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00:00:00And well, after yesterday,
00:00:28Having seen this introduction practically on the life of prayer,
00:00:34Today I would like to touch on the first two paradigms,
00:00:38these two major frameworks of our core activity,
00:00:46which is prayer.
00:00:48As we said yesterday, God wants to communicate with us.
00:00:51We have taken as an element,
00:00:54as something to guide us throughout our reflection,
00:00:59the text of Samuel, in chapter 3,
00:01:01Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.
00:01:04In other words, God wants to communicate with us.
00:01:07But sometimes we lack someone to help us,
00:01:09that will guide us.
00:01:11Certainly, because I do not intend this week,
00:01:14an hour and a half each day,
00:01:17Well, give a course on prayer.
00:01:18It would be illogical, especially since prayer requires exercise.
00:01:24Yes, we will have a short exercise on Friday.
00:01:27But that's not really my intention.
00:01:30The idea is really to give them the tools,
00:01:33the tools, the motivation,
00:01:36so that each person can begin or perfect their prayer life.
00:01:41So, this relationship, this communication
00:01:45that is established between God and man
00:01:48It is done through the Holy Spirit.
00:01:50He is the one who will accomplish it in us
00:01:53communion with God
00:01:56And from there, this communication that God wants to establish with us.
00:02:03What are the paradigms of the sentence?
00:02:06Okay, so there are three, let's divide them.
00:02:10It's a long topic, quite a long topic.
00:02:13So we're going to divide it into two parts,
00:02:15Today the first part and tomorrow the second part.
00:02:18This will give me the opportunity to not go on for too long,
00:02:21In other words, to be able to finish as usual at 10 pm,
00:02:25as far as I can go,
00:02:26which perhaps isn't how far it was going to go today,
00:02:28But anyway, I'll share a little bit tomorrow.
00:02:31And between the two days we see these paradigms
00:02:34which I think are important,
00:02:36especially for people who are just starting out
00:02:39his prayer path.
00:02:42What are these three fundamental paradigms?
00:02:46First, then, what is fundamental?
00:02:50Sometimes we don't make progress because, as we say,
00:02:54we're going off on a tangent.
00:02:57The second paradigm is
00:02:59the false concepts we have about prayer
00:03:01And then we think we are praying
00:03:04And the truth is, we are deceiving ourselves.
00:03:07And a third paradigm is attitudes in prayer,
00:03:12how do we come to pray?
00:03:14There are three fundamental elements
00:03:16I believe that, if we can get to know them,
00:03:19We can move forward a little more easily
00:03:21in our prayer life.
00:03:24So, there are many concepts,
00:03:26We already touched on some of this yesterday,
00:03:28We have some concepts about the sentence.
00:03:32However, for me,
00:03:34the great teacher in prayer,
00:03:36Well, she was the great saint,
00:03:39Saint Teresa of Ávila.
00:03:40With her, then, I have traveled
00:03:42a good part of my spiritual journey.
00:03:45When I was starting out too
00:03:46my path of prayer,
00:03:48Well, one of the first books
00:03:49that I was able to read
00:03:50It was the complete works of Saint Teresa.
00:03:54And from there, then,
00:03:56For me, a great interest was born,
00:03:59something that had already been developing in my life,
00:04:02But instruction is always necessary.
00:04:04the training, we were saying,
00:04:05with the same,
00:04:07the text we are taking from Samuel,
00:04:10as it has to go with the I,
00:04:11And the I says to him,
00:04:12If he speaks to you again,
00:04:13Well, then tell him,
00:04:15Speak, Lord,
00:04:15Let your servant hear.
00:04:17Therefore, instruction is also needed.
00:04:18from someone who is a little further ahead,
00:04:21Well, in this case,
00:04:21not a little bit,
00:04:23but, therefore,
00:04:24light years ahead of Saint Teresa,
00:04:27and from there, well,
00:04:28so, to start taking
00:04:29some important references.
00:04:31We'll see it too
00:04:32when we see some
00:04:33of the problems of prayer
00:04:34which we will discuss in the coming days.
00:04:38What does Saint Teresa say?
00:04:40about prayer?
00:04:41It says in the book of life
00:04:43which is trying to love many times
00:04:46with the one we know loves us.
00:04:48In other words,
00:04:52To pray is to love,
00:04:54is to establish a loving relationship
00:04:56with God.
00:04:58That is prayer.
00:05:00to establish a loving relationship with God.
00:05:03It's about building a loving dialogue with him,
00:05:07like two lovers,
00:05:09Two people who love each other.
00:05:10we know from Holy Scripture
00:05:12that God loves us.
00:05:15We find it in many of the texts
00:05:19And we know,
00:05:20And that's what it tells us about
00:05:21the Christian kerygma
00:05:22in its first advertisement,
00:05:26God loves you.
00:05:27And this is already a truth.
00:05:29that cannot be changed.
00:05:31Now we have
00:05:32one of the things she loves,
00:05:34But now we're missing the other one.
00:05:37A relationship is built
00:05:38with two people.
00:05:41Nothing can illustrate this better.
00:05:44this relationship
00:05:45than the relationship of a couple.
00:05:48Whenever I teach this course,
00:05:50which is quite a long course
00:05:52because it has many areas.
00:05:54The prayer is therefore very vast.
00:05:55Here we have a whole school
00:05:57two years old
00:05:58on this topic of prayer
00:05:59which obviously
00:06:00It involves exercise.
00:06:02But speaking of prayer
00:06:03It's talking about a very vast subject.
00:06:05There are so many books
00:06:07on this topic.
00:06:08I want this week
00:06:10quickly,
00:06:11even if it's in a very
00:06:12very succinct,
00:06:13very synthetic,
00:06:14the power to give them
00:06:15sufficient elements.
00:06:18But one of the elements,
00:06:19at least as I have experienced it
00:06:21also in my prayer life,
00:06:23Well, it's the relationship
00:06:24between a man and a woman.
00:06:26I mean,
00:06:27how it is built
00:06:28this relationship of lovers.
00:06:32When we meet a boy,
00:06:33We meet a girl,
00:06:35how it unfolds
00:06:35this relationship between the two.
00:06:38And this is very similar.
00:06:40to what is going to happen
00:06:41in our prayer life.
00:06:44Generally,
00:06:45Well, not everyone
00:06:46or not with all
00:06:48or all
00:06:49We made progress
00:06:50even a relationship
00:06:51truly of love.
00:06:52And then we stayed
00:06:53Sometimes it's just...
00:06:55in a superficial relationship,
00:06:57in the friend we greeted,
00:06:59in the traveling companion,
00:07:01of class,
00:07:02work,
00:07:04but it doesn't go any further.
00:07:06It means that
00:07:07The relationship did not progress.
00:07:09And it seems to me
00:07:10that in much
00:07:11our relationship with God
00:07:13It stays like this.
00:07:15Like from a friend,
00:07:15like hello,
00:07:16how are you?
00:07:17Ah, yes, well,
00:07:18how are you?
00:07:18We come to mass,
00:07:19We greet you,
00:07:20Let us go to the Blessed Sacrament,
00:07:21How are you, Lord?
00:07:22Wiri, Wiri,
00:07:23But there's no progress.
00:07:25in the relationship.
00:07:26And that's the saddest part.
00:07:28Saint Teresa says
00:07:29that all Christians,
00:07:30all the baptized,
00:07:31we are called
00:07:32to reach
00:07:34the contemplative life.
00:07:36However,
00:07:37we stayed
00:07:38in this part
00:07:38only
00:07:39of the relationship
00:07:41in its first
00:07:42stage.
00:07:46When we
00:07:47talk later
00:07:48of this relationship
00:07:49of falling in love,
00:07:50we can understand
00:07:52many of the situations
00:07:54that we
00:07:54we're going to live it
00:07:56in our development
00:07:57of the prayer.
00:07:58For example,
00:07:59one of the topics
00:08:00so,
00:08:02He's the favorite
00:08:02of the devil
00:08:03because always
00:08:05appeals
00:08:06to our weakness.
00:08:08This morning
00:08:09he was talking
00:08:10with the director
00:08:11from school
00:08:12and I told him
00:08:13that the devil
00:08:15meet
00:08:17our nature
00:08:18and knows
00:08:19that we are
00:08:19sold
00:08:20to sin.
00:08:21The text
00:08:22Romans 7
00:08:23after verse 14
00:08:25where he tells us
00:08:26clearly
00:08:26as inside
00:08:27of us
00:08:28there is a force
00:08:29that destroys us
00:08:30because it is a force
00:08:31that pushes us
00:08:32to do evil
00:08:32and avoid
00:08:33that we do good.
00:08:35He knows
00:08:35that exists
00:08:36This force.
00:08:37So,
00:08:37all
00:08:37that you need to do
00:08:38is to prevent
00:08:39that what could
00:08:41keep
00:08:42under control
00:08:43this force
00:08:43develop
00:08:44so that our
00:08:45own strength
00:08:46destroy us.
00:08:47That is to say,
00:08:47We have a bomb
00:08:50within us
00:08:51we have an element
00:08:52self-destruct
00:08:53what contains it
00:08:55what controls it
00:08:57It is the prayer.
00:08:59The demon
00:08:59the only thing it has
00:09:00to do
00:09:01is to avoid
00:09:01that we pray
00:09:02so that they're all alone
00:09:03let's destroy each other
00:09:05You don't have to do anything else
00:09:07all by themselves
00:09:08we have the capacity
00:09:09to destroy us
00:09:10because inside
00:09:11of us
00:09:11This force exists
00:09:13internal
00:09:13that destroys us
00:09:15this sin
00:09:16that dwells
00:09:16within us
00:09:17and as it says
00:09:19the apostle
00:09:19It pushes us
00:09:20to do evil
00:09:21and avoid
00:09:22that we do good.
00:09:24In such a way
00:09:24that the only
00:09:25what do you have to do
00:09:25well it is
00:09:26prevent
00:09:27that the relationship occurs
00:09:28once prevented
00:09:30the relationship
00:09:30He already won.
00:09:32so
00:09:33What comes first?
00:09:35What is he going to do?
00:09:36Why a relationship
00:09:37not working?
00:09:39We invited a boy
00:09:40a girl
00:09:41And that's not true.
00:09:42that suddenly
00:09:43we are bored
00:09:44I mean
00:09:46He doesn't call us
00:09:47attention
00:09:47It seems to me
00:09:49that's what
00:09:50It happens to us
00:09:50in the prayer
00:09:51they invite us
00:09:53to pray
00:09:54And we must pray
00:09:55and let's go
00:09:56to prayer
00:09:56hi sir
00:09:59how beautiful
00:10:08TRUE?
00:10:08Oh, I was going to ask you
00:10:10and in five minutes
00:10:12We already asked
00:10:13everything already
00:10:13and then
00:10:14and then
00:10:17I'm starting
00:10:17to bore
00:10:18you
00:10:23they know
00:10:23some lover
00:10:24that he gets bored?
00:10:28says
00:10:28the saint
00:10:29pass
00:10:30long
00:10:31moments
00:10:32well, to get through
00:10:35a long time
00:10:36I need to be
00:10:37amusing
00:10:37No?
00:10:38with something
00:10:38that is
00:10:39motivating
00:10:40generally
00:10:41generally
00:10:41when one
00:10:42Well, let's begin.
00:10:43this relationship
00:10:44I see it
00:10:45from the perspective
00:10:46of man
00:10:47and in my own case
00:10:48when I was there
00:10:49well, it turned out well
00:10:51with the girl
00:10:52or already dating
00:10:53Hey then
00:10:54You were leaving the house
00:10:55practically
00:10:55until dad
00:10:56you run
00:10:57TRUE?
00:10:57Because of you
00:10:59Well, that's where you stayed.
00:11:01you want to be with the person
00:11:05Don't you get bored?
00:11:06I mean you can
00:11:08pass
00:11:09long periods
00:11:11when you love
00:11:13A topic comes up
00:11:14another topic
00:11:15and sometimes
00:11:16even if no topics come up
00:11:17we don't need topics
00:11:19enough to be
00:11:22with the person
00:11:23that you love
00:11:24that's all
00:11:25what you need
00:11:26This is what is called
00:11:28that dialogue
00:11:29loving
00:11:30the lovers
00:11:32They never get bored
00:11:33remember
00:11:34the text
00:11:35Lucas
00:11:3510
00:11:36verses 41
00:11:38and 42
00:11:38Jesus is visiting
00:11:41to Marta
00:11:42and to Mary
00:11:43the sisters
00:11:43of Lazarus
00:11:44and in the end
00:11:45listen
00:11:47this
00:11:47this
00:11:48judgment
00:11:50in view of
00:11:51Marten
00:11:52that he claims
00:11:53to Jesus
00:11:54that her sister
00:11:55has left him
00:11:55all the work
00:11:56and says
00:11:57Marten
00:11:58Marten
00:11:59he tells her
00:12:01Jesus
00:12:01You're restless
00:12:03and worried
00:12:03for many reasons
00:12:04but only one
00:12:06is necessary
00:12:06Maria has chosen
00:12:08the best
00:12:08and nobody
00:12:10She's going to take it off
00:12:11to be calm
00:12:14before God
00:12:15Enjoy it
00:12:17learn
00:12:18Enjoy!
00:12:20we always bring
00:12:22the
00:12:22the urgency
00:12:25already
00:12:25let's go
00:12:26TRUE?
00:12:27we don't know
00:12:28enjoy
00:12:29bye
00:12:31And that's why
00:12:32our relationship
00:12:33It's not progressing.
00:12:34It is about
00:12:37of being
00:12:37long periods
00:12:39with that
00:12:39that we know
00:12:40who loves us
00:12:41sometimes
00:12:43in this
00:12:44process
00:12:45to go
00:12:46finding
00:12:47and developing
00:12:48this relationship
00:12:49with God
00:12:49We're not making progress.
00:12:50because
00:12:51among many things
00:12:53that are emerging
00:12:54around there
00:12:54we keep stopping
00:12:56in trivialities
00:12:57such as
00:12:57the position
00:12:59What is the
00:13:02position
00:13:02for
00:13:03pray?
00:13:06kneeling
00:13:07sitting
00:13:08lying down
00:13:09stationary
00:13:10What does that have to do with it?
00:13:13the position?
00:13:15when I'm with a
00:13:16person I am
00:13:17at ease
00:13:18well I can be
00:13:20sitting
00:13:20well to be
00:13:23well maybe
00:13:24lying down
00:13:24more difficult
00:13:25TRUE?
00:13:26but
00:13:26we don't have
00:13:29that be
00:13:29kneeling
00:13:30we don't have
00:13:30that be
00:13:31unemployed
00:13:31in order to be able to
00:13:33pray
00:13:34what is needed
00:13:35It is not a
00:13:36position
00:13:36but a
00:13:38provision
00:13:39with what
00:13:41position
00:13:42you prepare
00:13:43further?
00:13:44probably
00:13:45I am ready
00:13:46more in some
00:13:46moment
00:13:47being of
00:13:48knees
00:13:49or I prepare
00:13:51further
00:13:52being
00:13:52sitting
00:13:53says
00:13:55Saint Ignatius
00:13:57of Loyola
00:13:57that he
00:13:58I was meditating
00:14:00lying down
00:14:02for me
00:14:05I would be
00:14:06impossible
00:14:07I
00:14:09I lie down
00:14:09and in three
00:14:10seconds
00:14:11I'm asleep
00:14:12sometimes
00:14:15if I haven't done
00:14:16my prayer
00:14:16and
00:14:17I want to do
00:14:19my prayer
00:14:19at night
00:14:20I have to
00:14:22walk
00:14:22because
00:14:24even
00:14:24stationary
00:14:25I fall asleep
00:14:25really
00:14:28when
00:14:34I have
00:14:36that I propose
00:14:37for some reason
00:14:38season
00:14:39pray everything
00:14:39the rosary
00:14:40complete
00:14:40one day
00:14:41well at night
00:14:43I have to pray it
00:14:44what's missing
00:14:45and there
00:14:47I'm at home
00:14:48as
00:14:48like these
00:14:49grinding horses
00:14:51No
00:14:51turning
00:14:52around the table
00:14:53I'm going to the kitchen
00:14:56And I pray for the other side
00:14:57And I go on praying
00:14:58because if I stop
00:14:59And believe me, sometimes
00:15:00I stop
00:15:01because I'm tired of it
00:15:02of going around in circles
00:15:03and I stop for a moment
00:15:05and I stop
00:15:05and I fall asleep
00:15:06I mean
00:15:08I can't
00:15:09in that situation
00:15:11how I prepare
00:15:13well, walking
00:15:14the position
00:15:18It's not important
00:15:20and sometimes we give it
00:15:21very important
00:15:22because since I was little
00:15:23they told us
00:15:23that we had to pray
00:15:24the rosary
00:15:25kneeling
00:15:25or that we have
00:15:26than to pray it
00:15:26in this way
00:15:27or the other
00:15:27how I prepare
00:15:29best for praying
00:15:30So that's how I'm going to pray.
00:15:33It's true
00:15:34that at some point
00:15:35I can feel
00:15:35very inclined
00:15:37to kneel
00:15:38or to prostrate myself
00:15:39excellent
00:15:40excellent
00:15:41I won't be able to talk today
00:15:43Well, of all
00:15:43the positions
00:15:44and each one
00:15:45of the meanings
00:15:46that these may have
00:15:47but right now
00:15:48the important thing
00:15:49that would interest me
00:15:50that it would be clear to them
00:15:51that the important thing
00:15:52It's not the position
00:15:53but
00:15:54the arrangement
00:15:56nor
00:15:57It is important
00:15:59which is what we're going to do
00:16:01to say
00:16:01then
00:16:02we don't have to bring
00:16:03nothing prepared
00:16:04nor give him a speech
00:16:06and a roll
00:16:07to Mr.
00:16:07the man says
00:16:11that the pagans
00:16:12are the ones who
00:16:13They talk a lot
00:16:14and they say many things
00:16:15as long as it is
00:16:16heard
00:16:17Jesus says
00:16:18which is not necessary
00:16:19a great speech
00:16:21because he already
00:16:22meet
00:16:22our heart
00:16:23What is it that he wants?
00:16:25the Lord
00:16:25that you are
00:16:27with the
00:16:27that you are
00:16:32with the
00:16:32that you do
00:16:35aware
00:16:36of his presence
00:16:37you don't have
00:16:39Nothing to say
00:16:40you don't have
00:16:41to talk about nothing
00:16:42you don't have
00:16:43I don't want to hear anything.
00:16:44you don't have
00:16:46that be
00:16:46in a position
00:16:47determined
00:16:48God wants
00:16:51that you are
00:16:51with the
00:16:53how are you
00:16:54right now
00:16:54Of course here
00:16:56because you're listening
00:16:57you are seeing
00:16:58that gesture
00:16:59I make the conversation
00:17:00in the end
00:17:01and when we go
00:17:02to the most holy
00:17:03don't you hear
00:17:06nothing
00:17:07It doesn't move
00:17:07nothing
00:17:08it would seem
00:17:10that there was no
00:17:10nobody
00:17:10and Jesus
00:17:12is more present
00:17:14that I myself
00:17:15here with you
00:17:16because he
00:17:17makes its presence known
00:17:18in you
00:17:19even though we are not
00:17:21conscious
00:17:22from this
00:17:22I don't have
00:17:24what to do
00:17:24aware
00:17:25of his presence
00:17:26so that he
00:17:27this
00:17:27always is
00:17:31even if I don't see it
00:17:32even if I don't feel it
00:17:34and he doesn't get upset
00:17:36with me
00:17:37if I am standing still
00:17:37if I am sitting
00:17:38if I'm lying down
00:17:39He knows me
00:17:41he knows
00:17:42even up to
00:17:44if I'm asleep
00:17:45many times
00:17:49I am in the Most Holy
00:17:50in days
00:17:51a lot of work
00:17:52and however you want
00:17:53at 7 in the morning
00:17:55There I am
00:17:56and then
00:17:58well while
00:17:59I am praying
00:18:00I always start
00:18:01reading the official document
00:18:02of readings
00:18:03praying with the office
00:18:04of readings
00:18:04And then I'll go in.
00:18:06to the part of the sentence
00:18:07and meditation
00:18:08and sometimes I find myself
00:18:10Well, I fell asleep
00:18:12after that moment
00:18:15Well, I fell asleep
00:18:16I was so tired
00:18:17that I fell asleep
00:18:19or I dozed
00:18:21why not
00:18:22I never received it
00:18:22to fall completely asleep
00:18:24But if I doze off
00:18:25Well
00:18:28I came to be with you
00:18:31And you know
00:18:31Well, I'm exhausted.
00:18:33here I am
00:18:34here I am
00:18:37I didn't stand you up
00:18:39We made an appointment yesterday
00:18:42See you here
00:18:42at 7 in the morning
00:18:43And here I am
00:18:46That's how it often goes.
00:18:48No?
00:18:48to many things
00:18:49many times
00:18:51I have to go out
00:18:52in the early morning
00:18:54recently
00:18:54that I went to
00:18:55a retreat
00:18:57to Culiacán
00:18:58the plane was leaving
00:18:59at 6 in the morning
00:19:00your friends from Viva
00:19:02I don't know what they have
00:19:02in the head
00:19:03imagine
00:19:08I have to get up
00:19:09at 4
00:19:10for the 4
00:19:11a.m.
00:19:12well you go like
00:19:14like a zombie
00:19:17TRUE?
00:19:19and of course
00:19:19Do you already have a bath?
00:19:20and all
00:19:21and a half
00:19:21you feel better
00:19:23And there you go
00:19:23but
00:19:23But if you close
00:19:25a little bit of the eyes
00:19:26There you stay.
00:19:28You're tired.
00:19:30and however you want
00:19:31what are you saying
00:19:32I'm not going to stop
00:19:33You miss the plane
00:19:35You have to stop
00:19:37And you have to be there.
00:19:39and you see how you do it
00:19:40But there you are
00:19:41And why?
00:19:42For prayer, right?
00:19:50It's very early
00:19:51It's also cold right now
00:19:54No?
00:19:58and run
00:19:59a little while longer
00:20:01It's for me
00:20:07They looked so sad
00:20:08see people
00:20:09that has begun
00:20:10Your path is very good.
00:20:11and see that afterwards
00:20:14abandons prayer
00:20:16and obviously
00:20:18his life
00:20:19never enough
00:20:21at least
00:20:21fullness
00:20:22that God offers
00:20:23because this is
00:20:27the difficult part
00:20:28That's where
00:20:32because it is known
00:20:33truly
00:20:34love
00:20:34for the beloved
00:20:35That's why it's
00:20:36a relationship
00:20:37of love
00:20:38it isn't true
00:20:41that for the beloved
00:20:42We do things
00:20:43very rare
00:20:44really tremendous
00:20:45Your girlfriend is speaking
00:20:47at 3 in the morning
00:20:48because
00:20:49this
00:20:50He had a problem
00:20:51and you stop
00:20:53And you leave.
00:20:53then
00:20:54because?
00:20:57because there are
00:20:58that relationship
00:21:00that desire
00:21:02of being
00:21:03with the person
00:21:04and it would seem
00:21:06my brothers
00:21:07that the Christian
00:21:08He doesn't feel like it.
00:21:09to be with Jesus
00:21:10He doesn't feel like it.
00:21:13enjoy
00:21:14and to participate
00:21:15of his love
00:21:16And that's why
00:21:18We left it
00:21:19So we'll leave it at that.
00:21:21planted
00:21:21the prayer
00:21:25to prayer
00:21:29It happens to him
00:21:30the same
00:21:30that to our
00:21:31relations
00:21:31I said at the beginning
00:21:32fall into the
00:21:34superficiality
00:21:35That's why today
00:21:37There are so many
00:21:38marital failures
00:21:39I was talking about it yesterday.
00:21:40also
00:21:40because everything
00:21:41It is superficial
00:21:42and in our
00:21:44prayer
00:21:44is
00:21:45super
00:21:46superficial
00:21:47we try
00:21:49with God
00:21:50less
00:21:51that with
00:21:52any
00:21:52of our
00:21:53friends
00:21:54that with
00:21:55any
00:21:55of our
00:21:56relations
00:21:56our deal
00:21:57with God
00:21:58are
00:21:58so
00:21:59so
00:22:00superficial
00:22:01That's why
00:22:02nobody knows
00:22:03who is God
00:22:03and they don't know
00:22:06what God
00:22:07has prepared
00:22:08for us
00:22:10God wants
00:22:14enter
00:22:14in that
00:22:15privacy
00:22:15with you
00:22:16but we need
00:22:18go out
00:22:19of this
00:22:19superficiality
00:22:20in which
00:22:21sadly
00:22:21well we have
00:22:22come
00:22:23falling
00:22:23today
00:22:25the man
00:22:26which is appreciated
00:22:27of living
00:22:28in time
00:22:28of communication
00:22:30we see that we don't
00:22:31we are capable
00:22:32to communicate
00:22:33that our
00:22:34communications
00:22:35They are superficial
00:22:37herein
00:22:40week
00:22:40another couple
00:22:41that
00:22:42who approached
00:22:44to chat
00:22:45with me
00:22:46It starts
00:22:48It starts
00:22:49to say
00:22:50that he pray
00:22:51for her
00:22:52I mean, let's see.
00:22:54But why?
00:22:55Do you want me to pray?
00:22:56with you
00:22:57and well
00:22:58as I go
00:23:00taking a little bit out
00:23:01There's the soup
00:23:02of how it is
00:23:03the matter
00:23:03well in the end
00:23:05it turns out
00:23:06that the whole issue
00:23:07It's that it doesn't have
00:23:08communication
00:23:09with her husband
00:23:10I tell him
00:23:13But what is it?
00:23:13the problem
00:23:14He says I don't know
00:23:16I don't know which one
00:23:18That's the problem
00:23:18but we have
00:23:20a big problem
00:23:21we are
00:23:22separating
00:23:23How is this possible?
00:23:26that cannot
00:23:27communicate
00:23:27I don't understand it
00:23:30I mean really
00:23:31It solved my problem.
00:23:32very complicated
00:23:34because it doesn't seem like it to me
00:23:36that should
00:23:36If so
00:23:37I think if with someone
00:23:39we should have
00:23:41a relationship
00:23:41open
00:23:42full
00:23:43total
00:23:43and highly trustworthy
00:23:45Well, it's with the husband.
00:23:47with the wife
00:23:49Do you get me
00:23:53He loves me
00:23:54will seek
00:23:56understand me
00:23:56it's true
00:23:58that we're not going
00:23:59to be able to understand
00:23:59all situations
00:24:01especially
00:24:02situations
00:24:03that compete
00:24:04to the woman
00:24:05which are many
00:24:06more complicated
00:24:07and that it is difficult
00:24:08for us
00:24:09understand
00:24:09but
00:24:10well
00:24:12I try to
00:24:14of being there
00:24:16from listening
00:24:18take me
00:24:19to process
00:24:20all this
00:24:21and then
00:24:21see where
00:24:22we can fix
00:24:23things
00:24:24and the same
00:24:28happens with Mr.
00:24:29we are taking
00:24:32situations
00:24:33with the
00:24:34extremely
00:24:35superficial
00:24:36And that does
00:24:38that it does not develop
00:24:40love
00:24:41the lack
00:24:43communication
00:24:44does
00:24:45that it does not develop
00:24:47really
00:24:48love
00:24:48our deal
00:24:51so
00:24:51with God
00:24:52in general
00:24:53is superfluous
00:24:54only
00:24:55searching
00:24:56the interest
00:24:57own
00:24:57Sir
00:24:59give me
00:24:59Sir
00:25:00please
00:25:01Hey mister
00:25:02I have a sick person
00:25:03Sir
00:25:03I don't have a job.
00:25:04only
00:25:05searching
00:25:06our own
00:25:07interests
00:25:07and sometime
00:25:09have you gone
00:25:10to say
00:25:10to prayer
00:25:11Sir
00:25:12How can I help you?
00:25:12serve
00:25:13what is it that
00:25:15you need
00:25:16go to comfort
00:25:21to Mr.
00:25:21suffering
00:25:22upon seeing
00:25:23such indifference
00:25:24on behalf of
00:25:25of his children
00:25:26you have gone
00:25:26to look for it
00:25:27to comfort him
00:25:29I'm not coming
00:25:29to ask you for nothing
00:25:30but be
00:25:31with you
00:25:31to comfort you
00:25:34and when
00:25:34let's go to a
00:25:35For example
00:25:36a funeral
00:25:37to console
00:25:37to the person
00:25:38We're going to throw it at him
00:25:39the roll
00:25:40What are you going to tell him?
00:25:41very sorry
00:25:45well
00:25:46the person
00:25:49it feels
00:25:50comforted
00:25:50when you're there
00:25:51You hug her
00:25:53You don't tell him
00:25:53nothing
00:25:54There you are
00:25:55and the person
00:25:55It feels good
00:25:57God doesn't need
00:26:01that you go
00:26:01to throw
00:26:01a roll
00:26:02God wants
00:26:05that you are
00:26:06with the
00:26:06that's all
00:26:08But come
00:26:11as
00:26:11just like
00:26:12our relationships
00:26:13human
00:26:13we're looking
00:26:14always selfishness
00:26:16Now it's getting closer
00:26:17the husband
00:26:17with the wife
00:26:18when he wants something
00:26:19TRUE
00:26:19or the wife
00:26:20with the husband
00:26:21today they sent me
00:26:24a joke
00:26:25awesome!
00:26:26a type
00:26:32is found
00:26:32the lamp
00:26:34This is from Aladdin
00:26:34No
00:26:34and appears to him
00:26:38he appears
00:26:40he
00:26:41the magician
00:26:42No
00:26:42and tells him
00:26:44what is
00:26:46what you want
00:26:47that I do for you
00:26:47I want to be
00:26:49extremely
00:26:51desired
00:26:52and coveted
00:26:53and useful
00:26:54for women
00:26:55it makes it
00:26:57on card
00:26:58credit
00:26:59you need to know
00:27:08what to order
00:27:08TRUE
00:27:09each one
00:27:15is approaching
00:27:16for their interests
00:27:17No
00:27:17but
00:27:20watch it
00:27:21in the relationship
00:27:21sometimes
00:27:22He calls me too
00:27:22attention
00:27:23with the spouses
00:27:24No
00:27:24when you get close
00:27:26to console
00:27:27let's see
00:27:27what is it that
00:27:28the other one needs
00:27:29I don't know what you need
00:27:31you
00:27:31but
00:27:33your wife needs
00:27:35what you need
00:27:35your husband
00:27:36the relationship
00:27:38And that's why
00:27:40we are staying
00:27:41in that superficiality
00:27:43that doesn't reach us
00:27:44to discover
00:27:45entering the mystery
00:27:46of marriage
00:27:47that wonder
00:27:48that God has created
00:27:49when he said
00:27:50that we were
00:27:52one thing
00:27:53and we don't understand it
00:27:55We didn't enjoy it
00:27:56because?
00:27:57for that reason
00:27:58superficiality
00:28:00in which only
00:28:01we're looking
00:28:01our interests
00:28:04true dialogue
00:28:06loving
00:28:06the dialogue
00:28:07that builds
00:28:08the relationship
00:28:09It basically has
00:28:11two characteristics
00:28:14fundamentals
00:28:15first
00:28:17It's growing
00:28:18in depth
00:28:19and in time
00:28:20when we started
00:28:23to leave
00:28:24with a girl
00:28:25I speak from
00:28:27my perspective
00:28:28I think I know
00:28:29more or less the same
00:28:30on the other side
00:28:30So let's begin
00:28:32well, speaking
00:28:33about what
00:28:33Hey, how are you?
00:28:35hey
00:28:35How cool!
00:28:36the movie
00:28:37or the dance
00:28:38We found it
00:28:40I don't know now.
00:28:40What's this all about?
00:28:41But at that time
00:28:42It worked very well.
00:28:43the topic of dances
00:28:44or when we went
00:28:46to Morelos
00:28:47Those who went will remember
00:28:48the Chocomil ones
00:28:49backwards
00:28:50here we were going there
00:28:50to Morelear
00:28:51or to the square
00:28:52to the Immaculate
00:28:54then like on the ranches
00:28:56still Monterrey
00:28:57It was more of a ranch
00:28:58and then
00:28:59women
00:29:00on one side
00:29:01and the men
00:29:02for the other
00:29:03Yeah?
00:29:03Do you remember?
00:29:05if they remember
00:29:06well
00:29:07We were there.
00:29:09TRUE?
00:29:09TRUE?
00:29:12and then
00:29:14Where did we start?
00:29:15talking?
00:29:17Well, hello
00:29:17how are you?
00:29:18And what's your name?
00:29:19and all this kind
00:29:20of topics
00:29:21things
00:29:21well then
00:29:23superficial
00:29:24No?
00:29:25and well
00:29:26well, for a little while
00:29:27oh well
00:29:28if the relationship occurred
00:29:29if we like each other
00:29:31if it started
00:29:32to work
00:29:33there
00:29:33Hey then
00:29:33Give me your phone number
00:29:35No?
00:29:36Now give me your Facebook.
00:29:37Now the boys
00:29:38They say, "Give me your Facebook."
00:29:39already the phone
00:29:40not anymore
00:29:41It no longer works
00:29:41very good
00:29:42oh well
00:29:43Give me your phone number
00:29:44and then we began
00:29:45to dialogue
00:29:47of deeper things
00:29:49no
00:29:49what is your name
00:29:50or how it went
00:29:51but we started
00:29:53little by little
00:29:53the relationship
00:29:54as they grow
00:29:56begins to develop
00:29:57in depth
00:29:58I'm starting to get to know
00:30:00wanting to know
00:30:01more of you
00:30:02and at the same time
00:30:03Well, this is growing.
00:30:05in time
00:30:06in such a way
00:30:09Well, there comes a time
00:30:10which one do you want to be in
00:30:11all the time
00:30:11with the person
00:30:12and you barely go out
00:30:13of the work
00:30:14or you barely go out
00:30:15of the faculty
00:30:16and you already want to be there
00:30:17I don't know how it would have been
00:30:20whatever today
00:30:21the relationship
00:30:22with the quatsops
00:30:23and all this kind
00:30:24of topics
00:30:24No?
00:30:25that is, all day
00:30:25you can be
00:30:26sending you little messages
00:30:28and little hearts
00:30:29and little flowers
00:30:30and all kinds
00:30:31of trinkets
00:30:32that are sent
00:30:33the lovers
00:30:34because?
00:30:35because time
00:30:38want
00:30:38expand it
00:30:40and with God
00:30:41When do you remember?
00:30:47his?
00:30:48An ejaculation?
00:30:51Send her a little kiss
00:30:52to Mr.
00:30:53with an ejaculation
00:30:55my lord
00:30:58Oh my God
00:30:59I don't know
00:31:00Where is God?
00:31:03along
00:31:04of your whole day?
00:31:07And where is it?
00:31:08that long while
00:31:09that you want to spend
00:31:10with that
00:31:11what are you saying
00:31:12What do you love?
00:31:13because everyone
00:31:14we say
00:31:15that we love God
00:31:16it isn't true?
00:31:21will it be true
00:31:22will it be true
00:31:27that we love God
00:31:28if we don't want to
00:31:30to be with him
00:31:30awhile
00:31:31long
00:31:32if we don't want to
00:31:33pass
00:31:34every day
00:31:35a long time
00:31:36with the
00:31:36like we used to do
00:31:37with the girlfriend
00:31:38or with the boyfriend
00:31:39What's wrong with us?
00:31:44Why do husbands
00:31:45They also leave
00:31:46to be enjoyed?
00:31:48Why not anymore
00:31:48they want to pass
00:31:49long periods of time?
00:31:51I was telling them
00:31:52I think yesterday
00:31:53when they walk
00:31:54as boyfriend and girlfriend
00:31:55It seems they bring
00:31:56chewing gum or glue
00:31:57in the hand
00:31:57TRUE?
00:31:58They don't want to let go
00:31:59and they just get married
00:32:00and it seems they bring
00:32:01itchy
00:32:02Tell me
00:32:10I don't understand
00:32:11that
00:32:12the truth
00:32:12I don't understand it
00:32:14I don't understand
00:32:16that
00:32:16And that's exactly it.
00:32:19what happens
00:32:20with the Lord
00:32:21worse
00:32:22so on one hand
00:32:26It's growing
00:32:27in depth
00:32:27and in time
00:32:28but at the same time
00:32:29it is developing
00:32:31a process
00:32:32a process
00:32:33that begins
00:32:34first in communication
00:32:36communicating ideas
00:32:38we are at the level
00:32:40intellectual
00:32:41we are getting to know each other
00:32:43I know the boy
00:32:44The girl knows me
00:32:45And here we go
00:32:46Well, little by little
00:32:47getting to know each other
00:32:49we are doing
00:32:50an exchange
00:32:51of ideas
00:32:52but then
00:32:53those ideas
00:32:54they are leading us
00:32:55to go
00:32:56doing
00:32:56through the relationship
00:32:57which is growing
00:32:58in time
00:32:59and in depth
00:32:59that they start to do
00:33:01the feelings
00:33:03and then
00:33:04what the boy says
00:33:05to the girl
00:33:06Well, it seems to me
00:33:08that I feel
00:33:09Something for you
00:33:10No?
00:33:12And how do you feel?
00:33:14Well, I don't know.
00:33:15but
00:33:15but I feel
00:33:17Well
00:33:18that
00:33:21as the song says
00:33:22That's called love.
00:33:24I'm starting to feel
00:33:26something
00:33:27I need you
00:33:29I like you
00:33:29but not only
00:33:30It's because I like you
00:33:31but
00:33:31Who can define
00:33:33Love?
00:33:35whoever tries
00:33:36to define it
00:33:37He'd be crazy.
00:33:37No?
00:33:38because it can't be done
00:33:39simply
00:33:40I feel
00:33:41that I love you
00:33:42And how did it happen?
00:33:47Well
00:33:47there has been a process
00:33:49No?
00:33:50that dialogue
00:33:50which grew
00:33:51in time
00:33:52that dialogue
00:33:52which grew
00:33:53in depth
00:33:54has led me
00:33:55He's taking me now
00:34:00to say
00:34:00I love you
00:34:02there is a feeling
00:34:04inside me
00:34:05and then
00:34:07the final phase
00:34:09after the feeling
00:34:10What is it that
00:34:13Let's communicate?
00:34:15well, everything
00:34:16our being
00:34:17with the feeling
00:34:19Let's begin
00:34:19not only
00:34:20to communicate
00:34:21the ideas
00:34:22the feeling
00:34:23now it takes us
00:34:24to hugs
00:34:24with kisses
00:34:25and finally
00:34:26What does it end up as?
00:34:27all of this?
00:34:29in communication
00:34:30complete
00:34:31of our being
00:34:31Well
00:34:34This is the process
00:34:35of communication
00:34:36loving
00:34:37That's the process
00:34:39of a relationship
00:34:41every relationship
00:34:42goes through this process
00:34:44unfortunately
00:34:46stays
00:34:47in the first part
00:34:49in many cases
00:34:51and generally
00:34:52with God
00:34:53That's where
00:34:54parks
00:34:55in the first part
00:34:57pure ideas
00:34:58It's difficult
00:35:01meet people
00:35:02that has already happened
00:35:03to the expression
00:35:05of feelings
00:35:06I love you Lord
00:35:08And I love you
00:35:10not as an idea
00:35:11not as a word
00:35:13but truly
00:35:15like a feeling
00:35:16where I
00:35:16I really love
00:35:18bye
00:35:19and that love
00:35:22It has to be
00:35:23comparable
00:35:24when one says
00:35:25I love a boy
00:35:26or a girl
00:35:26Well, it's the same.
00:35:28feeling
00:35:29nothing else
00:35:29which is towards God
00:35:31There are people
00:35:33that maybe
00:35:34has never felt
00:35:35love
00:35:36towards a boy
00:35:37or towards a girl
00:35:37but knows
00:35:39love
00:35:39and knows
00:35:42when he is feeling
00:35:43For God's sake, something!
00:35:44And this does not mean
00:35:48as if I'm going to leave
00:35:48of a nun
00:35:49as if I'm going to leave
00:35:49of priest
00:35:50or anything
00:35:50but simply
00:35:52that I am building
00:35:54a relationship
00:35:55with the
00:35:56And that is the crisis
00:35:57of our church
00:35:58And that has been
00:35:59the crisis
00:35:59of Christianity
00:36:01the one we didn't achieve
00:36:03build
00:36:04a relationship
00:36:05with God
00:36:05And that's why
00:36:07our life
00:36:07it does not transform
00:36:09and we cannot
00:36:09transform
00:36:10a society
00:36:11if our life
00:36:12It has not transformed
00:36:13we need then
00:36:16to realize
00:36:18that it is necessary
00:36:19the construction
00:36:20of this relationship
00:36:21and that this relationship
00:36:23so
00:36:23demands
00:36:24time
00:36:25It takes time
00:36:28a relationship
00:36:29to which it is not
00:36:30dedicate time
00:36:31because it doesn't grow
00:36:32simply
00:36:33it doesn't grow
00:36:34You know it
00:36:35you who are
00:36:39married
00:36:39They even got married
00:36:40because they dedicated it to him
00:36:41time to their relationship
00:36:42And that's what he did.
00:36:45that it grew
00:36:46the relationship
00:36:47if you don't dedicate
00:36:49time for your relationship
00:36:50because it doesn't grow
00:36:51and then
00:36:53because never
00:36:54reaches maturity
00:36:56only
00:36:59through
00:37:00of this process
00:37:01relational
00:37:02It's like
00:37:03we just finished
00:37:03with superficiality
00:37:04the one who does not win
00:37:07superficiality
00:37:08well, it stays
00:37:09simply
00:37:10like the little friend
00:37:10Hello Jesus
00:37:11how are you
00:37:12if this happened
00:37:13I'll come see you here
00:37:14oh well
00:37:14You know I already have it
00:37:16a rush
00:37:16See you later
00:37:17bye
00:37:18bye
00:37:20I think everyone
00:37:23It's happened to us
00:37:24that we find
00:37:25to a friend
00:37:27No
00:37:27of the faculty
00:37:29or whatever
00:37:30Wow, that's amazing!
00:37:31how long
00:37:31without seeing you
00:37:32Hey, when are we going to see each other?
00:37:34Let's have dinner
00:37:35good sir
00:37:35then
00:37:36I'll talk to you later
00:37:38See you later
00:37:41I'll send you an email
00:37:42That means
00:37:46never
00:37:48I'm not interested
00:37:53I mean, good
00:37:53well there
00:37:54Let's see if...
00:37:55It comes after
00:37:56but
00:37:57not when it suits you
00:37:59hey
00:37:59What's up?
00:38:00see you tomorrow
00:38:01Let's have dinner
00:38:02Let's eat
00:38:02I'll wait for you
00:38:02Are you waiting for me?
00:38:03We took out our planners
00:38:04we put it
00:38:05That's outrageous!
00:38:06I'm so glad I saw you
00:38:07how long
00:38:08without seeing you
00:38:09when we meet
00:38:11no
00:38:13No
00:38:13never
00:38:14That's never.
00:38:15when we meet
00:38:16tomorrow
00:38:17past
00:38:17when
00:38:18to set a date
00:38:19hour
00:38:20There is interest.
00:38:22but
00:38:24we continue
00:38:25in superficiality
00:38:27and this situation
00:38:30of
00:38:32Hey
00:38:33connection
00:38:35of communion
00:38:36with another person
00:38:37is the one that goes
00:38:38to change
00:38:39our life
00:38:40when we see
00:38:44a couple
00:38:45that enters
00:38:46herein
00:38:46true relationship
00:38:48of communion
00:38:48we started to notice
00:38:50that begin to
00:38:52exchange
00:38:53certain things
00:38:54I'll start now
00:38:56to talk
00:38:56like him
00:38:57their expressions
00:38:58they begin to be
00:39:00mine too
00:39:01some gestures
00:39:02some tastes
00:39:04there begins to be
00:39:05an exchange
00:39:06it isn't true
00:39:07I am living
00:39:09with the person
00:39:10and then
00:39:11there begins to be
00:39:11that exchange
00:39:13we started
00:39:14appear
00:39:15Now on to the next one
00:39:16person
00:39:17because?
00:39:18because I live together
00:39:19all the time
00:39:19I hear her
00:39:20all the time
00:39:21I like
00:39:22as
00:39:24as
00:39:25as it says
00:39:26so
00:39:28we begin
00:39:29to share
00:39:30our language
00:39:32our tastes
00:39:33our hobbies
00:39:34and then
00:39:36it is happening
00:39:37this communion
00:39:38well then
00:39:38God does the same
00:39:39with us
00:39:40Why do people
00:39:42not dedicated
00:39:42to apostolic work?
00:39:46Yes, for Jesus
00:39:47It was super important
00:39:48because nobody
00:39:50live with him
00:39:51those of us who started
00:39:54to live with him
00:39:55we started to see
00:39:56how important
00:39:57that was the task
00:39:58of Jesus
00:39:59we started to give each other
00:40:00account
00:40:00How important
00:40:02It is the construction
00:40:03of the kingdom
00:40:03because for him
00:40:04It was super important
00:40:06and then
00:40:06for you too
00:40:07Start now
00:40:08to be important
00:40:09if for you
00:40:11It's not important
00:40:12the construction
00:40:12of the kingdom
00:40:13if for you
00:40:14It's not important
00:40:15preaching
00:40:15because it means
00:40:17that your prayer
00:40:17walks on the floor
00:40:19I mean your relationship
00:40:21with Jesus
00:40:21It is in very poor condition
00:40:24it has not grown
00:40:25It has not been developed
00:40:26You are superficial
00:40:28the apostles
00:40:30they saw
00:40:30how Jesus
00:40:31changed
00:40:32when I went
00:40:33to prayer
00:40:33was communicating
00:40:35with the Father
00:40:36and the Father
00:40:37I was telling him
00:40:38his life
00:40:39your expression
00:40:40and Jesus
00:40:42arrived
00:40:42of the prayer
00:40:43turned
00:40:44renovated
00:40:45eagerly
00:40:47with energy
00:40:48It was so much so
00:40:51that upon seeing
00:40:52what was happening
00:40:53in the prayer
00:40:54they said
00:40:55and why
00:40:55us
00:40:56It doesn't happen to us
00:40:56something here
00:40:58It's not working
00:40:59good
00:40:59that they told him
00:41:02in Luke 11
00:41:031 4
00:41:04says
00:41:05one day
00:41:05Jesus was praying
00:41:07when it ended
00:41:08he told her
00:41:09one of his disciples
00:41:10Mister
00:41:10teach us
00:41:12to pray
00:41:12as well as
00:41:13John taught
00:41:14to his disciples
00:41:15and what was
00:41:17what he taught
00:41:18a sentence
00:41:21further
00:41:22the Jews
00:41:26they had
00:41:26jets
00:41:28of sentences
00:41:28There you have it.
00:41:29the
00:41:29150 psalms
00:41:31one more
00:41:32No
00:41:34what was
00:41:36what he taught
00:41:37He gave them
00:41:38a
00:41:38course
00:41:39prayer
00:41:40the Father
00:41:41our
00:41:41it's a
00:41:42course
00:41:42prayer
00:41:43I don't know if
00:41:44Let's reach
00:41:45to see it
00:41:46herein
00:41:46this week
00:41:47but
00:41:48on some occasion
00:41:50I will invite them
00:41:51for a chat
00:41:52only
00:41:52on the topic
00:41:53of the Father
00:41:54our
00:41:55It's a whole course
00:41:56It begins by saying
00:41:58when they pray
00:41:59say
00:42:00father
00:42:01It was a change
00:42:02Copernican
00:42:03that
00:42:04They're not going to say it anymore
00:42:05You see?
00:42:06abahot
00:42:07el Shaddai
00:42:08Now they're going to tell him
00:42:09abah
00:42:10dad
00:42:11and from there
00:42:13all this
00:42:14changes
00:42:15in our
00:42:15perspective
00:42:16communication
00:42:17with God
00:42:17it began
00:42:18changing them
00:42:19the whole idea
00:42:21how
00:42:21communicate
00:42:22when you leave
00:42:23to communicate
00:42:23with God
00:42:24talk to your
00:42:25dad
00:42:25that
00:42:26Yeah
00:42:27You're going to talk
00:42:29with your dad
00:42:30and not with your dad
00:42:32as well as
00:42:32the dad
00:42:33but with your
00:42:35daddy
00:42:35with your
00:42:39abah
00:42:39a complete change
00:42:42a whole new
00:42:43perspective
00:42:44in the prayer
00:42:46Jesus
00:42:48wanted to
00:42:49that we
00:42:50we entered
00:42:51also
00:42:51in the same
00:42:52communion
00:42:53that he had
00:42:54with his father
00:42:54that we entered
00:42:56in that relationship
00:42:57to which
00:42:57he
00:42:58he liked it
00:42:59spend a lot
00:43:01time
00:43:01with the
00:43:02and we
00:43:04because
00:43:05We don't like it
00:43:05spend time
00:43:06with God
00:43:07because
00:43:08We don't like it
00:43:08spend time
00:43:09with Jesus
00:43:10need
00:43:14discover
00:43:16this
00:43:16this
00:43:17this idea
00:43:18that has
00:43:18presented
00:43:19the Lord
00:43:20And that's enough.
00:43:22my brothers
00:43:23open your heart
00:43:24and put on
00:43:25before God
00:43:25just as one is
00:43:27and pass
00:43:28long periods
00:43:29because another
00:43:31of the ideas
00:43:31that we have
00:43:33erroneous
00:43:33in these
00:43:34paradigms
00:43:35Well, it's just that
00:43:37we have to
00:43:37pretend
00:43:38Mister
00:43:41you know
00:43:42we are looking
00:43:50the words
00:43:51It catches my attention
00:43:59some couples
00:44:00that I know
00:44:01some guys
00:44:03a couple
00:44:04from here
00:44:04of the parish
00:44:04that I want
00:44:05a lot
00:44:06and this
00:44:07and he calls me
00:44:10attention
00:44:10that he is very
00:44:12foul language
00:44:12but it's very
00:44:15foul language
00:44:16always
00:44:17He speaks very badly.
00:44:21also
00:44:22when it is
00:44:23with his wife
00:44:24is sometimes
00:44:25talking to me
00:44:26And that's how it is.
00:44:28He's sweary.
00:44:29I think the
00:44:35marriages
00:44:35sometimes
00:44:36fail
00:44:36because
00:44:36we always want
00:44:37put on a face
00:44:38which is not ours
00:44:40we always want
00:44:41to look good
00:44:42God knows you
00:44:47God knows
00:44:48how do you speak
00:44:49God knows
00:44:53who are you
00:44:54because you want to
00:44:55pretend in front
00:44:56his
00:44:56because you don't feel
00:44:58comfortable with God
00:44:59because you are not
00:45:01like you are
00:45:02with God
00:45:03Why pretend?
00:45:07That's why we feel
00:45:09uncomfortable
00:45:10Be like you are
00:45:15with God
00:45:16treat God
00:45:18like a father
00:45:19treat God
00:45:21like a friend
00:45:22He wants to build
00:45:24a relationship
00:45:24with you
00:45:26not with the mask
00:45:27that sometimes
00:45:27you're wearing
00:45:28They're not interested
00:45:29your masks
00:45:30doesn't want to
00:45:31doesn't want to
00:45:32that you appear
00:45:32there as if you
00:45:33you were very good
00:45:34knows what you are
00:45:36There is the Pharisee
00:45:41that
00:45:42Sir
00:45:43I am not
00:45:44like that sinner
00:45:45Just look at that!
00:45:46What a mess!
00:45:47Well
00:45:49He didn't say that.
00:45:49But I think
00:45:50that he thought about it
00:45:51appearance
00:45:58of the Pharisee
00:45:59No
00:45:59poor thing
00:46:01sinner
00:46:02way back there
00:46:02Sir
00:46:05I am a miserable wretch
00:46:07you know
00:46:08that I'm not going
00:46:08not even to mass
00:46:09I have to walk
00:46:12collecting taxes
00:46:12here for
00:46:13for Rome
00:46:14What time am I coming?
00:46:15Sir
00:46:15I have to maintain
00:46:17a family
00:46:17if I come
00:46:20let's see
00:46:20They're chasing me.
00:46:21from work
00:46:21what do you want
00:46:22that he does
00:46:22that I am
00:46:23I am a miserable wretch
00:46:24oh well
00:46:25I just had a
00:46:26little joke, sir
00:46:27And here I came
00:46:28so everything
00:46:29wretched
00:46:29because I couldn't
00:46:30not even arrive
00:46:30to take a bath
00:46:31like you are
00:46:37And you'll see
00:46:39such as the relationship
00:46:39begins to grow
00:46:40fast
00:46:41you don't have
00:46:43that pretend
00:46:44what you are not
00:46:45don't even show up
00:46:46because you're not
00:46:47Be like you are
00:46:49and go visit
00:46:50to your friend
00:46:50to your brother
00:46:52to your father
00:46:53or when you're going to talk
00:46:57with your dad
00:46:58You have to do it
00:46:59a protocol
00:47:00and a date
00:47:01Father
00:47:02Today I would like
00:47:02that you would receive me
00:47:04at 3 pm
00:47:05because I need
00:47:05to discuss a matter
00:47:06of great importance
00:47:07with you
00:47:08to say
00:47:09don't come
00:47:10That's not the case
00:47:17Hey Dad
00:47:19Well, I want to talk.
00:47:20with you
00:47:21because I bring
00:47:21a row here
00:47:22more or less severe
00:47:23and that
00:47:30the one who speaks well
00:47:32TRUE
00:47:32because there are others
00:47:34what would they say
00:47:34otherwise
00:47:35build a relationship
00:47:39siblings
00:47:40implies
00:47:40two people
00:47:42that are sought
00:47:43He already came
00:47:45for you
00:47:45he sent you
00:47:46to his son
00:47:47He came to find you
00:47:48You are the sheep
00:47:49loss
00:47:50if you know that
00:47:51TRUE
00:47:51that you and I
00:47:53we are the sheep
00:47:53loss
00:47:54that we throw away
00:47:55always
00:47:56for the mountain
00:47:56Well
00:47:57he commanded
00:47:57to his son
00:47:58and now
00:48:00waiting
00:48:00that you
00:48:02look for it
00:48:03look for it
00:48:05I tell them
00:48:07what's it called
00:48:07the day
00:48:08from the ash
00:48:09the church
00:48:11full
00:48:12on Wednesday
00:48:13I tell him
00:48:16and why
00:48:18they don't come
00:48:18other days
00:48:19if they could
00:48:22on Wednesday
00:48:23they can also
00:48:24Tuesday
00:48:24or on Thursday
00:48:26or on Friday
00:48:27Well
00:48:27once a week
00:48:28well the whole church
00:48:30It must have been full
00:48:31Because it is possible
00:48:33no more than that day
00:48:36You didn't come for love.
00:48:37but so they can throw you out
00:48:39dirt on the head
00:48:39because
00:48:40as it has
00:48:41that little piece of land
00:48:42They believe it's magic
00:48:43And if they don't give it to you
00:48:45in the head
00:48:46Maybe it gives you mange
00:48:47or something like that
00:48:49or the people
00:48:50father father
00:48:52You can't put me here
00:48:53a bit
00:48:53of ash
00:48:55because I have there
00:48:57to take it
00:48:58to my family
00:48:59What's up with this?
00:49:02grab the flowerpot
00:49:03and put it there
00:49:04man already
00:49:04It's not that big of a deal.
00:49:14but
00:49:15I was telling them
00:49:19to those who came
00:49:20herein
00:49:20on this occasion
00:49:22the ash
00:49:25that is made
00:49:26palm
00:49:27and of leaves
00:49:28and other things
00:49:28that burn
00:49:29it's only
00:49:31a sign
00:49:32that I am
00:49:33engaged
00:49:34to change my life
00:49:35that I recognize
00:49:36that I am like the earth
00:49:38and that I recognize myself
00:49:39sinner
00:49:40and that during
00:49:41this week
00:49:41these weeks
00:49:42I'm going to look
00:49:44change
00:49:44That's the meaning
00:49:48when I put
00:49:50ash
00:49:51to a child
00:49:52one year
00:49:54that child
00:50:01it's going to change
00:50:02that's going to change
00:50:05if you don't have
00:50:06nothing to change
00:50:07put the child on
00:50:12Sometimes they bring me
00:50:18really
00:50:18newborn babies
00:50:20I think that
00:50:22I do them
00:50:22a bad
00:50:23putting it
00:50:23the ash
00:50:24imagine
00:50:26poor thing
00:50:27orphan
00:50:27with the
00:50:28with the
00:50:29if contaminated
00:50:30with the ash
00:50:31It's not understanding.
00:50:35But here they are
00:50:39fill the church
00:50:41And why don't you come?
00:50:45Tuesday
00:50:45no, well, it's just that
00:50:46They're not going to give
00:50:47blessed land
00:50:47I'm going to give you
00:50:54the Eucharist
00:50:54buddy
00:50:55no land
00:50:56but you're not coming
00:50:58through the Eucharist
00:50:59You come for the land
00:51:00but that land
00:51:04if you're interested
00:51:04That's why you're here.
00:51:05and at 10 pm
00:51:09There are still people
00:51:09there in line
00:51:10wanting them to put
00:51:11land
00:51:12two people
00:51:19that are sought
00:51:20So they do
00:51:23an effort
00:51:24to meet
00:51:25or we didn't do it that way
00:51:29with the kid
00:51:29or the girl
00:51:30who lived
00:51:32on the other side
00:51:33of the city
00:51:33son of his
00:51:34And you still
00:51:36at the faculty
00:51:37of the infantry
00:51:40on foot
00:51:42and alright
00:51:43Take a truck
00:51:43from here to the center
00:51:44and another one from the center
00:51:45to Guadalupe
00:51:46and still walking
00:51:47and pedal it
00:51:48about 4 or 5 blocks
00:51:50and you left here
00:51:52Sunday
00:51:53at 10 a.m.
00:51:54to go to mass
00:51:55from 12 there
00:51:56and you had to get up
00:51:57from 9
00:51:58to take your bath
00:52:00and alright
00:52:01is coming
00:52:01But there was interest.
00:52:03No?
00:52:04here the race
00:52:08lives a few blocks away
00:52:09and arrives late to mass
00:52:10where the interest
00:52:13Do you notice?
00:52:17That's why we don't build
00:52:19our relationship
00:52:20with the Lord
00:52:21because they are two people
00:52:23that are sought
00:52:24They are also two people
00:52:26that they want to hear
00:52:27pay attention
00:52:30we are always distracted
00:52:34in the prayer
00:52:35we are distracted
00:52:36even at Mass
00:52:38That's how it was during courtship.
00:52:44Were you there?
00:52:47Or not?
00:52:56There was interest
00:52:57two people
00:52:58that are sought
00:52:59two people
00:53:00that attract each other
00:53:01two people
00:53:02that are put
00:53:03attention
00:53:03that they wish
00:53:05meet
00:53:06in order to be able to love each other
00:53:07we need to build
00:53:14a relationship
00:53:14two people
00:53:18who are willing
00:53:19to leave
00:53:19his selfishness
00:53:21Jesus
00:53:24Jesus left
00:53:24the sky
00:53:24and you?
00:53:29What are you leaving behind?
00:53:32I think people
00:53:33he doesn't want to leave anything behind
00:53:34because that little room
00:53:35It's always empty
00:53:36three, four people
00:53:39friends of the Lord
00:53:40the others
00:53:42No
00:53:44said
00:53:49an atheist
00:53:52He tells it
00:53:53the father
00:53:55Cape of Vila
00:53:56in his book
00:53:57about prayer
00:53:57says that
00:53:59an atheist
00:54:01he once said
00:54:02if the Christians
00:54:05truly
00:54:06they believed
00:54:07that in the tabernacle
00:54:08is his God
00:54:08they would not detach
00:54:10from there
00:54:11never
00:54:12And it's true.
00:54:16Thursdays
00:54:18we have exposed
00:54:20the Lord
00:54:21from the
00:54:23seven in the morning
00:54:24at ten o'clock at night
00:54:25Christ
00:54:27the Son of God
00:54:28How many people
00:54:30Do you visit them?
00:54:31very little
00:54:32and less and less.
00:54:33we don't want
00:54:36to be friends of God
00:54:37good friends
00:54:40TRUE?
00:54:41because when the interest
00:54:42has feet
00:54:42Sir
00:54:44He is dying
00:54:45my son
00:54:45Sir
00:54:45I don't have a job.
00:54:46Sir
00:54:47Notice that this
00:54:48Oh Lord
00:54:49Oh Lord
00:54:50and we didn't come
00:54:54let's see
00:54:55when there is no need
00:54:57two people
00:54:59that are sought
00:55:00and that they leave
00:55:01things
00:55:01of his life
00:55:02Jesus left
00:55:03the sky
00:55:03siblings
00:55:04left the sky
00:55:05to come
00:55:07to see you
00:55:08and you can't
00:55:12leave for a while
00:55:12from TV
00:55:13you can't
00:55:14leave a match
00:55:15you can't leave
00:55:17to another activity
00:55:18and well
00:55:19doesn't want
00:55:21every day
00:55:21nor at all times
00:55:22but a good while
00:55:24every week
00:55:26go and visit him
00:55:27and every day
00:55:29we don't need
00:55:30come to the Most Holy
00:55:31live our heart
00:55:34knock knock knock
00:55:35There you are
00:55:36Yeah
00:55:37There I am
00:55:38Well
00:55:38What do you think?
00:55:39Let's talk now
00:55:40you and I?
00:55:41and also
00:55:42I want to tell you
00:55:43that is taking me
00:55:44if you yourself
00:55:51with the
00:55:52He's my friend
00:55:57it's me
00:56:00with the
00:56:01There you are
00:56:03There you are
00:56:07very good
00:56:08since you're there
00:56:09son
00:56:10that
00:56:10and sometimes
00:56:14the heart
00:56:15that overflows
00:56:16honey
00:56:17with the
00:56:17No?
00:56:23we have to open it
00:56:24the heart
00:56:24to be
00:56:25with the person
00:56:27in a way
00:56:28sincere
00:56:28like me
00:56:30without masks
00:56:32show him my heart
00:56:33Tell her my feelings
00:56:35my weaknesses
00:56:36my desires
00:56:37and above all
00:56:39to have the awareness
00:56:41that the other
00:56:42He's listening to me.
00:56:43He is welcoming me
00:56:46He's listening to me
00:56:48even though it may seem
00:56:50that there is nobody
00:56:51if there are brothers
00:56:53Believe me
00:56:55snap
00:56:56He's here to listen to you
00:57:01so you can tell him
00:57:03pretty things
00:57:04or ugly
00:57:05enough to cry
00:57:07or to laugh
00:57:07to sing to him
00:57:09or to tell him
00:57:10hey
00:57:11You took a bath
00:57:12I'm
00:57:13man
00:57:14because?
00:57:15You should have killed
00:57:17to my boss
00:57:17And you didn't
00:57:18You finished well
00:57:24with the Philistines
00:57:25but
00:57:25Why don't you finish?
00:57:26with my boss?
00:57:32well then
00:57:33There are days
00:57:35No?
00:57:38And there are days
00:57:39that you will arrive
00:57:39Oh my god, sir
00:57:40You took a bath
00:57:41You're the best
00:57:42You are love
00:57:43You are tenderness
00:57:44That's outrageous!
00:57:45the thing is
00:57:45well then
00:57:47That's just how we are.
00:57:47to be as we are
00:57:52build a relationship
00:57:54with the
00:57:54with opening
00:57:56freely
00:57:58with desire
00:57:59leaving
00:58:01which
00:58:02It's in my way
00:58:03in order to be able to
00:58:04build
00:58:04this relationship
00:58:05and well then
00:58:09as I already said
00:58:09I was going to miss it
00:58:10a little time
00:58:11oh well
00:58:13I'm going to elaborate.
00:58:15five minutes
00:58:16past ten
00:58:17for
00:58:17tap
00:58:18a topic
00:58:19we were saying
00:58:20the first part
00:58:22the first paradigm
00:58:23TRUE?
00:58:24well it is
00:58:24that for
00:58:26build
00:58:26the relationship
00:58:27I don't need
00:58:28falsehoods
00:58:29to be me
00:58:31we need to build
00:58:34a relationship
00:58:34of love
00:58:35and the one who loves
00:58:35It is what it is
00:58:36that one must be
00:58:39better
00:58:39Yeah
00:58:39but that
00:58:40it will happen
00:58:41in time
00:58:42right now
00:58:43for now
00:58:43No
00:58:43until it is
00:58:45I'm fine, that's correct.
00:58:45Sir
00:58:46And don't speak nicely.
00:58:46so
00:58:47I'm not going to do it
00:58:48relationship with you
00:58:49First I'm going to take
00:58:50a public speaking course
00:58:51First I'm going to correct
00:58:55my manners
00:58:56No
00:58:57That's why we have to break
00:59:01this paradigm
00:59:02of the property
00:59:04No
00:59:04we need to build
00:59:05a relationship
00:59:05as?
00:59:07giving it time
00:59:08being yourself
00:59:09leaving behind what hinders you
00:59:11in order to build it
00:59:12opening your heart
00:59:14want
00:59:17develop with him
00:59:19a true prayer
00:59:21the second paradigm
00:59:24are
00:59:27are
00:59:28ideas
00:59:30about
00:59:30what is prayer
00:59:32the ideas
00:59:33false
00:59:34of the prayer
00:59:36And this is very important.
00:59:38that we get to know him
00:59:39Because that's why
00:59:40many people
00:59:41abandons her
00:59:42and the first
00:59:44falsehood is
00:59:45the prayer
00:59:47is
00:59:47feel good
00:59:49There are a lot of people
00:59:50that abandons
00:59:51the prayer
00:59:52because at one point
00:59:53many times
00:59:54to begin
00:59:55the relationship
00:59:56because God
00:59:58grants
00:59:58special thanks
01:00:00and let's go to
01:00:01most holy
01:00:02Oh, how beautiful!
01:00:03And how lovely!
01:00:04above all
01:00:07in the movements
01:00:08in spiritualities
01:00:09more sensitive
01:00:10I have found
01:00:12to many people
01:00:12renewal
01:00:13that if all the people
01:00:14renewal
01:00:15would have remained
01:00:16in prayer
01:00:17since it began
01:00:18so far
01:00:18siblings
01:00:19our Monterrey
01:00:20That would be another story.
01:00:21But what's happening?
01:00:24were
01:00:25they imposed
01:00:26hands
01:00:26received
01:00:27the merger
01:00:28of the Holy Spirit
01:00:29they began
01:00:30to melt
01:00:30inside
01:00:31and then
01:00:32they began to feel
01:00:33and they began
01:00:33his prayer life
01:00:34good dad
01:00:35They made it at home.
01:00:36and then they would do it
01:00:37the most holy
01:00:37and every time they came
01:00:38They were going to the assembly
01:00:39They held hands
01:00:40and they almost entered
01:00:41in ecstasy
01:00:42Sir
01:00:43Oh Lord
01:00:45how gorgeous
01:00:46but one day
01:00:51hello
01:00:55and everyone here
01:01:00the brothers
01:01:00me too
01:01:06It's over
01:01:12God doesn't love me anymore.
01:01:17He already abandoned me
01:01:18no this doesn't have
01:01:19that guy
01:01:19pray brothers
01:01:23It's not feeling
01:01:25I can tell you
01:01:28that in my life
01:01:29few
01:01:31seldom
01:01:33It makes sense
01:01:33the prayer
01:01:37It's not feeling
01:01:37return to life
01:01:41of the bride and groom
01:01:41remember
01:01:46that they felt
01:01:46the first time
01:01:48that they took
01:01:49the hand
01:01:49to the
01:01:52to his wife
01:01:54No
01:01:54Oh
01:01:56Carlitos
01:01:57Popcorn
01:02:01in the stomach
01:02:02And needless to say
01:02:06of the first kiss
01:02:07TRUE
01:02:08and after
01:02:12years of marriage
01:02:13that you feel
01:02:14you no longer feel
01:02:17nothing
01:02:18I mean no
01:02:18it doesn't produce you
01:02:20this feeling
01:02:21And that means
01:02:22that I don't love her anymore
01:02:23that he doesn't love me anymore
01:02:24No
01:02:24That means
01:02:26that the relationship
01:02:26advanced
01:02:27and that I don't need
01:02:30that guy
01:02:31of experiences
01:02:32physical
01:02:33so I know
01:02:34that the person
01:02:35He is with me
01:02:35and they love me
01:02:36if I feel
01:02:37pretty
01:02:37but
01:02:40if I feel
01:02:41or I don't feel
01:02:42when there is
01:02:44truly
01:02:45love
01:02:45That's not important.
01:02:47we'll see
01:02:50Thursday
01:02:53a bit
01:02:54this topic
01:02:54about what happens
01:02:55I don't know if it's Thursday
01:02:56or on Friday
01:02:57the topic
01:02:57from dryness
01:02:58how it goes
01:02:59giving this
01:03:00this process
01:03:01so
01:03:02the first paradigm
01:03:04that must be broken
01:03:05is to pray
01:03:06it is feeling
01:03:07No
01:03:07what is prayer
01:03:08to be with him
01:03:10and I feel
01:03:11Well, I don't.
01:03:13I personally
01:03:14No
01:03:15I feel nothing
01:03:15practically
01:03:17I never feel anything
01:03:19I can't see anything
01:03:21nothing
01:03:24It's not feeling
01:03:26is to build
01:03:28a relationship
01:03:29He is
01:03:30And me too.
01:03:31We'll meet here
01:03:31to see you, sir
01:03:32if you are
01:03:33And if you are
01:03:34And me too.
01:03:35oh ok
01:03:35Here we are
01:03:36if you love me
01:03:38make feel
01:03:39Well, that's great!
01:03:39And if not
01:03:40it's not
01:03:41feel
01:03:42It's not feeling
01:03:45not pretty
01:03:46nor ugly
01:03:48It's not feeling
01:03:50the prayer
01:03:51It's not feeling
01:03:52neither
01:03:54I was saying it
01:03:55at first
01:03:55is talking
01:03:56a lot
01:03:57throw
01:03:59some tremendous
01:03:59rolls
01:04:00when I
01:04:02I started
01:04:02in the renovation
01:04:03first
01:04:05that one wants
01:04:05is talking
01:04:06a lot
01:04:06No
01:04:07Glory to you
01:04:08Sir
01:04:08and I praise you
01:04:09and I praise you
01:04:10and I praise you
01:04:10and I praise you
01:04:11and I praise you
01:04:11and I glorify you
01:04:12and I bless you
01:04:13And this
01:04:13and the other thing
01:04:13And I ask you
01:04:14And this
01:04:14and the other thing
01:04:15and intercession
01:04:16one by one
01:04:16and on the other
01:04:17and besides
01:04:17there and everywhere
01:04:18and always
01:04:19like that
01:04:20it's innate
01:04:22It comes naturally to us.
01:04:23with the step
01:04:25weather
01:04:26to the extent
01:04:26which one goes
01:04:27building
01:04:27the relationship
01:04:28We're leaving
01:04:29giving account
01:04:30about what
01:04:30speaking
01:04:32a lot
01:04:33it starts
01:04:33to get in the way
01:04:34in our
01:04:37relations
01:04:38with the husband
01:04:40or the wife
01:04:40with the boyfriend
01:04:41or with the girlfriend
01:04:41So let's begin
01:04:42by far
01:04:43wiri wiri
01:04:44Hey, look here
01:04:45that this
01:04:45and that I was
01:04:46that I came
01:04:46that stingy
01:04:46ita
01:04:47ita
01:04:47ita
01:04:47but little by little
01:04:49as it matures
01:04:51we started to change
01:04:52the expressions
01:04:53we begin
01:04:56let's see
01:04:57like our gazes
01:04:58and our hearts
01:04:59they communicate
01:05:00wordless
01:05:01I think that
01:05:04the moment
01:05:04of greater expression
01:05:06loving
01:05:07within the relationship
01:05:10between a man
01:05:10and a woman
01:05:11Well, it's a kiss.
01:05:13and at that moment
01:05:16no one talks
01:05:17I have never seen
01:05:19someone kissing
01:05:20and that
01:05:20Hey, look here
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:21that
01:05:22that
01:05:22that
01:05:23that
01:05:24that
01:05:24that
01:05:24that
01:05:25that
01:05:25that
01:05:25that
01:05:29that
01:05:29that
01:05:33And now is the time
01:05:35where there is a
01:05:36communication
01:05:37of feelings
01:05:39with all our heart
01:05:41is communicating
01:05:43through that expression
01:05:44in which there is no
01:05:45words
01:05:46bride and groom
01:05:51I hope so too
01:05:52so be it
01:05:53the spouses
01:05:53but
01:05:54well
01:05:55because I never became a husband
01:05:56I got stuck in the first stage
01:05:58so
01:06:00because it's the only one
01:06:01that I know
01:06:01that I know well
01:06:03and then
01:06:05You talk to the girl
01:06:06Lupita
01:06:09hello
01:06:13hello
01:06:15hey
01:06:20hey
01:06:27man
01:06:28the thing is
01:06:28And how cool!
01:06:31TRUE?
01:06:31the monkey
01:06:36I don't know how many kilometers
01:06:38but
01:06:38chacatelas
01:06:39communication
01:06:41at full speed
01:06:41and if then
01:06:45You still take the photo
01:06:46No way, man.
01:06:47I'll finish it
01:06:47already?
01:06:47communication
01:06:56It requires no words.
01:06:58start with the words
01:07:01We begin by going to the Blessed Sacrament
01:07:04sir, and look, I
01:07:05And notice that
01:07:06It happens to me and it doesn't happen to me
01:07:07And then you take out your Bible
01:07:09And then he tells you
01:07:09No, man, don't worry.
01:07:10Look, I'm crazy.
01:07:11And you tell him
01:07:11If I hurry
01:07:12because however you want
01:07:13This isn't working.
01:07:14and then you take out
01:07:14Yes, but I already told you.
01:07:15Don't rush
01:07:16Okay, so I won't rush anymore.
01:07:17TRUE?
01:07:18and then well
01:07:19Well, that's where the back-and-forth is.
01:07:21TRUE?
01:07:21and then boom
01:07:21things are starting to calm down
01:07:23things are starting to calm down
01:07:24Peace begins to come
01:07:25serenity
01:07:26And I don't speak anymore
01:07:29another type begins to emerge
01:07:33of expression
01:07:35other type
01:07:35communication
01:07:37Confidence is coming
01:07:38joy
01:07:39serenity
01:07:41Why am I worried?
01:07:43Yes, sir.
01:07:44and one breathes
01:07:48and she calms down
01:07:49and calms down
01:07:50and he departs in peace
01:07:54and with joy
01:07:55not much fuss
01:07:58It's not about talking a lot.
01:08:01It's about communicating a lot.
01:08:03It's expressing a lot.
01:08:05It's not about talking a lot.
01:08:07bride and groom
01:08:10They express themselves a lot
01:08:12sometimes they talk
01:08:14but not always
01:08:16The important thing is to communicate.
01:08:19And to communicate is to express
01:08:23is to be
01:08:24is to embrace
01:08:25that is to say
01:08:26with the soul
01:08:28what is happening
01:08:29in our whole being
01:08:30neither
01:08:34It's about seeing
01:08:37transformations
01:08:39and answers
01:08:40extraordinary
01:08:41People are thinking of going
01:08:42thinking that he will find
01:08:43with a witch doctor
01:08:44in there
01:08:45that will solve it
01:08:46life
01:08:46gentlemen, I come
01:08:48Because, look at that
01:08:49I have this problem
01:08:49and then
01:08:50Well, you'd better.
01:08:51that you fix it today
01:08:52because the thing
01:08:52She's serious
01:08:53And since he won't fix it for you
01:08:55then you say
01:08:55No, you see.
01:08:56does not exist
01:08:57no problem
01:08:58wanting transformations
01:09:01immediate
01:09:02It doesn't happen like that.
01:09:03This is a relationship
01:09:04God has to go
01:09:05working with your life
01:09:07He has to go to work
01:09:07with your soul
01:09:08And this will lead him
01:09:10sometimes
01:09:10years
01:09:11I have
01:09:13practically
01:09:1440 years
01:09:16more than 40 years
01:09:17of having started
01:09:18my dealings with the Lord
01:09:19And I'm still a cactus.
01:09:20and if they had
01:09:24known formerly
01:09:25wow
01:09:25twisted cactus
01:09:27has worked
01:09:30I recognize
01:09:32that God
01:09:32has worked
01:09:33in my life
01:09:33have been
01:09:36many years
01:09:37and still
01:09:38everything it lacks
01:09:40I see
01:09:42the imperfect
01:09:43the miserable
01:09:44the sinner
01:09:46so many things
01:09:47in my own character
01:09:48What can I tell you?
01:09:49if you
01:09:50They know me
01:09:51pretty good here
01:09:52and still
01:09:55it has to continue
01:09:56working
01:09:57there are no transformations
01:09:58immediate
01:09:59nor miraculous
01:10:00nor prodigious
01:10:01Well
01:10:01in some
01:10:02TRUE
01:10:02But that's not the case.
01:10:05the prayer
01:10:07It is a process
01:10:07long
01:10:08long
01:10:09long
01:10:10in which God
01:10:11It's working
01:10:12and reworking
01:10:13your life
01:10:14has to
01:10:15remake yourself
01:10:16so
01:10:18are processes
01:10:19long
01:10:19they do not exist
01:10:21the transformations
01:10:22fast
01:10:23nor the solutions
01:10:24immediate
01:10:25clear
01:10:26God can do
01:10:27a miracle
01:10:27Yeah
01:10:28we can go
01:10:31to ask for a miracle
01:10:32that it heals
01:10:32my sister
01:10:33my cousin
01:10:33if you can do it
01:10:34and he can grant it
01:10:35if you can do it
01:10:36ordinarily
01:10:38it's not
01:10:39the common
01:10:39generally
01:10:41There are processes
01:10:42for God
01:10:42There are processes
01:10:43because
01:10:43because man
01:10:44It's always in process
01:10:45and respect
01:10:46our processes
01:10:48but due to situations
01:10:49that are convenient
01:10:50to the gospel
01:10:51and agree
01:10:51to the kingdom
01:10:52well in a moment
01:10:53certain
01:10:53he can interrupt
01:10:55the natural way
01:10:56which ones are they going in
01:10:56developing things
01:10:57and do what is called
01:10:58a miracle
01:10:59but it is not
01:11:00normal
01:11:01people
01:11:03ordinarily
01:11:05Okay then
01:11:07to ask for miracles
01:11:08and not
01:11:11to respect
01:11:12processes
01:11:13no to introducing ourselves
01:11:14in the processes
01:11:16when a marriage
01:11:18is failing
01:11:19they are coming
01:11:21with me
01:11:22father
01:11:22What do we do?
01:11:24Well, I tell them
01:11:25start a process
01:11:27I don't have a solution.
01:11:29magic
01:11:30as I told you
01:11:30to this person
01:11:31tell your husband
01:11:33come and see me
01:11:34Let's see
01:11:35now their version
01:11:36let me see
01:11:36What is happening?
01:11:38and then
01:11:41after talking to him
01:11:42Well, let's talk
01:11:43now the two
01:11:44to see
01:11:44What is happening?
01:11:45and from there
01:11:48Let's begin
01:11:49a process
01:11:49reconstruction
01:11:51what does that have to do with it
01:11:52with spiritual life
01:11:52what does that have to do with it
01:11:53with dialogue
01:11:54what does that have to do with it
01:11:54with attitudes
01:11:55know how many things
01:11:56that we need to go
01:11:58transforming
01:11:59are processes
01:12:00the same
01:12:01You arrive with God
01:12:02Mister
01:12:03changes my character
01:12:04Yeah
01:12:04seize the time
01:12:06TRUE?
01:12:08What would I want?
01:12:09Chivas?
01:12:10that God
01:12:11I would have
01:12:11Many things have changed
01:12:13of my life
01:12:13and for reasons
01:12:16that I don't understand
01:12:16perhaps because
01:12:17I am a stone
01:12:18too hard
01:12:19in some areas
01:12:20because he hasn't been able to
01:12:21still to finish
01:12:22to polish
01:12:22in some
01:12:23I think I am
01:12:24just like I started
01:12:25that part
01:12:28It has to be
01:12:28titanium
01:12:29I believe
01:12:29And we all have
01:12:32titanium parts
01:12:33around there
01:12:33that the Lord
01:12:34He works and works
01:12:35and works
01:12:36and soups
01:12:36soups
01:12:37soups
01:12:37and not
01:12:38You're not making progress.
01:12:39oh well
01:12:42One day he will find
01:12:44the tool
01:12:45for titanium
01:12:46and he's going to kick you out
01:12:46will be able to take
01:12:48go ahead with this
01:12:49so
01:12:50Yes, we can change.
01:12:53but they are not instantaneous
01:12:55things
01:12:56so
01:12:57fake things
01:13:02in the prayer
01:13:03It's not feeling something
01:13:06It's not much talking, either.
01:13:09And it's not seeing either.
01:13:11transformations
01:13:12immediate
01:13:13if we have
01:13:16these two paradigms
01:13:18already quite clear
01:13:19if we can
01:13:20drive
01:13:22I think we can
01:13:24start now
01:13:25to work
01:13:25a bit
01:13:26our life
01:13:26prayer
01:13:27above all
01:13:29with the idea
01:13:29that we have to
01:13:30build
01:13:31a relationship
01:13:32and that relationship
01:13:33It is a process
01:13:34and that in that relationship
01:13:35I have to be myself
01:13:36and that in that relationship
01:13:38Well, I have to open
01:13:39my heart
01:13:40and that in this relationship
01:13:41I have to go and find
01:13:42to the other
01:13:43also
01:13:43as you can see
01:13:45Well, there I gave them
01:13:46right now
01:13:48lots of material
01:13:49Now we need to review it
01:13:52and start to see
01:13:53how we started
01:13:56to apply
01:13:56siblings
01:13:57because otherwise
01:13:59nothing remains
01:14:01How beautiful!
01:14:03was
01:14:04this matter
01:14:05maybe yesterday
01:14:06they say
01:14:06the best of all
01:14:08It was the joke
01:14:08of the marbles
01:14:10I did learn this one.
01:14:13Okay, that's great.
01:14:13and maybe
01:14:17well today
01:14:18some of the
01:14:19jokes
01:14:20and things I said
01:14:20well maybe
01:14:21Someone is going to stay
01:14:22with the idea
01:14:23simply of
01:14:24Well, if you want
01:14:25to please a woman
01:14:26and that to be
01:14:27the best
01:14:28and the favorite
01:14:29then
01:14:30ask the Lord
01:14:31that turns you
01:14:31on a card
01:14:32credit
01:14:33And you'll see
01:14:33How are you going to do it?
01:14:34very happy
01:14:35we stayed
01:14:37sometimes
01:14:38with this
01:14:38because
01:14:39because this
01:14:39does not commit
01:14:40doesn't involve me
01:14:41to work
01:14:41It doesn't make changes
01:14:43in my life
01:14:43simply
01:14:44well, it stays
01:14:45in my little ears
01:14:46But it doesn't happen.
01:14:48my heart
01:14:48and from there
01:14:50towards life
01:14:51No
01:14:52because this
01:14:53No
01:14:53No
01:14:54No
01:14:55No
01:14:55No
01:14:56No
01:14:58No
01:14:59No
01:14:59No
01:15:00No
01:15:00No
01:15:00No
01:15:02Thank you.