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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:04Ladies and gentlemen, Mrs. Rosie Cheeks.
00:00:07You know, drinking, having fun,
00:00:09it reminds me of the good old days when I was on the boat.
00:00:12Did you have a good night?
00:00:14Let me have a great night.
00:00:15Boat.
00:00:16But?
00:00:17But, there's both.
00:00:19A couple days ago, a hot call from the cruise line.
00:00:24Love your job or love your family.
00:00:26Don't waste my time.
00:00:27Don't do it.
00:00:28It's up to you.
00:00:31And he married in two weeks,
00:00:33and I can't guarantee you that our marriage would survive
00:00:36if you had gender reassignment surgery.
00:00:41He's thinking about the end,
00:00:43and we have not even started our journey.
00:00:46Now it's something that I'm not thinking about,
00:00:49but I cannot tell you that I'll think like that forever.
00:00:56I am excited to meet him,
00:00:58but how would that play out if me and him didn't necessarily get along?
00:01:03I would definitely choose my daughter over love.
00:01:05So, if Sophie doesn't give her blessing, then I wouldn't marry him.
00:01:10What did Vic say about the dowry?
00:01:12I don't know how he's really going to pay for the dowry,
00:01:15because he's not financially stable.
00:01:18The dowry I told you about is 15 cows.
00:01:23Realistically though, how does somebody afford 15 cows?
00:01:25People do afford it.
00:01:26It's just you who can't afford.
00:01:30Put your hands together for the one, the only, the gorgeous,
00:01:32Ms. Juno!
00:01:34I'll be back.
00:01:37I don't know why Stevie would put me in this situation.
00:01:42He's just so against my upbringing.
00:01:45You still have 60 days, so maybe take some time.
00:01:49I definitely don't feel like I'm rushing anything.
00:01:51He needs to know the truth, that maybe she's actually bisexual.
00:01:55And I'm going to talk to him.
00:01:58You could have just told us, hey, my real name is this,
00:02:00but I'd like to be called Ani.
00:02:02I dare you, I don't want to fight more.
00:02:06Here we are trying to get divorced for you,
00:02:08and bring you to our family.
00:02:10You've lied about all this for a year.
00:02:12Betrayal is honestly an understatement.
00:02:16What a show.
00:02:19I feel bad.
00:02:20I want to be honest, but I need my time.
00:02:25You're 100% sure about doing this?
00:02:41Yeah, are you?
00:02:42Yeah, for sure.
00:02:43I have no hesitation.
00:02:45And I want it in red ink, which is not removable, by the way.
00:02:57You are brave, you know?
00:02:58But I know it.
00:02:59I mean, women are more brave than men.
00:03:01Babe, it's not about being brave.
00:03:02It's about being sure about you.
00:03:04Like, I'm sure about you.
00:03:06That's good.
00:03:07I always wanted a tattoo on my neck, and it started with me wanting his name on my neck.
00:03:12First you said on my face.
00:03:13Yeah, I wanted it right here on my face.
00:03:16I said, no, I mean, it's very crazy.
00:03:19I'm argumental.
00:03:20Writing someone's name, I mean, even it's me.
00:03:23Yeah, that's like the ultimate commitment.
00:03:25I mean, it's more than wearing a ring.
00:03:27I can't take a tattoo off, especially if it's in red ink.
00:03:30Oh, my God.
00:03:31Okay, do it.
00:03:33Are you excited to get my lips on your neck?
00:03:36Yeah.
00:03:37Yeah?
00:03:38Mm-hmm.
00:03:39I mean, the most visible thing when I first saw you was your lips.
00:03:44I remember my mother first asked when she saw you about your lips.
00:03:52Wait, you didn't tell me about this.
00:03:53Yeah, I didn't.
00:03:54What did she ask you?
00:03:55I mean, what are those lips?
00:03:57What are those lips?
00:03:58Yeah.
00:03:59Wait, your mom went and got lip filler, though, after I met her.
00:04:02Yeah, after you.
00:04:03Oh, my God.
00:04:04I mean, you all chemistry of our family.
00:04:06You like what these lips do.
00:04:07So you deserve to have my neck to be filled with your lips, babe.
00:04:22Hey, how's it going?
00:04:23Hi, Rachel.
00:04:24Hey, welcome back.
00:04:25Good to see you.
00:04:26Doing great.
00:04:27Nice to meet you, sir.
00:04:28Yeah, pleasure.
00:04:29Nice to meet you.
00:04:30Good to see you.
00:04:31Good to see you as well.
00:04:32Why don't you two come on back?
00:04:33Okay.
00:04:34We can get going.
00:04:35Sure.
00:04:36We can get going on some lips.
00:04:37Yeah.
00:04:38Yeah.
00:04:39Yeah.
00:04:40We are planning to first start with her.
00:04:41Okay.
00:04:42And my name.
00:04:43Okay.
00:04:44With my name on her neck.
00:04:45Yeah.
00:04:46As a reward, I want her lips on my neck.
00:04:47Okay.
00:04:48And I think we both want the red ink.
00:04:50Okay.
00:04:51Yeah.
00:04:52You can't remove red ink, right?
00:04:53Yeah, it's more difficult, so.
00:04:54Very serious.
00:04:55Are you sure?
00:04:56Yeah.
00:04:57Yeah.
00:04:58We'll still even talk about getting rid of it yet.
00:04:59Right, yeah.
00:05:00Sounds good.
00:05:01I can grab us some paper.
00:05:03Okay.
00:05:04You need to kiss a sheet, right?
00:05:05Yes.
00:05:06And we'll get going, right?
00:05:07Sounds good.
00:05:08There you go.
00:05:09We'll have you try with some signatures.
00:05:10Yeah.
00:05:11Try to do a good job.
00:05:12I feel like a student, but you are, you try to.
00:05:15Okay.
00:05:16Just give options, though.
00:05:20That's cute.
00:05:21Yeah, that's good.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24I'm going to have you lay down.
00:05:25Okay.
00:05:26And then we're going to stretch your neck over.
00:05:27So my neck kind of.
00:05:28Perfect.
00:05:29Doing good.
00:05:30Yeah.
00:05:31Perfect.
00:05:32I'm going to start with one of the smaller letters first, okay?
00:05:35Okay.
00:05:38So how did this idea come about today?
00:05:41She kind of had a talk with her daughter.
00:05:43Mm-hmm.
00:05:44About us and our marriage.
00:05:46Mm-hmm.
00:05:47So I just wanted to talk to you a little bit because I told you that I wouldn't marry
00:05:53Sarper unless you were okay with it and you liked him.
00:05:58And so I just wanted to check in with you.
00:06:00Are you feeling good about me going into a marriage with him?
00:06:05Are you crying?
00:06:06A little.
00:06:07Yay!
00:06:08It just means so much to me because we've been through a lot together and Sophie's approval
00:06:12is the most important thing to me because, you know, that's my daughter and I love her
00:06:17more than anyone.
00:06:18And I just really care about what she thinks.
00:06:19So the fact that she's okay with me, marrying Sarper just means so much.
00:06:23And I'm glad that she's saying that.
00:06:24I've been wanting to hear that.
00:06:25So I'm really happy.
00:06:26I'm happy.
00:06:27I'm happy.
00:06:28I'm happy.
00:06:29I'm happy.
00:06:30Yeah.
00:06:31And it just means so much to me because we've been through a lot together and Sophie's approval
00:06:34is the most important thing to me because, you know, that's my daughter and I love her
00:06:38more than anyone and I just really care about what she thinks.
00:06:43So the fact that she's okay with me, marrying Sarper just means so much.
00:06:48And I'm glad that she's saying that.
00:06:51I've been wanting to hear that.
00:06:52So I'm really happy.
00:06:53I'm really happy.
00:06:57So she was positive, so it's kind of a commitment
00:07:02for our wedding and relationship.
00:07:05So it's a good timing, I think.
00:07:08Symbol for the love, huh?
00:07:09I'm like, kind of.
00:07:10Yeah, something symbolic.
00:07:12Yeah.
00:07:14Okay.
00:07:16You have my name.
00:07:17Take your time sitting up, okay?
00:07:19As long as you feel okay.
00:07:20Where's the mirror?
00:07:20There it is.
00:07:23There it is.
00:07:26Wow.
00:07:28It's a crazy thing to write the name of a person.
00:07:30You're a crazy guy.
00:07:31You are too.
00:07:32You are more crazier than me.
00:07:34We're a crazy couple.
00:07:35And we are fighting every day.
00:07:37I mean, what kind of risk that we are taking?
00:07:43Your turn, Ben.
00:07:44Okay.
00:07:47Ben, I lay down on your...
00:07:48Yeah, just on your back, I think, yeah.
00:07:49Okay.
00:07:50Give me your phone.
00:07:51Let me see your neck real quick.
00:07:52Let's see.
00:07:53I look like a picnic blanket.
00:07:55Huh?
00:07:56Tablecloth.
00:07:57Let's see, like this.
00:07:59Some girls like bubble baths with candles and, like, all these, like, little romantic
00:08:04things, rose petals, all that stuff.
00:08:06But this is romantic to me.
00:08:08You chose a great shape.
00:08:09You chose a great shape.
00:08:10The lips look really nice.
00:08:12This is kind of like a promise that no matter how much we fight, we're always going to get
00:08:16through it and we're always going to stay together.
00:08:17You say that?
00:08:19Yeah.
00:08:20Oh, my God.
00:08:21Well, if we have tattoos of each other, we have to make it work.
00:08:25Whatever happens, I will keep that lipstick.
00:08:28I promise you.
00:08:30Unless you cheat on me.
00:08:32Don't worry.
00:08:33Don't worry.
00:08:34Don't worry.
00:08:35Say something.
00:08:36I won't.
00:08:37Don't worry.
00:08:38I won't.
00:08:39Ah.
00:08:40All right, bud.
00:08:41Nice.
00:08:42You're okay to sit up and take a look.
00:08:45Yeah.
00:08:46Yep.
00:08:47Wow.
00:08:51Oh, my God.
00:08:52Yeah, yeah.
00:08:55Babe, those are really big lips.
00:08:57I feel like having lips on your neck is like the ultimate bad boy.
00:09:00It's like the tramp stamp for bad boys.
00:09:02Really?
00:09:03Yeah.
00:09:04Retired one?
00:09:05Well, you are.
00:09:06Am I?
00:09:07Are you?
00:09:08Resigned.
00:09:09Not retired.
00:09:10Resigned.
00:09:11Okay, good.
00:09:12I like that.
00:09:13Love you.
00:09:31I made you coffee this morning, but you didn't drink it.
00:09:33It's there if you decide you want it later.
00:09:52How'd you feel last night?
00:09:55It was good.
00:09:58Hmm.
00:10:00Maddie has been extremely quiet since the bachelor bachelorette party.
00:10:03And I am a little bit worried as to where his head is.
00:10:07I don't know if it's from exhaustion or if he's still like trying to process everything that we've been through.
00:10:12But our wedding is tomorrow.
00:10:15So I'm really needing him to communicate with me right now.
00:10:21It was just too much.
00:10:22I needed something.
00:10:23You didn't tell me.
00:10:25But you were enjoying it.
00:10:26I wasn't.
00:10:29Hmm.
00:10:30I just didn't want to just like you think about like.
00:10:35You want me to think about what?
00:10:37I don't know.
00:10:38Tell me.
00:10:39I've been trying really hard to push all the thoughts about Stevie being bisexual in the back of my mind and not think about them.
00:10:50But the fact that Stevie was enjoying the show so much, that is totally a red flag to me.
00:10:57And I've always told her that we don't have any secrets.
00:11:02Not only am I totally against about these kind of things, I'm also against not telling the truth.
00:11:11He knew that I wasn't comfortable.
00:11:13We were not expecting anyone to be like fully exposed.
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:23You were enjoying it.
00:11:24Maddie.
00:11:26You were.
00:11:27You were enjoying it.
00:11:31Yeah, but I'm okay.
00:11:35I guess Sadie's waiting for me in the lobby.
00:11:37I need to go and thank you for like coming to the party last night and.
00:11:44How do you think Sadie feels about me though?
00:11:48Sadie's just super worried about me.
00:11:51But what changed?
00:11:52Because I felt like he was super excited to like fly in and see you and go to the wedding.
00:11:56And then when he got here, I felt like he was like a little apprehensive about it.
00:11:59I guess it was my problem, not you.
00:12:03I just.
00:12:05Told him too much.
00:12:08What did you tell him?
00:12:13I told him about the painting.
00:12:15Uh huh.
00:12:16Why?
00:12:17I was just feeling too comfortable.
00:12:20So I'm assuming now that I know that whenever he saw Claire from the very beginning, it was awkward.
00:12:26Do you see what I'm saying?
00:12:27You guys have made up this whole scenario of who I am.
00:12:33Cringe.
00:12:38I just want you to understand.
00:12:40I just wanted someone to be super honest without feeling I'm being judged.
00:12:47That's not fair.
00:12:49I have been very honest with you and you said things that hurt my feelings.
00:12:52And now because of that, you're not telling me things.
00:12:54Because I don't want to make you mad.
00:12:57How are we supposed to get married if you can't tell me things?
00:13:00You can't just be completely shut off.
00:13:04Tomorrow is our wedding.
00:13:06And I think I really regret rushing everything.
00:13:09I'm just thinking about every single person that told me that 90 days is not enough to get to know a person.
00:13:20From my parents to the officer in the embassy of the U.S.
00:13:25To say it to everyone.
00:13:28Because right now I'm just like seeing something that I did not expect.
00:13:39What is that?
00:13:40I need you to sign that so I can move forward with this.
00:13:45So I bring up.
00:13:48Do you think I want to stay off your money?
00:13:52I've been pretty supportive through all your changes.
00:13:55But I need to protect myself in case, you know, the changes get too much.
00:14:01I can't match.
00:14:05Hello.
00:14:07We can talk.
00:14:08I want to slay about last night.
00:14:12Anya has a different legal name.
00:14:13Apparently it's Brenda.
00:14:14So I don't even know what to call her anymore.
00:14:16She's probably still legally married.
00:14:20She's here.
00:14:22Like I'm thinking like that this is where we walk away.
00:14:24Like this cannot be saved.
00:14:26Hola.
00:14:31Hey honey.
00:14:45Morning.
00:14:47Morning.
00:14:49Morning.
00:14:51From the place where I guard my eyes.
00:14:56And on the sand I even return.
00:14:58I
00:15:00Woke up feeling so heavy
00:15:04Yeah, to be honest the more and more I think about it
00:15:08The more and more I don't know what last night was
00:15:16Last night was crazy it I can I didn't even know how to describe it
00:15:21It was an emotional rollercoaster
00:15:23How did Ray know more than we did and they only dated for like half the amount of time we dated?
00:15:29Anya has a different legal name apparently it's Brenda, so I don't even know what to call her anymore
00:15:34She is probably still legally married, which means that's going to affect
00:15:40Oh the k-1 visa. I don't know why I'm saying it's gonna affect the k-1 visa
00:15:43I don't even know who I'm marrying and also
00:15:45She refuses to give any explanation
00:15:48to
00:15:50Everything we just heard our babies at home
00:15:53Missing their parents and we're dealing with this like
00:15:58You go home
00:16:00I'm close not gonna lie
00:16:04Come on I don't want to be in bed all day
00:16:08Like I'm thinking like that this is where we walk away like
00:16:12That this cannot be saved
00:16:15Here we are trying to get divorced for you and trying to bring you to our family and
00:16:19She's taking it for granted. She's taking it lightly
00:16:22You want to just lounge by this hot dog?
00:16:25Yeah
00:16:27Oh
00:16:29Yeah, that feels good actually
00:16:31Oh
00:16:32What do you think we should do from here?
00:16:41I don't want to stop stories. I don't want the I just want an explanation
00:16:47And I don't want the lost in translation either
00:16:49Yeah, at least like seeing that vulnerability from her for the first time ever
00:16:53Oh
00:16:57Should I have to go?
00:16:58Yeah
00:16:59Hello
00:17:00Hello
00:17:01Hello, good morning
00:17:02What's up?
00:17:04We can talk
00:17:05Yeah
00:17:06Yeah
00:17:08I want to play about last night
00:17:12I have one friend
00:17:15He speak very well English
00:17:17I'm very good at well in Spanish
00:17:20She's very good in Spanish
00:17:21We can use for translate
00:17:22We can use
00:17:24Yes
00:17:25Do you want to come to our rental?
00:17:30We're by the pool
00:17:31Okay
00:17:32See you right
00:17:34Interesting
00:17:38It is
00:17:39The word that I loved is like I want to explain because I'm like I need that
00:17:44If this is just a more proper explanation of what's already said, that's not what we need
00:17:48That's not what we're looking for now
00:17:50This is like the last chance
00:17:52It really is
00:17:53Last night was hard
00:17:57It was chaos
00:17:59I was ready to walk away and that was the first time ever I felt that way
00:18:03I feel this morning that the only thing we're doing is looking in the rearview mirror
00:18:08And she's there
00:18:10So I think that she needs to explain herself
00:18:13Um
00:18:20Here
00:18:22Oh
00:18:23I am not nervous
00:18:26I'm sad
00:18:28I don't know
00:18:28Maybe
00:18:29This relation is broke
00:18:32But
00:18:33I want to try
00:18:35Talk
00:18:37I want to explain
00:18:40All of it
00:18:41I think that'd be easier to communicate
00:19:07Um
00:19:10Well, um
00:19:15I can't explain
00:19:17All about last night
00:19:21Ray talked with you
00:19:25He told many things
00:19:27Liars
00:19:28My old name is Brenda Anaí
00:19:31So
00:19:31Yo quería decirles mi nombre completo
00:19:34Pero
00:19:35My full name
00:19:36No lo vi al principio importante
00:19:39But I didn't think it was important at the beginning
00:19:41Eh
00:19:45Cuando yo me casé
00:19:46Tuve muchos problemas
00:19:48Porque yo fui víctima de golpes
00:19:50When I got married
00:19:51I had a lot of issues
00:19:52Because I was víctima de abuse
00:19:53Abuse?
00:19:55Abuse
00:19:56Um
00:19:58Yo tuve que poner
00:20:01Una orden de restricción
00:20:03She had to ask for a restraining order
00:20:05Is your divorce finalized?
00:20:08Yes
00:20:08I
00:20:09Tengo mi papel
00:20:09I have my paper
00:20:11Cuando otra persona quiere divorciarse
00:20:14Y él no quiere
00:20:16Son muchas investigaciones
00:20:18Getting a divorce
00:20:20When one party's not willing
00:20:21There's a lot of
00:20:22Uh
00:20:22Investigation going on
00:20:23Me costó mucho trabajo
00:20:25Conseguir ese papel
00:20:26Muchos años
00:20:28Muchas lágrimas
00:20:29It was very tough
00:20:30And it took her
00:20:31Like it was blood, sweat, and tears
00:20:32To get that paperwork in order
00:20:33A lot of work
00:20:35Porque yo no podía poner nada a mi nombre
00:20:38Porque él estaba casado conmigo
00:20:42So she couldn't have anything under her name
00:20:46Because she was still married
00:20:48To him
00:20:49Just without even a struggle
00:20:52So she started going with the other name
00:20:55And put stuff under that name
00:20:57Not keeping anything in her name at all
00:20:58Yeah, not keeping anything in her name
00:20:59I honestly feel
00:21:06Bad
00:21:07Or ashamed
00:21:07For like thinking the worst
00:21:09Like
00:21:09She's just a swindler
00:21:11Or something
00:21:12But
00:21:13There's a valid reason
00:21:14Why actually
00:21:15Someone could lie about their name
00:21:16It makes so much sense
00:21:18When it came down to it
00:21:20She did something
00:21:21She was very uncomfortable with
00:21:22Just for
00:21:23Us to
00:21:24To not pass judgment on her
00:21:26I'm so sorry for not talking about my
00:21:32Bad past
00:21:35This is honestly the most
00:21:38Burnable and open I've ever seen you
00:21:41And I appreciate you
00:21:43Coming here to say that
00:21:45I can tell it was very hard for you
00:21:46To say all these things
00:21:47No solamente le crean a una persona
00:21:53Que no está en la relación
00:21:54La relación es de tres
00:21:56No de cuatro
00:21:57So don't believe
00:21:59A fourth party
00:22:00That comes and
00:22:01Making accusations
00:22:02That the relationship
00:22:03Is three people
00:22:04Now four people
00:22:05Yeah
00:22:07Would you be able
00:22:10To make a promise
00:22:10That from now on
00:22:12You will continue
00:22:13Being this open
00:22:14And vulnerable with us
00:22:15No more secrets
00:22:22Yeah I think this gave a lot of clarity
00:22:26I don't think this is any kind of detriment
00:22:28To our relationship
00:22:29And I've been looking for Guadalajara
00:22:31I've been wanting to learn so much about you
00:22:33And your family
00:22:34Yeah my family
00:22:36Tell with you
00:22:37More things about me
00:22:39If you want
00:22:39I'm gonna be the girlfriend right
00:22:42Okay
00:22:44All right
00:22:46Come come
00:22:47I'm coming around
00:22:52I worry that
00:22:56We'll go in
00:22:57And she'll tell
00:22:58Her family
00:22:59Like here's my boyfriend
00:23:00And here's my friend
00:23:01And that is
00:23:03Absolutely a deal breaker for me
00:23:05And maybe she introduces her
00:23:08To her family
00:23:09And they don't like us
00:23:10And that's a deal breaker for her
00:23:11Right
00:23:11I don't want to find mom
00:23:15Poison perfume
00:23:28Don't you know
00:23:29I have my eyes
00:23:30On you
00:23:31I should tell you that
00:23:33I never met her
00:23:34But I didn't want to break
00:23:37I just can't resist
00:23:42Care for what you wish for
00:23:45I'll be your favorite
00:23:47Favorite doll
00:23:48Hey
00:23:54Hey
00:23:55So you're doing your new
00:23:57Laser hair removal
00:23:58Toilet I bought you
00:23:59How's it working
00:24:01It's a little painful
00:24:04But it's okay
00:24:05Well you look like a rock star
00:24:07While you're doing it
00:24:07With those glasses
00:24:09Oh
00:24:09Yeah it's for protection
00:24:11With all the things
00:24:14That are going on
00:24:15And you know
00:24:16The fact that
00:24:18Everything with us
00:24:18Seems too uncertain
00:24:20And too ever changing
00:24:21I've decided that
00:24:23What I really need to do
00:24:24Is have a pre-nup sign
00:24:25Preparing for every
00:24:31Possibility
00:24:32Will make me feel more at ease
00:24:34About moving forward
00:24:35Do you think you can
00:24:39Take a break from that
00:24:40For a minute
00:24:41I need you to
00:24:45Look at this
00:24:46What is that
00:24:49This is a pre-nup
00:24:51So
00:24:54For my sake
00:24:56I need you
00:24:57For me
00:24:58To
00:24:59Sign that
00:25:00So I can move forward
00:25:01With this
00:25:02Wedding
00:25:03Because it's my biggest
00:25:04Hang up
00:25:05More than anything
00:25:06So I bring up
00:25:10I'm just trying
00:25:12To be practical
00:25:12I'm not trying
00:25:13To put some
00:25:14Damper on our wedding
00:25:16Or some feeling
00:25:17That we're not
00:25:17Going to make it
00:25:18It's like a contract
00:25:21At the end of the day
00:25:25I think you know
00:25:26You realize like
00:25:27I've been pretty
00:25:28Supportive through
00:25:29You and all your
00:25:30Changes and
00:25:32What we've been
00:25:33Going through
00:25:33And the transitioning
00:25:35And all
00:25:35So this is just
00:25:38Something I feel like
00:25:39I need to
00:25:41Protect myself with
00:25:42In case
00:25:43You know
00:25:44The changes get too much
00:25:45Or things get
00:25:46Too far
00:25:48It's almost like
00:25:49One week for the wedding
00:25:50So this is some
00:25:53Sort of guarantee
00:25:54Something you can
00:25:55Do for me
00:25:56That makes my mind
00:25:57At ease
00:25:58With all of it
00:25:59When I was at the beach
00:26:03With Sean
00:26:04He was talking
00:26:05About my possible
00:26:06Surgeries
00:26:07And he was having
00:26:08Difficult thoughts
00:26:10About everything
00:26:11That I attend
00:26:11And now he's just
00:26:14Giving me a
00:26:14Print up
00:26:15Just one more thing
00:26:17That shows me
00:26:19Sean's continuous
00:26:20Feeling insecure
00:26:21About the future
00:26:23Do you think
00:26:25I want to have
00:26:26Like all your things
00:26:27And stay off
00:26:28Your money
00:26:29No but I think
00:26:33That people with
00:26:33The best of intentions
00:26:35Going into a marriage
00:26:36When things
00:26:36Get bad
00:26:38Or they decide
00:26:38To end
00:26:39Then
00:26:39All sorts of things
00:26:42Happen right
00:26:42People get their
00:26:43Feelings hurt
00:26:44They decide to
00:26:44Take it out
00:26:45On somebody
00:26:45In the only way
00:26:46They can
00:26:46So maybe that
00:26:47Looks like
00:26:47Oh I hurt you
00:26:48Financially
00:26:49Because that's
00:26:49My only way
00:26:50Of getting back
00:26:51At you
00:26:51But this kind
00:26:52Of spells out
00:26:53Everything
00:26:54Because of course
00:26:55I've spent
00:26:55Many years
00:26:58Decades
00:26:58You know
00:26:59Building up
00:27:00My lifestyle
00:27:01He knows me
00:27:05And he knows
00:27:06Why I'm with him
00:27:08I made all this
00:27:09Big move
00:27:10To be here
00:27:11And to finally
00:27:12Be by his side
00:27:13And get married
00:27:14Because I love him
00:27:15But I was not
00:27:16Expecting
00:27:17A print up
00:27:18There's things
00:27:20In there
00:27:20That benefit you
00:27:21And it's not
00:27:22Just about me
00:27:23In there
00:27:23And I think
00:27:25It's
00:27:25Fair
00:27:27This is important
00:27:28To me
00:27:28This needs
00:27:29To happen
00:27:30It's hard
00:27:32To focus
00:27:33On the wedding
00:27:33And it's hard
00:27:34To be happy
00:27:35If Sean
00:27:36Is thinking
00:27:37About the end
00:27:39I think
00:27:44I will finish
00:27:45The laser later
00:27:46Is just a lot
00:27:48How does this work
00:28:00Babe where are you
00:28:02Alright man
00:28:03Is the blindfold on
00:28:04Yeah
00:28:04Oh crap
00:28:05You know
00:28:06Jonah's been asking me
00:28:07A lot lately
00:28:07If I paid the dowry
00:28:09It's 15 cows
00:28:10At $200 a pop
00:28:11What's going on
00:28:12Alright
00:28:12Take the blindfold off
00:28:13What does he mean
00:28:21He's going to go back
00:28:22To the cruise
00:28:22The cruise is ready
00:28:24For him
00:28:24Whenever he's ready
00:28:25I mean
00:28:26He's got to learn
00:28:26To let that go
00:28:27If he wants to go back
00:28:29To the cruise
00:28:30Then I'm done
00:28:31What was that last night
00:28:33There is
00:28:34An opportunity
00:28:35There's a lot of parents
00:28:37Working on those boats
00:28:38And they have to be
00:28:39A way for their families
00:28:40To
00:28:41She might not like it
00:28:42But
00:28:42It is what it is
00:28:43All right
00:29:00What a magnificent day
00:29:02Great
00:29:06So I want to surprise her
00:29:15With a little bit of costume here
00:29:17I paid the dowry
00:29:18So we can actually
00:29:18Get married now
00:29:19So I'm going to just
00:29:21Show up in a cow costume
00:29:22And surprise the hell out of her
00:29:24You know
00:29:26Jonah's been asking me
00:29:27A lot lately
00:29:27It's getting closer
00:29:28And closer to the wedding
00:29:29If I paid the dowry
00:29:30It's 15 cows
00:29:32At $200 a pop
00:29:33That's $3,000
00:29:34Fortunately
00:29:35My mom and dad
00:29:36Have paid for the wedding venue
00:29:37So it's freed up
00:29:38Some money in my savings
00:29:39To transfer the money
00:29:41Felt a little
00:29:41Like the weight
00:29:42Has been lifted off
00:29:43My shoulder
00:29:44You know
00:29:45The weight has been
00:29:46Lifted off my hooves
00:29:47You know
00:29:47Now we can really
00:29:50Have the family's blessing
00:29:51Truly begin our marriage
00:29:53Let me just give her
00:29:57This blindfold
00:29:58Real quick
00:29:58Babe throw this on
00:30:01I do what?
00:30:05You've got to wrap it
00:30:06Around your eyes
00:30:07It's a blindfold
00:30:07It's a blindfold
00:30:08So
00:30:11This is warm
00:30:15Babe where are you?
00:30:18Alright is the blindfold on?
00:30:20Yeah
00:30:21Don't cry
00:30:21What's going on?
00:30:30Alright take the blindfold off
00:30:32Oh my god
00:30:35How's that?
00:30:40Oh baby
00:30:41What do you think?
00:30:42That was crazy or what?
00:30:43Yeah very crazy
00:30:44Why are you dressed like a big cow?
00:30:50Some significance to it
00:30:51I paid the dowry
00:30:54Oh wow
00:30:56You know
00:30:58Wow that's good
00:30:59So
00:31:05We can finally get married baby
00:31:07Yeah
00:31:08I love you
00:31:12In my culture
00:31:15Fathers usually
00:31:16Set dowries
00:31:17For their daughters
00:31:18So my father
00:31:19Decided my dowry
00:31:20Before he died
00:31:21I'm proud of you
00:31:23Greg has finally
00:31:26Paid the dowry
00:31:27So
00:31:27He has really
00:31:29Respected my culture
00:31:30My family
00:31:31And my father's
00:31:32Last wishes
00:31:33So
00:31:33I really love him
00:31:34And I'm thankful
00:31:35That he has done this
00:31:36I'm proud of you
00:31:39That you've paid the dowry
00:31:40Thank you baby
00:31:41I love you
00:31:45I love you baby
00:31:47God damn
00:31:49Mmm
00:31:50Mmm
00:31:51Mmm
00:31:52Mmm
00:31:53Hi Gabi
00:32:09Buenos días
00:32:11Buenos días
00:32:12Actually
00:32:13Buenos tardes
00:32:14Yeah
00:32:15No
00:32:26No
00:32:27No
00:32:27Nothing
00:32:31Yeah
00:32:35What happened to you?
00:32:36Well, you know, I told you the call to my wife,
00:32:40and no, but...
00:32:42Well, I was afraid to tell you.
00:32:48I don't know if it was a good idea
00:32:50or if it wasn't a good idea to tell her last night about the call.
00:32:54But I mean, I thought she was happy, you know,
00:32:56she just had a lot of fun.
00:32:58Maybe I was a little bit too drunk.
00:33:00Then I was like, you think this is the right time?
00:33:03It seems like it wasn't the right time.
00:33:19She's a person who used to be working all the time.
00:33:21Now he's not working.
00:33:23It's like the thing, like, the macho man is coming out, like,
00:33:26my wife is supporting me, I'm not used to it.
00:33:29But Jessica needs to be in Juan's shoes.
00:33:33To understand what he feel and what he thinks about it.
00:33:38How do you feel last night went?
00:33:40Juan and I got in a little argument.
00:33:42He's getting with frustrating mommy.
00:33:44Uh-oh.
00:33:46Would you guys get in an argument?
00:33:48About him wanting to maybe go back to the cruise
00:33:51if he can't find a job, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:33:54What does he mean he's gonna go back to the cruise?
00:33:56Basically, like, the cruise is ready for him whenever he's ready.
00:34:00I mean, he's gotta learn to let that go.
00:34:02Mm-hmm.
00:34:03I mean, he has to learn to find the opportunity here.
00:34:06Right.
00:34:07Hi.
00:34:08All right, guys.
00:34:09Morning.
00:34:10How you having here?
00:34:11Yeah.
00:34:12Good morning.
00:34:13Good morning.
00:34:14Good morning.
00:34:15Two contracts ago was supposed to be his last contract,
00:34:16but our visa wasn't done.
00:34:17And so his last contract was supposed to be his last contract.
00:34:20And so, like, that was our game plan.
00:34:23And now he's here, and the game plan's like,
00:34:25I'm not sure.
00:34:26And I'm like, you're frustrating me.
00:34:29You're wasting my time, and it's not fair to me,
00:34:31and it's not fair to David.
00:34:39It's so nice he could come.
00:34:40Bye, guys.
00:34:41Just get safe.
00:34:42Bye, guys.
00:34:43Bye.
00:34:44Drive safe.
00:34:45Fly safe.
00:34:46Bye.
00:34:47Bye.
00:34:48I'm going to go with the guy.
00:34:51Uh, baby.
00:34:53How are you?
00:34:54Good.
00:34:55How about you?
00:34:56Do you hangover?
00:34:57Um, not really.
00:34:58Not too bad.
00:34:59Yeah, I'm feeling fine.
00:35:00You're feeling fine?
00:35:01Yeah.
00:35:02So what was that last night?
00:35:06I'm sorry, baby.
00:35:08What to do with this?
00:35:09There is an opportunity.
00:35:11I get that, but I want you to try to find a job
00:35:16to find a job and be happy here.
00:35:18I'm not saying I'm not.
00:35:22This affects a lot, affects me.
00:35:24It affects that guy mainly, yeah.
00:35:31And I mean, you hate being away from him for a day now.
00:35:33Imagine being away from him for eight months.
00:35:35I know, that'll be hard.
00:35:38I don't wanna be away from Jessica and my baby,
00:35:42cause it's gonna be really hard on me.
00:35:43But I mean, if I have to go in order to make good money,
00:35:47but then I have to, and that's life sometimes.
00:35:50And there's a lot of parents, mothers,
00:35:52and fathers working on those boats,
00:35:54and they have to be away for their families too.
00:35:56And she might not like it, but it is what it is.
00:36:01What I already talked about last night
00:36:03doesn't mean I don't love you, so.
00:36:06I guess we're together.
00:36:07When are you saying we're gonna make it work out?
00:36:10The wedding is just a few weeks away,
00:36:12so, you know, Juan really needs to decide what he wants.
00:36:15Because I didn't sign up to be a cruise wife.
00:36:17We had talked about this a lot.
00:36:19And if he wants to go back to the cruise, then I'm done.
00:36:26How do you feel about going to meet with everyone?
00:36:29I'm sure they're gonna be really curious
00:36:30why they haven't gotten a wedding invitation.
00:36:32I'm sure they're expecting for us
00:36:34to invite them to the wedding tonight.
00:36:36That's probably what they think we're gonna tell them.
00:36:39So what's going on with the wedding?
00:36:41Uh...
00:36:42We will have no wedding.
00:36:43What?
00:36:44What?
00:36:45My shirt's still not ironed, will you?
00:36:47Yes, I will.
00:36:49Yeah, my princess.
00:36:50You look gorgeous.
00:36:50You look gorgeous.
00:36:51You look gorgeous.
00:37:07What you're seeing is what you get.
00:37:10My shirt's still not ironed.
00:37:12Will you?
00:37:13Yes, I will.
00:37:14My princess.
00:37:15You look gorgeous.
00:37:16You look gorgeous.
00:37:20A girl kissed me, huh?
00:37:22Oh my God, you scared me.
00:37:24I was like, what?
00:37:26A girl kissed my man?
00:37:29How do you feel about going to meet with everyone
00:37:32and explaining our plan?
00:37:35I'm sure they're going to be really curious
00:37:36why they haven't gotten a wedding invitation.
00:37:41We're going to meet up with friends.
00:37:43I'm sure they're expecting for us
00:37:45to invite them to the wedding tonight.
00:37:47That's probably what they think we're going to tell them.
00:37:49I can say that to Dan that he's not invited.
00:37:53Oh, wouldn't you love that?
00:37:57Wow, it looks good.
00:37:59You look good.
00:38:00You should just go without a shirt.
00:38:02Will you?
00:38:05Will you?
00:38:06Yes.
00:38:07We're not going to present it like you're not invited.
00:38:09We're going to say we decided to do something intimate
00:38:12just the two of us.
00:38:14And then they'll of course know like they're not invited.
00:38:17Sex?
00:38:18No.
00:38:19Are we going to start with like the bottom button?
00:38:21Yeah, just that's easy enough.
00:38:22Just these two?
00:38:23Yeah.
00:38:24Why am I like this?
00:38:25I like it.
00:38:26I see you standing there trying to look away.
00:38:30My eyes are nice.
00:38:31This is a nice shot.
00:38:32Baby, I'm here to stay.
00:38:33It looks cozy.
00:38:34So pretty.
00:38:35I like it.
00:38:36Pretty in pink.
00:38:37Hi, guys.
00:38:38Oh, hey.
00:38:39Hi, sweetie.
00:38:40You look so beautiful.
00:38:41You too.
00:38:42Hi, Dan.
00:38:43How are you?
00:38:44Good to see you.
00:38:45Good to see you.
00:38:46Good to see you.
00:38:47Hi.
00:38:48Hi, Mille.
00:38:49I love you in white because you're so tan.
00:38:50Oh, my God, Dan, Dan, Dan.
00:38:52Hey, everybody.
00:38:53I cannot pretend.
00:38:54I mean, I'm not a guy like this.
00:38:55I cannot.
00:38:56I love you in white because you're so tan.
00:39:26I think the last time we were all together in one place is when Sarpur first arrived and
00:39:39I was introducing him to you guys.
00:39:41Yeah.
00:39:42I'm coming to end of the three months.
00:39:44Yeah.
00:39:45We're at the end of the 90 days almost.
00:39:47Clock is ticking.
00:39:48Tick tock.
00:39:49Tick tock.
00:39:50Anyway.
00:39:51So what's going on with the wedding?
00:39:52When are you guys going to get married?
00:39:55Oh, I mean, uh, we will have no wedding.
00:40:03What?
00:40:04What do you mean no wedding?
00:40:06Hello?
00:40:07We will have a wedding.
00:40:10What?
00:40:12We're having a wedding.
00:40:14Wedding.
00:40:15A wedding?
00:40:16A wedding.
00:40:17A wedding.
00:40:18What does that even mean?
00:40:19What does that...
00:40:20We decided to do it in bed.
00:40:22What?
00:40:23Like a wedding in your bed?
00:40:25Exactly.
00:40:26We were in bed one night just brainstorming, what should we do?
00:40:30And I said, well, we should just get married in bed.
00:40:33And I was kind of joking, but then he said, yeah, I like that idea.
00:40:37And I was like, oh, actually, that's a good idea.
00:40:41Yeah?
00:40:42It's not a wedding.
00:40:43It's a wedding.
00:40:44It's where we're most comfortable.
00:40:46It's where we spend the most time.
00:40:48So we can get married in bed.
00:40:50Do you want to invite all of us in your bed?
00:40:53Yeah.
00:40:54No one's invited.
00:40:55It's just for us.
00:40:57I'm completely shocked.
00:41:00They're getting married in bed.
00:41:03All right.
00:41:05She kind of lives in the moment, and we love that about her.
00:41:07And she's spontaneous and heartfelt.
00:41:09But I just want them to think everything through and just have a little bit of a plan.
00:41:16I have a question.
00:41:18Don't hate me, but what about a prenup?
00:41:21Well, I never thought of it, babe.
00:41:25I don't know.
00:41:26Does he know what a prenup is?
00:41:28Well, of course.
00:41:29In my culture, prenup is a very rude thing to ask, especially a woman to ask a man.
00:41:34Okay.
00:41:36Listen, Sarper, myself, and nobody here would ever want to offend you in any way.
00:41:43We can't control the US government, and neither can you, about when you're able to work and contribute.
00:41:49That could be two months.
00:41:51That could be two years.
00:41:53Who knows?
00:41:54And so all this is is something that would be put in a drawer in case the worst scenario happens.
00:42:02It doesn't mean it's going to be a failure.
00:42:04It's a safety net for both of you.
00:42:06It works both ways.
00:42:08My friend Alexandra brings up the word prenup.
00:42:11She asks if we're going to have one, and I see my friend Wendy just take the reins with it
00:42:17and go full throttle.
00:42:20I can see it in her eyes.
00:42:21She's actually getting emotional.
00:42:23She's very afraid for me, and I understand her point of view.
00:42:27She is my business manager.
00:42:29She's worked really hard to get me the deals that I have with different companies, and to build up my finances,
00:42:35and then to see me risk it all for a marriage with someone, I can see why she's concerned.
00:42:42Babe, you know I trust you, but it might be a good idea for me to just get that just...
00:42:48Prenup?
00:42:49Yes, for both of us.
00:42:50I agree.
00:42:51I mean, what's it hurt to get it?
00:42:54I mean, you only get hurt if you don't, so...
00:42:57What the ?
00:42:59Sharp, it also protects you, though.
00:43:01That's the greatest advantage.
00:43:02Yeah.
00:43:03Oh, my God.
00:43:04I am shocked.
00:43:05We have never talked with Shikaina about prenup before.
00:43:09If you are married, you are committing to be together.
00:43:12I mean, in bad day, in good day, something like that in my culture.
00:43:17But if you want it, I have one clause.
00:43:20We will add to the prenup.
00:43:22Are you okay with that?
00:43:23What is the clause?
00:43:25You know...
00:43:26Babe, you're getting really excited here.
00:43:29Calm down.
00:43:30Put your finger down, first of all.
00:43:32I have a weight target for you, right?
00:43:34128 pounds.
00:43:36I will weigh you in every first week of every month.
00:43:41And for every pound you owe her, I will fine you for a thousand dollars.
00:43:47You're just...
00:43:48Are you okay with that?
00:43:49You're just upset right now.
00:43:50No, are you okay with that?
00:43:52Oh, my gosh.
00:43:58Tonight, we're giving Joan her bachelorette party.
00:44:03I've never been to a strip club.
00:44:05Oh, my gosh.
00:44:08Like two water balloons.
00:44:09Yeah.
00:44:10Like water balloons.
00:44:11Going to a strip club with my future mother-in-law is a bit awkward.
00:44:16Oh, my gosh.
00:44:20She's been keeping secrets from you.
00:44:22Maybe you want to just take some more time to think about it.
00:44:26I didn't expect to have so many questions, problems, a day before our bedding.
00:44:32The problems that we have, I think I can fix it after the bedding.
00:44:38You want to wait until after the marriage to resolve your problems?
00:44:42That doesn't make sense to me.
00:44:43That doesn't make sense to me.
00:44:44Hey.
00:44:45How's it going?
00:44:46How's it going?
00:44:47How's it going?
00:44:48How's it going?
00:44:49How's it going?
00:44:50How's it going?
00:44:51How's it going?
00:44:52How's it going?
00:44:53How's it going?
00:44:54How's it going?
00:44:55How's it going?
00:44:56How's it going?
00:44:57How's it going?
00:44:58How's it going?
00:44:59How's it going?
00:45:00How's it going?
00:45:01How's it going?
00:45:02How's it going?
00:45:03How's it going?
00:45:04How's it going?
00:45:05How's it going?
00:45:06Hey, how's it going?
00:45:13Who are you?
00:45:14Who are you?
00:45:15Who are you?
00:45:16Who are you?
00:45:17What happened last time?
00:45:18Wasn't it crazy?
00:45:19Yeah, I've been here for about 10 years and it was new to me.
00:45:34Let alone you.
00:45:35You've been here only about a month.
00:45:37Before coming to the US, I was like, I'm not a narrow-minded person.
00:45:42I can get adjusted to so many things.
00:45:45But last night I realized that there are some things I'm not going to be okay with, like
00:45:52for a long time at least.
00:45:54It's just a day before your marriage.
00:45:57Yeah.
00:45:58I just want her, like there's the problems that we have, I think I can fix it after the
00:46:03time.
00:46:04I'm just being so hopeful about that.
00:46:08But right now, honestly, we do not have time to talk about this stuff.
00:46:15You want to wait until after the marriage to resolve your problems?
00:46:19That doesn't make sense to me.
00:46:22I don't want to look like I'm insisting or I'm trying to break up this marriage.
00:46:26I just want him to know that if there are issues that are bothering him, he'd better want
00:46:31to get them sorted out before the wedding.
00:46:34I know after you found out about the drawings, you suspected that Stevie might be bisexual.
00:46:41So is that resolved or is that something you're okay with?
00:46:46Right now, if I ask her, she's going to be like, I have told you multiple times.
00:46:50Now you're not respecting me.
00:46:52So I'm just trying to respect her.
00:46:54You're compromising.
00:46:55Matthew, do you want to live with someone who you can't be honest with for the rest of
00:47:00your life?
00:47:01I've been married for 15 years and my wife and I, we're on the same page.
00:47:08But you and Stevie, you guys don't seem to be on the same page.
00:47:13How long do you think you can keep doing this?
00:47:16Yes.
00:47:17Like I'm one of those people that I will sacrifice myself for love.
00:47:26When I love someone, I always try to keep everything smoothly and peacefully.
00:47:32I learned it from my father.
00:47:34My father has been always doing that for my family, even me.
00:47:40Like if he knew that something is going to make me upset, he would just keep it for himself.
00:47:47And I think I'm kind of like showing my love by sacrificing the things that I really need
00:47:52in my life.
00:47:54What I'm concerned with is that she's been keeping secrets from you.
00:48:01Something I didn't tell you is that I hadn't told dad anything about you yet before you got
00:48:07here.
00:48:08Like nothing?
00:48:09I hadn't told him anything.
00:48:11Like he didn't even know I was in a relationship.
00:48:16Why do you have boobs everywhere?
00:48:19Just from our paintings.
00:48:21Oh.
00:48:22So I told you I'd do like nude portraits.
00:48:28Did you paint her?
00:48:29Yeah.
00:48:30I didn't clear nude.
00:48:32Why haven't you told me that?
00:48:33I didn't think it was a big deal.
00:48:35Maybe you want to take a few more weeks, just take some more time to think about it and not rush to it.
00:48:48I think Saeed has a point.
00:48:49This is so important to me that I know everything about her before the wedding because after the wedding I have these thoughts that I'm stuck here and I can't do anything about it.
00:49:01And those thoughts are so strong in my brain.
00:49:04I think I need to talk to her more before the wedding.
00:49:10I agree.
00:49:11If I can't get a solid answer from Stevie, we can't get married.
00:49:16You don't want to live the rest of your life compromising for the sake of making her happy.
00:49:22Yeah.
00:49:23I just don't want to feel trapped after the wedding.
00:49:27That's it.
00:49:45I love your hair like that, baby.
00:49:47Yeah.
00:49:48The wedding is really blowing out, huh?
00:49:49No, I don't want it to be that straight.
00:49:51I freaking love it.
00:49:52You look so beautiful.
00:49:53Yeah, make some noise for me.
00:49:55Party on the black bar, pump it up.
00:50:01Where are you going tonight?
00:50:03Laura organized my bachelor late party.
00:50:06Never been to one, so everything is new to me.
00:50:09So I can't wait to just see what happens there.
00:50:13In Uganda, our bridal shower would be like, where are your friends, your girlfriends?
00:50:20They take you to a nice place.
00:50:22You have cake, food.
00:50:23They'll give you marriage advice.
00:50:25Greg's friend, Laura, she's throwing a bachelor late party for me.
00:50:30Since I have no family here, so what can I say?
00:50:33When you are on Long Island, you have to act like Long Islanders.
00:50:36So I can't wait to see what really happens there.
00:50:39So, where are you going? Strip clubs?
00:50:43Yeah.
00:50:44You're going to have, like, schlongs swinging in your face?
00:50:47What are schlongs?
00:50:50What's that?
00:50:51It's a slang word for a penis.
00:50:53Yeah, exactly.
00:50:55Greg is worried that there are going to be schlongs in my face.
00:51:00But we are going to a ladies' strip club, so they're going to be ladies.
00:51:04I think it's more the boobs and the ass, so...
00:51:07It's not written in the Bible that you're not supposed to go to a strip club, so I'm good to go.
00:51:12I'm enjoying my life.
00:51:16You sure I can come?
00:51:26Tonight we're going out with Joan.
00:51:28We're giving her her bachelorette party.
00:51:30It's exciting.
00:51:31I wasn't invited to the fitting for the dress.
00:51:35Woo!
00:51:36Woo!
00:51:37But I can get over that.
00:51:39Let's just have a good time and rock and roll.
00:51:42Woo!
00:51:43Woo!
00:51:44So much fun.
00:51:45That's it.
00:51:46Get on it!
00:51:47Hey!
00:51:48Joan is!
00:51:49Am I moving over?
00:51:50All righty.
00:51:51Like we said you gotta have fun before you went.
00:51:54Like we said you gotta have fun before you went.
00:51:55Like we said you gotta have fun before you went.
00:51:58To Joan is!
00:51:59To Joan is!
00:52:00To Joan is!
00:52:01Yay!
00:52:02Yay!
00:52:04Myself, I've never been to a strip club, so I don't know what to expect.
00:52:09How much they take off or anything, I don't know.
00:52:12All right.
00:52:13So, I would like to play the never have I ever game.
00:52:17The rules of the game are, if you've done it take a drink, if you've never done it you
00:52:22don't take a drink.
00:52:23Okay.
00:52:24Never have I ever had sex in a public place.
00:52:26No.
00:52:27Me, I've never.
00:52:28Nope.
00:52:29I haven't.
00:52:30Unfortunately, no.
00:52:31I did it!
00:52:32I know!
00:52:33I know!
00:52:34I know!
00:52:35I know!
00:52:36I know!
00:52:37I know!
00:52:38I know!
00:52:39I know!
00:52:40I know!
00:52:41Another good one.
00:52:42Never have I ever peed in the shower.
00:52:44Now, my question is to Joan.
00:52:46How many times have you peed in Lucille's shower?
00:52:48Always!
00:52:49Always!
00:52:50Always!
00:52:51I like that, yeah.
00:52:52But she cleans a lot, so.
00:52:57Right!
00:52:58Yay!
00:52:59Thank you so much fun!
00:53:02Ready to go, Joanie?
00:53:03Sure.
00:53:05Wow.
00:53:11Oh wow!
00:53:12Promise you won't fall in love, cause I'll be too down.
00:53:17Me walking in a strip club, I'm seeing ladies with the big bus being out.
00:53:22So, I'm like, what's this?
00:53:29VIP!
00:53:30Yeah!
00:53:31Oh my hair!
00:53:32Woo!
00:53:33Cheers to Joan!
00:53:34Welcome to a U.S. strip club, girl!
00:53:36Woo!
00:53:37Woo!
00:53:38Woo!
00:53:39Like two water balloons.
00:53:40Yeah.
00:53:41You're getting a couple of dollars.
00:53:43Yeah, they always like a...
00:53:44Pass it out, make it rain, make it rain, you know.
00:53:46Oh!
00:53:49If you don't mind, I'm gonna get you a lap dance, so that you see how we doing here in the U.S.
00:53:55Okay?
00:53:56Alright?
00:53:57Uh...
00:53:58Do you want her to put her bum on me?
00:53:59She's going to put her bum on you, yes.
00:54:01Hello?
00:54:02Oh yes!
00:54:03Oh yeah!
00:54:04Come on now!
00:54:05Why not?
00:54:06Look at her, she's beautiful!
00:54:07Why wouldn't she want that in front of your face?
00:54:10Come on now!
00:54:11Woo!
00:54:14That's a nice hair!
00:54:16Going to a strip club with my future mother-in-law is a bit awkward.
00:54:20My future mother-in-law is just besides me, so I'm scared to just say like,
00:54:24oh, I need a lap dance, but looking at Mrs. Lucille, she's really enjoying this,
00:54:29so I'm just going with the floor.
00:54:31Go, Jodi!
00:54:32Go, Jodi!
00:54:33Go, Jodi!
00:54:34Not many girls got a booty like that!
00:54:37It's mystery!
00:54:39Woo!
00:54:40Don't be getting ideas, Joan.
00:54:41I don't want to hear you doing that booty dance upstairs.
00:54:45Just hold off on that for a little bit, okay?
00:54:48Alright.
00:54:49Give me that hug!
00:54:50Woo!
00:54:51Shake it!
00:54:52You're kidding me!
00:54:53You're kidding me!
00:54:54You're kidding me!
00:54:55You're kidding me!
00:54:56You're kidding me!
00:54:57Come on!
00:55:02With all the last-minute planning, what have you guys been doing?
00:55:06He did a prenup and he gave to me.
00:55:09I'm still thinking about everything.
00:55:11So you have not signed?
00:55:12Not yet.
00:55:13No!
00:55:14I thought that Pavisa was the hard part, but this is the hard part.
00:55:18You're okay with just going back to Brazil?
00:55:23Come on!
00:55:24You ready for a long car ride?
00:55:25You're gonna have enough energy?
00:55:26Are you ready?
00:55:27Go see Wookie and Grandma?
00:55:28Hmm?
00:55:29Are you ready for a long car ride?
00:55:34You're gonna have enough energy?
00:55:35Are you?
00:55:36Go see Wookie and Grandma?
00:55:37Hmm?
00:55:38Ah, yeah.
00:55:39Today we head to Sonoma County.
00:55:40Then we have a day to organize and get all of our stuff together and get ready.
00:55:42for the actual big event.
00:55:44She's ready for a long car ride.
00:55:47Come on!
00:55:48You ready for a long car ride?
00:55:49You're going to have enough energy?
00:55:50Are you?
00:55:51Go see Wookie and Grandma?
00:55:53Hmm?
00:55:54Ah, yeah.
00:55:55Today we head to Sonoma County.
00:55:58Then we have a day to organize and get all of our stuff together and get ready for the
00:56:09actual big event.
00:56:10big event. Everything seems to be going pretty well as far as getting the wedding ready but the
00:56:18biggest loose end happens to still be that the prenup is still not signed and in my hands
00:56:25and I don't want to put a lot of extra pressure on her but in order for us to get married I
00:56:35really need to have that paper signed. I think that's the big impending most important piece of
00:56:41the puzzle.
00:56:49The last couple of days has been like little odd for me because like this paper became the most
00:56:59important thing of the relationship. I had a lawyer who speaks Portuguese and he explained everything
00:57:08that was in the prenup but it's still something it's like a lot for me something that I still need to
00:57:15think about.
00:57:18I can understand that Sean is trying to protect the things that he have been meeting all these years
00:57:25like work, house and everything but Sean is thinking about like a divorce and I want the
00:57:33wedding to be about love and about our future together. Getting married it's like a dream for me
00:57:40and I was waiting for this moment and for now I just want to think about how beautiful he is,
00:57:48how beautiful I love, and my dress, my accessories, and all these kind of things like to bring the
00:57:56magic and have an end of our special day.
00:58:02Bye-bye monkeys. Miss you never. Here we go.
00:58:18I'm tired you know poor Maxwell okay here we're here finally hey mom oh my
00:58:35goodness it looks like somebody got out of the loony bin early I did all this for Leah
00:58:53first fourth of July I'm surprised Independence Day in Brazil they like walk in the streets with
00:59:03the flags and we have all that so and I get the American version people get excited but I wasn't
00:59:09I did not know that he and America also people and make like a big thing oh that looks great on
00:59:20you everything looks good on you oh that's thank you can I open oh yes please
00:59:26well for the July oh so good to see you oh my goodness long trips funny very long I'll be the
00:59:38star seems appropriate with all the last minute planning what have you guys been doing I had to
00:59:44find a hair braider for Leah I had her ring resized but uh seems like we might only be having a party
00:59:56because some things haven't happened to make it more than a party he did a prenup and he gave to me
01:00:05everything was okay yeah I understand everything that says that but it's like I'm still thinking
01:00:13about everything oh so you have not signed not yet the prenup no okay
01:00:21and what happens if you decide that you're not going to sign it great question we'll have a party
01:00:34but just our party yeah you're not going to get married and then I can leave and whatever
01:00:41should we have to be deported or whatever go back within no four days or something
01:00:47and you're okay with just going back to Brazil no that's not something that I want but it's
01:00:54he just put that he throw that to me and I'm just taking my time
01:00:59these 19 days has been difficult I supposed to be feeling wonderful happy and love it but I'm just
01:01:10feeling anxious because like all these worries of Sean about our future I think I will just start
01:01:18unpacking my things and everything organize everything for the next days okay okay I thought that the visa
01:01:27process was the hard part but now I'm here and I think I was wrong because this is the hard part
01:01:35do you think I'm being too cautious by asking for her to sign a prenup
01:02:02no because I know you I know how hard you've worked it's your life you have just put so much
01:02:12into where you're at Sean I was all excited about this marriage and now I'm not feeling that way
01:02:24any longer I know what I need I know how it has to happen for me so she's just gonna have to decide
01:02:30how it happens for her and we'll take it from there
01:02:34so Juan like the morning after Deadwood why'd you bring the cruise up I know you want to make
01:02:51money and provide but I don't want to be a cruise wife so it's you're the cruise is that what you're saying
01:02:58hey mama mama mama mama mama
01:03:17Megan and Herbie are going to be stopping by soon to bring some decorations okay
01:03:31here they are hi hi hey baby yes ma'am Megan and Herbie are here okay
01:03:41how are you
01:03:43hi say hi how are you good how are you I'm good I brought all the stuff that you asked for
01:03:51so we can make paper flowers how are you doing man good good good good what you guys bringing
01:03:57you've been complaining that you don't have enough Colombian stuff in the wedding and we get to make
01:04:03paper flowers paper flowers it's not I asked for paper you asked for Colombia and I'm bringing you
01:04:13like yeah all right let's do it yes do you do paper flowers in Colombia I have never seen paper flowers in Colombia ever in my life
01:04:24internet searched at paper flowers and luckily Megan has said that she knows how so she is going to be our paper flower tutor
01:04:33what colors do you want the flowers Juan I mean the Colombian flag okay yellow blue and red yeah
01:04:39yellow blue and red okay so we want the red yellow and blue to be stacked together and then we're going to accordion style this like about an inch
01:04:50each so accordion it okay and you're going to cut a triangle out of the middle
01:04:57and then you tie a string around the middle oh Megan he's like that looks good it looks great
01:05:14it takes a lot of work just to make one you know you wanted Colombia at the wedding I got you Colombia
01:05:19oh David you're being a great helper so Juan like the morning after Deadwood I
01:05:29I'm just a little confused why'd you bring the cruise up like why are you wanting to go back on the cruise that makes no sense to me
01:05:41my career has been always out there in the ocean that's my career I know I didn't study anything
01:05:49in school to come here and you know I'm gonna go find a job out there that I can get paid good
01:05:53money you know just makes me worried because cruise life isn't the life for your family
01:05:58the cruise life isn't for him anymore you can always come back to the money right now your family
01:06:07needs you I'm really hoping he decides against the cruise life because I think it will be really
01:06:12detrimental to their relationship um Juan will you give me a big trash bag
01:06:19oh I mean thanks guys I'm gonna go try to get him laid down because he's like super tired
01:06:26we have to get married within 90 days and I feel like he hasn't completely made up his mind
01:06:34and there's always like a easy I can go back and I feel like he thinks it's something that we could
01:06:42manage and we could be flexible in and I disagree are you ready for night night he really needs to
01:06:50decide what he wants if he wants to go back to the cruise or not and I feel like it's time that we
01:06:54can't talk bye bye guys see you guys see you sleep yep he's asleep another win from mama good
01:07:12hi it was successful thank you for including my culture in in the wedding that makes me feel
01:07:20better about the wedding venue too yeah I'm happy about it too I mean I know you were wanting that
01:07:25so yeah it's well appreciated yeah thanks a lot you're welcome
01:07:30so they didn't want to bring it up well Megan and her were here but I know it's been a big change
01:07:42and this isn't the ideal situation and you want to make money and provide and but it's like I don't
01:07:51want to be a cruise wife that's not what I want that's not what I signed up for and because it's
01:07:57like a choice you can make but you will lose me
01:08:03so it's you're the cruise is that what you're saying yeah
01:08:11and I just want to make that clear to you
01:08:19I don't know what to say
01:08:25never thought you would ask me to make a choice between the cruise or you though I mean
01:08:31this stuff never happened with Jessica like she telling me what to do feels like I'm being
01:08:39controlled a little bit you just can't do this and you have to do something else otherwise you lose me
01:08:45I think that's a little bit unfair I love my job
01:08:50you being away for eight months is not fair to us
01:09:01well if you want me to make a choice in between my family and the cruise ship or a job I would
01:09:17take my family first
01:09:20the baby's my priority and you too
01:09:27okay I'm not going back on the cruise ship I'm gonna stay I promise
01:09:33the first time I did this cruise job I didn't know what to expect but when I got there everything
01:09:49was just so amazing to me that I kind of developed like a like a huge passion for it like that was
01:09:57something I wanted to do it is going to be hard to leave cruise life behind especially with the type of
01:10:05jobs I can get in this area so yeah that's gonna be tough for me but that's what it is I guess
01:10:13love me I love you
01:10:18if you put agreements to a marriage it's business so she comes with me offer and I go her with a
01:10:28counteroper this is beyond like my brain is on the floor right now sarper's suggestion about adding
01:10:37a clause in the prenup it's just a way of him getting back at me for asking for a prenup this is
01:10:42not fair to ask her this if you put agreements to a marriage it's business so she comes with me
01:10:57offer and I go her with a counteroper that's a clause I'm adding to you
01:11:12we have a meet in Turkey when a woman gets married he doesn't look after herself that's not my fear
01:11:20I know you but let's do it if you want a prenup from me sure okay sure I'll do that because I care
01:11:26more about it probably than you do wait hold on hold on just because I literally said I don't care
01:11:33like no you should listen he's just upset you're just acting out you're upset no it's like he said
01:11:40yeah she wants a contract from me and I've been are you giving it this is not fair to ask her this
01:11:48like come on sarper's suggestion about adding a clause in the prenup about my weight is not a shock
01:11:56of course he's saying that he's the same guy that was trying to weigh me from day one come on let's
01:12:02see wait 132 132 4 pounds old I think also it's just a little way of him getting back at me for doing
01:12:12something like asking for a prenup which to him was offensive maybe he's trying to offend me a little
01:12:18I'm asking her what if she gains five pounds yeah well you're gonna could you five thousand dollars
01:12:24so you're gonna divorce you're acting well no I'm not divorcing are you serious you're serious
01:12:28it's it's just ridiculous man like seriously like I'm trying to respect this relationship
01:12:38but I also try as a friend to kind of tell she kind of hey wake up like you cannot accept those
01:12:45type of things so that's what makes me wonder how deep she's getting manipulated by him in that
01:12:55relationship the fact that he's setting that standard for you that is it's literally like me
01:13:01doing the dishes and him coming up and telling me to do the dishes I'm already doing it no but
01:13:05you cannot like add this as a term of your contract come on like let's be serious one
01:13:11minute so I'm sorry you lose your mind you're losing your mind I'm not gonna gain weight so I
01:13:16don't care this is beyond I like my brain is on the floor right now this is so absolutely absurd
01:13:24I have more assets than her yeah so I don't care so why are you putting that on her if you have more assets then you should be grateful that she's doing this because it's protecting you
01:13:34I don't want the prenup she wants prenup so I'm going to then you should be grateful for it if you have more assets it protects you more than it protects her
01:13:42okay then why are you putting implications on her that if she gains weight he's saying that he's
01:13:47this is a vindictive that's what you're saying you're just being vindictive it's not a business
01:13:51transaction you want to marry her because you love her you see a future with her and you see forever
01:13:56with her like that's it it shouldn't matter what comes with whether she wants to share her finances
01:14:03with you whether you want to share her finances with you that's all about it matters
01:14:07because I'm I'm getting
01:14:09leave me room please
01:14:11it's their relationship
01:14:16I don't want to understand me
01:14:20I don't care what they think how can I request such a thing how can she request prenup to me that's the
01:14:31same thing I mean it's really I mean disrespectful it's so disrespectful
01:14:35are you okay
01:14:37is there anything else that you need to say that you haven't said
01:14:45are you bisexual
01:14:47are you serious
01:14:49I'm sorry but this is the very last time I'm telling you
01:14:52I don't understand what's happening
01:14:54I feel like I made a mistake over here
01:14:59personally
01:15:03thank you
01:15:14thank you so much
01:15:17thank you
01:15:17let's see
01:15:18I'm ready
01:15:25to catch the blues
01:15:29goodbye
01:15:30are you ready for the wedding
01:15:36I think I am
01:15:39but we need to talk about some stuff
01:15:42still
01:15:43yeah
01:15:46should we talk about it now or wait
01:15:48we shouldn't wait
01:15:49till when
01:15:50five minutes before the wedding
01:15:52if you have anything to say you should say it with your chest out
01:15:58I'm still thinking about the conversations with say I'm not opening up to her because I'm afraid and I'm just like I can't live like this
01:16:11I think tonight is my last chance to ask that one question again
01:16:16are you bisexual
01:16:19are you bisexual
01:16:21we're here
01:16:29it's so cute
01:16:35you first
01:16:37are you sure
01:16:38yes
01:16:38bring the
01:16:40maybe ring the thing
01:16:41I'll stand behind you
01:16:44hello
01:16:46welcome to Ross Mansion
01:16:48I'm Jerry
01:16:49thank you so much
01:16:50Maddie
01:16:50so it's the night before the wedding
01:16:52and Maddie and I are getting to check into the Ross Mansion
01:16:55which is a historical beautiful place in downtown Hattiesburg
01:16:59so this is Ross Mansion
01:17:01this is where y'all will be staying tonight
01:17:03it was built in 1903 by the Ross family
01:17:06it's so pretty
01:17:07I booked the room in the mansion instead of staying at my house
01:17:11because I thought it would be nice to get away from like the ordinary day of our life
01:17:16is this real?
01:17:18yeah
01:17:18actually this is probably from the 20s
01:17:21I just thought it would be a nice thing to do for us to have time together alone
01:17:25alright so this is the peacock chamber
01:17:28where you will be spending
01:17:30yay
01:17:31your time
01:17:32how cute
01:17:37it's really amazing
01:17:39oh my god
01:17:41well I will leave you to it
01:17:45thank you
01:17:46alright
01:17:46everything is so real here
01:17:51like the bed
01:17:53okay
01:17:55it's too late
01:17:56we can look too long
01:17:58for what?
01:17:58for history?
01:17:59we can look tomorrow
01:18:00it's too late for history lessons
01:18:03I have noticed that you have not been talking a lot
01:18:22yeah
01:18:24and you've just been kind of like quiet and reserved
01:18:27like you don't want to say much
01:18:29because you don't want to hurt my feelings
01:18:30I know
01:18:31I wanted to talk to you about that
01:18:35before coming here
01:18:38when we were talking over the phone and texting and stuff
01:18:40it has never happened that I say something to you
01:18:44and you're like super mad at me
01:18:46so back then
01:18:47so back then
01:18:47I could share my mind
01:18:50and talk about anything
01:18:52so there's going to be problems
01:18:54and you have to work through them sometimes
01:18:55yeah
01:18:56but not in an argument way
01:18:58no
01:18:58I'm not just walking around trying to get mad at you
01:19:01because that's how I feel
01:19:03okay
01:19:07well I'm sorry
01:19:08that you feel that way
01:19:09so is there anything else that you need to say that you haven't said?
01:19:16say it
01:19:23you know that I would love you no matter what
01:19:31you know that right?
01:19:34I just want you to know that
01:19:35and then answer me
01:19:38are you bisexual?
01:19:44serious
01:19:44I'm sorry
01:19:45but this is the very last time
01:19:47I'm telling you
01:19:48I'm too tired
01:19:59I know it wasn't a good moment to ask these questions
01:20:07I'm just tired
01:20:08I've driven a long way
01:20:10and I can't think sometimes when I'm tired
01:20:13and that's why I'm just saying
01:20:15it's not a good moment
01:20:17but we don't have any more time
01:20:18I don't understand what's happening
01:20:23Stevie is not giving me a solid answer
01:20:37and right now I'm just looking at the whole relationship
01:20:41and I feel like it's just falling apart
01:20:45and it's really hard to see that
01:20:47I have sacrificed a lot
01:20:54my family
01:20:56my job
01:20:58my life
01:20:58everything I had in Iran
01:21:00and now I'm here
01:21:01and it's not worth it
01:21:02I feel like I made a mistake
01:21:12I want to hear
01:21:12it hurts to me
01:21:17next time on 90 Day Fiancé
01:21:33you see him upset
01:21:36I am
01:21:37what happened?
01:21:38I screwed up big time
01:21:39that's not good
01:21:42I want to be that man
01:21:43that she knows that she can wake up to
01:21:45and rely on
01:21:46I the bed
01:21:47yeah
01:21:49I really want to make sure
01:21:59my language and my culture
01:22:00to be part of this family
01:22:02I just can't say to your son's culture
01:22:05that you don't have time to learn
01:22:07I don't know why we have to have this talk right now
01:22:09we're getting married tomorrow
01:22:10that's what we're having this conversation
01:22:11so it's like a make or break
01:22:13you learn Spanish
01:22:13or I don't marry you
01:22:14I love
01:22:17oh my God
01:22:22I'm done married
01:22:26me and I go
01:22:28Serper's missing
01:22:31it's the day before our wedding
01:22:34we're going to the wedding venue today
01:22:36and I have no idea where he is
01:22:38this is like the fourth time I've called him
01:22:40him disappearing like this
01:22:42is terrifying for me
01:22:43oh my God
01:22:47Serper
01:22:48where is he?
01:22:54I look for the blessing
01:22:56but my aunt and my brother
01:22:59is religion
01:23:00there's still no sign or even word from Aaliyah
01:23:17well so far we're an hour late
01:23:18finally I just said
01:23:21like no more
01:23:22I'm done
01:23:23uh oh is he leaving
01:23:25uh oh is he leaving?
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01:23:26uh oh is he leaving?
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01:23:28uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:29uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:30uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:31uh oh is he leaving?
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01:23:33uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:34uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:35uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:36uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:37uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:38uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:39uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:44uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:45uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:46uh oh is he leaving?
01:23:47uh oh is he leaving?
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