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00:00:01Today is the biggest day of my life.
00:00:04Previously, 18 love-seeking singles...
00:00:09..went from strangers...
00:00:10I made a mistake. Shit.
00:00:12I wouldn't say he's my type.
00:00:14Can't I do it? Sorry.
00:00:16..to spouses...
00:00:18It's love a person.
00:00:19My husband is fit.
00:00:22..some couples settled seamlessly into married life.
00:00:25One could say Stephen is quite good with his hands, yes.
00:00:28Does that make you happy?
00:00:30Makes some part of me happy.
00:00:32While others...
00:00:34Said I want a tomboy Barbie.
00:00:36Every now and then he just says something,
00:00:37and I think, like, do you know how that sounds?
00:00:39..we're thrown into marital mayhem.
00:00:41You've really pissed me off. Why?
00:00:43Because you're off, man. You're actually off.
00:00:45Would it be any different if I wasn't as big?
00:00:47Probably.
00:00:48I am starting to feel rejected.
00:00:50The last thing I want to do is have a talk about traumas,
00:00:53and then, like, get into bed with you.
00:00:55You've hardly asked any questions about me.
00:00:57I don't want to ask.
00:00:58I don't know if there's hope for the marriage, truthfully.
00:01:01I don't think there is.
00:01:05Tonight...
00:01:08..our newlyweds...
00:01:11..moving together.
00:01:12We're so few!
00:01:14..but for some couples...
00:01:16..because I was to call it a little bit real now.
00:01:18..domestic harmony...
00:01:20..I know your three children's names.
00:01:22Do you know my two?
00:01:23..is short-lived.
00:01:25It's crunch time for me.
00:01:30At the first dinner party of the experiment...
00:01:33Oh, she's on her own.
00:01:36..it's showtime for Dean.
00:01:38Here we are on this mad experiment,
00:01:40seeing things not in our element.
00:01:42..but Sarah serves a scathing review.
00:01:45Can you ask me if I'd ever stick with anyone fat before?
00:01:48OK.
00:01:49He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid.
00:01:52He's like a hair bear.
00:01:54That's not a very hot thing to say about your partner.
00:01:56No.
00:01:57..while some are falling head over heels...
00:01:59..I've got that, like, fuzzy feeling in me.
00:02:01You've got to move me!
00:02:04..others are falling apart.
00:02:07You...
00:02:08..are very negative.
00:02:11This was so genuine.
00:02:24Honey, I'm home!
00:02:26..as our newlyweds return from their honeymoons...
00:02:29Yes, sir! Let's do it!
00:02:30Our first ski together!
00:02:32It's time for them to embark upon the next big milestone
00:02:35in their married lives.
00:02:37We're doing it, eh?
00:02:38Living together.
00:02:40Right.
00:02:43Oh, my God, look at this!
00:02:45Morley, Morley.
00:02:49How do you feel about being here together?
00:02:51What, being married?
00:02:52I mean, it feels quite normal for me.
00:02:55Doesn't it?
00:02:56Do you know what I mean?
00:02:57Yeah.
00:02:58I feel comfortable around you.
00:02:59Like, really comfortable.
00:03:00I mean, we're sharing a toothbrush.
00:03:01Do you know what I mean?
00:03:02Like, that is gross, but it's one of those things.
00:03:05Good luck!
00:03:07Settling into here and just being with you, like, that's...
00:03:10I'm excited for that.
00:03:11We're here.
00:03:12We're home.
00:03:13Honeymoon's done.
00:03:14Next step, baby girl.
00:03:16We're so cute!
00:03:18This is beautiful.
00:03:19I barely recognise you there.
00:03:20You actually look like a different person to who I know now.
00:03:21Yeah?
00:03:22Yeah, that's a bit scogynist.
00:03:23Is this the one you didn't like?
00:03:25We're different people.
00:03:26I can touch you and everything.
00:03:27When I left the honeymoon, I was feeling really on edge and unsure about Ash's character,
00:03:30and I was kind of looking for flaws and negatives and being quite reactive to everything he said.
00:03:31But now the pressure's off.
00:03:32Yeah, we're just getting to know each other and, yeah, it's a lot more chilled, which is how I prefer things.
00:03:37It would be nice to meet everyone else and hear how they've got on and...
00:03:38It will either make us feel way better or a million times worse about our...
00:03:41No, I think, look, everyone's different, but I'm quite happy with where we are and...
00:03:44Are you going to be judging us?
00:03:45You're just going to be judging us?
00:03:46But I'm just going to just be judging us about other people.
00:03:47I'm not just going to be judging us about people, I can touch you and everything.
00:03:50When I left the honeymoon, I was feeling really on edge and unsure about Ash's character and I was kind of looking for flaws and negatives and being quite реactive with everything he said.
00:03:56But now the pressure's off, yeah, we're just getting to know each other and yeah, it's a lot more chilled, which is how I prefer things.
00:04:01It will be nice to meet everyone else and hear how they got on.
00:04:03I think, like, everyone's different, but I'm quite happy with where we are.
00:04:06Are you going to be jealous if the other couples are, like,
00:04:08all over each other, like, snogging at the table?
00:04:10I just said I'm happy with, like, where we are and the progress we're making.
00:04:20What a day. Who would have known? Didn't even know each other then.
00:04:22Yeah, it's so surreal.
00:04:24What was you thinking in that moment?
00:04:26I think... I mean...
00:04:28I don't know. I'm not going to lie, that does feel like a lifetime ago.
00:04:33I'm just very overwhelmed by everything.
00:04:35And, you know, Dean is so lovely, and he absolutely is.
00:04:39And, you know, he's great in things, but I'm just...
00:04:41I don't know, it's just kind of, like...
00:04:43I just thought it would be different, you know?
00:04:49If he doesn't look like what I would usually go for, it doesn't matter.
00:04:53I'm going to be open-minded.
00:04:55On their wedding day...
00:04:59No, I don't fancy Dean.
00:05:00Despite Sarah's intentions, she struggled to find an initial attraction to Dean.
00:05:05Take a seat. Take some heat off these feet.
00:05:07You love turning things into wraps, aren't you?
00:05:09Oh, I love wrapping.
00:05:10And on the honeymoon, Sarah's spark never ignited.
00:05:14Have you ever been with anyone, B?
00:05:16No, I have to admit that.
00:05:17No.
00:05:18But Dean remained optimistic he could make it out of the friend zone.
00:05:21Have you been cuddling any pillows?
00:05:23No, I've not been cuddling any pillows.
00:05:25I'm waiting for the real thing.
00:05:30Is there anything Dean could do to ever get a sexual spark?
00:05:36Get some tattoos and losing some weight.
00:05:39Maybe.
00:05:42It's nice to be home, like, and feel home as well now,
00:05:44because we're so far away.
00:05:45I do wonder if living together is going to progress anything,
00:05:49if the intimacy side of things is going to happen,
00:05:52or if it's going to go the opposite way.
00:05:56It's not the first time I've kind of been in the friend zone, you know?
00:05:58It kind of does change, it does change.
00:05:59So just trust the process.
00:06:01Trust me, it will come, it will come.
00:06:04Touch wood.
00:06:06All the wood, all the wood.
00:06:09Cos I'll just be coming a little bit real now.
00:06:11Is it, yeah?
00:06:12Yeah.
00:06:14I don't want to get upset, I don't want to make me upset.
00:06:19It's OK.
00:06:20It's a lot, it is a lot.
00:06:21Like, you just leave a little bit of a stranger,
00:06:22we knew each other for a week, do you know what I mean?
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:24I don't like seeing anyone upset, especially, like, my wife.
00:06:27It's making me a bit anxious, I wasn't expecting that.
00:06:30Cos you're so positive, but, like,
00:06:32you just don't let anything sort of...
00:06:34Rain on my parade.
00:06:35Yeah.
00:06:38Trust the process and don't think that.
00:06:40Cos if you do, that's half the battle,
00:06:41you're all lost in my head, you know?
00:06:46It's all about mindset.
00:06:46Life's all about mindset.
00:06:47Your life's as good as you want it to be.
00:06:50I thought I'd fancy the pants off my husband, and I don't.
00:06:54I just thought my experience would be different.
00:07:00That's classy.
00:07:01Oh, that's cute.
00:07:03That's the best fit I've ever had.
00:07:05Yeah, same.
00:07:06Next chapter I'm really looking forward to,
00:07:08I want to jump in with two feet.
00:07:09If anything, how the honeymoon's gone,
00:07:11then this will be a breeze.
00:07:13Compatibility is probably off the scale at this point.
00:07:15Let's have some snacks.
00:07:16Yeah.
00:07:17I've never lived with a guy before,
00:07:18so I don't know what to expect.
00:07:20Go on, tuck right in.
00:07:21I do really like Stephen.
00:07:23The honeymoon was amazing,
00:07:24but now we're in the real world,
00:07:26I'm just a bit apprehensive of how it's going to go,
00:07:29and the bubble's going to be burst.
00:07:33This is probably going to be the biggest test, living together.
00:07:36Yeah, it'll be the biggest test, absolutely.
00:07:37Is there anything you think I could work on?
00:07:43Obviously, the side way, like, you just want a little bit of reassurance from me.
00:07:47I think reassurance, for me, can be quite hard to give if I felt like I've given enough.
00:07:52Mm-hmm.
00:07:54A lot of my friends, they say, like, I'll self-sabotage,
00:07:57but I need reassurance because boyfriends in the past have blindsided me,
00:08:02and I've had no idea.
00:08:03So I do need a little bit of reassurance sometimes.
00:08:06I don't think we're going to really have many issues living together.
00:08:14I reckon?
00:08:15No.
00:08:16At the moment, I think me and Leah are in more of, like, a friendship.
00:08:20She's just not my initial type, so for me,
00:08:22it's just been a little bit difficult to build that romantic and physical connection,
00:08:26but I'm not going to force anything.
00:08:27I'll have to see if you get on my nerves.
00:08:29You actually get on my nerves too.
00:08:31I'm just a more reserved, chill person.
00:08:33I think it'll definitely test us moving in together.
00:08:36It worries me.
00:08:37She's going to be this annoying little princess
00:08:39that wants this and wants that and gets her own way.
00:08:41I think we should have delegated jobs, though.
00:08:44OK, but I'm not doing your washing.
00:08:47There isn't really any intimacy.
00:08:49I have been definitely trying a bit more
00:08:51because I know I need to be trying in this process.
00:08:54Got to go somewhere.
00:08:55It can't just keep...
00:08:56As a friendship, it's not going to work like that.
00:09:03I think we've had, you know, our ups and downs
00:09:05and it's been quite tricky.
00:09:07But I feel like I'm glad that we've had it, like, early on as well
00:09:11and now we can, like, understand how to, like, tackle conflict
00:09:14and that when it comes up,
00:09:16that kind of energy and that, like, tornado between us.
00:09:20Do you know what I mean?
00:09:21Yeah.
00:09:26Hi.
00:09:28It's love, I've got to say.
00:09:29Despite having instant chemistry on their wedding day...
00:09:36I've woken up with, like, a different thought this morning.
00:09:39I'm not having that desire.
00:09:42Devani didn't measure up to Julia Ruth's expectations.
00:09:45I have dated, like, taller guys.
00:09:48Yeah, that hurt.
00:09:49Shit.
00:09:50Different energy levels...
00:09:52Growing up, I was always alone.
00:09:54And I think knowing that I could potentially be alone
00:09:56for the rest of my life,
00:09:57that would be the worst.
00:09:58Yeah.
00:09:59And Devani's outlook on life...
00:10:01He doesn't see any positives with me.
00:10:03It's just too much.
00:10:04...cause deep divides in the marriage.
00:10:07The last thing I want to do is talk about traumas
00:10:09and then, like, get into bed with you.
00:10:11There's trouble in paradise, isn't it?
00:10:13You know what? Conflict isn't a bad thing.
00:10:17Like, I'm glad we had it so that we know how to proceed.
00:10:21Yeah.
00:10:22It's not a nice thing to have, but, like, it's important.
00:10:25Imagine if we were, like,
00:10:26it's all happy daisies and roses, and it's like...
00:10:30I feel like just a honeymoon.
00:10:32I feel like whether it was smooth sailing or not
00:10:34for other people, we came back stronger anyways.
00:10:37I think that's just the key part to it.
00:10:38Going into this dinner party,
00:10:41we've come through our trials and tribulations.
00:10:43We've come back stronger,
00:10:44and I'm here to show off my wife,
00:10:46and walking loud and bold, confidence, head up.
00:10:49I've probably got the most beautiful wife out there.
00:10:53We're unpenetrable right now.
00:10:55Hopefully, we can be an inspiration
00:10:58to the other couples as well, and...
00:11:00Damn, an inspiration.
00:11:01Yeah, definitely an inspiration.
00:11:09Um...
00:11:10We don't have the same reality.
00:11:11We do not have the same reality.
00:11:13I'm absolutely breaking it for this dinner party.
00:11:16We have to show the confidence
00:11:17and not be going into this thing and be like,
00:11:19OK, cool, we've had our troubles,
00:11:21but we're still lingering on the issues.
00:11:23We're coming in as a team.
00:11:25We know what we've been through.
00:11:27We've got our chest out high.
00:11:28Yeah.
00:11:29Well, that was wonderful, and I'm glad we raised it.
00:11:41Yeah, same for sure.
00:11:43Definitely worth it.
00:11:44Yeah.
00:11:44And doing it in our own beds.
00:11:45Yeah, in our house.
00:11:47Probably try again.
00:11:48Yeah.
00:11:49Practice makes perfect.
00:11:50Absolutely.
00:11:51Let's just keep trying it, and trying it, and trying it, and trying it.
00:11:52Yeah.
00:11:56We have finally gotten intimate.
00:11:59Baby.
00:12:00Feeling absolutely fantastic.
00:12:02We never thought it was going to be a problem,
00:12:04and it definitely wasn't.
00:12:05I think we both felt very safe with one another emotionally,
00:12:09and we've built a really strong connection,
00:12:11so that was always going to be the easy part.
00:12:13Right now, I feel like, me and him,
00:12:15there's nothing we cannot handle.
00:12:16We are really good.
00:12:17I just really want this next chapter to start,
00:12:20because I feel like we're in a really good space right now.
00:12:27Crikey.
00:12:28That's good about you.
00:12:29Don't you think?
00:12:30You didn't rock me, so that's good.
00:12:32Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:12:33I think the next chapter's going to be exciting.
00:12:36I'm going to answer your own best behavior.
00:12:38Where's the washer-dryer?
00:12:40Hang on.
00:12:40Sinks and water will be here.
00:12:42Oh, dishwasher.
00:12:44My heart sank a little bit within minutes of arriving here.
00:12:47Yay.
00:12:49Feeling very nervous, apprehensive about sharing a compact space with Paul.
00:12:55Hoover.
00:12:57Washer-dryer.
00:12:58Ironing board.
00:13:00Happy days.
00:13:01Yeah, he's just...
00:13:03He's overwhelmed and he's frantic at the moment.
00:13:06Now we're talking.
00:13:08I found the bathroom.
00:13:09I need to have a conversation with Paul with regards to how we're going to move forward.
00:13:15Things have cropped up during the honeymoon.
00:13:18That's kind of been little red flags for me.
00:13:20I'm worried about the cupboard space, though.
00:13:22Why?
00:13:23Not sure if I'm going to get any.
00:13:24I need to be honest with Paul.
00:13:26I need to see how I'm actually feeling.
00:13:28It's crunch time for me.
00:13:30I need to have a little chat with Paul.
00:13:33Is that all right?
00:13:35Yeah.
00:13:36Yeah.
00:13:37I've tried to get to know Paul.
00:13:39I've asked him lots of questions.
00:13:41However, Paul has took no interest in my life.
00:13:45When I get nothing back from Paul, my heart sinks, I have to have a conversation with him.
00:13:51How have you found it?
00:13:54Um...
00:13:56Difficult at times.
00:13:58Do you think you know a lot about me?
00:14:02Do you think you've asked questions about my family?
00:14:09No.
00:14:10Not at all, no.
00:14:13So, I know your three children's names.
00:14:17Do you know my two children's names?
00:14:20No.
00:14:25Paul never listens.
00:14:28He doesn't even know my children's names.
00:14:30I've told him a hundred times, I mean, take some interest, Paul.
00:14:34For me, that is the basics.
00:14:39I need some time out, so I won't be living in this apartment with you.
00:15:00I feel rejected at the moment from Anita.
00:15:02I've had in my life many rejections.
00:15:04I'm used to it.
00:15:05I'm skilled at it.
00:15:06I have a master's in it, a PhD in it.
00:15:08My job now is to convince her to get back together.
00:15:12We'll wait and see.
00:15:14Paul's not the person I was hoping for.
00:15:19My life sounds really harsh, but...
00:15:22He's not.
00:15:26I just want to see everyone.
00:15:27Yeah.
00:15:28You think everyone got along?
00:15:29Nah.
00:15:30My biggest one is that, yeah, like, other people are, you know, maybe further along in their
00:15:36marriages than we are.
00:15:37I think that's my main concern.
00:15:39Everyone's got a good place, which can't let it affect us too much.
00:15:40No, definitely not.
00:15:41Yeah.
00:15:42Obviously, the honeymoon, there was ups and downs, but myself and myself and myself, I
00:15:46didn't know what to do.
00:15:47I just want to see everyone.
00:15:48I just want to see everyone.
00:15:49I just want to see everyone.
00:15:50Yeah.
00:15:51You think everyone got along?
00:15:52Nah.
00:15:53My biggest one is that, yeah, like, other people are, you know, maybe further along in
00:15:54their marriages than we are.
00:15:55I think that's my main concern.
00:15:56Everyone's got a good place, which can't let it affect us too much.
00:15:58No, definitely not.
00:15:59Yeah.
00:16:00Obviously, the honeymoon, there was ups and downs.
00:16:08Myself and Julia Roof have come back on a stronger terms.
00:16:12Going into this dinner party, we're just there supporting each other.
00:16:15I'm a little bit nervous in terms of, like, questions that might come our way.
00:16:19We might be put under the microscope tonight.
00:16:21I just hope that Devani and I can stand united together.
00:16:30Are you ready for the first dinner party?
00:16:32Yes.
00:16:32Absolutely.
00:16:33All the couples have now returned from their honeymoons and are settling in together in
00:16:36the marital homes.
00:16:38Now, this dinner party will prove a real challenge for our newlyweds.
00:16:41It will test their early connections and, in some cases, highlight their glaring differences.
00:16:50Whoa.
00:16:51Oh, my gosh.
00:16:52Oh, jeez.
00:16:53Wow.
00:16:54First in, we have Sarah and Dean.
00:16:55And they're holding hands.
00:16:56I feel like this is possibly a good sign.
00:17:02Just be our fun selves, you know.
00:17:04Have a good time.
00:17:05It'll be fun.
00:17:06Absolutely.
00:17:07Had a fun honeymoon, you know.
00:17:08Sarah looks really tense, actually, doesn't she?
00:17:16Just keep the rapping to a minimum.
00:17:18Mm.
00:17:19Singing.
00:17:20Oh.
00:17:21No, but the rap will be on request.
00:17:23That will be fine.
00:17:24My God.
00:17:25So, there's the first boundary.
00:17:26So, you lay down.
00:17:27Keep the rapping to a minimum.
00:17:28Yeah.
00:17:29Mm.
00:17:30Oh, my gosh.
00:17:31Who's here?
00:17:32Oh.
00:17:33Nelly and Stephen.
00:17:34They look happy.
00:17:35Hi.
00:17:36Good to see you.
00:17:37How have you been, bro?
00:17:38It's lovely to see the energy that both Nelly and Stephen are bringing.
00:17:39And I'm hopeful that they're in a really good place.
00:17:40It looks like they are.
00:17:41Yes.
00:17:42There's a beam.
00:17:43Yeah, thank God.
00:17:44Oh, my God.
00:17:45Yeah.
00:17:46I know I hate to say it out loud.
00:17:47When I met with Nelly before the experiment started, she talked about finding it quite
00:18:00hard to open up.
00:18:01So, it's really nice here at this very early stage to hear her saying, I quite like Stephen.
00:18:05How do you feel about Danny Boy?
00:18:09Obviously, he is lovely, lovely, lovely, lovely.
00:18:14Yeah.
00:18:15I was disappointed.
00:18:17Oh.
00:18:18He's super high energy.
00:18:20Yeah.
00:18:21It gets annoying.
00:18:22Yeah.
00:18:23And I sort of need...
00:18:24Need the space?
00:18:25Yeah.
00:18:26He does this thing where he, like, starts rapping.
00:18:32He loves to rap.
00:18:34Do you like him at all?
00:18:35No.
00:18:36No.
00:18:37Really?
00:18:38Is rapping that bad?
00:18:40My sense is the rapping is code for something else.
00:18:43Yeah.
00:18:44How's it been for you?
00:18:45Yeah.
00:18:46Like, we get on.
00:18:47Like, we get on really well.
00:18:50It's kind of just not been that, like, intimacy side yet, really.
00:18:53I was like, I've been in the friend zone before.
00:18:56Trust me, you'll fall for me.
00:18:57She's like, I'm like, trust me.
00:18:58It'll come.
00:18:59It'll come.
00:19:00I'm like, it'll come.
00:19:01Although Dean is laughing, that must be quite hurtful for him.
00:19:07There's someone coming in.
00:19:09Hey!
00:19:10Oh, my God!
00:19:12Hey!
00:19:13Big smiles.
00:19:14There's a happy and confident entrance.
00:19:17Yeah.
00:19:18Really happy.
00:19:19Absolutely.
00:19:20Look at this man.
00:19:21Look at this man.
00:19:22Look at this man.
00:19:23Look at this man.
00:19:24Oh, and the big passion.
00:19:25There's a lot going on right there.
00:19:27Yeah.
00:19:29Missed you.
00:19:30Missed you!
00:19:31Is everything?
00:19:32Yeah, okay.
00:19:33You?
00:19:34Oh, we're great.
00:19:35I can see that.
00:19:36It was instant as well.
00:19:37We are disgusting.
00:19:38I do apologise right now.
00:19:41Because we are very, very, very strongly falling for each other.
00:19:46Wow.
00:19:47I mean, isn't that an incredibly strong statement at this early stage?
00:19:52We are falling for each other.
00:19:54How's it going?
00:19:55How are the wedding days?
00:19:56Sounds about yours first.
00:19:57Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:19:58I want to hear about yours.
00:19:59Yeah, he's perfect in every way.
00:20:00I have no complaints.
00:20:01Every way?
00:20:02Every single way.
00:20:04Oh.
00:20:05Who asked these questions?
00:20:06How's your wedding?
00:20:07Everyone else is good.
00:20:08Why?
00:20:09What's happening?
00:20:10It's just not what I thought.
00:20:12I only heard really good things.
00:20:13Oh, he's lovely.
00:20:14Attraction is just nothing.
00:20:15There's no, nothing there.
00:20:16Have you guys looked about it?
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:18Yeah.
00:20:19He's not bad looking at all.
00:20:20Just, I don't know.
00:20:21He's lovely.
00:20:22Is it like, is it something you cannot pass?
00:20:24No, it's just...
00:20:25No, it's just...
00:20:26No, it's just...
00:20:27No, it's not bad looking at all.
00:20:28Just, I don't know.
00:20:29He's lovely.
00:20:30Is it like, is it something you cannot pass?
00:20:33No, it's just, he's got no tattoos.
00:20:36Okay, you can get tattoos.
00:20:37He doesn't want tattoos.
00:20:38What's so interesting about Sarah is she's someone who has said her past type didn't
00:20:45work for her, right?
00:20:46And her past type was mainly based on physical characteristics.
00:20:50And she wanted someone different.
00:20:52And she wanted someone nice.
00:20:54This is exactly what we've delivered in Dean.
00:20:57But yet she's very quickly shutting him down.
00:21:06Hello.
00:21:07Joe and Mae.
00:21:08Hi.
00:21:09They look happy.
00:21:10Yeah.
00:21:11Aww.
00:21:12I've been waiting for this, you know.
00:21:13Do you know what it is?
00:21:14I'm actually so happy with him.
00:21:15Aww.
00:21:16Yeah.
00:21:17He's funny, isn't he?
00:21:18It's just everything he says like in his accent is just...
00:21:19Where's he from?
00:21:20Where's he from?
00:21:21Is it Yorkshire?
00:21:22Yeah, Halifax?
00:21:23Halifax.
00:21:24I keep remembering because that's who I bank with.
00:21:25So...
00:21:26So has anyone, um, christened...
00:21:27I don't know.
00:21:28What?
00:21:29The conversation's going a little bit.
00:21:30Confident.
00:21:31Okay.
00:21:32Guilty.
00:21:33Yeah, fine.
00:21:34That's the confirmation.
00:21:35Yes.
00:21:36Yes.
00:21:37Yes.
00:21:38Yes.
00:21:39Have you?
00:21:40Yeah.
00:21:41Wow.
00:21:42It was not a, I'm happy for you, well.
00:21:43No.
00:21:44Today.
00:21:45It must be hard hearing another couple talk about...
00:21:46their sexual escapades when she isn't at that stage with Dean.
00:21:47I think I'm a bit nervous for her tonight.
00:21:48Because she said she kind of came out with me.
00:21:49She said she was like, oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:22:04It must be hard hearing another couple talk about their sexual escapades when she isn't at that stage with Dean.
00:22:13I think I'm a bit nervous for her tonight.
00:22:15Because she said she kind of compares, like, just naturally.
00:22:18And she's hearing, like, everyone probably doing well and she'll be like, oh, we should be further along.
00:22:21Yeah.
00:22:22There's a few rules come in, like, because I sing a lot and rap a lot.
00:22:24And she was like, it was annoying her, but she's like, you sing all the time.
00:22:26And she's just getting used to it now?
00:22:28No, she told me to kind of, she was like, can you stop it? Like, why are you doing it?
00:22:30Oh, really?
00:22:31Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:22:32All right, okay.
00:22:33So how do you think you're going to be, like, living together like that?
00:22:35Are you sharing a bed?
00:22:36Yeah, sharing a bed and all that.
00:22:37Yeah, like, all fine.
00:22:38Because I'm just like, just, I'm like, look, no rush, no pressure, nothing.
00:22:41Have you had, like, no intimacy at all?
00:22:43No, not even a kiss or anything.
00:22:45Really?
00:22:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:22:47She's kind of never really been with a bigger person, you know, type thing.
00:22:49Yeah, okay.
00:22:50And I'm like, oh, that's okay.
00:22:51I'm like, I'm not bad looking, I'm just fat, like, that's it.
00:22:53It's quite clear that right now he's feeling rejected.
00:22:56Well, it's fine, like, it doesn't bother me.
00:23:00Yes, it does.
00:23:03Hey!
00:23:05Hey!
00:23:06What's going on?
00:23:07Bryce and Ashley.
00:23:08Looking good.
00:23:09Looking happy.
00:23:10Relaxed.
00:23:11Tell us the story.
00:23:12Yeah, yeah.
00:23:13How's it going?
00:23:14I think, uh, sort of found out quite early, like, we're completely different in the way
00:23:18we, like, flirt and everything, so...
00:23:19Oh, God.
00:23:20I'm, like, very hands-on touchy and that.
00:23:22And she hates being touched.
00:23:25We all have a right to enjoy touch or not.
00:23:28We probably need to learn a little bit more about what that means for her.
00:23:32But then, look, we just had a conversation and, like...
00:23:35It's learning, isn't it?
00:23:36Mate, we communicate so well.
00:23:37Yeah.
00:23:38So, like, turn the relationship 180, like, we're really, really good, getting on really well.
00:23:42Yeah?
00:23:43Yeah.
00:23:44She couldn't look at me, to start with, and now she's snorting, laughing and all sorts.
00:23:46I'm doing something, right?
00:23:47Yeah.
00:23:48Yeah.
00:23:49More of this.
00:23:51He's saying, I'm trying to learn my partner.
00:23:53I'm trying to listen.
00:23:54I'm trying to understand her.
00:23:56How are you?
00:23:57Yeah, good.
00:23:59How are things going?
00:24:00In a good place.
00:24:01He's a very nice bloke.
00:24:03We had some, uh, sort of spiraled at my wedding.
00:24:06I just sort of panicked, I think.
00:24:08Ash very naturally put all this trust in the experts.
00:24:11And was like, you're my wife.
00:24:13We're together.
00:24:14Let's go.
00:24:15And I was like, oh, whoa, you're a stranger.
00:24:17Kind of did what I always do, which was just, like, instead of even thinking about one thing I liked, I was like, no, I don't like this.
00:24:23Okay.
00:24:24But then we pulled it back.
00:24:27He's so patient.
00:24:28He's so tolerant.
00:24:29He's like, makes me laugh.
00:24:31And that's about building a good, solid foundation, isn't it, in the relationship.
00:24:34Having those early struggles, overcoming them.
00:24:37But it's all, like, settled down.
00:24:39Yeah, yeah, definitely.
00:24:40The communication we've got is fantastic.
00:24:42Yeah.
00:24:43I feel, like, quite proud of us.
00:24:44Like, I think we do it better than people who have been married for 10 years.
00:24:46Like, amazing girl.
00:24:48Duh.
00:24:49That's a bold statement.
00:24:50Very.
00:24:51We're getting on so well.
00:24:53Yeah.
00:24:54We're, you know, for me, no attraction there.
00:24:56Okay.
00:24:57Okay.
00:24:58And it's very much friend vibes.
00:24:59Fine.
00:25:00Yeah.
00:25:01I would like to find a reason why I've been struggling.
00:25:05Can't find anyone.
00:25:06Hearing all of the other couples and all of Dolby having sex on the honeymoon.
00:25:11And I'm just like, I let them hold my hand today.
00:25:16He's now said to me, like, I'm going to leave you to make the move.
00:25:19And I'm like, I'm frustrated.
00:25:21I'm annoyed.
00:25:22Dina's so far away from my usual type.
00:25:25I wish I was, like, being intimate on the honeymoon.
00:25:27And we weren't.
00:25:28I'm gutted.
00:25:29I'm gutted I'm not there.
00:25:31I, like, joke all the time.
00:25:34Do you know what, though?
00:25:36Maybe he's desperately trying to, like, make you feel better.
00:25:39Think of the key word that you just said there.
00:25:42Desperate.
00:25:43Desperate.
00:25:44Yeah.
00:25:45It's giving me the ick.
00:25:46It's starting to feel like Sarah is mocking Dane.
00:25:50This is getting really frustrating to watch, isn't it?
00:25:53Well, once you got the ick, you got the ick, haven't you?
00:25:56Let's see.
00:25:57It's the way that Sarah's going about it that feels so disrespectful.
00:26:03Telling everyone about all the issues that Dane has.
00:26:07Does he not know?
00:26:08He doesn't know I've got it.
00:26:11That's a sign of immaturity.
00:26:13Someone who has no clue as to what it is that they need in life.
00:26:19If he went in for a kiss, I'd be like, whoa.
00:26:21I need that attraction.
00:26:23I just wanted that spark, that fire.
00:26:26There's no spark there.
00:26:45Yeah, it's just cute.
00:26:46This is adorable.
00:26:48Oh.
00:26:49Oh.
00:26:50Oh.
00:26:51Oh.
00:26:52Oh, no.
00:26:53Your bracelet.
00:26:54Oh, she's on her own.
00:26:55Are you all right?
00:26:56Oh, Anita's alone.
00:27:01I've been thinking about you all.
00:27:04She seems happy to see her support group.
00:27:06Yeah.
00:27:08Where is your husband?
00:27:09Somewhere.
00:27:10I'm not too sure where, though.
00:27:12Yeah.
00:27:13You guys okay?
00:27:14You good?
00:27:15We do get on.
00:27:16Yeah, yeah.
00:27:17It's a sense of humour and he's a gentleman.
00:27:19Oh, really?
00:27:20Yeah, but the deeper stuff, but total opposite.
00:27:24Yeah.
00:27:25Just needed some time apart, so I've moved into a different apartment.
00:27:28Fine.
00:27:29Absolutely fine.
00:27:30Yeah.
00:27:31Space is the best thing.
00:27:32Yeah.
00:27:33It was just kind of a make or break for me whether I was going to stay in the apartment.
00:27:36And I just said, Paul, what's my two children called?
00:27:39He went, no idea.
00:27:40Oh, no.
00:27:41Ah.
00:27:43Stop.
00:27:44Yeah, it's the basics, isn't it?
00:27:46I've just got up, got the case and went.
00:27:48My sense is she's putting such an emphasis on that because that's a real value for her.
00:27:53Actually, she shouldn't really be testing him at this stage because they are getting to know one another.
00:27:58So that feels quite a shame.
00:28:00He's never been in a relationship for 15 years either.
00:28:03So you're feeling a bit like, why would you not date for 15 years and then get married to a complete stranger?
00:28:08You're a bit like, what's that all about?
00:28:10He hasn't dipped his twin along the way.
00:28:12It's been more of a self-discovery experiment for him rather than a love journey, what it's been for me, kind of.
00:28:20Maybe he does need some time to adjust, but it doesn't sound like Anita has that patience right now.
00:28:28Hi, hi, hi, hi.
00:28:29Hello.
00:28:30Come in and sit and say hello.
00:28:31How are you doing? Are you OK?
00:28:32Are you OK?
00:28:33Yeah, good, sir. We all right?
00:28:34Are you all right?
00:28:35Are you OK?
00:28:36Yeah, good.
00:28:37How are you?
00:28:38Yeah, good.
00:28:39Good, good, good.
00:28:40What about, um, you and Bea?
00:28:43He's an absolute hoot.
00:28:46Honestly, he's a sweetheart, isn't he?
00:28:47He is.
00:28:48He's lovely.
00:28:49What about?
00:28:50Attractions not there for me.
00:28:51Do you think they'll ever come or...?
00:28:53I'm going to be honest.
00:28:55Yeah.
00:28:56Looks-wise, tall tanned hats was my thing.
00:28:59I was like, would you get a sleeve or something or a wee necktap?
00:29:04Oh, no.
00:29:05She's creating this really rigid fixed mindset.
00:29:09Yeah.
00:29:10And we're so early in the piece.
00:29:12She's literally going around to everyone in the group and talking about this.
00:29:17I didn't really realize how big the attraction thing was for me, if you know what I mean.
00:29:22So, it is what it is.
00:29:23Yeah.
00:29:24Yay!
00:29:25Oh, he's happy.
00:29:26Yeah.
00:29:27We're back in Bailey.
00:29:28And it looks like they have maybe blown up in a good way.
00:29:29In a positive way.
00:29:30Yeah.
00:29:31Yeah.
00:29:32Yeah.
00:29:33Yeah.
00:29:34Yeah.
00:29:35She's stunning, isn't she?
00:29:36Yeah.
00:29:37How are things?
00:29:38How was the wedding?
00:29:39Right, so, both got to the wedding.
00:29:40It's overwhelming, isn't it?
00:29:41It's overwhelming.
00:29:42Yeah, it's a lot of emotions.
00:29:43And there wasn't that instant spot.
00:29:44And then, since our honeymoon, like, literally adoring.
00:29:45Aww.
00:29:46He's such a gorgeous person.
00:29:47Like, little best mate.
00:29:48I fancy him.
00:29:49So, yeah, we've just been on the off.
00:29:50Aww.
00:29:51I can feel the fucking electricity in the room.
00:29:52Oh, my God.
00:29:53And I'm just standing there.
00:29:54Just standing there, yeah.
00:29:55Just standing there, yeah.
00:29:56I'm standing there.
00:29:57How are things?
00:29:58How was the wedding?
00:29:59Right, so, both got to the wedding.
00:30:00It's overwhelming, isn't it?
00:30:01It's overwhelming.
00:30:02Yeah, there's a lot of emotions.
00:30:03There wasn't, like, that instant spot.
00:30:04And then, since our honeymoon, like, literally adoring.
00:30:05He's such a gorgeous person.
00:30:06Oh!
00:30:07I can feel the fucking electricity in the room.
00:30:12With everyone I am surrounded by.
00:30:14And I am like, what is going on?
00:30:16Why is it not me?
00:30:17Why is it not me?
00:30:19It is so hard.
00:30:20I want to have that fight.
00:30:21They're all kissing.
00:30:22And, like, you can just feel it.
00:30:24And we don't have that.
00:30:34And here's our gorgeous lady.
00:30:35Gorgeous ladies.
00:30:36Lee and Leah.
00:30:38Style.
00:30:41So...
00:30:42Were you in dresses or suits?
00:30:43Both dresses.
00:30:44It's been an adjustment for me to try and get used to, like,
00:30:47the feminine element.
00:30:48Yeah.
00:30:49And I wouldn't say we're at a romantic point.
00:30:51We've said that we're going to, like, build the friendship first.
00:30:54How's yours?
00:30:55Good.
00:30:56The sexual connection isn't there yet.
00:30:58It's still not there yet.
00:30:59No, no.
00:31:00You feel like you're a bit more at friendship level.
00:31:01At the minute, yeah.
00:31:02But the deeper connection is there.
00:31:04And it has been growing.
00:31:05Isn't it nice to hear this time someone talking about having a type
00:31:09but being open to someone different?
00:31:11Where are you at?
00:31:12Oh, like, I'm obsessed with him.
00:31:13Fuck off.
00:31:14Are you?
00:31:15Yeah.
00:31:16Oh.
00:31:17Yeah.
00:31:18We get along really well.
00:31:19We've both been, like, really honest about everything.
00:31:21Yeah.
00:31:22Like, everything from the very start.
00:31:23Good.
00:31:24So, like, and I've never had that with anyone.
00:31:26Have you?
00:31:27What, Shagdon?
00:31:28Yeah.
00:31:29Yeah.
00:31:30Oh, you have?
00:31:31Is it good?
00:31:32Yeah.
00:31:33I think she's trying to tell us that they've had more than one or maybe two intimate moments
00:31:39together, which is just really lovely.
00:31:41So, what's this?
00:31:42Is that you two?
00:31:43Yeah.
00:31:44Can you say more, John?
00:31:45Yeah?
00:31:46They're getting on, like, our fucking hair sometimes.
00:31:47Are you?
00:31:48I hate the fact that how's it been, like, a week and a half?
00:31:53I feel like you've known him forever.
00:31:55Yeah, and I'm really freaking me out, man.
00:31:57It's freaking me out.
00:31:59It was freaking me out.
00:32:01Dawn, you can't.
00:32:04I'm so worried about becoming emotionally dependent on someone that they will then learn
00:32:09who I am, think I'm too much, and then break them up and be, I'm one out.
00:32:13Nellie is leaning into her past of having all of these traumatic experiences.
00:32:18So, then she begins looking for red flags.
00:32:21So, right now, her friends are saying, no, no, no.
00:32:23If things are good, look for the green.
00:32:32Devani and Julia Ruth.
00:32:35Stunning, y'all.
00:32:39You guys all right?
00:32:40Hi.
00:32:41David, nice to meet you.
00:32:42So, we've got Julia Ruth, that's coming really high energy, lots of fun.
00:32:45And Devani, who looks a little bit subdued.
00:32:51To fill us in.
00:32:52Like, what's the energies and everything like?
00:32:53It seems good.
00:32:54Mad, bro.
00:32:55Because that was the big thing.
00:32:56Mad.
00:32:57We're literally, like, yin and yang.
00:32:58Like, we're literally the exact same person, bro.
00:33:00Yeah?
00:33:01Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:33:02So, no, I'm very happy, man.
00:33:03100.
00:33:05Wow.
00:33:06Strong statement.
00:33:07We're literally yin and yang.
00:33:09They are the same person.
00:33:11Wow.
00:33:14He's a lot shorter than me.
00:33:15Oh.
00:33:17Without him.
00:33:19Like, we get on very well, but like, sometimes he's like, trauma-dumping has passed and everything, and I'm just like, there's no chance for me to get a word in.
00:33:27It kind of feels like we're two very different energies there.
00:33:30It's like we're peering into two very different relationships here.
00:33:34What do you know us look up?
00:33:36Oh, he's really happy with a match energy and that's really cute.
00:33:38Okay.
00:33:39They're like, um, they're like the same person, male, female.
00:33:42Okay.
00:33:43It's all super cute.
00:33:44I don't look like that.
00:33:45Like, super, super happy.
00:33:46Okay.
00:33:47Is she happy?
00:33:48I don't know.
00:33:49You didn't look like it.
00:33:50Not like...
00:33:52When you see a female, I find what's come back to me.
00:33:57Yeah, no, we've got...
00:33:58Too much, too much similarities.
00:33:59Too much similarities.
00:34:00Too much similarities.
00:34:01In a good way or a bad way?
00:34:02Very good way.
00:34:03Very good way.
00:34:04Everything's great.
00:34:05I'm not gonna lie.
00:34:06I mean, there's clearly two different narratives going on here.
00:34:09I don't know about you guys, but I'm feeling a little bit confused right now.
00:34:13Two very separate individuals.
00:34:21Oh, there they are.
00:34:22Yay!
00:34:23Yay!
00:34:24C'est moi.
00:34:25Where's my wife?
00:34:26Where's my wife?
00:34:27Where's my wife?
00:34:28Where's my wife?
00:34:29Oh, here's Paul.
00:34:30Do you want to stand up?
00:34:31Yeah.
00:34:32I'll do whatever you want to do.
00:34:33Yeah.
00:34:34I'll just stay with you.
00:34:35It's nice to see Grace having Anita's back.
00:34:38Yeah.
00:34:39Where is she?
00:34:40Excuse me.
00:34:41Oh, gosh.
00:34:42You all right?
00:34:43Yeah.
00:34:45Had a good day?
00:34:46Er, it's been a long day.
00:34:47Yeah?
00:34:48I'll tell you what, you look nice.
00:34:50My main plan of action is to speak to my wife, Anita.
00:34:53I really want to make sure she's in a good head space and she's ready to move forward.
00:35:01Paul, is it that you panicked in the moment when you forgot the name of Anita's children?
00:35:05Or was it that you didn't know or take interest?
00:35:08It's taken me eight days to remember the groom's names.
00:35:11So you think it's a memory issue?
00:35:13I have four tattoos.
00:35:14My children dates to birth.
00:35:17And their names.
00:35:19Right.
00:35:22Now you get the experts, so they can help you with all this stuff.
00:35:24Perhaps.
00:35:25I said to you, what has been your past relationship breakdowns?
00:35:31What did I say?
00:35:32You avoided the question again.
00:35:34No.
00:35:35Sometimes you have to be, show a little bit of weakness.
00:35:38Pardon?
00:35:39Vulnerability.
00:35:41Soon as it comes down to relationships and personal stuff, for some reason they just divert.
00:35:47Listen.
00:35:48You know what I was spending the day doing?
00:35:51Steaming my clothes.
00:35:54There's the other meaningful, deep stuff that also matters in a relationship other than making you laugh.
00:35:59Do you know Anita's pool?
00:36:00Anita said that they'd spent the day apart today.
00:36:01God, I felt like I was the only one going through the fucking ringer.
00:36:02I was like...
00:36:03Me?
00:36:04Because you know what?
00:36:05It's been a lot.
00:36:06He said it's different.
00:36:07It's been hard.
00:36:08Yeah.
00:36:09Because he just said it's been easy sailing.
00:36:10As soon as everyone walked in, wasn't it?
00:36:11It was like...
00:36:12Yeah.
00:36:13He said, oh, like...
00:36:14Yeah.
00:36:15You can see Yang kind of thing.
00:36:16We've had issues like this, where it's just like one of us is not receiving the information.
00:36:20But you had more of a deep chat to say, like, look, this is where I have.
00:36:21Who knows?
00:36:22So this is interesting.
00:36:23Julia Ruth is getting feedback from the group.
00:36:24But Devanis thinks they're really well matched.
00:36:25Is it that they don't know what they're doing?
00:36:26It's been hard.
00:36:27It's been hard.
00:36:28Like...
00:36:29Yeah.
00:36:30Because you just said it's been easy sailing.
00:36:31As soon as everyone walked in, wasn't it?
00:36:32It was like...
00:36:33Yeah, he said, oh, like...
00:36:34Yeah.
00:36:35You can see Yang kind of thing.
00:36:36We've had issues like this, where it's just like one of us is not receiving the information.
00:36:39Have you had more of a deep chat to say, like, look, this is where I have.
00:36:42Who knows?
00:36:43So this is interesting.
00:36:44Julia Ruth is getting feedback from the group.
00:36:46But Devanis thinks they're really well matched.
00:36:49Is it that Julia Ruth is presenting in a way that makes him feel like everything is fine?
00:36:54Or is he someone that sort of has his head in the cloud?
00:36:58You'll love it up.
00:36:59No, you...
00:37:01Wait, what was going on?
00:37:02I mean, we're going step by step.
00:37:05The spark is definitely there.
00:37:06Yeah.
00:37:07Did he just say the spark is definitely there?
00:37:09He said it's definitely there.
00:37:12I'm so happy you're happy.
00:37:13I'm so happy you're happy.
00:37:14Julia Ruth.
00:37:15This is just really hard.
00:37:16Why?
00:37:17Because it's not what you wanted, isn't it?
00:37:20Waste your issues.
00:37:22Don't bite at him.
00:37:23Yeah.
00:37:24Don't bite at him.
00:37:25Please don't do that.
00:37:26I feel awful.
00:37:27You just don't feel it.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:30I want to.
00:37:31I know, but...
00:37:32I'm trying.
00:37:33I know, but you can...
00:37:34I'm trying so hard.
00:37:36We spoke about having each other's back and being honest and open.
00:37:40It makes me look fucking stupid telling people that we have hard times.
00:37:43You're saying it's fucking great.
00:37:45Ugh.
00:37:46Hello, guys.
00:37:47I'm coming over.
00:37:48Is that okay?
00:37:49Yeah, I come good.
00:37:50Yeah?
00:37:51Do you want to step up?
00:37:52Yeah.
00:37:53Yes.
00:37:54Hi.
00:37:55Hi.
00:37:56Where's your wife gone?
00:37:57Julia Ruth.
00:37:58She is somewhere.
00:37:59I don't know.
00:38:00Javani not even knowing if Julia Ruth is in the room.
00:38:18It's like these two are not even on the same planet.
00:38:21I just feel awful because I just feel like I'm going to be, like, a bitch because I feel
00:38:27this way, like, and I'm trying the best I can.
00:38:30Smiling through everything.
00:38:32But you don't have to, though.
00:38:34I'm going to cry if I don't.
00:38:35Fucking cry.
00:38:39Are you happy?
00:38:40Very happy.
00:38:41Both of you vibing with each other.
00:38:43Yeah, 100% vibing.
00:38:44I think it's really hard to work out why Javani has such a different view of the relationship.
00:38:50You don't ever feel like you're being a horrible person by voicing what you want.
00:38:55No, no, no, no, no.
00:38:57I do.
00:38:58I feel like a fucking monster.
00:39:00Oh, wow.
00:39:01Oh, my.
00:39:02It's gorgeous.
00:39:03Woo!
00:39:04Maeve.
00:39:05Sarah.
00:39:06Dean.
00:39:07Boom.
00:39:08Head of the table, madam.
00:39:09Hello, darling.
00:39:10Hello, hello, hello.
00:39:11Hello, Paul.
00:39:12Hi, mate.
00:39:13Fancy seeing you here.
00:39:14It's a bit posh for you, innit?
00:39:15Very posh for me.
00:39:16Oh, and dad.
00:39:17Yeah, we're the mum and dad in the crew.
00:39:18Yeah, we're the mum and dad in the crew.
00:39:19I was thinking so.
00:39:20Yeah?
00:39:21It disappeared for a minute.
00:39:22Yeah.
00:39:23So good.
00:39:24Ooh, you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:39:25It feels beautiful.
00:39:26Oh, my God.
00:39:27Oh, my God.
00:39:28You're the what?
00:39:29Oh, my God.
00:39:30Oh, I'm thinking so.
00:39:31Oh, my God.
00:39:32It's a bit posh for you, innit?
00:39:33Very posh for me.
00:39:34Oh, and dad?
00:39:35Yeah, we're the mum and dad in the crew.
00:39:36Oh, my God.
00:39:37Oh, my God.
00:39:38Oh, my God.
00:39:39Oh, my God.
00:39:40Yeah, well, my dad in the crew.
00:39:42Yeah.
00:39:43It disappeared for a minute.
00:39:44Yeah.
00:39:45It's all good.
00:39:48Ooh, you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:39:53It feels beautiful.
00:39:54Hey, guys.
00:39:56I know a few of you have probably heard that I rap sometimes.
00:40:03All right.
00:40:05Here we are on this mad experiment,
00:40:07seeing things not in our element,
00:40:09learning what we may grow to be.
00:40:12I feel like I have experienced a lot of the raps now.
00:40:15Hands up in the air with me.
00:40:17I mean, he's rapping in the shower.
00:40:18He's rapping, like, I can hear him and stuff,
00:40:20and I'm like, the novelty for me has worn off.
00:40:24CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:40:28OK.
00:40:29Hey, Dee.
00:40:30Tess!
00:40:31Tess!
00:40:32Tess!
00:40:33Tess!
00:40:34Come on.
00:40:35We're doing so good.
00:40:36We're all good.
00:40:37So...
00:40:39Fabulous.
00:40:43Oh, no, you've got love, it's all over you.
00:40:45Was it bad?
00:40:46No, she didn't know.
00:40:49Lots of physical affection.
00:40:51Maybe love is in the air.
00:40:53Have you guys actually sat and spoken about
00:41:03what it is that you would like to sort of change?
00:41:06I think we knew quite early
00:41:08that we're on different paces.
00:41:11I'm quite a talker.
00:41:13And then she said to me one day,
00:41:15you know nothing about me.
00:41:16Why don't you ask me questions?
00:41:18And I say, because it's not my style.
00:41:20I volunteer the information.
00:41:21Right.
00:41:22I did this, I went here, I did that, and I did that.
00:41:24She likes to have a conversation and be asked.
00:41:30And do you find it hard to be like, sorry, can I talk now?
00:41:34No, she's quite polite.
00:41:35Oh, I'll just let them.
00:41:36Oh, fuck that.
00:41:37Why don't you maybe have a signal where like...
00:41:40Gosh!
00:41:41Yes.
00:41:42Shut the fuck up!
00:41:43Observing Anita tonight, she looks like she's completely lost her sparkle.
00:41:50Yes.
00:41:51Doesn't she?
00:41:52All of that zest for life and that energy that we know she possesses has just been zapped
00:41:58away.
00:41:59I honestly look at everyone and I'm like, I said Stephen earlier.
00:42:03I was like, erm...
00:42:04Aren't all the girls gorgeous?
00:42:05Like, is there anyone that you want to be with?
00:42:07And he was like...
00:42:08Is that what you...
00:42:10Oh my God, Nelly, man!
00:42:13Oh God, not on the first date.
00:42:17Like, why she's asking Stephen, like, are you attracted to any of the other wives?
00:42:21Like, it's just an insecurity, like...
00:42:23I'm giving myself the egg.
00:42:24I say it, I'm like, stop.
00:42:26Do you know what?
00:42:27I think you're surprised at how much you like him from sabotaging it because I don't
00:42:30think you expected to get someone that you would like.
00:42:34Oh my God, you're so right.
00:42:35It's fine.
00:42:36I can take the girls.
00:42:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:42:38100%.
00:42:39Not only is she showing her insecurity, but she's acknowledging that she is being insecure.
00:42:45She realises that this is a weakness that she has and she is trying to work on it.
00:42:50Yeah.
00:42:52It's crazy because you think, I bet everybody else is getting on and I bet there's loads of
00:42:57traction there.
00:42:58And it's just like, tonight is kind of like, wow, it's so diverse.
00:43:04Come here.
00:43:05Okay?
00:43:06My light is being dim.
00:43:08You can talk to me.
00:43:11Me and Julia and Ruth are having the same issue.
00:43:13We don't have a spark with our partner.
00:43:15And I'm not going to lie.
00:43:17I'm actually quite, like, glad that someone else is experiencing the same thing as me.
00:43:24Okay, so I'm struggling because I think he's been glossing over how hard it's been.
00:43:32He's telling everyone that it's fine.
00:43:34Yeah.
00:43:35These two are in two different relationships.
00:43:40What we need to really figure out is how they got to that point.
00:43:44I just have a little question because I think I was just a bit thrown off when you were like,
00:43:48that's not what I'd heard when I explained what the honeymoons was.
00:43:52Yeah.
00:43:53Your face was shocked but you were like, yeah.
00:43:55Yeah.
00:43:57I went and spoke to your husband and the conversation was entirely different.
00:44:03Entirely different.
00:44:05Like, he said that how amazing it was.
00:44:08Like, you were vibing, rah, rah, rah, everything he wants.
00:44:12We said that we're going to be open and honest and say, look, shit hit the fan.
00:44:16But I'm just hearing that it was great.
00:44:18Yeah.
00:44:19That's what we're hearing too.
00:44:20You're on different pages.
00:44:22Yet your reality is different.
00:44:24So different.
00:44:25Hearing how he perceives our relationship.
00:44:28Like, apparently everything's been smooth sailing and he's brushing over everything.
00:44:33Like, we're a fucking power couple.
00:44:36On what planet?
00:44:38Want to come closer?
00:44:46When people are asking how things are going, are you just saying, God, the honeymoon was not easy?
00:44:51100%.
00:44:52I'm not saying it's all Gucci.
00:44:53Nah.
00:44:54What I think is really confusing is that Devani has painted a picture that this relationship is great,
00:44:59but he's not actually acknowledging that now he's been called out by Julia Ruth.
00:45:03I think he's embarrassed.
00:45:05Because I sat down and spoke with Steve, Joe, and Rebecca,
00:45:08and they said they have a completely different response from you.
00:45:13Then that's my choice.
00:45:15Feaming.
00:45:16Just be honest.
00:45:18Don't.
00:45:19I'm just saying different stories and I don't want to look like a dickhead for being like,
00:45:25oh, it's hard.
00:45:26And you're like, it's great.
00:45:27And then I look like a dumbass.
00:45:28No, no, no.
00:45:29Because I look like I'm being mean saying that, like, it's hard.
00:45:32And you're like, oh, it's roses.
00:45:34I just feel like, fuck me, dear.
00:45:36They've heard a different story.
00:45:38It makes no sense.
00:45:40Maybe how I articulated our issues could have been a little bit sugar-coated,
00:45:45which would stem from a little bit of pride.
00:45:47Like, we're a team.
00:45:49I'm here to unite us.
00:45:51But at this moment, I feel locked out.
00:45:53How's it all been then?
00:45:55Yeah, it's been good.
00:45:56Has it?
00:45:57We get on really well.
00:45:58Like, we, like, laugh all the time.
00:45:59I can see that you're both, like, proper nice, like, happy Gabby.
00:46:02Energy.
00:46:03Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:46:04She's got such a good heart.
00:46:05He hasn't played every step with anyone.
00:46:08Fat before.
00:46:09Okay.
00:46:10And I said no.
00:46:11But people work on themselves.
00:46:13Do you know what I mean?
00:46:14Yeah.
00:46:15Do you know what I'm getting?
00:46:16Yeah.
00:46:17He did before.
00:46:18You know what I mean?
00:46:19He lost some weight.
00:46:20She said I'm kind of not her normal type.
00:46:22And she's never been with a bigger party before.
00:46:24So I was kind of a bit new to her.
00:46:26And I was like, I appreciate you being honest with her and telling me.
00:46:28What do you mean bigger, though?
00:46:29It's new for her, innit?
00:46:30I'm saying big.
00:46:31Uh, yeah, I am, though.
00:46:33The scale wood and the BMI.
00:46:34You know, like, I'm okay with it.
00:46:35It's not, like, a thing for me.
00:46:37He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid.
00:46:40Oh.
00:46:41Oh.
00:46:42Oh.
00:46:43Remember when we were in Hanzo and you said, I always go for the bad boy, the red flags?
00:46:47You ain't a bad boy.
00:46:48No red flags.
00:46:49He's like a bear bear.
00:46:50Oh.
00:46:51Yeah, it's not a very hot thing to say about your partner.
00:46:55No.
00:46:56A lot of what she's showing when she talks about Dean is disgust.
00:47:03Sarah's already entered the zone of being disrespectful.
00:47:07That just wasn't kind.
00:47:08How ridiculous, how petty, how low.
00:47:10And that's something that needs to end.
00:47:13Good evening, newlyweds.
00:47:28In this box are questions designed to help you navigate the problematic aspects of your marriage,
00:47:33as well as celebrate the more positive.
00:47:35Please remember they will hold little value if you do not respond with courage and absolute honesty.
00:47:41I love Charlene, Paul and Mel.
00:47:43Oh, well read.
00:47:48Grace, how far do you think we've come in terms of progress since our wedding day?
00:47:55I think we've made great progress.
00:47:57We started rock bottom.
00:47:59Couldn't have got worse, really.
00:48:02I didn't think you were coming away on the honeymoon.
00:48:03I was like, should I be going?
00:48:06I know, I know, he's so nice.
00:48:08Why is she so mean?
00:48:09I didn't know.
00:48:11I'll hold my hands up.
00:48:12I spiralled, I misjudged.
00:48:14He misspoke.
00:48:15And we talked it out.
00:48:17And we're good.
00:48:18We're great.
00:48:19We're good.
00:48:20Yeah.
00:48:20Ashley, what are my best and worst qualities?
00:48:32Best quality is 100% your personality.
00:48:36Like, you light up wherever you are instantly.
00:48:39You're a really lovely girl.
00:48:43Marry me.
00:48:44Marry me.
00:48:45Joking.
00:48:46Joking?
00:48:48Oh.
00:48:51Ouch.
00:48:51Yeah, that joke didn't land.
00:48:54Your worst quality.
00:48:56It's like, how many can I give?
00:48:59Maybe just jump into conclusions straight away about something that you think is happening.
00:49:03Maybe it's not exactly as you thought it was.
00:49:07Fair.
00:49:07Fair.
00:49:08I'll take it.
00:49:14Sarah.
00:49:15Oh, gosh.
00:49:16What has been the hardest part of the experience for you so far?
00:49:24Probably the intensity, I would say.
00:49:29Marrying a stranger, going halfway across the world with someone I don't really know, moving in together.
00:49:35I have struggled, and you know I have, you know.
00:49:36So, yeah, I would definitely say the intensity has been the hardest part for me so far.
00:49:42Yeah.
00:49:43That's good.
00:49:44It's actually quite humiliating for Dean, because actually Sarah has already gone round and told everyone that she's not attracted to him.
00:49:52What we need is honesty.
00:49:54It's quite cruel.
00:49:57Dean, what do you hope for in our future together?
00:50:03I hope for that we can kind of just continue, like, getting to know each other and grow and not have any pressure on anything.
00:50:08And just concentrate on us, you know, just make sure we're okay.
00:50:11I'm hoping it'll kind of get to that place where that spark is there, and it's kind of magical.
00:50:23It's making me cringe a little bit.
00:50:25I don't want magical.
00:50:27I want fiery.
00:50:29I came here to find the one.
00:50:31I've given this opportunity and this experience everything.
00:50:34like, everything.
00:50:38There's something not right here.
00:50:52Nelly, can you see yourself falling for me?
00:50:56Go on, Nell.
00:51:04Erm...
00:51:05It's very hard for me to say...
00:51:12You've got a good...
00:51:12No pressure, girl.
00:51:15Yeah, yeah.
00:51:17Yes, let's just move on with that.
00:51:19Yes.
00:51:19It's okay.
00:51:19Yes, you're great, great.
00:51:20It's tough, Anna.
00:51:26Why is it so hard for you to talk about falling for somebody?
00:51:33Do you know what it is?
00:51:34Yes, I think, erm...
00:51:40I think I'm so afraid of, erm...
00:51:44being so emotionally, like, open and vulnerable to someone.
00:51:49Like, thinking that they know who I am and think,
00:51:52you know what, I'm not into that.
00:51:54And then they, yeah, and then they're, like,
00:52:01then they break my heart.
00:52:04Just...
00:52:05I can't...
00:52:06I can't with it anymore.
00:52:07It's too much.
00:52:09I'm kidding.
00:52:10But you know you're not too much.
00:52:11Yeah, you are.
00:52:12Ah, never too much.
00:52:13Aw!
00:52:13It's the money.
00:52:16Sorry.
00:52:18Quiet all over me.
00:52:19I know.
00:52:20Cheers all over me now.
00:52:21No, I hate this.
00:52:22For Nellie, showing this level of vulnerability
00:52:25is really difficult.
00:52:27And here, she's starting to do it.
00:52:29I'm really proud of Nellie tonight.
00:52:32For me, first night together,
00:52:35like, seeing my family up really take care.
00:52:37I think they're the first people you look at for validations.
00:52:40And as soon as I sat down that night at the dinner table,
00:52:42it was, yeah, Steve, this is what you've been looking for.
00:52:45So that's probably, for me, the biggest validation I need.
00:52:49Well done.
00:52:49You can see that just means the world to Nellie.
00:52:53She is craving reassurance and validation from him,
00:52:56and he's just given it to her,
00:52:58which is everything she wants to hear.
00:53:00Yeah, it's huge.
00:53:04Anita.
00:53:04Yep.
00:53:05What three things can I do to make this marriage work?
00:53:11I would like you to listen more.
00:53:19I would like you to find out a little bit more about me.
00:53:23And actually start asking questions about me.
00:53:33Right, I've got it.
00:53:35I've got to remember now.
00:53:36Can you not remember them?
00:53:41Well, apparently that's the way he works at home as well.
00:53:43He's got post-it notes all over, so...
00:53:45Just because he's wrote them down, though,
00:53:47doesn't say that he's going to do it.
00:53:54Right, Paul.
00:53:56I'm ready.
00:53:59How much are you willing to fight for this marriage?
00:54:03Whoa.
00:54:03I'm not sure if fight's the right word.
00:54:11Don't really want to fight with you at all.
00:54:17I'd rather work with you.
00:54:19So hopefully we can build some bridges
00:54:21and get over the other side.
00:54:27It kind of deviates again.
00:54:29Is this marriage worth fighting for?
00:54:30Well, I wouldn't say it was fighting.
00:54:31We're certainly not on the same page.
00:54:35I'm in a different book.
00:54:43Daveed, how did you feel when you turned
00:54:46and saw me walking up the aisle?
00:54:50Turning back and seeing you,
00:54:53first of all, I was like, whoa.
00:54:54It wasn't just that.
00:54:57As soon as I hold your hands,
00:54:59the entire thing just disappeared.
00:55:01It was just me and him.
00:55:03And since then, we haven't let go.
00:55:04The way that you have the ability
00:55:10to make everyone feel so seen
00:55:12and so safe and so comfortable,
00:55:16it's incredible.
00:55:18It's like a shooting star.
00:55:20You don't try and explain it.
00:55:21You just appreciate its beauty.
00:55:22Leah.
00:55:33Leah.
00:55:35Oh, fuck me.
00:55:40Do you think you like me more than I like you?
00:55:44I think I'm moving faster than you are now.
00:55:50100%.
00:55:56We both know where we're at at the moment.
00:55:59Romance isn't where we both thought it would be at this point.
00:56:03So I think the biggest challenge, realistically,
00:56:06is going to be whether that romance does come.
00:56:09Yeah.
00:56:10Maeve, how do you feel about me right now?
00:56:19Like, as I've got to know yet,
00:56:21do you know, I actually really like it.
00:56:23Like, really like it, and I don't tell people that.
00:56:26You can tell that.
00:56:28I'm really excited to see, like, where's it going to go?
00:56:31Do you know what I mean? And that's all I'm saying.
00:56:34Oh, no, Lord.
00:56:41Erm, as every day has gone on,
00:56:44like, I've learnt more and more about you,
00:56:46and honestly, like, I've got that, like, fuzzy feeling in me
00:56:50where when I look at you...
00:56:52Sorry.
00:56:53No, you're going to meet me!
00:56:55Aw!
00:56:57I'm just gathering feelings for you.
00:56:59Like, I honestly can't wait to spend the rest of the time on you.
00:57:01Aw!
00:57:02Yay!
00:57:03Thank you!
00:57:04Thank you!
00:57:05I love that!
00:57:06Woo!
00:57:10It's so lovely to see Maeve gradually dropping those walls.
00:57:14She's really trusting Jo.
00:57:15And being very vulnerable,
00:57:16which we know is something that she has really struggled with.
00:57:19I just wanna go home and struggle with you.
00:57:21Me too.
00:57:22I just wanna go home and struggle with you.
00:57:24No, no, no, no.
00:57:26No, no, no, no!
00:57:27No, no, no, no, no!
00:57:30Um, okay.
00:57:32Davani,
00:57:33how do you think I feel about our marriage?
00:57:36our marriage so what you think about our marriage is that we've definitely hit
00:57:48tough tough tough times and the honeymoon wasn't glitz and glam for sure
00:57:57it wasn't what I expected to be fair but I'm glad that we are where we are right now but how you
00:58:11truly feel it's a bit it's a bit of a turbulent feeling okay with the honesty box I feel like
00:58:23he was trying to be a little bit more honest because he fucked the heat on him so he was a
00:58:28bit more open but he hasn't been that way before and I'm sitting there like you seem to be in a lower
00:58:33land Julia roof what one thing would you change about me like I think it's your your outlook
00:58:51on life and how you respond to things I think I think life can be tough miss grief but I've gone
00:59:09through a lot of shit there's no point in dwelling on it and I just feel like I want someone who
00:59:17matches my energy I'm struggling with my own emotions and I and I want to be there for you but I
00:59:25struggled to do it for both of us you are very negative and I feel very tired sorry
00:59:39the energy is very very different yeah just different aren't they different people
00:59:48ready ready who do you think is the strongest and the weakest couple at the table
01:00:01I feel like Nelly and Steven got like a connection going on like there's something going on with you two
01:00:16that feel strong okay weakest I don't want to say sorry just say it we're all here for a reason
01:00:39um just say it just say it pull it underneath her
01:00:47and also
01:00:51Julia Ruth let's be honest the struggles in particular your relationship and your relationship
01:00:59exactly what I thought bottom of the fucking barrel
01:01:04I need a man who's honest I read to that bullshit
01:01:12it's just a lot
01:01:15I just want to say it's genuine
01:01:21next time is the very first commitment ceremony it's time for the couples to face the experts
01:01:32I can't communicate with you and you don't listen you don't back down
01:01:36it's been difficult it's been proper difficult
01:01:39this isn't going to work
01:01:40tension builds as two couples clash
01:01:43no emotional connection no communication
01:01:46I thought we could build from the wedding day
01:01:49they're just miles apart
01:01:51and Sarah's bad mouthing
01:01:54do you think that you were rude while talking about your partner
01:01:58catches up with her
01:01:59this man is talking about how lovely his partner is
01:02:02and you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him
01:02:06it's not me it's not who I am
01:02:09I am
01:02:14you
01:02:18you
01:02:22you
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