00:00all right luke is right to the point i love that about him uh he's very confident about his date
00:04with stephanie it's commercial free new country 99.5 qyk uh they went to capital grill great spot
00:09yeah and he said he paid for the deal or paid for the meal excuse me yeah and uh they got a deal
00:15yeah but he said he did he checked all the boxes you know walked her to her car um he did say at
00:20the end of the date she texted him uh that she got home safe but that's the last he's heard he's
00:25like honestly we didn't get into any heavy topics it was a perfect honest date so let's try to call
00:31her right now and get her on the phone
00:32hello hi good morning is this stephanie yes speaking who is it hey stephanie sorry to bother
00:54you this morning this is actually jr lana and kevin over here at 99.5 qik how you doing okay
01:01this is random hi i'm totally random i would be really worried if it wasn't random uh but we
01:07wanted to see if we could talk to you for a second um on the air and it's about a date you went on
01:12but would you have a couple minutes um oh my gosh um just a few minutes okay great so do you think
01:21you know what date we're talking about i've only been on one day in the last month so this isn't
01:27really difficult okay so you know we're talking about luke yeah okay so i'll just tell you what
01:33luke told us luke said that you guys had a great time and he said you guys stayed away from any
01:38conversations that could have gotten a little dicey um he thought you had a great time uh said
01:43you were beautiful said he could see himself spending more time with you and you guys went to
01:49capitol grill but now setting up another date with you has been super tough for him and uh we're
01:54just seeing if we can help out so what's going on um all that is accurate but um the part he left off
02:01left out was that he's literally the laziest guy ever uh luke put absolutely no effort into our date
02:07and that was just a really big turn off for me well capitol grill's nice yeah i mean he said he
02:13paid for the date right i picked it out he couldn't do that he and i thought okay he's just being a
02:19gentleman letting me choose the the restaurant but that wasn't it he literally had me pick it out
02:24because he's super lazy was he late no how could you be lazy on a date i don't get it okay luke showed
02:33up on our date just dressed completely inappropriate for a restaurant setting and i was just like
02:40shocked and confused whether as to whether he wanted to be there because he just he just looked
02:45completely out of place okay so my question would be then what was he wearing he was he was so embarrassed
02:52he was in a basketball jersey some joggers and then crocs and i wore a dress like i thought out about
03:00you know i this was thought out i was you know i was dressed nicely and i was sitting across from
03:06someone who looked like a child like one of those sleeveless ones the basketball jerseys basketball jersey
03:11yes that capitol grill exactly okay exactly surprised they let him stay i know seriously i'm surprised they
03:19let him in yeah yeah so in your mind hey listen i put a lot of work into what i i wore you just kind
03:26of showed up is what you're what you're feeling exactly it just felt like he didn't respect that
03:31we were going on this date he didn't respect me and i felt ridiculous to be there you know with all
03:37of the effort i put in now you know sitting across from someone who clearly doesn't care okay let me
03:42get his side of this because we do have him on the phone with us as well uh stephanie i want to bring
03:47it back on uh luke you there yeah just because of what i was wearing like you said the rest of the
03:53day went good so luke it's not what you were wearing it's the fact that you didn't respect
03:58this date you rolled out of bed and came to capitol grill and that is embarrassing i didn't roll out of
04:05bed that's i mean those were nice joggers like that wasn't just those are expensive joggers and
04:12we were on the patio other people were wearing crocs too no you were wearing crocs i'm telling you
04:20it was inappropriate and it made me feel like you didn't care about this date you're really just
04:25that shallow that you got hung up on what i was wearing no i'm not shallow i i care about
04:31presentation and people were looking at us like we didn't look like we belonged at the same table
04:35together who cares what other people think i care i care i don't want to look like i'm sitting
04:42across from a child a child okay yeah a child someone who's incapable of putting the effort
04:48and honestly i wasn't going to have this conversation but you've chose to have the radio
04:52call me so i'm letting you know well who's being a child that you know you don't want to even have
04:57a conversation you just ignore the thing let me ask you a question if things were different and let's
05:03say you guys went out again uh stephanie would you be willing to to see him again if he if he
05:08dress differently here's the thing he doesn't seem like he understands that first impressions
05:14matter i feel like he still thinks he didn't do anything wrong and that's super problematic for me
05:20luke would you dress differently if it you know you knew it'd make her happier i mean no like she
05:27just said i don't think i did anything wrong and she's right i didn't do anything wrong i think i
05:32looked pretty good when he looked in the mirror when he left his house and he was wearing that
05:36outfit he's like this is the best thing i can wear this is the best thing and this is the best
05:41decision that i can wear going out on this first date which i just hate that everything else went
05:47well and they're going to throw it away because of what he wore i mean so this is definitely a deal
05:51breaker for you stephanie you're you're missing the point it's not what he wore it's the fact that he
05:57doesn't respect he doesn't respect this and it makes me feel like he's not going to respect me
06:02if you're that hung up on my clothing then yeah there's a problem anyway well it sounds like you
06:08agreed on something um i'm sorry that you're not going to be going back out i appreciate you coming
06:13on with us you guys have a great day okay thank you yeah sure all right take care wait so what did i
06:21miss it's not about what he wore it's the fact that he thought that that was okay and he didn't
06:28take the time to put in the effort yes for the date it is a little casual for capitol grill yeah
06:33absolutely it's it's casual for a first date all right um it seems shallow to me but you can
06:41no i get it all right all right let's see where we're at 800-992-1099 800-992-1099
06:48you
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