00:00When women take a step, their step I mean, society has fixed each for everything and
00:08when one is crossing back, one finds a tremendous pressure, tremendous social control, social
00:15pressure, even pressure non-directly to oneself, rather than through parents, that they're
00:21emotionally lynched.
00:23So how to cope up with that?
00:25Like even you said that, yeah, I stop here, okay.
00:30How do they apply that pressure?
00:32They press against your arm, your head, your neck.
00:37How do they apply that pressure?
00:41Conduct of the conduct.
00:43Conduct of the conduct.
00:45Like they don't do anything to me.
00:47They're not in touch with me.
00:49I'm not talking to anybody.
00:51But the pressure comes to me.
00:52How it works, it works to the chain, to the parents, how parents come in that grip, they
01:00get any public platform, any festivals, functions, to their face.
01:06Listen, one must know, please, please understand, one must know the relative value of things.
01:12No function, no celebration is worth going to, if it is crowded with people who don't have the basic, basic sense of life.
01:27Why should I go to a place that's infested with animals?
01:36I mean, that's the reason I asked, how exactly do they apply pressure to you?
01:41They say things, right?
01:43That's the only way they do stuff, right?
01:45They say things.
01:46First of all, why are you available to listen to them?
01:48Secondly, even if you do get to hear what they are saying, why must you accord importance to what they are saying?
02:03A madman is saying things to you.
02:06Will that affect you, hurt you?
02:08Please, there can be no liberation, if first of all, your priorities are not clear.
02:20If you keep giving priority to stuff that is anyway valueless, then you will never be able to break free.
02:30Never, never.
02:31Some random person comes and says something, and that becomes a headache to you.
02:41Why?
02:43Why?
02:46Why must you mind the fools so much?
02:53Why must you be so reticent, so reluctant in declaring fools as fools?
03:01Announce that on their face.
03:06Sir, now that you have said this, let me say something.
03:09You are an idiot.
03:14Utter that and be relieved for good.
03:19Now he'll never dare to say anything else.
03:22That's all.
03:23But you know, when I say this, this sounds so unbelievable, right?
03:27But we are dainty, cultured, educated girls.
03:34We have been trained to be polite and respectful.
03:38So you keep your politeness.
03:45Learn to be disrespectful.
03:46And learn to be disrespectful, right on the face.
03:55And for your own sake, memorize a few nice, heavy abuses.
04:02And get some practice in using them.
04:10In front of the mirror maybe.
04:19And do not use them only in front of your friends.
04:24Throw those abuses to those who act as your elders, your well-wishers.
04:29And in the name of care and love, they want to throw you into captivity.
04:41When that happens, that's the occasion to just shoot the abuse.
04:59Ooh!
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