"Brothers, your wife has a silent fear that keeps her up at night - 'Does he still find me beautiful?' Here's how the Prophet ﷺ answered this question in the most powerful way imaginable..."
💔 The Painful Reality:
She compares herself to other women (while you never think about other men's looks)
Pregnancy changes, aging, weight gain - she notices EVERY change
Your SILENCE = "I don't find you attractive anymore" in HER language
💞 The Prophet's ﷺ Solution:
✅ The "tight knot" hadith - How Muhammad ﷺ reassured Aisha (RA) poetically
✅ Why "I love you" must be said DAILY (even after 20 years!)
✅ 3-second compliments that rebuild her confidence ("You look radiant today!")
✅ The "knot check" technique - How to use it after arguments
🔥 Critical Warning:
"Neglect her need for reassurance, and watch her stop trying to look beautiful for you."
💔 The Painful Reality:
She compares herself to other women (while you never think about other men's looks)
Pregnancy changes, aging, weight gain - she notices EVERY change
Your SILENCE = "I don't find you attractive anymore" in HER language
💞 The Prophet's ﷺ Solution:
✅ The "tight knot" hadith - How Muhammad ﷺ reassured Aisha (RA) poetically
✅ Why "I love you" must be said DAILY (even after 20 years!)
✅ 3-second compliments that rebuild her confidence ("You look radiant today!")
✅ The "knot check" technique - How to use it after arguments
🔥 Critical Warning:
"Neglect her need for reassurance, and watch her stop trying to look beautiful for you."
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00:00We don't care about other looks of men and we don't compare ourselves.
00:02But women are always thinking,
00:04am I still beautiful enough for him?
00:06Does he still think me attractive?
00:07Maybe I've gained a few pounds,
00:08maybe after the third kid, this and that.
00:10She's always double guessing her looks, her figure.
00:13And so the husband always has to make her feel
00:16the most beautiful, the most cherished,
00:18the most loved, the most admired.
00:21She always wants these reassurances.
00:23How does he do this?
00:25I'll just point out a number of them.
00:26Number one, words, words, words.
00:29Never underestimate the power of speech.
00:32Simply saying, I love you.
00:35I know it's awkward for men after the courting phrase.
00:37I know it's awkward, right?
00:39But believe me, it never goes out of fashion.
00:42For women, it never goes out of fashion.
00:45They always love to hear this phrase.
00:48And in fact, there are da'if hadith of our Prophet ﷺ.
00:49It's a bit da'if hadith, but it's still mentioned in our books that
00:52our Prophet ﷺ and Aisha were joking once.
00:55And Aisha said to the Prophet ﷺ,
00:57كَيْفَ حُبُّكَ لِيْ
00:58How much do you love me?
00:59How is your love for me?
01:00And our Prophet ﷺ said,
01:02and he gave a beautiful, metaphorical, poetic expression.
01:05He said,
01:05My love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.
01:10My love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.
01:13So then in the future,
01:15sometimes if they would have a bit of an issue,
01:17a bit of an argument.