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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:03Features of LA.
00:00:04Are you ready for Sarper?
00:00:07Hello.
00:00:08Are you rescued?
00:00:11When you are working, if I come here,
00:00:13is there a problem for you?
00:00:14Why don't you just get to know the neighborhood
00:00:16that we live in?
00:00:18The more that he shows me he's consistently honest,
00:00:21I think I'll learn to trust him more.
00:00:24But I don't know if Sarper and I will be ready to get married
00:00:26in 90 days.
00:00:29He's laughing again with you.
00:00:35If you didn't need to marry me, you want to marry me?
00:00:41No.
00:00:43It is hard for me that Sean would not marry me.
00:00:46If it was not because of the visa.
00:00:48If Sean's still like this until the end of the ninth days,
00:00:52I don't know if I want to marry him.
00:00:55When do you think can we get our own home, our own house?
00:01:00Maybe a year and a half, two years.
00:01:02Oh, it's going to take that long?
00:01:04You know, I did have a little bit of debt.
00:01:06It's like $8,000.
00:01:07I thought people living in America are stable, but they're not.
00:01:12What are you doing to achieve housing?
00:01:14How is it?
00:01:15I'm about to jump off this dock after this morning.
00:01:17I would suggest you do if you don't have a good answer.
00:01:20I am worried that things are not going to work out and she's just going to kick him to the side.
00:01:26What happened on the cruise?
00:01:29Well, I messed up.
00:01:31I was not in my best place either.
00:01:34At the same time that Juan was feeling weak in our relationship, I was catching feelings for like an ex-boyfriend.
00:01:41What time came to your house?
00:01:42Evening.
00:01:44Were the kids around?
00:01:45No.
00:01:46Why was she hiding it from me?
00:01:48This just completely changed the whole story.
00:01:51I think you're a snake now without coming to my wedding.
00:01:56That's all right.
00:01:57Snake, snake, snake.
00:01:59I just don't want to do this anymore.
00:02:01Jordan, come on.
00:02:02I'm ready to call the wedding off if the two of my favorite women can't get along.
00:02:07It's supposed to go like this.
00:02:21Don't make a move, ain't gotta be so holy.
00:02:24Hey, babe.
00:02:26Yes?
00:02:28My client is almost here.
00:02:30I need you to exit the building.
00:02:35Don't have that look, babe.
00:02:37Sorry for your fire.
00:02:38Don't be dramatic.
00:02:41Bye.
00:02:51Don't want to be right next to you.
00:02:52It's true.
00:02:54Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:03:00Shikaina has a client today so I have to leave the house.
00:03:06I have a permission to go around neighborhoods.
00:03:10Oh my God.
00:03:12Part-time homeless is on the streets.
00:03:15Wow.
00:03:18On trees, around, not so tall buildings.
00:03:22It looks like the southern part of Turkey.
00:03:24It has a siesta vibe, which I like.
00:03:28What do you think about your kind of worrying
00:03:29that there's like all this temptation
00:03:31that you're not to be able to handle?
00:03:34They can tempt me.
00:03:35They cannot.
00:03:37I mean, even if they open their boobs, I won't be tempted.
00:03:41I just look and go.
00:03:43We have a Turkish saying, they ask to the cock,
00:03:47to the animal cock.
00:03:49If the eggs comes from the chicken or chicken comes from the eggs,
00:03:54and he said, I just and go.
00:03:56Yes, I just look and go.
00:03:58Nothing special.
00:04:17Now I have a country.
00:04:18You know my country.
00:04:19You know my country.
00:04:20You know my country.
00:04:20You know my country.
00:04:22You know my country.
00:04:22So, that's a very serious one.
00:04:24Man, the other guy says I go.
00:04:25You know my country.
00:04:26The other guy says, I'm a queen.
00:04:28The other people say like that.
00:04:29You know my country case.
00:04:30Hi, how are you?
00:04:58Come in.
00:04:59Good.
00:05:00How are you?
00:05:01Good.
00:05:02I can't complain.
00:05:03You ready for your facial?
00:05:04Yes.
00:05:05Okay.
00:05:06So let me have you just go put this on.
00:05:07Okay.
00:05:08Just get nice and comfy.
00:05:09Take off your necklace, earrings.
00:05:10Perfect.
00:05:11And come on in and we'll get started.
00:05:12Sounds good.
00:05:14You're welcome.
00:05:15Because I live in a live workspace, my clients expect to come over and feel safe and comfortable
00:05:21and that can't happen with sarper hair.
00:05:24Let me put this light on you.
00:05:27A little LED therapy.
00:05:29Mmm.
00:05:30These women are in towels.
00:05:32They're half undressed and it would be very unprofessional to have a man there.
00:05:38So how was Hawaii?
00:05:39I know you just got back.
00:05:40Oh my God.
00:05:41Hawaii was incredible.
00:05:42Yeah?
00:05:43I went alone.
00:05:44I met a guy.
00:05:45Okay.
00:05:46I feel like I've told you this before but I like don't just hook up with random people.
00:05:49Yeah.
00:05:50I said F it.
00:05:51I'm never going to see this guy again probably.
00:05:54My clients get very personal with me.
00:05:56So I said I'll give you a but it's probably not going to feel good because I have calluses
00:06:00from lifting.
00:06:01It's probably going to feel like you just gave yourself a .
00:06:03Did not.
00:06:04The things my clients share with me are shocking.
00:06:07I'm even shocked sometimes.
00:06:09But I keep all of their secrets.
00:06:11I can't have Sarper upstairs listening to all of this.
00:06:14But we did finally hook up and the poor guy, I guess he had whiskey, is that what you call it?
00:06:19So like we technically hooked up but like I don't even know if I could call it hooking up
00:06:24because he would go to put it in and he would just go, wow.
00:06:28I don't know the poor guy.
00:06:49So like this.
00:06:51That's a great one.
00:06:52But as you can understand it, you can tell me.
00:06:55I think it's all the stuff you like it, you can do it.
00:06:57But you can do it, but you can do it.
00:06:58Did you know what you want to do?
00:06:59You can do it somewhere.
00:07:00You can do it.
00:07:01You can do it in there.
00:07:02I can do it in love.
00:07:03You can do it in love.
00:07:04You can't do anything else, I can tell you.
00:07:06But I'll be able to make you an example.
00:07:09There is no way to make your own work.
00:07:13You've had a chance to get up in the ocean, it is really nice.
00:07:16But now you don't have a chance to get into the ocean.
00:07:18Aynen.
00:07:19But you can do anything else.
00:07:21You can do anything else.
00:07:23I'll tell you another way to do anything else.
00:07:25There's a 90 days of time, I'm not sure, but I'm not sure, that's not true.
00:07:28I'm not sure you're doing it, I'm not sure you're doing it.
00:07:3190 days I want you to sell my house, let's not give it to my house, let's not give it to me, let's stop, okay?
00:07:37That's right, I'll give it to my house, I'll give it to you, I'll give it to you.
00:07:43Okay, okay.
00:07:45Time is ticking right now, and I have only 90 days to decide to marry with Sheikina.
00:07:52I love her, I have a very big passion with her, but if I cannot feel with home in this place,
00:08:00if I feel uncomfortable, there is no need for me to stay here.
00:08:17Oh my God, a lot of things to decide.
00:08:25I'll play a game again if you let me play
00:08:29as the queen of your heart.
00:08:35Let's try to have fun, okay?
00:08:38Please?
00:08:39Oh, please, please, please.
00:08:41It's dangerous playing with the heart of a womb.
00:08:49All right, let's go try to have a fun day, maybe.
00:08:53Try.
00:08:54I can talk more with Jordan.
00:08:56I stay in my place, make peace.
00:08:58You're not going to talk with her?
00:08:59No, no, no.
00:09:00I need my space.
00:09:02That's fine.
00:09:03You know, at this point, I don't care.
00:09:07Mina and my daughter Jordan finally met again for the first time since Paris, and it completely
00:09:12went sideways.
00:09:13Apparently, Mina disinvited Jordan to the wedding.
00:09:16Jordan doesn't even want to come to the wedding.
00:09:18Right now, my daughter's distraught.
00:09:20My fiancee's distraught.
00:09:21There may or may not be a wedding.
00:09:23It just feels like problems are stacking up, and it's frustrating.
00:09:28It should be pretty.
00:09:29It's beautiful on the water, so just enjoy the ride.
00:09:32It's supposed to be a vacation.
00:09:35Yeah.
00:09:36I don't know how to even begin to fix this.
00:09:41So my brother lives on Bald Head Island with his wife and kids, so that's where we're
00:09:47going to try to have a fun family barbecue.
00:09:49All right, let's just make sure we're good, and whoever you and Jordan are working out,
00:09:55great.
00:09:56If you don't, you don't.
00:09:57But I don't know, maybe an apology will help?
00:09:59No.
00:10:02No?
00:10:03I don't know.
00:10:04I don't know about it.
00:10:21I think we have 15 minutes before the ferry.
00:10:24You remember much?
00:10:25Come here.
00:10:34She's coming now, okay?
00:10:35So just calm, relax.
00:10:36Make a smile.
00:10:37Yeah, just...
00:10:38Hey.
00:10:39Hey.
00:10:40What's up?
00:10:41You okay?
00:10:42Yeah.
00:10:43What's up, man?
00:10:44How you doing, buddy?
00:10:45We're ready to get on this ferry.
00:10:46Me too, man.
00:10:47I want to have some fun.
00:10:48You look festive.
00:10:49Warm attire.
00:10:50He is too, so...
00:10:51Yeah.
00:10:52All right, let's go.
00:10:53We got to go, I think.
00:10:54Me and Mina had a rough start, and we got into an argument.
00:10:55And I feel like she should be the one that's having to try harder.
00:10:56than me, because...
00:10:57she's marrying my dad.
00:10:58And I feel like she should be the one that's having to try harder than me, because she's
00:11:26marrying my dad.
00:11:27You would think that she wants to make a good impression, and wants to be the one trying
00:11:31and getting to know me, when we don't know her.
00:11:44This is literally so awkward.
00:11:46I think that it would have been really nice if he stepped in and was like, hey, Mina,
00:11:50Jordan, I love you both.
00:11:52We...
00:11:53I really want you guys to get along, and let's fix this.
00:11:56How are we going to fix this?
00:11:57What are we going to do?
00:11:58Because we need to all be a family.
00:11:59We need to act.
00:12:00How do you feel about doing that?
00:12:01I look at her.
00:12:02How are we going to do that?
00:12:03Yeah, I know.
00:12:04I know, I know.
00:12:05What am I doing?
00:12:06I'll be like, I know.
00:12:07You're just saying record hundreds of counting topics.
00:12:08You're good.
00:12:09You're good?
00:12:10I mean, it's definitely awkward.
00:12:11I can tell that she's just mad at me.
00:12:12Yeah, I know, I know.
00:12:13I know, um...
00:12:14I mean, I'm mad too, but I don't want to make weeks.
00:12:15You're not ready.
00:12:16So I told her to?
00:12:17I don't want to be a mix.
00:12:21So I told her, too, my daughter.
00:12:23I want everybody to be happy.
00:12:25But I also want you to give her a chance.
00:12:29Of course, it's uncomfortable for me.
00:12:31Because
00:12:31It's like consuming this whole weekend.
00:12:45I'm just kind of over it.
00:12:47I don't know why she thinks.
00:12:51She knows what I think, too.
00:12:55Jarlene, she's a snake.
00:12:57I don't trust.
00:13:02Peter.
00:13:10What did Greg say about the dollar?
00:13:12He's not financially stable for now.
00:13:15Greg has to pay dowry for me in my culture.
00:13:19Tell him to get a job.
00:13:21It's really a shame because everyone thinks America is a land of opportunities.
00:13:26But this is not it.
00:13:28If he turns any job offers down, I'm coming back.
00:13:32I want to know what he told about me to you before.
00:13:37I remember him saying that Douglas had changed into Aaliyah permanently, and he was kind of like trying to wrap his mind around it.
00:13:45For me, it felt like a dad.
00:13:46I need to know that Shawn loved me as Aaliyah.
00:13:50She had been her whole life wanting Douglas to not be there.
00:13:52She had been her whole life wanting Douglas to not be there.
00:13:56I didn't have that problem.
00:13:57I asked you not to focus on the negative, focus on the positive, give you sex therapy, much more than cognitive.
00:14:07You and I are opposites, opposites attract.
00:14:09Hey.
00:14:10What's up, beautiful?
00:14:15You, as a person, you just want to be messy.
00:14:19I don't understand.
00:14:21Sorry, baby.
00:14:21What do I do?
00:14:23What is the thing I need right now?
00:14:25Go ahead.
00:14:26Let's go.
00:14:31If you're done with the clothes, just fold them up with them where they're supposed to be.
00:14:35Yes, ma'am.
00:14:36Yes, that's what I want.
00:14:38Sometimes you think I'm joking in everything I say.
00:14:42So, Joan's been here for a little over a week.
00:14:45You know, things are mostly great.
00:14:46Things are going very smooth.
00:14:48I'm very grateful for that.
00:14:49But there are some things she's getting a little frustrated with, and I guess I didn't necessarily expect that.
00:14:55I'm used to just having my mom nag and bicker at me and picking up after me.
00:14:59Now I have to worry about another lady just nagging me.
00:15:02You know, we'll see how that works out.
00:15:04Can I game a little bit?
00:15:06Yeah.
00:15:08All right.
00:15:08All right.
00:15:19Hello.
00:15:19How are you, Joan?
00:15:22I'm fine.
00:15:25We miss you a lot.
00:15:26I miss you.
00:15:27I miss you more.
00:15:30Joan, how is life there?
00:15:33Everything is fine here.
00:15:35I stay with Greg's mom.
00:15:36I thought I was to stay here three to six months, but now I think I'm going to stay here maybe, like, two years.
00:15:45That's too much.
00:15:46Yeah.
00:15:47Because Greg doesn't have the money, like, to buy a house for now.
00:15:52You have to teach him to stay.
00:15:54I try.
00:15:56Tell him to get a joke.
00:15:59He doesn't take, like, work serious.
00:16:05Well, that's not me right.
00:16:07I may want to stay here, like, you know, I love him, but I'm also, like, losing a lot.
00:16:14I know.
00:16:15Talking to my family about the situation I'm really in here is really stressing me, and it's really a shame,
00:16:22because everyone thinks America is the land of opportunities.
00:16:25But this is not it.
00:16:29What did Greg say about the dowry?
00:16:32I haven't really talked to Greg about the dowry issue, because we still have, like, our personal issues.
00:16:40So...
00:16:40I don't know how he's really going to pay for the dowry, because he's not financially stable for now.
00:16:49No, it's not possible, because in our character, it must be done.
00:16:54Greg has to pay the dowry for me in my culture.
00:17:01So if Greg doesn't want to pay the dowry, he's going to be disrespecting my family and also my father's last wishes.
00:17:08And if Greg doesn't pay the dowry, we can't get married.
00:17:12So things are real.
00:17:14This is hard for me.
00:17:17He has to man up.
00:17:19I got it.
00:17:20I got it.
00:17:21I got it.
00:17:23I'm bored.
00:17:24I'm bored.
00:17:25You know it.
00:17:26You know it.
00:17:27You know it.
00:17:28You know it.
00:17:30I know you know I got it.
00:17:32I got it.
00:17:33I've got it.
00:17:34I've got it.
00:17:35You know you're right.
00:17:36Hey, lady.
00:17:38Oh!
00:17:39Hey!
00:17:40Oh, my gosh!
00:17:41Nice to meet you.
00:17:42Oh, my gosh.
00:17:42I can't believe you're here.
00:17:43Nice to meet you.
00:17:44Oh my gosh, I can't believe you're here.
00:17:46Welcome.
00:17:47Rich from New York, Gennaro.
00:17:49Have you ever been here before?
00:17:50I have never been to Hamburger Mary's.
00:17:51All right, well, let's go in there.
00:17:53Okay, let's go.
00:18:03Oh my god, I'm so thirsty.
00:18:04Right, let the hands begin.
00:18:05Right.
00:18:06This is funny.
00:18:07They call the letter right in the number,
00:18:09so if it's I-28, then you put pink on that one.
00:18:11Oh, the letters also.
00:18:12Yeah, except for it's gonna be in English,
00:18:15so you can't be like, oh, I thought it said 28.
00:18:18Then you're like, bingo.
00:18:20And they're like, okay, read the numbers.
00:18:21Like, no, no, no, no.
00:18:24Oh yeah, that one's good.
00:18:25Oh, that one's good.
00:18:27What's the name of the game?
00:18:29Bingo.
00:18:31How do we play it?
00:18:32Lovely.
00:18:34Oh, brr.
00:18:36All right, we're gonna kick this off in the G row with G52.
00:18:42Does bingo is a popular game for gays in the U.S.?
00:18:45Next up, it's B1.
00:18:47You must be one with yourself.
00:18:49Get zen, bitch.
00:18:50A little bit, because they say 069.
00:18:54What?
00:18:55The gays love that.
00:18:58Oh, that's a mess.
00:19:02That's a mess.
00:19:03I-28.
00:19:05On Grindr, I tell people that I'm 28.
00:19:08It's called catfishing and it works.
00:19:10And 45.
00:19:13Bingo!
00:19:14That was an arms up bingo.
00:19:16It sounded like it was some other restaurant.
00:19:18Come on up here.
00:19:19Do you guys want to go outside?
00:19:20It's loud in here.
00:19:21I know.
00:19:22Let's take a little break from the festivities.
00:19:25Yeah.
00:19:26I learned about Sean's relationship kind of over time
00:19:30in little blips.
00:19:31Like, I knew he was talking to someone who lived in Brazil.
00:19:33Oh, it's nice out here.
00:19:34It's high enough, you're going to hear your stuff bank.
00:19:36Exactly.
00:19:37And then the next thing I heard, he was, you know,
00:19:39kind of making more trips to Brazil.
00:19:41So I heard that, you know, oh, I'm seeing Douglas.
00:19:42And I was like, oh, it's still on.
00:19:44So I got little clues along the way that they were still
00:19:47in good shape and still getting along.
00:19:49Oh, my gosh.
00:19:50So how do you like LA so far?
00:19:52Oh, it's my first date here.
00:19:54Oh, is it?
00:19:55You came yesterday afternoon.
00:19:56Yeah, it's like.
00:19:57So like at 30 hours.
00:19:59And then after three months, you kind of decide?
00:20:01Is that how it goes?
00:20:02Yeah.
00:20:03I'm not sure.
00:20:04I'm not sure.
00:20:05I'm not sure.
00:20:06I'm not sure.
00:20:07I'm not sure.
00:20:08I'm not sure.
00:20:09I'm not sure.
00:20:10I'm not sure.
00:20:11I'm not sure.
00:20:12I'm not sure.
00:20:13I'm not sure.
00:20:14I'm not sure.
00:20:15I'm not sure.
00:20:16I'm not sure.
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:18We have to get married at the end of three months,
00:20:19so she has to go back.
00:20:20Oh.
00:20:21Yikes.
00:20:22That's a lot of pressure.
00:20:23No pressure.
00:20:24I mean, you guys have known each other for a while already.
00:20:28Really?
00:20:29So.
00:20:30Yeah.
00:20:31It's been over three years.
00:20:32Three years.
00:20:33Yeah.
00:20:34Yeah.
00:20:35But I don't know Sean's family or friends yet.
00:20:37Right.
00:20:38And I think he didn't tell me about me too.
00:20:42Yeah.
00:20:43I haven't been really like vocal to everybody about everything
00:20:45that's going on.
00:20:46Right.
00:20:47I want to know if what he told about me to you before.
00:20:51Yes.
00:20:52I knew for sure the name Douglas.
00:20:55And I knew a little bit about your situation in Brazil,
00:21:00that you lived in Brazil and you lived with your grandparents.
00:21:03And I don't know, in the first couple of years that you guys were talking,
00:21:08I had a sense of that Douglas was around.
00:21:10My dad's name, it's my old male name, and I don't use that anymore.
00:21:17I don't think people realize how they hurt me when they continue to use my name because for them can be something normal.
00:21:24But in the end of the day, that reminds me of things and feelings that I had in the past, and I don't want that anymore.
00:21:37But when he told you about me, the Aaliyah, the real me?
00:21:54When I knew about the transition, right? That's what you mean to say?
00:21:58About six months ago, I remember him saying that Douglas had changed into Aaliyah permanently.
00:22:06And he was kind of like trying to wrap his mind around it because it's a big change, obviously.
00:22:15All I remember is this feeling of the words being like, there is no more Douglas.
00:22:21And I'm like, what do you mean?
00:22:23It's like, oh, I'm Aaliyah full time now. Like, that's not a thing.
00:22:28For me, it felt like a death.
00:22:30So I was kind of like, oh my God, I have to like, let Douglas go.
00:22:35Did you also feel like Sean did, like you were mourning the loss of Douglas or not?
00:22:44But Douglas, not he anymore.
00:22:46Well, that's correct. But I'm just saying back then, Douglas was.
00:22:54When Angela was keeping saying my dad name, I did not correct her because I didn't want to be ruled.
00:23:01And sometimes I just feel like frozen.
00:23:04And I don't know like how to react, but I wish I could.
00:23:11Like she had been her whole life wanting Douglas to not be there.
00:23:15You know, I didn't have that problem.
00:23:17Yeah. Yeah.
00:23:18So it was a weird space and time for me, for sure, for trying to wrap my head around it.
00:23:27All right, gang, it's getting late.
00:23:29Yeah.
00:23:30And I'm getting cold.
00:23:31I know.
00:23:32In this warm California SoCal climate.
00:23:36Yeah.
00:23:37Okay, you guys.
00:23:38Have a great night.
00:23:39We'll see you soon, okay?
00:23:40Okay.
00:23:41Bye.
00:23:42Drive careful.
00:23:43So you want to walk home?
00:23:45I'm feeling tired.
00:23:46I think we can just call a car.
00:23:47Order a car.
00:23:48Pretty simple.
00:23:49Done.
00:23:50Two minutes.
00:23:52So, how did it go?
00:23:53I'm not too happy about using my dad name.
00:23:59And I think you both did that a lot tonight.
00:24:00Well, I mean, she's only needing to know the story and what's happened, so...
00:24:06I think Sean in this position could be always say something because he knows how I feel.
00:24:36I need to know that Sean loves me as Aliyah.
00:24:41After tonight and after our conversation, the hiking, I don't know how much he accepts me yet.
00:24:48Hi, Jordan.
00:24:49I'm scared because I'm, I'm going to say something in the lion's family.
00:25:10Oh, boy.
00:25:22Nina.
00:25:26I know we're both kind of frustrated with each other right now.
00:25:29I know the situation's all for her.
00:25:30I just want us to, like, clear the air.
00:25:42I don't want there to be any hard feelings.
00:25:44It's a family weekend.
00:25:45I want everyone to be able to get along.
00:25:47I would love to spend some time in Korea.
00:25:50And, like, let's just hope that we can try to make things a little better.
00:25:56Yeah.
00:25:57For me, too, I talked to Mark.
00:25:59I know it's very important for Mark, for the family.
00:26:02And me, too, I like family.
00:26:05Just, I need to fix it, for everything I'd say.
00:26:08Like, have a good week, weekend, and to try again.
00:26:13Yeah, we'll just take it, like, day by day and see how things go.
00:26:18We can agree on that?
00:26:20Yeah.
00:26:21Yeah, thank you.
00:26:22OK.
00:26:24Hi, Maria.
00:26:25This is a taxi?
00:26:41Yeah, there's no cars here.
00:26:43Yes.
00:26:43Yeah, it's all golf carts.
00:26:45So I think we end up getting in one of these carts.
00:26:48You get in the other side, and then I'll hand you Maria, all right?
00:26:51OK.
00:26:55Here, hold her a sec.
00:26:57Oh, yeah.
00:26:58You sit here.
00:26:59No, I see.
00:27:00But?
00:27:01No?
00:27:02No.
00:27:02I see it.
00:27:08You ready, Maria?
00:27:08Let's go.
00:27:09Yeah.
00:27:13Where's Jordan?
00:27:15Jordan?
00:27:16Yeah.
00:27:16I don't know.
00:27:17Oh, my God.
00:27:18She left 10 minutes before, uh, I think she talked for everybody.
00:27:24Now, I'm scared because I'm, I'm going to, I say, some delight on family.
00:27:30No, my family's not like that.
00:27:34Come on, baby girl.
00:27:35Rah, rah, rah.
00:27:36Jordan and Gabby, Jordan the fairy, quickly.
00:27:40I'm hurry because I know she go for talk bullsh** and when the family...
00:27:47I don't know what they're going to tell you there.
00:27:52It's a beautiful island.
00:27:54Yeah, snake.
00:27:55Yeah, alligators.
00:27:57Don't wake up, mama snake.
00:27:59Hey, this, too, don't use this word snake on Jordan.
00:28:02I don't like this word.
00:28:03This is my daughter.
00:28:03It may be in French, whatever the word is, doesn't sound bad, but in English, you call
00:28:08someone a snake.
00:28:09That's, I don't like that.
00:28:11Stop.
00:28:12It's almost good.
00:28:13I didn't say it was your fault, but let's just not say that.
00:28:16It's not cool.
00:28:17Oh, here we are.
00:28:28Oh, here they are.
00:28:30Oh, boy.
00:28:31Hey.
00:28:32Oh, God.
00:28:34Hey, guys.
00:28:37Hey.
00:28:37Hi.
00:28:38Hi.
00:28:39Maria's sleeping.
00:28:41Hey, Mark.
00:28:42How you doing?
00:28:43How you doing?
00:28:43Hi there.
00:28:45Oh, look at the beep, beep.
00:28:48She just woke up.
00:28:50She's a little groggy.
00:28:50Let me kiss the other cheek.
00:28:53Right?
00:28:53You have to kiss both cheeks?
00:28:55Yeah.
00:28:55Yeah.
00:28:57When I first met Mina in Paris, it was the first night we had flown in.
00:29:01And while we were tired, she still fixed us a fabulous meal, and we all left there feeling
00:29:08really good about her.
00:29:09Nice.
00:29:10Hey, baby.
00:29:11Hi.
00:29:11Hi.
00:29:12Hi.
00:29:12You okay?
00:29:13It's a long time.
00:29:14I'm glad she's here.
00:29:15I hope she loves it and wants to stay here.
00:29:19I'm going to go get a drink.
00:29:20It's a beautiful house.
00:29:21Come on, Maria.
00:29:22You want some water?
00:29:23Yeah.
00:29:24You want something?
00:29:24Okay.
00:29:25Yeah, it's too hot.
00:29:27Oh, nice.
00:29:29I like this.
00:29:30She calls anything in my house that's wood is rustic.
00:29:33And how's this wardrobe going?
00:29:35Incredible.
00:29:36I open the fridge for heat, and they see the food is tired.
00:29:43Food from 2017.
00:29:45That's all too.
00:29:46A little dated.
00:29:47Yeah.
00:29:50I didn't have the best impression that I met Mina in Paris for the christening.
00:29:56The first night was okay.
00:29:58She cooked for us.
00:29:59We were in a small place, so she had to be around us.
00:30:02Wow.
00:30:04But we just never felt welcome.
00:30:07We never felt like she wanted us there.
00:30:10The next day, like, for the actual event, she was four hours late, and she had taken the
00:30:15time to, like, tell her friends that it was going to start later and other people.
00:30:18But she did not tell us, which kind of sucked.
00:30:22So...
00:30:23Okay.
00:30:26She's hungry.
00:30:28And don't forget your bottle.
00:30:34Well, Jordan got over here before we did.
00:30:37So, did she have much to say?
00:30:41She's...
00:30:42I think she's just, um...
00:30:45I think she wants to still have that daddy-daughter relationship.
00:30:50I think she thinks my focus now is on...
00:30:53Maria.
00:30:53Maria and our family.
00:30:55And I don't want to be quoted on it.
00:30:58She just...
00:30:58I could tell she's upset.
00:31:00I didn't know Jordan was that upset over that Paris trip.
00:31:03I always thought that whole weekend went pretty good.
00:31:05Uh, I'm going to stop you there.
00:31:08I didn't think it went great.
00:31:09It bothered me that night at the party, when she was three or four hours late.
00:31:14And she kind of came out like this...
00:31:16Princess, like, vibe thing.
00:31:20And I was like, what the heck?
00:31:22Like, and she didn't really talk to us much the whole weekend.
00:31:26And I was a little surprised you didn't get a little more that night.
00:31:29Like, get your butt down here.
00:31:30My family's down here.
00:31:32Her mind was, she hadn't seen all the family.
00:31:35And this is a big night.
00:31:38And everybody has their opinion and their facts of how things happened.
00:31:44But, um, I support Jordan.
00:31:46Of course I do.
00:31:47It almost feels like now my own brother, Rich, is siding with Jordan.
00:31:52Um, and against Mina as well.
00:31:54I don't know why adding Mina to the mix is creating this tension and hostility.
00:32:00So, I'm this close to wanting to leave this family barbecue.
00:32:03Because it's, none of this is, uh, conducive to me and Mina's relationship.
00:32:14Just how you said you were lonely.
00:32:16I was also just as lonely.
00:32:19Juana's very curious about what happened with me and my ex-boyfriend.
00:32:23I know I hurt you, but I feel hurt a little, too.
00:32:25He cheated.
00:32:27He is trying to make it seem like I cheated.
00:32:29And I feel like it's time that we talk.
00:32:31I feel like I'm holding you on.
00:32:52Okay.
00:32:53I fell.
00:32:54Okay, come on.
00:32:55Go!
00:32:56Go!
00:32:57Whoa!
00:33:05Give me two seconds, just let me stretch for a second.
00:33:09Give me a minute, please.
00:33:12Okay, come on.
00:33:13Okay, ready?
00:33:14We're going, we're going.
00:33:19Last night was really rough.
00:33:21We had a conversation in the car
00:33:24where we were at a disagreement
00:33:25and not ending on good terms.
00:33:28And then Juan and I came home and we went to bed.
00:33:31I have a present for you, Juan Devin.
00:33:34For me?
00:33:34Yeah, hold up.
00:33:35Oh, what's that?
00:33:36Matching pajamas.
00:33:39I'm glad that the boys were already asleep
00:33:40when we got home because I don't ever want them
00:33:42to feel anything that's going on or any issues.
00:33:46Like it's my job to protect them from any of that.
00:33:48And so that's always my first priority.
00:33:51And we can have our talks later in private,
00:33:53but they don't need to be feeling the tension
00:33:56or any of that.
00:33:58Let's see your PJs.
00:34:00Okay, how do I look?
00:34:01You look so cute in your PJs.
00:34:07So in America, there's this really fun Christmas tradition
00:34:10where we get the whole family matching pajamas.
00:34:13I haven't done anything like that in my life.
00:34:16Okay, I'm here.
00:34:17Welcome back.
00:34:19This is my day in church.
00:34:20You look cute.
00:34:23I thought your PJs were going to be like way sexier
00:34:27and with less reindeers.
00:34:29I don't know.
00:34:29Sexy?
00:34:30I can't be sexy with three kids in the house.
00:34:32Why not?
00:34:33I think my kids would be like embarrassed.
00:34:36It's like, what is my mom wearing?
00:34:38You can be a sexy mom.
00:34:39I don't think I don't think...
00:34:41Chords, like chords.
00:34:42I don't know.
00:34:43Died and...
00:34:44Quiet.
00:34:51Okay, let's go.
00:34:52I'm excited.
00:34:58Juan and I need to discuss what happened last night.
00:35:01He cheated.
00:35:02He is trying to make it seem like I cheated.
00:35:05There's just some big conversations that we need to have.
00:35:08The boys are scheduled to go stay with their dad,
00:35:10so we're going to walk them over there,
00:35:12and then we are going to have a talk.
00:35:14Are you guys excited to stay at Dad's?
00:35:16Yeah.
00:35:17Wow, this is a nice house.
00:35:19It's huge.
00:35:19I know.
00:35:20Dawson says it's a mansion.
00:35:22And then they come to my tiny house.
00:35:27Okay, give me hugs.
00:35:27Goodbye.
00:35:28I'll see you tomorrow.
00:35:30I'll miss you.
00:35:31What happened yesterday with Jessica's friends
00:35:34and then this ex-boyfriend thing,
00:35:36I have realized that we have kept secrets in between us
00:35:39in this relationship,
00:35:41and now that I'm here,
00:35:42this just can keep on going,
00:35:44and we need to work things out.
00:35:52You know, look, I've just been thinking about last night,
00:35:54and I know I heard you,
00:35:57but I feel hurt a little too.
00:35:58I mean, yeah.
00:36:00Just the fact that your ex came to your house,
00:36:03and I didn't know.
00:36:05He came at night, and the kids were not there.
00:36:09Make it even a little, you know, make it a little bit worse.
00:36:12You know, I think we both were feeling the distance,
00:36:17and we weren't communicating as well as we can.
00:36:22And just how, like, you said you were lonely.
00:36:25Like, I was also just as lonely.
00:36:30Juana's very curious about what happened with me and my ex-boyfriend.
00:36:34That summer, we were very distant.
00:36:36I mean, he was working long hours on the ship,
00:36:38so we weren't communicating, you know,
00:36:40the same time that he was kind of being
00:36:42not on his best behavior.
00:36:44I felt that too, and was lonely,
00:36:47and kind of started reconnecting with an ex-boyfriend,
00:36:50and found myself, in a way, developing some feelings.
00:36:55I guess that's part of the reason
00:36:56why I forgave Juan for cheating on me.
00:36:58He was going through, like, his own thing,
00:37:06and I was just trying to be a friend,
00:37:08and be there for someone, I guess.
00:37:12But, I mean, you know, my intentions were never bad.
00:37:18So you never thought about it?
00:37:20I mean, you know, I think there's always, like,
00:37:22there's people you always care about.
00:37:24I mean, look, I get what happened to you.
00:37:27I'm not being there, and I felt lonely too.
00:37:29But, I mean, I didn't do what you did.
00:37:39Something that worries me is, here, this is normal.
00:37:42Like, this is a normal life.
00:37:46And you haven't lived a normal life in a while.
00:37:52And I'm afraid that, you know, maybe you
00:37:53won't be happy living a normal life.
00:37:57She's right about it.
00:37:59I'm giving up my career, my life on the boat, for coming here.
00:38:06And maybe by then I didn't picture it,
00:38:08but now I can see how much of a sacrifice it was.
00:38:14It is really hard and tough.
00:38:17I want you to want to be here.
00:38:19Like, I don't want you to feel like you have to be here.
00:38:24So, I mean, I guess I'm just wondering, too, like,
00:38:31do you want this?
00:38:31Do you want all of this?
00:38:32I mean, I do really want all of this.
00:38:34I do want to live with my son, and I do love you so much.
00:38:43And I'm just ready for this life, I guess.
00:38:48You guess.
00:38:52My biggest fear was Juan could adapt to normal family life.
00:38:56And it feels good to hear that he wants all of this.
00:39:00And, you know, that's what I'm really wanting.
00:39:02Love you.
00:39:03Love you, too.
00:39:05Of course, it's one thing to say it.
00:39:09It's another thing to live it.
00:39:11He did hurt me in the past, and I don't want to be hurt again.
00:39:20I'm going to go to work a little bit.
00:39:22You'll be all right without me?
00:39:23Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:39:24Yeah.
00:39:25Of course.
00:39:26What's up, baby?
00:39:28I don't want things to feel like they are scheduled, you know,
00:39:30like, oh, mom's going to be working from 3 to 2 or something.
00:39:33Oh, let's go, let's go.
00:39:34But it's like, oh, my God, like, I have all this energy
00:39:36and all this testosterone just built up.
00:39:39And phew.
00:39:44You are always saying, like, that name,
00:39:47it's my old male name, and I don't use that anymore.
00:39:51So what do you want people to say?
00:39:52Don't use the name.
00:39:53So we can talk about the nothing, and then nothing says to me.
00:39:57And when I meant nothing, nothing meant nothing.
00:40:04Come on.
00:40:05Come on.
00:40:05Peng out.
00:40:09Everyone.
00:40:11What are you waiting for?
00:40:20Put your hands up.
00:40:22La la la, la la la.
00:40:25What the?
00:40:29Last night, Sean took me to meet one of his friends, Angela.
00:40:33She was really nice, but something brothers me
00:40:38because they was keeping saying, like, my dad's name.
00:40:42It's my old male name, and I don't use that anymore.
00:40:47When I told Sean that that was brother to me,
00:40:50he didn't say, like, any story.
00:40:52He just said that that was, like, my fault
00:40:56because I brought that to the conversation.
00:41:00I'm changing, and I'm really worried
00:41:03the more that I meet myself, he'll be, like, more distant,
00:41:06and, like, I'm here, we have 90 days,
00:41:09and if we doesn't get married, that would be, like, a disaster.
00:41:14We can go.
00:41:16All right.
00:41:18That took a while.
00:41:21Yeah.
00:41:21Do I look nice?
00:41:23You always look nice.
00:41:24Yeah.
00:41:25Let me get Maxwell in his place
00:41:28so he can be here while we go.
00:41:31Come on, big butt.
00:41:33Ugh!
00:41:35I am not going to be able to pick you up pretty soon.
00:41:38You have all your toys.
00:41:39Ugh!
00:41:40Love.
00:41:41Turn around.
00:41:44It's open, your shorts.
00:41:48My shorts are open?
00:41:49Yeah.
00:41:50My pants are ripped?
00:41:51Yeah.
00:41:52Probably from picking up that dog.
00:41:54I don't feel anything.
00:41:56Yeah, it's here.
00:41:57It's open.
00:41:58I think so.
00:41:59I don't care.
00:42:02I can stay open.
00:42:03You'll go like that?
00:42:04At least I'm wearing underwear, that's a good sign.
00:42:08Maybe we can find me some new pants.
00:42:10This looks like everything I already wear.
00:42:29You guys looking for anything in particular today, maybe?
00:42:31She might need a jacket or sweater or something
00:42:34to keep her warm.
00:42:35Yeah, your sweater.
00:42:35Just got here from Brazil, so everything seems cold in LA.
00:42:39This is the section here that's
00:42:40going to have most of the sweater's jackets in.
00:42:42OK.
00:42:44Let me know if you need a different size or anything.
00:42:45OK?
00:42:45Thanks.
00:42:47This is cute.
00:42:50Hey.
00:42:53Yeah, I don't like the color.
00:42:55No?
00:42:58Long skirt?
00:42:59No, I think I can handle that.
00:43:04I can, like, choose the clothes that I like.
00:43:07And the men's side's the other side.
00:43:12Are you still irritated about last night?
00:43:20Yes.
00:43:23You are always saying, like, the dead name.
00:43:26It's not something that I want, like, to continue
00:43:28to bring to all the conversation that we have, or if people.
00:43:32Obviously, Angela knows about my relationship with Douglas,
00:43:37and so that word came up.
00:43:38We don't need to use the name.
00:43:41So what do you want people to say?
00:43:42Don't use the name.
00:43:43So I'm talking to nothing, and then nothing says to me.
00:43:48And when I meant nothing, nothing meant nothing.
00:43:50This is not trying to be a hit or a jab or hurtful in any way.
00:44:00It's just that this is who was, and we're talking about the full picture of the relationship.
00:44:06And Aaliyah has to kind of remember that there would be no Sean and Aaliyah if there was no Sean and Douglas.
00:44:13So, you know, it's complicated.
00:44:15And as much as I want to value her feelings on it, I cannot say that word to make her happy.
00:44:23But I'm not quite ready to act like Douglas never existed.
00:44:30I think if that happened in the moment that we are together, I think, like, you can correct that
00:44:36and say, oh, that's Aaliyah and that's it.
00:44:42Yeah, or you can tell them that you feel uncomfortable talking about that name or whatever
00:44:47and not to do it so they know exactly what you're saying.
00:44:51You know, they might not understand what you're getting at.
00:44:54And that includes me because I didn't know that made you uncomfortable.
00:45:00I think, like, now I am enough and you don't need, like, to keep missing that or bringing that anymore.
00:45:11Now I just want to think about future, our plans for the future, how everything will be,
00:45:15like our wedding, how it will be life, day to day, whatever, and that's it.
00:45:21Okay.
00:45:22You brought it up and I was talking about it because you were asking about it.
00:45:26So if we're not talking about it, then that's fine.
00:45:31One of my big fears with being with somebody who's transitioning
00:45:34is that I feel like I'm somehow part of the problem
00:45:39because I represent something from the past that you don't want to think about.
00:45:43There's pictures, there's video, there's memories that I cherish
00:45:50that now need to be hidden and deleted and discarded.
00:45:55And am I part of that need to discard?
00:45:57What's up, mother cluckers?
00:46:14Living it up, living it up, living it up, living it up right
00:46:20Until the day I die
00:46:23This is life
00:46:26Hey, do you want to get the egg basket?
00:46:31Oh.
00:46:33Look at that.
00:46:34She knows.
00:46:34She is too good.
00:46:36Gotta get some eggs.
00:46:37Let me see.
00:46:40Wow, we got a lot of eggs in there, huh?
00:46:43So we have 18 chickens.
00:46:45They're part of the family.
00:46:46I mean, you know, we love them.
00:46:47Listen, we don't give them as much attention and love as the dogs,
00:46:50but they definitely have a nice setup.
00:46:52They're very well taken care of.
00:46:53And in return, they give us some of the most delicious eggs
00:46:56that I've ever eaten in my life.
00:46:57So when can we eat one?
00:47:02What?
00:47:02When can we eat one?
00:47:06You're going to be like, we have chickens like maybe like for six months
00:47:10then after we eat them.
00:47:11Do you want me to kill one of my chickens?
00:47:13Yes, why not?
00:47:15On Sunday, we are eating the black one, like maybe Beatrice or one.
00:47:19Wednesday, we're having this one.
00:47:21Henrietta?
00:47:22Yeah.
00:47:22Your eyes are lighting up right now thinking I can see it, man.
00:47:27Oh, it will be so delicious.
00:47:29I just can't wait to have one.
00:47:30And you know, I know you like it.
00:47:32Yeah, absolutely.
00:47:32I would love it.
00:47:33Yeah.
00:47:34Greg!
00:47:35Oh, God.
00:47:37Hey, Mom.
00:47:38I turned the water on.
00:47:39Okay.
00:47:41Oh, you got the eggs?
00:47:42Wow.
00:47:43I'm going to go to work a little bit.
00:47:45You'll be all right without me?
00:47:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:47:47Yeah.
00:47:48Of course.
00:47:48Of course.
00:47:49If you get a chance, would you be able to water the garden?
00:47:51It looks like it's like wilting everything.
00:47:54Okay, we'll do so.
00:47:56You want me to bring the eggs in?
00:47:58Okay.
00:47:59Yeah, no problem.
00:48:00Yeah, I guess we'll do some other stuff around the coop here.
00:48:02All right.
00:48:03All right, see you.
00:48:06Living with my mom and Joan has its ups and downs sometimes.
00:48:09Sometimes you want a little privacy.
00:48:13I feel like no matter which room I'm in, she just comes and finds something to do in that room.
00:48:17If I go in the garage, she comes in the garage.
00:48:19If I go in the back room, she's vacuuming the back room.
00:48:21If I'm in the kitchen, she's cleaning dishes in the kitchen.
00:48:24It's like, what the , man?
00:48:26Is it really that much to do?
00:48:30So introducing my mom to rideshare deliveries during the pandemic,
00:48:34I mean, it's probably one of the best ideas I've ever had.
00:48:36Oh, yeah.
00:48:43How are things with Joan, Gregory and I?
00:48:47I find that, um, it's better than I thought it would be.
00:48:52He seems a lot happier.
00:48:54A lot more, he's in the morning, he'll be singing, you know, in the morning dancing.
00:48:59And it's good. It's good to see my son happy.
00:49:06You want to head on inside?
00:49:07Yeah?
00:49:07Yeah.
00:49:08Yeah.
00:49:12Are you in a rush?
00:49:13Yeah.
00:49:14Yeah.
00:49:15Oh, what's up, baby?
00:49:19So when it comes to intimacy and making love, I don't want things to feel like they are scheduled.
00:49:23You know, like, oh, mom's going to be working from three to two or something.
00:49:27Oh, let's go, let's go.
00:49:28But it's like, it is what it is.
00:49:29I have to deal with it.
00:49:36It's like, oh, my God.
00:49:37Like, I have all this energy and all this, this, this testosterone just built up.
00:49:41And, whew.
00:49:42First time I've seen you in this, uh, bathrobe here.
00:49:56All right.
00:49:56Oh, yeah.
00:49:58Nice.
00:49:58Perfect.
00:49:58And I got to water the garden.
00:50:01Mom asked me to water the garden.
00:50:03So what's going on with the pressure?
00:50:05I already did.
00:50:10So you had a good time?
00:50:12Yeah.
00:50:12Yeah.
00:50:13That was nice.
00:50:15Nah, I wish you would, uh, go out more often.
00:50:17I don't know.
00:50:18I'd need to give up some money for shopping.
00:50:21But she's always out.
00:50:21I don't know.
00:50:23Money for, I can do that.
00:50:24Ask her to go to the grocery store.
00:50:25She loves grocery shopping.
00:50:29I, I enjoy the time we have together.
00:50:33But when will this stop?
00:50:37You don't have to wait for your mom always to get out.
00:50:39What if she doesn't go out?
00:50:44I know.
00:50:45It's just killing me to stay here for two years.
00:50:49I love being with Greg.
00:50:51But these leaving arrangements, I don't know if it's possible.
00:50:56Relationship can't last long this way.
00:50:58You have to get the out of here soon.
00:51:02Yeah, yeah.
00:51:03No, you're absolutely right.
00:51:04I gotta get a job.
00:51:06You gotta get a real job, you know?
00:51:08I feel like if you don't want to get a job, I want to go back to Uganda.
00:51:13What did you just say?
00:51:24Sarpia, I'm going to be honest with you.
00:51:26Before she kind of went back to Turkey,
00:51:28I didn't believe in your relationship.
00:51:30I think you were like just bull****ing her.
00:51:34What the **** coming?
00:51:36He tries to poke me and I just want to answer him,
00:51:39but I cannot because she kind of is there.
00:51:42What a test.
00:51:56What are you doing, babe?
00:51:59What are you doing?
00:52:01Where did you get this?
00:52:02This is mine.
00:52:04Oh my God.
00:52:04Babe, you can't shave here.
00:52:09Literally, your little hairs stick to everything.
00:52:16Like, if I touch this now, it's going to stick to my hand.
00:52:18And then if I touch my face, I'm going to have it on my face.
00:52:22Tweety, don't be so grumpy.
00:52:26I have to hide stuff from you.
00:52:28Sarpra is very vain.
00:52:29He likes to take care of himself almost as much as I do.
00:52:33And he has been using all my stuff.
00:52:36I'm getting old, babe.
00:52:38I have to conceal my wrinkles.
00:52:40Yeah, he uses the wrong products in the wrong places.
00:52:44Highlighter like goes here and here and he puts it all under.
00:52:49He's still a man about it, but he's playing with like, you know, girl stuff.
00:52:53I don't like you to talk about it.
00:52:54I love it.
00:52:58It's cute.
00:52:59Don't get mad.
00:53:02Okay, I won't say girl stuff.
00:53:03I just want you to really be on your best behavior tonight.
00:53:19And please make a good impression on my friends.
00:53:23These are people that are the closest to me.
00:53:27I'm really nervous about Sarpra meeting my friends tonight.
00:53:30They're a big part of my life.
00:53:31We do things together all the time.
00:53:34So if this doesn't go well, it's going to really affect our life in LA together.
00:53:39I won't be offensive.
00:53:40I know.
00:53:40I know what you mean.
00:53:41I won't be offensive.
00:53:42What if you're feeling cornered or challenged or like ganged up on?
00:53:50If someone comes to me, I will react, of course.
00:53:55Ugh, this is stressful.
00:53:58I'm downstairs waiting for you.
00:54:00Okay.
00:54:00I think that Sarpra will be fine with most of my friends, but I am worried about one of them,
00:54:07and that's Dan.
00:54:08Sarpra knows a lot about Dan, and I've mentioned that he still has feelings for me.
00:54:13I really want you to be happy, but I really still do love you.
00:54:22I've told him a thousand times that Dan is harmless, and I think he trusts me on that.
00:54:27But that doesn't mean he likes the idea of me hanging out with someone that has feelings for me.
00:54:36Let's go.
00:54:38Are you in a bad mood?
00:54:39No.
00:54:40I am getting used to it.
00:54:42Used to what?
00:54:44Everything.
00:54:48Her friends are closer to her than her own family.
00:54:52So important for me to make a great first impressions on them.
00:54:57But when Dan is there, how it will happen, I don't know.
00:55:03Downtown LA.
00:55:04Yep.
00:55:05Real Los Angeles, right?
00:55:07Yeah, we're here.
00:55:09What do you think?
00:55:10It looks cool.
00:55:11It looks America.
00:55:12Yeah.
00:55:13Yeah.
00:55:13Let me just send them a little group text to not go hard on you.
00:55:18Either.
00:55:19If you feel like you're being interrogated or something, just keep in mind that it's because
00:55:25they love me and care about me, and they're just looking out for my best interest, you know?
00:55:29Of course.
00:55:30I love you.
00:55:31Me too.
00:55:32Me too.
00:55:32You love yourself too.
00:55:44Oh my gosh!
00:55:45Hey!
00:55:46How are you?
00:55:47Oh my gosh!
00:55:47Hi!
00:55:48How are you?
00:55:49Hi!
00:55:49How are you?
00:55:50How are you?
00:55:51Finally?
00:55:52Good day.
00:55:53How are you doing?
00:55:53Hello, Dan.
00:55:55Nice to finally meet you.
00:55:58He hugged me.
00:55:58Believe me, believe me, every self of me wanted to do something else, you know?
00:56:05Sarpur's really here.
00:56:07He's a real person.
00:56:08Yeah.
00:56:11Hello, guys.
00:56:11How are you?
00:56:12Fine.
00:56:13You look the same.
00:56:14You look good.
00:56:15Finally.
00:56:16How do you like it out late so far?
00:56:17I mean, I'm in shock still.
00:56:19I know.
00:56:20Sometimes I think, where am I?
00:56:22What am I doing?
00:56:25We're down the street with each other.
00:56:26You're talking to my place.
00:56:27We'll go to the pool.
00:56:28Exactly.
00:56:28See, that's why I wanted him to meet you guys.
00:56:30Because I want him to feel like he has other people in LA.
00:56:33Yeah, yeah.
00:56:33So for now, you're here for three months?
00:56:35No.
00:56:36Are you here for three months?
00:56:37No.
00:56:38He's moved here.
00:56:39No, we have three months to get married.
00:56:41Like, we need...
00:56:42You have 90 days to marry.
00:56:43Besides for 90 days.
00:56:45So you have 90 days to get married.
00:56:46Yeah.
00:56:47And then if we get married, he stays.
00:56:48So are you getting married?
00:56:52Well, I mean, it's like a trial period, right?
00:56:5590 days, like, let's see how it goes.
00:56:57Are you already engaged?
00:56:58I can see.
00:56:58Yes, well, that means he wants to marry me.
00:57:00But in this situation, maybe it's more like by convenience,
00:57:03because for you to stay longer here.
00:57:05If she kind of is not in my life, even if you pay me,
00:57:08I wouldn't stay.
00:57:12At the table, I mean, everyone is American thinking American,
00:57:15except me and Dan.
00:57:16We are both Mediterranean, Europeans, and we have another flow of energy.
00:57:24He was just trying to step on me.
00:57:27I feel that.
00:57:27It's so obvious.
00:57:28No one understand that at the table.
00:57:31Jabhat, he was sending those messages to me.
00:57:35Have you ever met with any boyfriends of Shikaila?
00:57:37Oh, yeah.
00:57:38Oh, yeah, oh, yeah.
00:57:39They were all losers.
00:57:40Like, honestly, like, I mean, beside me.
00:57:42But they were all, I mean, they were all losers.
00:57:45Did you date with her?
00:57:49We went on dates, but we weren't dating.
00:57:51Do you know the difference?
00:57:52We weren't dating.
00:57:55Like, we weren't in a relationship.
00:57:59You know, in France, when you meet a girl,
00:58:01you go on a date with her, and then if you kiss her,
00:58:04and then you start to see her,
00:58:05then she becomes a girlfriend right away.
00:58:08If you kiss her?
00:58:09Yeah.
00:58:10Dan!
00:58:10I know, no, no, no, I'm just explaining the French way.
00:58:13Okay, but you know that doesn't work in LA.
00:58:15That's not true.
00:58:16We went on dates, and, yeah, some interesting stuff happened.
00:58:26I mean, we've done more than just kissing back then.
00:58:32But Sarper, I'm going to be honest with you.
00:58:33You know, like, before Shikaila went back to Turkey,
00:58:36I didn't believe in your relationship.
00:58:38I think you were, like, just bull-ing her and playing with her
00:58:42and just, like, you know, sleeping with other girls in Turkey
00:58:45while she was here in the U.S.
00:58:47And I still think that I would be a better,
00:58:51you know, a better guy to be with.
00:59:01What the f***?
00:59:02I mean, he tries to poke me with small words,
00:59:07some ego clash, and I hate that,
00:59:10and I just want to answer him,
00:59:12but I cannot because Shikaila is there.
00:59:14I have to give a good impression
00:59:16that ego clash between us can urge me to do something
00:59:20that I don't want, that I can be regretful afterwards.
00:59:25What a test.
00:59:26So, earlier today, you were having an issue with talking about the past
00:59:36and wanting to be in your presence.
00:59:40After our conversation from today, I've been thinking,
00:59:43and I want Aaliyah to know about how I feel about our next chapter.
00:59:48I'm not doing anything to hurt your feelings, but, um...
01:00:06Come on. I'm going. I'm going without you. Come on.
01:00:09Come on. This is what the big boys do. Come on.
01:00:25After our conversation from today,
01:00:27I've been thinking.
01:00:31I went through a long period of mourning for Douglas,
01:00:35but there's an inner light to both of them that I am drawn to.
01:00:43It just feels homey and comfortable, and we can have an argument,
01:00:48and it doesn't seem hateful, and we can say nothing, and it doesn't seem strange.
01:00:54And those things are all outside the box of sex and gender.
01:01:00I'm almost done.
01:01:10Maybe it's the joy also of being older that you know that feeling,
01:01:15and you cherish it instead of, like, toss it away because,
01:01:18you know, you don't know any better.
01:01:20So, even though it's complicated, I'm knowledgeable that this is an important life person,
01:01:27and I'm wanting to do life with that person.
01:01:36It's good. Yeah.
01:01:37Yeah.
01:01:38Yeah, it's really good.
01:01:47So, earlier today, you were having an issue with talking about the past and wanting to be
01:01:54in your present,
01:01:55and I want you to know that I'm not doing anything purposefully to hurt your feelings or
01:02:05make you upset about the past stuff.
01:02:07It's just we haven't talked about that before and how you want to address it.
01:02:11And I want you to know that as much as there's change, that I'm rolling with the changes.
01:02:17And I see you, and I love you, and I made you something so that you could understand that I'm
01:02:26being in the present.
01:02:27So, I have a present for the present.
01:02:31Early on in our relationship, Aaliyah, then Douglas,
01:02:37made me a sweet picture book of our adventure story.
01:02:43Aaliyah has been keeping a scrapbook called Our Adventure Book.
01:02:47It's the Sean and Douglas story, or at least that's how it begins.
01:02:52He's handsome as Douglas, right?
01:03:02And then the adventure book ends.
01:03:05That particular story chapters are finished, and I want Aaliyah to know about how I feel about
01:03:18our next chapters and new adventure stories.
01:03:24So, this was done a long time ago,
01:03:26waiting for you to come to America to be with me.
01:03:30So, this is a new book.
01:03:37So, you gave me a book, I'm giving you a book.
01:04:00It makes me feel like embraced and important to him.
01:04:14I can also see like a movie that's passing from my mind,
01:04:17with a lot of memories together.
01:04:20And all the moments I can see like myself, I can see Aaliyah and Sean,
01:04:24and that's very important and amazing to me.
01:04:29A couple of months.
01:04:34I have no words.
01:04:35I love this.
01:04:53You're welcome.
01:04:58It's the Lee and Sean story.
01:05:05This is the first time that I can see like a confirmation from Sean,
01:05:12that he's really being supportive to me.
01:05:15And he's really the person that I love and the person that I want to get married.
01:05:19Hey, Aaliyah, you almost done?
01:05:21Yes.
01:05:29That's pretty.
01:05:30Right now, my heart is beating fast because I can feel like that we can finally move forward.
01:05:42Happy?
01:05:43Yeah.
01:05:44I love what you did tonight.
01:05:46Yeah.
01:05:48Good.
01:05:49Yeah.
01:05:50Do you want me to turn off the lights?
01:05:52Yeah.
01:05:55I'm going to get rid of the dog.
01:05:57Maxwell, come on, come on, come on.
01:06:03All right.
01:06:03Good boy.
01:06:04Good boy.
01:06:16The bread price, the dowry I had told you about it, it's 15 cows.
01:06:23Realistically though, how does somebody afford 15 cows?
01:06:25People do afford it.
01:06:26It's just you who can't afford it.
01:06:29That's a volcano erupting, you know?
01:06:32Is it fair that all of this is on me?
01:06:35Have you guys talked any more about Afrina?
01:06:38Yeah, I think, uh, yeah.
01:06:41You think I come just for your money, Mark?
01:06:43You too?
01:06:46I finished this conference in anger.
01:06:50I didn't realize that it was blessed.
01:06:55What do you mean, like, go back to Uganda if I don't get a job?
01:07:05Honestly speaking, yeah.
01:07:06You want me to lie on a person who is unstable?
01:07:19See, when we met your friends, like, they opened my eyes.
01:07:24How come they're, like, successfully of the same age?
01:07:26I fell in love with Gregory because he's a very loving person.
01:07:32He's honest.
01:07:33But if I'm going to be Gregory's wife, I need him to be serious.
01:07:37I need him to, to work.
01:07:39The job you denied just before I came.
01:07:43In my head, I'm like, he knew I was coming.
01:07:45So he didn't prepare, like, maybe to get a job.
01:07:48So if I should have took that job, I know.
01:07:51I'm sorry.
01:07:56Sometimes you don't take, like, life serious.
01:07:58I take it serious.
01:07:59You joke a lot.
01:08:00You joke too much.
01:08:01I know.
01:08:02It's just what you fell in love with.
01:08:04Oh, you know what I'm saying?
01:08:06I'm sorry.
01:08:07I know I'm like, I'm taking this very serious.
01:08:11It's just how I cope with things.
01:08:12I kind of just laugh at things and shrug things off in a way.
01:08:17But as far as getting a job, I mean, every day, you know, I'm on the state website.
01:08:21I'm looking at jobs that they've posted.
01:08:23You know what I mean?
01:08:24I've put in a bunch of applications.
01:08:26My resume's gone out.
01:08:27You act like I'm not doing, I'm sitting on my ass every day.
01:08:32Because you don't communicate.
01:08:33I didn't know that maybe, like, you applied for many jobs, so.
01:08:36I have told you that.
01:08:37I've kept telling you that.
01:08:39I've always told you that.
01:08:43Joan, you know, she's the love of my life.
01:08:45I love her more than anything, and I would do anything for her.
01:08:49But I don't think she realizes, like, if I had a regular nine-to-five job,
01:08:52I wouldn't have been able to have the freedom to go and visit her to Uganda as much as I could.
01:08:57I think I should be given a little bit of credit here.
01:09:00Our relationship wouldn't be where it is if I didn't make those choices that I did.
01:09:03It's something else.
01:09:06When I talked to my family.
01:09:09Mm-hmm.
01:09:10So Angel had talked up with my bigger brother.
01:09:13How much?
01:09:14Yes.
01:09:15And you know about the bread price, the dowry I had told you about it.
01:09:22Yeah, it's 15 cows.
01:09:25OK.
01:09:26All right.
01:09:27How much is a cow?
01:09:29Something like 1.5 million shillings.
01:09:31Ugandan shillings.
01:09:33That's $200.
01:09:35Two, six, eight.
01:09:39It's like three grand, almost.
01:09:41Mm-hmm.
01:09:42Realistically, though, how does somebody afford 15 cows?
01:09:56I mean...
01:09:56People do afford it.
01:09:57It's just you who can't afford.
01:09:59So it's not like people can't afford it.
01:10:02It's just you.
01:10:05I mean, is it fair that all of this is on me?
01:10:08You know what I mean?
01:10:08I mean, besides this...
01:10:10Forget about the dowry.
01:10:12I still have a whole wedding to afford.
01:10:14You know what I mean?
01:10:14I have wedding dresses to get for you.
01:10:15I have rings to buy for us.
01:10:19I mean, everything is on me.
01:10:21Culture is culture in my country, so...
01:10:22Yeah.
01:10:23It is what it is.
01:10:24I can't change nothing.
01:10:26That means I'm disobeying my culture.
01:10:28I'm disobeying my family.
01:10:29Also, my father's last wishes.
01:10:32But, OK, the dowry aside.
01:10:35You know what I mean?
01:10:35Besides all that, you knew who I was before you moved here.
01:10:37Mm-hmm.
01:10:38And now you're hitting me with this,
01:10:39that you want to go back to Uganda if I don't have a job.
01:10:41I mean, like, so...
01:10:43Should we get married?
01:10:44I mean, like, you know, what if the job doesn't come through?
01:10:48I don't understand it.
01:10:50We had such a good moment upstairs a little while ago,
01:10:53and for her to hit me,
01:10:54saying that she'd go back to Uganda if I didn't get a job,
01:10:57that's what really hurts the most.
01:10:58I mean, you know, everything else I can deal with,
01:10:59but the fact that she wants to get up and just leave,
01:11:02that's really...
01:11:05It's like a knife in the heart, straight up.
01:11:06The job doesn't come, which means we're not going to get married,
01:11:10but it means you can't take care of me, so...
01:11:12I mean, like, you know...
01:11:13Because the fact is that if I don't see you putting in much effort, that's it.
01:11:17And the first night we all left, we were like, that went great.
01:11:36That was awesome.
01:11:37She was laid back, easy going.
01:11:39But from that next morning on, it was the opposite of that,
01:11:42and we were like, what the heck?
01:11:45That FYI, bro, when we...
01:11:47And I'm not trying to be mean when I say this, I'm just saying it,
01:11:49but when we booked the tickets for the wedding,
01:11:53we booked refundable tickets just in case.
01:11:57I guess when I say I thought the weekend went good is because I thought
01:12:11that first night was awesome, and that's the Mina I know.
01:12:13I didn't realize that everybody has doubts, but, you know, here we are.
01:12:18We'll see.
01:12:29Hey, gang.
01:12:31I feel like, so far, nothing's gone right.
01:12:34It feels like my family's not supporting my choice to marry Mina.
01:12:38Here, here.
01:12:40Yeah.
01:12:41Good job, Marie.
01:12:41Good job.
01:12:42And maybe they're just still expressing concerns,
01:12:45but it should, shouldn't be here at a family barbecue.
01:12:48It's not the time for it.
01:12:50Hey, you guys smile.
01:12:51Maria, look, ain't Uncle Rich.
01:12:53I don't know how to fix it or change it.
01:12:55So, I'm gonna try to keep a positive spin on everything
01:12:59and find the joy in it, because I want them to get along.
01:13:03I mean, clearly, I don't want to make it worse.
01:13:06Did you guys get the e-vites?
01:13:07Everybody, uh...
01:13:08Yes, and I get all your responses, by the way.
01:13:10Yeah, we do.
01:13:11Do you get them too?
01:13:12You can see everyone's response.
01:13:13Oh, everybody does that.
01:13:16Any last-minute stuff you guys need to do?
01:13:18You could bring up a bag of cash, Dad, because...
01:13:22This is good.
01:13:23I wish I could.
01:13:25Um, have you guys talked any more about a prenup?
01:13:29You guys are gonna do that before the wedding?
01:13:35Yeah, I think, uh, we're gonna do that.
01:13:38Yeah.
01:13:40You could sound so sure, so...
01:13:41Well, it's kind of a weird time to bring it up, Jordan, but I agree, uh, you know, it's...
01:13:47Maybe not, then she's got you nailed.
01:13:50You think I come just for your money, Mark, you too?
01:13:56Nah, I don't think that, but I still think we'll do it, just corporate, you know, just, it's a document.
01:14:03Sometimes, maybe because of our age difference, it's common, you know?
01:14:08I'm married for you, I don't mind for your money.
01:14:12Nah, and I would never not take care of you and Maria, too, but the prenup is just about stuff
01:14:18that I had before we met.
01:14:20Yeah, I finished this conversation, I'm so sorry, I'm gone.
01:14:25Decide, I need one minute for me.
01:14:27And then, after I met Mark, he hasn't talked about his documents, he hasn't mentioned that.
01:14:33He hasn't talked about marriage.
01:14:37He hasn't talked about signing or whatever you want, though.
01:14:38...
01:14:41Since I met Mark, he hasn't talked about his documents.
01:14:45He hasn't mentioned that.
01:14:47He hasn't talked about marriage contracts.
01:14:51He hasn't talked about signings or anything.
01:14:54I thought it was just ridiculous.
01:14:59Oh, my God!
01:15:02Who am I?
01:15:04I don't need a contract to prove that I love their children
01:15:08I love Mark, in fact.
01:15:12But it's sad.
01:15:15When we talked to him, we were golfing.
01:15:16You said that you guys had already had the conversation.
01:15:18Yeah, we did. We did.
01:15:20And again, maybe this is her not understanding.
01:15:23And I think sometimes she doesn't really know what I'm saying.
01:15:26She knows what a prenup is, right?
01:15:28I think she does.
01:15:29But maybe it's because everybody's talking about it.
01:15:31And it feels like it's intimidating.
01:15:33It's confusing.
01:15:38It's not to come and have an impression that I'm going to fly.
01:15:43I'm going to try something else.
01:15:47And he's quiet in his room.
01:15:50He doesn't even realize that it's hurting me.
01:15:55If it was the case,
01:15:57if I knew it,
01:15:58we could stay in the relationship with the United States.
01:16:01I don't want you to continue collecting your Barbies in your closet.
01:16:12She's not a thing.
01:16:14That French bagot is nonstop talking.
01:16:17It's dangerous to poke the beer that much.
01:16:19You cannot control my feelings.
01:16:21I die for her.
01:16:22I kill for her.
01:16:24You better not want to have problems with me for sure.
01:16:26Really?
01:16:27Yeah.
01:16:37I still think that I would be a better, you know, better guy to be with.
01:16:43What are you saying?
01:16:44Yeah, of course.
01:16:45I don't even know what you're saying.
01:16:46What do you mean?
01:16:47We weren't ready.
01:16:48I think I was a better man off that she can be with instead of going back to Turkey.
01:16:54I'm sorry, Sarper, but, you know, it's just how it is.
01:16:56Oh, no.
01:17:06You are not her type, you know?
01:17:08You look like a bad boy, but you are a good boy.
01:17:12I can't believe that Dan is going in like this on Sarper.
01:17:15And I'm actually really impressed that Sarper is maintaining his composure through all of this
01:17:20and not losing his temper with Dan.
01:17:22You know, there are some boys, cat guys.
01:17:26Some guys are dog guys.
01:17:30There's some little backhanded stabs going on.
01:17:33And I think it needs to, like, stop because clearly we're together.
01:17:37That's not going to change.
01:17:40If you think otherwise, we would have a problem.
01:17:43That's for sure.
01:17:44You better not want to have problems with me for sure.
01:17:47Really?
01:17:53He is obvious at trying to interfere our relationship.
01:17:57Old version, Sarper, I would bounce him and throw him up.
01:18:01Catch him in the air and alley-oop him.
01:18:03And he wants me to do such a thing.
01:18:06I don't want you to break her heart.
01:18:09That's the thing.
01:18:10And I don't want you to continue collecting your Barbies in your closet, you know?
01:18:15You're not a can.
01:18:16And she's not a Barbie.
01:18:18So you cannot consider her as...
01:18:19She is my Barbie.
01:18:20No, she...
01:18:21You can't consider her as your Barbie.
01:18:22I'm sorry.
01:18:23She's not a thing.
01:18:24You know?
01:18:25She's your girlfriend.
01:18:26She may...
01:18:27She might become your wife.
01:18:28She's your fiancée.
01:18:30Yes.
01:18:32I just want you to really, like, take care of her because she means...
01:18:35She means a lot to me.
01:18:36I die for her.
01:18:37I kill for her.
01:18:38So that's how I care for her.
01:18:41You have no authority to give any direction to protect her, to say anything to her.
01:18:47I mean, I'm her friend.
01:18:49You are...
01:18:50Of course, you are a friend.
01:18:51You care for her.
01:18:52I understand that.
01:18:53Yeah.
01:18:54I don't know if you have feelings to her, by the way.
01:18:57That's my own problem, but I don't want you to break your heart.
01:19:00If it's your problem, it becomes my problem, too.
01:19:02No.
01:19:03Yeah.
01:19:04I can feel whatever I want, but I'm not in between you.
01:19:06You do whatever you want.
01:19:07You cannot be.
01:19:08You cannot control my feelings.
01:19:09I just want to ignore him, but I'm hearing what he's saying.
01:19:14And it's too dangerous to poke the beer that much, you know?
01:19:18And he's nonstop talking.
01:19:20That French bagot, a little French bagot, is nonstop talking.
01:19:25There is no love.
01:19:26There is only proof of love.
01:19:27So you have to prove that you love her.
01:19:29Yes.
01:19:30For me, being here in Los Angeles for her is the proof of my love.
01:19:33She knows that.
01:19:34I mean, we have 90 days.
01:19:36I will do my best.
01:19:38If you came here, you already need to know what you want tonight.
01:19:43If I was in relationship with her, and if I was in your shoes, and I come here for her, I would say to her friend, in 90 days, we're going to get married.
01:19:50I know exactly what I want.
01:19:51That's what you should say.
01:19:53I mean, she brought him out here.
01:19:54She's committed to him.
01:19:55Sarper made a huge sacrifice for leaving his actual family.
01:19:59I came here only for her.
01:20:00I respect that.
01:20:01I don't know, guys.
01:20:02For me, Sarper, I'm sorry, but all of what you're saying right now just sounds like full of .
01:20:10So I don't buy that, and I'm kind of annoyed and kind of done with this.
01:20:16So I'm just going to go because.
01:20:17You're leaving?
01:20:18Yeah.
01:20:19I cannot hear this anymore.
01:20:20It's .
01:20:21Come on.
01:20:22No, I'm not jealous.
01:20:23It's .
01:20:24Seriously, I'm done with that.
01:20:26You don't deserve that.
01:20:27I'm sorry.
01:20:28What the is that?
01:20:29I'm done with .
01:20:30Wow.
01:20:31Shocks.
01:20:36I think Sarper is not real, and that's my gut instinct.
01:20:39I just want Shekinah to be happy in what she does and in her relationship.
01:20:45So let's see how that's going to play.
01:20:48For now, I consider Sarper as a prince, and I stay the king unless he shows me the contrary.
01:20:55Next time on 90 Day Fiance.
01:21:00It's okay.
01:21:01It's empty, fine.
01:21:02I know Stevie is doubting my commitment, but the price for getting the green card is going higher.
01:21:12We can save $2,000 if we get married in a couple of weeks.
01:21:17That's a lot to process.
01:21:19When you're rushing a wedding, that's a red flag.
01:21:23Megan found out that Juan cheated and was very hurt and heartbroken.
01:21:29But I really just need her to let things go.
01:21:32I don't want you on my wedding day not liking my husband.
01:21:36Like, how am I supposed to ever trust him again?
01:21:40I'd like to think that this was the only incident that's ever happened.
01:21:43It better be the only incident.
01:21:45I'll say that.
01:21:46We're gonna go see Sophie finally.
01:21:52The biggest thing for me is finding out if you like Sarper.
01:21:56My daughter, Sophie, has been skeptical of Sarper.
01:21:59But the time is coming to where we have to get married or not.
01:22:03How would that play out if me and him didn't necessarily get along?
01:22:11That is an at-home HIV test kit.
01:22:14Really?
01:22:15I just wanna be cautious because we have an open relationship.
01:22:20Being an open relationship makes me always feel uncomfortable.
01:22:24At the end of the day, I didn't sign up to be in a relationship with a woman.
01:22:29If I wanna chant my body, do you continue feeling attractive or that you chant?
01:22:35Hey, sweetie.
01:22:40Jordan, she's nice on my face, but she's stuck on my back.
01:22:45I know you two had some words.
01:22:47I mean, I hope that you don't actually think that I'm a snake.
01:22:53I think it would mean a lot to me if I got an apology for it.
01:22:58Is Jordan invited to the wedding?
01:23:00Are we planning on telling your family before we go?
01:23:08Before?
01:23:10No, Connie.
01:23:11Are you not telling people you're in a serious relationship?
01:23:14You're not?
01:23:15No, no.
01:23:17Honey.
01:23:18Oh, I'm done.
01:23:19Really?
01:23:20No, I am done.
01:23:21Honey.
01:23:24You can't turn a hoe to a housewife.
01:23:26That's what the is going on.
01:23:31I'm not telling you.
01:23:32I'm not telling you, that's what you're saying.
01:23:33No, you're not telling me.
01:23:34No, not telling me.
01:23:35I don't know where it is.
01:23:36I'm not telling you.
01:23:37I'm telling you.
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