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00:00So you guys are saving your first kiss for your wedding?
00:03Yeah.
00:04How do you do that?
00:05I've never met a straight man who voluntarily gives up
00:09the opportunity to be intimate with a woman,
00:11especially as a young man.
00:12I mean, I've got to ask you.
00:15Yeah.
00:16Are you gay?
00:19No.
00:21How did my family become your enemy so fast?
00:24Come on.
00:25You guys all call me a liar, and I'm making up .
00:28I want things to work out between Veronica and I really bad.
00:32It's insanely good when it's good, and then it flips the other way.
00:37I shouldn't have to tell you how to treat me.
00:39I shouldn't have to tell you how to love me.
00:42I think Ethan's here.
00:43That's lovely.
00:44I need a minute.
00:45I haven't met Ethan's girlfriend yet.
00:48We're both tall blondes who played volleyball,
00:50so we're either going to get along really well.
00:52Hi.
00:55Or a wormhole's going to develop,
00:57and we're going to consume each other.
01:10We made it.
01:11We made it.
01:12Nowhere long distance.
01:15Zach and I just made a long road trip from Colorado to Georgia.
01:18I went to help pack up everything, but also just to be there to support him,
01:22because I know he's leaving so much behind to come here.
01:25This will be your new home for a few days.
01:28Okay.
01:29Nice.
01:31Yeah, this will be nice.
01:34I don't know why I'm holding my coffee cup.
01:38So yeah, there's not like many places for you to hang anything?
01:42Yeah.
01:43We'll figure it out.
01:45I've dealt with that problem for five years.
01:48With Mariah being gone, I took over her old room, and Zach took my old room.
01:54So I cleaned it up a little bit.
01:56I think it is important to just have a clean space.
01:58I mean, if you can't keep that clean, what else in your life are you going to just ignore?
02:03Thanks for everything.
02:04Yeah, we know it's a huge sacrifice for you to have to give up this room.
02:06No, it's all good.
02:08Zach is going to be staying here at my dad's house pretty much up until the wedding.
02:12I'm going to be staying at the house I'm renting down in Tallahassee with Mariah,
02:16probably until about a week before the wedding.
02:18Yeah, that's coming up really quick though.
02:21All right, so make yourself at home.
02:22I'm going to excuse myself and get back to work.
02:25I'm going to let you guys just get settled in.
02:28I hope Zach won't be too loud.
02:31I won't be having any parties jumping around, you know.
02:33Gotcha.
02:33So it's great to have time just being in the same house as Isaac.
02:40I've never had a brother.
02:42And so to gain three and gain the trust of three in a short period can be exhausting,
02:48but it is also their problem as much as it is mine.
02:51And so they got to show up just as much as I am.
02:54I'll catch up with you in a little while.
02:55All right, sounds good.
02:56I feel like Zach has kind of pushed his way in.
02:59If y'all need me, just let me know.
03:01All right, sounds good.
03:02Good to see you, man.
03:03Like with the engagement, I don't think he's putting Lydia first.
03:07He's just bossy.
03:08Like everything has to be his way or he's going to have a fit.
03:12It'll be nice to get everything moved in and settled and then, uh, yeah.
03:16Move it all out in a few weeks.
03:17Move it all out in a few weeks, yes.
03:21So yeah, Isaac and Barry are here and it's going to be good to just
03:25have random time around them.
03:27I think it'll be good to just...
03:28And the girls at times.
03:34Thank you, Lydia.
03:36What was that look for?
03:38I just, yeah.
03:41Wait, what was that look for?
03:42Were you...
03:43I think it was his way of saying you're finishing all my sentences.
03:45You are finishing all my sentences.
03:47I have not finished a phrase in this whole time.
03:50I'm just excited.
03:51I'm excited too.
03:53But it is also like, I do like to talk.
03:58Anyway, we definitely have had a lot of time together in the last three days.
04:04It was really fun, but yes, we need some breathing to just settle and, like, get where we need to be.
04:14It feels like since I've met her, we haven't really had time to just breathe, but our schedules
04:21are pretty packed from now until the wedding and we're heading to Boca to see Micah and Veronica
04:26tomorrow and travel more.
04:29All right, let's go.
04:30I'm back.
04:31Veronica and Micah, just like a lot of others, have voiced their own concerns about our relationship.
04:38So we just want to spend more time with them.
04:40And if not now, when?
04:44Think you have enough tea?
05:01Hello.
05:01Good morning.
05:03Good morning.
05:03How are you today?
05:05Doing well.
05:05How are you guys doing today?
05:06Good.
05:06Good to see you again.
05:07You as well.
05:08You as well.
05:08Veronica and I kind of just started therapy recently to work towards a healthier relationship
05:14because the way we've been going at it is not going well.
05:16Let's jump into it.
05:18First of all, do you guys have any questions, any comments, any concerns that have come up since we last spoke?
05:24Um, I kind of feel like I'm going to therapy to be basically a better version of Micah.
05:34And I feel like Veronica wants me to understand and be more like her instead of trying to change herself.
05:39Well, on the walk up here, he's like accusing me of lying about something.
05:48Okay.
05:50So is that an atmosphere that we're dealing with right now?
05:52It is.
05:53Yeah.
05:54I don't think it's normal to look up your brother's girlfriend's naked photos.
06:00I didn't find it.
06:02So, Veronica, tell me what happened on the walk up here.
06:06He's in his phone.
06:08Mm-hmm.
06:09And I look over his shoulder and he's looking up his brother's girlfriend's naked photos on the internet.
06:16Are you going to start at the beginning?
06:18Yeah.
06:18She's like a naked model on the internet.
06:20No, basically...
06:21That's weird.
06:23Why are you...
06:26Micah, what's your perspective?
06:28Well, we're on our drive over here and Veronica sees a headline and she says,
06:32your brother's girlfriend has an OnlyFans.
06:34Oh my gosh.
06:35She's like, this is the tea of the day.
06:37Don't really say much at first.
06:38I'm like, really?
06:39Really?
06:39And I'm trying to get the facts.
06:41He wants to see it.
06:42Hold on.
06:42No, I don't really want to see it at all.
06:46My brother called me and I wanted to talk to him about it.
06:49He's like, if you find anything, send it to me, but I don't think she does.
06:53Then I asked Veronica, I was like, can you show me what makes you think that?
06:58I think it was a headline that just for grabs and she's going around spreading rumors.
07:03And I wanted to see if it's actually true.
07:05He wants to see naked, naked family members.
07:09Why, why would you say that?
07:10Why would, if he's saying that-
07:12Because he looks up naked people on the regular.
07:13Now he's going to look up a naked woman that like,
07:16somehow happens to be in the same cest pool we're in.
07:19Like, the you're not seeing her ever again.
07:23Ever.
07:24However.
07:24Yes, never.
07:26Veronica.
07:27Veronica, I was not doing it for that.
07:30I don't trust you.
07:31You're not allowed around her now.
07:33Veronica, we've talked about trust.
07:38There's no-
07:39You have to believe him when he says that he was looking for the headline.
07:45No, he wanted to see it.
07:46And I said, go figure it out.
07:48It's on the internet.
07:48To find the proof of what you said.
07:51He's not the P.I. here.
07:52Neither one of you are.
07:54No, I brought it up.
07:55But he doesn't need to go digging into other people's .
07:57He'll end up in bed with her.
07:58I'm, you're not seeing her anymore.
08:00That is so not true.
08:02So true.
08:03You don't think my brother's girlfriend
08:07is someone I know that is 100% off limits.
08:09And I'm defending my brother in this scenario
08:12and looking with his business interests.
08:14Nobody's off limits.
08:15Remember, I should be off limits to getting hurt.
08:19That you would sleep with anyone.
08:21Why are you going that far?
08:22Because he's not saying-
08:23Because he goes that far very quickly.
08:26But it's just like, it's not just this.
08:28It's so many things.
08:29When she finds out something that paints certain family members of mine in a bad light,
08:35she is so quick to not fact check them, but just spread them.
08:38Did the same thing not happen to me?
08:42I don't think so.
08:45Okay, so Micah said that it seems like any time there's an opportunity
08:51to kind of dig into the family and point out something maybe not so positive,
08:56right?
08:57You take that opportunity.
08:58You say, yes, I do that because it was done to me.
09:01Yes.
09:01Yes.
09:02Right.
09:03How can you imagine that makes Micah feel for you to dig into his family,
09:08the people that he loves?
09:10Well, hopefully, sort of how I feel when they dig into me.
09:15And what is that?
09:17Frustration, disappointment.
09:20I'm very much eye for an eye.
09:22If they treat me like that, I'll match energy.
09:24When it comes to Veronica and how she feels about the way Micah's family perceives her,
09:31Veronica has the dynamic of approval addiction.
09:35She wants to be accepted.
09:37And so when the family is saying things or doing things that does not feel like acceptance,
09:42that may feel like rejection, it goes to heart.
09:45It's her fear.
09:47Fear of losing, fear of not being loved, fear of being by herself.
09:53Micah, tell Veronica how that feels for you when she takes those jabs and digs at your family.
10:01Well, it puts me on a little the defensive side over the people I grew up,
10:06my only friends growing up.
10:08So it's very hurtful.
10:10And I'm torn between the girl I love and the family I love.
10:15And I want nothing but unity and everyone to be able to get along.
10:20I follow the golden rule, treat others the way you want to be treated.
10:23They're treating me this way, I'll do that and then some.
10:27I love a competition.
10:29So I'm just in the mud, slinging it with them.
10:32In pure Veronica fashion, I go put on the mud on my face and go to war.
10:39It's not the golden rule though.
10:41You weren't raised with the golden rule.
10:44It was one of the Ten Commandments, obviously, it was love thy neighbor as thyself,
10:49which is basically the golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated.
10:51The golden rule is the Ten Commandments.
10:53It's basically the same thing.
10:54So the thing is, if that behavior continues, it is detrimental to the relationship.
11:01Because going in the mud is doing nothing for you.
11:04It feels good.
11:08Veronica.
11:13Micah called me and said that
11:14Veronica was accusing Tegan of having an OnlyFans account.
11:17And when I got off the phone with Micah, I called Tegan right away and told her.
11:21It's really fan-like behavior, in my opinion, to be so obsessed with someone
11:26that you've met one single time.
11:29When I do try to talk, she shuts me down.
11:32I know I need to get better at talking over him.
11:35Growing like the tortoise and the hare.
11:36He's the tortoise and I'm the hare running and like doing laps.
11:41You know how that ended, right?
11:43Yeah.
11:43The tortoise one.
11:44I know.
11:52I don't know.
11:53I've never really cooked with charcoals.
11:55I don't know how much to do.
11:56I would just do the whole bag.
11:57Ooh, bite-sized potatoes.
12:01Earlier today, me and Tegan and Isaac Kalen came out to get some work down the farm and
12:06help clean up and get it ready for Lydia's wedding.
12:08Hey, Isaac, pull the boom all the way up.
12:12That's always fun, hanging out with Isaac.
12:14Oh, God, look at them.
12:16Me and Ethan at heart are country boys.
12:22You'd never find us living in the city.
12:24We're like at home here.
12:25Just, there's no place I'd rather be.
12:28It's a big chunk of dirt.
12:29My parents were like my dad's heart.
12:33Yeah, no, Ethan does the dad kind of look.
12:39I flew in a few weeks early before the wedding to come visit everyone before it gets chaotic.
12:45We have a fun dinner set up, and then I have a fun activity for after.
12:50I got some matches.
12:53Well, I guess this stuff's not super flammable, I don't think.
12:56I don't think so.
12:57Yeah, me and Isaac are going to grill some steaks tonight.
13:00I do not know how they're going to turn out because I've never grilled on a charcoal grill before.
13:05Never in my life.
13:07Well, I'm going to step back when you let it.
13:08So, it's not flammable like you think.
13:14It's just like.
13:22My dad did have a propane grill, but pretty much everything we cooked was on the stove.
13:28Look at there.
13:31I think we're going to have some hot steaks.
13:33How does it feel being with the plath?
13:37Um, I really like it.
13:39I think they sort of get a bad rap sometimes, and I feel like every other family is dysfunctional.
13:45No one's perfect.
13:46I mean, I can attest to my own family.
13:48None of us are perfect, so.
13:49Yeah, every family's got their ups and downs and their crazies.
13:52Yeah.
13:54How far back have you been squirted in from?
13:56I don't know.
14:01Have you spent a lot of time with Micah and them, or?
14:03No, so the only time I've ever met Micah was on the proposal day, and I really didn't get to
14:10spend any time with them. I mostly spent time with Veronica.
14:13Do you wish Micah and Veronica were here to have a triple date with you guys?
14:23I mean, yeah, I would like it if Micah was along. He'd be fifth wheeling though, but
14:27I think we can leave Veronica out of this one, and just so we can have a good time, you know?
14:34The first time I met Veronica was at the proposal, and she tried to get me to talk crap about the
14:39family, because she would sit there and say something about Amber and Miss Kim and everybody,
14:44and then she was like, well, how are they to you? And I said, everybody's been so welcoming and so
14:47nice. I said, I get along with everybody. I said, I don't have a problem with anybody.
14:51So, and that kind of shut her up real quick.
14:58Micah called me and said that Veronica was accusing Teagan of having an OnlyFans
15:02account, and when I got off the phone with Micah, I called Teagan right away and told her.
15:07Yeah, um, Aether was really upset. I thought it was really funny. I couldn't stop laughing,
15:13and obviously it's not true, and I just felt really flattered that she felt like
15:17she could say that about me, because not everyone, I guess, could have an OnlyFans.
15:22I don't know. It's really fan-like behavior, in my opinion, to be so obsessed with someone
15:27that you've met one single time, so. This one is most well done, I believe. Okay.
15:36Veronica's done so much crap in the last few months that's completely unnecessary,
15:41including reaching out to Olivia. She enjoys the fighting. She enjoys the drama. She's more
15:46interested in digging up dirt on other people. I guess maybe she just wanted it to be true.
15:53Veronica must be very insecure about something at the end of the day. I don't know if it's her
15:58relationship with Micah, her relationship with the family, in relation to just herself even.
16:03It's just sad. That's all. I actually think the steak is very flavorful. Tastes like charcoal
16:09and lighter fluid. Does it really? Yeah, it does.
16:26Going in the mud is doing nothing for you. It feels good.
16:30You get it off your chest. But then you bring it into your relationship, and that's not healthy.
16:40You've got to decide what really feels good. To slowly destroy him?
16:46He's already destroyed me. Well, why are you here?
16:49Because I love him.
16:51But if you love him, you have to decide also to forgive.
16:55And communication is going to be how you get there.
17:01Yeah, it is very, very discouraging because when I do try to talk, she shuts me down really quick
17:09and talks over me.
17:12I find it hard, and I know I need to get better at talking over him. There's a lot of awkward silence,
17:18and I'm like going like the tortoise and the hare. He's the tortoise, and I'm the hare running
17:23and like doing laps. You know how that ended, right?
17:27Yeah. The tortoise one. I know.
17:29So just because you run a laps don't mean it's okay.
17:33But I'm not going to hide how I feel. I'm just very direct and straightforward.
17:40I grew up bullied. I wasn't skinny enough. I wasn't bright enough. I wasn't beautiful enough.
17:47There's trauma from that. But some of it re-triggers when I feel not enough in my relationship.
17:55I always want to go above and beyond for my people. And I worry about others more than myself.
18:00It's okay to be frustrated, irritated. It's okay to have all the feelings. But knowing that
18:07you've said some things that in the moment you meant them, but then later you didn't mean it like that.
18:15Right? So is it possible for you to say, hey, you know what? I want to do something different.
18:20I need to work on that. She's attracted to it though. She likes...
18:23Chaos. Yeah, she likes chaos.
18:30Maybe that's why I like you. Veronica? So are you saying that Micah is chaos?
18:36Yeah, sometimes. Is he really? Or is it the things that are associated with him that are connected to him?
18:43It's the outside influences with him. Micah's a great person. I know that. He's got a good heart.
18:48Mm-hmm. He's got a good soul. He's a good guy. But the outside forces
18:56greatly inhibit everything. Yeah.
18:58He's one for peer pressure and I'm wanting to listen to nobody.
19:01Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And so what do you need from him?
19:08I need him to be a good, loyal, honest man, not looking for naked pictures of a woman we know.
19:12Okay. Let's just say dogs will be dogs.
19:18Veronica, you can't keep going in the mud. I see you at the pit right now.
19:21Can you hear me? I'm going to cut my losses to be honest with you.
19:24Hey, hey, hey. Can you hear me?
19:25Yeah. You're talking out of hurt and pain right now and fear.
19:30When it comes to healing in a relationship, there is a great need for individual accountability.
19:35However, when it comes to the session today, I don't really see any accountability.
19:41I see blaming. I see excuses. But no accountability.
19:50It's going to take some work to get through this.
19:52Yeah, but I'm tired of being hurt.
19:55I get it. And I'm tired of you being hurt too. But I'm also tired of you hurting others. Micah.
20:03I'm tired of you hurting yourself. He's made some choices that were not wise choices,
20:08but he is someone that you love. And you don't want another person that you love to hurt you.
20:12You don't want another person that you love to let you down.
20:18But you guys need to give each other grace to grow.
20:25All right.
20:35Okay. I appreciate you guys for your time today.
20:42You're welcome. Thank you, Micah.
20:47It's so insane. But it goes to show the dynamic of Veronica and I when we're struggling.
20:52I know it's going to be insanely hard, but I feel like I'm ready to do absolutely anything to
20:59work on our relationship. But when new things continually blow up out of nowhere,
21:05it's becoming more and more difficult to like be able to reconcile and work through all of this.
21:14How do you?
21:15I mean, if Tegan goes to the wedding, I'm not going. That's it.
21:21I'm not scot-free and clean from the situation. I have jumped to conclusions.
21:25I've called Micah names. But come on. I can't forget about the track record of the past.
21:32It's shaped where we are today. I just can't trust him with women though. It's hard.
21:37Are you all ready to start painting? Let's give it a shot. I thought it'd be fun tonight
21:50on our double date to do a trend I saw on social media where you paint your significant other in
21:55a timed setting. I think it's a good opportunity for all of us to have some fun and be goofy
22:00together because I feel like that's when everyone's at their best. So do we all paint at the same
22:05time? Yeah. I wish I had like a pencil to like draw it out first. How are you feeling about your
22:13creative skills? I have OCD about some stuff. I will say that. I feel like I need my colors picked up.
22:22Are you a perfectionist? No. I just try to make myself look a little bit nice. I don't know why
22:31you want a picture when I'm literally right here. Because it's easier to just like like this.
22:35Okay, ready everyone? I'll just start the 10 minute timer. Okay. Okay. Oh gosh, this is stressing me out.
22:44And Isaac's just like in his little own world. I definitely did the wrong shape of the head,
22:48which is going to just screw me up because that's the beginning. Yeah, we never did any art classes.
22:54That wasn't one of the things your mom taught you? No. I never done any painting in my life.
23:00I'm just worried I'm going to like damage her confidence and like, you know, is that what I look
23:06like? Have you done taking art classes, Stephen? Yeah, in school. You have to. Really? Yeah.
23:14You weren't forced to make clay things or paper mache or paint or color and shade. Oh, I made stuff out
23:22of clay. Yeah. Yeah. I would go dig a hole and get down to where the clay is. Yeah. And I'd mix it
23:27with water and I'd make like rocks and I'd make them. They were like cannonballs in my mind. Oh, would you
23:36throw them? A high. Naturally. Okay. I haven't even started painting yet. Okay. Well, you got seven
23:45minutes. Seven? Yeah. I'm so scared. The skin color looks really good though.
23:55Okay. We're down to three minutes.
23:56I'm so scared to see what he's got. Okay. We have less than a minute. Okay. You know what? We're just
24:07gonna. It's fine. It'll be fine. Okay. Everyone put your pencils down. Oh, not pencils. Okay. I'm scared.
24:15I can go first, I guess. Okay. Renny Ethan.
24:17Tegan. Tegan is a wonderful painter, but she did the beard and then she tried to do the blonde hair
24:26and it just looks like a turban. All right. You guys want to see Tegan? Yeah.
24:34What? Ethan, we were drawing like just a face.
24:40Why am I naked? Because I like it that way. Okay. Okay. Well, since Veronica's saying that Tegan
24:52has an OnlyFans account, I decided to paint Tegan just like a full body figure nude, you know?
25:00My humor definitely is rated R. All right. Do you guys want to see Karen?
25:05What? This is you. That is bad. It kind of looks like a cross between Kaelin and a pig.
25:20I mean, it kind of does. Like it kind of, the hair resembles you, but the face resembles a pig.
25:26So it's like a pig if you had your hair. You just keep digging the whole deeper. I'm not
25:29saying you look like a pig. I'm saying the painting looks like a pig,
25:33which is shaming me, not you, right? It's better than being naked. That's all I know.
25:40Okay, Kaelin. All right. Do you want to see? How's it? Yeah.
25:44Look at his shoulders. Wait, let me see. Let me see. Yo, okay. Today was a good day. It's a blessing
25:55Tegan and Kaelin did along. I always get homesick when I get back to Minnesota. I miss my siblings. I think
26:01about moving down. I really would love to, but we'll see. If I had a hat on it, it would look
26:08better. Like the skin tone. That looks like a 50-year-old woman. It's where I draw it a lot.
26:13Shortly after our therapy, when I came home and sort of put my guard down, um,
26:33I realized a lot of times I say things I don't mean in anger. So I'm trying to leave heated topics,
26:41arguments behind and just move forward. It's a calming mist. Another one that says mood happy.
26:50I've not been using it obviously. Um, but I think it'll be better. Lydia and Zach are coming here
26:58today and Micah and I know we have to put aside any struggles we have right now and just get to know
27:03them better, but we're good at faking it. Micah and I have fully moved into the house at this point.
27:10I mean, sort of. Our pipes are really broken, like really bad. So it's a show literally over here.
27:20I'm literally trenching under the house to fix a problem. I gotta go deep. I feel like that's kind
27:26of what we're doing with our relationship too. I just understand plumbing a lot better than girls.
27:33Hey Micah. We made it. Hello guys. I see someone's working hard. And barefoot too. Love it.
27:45How's it going? Good. How are you? So Lydia and Zach came down to South Florida to visit us.
27:49You know, I just want to make sure he's cool with the way things were handled and the questions that
27:55were asked up in Georgia during the, after the proposal. How's it going Zach? Good. Good to see you, bro.
28:00Part of me is a little concerned that Veronica is going to blow up with Lydia and Zach because
28:05she's done that to other family members before. But I really hope that we can have a decent time
28:11with Lydia and Zach while they're here. Looks like you're digging up the dirt. It's good.
28:16It should become our disaster area. Last time I saw Micah and Ethan was with him,
28:23right after I proposed, you know, them asking me if I was gay. I feel it's a bit disrespectful
28:29just because I just proposed to Lydia. I'm not a person of grudges. And if people are eager to know
28:36us, then it won't take long for them to see the man that Zach is. But if they don't give them that
28:43opportunity, they're missing out. See all this dirt right here?
28:46Mm-hmm. Guess where that came from? Underneath the house. Underneath?
28:51Underneath the house? Underneath. Oh no.
28:53It's a cave. Last time I saw Lydia and Zach was at the proposal and I was very stressed out,
28:58feeling unwelcome, unwanted, and just out of place and sort of angry. I don't think Lydia noticed,
29:05but the boys and I were very defensive. Zach came in and was very strong at first with us and were like,
29:11who are you? Very mean girls. You can't sit with us. When I came home, I realized Zach might put up
29:19walls just the same way I do when we're with that family, because it's stressful. There's a lot of
29:23them. I think it was his first time at a massive gathering, so I want to give him some grace there.
29:30Here Lydia, I'll help you out. All right, now grab the shovel. What do you think? I see the drip, yeah.
29:37Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. I'm not too worried about Micah trying to give Zach a hard time,
29:45but even if he does, I know it'll be nothing Zach can handle. You're going to ask me if I'm game
29:49game? Are you? Here Lydia, I'll help you out. All right, now grab the shovel. What do you think?
30:02I see the drip, yeah. Oh my gosh. Oh gosh. Okay, okay. Lydia stopped me. Yeah,
30:13in the last few months, Mike and Veronica have moved to a new house and there's a lot of work
30:19to do here, so Zach and I hope to help out with as much of that. Hey Veronica. Hello. Oh my gosh,
30:24watch your stuff. How are you? Good to see you. Good to see you. Zach's already in the house.
30:30He's under the house. You've been under it before you've gone in it.
30:35The dogs are welcoming you as well. Do you want to go see the inside of the house? Yeah.
30:39You know, the wedding's coming up in a few weeks and not to mention Zach and I have a lot to do
30:44ourselves right now, but also there's no better time for Micah to get to know Zach than before he's my
30:50husband. Well, welcome to our house. Little house tour. This is the living room. This used to be
30:55three or four different rooms. Yeah. We put the tile in. People love and hate the tile. We've been
31:00working on the kitchen. We opened it up and we're basically, the kitchen's going from there all the
31:04way to that wall. I got to go outside. You finish the house tour. I'll be back in a bit. If you need help,
31:08just let us know. I would love to help anyway. This is nice back here. Yeah, watch your stuff.
31:17Watch your stuff. That should be the name of the house. Watch your stuff. Lydia's the sweetest
31:23person ever. Like, she's just a breath of fresh air. I wouldn't count her in the group of plots.
31:28I think she's very different than the rest. She's non-judgmental. Unless I'm a Satanist,
31:33I don't think there's another way that she won't accept me. Compared to everybody else,
31:37they don't accept me because of Mariah's word. Thankfully, Zach's here to help Micah,
31:41because normally it's me helping Micah and running around panicking.
31:44I'm sorry for you. You gotta laugh at it. Yeah. I guess, like, the house is a fresh slate for
31:53both of us. We're doing therapy, communicating with each other. It's just showing up for your
31:59partner and, like, I could tell Zach does that, which is nice. Micah and I are learning that.
32:07Yeah. You would think that seeing Micah and Veronica having their first house together
32:12and all that would, like, make me excited for Zach and I's first house together, but I guess our
32:18relationships are so different. Like, Zach and I are waiting to live together till after we're married,
32:23and I've never really heard Micah talk about marriage in general much. Maybe that's just because
32:30I'm his little sister. How are you and, uh, Veronica doing? Uh, we're doing...
32:35Doing pretty good. Yeah. Have our ups and downs, of course. I mean, commitment of you're not married,
32:44but you bought a house together is always something. I mean, it's been great, but I would just hate
32:51for some little thing to blow up, you know? Yeah. It's a good challenge to go through. I'm sure if you
32:58guys get through this and it's, like, you guys can do anything, kind of pushing each other forward.
33:04That's good. So... The last time I saw you was the proposal. Yeah, which I barely saw you then.
33:11I know. I liked you, but that's about all. We were both in, like, our own chaotic worlds,
33:16and, like, I definitely didn't want to be by everybody at that time. It was stressful. Yeah.
33:21Yeah. I think anybody else's engagement, I don't know if I would have showed up.
33:25Hmm. I would have been like, have fun makeup. It's really sweet for Veronica to say, but it's also,
33:32like, when you have a grudge with pretty much the rest of the family, then I don't know if it's
33:39necessarily that I'm the special one or because there's a grudge with everyone else. I love and
33:44appreciate you as a person, as a pseudo-sister, we're going to call it. So I was like, I have to show up
33:51for that even when I was, like, fighting my biggest battles being there. Yeah. I'm hoping for the
33:57wedding. Alive. Yeah. For the wedding, there's going to be different things going on in everyone's
34:02lives, but just for the day. Enjoy the wedding. Yeah. I don't know if I can go to the wedding.
34:08All those people, all those unresolved feelings in one room slash grass field. If I can remain silent,
34:16but my face is going to speak for itself. I've got Botox, but not that much.
34:23I think it'll be good. Yeah. I'm excited. And it's, it's amazing how everything's coming together.
34:31I guess I kind of just trust that even when there's drama between other family members,
34:36that people just have enough respect for a wedding to not bring it to that. But yeah, we'll see.
34:42No lighting things on fire for the boys. I heard about that. They were being so disrespectful.
34:50I was like, boys, no, it was sort of funny though. I hope so. I know Zach handled that well, but yeah.
34:58I'm not too worried about Micah trying to give Zach a hard time, but even if he does,
35:01I know it'll be nothing Zach can't handle. At least Micah invited us and opened up his house to us and
35:08just making an effort to get to know Zach. You don't have any hard feelings against the way Ethan
35:13and I asked you questions, do you? No. I know you guys have your ways. I'm a brother of two sisters
35:18and I totally would do the same thing. I would want to know a guy who's trying to marry my sister.
35:24Yeah. I understand that there were some very interesting questions Ethan and I asked Zach,
35:30like if he was straight or gay. There's a lot of guys who would, you know, be super, super upset.
35:37But Zach says he's not hurt over that. So I guess that's good. If he is going to be Lydia's significant
35:45other, I want to see what Lydia sees in him. You're going to ask me if I'm gay again?
35:50Are you? No, God. Why are you gay? You are gay. No, bro.
36:09Shall we make a drink? You guys want to try Veronica's famous espresso martinis? I would love that.
36:14Since you like coffee and you're turning 21. So it was just Lydia's 21st birthday.
36:21It's nice to be able to share that with her, have her our first drink together.
36:25When she needs her coffee, she needs her coffee. I don't drink coffee every day,
36:28but the days I do drink coffee, I drink it. And then why? Yeah.
36:33Do you want to help me, Micah? The days Veronica tells me what to do and then why.
36:39That's true. Fair enough. As it should.
36:42Good. I'm aware that there is some, I don't know, tension. I don't know what,
36:47something going on between Micah and Veronica. I want Micah to be able to share what we share
36:52in the sense of mutual respect and seeking to serve the other. And I just, I haven't seen that.
37:01Cheers. Cheers.
37:02Okay. Well, I'm just going to watch Lydia. There we go.
37:07That's good. Yeah? Yeah.
37:10All right. So are we playing games? I am down.
37:13Lydia and Zach seem to have a good dynamic together. I wish Veronica and I could pick
37:18up a little on that, but Lydia and Zach are also in their honeymoon phase. So
37:22Veronica and I were like that one time too.
37:25Okay. Let's do one round of truth or dare. Lydia goes first.
37:28Zach, truth or dare? I feel like I have to do dare. I feel like I shared every truth with me.
37:36Yeah, that is true. You guys have talked about everything.
37:40Most everything. I can't think of anything that I don't know about.
37:43Then do something that would be uncomfortable for us to hear.
37:46Okay. That's the point of this game.
37:48Sure. To see if he would tell the truth in front of you guys.
37:51I'll do it. I'm open book.
37:52So you said truth.
37:53Mm-hmm.
37:54Have you ever gotten drunk?
37:59Nope.
38:01See, I knew that answer.
38:03Lame.
38:05Well, there we are. Happy and lame. How about that?
38:07Oh, and dirty hands.
38:09Okay, Veronica, it's your turn.
38:13Truth or dare, Lydia.
38:14So, Zach and Lydia are saving their first kiss for marriage.
38:21So, Micah and I are like whispering to each other like,
38:23ooh, let's get them to kiss. Maybe they'll do it.
38:26Just shoot.
38:27So, I'll give you two alternate there.
38:30Kiss or take a shot.
38:35That's a loophole.
38:38You didn't specify enough.
38:40You didn't specify.
38:42They played us.
38:43They found a loophole.
38:44She like kissed them on the cheek and I was like,
38:46I kissed strangers on the cheek.
38:49I thought you were going to tell them.
38:50Tell them what?
38:52How to actually kiss.
38:55Okay, you go like this.
38:58That was awkward.
38:59And then, yes.
39:04They knew that we wouldn't kiss on the lips,
39:06so they thought shot would be the other option.
39:09Alternative.
39:09Alternative.
39:10And I was like, oh, but you didn't specify.
39:12And I'm quicker than you.
39:14I'm like, bet.
39:16Wanna do it again?
39:19I have a dare.
39:20Do the worm.
39:22Oh, my God.
39:22That's the last time I did that.
39:23Micah, do the worm.
39:24Last time I did that, I think I broke my chin.
39:25Do the worm.
39:26That's why it's split like that.
39:30No.
39:31That was eventful.
39:32Oh, what do you say?
39:34I can't.
39:35I don't want to do it on these floors.
39:37Good work, good work.
39:40Honestly, it's impressive.
39:42You know, having this time with Micah,
39:44I feel like there's been more growth and understanding for one another.
39:47I think Micah and I have connected well.
39:50I love the effort.
39:50Oh, I hurt my back.
39:53My neck, my back.
39:55This is a rough floor to do that on.
39:56I'll give you that.
39:57I know.
39:58It hurt many parts of my body.
40:00I'm having a good, genuine time, but I don't know if I can go to the wedding.
40:05Like, there's so much baggage and trauma with this family.
40:10And if I see Tegan, I'm afraid something bad's going to happen.
40:14I don't trust Micah.
40:15It's simple as that.
40:17I can't trust a cheater.
40:19And if he goes to the wedding by himself, we're done.
40:24All right, guys, hang on.
40:27Right to B. Here we go.
40:28Sorry, my wedding day is four days away, and there's a million people to coordinate with.
40:31I'm not sleeping tonight until everything is done.
40:34I got some drip going on.
40:36I feel like Barry wants to be the fun, approving dad.
40:40I could hug him.
40:41I think that's why he signed off on the marriage so quickly.
40:45Hi, Bobas.
40:46I decided to come.
40:47Micah and I agreed with a pact to not leave each other's side.
40:53We're not even here an hour, and he already left me by myself.
40:56Mother .
40:59When we see a bunch of red flags that somebody's getting ready to make a lifelong commitment,
41:04I feel like we owe it to them to say, this is what we see.
41:08I agree.
41:09I'm ready to get married.
41:12Got a lot of pent-up emotions and stuff that hasn't been expressed.
41:24Wait.
41:30You talk a little bit client pass?
41:30Don't ask three things.
41:31not half of our ways.
41:31Don't ask me if I'm forced.
41:32Put a secret for you.
41:34I'll go on in.
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