00:00right now second date update trying to help out kate and get her fixed up on another date
00:04with joey she's bummed out to say the least well yeah but she spent the night with this guy and
00:10now he's not calling her back i mean we see this happen i mean i i really don't want to call him
00:15because i think this is just gonna be one of those things or hey sorry chick well they work
00:19together though so that's that's another factor that's gone into this here so um we did call him
00:25already and we do have him on hold um so let's just see if we can get some answers out of them
00:29maybe it's a miscommunication or something like that uh joey you there yeah well hey joey thanks
00:36for uh agreeing to talk to us for a second here let me just jump right in um we're calling you
00:40because we want to talk to you about this girl that you work with kate and i guess you guys have been
00:44on a couple lunch dates and then uh she cooked you a home-cooked meal and you guys uh had a good night
00:50watched a movie ended up staying the night and then the next morning she said you guys left
00:56things uh in in a great way and it was all good and and now she kind of feels like you're dodging
01:02her a little bit at work and she's really confused why that would be happening so the one word answers
01:08when it comes to her texting you and her not seeing you as much at work i mean is there a reason for
01:13that like what's going on um i don't know everything's fine i mean you know just yeah i'm just been busy
01:21you know so i know but you go from seeing this girl a bunch at work and being flirty and hanging
01:26out with her and her having you over and then you're making an effort to meet up with her at work at the
01:32water cooler whatever but but now it's it seems like she doesn't see you anymore so is there a
01:38reason are you kind of backing off here or what's going on i mean hey we hung out you know she's
01:43really cool um i'll be honest um you know i'm just trying to have fun right now i'm single i just
01:49got out of a relationship and yeah we hung out and you know things got fun and you know yeah i mean
01:57again you know she's really cool i've just i've just been busy i have it's not like
02:01not avoiding anybody i'm just you know so you're not looking for a relationship right now
02:07right now like i came out of a i'll be i'll be really honest like i came from a really long
02:13relationship it was really a lot and i just want to you know hanging out with kate it was a really
02:18good time we have a good chemistry and stuff but you know i'm just i'm just trying to like take it
02:24easy right now you know i'm just trying to have fun just trying to have fun did you make that clear to
02:28her that's that's who you're looking to do i mean we didn't define anything but obviously there's
02:33feelings there because you want to hang out with her that and kept kept hanging out with her but you
02:37didn't like her yeah i mean obviously there's feelings i just i just i i'm just i'm just busy
02:42with work right now i don't have like a lot of time to invest like emotionally in something like this
02:49but i mean i like kate and i like hanging out with her i just don't want to like i love you you know
02:54what i'm saying i don't want i'm not i'm not ready to be boyfriend girlfriend all right well
02:58that's kind of all we needed to hear uh joey i will tell you this we got your number from kate
03:05and she i think you guys are on completely different pages on this one and we have her
03:11on the phone with us i want to bring her back on hey how's it going
03:15okay you there yeah i'm here hey joey um i'm just going to be honest with you i'm hearing for
03:25the first time that you're not interested in pursuing a relationship so we have been on
03:31different pages i'm confused as to why you were so relentless about spending time with me further
03:37if you weren't actually looking for anything and i'm also confused as to why you would go into such a
03:44lengthy conversation with me the other night about your hopes and dreams for relationships in the
03:50future and like what you're looking for in someone to be with and why i must have misconstrued that for
03:57like truth and actual honesty about what you are actually looking for no no no that was true um
04:04listen like again we were talking we were talking we were hanging out i was telling you about like my
04:10past relationship how i got out of it and like what i was looking for in the future but like i
04:15didn't say i was looking for something now and honestly yeah i like you a lot you know i mean is
04:20there a room for a relationship with us maybe but like i kind of want to like not go into a relationship
04:27right now you know what i'm saying and maybe we we kind of like miscommunicated we didn't like because
04:33we were kind of like feeling each other you know obviously the miscommunication yeah for sure i i
04:39think we were feeling each other and what i was really feeling was a little bit of a desperate
04:44attempt for me to try to get me out on a date and not oh my goodness not that you were gonna just hook
04:50up with me and then fail completely you're giving real real shady vibes and i might even feel like i
04:57were trying to tell some of the other girls at work about this oh boy no no not like that it's not
05:02yeah not like that i'm not a player i'm not doing that no no you did you straight up ghosted and
05:08there's no point in that like i'm not a person but i'm also busy too like i'm not you know what i'm
05:14saying like it's not like you weren't too busy to take time out of your day to shoot me a message
05:19when you were interested in pursuing me but then after you had me you stopped feigning any interest
05:25this is obviously you guys are on way different wavelengths right now um so joey you are not
05:32looking to hang out with kate anymore than you already have i feel like there is room for us to
05:38be in a relationship in the future i just don't want to be in a relationship now well then i'll tell
05:43you my my point of view on this real fast joey i am um interested in a relationship now and um i'm not
05:50interested in being messed with and um i don't think that this is a good option for us so good
05:56luck and i won't wait for you all right wait wait but i'm sorry uh like i hope we could like
06:03still be friends and can we do that that's gonna be tough well they worked yeah you have to well i'm
06:10gonna let you guys work that out kate now you know what's going on um sorry probably wasn't the
06:15answer you were looking for but you did get an answer joey thank you for your time and i wish you
06:19both luck okay yeah thank you for helping me get the answer that i was looking for yeah i appreciate
06:25it okay sorry thanks joey okay all right we're just gonna take some calls on this uh i want to see
06:31whose side you're on on this 800-992-1099 800-992-1099
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