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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiance.
00:00:03Times Square, one of the most iconic places in New York City.
00:00:06Whoa.
00:00:08Should I be spending money? No.
00:00:10Should I, you know, be saving for a house? Yes.
00:00:13But you know what? I just got a job. We're feeling good.
00:00:15Man, it's New York City. We're going.
00:00:18Here she is.
00:00:20Going to a doctor, it's like a big step in my transition.
00:00:24Where would you say you are right now in your transition process?
00:00:27I just have some questions about gender assignments.
00:00:31For genital surgery, uh-huh.
00:00:33It is difficult for me.
00:00:35I don't know how I'm going to feel once every nuance of that person
00:00:40that I fell in love with has been erased.
00:00:42I mean, I think she's beautiful just the way she is.
00:00:47We're coming, Sensity.
00:00:49They booked us a burlesque show to go to.
00:00:52Like, watch girls dancing.
00:00:54I know these parties are for fun, but I go back to the question,
00:00:59if she's bisexual or not.
00:01:01The background that we come from, it's taboo, right?
00:01:05It can ruin everything.
00:01:07I signed a friend, but one condition, you adopt officially Clayton Samuel's son.
00:01:19I already was planning to adopt Clayton.
00:01:21Really?
00:01:22Yes!
00:01:24No second did I not want to adopt him.
00:01:28Ah!
00:01:29Before me, other people are performing and listening to them
00:01:38makes me more nervous because I don't want to be embarrassed.
00:01:41Let's imagine you are all sexually healthy and attractive men.
00:01:47Okay?
00:01:48Even you then.
00:01:49I think he's highly insecure about me.
00:01:52Danny's upset.
00:01:53Danny's upset.
00:01:54I don't care.
00:01:55One of my friends!
00:01:56If he wants to be a real man, then we're going to need to have a serious conversation eye to eye.
00:02:02So, I've been texting Ray.
00:02:04Like her ex-boyfriend?
00:02:06Yeah.
00:02:07I want us to meet him.
00:02:08We've been sending her money through this bank account that they opened when they were dating.
00:02:14We saw Annie.
00:02:16You know, it's Brenda.
00:02:18Her name is Brenda?
00:02:21She's a completely different person.
00:02:24Hi, Brenda.
00:02:44I love this weather in this city, you know?
00:02:48It makes me more happier, you know?
00:02:50Yeah, of course.
00:02:52My princess.
00:03:05You're welcome.
00:03:06Let's go outside.
00:03:10That looks cute out here.
00:03:11Yeah.
00:03:14How are you feeling after your big comedy debut, babe?
00:03:23It's still blurry, you know?
00:03:24Yeah.
00:03:25Something happened, but my mind couldn't process it yet.
00:03:29Yeah, it's overwhelming, probably.
00:03:30I don't know how was it.
00:03:31It was good.
00:03:32You did good.
00:03:33I mean, a lot of those people have done it so many times, so you could...
00:03:36I could do a lot better.
00:03:37I know myself a lot better.
00:03:38Yeah.
00:03:39With more experience.
00:03:40But, I mean, it was a new thing, you know?
00:03:43If it was in my native language, it would be a lot easier for me, you know?
00:03:47Of course.
00:03:48Because...
00:03:49You have a lot of bravery to try something like that that's not in Turkish.
00:03:53In Turkey, we have an education system.
00:03:55We are always forced to talk perfect English as much as possible, you know?
00:03:58Really?
00:04:00Thank you so much.
00:04:01That's the problem.
00:04:02Oh, my gosh.
00:04:03It looks so good.
00:04:04We are always forced and pushed to talk perfect English.
00:04:07Mm-hmm.
00:04:08Uh, so the tenses you use, always my mind is turning, you know?
00:04:13I mean, we are always pressurized because of something in our country.
00:04:16Your English was so good, though.
00:04:19I'm glad you liked it.
00:04:21I did like it.
00:04:22I just felt like the Dan part, we could have done without.
00:04:27Oh, Shikaina.
00:04:29Dan, dan, dan, dan, dan, dan, dan, dan.
00:04:32Babe, you need to understand that my friends are like my chosen family.
00:04:36I know.
00:04:37I have a lot of issues with my actual family, but those are people that are close to me like family.
00:04:43You told me 15 times this.
00:04:46Okay, but I want you to take that seriously.
00:04:48Because if my friends start hating you, it's going to cause so many problems for me.
00:04:53Like what?
00:04:54Well, I've had problems in the past with exes that got on the bad side of, like, my friends.
00:05:00And it was hell to deal with because I constantly am getting negative feedback from them about the person I'm dating.
00:05:09And that just makes everything super uncomfortable.
00:05:12This comedy night really blew up because Sartre made a jab at Dan and it was a low blow.
00:05:19And he refused to apologize.
00:05:21He can't just come to LA and blow up my friend group because that affects my life here, too.
00:05:26I mean, I understand how important your friends are for you, but...
00:05:30Yeah.
00:05:31I'm excluding him in your friend group.
00:05:34I mean, you cannot be a friend with a guy that you dated.
00:05:37Yeah, well, I never slept with him, so it makes things a lot less complicated.
00:05:40Don't talk about details.
00:05:42Well, I'm just being honest.
00:05:43Right now, I'm drinking coffee. I don't want to think about those, okay?
00:05:46But let me tell you something.
00:05:48Yesterday, he found a reason to show himself as a victim.
00:05:52You gave him that reason.
00:05:54You literally handed it to him on a silver platter because you were the villain.
00:05:59When Dan showed up, he was probably showing up to support you.
00:06:05He knew everybody else was doing that and he came along, too.
00:06:08You cannot understand that vibe between men.
00:06:12I can sense it. You cannot.
00:06:14You have a good intention. Oh, he came there to support you.
00:06:17Then I made such a joke and he got upset.
00:06:19I mean, he played the victim and you were into it.
00:06:23He didn't play the victim. He was the victim.
00:06:26If he was that upset, really upset, he would leave.
00:06:30Are you just going to be in a bad mood about it or what?
00:06:33Just get over it.
00:06:34Like, do you need to talk to Dan or something?
00:06:36We should. Dan, Dan, Dan.
00:06:37No, I think you actually should talk to him.
00:06:39No.
00:06:40You should clear the air and tell him that you're sorry.
00:06:42You are not the one that you can say what will I do about it, OK?
00:06:45What I will do about it.
00:06:46I'm just suggesting. I'm not saying go do it.
00:06:47I'm just saying things about that.
00:06:48I will decide what I want to do, OK?
00:06:51It's so annoying that Sarper still can't handle me telling him directly what I need him to do.
00:06:57It's just a control thing.
00:06:58Like, he wants to feel in control.
00:07:00And when someone's telling him what they need him to do, he feels like he's being controlled.
00:07:05I just want to be the only guy.
00:07:08You're the only one that I care about, OK?
00:07:12He's not my competitor, by the way.
00:07:15Don't take it like this.
00:07:16OK.
00:07:17I'm done with this conversation.
00:07:18I've told you how I feel.
00:07:19I trust you.
00:07:20The ball's in your court.
00:07:22To be honest, I don't want Dan to be an issue between me and Shekina anymore.
00:07:32If he wants to talk and solve it in a modern way, I'm OK with that.
00:07:37But if it's by force, I'm happy to.
00:07:41Let's go, babe.
00:07:43No playing victim this time.
00:07:46Positive or negative, I have to erase that problem from my list.
00:07:51She's going to hate this.
00:08:07She's going to hate you.
00:08:08You only yell at once.
00:08:11Hey!
00:08:12Hello!
00:08:13Hey!
00:08:14I got it.
00:08:15You have to do it.
00:08:16You have to.
00:08:21Oh, my God.
00:08:22Yeah.
00:08:23Oh, I hate it.
00:08:24That's really cute, actually.
00:08:25No, this is a lot.
00:08:26I know.
00:08:27I didn't say hi.
00:08:28Hey, Maddie.
00:08:29Hey, Maddie.
00:08:30How are you?
00:08:31How are you doing?
00:08:32Good.
00:08:33How are you?
00:08:34Good.
00:08:35Good.
00:08:36How are you?
00:08:37My friends have set up a joint bachelor-bachelorette party, and this is the first time that Maddie's
00:08:49getting to see Claire since he found out about all of the nude stuff.
00:08:54And we're going to a burlesque show, so I don't know that this is probably the best setting
00:08:57for them to see each other again, but here we go.
00:09:00All right.
00:09:01Are you ready?
00:09:02Are you all ready?
00:09:03Beautiful.
00:09:04Hold on.
00:09:05Hold on.
00:09:06We have to wait for Saeed.
00:09:07My friend.
00:09:08Oh, his friend?
00:09:09From California.
00:09:10Oh, my God.
00:09:11Yay.
00:09:12He's a cool guy.
00:09:13Well, he's kind of like bringing a piece of home to your new home.
00:09:16Yeah.
00:09:17The only thing that I know about bachelor party in the U.S. is based on the things that
00:09:24I have seen in the movies, and some of them were really wild.
00:09:28I really hope we don't have any wild things.
00:09:31Hi, everyone.
00:09:32Oh, hey.
00:09:33Saeed here.
00:09:34Adam.
00:09:35Hi.
00:09:36Nice meeting you.
00:09:37I'm Claire.
00:09:38Claire.
00:09:39Okay.
00:09:40I'm Megan.
00:09:41Megan, nice meeting you.
00:09:42Yeah.
00:09:43So you are Claire?
00:09:44Yes.
00:09:45Yes.
00:09:46Nice meeting you, too.
00:09:47Nice meeting you, too.
00:09:48He's heard a lot about her.
00:09:51Oh, Claire.
00:09:53You're Claire.
00:09:54I have no idea at this point what Maddie is told Saeed about Claire.
00:09:58I can just tell that it was awkward.
00:10:01Have you ever been to a burlesque show?
00:10:03I have not.
00:10:04I have no idea what it looks like, so.
00:10:06It's like a grown-up, adult-themed dance recital.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:10There you go.
00:10:11I would know.
00:10:12You're gonna enjoy it.
00:10:13It's really awesome.
00:10:14All right.
00:10:15Let's go.
00:10:16All right.
00:10:17You okay?
00:10:18Yeah, I'm fine.
00:10:19Hello.
00:10:20Okay.
00:10:21I really don't know what's gonna happen.
00:10:35Like, I've heard of the burlesque show, but I don't know.
00:10:38Is there gonna be, like, strippers?
00:10:41So many things in Iran are banned and taboo.
00:10:45So everything is just making me really uncomfortable.
00:10:48Are you ready?
00:10:49Yeah.
00:10:50Yeah.
00:10:51I just want you to enjoy yourself and have a good time, but if you're uncomfortable, then
00:10:56I want you to let me know so that we can get up and leave.
00:10:59Like, that's the biggest thing.
00:11:01Hey, you're so far away.
00:11:03So how long have you known Stevie?
00:11:06Um, I've known Stevie about three years, but we work together.
00:11:12Oh, you work together.
00:11:14Earlier this morning, Mahdi had told me that he's thinking Stevie and Claire might have
00:11:22some history and Stevie might be bisexual.
00:11:26This is just against everything we grew up around.
00:11:29I don't want to break up anything or ruin their plans, but I want him to know the whole
00:11:35truth about this before making a decision.
00:11:38Make some noise and welcome to the VanElla Bordella!
00:11:48Well, we're so happy to have all of you here tonight.
00:11:50My name is Lola VanElla.
00:11:52I am the madam of this here little house of ill repute, this salacious little speakeasy.
00:12:01It's a brothel.
00:12:04Making sure you know what you signed up for tonight, okay?
00:12:07Is that what it is?
00:12:09Are you ready to have a good time or what?
00:12:12That's right.
00:12:15Put your hands together.
00:12:17Go on.
00:12:18The only, the gorgeous, Ms. Juno!
00:12:25She's the original.
00:12:28She taught the caveman how to smooch.
00:12:31She's the original.
00:12:33No.
00:12:34There's no taming this beast.
00:12:37The original.
00:12:38It was her Bermuda Triangle that caused all those shipwrecks.
00:12:47She got bricks.
00:12:48She got bricks.
00:12:49She got bricks.
00:12:50Jesus.
00:12:51They invented sex.
00:12:52She's the original.
00:12:53Original.
00:12:54Original.
00:12:55Original.
00:12:56Original.
00:12:57Was killed...
00:12:58cultivars.
00:12:59Take care.
00:13:00Two Sharon.
00:13:01No, no, no...
00:13:02Duluth.
00:13:03You can't.
00:13:05Are you girls?
00:13:07Yeah, let's move on.
00:13:14Oh my God.
00:13:18Imagine a couple of weeks ago
00:13:28I was in a country that you could have been arrested or have been killed just because I'm not having a job
00:13:38It's just so against my upbringing and I don't know why Stevie would put me in this situation
00:13:44I'll be back
00:13:46Sorry
00:13:49I'm done
00:13:55Hey Alex
00:14:05My relationship with my sister Alex
00:14:08I'm big now
00:14:12You can just put it on and I can help you zip it up if you need to
00:14:17Okay
00:14:18I'm hurry. It's more for me because I come in here. I eat too much
00:14:24I'm so praying
00:14:26Maria, do you know who is coming from today?
00:14:37Alex!
00:14:40And Alex is coming today
00:14:44Oh, okay.
00:14:46C'est Marie, c'est ma chanson.
00:15:14I have Alex.
00:15:15Yeah, no, I know it's great.
00:15:17You know, I'm glad you got her to help
00:15:21with all the wedding stuff.
00:15:22You know, I'm not very good at this,
00:15:24and Alex, I'm sure, will be much better.
00:15:26I'm ready.
00:15:28Let's just go on down so we can be ready.
00:15:30Yeah, yes.
00:15:31Let her know we're waiting in the lobby.
00:15:33Okay, good.
00:15:34Okay? Yeah.
00:15:44Every day.
00:15:45Excited to see Alex?
00:15:46Yeah, I'm so stressed.
00:15:49Infaillible, in my life, in fact.
00:15:51I know that if I have a problem,
00:15:53regardless of the size of the problem,
00:15:56you see the sort of relationships that we say,
00:15:59the person who can kill and help you to keep the corpse.
00:16:04It's a bit like that, in this sense.
00:16:06But we won't kill.
00:16:09Yeah!
00:16:12That's cute.
00:16:12Yeah!
00:16:14Hey!
00:16:17Hey, Alex!
00:16:19Hey, Alex!
00:16:22Hey, Alex.
00:16:25Thank you for coming.
00:16:28I'm so happy.
00:16:30I know you want to see this one, Alex.
00:16:32Hi, Laiya!
00:16:34Ça va ma francaise?
00:16:37Hey, Alex.
00:16:38How are you doing?
00:16:39Good to see you.
00:16:40You look good. You look great.
00:16:42Oh, my God.
00:16:43Wow!
00:16:52Maria!
00:16:53Wow, wow, wow.
00:16:54She don't forget you.
00:16:56I'm so excited she's coming to see me in my new country.
00:17:01Alex, this room is right next to ours, so you're real close to us.
00:17:04Yeah.
00:17:05Perfect.
00:17:06Wow.
00:17:07Yeah, wow.
00:17:08Yeah, wow.
00:17:09Me and Manny get in a fight, she can come stay with you.
00:17:12Yeah.
00:17:12I'm not going to do a pyjama party.
00:17:14You know, Alex, my dress appointment is 3-30, and it'll go soon.
00:17:22Okay.
00:17:24So I'll let you guys go, and me and Maria go hang out, okay?
00:17:27Yeah, you have Maria back.
00:17:28She knows the program.
00:17:29She knows the program, right?
00:17:30Yeah.
00:17:31You ready?
00:17:32Yeah.
00:17:33Now, Alex, he's here.
00:17:35We're going to try, in fact, to help me with my husband's dress.
00:17:41I bought this dress a few years ago, when I started growing up.
00:17:49And we're going to go and do some little adjustments.
00:17:56You need to take your belt.
00:17:58It's important, you need to take your belt.
00:18:00It's important, you need to take your belt.
00:18:02No.
00:18:03So, tell me, what's going on the United States?
00:18:05Oh, it's really weird, you know?
00:18:08I know that Marque always tells me,
00:18:11that at home, it's calm, it's all.
00:18:15But, to see a city like that, it really likes me, in fact.
00:18:19Is it true?
00:18:20Yes.
00:18:24They don't have a trottoir, in fact, at home.
00:18:26We don't have a trottoir.
00:18:27It's really made for the people who drive.
00:18:29It's possible.
00:18:31It's...
00:18:32Sorry.
00:18:33This is not virus, Maria.
00:18:36Oh, no.
00:18:39Here, I'm trying to imagine you're in a place
00:18:42where you're trying to train your vaches.
00:18:44You're making your milk, you're making your beurre.
00:18:46We haven't yet arrived at this point,
00:18:47but we're getting there slowly.
00:18:49Look, this is also a shop.
00:18:53Hello.
00:18:54Hey, how are you?
00:18:55I'm fine.
00:18:57Nice to see you.
00:18:58You can follow me, too, okay?
00:19:01Please, let's hang your dress, okay?
00:19:03Yeah.
00:19:04I'm fine.
00:19:05I'm fine.
00:19:06I'm fine.
00:19:07I'm fine.
00:19:08I'm fine.
00:19:09Yeah.
00:19:11All right.
00:19:14Are you ready?
00:19:15Oh, yes.
00:19:16I'm happy.
00:19:17I'm just going to get in the robe.
00:19:20I'm big now.
00:19:21No, I'll recover.
00:19:23Come on.
00:19:23Come on.
00:19:25I'm hurry.
00:19:26It's more for me because I come in here,
00:19:28I eat too much.
00:19:30I'm very stressed.
00:19:32All right.
00:19:33Would you like to come in?
00:19:34OK.
00:19:35You can just put it on, and I can help you
00:19:37zip it up if you need to.
00:19:38OK.
00:19:53Alex.
00:19:54Yes?
00:19:55Are you ready to see me, Alex?
00:19:57Yes.
00:19:58That's your high scale.
00:19:59One, two, three.
00:20:00Oh.
00:20:01Are we?
00:20:02You like?
00:20:03Yes.
00:20:04Yes.
00:20:05Yeah.
00:20:06So beautiful.
00:20:07Oh, no.
00:20:08Oh, no.
00:20:09Oh, no.
00:20:10Oh, no.
00:20:11Oh, no.
00:20:11Oh, no.
00:20:12Oh, no.
00:20:13Oh, no.
00:20:14Oh, no.
00:20:17You like?
00:20:18Yes.
00:20:19Yeah.
00:20:20Yeah.
00:20:21So beautiful.
00:20:23Oh, no.
00:20:24Oh, my God!
00:20:27The fact of seeing my image, reflecting on the mirror,
00:20:32it really loved me a lot,
00:20:34because I was very, very beautiful.
00:20:39Humility.
00:20:43White wedding dress, it's a big dream for the only girls.
00:20:48And for me, it's amazing,
00:20:50because I saw that these days, it would never happen.
00:20:53Finally, I'm here, and my sister is here.
00:20:57It's perfect.
00:20:59I have something for you.
00:21:01Really?
00:21:02Yes.
00:21:03Okay.
00:21:04Oh.
00:21:06Oh, my God.
00:21:10Where is she?
00:21:11I can't tell you my secrets.
00:21:14Oh, my God.
00:21:19You're standing.
00:21:22Wow.
00:21:23This is very nice.
00:21:26Thank you, because you're here.
00:21:28Yes.
00:21:29To the morning back, I love you.
00:21:31I love you too, my sister.
00:21:37I have one more thing for you.
00:21:39Really?
00:21:40Yes.
00:21:41Wait.
00:21:48Open it.
00:21:49There is inscription.
00:21:50Read it.
00:21:51Today is the day I say I do, and I carry this in memory of you.
00:22:02Yes.
00:22:03Yeah.
00:22:04It's a picture of dad and mom.
00:22:05Like this, we can be with them at the wedding.
00:22:18This is amazing, no?
00:22:19Wow.
00:22:21You're welcome.
00:22:22It's a very emotional day because she already dreamed about spending this day with our mom, and unfortunately, our mom, she passed a couple of years ago.
00:22:35Thank you so much.
00:22:36Stop crying.
00:22:37I have makeup on my hands.
00:22:38I can't touch your dress anymore, so.
00:22:39Me too.
00:22:40And I go to my wedding dress.
00:22:41My dress is dirty.
00:22:42Yes.
00:22:43For me, it's not just my wedding.
00:22:44It's too the dream for my mom, but she's a very emotional day because she already dreamed about spending this day with our mom, and unfortunately, our mom, she passed a couple of years ago.
00:22:52Thank you so much.
00:22:53Stop crying.
00:22:54I have makeup on my hands.
00:22:55I can't touch your dress anymore, so.
00:22:57Me too.
00:22:58And I go to my wedding dress.
00:23:00My dress is dirty.
00:23:01Yes.
00:23:02For me, it's not just my wedding.
00:23:06It's too the dream for my mom, but she's not here with me, but Alex is here, and I'll be fine and happy.
00:23:18And I hope just for make me complete.
00:23:21Clayton's coming soon with my brother.
00:23:24Make me complete, and my wedding's perfect.
00:23:33Why don't we know your name?
00:23:35Because you are hungry all the time.
00:23:38Because of this stuff.
00:23:40I tell you, I don't want to fight more.
00:23:44Are you crying because you got caught?
00:23:49Or are you crying because there is something deeper to this?
00:23:52I can tell by your reaction.
00:24:09You know that we know.
00:24:10You know that we know.
00:24:40Why don't we know your name?
00:24:41Why don't we know your name?
00:24:42Why don't we know your name?
00:24:47Why don't we know your name?
00:24:48Why don't we know your name?
00:25:06Would you be honest for the first time?
00:25:08What's going on?
00:25:20I don't know, this is...
00:25:22I'm still confused.
00:25:24Do you feel like you're in danger?
00:25:25I thought it was...
00:25:27I thought it was the marriage thing, or the being married.
00:25:38It doesn't matter, you could have just told us,
00:25:48hey, my real name is this, but I'd like to be called Ani.
00:25:51At some point, you know, I think that was worth mentioning.
00:25:54My real name is Brenda Anahí.
00:25:56For this, for Anahí, I use Ani.
00:25:58Okay, so why wouldn't you tell us that?
00:26:00What's the big deal?
00:26:01Because I protect myself.
00:26:03From what? I want to stay with you, Tal.
00:26:06What will I know about your name?
00:26:08What are you protecting?
00:26:12The whole timeline of our relationship, like, flashed in front of me,
00:26:15and I just tried to make sense of things like,
00:26:17oh, I never booked her a flight ticket ever before.
00:26:20I never actually looked at her ID.
00:26:23I never seen any paperwork that shows her name.
00:26:26Like, why would you lie about your name?
00:26:33Answer me.
00:26:33They care about you, Ani.
00:26:37They care about you, Ani.
00:26:38When I, when Retor did, I, the Ensenada, I think you are angry if I told you my real name.
00:26:50Because you are angry all the time.
00:26:57Because of this stuff?
00:26:58Yeah, but you are angry for my family, for I don't talk with Anzo, for everything.
00:27:04I just want you to love me and give me as much of the rest of them as I'm giving you.
00:27:10Is that so much to ask for?
00:27:13I think I don't want to fight more.
00:27:15Are you crying because you got caught, or are you crying because there is something deeper to this?
00:27:29You've lied about all this for a year, and here we are trying to get divorced for you,
00:27:33and trying to bring you to our family.
00:27:37Betrayal is honestly an understatement.
00:27:39Are you still married?
00:27:45Did you talk about my marriage?
00:27:47I, I thought you were, no, I thought you were working on that, remember?
00:27:56No?
00:27:57No.
00:27:58So why did she say that to you then?
00:28:00Maybe I misunderstood, I don't know.
00:28:02There's no way you misunderstood, you speak Spanish.
00:28:04Why does he think that your potential is still legally married?
00:28:10I need to take care of that.
00:28:11No, I, I misunderstood.
00:28:13And you, you, the fact that you switched is mind-blowing for me.
00:28:17I'm an old man, my time, my hand, I don't, my timeline's up.
00:28:21Well, she said she's not married, so there you go.
00:28:25That's whether you believe it or not, it's up to you.
00:28:30You know, he changed his story to I'm mistaken.
00:28:33Any woman that can snap her fingers like that and change a man's memory, that's trained.
00:28:41I don't know where to go from here.
00:28:43I never thought in a million years this is how today's going to turn out.
00:28:47I'm mentally, emotionally exhausted, yeah.
00:28:54I know she's very private.
00:28:56I don't think she's lying.
00:28:57Well, she's hiding something, I don't know what that is.
00:29:00I don't know what that is.
00:29:02Before they leap into this life-changing decision,
00:29:07they need to find out what they're getting into.
00:29:11So Annie needs to show her cards on the table and don't hide anything.
00:29:15I think we all need to sleep on everything.
00:29:22I'm going to need a translator when I talk to her because I cannot afford anything lost in translation.
00:29:29Good night.
00:29:30It was nice meeting you, right?
00:29:31It was nice meeting you guys.
00:29:31This was like crazy, man.
00:29:41Like, what a show.
00:29:47Sacha, I'm going to get finally answers and finally honesty.
00:29:50Yeah, I didn't think so.
00:29:51That's the up.
00:29:52I am so disappointed in this conversation.
00:30:01I feel sad.
00:30:02I feel bad.
00:30:04I'm being honest.
00:30:05I want to be honest, but I need my time.
00:30:10I hope the best.
00:30:11I really do.
00:30:12You know, I want the best for you and them.
00:30:14Anyways, I'll see you later, okay?
00:30:16I don't, I am not liar with anymore.
00:30:24Only with my name.
00:30:27But she don't believe me.
00:30:31She don't believe me.
00:30:34The two, I want to stay with them.
00:30:37I want to marry with them.
00:30:40I don't know, maybe she don't want to stay with me more.
00:30:46You want it tight?
00:30:57Yes.
00:30:59With Greg working, Mrs. Lucille has offered to
00:31:02bring me around to get my wedding dress altered.
00:31:04Do you want me to come in with you and help you?
00:31:07I'd love to, but I'm going to be talking to my family.
00:31:12I see.
00:31:13I was expecting to go into the shop with Joan.
00:31:18Okay.
00:31:20I did feel a little hurt, but it's always payback.
00:31:27Aaliyah, she's not happy with how she looks.
00:31:29She'd like to get a lot of things done.
00:31:32I see Sean making sacrifices that I wouldn't expect him
00:31:37in the past to have made.
00:31:39If you knew for sure if Aaliyah was going to have bottom surgery today,
00:31:45would you go through with the marriage?
00:31:47I could pull the 90-day visa.
00:31:49It's not like I'm not thinking about it.
00:31:52It's a million-dollar question.
00:31:54You know, maybe you should ask that question.
00:31:56Big house on the hill, another seat to my throne.
00:32:01Baby started from the bottom of my team.
00:32:03We young, we young, we young, we young, we young.
00:32:08It's taking forever, but he may be right.
00:32:10I know. My gosh.
00:32:11Greg!
00:32:12Yeah?
00:32:13You going to work today?
00:32:15Yeah, just getting ready.
00:32:16All right.
00:32:17They say I'd never be nothing.
00:32:19Boy, what ain't wrong.
00:32:20Got my city on my back and my team is strong.
00:32:23Oh, man.
00:32:27You excited?
00:32:29Yeah, no, I'm definitely excited.
00:32:30I've been fasting, though.
00:32:31I'm trying to, uh, you know, we went a little crazy with the food in Manhattan.
00:32:35So I was trying to, like, you know, kind of rack a little bit.
00:32:38Yeah, yeah.
00:32:39Is this good for you to eat?
00:32:41No, it's sugar.
00:32:42Well, I got to stay away from the sugar.
00:32:43I've been gaining weight since she's been here,
00:32:45and I got to stop that.
00:32:47I really do.
00:32:47For your lunch with the only one chicken or the sausage?
00:32:52Oh.
00:32:53I'll do the chicken.
00:32:54Give me a piece of chicken and some sausage.
00:32:56That would be great.
00:32:57I'll get your lunch bag.
00:32:58I'll be right back.
00:32:59Okay.
00:33:00First day of work.
00:33:01This is crazy, man.
00:33:02Just been doing nothing but rideshare, and, uh, it's going to be weird.
00:33:05You nervous?
00:33:06It's going to be weird.
00:33:07Definitely.
00:33:08Definitely nervous.
00:33:09I don't even know how to, like, you know, talk to my supervisor or anything like that.
00:33:14It's been so long.
00:33:14Whew.
00:33:16Today is my first day at work.
00:33:18Um, I'm feeling great.
00:33:19I-I just can't wait to get in, see what I'm expected of.
00:33:23Especially that Joan's here.
00:33:24You know, every time I am getting a little stressed out or worn out,
00:33:27I definitely just, I just know it's for her.
00:33:29And I know it's, you know, not for her, just for her, but for us.
00:33:31I just can't wait to come home to her and tell her all about my day.
00:33:36All right.
00:33:36I got to go.
00:33:36I want to be early.
00:33:37Come back, come back.
00:33:38All right.
00:33:38You got that for me, baby?
00:33:40Yeah, you got that for me, baby.
00:33:42All right, Mom, I love you.
00:33:43I'll see you later.
00:33:44All right, Greg.
00:33:45Have a good day.
00:33:46See you tonight.
00:33:47Yep.
00:33:50Good luck.
00:33:51Love you.
00:33:52Love you.
00:33:53Adios.
00:33:57All right, baby.
00:33:57All right.
00:33:58I can't wait for you to come back and do everything you want, and I mean whatever you want.
00:34:12Whatever, huh?
00:34:13Mm-hmm.
00:34:13Mm-hmm.
00:34:14Okay.
00:34:15Be ready.
00:34:16Be ready.
00:34:17Of course I'm ready.
00:34:19Love you guys.
00:34:20I am definitely looking forward to my new job.
00:34:33It's nice to be back out in the workforce and being a productive member of society.
00:34:49No, but seriously, you know, it is a little, you know, it's a little nerve-wracking.
00:34:53Once again, I haven't had like, I haven't had to answer to a boss for years now, since
00:34:58before COVID.
00:34:59So it's definitely a little nerve-wracking.
00:35:07I've definitely had adult jobs, nine-to-fives, but never like official, like, you know, real careers,
00:35:12like where I'm going now.
00:35:15Okay.
00:35:16Definitely, I'm a little nervous.
00:35:19I'm just kind of brick a little bit, you know, gonna meet my co-workers, see how they are.
00:35:26All right, here we go.
00:35:27Let's make some money.
00:35:28Let's flip the lucky coin.
00:35:31All right.
00:35:32Is this all for you, Joanie?
00:35:34Maybe I'll be a little socially awkward.
00:35:35I don't know, you know.
00:35:37Haven't punched a clock in forever.
00:35:38We'll see, we'll see how it goes.
00:35:41All right.
00:35:52What are you making?
00:35:52Smells good in here.
00:35:54Yes, I'm making meatballs, sausage.
00:35:56This time I put a little pork in it.
00:35:59Smells good.
00:36:00Where are you going with that?
00:36:01I'd like to take my dress to be altered.
00:36:04Oh, today, this morning?
00:36:07Yes.
00:36:07So would you please hold me, take me so that I can...
00:36:09You're going to be my daughter-in-law, so I need to help you.
00:36:12Yes, thank you.
00:36:13I really appreciate it.
00:36:14With Greg working, and since I don't have a license, Mrs. Lucy has offered to drive me around during the day.
00:36:22And since our wedding's approaching, I need to get my wedding dress altered.
00:36:26I prefer a dress where I can show off my calves, and when I stand up to twerk, yes, I can see my butt twerking.
00:36:33Okay, so we'll get going.
00:36:38I will turn this off until we get back.
00:36:41Let's go, dear.
00:36:42I'm looking forward to see Joan getting fitted in her wedding gown.
00:36:49I know it's going to be beautiful.
00:36:52Okay.
00:36:53You're welcome.
00:36:54Stay there, little doggies.
00:36:57Today represents just a stepping stone in us getting closer to these little things that bond you and share together.
00:37:07Okay, where were you off to? I got my signal on, like I'm in this world, you know?
00:37:20You excited?
00:37:22Yeah.
00:37:23So, um, you trying on the dress?
00:37:26Yeah, it's a little bit bigger in the waist, on the arms.
00:37:32Oh, you want it tight.
00:37:34Yeah.
00:37:38So, do you want me to come in with you and help you?
00:37:43I'd love to, but, uh, I'm going to be talking to my family.
00:37:48You don't need my help then.
00:37:51I just want them, like, to be the first people to see me, like, my sisters, like, my mom, if she's there.
00:37:59Yeah.
00:38:01I see.
00:38:05All right.
00:38:07I really don't want to hurt Mrs. Lucille's feeling, but I want to have this moment with my family.
00:38:12I want my family to see my wedding dress first, because it has been really weird for me to plan this
00:38:18wedding without my family. It's really sad. So, this is really special for my mom and my sisters. So, that's all.
00:38:24So, we're here. Thank you for driving me here.
00:38:30You're welcome.
00:38:31I really appreciate it.
00:38:32Okay.
00:38:33Okay.
00:38:33Okay.
00:38:34Let me pick the dress.
00:38:34I was expecting to go into the shop with Joan, and when she said she didn't need me,
00:38:51I did feel a little hurt, you know, and, um, because I've been helping her all along through this, and
00:38:58so it did bother me a little bit, I must say. It's hurtful. I thought I could be there for her,
00:39:06but evidently she didn't need me. So, I felt rejected and just worthless. But it's always payback.
00:39:23Oh, can you help me to...
00:39:30No, you know how good I am. Not good I am at this. You want it tighter or looser or what?
00:39:36Tighter. No.
00:39:37Okay. Too loose.
00:39:39No, no, no. No, yes, no.
00:39:41I'm going to meet Stacey and do her hair at the salon. Tell your mom I said hello,
00:40:01and send my love, and take care of the baby.
00:40:08Yes.
00:40:09All right, bye.
00:40:10Bye.
00:40:11Bye.
00:40:16Oi, mãe.
00:40:18Oi, Alinha.
00:40:19Tudo bem?
00:40:21Estamos bem.
00:40:23Como é que estão as coisas aí?
00:40:25Ah, mãe, tá tudo bem.
00:40:27E aí a gente foi lá pra cidade onde mora a mãe e os filhos dele.
00:40:34Como foi?
00:40:36Assim, todo mundo me tratou super bem, me respeitaram.
00:40:38Que bom, porque se tratar você mal, deixou que você vai mexer comigo.
00:40:44Tô, assim, numa consulta com uma médica, na verdade, coisas que eu posso fazer pra eu poder me sentir melhor comigo mesma e mais feminina e tudo mais.
00:41:02E como que o chão está lidando com tudo isso?
00:41:05Quando a gente foi nessa consulta com a médica, eu percebi que ele ficou um pouco tenso.
00:41:12Eu acho que o chão ainda tá se adaptando a essa realidade.
00:41:18O chão vai ser muito difícil.
00:41:21Pra onde ela está e pra vocês dar certo, vai ter que ter, velho, conversa, diálogo, apoio, entendeu?
00:41:28Tá?
00:41:30Minha mãe suporta as decisões que eu quero fazer sobre a cirurgia, mas ela realmente pensa que eu preciso compartilhar isso e incluir o Sean em todas as minhas escolhas.
00:41:44Eu acho que o seu preocupação é sobre eu estar alone ou ele me deixa por causa da minha transição.
00:41:51Um abraço, fica com Deus e pensa direitinho em tudo que eu falei pra você.
00:41:57Tá. Beijo.
00:41:59Então, a festa de festa domando foi super emocionante.
00:42:16Um abraço muito, eu mesma course.
00:42:18Eu gostei muito para vencer E aliá.
00:42:23E mim é uma tinta de amigura, quem 3 minutos, fica legal de conversa.
00:42:28had to talk with her.
00:42:30Stacey is my old business partner
00:42:32from a hair salon I had in Sonoma County.
00:42:34She's known me maybe even when I was single,
00:42:39before I got married, before I had kids,
00:42:41and once I had kids, and through my divorce,
00:42:44and a couple of earthquakes, and hair salons,
00:42:48and moving hair salons, and she knows a lot about me
00:42:51and my life story.
00:42:53Now that you're back in LA, what's going on?
00:42:57She's dealing with her transitioning,
00:43:01so I don't think she's like as comfortable
00:43:03being intimate with me because she's not feeling sexy,
00:43:08beautiful, whatever.
00:43:10Don't want to push that closeness off too long.
00:43:14You know, you need that in a marriage, as you know.
00:43:17Yes.
00:43:19All right, you need to cook, and I need to sit.
00:43:23OK, sounds good.
00:43:27She's beautiful.
00:43:29I mean, she's just a beautiful woman, really.
00:43:32Right?
00:43:33And she looks so pretty and everything.
00:43:34But, you know, as all women feel that, you know,
00:43:36they want this and that.
00:43:38And I do think it can affect your sexuality
00:43:42if you're feeling not at your best, you know, for sure.
00:43:45Yeah.
00:43:50With the doctor, we got to play with breast implants.
00:43:53That was fun, so.
00:43:56I don't know what the term is.
00:43:57But if she chooses to completely become a woman.
00:44:01Right.
00:44:02Gender reassignment surgery.
00:44:03Mm-hmm.
00:44:03Would you, do you think your marriage
00:44:08could survive that?
00:44:12There's no way of knowing.
00:44:14It's like me guessing what's going to happen.
00:44:17When is it going to happen?
00:44:19How many years is going to happen?
00:44:20What are the options?
00:44:22How's that going to feel?
00:44:23Mm-hmm.
00:44:26I see Sean making sacrifices that I wouldn't expect him
00:44:30in the past to have made, especially concerning unknowns
00:44:37about where Aaliyah may feel she wants to take her femininity,
00:44:45especially surgically.
00:44:48Change happens.
00:44:49It's part of life.
00:44:51But it's really different for a 25-year-old
00:44:54than it is for a 60-year-old.
00:44:57You know, you're not married yet.
00:44:59And if you knew for sure if Aaliyah was
00:45:03going to have bottom surgery, if you knew that today,
00:45:07would you go through with the marriage?
00:45:15Part of me thinks I could pull the 90-day visa.
00:45:24We could reapply or not.
00:45:27We could, you know, then give ourselves that space.
00:45:36It's a million-dollar question.
00:45:38But, you know, maybe you should ask that question soon,
00:45:44before you marry him.
00:45:45Yeah.
00:45:46Soon.
00:45:50Holy .
00:45:51It's really a castle.
00:45:53With Dan, wherever he comes, he cause a problem for me.
00:45:57We have problems because of you.
00:45:59No, we have problems because of you.
00:46:01Right now, he feels himself safe.
00:46:03What do you think?
00:46:04You think you're the only bad boy here?
00:46:06He's in danger right now.
00:46:08Yeah, trust me, I can be a very bad boy.
00:46:10I'm here.
00:46:15I'm here.
00:46:32I'm here.
00:46:33Come on.
00:46:33Come on.
00:46:39Holy .
00:46:41It's really a castle.
00:46:42Canceled.
00:46:42Oh.
00:46:43She kind of wanted me to solve the situation with Dan.
00:47:01And I want to solve it for my own sake, too.
00:47:05Because wherever he comes, he cause a problem for me.
00:47:09We have to put a dot at the end of the sentence.
00:47:14Cool house.
00:47:16Welcome to my castle.
00:47:20How are you?
00:47:21Good.
00:47:21How are you doing?
00:47:23And you're here, so let me give you a tour.
00:47:27Come over here.
00:47:28Don't be shy.
00:47:30I'm not shy.
00:47:31I mean, I didn't come here to look your castle, you know?
00:47:33Oh, yeah?
00:47:34Really?
00:47:34I came here to talk with you.
00:47:36Oh, I think you deserve a little tour.
00:47:40I was kind of surprised when Sarpel reached out to me
00:47:44and told me that he wanted to talk.
00:47:47And I mean, even though he was a jerk on stage
00:47:50for his comedy show, I'm still open to listen
00:47:53to what he has to say.
00:47:55Let's talk somewhere.
00:47:57Not yet.
00:47:57We have the living room to watch.
00:47:59Will you show the bedroom to?
00:48:01No.
00:48:01Huh?
00:48:02I'm not going to tell you who was in this bedroom.
00:48:09Pushing the limits.
00:48:12So this is the living room.
00:48:13You like to play pool?
00:48:15No.
00:48:16I'm not surprised about that.
00:48:21OK, we are getting so childish.
00:48:23She kind of told me, don't be immature, OK?
00:48:28The thing that I want from you, bro, please, but please, respect.
00:48:34And the thing that I did to you on the comedy show was a revenge.
00:48:38Your stand-up comedy that just showed, like, how insecure and jealous person you are.
00:48:45You played victim then.
00:48:47No, I didn't play victim.
00:48:47You played victim.
00:48:48No.
00:48:49You played an upset boy.
00:48:51And she kind of believed in you.
00:48:53We have problems because of you.
00:48:55We are arguing over you.
00:48:56No, we have problems because of you.
00:49:00I'm not going anywhere.
00:49:01That's why I'm here.
00:49:02Because I told her to not to see you again, to not include you in the friendship, but
00:49:07she doesn't accept us.
00:49:09OK, I respect that.
00:49:09And she's right.
00:49:11Why would she listen to a guy that she met maybe, like, a year ago?
00:49:15Two years ago.
00:49:16OK, in Turkey, and then now you're here.
00:49:18And now you're here, you want to make your own rules.
00:49:21This is not how it works.
00:49:25What do you think?
00:49:25You think you're the only bad boy here?
00:49:27Yeah, trust me, I can be a very bad boy.
00:49:31You don't know all the details.
00:49:33Dan, Dan, Dan, Dan, Dan.
00:49:34You think you're the bad boy?
00:49:36I've been dating all the girls in our friend group already.
00:49:41He's not a bad boy, drinking vines and talking about your castles, your business.
00:49:48A bad boy doesn't do that.
00:49:51As she kind of told me, you dated three times with her.
00:49:55Yeah.
00:49:56And you shared a kiss.
00:49:58Maybe more.
00:50:02But this is the vibe I'm talking about.
00:50:04This is the vibe.
00:50:05You are making me crazy, bro.
00:50:06I mean, you are pushing the limits.
00:50:09Look, I'm dating.
00:50:10This is America.
00:50:11This is how it works, you know?
00:50:12I don't like it.
00:50:13I'm not getting used to it.
00:50:14So don't come in America, Dan.
00:50:17He loves that.
00:50:18You know, he loves attention.
00:50:20He wants to be the only guy in the social group.
00:50:23And if he sees another guy who is more dominant than him, he is triggered.
00:50:31That's the problem.
00:50:32If he wants to play it like this, I'm here.
00:50:33I don't care what their friends group will say.
00:50:37I don't care.
00:50:38I mean, right now, if he comes to me, I will go twice.
00:50:40We talked about it on my birthday.
00:50:46Yeah?
00:50:47The prenup, putting in the adoption.
00:50:50Yeah.
00:50:51It's just a lot of life changes, you know?
00:50:54Adoption and babies and weddings.
00:50:57And you sure you don't need to talk to Jordan first?
00:51:09Hi.
00:51:10Hi.
00:51:11How are you?
00:51:12I'm fine.
00:51:13Hi, Maria.
00:51:14Wow, wow, wow.
00:51:15I'm so excited to see your countryside house.
00:51:20Really?
00:51:21Yes.
00:51:22OK.
00:51:32You got it, Maria, baby.
00:51:33And what do you think about Boston?
00:51:47Do you have a good weekend?
00:51:49Yeah, I like it.
00:51:50It's very nice, you know?
00:51:52In New Hampshire, you see just the tree.
00:51:55The tree?
00:51:56Yeah, yeah.
00:51:57You see lakes, you see mountains.
00:51:59Why don't you live in Boston?
00:52:01Well, I mean, right now, it's because I've had this house in New Hampshire, you know?
00:52:07You know, for you.
00:52:08It's always been my dream to live at an airport.
00:52:10But for me, it's more and more complicated.
00:52:18Mina seems to not be happy in New Hampshire.
00:52:22Yeah, I kind of picked this up a little bit already, Alex.
00:52:25But I explained all this to her so many times that this is where I live.
00:52:29And you ask, are you sure this is what you want?
00:52:32And Mina's young yet.
00:52:33When she saw it in Paris, and now she's living there, it's very different.
00:52:41We're not moving next week, so we don't have, you know, we have enough going on right now.
00:52:48It's just a lot of life changes, you know?
00:52:52Adoption, and babies, and moving, and weddings, and immigration from another country.
00:52:59You know, she agreed to come and try this at least for six months.
00:53:02So I don't have any plans of going anywhere right now.
00:53:04All right, here we come.
00:53:06Welcome to my life.
00:53:09Maria's awake.
00:53:10Yeah, she's awake.
00:53:12Meow.
00:53:13Ah, you're home, baby girl.
00:53:15You're happy.
00:53:16You're home.
00:53:17Come to see that.
00:53:18Where's mama?
00:53:19The runway.
00:53:20This is for the plane.
00:53:22The runway.
00:53:24So, this is my life in New Hampshire.
00:53:29It's very charming.
00:53:33You are connected to the nature.
00:53:35Too much nature.
00:53:37A lot of trees.
00:53:39A lot of trees.
00:53:41It's not every day you can wake up because of the planes.
00:53:49So, it's very original.
00:53:51Would you want to live here all year?
00:53:54No, never.
00:53:55Like Mark does?
00:53:56I'm just afraid of when the flight starts flying, so...
00:54:06I have to see.
00:54:07You want to see for yourself?
00:54:08Yes.
00:54:09So, this is the airplane.
00:54:10Oh, wow.
00:54:12Wow.
00:54:13This is the one we took to North Carolina.
00:54:18I call my airplane a private airplane.
00:54:21Yeah.
00:54:22I like it.
00:54:24Yeah, this is cool.
00:54:27Come follow me for seeing the house.
00:54:30Yes.
00:54:31Come here.
00:54:34Welcome to my home.
00:54:38This is the living room.
00:54:41Yes.
00:54:42My beautiful couch.
00:54:44Yes, I like it.
00:54:45And this way, ta-da, was the place I cook.
00:54:51You know I like to cook.
00:54:53Yes.
00:54:54And this way is for your room.
00:54:57Okay, you know I like you.
00:54:59I know.
00:55:00But...
00:55:01I need to rest.
00:55:02So, see you tomorrow.
00:55:04Tomorrow?
00:55:05Okay.
00:55:06You need to...
00:55:07Goodbye.
00:55:08Goodbye.
00:55:09Goodbye.
00:55:10See you tomorrow.
00:55:11See you tomorrow.
00:55:12I love you, too.
00:55:15Oof.
00:55:16Alex, you out of bed already?
00:55:30Yeah.
00:55:31She tired?
00:55:32Okay.
00:55:33Yeah.
00:55:34Hey, so listen, we talked about it on my birthday.
00:55:35Yeah.
00:55:36The prenup, adjusting, putting in the adoption.
00:55:40You want to go ahead and do that now?
00:55:42I said I would do it as soon as we got back.
00:55:54Yeah, maybe I'll call her.
00:55:56No, I'm kidding.
00:55:57I'm kidding.
00:55:58Of course, I'm not...
00:55:59I don't need to call Jordan for this.
00:56:01We already decided we're doing it.
00:56:03I'm kidding.
00:56:04I'll give the document, we'll sign it, and we're done.
00:56:06Okay?
00:56:07Let's go.
00:56:08Yeah.
00:56:09I'm really glad we're putting this all to rest.
00:56:12Mina's happy about the prenup now,
00:56:14because we're adding in the piece about Clayton,
00:56:16which, you know, it's not a condition on me.
00:56:19It's something I would have done anyway.
00:56:21So, you know, this is good for Mina.
00:56:23It's good for Clayton.
00:56:24It's good for Maria, me.
00:56:26We're all one big happy family,
00:56:27and that's what I wanted all along.
00:56:28So this is win-win for both of us.
00:56:31Additional terms and conditions right here.
00:56:33Yeah.
00:56:34I'll put Mark adopt Clayton as his son.
00:56:44Okay?
00:56:45Mm-hmm.
00:56:46This is my signature in print and date today.
00:56:50Okay.
00:56:51And then you sign in print and date, okay?
00:56:54Good?
00:56:55Yeah.
00:56:56Yeah, I'm signing.
00:56:58You happy finally?
00:57:11Yes.
00:57:12Very good.
00:57:13Now, everything is okay.
00:57:16Come here.
00:57:38Your brother's coming soon.
00:57:40We hope he's in spirit.
00:57:42Bisou, bisou.
00:57:44Mwah.
00:57:45Mwah.
00:57:46Mwah.
00:57:47Mwah.
00:57:48Mwah.
00:57:49Mwah.
00:57:50Mwah.
00:57:51Mwah.
00:57:52Mwah.
00:57:53Mwah.
00:57:54Mwah.
00:57:55Mwah.
00:58:00How do you think he's really feeling about this?
00:58:04I think it's alive.
00:58:05It was one of the...
00:58:07I can't say the biggest culture shock
00:58:09that I've ever had since I got here in the U.S.
00:58:12We've seen enough.
00:58:14Let's go.
00:58:15You okay?
00:58:16No, no, no, no.
00:58:17It's just...
00:58:18It's just...
00:58:19Just too much.
00:58:26Yeah, right.
00:58:28Mwah.
00:58:29Mwah.
00:58:30Mwah.
00:58:31Mwah.
00:58:32Mwah.
00:58:33So you just let...
00:58:34How did you feel it?
00:58:35It was just too much.
00:58:36Like, everything...
00:58:38Everything was just too much, so I had to take a break.
00:58:41I just got here from Iran, like, a month ago,
00:58:45and all the things that they're doing are not normal.
00:58:49Still the world just goes around...
00:58:55Give it up for Simone Del Mar, featuring Professor Hannah and Jesus.
00:59:01Mwah.
00:59:02How do you think he's really feeling about this?
00:59:05I think it's alive.
00:59:06I felt like he was a little uneasy.
00:59:09I just worried if he'd get upset.
00:59:11I want all of you having so much fun this evening.
00:59:16The longer that it was taking Maddie to get back,
00:59:19the more I was starting to get worried.
00:59:22Mwah.
00:59:23Mwah.
00:59:24Mwah.
00:59:25Mwah.
00:59:26I have told him multiple times to communicate with me
00:59:28if he felt uncomfortable and wanted to leave.
00:59:30Mwah.
00:59:31So...
00:59:32I don't really know what's going on.
00:59:34Mwah.
00:59:35Mwah.
00:59:36Mwah.
00:59:37Like, I've never seen any public shows
00:59:40that talk about these kind of things
00:59:42or, like, showing their body.
00:59:43They were, like, all new to me.
00:59:45And, um, I didn't know how to react,
00:59:49and it was one of the...
00:59:50I can't say the biggest culture shock
00:59:52that I've ever had since I got here in the U.S.
00:59:55Did y'all have a good time tonight or what?
00:59:58I did.
00:59:59I mean, I hope Maddie's okay.
01:00:01Mwah.
01:00:02Mwah.
01:00:03Okay.
01:00:04Let's go.
01:00:05Let's roll out.
01:00:06Let's roll out.
01:00:14You okay?
01:00:15Yeah.
01:00:16No, no, no, no, no.
01:00:17It's just...
01:00:18It's just, uh...
01:00:19Just too much of this.
01:00:20Too much feathers?
01:00:21Yeah.
01:00:22I don't know whose idea it was
01:00:24to take everybody to that club,
01:00:27especially after Mahdi talked about his concerns
01:00:31about Stevie being bisexual.
01:00:34Do you like it?
01:00:36Like, it was too much
01:00:37that I had to just walk out.
01:00:39If that's her idea,
01:00:40that was a stupid idea.
01:00:42Yeah.
01:00:43I've seen a lot today, Mahdi.
01:00:45Yeah.
01:00:46I don't think things can get any worse than this.
01:00:49I hope so.
01:00:50If it's not worse.
01:00:51Hey, I don't know.
01:00:52Hey.
01:00:53That was interesting.
01:00:54That's not more than interesting.
01:00:55Hey, it was fun.
01:00:56It's both from New Orleans.
01:00:57It's art.
01:00:58Right.
01:00:59You know, it's just what they do is fun.
01:01:00Yeah.
01:01:01Let's go hit some bars.
01:01:02How about that?
01:01:03It'll be fun.
01:01:04I promise.
01:01:05As Saeed said, I hope it doesn't get worse.
01:01:08I'm kind of regretting doing the whole thing.
01:01:12But I really don't want to be a party pooper.
01:01:15So I'm just trying to keep everything quiet.
01:01:18All right.
01:01:19Let's go.
01:01:20Not to cause any problems or traumas before the wedding.
01:01:28Yeah.
01:01:29Cheers.
01:01:30Cheers.
01:01:31So many cheers, you guys.
01:01:32A lot of cheers.
01:01:33Yeah.
01:01:34So, wedding plans.
01:01:35I know we talked earlier.
01:01:37I don't even have shoes.
01:01:39Like, you have days.
01:01:41I know.
01:01:42You two have been only seeing each other for, like, real,
01:01:48person for the past 30 days.
01:01:51And you still have 60 days.
01:01:52So I'm thinking maybe you want to take some time.
01:01:55You still have two months.
01:01:57I definitely don't feel like I'm rushing anything.
01:02:00I think I know the person that Matty is, and I love him.
01:02:02So.
01:02:03I'm sure you love him.
01:02:04But at the same time, I think a long distance relationship
01:02:08is different from when you actually live with someone.
01:02:13We could definitely wait.
01:02:14But I know there's some details that go into Matty's paperwork.
01:02:17That have, unfortunately, caused us to move our date up.
01:02:22So I think we're doing what's best for us right now.
01:02:26And I think when you get married to someone, it's a commitment.
01:02:29And people can change, and they may do weird things.
01:02:31And you just have to learn to live with one another
01:02:34because you made a commitment to each other.
01:02:36So it's just a bit different for me.
01:02:38And I'm trying to figure out what I did to make this person start instigating all of this.
01:02:53Are you okay?
01:02:54Yeah, I'm okay.
01:02:55Just that whole situation really upset me because it was morphing me into somebody that I'm not,
01:03:08and also trying to morph my husband and put my friends in an uncomfortable situation.
01:03:12So I don't like it.
01:03:15Claire, now that we are talking about wedding, I just remembered something about the venue day
01:03:21that I just wanted to apologize because I don't think I had a really good reaction
01:03:28when I found out about the painting day.
01:03:31And we didn't say bye well.
01:03:33I totally get that.
01:03:34Yeah.
01:03:35So I'm really sorry about that.
01:03:37I can't believe you just said that.
01:03:39What's happening?
01:03:41So why are you apologizing?
01:03:43Um...
01:03:46Does that mean that you're okay with that?
01:03:50Um...
01:03:51Like, is it solved?
01:03:53I think it is.
01:03:55I have promised her dad something not imposing whatever mindset that I grew up with back in Iran.
01:04:02So I don't want to change her as long as it doesn't affect our relationship.
01:04:10I just wanted to thank you all, guys.
01:04:13You just made a really good night and memorable that I will never forget.
01:04:19I think at this time, Bahdi is so culturally overwhelmed that he can't think straight.
01:04:25This is way more than just cultural difference.
01:04:29This might be something that later he just regrets.
01:04:32And I'm gonna talk to him.
01:04:34He needs to know the truth.
01:04:36That maybe she's actually bisexual.
01:04:39That's right.
01:04:40I'm gonna talk to him.
01:04:42I'm gonna talk to him.
01:04:44And I'm gonna talk to him.
01:04:45Wow!
01:04:46Here comes the bride!
01:04:48I've always dreamed of a wedding with my mum, my dad, my sisters.
01:04:53Everyone is cheering me around.
01:04:54You guys, I'm so...
01:04:56And me being in the U.S. having my wedding, it's a happy moment, but also very sad.
01:05:01i would like highly to be my flower girl like my mom to see me but it's fine don't cry try to be
01:05:09strong i'm not going to change my friends just because you're jealous i'm not jealous you know
01:05:18what he is walking around dangerous territory based on what i hear right now i don't think
01:05:24your relationship is going to last and the only thing that keeping me cool right now thinking
01:05:29she kind of because if i do anything wrong i can be deported you are so brave bro yeah oh my god you
01:05:37are so brave
01:05:47hi hi how are you i'm good thank you here for your first fitting yes please i'm so excited to get
01:05:53started can i take your dress for you yes thank you okay perfect i also just wanted to make sure
01:05:58what i kind of call my family absolutely we'll get that all set up and then we'll get started come
01:06:03on in all right thank you
01:06:11hello hi guys hi jojo i'm excited to see me in a wedding dress yeah very very okay let me go and
01:06:20change then come back okay today is a special day because i have to show my family my mom and my
01:06:30sisters how the dress looks on me and i'm soon coming out one more minute to come
01:06:40my family they're not going to be here on my special day because there are no visa appointments at the
01:06:45embassy i've always dreamed of a wedding where i'm with my family i'm with my mom my dad my
01:06:52sisters like we're vibing together everyone is cheering me around and me being in the u.s
01:06:56having my wedding with no family it's a happy moment but also very sad joan are you ready yes please am
01:07:05all right come on out
01:07:16here comes the bride wow oh my god
01:07:23you're so smart you're so pretty thank you
01:07:26uh let me start around turn around
01:07:34what do you think
01:07:35wow
01:07:49yes
01:07:51when they told me ah the nyash is out so i was like yes
01:07:55i feel good i feel like this wedding dress was just signed for me oh i like it
01:08:01did bread see that no he can't see me till the wedding day i would love you guys to be with
01:08:07me on my wedding day i would like kylie to be my flower girl but for visa appointments coming to america
01:08:16the only appointments available for now to be next year we are so sad about that news
01:08:25i think we've lost our hope yeah
01:08:29girlie don't cry
01:08:33she's going to miss that day because all of us we are going to miss you
01:08:37you know it's so sad you know it's so sad you know i'm sad also
01:08:42not so sad you know it was nothing much to say
01:08:56Whenever I talk to my family and I just see everyone home, my mom, my sister, it just
01:09:14takes me back home.
01:09:15I feel like I miss them.
01:09:17I'm going to be with strangers on my wedding day, so this really makes me sad.
01:09:23It puts me down because everyone dreams to have their wedding with family.
01:09:28Who doesn't want that?
01:09:32We are crying, but we are happy for you.
01:09:37Yeah.
01:09:40Yeah, everything will work out, yeah.
01:09:42So let's not be sad.
01:09:45Amen.
01:09:53As she kind of told me, you shared a kiss.
01:09:57Maybe more.
01:09:58But this is the vibe I'm talking about.
01:10:01This is the vibe.
01:10:02Look, I'm dating.
01:10:03This is America.
01:10:04This is how it works, you know?
01:10:06I don't like it.
01:10:07I'm not getting used to it.
01:10:08So don't come in America then.
01:10:10I believe her.
01:10:19You do?
01:10:20Yes.
01:10:21Okay.
01:10:22Based on what I hear right now, I don't think your relationship is going to last.
01:10:29I'm still going to be here.
01:10:30You are so brave, bro.
01:10:32Oh my God, you are so brave.
01:10:34Oh my God!
01:10:41Man bro.
01:10:42We cannot reach to a conclusion with you, you know?
01:10:46We are obliged to see each other because of your mighty friends group.
01:10:53I mean we will always be together somewhere.
01:10:55We will see each other and the atmosphere, when we are together somewhere, it sucks.
01:11:00I mean, look at your life.
01:11:03I mean, you have a great life.
01:11:04You are a great thing.
01:11:05I mean, have other friends, OK?
01:11:08I'm not going to change my friends
01:11:10just because you're jealous.
01:11:12I'm not jealous.
01:11:16You know what?
01:11:17I mean, he is playing with me.
01:11:19I mean, he is walking around dangerous territory,
01:11:22and he is really brave.
01:11:24Back in Turkey, we would go outside,
01:11:27we would roll our sleeves,
01:11:28and we would solve it just like a real man.
01:11:31But in U.S. standards,
01:11:34I cannot give what he deserves.
01:11:36And the only thing that keeping me cool
01:11:39and calm right now,
01:11:41thinking Sheikina,
01:11:42because if I do anything wrong,
01:11:44I can be deported.
01:11:49You are the last person in L.A. to be jealous about.
01:11:52I trust Sheikina so much.
01:11:54I mean, it's nothing.
01:11:55Be normal.
01:11:58Like other friends.
01:11:59OK.
01:12:00So I upsetted you on the rooftop.
01:12:03OK.
01:12:04You upsetted me.
01:12:05So one and one.
01:12:06Now we are even.
01:12:12Even.
01:12:13OK.
01:12:14OK.
01:12:15So let's keep it this way.
01:12:16But still going to keep an eye on you.
01:12:19OK?
01:12:20Oh, my God, yeah.
01:12:21Little brother is watching me.
01:12:23Yep.
01:12:24Uh-huh.
01:12:25Because at the end of the day,
01:12:26I want to see Sheikina happy.
01:12:27I'm not going to judge you, OK?
01:12:29But if I think about something,
01:12:31and if I feel something,
01:12:32you know what?
01:12:33Instead of keeping it for me,
01:12:34we're going to talk again.
01:12:35I'm respecting you just because of this.
01:12:36And you respect me about my relationship.
01:12:37Exactly.
01:12:38So.
01:12:39We're good.
01:12:40Dan pushed me so hard to lose my control.
01:12:50But I didn't.
01:12:51This is modern Sarpur.
01:12:53I can solve things by talking.
01:12:59Let me walk you out.
01:13:01We agreed on something,
01:13:02and he understands.
01:13:04If there is a next time that I see him,
01:13:06and he does the same thing,
01:13:08I cannot be that calm, you know?
01:13:11Because I'm the real bad boy.
01:13:13Bye.
01:13:14Bye.
01:13:15So he's better to respect my relationship from now on.
01:13:19Ah, your castle.
01:13:24The hormone therapy,
01:13:26it's something that I really want to start to do.
01:13:29Even though I want to support Aaliyah
01:13:31in everything that she wants to do with her life,
01:13:33this is too far for me.
01:13:35Getting married in two weeks,
01:13:36and I want to be 100% honest.
01:13:50There's some really beautiful houses off to the right.
01:13:52I love Levin Hughes.
01:13:55We are so close.
01:13:57So close.
01:13:58So close.
01:13:59And yet so far,
01:14:00you have to suffer with West Hollywood Heights.
01:14:03Ugh.
01:14:04Poor thing.
01:14:12So we are very close now to the water.
01:14:15We are close to the beach.
01:14:16We're just going to go over this little hill.
01:14:18Oh, you said that was a long trip.
01:14:19And the ocean will be on your side.
01:14:23Tonight.
01:14:24Yeah.
01:14:25Very California vibes.
01:14:26Mmm.
01:14:27I love palm trees.
01:14:28Ocean.
01:14:29Now I am in California.
01:14:30I got the rollerblades.
01:14:31So we can go rollerblading.
01:14:32Oh, my God.
01:14:33Ready?
01:14:34Yeah.
01:14:35Rollerblading on the Venice Beach with all the other people.
01:14:38It's very, like, SoCal.
01:14:39Yeah.
01:14:40Yeah.
01:14:41Yeah.
01:14:42Yeah.
01:14:43Yeah.
01:14:44I got the rollerblades.
01:14:45So we can go rollerblading.
01:14:46Oh, my God.
01:14:47Ready?
01:14:48Yeah.
01:14:49Rollerblading on the Venice Beach with all the other people.
01:14:50It's very, like, SoCal.
01:14:52I think Barbie reminds me that.
01:14:53That it's, like, something that I don't know how to use.
01:14:55You know you need to teach me, yeah?
01:14:56Because I don't know.
01:14:57No, I'm going to meet you a couple miles down.
01:14:59I like to go to the beach, put something on the sand that I can lay down my body.
01:15:02Yeah.
01:15:03Yeah.
01:15:04Yeah.
01:15:05Yeah.
01:15:06Yeah.
01:15:07Yeah.
01:15:08Yeah.
01:15:09Yeah.
01:15:10Yeah.
01:15:11Yeah.
01:15:12Yeah.
01:15:13Yeah.
01:15:14Yeah.
01:15:15Yeah.
01:15:16Yeah.
01:15:17Yeah.
01:15:18Yeah.
01:15:19Yeah.
01:15:20Yeah.
01:15:21Yeah.
01:15:22And I want to, like, pass oil on my skin.
01:15:25And then I lay down one hour front, one hour back.
01:15:29One hour front, one hour back.
01:15:31Have some drinks.
01:15:33Not really.
01:15:37Ready?
01:15:38Like, just do this.
01:15:39Get used to the back and forth, right?
01:15:42And then you kind of step like a baby.
01:15:45And then you can glide.
01:15:46I don't want to do this, love.
01:15:48You got knee pads.
01:15:49You got wrist pads.
01:15:50You got a huge ass pad.
01:15:51You got a huge ass pad.
01:15:52And I don't have any ass pads.
01:15:53Whoa!
01:15:54So you have a thing, lots of things going on.
01:15:56No.
01:15:57Go get it, go get it, go get it, go.
01:15:59Now you have to go uphill.
01:16:00Oh my.
01:16:01Love, love.
01:16:02Come on, uphill, uphill.
01:16:03I will fall.
01:16:04I will fall.
01:16:05Leave me alone.
01:16:06I will try.
01:16:07And you have no technique to take me.
01:16:09Let me show you how you're going to do the triple sal cow.
01:16:13Look, she's rollerblading with a baby, no less.
01:16:17Are you kidding me?
01:16:20The more you go, the easier it feels, OK?
01:16:26And then you can just glide.
01:16:28And you don't have to do anything.
01:16:31Hurry up.
01:16:32You're making me look young.
01:16:34I'm going.
01:16:35I'm trying.
01:16:36I'm trying to do my best.
01:16:37There you go.
01:16:39Oh, oh, oh.
01:16:42Yikes.
01:16:43That was close.
01:16:44Under.
01:16:49So nice.
01:16:50And I really love the sun.
01:16:52I think I was missing this so much.
01:16:54Yeah, you need to get your tan on before this wedding.
01:16:58So you got a lot of information from the doctor.
01:17:01Mm-hmm.
01:17:02So with all of that, what are your thoughts about it all?
01:17:09I think the hormone therapy, it's something that I really want to start to do.
01:17:14Mm-hmm.
01:17:15The facial feminization, the one that I want to do here.
01:17:19Mm-hmm.
01:17:20On this bone here.
01:17:22Yeah.
01:17:23That one just sounds the most complicated and dangerous.
01:17:28And having a big scar across the whole top, like a headband, doesn't sound great.
01:17:33I actually think if it's in the middle of the hair, you would not see the scar.
01:17:37I don't know.
01:17:38I've had clients that have had brow lifts like that.
01:17:40And I've literally had indentations where the scar even, like, went into their bone and made a divot that they can't hide.
01:17:48But that's probably a long time ago.
01:17:49Yeah, a long time ago.
01:17:50I think the surgery issue is the biggest, scariest part of, you know, what's going on right now with our relationship.
01:17:59I'm trying to roll with everything that's been going on.
01:18:04And even though I want to support Aaliyah in everything that she wants to do with her life, I guess I also have a need for as much clarity to make sure for me that I'm doing the right thing.
01:18:18So if you do all this, then, like, when are you thinking about doing that? Like, a week, a month, a year?
01:18:27I think the month is something that I can, next week I can go to a doctor to see.
01:18:35And the face of feminization is something that I even need, like, the opinion of other doctors.
01:18:43So it's something that I still need to think about.
01:18:46But everything that we are talking, we are talking because it's, like, possibilities.
01:18:54I think for me, I just don't want to be not considered.
01:19:04I mean, I was pretty shocked at the doctor's office that you had done all this research about reassignment surgeries and knew even things that she wasn't even bringing up.
01:19:16So what's happening with the possibility of that now?
01:19:22I'm getting married in two weeks, and, you know, I want to be 100% honest.
01:19:50And I can't guarantee you that our marriage would survive if you had gender reassignment surgery.
01:20:02I have skirted around just trying to support Aaliyah. But in this one moment, I feel like I'm telling her, like, this is too far for me. And I think, I hope she's understanding what I'm saying.
01:20:16It's not easy to hurt that. But we are just, like, living the present, the moment. So I also don't have, like, wincers for the future.
01:20:30Promise me you won't let go so quick.
01:20:38I wish that I knew the future or have wincers for Sean. But that's not the reality. And that scares me because it's like he's thinking about the end. And we have not even started our journey.
01:20:54I think I just want to go home. All right, well, let's go get our stuff.
01:21:06Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:18Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:20Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:23Oh, my God!
01:21:24Tonight we're giving Joan her bachelorette party.
01:21:27Like two water balloons.
01:21:29Man.
01:21:30Going to a strip club with my future mother, you know, is a bit awkward.
01:21:36Give him a nice jacket!
01:21:38You're kidding me!
01:21:40You're kidding me!
01:21:42Let it go!
01:21:44Hello, we can talk.
01:21:46Anya has a different legal name.
01:21:48She's probably still legally married
01:21:50and refuses to give any explanation.
01:21:52She's here.
01:21:54This is like the last chance.
01:21:56It really is.
01:21:58I'm thinking, like, this cannot be saved.
01:22:00Hello.
01:22:04What is that?
01:22:06So I bring up.
01:22:08Everything with us seems too uncertain.
01:22:10I've decided preparing
01:22:12will make me feel more at ease about moving forward.
01:22:14Do you think I want
01:22:16to stay off your money?
01:22:20The cruise is ready for him
01:22:22whenever he's ready.
01:22:24I mean, he's gotta learn to let that go.
01:22:26If he wants to go back to the cruise,
01:22:28then I'm done.
01:22:30I don't want to be a cruise wife.
01:22:32You will lose me.
01:22:36He says you're the cruise, is that what you're saying?
01:22:38Yeah.
01:22:40I don't know what to say.
01:22:44She's been keeping secrets from you.
01:22:48That doesn't make sense to me.
01:22:52I can't get along with not knowing the truth.
01:22:54I'm too tired.
01:22:56I feel like I made a mistake all in here.
01:23:04Personally.
01:23:06So what's going on with the wedding?
01:23:08Oh.
01:23:10He will have no wedding.
01:23:12What?
01:23:14My brain is on the floor right now.
01:23:16It's just ridiculous, man.
01:23:18Leave me room, please.
01:23:22You're losing your mind.
01:23:24You're losing your mind.
01:23:26You're losing your mind.
01:23:28You're losing your mind.
01:23:30You're losing your mind.
01:23:32You're losing your mind.
01:23:34You're losing your mind.
01:23:36You're losing your mind.
01:23:38You're losing your mind.
01:23:40You're losing your mind.
01:23:42You're losing your mind.
01:23:44You're losing your mind.
01:23:46You're losing your mind.
01:23:48You're losing your mind.
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