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00:01Previously on Match Me Abroad.
00:06Glenn is just fun and just carefree.
00:09And right now, I feel torn because I feel like tonight
00:14really gave Keevan a run for his money.
00:19Oh, my word.
00:21You're very cute.
00:23I know I am.
00:26Oh, my god.
00:29It's a big mistake.
00:30I'm a little worried that it might scare her off
00:32and hurt my chances with her.
00:35You said you have multiple girlfriends at the same time.
00:37Like, isn't that, like, a lot of work?
00:39Physically, it's almost impossible,
00:42unless you're in the adult entertainment industry,
00:45which I actually explored.
00:47Really?
00:48Do you honestly think that I would want
00:52the father of my children and my husband to be in porn?
00:59Sorry to hear of an old loss.
01:00Oh, it's fine.
01:01Like, I know.
01:02I feel like it's made me who I am.
01:04Telling Darren about, like, all this stuff,
01:06it doesn't feel like he's judging me like most people do.
01:10I just hope that Darren's feeling the same way about me,
01:12especially because he's about to, like,
01:16get the tattoo of me, like, permanently on his body.
01:19Do you regret it now that it's done?
01:28The date itself with Bruno was fantastic.
01:32Guess who comes back in my mind?
01:34Bernardo.
01:34Bernardo.
01:36The fact is, Bruno has more of what I want than Bernardo.
01:39But, like, I'm still really entranced by Bernardo.
01:42I don't like hurting people.
01:43I would rather be hurt.
01:44And you stay sad, and you stay alone, by yourself,
01:48single, forever.
01:50Ah, this is not good.
02:03This looks good.
02:05OK, which side do you want to see?
02:07I'll see this side.
02:09All right.
02:18Yes?
02:19Oh, yes.
02:20To a beautiful date.
02:21Yep.
02:23Mm.
02:24Pineapple.
02:26I've never dated a woman as complex as Amber,
02:28and it's throwing me for loops.
02:31In the back of my mind, I keep thinking about how she has
02:34told Dolly she has concerns about autism and spectrum.
02:36But she wasn't up front with me, and I don't understand why.
02:40Singaporean women in general are very conservative.
02:42So I can see how maybe she has walls put up.
02:45She is protecting herself.
02:47Regardless, I need to move forward,
02:48but left foot or right foot.
02:53Mm.
02:54How's the food?
02:54Oh, that's good.
02:55I don't know what that is.
02:56It's good, though.
02:57These two are...
02:59A little bit spicy.
03:00It's chickpea.
03:01Chickpea.
03:02Yeah, it tastes like cheese.
03:03I love cheese.
03:05I used to have really bad diarrhea when I have milk.
03:10I thought it would be funny if it was gas.
03:13Gas is funny because girls don't fart.
03:15No?
03:16Which part of biology tells you girls don't fart?
03:19Oh, the polite part.
03:21That's very nice of you.
03:23Yes.
03:23Hey, right.
03:24I actually have questions I want to ask you.
03:28Okay.
03:29What is the wildest thing at the end?
03:32I don't know how much I can say.
03:34Just go ahead.
03:35I have a high tolerance.
03:36Sorry.
03:37Ah.
03:40I took a day off college,
03:42and I met my girlfriend in another town
03:44because we were far apart,
03:45and we had a fling in a car in a field in broad daylight.
03:51Wow, okay.
03:53That sounds...
03:55Sounds like something I might want to try.
04:00In Asian culture, we don't really talk about sex stuff.
04:03Yes.
04:04At all.
04:04Oh.
04:05But for me, I think a little differently
04:08because I feel sex is a very important part of our relationship.
04:11Yeah.
04:13So, follow up questions to that.
04:15Besides the car one...
04:17Mm-hmm.
04:19What's the most exotic place you've had sex?
04:22Uh...
04:25Movie theatre.
04:26Oh.
04:27All right.
04:30I think mine's in a public toilet.
04:33Interesting.
04:34You're making me blush.
04:37I am very relieved with how openly Amber's discussing sex.
04:42It makes me feel that she's into me.
04:44It makes me feel that,
04:45oh, we might have sex.
04:47Oh, I shouldn't have said that.
04:50I mean, I haven't had sex in a port-a-potty before.
04:53It sounds messy, but now I hope that opportunity arises sometime.
04:59I have a question.
05:00Mm-hmm?
05:00With sex, do you instigate, or the man instigate,
05:02or is it always together?
05:05It depends.
05:07Who has the urge?
05:09In Singapore.
05:11A lot of people view sex as a way for things like,
05:15I want to have kids.
05:15Okay, then we have sex.
05:16Not that many people actually enjoy the process of it.
05:19Oh, okay.
05:20So...
05:21I enjoy the process of it.
05:22That's good.
05:23In Asian culture, we have sex only after marriage.
05:29But for me, maybe five, six things.
05:32Because sometimes things just progress and things happen.
05:36Like, the kiss on the lips, it was a bit sneaky, but pleasantly surprised, I would say.
05:42I think I am definitely more attracted to Harold.
05:45But I am still concerned about something.
05:48So, we will see how it goes.
05:49So, I think we have had a good date, but I am not worried about autism.
06:00It is regarding, relating to offsprings.
06:03Oh.
06:04Yeah.
06:05So, I understand there is a high chance that our kids...
06:09It could be passed down.
06:10Yeah, it could pass down.
06:12Yeah.
06:13Um...
06:14With offspring, if it is an issue, we will be able to recognize it.
06:17Because I have experienced it myself and...
06:18That's true.
06:19And we will catch it early and it is not a problem.
06:22If we see them having trouble reading, we will get special tutors or I will teach them.
06:26And I think if we have more children, it will be less chance.
06:29Diluted, huh?
06:30Yes, diluted.
06:31Diluted.
06:32We might have one out of six.
06:33They already think you are six?
06:34Yes.
06:35Okay.
06:36Wow.
06:37I am glad Amber asked these questions because it shows me that she is taking our relationship
06:41seriously and we are moving forward.
06:43I am ready.
06:44Are you ready?
06:45Yeah, let's go.
06:46Okay.
06:47I also feel more hopeful now having learned that she is not as conservative as most Singaporean
06:52women.
06:53I see it as maybe she will be more willing to fast track so that I can go forth and meet
06:58her family to pass her mini-test and she will be confident and assured that I am everything
07:04that she wants, that she is everything that I want and we can immediately have a family.
07:11Honestly, I wanted an excuse to hold your hand.
07:13You were sitting across from me too far.
07:14I could tell.
07:15Yeah.
07:16I saw you walking to the room.
07:17There's nothing I can say.
07:18You picked me up.
07:19I'm running back to us.
07:20I'm here to stay.
07:21When you know I'll go away.
07:22Yum.
07:23I love a good luncheon.
07:24I'm holding back.
07:25I want you now.
07:26I wonder if you know it.
07:29Coming.
07:30Hey.
07:31Sorry, I'm in the process of putting this stuff on.
07:32Everything's on point.
07:33Okay.
07:34You are ready.
07:35Yeah.
07:36I will be once I put my other shoe on.
07:38My date was shot a couple days ago.
07:39It was horrific.
07:40And I'm really wondering if Dolly, if we're on the same page.
07:47Sean asked me how many men I've slept with.
07:48He asked me, like, my body count.
07:49You said that?
07:50Yeah.
07:51He should not be talking about a lot of these things on a first date.
07:52When I've heard of him, he didn't express that.
07:53I was like, I'm in the process of putting my shoes on.
07:56I'm in the process of putting my shoes on.
07:57Hey, Dolly.
07:58I'm in the process of putting my shoes on.
07:59Hi.
08:00I'm in the process of putting my shoes on.
08:01Everything's on point.
08:02You are ready.
08:03Yeah.
08:04I will be once I put my other shoe on.
08:05My date with Sean a couple days ago.
08:06It was horrific.
08:07And I'm really wondering if Dolly, if we're on the same page.
08:10Sean asked me how many men I've slept with.
08:13He asked me, like, my body count.
08:14He said that?
08:15Yeah.
08:16He should not be talking about a lot of these things on a first date.
08:18When I heard of him, he didn't express that he is wanting to find love.
08:24There was compatibility there in terms of value.
08:27So I'm going to talk to him.
08:29I'm going to tell Sean that he has to be better.
08:32Hopefully, you can help him.
08:35Of course, I'm still annoyed.
08:36But Dolly, I don't have time to waste.
08:39So I am going on my third date in Singapore.
08:42And I'm really hoping the third time's a charm.
08:44But I'm skeptical because she told me,
08:47we are going to the gym.
08:49And sweating on our first date is just not very cute.
08:53EJ!
08:54So this is Sarah.
08:55Hi.
08:56I'm Sarah.
08:57Pleasure.
08:58Great.
08:59We'll be going to my gym.
09:01Okay.
09:02And we'll be having a little bit of a workout.
09:03Okay.
09:04Yeah, let's do it.
09:05EJ is Singaporean.
09:07But he's a mix of Portuguese, Malaysian, and Indian.
09:11And has a lot to offer Sarah.
09:13Have a great workout.
09:14Okay.
09:15And I'll check in with you guys after your date.
09:17Okay, great.
09:18Thank you, Tara.
09:19All right, have fun.
09:21Let's go.
09:22Bye.
09:23Sarah wants a man who is masculine
09:25and who is the provider of the family.
09:27And EJ is a successful business owner of several gyms.
09:31And he's also a bodybuilder.
09:33He's also willing to spoil a girl, but not too much.
09:38You know, so he's just like the perfect balance for Sarah.
09:41And I'm really excited to see if Sarah is willing to open her heart
09:46and pursue things with EJ.
09:53So, here you are.
09:55Welcome to after this fitness.
09:57All right.
09:59Wow, that's cool.
10:01So, this is my gym.
10:03And this is where we will be training today.
10:08Okay.
10:09That's the cage.
10:10All right.
10:11Let me go and get change first.
10:12Okay.
10:13And then we can kind of start.
10:14Sounds good.
10:16EJ is definitely handsome and masculine.
10:19I'm a sucker for big muscles and tattoos.
10:21So, yeah.
10:23He's cute.
10:25He's an entrepreneur.
10:27He's easy to talk to.
10:29So, we'll give it one more shot.
10:32I've never done anything like this.
10:33So, you're going to have to tell me what.
10:35No, no, no.
10:36It's going to be fun.
10:37So, I'm going to be doing it with you.
10:39So, just have fun.
10:40Okay.
10:41Don't hit me, okay?
10:42Don't hit you?
10:43I want to hit you.
10:44Yeah.
10:45Okay.
10:46All right, shall we?
10:47Okay.
10:48My first impression of Sharon, I was like, okay, wow.
10:52The way she looks, she is, sorry to say, like, bimbo-ish.
10:57Maybe I just have to get to know her a little bit more.
10:59Okay, show the situation.
11:01To the front.
11:02I wanted to do Muay Thai together with Sharon today.
11:05And I want to show her my gym.
11:06Because this is a reflection of who I am.
11:08And what I do for a living.
11:10And this is very important for my partner to understand.
11:13You know, because your partner is the better half of you.
11:16And they need to understand what you do in order to support you.
11:19So that you can be better at what you do.
11:21And here's my coach, Danny.
11:23Hi.
11:24I'm Sarah.
11:25Yeah, I'm Danny.
11:26Nice to meet you.
11:27We'll go through some of the basic punches.
11:29Okay, facing me.
11:30Trap, cross, left hook with a right front knee.
11:34Ready?
11:35Go.
11:36Cross, left hook, right knee.
11:38Okay, nice.
11:39Okay, so the next one, what we're going to do will be a form of reaction training.
11:43Using your palm to tap each other's shoulders.
11:46If you've managed to touch me, that means he has succeeded in scoring the point.
11:52Alright?
11:53Okay.
11:54So maybe me and he, we can do one round to show her.
11:57Yeah.
11:58Okay, so from here, go.
11:59Alright.
12:02Alright.
12:03Okay.
12:04So that is the idea of the reaction drill.
12:06Okay, you're going to let me get you, right?
12:09Okay, ready?
12:10Three, two, one, go.
12:12I'm scared.
12:14Dolly is constantly telling me how I need to get out of my comfort zone.
12:18But I'm a total girly girl.
12:20And this is not my vibe.
12:22Like I like to chill and drink wine and talk.
12:25That's more of my vibe.
12:29I don't like that.
12:32I'm just also kind of like a perfectionist.
12:35And I don't want EJ's first impression of me to be watching me flail around and look like an idiot.
12:42Hit his leg.
12:46My hair is like whipping.
12:47Boobs bouncing.
12:50Yeah, it's so embarrassing.
12:52Hopefully this date gets better.
12:54If not, then I really need to consider finding a different matchmaker.
12:57All right.
13:02We're not done?
13:06So fill me in.
13:07What's been going on with you and Darren?
13:09We got matching tattoos.
13:11Are those titties?
13:12Yes, they are.
13:14He's not the same as that king?
13:15Yeah.
13:16He's got titties on his cast?
13:17Mm-hmm.
13:28Hi.
13:29How are you?
13:30I'm fabulous.
13:31How are you?
13:33Can I do two pints again?
13:34Two pints?
13:35Yes.
13:36Perfect.
13:42Excuse me.
13:50I broke the rules.
13:51I know I'm supposed to let it sit, but I didn't want to leave you out here waiting.
13:54Oh, no, you're fine.
13:55Let me get you a coaster, though.
13:56Thanks.
13:58Cheers.
14:01Oriski even tells me to say, sláinte.
14:05I'm so happy that my two American clients, Amber and Victoria, became friends.
14:10So is this your first time in Dublin or Ireland?
14:12Yep.
14:13It is.
14:14It is.
14:15Oh, awesome.
14:16Okay, so two newbies.
14:17Yeah, exactly.
14:18Okay, so that took away a lot of nerves.
14:19Oh, yeah.
14:21Yeah.
14:22Okay, now I'm excited to have another newbie.
14:23Yes, yeah.
14:24At least we're in it together.
14:25At least we have each other.
14:27I think it's very important for Amber and Victoria to support one another and feel that they are not alone in their exciting adventure in Ireland.
14:35So fill me in.
14:36What's been going on with you and Derek?
14:38Okay.
14:39We got matching tattoos.
14:40No way.
14:42I gotta see this.
14:44Are those titties?
14:45Yes, they are.
14:47Yeah, so you still have to keep the thing on still, but like...
14:50Stop!
14:51You're so funny.
14:52Yeah.
14:53So it's like me and then like his style.
14:55And after girls looks like me every morning.
14:57I know.
14:58You all right?
14:59I love it.
15:00I know.
15:01He got the same exact thing?
15:03Yeah.
15:04He's got titties on his calf?
15:06Mm-hmm.
15:09Darren and I have been texting every day and it's been really flirty and everything.
15:14And the more I get to know Darren, the more I like him.
15:17I don't even remember the last time I had this feeling.
15:20So I invited Darren to meet up with Amber and I.
15:23I really want her opinion, see what she thinks of Darren and like see what her view is.
15:28You look so happy.
15:30You're like...
15:31Yeah.
15:32I'm loving it.
15:33I'm loving it.
15:34Oh!
15:35I want to get a little ink now.
15:37Maybe you and Kevin?
15:38That'd be cute, but I don't know because...
15:40Would you get a matching tattoo with him?
15:41I would be scared to get a matching one with him.
15:43I'm starting to get confused.
15:45Why?
15:46I haven't really been speaking to him that much.
15:49I think it's because I went on another date with someone else.
15:52That Mr. Ireland?
15:53I went on a date with Mr. Ireland.
15:55He was such a dreamboat.
15:56And it sucks because everything that I was like questioning about Kevin are the things
16:01that he already has.
16:03It's easy for Glenn to be in the running right now because the communications with Kevin are
16:07slacking since he came to my hotel.
16:10Would you like to come in?
16:11Yeah.
16:12Thank you, Paul.
16:13Yeah.
16:14You're like my little heating blanket.
16:16Yeah.
16:17Oh my word.
16:18It is so cold.
16:21I'm very big on communication.
16:22He knows that I'm only going to be here for so long.
16:25And without clear communication, it's going to be hard for me to keep that spark once I get back home to Texas.
16:30And that really, really concerns me.
16:32I'm really annoyed and aggravated and disappointed in Kevin.
16:35But now I'm even more confused because Kevin called me and asked me to go on an overnight trip.
16:41And I just don't even know where this came from.
16:43What's been going on these past three days that I haven't seen you?
16:46I want to know that someone is really, really interested in me.
16:49Yeah.
16:50I don't want to question it.
16:53Not me getting teary.
16:54I'm such a baby.
16:57But I'm like...
16:58You cry, I'll cry.
16:59I'm sorry.
17:00Let me hold it back.
17:01My nose is going to get red though.
17:02Oh, I don't even have a tissue with me.
17:04With Kevin?
17:05I just want him to communicate better.
17:06Yeah.
17:07Yeah.
17:08Do you think that maybe you should say that too?
17:09Do you think it would make a difference?
17:10I think so.
17:11Good.
17:12Because you don't want a guy that's going to get offended by...
17:14Yeah.
17:15...and I know that he's not the one.
17:17Exactly.
17:18Hello.
17:19Hi.
17:20Oh, we're all on Guinness.
17:21How are you?
17:22Of course.
17:23Hi.
17:24How are you?
17:25I'm good.
17:26I'm Irish.
17:27Do you want a Guinness?
17:28You know what?
17:29I said I wanted a margarita because I'm Texan.
17:30But I'm going to do another Guinness.
17:31Is that a margarita?
17:32Is that a Texan name?
17:33Yeah, it is.
17:34Okay, I'm good.
17:37He looks nice.
17:38Yeah, he's super nice.
17:41Katarina told me the guys in Ireland move at a way slower pace than the guys in the U.S.
17:46But that's not true because Victoria and Darren got matching tattoos.
17:51I think they talk almost every day.
17:53They have conversations that it seems like are a lot deeper.
17:57It sounds like what I'm looking for.
17:59It sounds like stability.
18:01Two Guinness and an Irish margarita.
18:04That's a good one.
18:07So what have you done in Ireland?
18:09A lot of Irish things.
18:11I went to an alpaca farm.
18:13Okay.
18:14I went to a prison.
18:15In court.
18:16In court.
18:17Oh, it's Spike Island.
18:18Yes.
18:19I visited someone's parents.
18:21Like someone you dated or you just met some random people's parents?
18:24No, someone that Katarina hooked me up with.
18:26So first date that you got introduced to the parents.
18:29I did.
18:30Wait, have you time before you met them or that was like the first time?
18:32Like we went to the jail and then we went straight to the mom's house.
18:35Oh, my God.
18:38He's Mr. Ireland.
18:39Mr. Ireland?
18:40Oh, Jesus.
18:41Mr. Ireland, yes.
18:42Oh, Jesus.
18:43Funny.
18:44I'm kind of mad because I have high aspirations for me and Keevan's relationship.
18:48But he's timid.
18:51He's allowing another man that I just met and went on one date with to just swoop in
18:57and to woo me and to do all these things.
18:59And now here we are.
19:01But at the same time, our connection is undeniable.
19:04And I've been questioning if I'm falling in love with Keevan.
19:08I don't know.
19:09I'm praying that this weekend getaway gives me the answers that I'm looking for.
19:13Do you know Samba?
19:14No, I don't.
19:15I couldn't ask for a better date right now.
19:16But, you know, I'll be honest.
19:17I still feel a tug towards Bernardo.
19:18All right.
19:19Do you live right now?
19:20For her, I think I need a different approach.
19:21I need a grand gesture.
19:22And proposing is strong on my mind.
19:23Oh, wow.
19:25In Harold's case, Amber is definitely sensing his impatience.
19:26And that's not how it works in Singapore.
19:32Mom, what are you doing?
19:33I'm doing yard work.
19:34I just want to let you know I'm on my work.
19:35Mom, what are you doing?
19:36I'm doing yard work.
19:37Mom, I just want to let you know I'm on my work.
19:38I'm like, I need a different approach.
19:39I need a grand gesture.
19:40And proposing is strong on my mind.
19:41Oh, wow.
19:42In Harold's case, Amber is definitely sensing his impatience.
19:45And that's not how it works in Singapore.
19:49I just want to let you know I'm on my way to my second date
19:53with Bruno.
19:55Uh-oh.
19:56Don't be jealous.
19:57I'm so happy for you.
19:58Thanks.
20:19Today I'm going on my second date with Bruno,
20:28and he invited me to his house tonight so he could cook me dinner.
20:32I am so excited because the key to my heart is food.
20:38I came into my first date with Bruno a little biased,
20:43thinking about Bernardo.
20:45That wasn't fair.
20:46I think it's important for me to explore this connection with Bruno
20:49and a place that he's comfortable in allows us to get a little bit deeper
20:53and really see if our values truly do align.
20:56Hey.
20:57Oh, you're cute.
20:59It's cute.
21:01It's cute, yes.
21:02Yeah.
21:03Hi.
21:04You're so pretty.
21:05It's been a long day.
21:06I'm tired.
21:07Are you tired?
21:08Oh.
21:09It looks so pretty.
21:10Oh, stop.
21:11No.
21:12Aw.
21:13Welcome home, my guest.
21:15Very nice house.
21:16Yeah, very nice house.
21:17Come on.
21:18Cute.
21:19Please welcome.
21:20I love it.
21:22And the kitchen, I'm starting cooking.
21:24Oh, I love it.
21:25This is cute.
21:28Saude.
21:29Saude.
21:30Cheers.
21:31Yeah.
21:32Thank you for having me over.
21:35Another kiss.
21:36Monica, she's an incredible woman to see in the future.
21:44In the energy, in the histories, and the talking, and the kiss.
21:49Everything is very good.
21:51I love this, these moments with her.
21:54And I can, I need two more.
21:58Do you like cooking?
22:00I do like cooking.
22:01I prefer eating.
22:06What did you learn to cook?
22:07With my father.
22:08My father is a very good cooker.
22:10Is he?
22:11Yeah.
22:12And my mom, my mom too.
22:14My mom are incredible too.
22:16And I said, oh, I've been with Monica for the second time.
22:21And I went, oh, yeah.
22:22Oh, yeah.
22:23Oh.
22:24She is very happy.
22:25She is very enthusiastic for my life.
22:27Yeah.
22:28Yeah.
22:29My chemistry from the start was hotter with Bernardo.
22:34But with Bruno, it's gone, you know, to the point of great.
22:39I couldn't ask for a better date right now.
22:42He is just wonderful.
22:44Mmm.
22:46It's good.
22:47He's got a great place.
22:48He's making me feel so comfortable.
22:50I'm, um, I'm so happy to be here.
22:55Tell me more about your history.
22:58So I had my daughter when I was in college.
23:00Okay.
23:01Um, and then it took me eight years to graduate with a bachelor's degree.
23:06Eight years?
23:07I had to work.
23:08Mm-hmm.
23:09It was like scraping by, scraping by.
23:11I can't imagine all the things you passed through, but, uh, you are a very strong woman.
23:18You are a warrior.
23:20But now you, you, you talk to me, I have, uh, I have a company.
23:23I work with my mom and my sister.
23:25It looks like, uh, oh, he got everything.
23:27No.
23:28I came from nothing.
23:32A simple life.
23:33A simple life.
23:34And now I have, uh, a little things more.
23:37But I really am that guy.
23:38That, uh, simple guy.
23:40And now it's a very good thing to look into the past and to be proud.
23:45You are, um, winners.
23:49Yeah.
23:50You're perfect.
23:55You have been, have been best, all these things, and you are here with me.
24:05You're beautiful.
24:06Yeah.
24:07You're incredible.
24:08Not just to say.
24:09Not just to say.
24:10Not just to say.
24:18Yeah?
24:19Yeah.
24:20Yeah.
24:21I have a good idea.
24:22All right.
24:23I have to.
24:29Do you know a mustamba?
24:30No, I don't.
24:31I'm a professional now.
24:34Yeah.
24:35Yeah.
24:36Do you hear it?
24:37Mm.
24:38You're perfect.
24:40Don't say that.
24:42Mm.
24:43Mm.
24:44Mm.
24:45Mm.
24:46Mm.
24:47Mm.
24:48Mm.
24:50Mm.
24:51I'm not.
24:55Bruno, he is pretty much the man of my dreams.
24:59All right.
25:00I like to live right now.
25:03Maybe in a few minutes.
25:04OK.
25:06One more kiss.
25:08He cooks, cleans, he's smart.
25:12That's like ideal in a relationship.
25:15All right, good night.
25:18You know, I'll be honest, I still feel
25:20let's hug George Bernardo.
25:23And now that we're talking about him,
25:26I wonder how he's doing, and I wonder what he's doing.
25:28And yeah, I am so torn.
25:34OK.
25:34I will talk to you soon.
25:35Yeah.
25:36You can message me any time, OK?
25:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:38All right.
25:38Good night.
25:39Good night.
25:48Do you want a picture with the Merline?
25:50Oh, definitely.
25:51So there's this thing that they say, the wider you open your mouth,
25:56the better luck you have.
25:57Oh, OK.
25:58Look up, this way.
26:00Wider!
26:09It has the head of a lion, and a body of a fish.
26:14Oh.
26:14Because Singapore used to be a fishing village a long time ago.
26:17So this is a representation of what Singapore is about.
26:21I love it.
26:22On my date with Amber, we had an amazing boat ride.
26:25And she was able to point out the Merlion, and she pointed out numerous other spots.
26:31Did you have good weather like this?
26:33It was like this.
26:34But then with her, the sun opened up, the clouds parted,
26:38and it was a wonderful day.
26:39What about the first kiss?
26:40Did you do it yet?
26:41Oh, good story.
26:43She started to lean in to give me a kiss on the cheek,
26:44and I saw her moving in.
26:45I turned and caught her.
26:48From that, she felt opened up and was comfortable to talk about sex.
26:51I was like, oh, my.
26:52OK, I don't want to know too much.
26:53It's a private thing that she's sharing with you.
26:56She is something special.
26:59And proposing is strong on my mind.
27:01Oh, wow.
27:03OK.
27:06As a matchmaker, it is challenging for me
27:08when two clients have different expectations when it comes to dating.
27:12And in Harold's case, Amber is definitely sensing his impatience.
27:16Harold makes me feel very special.
27:18But Harold's really here on a mission to find a wife.
27:22And no one decides, like, their life partner in a few days, you know, to me.
27:28I think it might indicate immaturity.
27:31Maturity is a very important thing,
27:33because if I'm going to leave someone who is not mature,
27:36then everything will just fall on me, and that will be tiring.
27:42Amber definitely likes Harold,
27:45but she just wants to move at a slower pace.
27:48I mean, even the sneaky kiss, for instance.
27:50I told Harold to kiss Amber at the cheek,
27:53but he did not listen to me.
27:54He went in for the lips instead.
27:57That's not how it works in Singapore.
27:58We tend to take our time in any relationship
28:01so we can be sure that our partner is the right fit for us and our family.
28:06I really think that you and Amber have a great connection,
28:11and she had a great time, so that's a good thing.
28:15But I did check in with her after her date,
28:17and we have spoken about how that you are more sure and more certain that.
28:26Amber, I think it's important for you to slow down, enjoy the process,
28:31take time, be patient.
28:35Do you agree with that?
28:36Yes, I agree, but it'll be hard.
28:41I understand why Dolly wants me to take my time and to not rush things,
28:46but with my time limited here in Singapore, I want to leave with a love.
28:50Michaela and I didn't solidify our relationship before I left Prague,
28:55so I feel that if I don't solidify the relationship with the label,
28:58it may not survive the time apart.
29:00Um, so, another thing?
29:05She just wonders if you have the maturity to be the head of the household.
29:10Like, show leadership, and show you can take care of her.
29:16Uh, so, for her, I think I need a different approach.
29:20I need another different grand gesture.
29:23Um, but it doesn't have to be anything big.
29:26It could be a drawing.
29:27Maybe ask her to the United States to visit me.
29:30Something like that, and then she can meet my parents.
29:33Uh, I don't know about that.
29:36I don't feel it's really all that fair.
29:39Amber has been giving me mixed signals.
29:41She's the one who wanted to talk about sex and non-traditional things.
29:45So, because of that, I thought she'd be more open to moving faster
29:49than an ordinary Singaporean woman.
29:51But now Dolly wants me to pump the brakes and slow the relationship.
29:55I am more confused than ever,
29:57and I fear that I might mess up and be back at square one brokenhearted and just twice devastated.
30:10You've got something great, uh, with Amber, and you should just focus in on that right now.
30:16So, all these tattoos that you have on your arms, like, are you tattered, like, everywhere?
30:23Yeah, fully.
30:24Oh, fully?
30:25Yeah.
30:26I think it's important that he's open and honest.
30:29I like the bad boy look, but I don't want them to actually be bad boys.
30:32So, have you ever been married?
30:35Um...
30:36So awkward.
30:37Best first date ever, no?
30:38Right.
30:39Okay, okay, okay.
30:40Stop.
30:41Okay, so I hope you all guys enjoy the training.
30:42Thank you, thank you.
30:43Yeah, thank you.
30:47So, shall we go and have a drink of the dish?
30:50Okay.
30:51Okay, okay, okay.
30:52Stop.
30:53Okay, so I hope you all guys enjoy the training.
30:56Thank you, thank you.
30:57So, shall we go and have a drink of the dish and relax, so?
31:03Yeah.
31:06But before that...
31:10Aww, these are so beautiful.
31:14Thank you for being such a sport.
31:15It's so sweet.
31:16Oh.
31:17This was my favourite part of the day.
31:20Okay, anyway, I'm going to go and get a change.
31:22Okay, sounds good.
31:23Okay.
31:24I love flowers, and this is so sweet.
31:29After Muay Thai with EJ, I definitely feel like I earned that bouquet.
31:35It was definitely a different experience, but I'm proud of myself for getting myself out
31:40of my comfort zone, and I'm happy that EJ, you know, kind of helped push me there.
31:45Yeah.
31:46Yeah.
31:47Yeah.
31:48Yeah.
31:49Yeah.
31:50Yeah.
31:51Gosh, this guy is so beautiful, right?
31:52Did you do this for me?
31:53Yeah.
31:54Yeah.
31:55I wish I had a direct line to go on.
31:56Right.
31:57Me too.
31:58That would be interesting, right?
31:59So far today, I think he's doing quite well.
32:02But I believe if you want to fall in love with someone, you have to not hold back emotionally.
32:07And that creates a very strong bond with your partner, and it's more than just physical.
32:12I definitely want to get to know her more and see where it goes.
32:18So where are you from?
32:19So I'm originally from here, born and bred in Singapore.
32:22My mom is Portuguese, and my dad's in here.
32:25Okay.
32:26Would you ever want to live anywhere else?
32:29I do want to live in Bali.
32:31I also want to expand my business over into Bali.
32:34Can I come?
32:36I'll send you the email for sure.
32:38Okay, perfect.
32:39Come on.
32:40Cheers.
32:41What are we choosing to?
32:43Let's cheers to an interesting person.
32:45Okay.
32:46Cheers to that.
32:47Cheers.
32:50So what makes you want to come to Singapore to look for love?
32:54You also have really good traditional values and family values and things like that that are important to me.
33:01So family is a very big thing for you?
33:03Yeah.
33:04My mom lives like one street away from me, which is amazing.
33:07I get to see her all the time.
33:08We're very, very close.
33:09She's actually here with me on the trip.
33:11Nice.
33:12Yeah.
33:13Okay.
33:14But yeah, I was extremely close to my dad.
33:17And after he passed, I guess my mom and I got even closer.
33:20So yeah, she's like my best friend now.
33:22Both my parents passed 10 years ago.
33:26I'm so sorry.
33:27Sorry.
33:28Yeah.
33:29I mean, I was really close to my mom.
33:30Mm-hmm.
33:31Um, dad was mostly not around.
33:36So dad not being around, I had to step in and be working early at an early age, supporting the family, doing all grown-up stuff at a very young age, right?
33:46I think that built a lot of resilience and made you realize, look at the world in a different way, right?
33:53For sure.
33:54I love that he's being open and honest and vulnerable.
33:58I feel more comfortable opening up to EJ versus Sean because EJ just seems like a real, genuine human.
34:05And I think it's important that he's driven and motivated.
34:08I have also built my business from nothing.
34:11So I can relate a lot to this.
34:14So have you ever been married or close to being married?
34:18Yes.
34:19I was married about 13 years ago.
34:23Okay.
34:24Love at first sight.
34:25Oh, yeah?
34:26I saw her, she saw me, and we fell in love immediately.
34:27Really?
34:28But sometimes what you want is not what you need.
34:33I have had love at first sight situation one time, and it was the same kind of thing.
34:37I went through a really, really rough time after that breakup.
34:40And so, I don't know, I guess at some point I just thought, like, I'm never going to fall
34:45in love again.
34:46And this is kind of embarrassing, but my dad is cremated, and whenever I'm sad or going
34:52through something, I always find myself going over there and just, because it's really peaceful
34:57where he is.
34:58I just sort of like sneak in at night, and I lay on his little tombstone, and I just look
35:03at the stars and pray.
35:06Hearing her talk about how her father's ashes were split, and when she feels that she
35:11needs answers, she goes there.
35:13It says a lot.
35:14It says a lot about her personality.
35:16I think if you look at her face value, the impression will be a certain way.
35:21But I think if you ask the real questions, the deep ones, and you hear her talking about feelings,
35:28and emotion, and connection with family, then you realise there's so much more to her
35:32than just the outlook.
35:33And that's what's different.
35:35I'm happy I met her.
35:36So all these tattoos that you have on your arms, are you tattered everywhere?
35:41They're full.
35:42Oh, fully?
35:43Yeah.
35:44Oh, wow.
35:45Okay.
35:46The dragon extends from here all the way to the back.
35:48I know we're in public, but can I see it?
35:49No.
35:50Why?
35:51No, we're not in public.
35:52I'm shy.
35:53You're shy?
35:54Yes.
35:55Maybe we should go to a wish bar then.
35:57And then I get to see you put your shirt on with your dragon.
36:00Yes.
36:01Then perhaps you get to see me with my shirt off.
36:03Yay!
36:04That's what I want to know.
36:06EJ is so different from his appearance.
36:09I like the bad boy look, but I don't want them to actually be bad boys.
36:13He's so kind and gentle, and it's really opened my eyes to dating someone outside of my comfort zone.
36:19What about your tattoos?
36:21I have a butterfly, which...
36:22Where's the butterfly?
36:23You don't need to know where they all are.
36:28Maybe I do need to focus less on checking boxes and find someone that I can love and that can love me back fiercely.
36:36Okay, maybe Dolly does know what she's doing here.
36:44I'm about to go on an overnight day with Keevan, and I don't even know how I feel.
36:49Do you want to go on this overnight with him?
36:52I'm sitting on it.
36:53What a nerd.
36:54I'm sitting on it.
36:55What a nerd.
36:56What a nerd.
36:57What a nerd.
36:58What a nerd.
36:59I spoke with Amber after her date with Glenn.
37:01And I'm quite worried because...
37:02What a nerd.
37:03What a nerd.
37:04What a nerd.
37:05What a nerd.
37:06What a nerd.
37:07What a nerd.
37:08What a nerd.
37:09What a nerd.
37:10What a nerd.
37:11What a nerd.
37:13I spoke with Amber after her date with Glenn, and I'm quite worried because it is totally
37:30out of ordinary in an Irish culture to introduce your girlfriend to your family on a first
37:35date.
37:36He is very fast.
37:38This is a speed of light.
37:39And I personally believe Glenn represents Amber's love-bombing past, and Keevan represents
37:47Amber's potential future.
37:50I have recently met Keevan for coffee, and he shared with me that he has very deep feelings
37:56for Amber.
37:58So I told him to step up and make his feelings more obvious, because if they don't open up
38:04to one another now, their relationship is in danger.
38:09I'm about to go on an overnight day with Keevan, and now I don't even know how I feel.
38:18Do you want to go on this overnight with him?
38:22Like, at this point, I don't know what I want.
38:24I don't know.
38:27Everything is unclear.
38:29The fact that Darren and Victoria, they've done something so personal together, where
38:33they have, like, long-lasting memories together.
38:35Like, that is what I was wishing and praying for and, like, really searching for.
38:41For me, if I know that someone is interested in me, I have to talk to them continuously.
38:47We have to continuously build that bond.
38:49And it's hard for me to put my trust in somebody where I don't know where we really stand.
38:59Glenn has texted me every single day since I saw him.
39:01Like, he's been super persistent, and he's let me know, like, I want to get to know you.
39:06I want to pursue you.
39:09And I know it's not good to be jealous-hearted, but even he's been like, you know, do I need
39:15to come and get you?
39:16Like, where are you at?
39:19What guys are you dating?
39:20Like, he wants to be the number one guy.
39:25And I knew that this trip was going to make me emotional, but that's what's really making
39:30me feel overwhelmed.
39:33I know I have literally seven days.
39:35Like, it's my last week here.
39:37And it's just, it's a lot.
39:40It's way more than I thought that I would be feeling.
39:48Next time on Match Me Abroad.
39:51There you are.
39:53I want Amber to see that I have a fun and spontaneous side to me.
39:56So I planned a crazy adventure date for Amber.
40:00It might be the craziest thing I've ever done for love so far.
40:02Do you want to tell me what I'm in for?
40:05Yes.
40:06Uh, Hoi, to the airport, please.
40:08What?
40:08Hope you don't.
40:09Huh?
40:12I spoke to EJ earlier today.
40:14What did he have to say about that?
40:15Um, are you ready for it?
40:16Yeah.
40:16And also remember, I'm on your side.
40:19Okay.
40:20What are you going to tell me?
40:21The first impression that he had of you, um, was that, oh no, is she high maintenance?
40:27So where do you see this going with Darren?
40:32Um, I don't know.
40:33I think just maybe that, like, we're on the same page.
40:35Like, the same, like, vibe.
40:37If you want to have real intimacy in your relationship, the next step naturally is physical connection.
40:43And can you imagine ever making love with him?
40:50So what you been doing since Thursday?
40:53I haven't talked to you in so long.
40:54It's like, you know, it's important for you to have your space.
40:56I don't have all the information on why Keevan's communication is falling off, but I am annoyed.
41:04You've got none of the dates and stuff.
41:06You know, I wasn't texting.
41:13I don't think we are on the same page.
41:18I'm so super disappointed.
41:20This is terrible.
41:22This is never, this is exactly what I was concerned about.
41:25I couldn't think it is.
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