00:00This is interesting. Second date update right now. Julia and Brendan, we're going to see if we can get them back out again.
00:06But they kind of went out on a pretty serious date. It was a wedding they went to.
00:11Yes, it was.
00:11So it wasn't that they hung out a couple times before, and then she invited them like, hey, what the heck?
00:16He's a good looking guy. I need a date. Why not?
00:19And so he said yes. They went and had a good time.
00:22So we have Brendan on hold right now because since the date and since the wedding, I should say, she has not heard from him.
00:28So let's see if we can get him on the phone right now.
00:31Brendan, you there?
00:32Yeah, I'm here.
00:33Hey, man. Thank you for coming on with us today.
00:35Wanted to talk to you real quick about this whole wedding that you went to with Julia.
00:40You just heard us talking right there.
00:41I guess the last time she talked to you was at the wedding and when you dropped her off back at the hotel.
00:47But since then has heard nothing from you.
00:49But we thought it was pretty cool that you were down to go to a wedding.
00:52And she said that you had a great time together.
00:54Yeah, I mean, I mean, that's not exactly the whole story, but I guess that's not totally untrue.
01:01Well, what happened?
01:02Well, did she mention she was the maid of honor at this wedding?
01:07She did not mention that.
01:08Yeah.
01:09So basically, pretty much for the whole night after the first 10 minutes we got there, like, she pretty much just abandoned me and was fulfilling her maid of honor duties the whole night.
01:20I didn't really understand, like, why I was even there, basically.
01:22Okay, but you understood that she had maid of honor duties.
01:26I mean, it's her friend and she's got to be, like, you know, on the bride's side the whole time, right?
01:31Well, yeah.
01:31It's not that I don't understand that.
01:33But what I don't understand is why she would even bother inviting me to something like that if that was going to be the case where we weren't even going to be together most of the night.
01:42I mean, that's a good point.
01:43Yeah, it is a good point.
01:45Did you kind of know that going in, though, that she was going to be the maid of honor and that she probably would be busy?
01:49Honestly, she did tell me ahead of time, but she didn't tell me just how extreme it was going to be.
01:57We didn't even sit at the same table.
01:58She sat at, like, the head table or whatever.
02:00I sat with a bunch of people I didn't even know.
02:02Right.
02:03And then, like, so obviously, like, we worked together during the ceremony because she was part of it.
02:08And then she went away for, like, hours to take pictures and stuff like that.
02:12So it's not like I didn't know, but she didn't explain to me just how little I would actually even be seeing her that night.
02:18It was just pointless for me to even be there.
02:20Like, I have no idea why I was invited to this wedding.
02:23So you felt like you were kind of ditched in all this?
02:27Yeah, pretty much.
02:28So you're not calling her back because of this?
02:30I mean, you couldn't have talked it out with her a little bit?
02:32Come on.
02:33I kind of hinted at the night of, but, you know, I didn't want to ruin her big night and whatever.
02:38But, like, no, if she was that oblivious to know that I would just be abandoned and, like, to invite me, something like that, just to have me sit by myself, come on.
02:46Like, she's not that oblivious.
02:48I feel like she didn't want to go without a date, so she invited me.
02:51And she was just kind of using me.
02:53It's kind of how I felt.
02:54Okay.
02:55All right.
02:55Well, Brandon, I got to tell you that we have Julia on the phone with us as well.
02:59And that's how we got your phone number.
03:01I want to bring her back on.
03:02Okay, Julia.
03:03Brandon, I'm really sorry.
03:05I didn't consider your feelings, and I just didn't think about it because it was a lot going on that day.
03:11And because we did have a good date or two, I figured, why not?
03:14You had, it was an open bar and food, and I just figured, hey, come, I like you.
03:21But, no, it wasn't that I was oblivious.
03:22I was really consumed what was going on, and it was overwhelming.
03:26And if you felt that way, you just could have told me, just like, I'm not a psychic.
03:29Just because you hinted at something, which you're hitting on deaf ears, apparently.
03:33I didn't hear any of that until now.
03:37I get everything you're saying, but I just don't understand why you would invite me to something like when we weren't going to spend time to each other.
03:43It's not like I'm blaming you for being a good maid of honor.
03:45Like, that's not what I'm doing here, but, like, at the same time, like, there was no point of me being there.
03:51I mean, you could have expressed this, and, again, I am sorry because I didn't realize that's how you felt, and I didn't think it through, I guess.
03:58I'm going to just say that right now.
03:59But, again, we had a good time, and I figured, why not invite you to a wedding?
04:05I mean, it was free liquor, free food, and just, I mean, like, why not?
04:11Free liquor to be your DD and your arm candy that you don't talk to.
04:15Come on, now.
04:16I mean, okay, I, again, I am sorry.
04:19I don't know what else I can convey to you.
04:22I am human, so I just, I'm like, I don't understand why this is, like, a big deal for you.
04:27I don't get it.
04:28I just see, I see you guys both in tough spots on this because, one, Brendan's trying to figure out where he fits in and all this, and then, Julia, obviously, this is your, one of your best friends if you're the maid of honor, so you got to, you have those responsibilities.
04:41You guys did have a fun date prior to the wedding or dates or whatever, so what about kind of hitting the reset button and you guys hanging out again, no wedding, obviously, and, you know, kind of giving this another shot?
04:55What do you think about that, Julia?
04:56Yeah, I'm all for that.
04:58Again, I didn't realize that it was like this.
05:00I was just really trying to be a good maid of honor, so can we at least try another date somewhere else, Brendan?
05:06I mean, like, let's not forget our first date or so.
05:09Come on.
05:10No, I don't think so.
05:11Like, it was just basically, you know, I was just so angry.
05:16Like, honestly, this whole time since the wedding is just really not anything I'm interested in at this point.
05:21Like, it was pretty much like you just blew me off and we're just kind of getting to know each other, so I don't know.
05:26Wow.
05:26That's good.
05:27Wow.
05:28I mean, I guess you're looking for, like, a perfect human, and I guess I'm not her.
05:32All right, guys.
05:33Well, listen, Julia, I'm sorry we couldn't make another date happen.
05:37I know you were in a tough spot.
05:39Brendan, thank you for coming on with us, and you guys have a great day, okay?
05:43Thanks.
05:44Take care.
05:45Yeah, it's tough.
05:46You know, I would feel uncomfortable, too, if I was Brendan, but he did agree to go and knew that she was the maid of honor.
05:52I mean, if you've been to any wedding or seen any maid of honor or best man, they're going to be busy.
05:57Yeah, you're basically only going to see them during dinner.
05:59I don't know where I stand on this.
06:00I don't know if she did anything wrong.
06:02I mean, it may not have been the best idea to invite him, but all right, where are you guys at?
06:05800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
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