a challenge

14:49around accepting compliments,

14:51and I believe that we were able

14:52to work her through that hump.

14:54So I had to do an exercise

14:56when I'm looking in the mirror.

14:57Jo's got to give me a compliment.

14:59What'd you like?

14:59You would have hated that.

15:01You would have hated it.

15:01I would have hated every minute of it.

15:03And then, obviously,

15:03then look at Jo

15:04and then repeat it back to him.

15:05Oh, okay.

15:06That's so nice.

15:06That's sweet.

15:07We're in a fucking great spot, man.

15:09Like, this morning,

15:10I actually woke up

15:11genuinely, like, buzzing.

15:13I just felt very good

15:14where I was at,

15:15do you know what I mean,

15:15with her, so...

15:16It's a good feeling.

15:16So I just feel

15:17in a really good spot with her.

15:18Yeah.

15:18Go on, Sam.

15:19Cheers to that, mate.

15:20Yeah.

15:20I feel like you two are actually closer.

15:24Like, every time I see you,

15:25I'm like,

15:25oh, a bit closer, a bit closer.

15:28We have had a wobbly week, haven't we?

15:32Our problem is,

15:34and I'm going to speak about this

15:35at the commitment ceremony

15:36because I don't know

15:36where these feelings will come from.

15:39I felt a bit of a type of way

15:41and Leah was being flirted with Rebecca.

15:42I felt rubbed up

15:47the wrong way about it

15:48and we was having a bicker

15:49and I was like,

15:50look, you take a minute,

15:51we'll come back

15:51and talk about it again.

15:54It'll be interesting

15:54to watch it play out

15:55and see whether this really is

15:57Leah having deeper feelings for Leah

15:59or whether her pride's been hurt

16:01or is this triggers

16:03from her past relationships

16:04coming up and unsettling her.

16:12Of course, last week,

16:28Anita was talking very much

16:29about feeling that Paul

16:31wasn't listening to her,

16:32wasn't asking her questions

16:33or really engaging with her.

16:34By the looks of things,

16:36there might not have been

16:37any improvement.

16:39Do you want to make her, though?

16:40Yeah.

16:41I need to take time

16:42and I build

16:43and I build

16:43and I build.

16:44The more I get into her mind,

16:46the more I get to know her

16:47as a human being,

16:48the more chance it is

16:50of loving her.

16:52I'm disappointed

16:52that we didn't come together

16:54because I've put quite a bit

16:55of effort in this week.

16:57She realises

16:58that my intentions are sincere

16:59and perhaps that time

17:03is something she will give me.

17:05I'd like to try and build

17:06some kind of emotional connection.

17:08Of course, yes.

17:09I've started to build it.

17:11That's good.

17:15Oh.

17:18Here she comes.

17:19We'll talk to the devil.

17:21Oh, here's Anita.

17:25How are you?

17:26You all right?

17:26Hello.

17:27What's she talking about?

17:29You all right?

17:30Well, it looks like Paul

17:32missed Anita.

17:33The question is

17:34if Anita missed Paul.

17:35She looks nice, doesn't she?

17:36Yeah.

17:37With her dress on.

17:37She looks lovely.

17:39All the compliments

17:41that Paul has

17:42are beautiful,

17:43but is he saying this

17:44to Anita?

17:46Why are you coming

17:46separately?

17:47Did you start overthinking?

17:48This morning I did.

17:49Just didn't want to give him any...

17:50false hope.

17:51Yeah.

17:53I wanted to go in

17:54separate from Paul tonight

17:55because I still believe

17:57that he's on a self-discovery journey

17:59and I'm on a love journey.

18:01I have no idea

18:02what Paul's thinking.

18:03I've wasted 17 years.

18:05I don't want to do that again.

18:06It's quite notable

18:07that after a 17-year relationship

18:10that never progressed,

18:11this weighs heavily on her.

18:13This is about past triggers

18:14from previous relationships.

18:20Yay!

18:21Happy, honey.

18:22Ashley and Grace.

18:22What an entrance.

18:24You look dashing in your lilac.

18:26Thank you very much.

18:26How are you, honey?

18:27Good.

18:27So my wife brought it for me.

18:29Oh!

18:30Wow.

18:31Oh, my wife.

18:36How are you?

18:36I think you're

18:39definitely warming up to him.

18:41Yeah.

18:42Yeah.

18:42I just feel

18:43he's just getting a bit

18:44it's all so good.

18:45I don't think he is.

18:46But then I worry like,

18:46oh.

18:47We've just had a few

18:48conversations this week

18:49just about like,

18:51I don't know.

18:51I just...

18:52Speak it out.

18:53Seek.

18:54Ash made the mistake

18:55of telling me

18:56I needed to get my nails done

18:57and I was like,

18:58Ash, no one's going to tell me

18:59how to have my nails done.

19:00I was going to tell me

19:00what outfit to wear.

19:01That's for me.

19:02This is a big one for Grace.

19:04You know,

19:04as an independent woman,

19:07having a man tell her

19:08what to wear

19:09how to do her nails,

19:10this is really rubbing her

19:11the wrong way

19:12and this goes deep

19:13into her values.

19:14This is not something

19:15she's just going to get over.

19:16This is something

19:17that the two of them

19:18really need to

19:19very carefully

19:20navigate together.

19:21I'm really confused

19:22at the moment.

19:22Oh, no.

19:23Do you know what I mean?

19:24No, no.

19:24You look a really good couple.

19:25I'm really good.

19:27And the fact that

19:27the way I say things

19:29isn't necessarily

19:29what I mean.

19:31Yeah.

19:31Things like I turned around

19:32and I was like,

19:33oh, your nails look

19:33like you need to end.

19:34Like, should we go

19:34and get your nails done?

19:35And she's like,

19:35I don't need

19:36to get my nails done

19:37for me.

19:37And I was like,

19:38that's not what I meant.

19:39That's not what you meant.

19:39Oh, no.

19:40Yeah, but it's like

19:41a constant thing.

19:42So we're clashing.

19:43But then also,

19:44like, we went out last night

19:44and of course I knew

19:45where I was going

19:45but it was a surprise.

19:46Yeah.

19:47So she got ready

19:48and then she was like,

19:49oh, do I love it?

19:49And I was like,

19:49you look lovely

19:50but have you got a dress?

19:51And that's because

19:51I'm not telling you

19:52to wear a dress.

19:53I'm just saying,

19:54like, I know where we're going.

19:55She wrote,

19:56you should have probably

19:56told her before she got a dress.

19:57Yeah, I'm sorry.

20:06Because if she's saying

20:07that this is offensive,

20:08then what we would want

20:09from Ashley

20:10is for him to take that

20:11on board and make changes.

20:12So here's that opportunity

20:13to question his partner

20:15and say,

20:15what do you need?

20:16How do we interact

20:17around this?

20:19Can I talk to you?

20:28I just found it

20:29very weird that Stephen,

20:30oh, fuck me, dude.

20:33He was talking to the group

20:34and he was bragging

20:35about how he's on WIRE

20:36and how he had, like,

20:37fucked a girl, like,

20:38two weeks before

20:39he came on here.

20:42Oh, come on, Stephen.

20:45Like, he kept bragging about it.

20:46Like, if I called Maeve here,

20:47like, she can, like,

20:48I'll send it.

20:51Maeve?

20:53I wonder what Morgan's getting for.

20:56Sorry.

20:57Okay.

20:58We were at the bar

20:58and then Stephen

20:59made the comment

21:00about him being on WIRE

21:01and the celebrity girl

21:03and then fucking...

21:04Yeah.

21:06So what I'm gathering here

21:08is that Stephen's out

21:09with all the other guys

21:10bragging about

21:12being with other women

21:13on the internet dating site.

21:14He's not a good look.

21:16But my real concern here

21:17is that Nellie's at home

21:19with a broken rib.

21:20She's feeling pain,

21:21probably quite vulnerable

21:22and really needs

21:23that support of her partner

21:24and it sounds like

21:25he hasn't shown up.

21:27It wasn't just, like,

21:29one comment.

21:29It was like,

21:30oh, yeah,

21:30and then I did this

21:30and then I did that

21:31and then also

21:32when I went with her,

21:33there was someone else

21:33that I went with

21:34and we were just, like...

21:36This would be really hurtful

21:37for Nellie.

21:38If this gets back to her,

21:39it's really going to

21:40reinforce any insecurities

21:41that she's having

21:42in this relationship

21:43and her doubts

21:44about whether Stephen's

21:45interested in her.

21:47Salt water.

21:51Thank you,

21:52the cheeky bastards.

21:52You guys are amazing!

22:01Hi!

22:02Stephen and Nellie.

22:04I'm shocked.

22:05They actually seem pretty happy.

22:06Poor Nellie.

22:07Numb the wiser.

22:08How are you getting on today?

22:12So, obviously,

22:13I've broken my room

22:14and then he didn't come home

22:15until, like,

22:16which really upset me

22:18and I told him at the time,

22:19I just don't want to rock the boat

22:21because I feel like

22:22anything I do...

22:22You're not rocking the boat.

22:23You're not the one

22:24who's rocking the boat.

22:24I know what I feel like.

22:25If I say anything

22:25about how I feel, then...

22:26No.

22:27No, I need to say

22:28how you fucking feel.

22:29I know, but it just

22:30turns into...

22:30Come the fuck off.

22:32At the end of the day,

22:33you were injured.

22:34What?

22:35He still...

22:35He still jumped the boat

22:36with the lads

22:36for hours and hours

22:37and it was a five-minute walk away.

22:40So Nellie's talking about

22:41being in this vulnerable position

22:43and not wanting to say

22:44anything to him

22:44because she doesn't

22:45want to rock the boat.

22:47It's a very dangerous position,

22:48walking on eggshells

22:49in a relationship,

22:50and that's precisely

22:51what she's doing right now.

22:53Yeah.

22:55What's going on?

22:56Everything good?

22:59Mm-hmm.

23:00Yeah.

23:02More little bickering

23:03is going on.

23:04Mm-hmm.

23:06I'm going to go chat with Stephen.

23:07You know, he gets really

23:08annoyed about people.

23:09I don't give a shit.

23:11I feel like it's

23:11going to go badly.

23:12But Nellie's really panicking.

23:14Want to chat?

23:15Yeah, yeah, yeah.

23:16Come on.

23:17I'll be back.

23:18Here we go.

23:19Oh, hell.

23:19Ooh.

23:20Oh, hell.

23:27So?

23:28Yes.

23:29Things are getting said

23:30and I'm obviously

23:31coming to you

23:32prior to it

23:33going back to Nellie.

23:34Mm-hmm.

23:34Why did you not

23:35come back

23:36all day,

23:36all night?

23:37I said this to Nellie.

23:39I've had an

23:39emotional challenge

23:40week and my stepdad's

23:40in the hospital,

23:41so yeah.

23:41She's not been my

23:43priority this week,

23:44which I've held

23:45my hands up for.

23:46Oh, that's why.

23:47Okay.

23:49Which is why

23:50I didn't come home

23:50the other night,

23:51which, again,

23:52held up.

23:52Yeah, it didn't look

23:53good, I'm not going to

23:54lie, like it was

23:55a shit move from you.

23:57Something's happening

23:58with his stepdad.

23:59That must be very hard.

24:00I think it does help

24:02us understand

24:02his behaviour.

24:04There's external

24:05pressures bearing down

24:06on Stephen.

24:07He was pulling back.

24:09Just listen to

24:10everything first,

24:10because I know

24:11you'll get up

24:11and go wild.

24:14Yeah, Steve

24:15made comments

24:15about, like,

24:16having sex

24:18with a celeb.

24:20Oh, hell.

24:22Two weeks

24:22before we came here,

24:23it became raggy.

24:26We're just looking

24:26at each other

24:27and thinking,

24:27what the fuck

24:27do you even say

24:28about that?

24:28When your wife's

24:29at home with

24:29a broken rib.

24:31Poor Nellie.

24:32She's been cheated

24:33on in three relationships,

24:34so you can imagine

24:35her alarm bells

24:36will be going off.

24:38I'm still cheating.

24:39No, no, no.

24:40The night that

24:43I hurt my rib

24:44and he didn't

24:45come home,

24:45Stephen's obviously

24:46discussing who

24:47he's been with

24:47when your girl's

24:49at home.

24:50I feel like

24:51an absolute fool

24:52for letting my guard down.

24:53Just feel like

24:54he cares about himself.

24:57Sorry to encroach.

24:58If you care about Nellie

25:03and you want it

25:04to go somewhere truly,

25:06you've got to be

25:07smarter about

25:08what you're doing.

25:09The stuff that you've

25:10done so far

25:11don't look great.

25:12Some of the things

25:13do look sticky.

25:14They just look dodge.

25:18I don't like the fact

25:19that everyone's getting

25:19involved in Nellie and I's

25:20relationship.

25:21People sticking their

25:22two pence in.

25:22I hate it from the off.

25:23The way they go about

25:24their business,

25:24they can fuck off.

25:30Dean and Sarah.

25:33At the intimacy workshop,

25:34they both really gave

25:35it a good shot.

25:37Whether the sexual

25:37attraction has grown

25:38though, I'm not sure.

25:40Come and sit down

25:41and say hello.

25:42Are you and Dean

25:42getting on?

25:43It's tough.

25:44Yeah.

25:45I don't know if you

25:49heard.

25:49We had our first

25:50argument.

25:51She said to one of

25:52the crew members

25:52that if he was straight,

25:53she would sleep with him.

25:54Last time we saw Sarah

25:57and Dean at the

25:57commitment ceremony,

25:58we were quite firm

25:59with Sarah about some

26:00of the quite disrespectful

26:01comments she made

26:02about Dean.

26:03She's made another one

26:04and she's hurt his

26:05feelings again.

26:06If my missus said

26:07something like that,

26:08I would probably

26:09take advantage of it.

26:09I would definitely

26:10put up for it.

26:11Are you okay though

26:12as well?

26:13Because obviously

26:13it sounds like it

26:14was quite a heated

26:15thing.

26:15No, it was, yeah.

26:16It just kind of caught

26:16me.

26:16I was like, I don't

26:18think you're ever

26:18going to say that to

26:18me.

26:18So that triggered that.

26:20And then I went

26:20off and I was like,

26:21I don't think I can

26:22stay because I don't

26:22think you're ever

26:23going to ever going

26:24to feel that way

26:25about me.

26:25And she went, I don't

26:26know if I will.

26:27What am I doing here?

26:28Because that's what

26:29I meant.

26:29Sticking up for

26:29yourself is perfectly

26:30fine.

26:31I've timed it quite

26:32up and down and

26:33things.

26:33I'm glad that Dean

26:34and I are getting

26:34on and we are

26:35getting better.

26:36Normally we're

26:37having arguments,

26:37but as long as

26:38you're taking

26:38something positive

26:39out of them and

26:40these are things

26:41that you've gone

26:41through and you're

26:41not going to go

26:42through again and

26:42then, yeah.

26:43Yeah, we did have,

26:44yeah.

26:44So we're actually

26:44probably in the

26:45best place we've

26:45been in.

26:47Dean wants this

26:47relationship more than

26:48anything, but

26:53he places priority

26:53on the relationship.

26:54Yeah.

26:55My real concern

26:56for Dean here is

26:57that his expectations

26:58are so low that

26:59almost anything

27:00Sarah offers him,

27:01he's going to be

27:02prepared to accept.

27:03Yes.

27:05You don't deserve

27:06this.

27:07I don't deserve

27:07this.

27:08I deserve better.

27:08Someone out there

27:09will give me better.

27:12What he needs to do

27:13now is he needs to

27:14figure out how he's

27:14getting out of this.

27:15That's what he's

27:15doing.

27:17It's going to be

27:17bloody tough, mate.

27:20You need to ask

27:21him.

27:21I think it's

27:24time.

27:25Go.

27:30Oh, this has

27:31been a fun start

27:33at the dinner point,

27:33isn't it?

27:33Mm, extremely fun.

27:35Apparently there's a

27:36lot of stuff going

27:36about.

27:39I've been told

27:40apparently a few

27:42weeks before you'd

27:43hooked up with some

27:45said Lister and you

27:47were talking about

27:48the sexual stuff that

27:49you'd done with her.

27:51I wasn't.

27:52So has that come out

27:53completely?

27:54Fuck of me.

27:54Who the fuck has said

27:55that?

27:56People have heard it.

27:58Do you know how it

27:59feels to come in here

28:00and everyone tell you

28:01this is how Stephen's

28:02been acting when I've

28:03already been upset with

28:04how you've been

28:04behaving anyway?

28:09Two weeks for an

28:09experiment, Nelly, man.

28:10Do you know how

28:11fucking silly that is?

28:12Why is it coming into

28:12the experiment?

28:13Don't get mad at me.

28:18Fucking clownish, man.

28:23So this is interesting

28:25looking at Stephen's

28:26default reaction to

28:28being confronted with

28:30his behaviour is to get

28:31defensive, angry and

28:33deflect.

28:33You're speaking about

28:34ex-partners that you've

28:36been with on the night

28:37when you should have

28:38been at home with me.

28:39Are you going to

28:44listen to what I'm

28:45saying?

28:45I'm listening, but I'm

28:46finding it fucking

28:47laughable, Nelly, to be

28:48honest.

28:50Well, I'm laughable.

28:51No, I'm finding this

28:52situation laughable.

28:53Okay, I'm not finding

28:53it funny.

28:54So if you are finding

28:55it funny, great.

28:56These are my feelings and

28:57I'm not finding it very

28:58funny, okay?

29:01What?

29:02Guys?

29:03Guys?

29:03Oh, God.

29:11Who has decided to say I

29:13was talking about my

29:13sexual activity with this

29:14fucking Z-lister?

29:16Did it happen at the

29:17bar?

29:17I mean, you did talk

29:18about you having sex

29:19with on Raya, I guess.

29:21No, I was not.

29:22At the bar, you did?

29:24You weren't there.

29:25Devani, Maeve, you

29:26were there, so what is

29:27it?

29:27Huh?

29:28I've just said, I don't...

29:29Hey, please, I don't

29:30want to get involved with

29:31this.

29:33Devani, don't leave me

29:35hanging.

29:36No, seriously.

29:37You did.

29:38No, I didn't, darling.

29:40Oh.

29:42What's interesting, though,

29:43is Devani has not said

29:44a word.

29:45Mm.

29:46We were all there.

29:47Dean, Sarah, Maeve.

29:50Some people are really

29:52starting to fuck me up.

29:55I wouldn't lie about

29:56that.

29:56Seriously, you said

29:57that.

29:57All right, of course,

29:58of course.

29:58Those went to the bar

29:59and we went, oh, my God,

30:00what the fuck?

30:00Yes, because I spoke so

30:01openly about my sexual

30:02activity with people.

30:03Two weeks before I...

30:04You did.

30:04You said she gave

30:04sloppy head.

30:07Whoa.

30:08Ho, ho, ho.

30:09She gave what?

30:10She gave sloppy head.

30:11Sloppy head.

30:14Let me ask you,

30:15let me ask you

30:15another question here.

30:16Two weeks before I

30:17started the experiment,

30:18why the fuck does it matter?

30:19Okay.

30:20It's fine to just...

30:20Why the fuck does it matter?

30:21Who I date beforehand,

30:23why the fuck does it matter

30:24what I do?

30:25No, because people

30:25are starting to fuck me

30:26off.

30:26That, that, that, that,

30:27that, that.

30:28I need to fucking

30:29realize shit.

30:31Fucking bollocks,

30:31man.

30:33That's a fucking

30:34loop.

30:35I ain't going over there.

30:36Fuck them.

30:37You fucking said that.

30:40You're right.

30:41No, I'm not fucking

30:42all right.

30:42All fucking cunts.

30:43Wow.

30:56did he just say that?

31:13He did.

31:14He's under pressure.

31:17He's back against the wall.

31:19He's been confronted

31:20with things that he's said

31:22he cannot cope.

31:23And so he's attacking

31:24everyone else.

31:25And this is ugly.

31:28Currently with Steve

31:29and I don't know

31:30where I'm at.

31:31Obviously, I'm going

31:31to be thinking

31:32what the hell

31:32is going on.

31:33And you were sat there

31:35getting annoyed at me

31:36that I'm believing

31:36these people.

31:37Why would Julia Ruth

31:39and Maeve like?

31:39They're not going to.

31:42You all right?

31:44We don't have to talk.

31:45We don't have to say

31:46nothing.

31:46Cool?

31:47Fucking idiots, man.

31:48I know, I know.

31:50Just chew on it

31:51and have a breather

31:51for a second, geez.

31:53You're saying that

31:53you've done this,

31:54you've done that,

31:54but then you haven't

31:55even fucking seen

31:56your wife.

31:56That's what everyone's...

31:57And then you don't

31:58take accountability for it

31:59and then you want

31:59to shout at everyone.

32:00You said it.

32:00What do you mean

32:01who said it?

32:01You said it.

32:02But then it...

32:02You said it.

32:03It came out of your mouth.

32:03And obviously,

32:04if you said it more than once...

32:04You didn't pipe up.

32:06Hey.

32:06You left me.

32:07I didn't leave you.

32:08You left me.

32:09I didn't leave you.

32:10You did.

32:11Just disappointed in Devani.

32:13He just could have

32:14said something.

32:15I didn't like

32:15how that was handled.

32:16And he needs to

32:17have my back next time.

32:22We needed them

32:30in the room

32:31one minute ago.

32:32Yeah, we did.

32:33Well, the whole energy

32:34shifted as soon as

32:35they walked through.

32:36Stephen and his wife.

32:41Over there,

32:43one-on-one,

32:44quiet conversation.

32:46Words were said.

32:47What words?

32:48Something about

32:49Stephen said he had

32:51slept with a Z-list.

32:52A Z-list.

32:53And Giorno.

32:56I mean, we've all slept

32:57with a Z-list, right?

32:59Okay.

32:59I mean, I think it was normal.

33:09Alrighty, here we go again.

33:11Oh, well, hello.

33:12Oh, cutesy.

33:14Where do you think we are?

33:18Can I'm going to

33:19switch the names?

33:20No.

33:21You okay?

33:22Yeah.

33:22You're good.

33:23Yeah, okay.

33:24You want some wine, though?

33:25I know.

33:25Remember that?

33:26Yeah.

33:26Do you want some wine?

33:28I know.

33:31Judy Ruth,

33:32thank you for holding

33:33your own and being

33:34truthful and not.

33:36You're welcome, babe.

33:37I told you I got you.

33:38It's not a nice position

33:39to be in when someone's

33:40coming for you,

33:41but thank you.

33:41If anyone should be

33:42scared, it's him.

33:44Woman on a mission.

33:45Where is Stephen?

33:47Probably crying somewhere

33:48about how he's messed up.

33:49I don't know.

33:50How do you feel about Joe?

33:55I'm, like, obsessed with Joe.

33:57Ooh.

33:57In a healthy way.

33:58In a very healthy way.

34:01I just think you're class one.

34:03You're like everything

34:03that I've ever wanted.

34:05Aww.

34:07That's so cute.

34:08But, yeah.

34:09She knows how much love

34:10I have for her,

34:11and I said,

34:12I'm not gonna, like,

34:13go all in with

34:13I'm falling in love with her,

34:15but I can see

34:16there's potential for love there

34:18because there are

34:18genuine things

34:19that I do love about her.

34:20What a sweetheart.

34:21Right, I don't feel like that.

34:24I love that.

34:25Maeve is taking

34:27the advice

34:28that we gave her

34:29on Experts Week,

34:29and that is

34:30how to receive a compliment.

34:31This is so good to see.

34:33How are you?

34:34I'm good.

34:35How are you?

34:36We're good.

34:36We're on the right track, I think.

34:38Dean and I,

34:38we're learning so much

34:39about each other all the time.

34:40I've just been so overwhelmed.

34:42I really am giving it

34:43more this week.

34:45I shouldn't have

34:46disrespected Dean.

34:47I am worried

34:48about what to do next.

34:49I don't know whether

34:51to just bite the bullet,

34:52give him a kiss,

34:52but I also don't want

34:53to lead him on

34:54and hurt him.

34:55He deserves better than that,

34:56so I just want to

34:57not make any more mistakes.

34:58What is happening

35:00with you two?

35:00How are you getting on?

35:01Is it improving?

35:02Yeah, I don't think so

35:03for a minute, no.

35:04What about for you?

35:05Is it moving

35:06quick enough for you?

35:07Yeah, because the more

35:08I get to know her,

35:09the more I'll be

35:09attracted to her.

35:10You've already said

35:11you're attracted to her.

35:12You've said she's attractive.

35:13Yeah, she's really

35:14attractive to me.

35:15That's the first time

35:16I've heard him say that.

35:18Well, I didn't know

35:19you need the affirmation, love.

35:20I thought you were

35:21confident, independent.

35:22I would remember that.

35:24That right there

35:25is a great example

35:26of their inability

35:27to communicate.

35:27He believes

35:30she's attractive.

35:31He's vocalized it,

35:33and it's such a shame

35:34because they actually

35:35could work

35:36if they could just

35:36fix the communication.

35:42Oh, here comes Stephen.

35:48Welcome.

35:49What, Trinkle?

35:50Right.

35:51Is everyone all right now,

35:52then?

35:52Are we all all right?

35:53Yes.

35:53Are we good, son?

35:53I'm actually fine.

35:56Only thing that grinds my gears

35:57is, like, the more ears that

35:58listen in, the more mass that

35:59pipe up.

36:01And it's just, like,

36:02just back your buck off.

36:04Hang on a minute, Stephen.

36:05Nell's had your back

36:06constantly.

36:08And I think the...

36:08Hang on.

36:09The issue was is that

36:10when she needed you on that night,

36:12she knew that you needed

36:12to blow off steam with the lads,

36:14but she just didn't want

36:15your last home

36:15and not checking in on her.

36:17She's not been my number one

36:17priority this week,

36:18which is shit,

36:19because my stepdad

36:20and making sure he's okay

36:21has been there at the forefront.

36:22So it's like,

36:23all these things are factored in

36:24into this week,

36:25and I've already been

36:25open and emotional

36:26on things I never wanted

36:27to talk about before,

36:28because I'm a closed-off person.

36:31I think what's clear here

36:33is that, yes,

36:34he's got a lot going on at home,

36:35but what isn't great

36:37is how he's treating Nellie.

36:38That's not on.

36:39Stephen, I think the point

36:41of this is,

36:41you need to say in this moment

36:42is that, yeah,

36:43you did fuck up that day.

36:44Which I've said.

36:45And I've said this to you.

36:48But now it's like,

36:49it's being made to,

36:50I've got to say sorry again

36:51just to please everyone of you.

36:53And that's exactly what you've made,

36:53but that's what it's being made

36:54actually right now.

36:55Do you feel like

36:56you've had an apology?

36:57So, you apologise, obviously,

37:00the moment you walked in,

37:01but I think what stings

37:02a little bit for me

37:03is it's not that you're

37:04sat there talking about

37:05your family for, like,

37:05till, you know, midnight.

37:07You're talking about

37:07loads of other things

37:08that I just don't think

37:09are appropriate,

37:09and it's on the night

37:10where you should

37:11be at home with me.

37:14Words are great,

37:15but I just need actions.

37:16I can't do much in 24 hours

37:18to show that action.

37:20It needs to be over time,

37:21so I've said sorry

37:23and not even 24 hours has passed,

37:24and then we've got another issue

37:25that we've got to deal with.

37:27I feel like I'm getting

37:30frustrated now because

37:31it's at the point where

37:32I'm trying to look at

37:34the good in everything,

37:35and I just find that

37:37sometimes my feelings

37:38get dismissed.

37:41Don't roll your eyes at me.

37:43Sorry, can I just say,

37:44because that's uncomfortable

37:45at the moment,

37:46the minute...

37:46Yeah, it is.

37:47No, no, no.

37:48It's uncomfortable, Stephen,

37:50your reaction to when

37:51Nelly goes to talk

37:52about how she feels.

37:53Well, good on Lee

37:54for standing up for Nelly

37:55and actually calling this out

37:57because this is

37:58passive-aggressive behaviour

37:59and it is dismissive.

38:02You've got your head

38:03in your hands,

38:03you're rolling your eyes,

38:04you're having yourself...

38:04I'm extremely dismissed

38:05in what I'm saying.

38:06I just...

38:07It's a little bit difficult

38:08to watch right now.

38:09when you're joking.

38:31Here's the honesty box

38:32where we get to ask

38:33difficult questions

38:34but always bring out the truth.

38:39Right, are you ready?

38:42What are you finding

38:43the hardest

38:44about being

38:45in this experiment?

38:46I think...

38:48Obviously,

38:49you know my past.

38:50From a really young age,

38:52I was addicted

38:52to the party lifestyle.

38:54Yeah.

38:55And I think being round,

38:56like, the drinking environment

38:58is what I'm really

38:59struggling with.

39:00But that's where

39:01you've been so amazing.

39:03And I think,

39:04obviously,

39:04you love getting pissed.

39:06I do, yes.

39:08But...

39:08And that's very much

39:09part of your lifestyle

39:10but I think you've really

39:11adapted to me

39:13and sometimes I've said

39:14I feel like I'm sucking

39:15the fun out of you sometimes

39:16but you're saying

39:17that's not the case.

39:18Just, like,

39:19compromising me really well

39:20and I just don't

39:21want to be in that

39:22environment all the time.

39:23Yeah.

39:23I suspect that.

39:25Yay!

39:27Come on!

39:28Come on!

39:31Why are you just

39:32the best human now?

39:33Aw!

39:35I'm embarrassed now.

39:36Aw!

39:37That was really

39:38brave of Joe,

39:39I think,

39:39to open up

39:40and talk about

39:40the struggles

39:41he's had

39:41in that social

39:42environment

39:42in the past

39:43and that this

39:44is quite tricky

39:44for him.

39:45It shows real

39:45vulnerability.

39:51Julia Roof,

39:52do you feel like

39:53we are on the same team?

39:54No, we're not always

40:00on the same team,

40:01no.

40:05Last week was telling

40:06that we, like,

40:07maybe weren't

40:08and then I think

40:09today I don't need

40:10anyone to, like,

40:11fight my battles.

40:12I can do that

40:13but I think if I'm

40:14calling your name

40:14I need you to step up

40:16and be there.

40:18I don't care if you

40:18like conflict or not

40:19or if that's your boy.

40:20You could have done

40:22a bit better than that.

40:24Oh God.

40:25Yeah.

40:26This one is.

40:26I really appreciate

40:30Julia Roof's honesty here

40:31because, fair enough,

40:33Devani could say

40:34I didn't know

40:34you needed my support

40:35but she actually

40:36called his name

40:37and he still

40:38didn't help her.

40:40Right.

40:41Anita, young lady,

40:42why didn't you

40:43want to come

40:44to the dinner party

40:45with me?

40:47Initially I did think

40:49yeah, we can go

40:49to the dinner party

40:50together.

40:51There's no harm

40:52in that.

40:53But then I thought

40:55I'm not sure

40:56where Paul

40:57has placed us.

40:59Is he thinking

40:59friendship

41:00or is he wanting

41:01more?

41:02Okay.

41:02So that was me

41:03kind of taking

41:04a step back.

41:05Mm-hmm.

41:06Judge me after

41:07six, eight, ten weeks.

41:09Don't judge me

41:09after two weeks.

41:10I'm getting more

41:11fond of her

41:11the more I spend

41:12time with her.

41:13Yeah.

41:13And that's fair.

41:14And Anita,

41:15is that friendship?

41:16Is that not a good base?

41:17I'm at a point

41:18of my life now

41:19where I need

41:20to know where I stand.

41:21I need to know

41:22you want the same thing

41:23and I haven't

41:25got time to waste.

41:26You've got ten weeks

41:26in you.

41:27You're not fucking

41:27dying.

41:28Time's precious.

41:30Seems like the issue

41:31is on both

41:32of their sides.

41:32They're moving

41:33at totally

41:34different speeds.

41:35Anita's said

41:35that she has

41:36no time to waste.

41:37Paul, on the other

41:38hand, is comfortable

41:39with the slow

41:40and steady approach.

41:41It takes him time

41:42to form a bond.

41:47Go on, Leah.

41:49How have your feelings

41:51changed for me

41:52this week?

41:54I feel like my feelings

41:55for you have changed

41:56this week because

41:57in the Rebecca situation,

42:00I realised that I

42:02obviously had feelings

42:03towards you

42:04because I was bothered

42:06by it.

42:08And if I didn't have

42:09any feelings towards you

42:10at all, it wouldn't

42:11have bothered me.

42:16Oh!

42:17Oh!

42:18What?

42:20That was a cheek,

42:21wasn't it?

42:22She swerved her.

42:23It's not total rejection,

42:25but it is stating

42:25a boundary

42:26when it comes to intimacy.

42:31Grace,

42:32what's the biggest challenge

42:33in our marriage for you?

42:34I think a challenge

42:38I'm having is that

42:39in speaking with you,

42:41I do sometimes feel

42:42it's like put back to me

42:43like, well, you're just,

42:44you know, I can't understand you.

42:45I don't, you know,

42:47and I think,

42:48how do we get to a place

42:49where I feel comfortable

42:50but you don't feel nagged

42:52and like,

42:52you don't feel like

42:53I'm constantly calling you out

42:55for things and...

42:56with everything you've

42:57kind of called me out on.

42:58I'm genuinely,

42:59I'm trying to be nice

43:00and I'm trying to do these things

43:01and then they're backfiring on me.

43:02Yeah.

43:04What sort of thing?

43:05Like...

43:06It's a little thing,

43:07so, like,

43:07the nails incident.

43:08In my head,

43:09I was thinking,

43:10right, your nails are,

43:11like, overgrown

43:11and let's take you out

43:12to get your nails done.

43:13I meant it in like,

43:14let me treat you,

43:14let me take you out.

43:15To clarify,

43:16he didn't say like,

43:17oh, can I treat you

43:18to get your nails done?

43:19He didn't say that.

43:20He was like...

43:20The way you say it

43:21isn't the way I said it.

43:22Okay, well, we're doing...

43:23There's three sides to every story.

43:24How did you say it then?

43:25I got sisters in that,

43:26so there was a gap in the back

43:27and I was like,

43:27your nails are overgrown.

43:28That's when you go

43:28to get your nails done.

43:29I was like,

43:30sorry?

43:30And he was like,

43:30yeah, I prefer French chips.

43:32And that wasn't said

43:33all in one thing.

43:34I said,

43:34here's a French chip.

43:35No, no, no.

43:36Fuck off!

43:38I wouldn't have said it like that.

43:40What he meant to say.

43:40I'm not going to be a person

43:41that tells you,

43:42right, you need to get your nails done

43:43or you need to wear this

43:43or you need to do that.

43:44I'm not that person.

43:45I've never been that person.

43:47Forget the terminology.

43:48Do you think it came

43:49from a genuinely nice place

43:50or do you think

43:51he was actually saying like...

43:52In the moment,

43:53I was like,

43:53easy, Tiger.

43:54I'll manage my own alley cat.

43:55And I was like,

43:56you're all good.

43:57And I was like,

43:57that is really bothering me.

43:59And it was just a few things.

44:01I'd put an outfit on

44:02and Ash would be like,

44:03haven't you got a dress you can wear?

44:03No, no, no.

44:04No, no.

44:04Again.

44:06So I booked a fancy meal

44:08and a show.

44:09And you said,

44:09do I look good?

44:10I said,

44:10you look amazing,

44:11but have you got a dress?

44:12Because I knew where we were going

44:13and you didn't.

44:16The real test

44:17of a mature relationship

44:19is your willingness

44:19to compromise

44:20and also to listen

44:22to what your partner's saying.

44:23They both have

44:24two very different versions

44:26of the same event.

44:28So it's really difficult

44:29to know what the intention is.

44:31I'm with you.

44:31I'm confused.

44:32I feel like there's a reluctance

44:33on both of their parts

44:35to seek deeper.

44:37In this scenario,

44:38it's become quite apparent

44:40to everybody.

44:41Grace is very independent,

44:43doesn't need anybody

44:44else's opinion.

44:46And so I think,

44:46given that you're her husband

44:48and that you've probably

44:48taken that on board.

44:50But I am trying my best.

44:51I know you are.

44:52I know you are

44:53in so many ways.

44:54But I'm also,

44:54I'm not,

44:54like,

44:54I think Grace thinks

44:55that she's the bad person

44:56in it,

44:56but she's not.

44:57No, she's not.

44:58I understand that,

44:58I completely understand

44:59that I take full responsibility,

45:01that it is the way

45:02I say it

45:02and the way it's presented.

45:04Yeah.

45:04But I'm not blaming Grace,

45:06I'm taking responsibility for it.

45:07Well, okay.

45:08Yeah.

45:10We have this issue

45:11of, like,

45:11struggling to understand

45:12each other.

45:13But for us

45:14to progress,

45:17we need to get

45:17on the same page.

45:18That's the challenge

45:19we face.

45:24On a scale

45:25of one to ten,

45:26ten being love,

45:28how strong

45:29are your feelings for me?

45:30Ooh!

45:32Yay!

45:35Twelve wasn't on it.

45:36One.

45:36Be honest, Bailey.

45:39Um,

45:40I am a firm

45:419.5.

45:42Ooh!

45:45Wow!

45:47Ooh!

45:49That's strong.

45:50That's strong.

45:51Oh, my gosh,

45:51you round up,

45:52he's a ten.

45:53My heart is literally like

45:53boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.

45:54I don't know

45:55how much more

45:55I can say.

45:57I am

45:57falling

45:59and I like

46:00the way it's going.

46:00Can't imagine

46:01you're not in my life.

46:03Why couldn't you

46:04just give me a ten?

46:04Listen,

46:05maybe the ten will come.

46:06Give me a moment.

46:07Listen,

46:089.5,

46:09maybe I'm holding

46:10a little something back.

46:11But honestly,

46:12yeah,

46:13it's nearly there.

46:14It's nearly,

46:15nearly there.

46:16But I'm sure

46:16it's not going

46:17to take too long.

46:21Okay.

46:22Sarah,

46:23do you have

46:23any regrets so far?

46:24Yes, I do.

46:29I regret

46:30the last dinner party

46:32and the comments

46:33that I obviously made

46:34to the girls

46:34that were brought up

46:35to the commitment ceremony.

46:36And I apologise again

46:37to you.

46:38I know I've apologised

46:39quite a bit now for it,

46:40but I do regret that

46:41and I'm really sorry.

46:43And our argument as well,

46:44I wish that hadn't happened,

46:46but it has

46:47and we've dealt with it.

46:48we all have blips,

46:49but if we communicate

46:50as we did

46:50and get over it,

46:51like we're going

46:52to come out stronger,

46:53then I think we'll be fine,

46:54you know?

46:54We'll be good.

46:55It's great that

46:57Sarah took responsibility,

46:59but Dean so quickly

47:00dismissed his own feelings

47:02in that.

47:03And there was no mention

47:04of how she made him feel

47:06and he made no mention

47:07of how he felt.

47:09Yeah.

47:10It is lovely that Dean has,

47:12you know,

47:12he speaks so highly of me

47:14and that's what I mean,

47:15he's just so lovely.

47:17So,

47:18yeah,

47:20I don't really know

47:20how to, like,

47:21deal with it,

47:22so I just,

47:22I don't want to cause

47:23any problem.

47:26We are in a better place

47:27than we were last week,

47:28I hope.

47:28I really am trying

47:29and I'm trying to, like,

47:30hold his hand

47:31and hug him and stuff.

47:32I don't know

47:33if it ever will come.

47:34I don't know

47:34if it ever will come.

47:44Canella?

47:44Oh, no.

47:45All right.

47:46Do you trust me?

47:51Um,

47:52I don't know.

47:59The only thing

48:00I struggle with is

48:01can I trust you

48:03with my heart?

48:05I like to think

48:06that we can get there.

48:09Words are great,

48:10but I just need action

48:11to back it.

48:11That's all.

48:15I just don't want

48:15to be broken at the end.

48:17I don't feel

48:18I've got that much

48:18making up to do.

48:19It can't just be

48:20what I've got to

48:21compromise on.

48:21It needs to be

48:22a better happy balance,

48:23otherwise it's purely

48:24I'm give, give, give

48:25and she's just

48:26receive, receive.

48:27What a fucking day.

48:28The way I'm feeling

48:29right now and after today,

48:30I generally don't know

48:31if I'm going to be

48:32staying or leaving,

48:33so a lot of things

48:34to do overnight.

48:42Next time.

48:43I'll get bored

48:44saying the same thing

48:44over and over again.

48:45But you keep saying that.

48:46Don't antagonize me then.

48:47Don't raise your voice at me.

48:48Nelly and Stephen

48:49continue to clash.

48:50Fucking idiot.

48:51Why am I liking

48:52someone who's treating

48:52me like this?

48:53Ahead of a tense.

48:54We have hit

48:55an issue this week.

48:56If this is the way

48:58it is,

48:59I can't do this forever.

49:00And emotional

49:01commitment ceremony.

49:03My mindset

49:03really hasn't

49:04shifted that much.

49:06Sorry,

49:06I've just got to jump in.

49:07It's time to actually

49:08take responsibility.

49:10This week has been awful.

49:11It's been hell.

49:13I don't know

49:14who you are.

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