00:00The femininity space is making us all to Lulu, and I'm going to tell you why.
00:04Defeating women lies that the man will rise for the right woman.
00:08The right woman will just suddenly evolve this male,
00:12and he will be everything you ever wanted and more.
00:15No!
00:15Because you're a people pleaser,
00:17this is literally the worst advice that could ever be given to you.
00:20Really, the implication from this is that if you are the perfect woman,
00:24then a man will go from Toad to Prince Charming.
00:27What you are describing is a man who lacks integrity, okay?
00:31If who he is depends on external factors,
00:35I'm pretty sure that that's a man who's learning how to perform,
00:38not a man who genuinely is embodying those traits.
00:41Because here's the thing,
00:43a good man doesn't depend on his external factors to be good.
00:48He just inherently is, and that's what integrity is.
00:52If a man treats eight women like poo,
00:55because he can get and extract things from them,
00:57but the next woman doesn't allow it,
00:59so he alters his behavior for her.
01:01Well, you're describing a man who performs,
01:03not a man with character.
01:05We don't want those men.
01:07What you should believe is that a man will value what he values,
01:10and his integrity alone will determine how he treats you.
01:14And yes, a good man probably won't want to date the slapper down the road,
01:18but he will treat her with the same dignity
01:20that he treats the woman that he chooses to date with.
01:24Let me know in the comments if you have fallen for this lie.
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