Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 10

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Married at First Sight UK S10E10  Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 10   #RealityRealmUS  Reality Realm US

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00:00People don't need to know my shit.

00:02Set Stephen on a collision course.

00:05Just, just out of my business.

00:06I'm not trying to come to a new relationship, I'm not.

00:08Couldn't give a fuck, I'm completely honest, I'm here for my relationship.

00:16Tonight.

00:17On a scale of 1 to 10, how strong are your feelings?

00:20The second dinner party serves up romantic confessions from Sam.

00:249.5.

00:26Do you have any regrets so far?

00:30While others face harsher truths.

00:33Yes.

00:35I feel like I'm constantly calling you out for things.

00:38Trying to be nice and then they're backfiring on me.

00:41I'm at a point of my life now, I need to know you want the same thing.

00:44I haven't got time to waste.

00:46But it's gossip in the group.

00:48It took a fuck for like two weeks before you came in.

00:50Whoa.

00:52Fine.

00:52That sparks the biggest conflict of the night.

00:55Who has decided to say I was talking about my sexual activity?

00:58You did.

00:59We've all met.

00:59People are trying to f*** me off.

01:01That, that, that, that, that, that.

01:02That's it.

01:06Wow.

01:07Can you just say this?

01:08Want a tea, babe?

01:17Yeah, I'm just a bit f***ed.

01:19That means you're angry.

01:20No, it means that you're thirsty.

01:22I thought it meant you're...

01:22Like f***ing coming out of your mouth and you're so dry.

01:25I always thought that meant you're annoyed.

01:28Cookie?

01:28Stop force-feeding me.

01:30No, no.

01:30Yeah, I didn't.

01:31Wait.

01:31I don't want the cookie now you've licked it.

01:34It's Maeve's 30th birthday today, so I just want to make it as special as possible and

01:47celebrate her birthday together.

01:50There you go.

01:51That's not too bad.

01:52Maeve!

01:53She sometimes needs reassuring how special she is.

01:57What the f***?

01:59Happy birthday.

02:01Good writing, innit?

02:03And then, oh, it's still fun.

02:05Oh, my God.

02:07All I wanted was a three and a zero balloon, wasn't I?

02:10Happy birthday.

02:11Oh, thank you so much.

02:13I've never been treated this well of a lad on my birthday ever.

02:17Me and Joe are in a really good spot right now.

02:19I just feel like we're on cloud nine.

02:21I feel very good about myself today.

02:24What?

02:26Is it?

02:28Oh, sweetheart.

02:30It's a bit salty, mate.

02:31Oh, it's salty.

02:41After the expats weekend to help with Charlene, myself and Sarah were growing romantically.

02:46Now we're holding hands, you know, now we'll cuddle, you know.

02:48It's slowly, slowly getting there.

02:49Then we were doing really good.

02:51But we had a blip.

02:53Last night we had a massive argument.

02:54We had had a few drinks and I really wish the argument hadn't happened because we have

03:02had a really good week.

03:04I put my foot in it again.

03:05A member of the crew came down where we were drinking and Sarah said, oh, if you were straight,

03:11I'd be all over you.

03:14Made me feel like, I don't know if she'll ever feel that way about me.

03:17So last night we had a massive argument because I was like, do you think you'll ever fall for

03:22me?

03:23She said, I don't know.

03:24And it did hurt.

03:25I now have learnt from that and I have been apologising to Dean today.

03:32She's saying she's not used to thinking for somebody else's feelings.

03:35I'm genuinely sorry.

03:36It'll never happen again.

03:37I'm here to find love and I'm putting everything into this.

03:39So we're going to be strong.

03:41We're going to get through this.

03:41Do you want a coffee, Grace?

03:49Yes, please.

03:51Things I mean, Ash, are good.

03:53Experts, we help the relationship.

03:55We're getting more trusting and I'm relaxing more.

03:57The workshop was helpful for taking the pressure off a little bit.

04:00Do you find it awkward at all?

04:01I'm just private, aren't I?

04:03Does it make it more awkward that I wasn't awkward?

04:05No, I think that probably helped, to be fair.

04:07Grace and I are really good, but there's that constant communication issue where,

04:11my terminology isn't always correct.

04:14It's normally silly things.

04:15I woke up the other morning and her nails were overgrown and I was like,

04:18should we go and get your nails done?

04:19And her reply was, I don't need to get my nails done for a man.

04:22And I was like, okay, it's not what I was saying, but I get it.

04:26How do I say this?

04:28When I met Ash, I was so disappointed that I had this traditional person

04:33that wants a lady and a tomboy Barbie and all this bollocks.

04:36It made me feel uncomfortable and not really me.

04:39I've asked him not to comment on what I wear and how I look and how I am.

04:42He continues to do it anyway.

04:44Anita and I are in separate apartments.

04:54I have given her plenty of space.

04:56I thought Expert Week was good for us.

04:59We did the questions task and I asked her some direct questions,

05:03which was what she wanted.

05:05And I think that went quite positive.

05:11Hello.

05:12Oh, hello, lovely.

05:13I'd like to walk into the dinner party together,

05:15a show of strength, a show of becoming closer.

05:19I have my fingers crossed.

05:20It's a nice frock, isn't it?

05:21Thanks.

05:22I joined this experiment and said that I would give it 100%,

05:25but I don't know how I feel about my marriage.

05:28I've hardly asked any questions about me.

05:31I don't want to ask.

05:32Since their honeymoon.

05:34I don't know if it's all for the marriage.

05:36Issues with communication.

05:37I know your three children's names.

05:39Do you know my two?

05:41No.

05:42No emotional connection.

05:44No communication.

05:45Just miles apart.

05:47And a differing approach to the pace of their marriage.

05:50Surely you should know what you want by now.

05:52Are you expecting me to be feeling committed attitudes?

05:54Created problems for Anita and Paul.

05:57You said it takes you time.

05:59I just haven't got that time.

06:01Love is something you build.

06:03My time frame may be different from her time frame,

06:07and that's going to be the sticking point.

06:10Have you had a good week?

06:11Yeah, it's been better, yeah.

06:13What about you?

06:14Don't know how I'm feeling.

06:17I took the expert advice on board.

06:21Done the questions.

06:22Feeling more open.

06:25I don't want to give any wrong signals.

06:28Well, let me reassure you, you're not.

06:31How would you like to arrive?

06:35Personally, I'd like to go together.

06:37I think we've had a better week.

06:40We've been more communicative.

06:42Spent time together.

06:44Your choice, madam.

06:49I don't know.

06:52I'm not sure whether to go into the dinner party with Paul.

06:58Obviously, he came here looking for love,

06:59and Paul and I are on totally different pages,

07:03different books, to be honest.

07:06He feels that if he does ask questions,

07:08he feels like he's being intrusive, he's being nosy.

07:11As always, I don't know how he feels deep down.

07:14I'm not sure what Paul wants, to be honest.

07:24How'd you think the week's gone?

07:26It's been a bit down-ish.

07:27The workshop with Sharlane was interesting.

07:30Yeah.

07:30I wouldn't say that the intimacy workshop brought me and Leah closer,

07:35because intimacy is still not massively progressed.

07:39We went through that whole situation where Leah was being flirty with Rebecca,

07:42and it annoyed me.

07:44I felt disrespected.

07:45I just feel like they're going to ask us,

07:47have you done your homework?

07:48Yeah, but we're not in any rush to be doing anything that we don't want to do.

07:54I'm frustrated.

07:55I'm putting me all on the table.

07:57Do I feel like I'm getting that back?

07:58Absolutely not.

07:59We did take a load of different bits and pieces from the intimacy workshop,

08:04but she's dug it under the bed somewhere,

08:06and we haven't done anything or practised anything at home.

08:10I just hope it doesn't just stay in this friend zone,

08:13because we're here for a reason, aren't we?

08:23It's been a really tough week.

08:26I have communicated to Stephen how I'm feeling,

08:29but the effort's not there, and I'm exhausted.

08:35How's the rib?

08:37You know me.

08:37I'm quite good with pain, so...

08:39I'm putting it on me, so yeah, you must be good with pain.

08:43Yesterday, I fell over in the bathtub and broke my rib.

08:47When I told Stephen, I just felt like he didn't really care,

08:50because he ignored how I'm feeling and didn't come home till gone 11 at night.

08:56Do you want to talk or not about when I broke my robe?

09:00Sure.

09:01I felt deflated, not seeing you until very late at night.

09:05That just knocked me back a little bit.

09:06I worked this way, so I'm a dick.

09:12She's not been my priority this week.

09:13My stepdad's in the hospital.

09:15It's hard to think of anything other than that.

09:16We ran out for drinks last night, and we had Stephen with us.

09:23There's things I don't agree with that were said.

09:25Yeah, it was quite concerning.

09:27Stephen should have been at home with Nelly,

09:29but instead he was at the bar bragging about his sex life

09:31before the experiment.

09:33That is just insane.

09:35Nelly has no idea.

09:37And I'm not 100% sure if I should bring it up at the dinner party.

09:39I'm struggling with that.

09:41I think tonight will be very telling, once there's a bit of heat on him,

09:44how strong that bond really is now.

09:50I don't know what is going on in that boy's mind.

09:54Nelly fell, fractured her rib, she was hurt,

09:57and then he just decided to stay up with the boys all night.

09:59I just don't know where his head's at.

10:01Both Bailey and I are really close with Nelly and Stephen,

10:04but it feels really muggy.

10:06I think he's treating her the wrong way.

10:08My husband wouldn't disrespect me in that way,

10:11and if he did, then that would be it for me.

10:16People are going to have an opinion

10:18on how they would have done things.

10:20Generally, couldn't care.

10:23I am apprehensive about going into the dinner party.

10:26People are going to have an opinion,

10:28and he's going to get his back up

10:29because people are piping in again.

10:31They can say their own thing,

10:34but I'll just dismiss it.

10:36But then see how they like that.

10:37Stephen doesn't take into account my well-being,

10:41and I deserve better than that.

10:43Do you care?

10:45Because every single person came and checked on me

10:47apart from you.

10:50I'm in agony. I'm in pain.

10:53Where were you?

10:53Here we are, guys, dinner party number two.

11:08I cannot wait to check in

11:10and see how all the couples are doing.

11:12And of course, right off the back of Experts Week,

11:14let's see if the couples put into practice

11:16everything that they learned.

11:18Take a look.

11:19No one in here.

11:25First one.

11:27Julia Reef and Devaney.

11:29Last time we saw these two,

11:30they were not in a great place.

11:31For Experts Week,

11:32this couple had the values ranking task,

11:35so it's going to be really interesting

11:36to see what that's done for them

11:37in terms of finding alignment or otherwise.

11:39Do you think anyone's going to come in alone?

11:42I don't think so.

11:43I hope they need to pull.

11:44They're doing well.

11:45Yeah.

11:45Rooting for them.

11:46How are you?

11:54Here's Lee and Leah.

11:55Good!

11:56Yay!

11:57The first day was me.

11:59Lee and Leah really struggled with intimacy,

12:02so it'd be really interesting to find out

12:04whether there has been some progress.

12:07What have you guys been up to?

12:08We had intimacy week,

12:10and there was literally just sex toys all over a table.

12:13I've got to take my mouth down.

12:15Have you used it since you've been back?

12:16You put it all under the bed.

12:17Really?

12:18All of it.

12:19All of it under the bed.

12:21Doesn't sound like they've been accessed.

12:23Leah sounds quite disappointed.

12:25The thing for me is that,

12:26I mean, touch first base,

12:28we haven't gone to second base.

12:29Yeah.

12:29So, pulling out a dildo at this point.

12:31I've got aggressive.

12:33You'll have to go, like, balls and walls.

12:34What about the candle, the massage candle?

12:36Yeah.

12:36Shall we try that later?

12:37Yeah.

12:38Let's make a pack now.

12:39Yeah.

12:39Don't just say it.

12:40We're the witnesses.

12:41We're the witnesses.

12:41Yeah.

12:42We'll do that.

12:43Oh, I'm locking your door tomorrow,

12:44and I'm like, how did it go?

12:45If I'm not burnt tomorrow,

12:47we'll candle wax and he's a liar.

12:50Well, it sounds like they might have shared a kiss,

12:52which is progress.

12:53The question is,

12:54will Lee make good on that pinky promise?

12:57Let's see.

12:59And Lily and Steve?

13:00Are we talking about the fact that he went out all day

13:04when she had a broken rib and didn't come back

13:05and see if she was all right?

13:07And everyone else was in the apartment looking after her?

13:09Yeah.

13:09Oh, Nellie must be really suffering.

13:11Yes.

13:12I mean, it's not what you expect from your partner, is it?

13:14To have a broken rib and for them not to show up for you.

13:18Something's going wrong there.

13:19I think everyone came in and checked on her, but Stephen.

13:28Hey!

13:29Hi, gorgeous.

13:32Rebecca and Bailey,

13:34they look like a really strong couple,

13:36and it's because they've managed to build

13:38both a strong physical and emotional connection with each other.

13:42They seem to be doing really well.

13:44Hello, Gellies.

13:44How are you?

13:46Did our old experts week.

13:49We had values.

13:50Okay.

13:51Our values was like complete opposite.

13:54So we didn't align on the sex and the looks.

13:57When did you put sex and looks?

13:58It's okay.

13:59No, no, I put sex as number eight.

14:02Nine.

14:03Well, I can imagine that Julia Ruth wasn't happy to hear that

14:07because one thing we do know about Julia Ruth is that sex is right up there.

14:11It's very important for her.

14:13He put six, eight, and then looks as nine.

14:16Oh, my God.

14:17Sex as eight for you is a no.

14:19The thing that got me was that he had occupation and money above sex and looks,

14:23and it's just like, you're more worried about someone's job than you are.

14:28You're in a sexual connection with them.

14:30Really?

14:31I would appreciate it if it was like five, six, maybe someone else.

14:34As a man, I was like eight.

14:35Yeah.

14:40Hey!

14:42Hi, you're welcome!

14:44Maeve and Joe.

14:45So I saw these two for Experts Week, and we've had a really good session.

14:48Maeve had a challenge around accepting compliments,

14:51and I believe that we were able to work her through that hump.

14:54So I had to do an exercise when I'm looking in the mirror.

14:57Joe's got to give me a compliment.

14:59Were you like, did you feel that?

15:00You would have hated that.

15:01You would have hated every minute of it.

15:03And then obviously then look at Joe and then repeat it back to him.

15:05Oh, OK, that's sweet.

15:07We're in a fucking great spot, mate.

15:09Like, this morning, I actually woke up genuinely, like, buzzing.

15:12I just felt very good where I was at, do you know what I mean, with her.

15:15It's a good feeling.

15:16So I just feel in a really good spot with her.

15:18Yeah.

15:18Go on, Sam.

15:19Yeah, man.

15:19She's at that, mate, yeah.

15:20I feel like you saw actually closer.

15:24Like, every time I see you, I'm like, oh, a bit closer, a bit closer.

15:28We have had a wobbly week, haven't we?

15:32Our problem is, and I'm going to speak about this at the commitment ceremony,

15:36because I don't know where these feelings will come from.

15:39I felt a bit of a type of way, and Leah was being flirty with Rebecca.

15:46I felt rubbed up the wrong way about it, and we was having a bicker,

15:49and I was like, look, you take a minute, we'll come back and talk about it again.

15:53It'll be interesting to watch her play out and see whether this really is

15:57Leah having deeper feelings for Leah, or whether her pride's been hurt,

16:01or is this triggers from her past relationships coming up and unsettling her?

16:05Oh, Paul!

16:13What are you doing again?

16:15Oh, no, Paul's alone.

16:17So him and Anita are still not going too well.

16:20How are you, Ros, Anita?

16:21I've no idea.

16:22Is she here?

16:22No, not yet.

16:24You're in the foray this time.

16:25How are you?

16:26Hello, my son.

16:27Of course, last week, Anita was talking very much about feeling that Paul wasn't listening

16:31to her, wasn't asking her questions, or really engaging with her.

16:34By the looks of things, there might not have been any improvement.

16:39Do you want to like her, though?

16:40Yeah.

16:41I need to take time, and I build, and I build, and I build.

16:44The more I get into her mind, the more I get to know her as a human being,

16:48the more chance it makes her loving her.

16:52I'm disappointed that we didn't come together,

16:54because I've put quite a bit of effort in this week.

16:56I hope she realises that my intentions are sincere,

17:00and perhaps that time is something she will give me.

17:05I'd like to try and build some kind of emotional connection.

17:08Of course.

17:09I've started to build it.

17:11That's good.

17:15Oh.

17:18There she comes.

17:19We'll talk of the devil.

17:21Oh, here's Anita.

17:23What are you?

17:26You all right?

17:26What?

17:27What are you talking about?

17:29You all right?

17:30Well, it looks like Paul missed Anita.

17:33The question is, if Anita missed Paul.

17:35She looks nice, doesn't she?

17:36Yeah.

17:37The dress on.

17:37She looks lovely.

17:39All the compliments that Paul has are beautiful,

17:43but is he saying this to Anita?

17:46Why are you going separately?

17:47Did you start overthinking?

17:48This morning, I did.

17:49I just didn't want to give him any...

17:50What's up?

17:51Yeah.

17:52I wanted to go in separate from Paul tonight

17:55because I still believe that he's on a self-discovery journey

17:59and I'm on a love journey.

18:01I have no idea what Paul's thinking.

18:03I've wasted 17 years.

18:05I don't want to do that again.

18:06It's quite notable that after a 17-year relationship

18:10that never progressed, this weighs heavily on her.

18:13This is about past triggers from previous relationships.

18:20Yay!

18:20How are you, honey?

18:22It's been great.

18:22What an entrance.

18:24You look dashing in your lilac.

18:26How are you, honey?

18:27Good?

18:27My wife brought it for me.

18:29Oh!

18:30Wow.

18:31Oh, my wife.

18:32How are you?

18:36It's been a bit intense, you know?

18:38I think you're definitely warming up to him.

18:41Yeah.

18:42Yeah.

18:42I just feel he's just getting a bit exhausted.

18:45I don't think he is.

18:46But then I worry like...

18:47We've just had a few conversations this week just about like...

18:51I don't know.

18:51I just...

18:52I just...

18:52I just feel...

18:53Psych.

18:54Ash made the mistake of telling me I needed to get my nails done.

18:57And I was like, Ash, no one's going to tell me how to have my nails done.

18:59So I was going to tell me what outfit's wearing.

19:01That's for me.

19:02This is a big one for Grace.

19:04You know, as an independent woman, having a man tell her what to wear, how to do her nails,

19:10this is really rubbing her the wrong way.

19:12And this goes deep into her values.

19:14This is not something she's just going to get over.

19:16This is something that the two of them really need to very carefully navigate together.

19:21I'm really confused at the moment.

19:22Do you know what I mean?

19:23It's...

19:24I'm a good couple.

19:26I'm really good.

19:26And the fact that the way I say things isn't necessarily what I mean.

19:30But things, like, I turned around and I was like,

19:32Oh, your nails look like you need to in.

19:34Like, should we go and get your nails done?

19:35And she's like, I don't need to get my nails done if I'm in.

19:37And I was like, that's not what I meant.

19:39That's not what you meant.

19:39I can't.

19:40Yeah, but it's like a constant thing.

19:41So we're clashing.

19:43But then also, like, we went out last night.

19:44And of course, I knew where I was going.

19:45But it was a surprise.

19:46Yeah.

19:46So she got ready.

19:48And then she was like, oh, you're lovely.

19:50But have you got a dress?

19:51And that's because I'm not telling you to wear a dress.

19:53I'm just saying, like, I know where we're going.

19:55When Ashley says things like, wear a dress,

20:02I think there are lots of women that will be like,

20:04don't you tell me what to do.

20:06Because if she's saying that this is offensive,

20:08then what we would want from Ashley

20:10is for him to take that on board and make changes.

20:12So here's that opportunity to question his partner

20:15and say, what do you need?

20:16How do we interact around this?

20:19Can I talk to you?

20:20I just found it very weird that Stephen...

20:30Oh, fuck me, dude.

20:33He was talking to the group,

20:34and he was bragging about how he's on wire

20:36and how he had, like, fucked a girl,

20:38like, two weeks before he came on here.

20:42Oh, come on, Stephen.

20:44Like, he kept bragging about it.

20:46Like, if I call Maeve here, like, she can, like...

20:48Fuck me.

20:50Maeve?

20:53I wonder what Mark is getting for.

20:56Sorry.

20:56OK.

20:57We were at the bar,

20:59and then Stephen made the comment about him being a liar

21:01and a celebrity girl,

21:03and he was like...

21:04Yeah.

21:06So what I'm gathering here

21:07is that Stephen's out with all the other guys

21:10bragging about being with other women

21:12on the internet dating site.

21:14He's not a good look.

21:15But my real concern here is that Nellie's at home

21:19with a broken rib.

21:20She's feeling pain,

21:21probably quite vulnerable

21:22and really needs that support of her partner.

21:24You know, it sounds like he hasn't shown up.

21:27It wasn't just, like, one comment.

21:29It was like, oh, yeah, and then I did this,

21:30and then I did that,

21:31and then also when I went with her,

21:33there was someone else that I went with,

21:34and we were just like...

21:36This would be really hurtful for Nellie.

21:38If this gets back to her,

21:39it's really going to reinforce any insecurities

21:41that she's having in this relationship

21:43and her doubts about whether Stephen's interested in her.

21:47Salt border.

21:51Thank you, so cheeky bastards.

21:54Oh!

21:59You guys are crazy!

22:01Hi!

22:02Stephen and Nellie.

22:04I'm shocked.

22:04They actually seem pretty happy.

22:06Poor Nellie.

22:07None the wiser.

22:08How are you getting on today?

22:12So, obviously, I broke my nose,

22:14and then he didn't come home until, like...

22:16Yes.

22:17Which really upset me,

22:18and I told him at the time,

22:19I just don't want to rock the boat,

22:21because I feel like anything I do is...

22:22But you're not rocking the boat at all.

22:23You're not the one who...

22:24I feel like, if I say anything about how I feel, then...

22:26No.

22:27No, you don't need to say how you fucking feel.

22:29I know, but it just turns into...

22:30Get the fuck off.

22:32At the end of the day, you were injured.

22:34Well, he still...

22:35He still took the boat with the lads for hours and hours,

22:37and he was a five-minute walk away.

22:40So Nellie's talking about

22:41being in this vulnerable position

22:43and not wanting to say anything to him

22:44because she doesn't want to rock the boat.

22:46It's a very dangerous position,

22:48walking on eggshells in a relationship,

22:50and that's precisely what she's doing right now.

22:52Yeah.

22:55What's going on?

22:56Everything good, or...?

22:57Mm-hmm.

23:00Yeah.

23:02What little bickering is going on?

23:04Yeah.

23:04I'm going to go trust to you.

23:07You know, he gets really annoyed about people.

23:09I don't give a shit.

23:10I feel like it's going to go badly.

23:12Right.

23:13Nellie's really panicking.

23:14Want a shot?

23:15Yeah, yeah, yeah.

23:16Come on.

23:16I'll be back.

23:18Here we go.

23:19Oh, hell.

23:19Oh, come on.

23:20So...

23:28Yes?

23:29Things are getting said,

23:30and I'm obviously coming to you

23:31prior to it going back to Nellie.

23:34Mm-hmm.

23:34Why did you not come back all day, all night?

23:37Well, I said this to Nellie.

23:39I've had an emotional challenge week,

23:40and my stepdad's in the hospital,

23:41so, yeah,

23:42she's not been my priority this week,

23:44which I've held my hands up for.

23:46Oh, that's why.

23:47Okay.

23:49Which is why I didn't come home the other night,

23:51which, again, held up.

23:52Yeah, it didn't look good.

23:53You're not going to lie.

23:54Like, it was a shit move from you.

23:57Something's happening with his stepdad.

23:59That must be very hard.

24:00I think it does help us understand his behaviour.

24:04There's external pressures bearing down on Stephen.

24:07He was pulling back.

24:09Just listen to everything first,

24:10because I know you'll get up and go wild.

24:12Yeah, Steve made comments about, like, um,

24:18having sex with a celeb.

24:20Oh, hell.

24:21Two weeks before we came here,

24:23it became braggy.

24:26We were just looking at each other and thinking,

24:27what the fuck do you even say about that?

24:28When your wife's at home with a broken rib.

24:31Poor Nellie.

24:32She's been cheated on in three relationships,

24:34so you can imagine her alarm bells will be going off.

24:38I'm such a...

24:39No.

24:39No, no, no.

24:40You're knocking it out.

24:41The night that I hurt my rib and he didn't come home,

24:45Stephen's obviously discussing who he's been with

24:47when your girl's at home.

24:50I feel like an absolute fool for letting my guard down.

24:53Just feel like he cares about himself.

24:57Sorry to encroach.

24:58If you care about Nellie and you want it to go somewhere truly,

25:06you've got to be smarter about what you're doing.

25:09The stuff that you've done so far don't look great.

25:12Some of the things do look sticky.

25:14They just look dodge.

25:15I don't like the fact that everyone's getting involved in Nellie and I's relationship.

25:21People sticking their two-pents in.

25:22I hate it from the off.

25:23The way they go about their business, they can fuck off.

25:25Oh, Dean and Sarah.

25:33At the intimacy workshop, they both really gave it a good shot.

25:37Whether the sexual attraction has grown, though, I'm not sure.

25:40Come and sit down and say hello.

25:42Are we indeed getting on?

25:43It's tough.

25:44Yeah.

25:45She had a little bit of an argument.

25:46I think you probably heard.

25:47Yeah.

25:48I don't know if you heard.

25:49We had our first, like, argument.

25:51She said to one of the crew members that if he was straight, she would sleep with him.

25:53Last time we saw Sarah and Dean at the commitment ceremony, we were quite firm with Sarah about

26:00some of the quite disrespectful comments she made about Dean.

26:03She's made another one, and she's hurt his feelings again.

26:06If my missus said something like that, I would probably take it past it.

26:09I would definitely pull up.

26:11Are you OK, though, as well?

26:13Yeah, I know.

26:13Because it sounds like it was quite a heated thing.

26:15No, it was, yeah.

26:15It just kind of caught me.

26:16I was like, I don't think you're ever going to say that to me.

26:18So that triggered that.

26:19Yeah.

26:20And then I went upstairs, like, I don't think I can stay because I don't think you're ever going to...

26:23ever going to feel that way about me.

26:25And she went, I don't know if I will.

26:27I was like, what am I doing here?

26:28I feel like sticking up for yourself is perfectly fine.

26:31I've found it quite up and down and things.

26:33I'm glad that Dean and I are getting on and we are getting better.

26:36Not only are you having arguments, but as long as you're taking sound positive out of them,

26:39and these are things that you've come for and you're not going to go for again, and then, yeah.

26:43Yeah, we did have, yeah.

26:44So we're actually, like, probably in the best place we've been in.

26:45Dean wants this relationship more than anything, but hopefully he's able to identify what his

26:51self-worth is before he places priority on the relationship.

26:54Yeah.

26:55My real concern for Dean here is that his expectations are so low that almost anything

27:00Sarah offers him, he's going to be prepared to accept.

27:03Yes.

27:03You don't deserve this.

27:06I don't deserve this.

27:07I deserve that.

27:08There's someone out there who will give me better.

27:12What he needs to do now is he needs to figure out how he's getting out of this.

27:14That's what he's doing.

27:15Hmm.

27:16It's going to be bloody tough, mate.

27:20You need to ask him.

27:22Let it go.

27:23I think it's time.

27:25Go.

27:25No, go.

27:30Oh, she's been...

27:31I've probably started a dinner party, hasn't it?

27:33Mm.

27:34Extremely fun.

27:35Apparently there's a lot of stuff going around.

27:39I've been told, apparently, a few weeks before you'd hooked up with some said Lister and

27:47you were talking about the sexual stuff that you'd done with her.

27:51What was it?

27:52So has that come out completely...

27:53Fuck me.

27:54Who the fuck has said that?

27:56People have heard it.

27:58Do you know how it feels to come in here and everyone tell you,

28:01this is how Stephen's been acting,

28:02when I've already been upset with how you've been behaving anyway?

28:08Two weeks for an experiment, Nellie, man.

28:10Do you know how fucking silly that is?

28:11Why is it coming into the experiment?

28:15Don't get mad at me.

28:18Fucking clownish, man.

28:19So this is interesting, looking at Stephen's default reaction to being confronted with

28:30his behaviour, is to get defensive, angry and deflect.

28:33You're speaking about ex-partners that you've been with on the night when you should have

28:38been at home with me.

28:38Oh, wow.

28:40Wow, wow, wow.

28:41Are you going to listen to what I'm saying?

28:45I'm listening, but I'm finding it fucking laughable, Nellie, to be honest.

28:50Well, I'm laughable.

28:51No, I'm finding this situation laughable.

28:52Okay, I'm not finding it funny.

28:54So if you are finding it funny, great.

28:56These are my feelings, and I'm not finding it very funny.

28:59Okay?

29:01Right.

29:02Guys?

29:03Guys?

29:03Oh, God.

29:11Who has decided to say I was talking about my sexual activity with this fucking Z-lister?

29:16Did it happen at the bar?

29:17I mean, you did talk about who you were having sex with on Raya, yes.

29:20No, I was not.

29:22At the bar, you did?

29:25Giovanni, Maeve, you were there, so what is it?

29:27Huh?

29:27I've just said, I don't...

29:29Hey, please, I don't want to get involved with this.

29:34Giovanni, don't leave me hanging.

29:36No, seriously.

29:37You did?

29:38No, I didn't, darling.

29:40Oh.

29:42What's interesting, though, is Giovanni has not said a word.

29:45No.

29:46We were all there.

29:47Dean, Sarah, Maeve.

29:50Some people are really starting to fuck me up.

29:55I wouldn't lie about that.

29:56Seriously, you said that.

29:57Yeah, all right, all right, of course, of course.

29:58Those went to the bar, and we went, oh, my God, what the fuck?

29:59Yes, because I spoke so openly about my sexual activity with people.

30:02Two weeks before I...

30:03You did, you said she gave sloppy heads.

30:07Whoa.

30:08Ho, ho, ho.

30:09She gave what?

30:11Sloppy head.

30:14Let me ask another question here.

30:16Two weeks before I started the experiment, why the fuck does it matter?

30:19Okay.

30:20It's five weeks.

30:20Why the fuck does it matter?

30:21Who I date beforehand, why the fuck does it matter what I do?

30:24No, because people are starting to fuck me off.

30:26That, that, that, that, that, that.

30:28They need to fucking realise shit.

30:30Fucking bollocks, man.

30:31I don't know.

30:33That's a fucking limping guy.

30:35I ain't going over there.

30:36Fuck there.

30:37You fucking said that.

30:38I suppose.

30:40You all right?

30:41No, I'm not fucking all right.

30:42All fucking cunts.

30:53People are starting to fuck me off.

30:54That, that, that, that, that, that.

30:56They need to fucking realise shit.

30:59Fucking bollocks, man.

31:00That's a fucking limping guy.

31:03I ain't going over there.

31:04Fuck there.

31:05You fucking said it.

31:08You all right?

31:09No, I'm not fucking all right.

31:10All fucking cunts.

31:12Wow.

31:12Did he just say that?

31:13He did.

31:13He's under pressure.

31:17He's back against the wall.

31:19He's been confronted with things that he said he cannot cope.

31:23And so he's attacking everyone else.

31:25And this is ugly.

31:28Currently with Stephen, I don't know where I'm at.

31:30Obviously, I'm going to be thinking, what the hell is going on?

31:33And you are sat there getting annoyed at me that I'm believing these people.

31:37Why would Judy, Ruth and Maeve like?

31:39They're not going to.

31:42You all right?

31:43But that's a talk.

31:45That's a sign of things.

31:46Cool.

31:47Fucking idiot, Smith.

31:48I know, I know.

31:50Just chewing it.

31:50I'm a breather for a second, geez.

31:53You're saying that you've done this, you've done that.

31:54But then you haven't even fucking seen your wife.

31:56That's what everyone's...

31:57And then you don't take accountability for it.

31:59And then you want to shout at everyone.

32:00You said it.

32:00What do you mean, you said it?

32:01You said it.

32:01But then it...

32:02You said it.

32:02You didn't pipe up.

32:05Hey.

32:05You left Maeve.

32:07I'm leaving.

32:08You left Maeve.

32:09I'm leaving.

32:10You did.

32:11Just disappointed in Devani.

32:13He just could have said something.

32:14I didn't like how that was handled.

32:16And he needs to have my back next time.

32:28We needed them in the room one minute ago.

32:31Yeah, we did.

32:32Well, the whole energy shifted as soon as they went through.

32:36Stephen and his wife.

32:41Over there, one-on-one.

32:43Quiet conversation.

32:45What was it said?

32:46What was it?

32:47Something about Stephen said he had slept with a Z-lister.

32:52I don't know.

32:56I mean, we've all slept with a Z-lister, right?

32:58Okay.

32:59I mean, I thought he was normal.

33:08Alrighty, here we go again.

33:10Oh, well-o.

33:12Oh, keeps me.

33:13Where do you think we are?

33:18Can I make it up to switch the legs?

33:20You okay?

33:21Yeah.

33:21Yeah, I'm good.

33:22You okay?

33:23You want some wine, though?

33:24Remember that?

33:25Do you want some wine?

33:26I don't know.

33:30Did you ruse?

33:32Thank you for holding your own and being truthful and not.

33:35You're welcome, babe.

33:36I told you I got you.

33:37It's not a nice position to be in when someone's coming for you, but thank you.

33:41If anyone should be scared, it's him.

33:43Woman on a mission.

33:45Where is Stephen?

33:46Probably crying somewhere about how we've messed up.

33:49How do you feel about Joe?

33:55I'm, like, obsessed for Joe.

33:56Ooh.

33:57In a healthy way.

33:59In a very healthy way.

34:00I just think you're cast one.

34:02You're everything I've ever wanted.

34:04Oh.

34:06That's so cute.

34:07But, yeah.

34:08She knows how much love I have for her, and I said, I'm not going to, like, go all in with

34:13I'm falling in love with her, but I can see there's potential for love there, because

34:17there are genuine things that I do love about her.

34:20What a sweetheart.

34:21Right, I'm for that.

34:23I love that.

34:25Maeve is taking the advice that we gave her on Experts Week, and that is how to receive

34:30a compliment.

34:30This is so good to see.

34:33How are you?

34:34I'm good.

34:34How are you?

34:35We're good.

34:36I'm on the right track, I think.

34:37Dean and I, we're learning so much about each other all the time.

34:40I've just been so overwhelmed, but I really am giving it more this week.

34:45I shouldn't have disrespected Dean.

34:46I am worried about what to do next.

34:49I don't know whether to just bite the bullet, give him a kiss, but I also don't want to

34:53lead him on and hurt him.

34:54He deserves better than that, so I just want to not make any more mistakes.

34:58What is happening with you two?

34:59Yeah, what are you getting on?

35:00Is it improving?

35:01Yeah, I don't think so for Dean, no.

35:03What about for you?

35:05Is it moving quick enough for you?

35:06Yeah, because the more I get to know her, the more I'll be attracted to her.

35:10You've already said you're attracted to her.

35:11You said she's attractive.

35:12Yeah.

35:13She's really attractive.

35:14Yeah.

35:14So you are...

35:15That's the first time I've heard him say that.

35:16Well, I didn't know you need the affirmation, love.

35:20Absolutely not to me.

35:20I thought you were confident, independent.

35:21I would remember that.

35:23That right there is a great example of their inability to communicate.

35:28He believes she's attractive.

35:31He's vocalized it, and it's such a shame because they actually could work if they could just fix

35:36the communication.

35:41Oh, here comes Stephen.

35:47Well, come on.

35:48Well, I drink it.

35:50Right.

35:50Is everyone all right now, then?

35:52Are we all all right?

35:52Yes.

35:52Are we good, Sam?

35:53Hang on a minute, Stephen.

36:05Nell's had you back constantly.

36:07And I think the...

36:08Hang on.

36:08The issue was is that when she needed you on that night, she knew that you needed to blow

36:12off steam with the lads, but she just didn't want your last home and not checking in on her.

36:16She's not been my number one priority this week, which is shit, because my stepdad and

36:20making sure he's okay has been there at the forefront.

36:21So it's like all these things have factored in into this week, but I've already been

36:25open and emotional on things I've never wanted to talk about before, because I'm a closed

36:29off person.

36:31I think what's clear here is that, yes, he's got a lot going on at home, but what isn't

36:36great is how he's treating Nellie.

36:38That's not on.

36:39Stephen, I think the point of this is, you need to say in this moment is that, yeah,

36:42you did fuck up that day.

36:43Which I've said.

36:45And I've said this to you.

36:47But now it's like, it's being made to, I've got to say sorry again, just to please

36:51everyone and you.

36:52And that's exactly what it's being made up to right now.

36:55Do you feel like you've had an apology?

36:58So you apologise, obviously, the moment you walked in.

37:01But I think what stings a little bit for me is it's not that you're sat there talking

37:04about your family for like till, you know, midnight.

37:06You're talking about loads of other things I just don't think are appropriate.

37:09And it's on the night where you should be at home with me.

37:13Words are great, but I just need actions.

37:15I can't do much in 24 hours to show that action.

37:19It needs to be over time.

37:20So I've said sorry and not even 24 hours has passed.

37:24And then we've got another issue that we've got to deal with.

37:29I feel like I'm getting frustrated now because it's at the point where I'm trying to look

37:33at the good in everything.

37:35And I just find that sometimes my feelings get dismissed.

37:38Don't roll your eyes at me.

37:43Sorry, can I just say, because that's uncomfortable at the moment.

37:45The minute...

37:46No, no, no.

37:48It's uncomfortable, Stephen, your reaction to when Nelly goes to talk about how she feels.

37:53Well, good on Lee for standing up for Nelly and actually calling this out because this

37:57is passive-aggressive behaviour and it is dismissive.

38:01You've got your head in your hands, you're rolling your eyes, you're helping yourself.

38:04I'm extremely dismissed in what I'm saying.

38:05I just...

38:07It's a little bit difficult to watch right now.

38:09You're joking.

38:30Here's the honesty box where we get to ask difficult questions but always bring out the truth.

38:35Right, are you ready?

38:42What are you finding the hardest about being in this experiment?

38:46I think, obviously, you know my past.

38:50From a really young age, I was addicted to the party lifestyle.

38:54Yeah.

38:54And I think being round, like, the drinking environment is what I'm really struggling with.

39:00But that's where you've been so amazing.

39:03And I think, obviously, you love getting pissed.

39:06I do, yes.

39:06But, and that's very much part of your lifestyle, but I think you've really adapted to me.

39:12And sometimes I've said I feel like I'm sucking the fun out of you sometimes, but you're saying

39:16that's not the case.

39:17Just, like, compromising me really well and I just don't want to be in that environment

39:22all the time.

39:23That was really brave of Joe, I think, to open up and talk about the struggles he's had

39:41in that social environment in the past and that this is quite tricky for him.

39:45Shows real vulnerability.

39:50Julia Roof, do you feel like we are on the same team?

39:53No, not, we're not always on the same team, no.

40:04Last week was telling that we, like, maybe weren't.

40:08And then I think today, I don't need anyone to, like, fight my battles.

40:11I can do that.

40:12But I think if I'm calling your name, I need you to step up and be there.

40:17I don't care if you like conflict or not, or if that's your boy, you could have done

40:22a bit better in that regard.

40:24Yeah.

40:25This is what it is.

40:28I really appreciate Julia Roof's honesty here because, fair enough, Devani could say,

40:34I didn't know you needed my support, but she actually called his name and he still didn't

40:37help her.

40:40Right.

40:41Anita, young lady, why didn't you want to come to the dinner party with me?

40:47Initially, I did think, yeah, we can go to the dinner party together.

40:50There's no harm in that.

40:52But then I thought, I'm not sure where Paul has placed us.

40:58Is he thinking friendship or is he wanting more?

41:01Okay.

41:02So that was me kind of taking a step back.

41:06Judge me after six, eight, ten weeks.

41:08Don't judge me after two weeks.

41:10I'm getting more fond of her the more I spend time with her.

41:12Yeah.

41:12And that's fair.

41:14And Anita, is that friendship, is that not a good base?

41:16I'm at a point of my life now where I need to know where I stand.

41:21I need to know you want the same thing.

41:23And I haven't got time to waste.

41:25You've got ten weeks in you.

41:26You're not fucking dying.

41:28Time's precious.

41:29Seems like the issue is on both of their sides.

41:32They're moving at totally different speeds.

41:34Anita's said that she has no time to waste.

41:37Paul, on the other hand, is comfortable with the slow and steady approach.

41:40It takes him time to form a bond.

41:46Go on, Leah.

41:49How have your feelings changed for me this week?

41:53I feel like my feelings for you have changed this week because, in the Rebecca situation,

41:59I realized that I obviously had feelings towards you because I was bothered by it.

42:06And if I didn't have any feelings towards you at all, it wouldn't have bothered me.

42:16Oh!

42:17Oh!

42:17What?

42:20That was a cheek, wasn't it?

42:21She swerved her.

42:22It's not total rejection, but it is facing a boundary when it comes to intimacy.

42:30Grace, what's the biggest challenge in our marriage for you?

42:33I think a challenge I'm having is that, in speaking with you, I do sometimes feel it's

42:42like, put back to me, like, well, you're just, you know, I can't understand you.

42:45I don't, you know, and I think, how do we get to a place where I feel comfortable, but

42:50you don't feel nagged and, like, you don't feel like I'm constantly calling you out for

42:55things and...

42:55And everything you've kind of called me out on.

42:58I'm genuinely, I'm trying to be nice and I'm trying to do these things, and then they're

43:01backfiring on me.

43:02Yeah.

43:02What sort of thing, like...

43:06It's a little thing, so, like, the nails incident.

43:08In my head, I was thinking, right, your nails are, like, overgrown, and let's take you out

43:12to get your nails done.

43:12I meant it in, like, let me treat you, let me take you out.

43:15To clarify, he didn't say, like, oh, can I treat you to get your nails done?

43:19He didn't say that, he was like...

43:20The way you say it isn't the way I said it.

43:22Okay, well, we do...

43:23There's three sides to every story.

43:24How did you lay it then?

43:24I got sisters in that, so there was a gap in the back, and I was like, your nails are overgrown.

43:27That's when you go to get your nails done.

43:29I was like, sorry?

43:30And he was like, yeah, I prefer French tips.

43:32I said all in one thing, neither.

43:33I said, here's the French tip.

43:35No, no, no.

43:35Fuck off!

43:38I wouldn't have said it like that.

43:39What he meant to say.

43:40I'm not going to be a person that tells you, like, you need to get your nails done, or you

43:42need to wear this, or you need to do that.

43:44I'm not that person.

43:45I've never been that person.

43:47Forget the terminology.

43:48Do you think it came from a genuinely nice place, or do you think he was actually saying,

43:51like...

43:51In the moment, I was like, easy, Tiger.

43:53I'll manage my own alley cap, and I was like, you're all good.

43:56And I was like, caw, that is really bothering me.

43:59And it was just a few things, like, I'd put an outfit on, and Ash would be like,

44:02haven't you got a dress you can wear?

44:03No, no, no.

44:04No, no.

44:04Again.

44:06So I booked a fancy meal and a show, and you said, do I look good?

44:09I said, you look amazing, but have you got, like, a dress?

44:12Because I knew where we were going, and you didn't.

44:16The real test of a mature relationship is your willingness to compromise, and also to

44:21listen to what your partner's saying.

44:23They both have two very different versions of the same event, so it's really difficult

44:29to know what the intention is.

44:30I'm with you.

44:31I'm confused.

44:31I feel like there's a reluctance on both of their parts to seek deeper.

44:37In this scenario, it's become quite apparent to everybody.

44:41Grace is very independent, doesn't need anybody else's opinion.

44:45And so I think, given that you're her husband, and that you've probably taken that on board...

44:50But I am trying my best.

44:51I know you are.

44:52I know you are in so many ways.

44:53I'm not, like, I think Grace thinks that she's the bad person in it, but she's not.

44:57No, she's not.

44:57Like, I understand that, I completely understand that I take full responsibility, that it is

45:01the way I say it and the way it's presented.

45:03Yeah.

45:03Yeah, but I'm not blaming Grace, I'm taking responsibility for it.

45:07Well, okay, yeah.

45:08We have this issue of, like, struggling to understand each other, but for us to progress, we need

45:17to get on the same page.

45:17So, that's the challenge we face.

45:23On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being love, how strong are your feelings for me?

45:3512 wasn't on it.

45:351.

45:36Be honest, Bailey.

45:38Um, I am a firm 9.5.

45:45Wow.

45:47Wow.

45:47Oh, that's strong.

45:50That's strong.

45:50Oh, my gosh, you round up, he's a 10.

45:52My heart is literally, like, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom,

45:54I don't know how much more I can say.

45:57I am falling, and I like the way it's going.

46:00Can't imagine you're not in my life.

46:03Why couldn't you give me a 10?

46:04Listen, maybe the 10 will come.

46:06Give me a moment.

46:07Listen, 9.5, maybe I'm holding a little something back, but honestly, yeah, it's nearly there.

46:14It's nearly, nearly there.

46:15But I'm sure it's not going to take too long.

46:17Okay.

46:21Sarah, do you have any regrets so far?

46:24Yes, I do.

46:28I regret the last dinner party and the comments that I obviously made to the girls that were

46:34brought up to the commitment ceremony, and I apologise again to you.

46:38I know I've apologised quite a bit now for it, but I do regret that, and I'm really sorry.

46:42And our argument as well.

46:43I wish that hadn't happened, but it has, and we've dealt with it.

46:48We all have blips, but if we communicate as we did and get over it, like, we're going to come out stronger.

46:52And I think we'll be fine, you know?

46:54We'll be good.

46:54Thanks.

46:55It's great that Sarah took responsibility, but Dean so quickly dismissed his own feelings in that.

47:02And there was no mention of how she made him feel, and he made no mention of how he felt.

47:08Yeah.

47:08It is lovely that Dean has, you know, he speaks so highly of me, and that's what I mean.

47:15He's just so lovely, so.

47:19Yeah, I don't really know how to, like, deal with it, so I just, I don't want to cause any problem.

47:25We are in a better place than we were last week, I hope.

47:28I really am trying, and I'm trying to, like, hold his hand and hug him and stuff.

47:31I don't know if it ever will come.

47:43Canelle?

47:44Oh, no.

47:45All right.

47:46Do you trust me?

47:51Um, I don't know.

47:53The only thing I struggle with is, can I trust you with my heart?

48:04I like to think we can get there.

48:08Words are great, but I just need action to back it, that's all.

48:14I just don't want to be broken at the end.

48:17I don't say I've got that much making up to do.

48:18It can't just be what I've got to compromise on.

48:21Um, it needs to be a better happy balance, otherwise it's purely I'm give, give, give,

48:25and she's just receive, receive.

48:27What's a fucking day.

48:28The way I'm feeling right now and after today, I generally don't know if I'm going to be staying

48:32or leaving, so a lot of things to do overnight.

48:42Next time.

48:43I'll get bored saying the same thing over and over again.

48:45You keep saying that.

48:45Don't antagonise me then.

48:46Don't raise your voice at me.

48:48Nellie and Stephen continue to clash.

48:50Fucking idiot.

48:51Why am I liking someone who's treating me like this?

48:53A head of a tent.

48:54We have hit an issue this week.

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