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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, D was away.
00:03I unpacked an entire bag.
00:05Not this one.
00:06So proud of you.
00:07It feels good to be back in Aruba.
00:11No, I don't like the noise.
00:13I'm afraid.
00:15Please help me.
00:16If you start it once, I'll restart it.
00:19She's always had everything done for her.
00:21But now we're living together, and I can't have her have this vacation
00:25mode all the time.
00:26Oh!
00:27Yay.
00:29So it's time.
00:32Saying goodbye to Hazel feels like my heart
00:37is being ripped from my chest.
00:39Bye, Hazel.
00:41But I can't wait to see Matthew again
00:43and feel that spark with the person that I love.
00:51This is sarcastic.
00:53Working here is not possible at all, no?
00:55It's small.
00:56For years, I've been the black shape of the family.
00:59It feels like I disappointed them again.
01:07I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in with Manon's parents.
01:10Oh, my God.
01:10There's no intimacy, there's no privacy, and honestly, staying at the house is just surreal.
01:19It's surreal.
01:20Yeah, it's surreal.
01:21Oh, my God.
01:22So many problems with the wedding.
01:25She told me if we don't give the money in two days, we're going to cancel the marriage.
01:29How much is it?
01:31How much is?
01:32I sent over $4 million.
01:39You can look at the bank account.
01:41Yeah, we can.
01:42Sure, but I already have.
01:43Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:44So don't get money.
01:45It's just simple.
01:46Yeah, we can't.
01:47Sure, but I already have.
01:48Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:49So don't get money.
01:50It's just simple.
01:51It's just simple.
02:20Today's the day.
02:22Greta is arriving in the UK.
02:25Hey, Apple, your mummy's coming home.
02:28Do you know that?
02:29Yes, she is.
02:31I feel like I have a butterfly sanctuary in my tummy right now.
02:36It's been six months since we've seen each other.
02:41That is the longest we've been apart, and it hasn't been easy.
02:46It's definitely a bit of a scramble to get things ready.
02:51But I want everything to be perfect for her.
02:55I better make some room for her here.
02:59Greta is sacrificing everything she has to be here.
03:04Her friends, her career, her cat, to be with me.
03:13It's a lot of pressure.
03:15I just arrived in England.
03:26I'm really excited to see Matthew.
03:28I haven't seen him in six months.
03:30I'm on the train, and the next step is to reunite with my love, Matthew.
03:36I've been to England five times, but this time feels really different because I'm starting a whole new life.
03:45I'm an American woman on the way to my English fiancee who lives in the countryside.
03:51I feel like I'm living out of a romance novel right now.
03:55It makes me very excited.
03:58I'm a little bit nervous.
04:22I have no idea what to do with my hands.
04:24I have no idea what to do with my feet.
04:30There's a lot riding on this for me.
04:32I just want to make sure I get it right.
04:36This has been two years in the making, and it's an incredible feeling to finally start this project.
04:42my life with a person who I love.
04:59This has been two years in the making, and it's an incredible feeling to finally start my life with a person who I love.
05:10But I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
05:29Hi, darling.
05:37Hi!
05:38You look very difficult.
05:44How are you?
05:46Good.
05:49How are you doing?
05:50Very well.
05:52It's been a long time.
05:54I didn't realise you would be right here.
05:56Yeah, right there.
05:58Hey, sweetie.
05:58Oh.
06:01Did you get a haircut?
06:02Yeah.
06:03You look very different.
06:04It's very short.
06:05I know.
06:06It will grow back out.
06:09All right.
06:10No, we did it.
06:11We're here.
06:11Yeah.
06:13I can tell it was a long journey for you because you stink.
06:18Yeah.
06:19I had to carry some very heavy suitcases, so I got very sweaty, and I smell really bad right now.
06:26Your antiperspirant is fighting on for its day of life right now.
06:30Yeah.
06:31You're welcome.
06:33Let's take you home.
06:34Okay, let's go.
06:36All right.
06:36Can I help you with that?
06:38Um, I mean, why are you being so formal?
06:45I've almost forgotten what it's like to have Greta with me, to have you with me.
06:51And so, yeah, it's, I feel very disjointed right now.
06:57So I'm just waiting for those sort of jigsaw pieces to come back together over the next few days.
07:03It's good to see you again.
07:05There is no return flight booked this time.
07:10That's the first time we've done that.
07:11And now it feels like this is where everything else begins.
07:16This is the crossroad of everything in the future.
07:20Yeah.
07:21It feels very special.
07:27Let's go home.
07:29Yeah, let's go.
07:31Damn, you're a really bad B.O.
07:33I know.
07:34Oh, wow.
07:35Thank God I got that loop for you.
07:37Yeah.
07:59Colour's not good.
08:04I'm not Indian.
08:06What do they think?
08:07Progress is good at the cafe and things are moving along.
08:13And today we're having a Hindu ceremony called a puja.
08:18It's for blessings for our new house.
08:20Oh, good.
08:24Beautiful.
08:26Indian lady.
08:27Mm-hmm.
08:27Indian lady.
08:30My family is very religious.
08:32They believe that a prayer is required
08:35because we all are moving in with a good intention.
08:38So that's why they choose to do a housewarming ceremony.
08:41I hope it doesn't break the floor.
08:52No, don't worry.
08:54Coconut is a high-hanging fruit.
08:56And it gets the water by itself if we consider it as pure.
09:00And they're cracking the coconut like, it's like blessing the house.
09:05It's like as many you do, more blessings to the house.
09:09Okay, hold it.
09:10Both hands.
09:11Middle part.
09:12Oh my God.
09:14Be careful with them.
09:18And both right hands.
09:20Right leg.
09:22Look.
09:22Inside.
09:23Go on.
09:24Come.
09:25Yes, wait.
09:26Come over.
09:27That's coming.
09:28Carrying the thing on my head is supposed to be like I'm carrying in everything in the house
09:37with me like I'm going to take control of everything.
09:41It's a balanced thing.
09:42If you want, you can get in your hand.
09:44Yeah.
09:45I see.
09:47Okay.
09:48It's not easy.
09:49If you're not used to carrying something on your head.
09:52Yeah, come.
09:53I find these ceremonies to be very beautiful.
10:03The prayer that they're saying a mantra.
10:06Yeah.
10:12I'm so fascinated by it.
10:14How do they remember all these prayers and what to say?
10:18And everybody all says it together.
10:20It's been a surprise for me that Denny and I are leading the ceremony.
10:38This is amazing.
10:39This is a very good day.
10:41And now all my extended family members are showing up.
10:45And it's just a really happy moment.
10:46I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.
10:59Most of them are going through the complexity of the culture.
11:03And that's what makes them like to resist against our relationship.
11:08I think that they need to get to know me.
11:37And be happy for us.
11:39And get over it.
11:42Make small flowers.
11:44And small, small flowers.
11:47I'm making the middle dots.
11:49You're making the middle dot?
11:51Yes.
11:51Shree is teaching me how to draw vangoli on the floor, which is usually a flower, some sort of design.
12:00And it's used to welcome the guests and keep negative energy out of the house.
12:11How's my flower coming?
12:13Wow.
12:15You like it?
12:16A little bit more here.
12:21What have you made?
12:22You've made rangoli.
12:22You haven't made it.
12:23You've made it.
12:23Sumit Jenny.
12:25Jenny, what are you doing?
12:27Make a flower.
12:28Make a flower.
12:29Flower.
12:30I made flower.
12:31Here.
12:32This one?
12:33I made the flower.
12:34Very pretty.
12:36Very nice.
12:37She's saying Jenny didn't make it good.
12:47Why are you having a problem?
13:07Someone doesn't like my artwork, so I'm just going to watch.
13:13Should I complete this?
13:15Yours?
13:15Very good.
13:16Very nice.
13:18Why are you bothering?
13:29We're enjoying when you're bothering.
13:31Nibana Nibana Nibana Forrest.
13:36Era, Nibana.
13:39Any era.
13:40Marrow.
13:41Why are you taking mine?
13:42Nibana Nibana Nibane.
13:44What's you doing?
13:45Gelo the world.
13:45Pray y'all.
13:48Ah!
13:54Oh!
13:57Malheureuse, misérable.
13:59Manon, moi, ma fille, elle ne mange pas, mais pourtant elle est grosse.
14:02Il y a beaucoup de body shaming.
14:07Piensen si es que se quieren casar, porque, pues, esta situación es bochernosa.
14:12I trust Lissana opinion so much.
14:15He f***ed up.
14:27On va jouer à la pétanque.
14:43So, we've been in Marseille for a few days.
14:47C'est parti, les amis.
14:48It's a very tiny house, especially with a 19-month-old baby boy.
14:53Voilà, va promener Benjamin.
14:57So, we plan a little fun getaway to start fresh with my parents.
15:02Just get out of the house and we are going to go play some pétanque.
15:11Ah, et bonjour, et bonjour.
15:15The first time playing la pétanque.
15:17Yeah.
15:17Let's see how we do.
15:18À deux.
15:19Two people in the same team.
15:20On peut jouer à trois boules.
15:22With three balls.
15:23À trois.
15:24Two balls.
15:25Three guys, two balls.
15:26Okay.
15:29La pétanque is actually a game that involves like a little cochinou, like we call it a
15:34little small ball and big ones.
15:36Very funny.
15:37And you got to actually throw the balls really close to the smallest one.
15:42You want to actually knock down the balls that are close so yours can stay closer and
15:48you steal the points, kinda.
15:49Je n'ai pas joué depuis très, très longtemps.
15:51Ah, c'est pas mal, ça.
15:56Ah, merci.
15:58Ok.
15:58Eh, je suis marseillaise, moi, dans le sang.
16:01Eh, eh, eh, eh.
16:03Merci.
16:04Merci.
16:05Because you push my ball.
16:06Oh, okay.
16:07Oh, je suis trop grave.
16:08Oh, je suis trop fort.
16:09Oh, je suis trop fort.
16:10Oh, je suis trop fort.
16:17Pétanque, it used to be a tradition as a family when I was young.
16:27During summer times, my parents didn't have a lot of money for fancy, expensive vacations.
16:32So they used to rent a townhouse in a very, very small asshole of France type of city
16:42where every day, it's just apéritif, lunch, pétanque, and nappe, and you start again in the morning.
16:50Ben! Ben, it's got to play!
16:59Mano, I had to tell you, I was really surprised when you told me that you wanted to come back.
17:05I'll tell you the truth, I didn't see my eyes, I didn't see my eyes.
17:09Toi, who, all the time, I'm staying there, I'm staying there, France, yeah, France, yeah, France, yeah.
17:14Because here, I was miserable, miserable.
17:17I felt like an ovni here.
17:21I've always felt like I was not accepted with the friends' society, but in the family as well.
17:28Mano, my daughter, she doesn't eat, but still she's big.
17:34There's a lot of body shaming.
17:36Okay, I know that I'm different from the other.
17:38We've always wanted to do our best.
17:41Then, I don't say that we've done everything perfectly.
17:44That's far from it.
17:46I'm kind of just lost.
17:48I don't know if she's resolving stuff with the family.
17:51Is it just bringing more **** from the past?
17:54It is hard for Mano to, like, move forward.
17:58But I definitely worry that Mano dwelling on the past
18:01is going to make her family less interested in helping us.
18:05It's hard.
18:07It's hard.
18:08It's hard.
18:09It's hard.
18:10I don't do it, it's hard.
18:11It's hard.
18:12I love our children.
18:13Of course.
18:14You've always loved me.
18:15I know, it's hard.
18:17But I can't deny that some choices you have taken me,
18:21made me become the one I am today,
18:25who was not a trustee, who thought it was a problem,
18:28who thought it was a mistake of nature.
18:33But, Mom, you learn more, you grow up, you change,
18:37and you see what it is to have a child.
18:39In other words, you say, they've done what they've done.
18:43And frankly, at the end, I'm happy, I only take the positive.
18:45The important thing is that I'm happy and that I'll know where you want to be.
18:53Who chooses your life, it's not the others.
18:56And we'll be there for you, anyway.
18:57Yes, we're there, anyway.
18:59Yes, I know, thank you, I know.
19:03I was in such a dark place.
19:06But I'm like, this is my past life.
19:09So I just want them to be aware all the ways of thinking need to evolve
19:13because I'm committed to make it work here in France.
19:17So I hope to see them making a change.
19:19But we'll see.
19:20You told me I still do want it, and you don't get it.
19:41Be careful with your words.
19:43I'm sorry for how this is turning out.
19:48For me, it's so embarrassing talking that about her.
19:51Okay.
19:58Please finish with her.
20:00I don't want the people to see me fighting.
20:02Okay, amor.
20:03It's so, so embarrassing.
20:08Lizana is my pageant coach.
20:11I work with Lizana.
20:13I kind of believe he's making me look like that.
20:16He say I talk the money when I don't talk anything.
20:20It's like he f***ed up.
20:23You're going to have the biggest problems you're going to have later.
20:27Let's just maybe get back to it.
20:30Yo tengo 12 millones de pesos por esta boda.
20:35¿Es funcionado o no?
20:38Es que no.
20:41La decisión es o quitamos algo de lo que está o se cancela la boda.
20:49No es normal que una pareja que está a punto de casarse peleando enfrente mío.
20:55O sea, esta situación es bochornosa.
20:57Límpiate, por favor, Akam.
20:58Gracias.
21:00Gracias.
21:00Gracias.
21:00Gracias.
21:01Siento que en estos momentos deberían estar más unidos.
21:04Las diferencias y la reacción tan fuerte de Made en ocasiones, pues, me genera un poco de inseguridad en cuanto a la boda.
21:12Y de pronto, dudas que se generan de que, ¿será que sí hay matrimonio?
21:20Venga, yo miro la lista y le marco.
21:23Listo, los tachamos.
21:24Okay.
21:25Los bailarines.
21:26You're getting rid of that one?
21:29Yeah.
21:29And mariachis.
21:32Desistir de los mariachis.
21:32Sí.
21:33Ya ahora tenemos como pagar 12 millones, ¿cierto?
21:37Bueno, hermosa, entonces, ¿para cuándo tengo todo esto?
21:40¿Cuándo tengo que pagarla?
21:44Dime, dime hasta el domingo.
21:46Dos días.
21:47Dos días.
21:48Perfecto.
21:49Pues, pues, yo hablo con todos los proveedores a ver qué podemos hacer, pero también es que piensen si es que se quieren casar, porque, pues, espero que realmente más que el dinero los una el amor, que es lo más importante.
22:05Gracias.
22:08Gracias.
22:09Gracias.
22:11Gracias.
22:12Chao, hermosa.
22:16I trust Lisa an opinion so much.
22:19and she is wondering if I should get married.
22:24And this is sick of me.
22:26Ciao, que se bien. Salud.
22:30I am so sick and tired about always I need to forgive him
22:36and he continued to do...
22:38My question is for how long he think I'm going to forgive him.
22:49If you don't want me sleeping here, I can go sleep elsewhere.
22:57Whatever you want, Madeleine.
22:58I don't know what you want, Madeleine.
23:04I've had a really long day and I'm exhausted.
23:07So I apologize for being rude.
23:10I apologize for making you look bad.
23:13I am very sorry. That is not my intention.
23:15I don't want to fight, but I've given up my life in the United States
23:21and all of my financial security.
23:24She doesn't understand the gravity of the situation.
23:27It's very troubling.
23:29Can we go to bed together on my first night here, moving here?
23:33Or would you like me to go to the other room?
23:35Whatever.
23:37Whatever.
23:39You have to understand, I work in hospitality, Chloe.
23:43I have to be nice to people.
23:45You can climb the rope, just don't put people on your back.
23:47I can't promise you that.
23:49His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls.
23:54It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
23:57That's going to be a beautiful sunset today.
24:07I know.
24:08It's going to be gorgeous, just like you.
24:10Don't start.
24:11Hello.
24:12Good evening.
24:27Now that I'm living in Aruba and I'm finally back with Jonathan, it is a relief to put everything
24:33from long distance behind us.
24:36I really want to become a less jealous partner, but his job makes that much more challenging
24:43considering his job is like a strip club located on the ocean.
24:48Oh, electronic mode.
24:51Jonathan has a lot of big dreams and he told me that he wanted to go into business together.
24:55I'm hoping part of him truly is considering it because I just, I don't think I could see
25:02the trust coming back truly at his job.
25:04I really don't.
25:06It's actually so pretty.
25:08Mm-hmm.
25:09That's like picture perfect.
25:11There it is.
25:13Enjoy, okay?
25:15You're welcome.
25:16Anyway, you mentioned that you want to open like a business type situation.
25:27Yeah.
25:28So does that mean you're going to lean towards leaving?
25:32Yeah, of course.
25:33I don't want to work for somebody, Chloe.
25:36I mean, like what kind of business are you thinking?
25:38Basically, if I'm thinking I'm starting a business where I could be in the water.
25:44And that's something I can't explain that feeling, you know?
25:48I would always want to work on the water.
25:50You understand?
25:51Yeah.
25:52I mean, but it's up in the air, but...
25:54Yeah, I know it's up in the air, but I mean...
25:56No, I think that...
25:57We are going to have to help each other in this.
26:01Help you how, though?
26:04Help me create the business.
26:06We can come with a business plan now, and then maybe, hopefully, luckily enough, we can
26:10find an investor that's willing to put money into it.
26:12Once I finally manage to get through that, then I will leave Jolly Pirates.
26:16But that's the whole idea.
26:18I think I want to believe him that he wants to open a business together, but I do feel
26:24like part of him telling me all these things is because he just wants to take my focus
26:28off of him quitting his job.
26:32So you think within the year?
26:33Within the year, I will start making bigger moves.
26:37I'll work really hard for, like, a year, maybe two.
26:40So you think you'll be there for two more years?
26:43Maybe two.
26:46What if you find a job that I like sooner than two years or one?
26:56I mean...
26:57Because there's plenty of other jobs.
27:01I've asked Jonathan to quit multiple times.
27:06His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls in literal dental
27:13floss bikinis and then put these drunk dental floss girls on his back as they, like, cling
27:22on to him for dear life and then flip with them in the air.
27:26Even one more year is pushing it.
27:28Like, you're going to be 33 working on a pirate ship.
27:31I think he would probably stay until the boat sinks.
27:35I don't know.
27:36It's an easy and fun job.
27:38I get good tips on that boat because of the things I can do.
27:41You know, I snorkel with the people.
27:43I show them all sorts of stuff.
27:44I feel like you don't have to be so much, like, the center of it anymore.
27:47Like, I feel like you can slowly kind of step out of the limelight.
27:52I mean, if I start getting, like, colleagues that start doing what I do, like, nobody climbs
27:58the rope.
27:59Climbing...
28:00Okay, you can climb the rope.
28:01Just don't put people on your back.
28:02I'm trying to do that, lady.
28:03I'm trying, but I can't promise you that.
28:07You have to understand that, like, I did leave working on the boat to go work in a hotel
28:12because my ex didn't like me working on the boat.
28:15And I did it thinking that it would make things better, but it didn't.
28:19And I...
28:20I know, but I'm not your ex.
28:21I understand that.
28:22So you can't, you can't...
28:23I can't compare.
28:24I understand.
28:25It's going to put me in a situation I've been before, and I really don't want to do that
28:28again.
28:29I was just, like, mad that I had to go to work, mad that I was doing what I was doing.
28:33But the work's not always fun.
28:34I mean, I think you can have a good balance.
28:36Yeah, I know, but that's why I'm trying to find a way to respect you as much as I can
28:40at work, so I can stay with my job because it's something I really, really love.
28:44I'm not asking you in this moment to go put in your two weeks.
28:48That's not what I'm asking you to do.
28:49I'm asking on the boat.
28:51Somebody asks, be like, listen, like, I have a girlfriend, whatever.
28:55I know you want to put on a show, but, you know, leave young girls and dental floss
29:02out of it.
29:03Leave them out of it.
29:05You got to understand, you met me on Jolly Pirates.
29:10You know, like, you can't expect me to just change for you.
29:15Just I met you a year ago, and like, oh, I have to change my job and my lifestyle and
29:18everything.
29:19If you're going to sit here and tell me, no, I'm not going to stop flipping young, beautiful
29:25girls, then you can easily tell them, no, as well.
29:28At least have more respect for me.
29:30And if you're going to say no to someone, say it to them, not to me.
29:33The only way that I would leave Jolly Pirates is if I did something for myself.
29:40It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
29:42No.
29:43I don't work at a, I do not, not even.
29:45But it's like if I worked at a strip club.
29:46That's not either.
29:47Because I'm saying most of your clients are girls.
29:49No, not about them.
29:50What do you mean?
29:51There's kids.
29:52There's families that come on the boat.
29:53In the morning trip.
29:54You know what I mean.
29:55No, in all trips, Chloe.
29:56Like, Chloe, what is wrong with you?
29:59OK.
30:00Your parents are not here, it looks like.
30:02Yeah.
30:03I'm seeing my fiance for the first time in six months, and I'm sleeping down the hall from
30:14his parents.
30:16It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
30:19It's like I'm sleeping in my house.
30:21Jaini is a perfect girl, with which I am married.
30:25She isn't a girl.
30:27She will never be able to do this to him.
30:29She doesn't make a marriage like that.
30:31She doesn't make a marriage like that.
30:32She doesn't become married.
30:33I don't have to be married.
30:39And everyone, against Innsinac Gardens.
30:43We're coming up, we're coming up now.
30:47In every one, the Kensington Gardens,
30:50we're coming up, you're not going to stop us now.
30:55Wow, you're driving more smoothly than what I'm used to.
30:59Not doing any of your speeding antics.
31:01Oh, I've been practicing just a year.
31:05I just arrived in England.
31:06It's been a long day of travel, and things
31:09were pretty awkward when we first saw each other.
31:11I think once we settle in together,
31:15we will feel more connected to each other.
31:18The town still looks the same.
31:20Not much changes in sleepy Barbara.
31:23Still pretty cute, filled with old people.
31:27Uh-huh, yeah.
31:30Matthew's hometown is like the quintessential English countryside.
31:35There's lots of sheep, a lot of cute little cottages,
31:39and just long country roads leading to nowhere.
31:43Definitely not a place I would choose to live
31:45when in my 20s, it maybe would be a place
31:47that I would live in my 60s.
31:49I mean, I like a lot of the same things old people do,
31:52but I prefer city energy, not retirement home energy.
31:57There we are.
32:06Your parents are not here for me.
32:09Yeah.
32:10Hi, Sally.
32:11Hi, Sally.
32:12Hi, my baby.
32:13Yeah, Apple.
32:14There you go.
32:15Hi, sweetie.
32:17I have stayed at this house three times before.
32:22Mommy's home.
32:23Yeah.
32:24But it's always been like a little bit awkward
32:26because it's a small space.
32:29We all share one shower.
32:31I don't really have my own place to have my own alone time.
32:35Oh, wow.
32:36You got your new computer monitors?
32:38Yeah.
32:39I'm also seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months,
32:43and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents,
32:45and the walls are pretty thin.
32:47It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
32:51Sorry.
32:52Sorry, I just got that out.
32:57Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
33:00Uh, yeah, everything with a G on it.
33:01But there's stuff in there.
33:02Oh, God, really?
33:05Oh, yeah, these are my shirts.
33:07Oh, I'll figure that out.
33:12I guess you have to figure that out now, right?
33:17That's mine.
33:19That's mine.
33:19Maybe we should just get, like, a bag
33:21and just, like, put everything in the bag
33:22and then figure it out later?
33:23Mm-hmm.
33:25Granted.
33:26OK.
33:28Put everything in here.
33:30Like, I just don't know why all of this
33:32wasn't done beforehand.
33:35There you go.
33:37Three functional empty drawers.
33:39OK, I don't know if that's enough.
33:41Can you make me a fourth one right now?
33:43Yeah, I'll get one.
33:47I thought there was enough space.
33:50I mean, did you expect me to wear, like, four outfits
33:52over and over again?
33:54No, there's 20 hangers here.
33:56No space for about five or six pairs of trousers down there,
34:00seven pairs of shoes.
34:01Seven pairs of shoes are going to fit there and trousers?
34:05Yeah, lined up, yeah.
34:07So you don't see space as an issue right now?
34:11No, I think this is fine.
34:12This is fine.
34:13Should we lay out and start doing the suitcase, or...?
34:16Um, I feel like I just want to do that, like, alone,
34:18because it's, like, too cramped for me to unpack
34:20while you're sitting there.
34:22OK, sure.
34:23I'll let you unpack, then.
34:37I don't even know where to put anything.
34:39I know it's, like, so silly to, like, cry over, like,
34:54not having the space to put your stuff,
34:56but it just feels, like, really discombobulating.
35:02It just doesn't really feel like home,
35:04and I'm just, like, coming here and trying to just find the space
35:07to put my things, and there's not enough space, and, um...
35:12Like, I'll just be living out of a suitcase, basically,
35:14and, uh, it's just, like, a really weird situation.
35:23I just thought he would get ready more for me to come,
35:29so it just kind of feels like I'm not really welcome here.
35:32I left home to come here, and then just, like, to feel like
35:36you're just taking up space that you shouldn't be taking up.
35:41It just makes me really realize, like, I need to...
35:43We need to find a place, like, of our own.
35:48Because it's just not really going to work.
35:51I was already a little bit annoyed
35:53that Matthew hadn't seriously started looking at apartments for us,
35:56and then it doesn't even seem like he was expecting me to arrive here.
36:00It feels pretty inconsiderate.
36:03Like, I just left Hazel to move here.
36:06He's just not really making me feel at home right now.
36:11How's it going?
36:13Need any help?
36:16You can get me a bigger room.
36:19This one will have to do, I'm afraid.
36:21Mm.
36:22What's she doing?
36:36What happened why she took your mom away
36:52What happened why you didn't go to your house and how much you were in your house
37:05It's different from your house, but now we're married
37:09We're married and we're happy and we're happy, that's the biggest thing
37:13You're more than your life
37:17What do you have to take your home?
37:19You're happy, right? I'm happy, I'm happy
37:23There's nothing wrong with you
37:25It's not like that, right?
37:27It's not like that in our society
37:29It's not like that you're so big and so small
37:31I didn't expect that my aunt would start saying all this
37:45She was fine in the starting
37:48She came to a celebration
37:50And all of a sudden she's getting mad and talking about Jenny
37:53It's really like make me
37:55Why and what is going on over here?
38:02Still having a problem with our age gap?
38:04Yeah, age gap thing
38:05Well, we love each other
38:07We love each other
38:08We love each other
38:09You love each other
38:10You're together with your mother
38:11Look, you're very big in our age
38:13Well, if you don't like it, you don't have to come over here
38:17You don't have to come over here
38:18You see that you're a little
38:19You're a little
38:20I'm happy
38:22And because you're like, you're going to have to come over here
38:23I've made it
38:24I've enjoyed it
38:25He's given me
38:26at the same time
38:27At the same time
38:28When I was very frustrated
38:30So, Jenny is a perfect girl
38:34I'm married
38:35She's not a girl
38:36She's not a girl
38:37She's not a girl, she's a woman
38:40This is not a girl, this is a woman.
38:43But we are living together and we are happy.
38:46This is the biggest thing.
38:48She is happy.
38:49That's okay.
38:50I don't want to say anything about this.
38:52I don't want to say anything about this.
38:54But she is happy with her.
38:56She was happy with her.
38:58She was happy with her.
39:00She was happy with her.
39:01You said that it wasn't for her family.
39:04What would she say?
39:05She was happy with her.
39:07She was happy with her.
39:08She was happy with her.
39:11She was happy with her.
39:13She was happy with her.
39:15I had to leave her from home.
39:17I had to see her.
39:19I had to see her.
39:21Many people say,
39:23what did she say to her son?
39:25I thought I would not go anywhere.
39:28I would say I would stay in my home.
39:31But after a while,
39:34my husband told me
39:36that you can't do anything.
39:39They both married.
39:42Then I thought,
39:44that they did it.
39:46I will not change you.
39:49I will not change you.
39:51I will not change you.
39:52I will not change you.
39:53I will not change you.
39:54I am so happy.
39:56I will not change you.
39:57I am so happy.
39:58If I had a mistake,
39:59if you think it was a mistake,
40:01then it would be my fault.
40:03And it would be fine.
40:04And it would be fine.
40:08Take anything else.
40:09This is your house.
40:11I will not change you.
40:12I will tell you this.
40:13I will tell you this.
40:14Why are you wearing her?
40:15No one will not wear her.
40:17If you leave her,
40:19then I will wear her.
40:20If you leave her,
40:21then I will wear her.
40:22If you leave her,
40:23then I will wear her.
40:24I will wear her.
40:25I will wear her.
40:26I will wear her.
40:27You are very nice.
40:28You are the part of our family.
40:30Okay.
40:31If you have to wear your family,
40:33then you can wear your family.
40:35If you have to wear your family,
40:37then you will wear it.
40:42Chachi, listen to me.
40:44It is like all the good work
40:47we've done till now
40:48can be spoiled by one loud person.
40:51It might make my parents feel like
40:53fighting against the society and culture
40:56is not worth it.
40:58I don't know,
40:59but I think it's very risky for us.
41:12Next time on 90 Day Fiancé,
41:14The Other Way.
41:15I'm Patia.
41:16I'm 58,
41:17and I'm an exotic dancer.
41:19But now I'm hanging up my cowgirl hat
41:22to move across the world
41:23to be with my boyfriend, Dylan.
41:26G'day.
41:27I'm Dylan.
41:28I'm 38 years old,
41:29and I live in Launceston, Tasmania.
41:32We've been together for 12 years
41:34and have broken up 20 times.
41:36I'm just tired of the back and forth.
41:38You know?
41:40I'm not gonna keep the break-up,
41:41the make-up,
41:42the break-up,
41:43make-up going for the rest of my life.
41:45It's either or get off the pot.
41:48In Oklahoma,
41:49I get weekly massages.
41:53I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate
41:55how much I give.
41:56He's never said anything like this before.
41:59I couldn't afford the life that you want.
42:02Engage you for the money?
42:03Is that what you're saying?
42:08Aw, you're so cute.
42:09Thanks.
42:10Sometimes.
42:11We're going to have a day night,
42:13and we can put all the fighting behind us.
42:20I didn't do anything.
42:22I just...
42:26Ay, mi amadito.
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