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00:00:00From the Our Family collection, Father Ernesto María Caro presents the seminar
00:00:08Education Yesterday, Today and Always.
00:00:12For a long time, the education of children was a commitment and responsibility that fell on the family.
00:00:20So everyone was involved: the father, the mother, the grandparents, and even the uncles or relatives.
00:00:29with a certain authority and dignity within families.
00:00:34In recent times, that has changed, as people, philosophies, ideologies, and psychological schools of thought have become involved.
00:00:44that have taken away that responsibility and right from us.
00:00:48Today, children are educated by mass media, television, the internet, and the great gurus of pedagogy.
00:00:57and what God tells us in his holy word has been disregarded.
00:01:03Father Ernesto María Caro guides us on the path that will lead us back to a meaningful education.
00:01:10within the family and with a strong inspiration from the word of God.
00:01:16Because therein lies life and truth, as Jesus said,
00:01:22I am the way, the truth, and the life.
00:01:27We hope this material will be of great help to your family life.
00:01:33With you, Father Ernesto María Caro.
00:01:37In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
00:01:49Lord, we want to thank you for allowing us to meet again in this cycle.
00:01:53to learn more about this project you have for all of us,
00:02:00those whom you have called to be educators of children.
00:02:03I want to ask you especially to pray for the parents.
00:02:07so that they can understand with great clarity this project that you have placed in their hearts
00:02:16so that their children can grow up to be good Christians
00:02:21and so that they may reach this perfect life in your love
00:02:26to be good citizens, spouses, children, and parents.
00:02:30Help us, Lord, and give us your grace so that each one of us may
00:02:33to those whom you have called to this noble function of educating them,
00:02:37so that we may always do it according to your will.
00:02:40Most Holy Virgin, we place ourselves under your protection and shelter.
00:02:45Hail Mary, full of grace,
00:02:48The Lord is with you, blessed are you among women
00:02:53And blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.
00:02:57Holy Mary, Mother of God,
00:03:00Pray for us sinners,
00:03:03now and at the hour of our death.
00:03:06Amen.
00:03:06In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
00:03:10Please sit down.
00:03:11Well, I welcome you to our work this year.
00:03:18I hope to be able to complete the program this time.
00:03:23The book from which I am taking this instruction has truly fascinated me.
00:03:28I think it's going to be difficult to listen to some of the things I'm going to tell you.
00:03:32throughout these meetings because it aims above all to make us realize
00:03:40that sometimes we have taken a path that is not exactly
00:03:44the one God has prepared for the education of children.
00:03:50This therefore affects all areas of family life.
00:03:55And well, today I'd like to start with a topic I've titled
00:04:00the change that is destroying us.
00:04:04We can say that until 1960, in the 1960s,
00:04:11There was a form of education that began in 1960
00:04:16There have been significant changes, not only in the technological area
00:04:21as we have seen recently, but very specifically
00:04:25in the way we conceive of our family.
00:04:27And from there, the education of the children.
00:04:31We can see how this modernism that we live in today...
00:04:35because it has gradually destroyed the fundamental cell of society
00:04:41which is family.
00:04:43Today, not only in the field of education,
00:04:47but throughout the entire family sphere,
00:04:50We see how there is a large number of divorces.
00:04:52Something that, therefore, before 1960,
00:04:58That's what our parents or my parents were like, right?
00:05:00who lived in that era, because it did not exist.
00:05:05It's my job, and many of yours too,
00:05:08Those of us who were born in the 1950s,
00:05:10But we started in the 50s and it has happened to us, well,
00:05:14to experience this transition,
00:05:15We can see today that there is indeed this important change.
00:05:22Perhaps today's children and young people,
00:05:25For them, it's normal for their brother to get divorced.
00:05:28that his uncle gets divorced, that his cousin gets divorced,
00:05:31that his friends get divorced.
00:05:33In other words, this is normal, it's natural.
00:05:36New couples are already considering this possibility from the very beginning.
00:05:41Many of the couples, when I give them the topic in the parish for their formation,
00:05:47Well, one of the questions that always comes up,
00:05:50Well, and if we fail, you haven't even started yet.
00:05:55And you're already looking for the exit, aren't you?
00:05:58Since, as they used to say, right?,
00:06:00I got married for life.
00:06:02In other words, it didn't fit in, it wasn't conceivable.
00:06:04It was something that would suddenly happen.
00:06:06It was a situation that could eventually occur.
00:06:11If there were any divorced people, well, those people were kind of the odd ones out.
00:06:16It wasn't normal, it wasn't common for our parents to see this, was it?
00:06:21For us, then, we see that our uncles and that generation,
00:06:25The next generation is coming up, so I see this stability,
00:06:30while I see in the new generation that it's my turn now,
00:06:34Well, we'll see how this is gradually becoming more popular.
00:06:37And today, well, let's say, for their children,
00:06:40Those born in the century we are living in,
00:06:45Well, it's a completely normal situation.
00:06:47Many of the things that were, therefore, strange to us,
00:06:51For them, they are completely normal.
00:06:53because they see it every day.
00:06:55It is something that, therefore, appears frequently.
00:06:58in their families, in their society.
00:07:01So, there really has been a strong movement.
00:07:04which has affected families
00:07:07and, obviously, with that, to the children.
00:07:11Before the sixties,
00:07:14A mother could educate without any problem.
00:07:16five, six, seven children.
00:07:19It wasn't a big problem for her.
00:07:22Those of us who lived through that time, right?
00:07:24Well, there were five of us in my family.
00:07:25And the families I know,
00:07:28Well, all my first cousins,
00:07:29Well, most of them are four, five, six.
00:07:32My friends, therefore, also had large families.
00:07:36My grandparents' families, therefore, were even bigger.
00:07:39My mom, seven.
00:07:41My dad, five.
00:07:42My grandparents, even older.
00:07:46My grandmother had fourteen siblings.
00:07:48Three brothers and her.
00:07:50So, what happened?
00:07:53So why only 50 years ago?
00:07:57It was, therefore, simple, straightforward
00:08:00raising a large family of five or six
00:08:03And today they can't handle two?
00:08:06I see this trend becoming increasingly pronounced in families today.
00:08:10to educate only one child.
00:08:13Couples today, we say,
00:08:16They experience far more problems
00:08:18that the problems they experienced
00:08:20our parents and our grandparents.
00:08:22And this, then, seems strange.
00:08:25How is it that our grandparents and our parents
00:08:28who raised large families,
00:08:31How is it that small families now,
00:08:34very small, with one or two children,
00:08:36Well, they have so many problems
00:08:38so that they can educate their family?
00:08:41All this, then, is because things have changed.
00:08:44our way of educating.
00:08:46We have entered a process of change
00:08:50And we think that education, well,
00:08:54I should have changed
00:08:55in the same way that we conceive today
00:08:57in a different way, then,
00:09:00technology and many changes
00:09:02that are happening.
00:09:04Well, we think that all this
00:09:06I would also have to change.
00:09:07And yet, look,
00:09:08Today we talk a lot about rapid changes
00:09:11that occur within society.
00:09:14And it's true, especially in the technological field.
00:09:18But this is focusing on changes
00:09:21that are destroying our society.
00:09:23When certain changes
00:09:25and important movements in the world,
00:09:28in the 1950s and earlier,
00:09:31Well, they didn't make a big impact.
00:09:33in family education.
00:09:35Let's think, for example,
00:09:36before the 1960s,
00:09:39Well, there were two world wars.
00:09:42And the parents still had
00:09:44the same number of children
00:09:46and they continued to have problems
00:09:47that perhaps the grandparents had.
00:09:51There was, therefore, an important change.
00:09:54There was a major war
00:09:56in our country.
00:09:57The revolution,
00:09:59later the Cristero War.
00:10:02In other words, we're talking about changes in society,
00:10:04We're talking about major changes,
00:10:06we talk about situations
00:10:07that hit tremendously
00:10:09society and families.
00:10:11And yet,
00:10:12we realize
00:10:13that education, therefore,
00:10:14It continued to be more or less the same.
00:10:18Today, starting at age 60,
00:10:21we see how this change
00:10:23It is having a strong impact.
00:10:25how one is educated
00:10:27to the children in the family.
00:10:29There are profound changes
00:10:30that are being carried out
00:10:33in each of us,
00:10:35primarily in you,
00:10:36those who were born
00:10:37after 1960
00:10:39and that they already see all this
00:10:41as something normal,
00:10:43as something that is part of
00:10:44of his generation.
00:10:46But those of us who lived before,
00:10:48Well, it wasn't like that.
00:10:49It wasn't like that with his parents.
00:10:50And it wasn't like that either.
00:10:52with their grandparents.
00:10:53We can say that education,
00:10:59Well, since Abraham,
00:11:01which is when it really begins
00:11:02the history of salvation,
00:11:04already in a story
00:11:05which is called
00:11:06the positive revelation,
00:11:08we can see that education
00:11:09that Abraham and Sarah gave him,
00:11:11the rules they used
00:11:13to educate Ishmael and Isaac,
00:11:16Well, they're the same.
00:11:17that they have maintained
00:11:17the previous families.
00:11:20So, what was it?
00:11:22the fundamental norm?
00:11:23What is the fundamental rule?
00:11:25that appears in Scripture?
00:11:26Well, what we know
00:11:28like the fourth commandment.
00:11:30The fourth commandment
00:11:31It comes a little more developed
00:11:33in Exodus 20:12,
00:11:35where the commandments are given.
00:11:37In this context,
00:11:38It appears as the fifth commandment,
00:11:40which will then be summarized
00:11:41in the fourth commandment.
00:11:43Says,
00:11:44Honor your father and your mother
00:11:46so you can have
00:11:48long life on earth
00:11:49that God is going to give you.
00:11:51The foundation is
00:11:53Honor your father and your mother.
00:11:56And this is what,
00:11:58Well, we learned.
00:12:00from our parents,
00:12:02what our parents
00:12:03They learned from their parents.
00:12:06What hope is there?
00:12:08that could have happened
00:12:11at my place
00:12:12some of the scenes
00:12:13which I see with a lot,
00:12:15very often
00:12:16in marriages,
00:12:18not only modern ones,
00:12:20let's say,
00:12:21of the last ones.
00:12:22I mean,
00:12:22marriages
00:12:23that began in the nineties,
00:12:25In the thousand, right?
00:12:27Where the children
00:12:29they put
00:12:30from one to the other
00:12:31to the dad or the mom
00:12:33and they shout at him
00:12:34and they even insult him.
00:12:35They call him
00:12:36of curses
00:12:37or of profanity,
00:12:38However you want.
00:12:40What hope is there?
00:12:41not anymore,
00:12:42I don't even want to think about it.
00:12:44what I would have done
00:12:46my dad
00:12:47if I had told him
00:12:49to my mom
00:12:50an insult,
00:12:51as I have heard
00:12:52that the children
00:12:54they tell them
00:12:54to their mothers.
00:12:57For much less than that,
00:12:59They broke me
00:12:59several times the mouth.
00:13:01That's not how you talk to him.
00:13:02to your mom.
00:13:03And ropes, right?
00:13:07What hope is there?
00:13:09I mean,
00:13:09It was something inconceivable.
00:13:13It was necessary to honor
00:13:14to the father
00:13:14and to the mother
00:13:15and danger
00:13:16that you didn't obey
00:13:17because
00:13:20the thing
00:13:23he was going to put
00:13:23complicated
00:13:24in your life.
00:13:26And what happened
00:13:27With those children?
00:13:28Those children
00:13:30now they are
00:13:30traumatized?
00:13:31Those children
00:13:32now they are
00:13:32In jail?
00:13:33Those children
00:13:34Are they drug addicts?
00:13:35No.
00:13:36Those children
00:13:37are the ones who today
00:13:38because they are
00:13:39the directors
00:13:39of the companies,
00:13:41They are the people
00:13:42who was educated
00:13:43under standards
00:13:44of discipline.
00:13:45mostly
00:13:46honor
00:13:47to your father
00:13:48and your mother.
00:13:50It's a principle
00:13:51biblical.
00:13:52It's a principle
00:13:52fundamental
00:13:53which unfortunately
00:13:55from
00:13:56from the 60s
00:13:57it began
00:13:59to get lost.
00:14:01There have been
00:14:02a change
00:14:03destructive
00:14:04in families
00:14:05where
00:14:06They left
00:14:07losing
00:14:07the values
00:14:08as always.
00:14:10Until
00:14:10this decade,
00:14:11up to the decade
00:14:12from the 60s
00:14:13they remained
00:14:14the values
00:14:14traditional
00:14:15and life went on
00:14:17in a way
00:14:17traditional.
00:14:18What my parents
00:14:19they had learned
00:14:20from their grandparents
00:14:20well, so
00:14:21more or less
00:14:22it was like
00:14:23we were going
00:14:24educating us.
00:14:25I mean,
00:14:25there was a
00:14:26continuity
00:14:27in education.
00:14:30Still
00:14:31on the ranches
00:14:32and in some places
00:14:33where it has not yet arrived
00:14:34postmodernism
00:14:35we still see
00:14:36that the children
00:14:37They address you formally
00:14:38to the parents
00:14:39who kiss them
00:14:40the hand.
00:14:43That's how they learned it
00:14:44from their grandparents
00:14:44That's how they learned it
00:14:45of their great-grandparents.
00:14:46That is to say,
00:14:47there was a continuity
00:14:48in education
00:14:49where
00:14:50this continuity
00:14:51practically
00:14:52we could turn it around
00:14:54As I was saying earlier
00:14:55well until the exodus.
00:14:58I mean,
00:14:58There was no breakup
00:14:59There was a continuity.
00:15:02What's happening
00:15:03in 1960?
00:15:06Well,
00:15:07Well, in 1960
00:15:08they are going to happen
00:15:09different elements
00:15:11fundamentals
00:15:12that will disrupt
00:15:14completely
00:15:15education.
00:15:17One of them
00:15:18It's television.
00:15:20Television
00:15:20born
00:15:21really endings
00:15:22of the decade
00:15:23of the 40
00:15:23but really
00:15:24it begins
00:15:25to develop
00:15:25properly
00:15:26like television
00:15:27commercial
00:15:28in the decade
00:15:29of the 50s.
00:15:30The decade
00:15:31of the 50s
00:15:32they begin
00:15:32to appear
00:15:33televisions
00:15:34and they begin
00:15:35to appear
00:15:36the programs
00:15:37television.
00:15:37What programs
00:15:39television
00:15:40we saw
00:15:40the children
00:15:41of the decade
00:15:42of the 50s?
00:15:44Whoever they are
00:15:45from that time
00:15:46and well,
00:15:46those who can see
00:15:47some of those
00:15:47retro channels
00:15:48that today there is
00:15:49because they will remember
00:15:50For example
00:15:51to Lassie
00:15:51TRUE?
00:15:54They will remember
00:15:54Dad
00:15:55He knows everything
00:15:56they will remember
00:15:58the show
00:15:59Lucy's
00:16:00they will remember
00:16:02Well, need I say more?
00:16:03Pipo's
00:16:03and of the theater
00:16:04fantastic
00:16:05with Cachirulo
00:16:06and his friends.
00:16:09What was
00:16:09the feature
00:16:11from television
00:16:12in the 1950s?
00:16:15In the 1950s
00:16:16who were driving
00:16:18the chains
00:16:18television stations
00:16:19because they were
00:16:19those who were coming
00:16:20working
00:16:21at this same level
00:16:22and in this same
00:16:23dimension
00:16:24of the family.
00:16:25All these programs
00:16:27because they were pushing
00:16:28they maintained
00:16:29they were spreading
00:16:30the values
00:16:30of the family.
00:16:33Who hasn't seen
00:16:34well this
00:16:34Dad's
00:16:35He knows everything
00:16:36TRUE?
00:16:36this family
00:16:36where dad
00:16:37because he was the advisor
00:16:38He was the friend
00:16:39it was the disciplinary
00:16:41and the mother
00:16:42because he consented
00:16:44but he was always
00:16:45in communion
00:16:46with dad
00:16:47if the dad
00:16:47I said no
00:16:48the mother
00:16:48I said no
00:16:49that is to say
00:16:49the programs
00:16:50television
00:16:51they helped
00:16:52to sustain
00:16:53what culture
00:16:54throughout
00:16:55these centuries
00:16:56had come
00:16:57holding
00:16:58inside
00:16:59of the households
00:17:00but in 1960
00:17:02There is a change
00:17:04tremendous
00:17:04inside television
00:17:06born
00:17:07what today
00:17:08we call
00:17:08neoliberalism
00:17:10and then
00:17:11television
00:17:12change course
00:17:13and bets
00:17:14to this new culture
00:17:15to culture
00:17:17liberal
00:17:17And the saddest thing is...
00:17:19Well, it's just that
00:17:20triumph
00:17:21now
00:17:22through
00:17:23from this medium
00:17:23it begins
00:17:24to spread
00:17:25precisely
00:17:25culture
00:17:26neoliberal
00:17:27that's going to change
00:17:28all the culture
00:17:29of the peoples
00:17:30and that it will destroy
00:17:32the values
00:17:32and with them
00:17:34to the family
00:17:35television
00:17:37it's going to become
00:17:38in one of the media
00:17:39more destructive
00:17:41that there
00:17:42and that has existed
00:17:43inside
00:17:44of culture
00:17:45familiar
00:17:45today for us
00:17:48the
00:17:48baby bloomers
00:17:50TRUE?
00:17:50those of us who come
00:17:51of this generation
00:17:52Well, television
00:17:53It's normal.
00:17:54It's something natural.
00:17:55in some of the houses
00:17:57There are two, three, four
00:17:58televisions
00:17:59today the televisions
00:18:00They cost nothing
00:18:01one can have
00:18:03screens
00:18:03and you can have
00:18:05well
00:18:05devices
00:18:06like this
00:18:07that I'm using right now
00:18:08where
00:18:09the children
00:18:10young people
00:18:11grown ups
00:18:11Well, they can see
00:18:12all kinds
00:18:13of programs
00:18:14however
00:18:15these programs
00:18:16today
00:18:17far
00:18:17of being the programs
00:18:19family
00:18:19that were seen
00:18:20with family
00:18:21that even
00:18:22the parents
00:18:22They invited their children
00:18:23let's see
00:18:24that were seen
00:18:25all together
00:18:25and that everyone
00:18:26they enjoyed
00:18:26because the dad
00:18:28because I was
00:18:28interested
00:18:29in what
00:18:30those programs
00:18:31came to consolidate
00:18:32what he did
00:18:33at home
00:18:34if in the program
00:18:36we saw
00:18:36that the father
00:18:37scolded
00:18:37that corrected
00:18:38what he was doing
00:18:39Well, that's what
00:18:40It was done in families
00:18:41I mean
00:18:42it was simply
00:18:43a mirror
00:18:44nowadays
00:18:46the programs
00:18:47are oriented
00:18:48completely
00:18:49On to other things
00:18:51along with this
00:18:53a development came
00:18:54exacerbated
00:18:55of psychology
00:18:56psychology
00:18:58clinic
00:18:58psychology
00:18:59so
00:19:01came to push
00:19:02also
00:19:03in the previous century
00:19:04But what's coming?
00:19:05to develop
00:19:06in the decade
00:19:07from the 60s
00:19:08all the new
00:19:09culture
00:19:09philosophical
00:19:11and above all
00:19:12psychological
00:19:12that is coming
00:19:14to give us
00:19:15a vision
00:19:16of man
00:19:17which has been
00:19:18an important
00:19:19support
00:19:20for contribution
00:19:22but at the same time
00:19:23this area
00:19:24of psychology
00:19:26focused
00:19:27towards the family
00:19:28Well, it's going to bring
00:19:29major problems
00:19:30in society
00:19:32how are we going to see it
00:19:33along
00:19:34of our topics
00:19:35by 1970
00:19:37It no longer exists
00:19:39the consensus
00:19:40about the values
00:19:41before everyone
00:19:43we had
00:19:43the same values
00:19:44already by 1970
00:19:47It no longer exists
00:19:49a consensus
00:19:50by mid-
00:19:51from the 70s
00:19:52was changing
00:19:53towards a culture
00:19:54progressive
00:19:55Now for the important part
00:19:57It is progress
00:19:58and all the old
00:19:59It's no longer useful
00:20:00now it's better
00:20:02the computer
00:20:02that the machine
00:20:03to write
00:20:04of course
00:20:05now it's better
00:20:07the phone
00:20:08that go
00:20:09to the person's house
00:20:10to visit him
00:20:11everything old
00:20:13Well, it has to be thrown away.
00:20:15the old
00:20:15not working
00:20:16That's what
00:20:17belonged
00:20:18to another culture
00:20:19to other times
00:20:20That's what
00:20:20our parents lived
00:20:21and well then
00:20:22poor things
00:20:23they lived
00:20:24in time
00:20:24of the caves
00:20:25And so it was in its time.
00:20:26but now
00:20:27everything changes
00:20:28And everything changes.
00:20:31includes
00:20:31absolutely
00:20:32all
00:20:33now the conception
00:20:35of the family
00:20:35changes
00:20:36changes
00:20:37the values
00:20:38in the family
00:20:38changes
00:20:39the form
00:20:40of working
00:20:41changes
00:20:42the system
00:20:43family
00:20:43everything changes
00:20:44because?
00:20:45because now
00:20:46everything is new
00:20:46now
00:20:48Let's not even talk about it
00:20:49in the decade
00:20:50from the 70s
00:20:51but let's think
00:20:52in this last decade
00:20:53where now
00:20:55not only
00:20:55the families
00:20:56are made up
00:20:57by a father
00:20:58and a mother
00:20:58but now
00:20:59can be made up
00:21:01by two men
00:21:02or by two women
00:21:03all this
00:21:05obviously
00:21:05well still
00:21:06us
00:21:07We didn't experience it.
00:21:08They're going to experience this
00:21:10the children
00:21:10of his children
00:21:11when in the culture
00:21:13Well, what are they going to be living through?
00:21:16So have friends
00:21:17who have partners
00:21:19heterosexuals
00:21:20and same-sex couples
00:21:22where the programs
00:21:24as it begins today
00:21:25to permeate
00:21:26through television
00:21:27and the most half
00:21:28It's normal now.
00:21:29This is normal.
00:21:30in some states
00:21:31of the United States
00:21:32It's even a law
00:21:34that must be accepted
00:21:35even in schools
00:21:38They must have classes
00:21:40so that the children
00:21:41get used to it
00:21:42to this new culture
00:21:44homosexual culture
00:21:45and in 20 years
00:21:47or 30 years
00:21:48the next generation
00:21:49as well as for us
00:21:51It's normal.
00:21:52see divorced couples
00:21:54for the boys
00:21:56that they have
00:21:5712, 15
00:21:58maybe
00:21:59up to 20 years
00:22:00Well, that's normal.
00:22:02already have in their groups
00:22:03boys
00:22:04or girls
00:22:05homosexuals
00:22:06homosexual couples
00:22:08who live with them
00:22:10and for them
00:22:11is already part of it
00:22:12of a culture
00:22:13so much so
00:22:14that sometimes
00:22:14when I talk
00:22:15with young people
00:22:16Well, it says
00:22:17So what's wrong with that?
00:22:18TRUE
00:22:19well it is
00:22:19That's just how he is.
00:22:20Well, that's how it is.
00:22:21and that's it
00:22:21It's over
00:22:23I mean
00:22:23there are no more
00:22:24a point
00:22:25critical
00:22:26where we can
00:22:27us
00:22:28to realize
00:22:29So, this
00:22:29simply
00:22:30Well, it's not the program.
00:22:32that God has set
00:22:34No?
00:22:35the principle is denied
00:22:36essential
00:22:37already
00:22:40there is no
00:22:41nothing
00:22:41of the old
00:22:42that it serves
00:22:43and well then
00:22:44a wise man
00:22:45many years ago
00:22:46He wrote the following
00:22:48there is nothing
00:22:49new under the sun
00:22:50Solomon
00:22:53to whom it is attributed
00:22:54the book of Ecclesiasticus
00:22:55in chapter 1
00:22:56verse 9
00:22:57says
00:22:57there is nothing
00:22:59new under the sun
00:23:00everything repeats itself
00:23:01everything is forming
00:23:02part of the same
00:23:03but nevertheless
00:23:05This in the new culture
00:23:06which began in the 60s
00:23:07this no longer exists
00:23:10now
00:23:11Everything has to be done new.
00:23:12the old
00:23:13It has to be thrown in the trash
00:23:15all values
00:23:16from my parents
00:23:17all values
00:23:17of the universe
00:23:19all values
00:23:19that they do not enter
00:23:21within this field
00:23:22of modernity
00:23:23because they no longer have them
00:23:24none
00:23:24acceptance
00:23:26within this culture
00:23:27of the
00:23:28postmodernity
00:23:28postmodernity
00:23:29baby bloomers
00:23:31people of my generation
00:23:32because she was seduced
00:23:34for this
00:23:35Utopia
00:23:36of modernity
00:23:37many of my friends
00:23:39schoolmates
00:23:40work
00:23:41then they started coming in
00:23:42little by little
00:23:43this culture
00:23:44of modernity
00:23:44and they have been educating
00:23:46already to their children
00:23:46in a culture
00:23:47completely different
00:23:49to which we
00:23:50we were educated
00:23:51so from this
00:23:53Dr. Lozano
00:23:54has done
00:23:55different talks
00:23:56trying to emphasize
00:23:58some of these points
00:23:59TRUE?
00:24:00in how it has changed
00:24:01drastically
00:24:02the way to educate
00:24:04but not only
00:24:05in the way of educating
00:24:06but in the form
00:24:07to behave
00:24:08the spouses
00:24:09the way to carry
00:24:10a relationship
00:24:11community
00:24:12there is an impact
00:24:14tremendous
00:24:15through seduction
00:24:16that this new
00:24:17shape
00:24:17of progressivism
00:24:19brought
00:24:20to society
00:24:21human
00:24:22what our parents
00:24:24we had been taught
00:24:25It was already past
00:24:26fashionable
00:24:26and things had to change.
00:24:28we had to go
00:24:29to these new
00:24:30forms of education
00:24:32to these new
00:24:33forms of culture
00:24:34because this is
00:24:35modern
00:24:37And where did it go?
00:24:38the project
00:24:39of God?
00:24:40Where did they go?
00:24:42the years
00:24:43and years
00:24:44and centuries
00:24:44in which
00:24:46man's culture
00:24:47I was walking
00:24:48under this stability
00:24:50that they gave us
00:24:51the rules
00:24:52fundamental?
00:24:52until before
00:24:55of the 60s
00:24:56to educate
00:24:56to a child
00:24:57was consulted
00:24:57to the grandmother
00:24:58That was
00:25:00the book
00:25:01text
00:25:01after
00:25:04of the 60s
00:25:04people
00:25:06has happened
00:25:06to consult
00:25:07to the experts
00:25:08people
00:25:09of big names
00:25:10with many
00:25:11securities
00:25:12previously
00:25:13well
00:25:14we appealed
00:25:15to the experience
00:25:16of the people
00:25:18that had had
00:25:19not one
00:25:20not two
00:25:22had had
00:25:23three
00:25:24four
00:25:24or five
00:25:25was common
00:25:27well
00:25:27faced with a problem
00:25:28at home
00:25:29the child
00:25:30had been
00:25:30reprimanded
00:25:31at school
00:25:32because he had taken
00:25:33some feathers
00:25:34from another colleague
00:25:38They had caught him
00:25:39stealing
00:25:40TRUE?
00:25:42So what was done?
00:25:45well
00:25:45in a situation
00:25:47serious
00:25:47because it was necessary to resort
00:25:48to the parents
00:25:49or it was necessary to resort
00:25:50to grandparents
00:25:51and ask him
00:25:53tell
00:25:55notice that
00:25:56Luisito
00:25:57well
00:25:57This is the second time
00:25:59that
00:26:00This happens
00:26:01that surprise him
00:26:02having a drink
00:26:03of his colleagues
00:26:04And what did it say?
00:26:06Grandma?
00:26:07There's nothing new.
00:26:08under the sun
00:26:08I would say
00:26:10do you remember
00:26:11from your uncle Luis?
00:26:13well then
00:26:13when I was little
00:26:15He did the same.
00:26:16And then I did
00:26:18this and this
00:26:19and this and this
00:26:20and so
00:26:21Now you see that
00:26:23your uncle Luis
00:26:23because he doesn't steal
00:26:25do you remember?
00:26:26your uncle Luis
00:26:27Well, now is the time.
00:26:28bank manager
00:26:29so well
00:26:31Well, this was it.
00:26:32what I did
00:26:33And then you decide.
00:26:34What are you going to do?
00:26:36And what is it that
00:26:37What was the father doing?
00:26:38exactly
00:26:38what he had done
00:26:39Grandmother
00:26:40with Uncle Luis
00:26:40not today
00:26:43today we have to go
00:26:44to ask
00:26:45to the great ones
00:26:47scholars
00:26:49of psychology
00:26:50which are
00:26:51well, people
00:26:52who have studied
00:26:53a lot
00:26:54and then
00:26:55Today we entrust to him
00:26:56to the theory
00:26:56and not to practice
00:26:59Let's ask him
00:27:03whom
00:27:04has studied
00:27:05a lot
00:27:06about children
00:27:07about his conduct
00:27:08their behavior
00:27:10but never
00:27:11has had
00:27:11the experience
00:27:12with the children
00:27:13because many
00:27:13of them
00:27:14not even
00:27:15They are married
00:27:16and then
00:27:17Grandmother
00:27:17and the parents
00:27:18on the topic
00:27:19of education
00:27:20They no longer have
00:27:21nothing to do
00:27:22and when it intervenes
00:27:23the mother
00:27:24or the grandmother
00:27:25the son
00:27:26he tells her
00:27:26Those are not
00:27:28your times
00:27:28in your time
00:27:29that's how it was
00:27:30but now
00:27:30It's different.
00:27:32Is it different?
00:27:37How is it different?
00:27:38a child steals?
00:27:40your uncle Luis
00:27:43stole when
00:27:44I
00:27:44at the time
00:27:46I don't know
00:27:46of the 30
00:27:47or of the 40s
00:27:47or I don't know
00:27:48We did this
00:27:50And what's the difference?
00:27:52so now
00:27:53Did your son steal?
00:27:56Are times changing?
00:27:59No?
00:28:01the fact is the same
00:28:02and pulled
00:28:04at that time
00:28:05Why won't it pull now?
00:28:06Does man change?
00:28:10No
00:28:10They heard me
00:28:13many times
00:28:15say how
00:28:16seeing the old
00:28:17will
00:28:17we can realize
00:28:18that we commit today
00:28:19exactly
00:28:20the same things
00:28:22that they committed
00:28:23people
00:28:23from that time
00:28:24we were reading
00:28:25recently
00:28:26the text
00:28:27of Ezekiel
00:28:27where I told them
00:28:29We need to hear this
00:28:31TRUE?
00:28:31I mean
00:28:32the problem
00:28:34that we live today
00:28:34that's exactly it
00:28:35himself
00:28:35who lived
00:28:36the people of God
00:28:37at that time
00:28:37I mean
00:28:41the man
00:28:42It remains the same
00:28:42our heart
00:28:43It remains the same
00:28:44our sins
00:28:45They remain the same
00:28:46our trends
00:28:48our temptations
00:28:49They haven't changed
00:28:50What happens in the 60s?
00:28:55in the 60s
00:28:56emerge
00:28:56the hippie movement
00:28:58the hippie movement
00:29:00which will be called
00:29:01and with this
00:29:02It ends
00:29:03all due respect
00:29:05to the authority
00:29:06Love and peace
00:29:08And I can do
00:29:09whatever I want
00:29:10The breakup is coming.
00:29:13complete
00:29:14with the parents
00:29:15with culture
00:29:16former
00:29:17They blame him
00:29:19to the previous culture
00:29:20of the wars
00:29:22TRUE?
00:29:22all this
00:29:22product especially
00:29:24in the beginning
00:29:25of the 60s
00:29:26of the war
00:29:27from Vietnam
00:29:27and of other wars
00:29:29the second war
00:29:30world
00:29:30that had devastated
00:29:31tremendously
00:29:32to the United States
00:29:32they said
00:29:33You are to blame
00:29:34from this
00:29:35you don't know
00:29:36directing lives
00:29:37They don't know how to manage.
00:29:38the world
00:29:38then we
00:29:39we reject
00:29:40this culture
00:29:41and is born
00:29:43this hippie culture
00:29:45who did not stay
00:29:46in the hippie movement
00:29:47It's nothing more
00:29:48he stayed
00:29:49in a few
00:29:50or in a group
00:29:50of people
00:29:51who lived
00:29:53in this way
00:29:54but it was
00:29:55an entire culture
00:29:56that spread
00:29:57all over the world
00:29:58and those of us who are
00:30:00of the time
00:30:00of the 60s
00:30:01a little more
00:30:02forwards
00:30:03towards the 70s
00:30:03in the 70s
00:30:05Well, I was
00:30:05entering the faculty
00:30:071968
00:30:09end of the decade
00:30:10of the 60s
00:30:11Well, it was already a conflict.
00:30:12with my dad
00:30:13the topic of long hair
00:30:14the topic of fashion
00:30:15the topic of pants
00:30:16the topic
00:30:17many topics
00:30:18TRUE?
00:30:19that perhaps always
00:30:20had existed
00:30:21and that still
00:30:23in my case
00:30:23my dad
00:30:24because I'm used to it
00:30:25to what I had learned
00:30:26in culture
00:30:27that he had lived
00:30:28because there wasn't
00:30:28many options
00:30:29TRUE?
00:30:31and danger
00:30:31that it lacked
00:30:32respect
00:30:32or that they put me
00:30:34an uncompromising plan
00:30:35TRUE?
00:30:35There was no opportunity
00:30:36but
00:30:37I remember
00:30:38having already experienced it
00:30:39It was a rebellion
00:30:41was
00:30:41we don't need
00:30:43of their culture
00:30:43we don't need
00:30:44of his teaching
00:30:45We don't need them.
00:30:47You have destroyed
00:30:48our lives
00:30:49have destroyed
00:30:50our world
00:30:50and those who are
00:30:52really
00:30:53baby bloomers
00:30:54that is, those who
00:30:55gave rise to
00:30:56all this
00:30:57because they are the ones who
00:30:58in my time
00:30:58They were the young people
00:30:59TRUE?
00:31:00I mean, when I was
00:31:017, 8 years
00:31:02they would have
00:31:0215 or 18 years old
00:31:03who are the ones who go
00:31:04to push
00:31:05strongly
00:31:05all this culture
00:31:06that is, the people
00:31:07who was born
00:31:08the endings
00:31:09of the decade
00:31:09of the 40
00:31:10with that
00:31:14it is destroyed
00:31:15all due respect
00:31:15to the authority
00:31:16in the 5 orders
00:31:18main
00:31:19that exist
00:31:20the politician
00:31:21Today, politicians
00:31:22They have nothing.
00:31:22What can we say?
00:31:23a ball of mice
00:31:24and it must be destroyed
00:31:25political power
00:31:27the military
00:31:28the institutional
00:31:31that goes without saying
00:31:32of the religious
00:31:33and of course
00:31:34the family member
00:31:35There is no respect.
00:31:36for these institutions
00:31:38before the little priest
00:31:39well
00:31:40kiss his hand
00:31:41was
00:31:42well it was
00:31:43the old man
00:31:43of the community
00:31:44It was the one that was leaving
00:31:46to ask
00:31:46to whom
00:31:47because I had
00:31:48the vision
00:31:48of God
00:31:49of the world
00:31:49of his years
00:31:51TRUE?
00:31:51both of study
00:31:52as an experience
00:31:53He was the shepherd
00:31:55from there
00:31:56which is called
00:31:56father
00:31:57because it was
00:31:59the father
00:32:00of the small ones
00:32:01communities
00:32:02that were growing
00:32:03around her
00:32:04today the father
00:32:06He's a nobody
00:32:06just like everyone else
00:32:07TRUE?
00:32:09I mean
00:32:09we are the same
00:32:12and we don't have
00:32:13a lot
00:32:13in which to distinguish ourselves
00:32:15all this
00:32:17well, he came
00:32:17to attack
00:32:18ruthlessly
00:32:18the principles
00:32:19of the family
00:32:20that came
00:32:21of culture
00:32:22Jewish Christian
00:32:23where we are from
00:32:24we come from
00:32:25the commandment
00:32:27of honor
00:32:27to your father
00:32:28and your mother
00:32:28It's not a thought.
00:32:30who was born
00:32:30with Jesus Christ
00:32:31It's a thought.
00:32:34that we can
00:32:35come back
00:32:36well there
00:32:37in Exodus
00:32:3720.12
00:32:38There it is clearly.
00:32:39that this
00:32:40is the foundation
00:32:41of society
00:32:42that's why
00:32:43immediately
00:32:44after it ends
00:32:45with all the homework
00:32:46religious
00:32:47the following commandment
00:32:50the fourth commandment
00:32:52It has to do with
00:32:53with the parents
00:32:53because it is equated
00:32:55in his religious vision
00:32:57because it is equated
00:32:59in its vicinity
00:33:00to the model
00:33:01of the family
00:33:02of God
00:33:02that's why
00:33:04each
00:33:05Well, it's getting there.
00:33:06an order
00:33:07within the commandments
00:33:08And that's why
00:33:10the first
00:33:10It is the most important
00:33:12and the tenth
00:33:12well we would say
00:33:13above all
00:33:14in the concept
00:33:14Judaic
00:33:15well, at least
00:33:16important
00:33:17where the woman
00:33:19because it was considered
00:33:20well, like a broom
00:33:21a mop
00:33:21or something from the house
00:33:23really
00:33:24the commandment
00:33:25how it comes
00:33:26in the first list
00:33:27of the commandments
00:33:28well it's not
00:33:29properly
00:33:30on the topic
00:33:30of adultery
00:33:31but it's on the subject
00:33:32about what
00:33:34because you will not covet
00:33:35the other woman
00:33:36as well as his horse
00:33:39his hoe
00:33:40your house
00:33:41because it doesn't belong to you
00:33:42It's from the other side.
00:33:44while
00:33:47the sixth commandment
00:33:49prohibited
00:33:50clearly
00:33:50fornication
00:33:51then everything
00:33:53It has an order
00:33:54That's why the fourth
00:33:55commandment
00:33:56just finished
00:33:57God's order
00:33:58will sanctify
00:33:59the holidays
00:33:59already in version
00:34:00of us
00:34:01past the third
00:34:03commandment
00:34:03you will sanctify
00:34:04the holidays
00:34:05immediately
00:34:05Honor your father
00:34:06and your mother
00:34:07and what have we done
00:34:08of that commandment
00:34:09we have truly
00:34:15helped the children
00:34:16to understand
00:34:17which means
00:34:18honor
00:34:19to the father
00:34:19and to the mother
00:34:20There is an attack
00:34:23ruthless
00:34:24on behalf of
00:34:25of culture
00:34:26neoliberal
00:34:26to frustrate
00:34:28the project
00:34:29of God
00:34:30in this same
00:34:32decade
00:34:33of the sixties
00:34:34appears
00:34:35feminism
00:34:36What is feminism?
00:34:39So what does it intend?
00:34:40equality
00:34:41for everyone
00:34:41And that's wrong.
00:34:43that the woman
00:34:43because it has rights
00:34:45and be able to participate
00:34:46in life
00:34:48in the same way
00:34:49that does
00:34:50the male
00:34:50identify it
00:34:52as a daughter of God
00:34:53with the same rights
00:34:55and the same participation
00:34:56that man has
00:34:57No
00:34:57the problem
00:34:59It's that feminism
00:35:00in this culture
00:35:01neoliberal
00:35:02seeks
00:35:03non-submission
00:35:05no participation
00:35:07egalitarian
00:35:08but rather non-submission
00:35:10I no longer have
00:35:12because
00:35:13submit to you
00:35:14you have
00:35:16to submit
00:35:17me too
00:35:17and we are
00:35:18in this sense
00:35:19equal
00:35:20there is one
00:35:22release
00:35:23but a liberation
00:35:25of the project
00:35:26of God
00:35:26each one now
00:35:27is free
00:35:28and sovereign
00:35:28it begins
00:35:30the destruction
00:35:31of cohesion
00:35:32familiar
00:35:32the woman
00:35:34in the decade
00:35:35of the 60s
00:35:35definitely
00:35:37abandon
00:35:38home
00:35:38to dedicate
00:35:39to life
00:35:40of the world
00:35:42to dedicate
00:35:42to the company
00:35:43dedicate
00:35:44to work
00:35:44dedicate
00:35:45to so many things
00:35:46all this
00:35:47obviously
00:35:47promoted
00:35:48for the second
00:35:48World War
00:35:49which then left
00:35:50a large deficit
00:35:51of labor
00:35:52in companies
00:35:54however
00:35:54if you see
00:35:55in a few
00:35:57years earlier
00:35:58of the second
00:35:59World War
00:35:59because there had been
00:36:00the first war
00:36:01in which
00:36:02There were also
00:36:03Well, a lot.
00:36:03lows
00:36:04proportionally
00:36:06to the population
00:36:07of the world
00:36:07Well, it was more or less
00:36:08the same population
00:36:09who died
00:36:10in the Second World War
00:36:10world
00:36:11but nevertheless
00:36:12It was already brewing.
00:36:14It had already been brewing
00:36:15all this
00:36:15in a master plan
00:36:17of the devil
00:36:18to destroy
00:36:19completely
00:36:19integration
00:36:21of the family
00:36:21and with the destruction
00:36:22of the family
00:36:23completely destroy
00:36:24society
00:36:25then feminism
00:36:27It's not that
00:36:28the situation
00:36:29of the struggle
00:36:30for the rights
00:36:31that the woman
00:36:31Go and vote
00:36:32and the woman
00:36:33may have
00:36:33well the same
00:36:34activity
00:36:35that it may have
00:36:36a man
00:36:36That's great!
00:36:38the problem
00:36:39This is how it has been lived
00:36:40how has it gone
00:36:41developing
00:36:41how has it gone
00:36:42changing the mindset
00:36:44of the woman
00:36:44to the point that today
00:36:46the woman
00:36:46well, neither
00:36:47She wants to have children now.
00:36:48because he wants to continue
00:36:49working
00:36:50because he wants to continue
00:36:51active
00:36:53because he doesn't want to
00:36:53already undergo
00:36:54nothing
00:36:55nor anyone
00:36:56all this that I say
00:36:58Well, I'll say it.
00:36:58in a general plan
00:36:59certainly
00:37:00It is not universal.
00:37:01It's not that everyone
00:37:02that's how it is
00:37:03But this is the culture.
00:37:04I'm talking
00:37:05of a culture
00:37:06that is developing
00:37:07and in which we
00:37:08Well, let's participate.
00:37:10in the decade
00:37:12from the 60s
00:37:13from the decade
00:37:14from the 60s
00:37:15Education is changing
00:37:16family-centered
00:37:17First things first
00:37:18Well, it was the family.
00:37:20We are family
00:37:21We went out as a family
00:37:22We traveled as a family
00:37:23We watch television
00:37:24as a family
00:37:25all education
00:37:28of the children
00:37:29had to do
00:37:29well, with the family
00:37:31How are you going to behave?
00:37:32Just like that with your grandma
00:37:33or with your uncle
00:37:34That's disrespectful.
00:37:35with your dad
00:37:36with your mom
00:37:37was focused
00:37:38in what
00:37:39There is a project
00:37:40family
00:37:40happens
00:37:42of the project
00:37:43family
00:37:43to
00:37:44education
00:37:45focused
00:37:46in the child
00:37:47Now for the important part
00:37:48is
00:37:48the child
00:37:49what are you doing
00:37:51that does not
00:37:52how does it
00:37:53where he does it
00:37:53What are we going to do?
00:37:55with this child
00:37:56everything focuses
00:37:58to the child
00:37:58to the point
00:38:00that many families
00:38:01sometimes they end
00:38:02destroying
00:38:03due to lack
00:38:04consensus
00:38:06between the father
00:38:06and the mother
00:38:07in the form
00:38:08in which the child
00:38:09He must be polite
00:38:10now polarizes
00:38:12education
00:38:13of the child
00:38:14who are two children
00:38:15in most
00:38:17of the households
00:38:17in culture
00:38:18It is neoliberal
00:38:20they are only
00:38:21one or two children
00:38:22and all the attention
00:38:24is centered
00:38:25in them
00:38:26people who
00:38:28well
00:38:29practically
00:38:30stays
00:38:30bankrupt
00:38:31so that the children
00:38:32so they can have
00:38:33well, an education
00:38:34superior
00:38:35quality
00:38:36paying for schools
00:38:39with cards
00:38:40credit
00:38:41taking advantage
00:38:42the bonus
00:38:43Christmas
00:38:43working
00:38:44two jobs
00:38:45in order to be able to
00:38:46hold
00:38:46the schools
00:38:47private individuals
00:38:48And where did it go?
00:38:51the family?
00:38:52the important
00:38:53is
00:38:53the child
00:38:54and the family
00:38:57and the wife
00:38:58and coexistence
00:39:00and health
00:39:02we went from a culture
00:39:06where the important thing
00:39:07It was the family
00:39:08you will remember
00:39:09perhaps their parents
00:39:10or their grandparents
00:39:11I don't know
00:39:11which generation
00:39:12come
00:39:13but they will remember
00:39:15that people
00:39:15that worked
00:39:16in Monterrey
00:39:17He finished his work
00:39:19the man
00:39:20He finished his work
00:39:21and he left
00:39:22to his house
00:39:22weekend
00:39:25have a few beers
00:39:26with friends
00:39:26there was no shortage
00:39:28the one who was passing by
00:39:29bad spoons
00:39:30and had some problem
00:39:31a bit
00:39:31alcoholism
00:39:32but they were minimal
00:39:34There was a culture
00:39:37above all
00:39:38in the middle class
00:39:39There was a culture
00:39:41family
00:39:42where the important thing
00:39:43was focused
00:39:44in having
00:39:45a family
00:39:46and each one
00:39:47of the members
00:39:48of the family
00:39:48I had a place
00:39:49particular
00:39:49specific
00:39:50and it was completely
00:39:51different
00:39:51I am the father
00:39:53She is the mother
00:39:55and these
00:39:56the children
00:39:56and the son
00:39:58He's not the dad
00:39:59neither the father
00:40:00is the son
00:40:00nor the husband
00:40:01is the wife
00:40:02nor the wife
00:40:02is the husband
00:40:03each
00:40:04He had his own roles
00:40:05and they were identified
00:40:07clearly
00:40:07and everyone
00:40:08I respected him
00:40:09because
00:40:09That's how it was
00:40:11That's how it was
00:40:14And that's how
00:40:14It had to be
00:40:15but
00:40:16we changed
00:40:18our way
00:40:19to get closer
00:40:20to the problems
00:40:21the child now
00:40:23because it comes to being put
00:40:24at the adult level
00:40:26We need to talk
00:40:29with the child
00:40:29three years old
00:40:31and feel it
00:40:35in her little chair
00:40:36of those
00:40:37dining room
00:40:37TRUE?
00:40:39and you tell him
00:40:40my son
00:40:40I'm going to talk to you
00:40:42that you're doing
00:40:45It's not right.
00:40:46It's not ethical
00:40:47It is not moral
00:40:48that thing of throwing
00:40:51the food
00:40:51when you are
00:40:52eating
00:40:53It's not what
00:40:54You must do it
00:40:55I hope that I
00:40:56understand
00:40:57because
00:40:59This is the good thing
00:41:01And this is proper
00:41:01what you should do
00:41:02when I see that
00:41:05say
00:41:05How stupid!
00:41:06How can you think
00:41:10that a child
00:41:10three years old
00:41:11I am understanding
00:41:11what he's saying
00:41:12the dad
00:41:12if the child
00:41:14It doesn't have it yet.
00:41:15reasoning ability
00:41:17But that's what
00:41:22they say
00:41:22scholars
00:41:24my dad
00:41:27at three years old
00:41:28I don't remember
00:41:30TRUE?
00:41:31but I don't have
00:41:32memory
00:41:32that my dad
00:41:33I have sat down
00:41:33in the high chair
00:41:34to eat
00:41:34and has become
00:41:35to dialogue
00:41:36with me
00:41:36I was throwing
00:41:38the food
00:41:39from my bedside table
00:41:40and my mom
00:41:41it gave me
00:41:41a slap
00:41:42And if I did it again
00:41:44it gave me
00:41:44other
00:41:45stronger
00:41:45the third time
00:41:47at the time he was going
00:41:48to throw
00:41:48upside down
00:41:48my mom
00:41:48said
00:41:49No
00:41:49Let's eat
00:41:50TRUE?
00:41:52The dialogue is over.
00:41:53The problem is over
00:41:55but not
00:41:59now the child
00:42:00three years old
00:42:01It has the same capacity
00:42:03than an adult
00:42:04of 27
00:42:05and then
00:42:06Well
00:42:06with an adult
00:42:07of 27
00:42:07I can
00:42:08to get them talking
00:42:09and tell him
00:42:09Hey buddy
00:42:09don't grind it
00:42:11Don't throw away food
00:42:11look
00:42:12It costs a lot of money
00:42:13I don't know
00:42:13I can get closer
00:42:14some argument
00:42:15and put the child
00:42:19three years old
00:42:21at my level
00:42:22And that's it.
00:42:28today's culture
00:42:29put the child
00:42:31at the level
00:42:32of the others
00:42:33psychology
00:42:36now consider
00:42:38in general
00:42:38that the children
00:42:40are naturally
00:42:41bad
00:42:41or sick
00:42:42not all
00:42:43psychologists
00:42:44But it's culture.
00:42:46in general
00:42:47of psychology
00:42:48modern
00:42:48pushed
00:42:49by Freud
00:42:50We all have
00:42:52a problem
00:42:53and
00:42:54We have to see
00:42:55How do we solve it?
00:42:57It needs to be rehabilitated
00:42:59to the children
00:42:59in my time
00:43:02when a child
00:43:04at school
00:43:06he misbehaved
00:43:08the teacher
00:43:10the teacher
00:43:11I was talking to my dad.
00:43:12and the dad
00:43:14I saw
00:43:15what kind
00:43:15of problem
00:43:16had
00:43:16I was asking
00:43:17maybe
00:43:18to the grandmother
00:43:18or to your mom
00:43:19probably
00:43:21the resulting
00:43:22It was to give him a couple
00:43:23spanking
00:43:24and leave it
00:43:25punished
00:43:26with some things
00:43:28and the problem
00:43:30it was resolved
00:43:31if he reoffended
00:43:33was applied
00:43:34again
00:43:34the same medicine
00:43:36not now
00:43:38Now the child
00:43:40begins to have
00:43:40a behavior
00:43:41a little aggressive
00:43:42surely
00:43:43He has it around there
00:43:44some trauma
00:43:45that we need
00:43:46investigate
00:43:46and then
00:43:47we have to send it
00:43:48talk to the parents
00:43:49and that the parents
00:43:51Go and see
00:43:52to the psychologist
00:43:52to see
00:43:53how has it come
00:43:54producing
00:43:55this bad behavior
00:43:56of his son
00:43:57once the parents
00:43:59have been treated
00:43:59by the psychologist
00:44:00You talk to the child
00:44:025 years old
00:44:03of course
00:44:046 years
00:44:04it is explained to him
00:44:05the situation
00:44:06and then
00:44:08the parents
00:44:08once
00:44:09instructed
00:44:09by the psychologist
00:44:10They're going to try
00:44:11to change
00:44:12their behavior
00:44:13hoping that with that
00:44:14the child too
00:44:15change your behavior
00:44:17if the child
00:44:18His behavior doesn't change.
00:44:19despite
00:44:20the parents
00:44:20They've already changed
00:44:21after treatment
00:44:22with the psychologist
00:44:23so now
00:44:24medication is needed
00:44:25to the child
00:44:26because of that aggressiveness
00:44:28that has
00:44:29It's not good.
00:44:30then we need
00:44:31Well, give him a tranquilizer.
00:44:33TRUE?
00:44:33something to calm him down
00:44:35so that I can do
00:44:36your school well
00:44:36and it will mature
00:44:37And then we ask ourselves
00:44:41Where do they come from?
00:44:43Drug addicts?
00:44:48But it's culture.
00:44:49hey
00:44:49all schools
00:44:51They have to have
00:44:52your psychologist
00:44:53plant
00:44:53And he's the one in charge.
00:44:56danger
00:44:57So you
00:44:58try to interfere
00:44:59or give
00:45:00the recipe
00:45:00Grandma's
00:45:01That's why they criticize me.
00:45:03a lot
00:45:04because I always
00:45:04I give it to him
00:45:04the recipe
00:45:05Grandma's
00:45:05a couple of good ones
00:45:07spanking
00:45:07And you'll see
00:45:08why doesn't it get on
00:45:09at peace
00:45:09TRUE?
00:45:11and if it starts
00:45:12to throw a tantrum
00:45:12we tell him
00:45:13No way, man.
00:45:13come here
00:45:14Do you want to cry?
00:45:14I'll help you right now
00:45:15come here for a little while
00:45:16If not, then
00:45:18If you want to cry
00:45:19I'll help you
00:45:19well
00:45:20I have no problem
00:45:21in helping you
00:45:22that you cry
00:45:22I can see
00:45:26my brothers
00:45:27I'm the one who got it
00:45:29well
00:45:29this transition
00:45:30I was born in '53
00:45:33at 60
00:45:35in the 1960s
00:45:36I was 7 years old
00:45:37He was a child
00:45:38TRUE?
00:45:39I was in elementary school
00:45:40It's my turn.
00:45:42of this change
00:45:43that I'm not going to live
00:45:45directly
00:45:46because of my vocation
00:45:47But what do I see?
00:45:48in my brothers
00:45:50in some of them
00:45:52that I see
00:45:53in my friends
00:45:54but we are still
00:45:56the generation
00:45:57traffic
00:45:57What do I see now?
00:46:00in my nephews?
00:46:03my nephews
00:46:04children of my brothers
00:46:07with an uncle
00:46:10priest
00:46:10I see a lack of respect.
00:46:15And that's still the case.
00:46:17my brothers
00:46:18because they are
00:46:18like my dad
00:46:20more or less
00:46:21but already
00:46:22they began to release
00:46:24What will they be like?
00:46:26the children
00:46:27now
00:46:28of my nephews?
00:46:31in a culture
00:46:32where they
00:46:33They already belong
00:46:34to culture
00:46:35of the divorce
00:46:36They already belong
00:46:38to culture
00:46:38of the gay
00:46:39They already belong
00:46:41to culture
00:46:41from television
00:46:42belong
00:46:44to culture
00:46:45of pornography
00:46:46and with this
00:46:47I'm not saying
00:46:48that they
00:46:48are involved
00:46:48nothing
00:46:49But that's
00:46:50their culture
00:46:50already
00:46:51I mean
00:46:52they already
00:46:52They are not alarmed
00:46:53They are not scared
00:46:54It's something
00:46:55with what they have
00:46:56vivid
00:46:56with what they have
00:46:57grown
00:46:57and we come
00:47:02and we come
00:47:02of a family
00:47:03Christian
00:47:03Catholic
00:47:04with a priest
00:47:06in the family
00:47:06But it's a culture.
00:47:09that goes
00:47:10embracing
00:47:11a culture
00:47:12in which they are
00:47:12immersed
00:47:13you
00:47:13a culture
00:47:15in which sometimes
00:47:16us
00:47:16because we want
00:47:17do
00:47:18deaf ears
00:47:19and say
00:47:19I'm not interested
00:47:20really
00:47:21well, that's it
00:47:22It belongs to the past
00:47:23the father
00:47:24he stayed
00:47:24anchored
00:47:25and continues with his ideas
00:47:26obscurantists
00:47:27the idea
00:47:30of this
00:47:30course
00:47:31of this year
00:47:31Well, it's something to see.
00:47:33that this
00:47:33It's not the project
00:47:34from Father Ernesto
00:47:35nor from a group
00:47:37of people
00:47:37obscurantists
00:47:38anchored in the past
00:47:39but this
00:47:41It has to do with
00:47:41with a project
00:47:44of God
00:47:45Why isn't it working?
00:47:49This culture?
00:47:51why not
00:47:52We see that it works?
00:47:53if it worked
00:47:53then everything would be
00:47:54great!
00:47:54now
00:47:55better than before
00:47:55And we're worse off.
00:47:56in all areas
00:47:58And it's very simple.
00:48:00because it's not there
00:48:02focused
00:48:02in the beginning
00:48:03fundamentals
00:48:04given by God
00:48:05that's why
00:48:05today we live
00:48:07a culture
00:48:08that has moved away
00:48:09completely
00:48:10of the project
00:48:11of God
00:48:12It is not founded
00:48:13then in truth
00:48:14but in the lie
00:48:16mejito
00:48:17I'm going to talk to you
00:48:19seriously
00:48:20Don't come back
00:48:22to throw away food
00:48:23Any consequences?
00:48:26no no
00:48:27Don't throw it again
00:48:28the food
00:48:28It's not good.
00:48:30throw away food
00:48:31What if I throw it away?
00:48:34No, don't throw it away
00:48:35It's not good.
00:48:37throw away food
00:48:38It will be good for you
00:48:42this food
00:48:44I don't like
00:48:44I don't know at his house
00:48:47TRUE?
00:48:48but in the houses
00:48:48Today I see that the son
00:48:49if you don't want to
00:48:50the salad
00:48:52then they prepare it
00:48:53some chubby ones
00:48:53And if she doesn't want to
00:48:54Nor the chubby ones
00:48:55a hot dog
00:48:55And if not, then meat.
00:48:56And if not this
00:48:57as if it were
00:48:57a restaurant
00:48:58because the child
00:49:00We have to give it
00:49:00all
00:49:02because otherwise
00:49:02is traumatized
00:49:03at my place
00:49:08and in the house
00:49:09of all my friends
00:49:10as far as I remember
00:49:11you arrived
00:49:12and you ate
00:49:13what they gave you
00:49:15There was no choice.
00:49:18I don't like
00:49:21What a pity
00:49:23I'll do it again tomorrow
00:49:25so you'll like it
00:49:26And that's how I learned
00:49:30Let's eat
00:49:30all
00:49:31less Chile
00:49:32because I don't like it
00:49:32that itches me
00:49:33And I think it was
00:49:35because my dad
00:49:36He didn't eat chili either.
00:49:37because otherwise
00:49:37I would have too
00:49:38cool
00:49:38but apart from that
00:49:42I remember
00:49:45Mom
00:49:45was preparing
00:49:46a gelatin
00:49:47what he was doing
00:49:48with gelatin
00:49:49of the legs
00:49:50pork
00:49:50awesome!
00:49:53Of course, at that time
00:49:55chijole
00:49:57yuck
00:49:58when he arrived
00:50:00and my mom
00:50:01we had
00:50:01the good news
00:50:02that there was
00:50:03pig's feet
00:50:05It was called
00:50:06jelly
00:50:06pork
00:50:07mother of Jesus
00:50:09and she did it
00:50:10very often
00:50:11firstly because
00:50:12had
00:50:13Grandma's recipe
00:50:14TRUE?
00:50:15imagine
00:50:16made with broth
00:50:17gelatin
00:50:18a stream of protein
00:50:20excellent
00:50:21for growth
00:50:22But not today.
00:50:23because the children
00:50:24they fatten
00:50:25Of course they make you fat
00:50:27if they go too far
00:50:28six hours
00:50:29in front of a computer
00:50:30How could they not gain weight?
00:50:33I barely
00:50:34I finished my homework
00:50:35and she did it
00:50:35the fastest
00:50:36that could
00:50:37to get out
00:50:38to skate
00:50:39to the bicycle
00:50:41to the top
00:50:42to the valero
00:50:42run
00:50:43to play soccer
00:50:44and he arrived home
00:50:46already
00:50:46at six thirty
00:50:48We had to go back
00:50:48because at seven
00:50:49It was dinner.
00:50:50and which television
00:50:52and what nothing
00:50:52dinner
00:50:53bathroom
00:50:54to bed
00:50:55at eight
00:50:56You were asleep
00:50:57except Sunday
00:51:02because of fantasy theater
00:51:03It was seven o'clock
00:51:04And then we had to see
00:51:05fantastic theatre
00:51:06but we were already there
00:51:07everyone in pajamas
00:51:08and at eight thirty
00:51:09go to sleep
00:51:11just on Sunday
00:51:12Of course they gave them to you
00:51:16gelatin
00:51:17and they gave you pig's feet
00:51:19and well
00:51:20You needed them
00:51:22you were growing
00:51:23You needed energy
00:51:24because
00:51:25hey
00:51:25I used to spend it
00:51:27all day
00:51:27on the bicycle
00:51:28and on skates
00:51:29And of course
00:51:31that you burn energy
00:51:32like mad
00:51:33TRUE?
00:51:34that is, culture
00:51:35Today they're blaming him
00:51:36to Coca-Cola
00:51:37I was chatting
00:51:38with a friend
00:51:39that is
00:51:40in an apartment
00:51:41important
00:51:41from Coca-Cola
00:51:42And I'm talking about Coca-Cola.
00:51:44because it can be
00:51:45any soft drink
00:51:45This is the one that most
00:51:46is promoted
00:51:46and the government
00:51:50They do a lot to him
00:51:50the topic
00:51:51who are responsible
00:51:53obesity
00:51:54No
00:51:56the perpetrators
00:51:58obesity
00:51:59are
00:52:00those who do
00:52:01computers
00:52:02then the child
00:52:05The only thing it has going for it is strong
00:52:10They are the thumbs
00:52:11Well, of course he's going to be fat
00:52:14and also
00:52:16the mother
00:52:16to avoid a struggle
00:52:17the sandwich
00:52:19the hot dog
00:52:20frying
00:52:21the filth
00:52:22and of course
00:52:22its good resources
00:52:23soft drinks
00:52:24TRUE?
00:52:24to keep him happy
00:52:26Of course
00:52:26are
00:52:27But look
00:52:28good
00:52:29muscular
00:52:30TRUE?
00:52:31the problem
00:52:34It is culture
00:52:36we have forgotten
00:52:40the truths
00:52:42of God
00:52:43And that's it.
00:52:44what submerges
00:52:45to society
00:52:46in a situation
00:52:48chaotic
00:52:49when we
00:52:51we read Genesis
00:52:52Chapter 3
00:52:54we see
00:52:55this representation
00:52:56of Satan
00:52:57the snake
00:52:58that appears
00:52:59always
00:53:00in all
00:53:00the generations
00:53:01from Genesis
00:53:03until now
00:53:04and in each generation
00:53:07and at every moment
00:53:08appears under
00:53:08different ways
00:53:09but its objective
00:53:12It's the same
00:53:13convince
00:53:15to humanity
00:53:16that God
00:53:18be wrong
00:53:18that God
00:53:20He's selfish.
00:53:21that everything it forbids you
00:53:23it's only
00:53:23because he wants to
00:53:24establish with you
00:53:25their superiority
00:53:26that everything it tells you
00:53:28He is wrong.
00:53:30And if he tells you that
00:53:32It's because he wants to
00:53:33seeing you unhappy
00:53:34And that's how it works.
00:53:38in Genesis
00:53:39And that's how it acts today.
00:53:41everything it says
00:53:45the Bible
00:53:45on the principles
00:53:47of discipline
00:53:47no, no, no, no
00:53:49That was
00:53:50in the Old Testament
00:53:51that the wife
00:53:52submit to the husband
00:53:54What kind of head is that?
00:53:55fit
00:53:55no, no, no, no
00:53:58God is wrong.
00:54:00We have to do
00:54:01a reinterpretation
00:54:03from the Bible
00:54:04clear
00:54:06very convenient
00:54:08from whoever needs it
00:54:09that
00:54:11we need to put
00:54:12discipline in the house
00:54:13no, no, no
00:54:14the idea that the male
00:54:15is the supplier
00:54:17of the house
00:54:17no, no, no
00:54:18my little daughter
00:54:18We have to work
00:54:18here
00:54:19We are both
00:54:20So let's see
00:54:21if you look for yourself
00:54:22a little bit of work there
00:54:23because I need
00:54:24that you help us
00:54:25here
00:54:25because change is needed
00:54:26the cars
00:54:27the curtains
00:54:30go on a trip
00:54:32the snake
00:54:36has appeared
00:54:38along
00:54:39of all history
00:54:40of humanity
00:54:41searching
00:54:43convince her
00:54:44that God
00:54:45He is wrong.
00:54:47that today
00:54:49those who have
00:54:49the word
00:54:50how
00:54:51educate
00:54:52to the children
00:54:52They are psychologists
00:54:54and the educators
00:54:55they are
00:54:56those who know
00:54:57and therefore
00:54:59Ignore him
00:55:00already in the Bible
00:55:00because that's a book
00:55:02retrograde
00:55:03It is a religious book
00:55:05that has nothing
00:55:05what to do with your life
00:55:06You have to go and find
00:55:08to the doctor
00:55:09Hirban Hirbarskunrash
00:55:10that he just wrote
00:55:11a great book
00:55:12have been sold
00:55:13already 7 million
00:55:14in the world
00:55:15It's one of the best
00:55:17and more prestigious
00:55:18psychologists
00:55:20in the matter
00:55:20of early childhood education
00:55:22is what you
00:55:23You have to read
00:55:24to educate
00:55:24to your son
00:55:25and that guy
00:55:29What does he know?
00:55:31of life?
00:55:37What does he know?
00:55:38to educate
00:55:39to a child?
00:55:41Could it be?
00:55:41who knows more
00:55:42My grandmother?
00:55:44that does not have
00:55:45no degree
00:55:46academic
00:55:46that came out
00:55:47from a ranch
00:55:47but that he doesn't
00:55:49deformed
00:55:50none
00:55:50of the children
00:55:51TRUE?
00:55:52because there
00:55:52next to your stove
00:55:54He had a wand
00:55:56of pirul
00:55:57and all the children
00:56:00They turned out well
00:56:01as they say
00:56:02This one came out
00:56:02really bad
00:56:03and like grandma
00:56:06It didn't work for him
00:56:06not a single bad one
00:56:07but everyone
00:56:09very good
00:56:09and studious
00:56:11the wand
00:56:15of pirul
00:56:16I think that
00:56:17more than from the pepper tree
00:56:18It was a wand
00:56:19magic
00:56:19where it touches
00:56:22everything is done
00:56:24Well
00:56:25but there are no more
00:56:29pepper trees here
00:56:30I think that
00:56:32the children
00:56:33who were
00:56:33of this generation
00:56:35of the babies
00:56:36bloomers
00:56:36were
00:56:37to cut it off
00:56:38the root
00:56:38to everyone
00:56:39the pepper trees
00:56:40so that there will be no more
00:56:42wands
00:56:43of pirul
00:56:44acting
00:56:48the demon
00:56:49in education
00:56:49what he's doing
00:56:51is to destroy
00:56:52the foundation
00:56:53of society
00:56:54each new generation
00:56:57with new problems
00:56:58more serious
00:56:59every time
00:57:00I would invite them
00:57:02to do
00:57:03an analysis
00:57:04retrospective
00:57:05from their parents
00:57:06whoever knew
00:57:07to their grandparents
00:57:08try to do
00:57:09an analysis
00:57:10retrospective
00:57:11of the times
00:57:12try to see
00:57:14how many divorces
00:57:15there were at that time
00:57:16try to see
00:57:17their own stories
00:57:18and then say
00:57:22if things
00:57:24They were better.
00:57:24before
00:57:25or now
00:57:27probably
00:57:27There is more money today
00:57:28but no more happiness
00:57:31probably
00:57:33Grandmother
00:57:33and the grandfather
00:57:34because they didn't live
00:57:34so well
00:57:35and they had
00:57:35a car
00:57:37to go
00:57:37Macalian
00:57:38probably
00:57:40many of our
00:57:41grandparents
00:57:42They never came out
00:57:42from Monterrey
00:57:43or of Lampazos
00:57:44or of Gualagüises
00:57:45probably
00:57:47They didn't have
00:57:48well the guy
00:57:49dinners
00:57:50and meals
00:57:50that today
00:57:51we have
00:57:52But I can
00:57:54ensure
00:57:54that most
00:57:55of them
00:57:55There were many
00:57:56happier
00:57:57at least
00:57:58They did not live
00:57:59with so much stress
00:58:00how we live today
00:58:01the form
00:58:04in which it was created
00:58:04the world
00:58:05and the universe
00:58:06assumes
00:58:06a creator
00:58:07assumes
00:58:09a plan
00:58:10specific
00:58:11our entire universe
00:58:12He tells us
00:58:13of a plan
00:58:14nothing moves
00:58:17regardless
00:58:18there is a mind
00:58:19creator
00:58:20there is a mind
00:58:20that built
00:58:22and that developed
00:58:24everything that today
00:58:25we see
00:58:26I think, for example
00:58:29now that he's dead
00:58:30one of our ministers
00:58:31due to a complication
00:58:33in your liver
00:58:34I started thinking
00:58:35in the liver
00:58:36Have they put
00:58:39to think about it
00:58:40ever
00:58:40in your liver?
00:58:42in what it does
00:58:43the liver
00:58:44all functions
00:58:47how it arrives
00:58:47the blood
00:58:48how from there
00:58:50that's all
00:58:51a process
00:58:51chemical
00:58:52purifies it
00:58:53and commands
00:58:54a lot
00:58:55of elements
00:58:56for all
00:58:56parts
00:58:57that body
00:58:57extremely complex
00:59:00There are none yet
00:59:02way to replace it
00:59:03more than with another
00:59:04someone thought
00:59:08in that
00:59:09someone said
00:59:11needs to have
00:59:12a liver
00:59:12and it has to have
00:59:13these functions
00:59:15someone established
00:59:17the order of the cosmos
00:59:18and said
00:59:19They have to turn
00:59:19all the stars
00:59:20at certain speeds
00:59:21so that
00:59:22don't collapse
00:59:23each other
00:59:24There has to be
00:59:26an order
00:59:26in nature
00:59:27so that
00:59:28then there is
00:59:29food
00:59:29for everyone
00:59:30someone thought
00:59:34throughout
00:59:34and you
00:59:36believe that
00:59:36that he thought
00:59:37throughout
00:59:37he didn't think
00:59:39in how
00:59:39It would have to be
00:59:40my family
00:59:41They don't believe
00:59:44you
00:59:44that there is
00:59:44a plan
00:59:45perfect
00:59:48designed
00:59:50For God's sake
00:59:50for the family
00:59:52that would be illogical
00:59:56think
00:59:56that the creator
00:59:59of all this
01:00:00complex
01:00:01of the universe
01:00:02has not designed
01:00:05a little program
01:00:07for the family
01:00:08of course
01:00:12that exists
01:00:13the path
01:00:15and the plans
01:00:16to build
01:00:16a family
01:00:17and a society
01:00:18are
01:00:19in the sacred
01:00:21writing
01:00:21There they are
01:00:24These are the plans
01:00:26that God
01:00:27wanted to leave us
01:00:28so that
01:00:28on those plans
01:00:29we could
01:00:30build
01:00:30our life
01:00:31our marriage
01:00:32our society
01:00:33our family
01:00:35raising a child
01:00:40aside
01:00:40of the sacred
01:00:41writing
01:00:41will bring
01:00:42consequences
01:00:43firstly
01:00:44for the children
01:00:45will be
01:00:47disrespectful
01:00:48self-destructive
01:00:50irresponsible
01:00:51aggressive
01:00:52lacking compassion
01:00:54indecent
01:00:55etc
01:00:56Do you know of any?
01:01:00of these
01:01:00you?
01:01:01Well
01:01:01probably
01:01:02this
01:01:02He left it
01:01:03said the Lord
01:01:03for the inhabitants
01:01:05from Mars
01:01:06today
01:01:09the children
01:01:10that grow
01:01:11aside
01:01:12of writing
01:01:12of this plan
01:01:14of God
01:01:14They are like that
01:01:15more hairs
01:01:17fewer hairs
01:01:18TRUE?
01:01:19How far
01:01:20and how close
01:01:21you are part of the project
01:01:22of God
01:01:22This varies
01:01:24and it affects
01:01:25in these behaviors
01:01:27of the children
01:01:27a child
01:01:30first
01:01:31You throw soup
01:01:32well afterwards
01:01:34He's going to throw you
01:01:34a plate
01:01:35and then
01:01:37it's going to end
01:01:37bringing the girlfriend in
01:01:39to the house
01:01:39And nobody's going to tell him
01:01:40nothing
01:01:40Well
01:01:42Yeah
01:01:43the dad
01:01:45also
01:01:45at 18 years old
01:01:46He's going to sit down
01:01:47with the son
01:01:48in the armchair
01:01:48and he's going to say
01:01:49son
01:01:49It's not right.
01:01:51that you set
01:01:51your girlfriend
01:01:52to the house
01:01:52Anything else, Dad?
01:01:57Well
01:01:57bye
01:01:58pass it on, my life
01:01:59if he didn't obey you
01:02:03with the soup
01:02:04He will obey you
01:02:06in his moral life
01:02:06but not only
01:02:10stays
01:02:11the destruction
01:02:12in the children
01:02:13a family
01:02:15that does not educate
01:02:15to their children
01:02:16based
01:02:18in the project
01:02:19of the sacred scripture
01:02:20the parents
01:02:21they will live
01:02:22with a frustration
01:02:23chronicle
01:02:23seeing that the son
01:02:25well
01:02:28It didn't develop well.
01:02:31today I see
01:02:34so many
01:02:35marriages
01:02:36So
01:02:36will live forever
01:02:38with stress
01:02:38What do we do now?
01:02:40We already consulted
01:02:41this psychologist
01:02:42and this other one
01:02:42and the child
01:02:43He continues with his bad behavior.
01:02:44and bites his ears
01:02:46to the children
01:02:46in kindergarten
01:02:47and in elementary school
01:02:48and then in high school
01:02:48It keeps biting him too
01:02:49the ears
01:02:50But now it's no longer children.
01:02:51but to the girls
01:02:52So, well then
01:02:53What are we going to do?
01:02:55What are we going to do?
01:02:56Who can save us?
01:02:57And there they go
01:02:58about the red grasshopper
01:02:59goes?
01:02:59anxiety
01:03:03resentment
01:03:05conflicts between the couple
01:03:08and finally
01:03:12in many cases
01:03:13a great sense
01:03:15of guilt
01:03:16in the face of failure
01:03:17human
01:03:18of his children
01:03:18all this for free
01:03:23siblings
01:03:23because there is a project
01:03:26nothing more than
01:03:28We didn't experience it.
01:03:29we prefer to walk
01:03:32according to the project
01:03:33of the world
01:03:34listen to him
01:03:35to the scientists
01:03:37to scholars
01:03:38instead of listening to him
01:03:40to grandma
01:03:41instead of listening to him
01:03:44bye
01:03:45we prefer
01:03:48go pay
01:03:50I don't know how much money
01:03:51with a pedagogue
01:03:52a neurologist
01:03:53a psychologist
01:03:55a psychiatrist
01:03:57and the poor child
01:03:58at seven
01:03:59or eight years
01:04:00It's over now
01:04:01throughout an entire hospital
01:04:02There are two principles
01:04:06fundamentals
01:04:07siblings
01:04:07God
01:04:09has not done
01:04:10nothing
01:04:11difficult
01:04:12is God
01:04:13of simplicity
01:04:14that's why
01:04:15grandmothers
01:04:16and our mothers
01:04:17they did not fight
01:04:18to educate ourselves
01:04:19I don't remember
01:04:21really
01:04:22I'm telling you
01:04:23having seen
01:04:23to my mom
01:04:24stressed
01:04:24And there were five of us.
01:04:28all more or less
01:04:29in a row
01:04:30we got along
01:04:31between my sister
01:04:31older and I
01:04:32we got along
01:04:33nine years
01:04:34And there are five of us.
01:04:36almost throw it
01:04:37every two years
01:04:38TRUE?
01:04:40he took us out
01:04:41all
01:04:42to the bicycles
01:04:43to the park
01:04:44cooked
01:04:45for my dad
01:04:46maintained the house
01:04:47you are welcome
01:04:48cooked
01:04:49she embroidered
01:04:50cooked
01:04:53visited
01:04:55to my aunts
01:04:56to my grandmother
01:04:57It took us
01:04:57to visit her
01:04:58by truck
01:05:00as they say
01:05:01the gringos
01:05:01by the way
01:05:02by truck
01:05:04because there wasn't
01:05:04car at my house
01:05:05so stop
01:05:07to catch the bus
01:05:08and get on
01:05:08with all the
01:05:09chilpalleterío
01:05:10TRUE?
01:05:10and the big ones
01:05:12we took care
01:05:13to the little ones
01:05:13and my mom
01:05:14She was carrying the youngest one
01:05:15And there we all went
01:05:16And hold on tight
01:05:17and sit down over here
01:05:19and if there was a joke
01:05:19And there we all went
01:05:20TRUE?
01:05:21in the truck
01:05:21ready
01:05:22we got off
01:05:22in the next
01:05:23ready
01:05:23And there we all go.
01:05:25TRUE?
01:05:25mother
01:05:26now when we see it like this
01:05:27that look like little ducklings
01:05:28TRUE?
01:05:29the mother
01:05:29with the five little ones
01:05:30We were almost home
01:05:32from my grandmother
01:05:33And let's play!
01:05:33and let's see
01:05:33My cousins were there
01:05:34and to challenge
01:05:35and be careful
01:05:36that we break something
01:05:37careful
01:05:37with what
01:05:38careful
01:05:38with what
01:05:39and we had fun
01:05:41like dwarfs
01:05:42and again
01:05:42Okay, we're leaving now.
01:05:44Okay, let's go!
01:05:45Back to the truck
01:05:46and get on the truck
01:05:48and arrives at the house
01:05:49and well
01:05:50now yes
01:05:50Everyone go take a bath
01:05:51Now everyone to the bathrooms
01:05:52the children's bathroom
01:05:53and the girls' bathroom
01:05:54And now, take a bath!
01:05:55Quick dinner
01:05:57eight thirty
01:05:58go to sleep
01:06:00no, no, no
01:06:03I want
01:06:04that didn't exist
01:06:05go to sleep
01:06:06Well, time for bed.
01:06:08obviously
01:06:11the child
01:06:12I mean, me
01:06:13my brothers
01:06:14because we were sleeping
01:06:16at eight thirty
01:06:18of the night
01:06:18eight, eight thirty
01:06:19of the night
01:06:19and we woke up
01:06:21at six thirty
01:06:22or seven in the morning
01:06:23we had slept
01:06:25Well, ten, eleven
01:06:27twelve hours
01:06:27sometimes
01:06:28I mean
01:06:30your little head
01:06:31It's fresh
01:06:32You're not stressed
01:06:34You slept
01:06:34Did you rest?
01:06:35You relaxed
01:06:36the child
01:06:38after playing
01:06:39to Nintendo
01:06:39with a thousand filths
01:06:40in the head
01:06:41goes to sleep
01:06:44at ten, eleven
01:06:45of the night
01:06:46and gets up the same way
01:06:47at six thirty
01:06:48to be in school
01:06:49at eight
01:06:50I mean
01:06:51he barely slept
01:06:52six, seven hours
01:06:52for him
01:06:54completely insufficient
01:06:56obviously
01:06:56the child
01:06:57He is stressed
01:06:57all day
01:06:58has not rested
01:07:00his mind
01:07:01It doesn't react
01:07:01He cannot do
01:07:02things
01:07:03what should I do
01:07:04because God
01:07:04He created the child
01:07:05so that he/she can sleep
01:07:06stimulation
01:07:10early
01:07:10TRUE?
01:07:10We need to take it out
01:07:11then, then
01:07:11of the house
01:07:12the stressed child
01:07:16always altered
01:07:17bad-tempered
01:07:19He hits him
01:07:19to the children
01:07:20at school
01:07:21live forever
01:07:22They no longer appease him
01:07:25with television
01:07:26and Nintendo
01:07:27or what is it called
01:07:29the game
01:07:29Of course
01:07:32put him to sleep
01:07:33ten hours
01:07:34go to bed
01:07:38at eight
01:07:38of the night
01:07:39and rise
01:07:39at six
01:07:39a.m.
01:07:40ten hours
01:07:41sleep
01:07:41And you'll see
01:07:42if you don't have
01:07:42another child
01:07:43his character
01:07:45it's going to change
01:07:45his temperament
01:07:46it's going to change
01:07:46your receptivity
01:07:48it's going to change
01:07:48their affection
01:07:49it's going to change
01:07:50everything is going to change
01:07:51And who told you that?
01:07:52the psychologist
01:07:53the father
01:07:53No, God told you so.
01:07:54the child
01:07:56needs
01:07:56rest
01:07:57He's a child
01:07:59but not
01:08:03We left it
01:08:05go to bed
01:08:06until
01:08:07good
01:08:07he says
01:08:09I'm going to bed now.
01:08:10go to sleep
01:08:10God
01:08:16has not done
01:08:17nothing difficult
01:08:18siblings
01:08:19It's simple
01:08:20when we continue
01:08:22the project
01:08:23of God
01:08:24and the second
01:08:25principle is
01:08:26conform
01:08:27to God's plan
01:08:28in any area
01:08:29of our life
01:08:30It's going to bring
01:08:31rest
01:08:32for our problems
01:08:33It will satisfy
01:08:35our needs
01:08:36and it's going to take us away
01:08:38all our fears
01:08:39just get
01:08:41What God says
01:08:42we will therefore dedicate
01:08:46this cycle
01:08:47training
01:08:48with you
01:08:49let's see
01:08:50What does the Bible say?
01:08:51And what does it say?
01:08:52Grandma?
01:08:55What do the parents say?
01:08:56What do the others say?
01:08:57generations?
01:08:58starting with Abraham
01:08:59How is it that education
01:09:03of Abraham
01:09:03It reached the decade
01:09:05of the fifties
01:09:06And was it already the same?
01:09:10and how of
01:09:11in these last
01:09:12fifty years
01:09:13Did everything get turned upside down?
01:09:16so well
01:09:16well, we have to turn around
01:09:17backward
01:09:17and see
01:09:18What did our parents do?
01:09:20What did the parents do?
01:09:21from our parents?
01:09:22and above all
01:09:23What does the Bible say?
01:09:24because it can be
01:09:25that some of our dads
01:09:26They will also throw
01:09:26for the mountain
01:09:27TRUE?
01:09:29I invite you
01:09:30really
01:09:30I think we can
01:09:31get out of this course
01:09:32Enjoy your meal!
01:09:34who knows
01:09:35if they are going to do it
01:09:36TRUE?
01:09:36But it's going to be entertaining.
01:09:37Because what I'm going to tell you
01:09:40They're not going to like it
01:09:41Because what I'm going to tell you
01:09:43Well, it's going to be maybe
01:09:44difficult to apply
01:09:45at home
01:09:46convince us
01:09:47that this is good
01:09:49oh well
01:09:50my mission as a pastor
01:09:51that is, to tell them
01:09:52tell them what God says
01:09:54and invite them
01:09:56to live
01:09:57just as the Lord
01:09:59has thought
01:10:00that a family
01:10:01and a child
01:10:02must live
01:10:03on the spot
01:10:04So I invite you
01:10:06to our next meeting
01:10:07I hope it can be
01:10:09very useful
01:10:09for you
01:10:10Praise be to the saints
01:10:11if this reflection
01:10:22has been useful
01:10:23for your spiritual life
01:10:25We invite you to visit
01:10:27our website
01:10:28www.evangelizacion.org.mx
01:10:34where you will find
01:10:35other topics
01:10:36which surely
01:10:37will continue producing
01:10:39fruit in you
01:10:40peace
01:10:42of Jesus Christ
01:10:43remain in you
01:10:44and all his family
01:10:46and that tenderness
01:10:48of Mary
01:10:48embrace your heart
01:10:50and that peace
01:10:52of Jesus Christ
01:10:53Thanks for watching the video.