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00:01Previously on Sister Wives.
00:04So I'm heading up to Salt Lake,
00:06because I am going to go to a speed dating event.
00:09Should be very interesting.
00:11I need a man who knows and loves this bitch.
00:17The last couple of years, I feel like I've really
00:20just kind of embraced, like, let's just do all the things.
00:24We'll get started here in, like, 10 minutes.
00:26Break a leg, bro.
00:27Break a leg, bro.
00:30Just say yes.
00:33Coyote Pass is still a pain in my ass.
00:36It's not settled.
00:37No.
00:38Look, I don't care how fast it sells.
00:40I just want it resolved.
00:42Isn't he all about fairness, though?
00:43Oh, no.
00:44Only for him.
00:45Oh.
00:45Got you.
00:47Only when it applies to Cody Brown.
00:51Anything other than in my brain,
00:53there's something I want maybe more than you do.
00:56But I'm just- Oh, you're talking about sex?
00:58Yeah, I'm not-
00:59Oh.
01:00A polygamist is getting more than he wants,
01:02and a monogamist isn't getting enough.
01:04Turn it out.
01:09Turn it out.
01:11Turn it out.
01:13Turn it out.
01:14Turn it out.
01:16Turn it out.
01:18So Jen drove up with me today to Salt Lake City.
01:20And we are now at the speed dating event, and she's going to kind of sit and watch the whole
01:24process, and I'm going to like speed date a bunch of guys.
01:27I'm going to like speed date a bunch of guys.
01:30Want me to sit with you, like I'm your first date?
01:31Oh, I'm going to be the guy.
01:32Yeah.
01:33I don't know how this is going to work.
01:34Not something I've ever done before, but I'm open to it and it'll be interesting.
01:37Do it.
01:38Do it.
01:39Okay.
01:40What question are you going to ask me?
01:41What's your hobby or skill you've always wanted to pick up but haven't yet?
01:42Dr.
01:43We need to work this season today today.
01:44McIntyre, how many of you are going to be in the MĂ©lenchon, the
01:55House of Pets, and Go.
01:56So I'm going to sit with you, like I'm your first date.
01:57I'm going to be the guy?
01:58Yep.
01:59I don't know how this is going to work.
02:00Not something I've ever done before, but I'm open to it and it'll be interesting.
02:03Do it.
02:04What question are you going to ask me?
02:07What's a hobby or skill you've always wanted to pick up, but haven't
02:10yet?
02:11Flying airplane, boom, good job.
02:14Oh yeah, the fact that I am 54 years old
02:19and I'm out here dating again, it's strange,
02:22it's surreal, it's weird, it's nerve wracking,
02:26and it's hard.
02:27If you could travel anywhere in the world right now,
02:29where would you go and why?
02:31Grace, because I want to.
02:32I want to.
02:35If you could pick one superpower, what would it be?
02:38Ooh, I don't know.
02:40Invisibility.
02:41Really?
02:42Yes, I could commit a crime and no one would see me.
02:46Oh, isn't that one of my questions I'm supposed to ask?
02:48What was, what have you been?
02:50What crimes have you committed?
02:51What crimes have you committed?
02:52Don't ask what crimes they've been convicted of
02:54because it could be overturned
02:55or they might not have been caught yet.
02:56I just have to ask them what crime they've been,
02:58what crime they've committed.
02:59Committed, what crimes?
03:01What crimes have you committed?
03:02I don't want to just like choose like the most basic one.
03:04I'm not looking for a spark.
03:07I'm looking for, can we have a conversation?
03:10And then we'll see what happens.
03:12Um, hello everyone.
03:14Welcome to speed dating.
03:16Um, we're going to get started,
03:18but I'm just going to go over a couple of rules
03:20and just make sure everyone kind of knows
03:22how things are going to go.
03:23You'll hear this bell.
03:26The dates are going to be 10 minutes long.
03:27So I'll time the dates.
03:29And then when you hear the bell,
03:30it'll be time to kind of wrap up your conversation
03:32and move to the next chair.
03:34This topic of me being raised in a plural family
03:37and being married in a plural family
03:39and now not being in a plural family,
03:40all these different aspects about my life
03:43are kind of huge.
03:45If it comes up naturally,
03:47if it makes sense in the conversation,
03:50then I'll say it.
03:52And if it doesn't, I won't.
03:53We bought Coyote Pass before we even moved to Flagstaff.
04:10We bought a dream, we had a dream, the dream is gone.
04:16I mean, it's been two years since Cody and I have split up.
04:21And still, we are not on all the titles of the property.
04:25I've been asking for that forever.
04:27I mean, look, ideally, this would be simple.
04:30He just has to add us all the title.
04:32It's not that hard.
04:32It's not that hard.
04:39Hi.
04:40Hi.
04:40That smell always reminds me of growing up in Montana.
04:44I want to be done with Coyote Pass.
04:45And Robin has, she's been just struggling
04:49to let go of the dream.
04:51Figured it's time for us to figure out Coyote Pass.
04:55I'm scared.
04:58Why?
04:59Why do you say that?
05:00That's suspense.
05:02I just want to sell.
05:03Yeah.
05:04I just want to be rid of it.
05:05It's a source of pain.
05:07Where are you now?
05:09I don't know.
05:09It's been hard to kind of come to terms with it.
05:12Yeah.
05:13We sell it.
05:14It's the awareness of a dream that never manifests.
05:17That's a really tough one.
05:19Coyote Pass was a big thing in our world.
05:23So where should we land?
05:26Look at this.
05:27This is beautiful.
05:29Me living so close, you know, I just kept going out there and putting my good energy and just
05:33going, OK, we're going to get out here, we're going to get out here.
05:35It's really hard to say, OK, I'm done, especially since we didn't do it.
05:43We did nothing.
05:44I'm not actually sure I ever had the dream of us all being out on Coyote Pass.
05:48I could see myself out there.
05:49It's a beautiful piece of property.
05:50Why not?
05:51Nobody really wanted to live out there.
05:53Christine didn't want to live out there.
05:55Mary would have done it if everybody else had done it.
05:58Robin has a house.
05:59She had a house that was pretty much there without being there on the property.
06:03Like, I just could see very soon after we moved to Flagstaff that that was not going
06:06to be a thing.
06:07Maybe when it sells, they'll be so happy that they'll be nice.
06:11You've been kind of hard, too.
06:13It seems like there's a lot of miscommunication that happens really quickly and really easily.
06:17You know, those little firecrackers, you just light one off and there's like a string
06:20and they go, pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa, and they just kind of light each other off.
06:23Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
06:25Like, hey, snap, she didn't mean that, hey, he didn't, he didn't mean that, hey, well.
06:30Any time will just make us all feel like, oh, that was petty, let's just be nice.
06:36What?
06:37Never mind.
06:39What?
06:40Nothing.
06:41Listen, I have this wife.
06:43Her name is Robin.
06:44She's got a conscience that is angelic and very close to God.
06:49And she would never let me do anything naughty, as bad as I want to do it.
06:56To be honest, I think it's just really hard to move on from what I thought it was going
07:02to be.
07:03So for you, it's the symbol of our family.
07:07I'd say it a hundred times probably.
07:09I'm sorry, but this is still happening.
07:14God.
07:16I need to get over this.
07:18Well, then we, maybe we do move on.
07:21I'm, what I'm trying to do is I'm trying to tell you I'd rather sell.
07:24Oh, I'm so tired.
07:27A warning?
07:29I have to move on.
07:32Ugh.
07:35Everybody else says I have to.
07:37Everybody else is moving on, too.
07:39Yeah, they are.
07:41Cody mostly wants to sell, Janelle wants to sell, Mary wants to sell.
07:45But it feels really wrong, I feel like I'm betraying myself and the family or something
07:50by giving in, but I don't feel like I'm kind of running out of choices.
07:56It is what it is.
07:57Okay.
07:58It's just hard.
07:59And you really know what, you just hit it on the head when you said it's the symbol.
08:04It's just hard.
08:05You ever have the feeling you'd kind of like to just sell it all, pick up and move?
08:12Do you ever get that sense or, you know, just get away from this whole valley?
08:16I feel like the kids, the little kids have really done well here.
08:20But I'm not talking about leaving Flagstaff.
08:22I'm talking about leaving the space we're in.
08:25I don't know, you have heartache wherever you go.
08:27I didn't have a lot of heartache before we moved here.
08:30Well, I did.
08:31I had a lot of hard times before.
08:33Yeah.
08:34You know, before I met you and stuff, so.
08:37I don't know, I just, maybe.
08:40Or maybe after time.
08:41I just want enough space for our kids to feel like they can come and be around and have space.
08:47I agree.
08:48And one day when your kids.
08:50Decide they want to come over?
08:51Mm-hmm.
08:52Interesting.
08:54This house has blessed us.
08:56Don't get me wrong.
08:57Don't get me wrong.
08:58But my heart was broken here by so many things.
09:07I picked up the phone to my son's passing here.
09:12I want out so bad.
09:25Married twice.
09:26Only one at a time.
09:26And I don't like dumb jokes.
09:31I do wonder, do they know who I am?
09:34For five years, I've been divorced now, so, yeah, so.
09:50Yeah.
09:52So Jen and I have talked a lot about, like, what I'm looking for, right?
09:58And I always joke about six feet, because I think a tall guy would be really super awesome.
10:07But I'm also not going to shut down the opportunity if he's not six feet,
10:12but he's got a whole bunch of other good qualities, right?
10:15But yeah, six feet would be great.
10:17No.
10:22Do you know what we're supposed to do?
10:23Hello.
10:24Talk, I think.
10:24Yeah, but- Introduce ourselves.
10:26No one told me I had to fill things out.
10:28Only if you want to.
10:29Oh.
10:29Okay.
10:30Only if you want to.
10:31Hello.
10:31Hi.
10:32I'm Mary.
10:32I'm Lee.
10:33Good to meet you.
10:37Um...
10:38So, have you been married?
10:40I was married 10 years, divorced about six.
10:42I was married for 33 years.
10:48Okay.
10:50It's a long marriage.
10:51Good for you.
10:52Congrats, I should say.
10:54Yeah.
10:55I prefer beach or mountains.
11:01I like both.
11:01Yeah?
11:02Right now I'm in the mountain thing.
11:03That's awesome.
11:04What else do you like to do?
11:05Concerts.
11:06Maybe I wasn't asking quite the right question,
11:13because there was quite a few times when I'd ask a question,
11:16and it would just be like an answer.
11:19A word.
11:22Cool.
11:23It was good to meet you.
11:27There was some painful moments, for sure.
11:31Hi, Mary.
11:32Hi, Jeff.
11:33How are you?
11:34I'm good.
11:34Good.
11:35I guess you're the house celebrity, huh?
11:38Evidently, that's what they say.
11:40In an event like this, or dating, the hardest part is not knowing if they know who I am or not.
11:47First time speed dating, yours?
11:49Yeah.
11:50Yeah.
11:50Is it?
11:51Uh-huh.
11:51Yeah.
11:53And so, how long have you been divorced?
11:58Yeah, divorce would be the worst.
12:01And that's been two years.
12:03Okay.
12:05What about you?
12:06I was married twice, only one at a time.
12:08And I don't like dumb jokes.
12:13I mean, I'm a funny person.
12:16Like, let's just put that out there.
12:19I'm freaking hilarious.
12:20For five years, I've been divorced now.
12:23So, yeah, something like that.
12:24Yeah, interesting.
12:26Yeah.
12:30Yeah, interesting.
12:34I mean, a dumb joke has to be a good, dumb joke, if it's going to be a good, dumb joke.
12:39And it has to actually be a joke, not something that has to do with my family structure.
12:49There's the dinner bell.
12:50That's the dinner bell.
12:51I like who I am as Mary.
12:54And I'm interested in finding a person who really likes Mary.
13:01Um, have you been in Utah all your life?
13:02I've been kind of lots of different places.
13:05Well, your career took you away.
13:07Well, a lot of other things took me away, too, but...
13:10What else can we do?
13:14I'm terrible at this.
13:14Next question.
13:15Is this, have you ever done this before?
13:17I have never done anything like this.
13:19Okay, what made you decide to do it this time?
13:20Uh, it gets me out of the bubble.
13:22So, why are you doing this dating?
13:25Just figure out my future.
13:27The concept of speed dating?
13:29That's pretty much what I was doing my life before I was married, was just speed dating.
13:33I'd ask a girl out on a date.
13:35We'd go on one or two dates, usually just one, because that was a little too weird for them.
13:39The whole dating process is a big red flag for me.
13:42Like, I'm like, no, no, no.
13:44Were you married quite young?
13:47I was 22.
13:48I was 19.
13:50So, you're very young.
13:52Yeah.
13:52How old are you?
13:53Yeah, 37.
13:54I don't care about that.
13:5437?
13:55Yeah.
13:56You could almost be my kid.
13:58Yeah, yeah.
13:58This is weird.
13:59Daniel is a little bit young.
14:01I have a 29-year-old.
14:02This is why I'm saying I could almost be your mom.
14:06Yeah, the 10 minutes with Daniel went by really, really fast.
14:10He was fun.
14:11That sounded really bad.
14:12I enjoyed my conversation with him.
14:14Yeah.
14:20Hello.
14:21Hello.
14:22How are you?
14:22How are you?
14:22Good.
14:23I'm Ron.
14:23Hi, Ron.
14:24Hi, I'm Mary.
14:25Good to meet you.
14:27That's your grading card with you?
14:30Yes.
14:32I do.
14:32I got Mary.
14:33We're at table three.
14:34It's all good.
14:38Cool.
14:40Yeah, should be interesting.
14:44Come on.
14:45Come on.
14:46Hey.
14:49Come on.
14:52Kelty and Tony went to North Carolina for Christmas last year.
14:57You know where you're putting those weights?
14:58Nope.
15:00They're gonna go right over here.
15:01And then a couple of months after they were in North Carolina, they came over and they told us that they were moving.
15:06Oh, gosh.
15:08I mean, kids have to do what they need to do.
15:10So get it and get it.
15:13It's sad, though.
15:15We're gonna leave tomorrow morning earlier than you guys, and I imagine we'll sync up along the way.
15:19Is it because you're taking longer than I am?
15:20Uh, we're gonna definitely, definitely be going slower than you.
15:24I think that every time I talk about moving to my mom, I break her heart just a little bit more.
15:28She's, she's really sad.
15:30She's really heartbroken.
15:31And just make out if he's moving tomorrow.
15:34We're driving her and her kids cross country tomorrow.
15:40It's really hard.
15:42I thought you said you wanted to open.
15:43Mom, you're doing an amazing job.
15:44You know, you and I have never thought the same.
15:47If we thought the same, you wouldn't be moving.
15:49But she's really sad, because she's definitely gonna miss out on a lot of the years that my kids are young.
15:55It's like Aspen and Isabel don't have kids yet, and they're not gonna have kids for a while,
15:58and I want my kids to have cousins.
16:00Plus, we'll be closer to Maddie.
16:02Listen, Tony, Tony wouldn't let me live polygamy, so I can't have sister wives to rely on for multiple kids.
16:08Which means the closest thing I have is cousins for my kids, okay?
16:11Yeah, no polygamy.
16:13No, I don't think Tony McKelty ever really considered plural marriage.
16:16I think we gave off the image that plural marriage was easy.
16:19I actually had a relative get after me once for making plural marriage look easy,
16:23and I went, no, we didn't.
16:25But also, Tony needs to pursue his chess career.
16:27You're like wife of the century.
16:28Oh, I know.
16:29Letting him have a chess career?
16:31Sorry, I shouldn't do that.
16:33He makes money.
16:36For me, it's the chess capital of the US.
16:39I'm someone who works in chess, makes content, and teaches, and coaches.
16:43For me, moving out there is, like, so exciting, because that's, like, the hub.
16:48Have you told Dad?
16:49Yeah, Dad knows I'm moving.
16:50Okay.
16:51Told him he should come up and see us before we leave, and it didn't happen.
16:55Oh.
16:56So I'm sorry.
16:57It is what it is.
16:58Well, Tony and McKelty's schedule kept advancing, so we were trying to see them in St. George.
17:04They had plans that they couldn't change, and we had plans that we couldn't change,
17:07and we just never were able to make the contact.
17:11And McKelty and Tony were just sad that they weren't able to see Cody and Robin and the kids
17:14before they moved. The whole thing's just been sad. The relationship with them is just not what
17:20McKelty hoped it would be. I think most of the relationships between me and my adult
17:27children are strained. It's an issue of trash talk and innuendo, and it has challenged loyalties
17:34and trust on all sides.
17:37McKelty!
17:38McKelty!
17:38Oh, God.
17:39Don't leave.
17:41Don't leave, for real.
17:42I have to go.
17:42Don't leave.
17:43You can come with me.
17:44I have a spare room.
17:45We're all together.
17:47Leaving Isabel and Aspen will be harder, I think, than anything else.
17:53They're my best friends. They're, I mean, they're my sisters.
17:56Are you crying?
17:57Yes.
17:58Are you crying?
17:59Yes!
18:00It is a bit rude that once I leave North Carolina, everyone's moving out there.
18:05You are crying so much, sister. I'm sorry.
18:07I'm gonna miss you.
18:07I'm gonna miss you.
18:09I mean, McKelty tried so hard to get the whole family back together again.
18:13She really wanted to.
18:14I think this is probably something that's one of the hardest things that this family is gonna
18:17have to go through. At the end of this all, we are still a family.
18:21There's a lot of hurt feelings and frustration and anger and resentment and...
18:28Yuck.
18:30I think that, uh, Will?
18:31What?
18:32It makes it.
18:33It makes it.
18:35It makes it.
18:35I know the part of the reason they're leaving is it's just exhausted from trying so hard to get
18:43everybody back together again. I'm just done. I need to do my own thing now.
18:47Okay, we're done.
18:51Okay.
18:51It was hitting.
18:52Woo!
18:58Hello.
18:58Yes, hello.
18:59He's handsome, so there's that.
19:02What's your love language?
19:05My love language is physical touch.
19:07I had an experience with Robin once where I learned what my primary love language was,
19:12and it is touch.
19:19Super important for me is to find somebody who wants to travel with me. Like, I'm a road tripper
19:26and also, must not have cats, must love dogs. Hello.
19:32Yes, hello.
19:35That's funny.
19:35Yes.
19:36So, how's it going?
19:37Good.
19:37Yeah.
19:38Good so far.
19:38Have you done this before?
19:39Never in my life.
19:41Ron looks like he takes care of himself. I've actually been on dates before where the guys will
19:46show up in sweats, so I'm impressed that he dressed for the occasion.
19:50Tell me about yourself. How long have you been single?
19:53Single, two years.
19:54Two years.
19:55I have a dog.
19:56Nice.
19:56I have a child. I live in southern Utah.
19:59Very nice.
20:00Those are the basics. What about you?
20:02I have three kids. They're all in their 20s.
20:04Okay.
20:05And they're very independent. I love my kids. I have a grandson.
20:09That's awesome.
20:10Which is fun.
20:10Is that fun? I have three grand dogs.
20:12Oh, okay.
20:13Well, you're busy then. Dogs aren't easy. No. I do love dogs.
20:18Yes.
20:18So, I love to travel.
20:22Yeah.
20:23He likes dogs. He likes to travel. And he's six feet tall. And he's handsome. So, there's that.
20:31I live at warmer locations. I have a favorite spot in Florida, in Sarasota.
20:36Oh, yeah?
20:37It's on the west coast, just south of Tampa.
20:38So, if you had your choice then, would you move to Florida?
20:42Um, I would, what I want, like my vision board has a place near mountains.
20:46I love that you have a vision board.
20:48Yes.
20:48Would you say that you're more romantic, less romantic?
20:53Where, what's your love language? Do you have, do you know your love language?
20:57I do know my love language. My love language is physical touch.
21:01So, the five love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service,
21:06physical touch, and receiving gifts.
21:09I had an experience with Robin once where I learned what my primary love language was.
21:14And it is touch.
21:15But actually, my first is words of affirmation.
21:18Okay.
21:18And then, and then the secondaries touch.
21:20I think physical touch is probably my top.
21:23And then, um, gifts and, um, time.
21:28Yeah.
21:29Are probably equal on the second.
21:30Yeah.
21:34Nice to meet you too.
21:34Good to meet you as well.
21:35It was good chatting with you.
21:37Yeah, very fun.
21:37Yeah.
21:38So, do you live, you live down in?
21:39Southern Utah.
21:40Yeah.
21:40Yeah.
21:41Yeah.
21:41Like opposite direction of you.
21:43Okay.
21:44All right.
21:45Well, nice to meet you.
21:45You too.
21:46Okay.
21:46Thanks.
21:47Yeah.
21:48When I met Mary, I thought she was really, you know, attractive and very nice.
21:51She was easy to talk to.
21:53I really liked her eyes.
21:54I think, uh, I liked her hair.
21:56But she's kind of like, has a striking look to her, which was really nice.
22:00And, um, I thought she was very attentive.
22:02She's a great communicator.
22:04So, I think that's all the dates.
22:07So, if you want to take an opportunity on the back of your dating card is the QR code
22:13and select your matches.
22:15And then if you match up, then I will reach out and connect you.
22:20Yeah.
22:20Um, when I fill out my survey, I'm definitely going to put Mary down and I hope to see her again.
22:25Oh my goodness.
22:26Okay.
22:26What are your thoughts?
22:28I have so many thoughts.
22:29Do you?
22:30I was going to come over and take a picture of your paper before you had to turn it in.
22:33No.
22:34Yes, because I have pictures.
22:35I don't have to turn anything in.
22:37Oh, I didn't score.
22:38I kind of, like, at the beginning, I kind of started, like, I'd write, like, little notes.
22:43Like, there's some people I'm like, I don't need to remember that I don't want to remember.
22:48Tell me what your thoughts are.
22:49Like, what's your initial thoughts?
22:51Some of them are hard passes.
22:52Some of them are really nice to talk to.
22:54The youngest kid?
22:55Like, who the heck is he?
22:56But he was, like, the easiest to talk to.
22:58Daniel?
22:58Yeah, maybe, except for he was, like, 37.
23:00Like, I could have been his mom.
23:01I don't know why he was there.
23:03He was, like, definitely in the wrong age group.
23:05But he was so much fun.
23:06It's such an easy conversation with him.
23:09Yeah.
23:09Ron was really easy to talk to.
23:11Yeah.
23:11He was really nice.
23:12I pre-screened him.
23:13Did you?
23:14Yeah, because he came in late.
23:15So I was, like, chatting with him a little bit.
23:17Oh, you are?
23:17Hi, I'm not single.
23:20I'm not part of this.
23:21Yeah.
23:21Except for I'm just watching.
23:23Right.
23:23I'm just, you know, saying hi.
23:25Honestly, out of all of the men there, Ron probably would be the only real candidate for me.
23:31You want me to go get his number?
23:33I think that's Emily's job.
23:34Listen, I don't have time until tomorrow.
23:37You're here now.
23:37But what if he was, like, a no on me?
23:41He's, like, a no on me.
23:42Listen, I've already chatted with them.
23:44It depends.
23:44You're so dumb.
23:46I'm just going to, you know.
23:48I need to decide if I want to.
23:50Oh, you are filling out the nothing QR code thingy.
23:53You're doing it.
23:54I will do it.
23:54I will get my own and I will fill it out myself and put your name on it.
23:59I will forge your answers.
24:01And it's not against the law.
24:03You're right.
24:04Yeah.
24:04Except for we're in church.
24:06That's not going to bother me.
24:08Karen's view that's not going to stop me from doing anything I shouldn't.
24:12I need to take a minute.
24:13Maybe tomorrow I'll decide if I want to fill it out.
24:17Yeah, I don't know.
24:19Because you love me, you will fill out the QR code.
24:22If you want to continue to be my friend, you will do this.
24:24It's good for you.
24:25And then what?
24:27I don't know.
24:28We let nature take its course.
24:30Okay.
24:31Speaking of which, I have to pee.
24:33I totally have to pee.
24:34We're out of here.
24:35I don't know.
24:36I don't know.
24:36I don't know.
24:41So, Michele and Tony spent the night here last night.
24:44We're going to leave earlier than them.
24:46Like, we're going to get up and we're just going to head out the door.
24:48We'll say goodbye.
24:49And we'll see them somewhere at our first stop.
24:51Ooh.
24:52Don't let that thing in.
24:53We can't keep...
24:54We don't allow rats.
24:57Hey, we can't keep...
24:58Oh, it's a dog.
24:58I don't have a...
24:59Come here, come here, come here, come here.
25:01Don't you get close to that dog, David.
25:03Come here, little puppy.
25:04No, I've never seen this dog.
25:05I don't even know whose dog this is.
25:07I have no idea.
25:08Ready to haul this big beast?
25:10Good.
25:10How are you going to get it out of the subdivision?
25:12Where are you going to turn?
25:14Oh, that's easy.
25:15Christine approached me and said, hey, do you want to move
25:18McKelty across the country?
25:20And I went, what?
25:21I said, we just moved Janelle.
25:25Whoa.
25:25Have you hauled things like this before?
25:28Not with the trailer.
25:29Would you have said no?
25:31No.
25:32Come here, come here, come here.
25:35We'll sneak you in the car.
25:37Okay, shh, don't tell anybody.
25:39Let's go back a little bit further than that part.
25:44She had somebody that did not want to do a lot.
25:47And then when you found me, it's easy.
25:49Like, oh, I'm going to take advantage of that, dude.
25:51I am not.
25:53Okay, this is no.
25:54I know.
25:55I don't want you to feel like I'm taking advantage of it.
25:56Finally, I got somebody that'll do what I want them to do.
26:01Okay, what are you doing with that?
26:03She said he wants to go with us.
26:04Oh, my God.
26:06David, put that dog down.
26:11Look, I'm very sad that McElthie's moving.
26:12And I just want to sit and dwell on my sadness right now.
26:15And David goofing off and stuff, I don't have time for that.
26:19I'm going to go put it on the doorstep and ring the doorbell.
26:24You just want any excuse to ring someone's doorbell.
26:27Stay.
26:28Run away.
26:31I can't believe you picked up a straight dog.
26:33Oh, it's coming back.
26:34I said, you better get out of here because she'll eat it.
26:37That's what I heard those polygamists do.
26:39They eat dogs.
26:39Okay, that is not true.
26:41Polygamists do not eat dog.
26:44Okay, we didn't have a lot of money.
26:45It's true.
26:46We never ate our pets.
26:47Squirrels?
26:48Or other people's pets.
26:49Rabbits?
26:50No.
26:50Oh.
26:51No.
26:51Get in the car.
26:52You shouldn't have picked it up.
26:54We're definitely not feeding it.
26:55Get in the car.
26:56Hey, don't go out there.
26:58The foxes will get you.
27:00We should have just taken them across country with us.
27:02It would have been so much cool.
27:03This is someone's pet.
27:04It belongs to somebody.
27:06Well, they lost it, so fighters keep her.
27:08They haven't lost it.
27:08It does not look like it's unruly.
27:10It came to our house.
27:11That doesn't mean we get to keep it.
27:14I feel like I'm a trucker now, man.
27:16Freak with one nine.
27:21Let's go.
27:21I can't see, though.
27:23Do you have my glasses on?
27:24Those are not going to serve us very well.
27:32Well, he called me, and he asked me if I was open to it.
27:36And I said, well, yeah, that's fine.
27:37But have you talked to Mary?
27:38And he's like, why don't you talk to Mary?
27:40And I'm like, why is he afraid to talk to me?
27:43I don't know.
27:44Mary's, she's kind of a nag.
27:45So I just didn't, I was like, oh, ignore her.
27:47Why did everybody get so upset?
27:49Well, it's because I wasn't talking to them.
27:50And he has this shy, pretty wife now, and she's really shy.
27:56Those are words he's used.
27:57She's very shy, and she's really pretty.
27:59I'm like, well, good for you.
28:05Hey, how are you?
28:06How are you doing?
28:07Good.
28:08Good.
28:09You know, I've been kind of moving forward with my lawyer.
28:11I know Mary has, too.
28:12And then Cody called me just really recently and has said,
28:16what if I just put us all on all the titles?
28:19I'm like, is the sky falling?
28:21Like, I don't know.
28:22Like, it's awesome.
28:23I'm like, yeah, that's great.
28:23So I'm glad I was thinking, well,
28:25I need to make sure Mary knows.
28:26Because I just don't trust that Cody was going to call her.
28:30I have no freaking idea why he does that, but whatever.
28:34Whatever.
28:35Hey, so I just wanted to kind of touch base with you
28:37about the last thing that we talked about.
28:39So I sent a bunch of stuff to my lawyer,
28:41and he asked me to kind of follow up on Cody's email about putting
28:45us all four on all the pieces.
28:47And just about that time, Cody called me,
28:49and he said, we'll get a portion of each piece, and we can just settle it.
28:54I am open to that, if you are.
28:57I am.
28:59I've actually been frustrated that he never responded.
29:02Like, you had sent that email following up again back in June,
29:06and here we are at the end of August, and I've not heard anything.
29:09So I thought it was weird, because you had said that and was like,
29:11hey, so are you open to this?
29:13But it sounds like he called you to talk about it.
29:15He asked me if I was open to it, and I said, well, yeah, that's fine,
29:18but have you talked to Mary? And he's like, why don't you talk to Mary?
29:20And I'm like, why is he afraid to talk to me?
29:24I don't know. Who the hell knows? I don't know.
29:26So, whatever, it shouldn't be like he said to Mary.
29:30Oh my gosh.
29:32He says all this, you know, stuff about wanting to be friends with me,
29:36and then he won't talk to me?
29:38Mary and Janelle, I completely upset them.
29:40Not on purpose, okay?
29:42Like, I completely upset them, because I didn't know what to do.
29:45So Mary's, she's kind of an ag, so I just didn't, I was like, oh, ignore her, you know?
29:50And then she's like, well, I'm going to do legal.
29:51And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, okay, listen, we're going to sell the property.
29:54You guys will all get your 25%. Why did everybody get so upset?
29:57Well, it's because I wasn't talking to them.
29:59Partly because I was kind of confused.
30:01He just doesn't make any sense.
30:03And, like, I'm over trying to figure it out.
30:06Like, it's so dumb. It's so dumb.
30:08Like, he always wants to act like he's such a victim,
30:10or that everybody's so mean to him, or whatever.
30:12And he has this shy, pretty wife now, and she's really shy.
30:16And she's really pretty.
30:18I'm so sorry. I couldn't help it.
30:24Those are words he's used.
30:25He's very shy, and she's really pretty.
30:26I'm like, well, good for you.
30:30I mean, I was a little shy when we got married,
30:32but I was definitely not submissive, so I don't know.
30:34I guess he misjudged.
30:36The only wife? Or the only pretty wife?
30:40Like, is he slamming all of us?
30:42Yeah, I think so.
30:43And none of us were shy, so I guess that's his type.
30:46Submissive, shy, and pretty.
30:48Whatever.
30:48Okay, sorry, side note.
30:49I just had to have an ex-wife's club for just a moment.
30:52But anyway.
30:53No, why don't you talk to Mary?
30:54Because I'm afraid to talk to her.
30:58I'm so scared.
30:59She's gonna be so mean to me, and I don't know.
31:02I can't handle it.
31:04I don't think it's fair for you to have to be in the middle.
31:06I think this needs to all be a conversation with all four of us.
31:09I don't know why he's...
31:10Well, I invited him to be part of this conversation,
31:14and he's like, no, I just, no.
31:15Like, I don't really like you.
31:16And I said, well, that's fine.
31:18I don't like you either.
31:19So, whatever.
31:21I don't care.
31:23I really don't care.
31:24Like, whatever he says does not bother me,
31:25because I just don't care.
31:27I'm glad they're both mature enough to be able to just
31:31call a spade a spade and just say, no, I don't like you.
31:35I mean, this is great.
31:36We're making progress here.
31:38From a therapeutic perspective,
31:40something that I have learned is when you don't have that emotion
31:45is when you've moved past the relationship.
31:47So, congratulations.
31:50I'm having way too much fun at his expense.
31:52I'm sorry, but he's just hilarious when he says stuff to me.
31:54But I think he thinks he's gonna get a reaction,
31:56and I just don't care.
31:57And the property is still holding, has held its value.
32:00It'll be a nice parting gift for all of us, you know?
32:04Oh, anyway.
32:06Do you hear that?
32:07So, we're gonna get a parting gift.
32:10Which will be a nice way to just be like,
32:13see you later.
32:14Hope I never see you again.
32:16Goodbye.
32:17I mean, if we're not gonna get alimony,
32:19I guess this parting gift works.
32:21Right.
32:22Well, listen, I mean, if I had been legally married to Cody,
32:25you sure as hell bet I would have taken half of his assets.
32:28I would have, because I would have been half mine.
32:30Okay, awesome.
32:31Thanks, Janelle.
32:31Bye.
32:32Okay, bye.
32:32Talk to you later.
32:33Bye.
32:34Hi, my love.
32:35This is a good thing.
32:37Like, I have hope now that this is gonna happen,
32:39but I'm not holding my breath,
32:40because I know how Cody Brown works.
32:42So, we'll see.
32:43Janelle is so excited to have, when I saw her this last weekend,
32:53I almost wanted to slap her.
32:55She's a dude.
32:56I was, no, not really.
32:57I would never.
32:58But she's like, I pretty soon,
33:00I'm gonna have all the grandbabies living next to me.
33:02I'm like, they're four hours away from Janelle.
33:05That's not close.
33:06Four hours away, okay?
33:08Yeah, we were just talking about life,
33:09and truly said, well, I think I'm gonna move to North Carolina.
33:12Like, excuse me?
33:14Bring the grandbabies.
33:15Like, I'm, I'm all about it.
33:17Peyton, you come, find a wife, have some more grandbabies.
33:20I'm all about it.
33:21You know what I mean?
33:22Maddie lives there.
33:23McKelty's gonna be living there.
33:24Peyton's talking about living there.
33:26Gwendolyn is now talking about living there.
33:29No, no, no, no.
33:30What does North Carolina have that we don't have?
33:32I think you're amazing.
33:33Thank you for doing this drive.
33:35I don't know if I actually even asked you.
33:37No, I'll take you there.
33:38Would you please drive?
33:39Yes, I...
33:40Okay, David's gonna drive.
33:41We're gonna do the ass on that.
33:42No, I know I said, are you okay with driving?
33:44But the way I said it was definitely not a question.
33:46No, it was not a question.
33:47It was like, David, you're gonna drive?
33:50And I could either sit at home, do nothing,
33:53or I could be on the road with you traveling.
33:55Yeah, I'd rather be on the road with you traveling too.
33:57Yeah.
33:59Yeah.
33:59Cross the country.
34:00See you in America.
34:01And find tornadoes, honey.
34:03Tornadoes.
34:04Now, they have those shark tornadoes.
34:06I've seen them on a show before.
34:07They're out there.
34:09David has an insane, insane, insane idea to be a tornado chaser.
34:15Why?
34:15They literally create paths of destruction.
34:19I want you and I to be able to start over again.
34:28This house, this house has all this pain.
34:30It's not like it goes away until you fix what's in here.
34:33David stops at one point, looks at his phone on his weather app.
34:36There's like these little purple spots all over the map.
34:39And purple means tornado.
34:41Oh, oh, it's dead in the window, Tony.
34:43Get on.
34:46Coyote Pass has got to be sold because Mary and Janelle need to be paid their fair share of it.
34:50If we exit this relationship with the cell of Coyote Pass, then we're all free to go on and do something else.
34:57I want to show you this stuff that I've got done with the title company.
35:01We just have to sign.
35:02I asked him to basically make it so I could, you know, quick claim the lot that Janelle and I share to Mary.
35:10Okay.
35:10Then you and I will have the other lot.
35:12And then all four of us on this lot and all four of us on this lot.
35:16And that literally makes us each 25% owner of the entirety of Coyote Pass.
35:21Now that we want to sell the property, we're going to put everybody on the title.
35:24So that everybody's titled equally.
35:26So when the properties sell, everybody gets paid equally.
35:29But we don't even know if it'll sell.
35:30Yeah.
35:31But I've got to be really honest with you.
35:32I don't know why it wouldn't.
35:34I, I really want to move away from here.
35:36Not here.
35:37This house.
35:38This house.
35:39This house is the source of a lot of pain for me.
35:43As much as I love this house, the idea of a new start is really enticing to me.
35:51It has turned out to be a kind of a lonely place for me.
35:54We've been in this house for five years.
35:57We've been in a struggle for four of those years.
36:01I had this huge experience.
36:03And because of the divorces, I've taken this experience and chopped it down to,
36:08you know, like, I wish I had never done that kind of things.
36:10These are some of the emotions that I have just gone through
36:13with having a triple divorce in three years.
36:16Do you have time?
36:17Do you want to sit down and we'll talk about it a little bit more?
36:19Oh yeah, I'm just doing my own emotional thing.
36:22You know, it's like, I don't know what to do with this.
36:24I got this happy life and a happy wife and our kids.
36:27And I got all this other stuff.
36:29It was a memory.
36:30And, and because of the divorces, it just made it bad.
36:34I want you and I to be able to start over again.
36:37Well, we need to have enough room for everyone.
36:39I would like room for grandchildren with our kids to return home and feel safe,
36:44like they got space.
36:46And then space for your kids to be able to...
36:49I'll be honest with you.
36:50I think Trulie would come and stay if she had a space that was her own.
36:53That would be great.
36:54I feel like that it's really important for Cody to repair his relationships with these kids.
37:00If it really is this thought, if we have the space, they will come.
37:04Are you okay moving?
37:06It's going to be really, really difficult to drive down our street and come home and see
37:12houses or whatever being built out there.
37:15I've really struggled with it because we live really close to the Coyote Pass.
37:19I would have to watch it get sold to people I don't know and then watch them develop the land.
37:26That might be really painful.
37:27Well, that'll be every day I'm looking at a reminder of everything falling apart.
37:34This house, this house has all this pain from the breakups and everything.
37:40But I'm just like, hey, honey, it follows this.
37:42It's not like it goes away until you fix what's in here.
37:45Are you okay with the idea of starting over?
37:48Oh, yeah.
37:49I mean, it makes sense.
37:51Let's go out on the deck.
37:52I want to do this because I want to go out there and feel it.
37:55What do we need to do to kind of like go, okay, we're starting a new adventure.
38:00We're starting a new experience, whatever it is.
38:03You know, there's been lots of creative thoughts that I've had about that.
38:06And I get the feeling.
38:08I'm listening to him, but I don't know if selling the house and moving is the answer for that.
38:14I just don't know.
38:15I get nostalgia when I start talking about this.
38:18I go, okay, is this really what I want?
38:19But I think I need to go on.
38:21I need to move on.
38:21How about you?
38:23Give me a day or two.
38:25Can we pray about it, please?
38:26Yes, we can.
38:27But I got the best idea.
38:28The absolute best idea.
38:30Let's just look for the home that you want.
38:32That I want or we want?
38:34Well, mama's happy.
38:36Everybody's happy, you know?
38:37No, daddy has to be happy too.
38:38No, no, I want my space.
38:40I want my business space.
38:41And then I want space for grandkids and truly.
38:44Just give me some time.
38:45I will.
38:46I still think, I think, okay, think about it.
38:49But if we see a home, let's go look at it.
38:50Okay.
38:52Okay.
38:57It's our second day moving McKelty cross country.
39:00David stops at one point, looks at his phone on his weather app.
39:03There's like these little purple spots all over the map.
39:06And purple means tornado.
39:08We just received a warning for a tornado.
39:11We looked it up where it would be.
39:13That right there is the beginning of it.
39:16Look how it's touching down.
39:17So it's not a tornado yet, but it could become a tornado.
39:22But it also said at 6, like 40 is when it's going to start.
39:27And it's going to go the warning until seven o'clock.
39:30There's bad weather.
39:31The weather was turning purple, pink.
39:33And that means it was like really dark, nasty weather coming.
39:36Look at this cloud.
39:39It does look dark and nasty.
39:43We had the radio on and all of a sudden they had alert going on.
39:46They did.
39:46There was a lot of alerts.
39:47Alerts saying that there would be strong
39:49hailstorms coming.
39:50Mm-hmm.
39:51You know, seek shelter.
39:55This is insane.
39:57McKelty called.
39:58The phone rings.
39:58I answer and McKelty's like, we're in a tornado.
40:01We're in a tornado.
40:02I just said drive right through it.
40:03Just keep on driving.
40:04Wind is coming on.
40:06Oh, shit.
40:07What was that?
40:08That was a big chunk of hail, I think.
40:11I just hit a windshield.
40:16That's right there.
40:17This is a...
40:18Oh, shoot.
40:18Yeah, this is pretty pleasant.
40:20Okay.
40:20Yeah, this is pretty pleasant.
40:22Okay, what do we do?
40:23Because we're going to keep going.
40:25It's just okay.
40:26So are we trying to fight it now?
40:28What is the goal here?
40:29Oh, my gosh.
40:30Those are heavy.
40:34Oh, it's denting the windows, Tony.
40:35Get off.
40:36Huh?
40:37It's denting the windows.
40:38Just open the glass.
40:39Oh, .
40:40Oh, .
40:46Next time on Sister Wives.
40:48I've got a bunch of girlfriends coming over.
40:50Cheers.
40:50We're going to be doing some painting
40:52and wine night kind of thing.
40:53Have you ever eaten an eggplant?
40:57I did not picture this evening going this way.
41:00Tony and McKelty are headed to North Carolina
41:08and we're hopefully headed to the other side of Flagstaff.
41:16It's our second day moving McKelty cross-country.
41:19And there's tornadoes everywhere.
41:23Hold it.
41:23Stend through the windows, Tony.
41:24Get off.
41:25It's both of them in the glass.
41:26Oh.
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