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[FULL] Open House The Great Sex Experiment - Season 1. Episode 8
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00:00We're getting butterflies now.
00:03It's scary for me.
00:05Heading to the retreat are married couple hairdresser Tanya and window cleaner Ashley from Leeds.
00:14I hope people come and talk to us and we're not just kind of left in a corner.
00:17Yeah, me too.
00:20When we first met each other, it was just literally in the street outside.
00:24He had a puppy, you know, I'm an animal lover and I'm like, wow, perfect package, puppy and a man.
00:29And since that day, we just knew that we meant to be together.
00:32And then I moved in a couple of days later.
00:36And then found out puppy was nervous.
00:39He tricked me.
00:41So luckily he's got his good looks and charisma of ours, yeah.
00:48So within 18 months, we'd met each other, moved in, got married, had a child, done all those things really fast.
00:55But a whirlwind romance of marriage and children wasn't enough for Tanya.
01:01She wanted more.
01:03Tanya brought up the idea of having an open relationship and letting other women join us, which was a bit of a shock at first.
01:10I didn't know if it was like a trap to see what I would say, but it wasn't a trap.
01:14Tanya and Ashley have been having sex with other people for five years.
01:21I think everyone always presumes that it's the male that wants to push it on the partner, but no, it was all me.
01:26Much to the shock of my mum.
01:28She was like, oh, I bet it was Ashley.
01:29I was like, no, it was all me.
01:30All their sexual experiences with other people have been governed by one strict rule.
01:40We do everything together. We're always together. We've only ever played in the same room together.
01:45It's a nice honour, isn't it?
01:46But now they're coming to the retreat to push their boundaries even further.
01:54So we're coming in to venture off our own separate ways to have sex separately from each other.
02:01I'm hoping it will only strengthen further the bond that we already have.
02:06I'm hoping it goes that way.
02:08I'm more nervous with this than I've ever been with starting it from the beginning.
02:14Because we're both used to relying on each other.
02:17Playing separately is a huge risk because it could go wrong.
02:21And what if I do this and then Ashley becomes jealous or he decides it's not for him.
02:30Ooh, cute dress.
02:32Hey, mate. You OK?
02:34Hi, guys. Nice to meet you.
02:35Nice to meet you.
02:36Hi.
02:39Are you feeling OK?
02:40Good.
02:42Hello.
02:44We're both sides.
02:45Tanya definitely seems maybe a little bit more confident.
02:47There's definitely potential to play. I do like a blonde.
02:50What's your name?
02:51Ash.
02:52Ash. Nice to meet you.
02:54Tanya.
02:56I think I sense more nerves from him than her.
03:00He looks quite innocent. She looks quite feisty.
03:03Hi.
03:04Hi.
03:05Nice to meet you.
03:06Hi.
03:07I'm Ash.
03:08My God.
03:09The first impression was more her come to my eyes.
03:11And she looks chic.
03:13But, yeah, maybe I will discover something nice with him, too.
03:17I think I'm the more anxious one in social situations, whereas Tanya is a bit more relaxed.
03:23Emily.
03:24Emily.
03:25What's your name?
03:26Ash. Sorry.
03:27Ash.
03:28The guy, I know he's nervous, obviously, that's a given.
03:31It just wasn't really giving me the energy.
03:36All of the residents are gorgeous. The women are all beautiful.
03:39The guys, obviously, all look after themselves, so, yeah, a bit nervous now that we've actually met him.
03:44Yeah, my heart's resting a little bit.
03:48You know, like, the decor is beautiful.
03:51Wow.
03:52To help the couple navigate their desire to have separate sexual experiences...
03:56Hi, I'm Effie. Come in.
03:58...non-monogamy coach Effie Blue...
04:00...make yourself comfortable and sofa...
04:02...will offer her insight.
04:08I'd love to start with what brings you here today.
04:11So, we're already in the lifestyle, but we would like to open it up a bit further and play separately,
04:17so we're not in the same room as each other, so going off completely separate.
04:21Okay, okay.
04:22And whose idea was it to explore this world?
04:26I think it was Tanya's.
04:27Mine.
04:28Fine. Okay, okay, so tell me about this desire to separate.
04:32It's major.
04:33We've been talking about this for well over a year, so it's been, like, a long time that we've sort of discussed
04:37and been like, oh, what about this?
04:38Going through all scenarios and discussing it, but never actually.
04:42Mm-hmm.
04:43We're just not sure about how to do it properly without...
04:47Okay. ...upsetting the other person.
04:48And I'm worried that she would meet with somebody and then he's disrespectful or...
04:52Okay.
04:53There's nothing I can do to stop it.
04:55There's nothing I can do to stop it.
04:56So why is it such a big deal for you to actually separate?
04:59We do spend a lot of time together.
05:02Ash is very, very affectionate.
05:05He's quite a clingy person.
05:07He does need to be touched, stroked, and needs to be sat next to me all the time.
05:12When I'm at work, I have my earphones in and we just speak all the time.
05:16So even when we're not together, we're still pretty much on the phone together
05:19to sort of be around each other even when we're not.
05:21I do have a job, you know.
05:22I do have to work too.
05:23I have to remind him because he just wants to talk to me all the time.
05:26The thought of doing something else is quite a big thrill as well.
05:29There's, like, that element of excitement.
05:31Yeah, we really want to give it a go.
05:33Okay.
05:34Okay.
05:35What about if you get rejected?
05:37I hope that don't happen.
05:38Tell me about that.
05:39I would never get rejected when I go out because it's Tani that does the talking.
05:42I like a shield.
05:44A beautiful shield.
05:45Okay.
05:46So you go over and I'll be over in five minutes.
05:48So this is going to be a first for you?
05:50Yeah.
05:51I just don't know how to say to somebody, do you want to go?
05:55Okay.
05:56Yeah.
05:57Okay.
05:58It feels like there's a big challenge here, right?
06:02So it's beyond just the separating and doing your own thing, but there's a lot of relational dynamics
06:07that you're kind of stirring up.
06:09Yeah.
06:10Right?
06:11Like, Ash, there's a protective aspect of you over Tania and you've never actually connected
06:18anybody, like, first off for yourself.
06:20No.
06:21I really want Ash to go and talk to people and kind of overcome that confidence barrier.
06:26The whole experience here is to challenge you, right?
06:29There's a party tonight.
06:32So separate, socialize, and see if you can connect with somebody, right?
06:39Experience what you want to experience, then get back together at the end of the evening
06:44and debrief and see what it feels like.
06:46Go out there, have a great time.
06:49Take care.
06:50Yes.
06:51Oh, my God.
06:52Oh, my God.
06:53Look how pretty it is.
06:54No.
06:55He's got the bath that you like.
06:57Oh, wow.
06:58I think if I do pull someone and he doesn't, I think I will feel really guilty.
07:03I don't know where you're sleeping.
07:04This is mine.
07:05Are you sleeping in the bathroom, then?
07:06I think it's going to be a bit hard just letting her do her own thing, but I hope that tonight
07:19that I won't be thinking, oh, I wonder if she's with someone I don't like.
07:25I do, but you're in some situations, I don't know.
07:31Hello.
07:32Welcome.
07:33Already staying at the retreat.
07:34Hello.
07:35Our married couple, Charmaine and Jamie.
07:37Neither of us have been with, like, lots of previous sexual partners, so we want to
07:43explore that together.
07:44I feel like the social aspect of it will be the biggest barrier.
07:48I'm a bit worried because I feel like my self-confidence can sort of hold Charmaine
07:54back.
07:55Hi.
07:56How are you feeling?
07:59I'm feeling a bit over one.
08:02This whole experience is obviously completely alien to us.
08:05It's just a bit much for me.
08:07Like, I just don't want to go back in.
08:09I just wish they weren't so nervous.
08:11Yeah.
08:12I'm glad you feel a little more in this now.
08:15Yeah.
08:16I was wondering if you'd like to spend a bit more time in the hot tub.
08:18I definitely would, yeah.
08:19Would you?
08:20I'd like to spend a bit more time in the hot tub.
08:25Thanks.
08:26Ready?
08:27Yeah.
08:28After nearly walking out of this evening's social, Charmaine and Jamie are hoping that
08:35a date in the hot tub with Jen and Mark will be more successful.
08:40the idea of opening up, it just seemed like the right sort of thing for us.
08:44But my main concern is that will we enjoy the reality of it?
08:48Or is it something that should have stayed a fantasy?
08:53Yeah.
08:54I'm curious about having sex with other people, but I have the worries that I hope it might
08:58affect me in Charmaine.
09:03Woo!
09:04It's a bit of a dip.
09:05I felt like I was going to sink in the second.
09:08So I was a little surprised when they asked us to go hang in the hot tub with them.
09:13The way we're going to approach this is we should be affectionate with each other and
09:18show them that it is okay and see if that helps them relax a little more, see if it gets
09:25them in the mood.
09:27Oh!
09:28How we doing?
09:29You look cosy there.
09:30I know, yeah.
09:31He looks moulded into it, don't he?
09:33Right.
09:34Cheers, guys.
09:35Yeah, cheers.
09:36Cheers.
09:37Right, I'm going to give you a question now.
09:39I'm going to give you some spicy questions, see how you handle it.
09:42Let's spice it up.
09:43Let's spice it up.
09:44What's like your wildest fantasies?
09:47You can take loads of these.
09:49Next one's yours then.
09:51I like to be dominated.
09:53Oh, yes.
09:54A bit of power play.
09:55A bit of power play.
09:56I think that's probably because I'm so bossy outside of the bedroom.
10:00Yeah, yeah.
10:01So it's kind of nice to let that go a little bit in the bedroom.
10:04Sorry, I was playing footsie with you all this.
10:07I'm not really sure how it's going.
10:11We're just trying to gauge where they're at.
10:13Yeah.
10:14What are you feeling this evening then?
10:16Do we want to...
10:17Are we happy how things are?
10:19Chatting?
10:20Do we want to...
10:21I know that's a really hard question.
10:26It's a hard question.
10:27It is hard.
10:28Yeah, I don't know.
10:29Sorry.
10:33I'm feeling anxious.
10:34Slightly vulnerable.
10:35But I tend to sort of like hide behind me.
10:38How are your feelings brought to me?
10:40What time?
10:41Yeah.
10:42A bit of us.
10:44Yeah, I know.
10:45No pressure.
10:49I think deep down the worry is there that obviously doing this is a big step.
10:53Like, I don't feel like your relationship is ever going to be the same once you've opened up.
10:58Yeah, I don't know.
10:59I don't know how I'm feeling.
11:00I think I'm just very overwhelmed from the whole day.
11:02Yeah.
11:03Yeah, yeah.
11:05We couldn't work out whether they wanted to take it further or not.
11:08We certainly would have.
11:11Well, listen.
11:12We're around tomorrow.
11:13We're available.
11:14Yeah.
11:15OK.
11:18See you later.
11:21See you.
11:22Bye.
11:26I feel like the longer we leave it, the more difficult it is to sort of, you know, take that leap.
11:32It's something that we want, but I think it took me by surprise this evening, like, how I sort of reacted.
11:40That definitely held us bad.
11:43We are the worst flares ever.
12:01Jamie.
12:02Yeah?
12:04If you don't give a flying fuck, goodness me.
12:08I think that's what I find so intimidating.
12:13Like, everybody's so sure of themselves and we're just, like, floating around.
12:18Yeah.
12:19Charmaine is hoping that opening up her relationship with Jamie will spice up their sex life.
12:27I'd love to get to a point where we can be that free.
12:33Is that the goal for you?
12:34Yeah.
12:35But first they have to get over the confidence barrier.
12:38Both Char and Jamie are definitely introverts.
12:44I think that makes it harder.
12:46What?
12:47Opening up?
12:48Yeah.
12:49Like, in our situation, you're definitely an introvert.
12:52Yeah.
12:53But I'm an extrovert.
12:54Yeah.
12:55So that I help.
12:56Do you know what I mean?
12:57Yeah.
12:58If it was...
12:59They don't have that.
13:00If it was two me's, nothing would ever happen.
13:02We were technically still dating when we decided to try our first swinger club or sex party.
13:09We had our first experience on the Friday night, which was the threesome.
13:12The following day, we had a married person orgy.
13:14And I think from there, we kind of realised that we really enjoy an orgy.
13:21Lots of people at the same time.
13:23I would have liked to have kissed them both.
13:25Would you?
13:26Before Charmaine and Jamie attempt to mingle with the residents again,
13:33they check in with Effie for some advice.
13:36Sit down, get comfy.
13:39How did it go?
13:41I struggled interacting with people.
13:44Yeah.
13:45Which I didn't think I would struggle as much, but maybe I obviously rely on Jamie a lot more than I thought.
13:49You're able to maybe speak and connect more because you're doing for him a lot of the time.
13:54Yeah.
13:55And then you had to do it for yourself.
13:57It was a little bit more difficult.
13:58Yeah.
13:59Yeah, I think so.
14:00I think I'm worrying about what the end goal will be.
14:02So, like, how I'm going to take it from just a conversation to that step further.
14:08Uh-huh.
14:09Okay.
14:10Sliding from, like, social into sensual and potentially to sexual?
14:13Yeah.
14:14Is that what...
14:15Okay.
14:16I think that's what it is for both of us, to be honest.
14:17You decided on a couple that you're both connected with.
14:20Like, did you want to kiss them?
14:21Yeah.
14:22I can say confidently that, yeah, I did.
14:24What would it take for you to kiss them last night?
14:27For me to know that neither one of us are doing something that we're not sure about.
14:33Mm-hmm.
14:34Whether Sean is comfortable with this, that holds me back.
14:38Okay.
14:39And for you as well?
14:41Yeah, I think we're definitely in our heads a little bit with that.
14:44Mm-hmm.
14:45Okay.
14:46Okay.
14:47So, first of all, this is very normal.
14:52You don't know because you haven't done it before.
14:54Yeah.
14:55So, until you take those steps, you're just not going to know how the other person feels,
14:58because the other person doesn't know how they feel.
15:01Yeah.
15:02Does that make sense?
15:03That makes a lot of sense.
15:04Yeah.
15:05I want to move you guys from the social to the sensual to the sexual, if it makes sense.
15:12Yeah.
15:13Right?
15:14Hanging out by the swimming pool.
15:16Water's always fun.
15:18Connect with some couples.
15:20And then from that, you can, can I kiss you?
15:23Does this feel good?
15:24Yeah.
15:25I feel like it'll be challenging, but will you ever move forward if you don't challenge yourself?
15:28Exactly.
15:29Obviously, all we can do is try.
15:30Got steps to move forward with now.
15:32Have fun.
15:34You're welcome.
15:37Yeah.
15:38You've got to stop worrying about how I'm feeling, because I will make it known if I'm not feeling a certain way.
15:48I feel like everything is put on me.
15:52Everything's, I'll do what Shia wants, I'll do what Shia wants.
15:55It's sort of my day follow, isn't it? It's like blending.
15:58It's going to be years of, like, self conditioning that I'm going to have to break through.
16:02Yeah, no, I think so.
16:08It's crazy.
16:13Down on the terrace, the residents are kicking off a masquerade ball, in anticipation of the new arrivals.
16:20Ooh la la.
16:21Married couple Tanya and Ashley from Leeds.
16:25Are you completely done?
16:27I've got 15 minutes to finish getting ready, do my hair and finish my make-up.
16:30You need to calm down.
16:33Something hot to your next get ready?
16:34Absolutely.
16:35How's it going?
16:36Not really good.
16:38Are you scared now?
16:42No, I just wish that I would have had, like, an extra 20 minutes to get ready.
16:51The couple are no strangers to non-monogamy.
16:55But tonight, they're going to do something very different.
16:58I'm scared.
16:59You're all scared?
17:00Yeah.
17:01They will attempt to have separate sexual experiences, choosing their own partners without the other's approval.
17:08Trying something totally separate is over-racking, because we can't see what a silver person's doing when the other person's not there.
17:14And I'm not there to make sure she's okay.
17:17Yes!
17:18As ready as I'm going to be.
17:23I'm really excited to meet the other residents, see whether we click, who we vibe with.
17:28Yeah, absolutely can't wait.
17:34Obviously, there's always a worry about rejection, but I'm hoping that that doesn't actually happen.
17:38Oh, Tanya finds someone.
17:40She sort of goes off, and I just sit in her room, clock-watching, waiting to come back.
17:44It'll be pretty horrible.
18:07How are you going?
18:08Have fun.
18:09See you soon.
18:10See you soon.
18:11And with the pep talk out of the way, Tanya and Ashley are flying solo for the first time.
18:17Shall we grab a seat?
18:18Sure.
18:19But Tanya's not alone for long.
18:24What would be your one thing that you would do?
18:26Maybe two.
18:27Yeah, just to make sure that there's a good amount of foreplay and a good amount of equal, yeah, before you kind of have sex.
18:33So, for me, I'd really like to be able to see someone's face, hear their breathing, kind of see if I'm doing something right,
18:38and then vice versa if they're obviously playing with me.
18:40Yeah.
18:41Sounds like we like similar things.
18:42Yeah.
18:54On the terrace, quick to spot Ashley's nerves, Rochelle comes to the rescue.
18:59I like your little dimples.
19:01Have you only got one?
19:02Yeah, I know, I noticed.
19:03Yeah, the one's hidden.
19:04What do you do for the film?
19:05A window cleaner.
19:06Oh, yeah, vision technician.
19:07I like that.
19:09I think I'm the funniest person in the world, and sometimes I'm not.
19:12Yeah.
19:13He seemed a little bit shy, but I think once he's done a little bit more, he'll probably
19:18be a bit more confident.
19:19I bet you see all sorts.
19:20You see all sorts.
19:21I don't use the ladders.
19:22I've got, like, a pole system.
19:23Oh, yeah, of course.
19:24But still...
19:25I'm hoping Ash has a good evening.
19:31Hopefully whoever he's picked just pulls him out of his shell a little bit.
19:35Windy.
19:36Okay.
19:37Never have I ever had sex in a public place.
19:48That's what I mean.
19:49Maybe I had sex in a public place.
19:52Yeah, like, yeah, loads of times we ended up with, like, a police marker on the car.
19:55We got caught.
19:57So it taps on the window, and I wound it down, and it's like, you all right?
20:01I'm like, yeah.
20:02And then I realised it was police, and they're like, are you having a good time?
20:05Well, I was.
20:06And they're like, you need to leave.
20:08I'm like, oh, okay.
20:09Everyone's really, really welcoming and really, really friendly.
20:12It's hot.
20:16How do I choose?
20:19What do you do for fun?
20:21What do I do?
20:22For work.
20:23I'm a yoga teacher, and I'm vegan as well.
20:25Classic.
20:26Oh, really?
20:27I was vegan for about...
20:28Oh, really?
20:29...nine months, yeah.
20:30Oh, wow.
20:31Okay.
20:32It didn't really work out for me, so...
20:33At least you tried it.
20:34Shall I let you go, and you can mingle with some odd ladies?
20:36Yeah, sorry.
20:37Yeah.
20:38Because I've never really done this before on my own, it's been very much more of a struggle.
20:42How are you?
20:43I'm good.
20:44Bit nervous.
20:45I'm Olivia.
20:46It's lovely to meet you.
20:47I do.
20:48Is Tanya like your comfort blanket?
20:49Yep.
20:50Yeah.
20:51My husband, too.
20:52He's in there, and I'm like, where is he?
20:55I think I'm more nervous about coming out and just talking to people on my own.
20:58It's a social aspect, it's a bit, isn't it?
21:00Yeah.
21:01Ash is so quiet and reserved and not confident about himself.
21:04I definitely feel like there's some nervousness around there, like, the first time that they're separating.
21:10I'd rather have sex with someone than have to talk to them.
21:13Is that enough?
21:15Yeah.
21:16The whole night has been like, yeah, really nerve-wracking.
21:18It just feels awkward.
21:19What are you most nervous about?
21:20Erm, possibly that Ash doesn't interact with everyone and doesn't end up asking someone,
21:29I think.
21:30I don't think he'll be out there on his own in a corner, will he?
21:32Surely not.
21:45I don't think these trousers are going to go.
21:47I will.
21:48Charmaine and Jamie are getting ready for their afternoon social at the pool.
21:53I just don't feel comfortable in this.
21:58I'm kind of running out of options at this point.
22:02Oh, Miss, whatever you're comfortable in.
22:04I'm not comfortable in anything.
22:05I'm not comfortable going down there.
22:07This is the issue.
22:12I'm just not comfortable in my body at the minute.
22:14And that's really a barrier for me.
22:18I get that.
22:19I really, like, I can't tell you.
22:21I don't want to go in the pool.
22:22I don't want to be in the pool.
22:23I feel like Charmaine might be questioning what we're doing.
22:32Why we're here.
22:40Despite her wobble, Charmaine has decided to persevere with opening up their relationship.
22:45I think anybody that knows us would never, I imagine, that we would do anything like this.
22:56Sit, take a seat, take a seat.
22:58How are you feeling about Jen and Mark today?
23:00I think Jen and Mark are a lovely couple.
23:02It would be nice to get to know them a bit more.
23:04My only fear is that we've sort of friendzoned them because, you know, we didn't take that next step.
23:10So, obviously, it would be nice to see how they feel and what they want to do as well.
23:14How's your morning been?
23:16What have you been up to?
23:17It's been very up and down, I'm going to be honest, hasn't it?
23:19I did?
23:20Oh, OK.
23:21Yeah, we're both a bit emotional today.
23:22We've struggled a lot with the social aspect of it more than anything.
23:26Yeah, yeah, yeah.
23:27Yeah.
23:28I sort of try and blend in and sort of hide in the corner.
23:31Probably not giving the right sippies to what I'm saying.
23:34I think, actually, your quietness and your sort of shine is actually really endearing.
23:40No, thank you.
23:41I know it is quite hard, like, trying to step things forward.
23:45What do you feel about, like, playing games and stuff like that?
23:47Yeah, no, I'm not opposed to it.
23:48I think that's what we need.
23:50Yeah?
23:51Give us a good spin.
23:52Hey!
23:53Jamie?
23:54I think you should snog Lily, my fiancée.
24:00It was my idea to open up our relationship,
24:04and Jamie was sort of very apprehensive, but very quickly curiosity took over.
24:12Is that all right?
24:13Yeah, I'm OK.
24:14Yeah.
24:15I need to see this.
24:16I need a good view, guys.
24:24Yay!
24:25That was a good one, guys.
24:26Good one.
24:27I think that was the sort of icebreaker that we needed to sort of throw us in a little bit
24:39more.
24:40Me and Shabalai.
24:41With Jamie taking the first step, the residents are keen to turn up the heat.
24:46Does anyone want to get in the pool?
24:47I'm ready to go.
24:48Let's get in.
24:49It's actually lovely and warm.
24:56I'm starting to feel a bit more confident and sure of myself.
24:59I feel good.
25:06All right, beach ball keep the happy game.
25:08You snogged the last person that touched it before you.
25:15That's one of you two.
25:16That's one of you two.
25:25Seeing Charmaine with another man, it's quite uncomfortable for me.
25:29But I do want us to share the same experiences.
25:32Why is it sexier in the pool?
25:46Kissing everyone was good.
25:47It was good to sort of come away from that feeling good about myself.
25:54Jamie and Charmaine's kissing game is...
25:56Yeah, she was a great kisser.
25:57I think at the end we had a little circle where it was kiss somebody that you hadn't kissed.
26:07I think that went better than I expected.
26:10I think Jamie and Charmaine really opened up a little more.
26:15Yeah.
26:16They really came out of the shell a bit more today, didn't they?
26:18They're both really good kissers.
26:19I mean, I didn't kiss Jamie, but...
26:21She...
26:23She has beautiful lips.
26:24Charmaine's a great kisser, yeah.
26:25Yeah.
26:26Three way!
26:27Oh!
26:28Yeah, baby!
26:29We had a great time in the pool.
26:30I'm proud that we managed to get past the many blips that we have had so far in the retreat.
26:37Yeah, we thought we finally broke that barrier of our touching.
26:40So it was a really positive experience for us.
26:42Yeah.
26:44The couple have agreed to meet Jen and Mark in a more intimate setting later this evening,
26:49as they looked to build on their experience in the pool.
26:53We were both interested in a date.
26:55It was good to get a bit back and I think that's what we needed from them, really.
26:59Yeah.
27:00Last night I made sure I reserved some of my energy back.
27:03Yeah.
27:04We could maybe relax a little bit and just be ourselves a little more because, yeah,
27:07they've kind of softened now a bit.
27:17At the Masquerade Social, Tanya is going down well with the residents.
27:21Yeah.
27:22What would be the ideal scenario?
27:23What would be the ideal scenario?
27:24Probably, like, everyone.
27:25I'd just sit in the middle.
27:26So we're naughty then!
27:31But Gage is keen to secure top spot.
27:34Hi!
27:35Hey!
27:36I bet it's been a notch of whirlwind from walking down when we first saw you.
27:40Yeah.
27:41And he's not the only one.
27:44Can I just try something?
27:45What would you like?
27:51I like your little moan.
27:57Now you know how to give French kiss.
28:00Yeah!
28:01That's my first French kiss!
28:02Awesome!
28:03Yeah.
28:04Yeah.
28:05Do you feel confident that you've kind of got your hand on somebody or...?
28:09There's a few...
28:10I've narrowed it down to like six.
28:11Six.
28:16Do you feel, like, confident that you can just go in and go,
28:18I'm ready for this or do you need someone that's, like, done it before?
28:24I don't want someone who's not done this before.
28:26Yeah.
28:27Because, obviously, I do want some guidance.
28:29I feel like you're going to light my comfort blanket now.
28:31I'm sorry!
28:33You go...
28:34Is this you asking me back, is it?
28:35Potentially.
28:36Yeah.
28:37I'm interested.
28:38I'm definitely interested.
28:39Yeah, I'm definitely interested.
28:40You're not going to reject...
28:41I'm not going to reject you, no.
28:42Because if you do, honestly, I'll hunt you down.
28:43No, no, no.
28:44No, but I am interested, yeah.
28:45Okay.
28:46When you make that initial attraction with somebody, you can make the eye contact and you get the vibe,
28:57and I feel like we've both definitely had that.
28:59I feel like I'm having the most successful night out of me and Ash, but I've not slept with him.
29:12You down for it?
29:13Yeah.
29:14Yeah, me too.
29:15There we go.
29:16I don't want these to go gross.
29:17Just colour it.
29:18No one will know.
29:19Do you colour it?
29:20No.
29:21No.
29:22Hi.
29:23Hello.
29:24Nice to meet you.
29:25Am I okay to buy a tan?
29:26No, absolutely, yeah, yeah.
29:27Yes, I'll see you soon.
29:28Any good time?
29:29Yeah.
29:30I was so nervous when I first came in, but...
29:31Yeah.
29:32I was so nervous when I first came in, but...
29:33Yeah.
29:34Yeah.
29:35I was so nervous when I first came in, but...
29:36Yeah.
29:37Yeah.
29:38Yeah.
29:39Yeah.
29:40Yeah.
29:41Yeah.
29:42Yeah.
29:43Yeah.
29:44I was so nervous when I first came in, but...
29:46Not as bad as me.
29:47Now I feel okay.
29:48I think I've spoken to every single woman here now, but...
29:50Yeah.
29:51It was pretty hard, but...
29:52You clicked with anyone?
29:53No.
29:54I really struggle to narrow it down.
29:56I've narrowed it down now.
29:57Who?
29:58Gage.
29:59We clicked together so well.
30:01Okay.
30:02How do you feel?
30:03I feel a bit more nervous now, knowing that you're going to be going off without me there.
30:09Bit scared.
30:10Not going to see you pretty much after this conversation.
30:13Yeah.
30:14Yeah.
30:15I felt just like a bit more thrown off that Tanya's gone and asked somebody first.
30:19Would you ask anybody?
30:20Have you had that discussion?
30:21No, no.
30:22No?
30:23No.
30:24I believe that having found out that I have actually, yes, I've clicked and I've chosen
30:28someone, I think that was going to be like a kick up the bum, like, oh, I've actually
30:32got to ask a woman now.
30:34You need to do this by yourself.
30:36Right.
30:37A little part of me is thinking, you know, if Tanya enjoys this, that might be what she
30:42wants to do more and more often.
30:43But it might not be my thing.
30:45So that might throw our relationship a bit.
30:47See you soon.
30:48Yeah, it's just a bit scary what might happen next.
30:55If I put heels on, I should, shouldn't I?
31:02This evening, Charmaine and Jamie have invited Jen and Mark for a second date.
31:08You have to get on the floor.
31:10No.
31:11But after a few hurdles, will the couple embrace the full opening up experience?
31:16I feel like we've already broken past quite a few mental barriers now and hopefully this
31:21evening we can break past a few more.
31:24Ready?
31:30I feel excited about this evening.
31:31So I think it's a good, a good way to see our experiment going a little bit further.
31:36Perhaps, maybe.
31:38She's a good choice.
31:40I'll have the margarita.
31:41Margarita?
31:42Yeah.
31:43Don't need to complain.
31:44Now you've got to re-rim the glass.
31:46Don't spill it.
31:52To help Charmaine and Jamie progress from social to sexual, the couple start up a game of truth
31:58or dare.
31:59Who wants to roll first?
32:00I quite like it, yeah.
32:02Truth.
32:03Go on.
32:04Was you always okay introducing another guy?
32:07He only kind of got into this because I was interested in seeing Jen with another guy.
32:12It was never the other way around.
32:14Jamie, you're not necessarily turned on by the idea of me with another man.
32:18I like the idea of you enjoying yourself.
32:20Yeah.
32:21Yeah, that's what I'm like.
32:22I'm still like that now.
32:24But also, like, how many times are you going to be watching?
32:28Not that you're going to be busy.
32:30Yeah, you're going to be busy as well.
32:32Well, I mean, that's to start with, eventually.
32:35I'd like to give Charmaine that fantasy of, like, introducing other guys.
32:41You choose.
32:42You choose.
32:43Are you picking your own dare?
32:46Lick a neck.
32:48Lick a neck.
32:49Lick a neck.
32:50Lick a neck.
32:52Feelable for like Niki.
32:54Oh!
32:56Goosebumps.
32:58Ooh.
32:59Oh, okay.
33:00Guys.
33:01I've been so horny all the time.
33:03This is killing me.
33:09You choose.
33:10Okay, let's go dare.
33:12Okay, kiss.
33:14Kiss what?
33:15Char, I guess.
33:16Not me.
33:17sure might look like she was enjoying herself that's the goal if she's enjoying herself then
33:33I'm okay with it it's nice with the game nearing its end there is one final question
33:47putting Charmaine and Jamie on the spot once and for all say what you want for tonight
33:57that is tough guys that is tough that is tough we can shut our eyes if you want no pressure no
34:03pressure do you know what though we came into this evening with like no real expectations we've said
34:09that all along haven't we we just wanted to see how obviously things went that's a really boring
34:13answer but yeah what about you again no expectations I mean I'm liking the vibe and
34:19yeah yeah I just but what not talking expectations what do you want to happen
34:28just like a minute to check in with each other yes again faced with the ultimate question can the pair
34:41take the leap and have sex with another couple obviously I really like Jen and Mark I will be
34:49somewhat disappointed if we don't but
34:52myself
34:57Charmaine and Jamie are considering whether or not to open up their relationship
35:20with Jen and Mark how do you feel I will not get into it one that you don't feel confident
35:30you're okay yeah no we've had a discussion and obviously we both think that you are we're both attracted to both of you basically I feel like it's my own confidence still holding me back okay yeah yeah oh okay oh babes you're gorgeous
35:48thank you I just wanted to make sure it was on the table if you wanted it yeah no because I know that's it's helpful to know isn't it so
36:06yes is a lot
36:10should you go to the room
36:12thank you
36:13nice to meet you guys
36:14see you later
36:16thank you see you guys see you later
36:18bye
36:20I don't know what's going on in Jamie and Char's head they seem to want to take that next step just something's holding them back and I
36:28it's hard to say what it is I don't think they're ready to open their relationship no not right now I
36:38I'd like them to be but they're not I don't think
36:42I really can't do this
36:56I think this whole experience has been an emotional roller coaster
37:04however I'm glad that we've done it because I think
37:10we've got a lot to take away from the retreat
37:28Tanya has left tonight's social with her date for the evening
37:32leaving husband Ashley to find his own partner for the night
37:36I'm more nervous now without having Tanya there to sort of help me out
37:42and whilst Gage tends to Tanya's needs his wife Olivia is also left alone on the terrace
37:48you alright? yeah I'm good how are you? I'm good
37:52it's got all really quiet
37:54I know
37:56this Prosecco's nice
37:58on the Prosecco or the Nosecco?
38:00no it's the Nosecco
38:02which one are you? have you had yours?
38:04I've had mine yeah
38:08I wonder if you wanted to go spend a bit more time together
38:12yeah I would like to get to know you more
38:14yeah that's good to hear
38:16do you want to sit down? yeah I'll sit down yeah
38:18oh I've lost my shoe
38:20what do you do for work?
38:22I'm a cabbie crew
38:24oh really? fly around?
38:25fly around
38:26oh my god my worst nightmare
38:28why is it your worst nightmare?
38:30like really bad
38:32taking my shoes off
38:33yeah take your shoes off
38:34let's get let's get comfortable
38:36meanwhile in the bedroom Tanya's all for reaching new heights
38:40this is like immense
38:42so I'm gonna go and I'm gonna sleep with someone
38:44and Ash is not gonna be there
38:46now I'm gonna do this on my own
38:48it's crazy
38:50yeah
38:57that's better
38:58it's been sexy innit?
38:59yeah
39:00I'm hoping that everything goes okay with Ash
39:02and that this doesn't cause any issues in our relationship
39:11what do you want to do now then?
39:13do you want to have chats?
39:15do you want to...
39:16do you want to have fun?
39:17you can go to the urt if the urt's available
39:19let's go
39:24Olivia's really outgoing and confident
39:26whereas I'm a bit more reserved and shy
39:29so I don't know
39:30see how it goes
39:35oh it's nice
39:38oh it looks so big
39:40you are good?
39:45yep
39:46it's our very first time being separate from each of us
39:49so I'm trying to put out my mind what Tanya's doing right now
39:52I'm out
39:53I'm out
39:54I'm out
39:55I'm out
39:56I'm out
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