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Heart & Hustle: Houston - Season 1 Episode 8 -
The Secret's Out
The Secret's Out
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02:18I'm embarrassed for staying when I knew this was too hurtful for me to stick around for.
02:35So Josh, you broke what we would call the covenant of marriage.
02:39You made a solo decision, not a marital decision.
02:44But it was covered with a marital.
02:46Like, I'm doing this for us.
02:48In that moment, I felt small.
02:53Mm-hmm.
02:54I felt small.
02:56And so I tried to do what was, I felt at that moment, was going to change our lives.
03:07We weren't in a bad space financially.
03:09Right.
03:10To even feel the need to do that.
03:12So tell me what you believe motivated that decision.
03:16I don't want to say it.
03:18I feel like at that time...
03:19No, tell me what you believe.
03:20It's okay.
03:20Okay.
03:21At that time, I feel like I was the breadwinner.
03:23Mm-hmm.
03:23And I think that he just wanted to be that breadwinner in that moment.
03:27Okay.
03:27And that's how I felt.
03:29I do have an issue with the breadwinner comment.
03:32Only because there are other segments of the business that I was heavily involved in.
03:38And so the business made a lot of money.
03:41And so when COVID happened and the bits is shut down, I got scared.
03:45Because I'm like, if this is what we both put our time and effort into for all these years.
03:50And as a man at that point, the only thing I was doing was a makeup brand.
03:57I wasn't doing anything else.
03:58What is clear is that you were dealing with a man who was feeling insecure with his position
04:03in the house, not because you made him feel that way, not because you invalidated him
04:08in that way, but there was something in him.
04:10He had his own expectations of himself, and he probably didn't feel like he was meeting them.
04:16The unfortunate part, though, is its impact on you.
04:20And that's the part.
04:22So if you see that, if you know that, and you've seen me work as hard as I did,
04:29why would you do the one thing that's going to hurt me?
04:33This has been a weight on me that has been heavy, that has been affecting me.
04:42It changed me.
04:43I'm not going to be as trusting moving forward, including Josh.
04:47And it's sad.
04:48I feel like it's a good girl turned cold.
04:52I mean, I see you for where you are currently.
04:54I do.
04:56And I know why you are there.
04:59I want this.
05:03I want you.
05:07And I understand if you can't.
05:12I get it.
05:16But I do want this.
05:19I do want this.
05:22From the beginning, I loved you.
05:23And I still do.
05:28And I went down.
05:33Just a part of me doesn't know if I have the capacity to keep going.
05:37You're hurt.
05:40Yeah.
05:40I just wanted just that trust to be rebuilt.
05:46I wanted just to feel safe and secure in my marriage again.
05:52It's nice that he is bringing this up and taking accountability.
05:57But I don't know.
05:58It's just hard to move past those big hurts.
06:03Josh, what's happening?
06:06I feel like I let myself down and I let my family down.
06:22It's just like a double whammy for me.
06:25And I'm trying.
06:26And I promise you, I'm trying.
06:27I'm praying.
06:38Oh, this is cute.
07:04Goodness.
07:05Okay, Napa and Texas.
07:09My intentions for this girl's trip is just for everyone to understand that we are one.
07:16I want us to come together as a unit, laugh, cry, get drunk, no one.
07:22But no, just have a good time.
07:24Enjoy some wine.
07:25Enjoy the sunshine.
07:26Kick your feet up.
07:29Girl, look at you.
07:31This is a cute place.
07:33It's so cute.
07:34You know how to pick them, baby.
07:36Give me a hug.
07:37Look at you with the little cases on.
07:40Yes, man.
07:41A real dating call, girl.
07:42Yes.
07:44Baby, I have been going through it.
07:45The past few weeks have stressed me out.
07:48So I'm excited for us to just let our hair down, drink some wine, and have some fun.
07:52This is exactly what I needed.
07:55Okay.
07:56Yeah.
07:56Hello.
07:58Girl, you look so up.
08:00Hello.
08:01Thank you.
08:02Y'all too.
08:02This is nice.
08:03Yeah.
08:04You loved it?
08:04Oh, I love it.
08:05Okay.
08:06Thank you.
08:07It feels like we're in Napa.
08:09Fucking Lemon Tribe.
08:10Okay.
08:12Hey, Lemon Squares.
08:13Girl, you can smell.
08:15Hey, y'all.
08:17Hey, Latoya.
08:17Hey, Latoya.
08:18How are you?
08:20Oh, baby.
08:20This is beautiful.
08:23Hello.
08:24Thank you for hosting us.
08:25Hey, Latoya.
08:26Yeah.
08:27That's what you know with the mouth is.
08:30That's what.
08:31Hey, Latoya.
08:31Hey, Latoya.
08:32What's up?
08:34Hey, Latoya.
08:34Hey, Latoya.
08:36What's up?
08:38This is nice.
08:41But you need your first stop is your champagne.
08:43What do you use it on?
08:45This one?
08:45Okay.
08:46Cool.
08:46I have a little bit.
08:48I wore purple today because I've been wearing black a lot lately just because maybe I was feeling
08:51down, but maybe I'm outside right now, and the way you be outside and seeing it is what
08:55look cool on your body.
08:57We must have Elena.
08:58Mm-hmm.
08:58She be lighter than me.
09:04Okay.
09:04So lunch is being prepared for us.
09:07Lunch and tasting.
09:09Okay.
09:09There we go.
09:10Hello.
09:10Hello, Mommy.
09:13I finally made it.
09:14I made it.
09:16Good.
09:17How are you?
09:18Good.
09:18After the couple's therapy with Josh, this is exactly what I need.
09:24This is my first girl's trip.
09:25I never felt comfortable in my marriage to take a girl's trip.
09:29I don't ever feel like I was given that reassurance that it's okay to take a girl's trip.
09:34Instead.
09:39You want a snack, Elena?
09:41No, I'm a little like.
09:43What's wrong?
09:43Okay.
09:44I feel shaky.
09:45You look shaky.
09:46Because I had to.
09:46I was rushing.
09:47When you stressed?
09:48I was stressed.
09:48I hate that kind of stuff.
09:49Yeah.
09:50Yeah.
09:50Well, you made it.
09:51Take some deep breaths.
09:52Calm down.
09:53Yeah.
09:53I know how that feels.
09:54That's why I noticed it.
09:55I was like anxious trying to get here.
09:57But I'm happy I'm here.
09:58You made it.
09:59You made it.
10:02Coming up, I dated a guy.
10:04His toenails look like sunflower seeds.
10:06Did you crack one of them?
10:07I said, is it red?
10:08Is it red?
10:09Okay.
10:11I'm getting irritated because you keep cutting me off in the middle of my sentences.
10:14Go ahead.
10:14And you're not allowing me to speak.
10:17Go ahead.
10:17So it's getting interrupted.
10:18We can bring it down, too.
10:19Okay.
10:21He knows if I stay in this space that he's done.
10:24Would you get a divorce?
10:25No.
10:25We say swirl, sniff, sip, and savor.
10:48Swirl, snoop, sip, and savor.
10:55Four S's.
10:56Yes.
10:57I do notice Alayna's energy is just a little bit low, which is typically not herself.
11:02I mean, she's not the most energetic person out there.
11:04But this is her first girls trip.
11:06I just thought she would have been more excited, more energetic.
11:09But she's been really quiet.
11:10So I wonder what's going on with her.
11:12So do y'all have, like, grape-something stuff?
11:14We have in the past.
11:15I'm going to let you guys enjoy these.
11:17Thank you, Allie.
11:17And we're going to prepare the reds, okay?
11:18Cheers.
11:19Oh, we getting reds?
11:20Yo, yes, you.
11:20I was like, because I want to have the glasses, because I drink red.
11:23That's what she excited for.
11:25Thank you.
11:25I can't get down with putting your feet in the grapes.
11:29I'm not going to be able to drink that.
11:31I would love that.
11:31I thought they were going to have a grape.
11:32You're going to drink it?
11:33I would drink it.
11:33But it's like all that.
11:34Ooh, that's tough for me to get over the feet.
11:37I don't want it, because I need to see what the pedicure game gets.
11:39I do.
11:41I ain't going to lie.
11:42I dated a guy.
11:43His feet, his toenails look like sunflower seeds.
11:46What?
11:46I was like, what the hell?
11:47They were brown?
11:48No, hell no.
11:49They were like...
11:49They were pointy?
11:50That's longer.
11:51Think of a...
11:52The color.
11:53Like, the color.
11:54It had lines on his toenails.
11:58Not him.
11:59It was...
11:59I looked at him.
12:00I said, oh my God.
12:01Is everything okay?
12:02The visual.
12:03And then he started, when he started...
12:05I said, oh no.
12:07And then you ended the date.
12:08Did you crack one of them?
12:10Did you crack one?
12:11Did you crack...
12:12I was...
12:13I said, is it red?
12:14Is it okay?
12:17What's going on?
12:20I'm not a toaster.
12:21I don't do feet.
12:22I'm not sucking feet.
12:23I would suck a lot, but I would not suck your feet.
12:32Y'all, they have cornhole.
12:34I love it.
12:36That's cheating.
12:37Apparently, I suck at this.
12:40You just throw this in the hoof.
12:42They're easy.
12:45Oh!
12:46Latoya, you made it, girl?
12:47She got it straight in there.
12:48You made me to make it for the ball player, baby.
12:50Now, this is what a girl's trip is all about.
12:53Good vibes, good wine, and a good time.
12:55Keep the drinks flowing, Labrina.
12:57Who said that right here?
12:58Yeah.
12:59This is so nice and peaceful.
13:01I know that I'm quiet on the patio right now, but quite frankly, I have so much going on
13:06in my life.
13:07I just want to have a good time and not ruin anyone else's experience.
13:13I loved your party.
13:14It was amazing.
13:15I enjoyed every part of it.
13:17You made me feel so beautiful.
13:19You were very assertive to just details about my makeup, and I appreciate that.
13:24I actually have you looking good.
13:25You did.
13:25You look good.
13:26Thank you.
13:27I had a good time, and I think for me, I'm normally used to creating those moments for
13:31everybody else, so to just be all hands off.
13:34And have it as good as hell.
13:35Yeah.
13:35Yeah.
13:36I think you have to do that.
13:37Girl, Nico had the time of his life.
13:38It was so refreshing seeing Nico's face.
13:42This was my first time meeting her son.
13:44He seemed to be a sponge when Lil' Flip was kind of telling him about the industry, and
13:49I know they exchanged information.
13:51Lil' Flip is a genuine person, and so I know they're going to be in touch.
13:54Yeah.
13:55Hearing Latoria say how impressed she was with Nico being at the party made me such
13:59a proud mom.
14:00Double fisted right here to you.
14:02Cheers.
14:03Latoria is introducing my son to people that can really change his life.
14:07It means the world to me.
14:09What made you do the announcement?
14:10I wanted to.
14:11I mean, I feel like 16 is a monumental year.
14:13I had been thinking about it for two years.
14:16After much thought, prayers, and evaluations, I will be making my exit from the Houston
14:22entertainment scene.
14:25Girl, when you dropped that ball, the room was like, ooh.
14:28I was like, yes.
14:29Some of my clients that was in there was like, what did they mean?
14:33Like, with me, my journey on how things shifted, I was a hairstylist almost 10 years, but that
14:39was my bread and butter.
14:40So when I jumped into the spa industry, I literally was living off of nothing.
14:45It was faith.
14:46I started at a swanky old building.
14:49I didn't have a husband then.
14:51This life that's today, this today, baby, I struggled for a long time.
14:57I struggled, so I'm saying it to say, whatever you choose to transition into, believe it with
15:05all your heart.
15:06Absolutely.
15:07Bro, you look so pretty today.
15:10Really?
15:10You do.
15:10I like that purple on her.
15:12It's not just the color.
15:13It's this.
15:14It's that inner glow.
15:16The black is hard.
15:17Am I my soft girl ever right now?
15:19Yes, you are.
15:20I'm so freaking happy.
15:22You look beautiful.
15:23It's even in your face.
15:26I'm just in this place right now where I'm just to myself, and like, I'm learning me all
15:30over again, and I'm just trying to just figure out, like, the stuff, because I know who I
15:34was last week, and I knew who I was six months ago, but I don't know who I am right now, so
15:39I'm in this world where I'm just trying to figure me out.
15:43Bro, you be bald.
15:45I'm really proud of the woman that Ro has become.
15:47She's been through so much, and I'm sure all the ladies can see her grow.
15:51Baby, Ro is stepping out of her comfort zone.
15:54I had to stop living in survival mode and start living in self-mode, and I feel like
15:57I'm able to talk to y'all because I don't feel like when I speak that y'all are taking
16:01all my burdens on me, and I can't do that in my regular life, because I don't want my
16:04family to take all my burdens, and granted, y'all are like that, but you're not taking
16:06all my burden on where now you feel bad and you walk off.
16:09I think a lot of it, we all can relate to.
16:11It's like we all kind of been through the same thing.
16:13Even though we're all different, everybody has so many stories.
16:15All right, y'all being too deep.
16:17Let's wrap this up.
16:18We're going to go eat.
16:19LaTori, I got your bottle.
16:20Oh, thank you.
16:21Can we save some of that for later?
16:23Manir, why your butt so weird?
16:26Coming up, you work out, don't you?
16:28I do.
16:28I can tell.
16:29Come on.
16:30Tell him how you feel.
16:32He already know.
16:34You know my heart.
16:35I have a pure heart.
16:37You don't know my heart?
16:38No.
16:39I mean, really, Elena?
16:40That's what we doing?
16:41Y'all got me stressed out.
16:45Feeling like a million bucks, all one.
16:48Only right, we shake it, then we do it, then we do it.
16:50We ain't got no liquor last all done.
16:53We say I'm a baddie and I know it, don't I know it.
16:55I just got my hair curled, nails done.
16:57If I get to flirting, don't you blow it, don't you blow it?
17:00When I'm at the party, I'm a pimp, pimp.
17:02This is so beautiful.
17:04It's so beautiful.
17:05Go look at the little tea lights.
17:06Tonight, I'm going all out for the ladies.
17:10I set up a private chef.
17:12We're going to have dinner, all the wine you can drink,
17:16homemade dessert, under the stalls.
17:19We're just going to have a good time tonight.
17:21I want to introduce you to Chef Seven.
17:24He's prepared a four-course meal for you tonight.
17:27I love a chef.
17:28Baby, Chef Seven was giving 10, okay?
17:34He was real cute.
17:35Chef Seven is going to...
17:36to be letting you know what is on the menu tonight.
17:39Hi, Chef Seven, thank you.
17:40Where are you from?
17:41I'm from Detroit.
17:42Oh, hey!
17:43Yes, yes.
17:43So what you got in front of you right now is a spring salad.
17:46You work out, don't you?
17:47I do.
17:48Don't you see it?
17:49Come on.
17:50Thank you, Seven and Allie.
17:53Not too much on Seven.
17:54Baby, I'm about to 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, you.
17:59Thanks, Seven.
18:01Well, tell him how you feel.
18:02He already knows.
18:03We have not been at this dinner for 36 seconds before Khloe starts flirting with Chef Seven.
18:12Slow down.
18:14Are you forgetting Jordan?
18:16I'm single.
18:16I'm not married.
18:17I definitely got a friend for Khloe.
18:19There's not a ring on this finger.
18:20So you have developed a relationship like this and y'all aren't exclusive?
18:24That's weird.
18:25Now, I've always said I'm not putting all my eggs in one basket.
18:27I never do that in a relationship.
18:29I'm not married to anybody.
18:30Does he know that?
18:31He know that?
18:32You attacking me for no reason at this point.
18:34Like, let it go.
18:35Girl, go heel.
18:37I know last time we all met up, you mentioned about you and Josh going to therapy.
18:41Did you guys go?
18:42I went to couples therapy.
18:43Yeah.
18:44Were you guys able to communicate?
18:45Yeah.
18:46Yeah.
18:46I love that.
18:47So, the session was really heavy.
18:53Own it.
18:54It's okay.
18:55So, you know, he shared a couple of things and took accountability for a couple of things.
19:02Like what?
19:04He took accountability for, he made some horrible investments, which, like, caused our money
19:11to, like, dwindle.
19:13Wow.
19:13I know how much that had to have hurt her because they were business partners.
19:18Your business partner makes a bad decision and it affects your business and now your household.
19:25I would be hurt, too.
19:26I feel like you trust him.
19:29He knows I don't trust him.
19:30Like, he knows I don't trust him.
19:32He put you on the best spot?
19:33Yeah.
19:33Stocks?
19:34Gambling?
19:34What?
19:35It was-
19:35Stripped?
19:36Strippers?
19:37God.
19:37Why you gotta know the details, Chloe?
19:38How you just wanna know?
19:40You go from stocks to strippers.
19:41I mean, that's what men do.
19:43That's reality.
19:44He was doing day trading.
19:46Okay.
19:46And he invested some and he was just trying to get it back.
19:50When the man start losing money, he start tripping.
19:52That man took your money.
19:53I get it now.
19:54I wouldn't want to sleep with nobody who took my money either.
19:56Especially my hard-earned money.
19:58Maybe in the same house, in a different room, it's being nice.
20:01That's graceful.
20:02He should have got his ass out the house.
20:03You don't feel like you could ever, like, trust him again?
20:07I feel like it's gonna take work.
20:08Would you get a divorce though?
20:09Is that something that you thought in your head before?
20:10Well, he knows if I stay in this space that, you know-
20:13He's done.
20:14But it's something that you would do if you got to that point.
20:16I'm not in love with him.
20:24Alaina, you're not in love with him?
20:26No.
20:27It's really hard for me to admit that I'm not in love with Josh.
20:30But it's me facing my truth and living in my truth.
20:34And I'm okay with that.
20:35Would you be sleeping in separate rooms if you were in love with someone?
20:38No, sometimes people are in love with someone.
20:39Not in love.
20:40Not in love.
20:40No, I'm not in love with him.
20:42I'm not in love with him.
20:43I'm not in love.
20:44I'm not shocked.
20:46They don't look like they're in love.
20:47Like, there's distance.
20:49Even if somebody's falling out of love, yeah, I do think there's something left to fight
20:53for.
20:54But if both people are on two separate pages, yes, it's going to be tough to come together
20:58and make it work.
20:59Girl, what?
21:00You're not in love with him.
21:01That's why you're not wearing your ring.
21:03That's why y'all ain't had sex.
21:04It all makes sense now.
21:05Y'all not in love.
21:06You're sleeping in separate rooms, baby.
21:08It's time to let that go.
21:10A lot of times when you go through a lot, you can fall out of love with somebody.
21:14Absolutely.
21:14That's all that.
21:15Resentment.
21:16Yeah, resentment is heavy.
21:17It was really like a dark cloud just hanging over you.
21:21And we all felt that.
21:23We all felt that energy time and time again.
21:25And it got to a point where it's like, we want to be there for you, but sometimes it
21:29can be difficult because it's like, we're starting to consume that dark energy and don't
21:33really know how to handle it.
21:34I thought that me and Manera had a deeper friendship.
21:40And it's that dark cloud comment that I have issues with.
21:44So as a friend, I don't think it should be labeled dark cloud.
21:49Do I carry it all the time?
21:50You do.
21:52Not all the time, but sometimes you do.
21:55It made me feel uncomfortable.
21:56Like, I don't even want to say nothing.
21:57Like, it's been a lot of times.
21:58That's why a couple of times I'll be like, I don't want to talk about it because I feel
22:00like I'm going to have a pen.
22:01And my pen.
22:02Hold on.
22:03Hold on.
22:03In my opinion, it's not about you being married.
22:05It's about you.
22:05If you are not happy, you need to get the f***.
22:09I want to work through it.
22:10I'm going to fight through it.
22:11Do you want to or do you think you're supposed to?
22:13I'm supposed to and I want to.
22:14But do you really want to though?
22:15Are you going to be happy with this situation?
22:18Keep going.
22:19How much longer are you going to keep trying to make something work and in the back of
22:22your head you feel like it's not going to?
22:24Is there going to be a point where you're going to stop?
22:25I'm going to wait until God tells me the direction to take.
22:33I love these ladies, but we are talking about my marriage.
22:37I'm going through what I'm going through.
22:39I feel the pain.
22:40It's the trust that has been broken for me, not for anyone else.
22:44I'm just not ready to hear anyone's opinions.
22:46It is hard to fall back in love with a man.
22:49It is.
22:49I'm sorry.
22:58Coming up, knowing the extent of what I was dealing with, you're minimizing my pain that
23:03I'm going through.
23:04Absolutely not.
23:06May your growth continue to elevate you.
23:09May you never feel like I'm not good enough.
23:11May you celebrate yourself, whether anybody clapped for you or not.
23:33What is that?
23:34Mineral glow?
23:35It's basically a...
23:37Body glow?
23:37Mm-mm.
23:38Sunscreen for your face.
23:39Like a tinted moisturizer.
23:43Ooh, that's pretty.
23:43Dinner was a little intense last night.
23:46It's a new day, and I'm just hoping to have a very peaceful morning, not talk about Josh,
23:53and just let it all go.
23:56Hey, y'all.
23:57Ooh.
23:58Hi.
23:58Hey.
23:58No, damn well y'all not eating before we got here.
24:01It is 12 o'clock.
24:03We been up too far.
24:04If I don't eat, I get a migraine, and then I'd be passing out.
24:07Y'all should have just passed out.
24:08Oh.
24:10Well, damn, bro.
24:11When it comes to eating, I'm not going to wait for anybody.
24:13Food is always going to come first.
24:16Who drank my apple juice?
24:17Who put the apple juice back?
24:19Who drank my apple juice back?
24:22Latoria, not me.
24:23There's a sign that says, if you not drink my apple juice.
24:26Not me.
24:27I would never touch your apple juice.
24:28I've been lying.
24:29Latoria, we drank her apple juice.
24:30Or me.
24:31Don't do that.
24:32I just was playing with her.
24:34No.
24:35Playing with the apple juice.
24:36I'm so glad Muneer has found some humor in our situation.
24:40Friendships are going to go through things.
24:42It's not going to all be peaches and cream.
24:44Some days I may be bloated, some days you may not.
24:47But we just going to keep it moving.
24:48And I think this is the true testament of friendship.
24:51So I have a question.
24:52I want us to go around.
24:53What has been the most impactful part of this girl's trip?
24:57Opening up is beautiful.
24:59And I truly believe, in my heart of hearts,
25:03when you enter a friendship with people,
25:06my storm may not be your storm.
25:09But if I'm going through a storm,
25:11lend me your umbrella.
25:12Yeah.
25:13I know last night it was mentioned with Elena
25:17that she hadn't been herself.
25:20and it was either like a dark cloud
25:22or, you know, sometimes reaching out.
25:24I didn't say dark cloud.
25:25I did.
25:26Why would you say dark cloud, though?
25:27You had a dark cloud over you.
25:29No, I didn't.
25:30I just want you to take this in
25:32and not be like on defense mode.
25:34I'm not on defense mode.
25:35Yes, you are.
25:36Okay.
25:36Do y'all see her things?
25:37I am not on defense.
25:39Elena.
25:39I would never as a...
25:40Okay, it's okay.
25:42It's okay.
25:42Go ahead.
25:42No, as your friend,
25:43I would never say that there is a dark cloud around you.
25:46I would make sure you're good.
25:47We haven't made sure you're good.
25:49So we haven't checked on you?
25:50We haven't made sure you're good?
25:52I would say no.
25:52Not through the entire process.
25:53Are you serious?
25:54Not through the entire process.
25:56Elena, are you serious?
25:56Because you wasn't sharing it with us.
25:57We didn't know it first.
25:58You were acting like your thing was good.
26:00Elena, you even saying that I wasn't there for you,
26:03I didn't check on you, what?
26:04Through the entire process, no.
26:05And I can honestly say that.
26:07It's deeper than just this conversation.
26:09So to just say that and leave it at that,
26:12that's not accurate.
26:13Because it's more to it on both sides.
26:15We had a friendship where we talked on a regular basis
26:20when you were going through everything that you went through
26:22when your dad first passed.
26:24And we got to a point where I knew personal things about you,
26:28you know personal things about me.
26:30Is that true?
26:31Right.
26:32Okay.
26:32Elena doesn't feel like I support her,
26:34but she's also failing to tell the whole story.
26:38At the time, I was going through not one, not two,
26:41but seven different deaths in my family
26:43in a short time period.
26:45And although she was going through the loss
26:47that she experienced, I'm human too.
26:50And we never talked about what I was going through.
26:52What you want is somebody to call you every single day
26:56and check on you every single day.
26:58I can't do that.
26:59I can't give that to you.
26:59I don't expect that at all.
27:00There were several times where I have done that.
27:03I have done what I could,
27:05and I have checked on you time and time again.
27:07I cannot take that much negative energy over and over.
27:10Negative?
27:11I don't think it was negative.
27:13I don't think what I gave you was negative energy.
27:16It's just simply being transparent
27:18and telling you what I'm dealing with.
27:20And we all tell each other what you're doing.
27:21The thing is, I'm always going to check in.
27:24I'm always going to...
27:24We checked in, Elena?
27:25No.
27:27I'm going to be honest and say no.
27:28I'm going to be honest too.
27:38The thing is, I'm always going to check in.
27:41I'm always going to...
27:42We checked in, Elena?
27:42I didn't want to deal with the energy that I was receiving.
27:46What I'm dealing with, it's extremely hurtful.
27:49I thought that she would have a little bit more empathy,
27:51and that wasn't the case.
27:53As a friend, I don't like those words of the dark cloud.
27:57And I think what you're doing is taking certain words
28:00and hanging on to those words and not seeing the bigger picture.
28:02I mean, but that's what was sad.
28:03The biggest part about this,
28:05you felt Manira wasn't there for you.
28:07That's what ended up becoming a thing in this moment.
28:11Like, I'm here in the dark cloud.
28:12and I'm here in the dark cloud.
28:13That's not the problem here.
28:14It's just a word.
28:14I think there's a level of expectation
28:16that she may have had toward you.
28:18But you can't have these levels of expectations
28:20if you don't extend the same thing.
28:23I think I do.
28:24But I don't think you do.
28:26Friendships are a two-way street.
28:27You're not the only person going through things.
28:30I'm not the only person...
28:31And I definitely don't make it seem that way.
28:32Can you not take offense to every single thing
28:34that I'm saying?
28:35Because I feel like every time I talk,
28:36you cut me off.
28:38No, I don't like that.
28:39Because I can't even get my thoughts out
28:41without you, like, cutting me off
28:43in the middle of it.
28:44And then it's like you're dissecting
28:46everything that I'm saying
28:47word for word for word
28:48and not taking in what I'm trying to convey.
28:50I am.
28:51We can bring it down, too.
28:53Okay.
28:54But again,
28:55when I talk like that,
28:56it's because I'm getting irritated
28:57because you keep cutting me off
28:58in the middle of my sentence.
29:00Go ahead.
29:00and you're not allowing me
29:01to speak my entire thought process.
29:04Go ahead.
29:04So it's getting interrupted.
29:06Okay.
29:07My close friends would never say
29:09dark cloud.
29:10My close friends wouldn't say,
29:12I don't want to call you every day.
29:14They would be like,
29:14I see what you're going through.
29:16Y'all have history.
29:17Y'all are good friends.
29:18What are we doing?
29:19We didn't come here for this.
29:21I think that Alayna
29:22is going through something.
29:24So everything is triggering her.
29:26Everything is bothering her.
29:28She's just not in the right,
29:30happy, healthy space.
29:32If you come to me
29:33and you're dealing with something heavy,
29:34I'm not going to use those words with you
29:36where I feel like you're a burden.
29:38Alayna, let me tell you something.
29:39I'm never going to,
29:40I just as a friend
29:41would never use that for you.
29:42And that's it.
29:43That's it.
29:43Alayna.
29:43That's all.
29:44You know my heart.
29:45I have a pure heart.
29:46You don't know my heart?
29:48No.
29:49I mean, really, Alayna?
29:51That's what we doing?
29:52And it's moments like that
29:53that makes me pull back
29:54because when she's upset,
29:56she throws slugs
29:57and hits below the belt.
29:58I know my heart.
29:59We had our moments
30:00and you was crying
30:01and saying what you were feeling
30:02and all of that.
30:03I was there.
30:04I have never not been there
30:06in a moment.
30:08But to say,
30:08I don't know your heart,
30:10that's like...
30:12Mine is being questioned as well.
30:14Okay.
30:18Y'all got me stretched that.
30:20Y'all need to talk.
30:34How are you?
30:48How are you feeling?
30:50I'm disappointed.
30:51I am disappointed too.
30:52I'm so disappointed.
30:53I don't know how the conversation
30:55got to that point.
30:56So I approached Manera
30:58because I want her
30:59to know where I stand.
31:01First, before starting anything,
31:03I love you.
31:04I want you to understand that.
31:05I don't understand that.
31:06I love you like a sister.
31:08I don't understand that.
31:08I don't understand
31:09why you don't understand that.
31:11You said,
31:12I don't know your heart.
31:13It's hard to hear that
31:15and then hear,
31:15but I love you.
31:16I genuinely love you
31:18and I love you as a friend.
31:19One thing I notice about her
31:21is when things are good,
31:22things are good.
31:23But anytime she gets upset,
31:24she starts saying stuff
31:25out of pocket.
31:25And to me,
31:26I'm like,
31:27if you're going to say that
31:28when you're upset,
31:28that's probably how
31:29you really feel.
31:30I want to be here for you.
31:32I also want you
31:33to be here for me.
31:34And I think that's
31:36what's missing right now.
31:38I think a friend
31:39should show up
31:40being careful
31:41about their words
31:42and not making me
31:44feel unsafe in the moment.
31:46In the moment
31:47that is actually important
31:49and needed,
31:50I show up.
31:51Showing up would have been like,
31:52yeah, okay,
31:52maybe I shouldn't have
31:53approached it
31:54with a dark cloud.
31:55I feel like
31:55as a friend,
31:56a close friend,
31:57would not say that.
31:59You're minimizing my pain
32:00that I'm going through.
32:01Absolutely not minimizing.
32:02Let me finish.
32:03That comment
32:03basically represents
32:05negativity,
32:06knowing the extent
32:08of what I was dealing with.
32:10From my heart.
32:11Yeah.
32:12I was not saying it
32:13in a way
32:13to come across that way.
32:15In my mind,
32:16it's okay
32:17to have a dark presence
32:19about you
32:20because,
32:20no, no, no,
32:21and live in that moment
32:23because that's something
32:23that you're going through.
32:25I guess I don't like
32:26the dark.
32:26And that's something,
32:28that's a word
32:28that you don't like.
32:29Maybe triggered by.
32:30And triggered by.
32:31But what I'm saying is,
32:32just like you don't like
32:33the whole dark cloud comment,
32:35it's hard for me
32:36to hear that you love me
32:38when you say
32:38you don't know my heart.
32:40I was upset in the moment.
32:41It was a jab.
32:42It was a jab.
32:43Words can hurt, right?
32:44But I think sometimes
32:46we have to know
32:48that in those moments,
32:50we're putting too much
32:52emphasis on the word
32:53and maybe not considering
32:55the person.
32:56The entire message sometimes.
32:58The message.
32:58Yeah.
32:59I'm doing the best I can.
33:00Yeah, I think we all are.
33:00And I know you are too.
33:01Yeah.
33:02I think we're all doing
33:02the best we can.
33:04They say we in it.
33:05We here.
33:07Is this a conversation
33:08between us and them?
33:09Yeah.
33:09Because I thought it was like
33:10just us.
33:10They're making sure
33:10it stays cordial.
33:11They're making sure
33:12that it's good to know.
33:14I'm just, I'm playing,
33:16obviously.
33:17We were open and honest,
33:19and although everything
33:20didn't feel good,
33:22there is growth from here.
33:24I love you.
33:25I love you too.
33:26I love you.
33:26Come here.
33:28I'm looking like,
33:29wait, you got to be here.
33:40Midway through the night,
33:41I'm hearing like a
33:42I said, damn,
33:44where is the,
33:45I said, where is the
33:47damn grizzly bears at?
33:49I'm going to go,
33:50I said, damn,
33:51Elena was in the bed with me.
33:53You can't talk, Latoya,
33:55because you were snoring too.
33:56Was I snoring?
33:57Yes.
33:58I'm so happy that
34:03Elena and Manira
34:04decided to reconcile
34:05their differences
34:06so we can leave
34:08this weekend
34:08and peace
34:10exude happiness
34:11and love, baby.
34:13I want to give
34:14all of y'all something.
34:15What you got?
34:16She got that money.
34:17She can give us a horse.
34:18I want the ladies
34:19to feel so loved
34:21and just cherish
34:22from this weekend,
34:23so I have something
34:24special for them.
34:25First on my list
34:26is Manir.
34:29The word I have
34:30for you is peace
34:31and that's why
34:34I have white flowers
34:36for you
34:36because I know
34:38that you have fought
34:39for your peace
34:41with your family,
34:43within your mom,
34:46Norm,
34:47and you are definitely
34:49a person
34:50that they lean on
34:52always.
34:52Having Labrina
34:55just give me
34:56the white flowers
34:56that represent peace
34:58and what I've fought
34:59to to get to
34:59the place that I'm at,
35:00it was definitely
35:01a reflection of me,
35:03Manira,
35:03as a person
35:04and I love that
35:05she respects that
35:06about me.
35:07Elena,
35:09the words that I have
35:10for you is
35:11own it
35:11and yours is
35:14very colorful
35:14because
35:16it's full of
35:18new beginnings
35:19and you have
35:20definitely
35:21owned
35:22who you're
35:23becoming
35:23and I am
35:25so proud
35:26of what
35:27that looks like
35:28for you.
35:30Labrina is so
35:31thoughtful,
35:31it's so her
35:32giving me
35:32these colorful
35:33flowers,
35:34representing
35:34new beginnings,
35:35yes,
35:36that's where I am.
35:37I think I'm
35:38in that space
35:39of relearning
35:40myself
35:41and starting
35:42over
35:42and I love
35:44that she sees
35:44me and she's
35:45just so beautiful
35:46in every way.
35:47Latouria,
35:50so you have
35:51orange flowers.
35:52So the orange
35:53is in representation
35:55of confidence
35:57on the thousands.
35:59It's beautiful
36:00to watch.
36:01You spoke so
36:02highly about
36:03your dad
36:03and I saw
36:06a lack of
36:07emotional
36:09confidence
36:10and now
36:11it's like
36:12your confidence
36:13is so strong.
36:15I've watched
36:15you heal
36:16and transform.
36:18I'm back,
36:18baby.
36:19I'm back,
36:20baby.
36:21Thank you.
36:22I appreciate this.
36:24I'm a flower girl,
36:24honey.
36:25I love good flowers.
36:26I love fresh flowers
36:27but I also love
36:28meaningful flowers
36:29and so
36:30to see that
36:30everybody has
36:31a different color
36:32and it represents
36:33something about them,
36:35good thinking,
36:36Labrina.
36:38Chloe,
36:39I got you yellow.
36:40Thank you,
36:41Brina.
36:41And yellow
36:41is for forgiveness.
36:43I feel
36:45you should truly
36:47forgive yourself
36:49for all the things
36:50in your past.
36:51Everything you feel like
36:53you felt short in
36:54in life.
36:55Turn the corner
36:55and let
36:56bygones be bygones
36:58grow
36:58and evolve
36:59in what's new.
37:00Thank you.
37:01I appreciate that.
37:02I need to do that too.
37:03Yeah.
37:04I realize that
37:05I do need to forgive myself
37:06for how I handled
37:07Nico
37:07when my husband
37:08passed away.
37:09Unfortunately,
37:10I can't change
37:12what has already happened
37:13but I can definitely
37:14give Nico
37:15what he needs
37:15to move forward
37:16and be successful.
37:17Next up
37:18is Ro.
37:20Oh!
37:22Go Ro.
37:22My Ro.
37:23I got you red
37:24because it symbolizes love.
37:27I feel that
37:28you have walked
37:29into
37:30a new place.
37:34Yours is making
37:34me emotional.
37:35Oh.
37:37I'm gonna cry
37:38because I'm gonna cry.
37:39And I'm proud
37:40that you are
37:42embracing
37:42love,
37:44loving yourself,
37:46understanding
37:46your worth,
37:47which is very
37:48hard to do.
37:50So I had
37:50to get you red.
37:52That's so sweet.
37:53This is my favorite
37:54too.
37:54Bowflowers.
37:55It's fitting.
37:56Now I need to get
37:56a real hug.
37:57Thank you so much.
37:59You're welcome.
38:00That's so sweet.
38:01Y'all gonna make me cry.
38:02A hug.
38:02It's like right here
38:03in the heart.
38:04Thank you so much.
38:05You're welcome.
38:06Well, the Brenna set
38:07made me emotional
38:07because having
38:08self-love
38:09is something
38:09that I struggle
38:09with.
38:10Going forward,
38:11my life is gonna
38:11be better
38:12because I know
38:13my worth.
38:14I know you gave
38:14everybody their
38:15flowers.
38:16I'm just gonna
38:17take one
38:17out of mine.
38:19We all take
38:20one out of ours.
38:21Everybody.
38:21I'm gonna give
38:22you one and pass
38:23it down,
38:23and I want
38:24everybody to do
38:24it to her so
38:25she can have
38:26her own bouquet.
38:28Oftentimes,
38:29the giver
38:30is not always
38:31the receiver.
38:32I wanted to
38:33make sure
38:33Labrina felt
38:35the love
38:36in the moment.
38:37and to let
38:38her know
38:38that she
38:39is blossoming
38:40as well.
38:41May your growth
38:42continue to elevate
38:43you.
38:44May you stand
38:45ten toes down
38:46on who you are,
38:47where you wanna go.
38:49May you
38:50self-embody
38:51the women
38:52empowerment
38:52that you
38:53sow into
38:54others.
38:55May you
38:56never feel like
38:57I'm not good
38:58enough.
38:59May you
39:00celebrate yourself
39:01whether anybody
39:02clapped for you
39:03or not.
39:03but pass
39:06this to Labrina
39:06and I want
39:07everybody to
39:08sow into
39:08our host
39:08as well.
39:10And you gotta
39:11know that
39:11you pour so much
39:12into other people
39:13and people need
39:13to pour back
39:13into you.
39:14I'm intentional
39:15with who I
39:16surround myself
39:17with.
39:18I pour into
39:19you,
39:19you pour into
39:20me.
39:20I love those
39:21kind of
39:21friendships.
39:22You have a
39:23calling from
39:23God.
39:24Yes,
39:24she does.
39:25And I want
39:25you to just
39:25know that.
39:26It's about
39:27connecting with
39:27other women
39:28and just sharing
39:28our life experiences
39:29and knowing
39:30that you're
39:31not alone
39:31in this
39:31journey.
39:32Seeing the
39:33people that
39:33you actually
39:34touch and
39:35how it impacts
39:36their lives
39:36in a better
39:37way.
39:37Words can't
39:38even describe
39:38it.
39:39God always
39:40places people
39:41where you have
39:42those voids
39:43to fill you
39:44up.
39:46When you
39:46experience that
39:47love, it's
39:49something you
39:49can never
39:50forget.
39:51I love you.
39:52I love you too.
39:59Big Miss
40:00The classiest
40:01thing from
40:02Fifth Ward.
40:16Can I ask
40:16y'all a
40:17serious question?
40:18Was the crab
40:19cake salty?
40:19I can't take you
40:19seriously.
40:20Was the crab
40:21cake salty?
40:22They were good.
40:29I love you.
40:34I love you too.
40:35I love you.
40:35Even though you
40:36crazy as hell.
40:36I'm not crazy.
40:37I'm just triggered.
40:46Well, I'm energized.
40:48I'm full.
40:49I'm ready to get
40:50my day started.
40:50Wrap your flowers.
41:00I need my seaweed.
41:11In this friendship
41:12circle, I don't
41:13care, man.
41:14You going through
41:15it if you call me.
41:16I got you.
41:20What?
41:21I love you.
41:21It says something
41:22once you have
41:23done.
41:23Bye.
41:24Bye.
41:26Bye.
41:26Bye.
41:27Bye.
41:28Bye.
41:28Bye.
41:29Bye.
41:30Bye.
41:30Bye.
41:30Bye.
41:30Bye.
41:30Bye.
41:31Bye.
41:32Bye.
41:33Bye.
41:50Bye.
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