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00:00My dilemma is between passion and pressure.
00:03So it's like the passion that I naturally have
00:05and the pressure that the society tells me to do something mediocre instead.
00:09You know, just go for CS. There's a job there.
00:11It's a false dilemma. You know what a false dilemma is?
00:14You're told only A and B exists. C is anywhere discounted.
00:16No C option exists.
00:18And between A and B, B is just so scary that you'll have to go for A.
00:23That's how you are made to go for really life-sucking options.
00:30You said you loved space. You used the word passion.
00:34So go for it. Why are you caring for money?
00:37Maybe I don't care about money.
00:39But what if I have people who are dependent on me?
00:42So I agree with you, but...
00:44But?
00:45But. There is a but.
00:46It is to some extent also natural because humans are herd animals.
00:51If we are herd animals, that means to fit into society.
00:55Animals don't hold mics, do they?
00:57We still want to call ourselves animals.
01:02Yes, of course, we have this biology.
01:04But we left the jungle behind, didn't we?
01:06Or do we want to still live as animals?
01:08Yes, yes, you are very right.
01:10I agree with that, just as you agree with me, but...
01:13Sir, I'll be asking my next question.
01:18So my question actually revolves around passion.
01:22So for a very long time, I have been interested in electronics engineering,
01:26specifically in the science technology, the space technology fact.
01:29So it is a very niche and very specific field space technology.
01:32And thinking practically in India, there are like a very less vacancies in ISRO,
01:38very less startups in space technology.
01:41And you know, the whole life I have been doing passion projects,
01:43learning about space, this and that.
01:45And everything was directed directly towards my passion.
01:48I never thought to either divert anywhere from the whole thing.
01:52My motivation was like this high, every time.
01:54But the moment I came in my 11th standard,
01:57most of them started telling me that you're really interested in the space.
02:00Why aren't you going for CS?
02:02Why aren't you going for electronics?
02:03Like they'll pressure me into doing something that is safe.
02:07That is very practical.
02:08And I just want to follow my passion to the end without actually thinking anything.
02:13But that would get my motivation well off down.
02:16And I'll be like rethinking about do I really want to go through this whole thing?
02:20Because it's very risky.
02:21It's not very sure that I'll get financial stability.
02:25I'll get this and that.
02:26So, sir, I came across this quote from your book.
02:38So, first of all, my dilemma is between passion and pressure.
02:42So, it's like the passion that I naturally have.
02:44And the pressure that the society tells me to do something mediocre instead.
02:48You know, just go for CS.
02:49There's job there.
02:51So, after reading the quote,
02:52True fulfillment comes not from passion or pressure,
02:55but from a deep understanding of what must be done, driven by love, not desire.
02:59This whole line was never in my equation.
03:01Can you help figuring out what someone do by explaining what you meant by driven by love, not desire?
03:08See, this is a false dilemma.
03:11It's a false dilemma.
03:13You know what a false dilemma is?
03:15A false dilemma is when you are given two options and told that no third one exists.
03:27A false dilemma is when you are given option A and option B and told to choose between the two
03:37and convinced that no third option C exists.
03:43That's called a false dilemma.
03:44And related to this is also what is called the Hobson's choice.
03:51Hobson's choice is among these two, one would be made to look so compelling, so inviting, so obvious,
03:59that you would never go for the second one.
04:01So, there is A and B and between A and B, A is decorated so much, embellished so much,
04:10that A looks the finally only option remaining.
04:15You are told only A and B exists, C is anywhere discounted, no C option exists.
04:20And between A and B, B is just so scary that you will have to go for A.
04:25That's how you are made to go for really life-sucking options.
04:37If you go for space, you'll starve.
04:43If you go for space engineering or research in space or you go into cosmology,
04:52astronomy, astronomy, you will be starved.
04:58There's no career there.
05:00You'll be finished off.
05:03That's option B.
05:06Option A, everybody is doing CS, everybody is doing EC,
05:11everybody is doing IT or AI.
05:15Go for it, go for it.
05:16So, first of all, no option C is allowed to stand.
05:22And between A and B, B is demonized so much that you finally surrender and kneel towards A.
05:35That's how the whole power dynamic operates.
05:39You really think space scientists starve?
05:50You really think that way?
05:52First thing.
05:53Second thing.
05:55You said you loved space.
05:58You used the word passion.
06:01So,
06:02go for it.
06:05Why are you caring for money?
06:07Why are you caring for money?
06:09The rule of existence is
06:11do anything in the best way possible
06:14and you won't have to worry about your sustenance.
06:21Money will follow.
06:24Though,
06:25it will not follow in the predictable ways
06:27or
06:31at the desired or appointed time.
06:34It will come on its own.
06:36Yes,
06:37it might not make you a millionaire, billionaire something.
06:42But you will have enough
06:43and more than enough
06:45to live happily.
06:48But you say,
06:52no,
06:52before I move towards my love,
06:55which you are calling as passion,
06:57before I move towards my love,
07:00I also need
07:01to be convinced
07:03that there is enough financial security there.
07:06Yes,
07:07you can be convinced
07:08of the paths
07:09that guarantee financial security.
07:11But then those paths
07:13are all
07:15very,
07:15very crowded lanes.
07:21As a young person
07:22sitting out in life
07:24with the zeal,
07:26the zest,
07:27the energy,
07:28the freshness
07:28that youth must have,
07:32why should you
07:33choose those
07:35crowded,
07:36stuffy lanes?
07:37Why?
07:37And that too
07:40at the cost of your love.
07:42Just because
07:43you have been
07:45terrorized
07:48that you will starve.
07:53If I really have a passion
07:55to live for,
07:59what will I need
08:01too much money for?
08:02Tell me, please.
08:04What will you do
08:05with that kind of money?
08:06Your days,
08:08your nights,
08:09they'll be occupied
08:10by your passion,
08:11right?
08:12You really think
08:13Einstein had the time
08:14to splurge?
08:16The problem
08:17will be time.
08:19Even if you have
08:20a lot of money,
08:21what will you do
08:21with that?
08:22Because the greatest joy
08:23that you get
08:23comes from your
08:24work.
08:27It doesn't come
08:28from shopping
08:28or tourism
08:30or flaunting.
08:32Do you get this?
08:37You're a painter.
08:39You'd want to paint
08:40without a break
08:43if you're really in love.
08:46You're a scientist.
08:46You'll want to be
08:47in your lab
08:4824 hours.
08:49And that's what
08:49many scientists
08:50actually do.
08:54One of my friends
08:55is coming up
09:00with a new
09:01kind of medicine
09:02to target
09:04certain bacteria
09:05in the gut.
09:07And that's a
09:07very, very
09:08niche field
09:11of research.
09:12He actually
09:13sleeps in the lab.
09:16Not that he
09:17doesn't have money.
09:20He's been in the
09:21US for
09:2120 years now.
09:24Then his master
09:27is there.
09:28B. Tech
09:28from IT Delhi.
09:30Money he has
09:31a plenty.
09:34But then he
09:34doesn't want
09:35to spend the money.
09:37He doesn't even
09:37want to count
09:38the money.
09:41And it doesn't
09:42matter to him
09:43if a lot
09:45of his money
09:45actually disappears.
09:47Because it is
09:48not for the sake
09:49of money
09:49that one
09:50pursues a passion.
09:52Money follows
09:53on its own
09:54like a shadow.
09:55You don't even
09:56want to look
09:57at a shadow.
09:57You are running
09:58towards your
09:58destination.
09:59You want to
10:00look at your
10:00shadow?
10:01How many of
10:01you do that?
10:03Please tell me.
10:05There's your
10:05destination and
10:06the sun too
10:08is ahead of you.
10:09There.
10:10And the shadow
10:11is following you
10:11all the time.
10:12Behind you.
10:16Do you look
10:16towards your
10:17destination or
10:18do you look
10:19at your shadow?
10:19When you
10:21are looking
10:22at your
10:22destination,
10:24money keeps
10:25following you.
10:27Behind,
10:28sometimes to
10:29this side,
10:29sometimes to
10:30that side,
10:30sometimes ahead
10:31of you.
10:34Like your
10:34shadow.
10:36Sometimes a
10:37long shadow
10:38which may mean
10:39a lot of money
10:39and if the
10:41sun is just
10:42here,
10:44overhead,
10:46then a very
10:47small shadow
10:47which may
10:48mean smaller
10:49money and
10:50the length
10:50of the shadow
10:51too keeps
10:52varying,
10:53you don't
10:54care because
10:56it's not for
10:56the shadow
10:57that you are
10:57running.
11:01Are you
11:01getting it?
11:03As young
11:04people,
11:05please realize
11:05this.
11:08Money is
11:09important so
11:10that it can
11:11enable you to
11:11work.
11:12Money is not
11:13the output of
11:14work.
11:14It is the
11:14enabler.
11:17Yes,
11:18one does
11:18need money
11:19in life
11:19so that
11:20one can
11:21work without
11:22disruption.
11:23The real deal
11:23is work,
11:24not money.
11:31Yes,
11:31you need to
11:32have money
11:32so that you
11:33can quickly
11:33fly from one
11:34place to the
11:35other so that
11:36you save time
11:36and that time
11:37can be invested
11:38in your
11:39darling work.
11:40work.
11:43You don't
11:44fly just for
11:45the sake of
11:45flying.
11:45Now I have
11:46money so I
11:47fly and I
11:47fly first
11:48class.
11:51Money is
11:52definitely
11:52important.
11:53Remember as
11:53an enabler,
11:54not as an
11:55end product.
11:59But they
12:00scare you,
12:00they say you
12:01will not get
12:01money.
12:02You tell
12:03them I am
12:03not after
12:04money at
12:04all.
12:08I am not
12:08after money
12:09at all.
12:11And that
12:12does not
12:12mean that
12:14you reject
12:15money,
12:15you abhor
12:16money.
12:19You'll
12:20have money.
12:22You'll
12:23have money
12:23without
12:24wanting
12:24money.
12:28And that
12:29then would
12:29mean a lot
12:30of freedom
12:31because such
12:34money, even
12:34if lost,
12:36will not
12:37disturb you
12:37too much.
12:39you're
12:40anyway not
12:40counting the
12:41dollars.
12:42Let them
12:43be there.
12:44If they
12:44are there,
12:45fine.
12:45And if
12:46they are
12:46lost, it's
12:47again fine.
12:48It's fine.
12:50Then nobody
12:50can arm
12:52twist or
12:53blackmail you
12:54saying we'll
12:55come and
12:56take away
12:58all your
12:58money.
13:01If you
13:01don't stop
13:02working,
13:03there would
13:04be a raid
13:05and all
13:06your bank
13:07accounts
13:07would be
13:07frozen and
13:08you can
13:09calmly say
13:09kindly freeze
13:11whatever you
13:12want to
13:12freeze and
13:14get lost
13:14because I
13:15have to
13:15work.
13:16is this
13:23sounding
13:23outlandish?
13:26It doesn't
13:27work this
13:27way?
13:30You don't
13:31work this
13:31way.
13:32It does.
13:35And try
13:35this new
13:37way of
13:37living.
13:38yes, what
13:40is life
13:41without real
13:42commitment,
13:43real
13:44passion,
13:45real love?
13:48What do
13:49you live
13:49for?
13:50Just wake
13:51up each
13:52day and
13:52say another
13:53day, another
13:54day and a
13:55day will
13:55come when
13:56you will run
13:56out of
13:57days.
13:59What do
14:00you tell
14:00yourself every
14:01morning?
14:01What have
14:01you woken
14:02up for?
14:04Just via
14:04your formals
14:05and report
14:07at work?
14:08so that at
14:08the end of
14:09the month
14:09you can
14:10draw your
14:11salary check?
14:12What kind
14:12of life
14:12is that?
14:17They're
14:18young people,
14:18right?
14:21Strange, I
14:21have to
14:22talk so
14:24forcefully
14:24about love
14:25to you.
14:30We suppose
14:31youth is
14:32when love
14:32blossoms on
14:33its own.
14:35Does it
14:36not?
14:36love has
14:39to be
14:39learnt.
14:47You
14:47won't be
14:49harmed.
14:49Don't be
14:50afraid.
14:51Just don't
14:51be afraid.
14:53They'll
14:53paint all
14:54these terrifying
14:55pictures.
14:56They'll tell
14:56you, you
14:56know, you
14:57look at that
14:58beggar on
14:59that street
15:00there, that's
15:02you 20
15:02years down
15:03the line
15:03I tell
15:03you.
15:05Don't
15:06listen.
15:07Nothing of
15:07that sort.
15:10Oh, you
15:12will be a
15:13wreck.
15:15You look
15:16at
15:16Pami
15:16there,
15:19Verma
15:20uncle's
15:20daughter.
15:22She tried
15:23all these
15:24fancy things
15:24that you
15:25are telling
15:25off.
15:25and that
15:27stupid
15:27author that
15:28came to
15:28your
15:28college
15:29spoke of
15:31passion and
15:34love and
15:34freshness and
15:35authenticity and
15:37all these
15:37things.
15:38They don't
15:38count, I
15:39tell you.
15:40Only
15:41fakeness
15:41matters.
15:44Only
15:45slavery
15:45wins.
15:46No, no,
15:46no, no,
15:47no, no.
15:48That's not
15:49how existence
15:52is.
15:52That's not
15:53how life is
15:53meant to
15:54be.
15:54You
15:56can live
15:57freely.
15:59You
16:00can love
16:01and there
16:04can be
16:04joy.
16:06And you
16:06can fly.
16:07It's
16:07possible.
16:08Yes.
16:11Don't
16:12deprive
16:12yourself of
16:14that
16:14opportunity,
16:16your real
16:17potential.
16:20I
16:21do agree
16:22with that.
16:23It
16:23makes
16:24sense.
16:24It's
16:24possible to
16:24be free.
16:25It's
16:25possible to
16:25be happy.
16:27But
16:27talking in a
16:29very
16:29individualistic
16:31sense, not
16:32that I have
16:33any right to
16:33speak of
16:33this, but
16:34like you
16:35said, it's
16:36not that
16:36we're not
16:39just asked to
16:40drop our
16:41dreams.
16:41We are
16:41terrorized into
16:42dropping them,
16:43saying we'll
16:43starve or
16:44whatever.
16:44And fine,
16:45maybe I don't
16:46care about
16:47money.
16:47I don't.
16:48All right.
16:49I don't
16:49care about
16:49money.
16:50I don't
16:50care about
16:51maybe I
16:52don't care
16:52whether I
16:52starve or
16:53not.
16:53All right.
16:54But
16:54hypothetically,
16:55again, not
16:56that I have
16:56any right,
16:57but what if
16:57I have people
16:58who are
16:58dependent on
16:59me, like
17:00if I'm not
17:01making enough
17:02money for
17:02them, I
17:03will be
17:03guilty.
17:04And secondly,
17:05you mentioned
17:06that it is
17:07not exactly
17:07natural to
17:09want to
17:09follow society
17:10rules.
17:10it's
17:10normal.
17:12Again, my
17:13entire question
17:14is about
17:14this.
17:14So I
17:15agree with
17:15you, but
17:16there is a
17:18but.
17:20But it
17:21is to some
17:22extent also
17:23natural because
17:23humans are
17:24herd animals.
17:26If we are
17:26herd animals,
17:27that means to
17:28fit into
17:28society, to
17:30fit into, why
17:30do we fit into
17:31society to
17:33propagate our
17:33generation?
17:34Animals don't
17:35hold mics, do
17:36they?
17:38We still want
17:39to call ourselves
17:39animals.
17:40Yes, of
17:41course, we
17:42have this
17:42biology.
17:44But we
17:45left the
17:45jungle behind,
17:46didn't we?
17:47Or do we
17:47want to still
17:48live as
17:48animals?
17:51Animals don't
17:52comb their
17:53hair, don't
17:54brush their
17:54teeth, and
17:56they don't
17:56wear any
17:56clothes.
18:00Yes, yes,
18:01you are very
18:01right.
18:02I agree with
18:02that, just as
18:03you agree with
18:04me.
18:04But.
18:08Yes.
18:10It is to
18:12transcend your
18:15animal nature
18:16that you get
18:18educated.
18:19What else is
18:20education for?
18:23What else is
18:24this college for?
18:25If we were to
18:26remain just
18:26animals from the
18:27jungle, walking
18:28around in
18:29herds, why do
18:30you need an
18:31institution like
18:32this?
18:33Why do you
18:34need a
18:34conversation like
18:35this?
18:37The institution
18:38is about
18:39teaching you in
18:40material, in
18:41outer things, how
18:42the world
18:42functions.
18:44This discussion
18:45is about teaching
18:46you in how
18:47you function
18:48inwardly.
18:49All of this
18:50is education.
18:52All education
18:53is so that you
18:53don't have to
18:54remain an animal
18:55anymore.
18:57The animal does
18:57not have much
18:58of consciousness.
18:59You have.
19:00Animals don't
19:01love.
19:01All they have
19:02is instincts.
19:03Motherly
19:04instincts.
19:04Yes, they
19:05have that.
19:06Lustful
19:06instincts.
19:07Yes, they
19:07have that.
19:08But they
19:08can't really
19:09know what
19:10we are talking
19:11of here.
19:12Not because
19:13they lack
19:13intellect.
19:15We are not
19:16talking of
19:16intellect here.
19:17We are
19:17talking of
19:18consciousness
19:18here.
19:21Getting it?
19:21Okay.
19:22So you said
19:22nobody comes
19:24and really
19:24terrorizes us.
19:25See,
19:27if the
19:30terrorizer
19:31comes
19:33with
19:34terrorist
19:35tattooed
19:37on his
19:38forehead,
19:38you will
19:39no more
19:40be terrorized.
19:42Because now
19:43it is out
19:44in the
19:45open that
19:45the terrorizer
19:46is the
19:48terrorizer.
19:49Terror
19:50will often
19:50come to
19:51you in
19:51the name
19:52of love,
19:52care,
19:53responsibility,
19:54concern,
19:54such things.
19:56And if
19:57you don't
19:58see through
19:58it, you
19:58won't see
19:59how there
20:02is threat
20:02in the
20:03name of
20:03care.
20:06How there
20:07is just
20:08threat
20:09masquerading
20:10as care.
20:12How there
20:12is just
20:13ownership
20:14masquerading
20:16as love.
20:19Just
20:20possessiveness
20:21masquerading
20:21as
20:22concern
20:23for security.
20:24When
20:27lies
20:28come to
20:28you, do
20:29they first
20:30of all
20:30introduce
20:31themselves?
20:32I am a
20:32liar.
20:34Now I will
20:34convince you.
20:35Lies
20:36always come
20:37posing as
20:38truth.
20:39Terror
20:40often comes
20:41posing as
20:42love,
20:43care and
20:43concern.
20:45And
20:46bondages
20:46often come
20:48carrying the
20:49name of
20:49responsibilities.
20:50How do
20:53you know
20:53what is
20:53your
20:53responsibility?
20:54Please tell
20:54me.
20:55Who told
20:55you?
20:57How do
20:57you know
20:58what your
20:59real
20:59responsibility
21:00is?
21:00Please tell
21:01me.
21:03And
21:03people in
21:03different
21:04cultures at
21:04different
21:05places,
21:05different
21:05times have
21:06had very
21:07very different
21:08notions of
21:09responsibility.
21:10What do
21:10you think
21:11your
21:11responsibility
21:11is?
21:12Do you
21:12think it
21:13is an
21:13innate
21:14sense of
21:15responsibility
21:16that you
21:16carry?
21:17No.
21:19You have
21:19been told
21:19you are
21:20responsible
21:20for such
21:21things.
21:21How do
21:21you know
21:21you really
21:22are?
21:24From
21:25where have
21:25you
21:25accumulated
21:26this
21:27concept
21:28called
21:28responsibility?
21:30Please tell
21:31me.
21:34Please tell
21:34me.
21:36And
21:36often it
21:36is those
21:37who want
21:41to keep
21:41you in
21:42certain
21:42grooves
21:42and
21:43certain
21:43patterns.
21:44They
21:45will tell
21:45you
21:46such and
21:47such are
21:48your
21:48responsibilities.
21:49and in
21:52your
21:52innocence
21:53which I
21:54should
21:54rather
21:54call
21:54as
21:55ignorance
21:56or
21:58childish
21:59unconsciousness
22:00you
22:01accept
22:01all
22:01those
22:01things.
22:06You
22:06see
22:07you
22:07look at
22:07your
22:08gender
22:08please
22:08just
22:10till
22:10a few
22:10decades
22:11back
22:12women
22:13in our
22:15country
22:16and our
22:16culture
22:16were told
22:18that it
22:19is a part
22:20of their
22:20responsibility
22:20to eat
22:21only after
22:22everybody
22:23else has
22:23eaten.
22:26And
22:26India
22:27had the
22:28highest
22:29rate of
22:33anemia
22:33and so
22:35many
22:35other
22:36kinds
22:37of
22:37deficiencies
22:38in the
22:41entire
22:42world.
22:44And if
22:44you go
22:44and tell
22:45a woman
22:45you need
22:46to take
22:46care of
22:47your
22:47diet
22:47first
22:47she will
22:48say
22:48no
22:48but it
22:48is my
22:49responsibility
22:50to first
22:51take care
22:51of the
22:51household.
22:53Who
22:54told her
22:54of that
22:55responsibility?
22:56Don't you
22:57see that
22:57this is just
22:58conditioning
22:58and propaganda
22:59to keep
23:01you enslaved?
23:03Have you
23:04realized where
23:04responsibility is
23:05coming from?
23:06Again asking
23:06you.
23:07Had you
23:07not been
23:07told that
23:08A, B
23:09and C
23:09is your
23:10responsibility
23:11would this
23:12have occurred
23:12to you
23:13on your
23:13own?
23:13Please
23:13tell me.
23:15Real
23:15responsibility
23:16is love.
23:18Real
23:19responsibility
23:19is not
23:20that as
23:21a wife
23:22you have
23:22to get
23:22up and
23:23serve
23:23TTO
23:23husband
23:24every
23:24day
23:24every
23:25morning
23:257am
23:26if you
23:27do
23:27that
23:27that's
23:29a
23:29problem
23:29but
23:30yes
23:30if
23:30in
23:31love
23:31you
23:32make
23:32tea
23:33and
23:34you
23:34say
23:34come
23:34on
23:34here
23:35is
23:35tea
23:35let's
23:36both
23:36sip
23:36together
23:36and
23:38that's
23:38wonderful
23:39there is
23:41an
23:41action
23:42arising
23:42out
23:42of
23:42love
23:43and
23:43that
23:44is
23:44beautiful
23:44that
23:46is
23:46real
23:46responsibility
23:47on
23:48the
23:48other
23:48hand
23:48there
23:49is
23:49the
23:49tutored
23:49kind
23:50of
23:50responsibility
23:51all
23:53of
23:53you
23:54feel
23:56the
23:56weight
23:56of
23:57that
23:57the
23:57crushing
23:57weight
23:58of
23:58those
23:58responsibilities
23:59don't
23:59you
23:59you
24:00know
24:00we
24:00have
24:01to
24:01live
24:01to
24:01our
24:01parents
24:02expectations
24:02how many
24:03of you
24:03wrote the
24:04J for
24:04example
24:05seems I
24:12have
24:12touched
24:14a raw
24:15nerve
24:15doesn't feel
24:20good
24:20right
24:21I am
24:21responsible
24:22to
24:22clear this
24:24exam
24:24because that
24:25will bring
24:25happiness
24:26to all
24:26and
24:26sundry
24:27come
24:28on
24:28please
24:28please
24:35you
24:35will be
24:36parents
24:37soon
24:37would you
24:39want to
24:39crush
24:39your
24:40kids
24:40like
24:42another
24:425 years
24:4310 years
24:43down the
24:44line
24:44or 20
24:45years
24:45would you
24:45want to
24:46put so
24:46much
24:46weight
24:46on
24:47them
24:47that
24:48they
24:48just
24:48crack
24:49yes
24:52and
24:53then
24:54you
24:54will
24:54tell
24:55them
24:55listen
24:55son
24:56listen
24:56daughter
24:57that's
24:57your
24:57responsibility
24:58to
24:58please
24:58us
24:59won't
25:01that be
25:02extremely
25:02selfish
25:02of you
25:03and
25:04extremely
25:04irresponsible
25:05too
25:05but
25:07you
25:08would be
25:08the ones
25:08who
25:09would have
25:09taught
25:09your
25:09kids
25:10we
25:10are
25:10gods
25:11we
25:13are
25:13gods
25:13parents
25:17are
25:17bhagwan
25:17you
25:18worship
25:18us
25:19so
25:19if
25:19we
25:19tell
25:20you
25:20something
25:20then
25:21that
25:21has
25:21to
25:21be
25:22taken
25:22as
25:22the
25:22gospel
25:22truth
25:23are
25:29you
25:30gods
25:30but
25:32you
25:32would
25:32be
25:33let's
25:33say
25:33in
25:345
25:34years
25:34in
25:34a
25:35decade
25:35in
25:3515
25:35years
25:36you
25:37would
25:37be
25:37mothers
25:38and
25:38fathers
25:39many
25:39of
25:39you
25:40if
25:43you
25:43are
25:43not
25:43gods
25:44then
25:44how
25:44would
25:44you
25:45suddenly
25:45turn
25:46gods
25:46on
25:46becoming
25:47parents
25:47and
25:51why
25:51should
25:51you
25:51then
25:52suddenly
25:53be
25:53vested
25:53with
25:54the
25:54authority
25:54to
25:55inflict
25:56commandments
25:56on
25:56your
25:57kids
25:57and
25:58tell
25:58them
25:58this
25:59is
25:59what
25:59you
25:59definitely
25:59have
26:00to
26:00do
26:00you
26:02are
26:02responsible
26:02for
26:03this
26:03for
26:03that
26:03and
26:06then
26:06come
26:07the
26:09genuine
26:10financial
26:10responsibilities
26:11yes
26:11somebody
26:12could
26:12come
26:13from
26:15a
26:15family
26:16with
26:16a
26:16very
26:16ordinary
26:17financial
26:17background
26:18let's
26:19say
26:19there
26:19are
26:20six
26:21or
26:21seven
26:21siblings
26:22and
26:22one
26:22is
26:22the
26:23eldest
26:23one
26:23and
26:25there
26:25is
26:25not
26:25enough
26:26money
26:26in
26:26the
26:26household
26:27to
26:27even
26:28educate
26:28the
26:29entire
26:30line
26:30and
26:31then
26:32yes
26:32you
26:32do
26:32want
26:33to
26:33have
26:34some
26:35money
26:35with
26:35you
26:36so
26:36that
26:36the
26:37genuine
26:37financial
26:38needs
26:39can be
26:39taken
26:39care
26:40of
26:40but
26:41how much
26:42money
26:42is
26:42that
26:42do
26:43you
26:43really
26:44have
26:44to
26:45sell
26:45yourself
26:46away
26:46for
26:47the
26:47sake
26:48of
26:48that
26:48much
26:48money
26:49please
26:49tell
26:49me
26:49is
26:52that
26:52really
26:52so
26:53big
26:54an
26:55ask
26:55that
26:56you
26:57can't
26:57meet
26:57it
26:58without
27:00keeping
27:02keeping
27:03yourself
27:03on
27:03mortgage
27:04yeah
27:08mort
27:10gauging
27:11is the
27:11last
27:11resort
27:12is it
27:12not
27:13when an
27:15extreme
27:16responsibility
27:17arises
27:17people
27:18even
27:18go and
27:18sell
27:19their
27:19kidneys
27:19off
27:20but
27:21that's
27:21the
27:22rarest
27:22of
27:22rare
27:22case
27:23and
27:23probably
27:24illegal
27:24too
27:24we can't
27:27talk of
27:28that
27:28as
27:30something
27:30natural
27:30are you
27:36getting it
27:36please be
27:39very very
27:40careful
27:40before
27:41accepting
27:42something as
27:43your
27:43responsibility
27:44and once
27:45you do
27:46some
27:46accept
27:47something as
27:47your
27:47responsibility
27:48live up to
27:49it
27:50be fully
27:50committed
27:51to it
27:51otherwise
27:53you will be
27:53carrying a
27:54thousand
27:54responsibilities
27:55and just
27:59tolerating them
28:00somehow
28:00a thousand
28:04responsibility
28:05and commitment
28:06to none
28:06and always
28:09wishing in
28:10your heart
28:10that somehow
28:12those
28:12responsibilities
28:13could reduce
28:14have you not
28:15seen such
28:15people
28:16they carry so
28:17much load
28:18and they are
28:19always cribbing
28:19this I have
28:21to do
28:21I am
28:21responsible
28:22for this
28:22I have
28:23to responsible
28:23for that
28:23like that
28:24like that
28:24the quintessential
28:25housewife
28:26from the
28:27morning till
28:28evening
28:28I am only
28:28cooking
28:29this
28:30that
28:30I am
28:30responsible
28:30for the
28:31kids
28:31for the
28:32in-laws
28:33for the
28:34husband
28:35and for
28:36that entire
28:37extended
28:38field of
28:39relatives
28:39always
28:42cribbing
28:43committed
28:43to no
28:44single
28:44task
28:45and
28:46in spite
28:48of all
28:48this
28:48never
28:49able
28:50to
28:51boldly
28:51and
28:51bravely
28:52drop
28:53even
28:53a
28:54single
28:54responsibility
28:55she will
28:57do
28:57everything
28:58and
29:01keep
29:01cribbing
29:01and
29:04then
29:04everything
29:05will be
29:05done
29:05in a
29:06lukewarm
29:06way
29:06right
29:08or the
29:10unwilling
29:11employee
29:12think of
29:13the unwilling
29:14employee
29:14she has
29:17accepted
29:17a job
29:18just
29:18because
29:19she was
29:21told that
29:21you need
29:21to have
29:22this job
29:22to take
29:24care
29:24of your
29:26personal
29:26responsibilities
29:27so she
29:28goes ahead
29:30and accepts
29:30a job
29:31a job
29:31having no
29:33heart
29:34a job to
29:35which she is
29:36not committed
29:36at all
29:37a job to
29:37which she
29:38cannot relate
29:38at all
29:39every day
29:41she shows up
29:42at the office
29:43one hour late
29:43and the
29:45boss screams
29:46at her
29:46the entire
29:50day she is
29:51dreaming of
29:51this
29:52that something
29:52because
29:53because just
29:54she is just
29:55not in the
29:55work
29:56continuously
29:58she is looking
29:59at the
29:59calendar
30:00and the
30:01clock
30:01when would
30:03it turn
30:03six
30:04and when
30:05would we
30:05have the
30:0630th of
30:06the month
30:07and I will
30:07get the
30:07salary check
30:08you want
30:11that kind
30:11of life
30:12this is
30:14what happens
30:16when you
30:16take up
30:17fake
30:18responsibilities
30:19being
30:23responsible
30:24is wonderful
30:24but all
30:27responsibility
30:27must be
30:28chosen with
30:29great care
30:30and once
30:31it is chosen
30:31we said
30:32remain put
30:33then there
30:35has to be
30:35total love
30:36total commitment
30:37go for
30:43something
30:43that has
30:43totality
30:44ifs and
30:46buts
30:46they bring
30:48in a lot
30:49of conditionality
30:50a lot
30:51of relativity
30:51and all
30:54that is not
30:54good to live
30:55with
30:55you will not
30:57enjoy it
30:58don't you
30:58want to enjoy
30:59life really
30:59that requires
31:01boldness
31:02and that
31:03requires deep
31:04love
31:05you are young
31:07you are just
31:08stepping into
31:09it
31:09you can't
31:13allow yourself
31:13to be handcuffed
31:14right in the
31:15beginning
31:15how will you fly
31:16by then
31:16my name is
31:22saavan
31:22and i am from
31:23west bengal
31:24and i have been
31:25connected with
31:26achareji since
31:27almost two years
31:28now
31:28since childhood
31:30i have been
31:31an introvert
31:32kind of person
31:33and i have always
31:35been very much
31:36unclear about
31:38a lot of
31:38things in life
31:39so i have always
31:41listened to a lot
31:43of people
31:44especially in
31:45spiritual sense
31:46but never have
31:47i got such
31:48clarity
31:49and such
31:50kind of
31:50answers
31:51as i have
31:52got after
31:52listening to
31:53achareji
31:53this has made
31:55a tremendous
31:55amount of
31:56difference in
31:56my life
31:57so the real
31:59change has
32:00only happened
32:01after i have
32:01started listening
32:02to achareji
32:03before that
32:04whoever i have
32:06listened to
32:07they have been
32:08a kind of
32:09you know
32:10sweet pills
32:11that it is
32:12good to listen
32:13to them
32:13but for the
32:14moment
32:14but never
32:15the real
32:16change happens
32:17and real
32:17change in the
32:18sense i mean
32:18is you know
32:19it is suffering
32:20it is the
32:22suffering that
32:25we have in
32:27our life
32:27in the form
32:29of fear
32:29in the form
32:30of anxiety
32:31in the form
32:31of you know
32:33the mental
32:34clutter that
32:35goes on
32:36each and
32:37every moment
32:37of our
32:38lives
32:38now now
32:39after two
32:40years i feel
32:41that the
32:41mind is a
32:42lot you
32:43know free
32:43it is a
32:44it is a
32:44lot relaxed
32:45now because
32:46because the
32:49sessions and
32:50the teachings
32:51are so
32:51wonderful
32:52that it
32:54has to
32:55happen for
32:55each and
32:56every one
32:57of the
32:58participants
32:58who are in
32:59the gita
32:59community
32:59a lot of
33:00them have
33:01benefited
33:01and same
33:02in the same
33:03way i have
33:03also benefited
33:04so i just
33:05cannot thank
33:05enough i have
33:06no words
33:07to thank
33:07achareji
33:08i can say
33:09it's a you
33:09know it's a
33:10it's a rebirth
33:11and so everyone
33:14should join this
33:15community everyone
33:16should listen to
33:17achareji
33:17that's all i want
33:19to say thank you
33:20thank you
33:20to thank you
33:21for
33:22to thank you
33:22for
33:23thank you
33:23for
33:24thank you
33:25for
33:25your
33:26thank you
33:28Oh
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