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Open House- The Great Sex Experiment - Season 3 ep 2 - love island season 7
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00:00Oh, he's so fit. Anyone who looks like a drummer.
00:08I ended up cheating.
00:11OK.
00:12And tan.
00:13I caught him red-handed.
00:15So this is about trust, right? You gotta lean into that.
00:18I am here to collect your mark, if that's OK.
00:21Take good care of everything.
00:22Yes.
00:23Enjoy yourself. Love you, Blake.
00:24Love you.
00:25It's a bit weird. My partner's gone now, but I'm sure he's in good hands.
00:29Oh, wow!
00:31Yeah!
00:32Did you want to, like, continue this, maybe somewhere a bit more private?
00:37I guess our vibe's not, like, the same.
00:40I'm gonna head up, but it's been lovely. I just had to see you all go.
00:44I just decided to call it a night, really, because I didn't feel that connection with anyone, to, like, go any further.
00:55Come get on the bed.
00:56Yeah.
00:57Something that would be difficult for me in this is definitely if one of us did something and the other didn't.
01:02No!
01:05Oh, girl.
01:06Having fun?
01:07Having fun?
01:08Oh, my god.
01:19Oh, my god.
01:23Oh, my god.
01:25Oh, i'm gonna come.
01:26Yes.
01:27Oh, my God.
01:29Oh, fuck, Mark.
01:32Oh, I'm going to come.
01:33Yes, Lily.
01:34Oh, great view, guys.
01:38Yeah, really nice.
01:43Mark has just spent three hours in the yurt with four female residents.
01:48I think, yeah, I've probably been living every guy's dream.
01:52To have been embracing, you know, four attractive-looking women on my own,
01:56being involved in that, it was a bit of an eye-opener for me.
01:59It's been fantastic, yeah.
02:06Unaware his girlfriend, Tanith, turned in early,
02:09Mark's heading back to their room to swap notes.
02:17Damn.
02:19God's sake.
02:20Oh.
02:22You OK?
02:23Yeah.
02:23Did you have some fun?
02:25Yeah.
02:26Did you?
02:27Yeah, no.
02:28I didn't go back with anyone or anything, just, yeah, I came back here.
02:31Did you?
02:31Yeah, yeah.
02:32How long have you been back?
02:34Ages.
02:35A bit.
02:38Yeah, did you go?
02:39Yeah.
02:40What are you feeling about it?
02:41What's this?
02:43What?
02:43What was this?
02:45Four.
02:46Are you joking?
02:47No.
02:48Oh, gosh.
02:51Are you joking?
02:51No, I'm joking.
02:52I'm watching.
02:53With four, four girls.
02:56It's pretty much, yeah.
02:58Oh, my God.
02:59I'm doing well.
03:01Oh, my God.
03:02I don't know.
03:03I've been humiliated.
03:05I don't feel good.
03:14It's like, you know, if you could...
03:16If I knew she were going to feel like that before, you know, I would have never done it.
03:20What's making you so upset like this?
03:28Tell me.
03:29Tell me.
03:30I'm like, straight, I guess.
03:33I guess that's what I'm worried about, is you leaving me, or, you know, I think that's
03:38what's getting me.
03:39I don't...
03:40You know, if there was someone that you met that was better than me, you know, I mean,
03:45I don't know.
03:46You should know, I'll put it better than you, darling.
03:47You should know that.
03:48I will never leave you.
03:49So, Mark in the yurt last night, that was pretty wild.
04:10Yeah.
04:11Just felt like he really wanted to push his boundaries.
04:14But I do worry, what does his partner think?
04:17And I did think, you know, I wonder if she's all right with it.
04:22We'll see.
04:34I think I'm a bit just trying to take it all in, and it was a lot.
04:39When you realise you're upsetting your partner, that's the last thing you really want.
04:49Yeah, I think there's some things that we need to sit down and have a chat about, and see
05:01where we want to go, really, from here.
05:03With last night triggering unexpected emotions, the couple are meeting non-monogamy coach Effie
05:12to figure out if being open can still work for them.
05:15Come in.
05:16Hi, Effie.
05:17Hello, hello, hello.
05:18Welcome, welcome.
05:19How are you doing?
05:20Good, thank you.
05:21I say good, we're not that good.
05:22Okay, okay, you're not that good.
05:23Tell me.
05:24Tell me how your social was.
05:25I think because my social went a little bit further than the times, I think.
05:37Okay.
05:38I kind of find myself, like, get involved with some sort of an orgy.
05:44I asked if anybody wanted to follow me into the year, and then six girls followed me.
05:49So...
05:50It's six or four.
05:51It's six, two left.
05:52Yeah, yeah.
05:53Okay.
05:54I don't...
05:55I don't really know how I feel about it, to be honest.
05:57Do you think there were any boundaries crossed?
05:59We didn't even speak about if this happened or what, you know.
06:02Yeah, like a multiple girls situation never even, like, came to mind.
06:06Ooh, just a shock, isn't it, I guess?
06:08Of course, yeah.
06:09Especially when...
06:10Yeah, sorry.
06:12I'm sorry.
06:13It's okay.
06:14I'll be okay.
06:16And tell me how your social was.
06:21I didn't find anyone that I thought that thing with.
06:25But I think that's because I'm not with Mark.
06:28I just didn't feel right.
06:30It's just not for me.
06:31So, for you, doing separate things is not ideal.
06:35You're like, I now know that.
06:36No.
06:37How do you feel about it, Mark?
06:39Doing separate things?
06:40Yeah.
06:41I'm not...
06:42I don't need to do it.
06:43Do you want to?
06:45No, it's not something I want to do.
06:47Do you like it?
06:48I think that's the question.
06:49You know what I mean?
06:50Just answer it, honestly.
06:52I enjoyed the experience, but I don't need it.
06:55If Tan would have been there with that experience, it would have been...
06:58And I could have seen the show we're enjoying,
07:00it would have been totally a much better experience for me.
07:04I'm curious, does the separating part bring up any past the cheating stuff at all?
07:10Erm...
07:11Yeah, I just felt a bit like, oh...
07:13Just like...
07:14Never ever been good enough for anyone.
07:17I guess.
07:18Mmm.
07:19That's hard.
07:20It's okay.
07:21Just stay with it for a minute.
07:24It's fine.
07:25Yeah.
07:26What was the most upsetting thing for you?
07:28Was there someone that...
07:29Are you connecting more than me?
07:30I don't know.
07:31You just don't know, do you?
07:32Yeah.
07:33Mm-hmm.
07:34Just never know.
07:35All these thoughts, like...
07:36Bob, bubble up.
07:37Thinking I'm going to lose him.
07:38I don't want to lose what we have.
07:39Tanith, I want to ask you this, because I want to know the answer.
07:43Does non-monogamy still appeal to you?
07:44Is that something that you want in your life?
07:45Yeah, I think so.
07:46Yeah, I'd like to explore it a bit more.
07:47Especially with us together.
07:48Honestly, truly.
07:49Honestly, truly.
07:50Honestly, truly.
07:51Honestly, truly.
07:52Okay.
07:53That's great.
07:54So we know that.
07:55Clarity.
07:56I'm ready for you, Tanith to make some decisions.
07:57Okay, tell me more about that, Mark.
07:58Thanks.
07:59Yes, I do.
08:00Thanks.
08:01Thanks.
08:02Thanks.
08:03Thanks.
08:04Thanks.
08:05Thanks.
08:06Thanks.
08:07Thanks.
08:08Thanks.
08:09Thanks.
08:10Thanks.
08:11Thanks.
08:12Thanks.
08:13Thanks.
08:14Thanks.
08:15Thanks.
08:16Thanks.
08:18Thanks.
08:19Thanks.
08:20Thanks.
08:21I think she's always, like, trying to always put me before herself, I think.
08:25Okay, so you don't hear from her what she wants and what she wants to experience?
08:30Not always, no.
08:31I think she can be quite people-pleasing at times.
08:35Mm-hmm.
08:36Yeah.
08:37Mm-hmm.
08:38Nail on the head.
08:39The idea of losing him makes you so scared inside that you go into a people-pleasing mode
08:46Yeah, yeah.
08:47Yeah.
08:48To feel safe.
08:49Is that-
08:50Yeah, that sounds right.
08:51That's exactly right.
08:52Yeah.
08:53So, let's figure out what is gonna work for you.
08:56I would like for you to experience a healthy, non-monogamous relationship together with Mark.
09:01Okay.
09:02Today, you'll have a picnic with some of the residents, but Tanith, I'd like you to take the lead.
09:08Okay.
09:09I want you to focus on, truly, deep down, this is what Tanith wants, and let things escalate as it feels natural to you.
09:17How does that feel?
09:18Yeah, how does that feel?
09:19That makes sense.
09:20Thanks for your time.
09:21I appreciate everything you've said.
09:22Take care.
09:24The truth is, people-pleasing is dishonesty, because you're not being honest with your feelings to yourself, often, and to your partner.
09:31When you're honest with your emotions and the things that you want, it also helps your partner make better choices.
09:38Tanith just needs to find a voice and talk about what she wants.
09:43When you're not true to you, it's when you're gonna hurt yourself.
09:48Yeah.
09:49Because of that, too, that's how I grew up, I think.
09:51And I came from a place where it wasn't good to speak.
09:55I didn't feel like I could speak my feelings.
09:58This I'm okay tends to amuse me, then.
10:01I'm not okay.
10:02It's like, I'm fine, I'm fine, it's not okay, either.
10:04No.
10:05But it's about that person who's gonna be true to themselves, isn't it?
10:08Yeah, exactly, you've got to, and you've got to learn to do that.
10:16I just want her to be real with me.
10:18It's all right to say, no, yeah, you know, I like this idea of being non-monogamous.
10:22But I kind of need to know that she's saying it, because she really likes it.
10:28You're ready?
10:29Woo!
10:30Hey!
10:31I'm so good.
10:32You have one life.
10:33Enjoy the moment.
10:34Less stress, more sex.
10:35I have no experience, love.
10:36I know.
10:37Are you ready?
10:38I know.
10:39Are you ready?
10:40I know.
10:41Are you ready?
10:43Still on shaky ground after yesterday, Tanith and Mark are joining a group of residents for a picnic, to explore whether opening up together is a better fit.
11:02Right, I'm gonna actually fall over.
11:03No, you're not.
11:04Yeah, I will.
11:05Got you.
11:06Got you.
11:07Think back.
11:08Amongst the group are some of the women from last night's orgy.
11:12They were saying this last night.
11:13Obviously, I'm a bit apprehensive.
11:14I'm just like seeing everyone.
11:15I guess my worry is me not being myself in that scenario.
11:16Hey, guys.
11:17Hi.
11:18Are you okay?
11:19How are you doing anyway?
11:20Yeah, good to see you.
11:21Oh.
11:22That is typical me.
11:23Making an entrance.
11:25Making an entrance.
11:26I think Tanith was a little bit nervous because, you know, she was moving all the time and loved a lot.
11:46Today, on Effie's advice, Tanith will attempt to take the reins.
11:54I've always struggled, I think, with being honest with how I feel.
11:59I get my head a lot, but it's trying to deal with that and being able to overcome it.
12:05So, how's the day been this morning?
12:07Yeah, it was quite emotional, sorry, I think.
12:09But, obviously, it's all new to us with everything like this.
12:12It's like the unknown, isn't it?
12:14Yeah.
12:15That kind of stuff.
12:16You have the fantasy, but then when you do it, it's not for you.
12:20Yeah, yeah.
12:21So, are you single?
12:22I don't know what you did.
12:23Are you in a couple or single?
12:25It's a couple.
12:26So, I've got a partner.
12:27He's not here, unfortunately.
12:29Aw.
12:30Riding solo?
12:31Yeah.
12:32Are you loving it, though?
12:33That's the thing.
12:34Aw, good.
12:35Yeah, it's nice.
12:36You've got a lovely vibe.
12:37It's actually very nice.
12:38Yeah.
12:39So, like, when I saw you, I was like...
12:42Aw.
12:43My...
12:44Like, people.
12:45Yeah, my vibe, too.
12:46Yeah, yeah.
12:47So, that's why I really wanted to meet you.
12:49Ooh la la.
12:50Aw, you too.
12:51Yeah.
12:52So, Marie is absolutely drop dead gorgeous.
12:56Yeah, she's just a really nice vibe.
12:58I didn't expect it, but it's really nice that she was that flirty, I guess, because it made me feel comfortable.
13:04OK.
13:05I do, like, look at women and I find them attractive, but, yeah, I've never took that step.
13:13Definitely, I think, Marie is really cute, don't you?
13:22Yeah, I think she is.
13:23So, I think she might be a good...
13:25Get on with her quite bad, and I think she likes both of us.
13:28Yeah?
13:29That might be a good experience.
13:31Is it what you want?
13:32Yeah, yeah, I think, definitely.
13:34For once, I'm actually thinking about what I want in this.
13:37Good.
13:38Like, let's kiss.
13:39Ready?
13:40Yeah, perfect.
13:41I love you.
13:42Right, I'll speak to you in a bit.
13:44Coming down.
13:45OK.
13:46Can I see it?
13:47It feels cold.
13:48Yeah, good.
13:49Thanks.
13:50Ha, ha, ha.
13:51Good.
13:56Oh, I love it.
13:57Marie.
13:58Would you like to join us?
14:01Like, er...
14:02If you wouldn't mind.
14:03Ah!
14:04I love it.
14:05Cheers, girl.
14:06Woo-hoo!
14:07Yeah, I love it.
14:10I'm brilliant.
14:11I'm excited.
14:12I don't know that she was attractive to women, so I'm very happy.
14:17Beautiful.
14:18Very nice.
14:19I love her lips.
14:20Eyes.
14:21Blonde hair.
14:22Yeah.
14:23Love it.
14:25Yeah, just plucking up the courage to do that was really liberating, I guess, and that
14:30was my choice, so I'm doing it for what I like this time.
14:33You do.
14:34You do.
14:35Yeah.
14:36It's your turn to have some fun now.
14:37No, I'm excited.
14:38Yeah, exactly.
14:39They were quite a surprise to me, to be honest.
14:41But, you know, as long as that's what she wants and she's happy doing that.
14:44Bye, guys.
14:45Bye, guys.
14:46Bye, guys.
14:47Bye.
14:48Bye, guys.
14:50See ya.
14:51Hey.
14:52See ya.
14:53We're everywhere in the understands, from how itOOK CHINESE
14:55I think we'll find out if we're good kisses or not, we'll end auf like clashing teeth
15:03and everyone is like, Khloe no only likes this!
15:06We've only had sex with each other.
15:08I maybe want to explore it to see if I am bisexual.
15:11I think about it all the time.
15:13And Chloe, did you ever consider exploring women on your own?
15:17You might enjoy it with me and the girl, but not...
15:19Yeah, but just maybe not.
15:20...on your own with the girl.
15:22I don't know where Chloe is now. She's gone.
15:24Where's my girl?
15:25She's gone with the two girls.
15:30It was, like, kind of a triangle.
15:32Oh, yeah, nice, nice, nice.
15:34She's really dope in it and, like...
15:36Yeah!
15:37Oh, my God!
15:39It was just out of me depth. It didn't feel right tonight.
15:43I enjoyed it, so I feel like I wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as I did if I was bisexual.
15:48Does that mean that you're still, like, attracted to me?
15:52Yeah.
15:53You're still, like, sex with me?
15:55I think worst-case scenario for me...
15:58A woman could fulfil her needs more and she could leave me,
16:01and I'd have to deal with that.
16:03We are broken.
16:12I don't even know what to expect from today,
16:14because yesterday was so unexpected.
16:17Still coming to terms with how last night played out
16:20are childhood sweethearts Chloe and Paul.
16:23I think it's almost like the power dynamic shifted.
16:26I think I'm the more nervous one now.
16:31Yeah, it was a big night.
16:32Like, I feel like a new, like, woman.
16:34Like, I feel like a totally different person.
16:36Like, my confidence, I can feel my confidence has gone up a lot.
16:41I like the ladies.
16:44Even now, I can't wrap my head around it.
16:47What if I can't open up?
16:50Right now, I'm questioning, like, everything.
16:57Come in. Make yourself comfortable.
17:00How are you feeling?
17:01Where to start?
17:02Do you think this question that,
17:04am I bisexual, is answered for you?
17:07I think, yeah, definitely, I'd say bisexual.
17:10Definitely, yeah.
17:11There's, like, an aura from her.
17:12She's, like, she was glowing.
17:13Wow!
17:14What happened?
17:15Do share.
17:17Well, we went in together, didn't we?
17:19I kind of felt like it was kind of shifting
17:23from experiencing something together
17:26to, like, taking, like, our own, like, separate journeys.
17:30And that caught me off guard
17:31because I didn't come into this expecting any of that.
17:34Can you put words to how you were feeling?
17:37With me?
17:38I just felt shocked and a bit, like, blindside.
17:40So, a little overwhelmed, maybe?
17:42Yeah, possibly, yeah.
17:43I think the best way to say it was I weren't ready
17:46compared to what, like, Chloe experienced.
17:49OK.
17:50So, you feel like you haven't had the growth opportunity
17:52that Chloe had?
17:54Is that what's happening?
17:55Yeah.
17:56Like, having a threesome, like, that would be, like,
17:57that's what we wanted to happen.
17:59But after, like, last night,
18:01I was kind of feeling, like, maybe I'm not ready.
18:03OK.
18:04So, you feel like you've not done anything
18:05and suddenly you're on a threesome, it's a lot?
18:07Yeah.
18:08Yeah, it's mad, isn't it?
18:09It's just, like...
18:11I was coming in for you
18:12and now, all of a sudden, I'm here for me.
18:14Mm.
18:15I want to get to how comfortable Chloe is.
18:17I want to get to that confidence level.
18:19What I have in mind is, Paul,
18:22you get to, like, spend some one-on-one time
18:24with somebody of your choosing
18:27and see how that works for you
18:29and have that experience
18:31and also have in the back of your mind,
18:34maybe when you're ready, you can invite Chloe.
18:37Mm.
18:38I want to get there.
18:39I want to do it.
18:40Like, I want to do that.
18:41And that's really all that matters.
18:42Is that good?
18:43Yeah.
18:44OK.
18:45Yeah.
18:46Lovely.
18:47OK.
18:48Off you go?
18:49OK.
18:51Thanks very much.
18:52Let's go.
18:58Anything you want to, like, boundaries today?
19:01For me?
19:02Yeah.
19:03I've no boundaries, darling.
19:04As long as everyone's in the room, sorry.
19:07Earlier, Tanis invited Marie to join her and Mark for the evening.
19:11Wow, I'm sure we're all talking about me.
19:13In the hope that opening up together will suit them better.
19:18I guess we'll find out if non-monogamy is right for us.
19:21Hopefully this is the dynamic that we're looking for.
19:26You look fricking hot.
19:27You don't look the best.
19:28You look fricking hot.
19:29You don't look the best.
19:30You look fricking hot.
19:35Marie's a very attractive-looking woman.
19:37And, you know, Tanith is very nervous.
19:40I think she's just got a good front.
19:42Let's see how she handles it.
19:44My expectation for this evening, I want to make them come.
20:05Maybe if we can come all together, that will be fantastic fireworks.
20:11Cheers.
20:14She's a little bit younger than I.
20:16And I can see she's maybe a little bit more confident.
20:22Lingerie model Marie has just the thing to add a little va-va-voom.
20:26I bring some lingerie with me for Tan.
20:29It's going to be amazing.
20:32Yes, if you want to wear a nice jacket.
20:35Marie can relax yourself.
20:37I'll just chill.
20:38Hello.
20:41Hello.
20:42This is all right, isn't it?
20:48Oh, dear.
20:49Wow.
20:50Look at that.
20:51This is my first time with a woman.
20:54Yeah, it's overwhelming.
20:56Oh, my God.
21:00You are beautiful.
21:03I love that you all see the way.
21:06It's like stuff like this.
21:09Keep the eyes intact, you know, and go very slowly.
21:24Obviously, it was a bit apprehensive, I think, to start with.
21:27Yeah, it's kind of a big deal fully being with a woman.
21:31But it made me feel really good.
21:34I love her lips.
21:35They're very smooth, very nice.
21:38Are you ready?
21:39Should we turn off our satellite?
21:40Yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:41Yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:48Oh, yes.
21:49And you're allowed to lick my glasses.
21:56Take it off, baby.
21:58It was nice to take a bit of control of the situation, definitely.
22:01Oh, it looks exactly the same.
22:03Actually listening to myself, trusting myself and believing in myself.
22:08Yeah.
22:09How's that, Tan?
22:10I love it.
22:11Yeah?
22:14Oh, my God.
22:15It is, yeah.
22:16Very good.
22:18It's not that many times I had a good pussy.
22:22I had a big smile on my face.
22:23No, honestly, it just was...
22:25It just got better and better throughout the night.
22:28It was, I think, very nice.
22:31Mmm.
22:34I've got, like, the best connection ever.
22:37Oh, yes, I love it.
22:40Good girl.
22:44Two beautiful figures.
22:46It was your...
22:47Dream.
22:48Yeah.
22:49Wow.
22:53How is it your dream?
22:54Yeah, honestly.
22:56Well, I never would have thought of a better experience than that, honestly.
22:59Wow.
23:00Mind blown.
23:01I'm going to miss this bed.
23:02There's lots of good memories on this bed.
23:03I've learnt quite a few things about myself.
23:04I'd rather be with Tan.
23:05It was a much better experience, you know.
23:06It's nice to see her happy.
23:07Woohoo!
23:08And there we go.
23:09I do have a voice and I'm just ready to own it now.
23:10It was a big thing for me.
23:11Whee!
23:12She's being real and honest with herself, so...
23:13Yeah, I'm grateful for that.
23:14I'm grateful for that.
23:15And there we go.
23:16You are my Cherie.
23:17Bonjour.
23:18Bonjour.
23:19Bonjour.
23:20You are my Cherie.
23:21Bonjour.
23:22You are my Cherie.
23:23Bonjour.
23:24Bonjour.
23:25Bonjour.
23:26Bonjour.
23:27And please, I would love us to meet in the real world after.
23:29Absolutely.
23:30Absolutely.
23:31I will look forward to it.
23:32See you soon.
23:33Ciao, ciao.
23:34Au revoir.
23:35Bye.
23:36Peace out.
23:37Ciao.
23:38Bye.
23:39Bye.
23:40Bye.
23:41Bye.
23:42Bye.
23:43Bye.
23:44Bye.
23:45Bye.
23:46Bye.
23:47And please, I would love us to meet in the real world after.
23:54Absolutely.
23:55Look forward to it.
23:56See you soon.
23:57Ciao.
23:58Au revoir.
23:59Au revoir.
24:00Me and Mark are definitely on the same page.
24:03We've opened up our relationship.
24:05Yeah, I can't wait.
24:07Our next adventures and experiences.
24:14So nervous.
24:16I feel a bit overwhelmed.
24:19En route to the retreat, our newcomers Sarah and Johnny.
24:23There's no one else I could do this with.
24:25No, sir.
24:26No one else.
24:27With a large blended family and a cleaning business, life is non-stop.
24:32Busy, haptic, but it's brilliant. I wouldn't change it.
24:35Our relationship's one in a million.
24:37To me, the best relationship I've ever had.
24:40Sarah, she's amazing to be fair. She is. She's one of a kind.
24:43We don't make women like that any more.
24:45Oh, I love you so much.
24:48I've got this.
24:49Don't cry.
24:50Never a dull day, is it, love?
24:52No.
24:53Never a dull moment.
24:54Fun. Fun.
24:55We're always laughing.
24:56I'm having a rubbish day and I give you a bit of grief.
24:59He doesn't hold it against me, do you?
25:01No, I'm just there.
25:02He's there.
25:03Like an emotional punch bag.
25:04Don't say that. I knew you were going to say that.
25:06Having found each other a little later in life, Sarah is determined not to let this relationship fail.
25:13I've had past relationships where things got very stale in the bedroom, a bit boring, lost the sparking, lost the connection.
25:20With Johnny, I want to keep the spice alive to make sure we have an amazing future.
25:26I'm really excited.
25:28Nervous as well though, yeah.
25:30Unlike most of the retreat's guests, this isn't their first go at opening up, but rather a last-ditch attempt.
25:37We've been to sex party clubs and we've been adamant we're going to do something.
25:42Yeah, and just not actually doing it and then getting home and kicking ourselves.
25:45The amount of times we've been over the years to try and do this, we are here to push ourselves.
25:50It's crunch time.
25:51I think if we don't do it now, then I don't think we have a gunna.
25:54Come here, no go back now.
25:57What is she?
25:59Oh, I'm going to blame yourself.
26:04Here we go.
26:05She's got tattoos.
26:07Here we go.
26:08How are you going?
26:09Scared!
26:12Are you OK?
26:13Are you OK?
26:14How are you going?
26:15How are you?
26:16How are you?
26:17I think Sarah was a bit nervous for sure, yeah.
26:20Bless her.
26:21Hi, you're OK.
26:22Nice to meet you.
26:23I'm sorry.
26:24I'm literally shaking.
26:26Sorry.
26:27When they came to us, I could feel him shaking.
26:29So I think Johnny and Sarah are very nervous.
26:33You're nervous?
26:34Yes, just a bit.
26:35How are you OK?
26:36Hello.
26:37It is a difficult situation, really, isn't it?
26:39If I see Sarah flirting with someone, it's going to be tough.
26:42I mean, it'd probably be easier if it was a woman than it would be a man.
26:45But, you know, it is going to be tough.
26:47Hi, nice to meet you, Sarah.
26:48Nice to meet you.
26:50What's at stake?
26:51So, everything really, isn't it?
26:53Your relationship's at stake.
26:55To lose it would be to lose everything.
27:13I feel like I'm 18 again.
27:14Yeah.
27:15Married couple Chloe and Paul came to open up together.
27:20But after Chloe went it alone with two girls last night, Paul is questioning if non-monogamy is for him.
27:27So I'm going to have to toughen up now and get out there and get your big blue pants on.
27:36Determined to give it another shot, he's going on a date with resident Grace, who he met last night.
27:42You could definitely tell that there was sexual chemistry between me and Paul, but he was very reserved.
27:50So it's some unfinished business.
27:53I'm just trying to compose myself.
27:55Yeah.
27:57I might be bad in bed, you just don't know.
27:59When you're together this long, you just don't know.
28:03I'm scared.
28:04Give us a hug, then.
28:07This is it?
28:08Yeah.
28:09Who knew I'd be excited for my husband to go on a date with another woman?
28:13Not me.
28:16It's weird for her to give her husband the pep talk.
28:18But Chloe knows that she is bisexual.
28:22So it's massively important that we can invite other women into the relationship.
28:27Now I need to step out my comfort zone.
28:30See you later, then.
28:31I've been out the game for ten years, because me and Chloe have always, like, been together.
28:38I'm not going to lie, I am quite nervous.
28:41You all right, stranger?
28:42Oh, my God.
28:43You OK?
28:44Just making sure there's any falls out in the hill.
28:47I didn't think you were going to get here so soon.
28:49You OK?
28:50Yeah, yeah, you all right.
28:51Yeah, thank you for joining me.
28:53Paul definitely needs a bit more reassurance.
28:57He just needs to come out of himself a little bit more.
29:01Do you want to go in there?
29:02Yeah, yeah, let's go.
29:03A bit more comfy.
29:04Come on then.
29:05Don't need to ask me twice.
29:08I'm ready.
29:09Yeah, man.
29:13It's up to me now and how I feel, so we'll see how we get on.
29:17But if something materialises from this, that would be very exciting for me and for Chloe.
29:22Our life could be different because we could have, like, I don't know, multiple partners.
29:25We can have fun with other people.
29:27Who knows where the road's going to go?
29:29I want you to know, like, I definitely have, like, a deep attraction to you.
29:32Like, I think you're absolutely gorgeous and I felt that vibe with you straight away.
29:35Oh, really?
29:36So, let's cheers that we're here.
29:37Cheers.
29:38I'm really happy that you're here.
29:41Is there something that you would like to...?
29:42Erm...
29:43To be honest, I'd just like to, erm...
29:45Just probably just get comfortable.
29:47Yeah.
29:48Yeah?
29:49You just tell me how you want me.
29:50Ha, ha, ha.
29:51Butt naked!
29:52Ha, ha, ha.
29:53I can tell that he's not been in this situation before, so it was really nice to be kind of
29:58give him a little bit more confidence and help him explore his next steps into their new
30:03adventure.
30:04How do you feel if I, like, gave you a massage?
30:06Sure.
30:07How do you want me?
30:08Lay down.
30:09Oh, you are bossy.
30:10Ha, ha, ha.
30:11I love massages.
30:12Yeah.
30:13It's, like, one of my favourite things, yeah.
30:14I'm very touchy-feely and love a lot of...yeah.
30:21Like being hands-on.
30:22Yeah, I love all that.
30:24Although you're just facing the wrong way for me.
30:26I know we are.
30:27Shall I flip round?
30:28Yeah.
30:29Ha, ha, ha.
30:30Yeah, ma'am.
30:35Ha, ha, ha.
30:36Ha, ha, ha.
30:38Ha, ha, ha.
30:40It was weird kissing someone else, but I enjoyed her, too.
30:56She's a gorgeous girl.
31:01At that point, like, all her, like, nerves and all her, like, giggles are gone.
31:04We were just there in the moment.
31:07You really turned me on.
31:08Did you hear that?
31:10Yeah, I think you've got the job.
31:14See you again.
31:20It was getting hot, but she also knows that I'm in this experience
31:24to spend it with Chloe, to share it with Chloe.
31:28I definitely think now that, like, we've started doing this,
31:32that, like, I am ready to, like, introduce you to me and Chloe.
31:36If you were able to afford it, like.
31:39I would love to carry on exploring, like, with you and your wife, like.
31:42I think before I get any more into it, I should probably go and get her.
31:47Save me energy.
31:50Now I've got to go up to Chloe and I've got to present her with that.
31:53As you can tell, I am, like, nervous.
31:57Chloe wanted me to do it, but it's another thing when they got,
32:00when someone goes ahead and does it.
32:02Time to face the loser.
32:10Come on.
32:11No, you're warm.
32:14Blame me, blame me.
32:17I didn't get a pillow when we got off.
32:20Despite numerous attempts,
32:22Johnny and Sarah have previously failed to open up their relationship
32:26and are now looking to Effie for direction.
32:28Hi.
32:31Hi, nice to meet you, I'm Effie.
32:32Hi, Effie.
32:33Come in room, come through.
32:34Come on my sofa, get comfy.
32:36How are you feeling?
32:38Um, excited, nervous.
32:40Do you want to start with what brings you here today?
32:42We've talked about this for a long, long time,
32:45obviously opening up,
32:46but, you know, we are looking to bring another girl into the equation.
32:50It sounds really, really weird,
32:53but, um, I have fantasised many times
32:56about seeing Johnny with a female.
32:58I think it's because it is so wrong that it's right.
33:02How am I feeling?
33:03Be honest.
33:04How am I excited?
33:05What, man wouldn't be that his missus wants to open up with a girl?
33:08You know, what more can I say?
33:11Were you able to actually, at any stage of this fantasising,
33:14kind of think about the reality of it?
33:16Yes, we have.
33:17We've gone along to these bringers' parties,
33:19and we've been there, and we have a great time.
33:21We, you know, we talk to everyone.
33:23Too much sometimes.
33:24We end up getting probably maybe too drunk
33:26and too nervous to approach anybody.
33:30We just don't know how to make that first move.
33:32Mm, okay.
33:33When it actually comes to the crunch, we just sort of...
33:35You can't close the deal as...
33:39Yes!
33:39Okay, okay.
33:40What are the nerves?
33:41Tell me about the nerves.
33:42The nerves, for me personally, are,
33:45are they going to like me?
33:46And all these doubts just sort of fly around my head,
33:48and it just puts me off taking that start.
33:52Rejection.
33:53That's another fear, isn't it?
33:54I think that's another fear, is rejection.
33:56Well, that is life.
33:57So, I think it's important for you to realise
33:59that when you do, when you are out there,
34:00rejection is a thing, but it's not personal.
34:02It's like that person isn't into whatever is happening
34:05in that moment.
34:07Johnny, I want to see, you're, you're sort of,
34:09the whispers in the back of your head are...
34:11With my side, it's, I don't want to upset Sarah.
34:13What I've got with Sarah, I've touched 40 years
34:17to find this type of love, and the last thing I want to do
34:20is blow it out of the water.
34:22Oh, okay, okay.
34:23Okay, so, the idea of how to, if you connect with somebody,
34:27to take it to the next level,
34:28because that's where you struggle, right?
34:30Okay, so, some of the lines that work is,
34:34you can say, we want to go somewhere a little cosier,
34:36would you like to join us?
34:37Okay, that sounds good.
34:39Right?
34:39And that's a good opportunity to ask them things like,
34:42what are you into, what do you like?
34:44One of my favourite questions to ask is,
34:46how do you like to be touched?
34:48Okay.
34:49What I'd love to do is,
34:51throw you guys into a beautiful social,
34:54when you find connection,
34:55think about the tips that I've given you,
34:57and to actually escalate things.
34:59Okay.
34:59I don't know.
35:03See you tomorrow.
35:04See you.
35:04Our session with Effie was really interesting, actually.
35:07She gave us some good, really helpful advice.
35:10Oh, wow!
35:13I'm hoping we're going to be very successful, yeah.
35:15We are here to push ourselves.
35:17Obviously, that's the way we've got to do,
35:18and the advice of Effie is, you know, she knows the stuff.
35:23Do you think we're going to be all right?
35:25Yeah, we'll be so, don't we?
35:27Don't worry.
35:28You're doing a number on yourself, aren't you?
35:30It's definitely going to be okay.
35:31It's so nervous, yeah.
35:35I love you.
35:36I love you.
35:37After a successful date with Grace,
35:47Paul is about to ask his wife, Chloe,
35:49if she's still open to a threesome.
35:51HE CONTINUES
35:52HE CONTINUES
35:57Hi.
35:57Hello.
35:58Hello.
35:59Sal.
36:01Good morning.
36:02Sal.
36:03Sal what?
36:03I've only went.
36:04How'd you get on?
36:04Has I sniffed a shot?
36:05Oh, no.
36:06No, I haven't.
36:06So, what did I do?
36:07Shut off.
36:09How'd you go?
36:10Well, come sit down. Move over, let me sit under.
36:13OK, go.
36:15I'm ready.
36:17Yeah, no, we obviously went for our, like, little date.
36:20We went in for a kiss.
36:22Like, we were getting into a cuddling kiss
36:24and, like, a bit of, like, grinding in there.
36:27Put a pin in it.
36:28I just wanted to see how you felt about, like, about it
36:31and, like, see how we get on as, like, a three
36:33and see where that goes.
36:34So, obviously, if you're up for it later,
36:37we all, like, three of us get together.
36:40Yeah? Yeah. That would be nice, yeah.
36:42It sounds.
36:44It would be good, like, doing it together.
36:46I want to go for it, yeah.
36:47That's what we need to flow to, like, kind of push our boundaries.
36:50Yeah, but it's also, like, nerve wracking.
36:52It's a new experience again.
36:53Like, now it's me, you and another girl, so it's another...
36:56Yeah. Another dynamic. Yeah.
36:59Now I know that Chloe's comfortable enough with going all the ways
37:02and Grace is so confident and so now I'm just...
37:06that's why the nerves are coming in now.
37:10That was another thing, like, I weren't really, like,
37:12getting, like, hard.
37:14Really? Yeah.
37:15I weren't. Like, I felt it, like, I was about to and then it stopped.
37:17Everybody was like, no, we're not ready.
37:20I've only slept with Chloe and who knows, like,
37:22I might not perform, like, with another girl and...
37:24It's easy thinking about it, but when you're there, you're there.
37:26You...you ready for this, then?
37:28Yeah? Yeah.
37:29This could be it now.
37:30Just kiss, then.
37:31This will make them all wrecked.
37:32Ready? Yeah.
37:33Yeah.
37:34This could be it now.
37:36This is like a big one.
37:38It's a big one, but it's a big one.
37:40So, I've only slept with Chloe and who knows, like,
37:41I might not perform, like, with another girl and...
37:42It's easy thinking about it, but when you're there, you're there.
37:46You...you ready for this, then?
37:48Yeah? Yeah.
37:49This could be it, now.
37:52Let's kiss, then.
37:54This will make them all wreck.
37:55Ready? Yeah.
37:56You ready for this, then?
38:11Yeah? Yeah.
38:13Sounds.
38:18Ready? Yeah.
38:22Hi! There she is.
38:24You're so nice. Wow, aren't you lucky?
38:26I know.
38:28Sound, isn't it?
38:29Oh, wow.
38:31Tonight, Chloe and Paul hope to finally open up together
38:36with resident Grace.
38:39With threesomes, you have to be, like, so verbal with each other
38:42because it is so easy for the other person to get left out.
38:47I need to be super, like, comfortable and relaxed in order to perform.
38:54I'd say, best-case scenario, I'll take it, like, to a duck and water,
38:59but worst-case scenario, I'll be, like, my spare part.
39:07Wow.
39:07I just don't think I should eat it.
39:11Yeah.
39:13Should we kiss?
39:23I literally come back out and need started without me already,
39:26and I was, like, all right.
39:27Yeah.
39:36Can we kiss it?
39:37Yeah.
39:38Yeah? Yeah.
39:39Yeah.
39:41Erm, did you want to do my side? Was there anything?
39:43Just get everyone involved, or...?
39:44Yeah, yeah.
39:45What were you about to do?
39:46Yeah, yeah.
39:46What were you about to do?
39:48Just, like, a battle in my head, and it leaves me, like,
39:50getting stuck in the middle and taking no action.
39:53I feel like I need to decide.
39:59I just thought I'd just got to trust the process.
40:03Shall we massage Chloe? Yeah.
40:08That feels really good. You have such a nice bar.
40:11And you two are smashing it.
40:14OK, your turn. Hands off.
40:16My turn? Yeah.
40:18Lucky me.
40:19You ready?
40:21How are you feeling? Feel good? Yeah.
40:23Yeah? I felt really good.
40:25How are you feeling?
40:26I'm so happy to be part of your experience.
40:28It's so cool.
40:29Oh, my God.
40:32Oh, my God.
40:37Oh, my God.
40:42OK.
40:48What else out?
40:50Yeah.
40:51It'd be nice now if I started to fuck on you.
40:54Do you want to have one, Chloe?
40:55Yeah.
40:56Yeah.
40:57Yeah.
40:58Yeah.
40:59Yeah.
41:00Yeah.
41:01Yeah.
41:02You guys want me to go?
41:04Oh, I'm good.
41:05Yeah.
41:06We've never done nothing like this before.
41:08We've not even half of this.
41:10Oh, come on.
41:11Oh, so am I.
41:12Me and me feel so comfortable, and I've got, like, me mojo bath,
41:15and that's when I'm at me best.
41:17Oh!
41:18Oh!
41:19Oh!
41:20Oh!
41:21Oh!
41:22Oh!
41:23Oh!
41:24Oh!
41:25Oh!
41:26I've really obviously had the initial connection with Paul,
41:29as I am, like, predominantly into men,
41:32but Chloe, she really, like, astounded me.
41:40Oh, my God.
41:41Oh, come on!
41:42Oh!
41:47Oh, come on!
41:48Oh, come on!
41:51Oh, come on!
41:52You filled up!
41:53Yeah, man.
41:54So good.
41:55So it was really beautiful to kind of be in that almost love triangle.
42:01Everyone was very happy, everyone got to the finish line.
42:04And it was fucking sexy, wasn't it? Yeah.
42:07Yeah, it was amazing.
42:09See you later. See you later.
42:12That was crazy.
42:15She's both okay at the same time.
42:17I know. She's triggered by anything.
42:19It's just a lot better, like, with Paul there.
42:22There's no jealousy, if anything, like, I enjoy watching it.
42:26It's just a nice experience and sort of new.
42:28Like, I think it's just contentment.
42:31It's exciting because it's like we've opened up a new world.
42:37I feel reborn. I'm just missing a cigar.
42:52You've slept with four people this weekend.
42:56Yeah, including you.
42:58Yeah.
42:59We went from, like, a virgin couple to now, like, the complete opposite.
43:04Yeah, a lot more experience.
43:06100%, especially here.
43:07Blew my mind, like, how much I've done this weekend.
43:10I kind of know who I am now.
43:12Sad to be going. I know.
43:15I'm so sad to be going.
43:17I'd 100% consider this to be in a relationship.
43:19I think next chapter's going to be more exploration together.
43:22I heard it was you who took me wife's decent virginity.
43:25This is literally just the start.
43:27It's almost felt like it's been missing from our life.
43:30This is great.
43:32It's great.
43:33It's great.
43:34It's great.
43:35It's great.
43:36It's great.
43:37It's great.
43:38It's great.
43:39It's great.
43:40It's great.
43:41It's great.
43:42It's great.
43:43It's great.
43:44It's great.
43:45It's great.
43:46It's great.
43:47And it's just going to make us stronger for years and years and years to come.
43:50Yeah, definitely.
43:51Bye, guys.
43:52Bye.
43:53See you later.
43:54Bye.
43:55It looks like heaven on earth.
43:56I know.
43:57Yeah, I'll put your brakes on quick.
44:10Yeah.
44:11Newcomers Sarah and Johnny are preparing for their first social, where they hope to finally
44:17pluck up the courage to open up their relationship.
44:20Don't tighten it.
44:21No, don't tighten it.
44:22A little bit.
44:23And I can lose now.
44:24It pulls me pants up, otherwise.
44:25You just helped me put mine.
44:27But I'm so stressed.
44:28Come on, quick.
44:29We've got to go.
44:30I'm just going to take a waistcoat, but I don't feel going to need it.
44:32Yeah, I think you look nice at that.
44:34Well, smart.
44:35Dapper.
44:36It is a big risk, you know?
44:38You know, it is nerve-wracking.
44:40It's a nerve-wracking thing to do, especially when you love someone so much.
44:43Ready?
44:44No.
44:45OK, let's do this.
44:47You look amazing, anyway.
44:49You do, too.
44:50Oh, God.
44:51Yeah, I'm feeling nervous.
44:52Obviously, it's a big, big, daunting place out there.
44:53And there's a lot of people that are experienced that we're not.
44:54So, yeah, that's very overwhelming.
44:55Jeez!
44:56We're just, like, an average couple, normal average couple from a small town.
45:10It's absolutely bonkers.
45:12Literally, like, what are we doing?
45:14Next time on Open House...
45:25So, Marie, we just wanted if you'd like to see you.
45:29It just wasn't what we talked about.
45:31No, it's not.
45:32But nothing goes to plan, ever, does it?
45:33No.
45:34I'm literally ready to fucking go right home.
45:36Fucking see you later.
45:37Hiya.
45:38Hi, Olivia!
45:39Oh, my God, these guys are stunning.
45:41I want multiple people in my life at all times.
45:44Even though it's all consensual, it still makes me feel guilty.
45:50If I couldn't achieve that with Claude,
45:52it would definitely be something that put a spanner in our relationship.
46:11If you are a curious couple or single and interested in being part of the next Open House series,
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