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Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 5
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00:00Our dements to waste concerns for her groom she is my fire than I'm used to
00:06That is a worry and for Lee and Leah I'm sure to go home struggles on the slopes
00:14Landed them in honeymoon hell. She doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far
00:21Up balls the fucking eye
00:23Tonight I don't struggle to meet women. I just haven't met the right person to more bold singles
00:34I'm attracted to the alpha male. I won't settle for anything less meet and marry at first sight
00:44But one bride's rigid expectations I can't tell whether he's an alpha or not bring a bitter disappointment
00:50It's not my type you may now share your first kiss kiss
00:56Can't remember the last time I was given the cheek if I'm honest that first part bloody hell
01:01For more newlyweds it's time for your honeymoon the magical Morocco set off on their romantic escape
01:08I don't wait to get me be life Joe's worst fears become reality
01:12He's really pissed me why put it on man. Yeah, she's off and
01:18Devani's negative conversations knowing that I could potentially be alone for the rest of my life. That would be the worst
01:25Unleash tension everything is so intense and so deep that tears their honeymoon apart
01:31The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas and then like get into bed with you
01:37There's trouble in paradise
01:39It's hot god I am sweating here. I cannot wait to get in the pool pina colada pina colada
01:53Cannot wait to get wavy life. I'm still not a hundred percent too certain where we are, but it's absolutely and then oh
01:59My god
02:01Champagne Johnson of course. I do
02:04Jamaica is that right?
02:05Caribbean I don't actually know
02:07I don't know
02:10They've got our own pool. I'm what he's in
02:13Saying I can't wait to jump in there. It don't feel real to me. No
02:18Don't I mean I
02:20Still haven't come to terms with that. I'm actually married
02:24Obviously there are things I do like about Maeve
02:27But my first impressions war I wasn't really sure if she is what I needed
02:33A few bebbies can't wait
02:35She came across a big brash personality
02:38Erm yeah, and I just think it's gonna take some time just to see if she isn't just a party girl
02:43But I guess we'll find out
02:45So like one thing I might be concerned about is obviously when we're both drinking
02:52Yeah, how we're gonna like be with each other because obviously you said you were like proper argumentative and shit when you when you piss
03:00I'm all right, but the more I drink the more like cheeky I get
03:06Yeah, I'm all looking and I push your buttons I get
03:13Because you've calmed down you know what I mean and mate like that's what I want a be like
03:18So maybe you might possibly be the one to try it. Well calm us down. Hopefully
03:23She got laughing
03:25And right now probably not
03:30I've always sworn by treat them mean keep them keen
03:34If he can handle me at the worst he can have me at the best
03:39The more time I'm spending with Joe I'm starting to like him and I feel like he's a very easy person to talk to
03:45But I still have my guard up
03:48In my past relationships. I have been walked all over
03:52What can go wrong?
03:55Got a couple of drinks down it and we'll sure I'll find out
04:11Got you a little hot chocolate. I'll hold you poor
04:15Okay
04:17So the honeymoon it has been up and down in terms of where we're at she has been a bit aggy and stuff with me
04:23It's emotionally draining. I do feel like I'm giving more
04:28And I wanted to know that
04:30I feel like I'm maybe trying a little bit harder
04:44Are you I'm always attentive with you I'm like do you want this do you want that you look nice constantly giving you compliments
05:00For me, I need a little bit of like flirtiness, but I don't want to flirt with you because
05:08But that part for me is just like not there yet
05:13I don't want to rush myself
05:16But you could be a little bit more flirty I think
05:18Oh, yeah, your hair looks nice today. Oh, yeah, I like the way you're wearing your rings
05:27Okay, do we want to just dig me out how fucking awful I am
05:33Feel like we're in this experiment we need to like push ourselves more than we would in the outside world
05:38We have to meet in the middle if we want it to try and work
05:45Do I mean I
05:48Know I'm not a type, but also she's not my type I
05:53Still can have a flare and have a joke with her is she open to give me a little bit more because if it's not
05:58I can't see myself going through this process. It's just a waste of time for me
06:06You want to go and play in this now?
06:08No
06:18God no no back in the UK close there
06:23Julia Ruth and Devani are waking up to their first morning as a married couple. How did you sleep?
06:29Fantastic, how was yours? I listened up on my head on the pillow and I was gone
06:33First night with my wife was very romantic when I opened my eyes this morning. I thought I was dreaming
06:40My wife is a very beautiful woman. I'm very attracted to her and the arts are anything better. So it was it was good
06:45It was just super super super super duper cool
06:50Okay
06:51Yeah
06:52I
06:56I feel like the wedding was such a high but I have woken up with like a different thought this morning
07:01I'm quite an openly sexual person but I'm not having that desire
07:07So I do think that I just want to take things slowly and out at our pace and just build from there
07:12Julia Ruth and Devani
07:16Congratulations, you hope you enjoyed your first night as newlyweds
07:20Now it's time for your honeymoon in the magical
07:23Morocco
07:24The perfect setting for an enchanting love story to begin
07:28I'm screaming
07:30I love that
07:32We're going to Morocco
07:36I didn't get the initial spark that I was hoping for Devani
07:39Let's try and make the most of it being on the honeymoon and see if it grows
07:46Morocco!
07:47Morocco, here we come
07:48Oh, I'm here for it
07:50Morocco!
07:51Morocco!
07:52We're excited, we're ready!
07:53As Julia Ruth and Devani jet off on honeymoon, another hopeful single is ready to put her trust in the experts
08:10I'm ready, I'm excited
08:12Let's go guys!
08:13I'm successful, fiercely independent
08:19And determined
08:23Three, two, one
08:28The gym's a huge part of my life
08:30I love to feel healthy, I love to feel strong
08:33And I think that's why I'm attracted to the alpha male
08:37I'm attracted to the big man that can lead me by the hand
08:45Are we ready?
08:46Lovely
08:47Lovely
08:48I'm an aesthetics nurse and I run my own clinic from home
08:51I absolutely love my job
08:53I've managed to build a business on my own from the ground up
08:59It's thriving
09:01Is that okay?
09:02Feeling alright?
09:03And I'm so proud of that because I know that it's me who's achieved that
09:07When you're entrepreneurial, you strive for more all the time
09:13My standards are very high
09:15I like things to be in order
09:17And I like things to look nice
09:19I won't settle for anything less than perfection in my life
09:24And I feel the same about my relationships
09:26I was with my ex-partner for eight years and we got engaged
09:35And a little while after that I broke off the engagement
09:39When he proposed, there was something inside me that was saying
09:47I'm not sure if this is 100% right
09:51Making the decision that I made to break off the engagement
09:56Obviously changed the course of my life
09:58Yeah
09:59But changed me as a person
10:00Yeah
10:01It was heartbreaking for us all, you know
10:03Because we just thought that was your course to be on
10:07There is somebody out there that is just going to be perfect for what you want
10:14I have a really clear idea of the type of person that I want
10:18The values that I want him to have
10:20The way that I want him to live his life
10:21And what would work well for me in that sense
10:24And I haven't ever felt that before
10:28I want to be with a partner and think this is everything that I've ever wanted
10:33So if you found somebody that wasn't your type
10:36Would you be willing to put the work in and the effort in if you didn't tick those boxes straight away?
10:42I feel like I'm the type of person that needs them boxes ticked instantly
10:49And if they're not, in my mind I think, it's not going to work, it's not going to work, just move on
10:55I'm attracted to the alpha male
11:01Somebody tall, confident, and who's sure I can tell
11:05Who's sure of themselves
11:06I want him to have really strong family values
11:09And want to have a family in the future with me
11:13I want him to be kind and respectful
11:16To have a lot of get up and go
11:18And to be really funny
11:22I'm really ready to find the one
11:26And something as crazy and as wild as this
11:29Feels like the right next step
11:31I have got a hundred percent hit rate in my flirty
11:36Don't, listen, don't ask my friends what they say
11:38Just ask me, it's a hundred percent
11:40We never thought we'd see the day the baby gets married
11:43I always thought I'd get married
11:45Like, chill out on that
11:47Everyone grows up, like, I'm not a massive flirt anymore
11:50Much, a little bit
11:52If there was a dating review website, I think I'd have five stars
11:55I think I'm a catch, yeah, I mean, yeah, look at me
11:58I enjoy being tall, I think that is such a good trait
12:01When you're trying to approach women
12:02I've got to put my heart on a dating app
12:04I've put, hi, I'm six foot four, yeah
12:06Remember, I'm six foot four
12:08I'm definitely an extrovert
12:10I'm just loud, so I end up being central attention
12:16I like to think of myself somewhat as an entrepreneur
12:19I'm kind of like the Richard Bramson of Brighton
12:22I own a microbrewery
12:24It helps me on dates loads
12:25I mean, if I'm in a bar that sells the beer
12:27I'd be like, oh, oh, they sell my beer here today
12:30Like I didn't know already
12:31It works hard, you see, that works extremely
12:33My beer is named after my gorgeous little daughter
12:37Wow, look at that
12:40You ready?
12:41Becoming a dad is the best thing I've ever done
12:44She's the most important person in my life
12:46I just have another level to love with Bluebell
12:50Who's your best friend?
12:52You
12:53Who's my best friend?
12:54Me
12:55Yeah
12:56Family is super important to me
12:57I split up with my daughter's mother
12:59My daughter's mother
13:00It was something I never wanted to do
13:01We came to kind of the harsh reality
13:03That we would be happy if separated
13:06I do want more kids one day
13:07So I think that makes it even more important
13:09To be in a strong relationship
13:11And to be really close with my partner
13:13Be really sure about them
13:15Why is love so important to you now?
13:20Love means everything to me
13:22I'd love to be married
13:24I'd love to start building a future
13:25Maybe build on my family
13:27And have a family together
13:28All of these things are important to me
13:30But the right person
13:31Someone I could see forever with
13:33Just a teammate
13:34Like someone to bring out the best of me
13:36And then I can hopefully do that with her
13:38Yeah
13:42I'm looking for sparks
13:44Honesty
13:46Kindness
13:48Entrepreneurial spirit
13:52I think there's that fairy tale out there for everyone
13:55And yeah, I'm here searching for mine
13:57Rebecca and Bailey are a fascinating couple
14:07Let's start with Rebecca
14:08Who is possibly one of our trickiest brides to match
14:11She's confident
14:12Career driven
14:13A high achiever
14:14And she demands perfection in all aspects of her life
14:17Including her partner
14:19She wants a husband with an alpha personality
14:21Who can match her energy and drive
14:24It's a very high bar
14:25But I think we may have cracked it with Bailey
14:28He's an entrepreneur
14:29Self-assured
14:30A leader in his peer group
14:32And he radiates charm and confidence
14:34Absolutely
14:35Bailey's a big personality
14:36But Rebecca's direct and honest characteristics
14:39Will keep him on his toes
14:41And they both have a genuine love of family
14:43Which as a loving father
14:45Is a crucial quality for Bailey
14:47And let's not forget
14:48They are both highly active and extroverts
14:51Who love the company of other people
14:52So they should really bounce off each other's positive energy
14:57If the spark ignites for these two
15:00There could be fireworks
15:02Rebecca
15:03And Bailey
15:04I just want there to be like that spark and that connection
15:13And then I look at him and I'm like
15:14Oh okay
15:15Do you feel like you
15:16When you see him
15:17You'll know
15:18Yeah
15:19Straight away
15:20Yeah
15:21I'm not going to be able to live in 10 seconds
15:22I'm just that type of person though aren't I
15:24You do need to give people a chance as well
15:28Rebecca likes everything her own way
15:31And you know
15:32She's got certain standards that she wants everybody to live up to
15:36But she does maybe need to compromise a little bit
15:39I want somebody who like is a typical alpha guy
15:46I'm always attracted to like the tallest guys
15:49I hope he's well dressed
15:51Clean big feasts, gym bod
15:53A six pack discipline and they work really hard
15:56I would say you're picky
15:57You have got your standards
16:00You have
16:01And you know what you want
16:02God it feels so real now you're here
16:06I didn't sleep at all last night
16:07You're nervous
16:08No I'm ready
16:09I'm ready
16:10I can't believe it
16:11The day is here
16:12I'm about to be a husband
16:13I'm going to have a wife
16:14I can't wait to meet her
16:16Get me down that aisle
16:17She might not like you
16:19Are you worried about that at all?
16:21Nah I'm not worried about that
16:24She'll love me
16:25Like it's fine
16:26I'm obviously Mr. Confident
16:27I'm not used to people not fancying me
16:29I get a lot of numbers
16:30Get a lot of dates
16:31Is she going to be in love as soon as she sees me?
16:36He's always confident
16:37A bit too confident at times
16:42Try and crack on with her for the first night
16:44Well she's like
16:45She's not feeling it
16:46Yeah
16:47How would you react to that?
16:48I don't know
16:49Listen I'm not even thinking about it
16:50It's never happened
17:01I've got my heart attack
17:02I definitely am looking to settle down
17:18I definitely am looking to settle down.
17:24I just haven't met the right person.
17:27I want to call someone my wife,
17:29and I want to be with someone forever.
17:33I'm going to have to listen.
17:48Hello, hello.
17:53All right?
17:54All right, how's it going?
17:56Hello.
18:02What's your name?
18:04I'm Bailey. Bailey?
18:05Yeah, nice to meet you all. You all are lovely.
18:11Rebecca knows what she wants,
18:13so I will know from Rebecca's face
18:15if this is not her dream, ma'am.
18:18I'm picturing, like, a man who's got, like, stature about him.
18:28I want him to be a dominant figure.
18:34I've walked away from something before
18:36because I didn't want to settle.
18:41And if they don't tick enough boxes for me straight away,
18:46I will say how I feel.
18:49How's it going?
18:57How's it going?
19:05Are you all right?
19:07Hi. How's it going? You all right?
19:19Hi. How are you? Nice to meet you too. I'm Rebecca.
19:24Hi, Rebecca. I'm Bailey. Nice to meet you.
19:25Bailey? Yeah.
19:27You look lovely.
19:28Thank you so much. So do you.
19:32She's absolutely stunning. I can't believe it.
19:35She's right up my street.
19:37She's a bit of me.
19:38God, you look lovely, by the way.
19:40Yeah, you're really lovely.
19:41Honestly, yeah.
19:42I have big smiles. Look at me.
19:44I'm like Cheshire Cat.
19:57What's all right?
19:58Six-four.
19:59Six-four?
20:00Yeah. Is that right?
20:01He's not six-foot-four.
20:11I guess six-foot-one.
20:15I said I would know within ten seconds.
20:17And alarm bells are going off in my head.
20:26He's not my type.
20:27Oh, God.
20:33Thank you all for coming to celebrate this very special occasion.
20:45Now, in these beautiful surroundings, we come to the fowls which Rebecca and Bailey have written to each other.
20:52I always tell my friends that first date should be casual.
21:01Nothing too fancy.
21:03Don't overdress.
21:04And whatever you do, never talk about marriage.
21:07But, well, here we are.
21:09Nice to meet you.
21:12But in all seriousness, I vow to be your biggest fan, your supportive teammate, and your personal comedian.
21:20Always there to make you smile when you need cheering up.
21:24So here's to laughter, happiness, and who knows, hopefully, one day love.
21:32So let's do this.
21:37To my husband.
21:41Never in a million years did I think I'd stand in front of a stranger and agree to marry them.
21:46I decided this year was the year that I would say yes to everything.
21:50To every opportunity, to every invitation, but more importantly, to you.
21:55I want to get to know the real you.
21:58I know we may go through tough times together, but all I ask...
22:02I'm going to cry.
22:04All I ask is that you try to love me.
22:07Sorry.
22:08But you try to love me just as I am.
22:12Please just accept me and let me show you how magical life can be with me by your side.
22:18Excuse me.
22:21So to my husband, I say yes to you today.
22:24And hopefully I will say yes every day thereafter.
22:31I'm going to start wearing out.
22:32I can't speak.
22:35I'm trying to be all macho, aren't I?
22:37I don't think he's an alpha.
22:45No.
22:47Rebecca, I give you this ring.
22:49Wear it with joy and as a symbol of our unity.
22:53Bailey, I give you this ring with sincerity and as a symbol of our unity.
22:59Bailey, Rebecca, you may now share your first kiss.
23:02No.
23:12Like, a kiss on the mouth isn't right for me at this stage.
23:16Please join me in giving them your warmest congratulations.
23:25God, I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest.
23:38I wanted a kiss.
23:40Oh, God, I don't know.
23:41Is that a first part?
23:42Bloody hell.
23:43I felt straight away, there was no real sexual pull.
23:50I don't know if he'd be my type that I'd gravitate to.
23:56I'm a man on a mission now.
23:58I'm a man on a mission to get a kiss.
24:00Maybe a bit of tongue layer.
24:01Oh, my God.
24:13The experts have definitely got this right.
24:16I've literally met someone that I didn't truly believe ever existed.
24:21Oh, this is really nice.
24:23You know what?
24:23I think I can stay here for a few nights.
24:26Cool.
24:28I've been married for less than 24 hours.
24:31The lack of physical, like, desire does bother me a little bit.
24:37I love someone who is excited about life.
24:40And I'm getting the impression that Devani is low energy.
24:43Wow.
24:44Just different energy to mine.
24:47If I had to design my own house, it would look like this.
24:50Yeah?
24:51But it would have pillars as well.
24:54Oh, pillars.
24:54I love a house with pillars.
24:57I don't want a boring life.
24:59I want to do fun things together.
25:00Maybe it'll spark and come in time.
25:03It hasn't really at the moment.
25:05It's our final dinner at the honeymoon.
25:19I'm hoping to clear the air.
25:20I've sort of had to think about how I'm behaving.
25:22I know that I've had moments where I could have been more open and I could have put more effort in.
25:29So I want her to know that.
25:30I'm going to take on board what she said.
25:32We've had moments, I think, where we've been sort of up and down.
25:36And I've maybe realised that there is an element of me that is maybe a bit more distant with you because of things I've been through in the past.
25:49Subconsciously, I've built a wall up so much since I've been single.
25:53It's like I've turned a switch off and I'm struggling to turn that switch back on.
26:00And that is why there's a bit of me that's kind of kicking myself a little bit.
26:03I'm like, why is that bit not there?
26:05Yeah.
26:05Because, like, I am attracted to you in a lot of ways.
26:12What I really appreciate today is, like, me telling you that I feel like we need to meet 50-50 and already you've gone away and you've worked on that straight away within hours.
26:22Do you know what I mean?
26:23Yeah.
26:24See, I can be sweet.
26:27It makes me feel like I'm definitely heard.
26:32So I feel like she is trying.
26:35No, I paid it to you.
26:37I'm trying to be romantic.
26:38Sorry.
26:39You asked for effort.
26:40I'm giving you effort.
26:41Mm-hmm.
26:57The sound on my feet.
26:58Ow!
26:59I think I just stepped on a rock.
27:01Thank you very much.
27:02Ow!
27:03I just kicked the table.
27:05It's just nice, isn't it?
27:07Yeah.
27:08Joe is a really nice guy.
27:10I didn't even know his name 24 hours ago.
27:13And now I'm in this amazing place in the Caribbean, I think.
27:18And I'm having a really good time.
27:25Oh, fucking hell.
27:27Are you being a lady tonight?
27:29Uh-uh.
27:29I think the biggest stumbling block about Maeve is she's got this big sort of character that's almost boisterous energy.
27:39Ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:39But Maeve, that is strong, you know.
27:41Woo!
27:43But I feel like I need to get to know each other on a deeper level tonight.
27:46So, you do love being a mum, yeah?
27:52Oh, yeah, the best feeling in the world.
27:54Best feeling in the world.
27:56I miss my son knows now.
27:58Seeing his little face in the morning, like, oh, I just squeeze him.
28:02Like, I wake up, like, ten minutes earlier just to give him a cuddle.
28:05That's nice.
28:06It's the best honesty, man.
28:07He melts me hot.
28:08Like, he is my best friend.
28:10But there are times when it is, like, hard.
28:14Yeah.
28:15Because I've got to be, like, the mum, the dad, like...
28:18And obviously, I had him at 20.
28:19Like, I've always been the person that's provided, like, paid all the bills and everything.
28:23Yeah.
28:24So, I am quite, like, independent.
28:26See, I respect that massively.
28:28Yes.
28:29You are a caring person, and I fucking get that vibe off you.
28:34And that's exactly what I asked for.
28:36Someone that's got a good art, and I genuinely do think you've got an art of gold, honest.
28:40That is actually...
28:42But I think you put on this, like...
28:47facade, but I know there's a soft interior.
28:52I can just see it.
28:55I don't really open up to people.
28:57It's like, I am shit scared of talking about how I actually feel.
29:01When people say that I have got a soft side, people do take the piss out of you, and I don't want that to happen again.
29:06But it's nice that he actually listens to me.
29:09I've never had that.
29:10Here we are.
29:23Here we are.
29:24Here we are.
29:26I definitely find Julia Roof stupid attractive.
29:28Getting to know her throughout this honeymoon stage, I feel like it's just really confirming what I've been looking for, for a very long time.
29:37So, what was your, um, first thoughts, or how did you feel when you turned around and you saw me?
29:43When I turned around and I saw you all smiling, walking up, I was so happy.
29:48Nervous, but I was stupid happy, man.
29:51Oh.
29:52Stupid.
29:53You are absolutely beautiful.
29:54That's really nice.
30:02What was your, uh, thinking when you saw me?
30:07I was, like, flattered with so many, like, emotions.
30:11Excited and nervous.
30:13It was a lot to take in.
30:15You were very confident.
30:16You were very calm when I was nervous.
30:18And I like the fact that we had a lot in common.
30:23But, um, I think it is fair to say that there was an expectation maybe on, like, height.
30:37I mean, I have dated, like, taller guys.
30:42Huh?
30:43Mm.
30:44He just feels like a really nice friend at the moment.
30:55I don't want to be mean to him.
31:01Wow.
31:09That shocks me.
31:11I'm not no basketball player.
31:13Yeah, that hurt.
31:15Shit.
31:24I definitely fancy her.
31:41She's obviously gorgeous.
31:42But I'm struggling to tell where she's at a little bit.
31:46This way for me.
31:47I think we look good.
31:48What do you reckon?
31:49Do we?
31:50Yeah, I think we look good, yeah.
31:51I hope so.
31:53Bailey is so complimentary of me.
31:56But I just don't know if, like, the fancying is there for me.
32:00What's your type?
32:05I like a real masculine energy.
32:06Yeah, sweet, yeah.
32:07What are you like with your mates?
32:08I'm the loud one, yeah.
32:09I'm proper extroverted, yeah.
32:11And what about you?
32:13I'd say I'm, like, the leader of the girls.
32:16Oh, yeah, yeah.
32:17We're both halfers, then, are we?
32:18See, I don't get that vibe at all.
32:21What, from me?
32:22Do you not?
32:22No.
32:22What am I giving?
32:23Beta vibes.
32:27What's going on?
32:28I'm obviously the alpha.
32:30Could I get a kiss for the camera?
32:31Is that okay, please?
32:33I can't kiss.
32:33I don't feel about the kissing there.
32:34Can I kiss on the cheek?
32:40Yeah, you can kiss on the cheek.
32:46There we go.
32:50I've got the cheek again, but I can't work it out.
32:53Can't believe it.
32:57I don't think I see the type A character from him yet.
33:02I don't know if we've got different definitions of what an alpha might be.
33:13You okay?
33:16No!
33:18You'll be all right.
33:19Hold on, hold on, hold on.
33:20Don't move it, don't move it just yet.
33:22My legs are shaking.
33:26Come on!
33:28My feelings have definitely progressed with Maeve.
33:31I was a bit unsure at the wedding, but just getting to know her gradually.
33:35I'm getting signs that Maeve's sort of letting me in.
33:37Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, fucking hell, I nearly knocked my cell out.
33:42I'm not doing that ever again.
33:43Well done.
33:43Well done.
33:45What I've found is the more time that I'm spending with them, I am starting to like them.
33:49It's nice, isn't it?
33:49It could go out of your comfort zone.
33:50No!
33:51Well done.
33:52Well done.
33:53You smashed that.
33:54Well done.
33:55That was the weirdest thing I've ever done in my life.
33:57You smashed it.
33:58I was crying at the top.
33:59Me of a boyfriend that I've been with are nothing compared to Joe.
34:03Like, Joe makes me feel really comfortable, and he reassures me quite a lot.
34:08But I've still got my God up massively, so I don't want to give him 100% just yet.
34:13Fuck that.
34:18How are you feeling?
34:28Hmm.
34:33Not great.
34:34Okay.
34:35There's tension, for sure.
34:38And Julia Ruth shared her perspective on first thought at the wedding.
34:42Yeah, that hurt.
34:43But I'm still physically attracted to her.
34:46I'm emotionally touched on her, for sure.
34:49And I really want this to work as much as possible.
34:52I'll just let my character be bigger and taller.
34:55So that's where my mind's at, really and truly.
35:00I just feel like there's still more days left to see where it's going to go.
35:06Yeah.
35:07Sometimes it's easier to adjust to your partner's needs.
35:13And I feel like it just depends on circumstances, situations, time.
35:20Devani is just boring.
35:23I just want to, like, let her hair down.
35:26So today I just want to see him, like, have fun with cooking Moroccan food.
35:30And then maybe the physical attraction would have come just a little bit easier.
35:35Let's go.
35:36I love eating.
35:38I love eating.
35:39I love good food.
35:40I love flavours, spices.
35:41I love eating.
35:44I love good food.
35:45I also love flavours, spices.
35:50is me right now in my element yeah super happy i love eating i love good food lots of flavors spices
36:05nice
36:10i'm really trying to have fun but the conversation has been a bit of a struggle
36:17can i borrow a good night okay
36:36so yeah it's not ideal it's not fun
36:47hello everyone hello
36:54oh what do you reckon yeah i want to be punching
37:02what do you drink uh anything are you do you drink i do drink you do drink yeah just not like loads
37:08okay no i don't drink like it's got um no no is it just because i said i don't know i mean i don't
37:13i just don't drink loads but um yeah yeah wine so do you drink a lot then
37:20not a lot i feel like you're gonna lie to me
37:22no no no not not loads i'm a social drinker
37:26do you go out quite a lot not like what like depends what you mean socially like to watch the
37:31football at the pub then a little bit but like it's like literally to do that and go home
37:36you can say that you go out no no no i swear i just want you to tell me how you act like you are
37:44like i just i want to get to know you properly do you know what i mean
37:50when somebody's an alpha they don't try too hard to be like that
37:53yeah like fitness is like a big part of my is it yeah i like training so i like being in the gym
38:00always in the gym like i go every day i never go a week without going
38:04i went like 24 days in the in the month so yeah i'm always in the gym
38:09i do worry about the authenticity i'll be back oh are you off fire i'm off i'm gonna go and speak to
38:27your friends wait who's speaking to my friends i'm not sure if bailey is being really real with me
38:33hello there so what do you want to know the goths tell me all the gossip
38:40hey far away far away is he six foot four there's no way he's six four
38:46he's about six two on a good day i think
38:52so he said to me that he trained every day when he says train he means he does five press-ups in the
38:58morning it is a white lie it makes no sense to me i don't mind
39:03i don't need someone who goes to the gym every single day just be honest
39:09what's he been like in past relationships with people
39:14oh no no no the thing is the thing is with his uh his ex i can kind of see in ways
39:24like how he like sort of changed a little bit yeah he changed his dress sense a little bit
39:28he changed his dress to match the partner please say a little really yeah
39:33oh no yeah yeah i like someone who's just like dead sure of themselves like won't change for anyone
39:38and i've got concerns around bailey and alpha doesn't change for anybody i want to get to know
39:45somebody for who they are and to fall in love with that but he's putting on like a bit of a show and it
39:51worries me
40:03right what we got here i'm really looking forward to having another night with joe tonight
40:07i think i'm having a really good time with him i want it burning me soul
40:21fucking hell
40:24but it's really hard when i start meeting someone because i've always got in the back of my mind
40:30they're gonna hear you so i'm just trying to take it moment by moment
40:36today has been one of the most craziest days of my life is it lining through a jungle there has been
40:41a lot like yeah how are you feeling about everything i'm good yeah i think it's nice to see you like do
40:47all this this like different shit but obviously you said that you have like a guard up and i think when
40:56like me and you were in the villa that's when like your guard comes down but when we're more in like
41:02a public setting it goes back up again
41:07but it's my job as a husband to sort of get that guard down and really get to know more
41:15you really pissed me off why have i pissed you off because you have for what reason why
41:19because i actually feel myself gonna kick off soon what do you mean no i haven't said it yeah you're
41:24saying that i don't fucking open up yeah but you need to explain what do you know what i mean i just
41:30don't want everyone to say that i am like this like what well obviously like i've got this big like
41:35personality that i don't give a fuck and like obviously you know that i've got a softer sideways
41:39i don't want everyone to say that
41:40do you know what i mean look that's part of your personality so why wouldn't you why do you care
41:47about that because i do for what yeah but that isn't a reason is it well yeah it is it's a very
41:53fucking valid reason what cause i do i get me guard up really really quick and that is the type of
42:10person that i am i don't want anyone really to see how vulnerable i can be because i've been hurt so
42:15many times but i feel like he's just said this out of nowhere so me god's gone straight back up
42:23i didn't want to piss you off like yeah but you've actually hit a nerve though why
42:28because you have for what reason because you just have and i'm not going round and round in circles
42:32but you have just hit a nerve yeah but you've got to give a reason for it
42:37what oh right right go then you're pissing me off why because you're fucking all man you're actually
42:44fucking all i just want to feel more connected to me and my main concern is that we don't actually get
42:58there in the end
43:12i'm feeling a little uneasy right now like her not like opening up as much it's something that i
43:30felt that i had to grow when i have a few drinks i get in my head a little bit and little things just
43:40trigger me and i flew off the handle for no reason i never like to say i'm in the wrong about anything
43:46even when i am in the wrong but i need to tell them how i'm really feeling
43:57do you know last night was a lot wasn't it yeah i mean
44:02i feel like it's not really resolved what i was saying so what it is like i don't want people to
44:07say that i've got that softer side was it was like i do struggle opening up and like even just
44:12opening up to you about little things like that's massive for me i honestly i hate feeling vulnerable
44:18but i just feel like every time when i let more people in that's when i get over more
44:23yeah so that's why i'm always a bit of a dick but i wouldn't i'm not going to you over do you know what i
44:31mean i don't need to worry about everyone else has though so do you know what i mean yeah yeah i do i do
44:42but i did feel bad you don't actually need to it was just like a misunderstanding and it's fine
44:52he's making me feel real like really reassured about everything like he's the kindest soul that
44:57i've actually ever met and i feel like no matter what i say he's not going to judge us
45:01so i do think i'm going to be a little bit more open with him i'm just trying to like learn about
45:09you i feel closer to you now than i did before i feel more comfortable around you
45:17we've just got to take a day at a time though haven't we and that's what i think and to be
45:21fair i was pretty scared of what like drunk you were going to be like but you weren't that bad that
45:26wasn't anything that was literally just me saying i needed to get away from you like that was
45:30i was scared for my safety to be fair oh man
45:39your friends were very telling about how you are yeah in a good way
45:48they said that you don't go to the gym and you're not six foot four
45:57that's wild
46:01everything i've said has been total truth total truth honestly i want you to be a hundred percent
46:09you that's so important to me like i want you to just be yourself i feel i've always been sure
46:13on myself your friends didn't say that they said that when you was with an act yeah she dressed quite
46:22quirky and they said that you like matched that and you dressed in a similar way yeah that's probably
46:29a bit more true i don't want you to change at all for me
46:33but i wouldn't see it changing i would see it growing with someone
46:45i think i've grown from all of my past relationships and it's kind of made me into the person i am today
46:49i think like i want to meet someone i can grow with and they can grow with me and i think that's healthy
46:57okay he seems like he's got the gift of the gab i just want to make sure that the person i'm with
47:04and they're really sure of themselves and they don't change for an ex or anybody else come on then
47:09let's cheers cheers
47:15come on
47:15this is nice got the honeymoon sweet look so we need to discuss the sleeping arrangements oh yeah
47:31yeah what are your thoughts
47:38uh yeah it's up to you baby i can take the sofa i'm very much a gentleman
47:41it's up to you totally up to you yeah
47:48okay i mean if you're happy to sleep on this over that would be great
47:53i just want like a clear yeah divide between us just for now yeah we can see how we get on yeah
48:00yeah is that okay with you yeah that's fine yeah good i was not expecting that in the slightest
48:07but i'm still interested don't get me wrong i think there's still something there to work on
48:14see you in the morning wifey good night night i'm just not there yet it's so early on i don't know
48:24if i've like met the real him yet i need to build that connection before i can be physically intimate with
48:30him
48:44we've got a nice milk milk bath it says i heart you i thought it said joe
48:58i definitely think the arguments brought us close together
49:01it was important that may have sort of opened up i do feel like we are understanding each other more
49:06and more every day cheers for the last day cheers feeling great after last night me and may have had
49:12a really nice time when we got to the villa we really did get to know each other on a deeper level
49:17one thing led to another and that's it that's what i'm saying oh god i can tell you now that
49:26he's definitely more than a good body he is a very he's a good time guy
49:43hello hello hi how are you good thanks for you good how are you doing yes
49:49at the moment i feel like it's feeling really awkward hey whoa that's mad today i just want us to
49:56have lots of laughs and trying to focus on like the good things and the energy whoa
50:07yo i didn't envision my honeymoon to be like this but marriage just as we all know it's not going to
50:14be easy ultimately this is just another opportunity just to get close to my wife and i still strongly
50:18believe that we can get over this hump you hear that pure silence
50:26that's nice that's really nice
50:40look at that
50:43are you like a scenic person like views and all of that yeah yeah
50:47actually did very well on the subject of earth and space in school okay
50:58this is quite hard i'm struggling with the conversation
51:02kind of just live a fearless life i just kind of step into the unknown whatever that looks like
51:08how i've grown up i've always been a protector or just a facilitator keeping the peace
51:18are you afraid of heights nah no no no yeah
51:22yeah do you have any like fears like what scares you the most growing up i was always alone just even
51:32with my whole family and i think knowing that i could potentially be alone for the rest of my life
51:37that would be the worst yeah
51:42that's not what i meant at all with davani it is quite difficult to find the fun lighthearted side and
51:49just be a bit carefree it has just too deep i don't know i think the worst thing is that i've always
51:55went through life questioning why certain things happened so he's hitting misses that's a strange
52:01way to look at it no not really no one caters to me that sucks he doesn't see that any positives
52:10or like with that with me it's just like it's like it's just too much you focus on the negative
52:17you're saying it sucked you sit in the negativity and you could track negativity and draw negativity
52:24and it will keep coming back camera ride was a disaster
52:34it's just hard it just feels like it's just like a lot of negativity
52:39i can't i can't lift us both up i can't
52:49this is definitely one of the hardest challenges i've been through and i don't want it to be
52:53translated that the information that i was given was from a negative place it was more of just me
52:58opening it up
53:06how you doing okay
53:15it's pretty intense very much intense
53:19i just feel like what i need was just a bit of positivity and fun so we can feel the traction
53:25but on the camels it was just like i sat there and you literally spit out one thing after another
53:32i don't want you to feel you can't open up to me because that's not what the case is
53:38there just needs to be a balance and like a time and a place for things
53:41so i came into this experiment to find my person have someone that i can as well as having fun
53:50offload to and someone that ultimately understands me
53:55was it intentional to put you in that situation where it was like damn i'm trying to be mr negative
54:01it was just something that hit me in that moment and i was just pouring out the feelings
54:07but the way you say things it's just like a tornado of negativity and it's hard to want to be
54:15intimate and grow and develop something when everything is so intense and so deep
54:21the last thing i want to do is have a talk about traumas and then like get into bed with you
54:33maybe like just for tonight we'll just do separate rooms just to be clear
54:38and then tomorrow we'll like regroup and start like a fresh new day and like a clean slate
54:47shit that's how i'm honestly feeling um i feel like i've just been attacked
54:53the thing that hurt me the most is sleeping in separate rooms but if she needs her space i'll give
54:59her space there's trouble in paradise in it
55:08next time i know what i want and what i don't want it has to be right one more couple says i do
55:19but expectations i would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox sense of humor are
55:27quickly tested where's my voice oh you're joking he's not the silver fox i had in mind
55:34bailey seeks a more intimate connection i feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off
55:41you i personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as i've met them that's just a bit too soon for me
55:46and for julia ruth and davani davani and i slept separately i haven't seen him since
55:52the road to a honeymoon reunion you don't really get a second chance with a woman like that is heading
55:58for a dead end this is not how i wanted my honeymoon to go
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