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00:00:14I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country
00:00:21Everyone thinks is our holiday Romans, but he's so hot. I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love
00:00:30In the Gambia it feels romantic when I'm in England then reality hits me
00:00:37What the this thought I?
00:00:41Don't know how to show affection way that you want
00:00:45We need to go to go
00:00:49I'm an evil genius
00:00:53No more are any more something you will come up. I know pronounce you husband and wife
00:01:00Oh, yeah, we are now married
00:01:04It's just a dream come true for me. I
00:01:07Don't think our family will accept to you. You're not convincing us
00:01:12She would like you to go back with your ex
00:01:16You don't have to worry about my ex. I'd like to talk to Eloy's and
00:01:21If I hangs down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him, so let's take in
00:01:23If I hangs down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him, so let's take in
00:01:24If I hang down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him, so let's take in
00:01:29If I hang down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him, so let's take in
00:01:33If I hang down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him, so let's take in
00:01:35If I hang down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him, so let's take in
00:01:47So let's take in
00:01:51Yes, I will
00:01:53Yes, yes, yes
00:01:57Oh, Ibrahim, that was my surprise
00:02:01Thank you for accepting
00:02:03You're very well
00:02:05I'm the happiest man
00:02:07Zena is going to marry him
00:02:09I'm your fiance now?
00:02:11Yeah, of course, yeah
00:02:13I really love it
00:02:15You're welcome
00:02:16Thank you so much
00:02:17I'm very happy for you
00:02:18Thank you so much, that's really, really kind and lovely
00:02:21Thank you
00:02:22Lovely, thank you
00:02:23I'm engaged and I love the ring
00:02:26I really love it and I'm overwhelmed with love from Ibrahim
00:02:31I'm very happy, that's my happiest day ever
00:02:35Is it?
00:02:36Yes
00:02:37I'm lost for words at the moment, but
00:02:39Once I get over the shock and I sit down
00:02:42Okay
00:02:43You know, I'll come too
00:02:44I love you so much, Ibrahim
00:02:46I love you too
00:02:47Good
00:02:48From my heart
00:02:49Okay
00:02:52Let me take you to the next part of your surprise
00:02:55Huh?
00:02:56It's this way
00:03:02Ibrahim's got another surprise for me
00:03:04And I'm very excited
00:03:06Welcome, man
00:03:07I have to be 100% sure that he's not just wanting to marry me to get out of the Gambia
00:03:20Because he thinks he might have a better life in England
00:03:23Today I'm very, very happy as you accept my proposal
00:03:29I love you so much
00:03:31Oh, that's really nice
00:03:33What do you expect for the future?
00:03:37I want to marry with you in the UK
00:03:40And where would you prefer to live?
00:03:45I prefer in the UK, yeah
00:03:47In your house, they can do it there
00:03:51What would you do if you eventually came to the UK?
00:03:57From there I can have any job there then
00:04:02Very good
00:04:06The more he's talking about the UK, the more I'm getting worried
00:04:09Just because Ibrahim wants to get to the UK
00:04:12Doesn't mean that he doesn't love me
00:04:14I don't know
00:04:15Oh, thank you
00:04:16Oh, I say
00:04:18Thank you
00:04:21Enjoy your dinner
00:04:23We will
00:04:24Thank you
00:04:25This is nice
00:04:26This is our engagement meal
00:04:28The nicest one
00:04:29So when are you going to tell your family?
00:04:36I'm dreading it
00:04:37Okay
00:04:38Because they're not going to like it
00:04:40Hey, why not?
00:04:42They're worried
00:04:44That you are only wanting to marry me to get to the UK
00:04:47I don't mind anywhere, Gambia or the UK
00:04:54I'll be happy wherever I live
00:04:59So you just don't want to come to the UK
00:05:02You'd be quite happy if I stayed in the Gambia
00:05:05You don't mind?
00:05:07So long as you see me
00:05:08Oh, that's really lovely
00:05:13Initially Ibrahim said he'd like to move to the UK
00:05:16But now he's changed his tune a bit
00:05:19I don't really know what Ibrahim really wants
00:05:22If you stay in Gambia having more time with my family
00:05:25I'd be very happy
00:05:26Yeah, it'd be good for you
00:05:27Yeah, of course
00:05:28Yeah, all right
00:05:29Give me a little kiss, babe
00:05:30Okay
00:05:31Mmm
00:05:33I don't really think he's a con man or anything like that
00:05:37But my mind's all over the place at the moment
00:05:40I'm having a lot of reservations about the engagement, the marriage
00:05:44And I'm going to sleep on it and see how I feel in the morning
00:05:48Thank you so much
00:05:51You're welcome
00:05:52You're welcome
00:05:53You're welcome
00:05:54Cool, cool, that's lovely
00:05:55Me and Adnan were having such a great time in Albania
00:06:14We were flirting with each other
00:06:16Things were going in the right direction
00:06:18But we had an argument, so I've left
00:06:26I just need some time to reflect and get my head around things
00:06:30So I've put myself in a hotel to get some space
00:06:33Hey, babe
00:06:46Hey, how are you, babes?
00:06:48Good, thank you, how are you?
00:06:49Oh, not so good at the moment
00:06:51Oh
00:06:52Where do I start?
00:06:54We were having a great day today
00:06:56We went out, we were driving back home
00:06:59And I saw this hospital
00:07:01I said to him, Adnan, oh, did you see that guy?
00:07:03He had a hair transplant
00:07:05The taxi driver said, oh, yeah, I had one done
00:07:08I'm like, I know someone that wants to get it done
00:07:11So I took the cab driver's number
00:07:13I messaged him, say hi, this is Shauna
00:07:16When I get back, he started acting a bit agitated
00:07:19He says to me, oh, you didn't ask my permission
00:07:21If you could take his number
00:07:23I took his number right in front of you
00:07:26I haven't got anything to hide
00:07:28So I said to him, listen, I do apologise if you felt that disrespectful
00:07:32Maybe it's like a culture difference
00:07:34He says to me, oh, I don't want to hear it, fuck off
00:07:36Yeah
00:07:38He says to me, you can go and do whatever you want with this guy now
00:07:41I said, he's married
00:07:43I'm like, there's nothing intentional
00:07:45So what is up with him?
00:07:47I don't know, he was just acting weird
00:07:50This is really wrong on so many levels
00:07:53Yeah, I think so
00:07:54I said to him, I've seen a different society
00:07:56What's wrong with you?
00:07:57He said, I'm stressed
00:07:58I'm like, if you're stressed, like, talk to me
00:08:00Let's have that conversation
00:08:02Maybe I can help you
00:08:03I do think this is the culture
00:08:06Mm-hmm
00:08:07Because the man is very chauvinist
00:08:09Yeah
00:08:10But I'm so sorry you have to go through this
00:08:12This is just not really idle
00:08:14It's painful, but
00:08:16I'm all pain for us to have a conversation
00:08:19When it's calmed down
00:08:21I'm hurting, but I'll get over it
00:08:23I'll survive
00:08:24I'm so sorry
00:08:25Yeah, I know
00:08:26Me if you need me
00:08:27Thanks, babe
00:08:28I'll message you later as well
00:08:29All right, take care
00:08:30Bye
00:08:31Bye
00:08:32Bye
00:08:37It says unavailable
00:08:39That's been blocked
00:08:40It's not going through
00:08:41He just messaged, say, don't call me anymore
00:08:47A bit hurt
00:08:48Like, someone can be
00:08:50So nice, loving
00:08:53And then act this way
00:08:55Oh, he's messaging now
00:08:57I can offer to meet up with him
00:08:59And see what he says
00:09:00I just don't know what to think
00:09:01My head's all over the place
00:09:02Wow, didn't realise something so small
00:09:06Could cause someone to react the way they reacted
00:09:11We've been together for two years
00:09:15And I don't feel like I should give up
00:09:17Just like that
00:09:18I can't
00:09:19It was just an innocent chat between me and the taxi driver
00:09:22And I don't feel like we should give up over something so silly
00:09:26All right, let's go out for a moment
00:09:31We're all over the place
00:09:32To be a little bit
00:09:33I can't
00:09:34I can't
00:09:35We'll be there
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00:09:56I'm back in the UK now, this time as a married man,
00:10:00but I've had to come back without my wife.
00:10:04Ara and I are waiting for the visa to be approved,
00:10:07so Ara can move to the UK.
00:10:10It feels like everything's on hold.
00:10:13We were told that the visa would take up to six weeks.
00:10:17I got an email through just now from our immigration lawyer.
00:10:21I haven't opened it yet.
00:10:25I'm a little bit scared to, to be honest.
00:10:30There's no way it can be a decision yet.
00:10:31We only put it in two weeks ago.
00:10:33Hopefully, it's the case officer being assigned or, yeah,
00:10:38something like that, but I don't know.
00:10:41I hope they haven't rejected us.
00:10:47This is all feeling very real now.
00:10:49Please find and attach a decision letter
00:10:52for your entry clearance application.
00:10:55This is it.
00:10:56I'm kind of nervous, but also very, very sceptical.
00:11:00Whatever's in this attachment could decide
00:11:03what happens next in mine and Ara's relationship.
00:11:10Ring.
00:11:12My heart stopped because I realised that it could be the visa.
00:11:17What email is that?
00:11:20It's from the lawyer.
00:11:23Okay.
00:11:23And it's a forwarded letter from UK Immigration.
00:11:29What does it say?
00:11:32You've been given a visa.
00:11:34Really?
00:11:35Yeah.
00:11:36Are you joking?
00:11:37No.
00:11:37Is it true?
00:11:38100% true.
00:11:41The visa got approved and I am so happy and excited.
00:11:44It's what we're dreaming for before I can be with you forever now.
00:11:54Yep.
00:11:55You ready to come over here?
00:11:57I am so ready to be with you.
00:12:00Good.
00:12:01I'm happy and I'm scared.
00:12:05I'm going to be leaving my family, but yeah, I'll be with you, ma'am.
00:12:09I better get those flights booked and come and pick you up.
00:12:11Yes, book it, please.
00:12:13I feel like I'm excited because finally I'm going to see my husband again.
00:12:19But at the same time, I'm gonna be sad.
00:12:24Because Andy coming here in the Philippines means that I'll be leaving soon.
00:12:30I think it's just become really real for her and her family.
00:12:36Like, obviously we knew she was going to move over here, but she's only ever
00:12:42really known living in the Philippines and living with her family.
00:12:45I think there's a lot of pressure for me to
00:12:49make her feel comfortable here because it's not going to be easy for her to settle in.
00:12:53got to find little ways to remind her of home and make sure she feels like
00:12:57this is her place. It needs to feel like a family home.
00:13:17So, how are you feeling?
00:13:18Really? A little bit tired. A little bit tired? Yeah.
00:13:24Today, I'm taking Sandra to see my mum. I'm really looking forward to today,
00:13:29but I can't stop thinking about this barbecue that Heloisa is having. It's just really on my mind.
00:13:41Today's going to be a big day, yeah?
00:13:43Definitely.
00:13:45You're not going to have any argument about what Missy said, right?
00:13:52No.
00:13:52No.
00:13:54We're certainly not going to have an argument about it.
00:13:57But I think I would like to call her.
00:13:59Just to air the view and say, look, you know, what's been going on?
00:14:03And I feel a little bit upset that, you know, the barbecue that you're having
00:14:08or had with me, you're also now having with your ex.
00:14:11Sandra's my partner and I love her. But to be honest, Sandra's ex, he's been a massive part of
00:14:18her life. So I'm not convinced there's nothing to worry about and that it means nothing.
00:14:25I just think it's not the right time to call her.
00:14:31Who are you?
00:14:41Yeah.
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45Yeah.
00:14:49It's not the right time to get up to my eyes on you.
00:14:51And there's a lot of stuff that's been cool now.
00:14:53It's not all that time.
00:14:55Oh, it's not the right time.
00:14:56I know, you know, anybody else who's here and you're behind me?
00:14:59It's always a bit.
00:15:00I know.
00:15:00I know.
00:15:01I know.
00:15:03I know.
00:15:04I'm going to go and make another cup of tea.
00:15:27I will see you in a bit.
00:15:28We'll see you in a little.
00:15:31The timing is right.
00:15:32Sandra's having a nice time with my mum, chatting to her.
00:15:36So if she's talking to one of my family members, maybe I could talk to one of hers.
00:15:42I need to know if Heloisa is plotting to get Sandra back together with her ex.
00:15:55How are you?
00:15:57I'm good.
00:15:58And you?
00:15:59Yeah, not too bad.
00:16:02I want to talk to you.
00:16:04Really?
00:16:04What happened?
00:16:06What's been happening with her ex-partner?
00:16:09I don't understand your question.
00:16:11Why are you asking this?
00:16:12So Sandra mentioned the other day that you guys were going to have a barbecue with him.
00:16:20And it made me really sad because I then thought, wow, Heloisa doesn't really want me to be with Sandra.
00:16:27I thought all of this.
00:16:29I was talking with my husband and they met and they invited each other to have a barbecue.
00:16:36What did you want me to do?
00:16:38Say no to my husband?
00:16:40I'm a friend.
00:16:42And I think that you're jealous.
00:16:44Are you?
00:16:44Not jealous.
00:16:45No, I think it's the emotion I felt when I heard that was I felt sad.
00:16:50And I thought, wow, he's still getting inside her mind, getting inside her family's mind.
00:16:57How can he not be if he's going around having barbecue at your house?
00:17:02He's still a big part of your whole family.
00:17:05I'm not going to say anything about you.
00:17:08You're not going to say anything about me.
00:17:10What this feels like is Heloisa's sabotaging our relationship.
00:17:20Do you want Sandra and him to get back together?
00:17:26I don't want her to go back to him.
00:17:29Definitely not.
00:17:30Because she says she loves you.
00:17:31But you are not going to get married with my sister.
00:17:36Wow.
00:17:38Because I doubt a lot.
00:17:39If you're coming to Brazil.
00:17:42Really?
00:17:43I don't think you're going to leave your country and come here to live here.
00:17:49I don't believe it.
00:17:51I don't think you're doing anything.
00:17:52Well, the proof is in the pudding and I'm a spotted dick.
00:18:06How are you doing?
00:18:07We ate all our lunch.
00:18:08Hi.
00:18:09Hi.
00:18:10I just called your sister.
00:18:12Why did you call her?
00:18:16Uh, I just wanted to have a conversation with her about.
00:18:21But we talk about this.
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:23And I thought it was, you're not ready.
00:18:26No, but it was on my mind and I thought the time was right.
00:18:29Why did you phone?
00:18:30She is having a barbecue with Sandra's ex-partner and I wanted to understand why.
00:18:37It's quite upsetting because if the shoe was on the other foot and you were having some wine and cheese with my ex-partner, Sandra might feel betrayed is the word I'd use.
00:18:51And that's quite a strong word and it's not a word I was comfortable saying to your sister.
00:18:55And I didn't say that.
00:18:57I just said I felt hurt.
00:18:58But why?
00:18:59This is going to change something for you?
00:19:00And I did ask her, do you want them to get back together?
00:19:04And she said no.
00:19:05Yeah, I told you meet them time.
00:19:07But she still has doubts about our relationship and I'm going to prove her wrong.
00:19:11That was not the right time to talk to my sister.
00:19:16Can we move on?
00:19:17You're not going to talk about this anymore?
00:19:19No, because it's resolved in my mind.
00:19:21It's all finished.
00:19:21I think she'll see.
00:19:23I've said and now I just need to show.
00:19:35Today's my last day and Ibrahim proposed to me last night and I did say yes.
00:19:59But really, I do have a lot of reservations about the engagement.
00:20:05Oh, that's it.
00:20:06Lovely.
00:20:07And before I go home, I do need to be honest with him.
00:20:12I can't believe it.
00:20:13The last day.
00:20:15It's gone by in a flash.
00:20:17I hate this day, man.
00:20:18I hate this day as well.
00:20:21I really do.
00:20:22Fish and chips?
00:20:23Yes, please.
00:20:24Ladies first?
00:20:25Yes, of course.
00:20:27Lovely.
00:20:28Yeah, thank you, brother.
00:20:29Enjoy, Niamila.
00:20:30The last supper.
00:20:36We hope to see you very soon, man.
00:20:39Yeah, I hope so.
00:20:42I really need to tell Ibrahim about how I'm feeling.
00:20:47It's only fair to be honest with him.
00:20:52I don't want you to take it the wrong way or be upset, but...
00:20:57I've been thinking overnight about the worries that I have about our engagement.
00:21:05I know we're engaged, but...
00:21:10I don't know if I can commit to marriage.
00:21:17There's a lot of things stacked against it at this moment in time,
00:21:22like the suspicions that I had about you when I thought your sister was your wife,
00:21:27then your nephew was your child.
00:21:30I'm not happy about all what's happened.
00:21:33No.
00:21:34These things go over in my mind.
00:21:39I still love you, but it's very, very difficult for me,
00:21:44and I can't commit when I have nagging feelings in my mind.
00:21:50You look upset, are you?
00:21:52Yeah, of course I look upset, man.
00:21:58Yesterday I was the happiest man, but...
00:22:02things are going from backwards now.
00:22:05Ibrahim, hold my hand.
00:22:10It's not a no,
00:22:12but I'm going to go home and speak to my family
00:22:15and see what my family have to say about the whole situation.
00:22:20I understand you.
00:22:21I have to explain to your family and see what they're going to say, so...
00:22:27Mm-hm.
00:22:28I'm upset, but...
00:22:30I already love you, so you are already on my heart, so...
00:22:33Ah.
00:22:34I can go back.
00:22:37I don't know what's going to happen.
00:22:40Oh.
00:22:42I think I'd better go now and start packing.
00:22:46Ooh!
00:22:48All right, see you back at the room.
00:22:49See you now.
00:22:49See you now.
00:23:04I've decided I'm going to meet Adnan.
00:23:16Maybe if we meet each other, we can get things back on track.
00:23:34Thanks for coming.
00:23:41Thanks for coming.
00:23:44You can sit.
00:23:44I come all this way and I have to see it through.
00:23:51I'm going to give it one more push and try and talk through what happened.
00:23:56Are you okay?
00:23:57Are you okay?
00:23:59I'm good.
00:24:02That's good.
00:24:05You have something to say.
00:24:06Okay.
00:24:07Yeah.
00:24:08Okay.
00:24:09Um...
00:24:09Just to recap.
00:24:13Yesterday, when I exchanged numbers with the driver, I was helping my friend back in the UK.
00:24:20Yeah.
00:24:21He wanted to get your transplant and I said, I will give you my number and then he can get in contact and they can chat.
00:24:30We left the van.
00:24:31He became upset.
00:24:33Yes.
00:24:33Shouting, telling me to F off because I didn't ask you permission.
00:24:42Everything was going great, but something happened that I can't accept.
00:24:47It made me realize we are not for each other.
00:24:51This conversation here is not a conversation where it's going to be agitated.
00:24:56So I appreciate you to be a bit more mindful in the way you're speaking to me.
00:25:03The reason, I don't want you anymore.
00:25:06Do what you want.
00:25:12You know, Adnan, I think that's very disrespectful because I've been in your life for two years.
00:25:18We have ups and downs and...
00:25:21Go.
00:25:22Girl, you can't tell me to go.
00:25:24You have to go.
00:25:24The fact that there's no consideration, there's no love, there's no sympathy, shows me that this
00:25:33relationship is done.
00:25:34You can hate me, but there is a way that you can speak to someone without being disrespectful.
00:25:41Because I don't wish you bad.
00:25:43I always wish you well, but the relationship has run its course.
00:25:48You go your way and I go my way.
00:25:51At the end of the day, Adnan, I'm here just for us to part amicably.
00:25:55It's not to get back together.
00:25:56That ship has sailed.
00:25:57We both understand the assignment.
00:26:00You wish, but you can't.
00:26:02I don't want to be with you, Adnan.
00:26:03Are you listening to me?
00:26:04Are you wish?
00:26:05Are you listening to me?
00:26:06It's your wish.
00:26:09Don't dream.
00:26:09Are you listening to me?
00:26:10Don't dream, please.
00:26:14Comprehend and listen.
00:26:16The ship has sailed.
00:26:17Do you know the meaning?
00:26:18Ship, sail, gone, gone, bye-bye.
00:26:23It's over between us.
00:26:24I caught a fish in the sea.
00:26:27I caught a fish in the sea.
00:26:28You understand?
00:26:32I was fishing in the sea.
00:26:35So is this your anger coming out then?
00:26:37I was fishing in the sea.
00:26:38I was fishing.
00:26:39You caught a fish and what happened?
00:26:41Just no substance to you.
00:26:42Is that it?
00:26:43I'm so happy that I've seen this side to you because I've been living into a bubble and that bubble is
00:26:51hot.
00:26:55And I've seen the real Adnan.
00:26:59The one that fake, pretends.
00:27:03You're a user.
00:27:05You pretend that, that, that.
00:27:07What are you?
00:27:08What are you using?
00:27:09For what are you using?
00:27:10You're a liar.
00:27:11You are a narcissist.
00:27:14For what?
00:27:14For what are you using?
00:27:15You're so immature.
00:27:17Don't whistle at me.
00:27:18I'm not a cat or a dog.
00:27:20Anaconda.
00:27:21How am I a snake?
00:27:22A snake goes behind your back and take his number without you knowing.
00:27:28There you go, whistling.
00:27:29Is that, is that the way the Albanian mentioned the women in Albania?
00:27:34He's so immature.
00:27:36This is a revelation.
00:27:37I'm seeing the true Adnan and I don't like it one bit.
00:27:42To be fair, I'm always a bigger person so I'll give you a hug, Adnan.
00:27:48We can part ways on a hug.
00:27:50I, I don't, I don't want a fake hug.
00:27:53Fake, Adnan, why do you call me fake?
00:27:56Am I fake?
00:27:57I can't talk anymore.
00:28:00You are fake.
00:28:03You are fake.
00:28:04I am done.
00:28:11See you little boy.
00:28:12Have a great life.
00:28:13You deserve it.
00:28:15What's fake?
00:28:21There's no consideration.
00:28:22There's no love.
00:28:24So I can't be with someone like that.
00:28:26I can't.
00:28:27I can't be with someone like that.
00:28:32Fake.
00:28:32It's calling fake.
00:28:53Say goodbye to the skimpy bikini top.
00:28:58Until next time when it comes back.
00:29:02I'm just packing to go home.
00:29:04And I'm feeling really sad to be leaving the Gambia.
00:29:06Because it's so lovely and I'm going to have to be leaving Ibrahim.
00:29:09But I have to go sometime.
00:29:12Passport.
00:29:15Money.
00:29:17I think that's, that's about done now.
00:29:20My head is just, I want, want to know what my family are going to say.
00:29:23When I tell them that Ibrahim wants to marry me.
00:29:29My England coat.
00:29:32Look, this is what I'll look like when I get to the airport.
00:29:35I should have got a scarf, really.
00:29:41Horrible England, cold weather.
00:29:44I have a message for you about your family.
00:29:47So when you go, you have to try to convince them.
00:29:53They can accept our marriage, ma'am.
00:29:56I have to talk to them and...
00:29:58I will.
00:29:59I promise.
00:29:59In a couple of days, once I'm home settled and I'm counting all the icicles on the window,
00:30:04and then I'll go out and then I'll go to my family and see them.
00:30:10Wow.
00:30:13Shall we head off?
00:30:14Yeah.
00:30:19It's very, very difficult to say goodbye to someone you love.
00:30:27Come on, babe.
00:30:28You all right?
00:30:28Yeah.
00:30:29You don't know when she will be coming back.
00:30:45All right.
00:30:47Oh, Ibrahim.
00:30:49The end is nigh.
00:30:51It's time to go.
00:30:53I don't know what the future holds, but I'm going to speak to my family.
00:30:56OK.
00:30:56I don't want you to be upset, because it's not the end.
00:31:00It could be the beginning.
00:31:01Don't be upset.
00:31:02OK, greet everyone for me.
00:31:04Love you.
00:31:05Love you, babe.
00:31:06Love you.
00:31:07I'll FaceTime you when I get in.
00:31:09OK, bye.
00:31:10OK, bye.
00:31:16Hoping for Senna to call me as soon as possible to tell me that her family agreed to be married.
00:31:24Yeah, I will be the happiest man on earth.
00:31:34I always get emotional when I say goodbye to Ibrahim, because I just love him so much.
00:31:41But there's been a lot of ups and downs on this trip, and I need to get home and think about it,
00:31:47and make a decision on what the future holds.
00:31:55Mom, as well as my uncle.
00:31:57On Halloween?
00:31:58Yeah.
00:31:59Spooky.
00:31:59It's also today, Mahal, of course.
00:32:01It's very important to Ara that I take part in her cultural traditions.
00:32:06She's made it very clear from the start.
00:32:08And I'm kind of enjoying it.
00:32:10It's so different from what we do in the UK.
00:32:12We're going to sleep there.
00:32:15In a cemetery?
00:32:16Yes.
00:32:17Yes.
00:32:17Ara has just told me that we're spending the night in the family mausoleum.
00:32:23It's a bit weird.
00:32:29All Souls Day is kind of the Filipino equivalent of Halloween, or like the Day of the Dead.
00:32:36It's a day where they go to the cemetery and celebrate their dead relatives.
00:32:50Wait, this isn't theâŠ
00:32:51Yeah, this is the mausoleum!
00:32:54And it looks quite surprised, because we do have a big resting place for the dead ones in our mausoleum.
00:33:02But it's normal here in the Philippines.
00:33:05It's a house!
00:33:06I told you, in the first floor, there are all graves on the second floor.
00:33:10This is where we sleep usually.
00:33:12At least the dead get their own floor.
00:33:14That's reassuring.
00:33:15Okay, this is not what we get in the UK.
00:33:20This place has blown my mind.
00:33:21When Ara said we were going to go to the cemetery to spend the night at the cemetery,
00:33:25I was expecting gravestones and like, you know, like creepy, like, Adam's family stuff,
00:33:29with like the fog rolling in.
00:33:31It's like a little festival here.
00:33:32It's about a celebration of life, not a celebration of death.
00:33:35It's kind of beautiful.
00:33:36It's kind of made me realize I need to make more of a conscious effort with my family when I get home.
00:33:40You just kind of get caught up in everyday life.
00:33:42Now I'm bringing Ara back.
00:33:43I know she's going to want to have some kind of family around her.
00:33:46And if it's not her family, then it should be mine.
00:33:52It's a good thing that you witness our tradition,
00:33:57now that you're getting my daughter away from me.
00:34:01Oh, you make me feel guilty now, don't you?
00:34:03I'm going to miss her.
00:34:05So, I'm asking, uh, what is your plan?
00:34:09I think my mom will gonna ask Andy about starting a family.
00:34:15Give me my grandchild.
00:34:21I don't have two minutes to eat my food,
00:34:22and I'm already getting grilled about having kids.
00:34:25It's a lot of pressure for me.
00:34:28And little me.
00:34:30Yeah, I mean, hopefully we're going to start a family at some point when we get back, right?
00:34:34Yeah.
00:34:35We are planning to have kids.
00:34:37Like, we're planning to have a basketball team.
00:34:41You're going to do that?
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:43I am joking.
00:34:45I love teasing my mom about having grandchildren,
00:34:49and I know she loves it.
00:34:51When I move to the UK, I hope Andy and I are going to build a spicy hot Asian kids.
00:34:57That's the biggest responsibility of a wife, to annoy a husband, right?
00:35:01And you do so well at it.
00:35:05I'm going to miss this kind of celebration we're in.
00:35:08Andy will not be having a good life if he's going to stay here in the Philippines.
00:35:14You need to separate yourself from your family to build your own.
00:35:20This is the life that I chose.
00:35:23So, if I like it or not, I'll be staying in the UK to be with Andy.
00:35:27It's finally the day we're leaving the Philippines to move to the UK.
00:35:52I think the reality is really kicking in now, Farah.
00:35:57I feel so emotional saying goodbye to my family and friends.
00:36:18I tried to stop my tears.
00:36:20I don't want to cry.
00:36:23I'm going to North Pole.
00:36:24That's why I'm wearing pants.
00:36:26North Pole.
00:36:28Bye, Kui Andy.
00:36:29Bye, little sis.
00:36:30Take care.
00:36:31I cried three times in my life.
00:36:33One, two, three.
00:36:35And one of them is leaving my family at the airport.
00:36:43It's hard.
00:36:44It's really, really hard for me to leave my family behind.
00:36:52She's crying a lot.
00:36:53She's very emotional.
00:36:55Bye-bye, mama.
00:36:57I don't think I've seen her like this since the wedding.
00:37:00And it's kind of hit home for me how much I'm asking her to do.
00:37:12I don't think I've seen her like this since the wedding is going to be in the UK.
00:37:31Oh, Lord.
00:37:32Thank you for having my best day here for me to discuss my worries and my problems.
00:37:39I'm back in the UK, and it's really hard for me to move on from what has happened in Albania.
00:37:44At least I can turn to my church sister B.
00:37:47How are you doing?
00:37:49It's just love highs and lows.
00:37:52It's enough now, and it's come to an end.
00:37:55I'm sure there is a lot of heartache.
00:37:57I had it all planned out.
00:37:58Are we going to get married?
00:37:59He's going to come to the UK.
00:38:00I was adamant that he was the one.
00:38:02So I wanted to do anything to keep going.
00:38:09So I want to go to bed.
00:38:14I'm sorry.
00:38:17I'm sorry.
00:38:18I'm sorry.
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