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Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 1 Episode 4
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00:00British couples are increasingly questioning monogamy.
00:04The biggest contraception of knowing to man is wedding cake.
00:10But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:14It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:18These curious couples are about to find out.
00:21Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:23They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:25Hello, you all right?
00:27Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:31Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:36...and a group of single, available and sexually liberated residents...
00:41It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:45They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:50Oh, jeez!
00:52...can become a reality.
00:54It'd be like the idea of group sex.
00:57I was wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
00:59...and whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos...
01:04Ah!
01:05I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.
01:09...and have sex with other people.
01:12Oh, my God! Ah!
01:14Wow!
01:15I was not expecting that.
01:17Wow!
01:18This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:29Already staying at the retreat are Alex and his girlfriend, Liddy.
01:32Hello, you all right?
01:33Hi, guys, you OK?
01:34Who came hoping to spice up their love life...
01:37OK, talk to him.
01:38Aw, that's cute.
01:39...by exploring sex with other people.
01:42But I am quite dominant, that's the thing.
01:45The couple agreed to strict rules where any form of emotional connection was banned.
01:50To be fair, I didn't think we'd got on this field, did you?
01:52No, it's crazy.
01:54...and kissing outside group games forbidden.
01:58We've had our rules, if he breaks them, then it's a massive no.
02:02But while Alex dated Holly...
02:04I think I've crossed the line already.
02:07...Liddy spent the night alone.
02:16It's the morning after.
02:17I'm worried that he's got a bit carried away because he's getting all the attention and he's broke one of the rules.
02:22I'll be able to tell her boys play as soon as he walks in.
02:33Hello.
02:34Hello.
02:35Stranger.
02:36Stranger, what's the matter?
02:38Nothing, what?
02:39You feel like I've been crying?
02:40No.
02:42Break any rules?
02:43No.
02:44So I just stayed up by myself.
02:47Kiss anyone?
02:48Yeah.
02:49We played spin the bottle.
02:51So you kissed more than one?
02:53Yeah.
02:54Did you chat about feelings or how you felt about each other or anything like that?
02:57Was anything deep?
02:58No, it was deep, but it wasn't all that deep, that sort of deep.
03:02Honestly, she's great, like...
03:04Yeah, but do you think you could get feelings for her?
03:10No.
03:11That's such a lie?
03:12No, I'm not lying.
03:13You just went...
03:14No.
03:15You know if you would or not.
03:16I'm collecting my thoughts in my head and you're thinking I'm, like, hesitant and I'm not.
03:22I don't know how I feel in the regards of jealous.
03:26I feel something inside me, but I can't pinpoint what it is.
03:31It's a feeling of anxiousness.
03:36She seems to have got a bit of the ick with me.
03:39Even if I stick by the rules, she's still seeming to get upset.
03:43I'm a bit annoyed that she's acted like that.
03:45Jealousy is a common theme in open relationships.
03:49And coming back together after the first night apart with another person can be a crucial moment for the couple to understand and learn how to deal with any emotions raised.
04:00Come in.
04:04Hello.
04:05Hello.
04:06So, did you have a good time last night?
04:08Yeah, I had a great time.
04:09I didn't think I'd click with someone like that.
04:12I've never laughed so much in my life.
04:15How is that for you?
04:16My main rule is no emotional connections.
04:18It's pretty clear he's picked one girl, got to know a potential romantic connection.
04:23For me, that's the biggest thing to me I didn't want.
04:26So, I do feel like the rule's been broke.
04:28An open relationship, for me, it'd be more sexual than emotional, so we're completely opposite on it.
04:36But I know for a fact I would never be in an open relationship with emotion.
04:40You say it like these things are cut and dried.
04:43Yeah.
04:44You know, and they're not.
04:45In consensual non-monogamy, you can have different kinds of emotional relationships.
04:48Most people who open their relationships don't have no feelings at all.
04:52And having a small feeling doesn't diminish your feelings for your partner.
04:56Okay.
04:57Within the rules, I'm open for anything at this point.
04:59Brilliant.
05:02In a few hours' time, it will be Liddy's turn to enjoy a social with the retreat's sexually open men.
05:09I'm feeling quite excited for the social now.
05:11I think it's nice that it's kind of my day tonight.
05:13I think I know how far she'd go with things.
05:17She might go past the rules.
05:20I don't know.
05:21But we'll see.
05:26It's a complete mystery, the whole thing.
05:27This is it.
05:28We don't know what to expect.
05:29It's okay.
05:30It'll be all right.
05:32Making their way to this unique retreat are married couple Jasmine and Al from Surrey.
05:38Al is very funny, very cheeky.
05:42It's just hilarious to be around.
05:44What do I like about Jasmine the most?
05:46Her tits and arse.
05:47Oh!
05:49God, you're so grotty.
05:52Just think if it is a few days away where you don't have to do the washing, the ironing and the cleaning.
05:57Aww.
05:58I've got it made.
05:59You have.
06:00Within the dynamics of our marriage, we are very conventional, man and woman.
06:04Oh, yeah.
06:05I do cooking and the cleaning.
06:06I occasionally clean and cook.
06:07When it suits you, darling.
06:08Yes.
06:09After eight years in a committed and faithful relationship.
06:13Am I enough man for you?
06:15There we are.
06:16Al and Jasmine are keen to discover whether opening up their marriage could enhance their love life.
06:22Show me any man that's stopped window shopping and I'll show you a liar.
06:27The biggest contraception of knowing to man is wedding cake.
06:32But also we're very confident in relationship, which is why we're happy to go and do this.
06:38Wow.
06:39Get me my new Hefner red robe and a cognac.
06:42What a lovely place, my goodness.
06:44And this is stunning, isn't it?
06:48Here we are.
06:49Here to welcome them are long-term open couple, Tom and Jess.
06:57Hi, guys.
06:58Hi.
06:59Nice to meet you.
07:00Hello.
07:05Welcome.
07:06Hi.
07:07How you doing?
07:08You all right?
07:09We're ready for whatever comes up next.
07:10Put us in.
07:11Dive in the deep end and see if you can swim.
07:13We're in the rabbit hole.
07:14We're going down the coal mine.
07:15Like, what is next?
07:17I'm excited to find out.
07:20Hi, guys.
07:21Come on in and grab a seat.
07:22Hi.
07:23Hiya.
07:24Nice to meet you.
07:25You too.
07:26So, what brings you here now?
07:27Curiosity.
07:28Yes.
07:29We've been to a torture garden.
07:31We went there as spectators.
07:34It was very amusing.
07:36When we went to Berlin, we found ourselves in a lot of very similar clubs.
07:41So, fetish clubs.
07:43Yeah, that type of thing.
07:44Just basically watched rather than participating in anything.
07:47Yeah.
07:48I think it's always good to push your boundaries and find out about other people's...
07:52All in your horizons.
07:53Exactly.
07:54We went to torture garden.
07:56There was a situation between a chap and a woman that was going on.
08:01And we were kind of watching it from the bar.
08:04And he's caught us watching it.
08:05And then he's like...
08:06And we just was like, oh, no.
08:08Ran away like scared children.
08:10So, tell me a bit about you.
08:13How would you characterize your sex life?
08:15Life got in the way a lot recently.
08:17So, that's not really lent itself to it.
08:19Oh, I completely agree.
08:20I think very much life has taken over.
08:23We slither into bed at 10, 11 o'clock.
08:26I'm looking horrendous with no makeup on, wearing some awful pajamas.
08:30He's there in the bed, exhausted, doing something to do with work.
08:35We kind of look at each other and just kind of grunt.
08:37I'm not someone that wants to sit and only have sex on birthdays and we do it missionary.
08:41If you're in a traditional marriage, you're in this for the long haul, right?
08:44Well, for sure.
08:45Yeah.
08:46And one would hope that you're going to have a good sex life for the long haul.
08:51I think that's very important, yeah.
08:53Okay.
08:54Yeah.
08:55Okay.
08:56Part of exploring consensual non-monogamy is understanding where your choices are so that you don't have non-consensual non-monogamy.
09:04Because infidelity damages not from the sex.
09:07So part of being able to talk about this is about keeping your relationship tight, even if you don't act on anything.
09:15Do you think both of you are equally driving coming to this experience?
09:20I am probably more open to it than Jasmine, by the sounds of things.
09:24But equally, I've zero interest in letting her down. Zero.
09:29What about you?
09:30I'm a prude British person and I've lived my life.
09:34And the thought of non-monogamy just springs up all sorts of emotions.
09:41So, tonight, you both are going to go on socials.
09:46You will have the option to have one-on-one time with somebody.
09:50And what you do with them is entirely up to you.
09:53But I'm encouraging you to jump in and push your boundaries.
09:55Because you'll get the most out of this experience if you really step outside your comfort zone.
10:00Yeah, we'll just have to see how it goes.
10:02Thank you very much.
10:03My pleasure. Have fun.
10:04See you later.
10:05Bye.
10:06Bye.
10:07It's clear to me that Al is more interested in opening up than Jasmine.
10:14But he doesn't want to do anything that would jeopardize their relationship.
10:18They're going to need to come to a comfortable place individually and as a couple if this is to have any chance of working.
10:26Am I allowed to snog?
10:28Do you want to?
10:30Do you want to?
10:31I love Alan.
10:32He's my husband.
10:33I think we'll learn things about how to make our relationship better and stronger and just be happy, essentially.
10:40What if I do Pecky Cheese?
10:42Pecky Cheese.
10:43You can do Peck Peck.
10:44I'm committed to Jasmine.
10:46She's my wife.
10:47And being married to Jasmine and keeping her happy is more important to me than fulfilling the lust.
10:55But Dr Laurie wants us to push our boundaries.
10:58Oh God, what have we let ourselves in for?
11:04What next? We are firmly down the rabbit hole.
11:07Oh yeah, we're in.
11:25In the bedroom, she's sharing with her boyfriend, Alex.
11:29So how are you feeling about tonight?
11:31Excited now.
11:33Lydie is getting ready for a social with the retreat's sexually adventurous men.
11:39I've never done anything like this before.
11:41I mean, if I'm single, I won't even go on a date.
11:43I just meet someone on a night out.
11:44And so for me, it is crazy.
11:47So?
11:49Have a good night.
11:50You have a good night.
11:51I will.
11:52I will.
11:53Have a good night.
11:54Lydie will see if she can create a sexual connection with any of the retreat's men.
12:00And then invite one on a romantic date.
12:05I'm excited now that I'm aware of the boundaries and I feel like I feel more comfortable doing it.
12:10And especially now that he's kissed girls in games, I feel like I'm open to kiss boys in games.
12:14By the pool, it's party time.
12:23Hey, you're welcome.
12:24Host Jess introduces the new guests to the retreat's sexually liberated male residence.
12:29What's happening, Lydie?
12:30Hello, are you okay?
12:31You all right, yeah?
12:32Yeah, good, thank you.
12:33How you doing, girl?
12:34Good.
12:35You all right?
12:36How you doing? You all right?
12:37Good, thank you.
12:38My sex life in the past has been very wild.
12:41I've been very open to experimenting, trying new things, meeting new people.
12:46I think everyone is a little bit kinky.
12:48Like, I'll say I like sex, right?
12:50And I will say I just do normal things.
12:52However, then someone will suggest something like, hey, would you be interested in swinging
12:55through the window in a Tarzan outfit with your dick out?
12:57And I'll be like, let's try it.
12:58You look nice, mate.
13:00Honestly, if you're a vegetable girl, you'd be a cute cumber.
13:02Do you know what I'm saying?
13:03Do you know what?
13:04You just got to wear that, innit?
13:05I like that.
13:06I like that.
13:07I like that.
13:08I'd be nervous here, mate.
13:09Brownie points to you.
13:10Just enjoy yourself.
13:11Oh, I'm definitely going to enjoy myself.
13:12Yeah, of course.
13:13You've only got a cocktail.
13:14That's what I'm saying.
13:17Shuttle in all right now?
13:18Well, I'm not going to lie.
13:19He dips his toe in, I'm going to put my foot in.
13:21See you later.
13:22See you later.
13:23I think it's nice, it's kind of my day.
13:26It's like loads and loads of single lads, and it's like I have the chicken to a roast dinner.
13:31Not met you before.
13:32Nice to meet you.
13:33Nice to meet you.
13:34Nice to meet you.
13:35How old are you?
13:3622.
13:3722.
13:38How old do you reckon we are?
13:39I don't know if you're one of those who look older than what they are.
13:42Oh, thanks mate.
13:43That's not a good start.
13:44Or you're one of those who are older but younger.
13:47I want to say 27.
13:48There was nothing good about what you just said then.
13:50How old are you?
13:5143.
13:52Oh yeah.
13:5331.
13:54Shit, I was like...
13:55But it sounds better now because I said 31 months.
13:56There you go.
13:57I think that he's fit.
13:59Like, jeez, she's a good looking girl.
14:01Like, I get on the same sort of wavelength as that.
14:04Obviously he's good looking but I just think his personality, like, I just think he's really
14:08funny and I feel like we get each other quite well.
14:10The boys introduce a game of truth or dare to spice things up.
14:15Truth or dare?
14:16Okay.
14:17Interesting.
14:18Truth or dare, big man.
14:19Fuck it, I'll be a first up.
14:20Dare to give Lydia a kiss.
14:21Alright.
14:22Lydia's only ever kissed Alex since they started dating over a year ago.
14:27That's fine but you can come to me.
14:28Of course.
14:29Hey, there we go.
14:30I want to expect you to get up.
14:31I can't get up, I can't get down.
14:32I'll help you out there.
14:33It's your order.
14:35No tongues, yeah?
14:36I'm just easing myself into it.
14:39I've had such a good time, I'm not going to lie.
14:42A little kiss.
14:43It was nice and kind of, I don't care who's watching.
14:45Alright, let's move on.
14:46Truth or dare?
14:47Truth or dare?
14:48Hmm.
14:49Truth.
14:50Who do you fancy the most there?
14:53Probably.
14:54Big man Lewis.
14:55Really?
14:56And I think I'm just doing what Alex has done and I think that's okay.
15:01I feel like now that it's me doing it, I understand more about how things can happen in situations.
15:08I think it's okay to let each other do that.
15:11Truth or dare?
15:12I'll take a deck.
15:13Yeah?
15:14Alright, dare to kiss.
15:15Give me a kiss.
15:16What, you come here?
15:17Come on.
15:18You come here because you make all the boys come to you.
15:20Hey.
15:21Do you know what?
15:22Hold my glass.
15:23I'll take that one.
15:24I've got you in here, you do that.
15:25Yeah, stand up though because I ain't bending over.
15:27Is it proper kiss?
15:28Not yet.
15:29Let me get ready.
15:30Shaking off, babe.
15:31Shaking it off.
15:34Good effort.
15:35Go on, big Lou.
15:37Sorry, I love you.
15:38Oh, yeah.
15:39Having the boys cheer you on is always good.
15:41He made me feel really comfortable and made jokes and stuff.
15:43It was quite touchy in the way, like, his arm around me straight away, like, here we go.
15:47Which I quite like.
15:49Game's over.
15:51Liddy has asked Louis for some one-on-one time.
15:55This way?
15:56Yeah.
15:57I'll have to do it.
15:59We both have the same kind of crack.
16:02I like he's quite confident.
16:03He's quite smooth.
16:04Because he's a lot older, I feel like he's got that lived life, this is how I am kind of vibe.
16:08So I'm actually buzzing, to be honest.
16:09But by her own rules, Liddy mustn't kiss anyone outside of a game or form any emotional connections.
16:16I just didn't expect to kind of connect with someone, even, like, just personality-wise so well.
16:22Yeah.
16:23I can see us vibing really, really well.
16:25Do I think anything will happen?
16:26I don't know.
16:27But, you know, who's to say?
16:28I'm up for anything, really.
16:29Where do I go?
16:30Yeah, I'll go for...
16:32How am I going to...?
16:33Oh, what is that doing in there?
16:35What are the chances?
16:37What are the chances?
16:38I'm actually opening this right now.
16:39Yeah, go on.
16:40Do you want some funny story?
16:41Go on, tell me.
16:42I'm fucking apes that go.
16:45Are you saying I have to massage?
16:46Go on, then.
16:47You have to go first, though.
16:48I have to massage you first.
16:49That against it, it's in our rules.
16:51I'd snuggle you right now, but I can't, because you...
16:57It's not part of your thing.
17:02Thank you, you're very respectful.
17:04But if you dare me to?
17:05Yeah, I would do it.
17:06I thought you don't want to do it before then.
17:08Okay, well, maybe.
17:09Yeah, could I?
17:10Just to get a kiss up there.
17:11I love you.
17:19Do you know how angry I was?
17:21How angry I was this morning that I heard that Alex connected?
17:23I was like, my rule was no emotional connection.
17:26You can't make that...
17:27No, I know.
17:28Because it's how someone feels.
17:29Because now look, yeah, yeah.
17:30Yeah, exactly.
17:31Yay!
17:32Are there the same problem?
17:33No!
17:34So you're not emotionally connected, like, there's nothing here, no?
17:36Would you say you was?
17:37No, that's not what I asked.
17:38Is there a spark?
17:39Would you say there's a spark or something, right?
17:40Would you say there was?
17:41Obviously there is, so you can't give him shit when you get the same thing.
17:43No, I know, but then I wasn't in the experience.
17:44Nah!
17:45I mean, like, I gave him shit for something that I didn't think would happen to me,
17:48and now I completely get how it has happened.
17:50Correct.
17:56I'll just give me a few drugs at the end, but...
17:58That's just me pushing...
17:59I'll give you some drugs if you give me a kiss.
18:01I feel like I had a good connection with someone that I didn't expect to happen.
18:11Did I push the boundaries?
18:12Yes, maybe a little bit.
18:14I think the journey into the non-menogment is a crazy one.
18:21I don't really know what to expect, to be honest.
18:24But I think if Lyd had an emotional connection with another boy, it would be quite hypocritical,
18:31considering what she said before.
18:33I feel like I was a massive hypocrite and I wouldn't have the right to tell you if you're
18:57a different connection with someone.
18:58No.
18:59I won't lie, he did kiss me outside the challenge, and I didn't pull away.
19:02pull away but i do start to think that game's just a code word because i do feel like you've
19:07kissed girls multiple times i kissed one in the game pushed him away so just didn't fancy him
19:11and kissed one of her so yours was outside the game mine wasn't i wouldn't say i feel guilty as
19:18such about last night because i don't feel like it's a massive rule break like in the respect of
19:24if we agreed no kissing and i kissed him and i'd get it but obviously he's kissed girls multiple
19:29times i don't feel like he really has a leg to stand on well sounds really no i don't no no
19:34boss sounds very quick to say things to me and have an assumption like this that and the other
19:40and get annoyed about things really easily but but then when you're in the situation you think it's
19:45fine if you didn't have the rules there would you do things differently i wouldn't do anything out of
19:51respect whenever something happens i've always got you in the back of my head yeah i just feel like
19:58sometimes not all the time it's just not reciprocated yes she followed the rules but she did get
20:03emotionally connected with someone she kissed someone it's definitely double standards it makes me feel
20:10annoyed
20:18keen to address the issues from last night is dr lori
20:22hello hey grab a seat thank you thank you so it's been a while since i've seen you and a lot's
20:33happened so what was your date like you know how yesterday i was very close off to everything i feel
20:40like now i kind of understand because i had a connection with someone i think there's definitely
20:45a bit of romance there which was my main rule not to yep i'm such a hypocrite before i experienced it i had
20:51all these rules and i i just think i was a bit out of order and i didn't give it a go you found
20:56somebody attractive and you kissed them own it yeah so how are you feeling about the fact that she
21:02did something she said she wasn't going to do um i'm surprised to be fair i'm surprised you're
21:09surprised that she did yeah because you were so you were so on about me um sticking to the rules and i just
21:17had a bit of hypocrisy with it uh so when she when she broke the rules it wasn't great okay so i'm
21:25encouraging you to think about being a little bit more open than that because it's better to talk
21:31about it and have permission now than it is to be asking forgiveness later yeah okay so i'm gonna throw
21:37out no rules and then we can just see what people do yeah i think i think this this scenario is always
21:42gonna go one or two ways though yeah okay i want you to go on separate dates and forget about the
21:50rules just have fun thank you thank you have fun couples can often get hung up on their own rules
22:02the whole point of consensual non-monogamy is to have fun and because everything's out in the open
22:07you're not worrying about deception i like your eyes and they're bright they're as bright as a bright blue
22:17thing i think as of today the rules are more open and free um so i just want to feel loose and like
22:26i could have a good time enjoy myself you can tell a lot of someone by looking into their eyes
22:31i'm excited after being with lewis yesterday i do generally feel like he's someone that makes me
22:38feel comfortable so i'm feeling quite good quite mesmerizing actually
22:49you are magnificent thank you tony jasmine and al are at the retreat to find out whether opening up
22:56their marriage to other sexual partners will spice up their love life when you see a lot of couples
23:01that have stayed together think that they probably got quite good sex lives generally i think that's
23:08something you've got to work on we're here to learn yeah we're here to learn i'm they might go into this
23:12and and find that jasmine wants to steer off and become a full-time swinger and i'm completely against
23:18the idea i think this is a nicer look yeah yeah definitely yeah dr laurie has arranged for the couple
23:24to go on separate socials do you want to kiss lips on my cheeks so everyone knows i'm taken she wants
23:30them to meet members of the opposite sex love you love you too let's go make a connection and invite
23:37someone on a romantic date excited and nervous to find out what it's all actually about you too jasmine's
23:46going off on a social with men i'm going off on a social with women that's a huge leap we're here to
23:52make our relationship better and stronger and i am willing to take part in any activities and you
24:00know who doesn't like looking to have some young men hey well hello how are we doing look at you
24:10al social hosted by tom cheers the hot tub party the hot tub pie yeah i mean wow
24:19is brimming with the retreat's sexually adventurous female residents
24:26the modern relationship is whatever you want and if that's shagging everyone
24:31or not shagging everyone or shagging someone in front of everyone
24:35it's then then yeah that's a modern relationship oh you have lovely eyes by the way thank you
24:40yeah they're very mesmerizing yeah i like to explore in the bedroom for sure it's not necessarily just
24:45about having one partner for the rest of your life and the hat vibe feeling it that was 2.99 down
24:52sainsbury's match yeah we have to oh god you look amazing how are you doing while jasmine social
25:06hosted by jess is in the drawing room and jam-packed with sexually liberated men you look gorgeous oh
25:12oh plenty thank you so do you well i supposed to be a long time
25:18yeah i don't wake up like this you wouldn't even recognize me it's a big transition i'm sure that's
25:23not true if you don't mind me asking how old are you 37. okay you look good thank you yeah i'm low
25:32mileage what's your type and why are you kind of right here yes yes yes okay
25:38yes yes i'm like augustus gloop going into the sweetie garden right and then you know like the
25:45next thing you know i'm in the chocolate river and we all know how that ended ice broken
25:51oh my god oh my god al begins to find his stride you have the south the south american look oh yeah
26:00you are owning that definitely the hot tub party is fantastic so what do you normally like in the
26:07bedroom it was quite normal to to be flirtatious to be honest you know it's only women that were all
26:17like ow ow ow ow what's the temperature like it's hot it'll be hotter when i get in there
26:27what are we talking about on the other side of the property i'm from southwest london
26:36we have a tw postcode jasmine is trying to flirt with men for the first time in eight years we live
26:43on the same road as hampton court what's hampton court remember i'm a northern eight he's what's
26:48the king of england yeah i know who he is i just got the way he lived it was awkward at times because
26:54it was a completely unfamiliar environment my goodness what made you actually come try something
26:59for like an open relationship you don't get presented with these opportunities very often and you know
27:04am i gonna like it i don't know but then if i was invited down a coal mine would i like it no would i
27:10still want to go yes so i see myself as down a coal mine at the moment whether i carry on being a coal
27:16miner when i'm back half in the open air who knows at his social
27:23hot tub hot tub hot tub hot tub hot tub hot tub
27:28owls going in deep cheers ladies
27:38so sex in the sea or sex on the beach beach all day long
27:43salty hard work waves coming in and out no that's stressful man tied up for being a tire
27:51oh wow that's a good one what about you um i like to tie someone up match
27:59the girls in the hot tub were all great i see potential with all of them
28:03would you rather giving all sex or receiving all sex giving giving giving well that puts you in the
28:11cheers
28:16they're just great girls up for a good time i could tell that i've got good vibes back from them
28:22oh okay
28:26there was a connection of fun a hot tub beautiful women what more could you want okay so would you rather
28:33either somebody licking your balls or your bum licks i'm going to say balls because all of you
28:41clearly don't want to lick my ass
28:42we all like him and he's attractive yeah yeah he and heightens like all our cheeky sides because
28:50he's so cheeky so i feel like that's where the vibe is like yeah we all just want to have fun and so does he
28:55at her party well that's a massive the necklace that's well nice they're big diamonds
29:06they're not diamonds are they still though they look good though isn't it thank you i like that
29:11resident rishi tries to bring jasmine out of her shell how do you bring your partner eight years
29:16eight years yes what you married we are are you really yes is the sex still good oh my god i'm
29:22just wondering it's eight years in it we have a lovely loving intimate relationship we do yeah
29:27but is it good oh my god the setup is incredibly liberating you've come to the sensible corner
29:35isn't it you're talking about the good song like my prude britishness yeah that's just
29:43never been in a situation like it before i was hit with a wall of the scent of man
29:49pheromones were really going up the nose my goodness i see my youth has faded away i'm just an
29:55aged old hag now now that i'm over 30. you can't say that that's an absolute lie
30:00what kind of music do you like i like everything um on my playlist i'll have anything from mozart
30:06all the way to drum and bass or whatever yeah i'm one of those people i might even have some
30:10bloody country music you do actually yeah country's great so what would you like if you were going
30:16for a dance where would you go out till six uh kind of late night thing i mean you haven't done
30:21that in a long time i feel like i need to revisit those days well i mean i'll take you there yeah
30:28leave right now i'm not joking
30:36as the evening draws to a close
30:40al's decided to invite not one but three girls on a private date i picked to lula precious and grace
30:49they're just great girls to go any further with anything you need to be relaxed and those girls
30:55made me feel relaxed collectively we're going to wear sexy laundry all right if it's going to be a free
31:01of us we might as well make a treat i don't know if you work out you look like you've got a figure that
31:06shows you do these bags late night really yeah it's almost sunny me it sounds like a party well jasmine's
31:12picked josh so i wanted if you'd like one on one time with me oh my god i feel special oh you are
31:18absolutely okay great i feel like we got on really well she's absolutely stunning and um yeah if she
31:25is open to things then i mean i'm most certainly open to things i'll pick this up later yeah yeah
31:31all right let's go come on i've been with al eight years boyfriend before that was with six and a
31:37half years of dating's a really alien thing for me so it's really strange having this kind of thrust upon me
31:55i've been waiting well married couple jasmine and al are going on dates with other people for the
32:10first time in eight years after you oh my goodness how cute jasmine has invited josh to
32:18join her for dinner oh so charming he's nice and he's easy to talk to you know i think we'll have
32:24fun we get the drinks started let's get the bubbly going it's going to be fun and al has invited
32:33grace precious and tolula to join him for some fun hello welcome oh my god
32:43yeah come overdressed
32:47going into the yurt with three single ladies is incredibly daunting
32:54welcome to your first night
32:56is gonna be interesting so um i've learned already to have no preconceptions go in see how it goes
33:09do we need to know the limits with your wife kissing's allowed right like a little peck here
33:13a little peck here and there take my shirt off blind for me spank me put all on me eat chocolate
33:19that we're in all i'm saying is i'm totally down with that if you feel uncomfortable code word
33:25yeah let's make a safe word safe word is beaujolais
33:34while al pushes the boundaries
33:38are you hungry jasmine's playing it a little more safe kind of so nervous by this whole situation i'm
33:46always kind of not hungry the adrenaline's really the adrenaline's going is it yeah for sure okay
33:52i'm interested to see what your preferences are on the other side of the streets
34:00that would tell me a lot
34:06yeah you're in the tropics right now oh wow honestly that's like being massaged by an octopus
34:12you're in a relationship of eight years mode two how do you keep that fresh if you don't mind me
34:28asking thank you dress up role play no no so what are you into then in what sense how do you like to be
34:38treated sexually and physically i want to know about you what gets you going what makes you
34:43haunt me um oh godness just envision yourself in this situation so we have the room dimmed dot baby oil
34:51comes out and you turn i give you a back massage and i start at your shoulders and i move to your arms
34:58arms and i work my way down to your waist to your bum to your legs and i turn you over
35:09and i start pressing your chest with my tongue as i go down to your nipples
35:14can you visualize that i don't know you lost a word yes my mind is absolutely blown quite frankly my goodness
35:29he's very nice very open and very easy but he was much more ready to dive into that whole kind of
35:37non-monogamy thing that i was definitely as jasmine struggles with non-monogamy
35:47can i pull this on and ask who's us i don't give a
35:52that is amazing babe that's dessert right there
35:58no come on don't be silly skin al is getting a taste for it good stuff kids love it i'm on my own in a
36:06tent with three beautiful women any man's going to be tempted this ain't your first rodeo is it
36:16i just heard like a dildo noise oh no nothing
36:22you didn't hear
36:23i heard a battery powered item no no no no no that's just that's just the wasps
36:27how'd that be dangerous
36:43oh wow
36:45tonight committed couple alex and liddy are about to go on separate dates
36:50on her first date with lewis liddy struggled to keep to the agreed rules of no kissing outside of
36:57games i feel hurt that she kissed someone else yeah rules at the time were to um just kissing games
37:03so uh the fact that it was outside of that i am hurt yeah as a result the couple agreed to get rid
37:09of the rules all together a big step in allowing this because it was my number one no-go rule
37:15because i don't want him to connect with someone emotionally i'd rather sexually
37:19now there are no sexual limitations that looks good thank you
37:29i'm happy my rules have changed it's just nice to be so free about things
37:33alex has asked holly on a second date oh look at it cozy in it
37:38cute i was actually quite surprised when i found out he wanted to see me again but
37:45i think because we had such a laugh last time i mean why would you not want to see me again
37:49duh like your trousers yeah i love your dress yeah it's quite cute
37:54it was pretty excited my dad with holly um buzzing to get to know him more why did you pick me but i
38:03didn't think blondes were yours like they were they weren't until you come along
38:08different while liddy is reconnecting with lewis
38:13i mean we've still got a dildo and a vibrant mate if they made a dildo though like would it be a
38:17fucking year last night we had such a good time i'm excited i feel like i'm there's gonna be no
38:22awkward silenced it's just gonna be left excited i'm looking forward to seeing that again yeah i'm
38:27looking forward to it whoa am i talking too fast no i'm just mesmerized it's all right carry on
38:38no you're not embarrassed no i don't be embarrassed i'm so like chill i'm not i'm not a twat
38:47you are aren't you well but see the fact that you're rubbing your eyes smiling i know you're
38:50talking shit because you're admitting i'm not talking shit at all but you know you know you
38:54you know like you're a flirt obviously i like holly's the connection's definitely there um it's just
39:00hours just fly by
39:05i'll turn that off as i don't
39:08what did you want me to say i like to say anything i feel like he is definitely conflicted
39:13i think he's kind of a bit confused with the full situation
39:16is that you trying to kiss no bother is that what you want yeah go for it
39:25is it go for it is it i feel like he's nice yeah i do like him but like i'm not going to make
39:32the first move and stuff like that obvious how i feel but i'm kind of hesitant because i'm thinking
39:38a lid all the time
39:52i genuinely didn't expect a connection which is what's freaking me out a little bit
39:55i actually genuinely enjoy spending time with that girl
39:57i have made like such a genuine connection and in every single way it's literally i'd use the word
40:08perfect
40:30alex and liddy were looking to enrich their love lives by exploring emotionless sex with other
40:36people come on in nice to see you again you too they spent last night apart in bed with their
40:45respective dates so how are you feeling this morning for here uh not gonna lie my head spaces i just
40:54don't know what i want anymore i didn't make a move with holly i was going into it last night very
40:59open and free um genuinely like what's gonna just go for it it was this wasn't really there was the
41:06opportunity this wasn't it just didn't like feel right i'm looking forward to seeing the idea but i
41:11just don't have a good feeling hello you're okay yeah okay hello you're all right yeah yeah
41:21so i want to start with alex how was your night last night um my night last night was pretty chill
41:30nothing happened at so whatsoever
41:36what about you how was your evening liddy my evening was good and i'm going to be brutally honest as hard
41:41as it is i've got my connection just growing and growing to like like it's mad and i do feel like it got
41:48a bit and a sexual vibe like a bit physical it's a connection that i've not had in my life
41:57after i've probably had it twice and it's not necessarily better than our connection it's different
42:02yeah last night i feel like i was very true to myself and with how i genuinely felt we literally just
42:09in a whole way we became one how are you feeling alex i feel let down but i did have a feeling
42:16that something would happen i get you feel let down i feel like we've both let each other done in
42:21different ways i feel we've both explored yes just because i've explored it more like
42:29like in action you've been a lot more open to it in your minds
42:37how are you feeling alex uh
42:39uh just definitely taught me things about us things that i kind of pushed aside a lot before
42:46and i just realized i think we just got better connections with other people than each other
42:50that's what it is yeah i i do agree
42:55do you believe you love each other no you don't think you love me no is that because of what's
43:01happened no no because i would have the same reaction to anything you would have done with
43:05them and if i if i truly loved you i think it would hurt and it doesn't hurt
43:12do you know what it is i i i'm hurt like i do feel like this is our breaker
43:15it's just for the best of both of us i think we can both be happier elsewhere we came here to see if
43:28it could make our relationship better and it just made us realize that we really care about each other
43:34but it's not uh well you can really care about each other and not have a romantic relationship that
43:40works i think i think that's what it is as well so that's what literally what i feel to order we
43:44we wanted to try and make it work but it just sometimes it just doesn't do you feel a bit like
43:49a whites off your shoulder like you can look almost like reborn you both seem to be doing pretty well
43:56with this yeah really proud of you and you've learned a bunch thank you very much it's been my pleasure
44:04thank you thank you i mean lid doing whatever she did with lewis it is one of this
44:15opening up was hard and it's just been a whirlwind of a time but it's been good because i didn't
44:21realize how much it would make me realize stuff it's just gonna be weird to be without you we miss it
44:27we will miss each other yeah of course it's gonna be hard we've ended with the relationship ending
44:32amicably and wasn't something about this challenge it was their relationship this relationship didn't
44:39have the qualities that they wanted it to have i came here absolutely fearing everything you did to
44:47do with a girl like i had mad jealousy yeah we've definitely grown we have grown a lot i'm definitely
44:54happy that i've explored non-monogamy yeah it's just it's just opened things up everything's so much
44:59clearer now i don't think this this situation would have done that but it has make sure you
45:04count them out so as well babe excuse me thank you babe anymore that's what i'm saying so i don't
45:10need to listen to your shit honestly i feel on top of the world with this whole experience even the
45:15outcomes weren't what i thought they were going to be it makes you as a person just feel strong
45:21oh yeah you know i adore you they had a chance to process and a chance to frame it in a way that
45:35allows them to continue to be friends and i think if this had happened out in the world that wouldn't
45:41have been possible i'm leaving happier than when we both came in we both are the word is free like
45:50we are happy it's sad but we are happy
46:04next time jasmine and al get more of a feel for non-monogamy lovely massage lovely massage
46:24and new arrivals l'oreal and khalid no i feel it in the belly because i'm wearing jeans
46:29a blinded by emotions are blinded by emotions
46:34they're blinded
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