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Open House- The Great Sex Experiment - Season 3 ep 5-love island season 7
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00:00Okay, now I'm getting bugs.
00:08Thanks.
00:10En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:15It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:21Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:25We've known each other for 16 years.
00:27Lauren's brother is one of my best mates, and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:34Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:39Look at that rock on your finger.
00:41She just makes me, basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:45The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:50I'm a huge adrenaline junkie, and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:55Tom fully understands what I'm like, and to be honest, joins me.
01:00Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
01:04The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:11I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:17We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:22Yeah.
01:24I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open, because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:31Here they go!
01:41With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:50How are you guys doing? All right?
01:52We're a good-looking couple.
01:54Yeah.
01:55You look lovely.
01:56Very lovely.
01:57Hi, guys. You all right?
01:58Hey!
01:59Come on, lock your shirt. We're almost matching.
02:04Yeah, these guys look fit.
02:05Blonde girl, bit of you.
02:07I'm excited, but nervous.
02:14Oh, I'm nervous now. Yeah. Definitely nervous now.
02:17I'm so excited to be here. I really am. I am like, come on.
02:22Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need. It's just a real big push.
02:29Guiding couples on their journey.
02:32Hello, come in.
02:33Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:37Take a seat.
02:39I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:41So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:44I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:49Mm-hmm.
02:50I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt, if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:56We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:06OK.
03:07Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:09I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:12Mm-hmm.
03:13I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:21When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:23If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:35I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:48I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:50Yeah, it's been a couple of times, there's been in the past, even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:55I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:59When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
04:05I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself.
04:10I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:14When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
04:17Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom. It was terrifying.
04:26The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:32It was so, so scary. He got really down. He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:40Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that, it's basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:50You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:54Yeah, definitely. Definitely.
04:56It's like you're not going to get a hard on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
05:03Hey, you're okay? Yeah, I'm good. I wasn't expecting that.
05:16Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:19The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:28So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:40And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:42It's what I want as well.
05:47Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:51I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap. And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
06:01And the same for women as well. But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:08Sure, yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place where we can help you get over those things.
06:14Starting with a good old party.
06:16Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:18Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:22I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:31This is about sensuality. That's about cuddles and touches.
06:37I want you to focus on one person, and I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:47Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:56And then, be open to things escalating.
07:02That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
07:04When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.
07:08Yeah.
07:09Right.
07:10It sounds really exciting.
07:11Yeah, okay.
07:12Beautiful.
07:13Yeah.
07:14Yeah.
07:15Yeah.
07:20Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:26So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:34If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:41Oh.
07:42Wow.
07:43Wow.
07:44I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't, if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go our separate ways.
07:55I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
07:57Previously on Open House.
07:58Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:16I'm so scared.
08:19What's at stake is Alana's feelings and emotions.
08:23I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:25Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
08:27So, we kind of want you to face that threat.
08:30Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome?
08:37That scenario wasn't in my head.
08:38I don't want to do it like I want to live.
08:40I don't want to be.
08:42If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
08:48Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie.
08:50She's gorgeous.
08:52Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us?
08:55Yeah.
08:57If it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
09:10I did not think this is where we were going to be on like our first night.
09:12I knew you were.
09:13This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
09:15Really?
09:16If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
09:18I'd be like, no.
09:19We didn't think that we would be in a hot tub if we were.
09:22And here you are.
09:25How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:34How do you feel?
09:36I'm okay.
09:37Yeah?
09:44In that moment, watching Alex and Georgie kiss,
09:47I thought, oh, no.
09:48How did that make you feel?
09:49Like, fine.
09:50I was like, yeah, look.
09:51I was like, yeah, look, almost a bit turned on by it.
09:52How did that make you feel?
09:53Like, fine.
09:54I was like, yeah, look.
09:55Almost a bit turned on by it.
09:57I really want you on me.
10:03Can I, like, can I, like, do you want me?
10:04Can I, like, do you want me?
10:13Can I, like, do you want me?
10:14Can you feel me?
10:15I can't believe this.
10:17I'm almost a bit turned on by it.
10:21I really want you on me. Can I, like, put you on me?
10:25I can't believe this.
10:27Are you proud of me? Yeah.
10:29Like, what the hell?
10:31Yay. Yeah.
10:39I've never seen Alana kiss another woman.
10:42I knew it was part of her life, like, long, long ago,
10:45but to see that, like, reopen that door
10:47was such a huge turn on for me to see that.
10:49It was, like, really hot.
10:53Oh, my God.
10:55I'm obsessed. Stop it.
10:57Can we just take you home with us?
11:01Well, it all flowed very naturally.
11:05We've got three weeks. Yeah.
11:07Yeah.
11:13Who the fuck would have thought we'd have been here?
11:15I honestly don't know what's happening right now.
11:17I feel like this is normal.
11:23I think, like, things are feeling good.
11:27Mm-hm.
11:28Do you want to come back to our room?
11:29I would love that.
11:31Yeah.
11:32Let's just explore things a little bit more.
11:34Yeah.
11:35Let's take the next step.
11:36We'll do baby steps.
11:37Let's do it.
11:39I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all
11:41to bring in, like, a single female.
11:44I thought that would be way too intimidating.
11:47I was really glad it was below water
11:48because I was really turned up.
11:50Yeah.
11:51Yeah.
11:54Yeah, like, this has been insane.
11:56Honestly, I can't believe it.
11:57Like, it's such a change.
11:58And you can't do anything.
12:00And now we're inviting...
12:02We're asked to come back to our room.
12:04Back to our room.
12:19Oh, my God, they're short short.
12:20I know, I did say, my ass, like, eats them.
12:23New arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night.
12:27Oh, that's bad.
12:33They'll be attending a sexy barn dance
12:35where they hope to meet residents
12:37who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block
12:40when it comes to opening up.
12:45Whenever we've dipped our toes into being open,
12:49Tom felt he just couldn't perform, felt really uncomfortable.
12:52They've been tasked with finding residents
12:56interested in joining them for a group experience,
12:59where the focus is only on foreplay.
13:02And they...
13:03What?
13:04I look fucking ridiculous.
13:05With no pressure to perform,
13:08the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion.
13:11I do foresee hurdles.
13:14The residents are all very beautiful.
13:16The problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious.
13:20If I went in there on my own,
13:26I think I'd probably walk straight back out.
13:34How are you guys feeling?
13:35Yeah, great.
13:37Shit's good.
13:53This is out of my comfort zone.
13:55The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room.
13:58So what we're going to do is we're going to go around
14:00and we're going to talk to them.
14:01I feel sick inside.
14:02I don't think I can.
14:03OK, so listen, there's no pressure.
14:04That's what we're saying.
14:05Let's just give it a really good go.
14:06This is what we're here for.
14:07First to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz.
14:10What are you looking for then?
14:11That's the question.
14:13For me, I need that conversation.
14:14And for you, it's just about feeling body confident around.
14:17Yeah, I'm a bit, yeah.
14:18Yeah.
14:19Just lacking in confidence a little bit.
14:21That's understandable.
14:22It's really nerve cracking.
14:24If there's any environment where personality matters more than looks,
14:27it's just what we're here for.
14:28I think that's the problem.
14:29I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
14:30We should be there for us.
14:31I think that's what we're saying.
14:32I think that's what we're saying.
14:33Like, let's just give it a really good go.
14:34This is what we're here for.
14:35First to meet them are married couple,
14:36Gem and Daz.
14:37What are you looking for, then?
14:38What are you looking for then?
14:39more than looks it's this environment we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their
14:43journey we're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling you
15:03know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared but when you have
15:07that you know responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression of the lifestyle you
15:12want to make it the best i used to be like we're like really like outgoing going gym seven days
15:17i used to have like the abs and i basically comfort eat and drink and of course i put on the weight now
15:23so you can just like kiss and you can like you can go down on them and you can touch and you don't
15:29necessarily just have the build up but i think it is the power mentality you think you've got to go
15:33for that natural process olivia and gage they made me feel so like it just felt it just felt natural
15:39just talking to her after a confidence boost from gage tom moves on to single resident aaron who's
15:47no stranger to open conversation do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience
15:53basically have fun relax and try and let my hair down to a couple that's coming into the retreat
16:00that are looking to open up i think the best thing they can do is talk to talk to us you know you've
16:06come here for the sex but don't forget that the sex comes from a person i'm a single guy i've
16:12literally just come out of a relationship with two women at the same time for two years 50 50. yeah
16:20there'll be days and weeks and months where i don't feel like i have the confidence and i'll go and
16:25play and i won't even get hard but that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable
16:30around that's that's what i'm that's so this is what we're trying to get through to talk
16:35speaking to aaron he made it easy for me to basically say i don't need my penis basically
16:42i've got my hands and i got my tongue and i think lauren really likes them as well
16:45aaron has given me fanny flutters
16:52so i've never had more than two men at once so my ideal situation would obviously be more men
17:01fresh from meeting aaron lauren feels it's time for tom to start deciding
17:06who to invite to their sensual soiree aaron because he was on the same page as you
17:12and even he doesn't get hard because i feel like he would understand you as well yeah
17:19and made me feel really at ease he yeah he was absolutely brilliant
17:25i'm so scared of the rejection mainly for tom rather than for me because is he then going
17:30to be really nervous going forward that little bit inside that if they say no it'll feel like
17:36shit yeah but you know um you just have to wait and see and see what happens we just want to know
17:42if you want to come back to him basically just maybe some games some teasing some fuddling if it
17:49escalates escalates if it doesn't it doesn't and that doesn't run
17:56okay guys i'm i'm not gonna say that i'm gonna play
17:59it's it's for me at the moment i take a lot more to get to that point
18:08i was surprised by aaron because he said he didn't want to play
18:12aaron without being rude obviously we have to move along with being honest
18:17not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but for me i don't obviously want to put tom off
18:21even more with this process it's like rejection i'm just yeah i'm shocked
18:29it's like a lot of people are going to be able to do something that's going to be
18:34right move all the things off the bed put them all on the here
18:39in their bedroom alana and alex are preparing to be joined by resident georgie
18:44are we going to be weird and going are you okay if we get protection just in case
18:49we'll just have it on the side they're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps
18:55towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap by having a threesome
19:01i don't know how this is gonna go seeing alex being with another woman with where we are now
19:09look i'm definitely open to just seeing how it goes but as much as this is a really big step for me
19:19it's also a really big step for him because he's gonna potentially be with another woman
19:25this is all new and it's starting to feel very real so my worries going into this is me being
19:32with another woman and how that might make alana feel i hope that it's the most amazing experience
19:37that we could have but equally it could not be it hello come here come in you're right oh it's so
19:48nice it would be it would be devastating if anything went wrong here for sure
19:55so much better okay this is a bit more chill yeah don't mind i'm just gonna pick up the momentum
20:04no i like that let's just pick up when we're left though
20:10the sexual chemistry was insane
20:12the fact that i could like just let go of everything and just really enjoy it like
20:25i never thought that would have happened in this experience
20:45oh
20:47but as play between alana and georgie intensifies alex retreats to the sideline
21:11i think like i was overwhelmed
21:12it was like from zero to a hundred and it caught me off guard
21:22well that was like a terrible idea i wasn't i wasn't like
21:34i can't quite match that right now
21:57i've had like the best evening like
21:59oh yay
22:00give me a little kiss
22:01yeah bye
22:06i love you so much
22:19i loved it
22:20i genuinely loved every minute of that there wasn't any part where i thought
22:25i feel uncomfortable or like oh i don't know how i feel about this like i literally loved every
22:31single second of that did you enjoy it
22:36i loved seeing you like enjoy them yeah i loved it
22:41oh do i always seem to get the wet patch
22:56maybe i could have done more but i think i was a little bit like overwhelmed by how quickly it all went
23:03at this moment i i don't know if i can open up the relationship
23:10it's the morning after alana and alex's first threesome with a female resident georgie
23:32you're so quiet
23:39got up this morning feeling really good about what happened but i could feel there was something a little
23:45bit off
23:45what are you thinking about
23:59i'm just thinking processing
24:05be sure you're okay
24:06when we first came in here obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to
24:16do a full couple swap
24:22i knew alex was in his head a little bit
24:24even at home like he can go a bit quieter sometimes but today i just knew there was something
24:29kind of underlying
24:35hello come here take a seat take a seat comfy
24:41how was last night like i'm really happy it just it felt right beautiful breakthrough
24:50i think what i liked is it was actually georgie that said like would you be okay if i kissed alex
24:58she kind of like led it a little bit which was nice and like i actually enjoyed watching it which
25:05i never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth
25:09what are you thinking alex
25:11i don't i don't know i i don't want to take away because i loved last night it was incredible but
25:18i was a little bit like overwhelmed by the whole situation yeah tell me about that
25:25i don't know like i don't think i was i wasn't like turned on physically like so that's what i'm
25:30confused at the moment about okay okay okay
25:35the couple thing i definitely want to do but again i don't know if i go all the way so
25:40that's where i think that's why i've been quiet this morning because i wasn't sure
25:43for me there's like that like something missing and i don't know what it was i feel like maybe i'm
25:46more of a connection based like when it comes to sex like deep deeper sure intimacy is that what
25:55you're seeking like intimacy to go with your sexual experience i do find it better if there's a
26:02connection and that's where i am right now like i'm trying to figure that out the thing that i want to
26:08understand is how do you feel about that um i don't feel comfortable with that sure now like
26:22i i do see that as threatening like what if you build like this really great connection with someone
26:29else that you then feel is like that that's never ever they're gonna be the thing
26:40okay yeah it's okay
26:45you're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of and stuff is coming up
26:49like that's all about that
26:53so that's scary to you right now so let's just look at it in the face
26:55the face tell me i what this what do you mean by connection let's just like i think it's definitely
27:00not like deep connection with what i have with you it's it's a lot less than that it's more
27:07familiarization like you almost want to be friends with that person before it okay i've never been
27:12like a one night guy to be fair like yeah even we didn't sleep together like straight away so i i
27:20get that i know that's not necessarily like how you work so what would that look for you in terms
27:28of you guys dating couples like do you want to have like one couple friend that you date and play
27:35with or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples like what does that look like for you we did say
27:42like it would be nice to have like one couple that we're like best friends with and we get on really
27:47well with them and like play together as well so what i have in mind is i want you to have a taste
27:55of the couple experience that that you want but i feel like the the next challenge for you is to
28:01navigate the connection piece for you to actually go there and start making a connection and for you
28:06to feel like to figure out what it feels like when it's happening and spend a bit of time connecting
28:11with the couple and then once you feel like you have a connection in place then you can escalate
28:17things in your own time and take it from there and you see how it goes for you how does that sound
28:22no that sounds that sounds good yeah good i'm fine with that are you definitely fine yeah i feel relaxed
28:28okay okay i think that the biggest thing on chess was what we've spoken about now that was like just
28:33something i need to understand thank you thank you you're welcome you're welcome enjoy
28:46i'm excited to meet um some couple today
28:51but um this moment i i don't know if i can go all the way we'll have to see
28:56we love each other right yeah we do
29:14at the sexy barn dance lauren and tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident aaron
29:20let your hair down let my hair down i'm gonna make you like that i'm not lying that that is not
29:31happening oh my god
29:43i used to do quite a lot of dancing with lauren it's what i used to really enjoy so i feel a lot
29:52more comfortable yeah
30:00when i was around tom we had a little mini dance battle and like the fact that he was just busting
30:05out the robot and like just having so much fun with it and i was like let's do this let's do that and
30:09he was just like yeah let's do it the last
30:16i'm i'm buzzing i'm literally buzzing from how happy he is
30:24he's so relaxed now
30:28rejection behind them thoughts return to their objective finding residence for a sensual after
30:35the party i feel a lot more comfortable yeah so i think it's a lot more easier to invite people
30:40and to see if they say yes or no you lead the way
30:46to see if they say yes
30:55i think it's a lot of fun
30:57but it was basically we're just wondering if um if you'd like to be
31:05to like come back with us and just basically cuddle kiss touch
31:12well i'm ready whenever you guys are i'll be at the bar i wasn't expecting that i wasn't expecting
31:18the fact that i was actually waiting for a note as tom's confidence grows and i was just wondering if
31:25you guys want to come back yeah yeah yeah oh wow yeah yeah so does the after party wondering if you
31:34want to come i love that that's quick that's so easy thank you and the guest list swells to five
31:42we were pleasantly surprised and it actually feels kind of like nice like feeling i know it sounds weird
31:49but wanted i would say i would definitely attracted to him for sure they're a vibe 100 i'm just really
31:56excited just to get to know them a bit more lauren and tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet
32:05as the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help tom overcome his performance anxiety
32:11and successfully open up
32:13we're basically we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens
32:21not promising anything i've still got them hurdles i've still got them body confidence and all that
32:26the worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out
32:43having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up
32:47alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples
32:53oh this looks so cute we're just looking for like good vibes obviously going into the couple
33:00scenario is slightly different because it's both of us have got to have an attraction to
33:05two different people then
33:08we'll see you know if it's the right people then it'll it'll be there
33:13we'll see you know if you're going to get to know them
33:16hello hello i'm joe joe love to meet you love to meet you how are you doing you all right
33:23both alex and alana really want to get to know them don't we yeah they're definitely they're super
33:29hot who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then i think coming here might
33:34have been more me so did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady what were you
33:41initially looking for connections with couples yeah yeah is where we were looking at the hardest
33:46part was obviously for me to kind of got over like insecurities with having another female like
33:53being physical and like smash that on the first night so we're like yay
33:57one thing i'd say is oh i'll do threesomes is easiest you guys have actually done probably
34:05one of the harder things like foursomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do
34:08today tonight you're looking for a couple swap yeah just trying to like find our way into it though
34:23it's definitely in the space it's just finding our like place big thing letting someone else into your
34:29relationship but it's it's nice because like you say everyone's like scenarios are different well it's
34:35about you guys that's the thing it's like you're not here to please someone else yeah it's what's
34:40best for you i didn't know how i was going to feel about it yeah um but actually like i shocked
34:47everyone ended up being absolutely fine with it alex and elana were quite attractive actually there was
34:53definitely a vibe there i think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more
35:00time with us can i go for a chat yes
35:19how have you found it um like it's been nice to speak to couples today like obviously that was
35:27what we wanted to do for me i feel like um jem and daz just feel like they would be like a really
35:34great couple to get to know i feel like they've got a similar vibe to us how are you feeling is
35:40there anyone that you felt like might have had a connection with
35:44i've like um honestly at the moment i just don't know right now if i can go any further
36:00okay how do you how are you feeling about that um yeah like i'm a little bit surprised um
36:18what is it that's making you feel that way is it that you don't feel like
36:22you want to go any further at all or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit
36:27too much too soon like it's just got a bit overwhelming
36:34mate i don't know like
36:38it's more of a me thing this now
36:43like for now but that's as far as i can go you've hit like a bit of a wall with it yeah okay
36:50i do want to redo this okay okay that makes me happy
37:06um
37:10with alex unable to continue the couple stay at the retreat has come to an end
37:21going forward i do think open up a relationship is for me and alana but
37:26but it's going to take time. It will take more time for me.
37:47I don't know, I feel like emotional now.
37:50What just happened then? I don't know.
37:58It's just the whole thing is very overwhelming, isn't it?
38:04I don't know, I don't know what to say.
38:10It's just like a very emotional few days, isn't it?
38:16The future will at some point be a full open relationship, but at the moment it's baby steps still.
38:29My house.
38:32It's just been a very overwhelming process, but I don't want to keep crying, but I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:39Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought. Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it.
38:52It's not easy, but like, we've absolutely got the ability to do it.
38:56I absolutely love you to pieces and I'm happy and glad and I love you so much.
39:04I love you so much.
39:05Just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it. However, if you hadn't, then why is everyone saying yes?
39:22Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom.
39:29Ooh!
39:31Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff, it doesn't mean like, you know, they see me and go, actually, no, what the fuck is that? It's what goes to my head.
39:40I know. So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time.
39:44Okay? Yeah. No pressure.
39:49They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay, Tom will manage to get an erection.
39:56A stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up.
40:02I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about, um, for my dick not to work.
40:09It's a little hug.
40:17Ooh!
40:18Oh, wow!
40:20Look at me.
40:21Look at me.
40:22Look at me.
40:23Look at me.
40:24Look at me.
40:26Look at me.
40:27Isn't it?
40:28Look at me.
40:29Look at me.
40:30Oh, yeah.
40:31Look at me.
40:32Yeah, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:35I'm feeling shocked, to be fair.
40:36My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable because I will get naked and run around.
40:42Like, I am the complete opposite of Tom.
40:50I know I want to be open and I'm not planning on changing that.
40:53I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle and it's Tom that is.
40:57Should we, should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy, guys?
41:00Oh, yeah.
41:01Let's do it.
41:02Yeah.
41:03Let's do it.
41:04Yeah.
41:06Put a blindfold on and nice, nice, nice.
41:09Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid?
41:12Yeah.
41:13It's basically just taking the top off.
41:14Yeah.
41:17It feels weird that I can't see you, but...
41:20I definitely want to make Lauren happy.
41:23We'll try anything.
41:24Like, jump this hurdle, basically.
41:27But once it's in my head, I can't before I freeze.
41:31Once I'm in that rut, I can't get out of the rut.
41:34How are you feeling, mate?
41:37It's weird, but...
41:38You're getting worshipped.
41:39You're getting all the attention.
41:41This is my favourite thing.
41:45Despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay, Tom lets the ladies lead.
41:52Just let us know if it gets a bit too overwhelming.
42:04It was putting shivers down my spine.
42:11I could feel everything.
42:21I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
42:28Next time on Open House...
42:31Are you ready for the next level?
42:35I feel absolutely petrified.
42:39Yeah.
42:41Is it okay to kiss?
42:43It's two guys!
42:45Whack a mother!
42:47I have identified as gay.
42:50Today, I don't know.
42:52I've been feeling very nutty.
42:55Never had any experience with gay men before.
42:59The worst case scenario would be...
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