Why You’re Not Getting the Love You Deserve (Psychologist Explains Scarcity Principle)

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If you’re overgiving in relationships, this video will change your life. 🔥 As a psychologist, I’m breaking down why people take you for granted—and the science-backed strategy to make them value you (or walk away stronger).   Learn how the scarcity principle works, why “loving harder” backfires, and how to reclaim your power. �✨ 🔔 Subscribe for weekly psychology insights to upgrade your self-growth journey!

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00:00You know how to get the love you deserve, not by giving someone more of what they already

00:04don't appreciate. Take it from me, I'm a psychologist. People rarely do more than what's

00:10required. If they're not appreciating what you give them now, giving more won't fix it.

00:15You're fighting biology and you lose. Because humans chase what's scarce, not what's always

00:22available. Want them to see your value? Take you, your energy, your attention, your effort

00:27and put it somewhere else. That whole mindset of, I'll love them harder, I'll show them

00:33I care. It just screams, I'm fully available. And what did we just learn? People chase what's

00:40scarce. You know what works? No extras, no effort, no reminders, no drama, no nothing. Give them

00:49nothing. And you know what? They'll be back real quick. And if they don't, if they don't,

00:56which can happen, let them walk. You're better off without anyone who needs to lose you in

01:02order to fail you.

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